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Yoreh De’ah 245:2-14. Teachers: Mitzvah for Father and Others To Teach and Learn, Hiring, Hitting, Schedule, Constancy, Shabbos · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  Good morning, we are in Sunnah Reishman.
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  Hey Hikhos Melandein. These are halachos of teaching
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  children Bates Imhayat Sarah Lilmoid if he needs to if a
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  father this is right now we start with the halachos of a
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  father that's teaching his children Tara.
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  If he needs to learn, Yesh will bend Lilmoid any other one.
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  Say it's a hospital, right. Let's say he needs to go learn
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  and and his son needs to learn. He doesn't have enough money to
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  support both. I mean, let's say he would have
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  to stop working and and sit and learn.
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  That's you know, and because of that, he wouldn't be able to
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  send his son to Yeshiva. And today is not so common
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  because often, you know, at least yeshiva.
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  I mean Kadar, I don't know. So, you know, discussion, you
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  know, discussions about what would happen if my parent can't
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  pay tuition. Is there a Hector for the for
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  the daughter, for the, you know, for the Shiva, for the khadar
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  and to to kick it, Kick It Out. And this I don't know.
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  That's all pastors know as actually it's because that fish
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  and I don't know. So go to a different but Uncle
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  fun and these are not the you know, you know, beyond my shiles
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  and stuff and whatever for any other seconds of hospital shame,
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  shame, shoveim. If both of them are equal in
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  learning, let's say they're both, you know, they're both who
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  called him with no, then you know he comes before his his
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  son. He also has a mitzvah.
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  It's a director to learn. So he called it.
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  He's called them in blown novel in Moscow, Mashi Lam and let's
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  say his kid has is more potential than him or you know,
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  he sees he's you know, better learner then he has to because
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  again, the top is over here is you know, you want the more the
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  more terror in the world, the more all these things.
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  So again, his son is called the Alpha PK Lo Yvata who but it
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  doesn't mean he can not learn. We'll see Hell office of
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  learning in next Simon. He still has to learn it just he
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  won't be able to go to yeshiva or go to coal or whatever.
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  He won't be able, he won't be able to sit there, but he'll
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  need to. He'll, you know, he'll sit at
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  home and learn if that's the hash bin or whatever the hash
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  bin is Gimel to shame should mitzvah the laminous Binoy Kat
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  mitzel, laminous Ben binoy. Just like there's a mitzvah to
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  teach a son teach a son, there's also mitzvah to teach grandson.
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  She never adopted the Vanneke Vanneke.
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  And because it's a pulsuk, that's it's vamsha Pulsuk that
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  you have to tell Levineke. I've heard as far as that it's
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  the teaching of the the gather of the teacher of a grandfather
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  is a gather of the maeser of the giving over the masarah.
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  I know I've heard this before. It's not, it's not.
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  It's a gather of giving over the giving over the masarah and not
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  heard someone say yesterday actually by Chris not it's not
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  the gather of of like teaching, like the hue of of teaching a
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  son. It's more it's more hue to to
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  you know, to, you know, pass down, you know, pass down the
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  the knowledge doctor, the Vanetta Well, the Bambino
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  Vilvad. He's not only person is not only
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  trying to teach his grandchild and a mitzvah called Hokhomi
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  sirlo Lavin, the tell medium, It's also there's a mitzvah on
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  all Hokhom and any hokhom to teach Tom medium shagam hemicron
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  Bonnim. They're also called Bonnim Ella
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  Shamitzu, the Hakim Binoy, the Vennori Vennori.
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  This is the question of it's a it's a question of who comes,
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  you know, who has Kadima again, let's say lo he speak or let's
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  say he only has a certain amount of time to teach, to teach, you
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  know, one kid. So who comes Sons 1st and then
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  his grandsons first Shack has a Shiloh.
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  What about his daughter's son? It's the same thing.
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  OK, I think I don't think we're but the Kapani in the shack says
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  it's still a daughter, a daughter's son.
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  He's a you know, could be his. I know one Madriga lower than
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  Ben Benoi, but it definitely comes before Ben cave.
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  Not the same level as Ben Caveira comes before Ben Caveira
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  and Dalid high Lahasky Milami lives no lamdoi for person.
