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Checking In · Black Girl Interrupted Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Oh shoot, hey, Uh black Girl, y'all already know how.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all already know how Black Black Girl? Man? And man?
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  Speaker 2: What's up everybody? Oh shoot, y'all, I'm about to knock
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  Speaker 2: everything down, y'all. Welcome back to another episode of Black
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  Speaker 2: Girl Interrupted. Yes it is a girl ash. I am back.
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  Speaker 2: I am back. I am back. I am back. I
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  Speaker 2: know y'all miss me because I miss y'all. Let me.
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  Speaker 2: Let me go ahead and keep it a buck. I missed, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: like I really truly did. But Uh, life gets in
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  Speaker 2: the way. Technology doesn't work for you like you wanted to.
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  Speaker 2: But we back, we back, we back, we back, we back.
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  Speaker 2: We're back, we back. But tonight tonight is not a
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  Speaker 2: long show. Tonight is just I'm just checking it tonight.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just checking in with y'all. I just want to
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  Speaker 2: know how y'all are doing. Happy Wednesday. Damn, it feels
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  Speaker 2: good to be back. It really truly does. It feels
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  Speaker 2: good to be back in front of the camera. It
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  Speaker 2: feels good to be back in my space because man,
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  Speaker 2: I don't even think y'all understand man like your girl
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  Speaker 2: has really I been going through it, y'all, like I
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  Speaker 2: really truly have been going through it. But you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I'm back and I'm ready and I'm back. I'm back,
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  Speaker 2: I'm back. I'm I'm like. I don't think y'all understand.
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  Speaker 2: They're gonna my sister Jeordey. I just got the phone
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  Speaker 2: with her. Oh shit, hey baby, Hey my baby. But yes,
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  Speaker 2: your girl's back, y'all. Don't mind the nails they coming off.
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  Speaker 2: Don't even worry about it. But I'm back for tonight.
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  Speaker 2: This is this is just a checking That's all it is.
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  Speaker 2: That's all we doing tonight. We just we checking in.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know how y'all are doing today. It's Wednesday,
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  Speaker 2: it's hot day, it's wellness Wednesday, it's whatever you want
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  Speaker 2: to call it, wind down Wednesday, wind it up Wednesday,
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  Speaker 2: whatever y'all want to call it. But tonight, I just
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  Speaker 2: want to check in with y'all. I just want to
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  Speaker 2: love on y'all for just a moment. I just want
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  Speaker 2: to catch y'all up on everything that's been going on
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  Speaker 2: with me, the new things that I have coming for
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  Speaker 2: a black girl. Interrupted. Yes, I'm still doing my mental
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  Speaker 2: health checkings. I mean, it's we're here, We here, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm just grateful. That I'm back in front of this camera.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just grateful to be back in my space that
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  Speaker 2: I I've created. I'm just happy to just be here.
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  Speaker 2: I thank God for that, you know. I'm I had
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  Speaker 2: to remember who I was, I had to remember what
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  Speaker 2: this journey was about anyway. And I've had a month,
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  Speaker 2: almost two months to really just kind of collectively get
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  Speaker 2: it together. I've had two months to really focus. I've
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  Speaker 2: had two months to really get my mind back in
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  Speaker 2: this beautiful space that I've created, not only for me,
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  Speaker 2: but for y'all, you know. So that's all we doing tonight.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to check the temperature. I want to
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  Speaker 2: see where everybody is, how y'all feeling. But before we
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  Speaker 2: do that, y'all know, I got to do my mental
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  Speaker 2: health check ins. Y'all know I gotta I have to
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  Speaker 2: do it, y'all see this down at the bottom. I
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  Speaker 2: gotta do my mental health check ins. I need to
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  Speaker 2: make sure y'all are good because I've noticed that some
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  Speaker 2: of y'all. Y'all, y'all mentalness is some of y'all not
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  Speaker 2: in a good space right now. Some of y'all are
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  Speaker 2: needing a hug. Some of y'all are needing a little
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  Speaker 2: extra love. Some of y'all are still recovering and trying
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  Speaker 2: to recruit from the hurricane that we had here in Houston.
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  Speaker 2: Let me, before I even address that, shout out to
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  Speaker 2: everybody that has reached out to me, people that have called,
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  Speaker 2: people that have text people that have said messages. I
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  Speaker 2: do appreciate that, but I personally, I had to take
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  Speaker 2: a step back. I had to step away because I
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  Speaker 2: had to. I felt like my peace was being disturbed
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  Speaker 2: and interrupted, and I can't have that, so I have
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  Speaker 2: to take a step back. I have taken time off
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  Speaker 2: from work. I have been off work since June the tenth.
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  Speaker 2: I actually go back August the first am. I looking
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  Speaker 2: forward to it now, but Bill's got to be paid.
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  Speaker 2: My sisters say, mentally, I'm in a great space, and
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  Speaker 2: that's a beautiful thing. I love to know that everyone
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  Speaker 2: is in a great space. But let me go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do this mental health check in, and then I
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  Speaker 2: want to finish you with my check in with y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I just I need to just love on y'all for
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  Speaker 2: a minute, and then I want to talk about what's
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  Speaker 2: to come for Black Girl interrupted because I got to
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  Speaker 2: come back with a vengeance. I've been seeing some things
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  Speaker 2: on social media that I really want to address. I
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  Speaker 2: want to address that today because we clear in the air.
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  Speaker 2: To day, we clear in the air. We're putting it
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  Speaker 2: out there and then we're moving forward because I got
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  Speaker 2: some beautiful things coming. But before we even jump into that,
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  Speaker 2: Britany says, mentally, I am better, and you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean. I am in the gym five days a
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  Speaker 2: week and slimming down. I am backing my Bible, doing
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  Speaker 2: my shadow work to hell properly. My kids are flourishing
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  Speaker 2: and things are getting better. I'm getting back to me
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  Speaker 2: and I'm loving it here. That's the way it should
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  Speaker 2: always be. I want people to stop putting their needs
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  Speaker 2: on the back burner for other people. I'm doing that.
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  Speaker 2: But let's do this mental health check in and then
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna get back into this, Okay. So I want
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  Speaker 2: y'all everybody the whole day thoughts. I want to do
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  Speaker 2: my mental health check in and then I want to
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  Speaker 2: get back into our checking in tonight because it's just
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  Speaker 2: some things I have to address. It is some things
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  Speaker 2: that I have to get off my chest. It may
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  Speaker 2: rattle and ruffle some feathers. But it is whatever it is,
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  Speaker 2: you know. But I'm gonna address some things and then
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  Speaker 2: we're moving on. But let's let's jump into this mental
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  Speaker 2: health check in right now. I want to motivate somebody.
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  Speaker 2: I want to push somebody. I want to encourage somebody.
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  Speaker 2: I want to empower somebody, and want to uplift somebody
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  Speaker 2: because I know right now somebody's in the midst of
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  Speaker 2: their storm. I know somebody's going through something right now.
