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2nd Date Update: Ethan & Bella · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: All right, it's time for Second Date Update. You meet somebody,
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  Speaker 1: you got a date, you have a good time, you
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  Speaker 1: expect there to be a second date. It doesn't happen.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know why, so you come to us. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to find out for you. Let's say hello to Ethan.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Ethan.
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  Speaker 3: You're on the air. Second Date Update, John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning. How are you guys? Good. What's your story?
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  Speaker 3: What happened?
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  Speaker 4: I just met this girl on hinge. Um, her name's Bella. Um,
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  Speaker 4: great name. She looks great.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe sometimes I can come on a little strong. I
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  Speaker 4: didn't think so. Um, again, I just really don't know.
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  Speaker 4: All the vibes I were getting were like, okay, she's
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  Speaker 4: feeling it. And I just, I don't, I don't know
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  Speaker 4: what changed. Hold on.
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  Speaker 2: You're kind of giving us bullet points out of order.
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  Speaker 2: So if you feel like you came on too strong,
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  Speaker 2: tell us what that is, because that might be the
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  Speaker 2: answer right there.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, we definitely had more than just surface level,
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  Speaker 4: just kind of like talking like, you know, what do
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  Speaker 4: you do? But like also, well, what do you want to.
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  Speaker 3: Do in life?
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  Speaker 4: We know where would you like to be? And, you know,
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  Speaker 4: what's a dream vacation like those types of things. So
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  Speaker 4: more personality based questions than just, you know, do you
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  Speaker 4: have any siblings? Where are you from? That sort of thing.
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  Speaker 3: So no kiss goodnight. No kiss, a hug. Was it
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  Speaker 3: like a full frontal hug or a side hug?
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  Speaker 4: Again, I'm overeager.
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  Speaker 3: I got a full frontal hug.
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  Speaker 1: Are we going to get her on the phone and
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  Speaker 1: she's going to say you brought up a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: stuff like did you have a strong opinion about the
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  Speaker 1: Cornell 7? Did you bring up ICE? Did you bring
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  Speaker 1: up the election that's coming up? Did you bring up
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  Speaker 1: the COVID vaccine? Are we going to get her on
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  Speaker 1: the phone and she's going to say he did this, this,
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  Speaker 1: and this?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, no?
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  Speaker 4: You're going to be like, oh, I left that out.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't want to say no to any
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  Speaker 4: of those things.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, so, yes?
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  Speaker 3: So, yes? So, somewhere around there, I'm guessing, he brought
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  Speaker 3: up something that she's not so part of. We're about
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  Speaker 3: to find out that Bella, like, hates this man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: all right, all right. It's okay.
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  Speaker 4: But I want to make sure we're on the same, like, wavelength,
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  Speaker 4: you know?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we're going to get her on the phone. We're
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  Speaker 3: going to find out why she's blowing you off, all right?
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: All right, so hang tight.
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  Speaker 1: Second Aid Update continues next with John Jane Rich. In
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  Speaker 1: the middle of Second Aid Update, you got Ethan who
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  Speaker 1: went on a date with Bella.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Ethan says he has questions. He met Bella on Hinge.
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  Speaker 2: And he says that he thought the date went excellent.
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  Speaker 2: He asked all the right questions. But maybe did he
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  Speaker 2: ask too many questions? Did he give his stance on
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  Speaker 2: immigration and ICE? Maybe him being an eager beaver got
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  Speaker 2: him nothing but a wall. Let's find out.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Ethan, you ready?
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  Speaker 4: I guess so.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you stay quiet. Bella's agreed to jump on the
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  Speaker 3: air with us really quick, so hold on. Good morning, Bella. Hey. Hey,
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  Speaker 3: so we're calling you. Thanks for jumping on there with us.
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  Speaker 1: We're calling you because we got a phone call from
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  Speaker 1: a guy who went on a date with you. And
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  Speaker 1: he was sharing with us that he feels like he's
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  Speaker 1: getting ghosted. And we told him that we would find
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  Speaker 1: out why he's getting ghosted. If you don't mind talking
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  Speaker 1: about a guy named Ethan.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I remember Ethan.
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  Speaker 4: That doesn't sound great.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you don't seem very sold on him.
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  Speaker 5: I've, let's just say, I've been having nightmares about this
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  Speaker 5: man's vocal cords.
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 5: So, he basically held me hostage at a one-man concert
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  Speaker 5: in his Honda Civic.
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  Speaker 3: What? He held you hostage?
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  Speaker 4: He wouldn't let you out? Yes, he held me hostage.
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  Speaker 5: He gets in his car. Connects his Bluetooth and looks
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  Speaker 5: me dead in the eyes and says, this one is
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  Speaker 5: for you.
