Latest / We Talk Back / Keep That in 2022
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- 0:03Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
- 0:07Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all?
- 0:11Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
- 0:13Speaker 2: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and
- 0:15Speaker 2: these hoes and everybody else in between. It's your co-host,
- 0:19Speaker 2: AJ Holiday.
- 0:21Speaker 1: What's up, Tam? Hey, girl. Hey, y'all. It's me, Tam Bam. Look,
- 0:25Speaker 1: we in the flesh. Adam, wait with us. I'm so excited.
- 0:29Speaker 1: It's our 100th episode, y'all. Good, 100. And we decided
- 0:33Speaker 1: that we need to film so y'all can see us.
- 0:35Speaker 1: How you feel?
- 0:35Speaker 2: I'm good. We did our show 99 episodes in a
- 0:40Speaker 2: fucking row with no break. And we had people messaging
- 0:43Speaker 2: us like, why y'all ain't recording this week? Like, bitch,
- 0:46Speaker 2: we need time off. Like, everybody else be having like
- 0:49Speaker 2: breaks in between seasons.
- 0:50Speaker 1: We didn't get that.
- 0:51Speaker 2: So now here we are. And hopefully we'll do video
- 0:54Speaker 2: for you guys going forward.
- 0:56Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Good.
- 0:58Speaker 2: Christmas just passed. I didn't do shit on Christmas but sleep.
- 1:02Speaker 2: It didn't feel like Christmas for real.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Did you get anything for Christmas? You know what? Everybody
- 1:05Speaker 1: said that this Christmas wasn't Christmas thing. It wasn't.
- 1:08Speaker 2: This is the least most Christmas feeling I think I've
- 1:12Speaker 2: ever had for the holidays.
- 1:14Speaker 1: You know what? My Christmas wasn't... I didn't anticipate it
- 1:18Speaker 1: being very Christmassy because my family was all scattered about.
- 1:22Speaker 1: But my mom surprised me and drove up to Charlotte
- 1:25Speaker 1: and me and my mom hung out. It was so cool.
- 1:28Speaker 1: I was so happy. When she told me she was
- 1:30Speaker 1: pulling up, I literally cried in the bathroom a little bit. Like,
- 1:33Speaker 1: I shed a thug tear, my nigga.
- 1:36Speaker 2: Cry baby ass.
- 1:37Speaker 1: And then we just watched Best Man, y'all. If y'all
- 1:40Speaker 1: haven't seen it, y'all need to go watch the Best
- 1:42Speaker 1: Man on Peacock. Yeah, it's on Peacock. Watch Best Man.
- 1:46Speaker 1: It was really good. It was a little cheesy, couple
- 1:48Speaker 1: Tyler Perry moments. But for the most part- You weren't
- 1:50Speaker 1: a Tyler Perry producer? No, I'm just saying, you know
- 1:53Speaker 1: how Tyler Perry heads up. Bad wigs, all that shit? No,
- 1:55Speaker 1: not necessarily bad wigs, but super lighthearted, probably not realistic
- 1:59Speaker 1: kind of moments. But for the most part, it was
- 2:02Speaker 1: really good. And it's a good story about friendship and
- 2:04Speaker 1: relationships and things like that. So we watched that. And
- 2:07Speaker 1: then I took her out to look at, like, I
- 2:10Speaker 1: found online, like, a couple houses in Charlotte that you
- 2:12Speaker 1: could go see the lights. And one of them had, like,
- 2:15Speaker 1: the lights set to a radio station. So you go
- 2:17Speaker 1: to the radio station and the light show happens. So
- 2:20Speaker 1: that was fun. Me and her rolled around and did
- 2:22Speaker 1: that and listened to music and just talked. That was cool.
- 2:24Speaker 2: Girl, we didn't even have traditional Christmas dinner. We had
- 2:27Speaker 2: fish and shrimp, fried fish, fried shrimp.
- 2:30Speaker 1: But you know what? Nobody wants, if you have traditional Thanksgiving,
- 2:33Speaker 1: you don't want traditional Christmas.
- 2:35Speaker 2: We did seafood for Thanksgiving this year as well.
- 2:37Speaker 1: Oh, okay. Y'all didn't have no traditional food at all.
- 2:39Speaker 2: I made a macaroni.
- 2:40Speaker 1: That's about it.
- 2:41Speaker 2: You got to have a macaroni. I'm sick of the
- 2:43Speaker 2: nigga food.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Sorry. Yeah? Yeah. What's the nigga food? You know, neck bones, pigtails.
- 2:51Speaker 2: Just all the crazy ass greasy shit.
- 2:54Speaker 1: We don't have no pigtails. Yeah. You have a whole
- 2:56Speaker 1: stew pot. I don't know if y'all know what that is.
- 2:58Speaker 1: That's the country shit where you have like neck bones, pigtails,
- 3:03Speaker 1: ox tail, all of that in one pot.
- 3:04Speaker 2: I can't do it. I haven't had pork in many years.
- 3:07Speaker 1: That's slavery food. Nigga food.
- 3:09Speaker 2: I said that. But other than that, I ain't do
- 3:15Speaker 2: much this weekend for real, man.
- 3:16Speaker 1: I relaxed a lot. That's good. Getting ready for today.
- 3:20Speaker 1: Relaxation is important. Yep. 100th fucking episode. How you feel, bitch?
- 3:27Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 3:29Speaker 2: I don't know. We got a lot more episodes ahead
- 3:31Speaker 2: of us.
- 3:33Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm happy. Me too.
- 3:36Speaker 2: That's a big accomplishment because most podcasts from what I read,
- 3:40Speaker 2: the statistics is they don't make it past seven episodes.
- 3:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:45Speaker 2: And most new podcasts get like, you know, 500 downloads
- 3:49Speaker 2: an episode.
- 3:50Speaker 1: I'm saying we had a little help.
- 3:52Speaker 2: So what, bitch? They can't get mad at the cheat code.
- 3:58Speaker 1: And we also had a little contract that we had
- 4:00Speaker 1: to bring our ass to work. But let's get into
- 4:06Speaker 1: the stupid internet news. What we got going on?
- 4:10Speaker 2: Tory Lanez.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Case and trial.
- 4:13Speaker 2: Have you been falling at all?
- 4:14Speaker 1: You know, I watched a little bit, but like I
- 4:16Speaker 1: said in our last episode, I'm over it. You know,
- 4:18Speaker 1: I was kind of over it by the time they
- 4:21Speaker 1: were going to court. You know, all of it was
- 4:22Speaker 1: sad to me. You know, Meg said something like, I
- 4:25Speaker 1: saw on like Shave Room or something where Meg was like,
- 4:28Speaker 1: she wished she would have just died. Mm-hmm. And that
- 4:31Speaker 1: was sad to see that she was feeling like that
- 4:33Speaker 1: based on what happened.
- 4:35Speaker 2: Because she was getting a lot of attacks from the
- 4:36Speaker 2: public just because she came out and spoke against him. Mm-hmm.
- 4:40Speaker 2: So initially, Meg Thee Stallion, she wasn't trying to come
- 4:43Speaker 2: out and say anything. But Tory Lanez and his publicists,
- 4:47Speaker 2: they were feeding the blogs a lot of information. So
- 4:49Speaker 2: that made her have to come out and say what
- 4:51Speaker 2: actually happened. And she said he shot her. And people
- 4:56Speaker 2: are mad because, you know, in their minds she lied
- 5:00Speaker 2: just because she lied about fucking him. Whose business is that?
- 5:04Speaker 1: Right.
- 5:04Speaker 2: Why does she have to tell Gayle the truth? Is
- 5:07Speaker 2: that Gayle's business to even fucking ask?
- 5:10Speaker 1: It wasn't, but I feel like she should have just
- 5:12Speaker 1: been very honest about the whole situation from the beginning. Why? Why? Because.
- 5:17Speaker 2: About having sex?
- 5:19Speaker 1: About everything involved. If you're going to go on an
- 5:21Speaker 1: interview with Gayle King, like you had to know that
- 5:27Speaker 1: the truth was going to come out in this situation.
- 5:30Speaker 2: But I feel like people have conflated the two. So yes,
- 5:35Speaker 2: she did lie about having any type of sexual relation with.
- 5:38Speaker 1: I do not have sex with anybody. She lied about it, right?
- 5:43Speaker 2: But how does that, like, negate the fact that he
- 5:48Speaker 2: actually shot at her?
- 5:49Speaker 1: She said, if I don't come, it don't count. Period.
- 5:54Speaker 1: That's the rule.
- 5:56Speaker 2: That's the fucking rule. But she said, you know, she
- 5:59Speaker 2: lied because She knew her friend liked him. She knew Kelsey,
- 6:03Speaker 2: Kelsey Harris, which was her best friend. She knew that
- 6:07Speaker 2: she had a crush on Tory Lanez. I don't know
- 6:10Speaker 2: whether or not they were intimate, and I don't believe
- 6:12Speaker 2: that ever came out, but the narrative the defense attorney
- 6:16Speaker 2: was sticking with is that this is a man who
- 6:18Speaker 2: was fucking with two homegirls, and shit got ugly when
- 6:20Speaker 2: they found out, right? But Meg Thee Stallion really didn't
- 6:24Speaker 2: change her story about him saying, dance, bitch, and shooting
- 6:28Speaker 2: at her feet. eyewitness account said that he saw some
- 6:35Speaker 2: flash come from a woman. He did say that, right?
- 6:38Speaker 2: So that's another thing the defense was trying to say. Oh, okay, well,
- 6:40Speaker 2: her friend possibly shot her. But on top of that,
- 6:44Speaker 2: the eyewitness said that he saw the little man, his
- 6:49Speaker 2: exact words, start shooting erratically. Now, the blogs took the
- 6:53Speaker 2: shit to the internet and said, oh, he was shooting
- 6:55Speaker 2: in the air. But the actual witness said He was
- 6:58Speaker 2: shooting erratically and then the woman fell to the ground.
- 7:03Speaker 1: I'm over it. Yeah. I'm really over the whole thing.
- 7:06Speaker 1: I mean, he's about to do some, he's in jail now, right? Yeah,
- 7:10Speaker 1: they detained him after court. Yeah. Went to jail. I
- 7:13Speaker 1: wonder how long he gonna sit there.
- 7:14Speaker 2: So he's facing up to 22 years and nine months,
- 7:18Speaker 2: they say.
- 7:18Speaker 1: Damn. You know what? Like, I hate any violence against
- 7:23Speaker 1: a black woman anytime, obviously. Or any black man, too. Mm-hmm.
- 7:28Speaker 1: I just feel bad for everybody. I feel bad for
- 7:30Speaker 1: her because she's also a talented individual whose whole life
- 7:33Speaker 1: is about to be changed completely. And then I feel
- 7:37Speaker 1: bad for her because she had a very traumatic, like
- 7:39Speaker 1: she lost her mom. Now she's ultimately lost her best friend.
- 7:42Speaker 1: That girl was her best friend. And listen, y'all. I
- 7:47Speaker 1: did a podcast called Tequila Talk. And I said some
- 7:51Speaker 1: things about anal bees and the experience I had in college.
- 7:56Speaker 1: And let me tell y'all. It went to Worldstar and
- 8:00Speaker 1: they drug my ass over the coals on Worldstar, y'all.
- 8:03Speaker 1: They drug my ass about my life. This is my experience.
- 8:07Speaker 1: Why y'all so mad? If you said something bad about me,
- 8:11Speaker 1: Starship 24. Who the fucking Starship 24? That was somebody
- 8:16Speaker 1: talking about I don't love myself. Because you use anal beads?