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  Speaker 2: I know people have gone through things. I know people
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  Speaker 2: are still going through things, and I'm seeing a lot
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  Speaker 2: of y'all crashing out. So let me before your fall
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  Speaker 2: off the ledge, let me pull your back up. But
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  Speaker 2: here we go, and we're gonna keep it rolling.
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  Speaker 3: It's very very simple to get what you want.
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  Speaker 2: But it's not easy.
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  Speaker 3: It's your job to make yourself do the crap you
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  Speaker 3: don't want to do so you can be everything that
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  Speaker 3: you're supposed to be. And you're so damn busy waiting
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  Speaker 3: to feel like it, and you're never going to.
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  Speaker 2: Ever.
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  Speaker 3: No one's coming, no one. No one's coming to push you.
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  Speaker 3: No one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off,
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  Speaker 3: no one's coming to tell you to get out the
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  Speaker 3: door and exercise. Nobody's coming to tell you to apply
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  Speaker 3: for that job that you've always dreamt about. Nobody's coming
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  Speaker 3: to write the business plan for you. It's up to you.
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  Speaker 3: And because you're only ever going to do the things
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  Speaker 3: that you feel like doing right now, or that feel
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  Speaker 3: good right now, unless you understand that, you've got to
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  Speaker 3: part yourself. You gotta push yourself. You're not gonna make
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  Speaker 3: your dreams come true.
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  Speaker 4: If you want to live your best life, your absolutely
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  Speaker 4: best life, you gotta give me a huge faper.
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  Speaker 5: You gotta watch them choices you make. People make bad choices.
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  Speaker 5: They wake up, they's making enough bad choice. They make
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  Speaker 5: it that bad choice.
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  Speaker 4: Now they gotta happy to bad choices right, and they.
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  Speaker 5: Like, how did I get year? Choices?
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  Speaker 2: How do I get year?
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  Speaker 6: You trying to get to.
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  Speaker 4: Certain places, but you ain't making the choices that's gonna
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  Speaker 4: get you there.
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  Speaker 5: You all your feelings.
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  Speaker 4: The problem is that most people, they like, they can't
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  Speaker 4: get up in the morning.
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  Speaker 5: They ain't got no energy. They don't got the energy
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  Speaker 5: to keep up with me. I'm like, boll ain't nothing
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  Speaker 5: wrong with you. You just ain't got the stablin though.
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  Speaker 5: You just ain't got the energy.
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  Speaker 4: You can't slot everything, you can't outthink everything. Some stuff
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  Speaker 4: is just you gotta be powerful. It's just some stuff
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  Speaker 4: that you gotta have sadin afore you're.
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  Speaker 5: Just too slow. It just take you too long.
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  Speaker 4: You wake up and take you three weeks to do
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  Speaker 4: what it can take twenty four hours to do. It
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  Speaker 4: don't make you a bad person, but you're gonna forever
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  Speaker 4: be average because to be great, you.
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  Speaker 5: Got to keep up. No alarm clock needed. My passion
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  Speaker 5: wakes me up. My drive wakes me up. My determination
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  Speaker 5: with my abilion to be is doing app whatever I want.
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  Speaker 5: It wakes me up. What wakes you up? What drives you?
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  Speaker 4: Why are you playing this game? You gotta begin with
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  Speaker 4: the end in mind. So whatever your dream, where your
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  Speaker 4: goal is, you gotta wake up every day too, which
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  Speaker 4: you gotta go to bed. Wige, aren't even hear what
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  Speaker 4: I'm telling you. You gotta read stuff, to music, you
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  Speaker 4: listen to everything you do. Gotta pour into that dream.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't get to where I have. I didn't get
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  Speaker 5: here being lazy. I didn't get here vins watching TV.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't get here taking days off. I personally know
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  Speaker 5: what it takes.
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  Speaker 4: One day, I made a decision that enough is enough.
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  Speaker 4: I'm tired of being average. I'm tired. I'm tired of
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  Speaker 4: being good.
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  Speaker 5: I'm tired. I made a decision. Enough is enough. It's
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  Speaker 5: show time.
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  Speaker 4: In order for you to go from one level to
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  Speaker 4: the next level. In order for any woman to transition,
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  Speaker 4: for any man to transition, the thing that they want
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  Speaker 4: must be greater than the thing they girly ask. You
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  Speaker 4: only transition from one level to the next.
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  Speaker 5: When you tied of the level you are.
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  Speaker 4: You don't belong at the bottom, and it's time for
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  Speaker 4: you to get your butt from down there. It's time
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  Speaker 4: for you to stop being comfortaboy at the buck, get
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  Speaker 4: your butt up and get your where you're supposed to be.
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  Speaker 5: Get you where you belong. Do what you're supposed to do,
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  Speaker 5: Live like you're supposed to live. You gotta kill every
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  Speaker 5: single day of my life.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like giving a hut of the pot every
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  Speaker 4: single day. I don't have days where I don't feel
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  Speaker 4: like it. Why Because I'm counting on me, My wife's
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  Speaker 4: counting on me, my son's counting on me.
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  Speaker 5: I don't have days the way and your grind has
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  Speaker 5: to match your dream. You can't play as much as
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  Speaker 5: you used to play. You can't go where you used
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  Speaker 5: to go. You can't do what you used to do.
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  Speaker 5: And now you got to pick your grind up. And
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  Speaker 5: I need you to wake up every single day. You
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  Speaker 5: can use your twenty four hours, but you've never used before.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, right, I want everyone dropping the comments. Let me
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  Speaker 2: know how you're feeling tonight. I know it's Wednesday. Hey
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  Speaker 2: my baby, Hey t Sha, I love you, And I'm
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  Speaker 2: doing my mental health check in and I'm doing this.
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  Speaker 2: I'm checking in with everybody because I want people to
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  Speaker 2: understand some things. Because I received a message from someone,
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  Speaker 2: I will not mention their name, but let me say this.
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  Speaker 2: When I'm going through things, when my mental is off,
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  Speaker 2: the best thing that I can do for myself and
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  Speaker 2: the people around me is to withdraw until I can
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  Speaker 2: come out of my dark space. I don't care how
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  Speaker 2: many times you call, how many times you send a text.
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  Speaker 2: If my mental is not where it needs to be,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not speaking. I'm not talking. So I want to
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  Speaker 2: address that first and foremost. Second of all, Hurricane Barrel
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  Speaker 2: took not only a toll on me, but my family. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: some of y'all aret affected by barrel the way my
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  Speaker 2: family was. So to receive messages of that sort, you
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  Speaker 2: can kiss my entire ana. And I'm gonna go ahead
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  Speaker 2: and see that my mother not only had one tree,
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  Speaker 2: but two trees that fell in her home, a house
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  Speaker 2: that I grew up in, the same house that had
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  Speaker 2: the trees. That moved a little further to the right,
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  Speaker 2: my son may have been killed. Had it moved a
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  Speaker 2: little bit closer to the left, my daughter could have
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  Speaker 2: possibly lost her life that day. So for anyone that
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  Speaker 2: is inconsiderate and not understanding that when I withdraw, it's
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  Speaker 2: not personal. It's for me because I had fallen off
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  Speaker 2: and I got to get back up. I understand all
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  Speaker 2: they say, Oh, it takes a village of people. But
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  Speaker 2: the messages that I received, y'all can kiss my ass
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  Speaker 2: on that. Truthfully, I really don't owe anyone to explanation.
