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Helping humans cope with unpleasant circumstances · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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Speaker 1: No, no matter the uh the situation and circumstance in life.
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Speaker 1: UH you must you must find it within you not
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Speaker 1: to forget the happy times, the joyous times of your
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Speaker 1: life in the in death and sickness and accident, into
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Speaker 1: disappointment and lust. And it must, it must keep that
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Speaker 1: uh hope of happiness alive. And UH you you must
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Speaker 1: rule yourself and pull yourself together uh des despite the disappointment,
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Speaker 1: UH despite the break up, despite the lost and despite
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Speaker 1: the unexpected circumstances. And there is the phenomenon of life
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Speaker 1: that life goes on, and you you must pull yourself
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Speaker 1: together and and keep the happy things of life and
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Speaker 1: hope alive. And you must think about the things that
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Speaker 1: make you happy, the things that make you smile, the
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Speaker 1: things that make you laugh, the things that make you
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Speaker 1: feel cheerful, and the things that gives you some excitement,
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Speaker 1: some high, some positive feelings, and some positive hope to
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Speaker 1: continual life, to turn the other page and to accept
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Speaker 1: what has happened and to deal with it positively, To
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Speaker 1: overcome your grief, and to overcome the sadness or the bitterness,
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Speaker 1: or the sense of emptiness or shame or guild. You
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Speaker 1: must find it within eu too to be excited about life.
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Speaker 1: And you must be excited about life. You must have
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Speaker 1: the thing in you that wants to live. And you
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Speaker 1: must appreciate your life, appreciate the circumstances, and you learn
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Speaker 1: to have an open mind, open heart, and willing to
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Speaker 1: let go, to push yourself to move on, you know,
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Speaker 1: and to this, there are times in your life when
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Speaker 1: you wish think like everything is against you, nothing is working.
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Speaker 1: And I'd expected to win a last and I expected.
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Speaker 1: I expected to succeed. I failed. I expected to be loved,
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Speaker 1: but I was hated. I expected some positive feedbacks, but
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Speaker 1: I got negative feedbacks. I expected to be promoted by
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Speaker 1: the country. I got fired. You know. I expected to
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Speaker 1: be seen with reverence and the importance or relevance the country.
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Speaker 1: I got rejected. I was expected to be accepted or
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Speaker 1: to be taken. In the contrary, the doors were shot
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Speaker 1: behind me. So those times we come in your life.
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Speaker 1: But the end of the day, you must keep hope
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Speaker 1: a life. You must find within you to not let
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Speaker 1: one event becomes the entirety of your life. Right, one
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Speaker 1: page in a book, no matter how important it is,
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Speaker 1: that's not does not say everything about the whole book,
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Speaker 1: and you can tear a page off and you still
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Speaker 1: read the books used to draw some assumptions or conclusions,
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Speaker 1: and the whole story is not gone on the pages.
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Speaker 1: It's burnt or turn apart. So one day it does
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Speaker 1: not make it. One episode doesn't make it. One event
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Speaker 1: doesn't make it. You must let it go, and you
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Speaker 1: must find it within you to to continue, to leave,
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Speaker 1: to continue to be, and to continue to do what
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Speaker 1: you're doing. You know you you must accept yourself. You
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Speaker 1: must appreciate yourself, and you must face the reality that
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Speaker 1: they human being is best by itself. Just the difference
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Speaker 1: is that the human being is not an island but
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Speaker 1: the community. But sometimes you retreat within yourself to requestion
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Speaker 1: your life, to ask so many questions. But you must
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Speaker 1: remember that the mind is something that you must treat carefully.
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Speaker 1: It must not burden the mind too much with sadness, bitterness, grief, stress,
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Speaker 1: border It can lead to depression and it can hurt you.
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Speaker 1: There is no gain to be negative all the time.
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Speaker 1: There is no gain to olways, see the glasses empty.
