Latest / Off The Kirb Ministries / Put God First, Or You Will Notice These 3 Signs Will Take Place in Your Life
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- 0:00Imagine this scenario. There is an invisible cameraman,
- 0:03and everywhere you've been in the last week, he's been there
- 0:06too. He was there when you woke up,
- 0:09he was there when you ate lunch, he was there when you relaxed in
- 0:12the evening, and he was there when you went to bed.
- 0:14He captured everything. And right now, he's about to
- 0:17show the entire world the footage of your life.
- 0:21As the people of the world watch this footage, what would they
- 0:25see? Would they see your priority as
- 0:28you put God first? God is everything to you?
- 0:31Or would they see other priorities creeping up, other
- 0:35things that are big in your life?
- 0:37Well, I can promise you this. I know exactly what you live
- 0:40for. I know exactly what you love by
- 0:43watching what you do. And that is the question I want
- 0:46to investigate today. What do you really love?
- 0:50Well, I think there are three signs, 3 signs that show us that
- 0:54we're not putting God first. OK guys, if today's your first
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- 1:41of Joe. All right, sign number one that
- 1:57you are not putting God first is that you are constantly
- 2:01worrying. I'm not going to lie to you.
- 2:04This isn't easy for me to talk about because I am such a big
- 2:08warrior. And I've been talking about this
- 2:11on my channel on Off the Curb Ministries for years.
- 2:14And I really thought at the age I am now, I'm not, I know I'm
- 2:17not a donkey, but you know, I turned 34 just the other day.
- 2:22But I really thought I'd be further on in this.
- 2:24And actually, if anything, I feel like my worry has been like
- 2:27a little snowball. You know, when it snows and you
- 2:30get that little snowball and you push it down the hill and it
- 2:32gets bigger and bigger and bigger until it's it's so big
- 2:35you can't move it anymore. That's what I feel like worrying
- 2:39is done to me. It started little and got bigger
- 2:43and bigger and bigger, and some days I can't do anything.
- 2:47I can't focus because I'm so concerned.
- 2:51Well, what would Jesus say to me?
- 2:53And if you're a warrior, what would he say to you?
- 2:56If you've got a Bible there, turn to Matthew chapter 6.
- 3:04Matthew 6, verse 31. Therefore do not worry saying,
- 3:10what shall we eat, or what shall we drink, or what shall we wear?
- 3:15For after all these things the Gentiles seek.
- 3:19For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things,
- 3:24but seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and
- 3:29all these things shall be added to you.
- 3:31Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow we'll
- 3:34worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is it's
- 3:38own trouble. Hey, I think this is absolutely
- 3:41fascinating because in the Greek, in the original Greek,
- 3:45the word to worry, it translates to mean this being pulled in
- 3:50different directions. And for those of you who are
- 3:52watching this right now, that sounds very relatable.
- 3:55If you are a warrior, that's exactly how it feels.
- 3:58It feels like you're being OK. One part of you is being pulled
- 4:01by the approval of others. You want to be liked.
- 4:05The other part of you is being pulled by money, by worry.
- 4:08How am I going to pay these bills?
- 4:10The next part of you is being pulled by I'm worried about my
- 4:14parents, I'm worried about my family.
- 4:15I'm worried about my children. Then there's another party
- 4:18that's being pulled and I'm so concerned about my health.
- 4:21I'm I'm worried about this. I'm worried about the future.
- 4:24I'm worried about my marriage. I'm worried and literally, in
- 4:27other words, what are these worries doing to you?
- 4:30What is it doing to you? It's tearing you apart because
- 4:33you cannot focus, you cannot do anything because you're being
- 4:36pulled in all of these different directions.
- 4:39And that is exactly why Jesus has a word for you and I as
- 4:42warriors in verse 33. But seek first the Kingdom of
- 4:47God and his righteousness, and all of these things shall be
- 4:51added unto you. What is Jesus saying here?