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  Speaker 2: If I quit speaking to you, I'm gonna do whatever
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  Speaker 2: I can to protect my peace. So if that means
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  Speaker 2: not talking, if that means me not answering my phone,
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  Speaker 2: if that means me not responding to messages, it's not personal.
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  Speaker 2: Anyone that knows Ashley Dane Pitts, I'm gonna say my
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  Speaker 2: whole damn name anyone that knows me. You know how
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  Speaker 2: I get when I'm not in a good space. I
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  Speaker 2: have to take a step back. I have to realign
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  Speaker 2: and readjust my mind and my mental and then when
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  Speaker 2: I'm good, I'll be back. So anyone that has taken
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  Speaker 2: it personal, I'm sorry that you're taking it personally. But
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  Speaker 2: if I have not directly told you that, I don't
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  Speaker 2: deal with you, it is what it is. I made
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  Speaker 2: several posts about what happened. Then after Barrol came, a
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  Speaker 2: woman that was near and dear to my heart, who
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  Speaker 2: gave me the position to be a godparent to her
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  Speaker 2: only child, passes away. Then I turn around a week
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  Speaker 2: later and lose another friend. So I'm dealing with my
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  Speaker 2: mother trying to get things situated with her home. I'm
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  Speaker 2: dealing with three children who are displaced, and then I'm
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  Speaker 2: dealing with the death of not only one friend, but two,
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  Speaker 2: and then the fact that I've been struggling with my
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  Speaker 2: mental with my job. So the lack of empathy that
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  Speaker 2: I have received is sickening to me, especially to the
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  Speaker 2: people that I've been more than a friend to, to
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  Speaker 2: the people that I have helped, and all I get
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  Speaker 2: is a slap in the face because I'm not answering
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  Speaker 2: phone calls, because I'm not responding to text messages. I'll
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  Speaker 2: cut this fucking phone off, both of them, and I
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  Speaker 2: won't talk to nobody. But that's not in my character
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  Speaker 2: and that's not in my nature. Now, had you have
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  Speaker 2: caught the old Ashley, I probably would have cushed you
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  Speaker 2: out on social media. But you're suffering enough, You're going
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  Speaker 2: through enough. So all I'm gonna say to you and
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  Speaker 2: the other two people, I pray for you and your spirit.
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  Speaker 2: I pray that you never endure what I'm going through
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  Speaker 2: right now. Okay, that's all I must say. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: gonna say anything negative about anybody because then I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: block my blessings. But from the looks of everything that
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  Speaker 2: you post, your blessings are already being blocked. See how
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  Speaker 2: fast God works. Keep playing with me AnyWho. Enough of that,
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  Speaker 2: but back to this mental health checking. So anyway, so
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  Speaker 2: Bb says people are so insensitive, shaking my head. You
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  Speaker 2: even made a post about that. Absolutely, She'll say, you
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  Speaker 2: went through so much. I love you and I'm so
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  Speaker 2: glad you are better. You know, I'm here for you,
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  Speaker 2: and I appreciate that. See, some people don't understand what
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  Speaker 2: it's like when you're dealing with severe depression and severe anxiety.
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  Speaker 2: Some people have never experienced that. So when you've never
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  Speaker 2: experienced that, you can't tell a person how they should walk,
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  Speaker 2: how they should talk, how they should act. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: always do what's best for Ashley, and if I have
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  Speaker 2: to separate myself from people, then that's what the hell
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to do. Be mad if you want to baby,
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  Speaker 2: It better to be pissed off than to be pissed off,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna leave it at that. So I just
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  Speaker 2: want to check the temperature. Where is everybody at right now?
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  Speaker 2: I'm seeing people are going back and forth on social
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  Speaker 2: media about politics. I don't care who votes for who.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care what your political beliefs are, because that
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  Speaker 2: doesn't change mind. Y'all are on here tussling, and we
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  Speaker 2: got bigger things to worry about in the world than
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  Speaker 2: to worry about people in their political views. Okay, we
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  Speaker 2: have people out here that are homeless, we have people
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  Speaker 2: out here that are losing their jobs. We have people
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  Speaker 2: out here that are really in the midst are standing
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  Speaker 2: in the biggest storm of their lives that they have
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  Speaker 2: ever encountered. And all y'all want to do is go
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  Speaker 2: back and forth about who's voting for Trump and who's
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  Speaker 2: endorsing Kamala Harris. Y'all make me so fucking sick. I
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  Speaker 2: promise y'all do. I just have to say that, like
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  Speaker 2: y'all make me sick because we have bigger issues to
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  Speaker 2: worry about, then who's voting for who? And then y'all
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  Speaker 2: are unfriending people over different political views. Why do you
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  Speaker 2: think God made us well, he made us different. God
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  Speaker 2: didn't want everybody to be the same. But y'all are
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  Speaker 2: really trying to force people to be the same. You're
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  Speaker 2: trying to shove your political views down people's voices. Then
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  Speaker 2: you got people on here on social media that are
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  Speaker 2: still arguing over Drake and Kendrick Lamar. Neither one of
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  Speaker 2: those celebrities know y'all, But just so y'all know, I'm
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  Speaker 2: teen Kendrick AnyWho. But it's so many things out here
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  Speaker 2: that we really could be talking about. It's so many
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  Speaker 2: things that we could be really doing in the community,
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  Speaker 2: But y'all choose to get on social media and have
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  Speaker 2: a pinion of swinging contest about whose penis is bigger
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  Speaker 2: than the other, whose balls are bigger, who's more blacker
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  Speaker 2: than this person? And y'all get on my nerves. I'm
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  Speaker 2: sick of y'all. I am sick of the foolery that
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: y'all do. Can we really address some things that really
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: truly make sense? Can we talk about the countless Black
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: women that are losing their lives? Can we talk about
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: the countless Black men that are losing their lives? Can
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: we talk about addressing mental health? Can we address real
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: life issues instead of y'all slinging mud and tussling on
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: social media? Can we really address those things? That's what
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about. Can we talk about more love?
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Can we talk about these babies that every time you
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: turn on the news or losing their lives? Can we
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: address that? Can we talk about the woman that was
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: staunched by a man in Laurel, Mississippi? Can we talk
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: about that? Like? That's what I want. I want to
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: talk about things that really matter. Y'all save your political
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: shit for for a different time. Because I don't care
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: who you're voting for. I know who I'm voting for,
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: and that's all that matters. That's all I want to
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: talk about. Can we talk about how wonderful Black Girl
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Interrupted the podcast has been these last three years? Can
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: we really can we talk about that? Give your girl
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: her props, baby, I know her. I'm being I'm being conceited,
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I know, but I'm just checking in. I want to
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: know what's been going on with everybody, y'all. Let me
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: know what's been going on with y'all. How are y'all
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: feeling mentally? How are you feeling emotionally? How are you
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: feeling spiritually? How are you feeling physically? That's what I
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: want to talk about. Can we talk about this new
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: childish Gambino? I mean, that's what I want to talk about.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Can we talk about I just lost my train of thought?