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Speaker 1: It's always hurt at the end of the turn when
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Speaker 1: you see things negatively. And you must realize that you
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Speaker 1: need to do everything to be positive. It must be
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Speaker 1: positive about life. And there you must find some some
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Speaker 1: consolation or some something that gives you reason two to
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Speaker 1: go back to life as normal. Right. It must you must.
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Speaker 1: You must find a thing that that all is not lost, right,
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Speaker 1: and there is something something to go back to right,
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Speaker 1: because when you give up your enemy is way. Right.
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Speaker 1: You cannot destroy your way to life and those of
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Speaker 1: others because of something uh sad, because of something that
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Speaker 1: is said to your own friendly unkindly, or because something
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Speaker 1: is lost. You cannot give up on yourself the enemies
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Speaker 1: way uh. You must find reasons to live. You must
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Speaker 1: find reason to compete and to make life better. And
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Speaker 1: you must. You must remember that when you direct people,
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Speaker 1: they lead, and when you control people, they follow. And
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Speaker 1: do you want to be the person or the country
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Speaker 1: of leaders who follow us? That choice is here. You
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Speaker 1: must lead yourself out of crisis. You must lead yourself
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Speaker 1: out disappointment and not the control by it. It must
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Speaker 1: not be controul by negative circumstances of difficult situations. You
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Speaker 1: must seek to live because the first responsibility you have
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Speaker 1: in life is to you. You owe that to yourself
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Speaker 1: to be responsible to your thoughts, your actions, your reactions,
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Speaker 1: and your deeds or your own missions. You know, and
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Speaker 1: the question always asks you, is life twice or once?
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Speaker 1: Life is once? Learn to do things once. You canly
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Speaker 1: live once. And you don't have a spair of life.
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Speaker 1: So you must overcome whatever that beforce you. And in
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Speaker 1: order to move on, you must think about that. And
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Speaker 1: because sometimes when you come from a place where things
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Speaker 1: don't matter, you know, then people don't change because they
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Speaker 1: assume that things will be the same. But you matter.
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Speaker 1: You come from a place where you marry, a place
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Speaker 1: in your heart, a place in your mind, a place somewhere.
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Speaker 1: It's some place that can give you that happiness that
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Speaker 1: makes you feel that you are important. No, you're excenture.
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Speaker 1: They are sufficient, They are adequate so that you can
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Speaker 1: find your security to bounce back and to be yourself again.
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Speaker 1: It must seek to think through your disappointment, your loss
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Speaker 1: of grave, or sadness or pain. You must think through
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Speaker 1: things that will help you to concentrate, to focus and
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Speaker 1: pay attentions, pay attention to to the better things of life,
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Speaker 1: to the good angels in life. You must stay focus
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Speaker 1: to the goal. You must accept the fact that that
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Speaker 1: you know who you are. You must accept the father.
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Speaker 1: You're different and you like you despite the circumstances of
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Speaker 1: the situation, and find yourself in And you must keep
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Speaker 1: your eye on the ball. That ball is that it's
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Speaker 1: a zeal to live. Keep your eyes on the ball
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Speaker 1: on life, How to navigate life, to come your challenges,
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Speaker 1: and how to beat your enemies in the game, how
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Speaker 1: to come back, how to rechriven it, how to rehabilitate,
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Speaker 1: to rebut how to regrow. Must think about things like
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Speaker 1: that in terms of stress, in terms of difficulties, because
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Speaker 1: where your mind is all the time cannot be different
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Speaker 1: from what you are. Say it again, where your mind
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Speaker 1: is all the time cannot be different from what you
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Speaker 1: are or where you are. And if your mind is
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Speaker 1: all on sadness and grief, that can ever different from you.
