Latest / Reality with The King / RHONJ: Is It Time for the Gorgas to Go? PLUS Love After Lockup's Monique & Derek
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Their time is up.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Teresa already says she's never talking to them again, and
- 0:05Speaker 2: that makes me even sad to repeat that because I
- 0:08Speaker 2: have nine siblings and I know how much family means
- 0:11Speaker 2: to me. But I have to admit if I was
- 0:15Speaker 2: in Teresa's shoes, and if I saw my sibling use
- 0:19Speaker 2: the show to start drama, allegedly to get a buck,
- 0:25Speaker 2: I won't talk to them either. Stay tuned, we'll be
- 0:31Speaker 2: right back after these quick ads. Welcome to Reality with
- 0:44Speaker 2: the King. It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality
- 0:47Speaker 2: TV and one of the most sought after executive producers
- 0:51Speaker 2: in reality televisions with over ten years a production experience.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Once a week on Reality with the King, we'll sit.
- 0:59Speaker 2: Down with my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our
- 1:02Speaker 2: favorite reality shows, and revisit unforgettable moments that we are
- 1:07Speaker 2: still talking and tweeting about. On this episode of Reality
- 1:11Speaker 2: with the King, I would get my thoughts on whether
- 1:13Speaker 2: or not it's time for the Gorgas.
- 1:16Speaker 1: To leave the Real Housewives of New Jersey.
- 1:20Speaker 2: I know, I know, child if that's a scandalous question,
- 1:23Speaker 2: but I really can't wait for you all to hear
- 1:25Speaker 2: my thoughts has their time on the showrunner's course.
- 1:29Speaker 1: Hmmm, let's discuss.
- 1:32Speaker 2: But before we get into all of that, Child, I
- 1:36Speaker 2: talked to one of my favorite couples.
- 1:37Speaker 1: On reality television.
- 1:39Speaker 2: No, I'm not talking about doctor Wendy and her fine
- 1:42Speaker 2: husband Eddie. Hey, happy Eddie. Yes, I talked to one
- 1:47Speaker 2: of my other favorite couples. Love After lock Up starts
- 1:50Speaker 2: Monique and Derek. Yes, Child, we are getting into love
- 1:54Speaker 2: at the lock Up on the podcast, I spoke to
- 1:57Speaker 2: them about the relationship, family issues with Derek's sisters, and more.
- 2:03Speaker 2: Let's get into an excerpt from my interview with Monique
- 2:07Speaker 2: and Derek. Okay, Ray drops, Yeah, look, I ask.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Bully and received. I tweeted that after watching Love After lock.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Up, which is my newest obsession, I said, I must
- 2:27Speaker 2: talk to Monique and Derek.
- 2:28Speaker 1: I love the cast. I'm biased.
- 2:30Speaker 2: I love Monique and Derek the most.
- 2:34Speaker 1: I'm invested. I'm into it.
- 2:36Speaker 2: I'm happy to report that Carlos King is talking to
- 2:41Speaker 2: the stars not only of Love After lock Up, but
- 2:44Speaker 2: also life after lock Up. I'm talking about the breakout stars.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Monique and Derek. How y'all doing. I'm good. You look
- 2:54Speaker 1: as beautiful as ever. Monique, thank you, Derek. You look
- 2:59Speaker 1: all right too.
- 2:59Speaker 2: I told people, I said, look, Derek's very handsome, He's
- 3:03Speaker 2: easy on the eyes.
- 3:04Speaker 1: And Derek, I think you know that, don't you.
- 3:06Speaker 3: I appreciate everything, thank everybody for the compliments, but it's
- 3:11Speaker 3: all only couple of matter.
- 3:12Speaker 4: It's hers.
- 3:14Speaker 2: How does it feel to be celebrities? Is that something
- 3:17Speaker 2: that the two of you are getting used to?
- 3:20Speaker 5: It's definitely taking some time to get used to because
- 3:22Speaker 5: I'm a pretty quiet, reserved person.
- 3:26Speaker 2: So I don't know if I would call you quiet
- 3:29Speaker 2: and reserve money bag Monique.
- 3:33Speaker 6: No, I really am, though.
- 3:34Speaker 5: So it's like when people approach me on the space,
- 3:36Speaker 5: it's kind of like I have social anxiety.
- 3:38Speaker 7: It's like, what do you know?
- 3:42Speaker 6: Everybody call me cousin sister, but it's all of.
- 3:46Speaker 2: No even with me, Like, look, I have been producing
- 3:50Speaker 2: reality TV for over fifteen years. I feel like you
- 3:53Speaker 2: to our family because you two are so authentic when
- 3:56Speaker 2: it comes to living your life on the show. So,
- 3:58Speaker 2: first of all, Monique made you go on Facebook and
- 4:03Speaker 2: hit the tab of a pin pal penitentiary program.
- 4:09Speaker 1: To find love.
- 4:10Speaker 7: I actually was not searching for a pen pal.
- 4:14Speaker 5: I actually was just uglate and not on Facebook just scrolling,
- 4:17Speaker 5: you know how, like you just be nosy, just scrolling
- 4:20Speaker 5: on everybody page or like a news peak. So I
- 4:23Speaker 5: had came across like this little pin pal thing or whatever,
- 4:27Speaker 5: so I clicked on it and the first thing I
- 4:29Speaker 5: saw was Derek's picture, and I was more and so
- 4:34Speaker 5: attracted to what he wrote and what he said rather
- 4:36Speaker 5: than his pictures. And it said he was getting out
- 4:40Speaker 5: in like three months because he was still serving his
- 4:42Speaker 5: fed time.
- 4:43Speaker 7: So it took me like actually a couple of days
- 4:45Speaker 7: to like reach out to him.
- 4:47Speaker 6: So text him.