- 8:20Speaker 1: I'm confused. Yeah, because I kept talking to the person
- 8:24Speaker 1: that was calling me dude. That was a joke. We
- 8:26Speaker 1: were friends. It was a joke between us. It wasn't
- 8:29Speaker 1: like the whole campus. I told the world. Okay, so
- 8:32Speaker 1: get over it. So I just imagine that was just
- 8:35Speaker 1: a little small group of people who was raking me
- 8:38Speaker 1: over the coals. And I was like, for like two minutes,
- 8:41Speaker 1: I was.
- 8:42Speaker 2: Like- Feeling some type of way. Yeah, you can't read
- 8:45Speaker 2: the fucking comments.
- 8:46Speaker 1: But then I got over it. I remember I was
- 8:47Speaker 1: a bad bitch and fucked them, right? But imagine having
- 8:51Speaker 1: this amount of people discussing your life and having an
- 8:53Speaker 1: opinion about you. And hurtful opinions about you.
- 8:56Speaker 2: Yep. Without knowing the full truth of anything. Because as
- 8:59Speaker 2: far as I'm concerned, all of them kind of recanted
- 9:02Speaker 2: what they initially told detectives and what initially was being reported.
- 9:07Speaker 2: All of them had a whole different story, especially Kelsey. Right.
- 9:09Speaker 2: And one of the things she told the detectives is
- 9:12Speaker 2: that Tory Lanez, like right after, offered both of them
- 9:16Speaker 2: a million dollars to not fucking talk. And five minutes
- 9:19Speaker 2: after the shooting, Kelsey sent a text message to... Meg
- 9:24Speaker 2: Thee Stallion's bodyguard and said, hurry, Tori just shot Meg 911.
- 9:31Speaker 2: And then she told, you know, in front of the court,
- 9:33Speaker 2: she was like, I don't know why I sent that.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Girl, you know why. Exactly.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Now, even though she had immunity, right, so she could
- 9:41Speaker 2: tell whatever, you know, happened in court, she still didn't
- 9:45Speaker 2: say that she shot him.
- 9:46Speaker 1: Right.
- 9:46Speaker 2: She could have said that and he could have probably walked.
- 9:49Speaker 2: But she still, you know, stood with the fact that
- 9:52Speaker 2: she didn't shoot her. Meg didn't shoot her fucking self.
- 9:56Speaker 2: She's the only person on the scene who didn't have
- 9:57Speaker 2: access to a weapon.
- 9:58Speaker 1: Who the fuck shot her?
- 9:59Speaker 2: So I'm confused as to why people in the public
- 10:03Speaker 2: are dragging her. And it just feels like, you know,
- 10:05Speaker 2: and I'm going to wrap this up in a second,
- 10:07Speaker 2: but I just want people to, this could be your mom,
- 10:11Speaker 2: your sister, your daughter. Just because you don't know Meg
- 10:14Speaker 2: Thee Stallion directly and she's not related to you, That
- 10:16Speaker 2: doesn't mean your family and the women you love are
- 10:19Speaker 2: exempt from this type of shit. Everybody can be pimped out.
- 10:25Speaker 2: Nobody's exempt from this pimping. So, I don't know.
- 10:29Speaker 1: And that's why, yeah, I feel my heart goes out
- 10:31Speaker 1: to her. I'm glad that Gentleman Party is standing by
- 10:35Speaker 1: her side, and I hope that 2023 is very lit
- 10:40Speaker 1: for her.
- 10:40Speaker 2: They even tried to drag Party for coming out and saying,
- 10:43Speaker 2: you know, If something happened to black women, he's glad
- 10:46Speaker 2: people can come out and.
- 10:48Speaker 1: Speak their truth.
- 10:50Speaker 2: They tried to say he was abusing Cash Doll. Cash
- 10:52Speaker 2: Doll even came out and said, why y'all keep saying that?
- 10:54Speaker 2: That's a fucking lie. So the way the internet creates narratives,
- 10:58Speaker 2: can we leave some of the internet in 2022 a
- 11:01Speaker 2: little bit?
- 11:02Speaker 1: We gonna get into that. We gonna get into that.
- 11:04Speaker 1: The fuck?
- 11:04Speaker 2: Some of these random ass trolls.
- 11:07Speaker 1: So I saw on the shade room that Brittany Renner
- 11:11Speaker 1: said that But she ain't fuck all them niggas. A
- 11:16Speaker 1: lot of us have regrets.
- 11:17Speaker 2: I saw that.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I could identify with some of that. Honestly,
- 11:22Speaker 1: there's people from my past that... I'm sorry to this man.
- 11:27Speaker 1: I do not know this man.
- 11:30Speaker 2: Girl, I got fuck you money for anybody. Like, when
- 11:32Speaker 2: we really like shit get real stupid, I might just
- 11:35Speaker 2: have to get rid of a few people.
- 11:37Speaker 1: Okay? Listen, she ain't joking, you guys. I'm not.
- 11:42Speaker 2: People come up missing every day, B. And I mean that.
- 11:45Speaker 1: But, you know, you're implicating yourself right now. So just...
- 11:49Speaker 1: Don't tell people that.
- 11:50Speaker 2: This is for entertainment purposes only.
- 11:52Speaker 1: Until somebody dead, then you in jail. You gonna tell?
- 11:57Speaker 1: In a cell next to Tory Lanez's ass. You gonna tell?
- 12:01Speaker 1: I ain't telling shit. I don't know shit.
- 12:02Speaker 2: If everybody shut the fuck up, they don't have a case,
- 12:04Speaker 2: but niggas talk too much.
- 12:05Speaker 1: You know how that go. Gonna. All right, next. Ooh!
- 12:10Speaker 2: It's like, y'all, I don't want no smoke.
- 12:16Speaker 1: I don't want no smoke. I don't know.
- 12:17Speaker 2: Gunna said he did not snitch. Yeah, okay.
- 12:19Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right. You're right, you're right, you're right. Anyway,
- 12:25Speaker 1: back to Brittany Renner.
- 12:26Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember getting dragged a little bit on one
- 12:29Speaker 2: of the first podcasts outside our show that we did together.
- 12:32Speaker 2: I won't call any names. But I would think they're
- 12:36Speaker 2: supposed to be like our sister... on the same network
- 12:39Speaker 2: type shit. But they was coming for me because I said,
- 12:41Speaker 2: Hoenn doesn't heal.
- 12:43Speaker 1: It doesn't.
- 12:43Speaker 2: So when you're going through bullshit and you're using sex
- 12:47Speaker 2: as an outlet, you're going to feel even more shitty
- 12:50Speaker 2: because you probably want a little bit more intimacy from
- 12:54Speaker 2: a man as opposed to just getting smashed and dashed.
- 12:57Speaker 2: So now she's older. She has a child now. And
- 13:00Speaker 2: now she's reconsidering some of her earlier activity. And she
- 13:04Speaker 2: was somebody online with the attitude, I don't give a,
- 13:06Speaker 2: like sex is just whatever. But it's definitely an exchange
- 13:10Speaker 2: of some real fucking energy.
- 13:12Speaker 1: And that just shows her growth as a woman. There's
- 13:15Speaker 1: a lot of women that can identify with that. And
- 13:17Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that they had sex with a ton
- 13:19Speaker 1: of people. It could be two people that they wish
- 13:22Speaker 1: they had. So I get it. But she also doing
- 13:27Speaker 1: side chick chicken sandwich commercials. Get your bag though. Oh,
- 13:31Speaker 1: for crystals? Yeah. Charlemagne shit? Yeah. Get the bag. I'm
- 13:37Speaker 1: not mad at that. Might as well make it work
- 13:39Speaker 1: for you, right?
- 13:40Speaker 2: No, you do not have Brittany Rayner. I ain't seen that.
- 13:42Speaker 1: Yeah. It's the side chick chicken sandwich for crystals.
- 13:46Speaker 2: But I know about the side chick chicken sandwich, but
- 13:49Speaker 2: I didn't know she was, like, endorsing it.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Yeah, she's in the commercial. She looks beautiful. Yeah.
- 13:55Speaker 2: I like Brittany Rayner.
- 13:56Speaker 1: Me too.
- 13:57Speaker 2: As far as I'm concerned, her and Mariah Carey are
- 13:59Speaker 2: the same people.
- 14:01Speaker 1: Who play who? I don't get it. They look alike.
- 14:04Speaker 2: Do they not? Well, where I care?
- 14:06Speaker 1: It's 50 years old.
- 14:07Speaker 2: And her and Brittany Rayner look alike.
- 14:09Speaker 1: All right, so shout out to Brittany Rayner. Get your
- 14:11Speaker 1: chicken sandwich. They come to South Carolina. All right, let's
- 14:14Speaker 1: talk about Sukiyana. Did you see Sukiyana said that she
- 14:19Speaker 1: makes dinner for, she cooks for women's husbands on Sundays. Yes.
- 14:26Speaker 1: I don't know what, maybe she's just trying to be funny.
- 14:29Speaker 1: I think she really being that cook.
- 14:30Speaker 2: Maybe she want to cook that nigga a chicken sandwich.
- 14:32Speaker 1: Yeah. A vegan cauliflower. Oh, yeah. She switched that.
- 14:35Speaker 2: Shit up real quick. Like, yeah, I do vegan cauliflower chicken.
- 14:39Speaker 1: Like, nigga, if you don't want real meat, I got
- 14:41Speaker 1: some cauliflower chicken for you.
- 14:43Speaker 2: Suki Hunter is funny as hell, man. I ain't cooking
- 14:46Speaker 2: for nobody else's wife.
- 14:47Speaker 1: That's not my job.
- 14:48Speaker 2: Excuse me. I'm not cooking for somebody else's husband. That's
- 14:51Speaker 2: not my job.
- 14:52Speaker 1: But why just the husband? Can I get a meal, Suki? Bitch.
- 14:55Speaker 1: Because I like to eat, too, on Sundays. You want
- 14:57Speaker 1: the side bitch to cook for you? Why not? Girl,
- 15:00Speaker 1: I'm not eating from the side, bitch. You don't know.
- 15:02Speaker 2: What's she trying to put in your damn food?
- 15:04Speaker 1: Why?
- 15:05Speaker 2: This the side, bitch, you going to eat from? She
- 15:07Speaker 2: ain't trying to be my side, bitch.
- 15:09Speaker 1: She just cooking. I'm just trying to see if I
- 15:11Speaker 1: can get a plate.
- 15:15Speaker 2: I'm definitely not eating from the side, bitch. And technically,
- 15:19Speaker 2: to me, it's not the side, bitch's job to be cooking.
- 15:22Speaker 1: This is how shit get fucked up.
- 15:24Speaker 2: Why are you cooking for somebody else's husband?
- 15:26Speaker 1: She technically did say she was interested in being a
- 15:29Speaker 1: side business. She said that was just her marketing plan
- 15:32Speaker 1: to cook for her husband. She did say she was cooking.
- 15:34Speaker 1: I don't get it.
- 15:35Speaker 2: I need to see the full episode to understand what
- 15:37Speaker 2: the conversation was even about.
- 15:38Speaker 1: I don't get it.
- 15:40Speaker 2: She look like she can cook though, ain't it? Sukihana
- 15:42Speaker 2: do be fucking cooking. You ever seen some of her videos? Yes,
- 15:45Speaker 2: she definitely be cooking. She got kids.