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Speaker 1: But you don't want life to be that. You want
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Speaker 1: your mind to be on the best and happy things
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Speaker 1: of life. You want your mind to be on the
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Speaker 1: joyous things of life, to the good places of life,
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Speaker 1: good friendship, good relationship, good beginnings, and happiness. Because those
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Speaker 1: episodes of happiness in your life are always more than
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Speaker 1: those episodes of grateful disappointment. We are sudden by grief,
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Speaker 1: grief by lost, by disappointment, because those are occasional episodes
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Speaker 1: in our lives. Sometimes our mind a negative mind, or
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Speaker 1: our whims itself without knowing that most of life is positive,
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Speaker 1: most of life is good. Because what is on your
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Speaker 1: mind when you're doing something? What is it that is
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Speaker 1: always on your mind when you're doing something? Is it
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Speaker 1: the thing itself or something else? Is it the feeling
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Speaker 1: that what is on your mind you don't let the
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Speaker 1: hurt go? Is it the shame, the insecurity, the insufficiency,
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Speaker 1: the inadequacy. Is it the inequity, inequality or the feeling
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Speaker 1: of inferiority or subjugation or pressure and just shame and cured?
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Speaker 1: What is it that is for your mind? We determine
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Speaker 1: the actions He must He must learn to overcome quick,
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Speaker 1: must learn to overcome things quick. I know things happened
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Speaker 1: sometimes that it comes to question of life a lot right.
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Speaker 1: You don't need to make your mind to be idle
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Speaker 1: when you're owing a time of difficulties and need to
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Speaker 1: occupy your mind, because ideling minds are not brainless but daizing,
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Speaker 1: wandering or sleeping on itself on something while the whole
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Speaker 1: world is awake and why the whole world is moving
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Speaker 1: along without hear it. Don't let your mind idol into
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Speaker 1: into perpetual negativity. You don't just give up yourself into
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Speaker 1: agony and despair and cliff because you lost or because
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Speaker 1: something terrible happened to your life. The point you must
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Speaker 1: find space and energy and time to move on and
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Speaker 1: to get life back to normal. And if it's stay,
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Speaker 1: If I do your mind so much into negativity, you know,
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Speaker 1: and I don't mind an absence of positive dates, a
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Speaker 1: positive ventures of sacrifice or exploration or endeavors, I do you,
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Speaker 1: and I don't mind. You don't You don't want to
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Speaker 1: add to your mind. You want to comply a man
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Speaker 1: with something because it takes an I don't mind to
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Speaker 1: be angry. It takes to be angry to stay in
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Speaker 1: anger and act in anger right and in grief and loss.
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Speaker 1: You should be careful not to turn dirt into anger,
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Speaker 1: because that will make it worse. That's why you want
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Speaker 1: to think about happy things and joy us things in life,
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Speaker 1: because when you are angry, everything you say out of
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Speaker 1: anger or think out of anger might be dangerous to
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Speaker 1: you and the webing of others. And if you don't
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Speaker 1: know how to dispose of this anger. You know, then
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Speaker 1: be careful of its execution. Right for responsibility, accountability, and
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Speaker 1: punishment if any awaits awaits you. So sometimes you want
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Speaker 1: to get off that thinking of loss, of disappointment, of bitterness.
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Speaker 1: You want to get out of it fast because there
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Speaker 1: is divcing yourself into anger, into substance and substance abuse,
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Speaker 1: and you need it more. More things will happen that
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Speaker 1: I don't want to go that way. Just go back
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Speaker 1: to normal. Just assume that the thing did not happen.
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Speaker 1: If it happened, it happened. The term has passed. When
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Speaker 1: the thing happened, you just need to move on. Be
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Speaker 1: quick to accept responsibility and accountability, and it helps you
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Speaker 1: to overcome the feeling of disappened or sadness or whatever
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Speaker 1: source is coming from. Someone has come from defaults. You've
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Speaker 1: been fired and you lost an elections and you feel
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Speaker 1: in what you were doing and they fired and business
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Speaker 1: is not going, life is not going the way you want.