- 4:49Speaker 2: So, Derek, you are allowed to have a phone in prison,
- 4:53Speaker 2: because she just said she texts you.
- 4:55Speaker 3: No, not allowed to have a phone, but we have
- 4:58Speaker 3: our ways to text, Like it's a third party service
- 5:01Speaker 3: that you might be able to like get to forward pictures.
- 5:04Speaker 3: You taket a picture and they nailed the pictures to you.
- 5:07Speaker 5: He didn't have a sebhone in prison. It was just
- 5:08Speaker 5: how the prison system work. They had a number where
- 5:11Speaker 5: you can.
- 5:12Speaker 2: So what was it that he wrote that made you say,
- 5:15Speaker 2: let me give this guy an opportunity to get to
- 5:18Speaker 2: know me and each other better.
- 5:20Speaker 6: Basically you just.
- 5:21Speaker 5: Seemed like a really smart intelligent person. He basically was
- 5:25Speaker 5: looking for a friend. He didn't seem like the typical
- 5:29Speaker 5: like jail dude, Like he was basically looking for a
- 5:33Speaker 5: friend like and I was just intrigued by it.
- 5:35Speaker 6: And like, plus he was getting.
- 5:37Speaker 7: Out in a couple of months, so.
- 5:39Speaker 6: I was like, we can to see the word go.
- 5:41Speaker 4: You know, I ain't had to say much.
- 5:43Speaker 3: It ain't take much, didn't take much, but I said
- 5:47Speaker 3: said all.
- 5:47Speaker 4: The right things.
- 5:48Speaker 5: He basically you said all the right things, and I
- 5:50Speaker 5: felt like, you know, we would have had a good connection.
- 5:54Speaker 6: So I didn't go into it.
- 5:55Speaker 5: Like this, this is just going to be my man
- 5:58Speaker 5: or whatever. I'm just like, oh, he's seemed like a
- 6:01Speaker 5: pretty cool person.
- 6:02Speaker 4: Because she was she was still playing the field.
- 6:04Speaker 5: Yeah, I was still saying another man, you know what
- 6:06Speaker 5: I'm saying. But I wasn't getting that.
- 6:08Speaker 4: Emotional connection connection with and she'd get for me. And
- 6:12Speaker 4: I gave her.
- 6:13Speaker 3: I gave her everything that they wasn't giving it. I
- 6:15Speaker 3: was getting it to her from jail from prison.
- 6:18Speaker 5: So it's like when I first reached out to him,
- 6:20Speaker 5: it was like we was bonded and connected.
- 6:23Speaker 4: We know each other, didn't know each other as a
- 6:26Speaker 4: friend first, so it was more so it was like
- 6:29Speaker 4: the word she used it I love so much, was
- 6:32Speaker 4: she said no pressure.
- 6:33Speaker 3: So it was like, that's how I'm open minded. So
- 6:36Speaker 3: when she was saying no pressure, so it wasn't like
- 6:39Speaker 3: I'm forcing a relationship or friendship or anything. It was
- 6:42Speaker 3: just like organically informed by I was just talking to
- 6:45Speaker 3: each other, getting to know each other, what she liked,
- 6:48Speaker 3: what I like, and it was just coming all together
- 6:50Speaker 3: like that.
- 6:50Speaker 4: We were just laying the foundation to what you see today.
- 6:53Speaker 2: Was Monique the first woman to hit you up as
- 6:57Speaker 2: a pen pal that was not in prison, not at all.
- 7:01Speaker 3: It's plenty of other women women two And I told
- 7:03Speaker 3: her that that's the good thing about it.
- 7:05Speaker 4: I was honest about that, and she knew that.
- 7:07Speaker 3: I'm like, you ain't the only one, and yeah, you
- 7:10Speaker 3: probably gonna ask when did we make it official? And
- 7:12Speaker 3: that's when I stopped that because it was I was
- 7:14Speaker 3: getting a lot of motions. I have motion, and she
- 7:16Speaker 3: I told her that I have motions, not just not
- 7:19Speaker 3: just bbw's either, not just I had another flavors too, shape,
- 7:25Speaker 3: the sizes, I had, all the other colors real hard
- 7:36Speaker 3: because it was the others, you know. Quote unquote, my
- 7:39Speaker 3: preference was they was hitting me up too. So I'm
- 7:42Speaker 3: just saying I gotta put out there. I gotta let
- 7:43Speaker 3: my baby know it wasn't just everybody think it was
- 7:46Speaker 3: just hurt that restout.
- 7:47Speaker 4: Oh, it wasn't just hurt there.
- 7:48Speaker 6: We know it wasn't just me.
- 7:49Speaker 4: We know, but they don't know.
- 7:51Speaker 6: The definitely knows.
- 7:53Speaker 1: Well.
- 7:57Speaker 2: One of the things that we want to know, Derek,
- 8:01Speaker 2: is the fact that your sisters made comments that Monique
- 8:05Speaker 2: was not the stereotypical type of woman that you were
- 8:09Speaker 2: accustomed to, and they questioned your attraction to her. So
- 8:14Speaker 2: when you talk about these other women who signed on
- 8:17Speaker 2: the pen pal penitentiary program on Facebook, what were some
- 8:21Speaker 2: of the type of women that you were dating, what
- 8:23Speaker 2: they look like prior.
- 8:24Speaker 4: To me being incarcerated or the ones that was reaching
- 8:26Speaker 4: out to me?
- 8:27Speaker 2: Well, well, the one your sisters said they're used to
- 8:29Speaker 2: you being we so before you were incarcerated.
- 8:31Speaker 3: My sister's speaking on like the preference I was with
- 8:33Speaker 3: prior to me being incarcerated, that more looked like five
- 8:37Speaker 3: to five to like probably five a taller women, light skinned,
- 8:41Speaker 3: long hair, light oss with you know, nobody slim thick.
