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Dad-Hacks... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, what's up? After show podcast? They have to
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Speaker 1: show army. Thank you for joining, Thank you for listening.
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Speaker 1: Today is Wednesday. It's May twenty seventh, almost June. Memorial
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Speaker 1: Day was early this year. I was listening to BZ
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Speaker 1: on the way in and apparently this only happens every
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Speaker 1: so often. It's a long summer, so because Memorial Day
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Speaker 1: is early and then Labor Day is late, we have
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Speaker 1: like an extended summer, so that makes sense. Labor Day,
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Speaker 1: I think is September seventh, maybe somewhere around there. I
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Speaker 1: heard the whole report. It was actually pretty good. So
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Speaker 1: the weather, though, has not been that good. It's been ugly.
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Speaker 1: This weekend does not look good at all. And really
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Speaker 1: the weather is such it plays such an impact I
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Speaker 1: feel like on our moods. I know it's not just me.
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Speaker 1: When I look at the forecast and I see rain
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Speaker 1: on the weekends, it's like, oh man. And it's harder
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Speaker 1: too when you have kids, because then you're stuck in
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Speaker 1: the house, so you gotta go find things to do
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Speaker 1: that are indoors. Especially my son Able. He's very active.
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Speaker 1: He is all about that action, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 1: He needs action at all time. He is not an
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Speaker 1: iPad kid. He has an iPad which he uses, but
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Speaker 1: only when there's nothing else going on, and that's something
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Speaker 1: that I love. He will choose going outside nine point
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Speaker 1: nine times out of ten. He does not want to
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Speaker 1: sit in the house on a screen. He does not,
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Speaker 1: but you know he'll he'll use it. If he's at home,
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Speaker 1: he's on he uses the Kid's Messenger. So all of
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Speaker 1: his friends are all on this Kid's Messenger thing, so
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Speaker 1: he talks in a group. Chat's acually kind of cute
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Speaker 1: to all of his friends and if you look at it,
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Speaker 1: it's all their faces in a little boxes. It's kind
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Speaker 1: of like a zoom call. And you know, he talks
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Speaker 1: to them and they play games and all that stuff.
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Speaker 1: But we monitor, you know, we have all the parental
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Speaker 1: controls on it, so he can't just go, you know,
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Speaker 1: search for anything. And it's interesting too because on the messenger,
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Speaker 1: if if anything comes on the screen, I don't really
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Speaker 1: understand it, but if anything comes on the screen that's
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Speaker 1: deemed offensive, it turns it basically blocks you. So like
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Speaker 1: one of his friends, I forget what they It was
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Speaker 1: a girl. I think what she put up on the screen.
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Speaker 1: It was an offensive, but it thought it was and
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Speaker 1: it blocked her. It shuts her off for like ten minutes,
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Speaker 1: and it contacts the adult who monitors the thing. So
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Speaker 1: that makes me feel better. But we're raising kids in
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Speaker 1: a digital world. It's it's just the world that we
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Speaker 1: live in. You know, he's on there, and you know
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Speaker 1: he goes to the Boys and Girls Club, so he
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Speaker 1: meets with older kids who teach him things like bad
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Speaker 1: jokes that he goes to school and tells. And you know,
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Speaker 1: I just try to be as honest as I can
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Speaker 1: with him. I always say, ask me anything. I won't
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Speaker 1: get mad if you make a mistake. I won't get mad.
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Speaker 1: If you make the same mistake twice, you will be punished.
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Speaker 1: The first time you get a pass, but if you
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Speaker 1: do it again, that means you knew better. But the
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Speaker 1: first time, okay, you didn't know any better. You're growing up.
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Speaker 1: You don't know, you don't know you know how to
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Speaker 1: act necessarily. But once you know and you're told and
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Speaker 1: you learn, and you do it again and then a punishment,
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Speaker 1: punishment comes telling you, man, this parents and thing. That's
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Speaker 1: why this new Breadwinner movie we talked about the show
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Speaker 1: comes out Thursday, about dad hacks because Nate Barghetti's in
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Speaker 1: this movie where he has to take care of the
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Speaker 1: kids the wife goes away and he has to come
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Speaker 1: up with his own hacks that are much different than hers.
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Speaker 1: And I mentioned on the show today, you know Jen.
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Speaker 1: I texted Jen and say, hey, what are some some
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Speaker 1: dad hacks that I have, thinking, oh, she's gonna have
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Speaker 1: a bunch. No, it's basically the way I dressed Gemma.