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Speaker 1: We had all that thinking of despondency and melancholy and
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Speaker 1: it does not hurt anything because you're better than that,
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Speaker 1: and every thing that you are was. And sometimes grief
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Speaker 1: and stress is collective and people people share with you.
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Speaker 1: If you lose an elections, for example, it's not just
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Speaker 1: you losing that you're the candidate, your supporters and those
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Speaker 1: who will and those who were there, those who are
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Speaker 1: part of your campaign, and everybody is feeling the same pain.
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Speaker 1: So that I call that collective pain. And when it's
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Speaker 1: collective pain, don't you don't make it yours. If it's
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Speaker 1: if it's spread, it's easy to overcome, it's easy to
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Speaker 1: let go. If your family member dies, it does collective lost,
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Speaker 1: collective pain spread it. Don't make it yours. And even
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Speaker 1: if it's individual pain, individual loss, or whatever that disappointment
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Speaker 1: might be, or challenge or hardship or difficulty, try to
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Speaker 1: spread it in your mind by thinking other positive things
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Speaker 1: and think about somebody worse scenarios that did not happen.
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Speaker 1: You must always be constantly trying to get out of
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Speaker 1: negativity feelings or negativity thoughts. I must always try to
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Speaker 1: get out of it. It's just a way of thinking.
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Speaker 1: Always remember that God, if you're a Christian, I always
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Speaker 1: remember that God is in your efforts, that God is
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Speaker 1: in your pain, that God is in your tribulation, and
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Speaker 1: that if God is with you. If you're a Christian
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Speaker 1: or if you're a believer, then you can overcome. You
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Speaker 1: must look for something that gives you solace, that gives
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Speaker 1: you hope, and to make you move on as fast
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Speaker 1: as possible. You know, it's a way of thinking because
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Speaker 1: sometimes most of the problems that humans gonna are going
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Speaker 1: to face in their in their life, in their life,
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Speaker 1: you know, it's refusing responsibility. And if you choose not
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Speaker 1: to accept the reality of what is happening, you know
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Speaker 1: you're gonna end up fighting with yourself. I'm gonna be
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Speaker 1: fighting your whole life and you'll be trying to make
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Speaker 1: yourself a victim. No, you choose to point the fingers,
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Speaker 1: you know, you choose to point the other fingers, and
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Speaker 1: you don't come out on top of that. Right, because
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Speaker 1: for your mind to be itself, you must be willing
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Speaker 1: to do the things. Yeah, he must win to do
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Speaker 1: the things. It must not the things that make their
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Speaker 1: life to be better. Canna bruna away from things or
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Speaker 1: pushing on others. They ended to run away from responsibility. Right,
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Speaker 1: it must not just accept that what is happening and
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Speaker 1: deal with Right, It's just way of thinking. As you
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Speaker 1: find yourself being distracted in the wilderness of nothingness. You know,
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Speaker 1: don't be distracted in the wilderness of nothingness because something's
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Speaker 1: stopping from doing what is right or even saying what
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Speaker 1: is right? Is you right? Don't don't make loss or
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Speaker 1: griefler thing. Life is moving on. Life is moving on
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Speaker 1: because as you daze, so shadow world move on and
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Speaker 1: go along without you. You know, those who take care
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Speaker 1: of things will always take care of themselves. You know,
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Speaker 1: you must take care of yourself and take care of
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Speaker 1: the things that before you, because nobody can stop a
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Speaker 1: free mind, you know, and and nobody itself can stop
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Speaker 1: the free world, and then people within the free world
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Speaker 1: itself cannot stop that free worll from moving on. So
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Speaker 1: you're grieved or your whatever you're thinking. When I stop
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Speaker 1: others from moving on, you just be left behind. Because individuality,
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Speaker 1: it's all about responsibility, and freedom is all about acountability
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Speaker 1: because big ideas come from free individuals. That's why individuality
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Speaker 1: is all about, you know, personal responsibility and not determinism
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Speaker 1: but individualism. Right, that's not responsibility to remember, it's not determinism,
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Speaker 1: but it's individualism. You must you must accept what is
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Speaker 1: and lo for ways to cope. That's the best life
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Speaker 1: can give to you. Because to protect your thoughts from
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Speaker 1: devoting into further negativity, you know that protection must come
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Speaker 1: from creativity. That put almost come from your creativity. It
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Speaker 1: must create so many other ideas, so many other things.
