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OUR FAVORITE FOLLOWS: FASHION, FOOD, MENOPAUSE AND LETTING GO · Uncluttered and Unfiltered: The Podcast For Women Over 50

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  Welcome to Uncluttered and Unfiltered, the podcast urging
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  you to let it go and don't look back, with nationally acclaimed
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  professional organizer Christine Stone and self-proclaimed Hot
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  Damn Mess radio and TV personality Eden Kendall.
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  Welcome everyone to Uncluttered and Unfiltered with a podcast
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  for women over 50. I'm Eden Kendall.
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  Christine Stone is a professional organizer and I am
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  not. So you're not.
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  You're not listening to two super organized people.
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  You're listening to 1 super organized person and the other
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  one who is learning as we go. But today we're talking about
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  people we love to either listen, to, follow, read about just
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  those. I don't want to use the word
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  influencer yet because I feel like that makes you think of
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  someone who's out there doing all the dances, right.
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  Doing or selling you something, you know what I mean?
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  That's what I think when I think Influencer, yeah.
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  But what we're hoping we're going to do is kind of like
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  widen the appeal of some of the people out there that are either
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  giving a message that we enjoy, right?
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  Or maybe you're going to turn us on to somebody new, because we
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  did ask you to help us out with this.
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  This is a crowdsourced episode, so.
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  I'll say that I love that. Before that though, we recently
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  had an episode that was the Sean Cassidy episode.
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  Yes. So this weekend we're going to
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  the show. Yes, we are and I can't wait.
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  I don't even know what to expect because I know a couple of his
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  songs, but I think he's mixing in some of his family songs,
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  which makes me think David Cassidy.
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  Oh God, that would be fun. I asked my daughter.
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  She didn't know who he was, which right there made me feel
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  really old. Then I threw up David Cassidy,
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  thinking maybe she'll know who that is.
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  She didn't know who that was either.
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  So then what did I have to do? Put on one of his songs?
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  And she goes, still don't know it.
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  Are we going to torture our poor Uber driver like we did for the
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  Donny Osmond? Show, I think we have to.
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  You have to get pumped before you go somewhere, you know what
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  I mean? You have to get into it.
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  You have to do so. Yeah, I think yes, we have to.
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  And then if you heard the interview, you know he invited
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  us backstage. I'm excited about that too.
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  Yeah. So I can't wait.
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  Yeah, it's. Going to.
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  Be a lot of fun, so we'll have to report back on the whole
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  thing. You'll see the picture, we'll
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  see if Christine is able to communicate with him better than
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  she. You did a great job with Donny
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  Osmond, but it took a little bit of you having to do some woo
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  sauce and deep breathing. Well, you're lucky that I am.
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  I'm not into that kind of mentality with him, although
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  there aren't. 50 plus years of you being freaked out waiting
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  for the moment. Yeah, yes.
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  Anticipation. You don't have that with Sean
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  Cassidy. And like I said in the last one,
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  I was already in high school when Sean Cassidy was popular,
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  so I knew all his songs, but I wasn't.
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  And I knew the Hardy Boys, but I wasn't into him the way the love
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  and admiration. Yeah, no.
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  Angsty, weird. That's that's how I
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  differentiated the way I felt about him versus Donnie.
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  Donnie was certainly my first girl thing, but the angsty
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  hormonal, like I'll never have him for myself feeling that was
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  a Sean Cassidy thing because I was 11.
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  Right, right. It's a little different.
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  You feel a little bit differently.
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  Suddenly you're like, you're having these dreams where he's
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  your boyfriend versus Donny Osmond, where it was more like,
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  you know. Well, there's a trend on TikTok
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  of showing a picture of the age you were at when you were a
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  teenager and you had a teen idol.
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  And of course, if I showed a picture of me at 10 or 11 years
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  old and under the couch and it's like, this is what I look like.
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  When I thought he was going to leave his band and his family to
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  marry, to marry me. I mean, first of all, I had the
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  bad Dorothy Hamill haircut that like did not resemble anything
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  Dorothy Hamill had. Let's just say that.
