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- 0:03A program to share. Drives Daniel Linsonic Friday Vitrice to fourteen hours on Radio
- 0:13Trentopics Stories. I' ve taken it the gold The rooster will come.
- 0:46I write without thinking, without thinking where I know bows or we differ his
- 1:07sabre x fu flames. I already know how we' re married. Those
- 1:12pictures are good afternoon. Dear friends, how are you starting a new afternoon
- 1:21of telling you from the most lacking studio of Radio treintopic the Radio Transmedia number
- 1:27one of Argentina accompany me in the operation and musicalization. Juan Greco How about,
- 1:34John, everything is already available, Dear friends, to leave us messages.
- 1:41The eleven twenty- six, forty- two, twenty forty- two
- 1:46and from the outside, before setting the prefix fifty- four nine and just
- 1:53repeating this cell eleven twenty- six, forty- two, twenty forty-
- 1:57two. Well, today is a very special date in my family. Yeah,
- 2:02well, they' re all involved. Fifty years ago, two souls
- 2:10met and decided to continue together the path of life. Yes, fifty years
- 2:17ago I met my other side, my complement. For that reason, this
- 2:24program is dedicated to Helena, my lady Yes, which I do not know
- 2:30what would have been of my life. I often ask, but she doesn
- 2:34' t answer me. Looks like we' re doing fine so far,
- 2:3850 years. Let' s throw a little more and then the rest came.
- 2:42Why it' s a wedding anniversary. Then came marriage daughter family,
- 2:46all fast. Uh, I don' t know it was many years,
- 2:51or anything like that, but beautiful, beautiful magical moments have happened to us.
- 2:58Yeah, I had to pick again. And I don' t think
- 3:04we' ve chosen each other. I believe that, as God says,
- 3:06it creates us, the wind blows and souls come together. That' s
- 3:10who we are. So, for this reason I thought this program was good
- 3:16to explore the theme of love, the power of love with varied expressions.
- 3:23Yes, on the one hand we will look seriously at the explanation of the
- 3:29types of love, the emotion of the stories and much more. One of
- 3:34the musical pauses that has to do with the subject today and that they will
- 3:38listen to is included the Korean version of the Secret Garden series. I recommend
- 3:45that series is not to make trouble, it is to enjoy life and it
- 3:52is called urn my Ivery Synke, so at some point it will start to
- 3:57sound after my words within the program and it is dedicated to my lady Yes,
- 4:06how well I arrived here and I did not get excited. I'
- 4:09m holding the tears. What is love, ma' am? Yes,
- 4:15ma' am, what is love? The dictionary of the Royal Spanish Academy
- 4:19defines love as an intense feeling of the human being who, starting from his
- 4:27own insufficiency, needs to seek the encounter and union with another being feelings towards
- 4:34another person that naturally attracts us and that, seeking reciprocity in the desire of
- 4:41Union, completes us with joy and energy to live together, communicate and create.
- 4:49There is much talk about the different types of love and here we have
- 4:55tried to bring Socrates together with some psychologists of this age and they agree on
- 5:01something. The six types of ludos soneros love, storsh mania, pragma and
- 5:10agape the heroes. It' s about passion love or romantic love. It
- 5:15is characterized by the appearance of a high passion, a highly sexualized love in
- 5:21which there is a great emotional intensity, with a need to spend time together,
- 5:28to have intimacy. Ludus is a love based on sex, where there
- 5:34is no commitment. In this archetype we find open or fluid relationships, in
- 5:43which there is no exclusivity with another person. Storge is a kind of love
- 5:49that is built slowly and calmly, governed by commitment. Sexual intercourse and passion
- 5:57are not the most important thing. We' d say it' s friendly
- 6:02love. Mania is a love that is lived in an intense and possessive way,
- 6:12it can generate a true obsession towards the person most loved to whom it
- 6:16is idealized. There is a high emotional dependence and often feelings of possession appear
- 6:26what it says in a chain of pision, of God of zeal frequently.