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Speaker 1: You must you must find ways, you know, to get
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Speaker 1: out of things. You're the one stopping yourself from getting
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Speaker 1: out of things because there are some people that want
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Speaker 1: to stay in Cleveland and lost and bitterness with sadness.
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Speaker 1: Some people profit out of those. You don't want to
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Speaker 1: be saddest and and you want you want to move
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Speaker 1: on quick, you know, because you cannot lie to yourself
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Speaker 1: that things are okay. When things are okay, you must
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Speaker 1: accept that things are okay and for solutions or it
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Speaker 1: because there are always solutions to whatever before you you're
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Speaker 1: the one refusing a solution, and you always know that
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Speaker 1: your lies about the reality you're gonna cause matter troubles
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Speaker 1: because you will not save a life and will not
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Speaker 1: solve the problem just because for the problems you know,
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Speaker 1: it's it's a sometimes because of your loss and the
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Speaker 1: feeling you've got a disappointment or shame or God, it
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Speaker 1: can lead to hate that's the fear. And when you're
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Speaker 1: still on hate, you know, you can not hate message.
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Speaker 1: When you still hate, you know, you you lose a lot.
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Speaker 1: You lose a lot because addition, addition to hate is
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Speaker 1: a strange phenomenon, and you tend you start to hate others.
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Speaker 1: And when you start to become a victor, you just
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Speaker 1: keep digging. You know, you must find ways within you
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Speaker 1: to let things go and don't make things old to
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Speaker 1: be about you, because when people seek to help you,
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Speaker 1: sometimes you must seek to help yourself. And you know,
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Speaker 1: because it's very very unwise to be fighting and dying
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Speaker 1: or bleeding or plondering, you know, to save bad ideas,
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Speaker 1: gond of be plmdering yourself. And you cannot be keeping
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Speaker 1: a bad idea, you know, you cannot be keeping a
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Speaker 1: negative feeling. You'll not help you. You know, to make
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Speaker 1: a new or to make a new you must accept
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Speaker 1: your current reality. Right. It's just a way of thinking, mindset, projection, perception, perspective,
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Speaker 1: you know, and you'd be careful because if you don't
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Speaker 1: overcome grief quick, overcome lost quick, or disappointment or you know,
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Speaker 1: it might be a default or anything anything fired, something
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Speaker 1: that makes you feel hurt. If you don't overcome that quick,
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Speaker 1: it can leads to anger. And if the anger become persistent,
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Speaker 1: you become addicted to it, and you become an angry person.
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Speaker 1: And you know, an angry person when everything you don't
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Speaker 1: like irritates or bothers you, and therefore you want on confrontation, rage, sadness,
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Speaker 1: or bitterness or silence, and that silence sometimes become very
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Speaker 1: dangerous because it can some people lit to self termination.
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Speaker 1: You want to get out of every pleasant circumstances fast,
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Speaker 1: faster than everybody else, think about happy things positively. Just
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Speaker 1: get get out right, because those that primitive feelings, You
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Speaker 1: know that, because anger is primitive and primitive things h
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Speaker 1: m hmm makes you more angry. You a primitive thing
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Speaker 1: will make you more angry. Primitive things make you more angry.
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Speaker 1: That thoughts all right, if you don't civilize your thoughts
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Speaker 1: and flesh it out, give yourself one thousand reasons my
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Speaker 1: life to my life should move on, you know, because
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Speaker 1: in life, it's not it's not a game you're playing.