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  Someone can't, you know, they can't learn with the son or
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  whatever that he's trying to be masculine.
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  Mohammed to teach his son about the Ben Caveira in A5 Lahasky,
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  but it's not mutual on him to be sure that the, the, the Ben
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  Caveira is, you know, is is is is it gets a rabbi now.
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  I think it's mutual on the seabor as a whole.
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  I think the discussions about Bez, you know, Bezin teaching.
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  If father can't teach things like that, it'll be it's on the
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  on the seawater to be sure that kids are learning.
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  You know, that's, that's already, you know, that's
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  already the kind of Yeshua Bengamla is on the climbing
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  dolom in the, in Baishani to, to be sure there that there are,
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  you know, you know, Shivas for kids, for boys to learn to learn
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  in a setup structure. So that's that's a different
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  that's a different thing. The, the, the the father to pay,
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  you know, to, to to, to to hire Muhammad, send the kids to, to
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  hater and things like that. I think he's going to talk about
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  later. He'll stuck over the person that
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  can use my source. So it's stuck stuck out to, to
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  to pay tuition in, in the year. If he's not.
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  And then let's say the, the father's on the city.
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  I don't know. He's, he's in a different
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  country and he's not living with the family.
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  Yeshua Nakhalsim even after the UUI Le Modim.
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  If they can be Modi and that we're that we are best in our
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  taking Yu Nakhalsim to pay tuition, then it should be Modi
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  to him. We love they can't you know
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  where he where he's hiding. You know he absconded in the
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  middle of the night and no one know has an idea where he is in
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  love. You're dealing the hosta of the
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  saikin Alami Livnari. Then the beds will just do a via
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  and use the money to go ahead and and teach his son.
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  Hey Amos, I masculine Alami Livnari, when do you start
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  teaching? Teaching to to to to his son?
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  She asked Ladabe when he starts speaking, Master lando tiro
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  Tivolando, right? You start singing to, you know,
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  Tara, whatever, you start singing that pulse when he can,
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  when he can speak pulsa creation pressure shma and you teach him
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  shma. You sell the Akrath malando and
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  then you start teaching little by little.
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  I actually hate given Shisha Okaben Shiva until he's around 6
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  or 7 and then you bring it to Allamic Tenais.
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  I mean, the minute nowadays is the sense of bringing a much
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  younger to learn. But the reason why the ages is
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  is is older is because we're talking about what used to be
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  was a very serious, it was a very serious limo.
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  Like you know, they're paying with it pushed them very hard.
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  You know, you got to learn. We got to keep going.
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  We got to learn, yeah, nowadays things are different.
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  Yeah, Alpidarko, we'll see about the, you know, punishment and
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  things or whatever. But Alpine generally they start
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  much earlier to, you know, for teaching and even the Turzi
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  Velanu usually we give over to the schools to to the Khadare
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  and the entire to, to to deal with above Haya Meneg, Bahir
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  Chelokaev, Malami Tinakis, the Meneg in the city in this Meneg
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  there was there was a Meneg to hire Rabbi's scar hire.
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  The Meneg was to pay him and that there's a clear hat there.
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  We'll see enrichment above. It's even the rabble is not so
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  posh it, but it's a clear hat there from all the other wages.
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  The minute when the city was to take it was to pay.
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  It was to pay pay the rebbies Kaido all the Bashar it means
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  Yeah, mascara. Yeah, Sokhar Hiralando Biskar,
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  actually Ikara Toyota Biskas Kula.
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  The clue is that he should learn it should understand Teriyaki
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  Savkula Veda Hiralando Biskar, Vishnu Gamara.
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  But he's not high if they're not high if to pay him for mission
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  and Gamara because it's a color. It is a Shiloh in the Gemara and
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  and then the Darwin talks about the you know that the missionary
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  Gemara there could be there's that's that you don't have to
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  pay the Toshibak Savi also gets paid for babysitting.
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  So so it could be there. There's a pillow.