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  I remember you telling us that you went to school and everyone
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  was like, who's the new boy? Yeah, and I had the unibrow
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  also, like, you know, you didn't go and wax your eyebrows or do
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  that kind of stuff back then, at least when you were 10 or 11.
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  So I also had the unibrow. So if I posted what I thought
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  when Donny Osmond was going to leave his Osmond brother band
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  and marry me, yeah, he would. Yeah, Yeah.
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  And and, well, I would have had a Mormon wedding.
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  But anyway, he would run for the hills.
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  Let's just say that so well. Think about these, these people
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  like Sean Cassidy. Now Donnie has been performing
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  steadily and his entire life, but you got Sean Cassidy and his
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  fans. He had two times in his life
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  where he was a huge idol to these people.
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  And one, they're 11 and now they're 60.
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  So he really didn't, you know, but he he did fine.
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  He's had a couple of couple 3 marriages.
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  He's got a cute little wife now. Well, that's.
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  Interesting. I find that fascinating.
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  He's. Cute little wife #3 He's got a
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  whole new set of kids, so he's, yeah, he's living his.
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  Best. Well, we'll, we'll report back.
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  I can't wait. We definitely will.
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  All right, so we're going to talk a little bit about what you
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  guys said on our Ladies only Facebook page about influencers,
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  celebrities or authors that you like to follow and keep track
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  of. A couple of you guys, and I love
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  this said that for well, first of all, thank you for those who
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  shared your your Spotify rap with us.
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  You know on Spotify you get the wrap up.
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  Now say 'cause you. Don't use Spotify.
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  I don't, I know and my kids make fun of me 'cause I still am a
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  Pandora girl, right? OK, embarrassing shared.
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  Your rap with us and we were your number one podcaster.
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  We appreciate that. So I.
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  Also called out our friends at the podcast The Pop Culture.
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  Preservation Society. Those ladies, and they were on
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  my list of ladies I follow, Yes. So I really love that you all
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  love them as much as we. Do that's why.
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  We introduced you to them and we just love those ladies.
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  I I they're great. I love they always.
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  Talk about things that you forgot, Right to remember.
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  Yep. So who do you have on your list?
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  OK, so I am funny when it comes to social media because I change
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  weekly. Like one week I'm really into
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  over 50 makeup tips and so that's all I want to see.
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  The next week I'm into over 50 fashion so that's all I want to
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  see. So then I follow follow a bunch
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  of people who are over 50 that I like to see how they put outfits
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  together and what accessories they use.
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  And then one week I'm into house, anything for your house,
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  so. What did?
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  What does that mean? You put it in like your search?
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  Yes, you literally put in over 50.
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  Or yes, yes, or you know it, you, you don't have to because
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  once you start looking at a few, your algorithm just keeps
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  putting more and more and more. So that's how I do things.
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  So every week it's different. I don't have someone I just
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  constantly, constantly have to check up on and follow.
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  I like different things at different times, especially
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  during different times of the year.
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  You know what I mean? So the first one I love and I
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  think I've talked about her before, but I can't remember
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  this Oak house, which is Annie Myers Shire, which is, you know,
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  the woman I talked about her mom it Nancy Meyers is this is the
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  producer, director, set designer, all that.
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  And her daughter is so I love, love, love following her on
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  social. Media Nancy Meyer That's a
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  style, right? Remember you were telling us
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  about when you put all the photos out?
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  Yes, you know, you're trying to style it to look like it's a
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  Nancy Meyer. Movie.
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  Yes. Yes.
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  So it makes sense that her daughter.
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  Yes, and her daughter's great. So that's when I've been
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  following for a while just because I like the aesthetics
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  and I like how the houses she shows and the tips she gives and
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  the things she does are a well lived in house.
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  I, I am very even as an organizer.
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  Everyone thinks it has to be perfection, but really, if you
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  have kids, a husband, you, you need a house that people
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  actually live in, not just something out of a magazine or a
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  social media picture. So that's why I really like
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  following her. I love it.