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: So hold up, my niece, says, your baby says hot
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: t t Ashley. Which one? Because I got two of them?
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: And I hope it's not that Lebar because that Levo
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: works my last nerve. And I know when he be
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: cussing people out, they'll tell him watch his mouth. He
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: only two, y'all and bad. But that's my baby. I
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: bet you that's my Leva's baby, she'd say, baby, we
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: got big things coming, sign your assistant and we do.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: So that's what I want to talk about. I'm doing
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: this check in. I'm checking in with everybody. I want
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: to know how y'all are feeling. Y'all catch me up
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: on some things, because man, it's been hot out in
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: these neck of the woods. Man. Like I say, you
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: got people out here tussling by Kendrick and Drake. Who's
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: team Kendrick? You got team light skin versus team dark skin.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Y'all know, I prefer the brown. Hey, Ain't nothing wrong
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: with Drake. Hey, let me say that. But I'm just
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: I've always been a Kendrick fan. So what else has
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: been going on? Y'all? Let me know what's going on
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: with y'all? Like, oh, okay, so Bb says my big girl,
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: not the bad baby. Okay, all right, Hey, Raily, Hey Pudding,
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: We're not talking to your brother anyway, but let's check in,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: y'all drop in the comments. How are y'all doing? It
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: is Wednesday, It is wellness Wednesday. It's wedding, wild Wednesday,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: is wicked Wednesday, It's whatever y'all want to call them,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: my loves, It's Wednesday. We're two days away from the weekend.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: What do y'all have going on? Anybody that was affected
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: by Barrel?
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: My thoughts, prayers, condolences go out to you, guys. I
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: pray that your shape back is better. I do want
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: to kind of swing the conversation a little bit on
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Sonya Massey. I will be tapping into Marvel Nights to
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: speak on the unjust murder of Sonya Massey. I will
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: be addressing the Tyler Perry movie Divorcing Black because there
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: are some things in that movie that I want to
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: address and some of you women are not gonna like that.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Black Girl Interrupted will officially be back August the sixth.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I will be back in full swing, and I'm coming
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: back with a vengeance. I'm coming back with some conversations
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: that are going to shape the table. I'm coming back
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: with conversations that are warranted. I'm coming back with conversations
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: that you guys may or may not be ready for.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Some of them may make you uncomfortable, and that's the
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: whole point is to be uncomfortable. And I'm about to
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: make you real uncomfortable. I'm about to make it to
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a point where y'all aren't going to like me, maybe
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: some of you women, maybe some of you men. I
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: don't know, and I don't care because on Black Girl Interrupted,
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: it's unfiltered. It's needed in our community, especially in this
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: life and time that we're going through right now. I mean,
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: you look at the news and every time you turn around,
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: you see a mother on alive in her baby, or
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: you see a man un alive in a woman. And
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: I say black women in particular. I'm not saying white
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: women are not being un alive, but I'm speaking to
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: my black women. I'm speaking too black issues. You may
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: be an ally, but you'll never ever be able to
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: relate to the things that we as black men and
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Black women encounter and endure every day. We appreciate the empathy,
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: let me see that, but you'll never understand what we
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: go through, what we are subjected to by at the
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: hands of whites and Asian Latinos. But right now I'm
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: addressing black issues, Black men and black women. Get ready
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: because we're gonna have those conversations that I know y'all
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: don't like. We're gonna address small less station, We're gonna
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: address sexual assaults, we are going to address incest, We're
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: going to uncover those secret that our grandparents kept, that
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: our mothers kept, that our family members knew. We're gonna
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: address those issues on Black Girl Interrupted podcasts. We're definitely
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: gonna get back into everything that we've missed out on.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: We're definitely gonna keep the bus and rollers moving on
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: mental health, especially black men. I'm going to address you
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: black women and how you have tarnished some of our
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: black men. See some of y'all don't be ready for
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: those types of conversations, but I'm here to wake that up.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: You may not like me after a few of those episodes,
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: and that's okay. I'm not here to be liked. I
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: don't do this podcast to get fans. I do this
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: to have those uncomfortable conversations. I see my son is
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: tuned in. Hey JR. Corey, your mom loves you. I'm
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: thinking about you. I hope you're feeling better today. But
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: that's what we're here to talk about. Own Black Girl Interrupted, unpure,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: unadulterated conversations, unfiltered, that's what we're here to talk about.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: We're here to wake some things up. We're here to
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: snatch band aids off. Someone told me the other day,
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: you better remember who the fuck you are? And that
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: cut because maybe I did forget who I am. Maybe
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: I did forget you know, let me take the maybe off.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: I did forget who I am. I did forget the
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: reason I even started on this journey. I forgot. But
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: somebody reminded me of who I am. Not just one person,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: several people sent me a reminder to remember who I
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: am and to remember why Black Girl Interrupted podcast was
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: streaming in the top twenty five. Several of y'all had
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: to pull me in say I'll get up. I woke
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: up to the most beautiful text message this morning. I
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: won't say their name, but I will tell you. This
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: person texts me and told me good morning, sists, bruh,
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: we need you to get your podcasts back up asap
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: so you can address this. The murder of missis Sonia Massey.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: It's time, says, I love you past the stars. That's
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: a text message I received this morning, only for the
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: person that sent me that text to comment on a
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: post I made yesterday about me remembering who the fuck
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I am. When I tell you I remember, I remember
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: who I am. I remember I started Black Girl Interrupted.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I remember where I was and what space I was
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: in when I created this, and I remember how this
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: space helped me when I was in the darkest space
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: of my life. I remember the people that supported Black
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Girl Interrupted from the beginning. I remember It's not one
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: person that could tell me about Black Girl Interrupted Podcast.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: There's not one person that could write my story. If
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: you ain't lifted, only I can tell you my story.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: So I'll be damn if I let someone write a
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: story for me, or now read a story for me,
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: and you ain't never lived or walked in my shoes.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: Can't nobody tell me how to get to my next
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: destination but me. So yes, Black Girl Interrupted Podcast is
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: fucking back. Let me tell you, do you remember who
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: y'all are? Because tonight this is a reminder. I want
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: y'all to remember who y'all are, Who the fuck y'all are.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: I want y'all to know your purpose. I want y'all
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: to stop letting people dictate who you are. I want
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: y'all to stop letting people control your emotions. I want
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: y'all to stop letting these nasayers tell you what you
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: can and Kate do we're checking in at night, I'm
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: checking the temperature. I want to know how hot the
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: water is or if it's cold, do I need to
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: warm it up? What do I need to do? I
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: need a lot of y'all to sit up straight, quick slouching.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: I need a lot of y'all to take back your
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: power that you've allowed people to take from you. So
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: we checking in Britain, says Jewel clapping. BB says, oh
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: baby or sister passed the class with they ate even
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: though I'm up for an appeal to stay in school again.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: I know God got me, but I'm doing big things
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: since B B. B. Bright Professional Services got things coming.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: And we're here for, Juel says, and I'm here for
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: usis we're all here for. This is a celebration for everybody,
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: because see a lot of y'all have been down, and
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: all of y'all fell down. A lot of y'all have
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: forgotten who you are. A lot of y'all forgot who
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: I am. But I'm here to make y'all remember who.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Ashley Pitt says, I'm here to send a friendly reminder
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: what Black Girl interrupted podcast. It's really truly about baby.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: When I tell y'all these last few weeks, I don't
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: even think y'all even can begin to understand my mind
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: frame and the things that I've been thinking, and the
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: things that I've been brainstorming. I don't even think y'all understand.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I know y'all don't believe me, but just watch, because
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: I'm only out to prove to one person, and that's me.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I owe it to me. I owe it to a
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: black girl. Interrupted because I neglected my baby, which is
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: what we tend to do when we get sidetracked. You know,
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: when life starts life and we get sidetracked, we tend
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: to forget who we are. We tend to forget our
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: purpose here. We tend to forget why we started on
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: these journeys. We tend to forget who was there. We
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: tend to forget to give people their accolades. We tend
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: to forget to love not only people, but ourselves, and
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: to put our knees on the back burner and put
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: the needs of others before us. But I'm here to
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: tell you stop it, because I was doing that. We
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: tend to stop allowing people to drain.