- 4:55You're worrying, you're careful, you're anxious about many
- 4:58different things. As He said to Martha, stop.
- 5:02Stop being pulled in all these different directions and only be
- 5:05pulled one way. Only be pulled towards God and
- 5:09focus on Him and all these other things.
- 5:12Your family, your money, what you're going to wear, everything
- 5:15that's concerning, all of it will be dealt with because God
- 5:19is there and He will look after you.
- 5:21And that's exactly why it is actually an insult.
- 5:25It's actually a sin to worry because when we worry, what are
- 5:28we doing? We're showing that our heavenly
- 5:30Father in heaven doesn't care about us.
- 5:33If if your children went and spoke to another parent or
- 5:37another adult and they said yes, you know, I'm so scared all the
- 5:41time. I'm worried about this.
- 5:42And I'm worried I'm not going to be able to wear clothes.
- 5:45I'm worried I'm not going to be allowed to do this.
- 5:47And I'm worried about this. I'm worried about that.
- 5:49And they were just a wreck, you know, shaking.
- 5:53You would be embarrassed, wouldn't you?
- 5:54You'd be ashamed because it's a reflection on you as a parent
- 5:58that you've not raised that child right.
- 6:00And so when we sin, when when we are anxious, it's such a sin
- 6:05because it's saying to God that, OK, we don't trust you.
- 6:09Father, there was there was an American theologian, a man
- 6:15called Donald Gray Barnhouse. Now, I love that name.
- 6:18I don't know if there's any Americans watching right now, if
- 6:21that's a common name. But over here we don't get names
- 6:23like that anymore. Donald Gray Barnhouse.
- 6:26And he said, fretting is the caressing of the old nature.
- 6:32Isn't that interesting? Fretting is the caressing of the
- 6:36old nature. Jesus puts it like this in verse
- 6:4032. Some of you will have that
- 6:42version that says after all that the pagans they run after these
- 6:46things or the Gentiles. It says in my version, why, why
- 6:50is why did Donald Barnow say that?
- 6:52Because we're going back to the old nature, aren't we?
- 6:55When we start worrying, we're living like we're an atheist.
- 6:58We're living like the world. The world has no God.
- 7:01The world has no belief that there is a heavenly Father who
- 7:04cares for them. That that clothes the lilies of
- 7:06the field, that that feeds the sparrows of the air.
- 7:09That's what the the world doesn't believe in that.
- 7:11But you and I, as Christians do. So when we're always fretting
- 7:15them, we're always worried and concerned.
- 7:18It's a reflection upon our Father that we're saying,
- 7:20actually, we don't believe you're a good father.
- 7:23We don't believe that you are sovereign.
- 7:25We don't believe that you are watching over everything we do.
- 7:28We are taking action into our own hands, living like a
- 7:32practical atheist who believes there is no God.
- 7:35Now here's the part many preachers, myself included, can
- 7:38often skip over. We can point out the problem,
- 7:41but do we give a solution? So how do we stop worrying?
- 7:46Well, the honest answer is if you are given to that nature,
- 7:50some people are very laid back and I envy you so much if you're
- 7:53that person. But if you are given to a mind
- 7:56of worry, it's not just a quick fix.
- 7:58You can't just do 5 steps to quitting worrying.
- 8:01It doesn't happen that easy. It's a constant battle every
- 8:05day. You need to focus your mind back
- 8:08to, to stop being pulled in all these directions and to fix your
- 8:12mind on, on the Lord God. But how do we do it?
- 8:15Well, there's one thing I think that's very, very helpful and
- 8:18it's this. You need to remember this.
- 8:20Can I ask you, are you aware 1st?
- 8:22And then let me ask you this, do you have a good imagination?
- 8:26Like when you're at school, were you seen as quite creative?
- 8:29You see all the most creative people I know, all the people
- 8:33who are artists who know how to make things, who maybe they can
- 8:36do YouTube videos or all of those people who've got that
- 8:39creative mind, they're very often also huge, massive
- 8:43warriors. And that's literally what
- 8:46worrying is. It's just a very, very active
- 8:49imagination. That's who I am.