- 8:44Speaker 4: That's what they called them slimtik. Now that was prior
- 8:46Speaker 4: to incarceration.
- 8:47Speaker 3: Now the ones that was reaching out to me was
- 8:50Speaker 3: different shapes and size, of different nationalities because they've seen
- 8:53Speaker 3: different things in me, just like Monique.
- 8:55Speaker 4: It wasn't really so much my look Monique went.
- 8:58Speaker 3: You know, they attracted her. It was what I said
- 9:00Speaker 3: versus another female. She might have been attracted by my
- 9:03Speaker 3: looks and it probably been.
- 9:05Speaker 4: Like I would say, my preference at a time.
- 9:09Speaker 3: We kind of you know, you have sexual attraction, physical
- 9:12Speaker 3: attraction that you have emotional attraction too that spiritual attractions too,
- 9:16Speaker 3: so it'd be different when it came to the you
- 9:18Speaker 3: know the pinpol thing.
- 9:20Speaker 1: Are you sexual attracted to Monique?
- 9:22Speaker 4: Yes, I am. We have good sex every night.
- 9:24Speaker 3: You know it's good like she bring She balanced me
- 9:26Speaker 3: and I balance her because sometimes she can be reserved.
- 9:29Speaker 3: I gotta make her smile happy and people don't understand that.
- 9:32Speaker 3: And it's like Monique laugh and she having a good time.
- 9:35Speaker 3: She bent over like a little twerking and feel me.
- 9:37Speaker 3: That's me Monique. No, she's not really liked it, but
- 9:39Speaker 3: I can bring that out her because I can bring
- 9:40Speaker 3: her sexty nays out of you know, it's just you
- 9:43Speaker 3: know it would work for us. That's what worked for us.
- 9:45Speaker 3: We compliment each other.
- 9:46Speaker 2: Monique, one of the questions I had was questioning whether
- 9:49Speaker 2: or not you had any insecurities. Right, A lot of
- 9:52Speaker 2: people feel like, Monique, there's some insecurity is going on
- 9:55Speaker 2: with you, which is why you decided to meet the
- 9:58Speaker 2: man that you love of who was in prison.
- 10:02Speaker 1: What do you have to say for people who believe that.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Because you are a beautiful woman, and I believe that
- 10:09Speaker 2: you can obviously GeTe the man you want to that
- 10:10Speaker 2: you set your heart out to, why do you feel
- 10:12Speaker 2: the need to be with the man at the time
- 10:15Speaker 2: that was in prison versus men that you were able
- 10:18Speaker 2: to physically see.
- 10:19Speaker 5: Well, I never understood the whole insecurity concept that people
- 10:23Speaker 5: were saying about me on the show because before I
- 10:26Speaker 5: met Derek, and when I met Derek, I was dating people.
- 10:30Speaker 5: I was dating other man, I was going out having fun,
- 10:32Speaker 5: living my life. I didn't feel the need to go
- 10:34Speaker 5: online and search for a men in prison because that
- 10:37Speaker 5: never was my intention. I just so having came across
- 10:41Speaker 5: him or whatever the case may be. Derek will tell
- 10:43Speaker 5: you when me and him first met, I didn't take
- 10:46Speaker 5: him serious until maybe like the first year, and like
- 10:50Speaker 5: he knew, I was still done on my ex at
- 10:51Speaker 5: the time. I was still dating, going out, having fun,
- 10:54Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So it wasn't like I
- 10:58Speaker 5: was hard.
- 10:58Speaker 6: Up for a man. The only thing that I was.
- 11:01Speaker 5: I wouldn't even say that I was insecure about. I
- 11:03Speaker 5: knew Derek haven't dated any BBWs other than me, But
- 11:08Speaker 5: he reassured me all the time, like he loves me.
- 11:10Speaker 7: He doesn't really care.
- 11:11Speaker 6: About my size, you know.
- 11:13Speaker 7: So I wasn't secured about that at all.
- 11:16Speaker 4: I'm gonna touch on a little bit too beautiful.
- 11:19Speaker 3: I turned out of a time. Any woman wants confirmation, affirmation,
- 11:22Speaker 3: I give it to her. And a lot of times
- 11:25Speaker 3: I didn't even know I had a type until my brother,
- 11:28Speaker 3: my brothers and sisters we went down the list of
- 11:30Speaker 3: my priors and it dawned on me I did have
- 11:34Speaker 3: a type.
- 11:35Speaker 4: But they knew then that was the type.
- 11:37Speaker 7: Back then it was nineteen tween, nineteen years old.
- 11:41Speaker 4: Now they didn't they It's gone almost a decade.
- 11:43Speaker 3: So I grew up as a man and now I
- 11:47Speaker 3: have different criteria and Monique's that criteria.
- 11:54Speaker 4: Talk about that too. We can talk about that.
- 11:56Speaker 2: And we will, and we will a lot of people,
- 11:58Speaker 2: including myself, we question whether or not you really want
- 12:04Speaker 2: to be with Monique because Monique appears that she pays
- 12:08Speaker 2: for everything. And one of the things that I wanted
- 12:11Speaker 2: to address is are you attracted to Monique physically or
- 12:15Speaker 2: are you attracted to Monique's wallet, her bank account, her savings,
- 12:19Speaker 2: her her her money market, and her CDs.
- 12:22Speaker 3: The emotional connection was first. The physical connection came after,
- 12:26Speaker 3: and then everything else that came with Monique came after that.
- 12:30Speaker 2: Why is Monique spending all her money on the relationship
- 12:34Speaker 2: and it appears that you don't meet her halfway?
- 12:37Speaker 4: I do. That's why we still together because I do Monique.