- 15:47Speaker 1: That don't mean nothing. I know bitches feed kids chicken
- 15:50Speaker 1: fingers and fish sticks every week.
- 15:51Speaker 2: Mystery meat. McDonald's mystery meat. Nah, I like Sukihana. But yeah,
- 15:58Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, side bitches or the other one.
- 16:01Speaker 2: We had our whole episode on what's the mistress, what's
- 16:03Speaker 2: the side bitch. Like, everybody got a job. Like, that's
- 16:06Speaker 2: your wife's job to cook for you. Like, I'm fine. Okay,
- 16:09Speaker 2: come hang out.
- 16:09Speaker 1: So side bitches don't cook meals?
- 16:11Speaker 2: Not for somebody else's husband.
- 16:13Speaker 1: They just go to eat.
- 16:16Speaker 2: Yes, take me out to dinner. What the fuck I
- 16:18Speaker 2: look like cooking for you, man? That's what your wife for.
- 16:21Speaker 1: No?
- 16:23Speaker 2: I get it.
- 16:23Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. I'm just trying to get
- 16:25Speaker 1: a free plate. That's all I'm trying to get. Shame.
- 16:31Speaker 2: But, okay, so now Christmas is up. Now we're going
- 16:34Speaker 2: into the new year. All right? So, I want to
- 16:38Speaker 2: get into some things we want to leave in 2022. Like,
- 16:43Speaker 2: what's some things you want to leave in 2022? I
- 16:46Speaker 2: can list a few things. Okay, so we'll talk about
- 16:49Speaker 2: that when we get right back from this break.
- 16:55Speaker 1: So I made a list of things that I want
- 16:59Speaker 1: to get rid of. Or leave in, right? Yeah, just
- 17:02Speaker 1: leave that shit in 2022 and never look back. Like
- 17:05Speaker 1: the girl walking up the steps with the little bag.
- 17:08Speaker 2: I'm sick of that shit.
- 17:09Speaker 1: We've been walking up the steps since 2014.
- 17:11Speaker 2: Getting rid of the same shit every fucking year.
- 17:14Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know what? You got to work on
- 17:17Speaker 1: resolving it. All right, so one of the things that
- 17:20Speaker 1: I definitely want to get rid of or leave in
- 17:23Speaker 1: 2022 is text messages from businesses and phone calls from businesses.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Fashion Nova, Shein texting me in the middle of the night.
- 17:33Speaker 1: B-Fly LA. Even though I love some of these companies,
- 17:37Speaker 1: I don't really shop at Shein or Fashion Nova no more.
- 17:39Speaker 1: I used to run it up with them. Not the halls.
- 17:42Speaker 1: You used to get like the... I used to run
- 17:44Speaker 1: the back up in Fashion Nova back in like 2013.
- 17:47Speaker 1: You'd be owed about $ 300 worth of shit. Only $ 100
- 17:50Speaker 1: worth of that shit fit. Right. You got to send
- 17:53Speaker 1: half of it back or just give it away. I
- 17:54Speaker 1: would always end up giving it away because it would
- 17:56Speaker 1: just be too much to send it back. But I
- 17:58Speaker 1: hate that they text me all the time. I be
- 18:00Speaker 1: thinking it's a nigga and it's Fashion Nova. Right. And
- 18:03Speaker 1: it remind me I ain't got no nigga. You know
- 18:05Speaker 1: what I'm saying?
- 18:07Speaker 2: You got them.
- 18:07Speaker 1: Why is the Fashion Nova texting me at two in
- 18:09Speaker 1: the morning? I don't know. They got to make sure
- 18:11Speaker 1: you know about the deals.
- 18:12Speaker 2: And see, I be wanting to unsubscribe to a lot
- 18:14Speaker 2: of them things and then I just don't because I'm like,
- 18:16Speaker 2: I don't want to miss a deal. I don't subscribe
- 18:18Speaker 2: to Fashion Nova. But it's a couple other companies like
- 18:21Speaker 2: Yummy Hair. Like, Black Friday, bitch, let me see what
- 18:24Speaker 2: they got going on.
- 18:25Speaker 1: But just go look at it, though. Right. You know,
- 18:27Speaker 1: I really could opt out. I always intend to opt
- 18:30Speaker 1: out a lot of shit, but I just feel like
- 18:32Speaker 1: they keep coming back.
- 18:33Speaker 2: I don't know how.
- 18:34Speaker 1: I even did.
- 18:35Speaker 2: I put my phone number, like, on the website, you know,
- 18:37Speaker 2: so you can opt out of telemarketing, telemarketers. And I
- 18:41Speaker 2: feel like ever since then, I get more random ass
- 18:44Speaker 2: text messages about weight loss.
- 18:47Speaker 1: Like, who the fuck, how? They just take over your
- 18:49Speaker 1: cell phone. Sometimes you don't even know what they're calling
- 18:52Speaker 1: about because I hang up on them. Or I start
- 18:54Speaker 1: talking shit to them. I start asking them for money.
- 18:57Speaker 2: Like, can I send y'all my phone bill? Because obviously
- 18:59Speaker 2: this y'all shit.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Right.
- 19:00Speaker 2: This ain't my phone no more.
- 19:01Speaker 1: Do I want to donate to Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Department?
- 19:05Speaker 1: Fuck no. Fuck the police. No, thank you.
- 19:09Speaker 2: All right. So one thing on my list I want
- 19:11Speaker 2: to leave in 2022.
- 19:14Speaker 1: The Kardashians. All of them.
- 19:22Speaker 2: Maybe not like a black China little girl, but the
- 19:25Speaker 2: rest of them. The rest of them bitches can stay
- 19:30Speaker 2: in 2022. I'm so sick of them. I unfollowed Kim
- 19:32Speaker 2: Kardashian like last year. I never followed any of the
- 19:36Speaker 2: other ones, but I don't know.
- 19:39Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian has done a lot of different things as
- 19:42Speaker 1: far as legal terms for black people.
- 19:47Speaker 2: Okay, so it wasn't last year that unfollowed Kim Kardashian.
- 19:50Speaker 2: It was actually this year when she did that Make
- 19:54Speaker 2: America Great photoshoot.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Did you see that?
- 19:56Speaker 2: She had like the blonde eyebrows and the blonde hair.
- 19:59Speaker 2: And we actually talked about it on one of our
- 20:01Speaker 2: previous episodes. What do they call it? The Cheeto Girl thing,
- 20:05Speaker 2: where the little white girls are going back to being
- 20:07Speaker 2: white and they don't want to act black anymore. And
- 20:10Speaker 2: I feel like the Kardashian family really infiltrated black America, period.
- 20:16Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? I'm, you know, white people
- 20:18Speaker 2: assisted as well, but I'm sick of them at this point.
- 20:24Speaker 2: And now you whitewashed, you basically telling us you going back,
- 20:29Speaker 2: you have had blonde hair for the whole year. So
- 20:31Speaker 2: that's a statement as far as I'm concerned. So we
- 20:33Speaker 2: can leave that ass in 2022.
- 20:35Speaker 1: You know, it don't make me no difference. They can
- 20:37Speaker 1: stay wherever they at. Another thing I want to leave
- 20:41Speaker 1: in 22 is the vibes. Everything is not a vibe. Oh,
- 20:45Speaker 1: it's a vibe. You're a vibe. She's a vibe. He's
- 20:48Speaker 1: a vibe. This is low vibrational. This is high vibrational.
- 20:51Speaker 1: Let's leave the vibes.
- 20:52Speaker 2: We can leave them low vibrational plates, though.
- 20:55Speaker 1: Man. Wasn't that wrong with that girl plate? That bitch had.
- 20:59Speaker 2: Two hamburgers on one plate.
- 21:01Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't eat. Maybe she was saving one for later.
- 21:05Speaker 1: We don't know what she was doing with her plate.
- 21:07Speaker 1: Mind your plate business. You need to focus on your plate.
- 21:11Speaker 1: Leave those vibrations. What was low vibrational was how she
- 21:15Speaker 1: attacked her about what she was eating. That was low vibrational.
- 21:18Speaker 2: Both situations were low vibrational. I see where she was
- 21:21Speaker 2: trying to go with it.
- 21:22Speaker 1: Yeah. Let people eat what they want. Yeah. I try
- 21:28Speaker 1: not to nitpick.
- 21:31Speaker 2: With people's plates, but I do be watching.
- 21:34Speaker 1: Fuck me. I do. I can't help it. I mind
- 21:37Speaker 1: my plate. I mind my plate business, but just the vibes.
- 21:43Speaker 1: Cause everything is not a vibe and everything is not,
- 21:47Speaker 1: everybody is not a vibe. I get tired of hearing
- 21:49Speaker 1: people say it.
- 21:50Speaker 2: I agree. Um, COVID-19. I would like to leave COVID-19
- 21:55Speaker 2: in 2022.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Absolutely.
- 21:57Speaker 2: It's probably not going anywhere. Uh, But I feel like
- 22:02Speaker 2: this winter it kind of ramped up. And the flu. Yeah.
- 22:06Speaker 1: See, okay.
- 22:08Speaker 2: It seems like I saw somebody post that they had
- 22:09Speaker 2: the flu and it was way worse than COVID could
- 22:12Speaker 2: ever be. Could it be that a lot of people
- 22:14Speaker 2: had the flu before? Like, because I was told, excuse me,
- 22:19Speaker 2: because I read that the PCR testing couldn't differentiate between
- 22:24Speaker 2: the flu and COVID-19. So who's to say a lot
- 22:27Speaker 2: of people, because annually a lot of people do die
- 22:30Speaker 2: from the flu. So I don't know what we were
- 22:32Speaker 2: dealing with. But I would like to leave COVID-19 in 2022.
- 22:35Speaker 2: Me too. I'm scared of that shit.
- 22:38Speaker 1: Yeah. You never had it, though. No. You did it.
- 22:42Speaker 2: Bitch, I be beefed up on all these damn vitamins.
- 22:45Speaker 1: I be beefing up on vitamins. You got to keep
- 22:47Speaker 1: mucus out your body. But you weren't coming outside like that.
- 22:50Speaker 1: I was in the street. I be outside. Now? But
- 22:52Speaker 1: I be real careful. How do you careful from breathing?
- 22:57Speaker 1: I drink teas.
- 22:58Speaker 2: You know, I drink a lot of loose teas with
- 23:01Speaker 2: garlic and honey. Just stuff to keep mucus down in
- 23:05Speaker 2: your body. And I started taking.
- 23:10Speaker 2: It's like a herbal laxative, kind of. But it's natural.
- 23:16Speaker 2: And it keeps your gut clean. That's where most diseases
- 23:19Speaker 2: start at. As long as you keep your stomach good...
- 23:24Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about Dookie. Y'all gave me
- 23:26Speaker 2: so much hard time about Dookie this week.
- 23:29Speaker 1: I don't even want to hear it.
- 23:30Speaker 2: Anybody tell you to go tell a goddamn story for
- 23:32Speaker 2: the world. I thought I was in a safe place. Bitch,
- 23:35Speaker 2: we ain't never safe. Let's just be clear, okay?
- 23:38Speaker 1: I just mean, okay? Y'all gonna have to deal Dookie
- 23:40Speaker 1: or not. Alright, let me tell you another thing I
- 23:44Speaker 1: want to leave. Thick ass eyelashes stitching. Like them big
- 23:51Speaker 1: ass eyelashes.
- 23:52Speaker 2: My niece came to the house this Christmas with Some
- 23:54Speaker 2: snuffleupagus eyelashes.