- 6:30I think we can apply this to all femicide situations and everything else that there
- 6:39is violence. Be that obsession with possessing the other pragma alludes to a highly
- 6:47pragmatic form of love, in which the interests, duty or beliefs of what
- 6:53has to be are above the sexual attraction, although it does not have to
- 6:59have disappeared that sexuality of the couple. It is easy to find this type
- 7:08in relationships that have taken many years of coexistence and in which the interests of
- 7:13both are prioritized against other components of love. Finally, make this archetype assume
- 7:19that the loved one is above his own interests. In a common way,
- 7:27feelings of sacrifice arise toward her. It is considered an intermediate love between eros
- 7:33and storg where one of the members of the couple gives everything for the other
- 7:40in an unselfish way, without expecting anything in return. It only matters that
- 7:48the other one is happy. The usual thing is that these loving relationships experience
- 7:59different kinds of love in their evolution. There' s nothing totally pure.
- 8:03It is changing and that people can live one or several types of love throughout
- 8:09their life in a relationship or in several. Now I ask you what you
- 8:16' re hearing with what kind of love do you identify yourself with? And
- 9:56they answered, they sent us a message to see what kind of love or
- 10:03what kind of love they identify with? You guys? Remember that you can
- 10:11write to us directly looking for eleven, twenty- six, forty- two,
- 10:16twenty forty- two, eleven, twenty- six, forty- two,
- 10:20twenty forty- two, with what kind of love do you identify yourself?
- 10:22Yeah, well, Sylvia Fesquet, a prestigious writer and columnist for Clarín
- 10:35newspaper, many years ago wrote a note about the truth of love. I
- 10:45liked it and I share it here. I share it with you. Someone
- 10:52can remember love is like wanting to conjure up the scented soul of roses in
- 11:01a basement. Leave it there you could see the rose, but perfume never
- 11:07and that' s the truth of things. Its perfume in search of that
- 11:15truth goes lovers and lovers in the most complete sense of the word, not
- 11:22in the pejorative meaning that gives it the ordinary use, alluding to the forbidden,
- 11:28lovers in its purest meaning, those who love, those who love.
- 11:37John Sennar said that the rub of two pieces of meat does not define the
- 11:43phenomenon of love, as well as the pink string by the finger does not
- 11:50explain the infinite miracle of sounds. And it is also in search of that
- 11:56melody that the dance of the bodies is set in motion, executing the eternal
- 12:00and unmistakable language of love. This is how these two complete half- beings
- 12:09of nothing are sought, hidden, coveted, bequeathed, inaugurated every night,
- 12:16every day what the first lovers discovered in the initiatory moment of humanity. And
- 12:26that' s most of it. It is the wonder we have every time
- 12:31is the first, every time it is unique, repeated and unrepeatable, different
- 12:41and equal, similar but different. Sistered with the unfathomable mystery of the human.
- 12:48No matter how many times we have looked into the abyss of love or
- 12:54how many dawns we have been surprised by repeating those words that spell and all
- 13:00together. Each new encounter will be a discovery, a new beginning will serve
- 13:09little what has been learned. We will have to rewrite the codes of sanctifying
- 13:18the path of bodies. They plotted a new human geography for hands to run
- 13:24and old like the world, gestures, words, looks. Everything will be
- 13:33as newly released as bone hocha mar o no o o o roso de vivir.
- 16:10Now be sold new living cho, I have won your baby from your
- 16:25self, your saint wins big or not, or or holy or going through
- 17:08literature texts, commentaries and so on. I have come across this text that
- 17:15I am going to share with you of Sorian palm referring to the literature source
- 17:23of knowledge and sensitivity. It says so. Some consider idle and useless the
- 17:32time we spend reading a book, but that is an opinion far removed from
- 17:37reality. I am a reader at hours of those that arrive in the early
- 17:44hours of the morning and can not take off from the story. I still
- 17:49remember the last book I read from Chilean writer Isabel Allende. One of my
- 17:56favorites is called Paula, fabulous novel, guilty of my nights of insomnium and
- 18:04that I dropped my hair a little. Yes, that was the result of
- 18:10the empathy I achieved with each character. Precisely literature helps us to be empathetic,
- 18:18to understand the suffering of others and to enjoy with every moment of joy.