- 12:42Speaker 6: Of course he does.
- 12:43Speaker 2: Then why did you go to the grocery store that
- 12:45Speaker 2: by Monique's plastic flowers?
- 12:47Speaker 3: Then, Derek, I really didn't think Monique was going to
- 12:49Speaker 3: come after all the things that we've been through come back,
- 12:52Speaker 3: So it's like.
- 12:52Speaker 4: Spirit a moment. I got her something the count. I
- 12:55Speaker 4: can't get that the count, and I got her some
- 12:57Speaker 4: other things too. I made so she was happy and
- 13:00Speaker 4: put a small on her face too.
- 13:02Speaker 1: Where do you get your money from? Derek?
- 13:04Speaker 4: I say, that.
- 13:05Speaker 3: Did you watch the episode when I came home with
- 13:07Speaker 3: some money that went to the bank with and then
- 13:09Speaker 3: I had I had some investment I had before I
- 13:11Speaker 3: got locked up to I had some support.
- 13:12Speaker 4: I have my family who supported me.
- 13:14Speaker 3: Not my sisters, you know, I had some grandparents things
- 13:18Speaker 3: like that that helped me invest my money, and some
- 13:20Speaker 3: lawyers too.
- 13:21Speaker 6: Like there, it came home with.
- 13:23Speaker 3: Money exactly, But you know the way the it kind
- 13:26Speaker 3: of played like a little snippet when I was in
- 13:27Speaker 3: the bank and deposit that was my money. It was
- 13:30Speaker 3: a snippet one thing about me. I saved my money
- 13:33Speaker 3: and I spend my money on me and her.
- 13:36Speaker 4: That's it. So that's why we're both happy as a partnership.
- 13:40Speaker 4: And that's that's that's us.
- 13:42Speaker 1: Monique. Where did you get your money from?
- 13:44Speaker 6: I work?
- 13:45Speaker 2: I say, according to the show, it says you are
- 13:48Speaker 2: a receptionist at an animal hospital.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Is that still the case? Mm hmm.
- 13:53Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 13:54Speaker 2: When we see the show, Monique, we see moments of
- 13:58Speaker 2: you tapping Derek's phone. You go through his phone when
- 14:05Speaker 2: he was out to dinner once you FaceTime him and
- 14:09Speaker 2: you wanted to see the circumference of the room. And
- 14:12Speaker 2: that's also the other reasons why a lot of people
- 14:14Speaker 2: think you are insecure, because those appear to be behavior
- 14:18Speaker 2: of an insecure woman.
- 14:20Speaker 1: So explain to us why.
- 14:21Speaker 2: You feel the need to monitor Derek in the ways
- 14:25Speaker 2: that you do well.
- 14:26Speaker 6: Prior to there.
- 14:27Speaker 5: Getting out, we had the issue before where he wasn't
- 14:31Speaker 5: honest about a woman he.
- 14:33Speaker 2: Was dealing with, a woman he was dealing with while
- 14:35Speaker 2: he was in prison.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Okay, So when.
- 14:38Speaker 5: I got the phone, I was just like, Okay, this
- 14:40Speaker 5: should be able, you know, to help me kee teps
- 14:42Speaker 5: on who he's calling, who he's.
- 14:44Speaker 6: Texting, and I mean, the only thing I said on.
- 14:46Speaker 5: The phone was like, share his location with me, Like
- 14:48Speaker 5: couples do that all the time.
- 14:50Speaker 3: But you forgot about this though. And it's come from
- 14:52Speaker 3: a good place too. She wanted to make sure I'm
- 14:54Speaker 3: out in trouble though, So I like that too. It's
- 14:56Speaker 3: like a motherly instinct one has, and she's very protective
- 15:00Speaker 3: and I understand that why she did that. You want
- 15:02Speaker 3: to know where I'm at, what I'm doing, so I can.
- 15:04Speaker 4: Stay out of prison, they out of trouble. So it's
- 15:06Speaker 4: kind of twofold.
- 15:07Speaker 5: Plus I was in Ohio, well, I was in Cleveland.
- 15:10Speaker 5: He was just getting out, like he really didn't know
- 15:12Speaker 5: his way around or whatever. If he gets lost to
- 15:14Speaker 5: be able to find him.
- 15:19Speaker 1: Are you trying to like me?
- 15:21Speaker 2: Listen, big, let's let's let let's keep it all the
- 15:24Speaker 2: right brill okay, because I am a fan of Derek
- 15:28Speaker 2: and Monique and I want to see y'all together as
- 15:30Speaker 2: long as it's healthy and y'all happy.
- 15:32Speaker 1: So look, I have shared my.
- 15:34Speaker 2: Own personal experience when I was in a relationship and
- 15:37Speaker 2: I went through my guy's phone, so we all do
- 15:40Speaker 2: it now. Look, I call bullshit on well, you know,
- 15:45Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure he was safe, man like
- 15:48Speaker 2: like like for it's you die, it's you gonna die,
- 15:52Speaker 2: So let's call it what it is.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Right.
- 15:54Speaker 2: Obviously, Derek has a history of being flirtatious.
- 16:01Speaker 1: And lying to you.
- 16:03Speaker 2: And for me, as somebody that has common sense, it
- 16:08Speaker 2: appears that those are contributing to you wanting to keep
- 16:14Speaker 2: tabs on him because you're not the first woman to
- 16:17Speaker 2: do it, and I don't think you should be embarrassed
- 16:19Speaker 2: about anything.
- 16:19Speaker 1: You're not the first and you want to be the last.
- 16:21Speaker 2: I even admitted Monique, as secure as I am in
- 16:25Speaker 2: other areas, I also used to do those things, so
- 16:28Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with it. But my question for you
- 16:31Speaker 2: is when you were doing that, were you hoping that
- 16:38Speaker 2: you would not catch him cheating? And that was the
- 16:41Speaker 2: intention of making sure you also kept taps on him.