- 23:57Speaker 1: I hate that shit. It is not flattering to me.
- 23:59Speaker 1: And some people do the bottom roll, too. Yeah, I
- 24:02Speaker 1: hate it.
- 24:02Speaker 2: It's too much.
- 24:04Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I like a false lash. It's cute.
- 24:07Speaker 1: But when it look like two little baby birds sitting
- 24:09Speaker 1: on your motherfucking face, I cannot stand that. When the
- 24:13Speaker 1: wind blowing and the bitch face about to fall backwards, yeah,
- 24:15Speaker 1: I can't do that. I hate that.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Who made that cute? I've been wearing lashes for a
- 24:20Speaker 2: long time, and I asked my homegirl the other day,
- 24:22Speaker 2: I said, who was the first person you know who
- 24:23Speaker 2: was wearing lashes? I came to college wearing lashes. Let
- 24:27Speaker 2: me tell you who was the first person.
- 24:28Speaker 1: In 2002. The first person I saw wearing lashes, and
- 24:31Speaker 1: this was a long time ago. And we were in college.
- 24:34Speaker 1: It was Tina. Shout out to Tina. New York Tina.
- 24:38Speaker 1: And I was like just laughing so hard at her
- 24:42Speaker 1: for putting lashes on her face. Why? I was like...
- 24:45Speaker 1: What are you doing, bitch? You were born with lashes.
- 24:47Speaker 1: Why are you putting that on your face? We late
- 24:48Speaker 1: for the club. Like, just put on some mascara. And
- 24:51Speaker 1: I just thought it was the dumbest shit ever.
- 24:53Speaker 2: Nah.
- 24:53Speaker 1: But I was just, you know, a little young country girl,
- 24:55Speaker 1: and I just thought it was just outrageous to add lashes.
- 24:59Speaker 1: And then, like, maybe... I didn't start putting on lashes
- 25:01Speaker 1: until 2016. Really? Yeah.
- 25:04Speaker 2: Bitch, I came to school with long blonde weaves.
- 25:06Speaker 1: I remember you. And lashes. I remember. In 2002.
- 25:09Speaker 2: I thought you was a stripper.
- 25:12Speaker 1: Everybody.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Me and my homegirl who came to school together. And
- 25:15Speaker 2: my roommate at school, she was like, if you were
- 25:18Speaker 2: in New York, people would laugh at you walking down
- 25:20Speaker 2: the street with that long ass weave. Bitch, by the
- 25:22Speaker 2: second semester, she had a fucking Chinese bang and damn
- 25:26Speaker 2: near 30 inches down her fucking back.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Bitch- This is lit.
- 25:30Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about. Now, I'll probably
- 25:32Speaker 2: never go back to wearing blonde hair like that, but
- 25:34Speaker 2: once I started wearing black, it's more regal and nice looking.
- 25:38Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't think those lashes will catch for me.
- 25:41Speaker 1: And not shaming anybody that does like that, that's y'all,
- 25:44Speaker 1: but I hate it and I don't want you to
- 25:47Speaker 1: do it next year. Stop that shit. Get somebody else
- 25:51Speaker 1: to do it. Zeus Network.
- 25:56Speaker 2: I would like to leave Zeus Network along with their
- 25:59Speaker 2: whole slate in 2022. That's including Crazy in Love, Krishan, Rock,
- 26:05Speaker 2: and Blueface. Baddies, South, East, West, North, whichever one. And
- 26:12Speaker 2: the Bobby, I love you purr, purr. Yes, I want
- 26:17Speaker 2: them to stay.
- 26:18Speaker 1: You feel like it's trash TV? It's trash TV. I'm sorry.
- 26:21Speaker 2: I know we talk shit on this podcast. But not
- 26:24Speaker 2: that type of shit. I think we represent for women,
- 26:27Speaker 2: just regular women, pretty well. That damn show, man. All
- 26:31Speaker 2: those shows. It's just trash. How much are y'all being
- 26:36Speaker 2: paid to make us look like that? This is representation.
- 26:39Speaker 1: But you know what? That's a part of real culture, right?
- 26:43Speaker 1: That's a small facet of our culture. There's multifaceted. There's
- 26:47Speaker 1: all different types of black people. And that's a part
- 26:50Speaker 1: of it.
- 26:50Speaker 2: But do you think the positive parts get the same
- 26:52Speaker 2: amount of publicity?
- 26:54Speaker 1: Not always. Not always. I'd be entertained. Low key. Like,
- 26:59Speaker 1: it's kind of like when I watch porn. Like, I
- 27:02Speaker 1: like it until I'm done and then I'm like, uh,
- 27:03Speaker 1: turn it off. You know? Grandmama watching. I'm ashamed. So, yeah, I,
- 27:13Speaker 1: those networks give, they, people, like, these black people get
- 27:16Speaker 1: an opportunity and they wouldn't be making money. You know?
- 27:19Speaker 1: And it's $ 4 a month. You don't have to tune in.
- 27:22Speaker 2: Where's the integrity, though?
- 27:24Speaker 1: There you go with this word again.
- 27:26Speaker 2: You don't like the word integrity?
- 27:27Speaker 1: I don't mind the word integrity. It's a lifelong commitment.
- 27:30Speaker 1: I don't mind the word integrity. I understand. I try
- 27:33Speaker 1: to operate with integrity. But I just don't feel like
- 27:36Speaker 1: they don't have integrity because they participate on these shows.
- 27:40Speaker 2: If you have to, as a woman, you got to
- 27:42Speaker 2: get up and fist fight another woman to get on
- 27:44Speaker 2: to a show.
- 27:46Speaker 1: Well, they didn't have to fist fight to get on
- 27:48Speaker 1: the show. They were fist fighting on the show.
- 27:50Speaker 2: Girl, they were fist fighting at the goddamn interviews for
- 27:54Speaker 2: the show.
- 27:54Speaker 1: Really? Yes.
- 27:57Speaker 2: Tommy was one of the judges when they're doing the
- 28:00Speaker 2: interviews to see who they're going to bring on. She
- 28:02Speaker 2: was fighting bitches.
- 28:03Speaker 1: It's like, ding, ding, ding. No, man. What are we doing?
- 28:07Speaker 1: I can feel you on that.
- 28:08Speaker 2: A lot of these women got children. This is what
- 28:09Speaker 2: y'all want. The internet is fucking ink.
- 28:11Speaker 1: It's not a pencil.
- 28:12Speaker 2: You can't delete none of this shit.
- 28:14Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I think I'll never be a state
- 28:16Speaker 1: senator because of that booty video. That ain't on me.
- 28:21Speaker 1: I hope my mama don't see that. Girl, whatever.
- 28:23Speaker 2: What was the girl? I forgot what state she's from,
- 28:25Speaker 2: but remember there was a politician twerking on the beach.
- 28:28Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. The world is changing. It may not be
- 28:30Speaker 1: over for me. All right. What do I want to
- 28:35Speaker 1: get rid of? Grand Risings. Don't text me grand rising.
- 28:39Speaker 1: You love that. What is that?
- 28:40Speaker 2: I don't be saying grand rising. I say rich rising.
- 28:43Speaker 1: Girl. Grand rich rising. What is that? It's some ho-teppy
- 28:48Speaker 1: ass shit.
- 28:50Speaker 2: So grand rising is more like, you know, wake up
- 28:52Speaker 2: and conquer the day. Or like rise and shine. Some
- 28:56Speaker 2: may say that saying good morning is like a curse.
- 28:59Speaker 1: It's in the Bible. Why?
- 29:01Speaker 2: Because it says something like, if you say good morning
- 29:05Speaker 2: or you yell good morning, to your neighbor, they may
- 29:09Speaker 2: take offense to it. Why? Because they may feel like
- 29:12Speaker 2: it's a curse. I don't know.
- 29:13Speaker 1: I don't know. It says that in the Bible. Listen,
- 29:16Speaker 1: if you tell somebody good morning and they feel like
- 29:18Speaker 1: it's a curse, they need Jesus. A lot of people
- 29:21Speaker 1: don't even like morning. You know what I'm saying? Well,
- 29:23Speaker 1: that's that part of me.
- 29:24Speaker 2: It's fucking morning.
- 29:26Speaker 1: You better be happy your motherfucking ass woke up today.
- 29:29Speaker 2: Actually, grand rising is also more associated with the penis. Like,
- 29:36Speaker 2: Waking up with a Woody in the morning.
- 29:39Speaker 1: Girl, you be making shit up. up.
- 29:40Speaker 2: I swear to God I'm not. Y'all, when I say
- 29:42Speaker 2: some shit, just go look it up before y'all come
- 29:44Speaker 2: to me.
- 29:44Speaker 1: Grand Rising is for dicks? Yes. So why they sending
- 29:47Speaker 1: it to me? I ain't got no dick.
- 29:48Speaker 2: So you remember when we had a dick doc on
- 29:50Speaker 2: TikTok on?
- 29:51Speaker 1: Matter of fact, no. We had a urologist on Dr. Milhouse.
- 29:58Speaker 2: And she said one of the early signs of ED
- 30:01Speaker 2: is like a man waking up without the morning wood.
- 30:04Speaker 2: You know, if it's happening, you know, too many times,
- 30:07Speaker 2: you might.
- 30:08Speaker 1: Have a problem. You know, I ain't lived with a
- 30:10Speaker 1: man in a long time. They dig me hard every
- 30:11Speaker 1: morning when they wake up?
- 30:12Speaker 2: It's supposed to be. Like, that's normal. So if you're
- 30:15Speaker 2: waking up in the morning with a lot of softies,
- 30:17Speaker 2: that's like one of the easiest early signs for erectile dysfunction.
- 30:21Speaker 2: So when somebody says grand rising... It's also associated with.
- 30:25Speaker 1: Wishing you a happy dick?
- 30:26Speaker 2: Yes. It's associated with the male phallus.
- 30:27Speaker 1: How do you ever say that?
- 30:30Speaker 2: Everybody ain't having a grand rising.
- 30:32Speaker 1: All right. I would say that part. But I still...
- 30:35Speaker 1: I would leave the term in the 2022, but hard
- 30:38Speaker 1: dicks can go to 2023. Period. First thing in the morning.
- 30:41Speaker 2: From here and beyond.
- 30:42Speaker 1: All right. What else?
- 30:43Speaker 2: Humbling black women.
- 30:46Speaker 1: Why.
- 30:47Speaker 2: It just feels like everybody just wants us to be like...
- 30:51Speaker 2: Just get in your place. I don't want to be
- 30:54Speaker 2: humble anymore. I want to act like I'm the shit.
- 30:57Speaker 2: Because you know I'm the shit. And that's why you
- 30:59Speaker 2: feel like I need to be humble.
- 31:01Speaker 1: I'm here for that one.
- 31:02Speaker 2: So I would like to leave humbling black women in 2022.
- 31:06Speaker 2: Pop your shit, bitch. Yes.
- 31:08Speaker 1: Pop your shit, period. Period. All of us. Yeah. Whatever
- 31:12Speaker 1: it is. Celebrate it. Celebrate yourself. Whatever it is. I'm
- 31:16Speaker 1: here for that one. Okay. People are going to be
- 31:20Speaker 1: mad at me. Poorly done BBLs. If you're going to
- 31:25Speaker 1: get a BBL, go to someone good. Save the money
- 31:29Speaker 1: and get a good one. I'm not saying don't do
- 31:32Speaker 1: your BBL because if you want to do something to
- 31:33Speaker 1: your body, by all means do it. I'm here for it.