- 8:51I I think scenarios that will never ever happen and I dwell on
- 8:55them and even though they might never happen and the key 2 words
- 8:59you need to remember if you're a warriors, they these two words.
- 9:03What if that's your motto, isn't it?
- 9:06As a warrior, what if I wake up and my spouse has left me?
- 9:13What if I cannot pay the bills this month?
- 9:17What if I lose my children and I never see them again?
- 9:23What if no one likes me anymore? What if this friendship, What if
- 9:28I get that horrible note from the doctor?
- 9:31What if I get that thing I feared my whole life?
- 9:34What if, what if, what if? So that's the first thing to
- 9:37remember is very often these what ifs, they don't come true.
- 9:41And actually, as Jesus says earlier in Matthew chapter 26,
- 9:46you know which of you by worrying can add 1 cubit to your
- 9:50stature. It doesn't add anything to your
- 9:52life. In fact, it takes it away.
- 9:54And if anything, we know that worrying shortens your life.
- 9:56It doesn't expand it, does it? So remember that you've got an
- 10:00overactive imagination. The next thing to remember is
- 10:03this scripture and quotes are your best friend.
- 10:07My wife is also a warrior, but she doesn't worry about the same
- 10:11things. And the other day I was, I was
- 10:14St. preaching in Manchester and one of my big, big worries hit
- 10:18me straight in the face. You know, there it was.
- 10:20I won't go into it because it's just too embarrassed to share it
- 10:23with you. But I was, I was really
- 10:25panicking. I didn't know what to do and
- 10:27here I am. I'm due to preach the gospel and
- 10:30I just wanted to run away, go home.
- 10:32OK, So what, what happened? I text my wife and said this has
- 10:37happened. I'm really concerned, what
- 10:39should I do? Emma just wrote back be bold and
- 10:42courageous and that just. I love my wife.
- 10:47She really did me a massive favour and now whenever I'm
- 10:50anxious I just think of those words.
- 10:52It's scriptural but it also reminds me of Emma.
- 10:55Be bold and be courageous. We're to be bold, aren't we?
- 10:59We're to be courageous. That that helps me.
- 11:01I don't know what might help you, but there must be a verse.
- 11:03There must be a quote. There must be something that you
- 11:05can remind yourself every time you come to that worry and you
- 11:09just say it quickly and, and you know, you, you're teaching your
- 11:12brain there that I'm not going to go down this rabbit trail.
- 11:15No, I'm going to fix my mind on God.
- 11:17I'm going to focus on God. I'm going to trust him.
- 11:20And then the other thing is this prayer is there for a reason.
- 11:25The Bible says cast all of your burdens, cast all of your care
- 11:28on him for he careth for you. And Corrie Tamboom, you know the
- 11:33that wonderful woman who has a tremendous testimony We've made
- 11:37videos about before, but she's got, I won't go into detail.
- 11:41If you've never heard of Corrie Tamboom, that's your homework.
- 11:43Now go and watch some videos about her.
- 11:45It will just encourage you greatly.
- 11:47But Corrie Tamboom once said this, if a case is too small to
- 11:53be turned into a prayer, it is too small to be made into a
- 11:57burden. So in other words, if you can't
- 11:59be bothered praying for this thing, if you don't think it's
- 12:02worth praying for, well, it's not worth worrying about either,
- 12:05is it? But if it is something in your
- 12:06mind, take it to the Lord in prayer and let him deal with it
- 12:10as we did on our in our last video.
- 12:13Leave it in God's hands. Trust him, your heavenly Father
- 12:17that cares for you, that will not put anything in your path,
- 12:20that will not give you anything that's too great.
- 12:22Just trust Him to look after you and to watch your over you.
- 12:26Shall we talk about the second sign that you are not putting
- 12:29God first? It's very, very obvious.
- 12:31Many of these signs, as you can tell, are obvious.