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  Speaker 1: And then starts belting.
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  Speaker 3: Out All of Me by John Legend.
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  Speaker 5: And he's like on the top of his lungs singing
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  Speaker 5: this song to me. It was the instrumental version playing.
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  Speaker 5: It wasn't the actual song.
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  Speaker 4: It was karaoke.
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  Speaker 5: Tolerate the song and everything because, you know, John Legend
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  Speaker 5: has an amazing voice.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: Ethan does not.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 2: I guess he does come out a little strong.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, like, veins popping out of his neck.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, he was getting into it.
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  Speaker 5: Like, really into it, not reading my cues at all
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  Speaker 5: of feeling so awkward. And we were at a red
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  Speaker 5: light of all places.
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  Speaker 2: And... And he wasn't trying to be funny?
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  Speaker 4: The song was done No, he was being real serious. Like, real,
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  Speaker 4: real serious.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, being funny, that could be hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: That would be funny. That could be funny.
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  Speaker 2: It's like if you hold hands and he starts singing
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  Speaker 2: at you.
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  Speaker 3: Like, that could be really funny.
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  Speaker 5: Well, actually, he did grab my hand.
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  Speaker 4: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: So you had a red light. But not on purpose funny.
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  Speaker 5: And he started singing. But then he started singing, like,
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  Speaker 5: all of your perfect imperfections. Like, he was staring into
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  Speaker 5: my soul. And I was just like, sir, we met
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  Speaker 5: on Hinge three days ago. And why am I getting
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  Speaker 5: serenaded like I'm... dying in a romantic movie. And then
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  Speaker 5: the light turns green. People are honking at us because
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  Speaker 5: he's not moving.
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  Speaker 3: He's got to get to the good part.
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  Speaker 4: So once the.
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  Speaker 5: Song was over and everything, he starts moving and then
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  Speaker 5: he starts singing again. He tried to ask the waiter
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  Speaker 5: if there was a microphone because he wanted to dedicate
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  Speaker 5: a song to his future wife.
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  Speaker 2: It's a bit much. You don't know?
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  Speaker 3: She could have been there.
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  Speaker 2: We said pushy and that is exactly it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: He was talking about me being his future wife and
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  Speaker 5: now he's just freaking me out. Like, sir, I don't
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  Speaker 5: even know.
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  Speaker 2: Your middle name. Like, are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 4: I set this whole thing up with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 4: Sorry about that. But I genuinely thought we had a
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  Speaker 4: good time. It sounds like There were some good times
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  Speaker 4: in there for you.
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  Speaker 5: I wanted to see you again.
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  Speaker 4: Like, what do you think?
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  Speaker 2: What? Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 5: No way, Ethan. You're on the phone?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, but, like, I feel like you liked it when
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  Speaker 4: I sang to you.
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  Speaker 3: But she just said she didn't.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 5: She just said she didn't.
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  Speaker 2: I was laughing because I was so uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know what else to do.
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  Speaker 4: Like, you literally said, like, oh, wow, you have a
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  Speaker 4: really good voice. What?
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  Speaker 3: Did she say jazz like that?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, God.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we'd like to hear if you have a
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  Speaker 2: good voice.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I do.
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  Speaker 4: Drawing me in and you kicking me out.
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  Speaker 2: You got my head spinning. No kidding. I can't.
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  Speaker 1: Continue down.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 4: It's a good song.
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  Speaker 2: No, it was good.
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  Speaker 3: It was pretty good, dude. It was a little pitchy.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I need you staring at me singing it. Intensely. Right.
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  Speaker 2: In a very tiny Honda Civic.
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  Speaker 3: That's awesome. I mean, okay, so.
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  Speaker 4: It's an intimate Honda Civic.
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  Speaker 1: But Ethan, were you like seriously trying to be romantic
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  Speaker 1: or were you trying to be playful and funny?
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  Speaker 4: I was trying to be romantic. I thought girls liked
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  Speaker 4: that kind of stuff. Like I was being like sincere
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  Speaker 4: and like. Intent is the wrong word.
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  Speaker 3: Kyle gave you your out, though.
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  Speaker 2: She gave you the out to say that you were
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  Speaker 2: just joking and having a good time.
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  Speaker 1: He can't read the hatchback. You're not, I don't think,
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  Speaker 1: so far, I don't think you're a bad singer. Do
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  Speaker 1: you sing professionally or something?
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  Speaker 3: Are you in a church?
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  Speaker 5: I'm in a choir at my church.
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  Speaker 3: A church band or a wedding band. I mean, you
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  Speaker 3: can sing. The thing is, Ethan, you seem like a
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  Speaker 3: really nice guy.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And you were right.
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  Speaker 4: Like sometimes you said you could be accused of coming
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  Speaker 4: on a little too strong.