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Speaker 1: It's a life that you're living. Right, Life is not
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Speaker 1: a game you're playing. Is a life that you're living.
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Speaker 1: Just think about it and if you do make it again,
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Speaker 1: you need to be a winner not a loser. You know,
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Speaker 1: as you face the consequences of of of treating life
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Speaker 1: as you know, as of treating life with anger, not
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Speaker 1: fun or happiness. It's good to take life as fun
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Speaker 1: sometimes and when to take life as fun, make it
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Speaker 1: a strategy because at the end of the day, no
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Speaker 1: matter your circumstances, how to overcome that, how to be
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Speaker 1: back to yourself? It boils don't to strategy, optimization, results, feedbacks,
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Speaker 1: and and just the repercussion to be careful to to
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Speaker 1: not get back in the same circumstance where you find
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Speaker 1: yourself in the first place. A question I will ask
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Speaker 1: you that that just lying to yourself? You know, m hm.
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Speaker 1: Does lying to yourself make you learn anything better? It doesn't, right,
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Speaker 1: you cannot You cannot accept in life. You must accept
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Speaker 1: in life that that that when your transactions or dealings
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Speaker 1: are flawless, people like to work with you, whether they
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Speaker 1: like it or not, because life is all about delivery.
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Speaker 1: But sometimes you will not go that way. If it
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Speaker 1: doesn't go that way. To be disappointed, the feeling of
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Speaker 1: disappointment should not of our whim expectations to be better, mister,
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Speaker 1: feelings of disappointment of our women, the expectations of being
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Speaker 1: better again. It's a wealth thinking, So wealth thinking. You
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Speaker 1: owe it to yourself to live. You owe it to
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Speaker 1: yourself to solve your crisis. You owe it to yourself
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Speaker 1: to become a better being, a better human being. You
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Speaker 1: owe it to yourself to challenge yourself, to push yourself
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Speaker 1: to be the best of they. You owe it to
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Speaker 1: yourself to be a law abiding citizen, or it to
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Speaker 1: yourself to sick, to do things right. You owe it
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Speaker 1: to yourself to minimize loss and maximize profit. You owe
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Speaker 1: it to yourself to care for yourself and aware of
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Speaker 1: being of others. You can owe it to yourself to
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Speaker 1: be mindful in what you do and accept responsibility when
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Speaker 1: it be. You owe it to yourself to compete, to win,
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Speaker 1: to be the best. And when it so happened that
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Speaker 1: all this is somen'times ways supposed to turn, you can
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Speaker 1: still fine within you to move on. You can still
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Speaker 1: find with you to move on. For life to be what,
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Speaker 1: for life to be what you want life to be.
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Speaker 1: You know you must you must do your best to
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Speaker 1: make sure that things work out the way you want
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Speaker 1: and to make sure that work out for you. Let
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Speaker 1: constantly knocking, constantly complaining, stand it down, you know, constantly
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Speaker 1: too much for your heart. If you like to live,
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Speaker 1: you need to let You need to have a positive
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Speaker 1: mindset at all times, and when the goal is not going,
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Speaker 1: there's always a way out. You cannot be the thing
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Speaker 1: clorose days of itself. Some some people choose to blame
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Speaker 1: things on something something and move on. What a life.
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Speaker 1: the fear of having nothing makes you want to walk
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Speaker 1: so hard in order to have more. All of thinking,
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Speaker 1: because all you learn to manage and live with nothing.
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Speaker 1: You never be driven to work hard for something. You know,
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Speaker 1: finding fault when there is no fault and makes your
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Speaker 1: life uneasy and worrisome. And you must know where you're
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Speaker 1: that sign that things are not going right. And when
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Speaker 1: You know, it's must look. You must find within ourselves
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Speaker 1: that there is something good in us. You must not
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Speaker 1: believe in yourself. You must not not believe in yourself.