- 16:44Speaker 5: Honestly, I did want to keep tags on him, and
- 16:47Speaker 5: also because I was looking to uproot my life to
- 16:50Speaker 5: move to Cleveland, so I just wanted to make sure
- 16:53Speaker 5: I wasn't like wasting my time. I wanted to make sure,
- 16:57Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, like I'm the only woman
- 16:59Speaker 5: that he's dealing with, and that was it.
- 17:01Speaker 4: She wanted all to herself, which I want her all
- 17:04Speaker 4: to myself, so I don't blame her.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Well, at one point you did not want her all
- 17:08Speaker 2: to yourself. You want to tend other women to be
- 17:10Speaker 2: with you, because what we saw on the show, Derek
- 17:13Speaker 2: is you cheated on Monique with several women. What made
- 17:18Speaker 2: you leave prison. You're on parole. You're trying to do right.
- 17:24Speaker 2: This woman, they committed to you. She put her own
- 17:27Speaker 2: life on hold to make sure that you had.
- 17:31Speaker 1: Something to come home to.
- 17:32Speaker 6: Right.
- 17:33Speaker 2: This woman made sure financially, at least in the beginning,
- 17:37Speaker 2: that you had all of your needs met right. So
- 17:41Speaker 2: for you to disrespect her in that magnitude, what was
- 17:45Speaker 2: going through your mind?
- 17:46Speaker 3: We was having like ups and downs, and I'll use
- 17:49Speaker 3: that as an excuse, you know, two step off, which
- 17:51Speaker 3: was wrong. She told me that was wrong. Even if
- 17:53Speaker 3: we had like an argument of disagreement, I shouldn't used
- 17:56Speaker 3: that as excuse and be like, you know, I can
- 17:59Speaker 3: go entertained son, because I was like, I was like
- 18:02Speaker 3: basically giving that the field of like because we have
- 18:05Speaker 3: an argument, we have a falling out, and we just
- 18:08Speaker 3: basically I was mad at each other. I use that
- 18:11Speaker 3: like I can go, I can go play, and she
- 18:13Speaker 3: telling me, all that ain't how you do it, ain't
- 18:14Speaker 3: how you go about doing that.
- 18:17Speaker 4: We can we can handle this.
- 18:19Speaker 3: Before it gets to that point where it could be over,
- 18:21Speaker 3: and it just I really didn't understand that part.
- 18:24Speaker 4: That's why we're still growing.
- 18:26Speaker 3: I'm still growing that in that aspect because before I
- 18:29Speaker 3: don't have any baby mothers.
- 18:31Speaker 4: I've never really been a serious adult relationship.
- 18:34Speaker 3: Where commitment means even if we have like a bad moment,
- 18:39Speaker 3: we still got to be faithful.
- 18:42Speaker 4: I didn't know that. I'm just honest enough to say
- 18:44Speaker 4: I didn't know that part.
- 18:45Speaker 1: How many women. Have you slept with a Monique?
- 18:47Speaker 4: It's been it's been more than one.
- 18:50Speaker 1: Is it more than five?
- 18:51Speaker 4: It's been yeah, somewhere around there.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Is it more than ten?
- 18:56Speaker 3: No?
- 18:56Speaker 2: Still bad though, And Monique, how did you find out
- 19:00Speaker 2: he was cheating on you with more than five women?
- 19:02Speaker 5: Well, the whole ten women thing last night was the
- 19:06Speaker 5: first time hearing that, So I always knew he cheated.
- 19:09Speaker 6: I just didn't know how many.
- 19:11Speaker 1: When you found that out, How did that make you feel?
- 19:15Speaker 6: I was hurt.
- 19:16Speaker 5: I was embarrassed too, because I felt like it's one
- 19:19Speaker 5: thing for us to go through things like in private,
- 19:22Speaker 5: but for him to admit that on TV, like it
- 19:26Speaker 5: was kind of hurtful, you know, even though like that
- 19:28Speaker 5: show it was taped like months ago, Like even though
- 19:30Speaker 5: we we we're growing, we're learning to get over things
- 19:35Speaker 5: and forgive.
- 19:36Speaker 6: I don't know, it just kind of like opened up
- 19:38Speaker 6: the one again kind of cause it was just like, Wow, at.
- 19:42Speaker 5: Least ten, I already knew you cheated, but I didn't
- 19:45Speaker 5: know you know what I'm saying to that magnitude, So
- 19:47Speaker 5: it was definitely hurtful.
- 19:50Speaker 4: Sure, this was just.
- 19:53Speaker 2: A taste of my interview with Monick and Derek but
- 19:56Speaker 2: listen here rain Drops.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Head over to my YouTube Channe I Know at YouTube.
- 20:01Speaker 2: Dot com slash at b Carlos King underscore to hear
- 20:05Speaker 2: more of my full interview with Bonique and Derek.
- 20:11Speaker 1: After the break, we'll get to my commentary on whether.
- 20:14Speaker 2: The Gorgas should lead the Real Housewives of New Jersey.
- 20:19Speaker 2: We'll be right back after this quick break.
- 20:29Speaker 1: This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.
- 20:32Speaker 2: Now let's get into the Gorgas of it all. I
- 20:40Speaker 2: have a confession to make and I'm just being honest
- 20:45Speaker 2: and listen, sometimes my honesty may offend people who I love.
- 20:51Speaker 2: It is never my intention, so it's just me saying
- 20:54Speaker 2: my opinion. I have a podcast and look unlike other
- 20:58Speaker 2: podcasts who have hosts that are friends with reality stars.