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  How do you really the low Afshar speakingly Shiita of a EMI
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  Afsharle Mitsu like Murray mission of Gemara
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  Halakhosargados, but that's only you know, if he you know, if
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  it's difficult, but if if he can learn if he can, but still a
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  mitzvah, even you know, without money or whatever it is to
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  teach, you know, for everybody to teach Mishnah Gumar
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  Halakhosargados, you know, to teach all these all these
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  different things. Zion correct.
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  Uh huh. She looks like you have to know
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  halacha as well. And these are the all the things
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  that that are important for the you know, Hagados also includes
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  Musser because the Goddess is is awesome.
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  Is Musser in the Musser just explanation of Agodos.
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  So these are the few different areas that they have to teach
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  Zion Mushidin Milani Tinegas every year, as I mentioned, is a
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  Takano sure of a gamble that they have to put.
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  They have to set up a band in every city with hold your shame
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  about Malama Tinaikos. I'm Makrini Ancheir at Yoshima
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  Alama tinaikos. If the city did not set up, you
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  know, Malama Tinaikos Arabi, then they're mAh cream until
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  they you know, until they set up a llama tinaikos like you know,
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  the aim of Shivu Makhri Vinayir Miss time at the behalf of PM
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  Shaltinaka shall be strong. Now, it doesn't mean that the
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  rest of college still comes in marketing the city.
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  But but Kopani, it's a Corbin to the city.
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  If they don't have any any teach any tourists.
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  So then there's a it's it's a the the city has a you know,
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  there's a punishment of the the city can be get destroyed.
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  Not following the song, right. But Uncle Panim, it's because
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  it's without the help. The have a PM of Tiniko Sharaba.
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  And then there's no there, there, there no skiing, chess,
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  Magnesi Martinez, Lislevae Benchami, Shanim Schlemos.
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  You bring him to learn when they're when they're five.
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  We've mentioned before 6-7, but the lowest age you can bring
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  them in is 5 a Macliso Isabi who called Hush Maclisos.
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  And if he's weak 6 and he said he's very weak, but you know
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  he's in for even 7 uncle Pon him and you know if he's you know,
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  because it because it takes effort.
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  Learning is not is not is not is not necessarily easy.
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  It takes it takes effort when he's 3.
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  So you teach him how to base Ishi Argo astrolikras Vitalira,
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  so he could Start learning how to read or you teach him also
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  how to read and discussion about, you know, there's
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  different cheetahs nowadays, some different cheetahs nowadays
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  about the, the apartment, the mayor, the Mishnah says Mikrab
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  and Esther, the Mishnah and Hamish Srei Ligmar or whatever.
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  Is that something you should to, you know, be, is that something
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  La Maisa, as Amaral talks about it says it's a good idea.
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  You should. And there's others, you know,
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  there are other things. And there are those cheetahs of
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  Khadar in, in this Nertisanov made it to America about who
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  they, they, they learned five years and five years and, and
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  five years. The the Mitig is not like that
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  Chauhan says that the Shah says that we're you'd say with you
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  know, you know we're you'd say learning everything with kumara,
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  even though yes, the grass said they they do.
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  I saw the Bureau don't to the Bureau Gras says that he held
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  that yeah, it's a good thing that everyone should know all of
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  Tanakh 1st and Mishnaius, but I don't know if he listen, I don't
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  know. But then there was a match.
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  He said he was five and then he was 10.
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  Like they shouldn't start other things.
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  But obviously it's a good thing to know these things before
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  everything else. Or Chauhan says that the reason
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  why they stopped learning all Tanakh and all these things is
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  because Russia it's, you know, because first of all, you'll see
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  with Kumar and second of all, you know, time and and effort.
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  And then the earlier, the earlier personal, you know, the
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  kids get into Kumar, the more Keshmak they get, you know that,
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  you know, yeah, some kids get Keshmak about the, you know,
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  with, with, you know, with, with, with Tanakh and whatever.
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  But Akhupani, it's he said, the early, the earliest that that
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  you start that, that that's the minute.
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  And you know, I asked honestly, I asked my son in the in
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  yeshiva. I said, you know, the boys who
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  went to went to the Hadar and who learned all of Tanakh and
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  this and did they have an advantage in yeshiva over over
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  anyone else? And he said, no, they're the
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  best boys could be. They know, they remember.