- 12:34They're plain. But we need to think about them
- 12:36because often we're still doing them, aren't we?
- 12:38So what is it? It's this.
- 12:40You are worldly. Colossians 3.
- 12:43If you've got a Bible there, would you turn to Colossians 3?
- 12:45And we're going to read verses 1 to 4 lotions 3 want to form.
- 12:54If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which
- 12:58are above where Christ is sitting at the right hand of
- 13:01God. Set your mind on things above,
- 13:04not on things on the earth, for you died and your life is hidden
- 13:08with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life
- 13:13appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory.
- 13:18So what is the apostle Paul trying to say here?
- 13:21Well, here he is. He's writing to the church at
- 13:22Colossae, and he's saying to them, guys, listen, you now have
- 13:26a new life. You're a believer, You've
- 13:28trusted in Christ. So when Christ Jesus died, you
- 13:32died with him. When Christ Jesus rose, ascended
- 13:36on high, He's now at the right hand of God.
- 13:39You were also raised with him to, to, to, to new life.
- 13:43That's what baptism is all about.
- 13:44When you know this already, I know you know this, but when we
- 13:47go into the water, as we go beneath the water, it's a sign
- 13:50that the old Joe Kirby, when I was baptized, I've been buried.
- 13:54My old life is gone. All of Joe and his desires and
- 13:57his sin and all the things he wants, loved, it's gone.
- 14:00It's buried, it's dead. And then as I came out of the
- 14:03water, I've been raised now to new life.
- 14:05I've been raised with the Lord Jesus Christ.
- 14:08I have new desires. And what Paul is saying right
- 14:11here is this, you have a new life.
- 14:14Your life isn't the things of this world.
- 14:15It's it's heavenly things. It's hidden with Christ in God.
- 14:21You know, we can't see our life, our eternal life in heaven, but
- 14:24it's there with Jesus Christ. So stop fixing your mind on all
- 14:29of these earthly things and start putting heavenly things
- 14:33first. Start putting God first.
- 14:34Start thinking on those things now.
- 14:37When I read a passage like that, am I the only one who thinks
- 14:39this? Does that mean I can't enjoy
- 14:42life? I think that's something that
- 14:45can naturally come to us. All we say, you know, we're so
- 14:50good at being wired up to thinking, well, I can't do this,
- 14:52I can't do that. We get so religious, but that's
- 14:55not the message here. God put us on this earth to
- 14:58enjoy life. He wants us to have great fun.
- 15:01He wants us to be happy. He wants us to rejoice.
- 15:03That's exactly what Matthew 6 is all about.
- 15:06Enjoy your life trusting God. He's given you this life for a
- 15:09reason, to praise Him to, to bring worship to him.
- 15:12But what I want to say is this is whatever this thing might be
- 15:15in your life, ask yourself, is this a God thing or is this a
- 15:20worldly thing? So a God thing.
- 15:22Food is a God thing. We're there to enjoy food.
- 15:25Family is a God-given gift. Enjoy your family.
- 15:28These are good things. But then let's take something
- 15:31like a nightclub partying, you know, all these these are
- 15:35worldly things, you know, listening to to horrible wrong
- 15:40music that's full of terrible lyrics.
- 15:43These are worldly things. And I think Paul is, is straight
- 15:47to the point here. He's saying put off these
- 15:49earthly things and put and, and live your life, build your life
- 15:53in heaven. Put your mind on eternal things.
- 15:57Now I do want to know something. Just tell me, are you
- 15:59appreciating these quotes? I thought I'd add a few quotes
- 16:03in. It's something I used to do a
- 16:05lot with my old preaching, but there's a quote here by a man
- 16:08called John Blanchard. Now, if you don't know my story,
- 16:12I didn't start out as a Christian.
- 16:13YouTube. I started working as an
- 16:16evangelist for several churches, but the main organization I
- 16:20worked for was an organization called Young Life Campaign.