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  OK, so mine and these don't have to be women and they don't have
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  to necessarily deal with being of a certain age, right?
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  And you're going to be shocked when I tell you somebody I
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  follow that I love to follow and I love to see her.
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  This is a woman, but not because of any specific message that she
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  shares, but because my my goodness, she is just still
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  crushing. And and it's Vanna White.
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  Oh, I don't follow her. She just.
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  I like her though. The reason?
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  I love looking at pictures of the animal.
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  I don't watch Wheel of Fortune unless it's sometimes we watch
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  Jeopardy and it's on right. Before Oh, I know that my
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  husband's a Jeopardy fan, so we. See it right before, but I just
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  love that she is unapologetically bringing the
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  glam and the beauty every single time.
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  Yeah, and I just, you know, but she'll talk about her kids,
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  she'll talk about. And she's just so gorgeous.
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  So yeah, it's not really that I'm seeking any kind of wisdom
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  from her other than just like don't let age stop you from
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  being you are, which is for her. She's a a model.
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  She is a letter Turner. She is a presenter.
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  She also has loads of personality and southern charm
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  and she's just so. Cute.
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  I agree. I I've always like, what did I
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  ever tell you my Vanna White story when I was a flight
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  attendant and I was working first class and her and Alex
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  Trebek, which you know, he was Jeopardy and she was Wheel of
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  Fortune. We're on the plane together and
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  they were the nicest people ever.
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  And so I've always remembered that about her.
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  She was so gracious. They signed autographs for me,
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  you know, So I have a special. Place do you remember that, that
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  I had forgotten? What I say?
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  I'm even more glad. OK, you're next.
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  OK, you're going to laugh at this, but you know, I always
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  have to come up with something. Her name is Courtney Cook.
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  And if you know, you know on TikTok.
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  OK so she is a very big the IT person on TikTok right now and
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  somehow I got on her page but I'm loving it and she is the
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  Weetabix girl and the weedic Bix girl is a cereal and you have to
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  you can't. Get to be British.
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  No, she's not. She's not British but I think
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  she lives in Canada. But she's she is American.
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  She don't have an accent or anything like that.
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  She's a school teacher and how she rose to fame in the TikTok
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  world is every day she would get to school early in her little
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  lunch room at school and she would show you what she was
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  eating for breakfast or for lunch, OK?
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  And it took off because every day she would eat Weetabix,
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  which is this high fiber cereal, OK.
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  And is she? Canadian then that cereal or we
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  don't know. I've never.
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  Heard of it other than in a British movie?
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  I think I heard of it. Yeah, but it's delicious, by the
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  way, because of course I had to go on Amazon and order two
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  boxes. Of course I did.
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  It's. High fibers.
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  And we need that when you're over 50.
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  And what she does is every day she'll show a different way.
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  She does her Weetabix cereal, either with hot milk, with
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  fruit, with honey, with syrup. Like it's always something
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  different. And she puts in like 5 Weetabix.
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  I mean, like, this is a tiny little girl.
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  Who could they like how when you see Weetabix, they're like, they
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  like. The wheat bars.
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  Weed. No, Right.
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  But they're so different than that.
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  But that's kind of like, I guess, the Canadian or British
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  version of Shredded Wheat, OK. What I love about this is that
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  right now my phone is listening, saying I'm going to show you all
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  of this, all of this later. Your phone.
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  If you're listening to us on your phone, your phone is
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  tracking this. Oh, really?
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  Well, it doesn't. Don't you have?
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  Conversations. I do feel that way.
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  I do feel that way. Conversation and the next thing
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  you notice on your Instagram, that's what's going to happen to
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  all of us. We're all going to have Weetabix
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  on our Instagram and Tik Toks. I'm telling you, I what you
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  know, I do all these things. I did the three ingredient
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  bagel, anything because I'm really, really into cooking
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  right now. But it has to be really easy to
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  do. I've never been like, you know,
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  the Ina Garten cook because there's too many. 2 yes.
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  Thing ingredients in the recipes.