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Speaker 1: I dress her like with pajama tops and then regular
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Speaker 1: pants hunt or the zipper in the back or the
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Speaker 1: buttons on the front of a button down when it's
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Speaker 1: meant for the back. I always had the buttons went
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Speaker 1: in the front. I didn't know they went on the back.
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Speaker 1: But and then she said, I legit took her to
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Speaker 1: the mall once in her pajamas. I did do that. Yes,
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Speaker 1: I'm not the best with getting her dressed. Oh, in
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Speaker 1: the pull ups, you know the pull ups, there's writing
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Speaker 1: on it that says back, but I'll put the pull
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Speaker 1: up on on backwards. My poor daughter doesn't even doesn't
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Speaker 1: know the difference. So I remember the last time I
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Speaker 1: put it on backwards, and she started complaining that her
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Speaker 1: you know, crotch area was itchy, and I'm like, oh god,
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Speaker 1: oh god, because you know, I don't really know a
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Speaker 1: ton about the lady parts. So when she started complaining
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Speaker 1: about that area, I like have anxiety, especially my wife's
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Speaker 1: not there, and so then I'm like, all right, let
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Speaker 1: me look at it. So then I took the pull
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Speaker 1: up off and I saw that said back on the
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Speaker 1: on the front. So you know what, maybe I should
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Speaker 1: go see the movie this weekend and learn some dad acts.
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Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, what else is going on?
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Speaker 2: Hey, justinis Lynn, I know you were talking about taking
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Speaker 2: a break from working out. I think that's a great idea,
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Speaker 2: letting your body heal. And you know, you know your body,
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Speaker 2: so you know what you need to do and what
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Speaker 2: not to do. I know that what worked for me.
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Speaker 2: I used to walk four mile today before my foot
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Speaker 2: injury and that was a great release. So just walk
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Speaker 2: around your neighborhood for like an hour or so. It'll
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Speaker 2: do wonders for you, trust me. Okay, have a good day.
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Speaker 1: Oh thank you, Lynn, thank you for that. I'm back
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Speaker 1: in the gym. I was. I went back yesterday, had
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Speaker 1: a good workout. I am feeling better. Actually, you know, what.
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Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you about what happened. So I
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Speaker 1: had been not been feeling good. My body was beat up. Obviously,
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Speaker 1: you know overtraining did play a part in it, but
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Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out. I was trying to
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Speaker 1: figure out exactly why it was happening, why I knew
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Speaker 1: that I was overtraining. Okay, So then I took a
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Speaker 1: week off. And I would have thought that after the week,
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Speaker 1: after a few days, I would have felt better, but
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Speaker 1: I didn't. I continually felt bad, just a lot of inflammation.
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Speaker 1: My hips hurt. My shoulder, I have an injury there,
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Speaker 1: but that hurt. My knee hurt. I just felt my
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Speaker 1: joints inflamed. And I really couldn't figure it out. And
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Speaker 1: I thought about it, and I looked into it to
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Speaker 1: my text to my friend Mike, and I remember I
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Speaker 1: had texted him that I didn't feel good and that
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Speaker 1: I needed a break. It just popped into my head
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Speaker 1: that I had texted him. So I went back and
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Speaker 1: looked at the date, and the date was like April
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Speaker 1: twenty third. I had texted him and said, you know,
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Speaker 1: my he's kind of beat up. I don't know because
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Speaker 1: I pulled out of the New York High Rocks, which
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Speaker 1: is this weekend. So that was kind of the beginning
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Speaker 1: of like realizing that I had to pull out, plus
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Speaker 1: the shoulder injury. So then it made sense to me.
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Speaker 1: I had gone to see my doctor, and you know,
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Speaker 1: my hair is a big very important to me. My
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Speaker 1: hair is very important to me, and it's thinning, right
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Speaker 1: because I'm getting older, so on the top it's thinning.
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Speaker 1: And so you know, they've medications you can take. They
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Speaker 1: have things like Rogain topical or whatever, but they also
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Speaker 1: have a pill monoxidal. Monoxidal is what rogain is. So
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Speaker 1: Rogain is like the topical monoxidal, but they also have
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Speaker 1: like a pill you can take once a day. So
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Speaker 1: I talked to my doctor about it, and the doctor said, yes,
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Speaker 1: we can. I give you the monoxidle, no problem, just
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Speaker 1: take it once a day and it works well. It's
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Speaker 1: well studied. There's very little side effects. You know, it
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Speaker 1: can affect your heart a little bit, but that's in
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Speaker 1: rare cases, so just take it if you feel any
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Speaker 1: kind of fluttering in the heart. I'm like, geez, okay,
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Speaker 1: I'll try it. But apparently it works and it's what
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Speaker 1: men can do to kind of about the hair loss.