- 31:36Speaker 1: But don't pay $ 2, 000 and go into some foreign country
- 31:40Speaker 1: and only paying $ 2, 000 for your BBL. I don't know
- 31:43Speaker 1: how much. Paying a small amount and then you come
- 31:46Speaker 1: back looking like a fucking ant.
- 31:48Speaker 2: And then doctors here don't want to touch it. The
- 31:50Speaker 2: same thing with the teeth.
- 31:52Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 31:52Speaker 2: Oh, bitch, that's on my list.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Teeth?
- 31:55Speaker 2: It ain't on my list, but I'm putting it on
- 31:56Speaker 2: my list. Like, why not take care of your natural teeth? No,
- 32:00Speaker 2: some people need them motherfucking veneers.
- 32:02Speaker 1: No, absolutely. You got to get the right size. You
- 32:03Speaker 1: can't be getting them extra big ones.
- 32:04Speaker 2: Right, and they go out the country to get the veneers,
- 32:07Speaker 2: and they can't get anybody to fix them here if
- 32:09Speaker 2: they crack them or whatever.
- 32:11Speaker 1: So, yeah, that goes along with the BBLs. Yeah, that
- 32:13Speaker 1: cheap version. Stop doing that.
- 32:15Speaker 2: Yeah, this is your body.
- 32:16Speaker 1: And get butts that match your body. Like, How? Some
- 32:20Speaker 1: butts ain't meant to be, like some bodies ain't meant
- 32:23Speaker 1: to have like a super fatty, you know? Because your
- 32:25Speaker 1: thighs be so small, you know? And it just looks unproportional.
- 32:29Speaker 1: It look bad.
- 32:31Speaker 2: Maybe they should go to women doctors because maybe a
- 32:33Speaker 2: woman can understand like how the body's supposed to look
- 32:35Speaker 2: naturally as opposed to going to a man and you
- 32:38Speaker 2: just throw a dunk on everybody.
- 32:39Speaker 1: It seems like there's always a man doing the work.
- 32:41Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of them doctors need to
- 32:42Speaker 2: go to jail.
- 32:44Speaker 1: Locked up. Why you ain't tell them no? Right. Just
- 32:47Speaker 1: want money?
- 32:48Speaker 2: You can't tell everybody, yeah, that ass does not belong.
- 32:51Speaker 2: If the ass was for that person's body, they would
- 32:53Speaker 2: have been born with it. A lot of people walk
- 32:56Speaker 2: around here looking like Spongebob Squarepants, okay? Bitch, you be
- 33:02Speaker 2: trying to be too damn nice. That's what it is.
- 33:03Speaker 1: No, it ain't. Because you can get like a nice
- 33:05Speaker 1: little frame on you.
- 33:06Speaker 2: It's called like a skinny BBL. Slim BBL.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what look nice. Right. And I just want
- 33:13Speaker 1: it to look like, you know, Natural. Yeah, is it
- 33:16Speaker 1: hers or is it not? It look good, you know? Right. Yeah. Yeah.
- 33:19Speaker 2: Yeah, I think some people just throw that ass and
- 33:21Speaker 2: it's just sitting in between the leg and the back.
- 33:23Speaker 2: And it just looks crazy.
- 33:25Speaker 1: It look weird. All right. Leave that in 2022.
- 33:29Speaker 2: This is for my, maybe for me a little bit,
- 33:31Speaker 2: high fructose corn syrup.
- 33:34Speaker 1: I want you on that, bitch.
- 33:36Speaker 2: I want to leave that shit in 2022 for all
- 33:38Speaker 2: black people because we literally dine.
- 33:41Speaker 1: In sweets in these streets. Okay? Thanks. More people dying
- 33:45Speaker 1: from sugar than any fucking fentanyl, COVID, or gangs killing
- 33:50Speaker 1: each other. It's sugar. Sugar killing more people. You're right
- 33:54Speaker 1: about that.
- 33:55Speaker 2: I want to leave that. Because now, the one thing
- 33:57Speaker 2: I would say, one takeaway from the Obama administration is
- 34:01Speaker 2: that he made it to where they had to put
- 34:03Speaker 2: certain things on food labels. One being, you know, make
- 34:06Speaker 2: sure you got all the ingredients in there. And then, like,
- 34:08Speaker 2: the bioengineered. Have you been seeing that on your packages?
- 34:12Speaker 1: Yes.
- 34:13Speaker 2: Bitch, there's a lot of shit I stop eating. Like,
- 34:15Speaker 2: I don't buy no Kellogg's cereal because all of it
- 34:18Speaker 2: says bioengineered ingredients on it.
- 34:21Speaker 1: You know what? I really do. Now that I think
- 34:23Speaker 1: about it, it's not very much food that I eat
- 34:25Speaker 1: that doesn't come in a container already prepared from a restaurant. Shame.
- 34:31Speaker 2: A restaurant or from a grocery store?
- 34:33Speaker 1: A restaurant. I don't really. It's so bad.
- 34:36Speaker 3: Like.
- 34:37Speaker 1: I need stock in DoorDash, bitch, because I DoorDash. So
- 34:41Speaker 1: that's another thing I'm leaving in 2020. DoorDash? Yeah, I'm
- 34:44Speaker 1: going to start actually cooking again. I used to cook
- 34:46Speaker 1: so much when I was with Danny. But then it's
- 34:51Speaker 1: like after I got single, I just stopped, you know?
- 34:54Speaker 2: No, I'd rather cook because I know what happened to it. Like,
- 34:57Speaker 2: you don't know what the fuck people be doing in
- 34:58Speaker 2: these restaurants. Digging in they nose.
- 35:00Speaker 1: This is where you got to pray over your food.
- 35:03Speaker 2: What the hell prayer going to do?
- 35:05Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know what happened to that food
- 35:07Speaker 1: before it got in the package. I don't eat.
- 35:10Speaker 2: Well, I mean, aside from, like, seafood, I don't eat, like,
- 35:13Speaker 2: meats and stuff. I don't even like, like, packaged things.
- 35:15Speaker 2: I don't like, like, juice packets.
- 35:17Speaker 1: But I mean, like.
- 35:17Speaker 2: If I can't see through.
- 35:18Speaker 1: It, I really don't buy it. You don't know what
- 35:19Speaker 1: happened to them grains before. Somebody could have rubbed their
- 35:22Speaker 1: dick all through them.
- 35:23Speaker 2: Grains before they put it in the package.
- 35:27Speaker 1: You just gotta pray and just hope that you're okay. What?
- 35:33Speaker 1: Next one for me. Thinking the zodiac is absolute. Let's
- 35:39Speaker 1: leave that in 2022. It's not absolute, bitch. Bitch, you
- 35:42Speaker 1: a whole cancer. Period. I'm a cancer, but it's not absolute.
- 35:46Speaker 1: It's not absolute, bitch. It's not absolute.
- 35:49Speaker 2: Nobody is, because we have the same sign, we're exactly alike.
- 35:52Speaker 2: Not exactly alike, but you also have to know the
- 35:55Speaker 2: person's rising and moon sign to get a pretty good calculation.
- 36:00Speaker 1: I'll be trying to get a nigga's birth date.
- 36:03Speaker 2: To get a pretty good calculation of what type of
- 36:05Speaker 2: person you are.
- 36:06Speaker 1: You a fucking cancer, bitch. I know I'm a cancer,
- 36:09Speaker 1: but I know I'm not an absolute cancer. I know
- 36:12Speaker 1: the next cancer is not absolutely... I don't know. That's
- 36:15Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They're not... Nobody's... You can't line us
- 36:18Speaker 1: all up that are born in the same month and
- 36:20Speaker 1: be like, these people are exactly the same.
- 36:22Speaker 2: I know for a fact it's fuck you, Aquarius, and
- 36:26Speaker 2: it's fuck.
- 36:27Speaker 1: You, Scorpio. Period. Pooh. Okay? Now, you might be blocking
- 36:32Speaker 1: your blessing. I avoid those niggas. You might be blocking
- 36:34Speaker 1: your blessing. It might be an Aquarius that's going to
- 36:35Speaker 1: love the fuck out of you. That's not true. You
- 36:37Speaker 1: meet him and find out his zodiac, and you're like, uh-uh.
- 36:40Speaker 2: Yes.
- 36:41Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 36:42Speaker 2: He really had to prove the shit to me, girl,
- 36:43Speaker 2: because I have been terrorized by a goddamn Aquarius, okay?
- 36:47Speaker 1: In real life. That was one person.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Okay, and I feel like that's who they are.
- 36:52Speaker 1: All of them. Yep. Period. Let's leave that in 2022.
- 36:56Speaker 1: Let's leave that, because everybody's different.
- 36:59Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I feel like knowing someone, Zodiac,
- 37:04Speaker 2: it's a... Okay, you can't hold them to that, but
- 37:09Speaker 2: it gives you a nice little starting point.
- 37:13Speaker 1: It does. Okay, that's fair. But I just said absolute.
- 37:16Speaker 1: I didn't say like... Okay. You know, like nothing is true.
- 37:18Speaker 1: Because I know I'm a crybaby. I'm sensitive and I'm loving.
- 37:23Speaker 1: All those things that are cancer, I do align with that. But...
- 37:27Speaker 1: I'm not absolute because I also can be a bitch
- 37:29Speaker 1: and I can be like not so loving at times.
- 37:32Speaker 2: But that's cancer.
- 37:33Speaker 1: Fuck you.
- 37:36Speaker 2: See?
- 37:44Speaker 1: Let me see.
- 37:46Speaker 2: Can we leave these petty ass 50-50 conversations and who
- 37:51Speaker 2: pays for what in 2022? Can we leave that? Yes.
- 37:55Speaker 1: Is that a possibility?
- 37:57Speaker 2: I mean, every podcast clip you pretty much see online,
- 38:01Speaker 2: when it's like men and women, that's what you're talking about.
- 38:04Speaker 2: Black men and women. That's like the topic of discussion.
- 38:08Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out why, whatever works for you
- 38:11Speaker 2: and your relationship.
- 38:11Speaker 1: That's how I feel. Like, whatever works for y'all is
- 38:13Speaker 1: what's going to be a dynamic of what the world
- 38:17Speaker 1: says how it should be.
- 38:18Speaker 2: Right. I just don't know why people, like, I guess,
- 38:20Speaker 2: I don't know. Men just feel like they've been kicking out.
- 38:24Speaker 2: When the average.
- 38:25Speaker 1: Men feel abused by women. I feel like men are
- 38:27Speaker 1: feeling bitter about relationships with women these days and they
- 38:32Speaker 1: feel like they're doing more than they should. Which is
- 38:35Speaker 1: crazy because I feel like men should feel like they
- 38:37Speaker 1: want to be providers. But I don't feel like they
- 38:40Speaker 1: feel that way anymore. I might be wrong.
- 38:43Speaker 2: I think.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Ego.
- 38:48Speaker 2: A healthy ego for a man would probably be one
- 38:52Speaker 2: that's fed... He had taken care of the people he loves.
- 38:56Speaker 2: That's how he feels like a man.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Right?
- 38:59Speaker 2: But there's a lot of men, again, they may feel
- 39:02Speaker 2: some type of way. Maybe they had been taken advantage
- 39:04Speaker 2: of by bad women in the past. And now it's like,
- 39:06Speaker 2: fuck all y'all hoes. And we know a lot of
- 39:07Speaker 2: these stories come from high school. Ain't even nothing valid
- 39:11Speaker 2: that happened to them.