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  So I've been following her and another thing she's known for
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  you're going to laugh is baked sweet potatoes, but you bake
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  them at 3:50 for like 2 hours and the last hour you like keep
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  it in the oven, turn the oven off, something like that.
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  And then she takes the sweet potato out and.
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  Puts it on a weed a bit. No.
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  OK, cores out the middle. Kind of like the whole thing,
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  including skin, because us Americans, we generally do not
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  eat the skin and then puts a piece of soft cheese down the
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  middle and then eats it like a sandwich.
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  Like just eats the whole thing. Well, it is taken off.
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  Now this I'm going to admit to you guys I absolutely have not
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  done because I don't think I can number one, eat the skin off a
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  sweet potato. Now, I'm not saying it isn't
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  good, but I don't think I could do it #2 I don't think I have
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  the palette for a cheese stuffed in my sweet potato.
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  I don't know, I could see like something sweet in the sweet
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  potato, like brown sugar and tons of butter, but no, it is a
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  big long slice of soft cheese. OK.
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  Anyway, every day she's been popping up with a new recipe of
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  some sort and it is fascinating to watch.
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  I don't know why I find this so fascinating, but it's
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  fascinating. Don't try to find Weetabix right
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  now, because it's almost impossible to find.
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  I got. Yes, I got.
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  I know we have listeners in Canada.
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  Well, they might have a way easier time, but I mean, I had
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  to go on Amazon and now you can't go on Amazon and get it.
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  It's not available. Yes.
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  And of course, I love seeing that Weetabix has sent her like
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  a year supply of Weetabix. So anyway, that's the kind of
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  stuff I find fascinating lately. Silly stuff, but I have to say I
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  do like my Weetabix. I had some this morning.
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  OK with with blueberries and honey.
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  I would like to try some Weetabix.
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  Anyway, so Courtney Cook, that's a great.
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  One. That's a great one.
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  Yeah, I'm going to go for my next one as a combo deal.
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  Doctor Mary Claire and Doctor Stacy Sims.
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  They are both physicians. Obviously, Doctor Mary Claire is
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  the one that was from the Oprah special, talks a lot about
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  menopause. Dr. Stacy Sims also does this,
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  but from a perspective of a sports physician.
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  So she's a little more up my alley as far as a runner goes
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  and talks about some of the challenges that women will face.
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  And both of them have really done remarkable things towards
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  bringing menopause much more into the forefront.
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  Doctor Mary Claire specifically, because she's the one who is
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  like, listen, you know, they used to say that hormone
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  treatment was a cancer causing. And now it's not.
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  She talked about how the testing was so skewed back in the day
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  and she really is all about the HRTS and, and so she's she's
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  someone that's on my list. That they're both great.
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  Yeah, she does a great job with social media too, so.
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  Well, and I laugh because yours are like, you're learning
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  something really good. And I'm, I'm now going to talk
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  about Yeah, and parsley and Prosecco.
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  She's a private chef. Oh, that's a that's a site.
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  Parsley and Prosecco. Well, she's a private chef.
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  That's her name. Oh, on the thing.
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  And she's a private chef, but she sets up her camera every day
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  and tells us what the people want that she's cooking for and
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  then makes it. And it's always easy, which I
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  just told you, I don't like anything more than three to four
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  ingredients. So easy, easy step by step gives
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  you the recipe so you can make it yourself.
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  And it's so easy, which I love. And she's adorable.
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  And I also am fascinated by the world where you can have a
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  professional cook cook for you every night.
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  So yeah. Think about how healthy.
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  You could. Oh, and they're healthy meals
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  too. That's another thing I like,
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  although she's had a few that aren't not necessarily 100%
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  healthy, but they're organic. Real ingredients.
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  Yeah, real ingredients. I mean, you can have high fat,
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  high calorie meals, but if they're if she's using real
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  ingredients, she's three steps ahead of what most.
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  Of Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, She's serving for dinner.
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  Very interesting. And she pops up every day, too.
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  So I get to see new recipes every day.
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  And sometimes I try a couple. Sometimes I just flag them so I
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  can try them later. So you can tell you guys I'm
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  indie eating. She's intended well but you're
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  you do a good job though with your your eating too though.