- 21:05Speaker 2: I'm always gonna be honest. And if you're mad in
- 21:07Speaker 2: my honesty, then you'll be mad for the day, because child,
- 21:12Speaker 2: you'll get over it tomorrow.
- 21:13Speaker 1: Okay.
- 21:14Speaker 2: The reason why I haven't recapped the season is because
- 21:18Speaker 2: I feel like it's the same old, same old. Real
- 21:22Speaker 2: Housewives of New Jersey needs a refresh. I love the cast.
- 21:27Speaker 2: I've said that before. I think this cast is one
- 21:29Speaker 2: of the best. Last season of the Real Housewives of
- 21:32Speaker 2: New Jersey was an excellent season, an excellent reunion.
- 21:37Speaker 1: I love everybody on the show.
- 21:40Speaker 2: What I've been watching so far is just not grabbing
- 21:43Speaker 2: me because I feel like, even with two new ladies,
- 21:46Speaker 2: and I think Danielle and is it Rachel. Yeah, I
- 21:51Speaker 2: think they're great additions.
- 21:52Speaker 1: I do.
- 21:53Speaker 2: They could be, you know, the future of the franchise.
- 21:57Speaker 2: But the unfortunate part is there's too much inventory on
- 22:03Speaker 2: the old beef obviously, Teresa versus Melissa, and Jennifer.
- 22:09Speaker 1: Aiden versus Margaret Josephs. We've seen it.
- 22:13Speaker 2: We've seen it for so many seasons that I think
- 22:16Speaker 2: this season.
- 22:18Speaker 1: I'm tired of it.
- 22:20Speaker 2: I'm not as invested as I was before in it.
- 22:25Speaker 1: I think it's time for the Gorgas.
- 22:29Speaker 2: To go and hear me out. I've said this once,
- 22:33Speaker 2: I'll say it again. I am not in all caps,
- 22:37Speaker 2: n O T. I am not a Melissa Gorga hater.
- 22:44Speaker 1: I'm not.
- 22:46Speaker 2: I've said it before again. I think Melissa is beautiful.
- 22:51Speaker 2: I thought she was great for the show at one point.
- 22:53Speaker 2: I've even used to tell Teresa my girl, like, yeah,
- 22:58Speaker 2: I know, y'all get along.
- 22:59Speaker 1: But Teresa.
- 23:00Speaker 2: That's a producer. She's great for the show. She's interesting,
- 23:02Speaker 2: and I like, I like what she brings to the show.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Like I was always honest with Teresa, which is why
- 23:09Speaker 2: listen up some of you housewives and reality stars. Teresa
- 23:13Speaker 2: and Chary are good examples, and Kenya are good examples
- 23:16Speaker 2: of when I state my opinion, they don't get mad.
- 23:20Speaker 2: Teresa was like, I disagree with you, but whatever, Carlos,
- 23:22Speaker 2: Let's go have dinner like that. And that's why I
- 23:27Speaker 2: love being Teresa Judais. She she doesn't like people to
- 23:32Speaker 2: kiss her ass, despite what you guys may think.
- 23:35Speaker 1: She doesn't like that.
- 23:36Speaker 2: Teresa thrives on someone who's honest with her and because
- 23:40Speaker 2: she knows that I'm somebody who's truly her friend, I
- 23:44Speaker 2: will tell Teresa when she's right or wrong.
- 23:47Speaker 1: I told Teresa I think Melissa's great for the show. Baby,
- 23:50Speaker 1: I just do. But Child, that was years ago, and.
- 23:55Speaker 2: Based on what's been happening on the show this season,
- 23:59Speaker 2: I am sick and tired of this Teresa versus Joe
- 24:05Speaker 2: and Melissa Child, we have exhausted at bar readsing Go
- 24:15Speaker 2: aspect of that relationship and the moment you thought like Okay,
- 24:19Speaker 2: they'll get along to get along, you know what I'm saying, Like,
- 24:23Speaker 2: at some point you have to just say, okay, fine,
- 24:25Speaker 2: let's move on from it. And I thought I saw
- 24:27Speaker 2: a point, maybe a couple of seasons ago, where I thought, Okay,
- 24:31Speaker 2: Teresa Melissa bury the hatchet and they're going to like
- 24:36Speaker 2: get along. Boy was I wrong. And what I have
- 24:41Speaker 2: realized is that and look, this is my opinion. I
- 24:47Speaker 2: think Joe and Melissa know that without Teresa, they just
- 24:50Speaker 2: don't have a storyline. I never once believed for a
- 24:54Speaker 2: second that Melissa wanted to have another baby. Melissa gives
- 24:58Speaker 2: me no vacation that she wants to risk her body
- 25:06Speaker 2: altering again for a baby. That's my opinion. I don't
- 25:10Speaker 2: see Melissa being that person. Melissa thinks she's Jennifer Lopez,
- 25:19Speaker 2: and I didn't buy that storyline. I thought it was
- 25:23Speaker 2: weak and lazy, like, oh my gosh, not the stereotypical
- 25:27Speaker 2: I want to have a baby and then you never
- 25:29Speaker 2: have one. Okay, I'm over that. And then one of
- 25:35Speaker 2: Melissa's storylines was Okay, well I'm looking for my father,
- 25:40Speaker 2: which could have been very interesting, and I really enjoyed
- 25:43Speaker 2: watching that dynamic with her sisters.
- 25:45Speaker 1: And her mom.