- 16:23Now, it's different to the American Young Life.
- 16:26This was one that's over here in the UK.
- 16:28It's called National Young Life, and a man who worked for them
- 16:32was a man called John Blanche Blanchard, who was a tremendous
- 16:36preacher, tremendous evangelist, and he wrote many books.
- 16:39Well, John Blanchard, there's a quote that I just think, I think
- 16:42you need to write this down because I want to remember this
- 16:45and I know you do too. So listen to this.
- 16:47Jesus did not pray that his Father would take Christians out
- 16:50of the world, but that he would take the world out of
- 16:54Christians. I told you that was powerful.
- 16:57So right now as I'm talking about this, I wonder has the
- 17:01Holy Spirit taking his finger and as he laid it on an area in
- 17:05your life and he's saying that's not the best, that's not what
- 17:12God wants for you, You're not putting God first.
- 17:15I want you to turn away from this sin and put it away.
- 17:19I know that God has been dealing with me even in the last few
- 17:22days with things saying, come on, if you want to be close to
- 17:26Him, if you want to have that nearness, that fellowship, that
- 17:29peace you want once had, these little things here and there, or
- 17:34big things that they may even be, you need to put them off.
- 17:37You need to turn from them. OK #3 #3 What is the third sign
- 17:43that you are not putting God first?
- 17:46Well, it's very simple. You love something more than
- 17:50Jesus Christ. I told you these signs are
- 17:52obvious, but you love something more than Jesus Christ.
- 17:55So let's get to the bottom of it.
- 17:57What is that thing? Let's get the Bibles out.
- 18:01Let's flick across to John chapter 21.
- 18:05John chapter 21. Now, some of you know that I
- 18:09actually did cover this. I did an entire Bible study on
- 18:13John 21. So if you missed that, I'll give
- 18:16you a link in a moment where you can find it.
- 18:18But just listen to this because I do think that this is very,
- 18:21very important. OK, John chapter 21.
- 18:24I'm going to read verse 15. So when they'd eaten breakfast,
- 18:29Jesus said to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonah, do you love
- 18:34me more than these? Now I find that tremendous,
- 18:40tremendously interesting because he's saying he's not only saying
- 18:43do you love me, but he's saying, do you love me more than these?
- 18:47And theologians for centuries have argued about what are the
- 18:51these that he's talking about? So here he is, Simon Peter.
- 18:54He's gone out fishing. Is Jesus pointing to the fishing
- 18:58boat, to the Nets behind him? Simon Peter, you've, you've, I
- 19:02called you to be a minister. I called you to to be a Fisher
- 19:06of men. And now you've gone back to
- 19:07fishing for fish again. Do you love me more than your
- 19:10recreation? Do you love me more than your
- 19:12work than fishing, Peter? Or is he saying, do you love me
- 19:18more than these? These are the disciples, you
- 19:22know Peter's story well. At one time, Peter would have
- 19:24puffed his chest out and said, even if all the other guys, even
- 19:28if all of these deny you, I won't deny you.
- 19:31I love you. I'm, I'm, I'm the one who will,
- 19:34who will follow you? I'm, I'm the greatest disciple.
- 19:36Peter, can you really say these kinds of things now?
- 19:40Can you really exaggerate right now and say that you love me
- 19:43more than these after you've just denied me three Times Now,
- 19:46my friend, I want you to use your imagination again.
- 19:50I want you to think of a sports * someone who is really at the
- 19:53top of their game, really the best of it.
- 19:56Now, if you're a football fan, if you're or soccer, you might
- 20:00think of someone like Cristiano Ronaldo or Messi.
- 20:03I can't think of any American footballers.
- 20:07I'm not familiar with that sport.
- 20:09Tim Tebow is the only one I know.
- 20:11Or basketball. Maybe you think of Steve Nash.
- 20:14Is he 1? Jason Robin.
- 20:16Jason Robinson, was he one or am I thinking of a different sport?