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: Us.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: We tend to forget to stop pouring from empty cups.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: We tend to forget to appreciate the big things and
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: not let me, let me double, let me go back
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: on that. We tend to forget the small things and
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: only recognize the big things. That's what I was trying
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: to see. Y'all forgive me on that, but I want
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: y'all to know the small things get you to the
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: bigger things. So appreciate the smaller things and not so
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: much the bigger things. Yes, we can celebrate the big things,
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: but the small, the smaller steps, the milestones, we forget
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: about those because we feel like they're not important, and
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: they really truly are. We tend to forget who's really
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: truly your friend and who's an enemy. We tend to
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: forget that it's okay to push family to the side.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: That means you're no good. That's toxic. We tend to
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: forget those states. But black girl interrupted, it's back to
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: remind you family is toxic. Cut those family members off, baby,
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: I don't care if it's your mommy, your daddy, your sister,
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: your brother, your cousin, your uncle, your niece, your nephew, Baby,
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: anybody that is disrupting your peace, cut them off. If
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: your job is affecting you mentally, baby, find you something else,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: but never walk away into your until you have another
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: door that opens. Don't close the door then walk into
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: another door that ain't have been open. I know it's
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: easier said than done. Some of y'all are forget to
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: be mothers and fathers to your children. You gotta stop
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: putting your children's needs ahead of yours. You understand, And
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I see a lot of y'all are forgetting to do that.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I see a lot of y'all that paid hundreds and
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: thousands of dollars to go see Chris Brown, and we
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: got school coming up soon. These kids are getting ready
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: to go back to school, and y'all spend all your
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: school clothes money, but now you're gonna be standing in
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: the line trying to get free school supplies. Some of
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: y'all need to learn how to prioritize on what's important
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: and what's not. That's what some of y'all need to do.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: But I'm here to remind you what your purpose is,
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: and that is to be the best you can be.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: That to be the best person that you are. Block
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: out the negativity, baby, block that out. They go out
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: and people stop holding on the people that don't mean
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: you're no good French relationships. Baby stop trying to stay
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: around just because you don't want to be alone.
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: It.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Stop doing that, and that goes to fellas too. I
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: see some of you men, y'all need some therapy because
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at some of the things that y'all have
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: been saying about women in general. Y'a almost really hate y'allselves.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: You almost really hate your moms, your sisters, your aunties
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: because I've seen some of the things that y'all are
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: posted about women's sickening, and it's disgusting to me. If
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: you want to be with a man, just say that.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Stop dragging women, and just say you want to be
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: with a man, that's all. I've seen some of you
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: women that are in Kirkin Rashida type relationships and you
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: swear that relationship goals. Baby. Nobody wants a relationship like that.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Nobody wants a relationship that man got you on antibiotics
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: every other week. We don't want relationships like that. Nobody
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: wants to be with a man in your pH balances
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: balanced every other every other week. We don't want to.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: We don't know. I want to see men and women
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: in healthy relationships. Stop holding on because y'all have children.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Stop holding on because it's familiar. Stop holding on because
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: it's comfortable for you. Yeah, I'm checking in. I know
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: y'all are like Damn, who made her mad? Nobody? I'm
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: not mad. I'm not upset about anything. I'm just speaking
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: clearly on what i've seen on social media. Another thing
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: I want to address this when I pass away. It's
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: a lot of y'all I don't want at my funeral
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: because I know a lot of y'all really don't like me.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: I don't want y'all there, so I'm gonna have a
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: list like Shannon Doughtry. Shannon Doughtry had a list of
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: people she wanted at a funeral. I'm gonna do that
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: because I know a lot of y'all really don't like me,
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: and that's fine. I don't care. God didn't put me
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: on this earth to be like. God put me on
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: this earth to be a voice for the voiceless. That's
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: what God. That's what God did for me. God put
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: me on this earth for a purpose, and that's to
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: do what I'm doing right now. That's why i'm here.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Some of y'all don't even know what your purpose is
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: yet you're trying to You're trying to tell other people
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: what their purpose is and you don't even know what
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: yours is. So stop telling people what their purpose is
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: until you figure out what Jersey is. Okay, all right, yes, baby,
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: no one has upset me though. I'm venting, and I'm
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: only speaking on what I've been seeing on social media, okay,
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: and what i've been seeing out and about. You know,
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: like I said, I went to my dear friend's funeral
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: service this weekend. And when I say, for all the
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: people that say they loved her, you never showed up
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: for her. Y'all love it when she was here, but
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: you didn't love her after the fact, you'll get what
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I don't want y'all at my funeral service.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: I really don't. And if I open my eyes and
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: see some people there, I will get security to escort
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: y'all out expeditiously. Okay, all right, thanks great. Some other
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: things that I've been seeing on social media, jew will
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: say that part I I you know what I like
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: I say. I'm not trying to be messy. I'm not
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: upset about anything. I'm just venting and just telling y'all
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: what i've been seeing on social media and just simply
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: responding to some of the things that I've been seeing.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: And there's my brother, Hey, let's get a ga. He say, Oh,
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: there's my sister fotball as well. Keep shying to just
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: keep bringing awareness into our community. Much love, absolutely, brother,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: much love. Football season is upon us, and I can't
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: wait to see what your falcons are gonna do. And bruh,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: we're definitely gonna have to jump on jump in at
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: So anyway, anyway, y'all going back to another episode of
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: Black Girl, interest said, y'all know what's your girl ash
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: bringing y'all another beautiful episode tonight. We're just checking in.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: I'm just testing the waters. I just want to know
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: what the temperature is. I just want to see you
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: know where your blood pressure is today? Is it good?
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: Is it up? Is it elevated? Where is it at? Oh?