- 18:25So it happened to me also with the work of what the wind took
- 18:30away and that strong character, Scarlett O' Hara, who helped me understand
- 18:36how many times the blows of life can embitter people, but the determination to
- 18:41get ahead makes you overcome every obstacle you encounter on the way. That'
- 18:51s why I think literature makes us better people. It is impressive how a
- 18:56work written hundreds of years ago can have so much virginity and give us so
- 19:02many lessons. There we have the texts of José Martí, for example,
- 19:07or the book of the prince of Antoindesan is super Literature will never make us
- 19:15lose. On the contrary, it allows us to win. Yes, winning,
- 19:22gaining knowledge and sensitivity to better understand the society in which we live.
- 20:00I didn' t know it was gonna happen one day. I knew that
- 21:10I was going to end up knocking on that door and that night I simply
- 21:18knocked the doorbell had come all the way there as flocked by an unknown will.
- 21:25The house is more or less like I imagined it, a neighborhood house
- 21:29in floresta, with a garden in front, with two or three masons and
- 21:33a garden dwarf. He went out to open me up in his pajamas.
- 21:41It was cold, I had an over- all on my shoulders. I
- 21:45told him my name and he wasn' t surprised on the contrary, he
- 21:52could have sworn he was waiting for me. I had knocked on the doorbell
- 21:56without thinking that I was coming to tell him, not even knowing if I
- 22:04was coming to tell him something, I didn' t have the best excuse
- 22:08to be in that house at ten o' clock at night. The situation
- 22:11was uncomfortable and absurd. He asked me to come and wait for him,
- 22:18that he was going to change. I told him not to bother, he
- 22:22was fine. Like this. I just forgot to add that they could dress
- 22:29as they wanted, that at the end of the day, it was Carolina
- 22:36' s husband and that this was his home. We went to the kitchen.
- 22:42He invited me with a mate. I said yes, drinking mate was
- 22:48a way to stay quiet, to give yourself time, and he remembered that
- 22:56Carolina, with all her softness and manners in the morning, sometimes also took
- 23:02mate. She was very funny sucking the lightbulb from the side of her mouth
- 23:08as if she was playing the protagonist of a tango lyrics. I used to
- 23:17take math with a thinking face. I had seen her at night in my
- 23:22apartment, while she was thinking of biting a pencil when she drew me one
- 23:30of those maps or maps of places and houses where I had lived in Chica
- 23:37and of those I always suspected never existed or not in the stories she told.
- 23:45Well, yeah, I' d looked at that unprotected absent face many
- 23:52times too, nakedr than her body, but I' d never looked at
- 23:57her in the morning. While Calorina sucked when she said she would surely wonder
- 24:07what she came to, she replied that he didn' t ask too many
- 24:12questions and always knew that one day we were going to meet. He smiled
- 24:22with his eyes fixed on the mate and what we saw. I don'
- 24:29t know. I told him I was curious. I can see that.
- 24:36He muttered We talked about politics. I' ll tell you a story that
- 24:42the night paper brought, the news of a crime. We' re talking
- 24:48about winter' s inclementness in Buenos Aires. We' re not talking about
- 24:52Carolina. At some point he asked me if I wanted to see some pictures.
- 25:00“ It’ s a little late,” he said. Standing up,
- 25:07he came out of the kitchen and left me alone. I took advantage
- 25:12of the truce to observe around me. I tried to imagine Carolina next to
- 25:18that counter or on tops, trying to reach a saucepan, a kettle.
- 25:27Maybe it was something like that that I' d come looking for in that
- 25:33house and on one of the walls. I saw two very small squares.
- 25:38I got up to look closely at them. They didn' t tell me
- 25:45anything like knowing if she hung them up how to know if they meant anything.