- 20:19You know, I know obviously Kobe Bryant, you've got Michael
- 20:22Jordan, these kind of guys. There was another guy called
- 20:24Carmelo some somebody as well. Anyway, think of a sports star,
- 20:28whatever it is, get that sports star in your minds.
- 20:30Tiger Woods right now. If we again took the camera and
- 20:35we followed that person, what would we see them do?
- 20:38Someone like Cristiano Ronaldo, I've seen him before, He wakes
- 20:41up at like really early in the morning, five, 6:00 in the
- 20:45morning. He has one of these cold
- 20:47plunges. He goes and he studies the
- 20:49sport. He watches football.
- 20:52He then goes to the gym and he lifts all of these weights.
- 20:54He's he. And then he goes back and has a
- 20:56nap. He has something like 5 naps.
- 20:58You know, you watch these different sports stars.
- 21:01You'd see Tiger Woods swinging that Golf Club.
- 21:04You'd watch them over and over again and even just a couple of
- 21:07hours into the day it wouldn't be hard to realise what is it
- 21:10that this man or this woman, what is it they live for?
- 21:15And it's the same thing for you and I.
- 21:17You know, it really has made me think, what would people think
- 21:20if they watched me right now? My week?
- 21:24What do I live for? What's the first thing I do when
- 21:28I wake up? Yes, I read the Bible, but am I
- 21:31doing it for long enough? Am I rushing it so I can get on
- 21:34with other things? Do I love the Lord Jesus Christ
- 21:38more than my hobbies, more than my work, my YouTube?
- 21:43Do I love the Lord Jesus Christ more than my friends, more than
- 21:47my wife, more than my children? That is a very, very, very
- 21:51difficult. Do I love him more than my
- 21:54children? Do I love him more than anything
- 21:56else? Well, the Lord Jesus Christ, we
- 21:59know with Peter, Peter's love wasn't perfect.
- 22:02He did love him, but it wasn't perfect.
- 22:05And actually I'm not very good at pronouncing Greek words, but
- 22:09it was that Philly Philia love. It was a fond devotion he had
- 22:13for him. It was a 60% love.
- 22:17It wasn't, you know, I'm obsessed with you.
- 22:20I'm totally smitten by you, Jesus.
- 22:22But he had a fond affection for him.
- 22:25And yet Jesus said that's enough, I'm going to give you
- 22:28one of the greatest privileges. I'm going to make you one of my
- 22:31shepherds. I'm going to take you and I'm
- 22:33going to use you greatly. And my dear friends, let us just
- 22:37check. Let's search our hearts and see.
- 22:39Do we have the Lord God first? Because the reality is this, and
- 22:44this is something again, I'm realizing you can't.
- 22:47The man who chases 2 rabbits catches none.
- 22:51And you and I, we can't think that we can invest into this.
- 22:55Invest into sport, invest into money, invest into work, invest
- 23:00into family, invest into friends.
- 23:02We can't think we can have our finger in all of these different
- 23:04pies and then somehow have a good relationship with God.
- 23:09No, there's only enough room in our heart for one thing.
- 23:13There's only enough love for for one thing.
- 23:15And that is why we've got to put God first.
- 23:18Yes, that love might not be perfect at times.
- 23:20Yes, we might make a mess. But we need to do everything we
- 23:23can to make sure that He is on the throne and that He must
- 23:27increase and I must decrease. And all my desires and all the
- 23:30things I want, they've just got to go lesser and lesser.
- 23:34And it's all about putting Him first.
- 23:37Guys, I know it's been a bit of a challenging one, but I have
- 23:40enjoyed this. If you did for any reason miss
- 23:43my study on John 21, it's quite a detailed one.
- 23:47It's even more detailed than this.
- 23:48I think you'll find it helpful. So please do click here,
- 23:52especially if you've got some more coffee.
- 23:54You, that's the sign. That's sign #4 that you need to
- 23:57watch this video. God bless you all and thank you
- 24:00for your friendship and love on this channel.