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: But I'm just addressing some things that I've seen on
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: social media. I had to double back and address some
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: people that have messaged me with regards to oh, we've
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: messaged you, Ashley, are you ignoring?
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: No?
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: So, this this is all we're doing. We're just checking in.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: We're just checking in. My brother say, we whooping them
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: eights we'll see fail Cons. We'll see we'll see brother,
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: that what that Super Bowl case look like. Okay, all right,
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: you might not want to go down there, might not
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: want to go down that way with me. No, I'm
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: just teasing. It's all love, it's all fun. Please, y'all,
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: don't take your personal Me and my brother. Let me
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: tell you we sports fanaticsys a Falcons fan, I'm a
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Saints fan, and we do this every season, and it's
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: it's always love, always love. So yeah, I gotta talk
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: a little noise to my brother, gotta talk a little trash.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: But anyway back to me checking in. So let's see
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: what else can I get. Oh, for those that do
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: not know, only a handful of people know. I am
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: getting married December the sixth. We have said a wedding date.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: It's a courthouse wedding. I will be streaming live for
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: the ones that will not be able to attend the nuptials.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: So I am excited about that. That has been the
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: beautiful thing that has happened. My mom, my children not
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: excited about it. My children love their stepdad. Ah. So yeah,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: December six I will keep you updated the closer it
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: gets to the date. But yes, I will be ending
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: the year as a married woman. We're already pretty much married.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Now we just have to put it on in black
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: and white. So congratulations. Com Me on, man, I'm so
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: happy about that. What else can I catch you all
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: up on? Let's see Black Girl Interrupted.
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: Is just.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: My brother, says he. Congratulations, says whoever the man is,
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: he's getting to go when I mean that, says thank you, Baba.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I love you.
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: I love you.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: I love you, I love you. I will as it
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: gets closer to the date, I will post the link.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: I will stream like well, I won't be able to
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: stream live, but whoever is that? The coming up shows
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: will stream live, So it will be Black Girl Interrupted
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: gets married. So I can't wait for that. I'm excited.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: And you know, Bubba, I am actually the lucky one.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: He is a he's a good one. He works my
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: last stand there, but I wouldn't have it any other week.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: But anyway, back to checking in, Let's get at ga.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: What's been going on y'all? Drop in the comments. Let
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: me know how y'all have been doing. Oh, Bibi says,
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to see you walk down the aisle.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Let's get married. It's about me. It's not about him
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: because no one's here to see him. They're here to
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: see me. Juel says.
• 46:32
  Speaker 6: Congratulations, says girl like yeah, week and maybe blue are
• 46:40
  Speaker 6: the colors is what he wants?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Maybe blue. I don't know who knows, But anyway, I
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: have some beautiful things that are coming up for a
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: Black Girl Interrupted. Like I said, Black Girl Interrupted will
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: officially be back August the sixth, eight thirty pm Central Time,
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: nine thirty Eastern time. Black Girl Brother will be back.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: I do want to let people know I will be
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: live tomorrow night. We're gonna start early, maybe seven, because
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: I will be addressing the unjust murder. So he says, hey,
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: beautiful he's talking about now they hear us see me.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: Don't get it twisted. Whatever, they're here us see me,
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: my love. I will be making my grand aunt trines
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: baby ah. So but anyway, babe, I love you. I
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: hope you're having a good night at work. So my brother,
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: let's get a ga says, been doing well, says He says,
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: got my BBQ, got my barbecue business up and running
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: out a lot of work. Though this is should be
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: wearing me out. Please post your barbecue business. Uh, my
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: sister is in Atlanta and my sister would definitely come
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: out and support with you. Uh so please post it
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: for us, brother, please, Uh, I need to post it
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: on my Facebook page. I need to know send me
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: a message, message me so we can get it up
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: and running, so I can help promote your business.
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: Big Daddy BB says, hey, brother, I can't wait for
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: y'all to become one. It has been a long time
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: time coming. Three years, baby, three years three yeah, three years. Yeah,
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: it's been three years. It may three years in June.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Uh that he has been my man, my man. Thank
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: you for my man, and know y'all cannot have him.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: That's mine. All of that is mine, even at I
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: won't say it be because I won't embarrass you anywhoy.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: But back to while we're check in, I wonder what
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: has been going on with everybody, because, like I see,
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: I've been seeing everybody beefing online Kendrick Lamar, Drake beef.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: I've seen people that have uh been child baby, It's
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: been a whole mess. Uh So, Brittany BB says, shameless plug.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: If there is anyone that needs a no, a virtual
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: assistant or an HR assistant, please let's just know I'm
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: accepting new clients and that is b Bright Professional Services.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: I am. Let's get a ga. He said, no, not
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: doing that. Sis. This is your platform. You shine anywhere
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: I can promote your platform.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: I'm with it.
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: Uh No, I want to know. I want the information
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: because I want people to come and support. I know
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: we're not doing it. Juel says. Hey, baby, She says,
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: what's what's up? Little bro? Uh, So y'all keep checking in.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: I know my sister Jewel, Uh, it's about to start
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: her business. Once I get a little more info, I
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: know what she does. But once she gives me more information, Uh,
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: then I want to Uh, I need to send people
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: her way. Uh, your brother says, hey, Jewel, there he is. Uh,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: let's get a ga. Say what's up, Jewel? How you business? Everybody?
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: You know what? Y'all check in? Y'all check everybody check in.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: This is a big family reunion because you know what.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all, y'all is family. Y'all, My family, y'all,
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: my peoples, and y'all already know how I get down
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: behind y'all. But we are doing a check in. But yes, y'all,
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: Black girl interrupted is Bag. Your girl is Bag. I
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: am live, I am direct, and I missed y'all, but
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: I had to. I had to jump on. But tomorrow night,
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: let me say this about tomorrow night's episode. Tomorrow night,
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: we will be discussing Sonya Massey. Sonya Massey is the
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: thirty six year old black woman that was killed by
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: former police sheriff Sean Grason. I was going to address
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: or not you know what, I was going to speak
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: on it tonight, but there are so many things, so
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: many layers that need to be pulled back, that I
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: just needed another day. Let's get a ga. Jules says,
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: I've been good, Bro. Congress on the business, I'm telling you.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: Bb says, we are so glad you are back my
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: favorite podcast, their best friend, business, bestie, and sister. Baby.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: We have had a year and we got so much
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: more coming. Baby. I don't think people even truly understand
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: what I'm working on in the background, But tomorrow night
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: I will be speaking on the unfortunate, unjust murder of
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: Sonya Massey. Again. Sonya Massey was so violently taken at
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: the hands of former police sheriff Sean Grayson, who is
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: thirty years old. I do ask that everyone stay respectful
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: and let's please put feelings behind facts. Okay, it can
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: get emotional. Okay, I know this. I know it can
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: get emotional. We've seen these situations far too many times
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: to even fathom or account. We are seeing black women
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: being unalive, not only by other black men and by
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: police officers. We're seeing it more. So I do ask
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: that on tomorrow night show, please be respectful. I ask
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: that you please put the facts over your feelings and
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: emotions because I've seen social media posts where you have
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: people that are fighting in the comments over whether it
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: was justified unjustified, whether she tried to throw the water,
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: whether she didn't. We're gonna really get into it. We're
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: gonna really peel it back. So tomorrow night, we're gonna
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: start early, seven, seven thirty. This one may be a
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: long episode, but I will try to keep it at,
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: you know, within a decent time constraint, because it can
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: get exhausting, not only for me, but for y'all, and
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: I definitely want to give y'all respect. You know, if
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: we have to break it up into a two part episode,
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: then we'll break it up into a two part episode.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: But I wanted before I spoke on it, I wanted
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: to get down into it. I want to I want
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: to really peel the layers back with this story. I
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: also will be giving my input or per se my
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: objective on the Tyler Perry movie Divorce in Black, because,
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: as anyone knows, Tyler Perry's movies are garnered towards issues
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: in the black household, and I want to reiterate some
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: of those issues that occur in the black household. I
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: want to address how women do play major role and
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: major factor in why their sons or the way that
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: they are. And this is not to take away from
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: black you know, from fathers and not saying fathers don't
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: play a part, but moms can somewhat do the most damage.