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  They could be, they remember, they remember some of the, you
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  know, they remember some of the stuff better, some of the stuff
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  they learned better. But they don't have, they said
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  in the in the regular Shiva's, they don't, they're not like
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  suddenly, you know, further ahead than anyone else.
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  So, you know, the minute, yeah, you understand more.
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  But he said when it comes to, you know, it comes to the real
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  learning shear and the real learning funny, I've heard this
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  from my Rebbe also. And whatever I've heard it from
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  my Rebbe also the that you know, whatever, you know, listen, it's
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  not bad thing to know to know Tanakh and it's not a bad thing.
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  And Yeshiva's, you know, I try, you know, there is a few to know
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  Tanakh and obviously you, you'll be more comfortable learning.
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  But as you're learning, but the shock says you'll say learning
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  to knock with the Gemara and then you can look at the puzzle.
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  As you get through, you look up the puzzle and you should try to
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  be Marshall in Konami, but it's not an acre.
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  It's not an acre Lee mood. It's also been hoggy man.
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  We shine him about well here they're behind it more and the
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  hoggy man like this from whatever about what they're
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  three. How they bring them bring them
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  to the Rebbe. They put his house over here and
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  carry him like a safer Torah to the Rebbe and it's a minute from
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  me. Shine him a minute.
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  Call them from me shine him. It's a little kosher to to up
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  sharing. I'm sharing is I don't know more
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  recent meaning or maybe I'll be Kabbalah.
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  I don't know the area, not the area.
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  I'm not sure. But as it's two separate things.
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  The brothers mentioned here about 3:00 because of because
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  they're like or there brings they're like Orla.
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  A kid is like Orla until until 3:00 and then you and then and
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  then he starts and then you move on like that to Ravi and when
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  he's clamish, then that's that, you know, he he brings a
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  mushroom like that. But Uncle Ponen and all these
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  men hogging her to, you know, to give a kid a for learning Tess a
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  few little Tinoic Shenoy maybe in Lacroix Lo you saw Kuhumi
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  Sham, even a Tinoic that doesn't understand he's not being
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  successful in, in, in, in, in learning Lo, you saw Kuhumi
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  Sham, Khasa Shan. We should not kick him out.
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  You know, it used to be the OK, you know, you know, you know,
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  success in Europe. OK, go you.
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  So then you have to go apprentice, right?
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  It used to be in Europe. I think it was around 10/11/12,
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  something like that, that if, if they saw that he wasn't Matziak,
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  then they said, OK, fine, just go apprentice, you know,
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  whatever you'll do, cover shots you'll do.
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  I mean, people in Europe also knew a lot more.
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  But the Varacopani, they, you know, they, they, they pushed
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  him on, you know, on on to something else.
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  But the point is, is that you can't just kick him out because
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  he's not, you know, Eliyechi bhi Maherim Ulayovidi could sit.
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  I should sit and stay there until maybe maybe you'll hop how
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  to learn, you know, So, yeah, there there's discussions now
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  they have the kids being Mazik or he's taking, you know,
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  obviously he comes to your Shamani Shiles for Dolan.
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  Shiles will be Koch Nafesh. At what point if you have to
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  have a sound like a kid, you're basically, you know, Kilo gets
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  kicked out. You're you're talking about, you
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  know, you know, it's very especially nowadays, it's very
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  shy. He'll just end up in the street.
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  You know, no hate to go to go into a different school.
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  It's it's very difficult. And these are Shilohs for these
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  are not simple Shilohs. This is cool for everybody, but
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  still, when you're like a kid, they kick him out.
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  It's only they feel like the kid parents feel the kid feels not
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  the right place, but you missile like a kid.
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  You know, it's it's it's it's not it's dam, it's very
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  damaging. You're low yakka Oiso Mohammed.
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  The Mohammed should not hit him. Makka Oyev Musa Azari.
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  You should not hit him. Musa.
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  You know, you know, Azari is a shooting that was sticks.
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  Not, not with like exactly a little bit bacao with a stick, a
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  ruler. Elba Ritsua, Cortana, you should
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  have a little ritsua now, you know, unfortunately, not every.
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  You know, I'm speaking to an old, old Hungarian, you know.