- 39:12Speaker 1: As an adult.
- 39:12Speaker 2: Y'all been running through women y'all whole fucking life.
- 39:15Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? But yeah, I feel like men....
- 39:20Speaker 2: Like why would you not want to take care of
- 39:22Speaker 2: the woman you say you love? Why would you not
- 39:25Speaker 2: want to aspire to one day completely take care of
- 39:27Speaker 2: your family? Nobody's asking you to have all this shit
- 39:29Speaker 2: together today, but that should be your goal, your end goal,
- 39:33Speaker 2: I would think.
- 39:33Speaker 1: Right, I would agree there. But what if you're with
- 39:37Speaker 1: a woman who makes considerably more than you? Because, I mean,
- 39:40Speaker 1: we do screen equality a lot, and we make oftentimes
- 39:45Speaker 1: more money than black men in some instances. Should it
- 39:48Speaker 1: be a situation where... He's taking care of everything even
- 39:51Speaker 1: though you make more money? I don't think.
- 39:55Speaker 2: In order for a man to provide provisions, he has
- 39:58Speaker 2: to make all the money, but you have to contribute.
- 40:02Speaker 2: I feel like these niggas want to be bad bitches.
- 40:05Speaker 2: Sorry if you feel some type of way about me
- 40:07Speaker 2: saying that, but they want to be taken care of.
- 40:09Speaker 1: I'm not sorry. They want to be taken care of.
- 40:17Speaker 2: And at what point, like most little boys, They grow up,
- 40:21Speaker 2: most little black boys, because men and women, a lot
- 40:24Speaker 2: of us grow up in single parent homes. It's usually
- 40:26Speaker 2: just mama there, right? So a lot of little boys,
- 40:29Speaker 2: they grow up like can't wait to get to the
- 40:31Speaker 2: bag so they can take care of their mama because
- 40:33Speaker 2: they never saw daddy do it. So now you have
- 40:36Speaker 2: a woman, you have children, you have these women you've
- 40:39Speaker 2: created baby mamas out of. Do you want your son
- 40:41Speaker 2: now to get old enough to take care of her?
- 40:44Speaker 2: Like what are we talking about? You'll take care of
- 40:47Speaker 2: your mom, but you won't take care of me.
- 40:49Speaker 1: Right. That's a problem.
- 40:52Speaker 2: So, I don't know. I wish we could leave. Those
- 40:55Speaker 2: 50-50 conversations is some fucking poor shit.
- 40:58Speaker 1: Just cut it out already. But niggas be poor, though.
- 41:01Speaker 1: Then say that.
- 41:02Speaker 2: I think it's more so about just reflecting and then
- 41:05Speaker 2: trying to do better. Not putting women down for just
- 41:08Speaker 2: having to do. Because y'all talk shit about us in
- 41:10Speaker 2: the projects, and now you talk shit about us in
- 41:12Speaker 2: the boardroom.
- 41:13Speaker 1: Which one you want?
- 41:15Speaker 2: Fuck your degree. It don't matter.
- 41:16Speaker 1: I don't want it.
- 41:18Speaker 2: Other ethnicities, like Africans, they give a fuck about your degree.
- 41:22Speaker 2: Their mom or their daddy, your husband, they give a
- 41:24Speaker 2: fuck about that degree. But in America, men don't.
- 41:29Speaker 1: That's weird to me. I don't know. We need a
- 41:30Speaker 1: man on to talk about that. All right. So one
- 41:34Speaker 1: thing I definitely want to leave in 2022, but I
- 41:38Speaker 1: don't know if we can leave it. Fentanyl overdose. Fentanyl
- 41:42Speaker 1: overdose is rampant in our community. It's taking so many
- 41:46Speaker 1: good people out.
- 41:47Speaker 2: I had a cousin last year. People I know personally, yeah.
- 41:50Speaker 2: Excuse me, last month, not last year. Last month, 45. Yeah.
- 41:55Speaker 1: Like, I keep Narcan with me just because, and I
- 41:58Speaker 1: don't even, like, participate in any drugs that I wouldn't need.
- 42:03Speaker 1: I mean, I smoke weed. I ain't really.
- 42:05Speaker 2: Yeah, but they sprinkling the shit on the weed.
- 42:07Speaker 1: That's what I'm hearing, but why would they put it
- 42:10Speaker 1: on the weed? That's weird.
- 42:11Speaker 2: Where is the weed coming from? Let's talk about that.
- 42:13Speaker 2: Where is the weed coming from a lot of the times?
- 42:16Speaker 1: Cali?
- 42:17Speaker 2: Where does it come from before Cali?
- 42:19Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 42:20Speaker 2: Mexico a lot of times.
- 42:21Speaker 1: Mexico? Yes.
- 42:23Speaker 2: A lot of drugs come in through Mexico, through, you know,
- 42:27Speaker 2: via coming through Texas.
- 42:28Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay.
- 42:31Speaker 2: And if we know that, and call me a conspiracy theorist,
- 42:35Speaker 2: whatever it is.
- 42:36Speaker 1: Okay.
- 42:37Speaker 2: They want to control the population. What better way than
- 42:40Speaker 2: to take the recreational thing? And mind you, this didn't
- 42:42Speaker 2: start happening until they started legalizing weed every place now.
- 42:46Speaker 2: So you don't know if they're picking it up in
- 42:48Speaker 2: the cocaine of people sniffing coke, or it definitely is
- 42:52Speaker 2: now on the marijuana. So if you don't know where
- 42:55Speaker 2: your supply is coming from exactly, like if we at
- 42:57Speaker 2: war with another- I.
- 42:58Speaker 1: Know exactly where my weed come from, but- How? You
- 43:01Speaker 1: don't know where they get it from. I do. I
- 43:04Speaker 1: hear that, grower. Bitch. I know exactly where it's coming from, but-
- 43:14Speaker 1: I haven't seen anybody die from that. But in that case,
- 43:17Speaker 1: I do have Narcan in my purse. Just in case.
- 43:20Speaker 1: But I just feel like I'm in these parties and
- 43:23Speaker 1: people are doing whatever they're doing. And I just want
- 43:27Speaker 1: to be able to help in the event that happens.
- 43:30Speaker 1: Did you see?
- 43:31Speaker 2: It was a post online, but it was a police officer.
- 43:33Speaker 2: She actually just touched fentanyl.
- 43:35Speaker 1: Yeah. You don't even got to use it. You could
- 43:37Speaker 1: just touch it somewhere and really die. I don't understand.
- 43:40Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 43:41Speaker 2: I don't understand. Why would y'all create something like that?
- 43:44Speaker 2: That's how you know niggas is not handling fentanyl. Niggas
- 43:48Speaker 2: is not out here messing with shit that you just
- 43:51Speaker 2: touch and you can die.
- 43:51Speaker 1: That's not our thing.
- 43:54Speaker 2: So who's putting it out here like that?
- 43:56Speaker 1: I watched that movie. Who do you think? Remember the
- 43:58Speaker 1: series Ozark? Mm-hmm. Hmm. It ain't us. That's not our thing.
- 44:06Speaker 1: That's not our MO. I don't know, child. You got
- 44:09Speaker 1: to be a motherfucking chemist. You know, to even mix
- 44:12Speaker 1: with that shit. In a hazmat suit and shit like that.
- 44:15Speaker 1: That's not our... Niggas just bag it up and ship
- 44:20Speaker 1: it out. I don't know.
- 44:21Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 44:22Speaker 1: Let's leave that in 2022. Yep.
- 44:25Speaker 2: That's my truth. I want to leave my truth in 2022.
- 44:28Speaker 2: You want to lie?
- 44:31Speaker 1: Nah.
- 44:31Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times people be lying
- 44:33Speaker 2: when they be like, that's my truth. Like, just because
- 44:36Speaker 2: that's your truth, that doesn't mean it's the truth. Do
- 44:40Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying? So that's my truth. I
- 44:43Speaker 2: hate that.
- 44:45Speaker 1: But what would a person tell outside of their truth?
- 44:48Speaker 1: A lie, bitch. No, I'm just saying. Yeah, okay. A lie, obviously.
- 44:52Speaker 2: Yeah, like there's the truth and there's a lie.
- 44:55Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? So what is the truth?
- 44:56Speaker 1: What you believe only?
- 44:57Speaker 2: No, the truth is what actually happened. Have you ever
- 44:59Speaker 2: had a conversation with somebody and they're saying, this is
- 45:02Speaker 2: what happened, but you know that's not what happened?
- 45:04Speaker 1: Well, it's about perspective. Because that's their truth.
- 45:08Speaker 2: Okay, so then just because that's your perspective, that still
- 45:11Speaker 2: doesn't make it the truth. Do you see what I'm saying?
- 45:14Speaker 2: There's such thing as absolute truth, which is what actually transpired.
- 45:18Speaker 2: And truth has evidence. So now if you could just
- 45:21Speaker 2: say some shit with no evidence, is that the truth?
- 45:27Speaker 1: It's a slippery slope when it comes to things like
- 45:29Speaker 1: that because I can see something. We can see the
- 45:32Speaker 1: same thing happen and our story be different and it
- 45:35Speaker 1: still be true. Because of our perspective. You see what
- 45:38Speaker 1: I'm saying?
- 45:39Speaker 2: That's scary to me.
- 45:40Speaker 1: It is scary. But where did that come from, though?
- 45:43Speaker 2: That's my truth. Where did that come from? I feel
- 45:46Speaker 2: like it's a new generation thing.
- 45:48Speaker 1: No, bitch. Because when I was living in Europe, I
- 45:50Speaker 1: would watch the news. I would watch the news on AFN,
- 45:53Speaker 1: which was a military network that displayed the news from
- 45:58Speaker 1: an American perspective. Right. And then I would watch the
- 46:02Speaker 1: British news, and it would tell the same story. but
- 46:05Speaker 1: it'd be totally fucking different. Right.
- 46:08Speaker 2: And it was about perspective. So which did you believe?
- 46:12Speaker 2: Which made more sense to you then? Which gave more
- 46:14Speaker 2: proof and more evidence? Because that's what you get.
- 46:17Speaker 1: With absolute truth. I'm proud of being American. Oh, okay.
- 46:20Speaker 2: I know America be fucking lying.
- 46:25Speaker 1: I know they be lying. I'm right with my home team, though.
- 46:27Speaker 1: I hear that.
- 46:28Speaker 2: Okay, that's my truth. Yeah, we can leave that shit
- 46:31Speaker 2: in 2022.
- 46:31Speaker 1: All right. So the last thing that I want to
- 46:36Speaker 1: leave in 2022 is you send somebody a fucking text
- 46:40Speaker 1: message and you say, I love you. And then they say,
- 46:43Speaker 1: love you back without the eye on the front. That's
- 46:46Speaker 1: the problem for me. Let's leave that in 2022. If
- 46:49Speaker 1: you don't put that eye in the front, you don't
- 46:52Speaker 1: fuck with me for real. That's how I feel. What
- 46:54Speaker 1: y'all think? If I text a nigga, I love you,
- 46:56Speaker 1: and he be like, love you too? L-U-V? L-U-V. Now, L-U-V, uh-uh,
- 47:01Speaker 1: that's a problem.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Now, L-U-V, he trying to play with you. And I
- 47:05Speaker 2: feel like men definitely know the difference. Yeah, they do
- 47:08Speaker 2: that shit on purpose. It's intentional.