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Speaker 1: everything that you do. Right, don't don't don't make the
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Speaker 1: quantum mass of your negativity. It means the quantum mass
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Speaker 1: of your of your negative thoughts to be more than
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Speaker 1: tend to see the world that way. As projections, perception
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Speaker 1: and perspective, you find in orders what you want to see.
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Speaker 1: If you want to see the good in others, you
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Speaker 1: about yourself? A stead of insufficiency, inadequacy, in securities, iniquities.
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Speaker 1: We say a lot about you, but the point become
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Speaker 1: If you expect very least from others and expect more
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Speaker 1: from yourself, and your happiness must be intennal, must volcanic,
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Speaker 1: and must come from you. One thing does not make it.
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Speaker 1: Life is holistic. Everything is equal to everything else. It's
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Speaker 1: a matter of degree. And don't be a master of grief.
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Speaker 1: Don't be a master of sadness. Don't make negativity a
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Speaker 1: part of your life. Grief comes grief girls, Disappointment comes,
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Speaker 1: disappointment goes, Sadness comes sudden it goes, lost come lost,
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Speaker 1: cows the thing that will suppress and depress your life
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Speaker 1: You shouldn't give you a safe harbor. You shouldn't make
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Speaker 1: negativity or disappointment to become part of your being. You
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Speaker 1: don't want to be a source of peace. It's also pride.
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Speaker 1: Everybody has problems, not you alone. There's nothing in life
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Speaker 1: so disappointing that will happened to you that has never
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Speaker 1: happened to anybody else. The power of life is copying, managing,
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Speaker 1: and overcoming. Let me see it again. The power of
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Speaker 1: life is copying, managing, and overcoming. There's nothing without a solution.
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Speaker 1: If you don't see a solution, you, mister mind is
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Speaker 1: You be the fix. It can only sense it coming.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes the human being don't listen to itself. Nothing surprisingly
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Speaker 1: happens there. You didn't just pick up the clues. I
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Speaker 1: just ignore the signs. And when it happens, then to
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Speaker 1: your system with measurement, proportionality, and balance to not overto
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Speaker 1: things when things go wrong, and sometimes be very careful
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Speaker 1: to not draw negative conclusions every when you have to.
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Speaker 1: the human being to understand itself better. Don't always make
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Speaker 1: negativity true. I'm gonna hurt you on artists, Let's try
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Speaker 1: to dilute your negativity. If two things you're up already
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Speaker 1: mean the same thing, then it's not two things but
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Speaker 1: It's either a person a way. It's with you or
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Speaker 1: And a projection becomes a character, and you want to
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Speaker 1: Always ask yourself, how come everything that you think about,
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Speaker 1: how come? How come everything leads to to the same conclusion,
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Speaker 1: those conclusions. Life is what life is, as people will say.
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Speaker 1: things happen to us, not because they're supposed to happen mhm,
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Speaker 1: always part of what happens to you, and when and
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Speaker 1: be the end of life. There's still there's still too
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Speaker 1: much to live for, still too much to believe in,
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Speaker 1: still too much to fight for. It's just too much
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Speaker 1: here to sacrifice for. There's too much love here, too
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Speaker 1: there's too much there's the abundance on this planet. Everything
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Speaker 1: many doors. So then listen to yourself. Profit out of disappointments,
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Speaker 1: much to give back in life. Must have the hope
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Speaker 1: Sometimes you feel like you're worse. Travel to a different country,
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Speaker 1: something strange, something different, but something positive. Learn as you go.
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Speaker 1: If you don't overcome, if you don't overcome little things,
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Speaker 1: The obstacle in front of you might just be a
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Speaker 1: Don't make little things destroy big things. Don't make the
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Speaker 1: present destroy the future. There was a essence of life,
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Speaker 1: There's always that little seed of happiness, that lettle ship
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Speaker 1: Life is pain, sometime that is gain, sometimes too much pain.
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