- 25:49The day he chose them. When he came back in, he was
- 25:57carrying a cardboard box. He sat a little away from me and caught up
- 26:03with the first photograph, Carolina alone. Behind some trees that could be a
- 26:11square or a park. He dismissed several and caught up to me with other
- 26:19Carolinas alone kneeling beside a dog upside down. He looked at three or four
- 26:25more. One of them very carefully, put them under the rest in the
- 26:30bottom of the box and reached me another Carolina alone. Then I understood something
- 26:40absurd. I felt that man didn' t want to hurt me This one
- 26:45' s cute. He said Carolina next to a mailbox laughed yes, I
- 26:52said without thinking about it. It was hard to see her laugh like that.
- 27:00You' re not in any of the ones you showed me. I
- 27:03told you ah understand, you were the one taking the picture. It'
- 27:10s pretty much everything I remember or everything that happened that night. I told
- 27:15him I had to go and he walked me to the entrance door, not
- 27:21to the gate. It was at that moment that he told me the story
- 27:29of the dwarf who had it. Carolina had bought it a year ago,
- 27:34you know what she was like. He said he wasn' t sure he
- 27:40knew her very much.“ That is true,” the pensive said.
- 27:45I don' t think there was anyone who really knew her when she was
- 27:53already clearing the gate lock. Or his voice behind my back was very beautiful.
- 28:00It' s not true that I went out and closed the fence and
- 28:07answered him since the coming. Yes, she was very beautiful and I walked
- 28:12away with the feeling that she had been there. He felt the perfume of
- 28:19his body in the air. It was the least you will trust me with
- 28:38what I feel so much like, what the winner gives me the most were
- 28:45what I always repeat to myself that, so I bring the smartest, the
- 28:56most beautiful air Sok tell us the masks, what I can, what I
- 29:06don' t want to Lose is more than you guess once lit up an
- 29:11imminent danger. I like you because you scare me why you can' t
- 29:18help it. I like why you' re a witch, why do you
- 29:22play dreams? I like you because you tempt me to take me to your
- 29:26land. I like why you ask for the crack in it gave me that
- 29:45I least condemn what I want so much, what I want the most.
- 29:52I have to say that I always repeat myself that so I toast the smartest,
- 29:57prettiest and dis already tell me the letters, I can miss it what
- 30:06I don' t want to lose baby you are more than you guess.
- 30:11A mescha on, a danger imminent and said I like you because it scares
- 30:18me because it has no remedy. I like it by stubborn park tera putting
- 30:22so the sodium s I like you because you tempt me to take me to
- 30:26your terredor. I like why you hit yourself with a half- stripe.
- 30:33O O O O O O O O that the wagons tell us, is
- 31:11missing and how we are doing well. Well, you may have noticed here
- 31:18in the last few shows with great joy. With great joy our professional columnists
- 31:27have been incorporated, what they want to share with you, your professions,
- 31:38your experiences. And, well, today it kicks in for a series of
- 31:51notes. Alejandra Faena. Alejandra Faena, you know. We' ve been
- 32:01talking to her, we' ve reported her. He presented his book and
- 32:07invited him and accepted it. He accepted this, I do not say challenge,
- 32:14but yes, this proposal, that is, what you do is good,
- 32:19what you do. Help people. You share it. She said yes,
- 32:25I share, so I will leave you with Alejandra Faena, yoga teacher,
- 32:32meditation teacher, with her first contribution to tell you. Let' s
- 32:49hear it Hi, I' m telling you. I am Alefaena, professor
- 32:52of rope, meditation, writer, to the first present book conscience and here
- 32:59I will leave you a reflection. That' s interesting to me. We
- 33:10in life come to an evolution, a spiritual evolution, and we generally go
- 33:20through suffering, distress, good things, bad things. What happens to greater
- 33:29suffering means that we have less understanding of things. Then, when we have
- 33:40greater spiritual understanding, we acquire more inner peace. And when we have more
- 33:50inner peace, we acquire more vital energy. This is a triangle. Imagine
- 33:55it this way at one spiritually understood tip, at the other inner peace and
- 34:05above vital energy. This is how it works. Greater spiritual understanding, greater
- 34:14inner peace, greater vital energy can also work backwards. We have less vital
- 34:21energy, less inner space and less spiritual understanding, I leave this reflection for
- 34:30you to observe, only so that you can think about this subject and see
- 34:39where each of you is just how good it is, we will have more
- 34:51input from arij Andra a very good teacher. Love tales possess a unique magic.