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  And his name is Jefferson Fisher.
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  And I even bought, just bought his brand new book.
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  He's an attorney that started doing these videos in his car.
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  And he talks about this in his book where he just started like
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  strapping himself into his driver's seat and just doing
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  these little quick. He's a defense attorney, which
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  you'll enjoy this because you know you have one in the family.
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  He coaches people that are going to be on the witness stand so
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  that when they speak, they don't incriminate themselves or they
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  are able to come out on top in any conversation.
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  And so now what his expertise is, is in mastering the art of
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  conversation in diffusing situations.
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  I love that. Like resolution and things like
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  that. So he has these little short and
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  he's very cute and handsome. Well, that helps too.
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  And at the end he always puts his hand up to his face and goes
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  give me a follow, like real cute, like get a follow.
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  And but he'll say things like if somebody is having a
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  conversation and, and their energy is starting to get a
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  little heated, he'll give you advice like call it out, but not
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  calling them out like, oh, is this getting heated, you know?
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  Little. Tricks to keep things from
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  becoming things that they don't need to be.
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  Or he'll say, if someone is criticizing you, you can stop
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  and pause and think, is it a criticism of you or is it a
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  criticism of the situation? You can say to them, was that
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  meant for you, for the situation, for me?
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  Or he even has one where he'll say if you pause and let
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  something linger in the air, the person then plays it back in
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  their head and then they're likely to say, oh I by the way,
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  I didn't mean that to. Be right, right.
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  So he has great advice. His name once again is Jefferson
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  Fisher. Great book, great little videos.
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  I like. That and just the art of
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  diffusing any any situation. To people especially.
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  In the holidays, you know, if you're going into a situation
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  where you think somebody's going to see something that's going to
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  set you off, he is a great one to look at.
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  I'm. Going to have to go on there and
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  learn some tips. I mean, you're good at that kind
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  of thing. Like my favorite one that you've
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  given was I still to this day say, are you asking for my
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  advice or do you want me to listen?
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  And that's kind of a very Jefferson Fisher kind of thing
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  to say. You know, how would you like me
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  to respond? Yeah, that is one of my go to
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  things, but I learned that late in life.
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  I wasn't like that when I was younger.
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  You know, when you're younger, you always have to be right
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  about everything, but you know what I mean?
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  And that's another thing that he even talks about.
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  If you have somebody who you always innately disagree with,
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  go into the conversation thinking, I want to try to
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  understand their perspective. I'm not trying to.
• 20:59
  I don't agree with them. I'm not trying to get them to
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  agree with me. Instead, what we're trying to do
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  is explain our perspective to each.
• 21:04
  Other right, I agree with that. Trying to come to who's right
• 21:08
  and who's wrong. I agree, I I like him already
• 21:11
  and I haven't even seen him. You do.
• 21:12
  You like him even more. You saw how cute he is.
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  Well, my last I'm grouping together, there's three of them
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  and I'll just say their names, Angela Hoenstein, Jill Height
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  and classic Carolyn. And these are three, I would say
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  over 45 ish 50. Some of them are over 50
• 21:32
  fashion. And I love following over 50 /
• 21:37
  60 fashion influencers because when you get to be our age or my
• 21:41
  age, you kind of want some sort of something to follow, even if
• 21:47
  it's like what accessory are they wearing with those jeans
• 21:50
  and that white T-shirt? You know what I mean?
• 21:52
  Well. Yeah, because if you're only
• 21:53
  looking at people in their 20s. Right.
• 21:57
  You only see that as the fashion when you can see how somebody
• 22:01
  might style it differently. Right, right.
• 22:04
  Because we're not wearing those crop tops.
• 22:07
  I mean, so you want as. Much as they try to lure us in
• 22:10
  with a gorgeous sleeve and then you pick it up off the back and
• 22:13
  you're like, where's the rest? Right.
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  Yeah. So I like to follow these women
• 22:17
  because they do some makeup, some hair stuff, but mostly it's
• 22:23
  about what they're wearing. And I love seeing people's
• 22:27
  everyday outfits. Some of them still work.