- 47:09Speaker 1: It's intentional. It's intentional. If you don't put that eye
- 47:12Speaker 1: in front. Then that might be they truth. Yeah, fuck that.
- 47:15Speaker 1: I love you. No, just love you. No eye. Because
- 47:20Speaker 1: everybody love you. Y'all want to talk about me. You know,
- 47:23Speaker 1: no eye in the front. That's the problem. Yeah.
- 47:27Speaker 2: Don't send me that. If I text you, I love you,
- 47:31Speaker 2: and you text me back, love you, period, you don't
- 47:34Speaker 2: love me.
- 47:35Speaker 1: Right. That's how I feel about it. Okay. We on
- 47:37Speaker 1: the same page with that. Yeah.
- 47:38Speaker 2: We ain't tripping.
- 47:39Speaker 1: All right. That's not crazy, right? It's probably men probably like,
- 47:43Speaker 1: what the fuck? If I said I love you, bitch,
- 47:45Speaker 1: I love you. No, nigga.
- 47:47Speaker 2: No, because you would say to your daughter or your
- 47:49Speaker 2: child or somebody you actually love, you would say, I
- 47:51Speaker 2: love you to make sure they know it's real. Now,
- 47:54Speaker 2: y'all niggas know what y'all be doing.
- 47:55Speaker 1: Period. All right. Let me see. Winter. Wait, you said
- 48:01Speaker 1: you only had one more?
- 48:02Speaker 2: I feel like I got a couple more.
- 48:03Speaker 1: But anyway, can we leave winter?
- 48:05Speaker 2: Bitch, it's cold as fuck outside and it hasn't been
- 48:07Speaker 2: this cold since Hurricane Hugo.
- 48:12Speaker 1: We need winter, though. For what? Mosquitoes? I think the natural, like,
- 48:16Speaker 1: if it's summer all the time.
- 48:18Speaker 2: The islands do pretty good.
- 48:19Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I guess you're right. Yes.
- 48:22Speaker 2: They have a lot of.
- 48:22Speaker 1: You're there, I think. I like winter. I definitely, like, I.
- 48:25Speaker 2: Feel like my soul belongs in Barbados.
- 48:28Speaker 1: Tropical climate.
- 48:29Speaker 2: I want a fucking beach house with a little black-ass
- 48:32Speaker 2: little boy with blonde hair. That's my, like, goal.
- 48:36Speaker 1: You want to have a baby with blonde hair? Yes. Okay.
- 48:45Speaker 1: You going to bleach it?
- 48:46Speaker 2: No, you know, like a lot of people who, you know,
- 48:49Speaker 2: grow up by the ocean, a lot of diving, like
- 48:51Speaker 2: the water changes the color of their hair. But yeah,
- 48:54Speaker 2: that's what I want.
- 48:55Speaker 1: What? What's wrong with that? That's cool. Okay. That's what
- 48:59Speaker 1: I want. No, that's cool.
- 49:00Speaker 2: I want to get rid of winter, man, because I'm
- 49:02Speaker 2: just not... I saw a post that said, uh, if
- 49:05Speaker 2: you had like machine coats.
- 49:07Speaker 1: Yeah, machine coats. Nope. But, um, I like winter time.
- 49:14Speaker 1: I like having all the seasons. I just feel like
- 49:16Speaker 1: they're important All the changes that we go through are
- 49:20Speaker 1: similar to the seasons of the year.
- 49:21Speaker 2: Well, you know, winter is definitely a bad bitch sport.
- 49:24Speaker 2: Because these bitches who used to be naked don't know
- 49:26Speaker 2: what the fuck to put on in the wintertime. They'd
- 49:28Speaker 2: still be naked.
- 49:29Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I remember being in college and wearing like.
- 49:33Speaker 2: CIAA bitch.
- 49:34Speaker 1: CIAA. Back in the day and having on... Fishnet, pantyhose
- 49:41Speaker 1: with some pumps. Freezing. With some shorts. Like it's stupid.
- 49:45Speaker 1: And going in the club. Like it's stupid. And outside. No,
- 49:48Speaker 1: you couldn't tell me I wasn't fine as fuck. Like
- 49:50Speaker 1: it's fucking stupid and cold, bitch. But I was cold
- 49:52Speaker 1: as fuck. Yes. But I don't know how I did that.
- 49:55Speaker 1: I could never do that now. I could never get
- 49:56Speaker 1: away with that now.
- 49:57Speaker 2: Yeah, because we got to pay for our health care now.
- 49:59Speaker 1: Fuck, bitch. But I just didn't even, I used to
- 50:02Speaker 1: be standing in line like this.
- 50:03Speaker 2: Bitch, you get sick, your mama, your parents, whoever got
- 50:06Speaker 2: to pay for that damn Dr.
- 50:07Speaker 1: Bill.
- 50:07Speaker 2: Now you can't afford to get sick anymore.
- 50:09Speaker 1: Yeah. Shit, bitch. We fucking don't get sick and die.
- 50:11Speaker 1: But not even that. I just would never. My comfort
- 50:14Speaker 1: is at a different space now.
- 50:17Speaker 2: I laugh at young girls when I see them walk
- 50:18Speaker 2: around with heels on like in the mall and shit. Bitch,
- 50:20Speaker 2: I know you're uncomfortable.
- 50:21Speaker 1: Right.
- 50:22Speaker 2: Just wear your sneakers. I used to be that girl.
- 50:24Speaker 1: Me too, bitch.
- 50:25Speaker 2: You used to walk around campus with heels on. Like,
- 50:27Speaker 2: where you going at?
- 50:28Speaker 1: Where you going?
- 50:28Speaker 2: Just looking stupid.
- 50:29Speaker 1: Y'all young girls now, save your feet. Trust me. I
- 50:34Speaker 1: feel like my heart's about to break right now, bitch,
- 50:36Speaker 1: because of what I did when I was y'all age.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Don't do it. Wear your sneakers on campus. They can't
- 50:40Speaker 1: help it. Yeah, it's just, I guess it's a rite
- 50:43Speaker 1: of passage.
- 50:44Speaker 2: This is my last thing, and this is for the podcast,
- 50:46Speaker 2: and the clips and stuff I see on social media.
- 50:50Speaker 2: Can we leave men talking about generational wealth in 2022
- 50:55Speaker 2: when they don't see the value in having a wife
- 50:59Speaker 2: or a family? Like, how are you going to have
- 51:01Speaker 2: generational wealth without.
- 51:02Speaker 1: A generation coming after you.
- 51:04Speaker 2: Like, why are you trying to do that by yourself?
- 51:07Speaker 2: You know, you have to have, like, why do you not...
- 51:10Speaker 2: And we still got to do that episode where we
- 51:12Speaker 2: have a married man on so they can try and
- 51:14Speaker 2: help some of our male listeners. Like, what's the benefits
- 51:17Speaker 2: of having a wife? Like, women literally keep men alive.
- 51:21Speaker 1: The right wife. Right. Okay? Okay.
- 51:23Speaker 2: Make sure your ass go to the fucking doctor. Y'all
- 51:25Speaker 2: be out here sick, running around with all types of
- 51:27Speaker 2: diseases for years.
- 51:27Speaker 1: About to have a stroke.
- 51:29Speaker 2: Don't even know it. Women are supposed to be responsible
- 51:31Speaker 2: for the nutrition of the family as far as I'm concerned. Yes,
- 51:34Speaker 2: you can outsource those things, but I would like to
- 51:36Speaker 2: feed my family. But yeah, you can't have generational wealth
- 51:41Speaker 2: in a black community if the majority of our people
- 51:44Speaker 2: don't see the value in marriage. That's just where it
- 51:49Speaker 2: comes from. You cannot have generational wealth when you have
- 51:52Speaker 2: yourself spread so thin in between multiple households.
- 51:57Speaker 1: Like, how?
- 51:57Speaker 2: Somebody going to be lacking. You ain't taking care of somebody.
- 52:00Speaker 1: Right, because wealth isn't just money. So when you try
- 52:03Speaker 1: to talk about generational wealth, you got to consider all
- 52:06Speaker 1: the other.
- 52:07Speaker 2: Yeah, what you're teaching the kids. Like, are you there
- 52:09Speaker 2: to even teach them anything?
- 52:10Speaker 1: Right.
- 52:11Speaker 2: So, I don't know.
- 52:13Speaker 1: Diddy just had.
- 52:14Speaker 2: a last child, I mean, he definitely has the money
- 52:16Speaker 2: and we could look at some, just looking at celebrities, right?
- 52:19Speaker 2: Which is not the average man. Nick Cannon, his last,
- 52:24Speaker 2: I think he has another baby on the way, a 12th,
- 52:28Speaker 2: but the 11th child, she took to the internet last
- 52:33Speaker 2: week and was, I forgot her name. There's so many
- 52:36Speaker 2: of them. The black one. She was saying how she's
- 52:42Speaker 2: rid of a toxic relationship You literally signed up for that. Like,
- 52:48Speaker 2: how did you think this thing was supposed to go?
- 52:49Speaker 2: And then why is the black one who going to
- 52:52Speaker 2: come spill the beans now? Everybody else be being all copacetic.
- 52:55Speaker 1: Because that's what we do. That's some bullshit.
- 52:58Speaker 2: She started trouble for that man. Like, everybody think he
- 53:00Speaker 2: just around here taking care of all these kids. Nah,
- 53:02Speaker 2: it's impossible. Financially, maybe, yes. But, you know, what do
- 53:06Speaker 2: these women do? These women all came from nowhere.
- 53:09Speaker 1: Who are these people? What you mean came from nowhere? Like,
- 53:11Speaker 1: who are they?
- 53:12Speaker 2: Like, I don't, like, how did he find them? Like,
- 53:15Speaker 2: did he just select them off Instagram?
- 53:17Speaker 1: Instagram, like, where all the rest of the niggas find them?
- 53:19Speaker 2: Shame is the hoedex. Not calling his baby mama's hoes, but.
- 53:23Speaker 1: You just did. Oh, my bad, y'all. But, yeah, like,
- 53:27Speaker 1: where did.
- 53:27Speaker 2: You pick up all these different women to sign up
- 53:30Speaker 2: to have the fucking 12 Lost Tribes of Judah?
- 53:33Speaker 1: Abraham. Like, where? Yeah. I guess, I mean, to each
- 53:39Speaker 1: their own when it comes to that. If you, you know,
- 53:41Speaker 1: want to have a baby with this man, by all means,
- 53:46Speaker 1: do you. You know, it's kind of like a polygamy
- 53:48Speaker 1: thing going on. Because they're all, like, okay with it.
- 53:51Speaker 2: The last one, she ain't okay with it. Now she
- 53:54Speaker 2: posting her bestie that she met at an art gallery
- 53:57Speaker 2: at some point.
- 53:58Speaker 1: But, I don't know.
- 53:59Speaker 2: Men, you cannot have generational wealth without an actual family.
- 54:04Speaker 1: Start there. Yeah, I agree.
- 54:06Speaker 2: So that wraps up. our list of things we want
- 54:09Speaker 2: to leave in 2022. Anything else you want to add?
- 54:14Speaker 1: I want to leave all the niggas that played over me.
- 54:18Speaker 1: You can't come back this year, so don't even try. Period.
- 54:22Speaker 1: That's it.
- 54:22Speaker 2: All right, y'all. So we're going to take a quick break.
- 54:26Speaker 2: And when we come back, we're going to get into
- 54:29Speaker 2: a dumb bitch story from one of our listeners.
- 54:30Speaker 1: We'll be right back.