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: We're gonna get into that. We're gonna be speaking about
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: incest and mo lessation because we see this in households,
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: and we see how families cover these things up and
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: sweep them under the rug as sol to act as
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: if these things will go away, and they don't. It's
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: time to promote healing amongst the black community instead of
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: tearing one another down. Because I'm sick of seeing and
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: hearing conversations where they keep saying old black women ain't
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: shit or black men ain't shit. I'm sick of hearing that.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: I'm so tired of that narrative. Let's just say the
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: black men and the black women that you have dealt
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: with ain't shit, because not all black men and not
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: all black women ain't shit. Okay, stop it. So those
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: are the topics and the conversations we're getting back into,
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: and I couldn't be more excited to be back in
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: a space that I created, not only for y'all but
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: for me. I can't wait to really truly get back
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: into a space that has helped many people. I miss
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: receiving those messages where people are saying, man, ask your show.
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: I needed that tonight. I needed to hear what you
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: had to say, or man, you speaking to me. I
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: missed that because I forgot who I was. I forgot
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: my purpose. But I want y'all to remind me who
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: I am. I want you all to keep telling me
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: who I am. I want you all to keep pointing.
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: I want you all to keep saying, Ashley girl, this
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: is your purpose. I want y'all to keep pushing me
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: to be the best to me. I want you to
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: keep pushing me to be a health in me. I
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: want you all to keep getting on me. I want
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: y'all to keep saying you know what, since I need
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: you to get it together.
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: I need that.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: I need to be reminded. You know what I'm saying.
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: I need for y'all to look at me and say, Ashley,
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: we love you. I need y'all to uplift me. I
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: need y'all to encourage me. I need y'all to empower
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: me because I fall off sometimes, not sometimes, but a
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: lot of times. I have a man that lives with
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: me that says, Babe, when you're getting back into your podcast,
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: what's going on? When your partner can see that you're
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: slipping and you're falling off, When your family members can
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: see when your family members tell you you need to
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: get up, then you need to get up. So I'm back.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: I'm back into a space that promotes love, that promotes unity,
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: that promotes healing, that promotes encouragement, that in encourage empowerment
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: that uplifts. I'm gonna give you that tough love. Notice
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: I say love, and it's gonna be tough. I'm not
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: gonna ever tell you what you want to hear. I'm
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: gonna tell you what you need to hear because I
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: want you to do better. I want you to be
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: better because I know what y'all are capable of doing.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: Some of y'all forgot Some of y'all keep letting people
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: dim your lights. Some of y'all keep letting people drain
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: your energy. Some of y'all, some of y'all keep pouring
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: from an empty cup, and then you wonder why you drain.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: Some of y'all keep holding on the people that you
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: shouldn't let go. Last year, this is what Black Girl
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: Interrupted us back to do. So tonight, we just checking in.
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: I'm just checking the temperature, that's all. I'm just trying
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: to see where y'all mind is. I just want to
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: know where are you? Where have you been? Are you okay?
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: Are you still dealing with the remnants of barrel? Are
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: you struggling at your job? Are you struggling in your
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: person life? Are you struggling in your relationship? We hear
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: We here to talk about that. Everything that y'all want
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: to talk about we here to talk about. On Black
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: Girl Interrupted. Some of y'all be so worried and focused
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: that y'all are go to offend people. Why speak your truths.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: Stop worrying about who's going to be offended. Stop it,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Stop worrying about that black girl interrupted wants to know
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: where's the love? Where's the love? Where's the respect? Where
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: was the empathy? That's what we're talking about, That's what
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: we're checking in. Yo, don't talk about my nails. Look
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: at that, y'all or hot, get on, miss so I
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: only got two left, only two see look at that.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: They're gonna be off Don't worry, y'all, don't judge me.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: So let's get a GA says, appreciate you. Sis at Jule,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: he says, can't wait for this cist. I gotta get
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: some stuff off my chest as far as what my
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: ex wife is doing and using Donna's upon to get
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: to me. But that's a subject for tomorrow. Baby Hanne.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: When I tell you, I'm definitely gonna bring that this here.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: Let me let me post this comment back up here.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna put this back at the top of
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: the list because we're seeing this, We're seeing you women
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: use children against men. So we're gonna have that conversation.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: Like I said, some of y'all might be offended by
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: some of the conversations that we have. Some of y'all
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: may look at me and be like, Mmm, that bitch.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: I know that's what some of y'all are gonna say,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: And it's okay. I've been always, But those are the
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: conversations we won't have. Whatever topics y'all bring to me,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: were talking about it political views, Let's leave there for
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: something else. Let's leave that for a different day. I
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: want to talk about what we could do as a
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: community to heal. I want to talk about what we
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: could do as a community to help one another. I
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: want to talk about things we could do to get
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: out there in the community. I want to talk about
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: us being a voice. I want to talk about us
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: finding our purpose again. I want to talk about what
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: are we doing for two in twenty five. That's what
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about. What are y'all's plans, What
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: do you have going on? What businesses have you started?
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: That's what I want to talk about. The whole point
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: of this check in was just address some things. That's all.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: The whole point of is checking was to let y'all
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: know I'm good mentally. Did I need some time? Await?