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  Yeah, there was, you know, so, yeah, when he was in, he was in
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  catering in Hungary. You said the wrong thing.
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  You know, he pull, pull, pull you outside, pull you outside
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  and beat you black and blue. Yeah.
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  Then there are people who tie now that.
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  Oh, no. What?
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  What you mean it's the the matter says I don't know.
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  Yahoo and ASA, they didn't punish them, so you need to
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  punish them. OK.
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  Rizuk Tano. Yeah, a little sets, yeah.
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  Are you doing a little nowadays? You can't nowadays, you can't
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  touch the nice. I know story, you know,
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  whatever. I know stories that rebbies
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  think, you know, that sometimes that the the the hit and this
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  whatever, things have gotten better.
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  But unfortunately I've heard enough stories of of of kids
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  getting kids getting hurt, getting, you know, kicked,
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  getting, you know, things, whatever.
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  I know stories first hand and. Unfortunately, they, you know,
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  they don't, you know, I don't know where they're coming from,
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  but it's not. Someone told me a story that
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  there was a first name Rebbe that said that if the kid didn't
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  cry for the punishment, it wasn't strong enough.
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  Then they took them out in school.
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  I don't know where these people are getting, getting these ideas
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  from anyway. You know Aleph Yashev Umalamdam
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  Kohayoim, we have to sit and teach them all the whole day.
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  Bixas me Hilala and into the night get the Khan from Lumo
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  Beuma Vilala again, the three badrega here.
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  They don't only when they're older, they go to the night and
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  you know whatever for punny, but they have to a certain point get
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  to even learn. You know teaching them the whole
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  day, not just the half day. Your days low your value at Tina
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  gets cloud. Children should not be bottle at
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  all Hutzman area of Shabbos except air Shabbos air of yonto
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  the sofa young and it's not the mimic nowadays, nowadays, you
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  know, they they they realize that, you know, kids need breaks
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  and things they need to it's too much.
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  You know, it's generally too much.
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  I I think it means air Shabbos and air of yonto the sofa young
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  like, you know, closer to Shakya.
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  You gimel. Well, yeah, Well, well, yeah,
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  Shabbos there is. I mean, according to schwfenar,
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  yeah, the meaning is not, but they do hazer.
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  They give that. We'll see you in a second.
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  You gimel aim of that, you know, gives a field opinion based on
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  mikdash Mashiach comes the the rabbi sitting in the theater
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  mishears here. A new inviter right there.
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  You got to learn. You dial it in Current Latino
• 21:56
  gives Shabbos. Maybe it's a mikdash.
• 21:59
  Fine. Maybe misheal I'll have a break.
• 22:01
  I don't know you dial it ain't Curry Latino he gets for Shabbos
• 22:05
  mitrilla and Shabbos. You don't make them learn a new
• 22:08
  sugar because that's difficult. Masha Lombu mission Torah
• 22:12
  Shabbos. It's going to cause the cause
• 22:13
  them to have a lot of Shabbos. It's going to be hard for them.
• 22:16
  But Masha Karupam Akas Shani, myself and Masha, if they
• 22:20
  already started learning, they can.
• 22:21
  You can go over that and the minute like the minute gives.
• 22:24
  Often they get they'll voice the hazard on Shabbos that they
• 22:27
  should learn and Shabbos the Reddies not there, but the
• 22:29
  parents should be sure the kids learning.
• 22:31
  I mean the you know, is a you know, there's a we'll stop in.
• 22:38
  I guess we'll stop in a second. I know just as a Shiloh is there
• 22:40
  a Milo for father, even if he hires a Rebbie, Is there a Milo
• 22:43
  from to learn with his son? Also, there are miles.
• 22:46
  Definitely. They say there's definitely
• 22:47
  miles in the Taurus better, but right, right.
• 22:51
  I'm saying not that one inside. If he has a Rebbie, all you know
• 22:53
  is a Rebbie, unless of course, you know, I, I, you know, you
• 22:57
  know, he doesn't, He's not, he's not a good, you know, he sits
• 23:00
  and learns his kid and they can't.
• 23:01
  And this kid is so bored or kid is so like, you know, whatever.
• 23:04
  He should understand that not everyone's a good teacher, you
• 23:07
  know, whatever.