- 35:07They are able to transport us to worlds where romance intertwines with reality,
- 35:13showing us love in its many facets, exploring deep emotions, desires and dreams
- 35:21and inviting us to reflect on our own loving experiences, from the initial spark
- 35:29of attraction to the deep bonds forged by years of shared intimacy. These tales
- 35:37capture the essence of relationships with sincerity and elegance, and so we are going
- 35:45to start one of those tales, called under the moon of Paris, in
- 35:55a Paris dressed in gala by the flashes of sunset, walked to his thirst,
- 36:01a woman whose beauty lay in the subtlety of his smile and in the
- 36:07riddle that enclosed his eyes. Small brown colour and slender figure. Every step
- 36:13he took seemed to follow the beat of an old waltz that still resonated in
- 36:19the city' s sadoquins, the breeze of March, waving against his short
- 36:24brown hair, as he passed by the painters who, as it is said
- 36:31every afternoon, mined by mon matre seeking to capture the only light of the
- 36:37city. His thirst expert in antiques admired the brushstrokes on the canvas. As
- 36:45one who recognizes fragments of history in the objects he restores, meanwhile on the
- 36:52terrace of a nearby café Alexander, a writer of restless look and rebellious hair,
- 37:00ensnared, observed the crowd with curiosity, insight, his heart faithful to,
- 37:07ink and paper. He had evaded deep compromises for fear that they would
- 37:14chain his dream soul. That night, fate would warp their centuries. Under
- 37:20the moon of Paris, Alexander saw his thirst and a whisper of inspiration roused
- 37:25his mind. He followed her with his gaze, recording every moment every detail
- 37:32of her presence. He mentally plotted phrase descriptions dialogues. Only when she got
- 37:40out of sight, did she return to her notebook and write furiously. A
- 37:47few days later, in a box office opened by literary evenings, they met
- 37:54face to face their thirst attracted by that announcement of a new novel and alexanderd
- 38:01waiting nervously in the public reaction. When his eyes crossed, something vibrated in
- 38:09the air like a tense rope that finally gives away your gaze seems familiar to
- 38:16me. We' ve met before. Suset asked feeling unexplainedly captivated by that
- 38:24man of intense gaze only in my dreams that tend to preempt reality. Alexander
- 38:34responded with a cautious smile. My name is Alexander. Nice to meet you.
- 38:43They chatted casually, but each word weaved a deeper connection. Sucete found
- 38:51in Alexander a sensitivity that resonated with his love for the old and the forgotten.
- 38:58Alexander, for his part, leaves and covers himself imagining stories where Sucet
- 39:01was not just a character, but a co- author. According to the
- 39:08leaves of the trees began to regreen their encounters became usual. They walked through
- 39:15the gardens of Luxembourg, shared evenings, where the music of diet piaf enveloped
- 39:22them and the boom came old des teba. Confessions believe in fate. Alexander
- 39:29asked his set one night, contemplating the reflection of the moon on the Seine.
- 39:37I believe in a destiny that is written with the decisions we make.
- 39:42He answered by taking his hand delicately. The petals of the cherry trees fell
- 39:49like snowflakes Rosada and Paris, once again, played witness to rising love.
- 39:57Sucet and Alexandred discovered in every conversation, in every complicit silence to a person
- 40:04with whom they wished to share more than you look at chance. One evening
- 40:09while they were walking through a used book market. Sucet found a copy of
- 40:15Le Petit Prince, opened it and read it quietly. The essential is invisible
- 40:23to the eyes Alexander, and if that which is not seen is what has
- 40:30united us, then we are seeing with the whispering heart, Alexander looking at
- 40:39it with tenderness. As the autumn came painting the Parisian canvas, the relationship
- 40:45between his set and Alexander flourished in love beyond the effervescence of a passing passion.