• 22:29
  Some of them, this is their job, this is what they do is social
• 22:33
  media, but they show different outfits to go into parties
• 22:37
  different, you know what I mean? So I love following right now
• 22:41
  anyone because I always like to tweak my wardrobe a little bit,
• 22:45
  even if it's with just accessories.
• 22:47
  Which you're great at doing. And for those who are just
• 22:49
  listening, today you came in wearing normally you're in all.
• 22:53
  Black. Today you have on Jaguar prints.
• 22:57
  Some people would think it's Cheetah, but because we're in
• 22:59
  Jacksonville, FL, we know it's a Jaguar.
• 23:02
  Print. Because we won, by the way, just
• 23:04
  in case you didn't know. Yeah.
• 23:06
  So we're fans of the Jaguars and and that's that print is
• 23:09
  perfect. In black.
• 23:10
  And but that's how you've stylized your outfit.
• 23:14
  I mean, it's it's it's going to look elegant and chic because
• 23:17
  it's all black. And now you've made a pop of fun
• 23:19
  to. It but I have to tell you by
• 23:22
  watching these women adding the the boots that I chose was from
• 23:27
  them. Like I like seeing OK, I have
• 23:30
  these cropped Jaguar pants because that's what I'm going to
• 23:34
  call what shoes would I wear? Do you see what I mean?
• 23:37
  Like you always want someone to, you want to see how someone else
• 23:41
  is dressing. But not a 2030.
• 23:43
  Even for me 40 something. I'm more interested in the 50
• 23:48
  and above and I always get great tips.
• 23:52
  I love it. Well, whatever it is you do, it
• 23:54
  works for you. Well, thank you.
• 23:56
  So let me pull up some of the ones that you guys said, and
• 24:00
  we'll leave that as an open-ended thing where you can
• 24:03
  certainly go on our uncluttered and unfiltered ladies only page
• 24:08
  and add yours to the list. But some of you guys talked
• 24:12
  about other podcasts. Of course we love hearing that
• 24:14
  because if you listen to most people who listen to a podcast,
• 24:17
  listen to several different. Podcasts.
• 24:20
  You know whether it's true crime and one is fashion and 1 is so
• 24:25
  change Academy and nutrition diva.
• 24:27
  That's what Angelique is offering up.
• 24:30
  Those are a couple that she likes.
• 24:32
  Influencer Valerie Squire says influencer Melanie Sanders
• 24:35
  created the We Do Not Care club. I see.
• 24:38
  Goodness, no, I love. That we do not care club.
• 24:42
  A lot of women are participating in this trend and it would be
• 24:45
  like you'd be sitting in your car and you would say we do not
• 24:49
  care that this party is the party of the year.
• 24:53
  It starts at 9:00. So we are not going because we
• 24:55
  are in the We Do Not Care club. And it's just this ongoing thing
• 24:58
  of. I we're.
• 24:59
  Not going to do this extra thing you might have done back in the
• 25:02
  day. I love this.
• 25:04
  We have to do 1. We do not.
• 25:06
  Care Club, yeah, we we have to do one of the We Don't Care
• 25:09
  Club. OK, I always say this.
• 25:10
  Somebody send us an e-mail and remind us that we want to do
• 25:13
  that as a top. Right.
• 25:16
  All right, having said that, that that site on Facebook, our
• 25:20
  ladies only page, it's uncluttered and unfiltered.
• 25:23
  Ladies only. You have to ask us to be let in.
• 25:26
  We do that to keep it like feeling like that.
• 25:28
  Safe soon? And we will let you in.
• 25:30
  But we are on all the other social medias as well.
• 25:33
  And of course, when you do like us, follow us, give us a review
• 25:37
  or any of those things, it helps the algorithm, helps other women
• 25:39
  find us. So we do appreciate when you do
• 25:42
  that. So the idea that there's nothing
• 25:44
  left to learn in this life, you can let that go.
• 25:46
  And don't look back.