- 25:49Speaker 2: But outside of those two things, and listen, rain Drops,
- 25:53Speaker 2: tell me if I'm wrong. Melissa ain't got much going
- 25:56Speaker 2: on child unless she gets into it with Teresa. And
- 26:01Speaker 2: I know what you guys are thinking. Okay, Carlos, you
- 26:04Speaker 2: are team Teresa. Look, Teresa's a friend, y'all. Listen to
- 26:08Speaker 2: my podcast. I love Jazebe Bryant. I tell you Zebe
- 26:12Speaker 2: Bryant when I think she's wrong. So no, that has
- 26:15Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. It has everything to do
- 26:18Speaker 2: with I am a viewer watching the show and I'm
- 26:21Speaker 2: sick and tired and exhausted of this Teresa versus Melissa.
- 26:26Speaker 2: And because Melissa and Joe don't have much going on,
- 26:30Speaker 2: that's the reason why I think it's time for them
- 26:32Speaker 2: to exist stage left. This show is not going to
- 26:35Speaker 2: survive with Joe Melissa on another season.
- 26:38Speaker 1: It's just not. It's not they listen, I listen.
- 26:44Speaker 2: I will compliment Joe and Melissa for bringing some very
- 26:48Speaker 2: interesting family storylines to the show. Joe and Melissa brought
- 26:53Speaker 2: another breath of fresh air to the show when they
- 26:56Speaker 2: first gone on. I think Joe Gorga is a great
- 27:00Speaker 2: reality star. Well, I thought that until I Child with
- 27:03Speaker 2: this episode three of this season, when Joe was facing
- 27:07Speaker 2: off with Louis at a restaurant with all the guys
- 27:11Speaker 2: and Joe Gorga gave you a good old al Pacino performance.
- 27:16Speaker 2: He was like at the head of the table, like
- 27:18Speaker 2: he's the Beyonce of the group, and he was looking
- 27:22Speaker 2: across the table at Louis, and I felt that Joe
- 27:27Speaker 2: was just trying Joe again, You're a great reality star,
- 27:32Speaker 2: but baby, you are a bad actor. That was something
- 27:36Speaker 2: the worst acting I've seen since Batwoman.
- 27:39Speaker 1: It was not good. And I love Halle Berry and
- 27:42Speaker 1: that's no shake to Halle Berry.
- 27:44Speaker 2: She won a Razzie Award for that performance, Child and
- 27:46Speaker 2: accepted it with her Oscar work.
- 27:48Speaker 1: Halle.
- 27:49Speaker 2: I think that was the day I was like, I
- 27:53Speaker 2: can't watch this shit no more, like to witness Joe
- 27:57Speaker 2: Gorga give an al Pacino stop performance where.
- 28:02Speaker 1: He's I didn't get it.
- 28:04Speaker 2: And you could tell Lloyd was like, what are you doing?
- 28:07Speaker 2: And I even think Lloyd kept asking him like, bro,
- 28:10Speaker 2: what are you doing. Even Frank Catana, who you know
- 28:15Speaker 2: is a show pony, he was even like, Joe, you're
- 28:18Speaker 2: doing the most.
- 28:20Speaker 1: I don't know if Mark.
- 28:22Speaker 2: Wahlberg is waiting to hand you a script or you
- 28:26Speaker 2: know again, it's Tyler Perry behind the scenes, give me.
- 28:30Speaker 1: You a wig to come on.
- 28:32Speaker 2: Joe Gorga gave a performance of a performance of a performance.
- 28:36Speaker 1: And I was exhausted.
- 28:39Speaker 2: I think Melissa and Joe understand that without Teresa drama,
- 28:44Speaker 2: they just are expendable, which is why they got on
- 28:50Speaker 2: the show in the first place. Again, my opinion, allegedly,
- 28:54Speaker 2: one of the things that we talked about this podcast
- 28:56Speaker 2: is how Melissa got on the show. Now, look, I'm
- 28:59Speaker 2: not going to do another deep dive into that. Listen
- 29:03Speaker 2: to my podcast episode with Teresa Judais. I even told
- 29:06Speaker 2: Bargaart Joseph the story, and then listen to me and
- 29:09Speaker 2: Jacqueline LaRita talk about it. My story has never changed,
- 29:13Speaker 2: neither has anybody else's.
- 29:15Speaker 1: Melissa.
- 29:16Speaker 2: Again, this is no shade towards you because I don't
- 29:18Speaker 2: know you personally, and once again, I think.
- 29:20Speaker 1: You are a beautiful girl.
- 29:22Speaker 2: The issue that I think we're all are having is
- 29:27Speaker 2: the fact that I just don't think you're telling the truth.
- 29:31Speaker 2: And I think if you did, it would be fine.
- 29:33Speaker 2: The truth sell set you free.
- 29:35Speaker 1: Baby.
- 29:36Speaker 2: I think if you said look, did I want to
- 29:39Speaker 2: get on the show.
- 29:39Speaker 1: Yes? Did I Facebook friend Carlos King? Yes?
- 29:45Speaker 2: Did I talk to the like, I think it's okay
- 29:48Speaker 2: to say it. I think if you said it, people
- 29:51Speaker 2: will be like, okay, because at this point you've been
- 29:54Speaker 2: off for ten years, so congratulations. But I think you
- 29:59Speaker 2: being upset about not acknowledging that, Melissa, you did get
- 30:05Speaker 2: on the show behind Teresa's back, allegedly whether or not
- 30:09Speaker 2: you told her you were interviewing like Melissa my story,
- 30:14Speaker 2: Teresa's story, Danielle Stoves story, Jacquelin Larita's story.
- 30:18Speaker 1: No one's story has changed, Melissa.
- 30:21Speaker 2: I think it's okay to just admit it, and I
- 30:23Speaker 2: think you will win so many people over.
- 30:25Speaker 1: If you did.
- 30:27Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are having trouble with
- 30:29Speaker 2: you because you just won't admit it. And then my
- 30:32Speaker 2: friends Tamra and Teddy on their podcast, you know, they
- 30:35Speaker 2: did a video recently and said when they had Jacqueline
- 30:39Speaker 2: Loarreta on, Melissa text Tamra and said, I'm mad and
- 30:44Speaker 2: that's not true and Jacqueline was lying. Listen, Jaquelin LaRita
- 30:49Speaker 2: and I almost stand ten toes down on this one.