- 40:58A fierce night in November, sheltered by their hugs and hot coffee vapors,
- 41:02Alexander Sermo of courage happened I have traveled countless pages, but only in
- 41:12you I have found the chapter that I do not want to finish. You
- 41:16' d be the co- author of my life. The answer to his
- 41:21set was a kiss called shared promises and dreams. As the Moon conjoined them
- 41:28with its magic light, winter brought with it the snow and under its white
- 41:34mantle, Alexander and his set crossed the door of a new stage, an
- 41:39intimate wedding in a small library of Ruth' s opening surrounded by books and
- 41:45the warm glow of candles. And so as the seasons changed and Paris continued
- 41:54its ceaseless dance of lights and shadows. Two souls in n N in n
- 41:59r RS. The perfect rhythm for their hearts and I tell you it published
- 42:07Abraham Tells tales ara living all salt madness, showing ws independence or own heart
- 42:40would have done another work nothings I or his bay this sober bus we love
- 43:04me more me, I so much that give me honey you continue to stop
- 43:16again Daneas, I do not love plateaun quelle we go here to sea again
- 43:34not prepared, neoprevosé pica. Again it is crowning that we two build Ohara
- 43:44chavo and between four nofa pairs censor how many things his thinks me proud softness.
- 43:54So, it is that it is discovered in time or not fun anymore.
- 44:25Love, let' s go here for another time. Help the heart
- 44:44to take so many things so hope more sometimes how about friends, how they
- 46:04walk good. Today, through emotions and so on, we are arriving here
- 46:12minutes away from closing the program. I' ve been short of material.
- 46:20I have to be honest. There are some expressions I' m going to
- 46:35share with you and see what we play and remember from eleven twenty- six,
- 46:42forty- two dointe forty- two to share what you think. It
- 46:45is not necessary to agree with the speaker. That' s just expressing what
- 46:52you guys are about is getting out. They saw that we are now in
- 46:55the stage of getting out, pulling us out of the window, but well
- 47:02let' s not be so aggressive. Let' s get things out of
- 47:07the word here of John laughs at one of the expressions I' m looking
- 47:15for to share with you, I find one that says so be soft.
- 47:23Don' t let the world harden you. Don' t let the pain
- 47:29make you resentful. Don' t let bitterness take peace and warmth away from
- 47:37your soul, The nobility gives your heart. These thoughts apply to all and
- 47:53to all times, because in the course of our life. We spent,
- 48:04as I said before, many happy and not so happy moments. Then what
- 48:16' s going on? Many times the question comes when something happens wrong,
- 48:23why me, why it touched me, what I' m to blame for
- 48:29what I did. And that' s where we started to harden. Generally,
- 48:37things can' t be explained, but they happen because there' s
- 48:45a causality. Life is going to bring her back at one point in time,
- 48:51the good thing the bad. You remember that time we talked about the
- 48:54phrase everything happens, which is my phrase right now. This is so.
- 49:02It' s not like saying everything happens. It is to be indifferent,
- 49:09because things, when they happen, know how they are solved based on our
- 49:15attitude. What an attitude we take in the face of what happens to us.
- 49:21If it' s good, like that story I shared with you of
- 49:28the king also has one. You have to remember that everything happens, so
- 49:30let us enjoy the present because why we call this moment, because it is
- 49:38a gift, it is a present that gives us life. The past and
- 49:45it' s over, we already live it, it' s already out
- 49:49there. Let' s not let that past hurt. Let' s close
- 49:58those wounds and the future. The future is uncertain, but it is exciting.
- 50:05Yeah, and I want to close this special show here, thinking about
- 50:20Elena, my wife and I, and here I got excited. What happened
- 50:32was nice, it was strong, too. There were also moments that life
- 50:44wanted to break us, but it could not, because we had an attitude
- 50:55at every moment of looking at us, holding hands and going forward. The
- 51:04present is very good and the future is good, guys, the future I
- 51:15tell you when it happens. I' ll wait for you next Friday.
- 51:19Here at three hours we are going to have more news, more new topics,
- 51:24new columnists. And May. The big change is coming in May.
- 51:30Good week and I' ll wait for you. Friday was a tentado of
- 52:02the marriage you