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The Daily Mess Silencing Family Dislike Plus Guilt Trips At The Grocery Store Checkout · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: to locate answers such as when parents transition, should the
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  Speaker 1: surviving children vary their indifferences? Plus, do shoppers at grocery
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  Speaker 1: stores feel guilty about hoisting three hundred to five hundred
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  Speaker 1: dollars worth of product to a cash register? My name
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  Speaker 1: is Ero. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf. I
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  Speaker 1: then activate. It is a daily mess, a chronological walk
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  Speaker 1: It's still keeping that daily journal, but by doing the research,
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  Speaker 1: the picture it's going to become clearer. This is the
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  Speaker 1: daily mess. When parents transition, should the surviving children go
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  Speaker 1: ahead and bury their indifferences and you know, reunite the
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  Speaker 1: cold hard facts. The loss of a parent changes the
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  Speaker 1: entire family immediately. I mean, like overnight boom, it's happening
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  Speaker 1: right now. Well, at least that's what research says, but
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  Speaker 1: it also serves as a warm welcome. This idea that's
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  Speaker 1: got an indifference growing in your heart, just get rid
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  Speaker 1: of it. You don't have to hold on to it anymore.
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  Speaker 1: It's very complicated, but yet just do it. Just get
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  Speaker 1: rid of it. Differences, miss understandings, pride and distance plus
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  Speaker 1: poor communications, that's what you face. Here's the thing. Healthy
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  Speaker 1: boundaries do matter if a full reunion cannot be met
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  Speaker 1: inside your family ranks, small acts of grace are a
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  Speaker 1: beautiful moment. Losing your parents is heavy stuff, and studies
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  Speaker 1: show that means it's our turn next. Oh boy, here's
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  Speaker 1: the thing. Not everyone in the family truly gets back together,
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  Speaker 1: but many, many, many, many many wished they had in
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  Speaker 1: their later years. The greatest rule to live by is
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  Speaker 1: there are no requirements that say you've got to create
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  Speaker 1: a reunion. It doesn't have to be so dramatic, and
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be so instant. Healing will begin
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  Speaker 1: when you start falling in love with the temperature coming
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  Speaker 1: up next, the people that shop at grocery stores that
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  Speaker 1: are dumping three hundred to five hundred dollars at that register,
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  Speaker 1: do they feel guilty? Hey, thanks for coming back to
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  Speaker 1: the daily mess. Do shoppers at grocery stores kind of
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  Speaker 1: feel guilty about taking three hundred to five hundred dollars
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  Speaker 1: worth of merchandise up to the cash register to check out? Many?
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  Speaker 1: Many people actually do. They really do, not always because
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  Speaker 1: of the money itself, but because of the social pressure
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  Speaker 1: of having to hold up the line, being judged, or
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  Speaker 1: feeling extra guilty because the people behind them they have
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  Speaker 1: fewer items. The emotions include self consciousness, sticker shock, family
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  Speaker 1: provider stress, and cashier empathy. But but, but, but, let's
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  Speaker 1: look at this through the shopper's eyes. Here, Okay, we
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  Speaker 1: got the big job done. Plus, how can the groceries
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  Speaker 1: that cost one hundred eighty five dollars last year be
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  Speaker 1: at three eighty five this year. As for cashiers, trust
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  Speaker 1: me on this, they are not bothered by the three
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  Speaker 1: hundred to five hundred dollars all in one at the
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  Speaker 1: grocery store register. In fact, the moment that that person
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  Speaker 1: is gone, you are forgotten. You really are. The guilty
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  Speaker 1: feeling attached to the three to five hundred dollars in
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  Speaker 1: that basket is not about greed. It's about being visible.
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  Speaker 1: So is this where I can say I see you,
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  Speaker 1: I'm Ryl. And that's the daily mess