- 30:52Speaker 1: And please quote me.
- 30:57Speaker 2: Jacqueline Loarita is a lot of things. She is not
- 31:01Speaker 2: a liar. She doesn't lie. She doesn't Jack would get
- 31:07Speaker 2: in trouble with her family members because she refused to
- 31:11Speaker 2: lie just because we're family.
- 31:16Speaker 1: You got on the show.
- 31:17Speaker 2: It's like, Melissa, it's cool, like it's fine, No one cares.
- 31:22Speaker 2: I think maybe some of the tree huggers will care,
- 31:25Speaker 2: but they don't like you anyway, so just don't. You
- 31:29Speaker 2: would never win off the tree huggers. They don't like you.
- 31:31Speaker 2: And guess what, that's fine, It's okay. What's not okay
- 31:35Speaker 2: is the way this season is shaping out to be.
- 31:38Speaker 1: I've lost interest.
- 31:40Speaker 2: I'm not invested in the New Girls because I feel
- 31:44Speaker 2: like I'm so bombarded by the same old story in
- 31:47Speaker 2: the same old conflict.
- 31:48Speaker 1: And I really do believe.
- 31:50Speaker 2: If you remove Melissa and Joe from the equation, the
- 31:53Speaker 2: show won't have a chance of succeeding. Because look, I've
- 31:58Speaker 2: said this once and I said it again, and I'm
- 32:00Speaker 2: somebody who loves, loves loves, and they love me too.
- 32:03Speaker 2: I love Jacqueline, Dina, Caroline, Danielle. Danielle was on my
- 32:07Speaker 2: podcast too. I love all those girls, and I think
- 32:11Speaker 2: all of them will even say to you, like, look,
- 32:14Speaker 2: at this point, it's Teresa's show. Teresa gives so much
- 32:18Speaker 2: to the show, so much to it. Teresa, she said
- 32:23Speaker 2: to herself, she had a baby on the show. She
- 32:27Speaker 2: got divorced on the show. She is getting married remarried
- 32:32Speaker 2: on the show. She buried her parents on the show,
- 32:36Speaker 2: like she had to suffer through going to jail on
- 32:39Speaker 2: this show and then coming home. Teresa has given every
- 32:43Speaker 2: single piece of her life to that show. That's why
- 32:46Speaker 2: it's her show. And that doesn't dismiss Margaret and Jennifer
- 32:51Speaker 2: and Dolores. It truly doesn't. It does not. They're all great,
- 32:58Speaker 2: and I love all of those girls. Girls too. I
- 33:01Speaker 2: even think they'll say, like, look, it's fine. Teresa is
- 33:04Speaker 2: the marquee. When you think of New Jersey Housewives, you
- 33:07Speaker 2: think of Teresa. She flipped the table, and guess what,
- 33:12Speaker 2: that's fine. It's fine, it's fine. What isn't fine is
- 33:21Speaker 2: Melissa and Joe continuously not having anything else going on
- 33:26Speaker 2: but starting this beef with Teresa. And I'm not saying
- 33:30Speaker 2: that Teresa is always innocent, but I also think at
- 33:33Speaker 2: some point, guys, you gotta move on from it and say,
- 33:36Speaker 2: what else do we have. Teresa has eight years a
- 33:41Speaker 2: more story to tell. The Gorga's got eight minutes left
- 33:45Speaker 2: a story to tell, and that is no shade.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Baby, It's no shade.
- 33:49Speaker 2: In order for the Real Housewives of New Jersey to continue,
- 33:54Speaker 2: the Gorgas must leave their.
- 33:55Speaker 1: Time is up.
- 33:57Speaker 2: Teresa already says she's never talking to them again, and
- 34:00Speaker 2: that makes me even sad to repeat that, because I
- 34:03Speaker 2: have nine siblings and I know how much family means
- 34:06Speaker 2: to me. But I have to admit if I was
- 34:10Speaker 2: in Teresa's shoes, and if I saw my sibling use
- 34:14Speaker 2: the show to start drama, allegedly to get a buck,
- 34:21Speaker 2: I won't talk to them either. So if Teresa isn't
- 34:27Speaker 2: talking to you guys anymore, and I believe she's not,
- 34:31Speaker 2: I don't want to see Melissa having dinner with Margaret.
- 34:35Speaker 2: I'm bored. Margaret is great television. Margaret could have dinner
- 34:38Speaker 2: with the New Girls and gets a new drama going.
- 34:41Speaker 2: Jennifer Aiden can get some drama started. Jennifer Aiden is
- 34:44Speaker 2: a fantastic reality star. I love Margaret and Jennifer Aiden,
- 34:49Speaker 2: and Dolores is great for the show too.
- 34:52Speaker 1: You have two new bees that to me could have been.
- 34:55Speaker 2: Like how Portia and Kenya gone all Season five of
- 34:58Speaker 2: Atlanta Housewives and they I'm gonna handily change.
- 35:01Speaker 1: The temperature of the show. That's what this show needs.
- 35:06Speaker 2: It needs a temperature change, and that temperature is on
- 35:11Speaker 2: zero degrees with the Gorgas.
- 35:14Speaker 1: It's time to go.
- 35:15Speaker 2: It's time to leave, and maybe, just maybe, you guys
- 35:21Speaker 2: could be able to do other things with a network.
- 35:24Speaker 2: You guys have a podcast, but I think you all
- 35:28Speaker 2: need to join Kathy.
- 35:30Speaker 1: And Rosie and get off the show. Thank you for
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