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: I did? And I'm not gonna let anybody put me
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: down for that evil. I encourage everyone's boundaries. I encourage
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: that because not everybody respects that. Not everybody respects your boundaries.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: So we just checking in today, that's all. I want
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: to make sure everyone as good as Wednesday. It's hump Day,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: two days away from the weekend. Wellness Wednesday, Wicked Wednesday,
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: wedd and wild Wednesday, whatever y'all want to call your Wednesday.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: But that's all. I just wanted to check in. I
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: want y'all to see my face. I wanted to see
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: y'all's faces. I wanted to love on y'all for a minute.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to give y'all your flowers. I wanted
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: to say thank you for loving on me the way
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: that y'all have, to the ones that understood why I
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: wasn't responding. Thank y'all for respecting my time and my space.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all. Y'all know who y'all are. I appreciate
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: y'all for that. I really truly do. Thank y'all for
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: just being who y'all are. Thank y'all for being genuine,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: Thank y'all for being empathetic. Thank y'all for just being
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: who y'all are, and I had to say that again.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: Thank y'all for loving me. Thank y'all for understanding and saying, hey,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: when she's ready, she'll come back, and I'm ready. I'm ready.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: I needed this space. I needed this time because in
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: order for me to come back and do what I
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: need to do on Black Girl Interrupted, Baby, I had
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: to take a break. I was without a computer for
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: a couple of weeks, in which, thank god, I had
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: to pay no money to get it fixed because I
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: still had the warranty on there, So I thank y'all
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: for that. Then I've been trying to keep my mental
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: in check, trying to keep my health in check. A
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: lot of y'all don't know I have loopers, so I'm
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: trying to keep that in check. So I have to
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: keep my stress levels down to a minimum or my
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: loopers will flare up. I gotta keep my blood like
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: I have to keep my health in check. And if
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  Speaker 2: people don't understand that, then those are the people you
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  Speaker 2: don't need around you. If y'all could have saw me
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  Speaker 2: what about a week or so ago, Baby, I'm all
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  Speaker 2: flared up around here, face red, everything, stress, so I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna do any and everything I can to protect my peace.
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  Speaker 2: I won't get on here if I'm not in a
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  Speaker 2: good space, because how can I encourage you, empower you,
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  Speaker 2: and uplift you if I'm not in a good space.
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  Speaker 2: So I appreciate the love, the messages, the text, I
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  Speaker 2: appreciate all of that. Thank y'all for Karen and being concerned.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to say that BB says, we love you.
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  Speaker 2: She says, welcome back, baby. Let's knock out the rest
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  Speaker 2: of the year. Yeah. I'm definitely ready to knock out
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  Speaker 2: the rest of twenty twenty four because I know what
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty five holds for me. I'm walking into the
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  Speaker 2: new year a married woman with a successful podcast, with
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  Speaker 2: some successful business partners. My assistant like, it's nothing but
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  Speaker 2: greatness for me. It's nothing but positivity for me. And
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: I want y'all to know that everything that y'all have
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  Speaker 2: done and continue to do for me is not ever
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  Speaker 2: ever overlooked. It's not overlooked. So I want to end
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  Speaker 2: by saying that, you know, tonight was just a check in.
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  Speaker 2: Tonight was not oh, a full length episode or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Tonight was just a check in. We addressed some things.
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  Speaker 2: We got some things out the way. We cleared the
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  Speaker 2: error on some things. So now that our conscience is clear,
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  Speaker 2: the error's clear, and now we could get back into
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  Speaker 2: doing this. We could really get into it. Now we
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: can really what I say, let's talk about it. We
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: can really get into that. But it feels good. I
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: feel good. Am I still encountering some mole hills? Yeah,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: no mountains, my mole hills. But with the love and
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  Speaker 2: the support of my friends and my family, Ashley gonna
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  Speaker 2: be good. I'm gonna be straight. And Black Girl Interrupted
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  Speaker 2: is about to take in solidified his position back into
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  Speaker 2: the top twenty five. Yes, a Black Girl Interrupted was
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  Speaker 2: streaming in the top twenty five. Y'all, Hey, so somebody
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: people were listening. So when you got people that tell
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: you they're ready for you to come back, then it's time.
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  Speaker 2: It's time, and I'm good. So y'all charge it to
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  Speaker 2: my mind and not my heart. If I missed anybody,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: if I missed anybody, y'all charge it to my mind,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: not my heart. I promise you. The Black Girl Interrupted
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  Speaker 2: his back. We're in the full swang good things and
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 2: I I can't wait. I can't wait. I gotta shit, y'all.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: I got a barrage your topics written down, y'all wanna
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: be like God, dang, she might neither go away more
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 2: often if she got all these topics.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I do.
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  Speaker 2: I got a lot to talk about. I really do.
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  Speaker 2: When I can't wait. So as I bring listen to
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  Speaker 2: a close, I just want to say I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: We already did all the upcoming episodes. We did that.
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  Speaker 2: But yes, tomorrow night I will be speaking to the
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  Speaker 2: topic of Miss Sonya Massey. That is tomorrow night. We
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  Speaker 2: will start that when early seven. I want to get
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  Speaker 2: it started at seven. This one might be yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I want to get a started about seven o'clock, just
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: to get everyone in and people have time to get
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: their thoughts, their questions, everything in order. And again I
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: do ask that you come in with facts over your feelings. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I will be showing the video. There will be trigger
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  Speaker 2: warnings for those that have not seen the video. If
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: you are easily triggered, I do advise that you do
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 2: not watch it. We will handle tomorrow night's episode with
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  Speaker 2: dignity and grace to the family of Miss Sonia Massy,
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: not only to her, but to her children. I do
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 2: ask that you be respectful on tomorrow night's episode or
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  Speaker 2: I will remove you. We will be streaming live to
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  Speaker 2: Facebook as well as to YouTube seven pm Central Time,
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  Speaker 2: eight pm Eastern Time, five pm West Coast time. I'm
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: so sorry, y'all, just I have to mentally prepare for
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  Speaker 2: tomorrow night's episode. But on that note, I do love you, guys.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all stopping in checking in with your girl.
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  Speaker 2: Don't forget there's a website down at the bottom www.
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  Speaker 2: Dot b gipodcast dot org. That is the website. You
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: can check the website for any updates, any new shows,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: catch up on any past shows. Don't forget to like comments,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: share and subscribe two Black Girmen Interrupted as well as
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• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: Don't forget to tell a friend. Phone a friend, Bring
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: a friend, tell them we're getting into it tomorrow night.
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  Speaker 2: Bring your cleenics, leave your disrespect at the door, come
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  Speaker 2: in and let's get into it. Let's talk about it.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: Sonia Massy please say her name, huh. I gotta get
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: it together, y'all know me. But on that note, I
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: do love you, guys. I hope everyone has had an
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: amazing day. Happy Wednesday again, Thank y'all for the love
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: and continue support that y'all show two Black Girl Interrupted.
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  Speaker 2: It is absolutely appreciated. Don't forget you can catch up
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: on any current or past episodes on YouTube. You could
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: also under Black Girl Interrupted Podcast. Please don't forget to subscribe,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: don't forget to share comments. Literally just went blank. But
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  Speaker 2: I love you guys. I will see y'all tomorrow night.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 2: I hope everyone has a beautiful night. Take care of y'all,
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: be safe, stay prayed up and love on who loves you.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: And don't forget to wash your face, wash your hands,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: and wash your ass because y'all COVID it ain't went nowhere.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: I just had to throw that lily in at the end,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: that little disclaimer. But I love your guys. I will
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: see y'all tomorrow night, seven o'clock pm East Central Time,
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  Speaker 2: eight pm Eastern Time, five pm a Mountain Times. So
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  Speaker 2: love y'all, HILLO