- 54:32Speaker 2: Dumb bitch story.
- 54:33Speaker 3: Because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once
- 54:37Speaker 3: or twice so y'all this dumb bitch story is from
- 54:42Speaker 3: one of our instagram followers that wants to remain anonymous
- 54:45Speaker 3: but her story goes as hey y'all my favorites i'm
- 54:49Speaker 3: coming in for some advice this time around i'm just
- 54:51Speaker 3: i'll just jump right in i have an older sister
- 54:54Speaker 3: she's 32 i'm 25 we share the same mom but
- 54:57Speaker 3: my father raised all of us I'm the type who
- 55:00Speaker 3: has always done everything for all of my siblings.
- 55:02Speaker 1: I'm number three of four. They come to me for
- 55:05Speaker 1: assistance before they even go to our parents. My sister
- 55:08Speaker 1: had an ex who was stalking her, damaging her car
- 55:11Speaker 1: and her home. Me being the person I am, she'd
- 55:14Speaker 1: always call me to protect her and her kids when
- 55:16Speaker 1: he'd come around. I had a few trips with my man,
- 55:20Speaker 1: which happens to be the stalker's brother.
- 55:24Speaker 2: Interesting.
- 55:24Speaker 1: Lined up so we wouldn't be in town. So I
- 55:27Speaker 1: gave her a gun to protect herself. If he did
- 55:29Speaker 1: come around while I was gone, why? And it's a
- 55:33Speaker 1: lot of why's on the end. Why did she allow
- 55:36Speaker 1: my gun to get stolen and didn't tell me about
- 55:40Speaker 1: it until I asked her for my gun back a
- 55:42Speaker 1: whole two months later? I'm upset because one, I don't
- 55:45Speaker 1: trust that it just went missing. I can see her
- 55:48Speaker 1: selling it or allowing him or her kid's father to
- 55:51Speaker 1: borrow it. And she waited so long to tell me,
- 55:53Speaker 1: putting me in jeopardy. And I feel like she's lying
- 55:56Speaker 1: about where the gun went. I haven't spoken to her.
- 55:59Speaker 1: in three months, but I love my sister. I just
- 56:01Speaker 1: don't know how to tell her that I'm upset, and
- 56:04Speaker 1: I don't even know if I want to speak to
- 56:05Speaker 1: her again. I need your help. Your advice always helps
- 56:08Speaker 1: me out. Sincerely, a mad-ass Scorpio ready to show my
- 56:12Speaker 1: dark side.
- 56:12Speaker 2: See, I told you about them motherfucking Scorpios.
- 56:19Speaker 1: First, don't ever give your weapon to anybody. I don't know.
- 56:22Speaker 2: Unless you're selling it to them.
- 56:24Speaker 1: Yeah. You should never give your weapon. You should, like...
- 56:28Speaker 1: take her to go get her own. Like, you know, this, uh,
- 56:31Speaker 1: she goes on to say that I asked her how
- 56:34Speaker 1: many guns does she have? And she has 11. So
- 56:37Speaker 1: she wasn't missing it. That's why I was like, what
- 56:40Speaker 1: took you, you know, what took you so long to
- 56:42Speaker 1: ask for your gun back? And it's cause she has
- 56:44Speaker 1: so many. So she's a proud gun toting American, but, um,
- 56:49Speaker 1: but never give anybody your weapon. You want to take people.
- 56:52Speaker 1: If you want to help people be armed and protected,
- 56:54Speaker 1: take them to get their own weapon, you know? So
- 56:56Speaker 1: they can learn how to properly use it.
- 56:57Speaker 2: Maybe her sister can't buy a gun. And probably the
- 57:01Speaker 2: boyfriend can't get one either. He's taking somebody's pistol. I
- 57:04Speaker 2: hope she reported it stolen.
- 57:06Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what's going to be my next advice to
- 57:07Speaker 1: report it stolen. You know, because you don't want to
- 57:11Speaker 1: have no bodies on no guns that you don't know
- 57:13Speaker 1: nothing about. Exactly. This is, you know, I always recommend people,
- 57:19Speaker 1: you know, patch things up with their sister, you know,
- 57:21Speaker 1: their family, you know, family is all you got, you know,
- 57:25Speaker 1: at the, the day, you want to patch things up
- 57:27Speaker 1: with your... I'm a very, you know, forgiving person.
- 57:32Speaker 2: I'm not so much.
- 57:32Speaker 1: So, you know, I always want, like, just because I
- 57:36Speaker 1: know I'm flawed and I know I make mistakes and
- 57:38Speaker 1: I'm not going to be the perfect friend, you know?
- 57:41Speaker 1: I'm going to try to be the perfect friend and
- 57:44Speaker 1: sister and everything, but I'm going to fall short. I
- 57:46Speaker 1: know that about myself. So I want people to grant
- 57:48Speaker 1: me the same grace that I'm willing to give oftentimes. Right. So.
- 57:54Speaker 2: Why didn't she tell her that her gun was missing?
- 57:57Speaker 2: It took for me to ask you about my pistol
- 57:59Speaker 2: for you to tell me, oh, it got stolen?
- 58:01Speaker 1: Yeah. That's fucked up. That's shady. Yeah, that's shady.
- 58:06Speaker 2: I mean, to me, that's grounds for termination.
- 58:10Speaker 1: Of your sister? That's her daddy child. That's her mama.
- 58:14Speaker 1: They got the same mama.
- 58:15Speaker 2: Listen at you.
- 58:17Speaker 1: That's her daddy kid. They ain't like that. No, that's her.
- 58:20Speaker 1: They came out the same, boom, boom. Oh. Uh... That's
- 58:24Speaker 1: not enough to leave your sister alone.
- 58:26Speaker 2: It's not. I probably would never discard my sister.
- 58:30Speaker 1: I can't think of nothing my sister could ever do
- 58:32Speaker 1: to me for me to discard. Me either. Me either. Nothing.
- 58:35Speaker 2: I would definitely fight you.
- 58:36Speaker 1: Yeah, we might throw some hands. But I'm still loving you. Afterwards. Yeah,
- 58:41Speaker 1: you're going to catch this fate.
- 58:42Speaker 2: Especially depending on what your response is when I say,
- 58:45Speaker 2: where my pistol at? Now, some people, when you back
- 58:49Speaker 2: them in the corner and you ask them some shit
- 58:51Speaker 2: they don't want to face... They get nasty. So it
- 58:55Speaker 2: just depends on your response, how I'm going to respond.
- 58:58Speaker 2: But I wouldn't discard my sister because of that. But
- 59:01Speaker 2: I would definitely file for, you know, file a police
- 59:03Speaker 2: report on a stolen gun. And, I don't know, count
- 59:07Speaker 2: it as a fucking loss.
- 59:08Speaker 1: She might still have it.
- 59:09Speaker 2: She probably just don't want to give it back, maybe.
- 59:11Speaker 1: Take her to get her own weapon for sure, though,
- 59:13Speaker 1: if she got somebody trying to harm her. And she
- 59:16Speaker 1: needs some therapy to leave this nigga alone. She's still
- 59:18Speaker 1: fucking with the person, right? She said she might have
- 59:20Speaker 1: gave it to him. That's what I'm saying.
- 59:22Speaker 2: Like, I would not give somebody a gun who's not
- 59:24Speaker 2: ready to leave this person. If this person is, like, really,
- 59:27Speaker 2: really stalking you, doing shit to you, Like, you can't
- 59:30Speaker 2: be fucking with them in the interim when they being regular.
- 59:33Speaker 2: And then I'm going to give you a gun just
- 59:34Speaker 2: in case when he do get stupid. No, you need
- 59:36Speaker 2: to be leaving him completely alone.
- 59:37Speaker 1: Right.
- 59:38Speaker 2: And then I'll help. Other than that, I don't get
- 59:40Speaker 2: involved in people's domestic shit, sister or not. Yeah. Because
- 59:43Speaker 2: I've been in situations where you try to help somebody
- 59:47Speaker 2: and you fucked around.
- 59:48Speaker 1: And get hurt.
- 59:49Speaker 2: Yes.
- 59:50Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 59:50Speaker 2: So I don't play with people when it comes to things,
- 59:54Speaker 2: especially with women and relationships with men. I'll give you
- 59:57Speaker 2: advice a little bit, but I'm not. I'm not stepping
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: in that way. Yeah, I don't, I typically wouldn't step
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: in in that way.
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: I've had friends who've been in like some violent relationships
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: and I told them like, you know, you need to
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: leave this relationship or I'm going to have to stop
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: being your friend because it was just got to a
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: place where it was so bad that I can't stand
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: by them. I can't, I can't help you.
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: But I can't stand by and watch no more.
- 1:00:22Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: So what are you going to do?
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: Call me when you stop being a dumb bitch. That's
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: just where it is.
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: You know, matters of the heart is hard when people
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: And they're dealing with being insecure in relationships. And they
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: don't know how to handle their emotions. And love make
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: you do stupid shit. That'd be a mess. But I
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: hope your sister's okay. I hope that y'all made y'all relationship.
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: And she need to get her own gun. Get some
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: gun training if that's possible. She might have felonies. I
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: don't know how that works.
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: But if she don't, she need to learn how to
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: use a weapon. I feel like felons can buy guns
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: at gun shows, no? I don't know nothing about how
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: people get away with buying guns when they have felonies
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: when they go to those gun shows. Because you ain't
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: going to tell me like white people don't be having
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: felonies too. And it seems like they always seem to
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: get their hands on guns.
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: I feel like everybody be getting their hands on guns. Legally.
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: Maybe having guns.
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: Felons? Yeah. I had to Google that bitch because I
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: don't know how that works.
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: Maybe I'm lying. Yeah.
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: I don't know. All right, y'all.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Listen, we hope you guys have a very Great 2023.
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: Leave all the fucking bullshit, heartache, some of these niggas
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: in 2023. Some family members. Excuse me.
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: Yeah, 2022.
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm skipping, bitch. I live in the future.
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: Leave it behind, man. Go in with a clean slate. Yeah,
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: that's what I'm doing.
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: I'm going to try my best. You know, every year.
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: That's all you can do. Four agreements. There's things that
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: I wore resolutions for 2022 that I'm carrying over into
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: this year. You know, I'm a work in progress. God
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: ain't through with me yet. That's all you can do.
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: Leave them fucking big ass eyelashes on. Get somebody else
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: to do them.
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: All right, y'all. Listen, if you enjoyed this episode, please
- 1:02:16Speaker 2: tune in every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app or wherever
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: the fuck you get your podcast at. This is your co-host,
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: AJ Holiday. Y'all follow me on Instagram. Also, we got wetalkbackent.com.
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: Y'all hit us up. We got consultations, all this good shit.
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: And listen, one thing we are not leaving in 2022
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: is this fucking merchandise.
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: It's coming.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: We promise.
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: Yeah. We're going to have some merch coming out, y'all.
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: Send us your dumb bitch stories. Send us your ask
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: a black friend. We want to do... White people don't
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: fuck with us, do they? One white... Vicky. What's up, Vicky?
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: We want some ask a black friend questions. Send those in,
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: you guys. Y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all. For real.
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in. We did our first... What's that?
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: That's a heart, bitch. Like, I love y'all, man. I
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: love y'all. I love you. I love you more. 100th episode, man.
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: I'm so proud of us. Yes. And thank y'all for
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: tuning in. We'll see y'all next time.
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: And remember to speak now and never hold your motherfucking peace.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: Deuces.