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  Speaker 3: This could be maybe considered part of that.
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  Speaker 1: What's another song you sing to people when you're trying
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  Speaker 1: to be romantic besides All of Me by Jeff?
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  Speaker 4: It depends on the person. So I was like Bella,
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  Speaker 4: like I was feeling that song for you. So that's just,
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  Speaker 4: it sang to me.
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  Speaker 3: Because aren't the words to that pretty serious? Come on now.
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  Speaker 1: Like All of Me loves, like you're saying, you're using
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  Speaker 1: love already in your first date.
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  Speaker 3: You got to do something different. And you called her
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  Speaker 3: your future wife. You got to be like, I'm walking
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  Speaker 3: on sunshine. Whoa! You can't be all again. You're deep
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  Speaker 3: in your feelings, man. I kind of like it, though.
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  Speaker 2: He's a lover boy.
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  Speaker 3: Like, they're few and far between.
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  Speaker 2: Most of these men out here will date you, sleep
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  Speaker 2: with you, and then never talk.
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  Speaker 3: To you again.
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  Speaker 1: Then you start doing some Cardi B whap.
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  Speaker 3: No, don't do that one. Yes, you got to do
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  Speaker 3: the move and everything. All right, dog.
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  Speaker 4: So.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I mean, look, I'll take requests.
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  Speaker 3: If you want. You're a good guy. You deserve a
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  Speaker 3: good one.
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  Speaker 4: I just kind of feel like you're just maybe too
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  Speaker 4: much for Bella. And that's OK, because there's someone out
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  Speaker 4: there that will appreciate all of you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that's well done. Good job, Kyle. Thank you. Bella.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Like is that was it too much?
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  Speaker 2: If he if he toned it down, you wouldn't be
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  Speaker 2: into him if he took it down a couple of notches.
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  Speaker 4: Like... Even just, like, humming.
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  Speaker 5: The whole future wife thing is what really... That.
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  Speaker 4: Can be a lot. But watch, Bella.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna, like, not go on a date with him.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna date, like, three more guys after this and
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  Speaker 3: be like, they suck.
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  Speaker 2: And then you're gonna call Ethan back watch if I'm
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  Speaker 2: dating I would rather have to pull him back a
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  Speaker 2: little bit than find a guy that's a jerk and
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  Speaker 2: try to make him into a nice guy but you
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  Speaker 2: do have to I mean people get really like love
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  Speaker 2: bombing is a red flag you gotta be careful with
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  Speaker 2: that Ethan you know what.
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  Speaker 1: You should have done is a duet you should have
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  Speaker 1: done a duet and then wait for her to jump
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  Speaker 1: in yeah A whole new world?
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  Speaker 3: A whole new world. How would that go?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, Ethan.
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  Speaker 3: How would that go, Ethan? Do part of that.
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  Speaker 4: Do you want me to do Jasmine or Aladdin? I
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  Speaker 4: can do both.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Do both. Do both.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, wow. I need some time to warm up the
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  Speaker 4: vocal cords.
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  Speaker 3: Sure, go on.
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  Speaker 1: We're on the spot.
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  Speaker 4: Don't you dare close your eyes.
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  Speaker 1: A new fantasy is born of you.
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  Speaker 2: He's awesome.
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  Speaker 4: No one should tell us no where to go. They
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  Speaker 4: were only dreaming.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, Bella.
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  Speaker 4: And you could be Aladdin.
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  Speaker 1: See?
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  Speaker 3: I'm fun.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I'm great.
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  Speaker 3: I like your name. You are awesome.
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  Speaker 1: I do. So good.
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  Speaker 3: Give it one more try. For us. For us.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: That's not a love bomb.
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  Speaker 4: He's just a nerd.
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  Speaker 3: She said yes.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: We win.
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  Speaker 4: It's a win. Either we'll go all in or not
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  Speaker 4: at all. We'll do karaoke and we're able to be like,
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  Speaker 4: it'll make sense that we're singing or we're We just
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  Speaker 4: go to like a library where we're just whispering.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. You're a good singer, man. So you
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't be embarrassed to let it all out. So way
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  Speaker 1: to go. And it worked out. I think this is great. Congratulations,
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  Speaker 1: you two.
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  Speaker 4: Yay!
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  Speaker 3: This is where you go. Now this is where you go.
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  Speaker 3: At last. All right, you guys.
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  Speaker 4: Love is gone.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's awesome. All right, good luck on your date.
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  Speaker 3: I tell you what, if you don't go out with him, Bella,
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  Speaker 3: I bet you there's a million people who are going
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  Speaker 3: to want to go out with him now.
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  Speaker 5: So hang tight.
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  Speaker 3: Second date update with John Jay Rich.