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Speaker 1: So I started taking the monoxidol that same week, and
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Speaker 1: so I'm like, is it that? So I'm taking this
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Speaker 1: pill every day? Is that why I'm not getting better?
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Speaker 1: So I jumped online and I did a bunch of
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Speaker 1: research and sure enough, in rare cases, just like the
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Speaker 1: heart thing, it can cause severe joint inflammation. So basically
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Speaker 1: what happens is the monoxidle kills the collagen production in
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Speaker 1: your body and which causes you know, your joints and
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Speaker 1: tendence to become inflamed. So we were away this weekend
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Speaker 1: and I said to my wife, Oh my god, is
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Speaker 1: it that? And she goes, you need to decide for yourself.
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Speaker 1: Do you want your hair or do you want your
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Speaker 1: body to be messed up? So I took it Sunday,
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Speaker 1: did not take it Monday. Haven't taken it since, But
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Speaker 1: Monday felt the same. Yesterday, my first day back of
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Speaker 1: the gym, I felt better. Today, I felt better. The
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Speaker 1: inflammation has gone away. Isn't that amazing? So yeah, and
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Speaker 1: I should add too, by the way, that I was
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Speaker 1: hesitant to try the monoxidal pill because I had tried
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Speaker 1: the Roguain topical. I think it was last year, which
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Speaker 1: is a pain in the ass because you have to
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Speaker 1: apply it twice a day. But I was using it
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Speaker 1: and it completely crushed my libido. That's another side effect
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Speaker 1: of things like finasteride and these hair products is like
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Speaker 1: sexual side effects, and so I didn't think it would
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Speaker 1: happen with the monoxido. I never tried finasteride, but the
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Speaker 1: topical monoxidolt completely completely killed in my libido. I had
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Speaker 1: no sex drive. So I had asked the doctor about
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Speaker 1: that and he said, yeah, you shouldn't get that with
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Speaker 1: the pill. But so I'm gonna go back to him
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Speaker 1: and be like, dude, I don't know, Uh, I don't
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Speaker 1: know what's going on. This is the life adjustin man.
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Speaker 1: It's always something. But no, I love my hair, and
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Speaker 1: you know, it's just scary to look in the mirror
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Speaker 1: and see put my head down and just see the thinning.
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Speaker 1: But it's a part of life. So I think I
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Speaker 1: just need to embrace it. You know. I have like
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Speaker 1: a shrimp shampoo that's supposed to help with like you know,
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Speaker 1: root stuff. I don't fear getting old, you know, I
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Speaker 1: know that's gonna come, but you know, things like losing
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Speaker 1: my hair. I'm like, oh god, I don't like that.
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Speaker 1: Like getting wrinkles and all that stuff doesn't really bother me.
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Speaker 1: I'm not a huge boatox guy. I've gotten boatox, but
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't pay for it. I got it for free
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Speaker 1: through an endorsement, you know. But things like my hair
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Speaker 1: are really, really really important to me. So yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: coming for us all man. You know, you talk to
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Speaker 1: my dad. My dad is seventy three. You're gonna be
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Speaker 1: seventy four. And you know I talked to him about
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Speaker 1: you know, he when you talk about death, you know,
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Speaker 1: it's a tough subject. But you know, he basically says,
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm on the back half of my life
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Speaker 1: and that's a tough thing to deal with, to think
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Speaker 1: about that the end is coming, you know. But then
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Speaker 1: we have a conversation about about accepting it, right, And
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Speaker 1: I've talked before about this of accepting that that's coming.
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Speaker 1: You know, if my brother told me once, when we
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Speaker 1: accept life, whether we wanted to or not, we accepted it,
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Speaker 1: you have to accept death. So that's the way it is.
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Speaker 1: And you know, getting older is something that you know,
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Speaker 1: I got to be grateful to be able to do
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Speaker 1: because there was a time when I couldn't. I didn't
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Speaker 1: think i'd make it to twenty or thirty, you know,
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Speaker 1: and I did. So every day is a blessing. And
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Speaker 1: I think it's all about my mindset and taking care
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Speaker 1: of my health and my body, and taking care of
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Speaker 1: my family and doing all of these things consistently every
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Speaker 1: single day to be a better human. And as I
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Speaker 1: get older, hopefully my kids will take care of me,
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Speaker 1: or at least my daughter. You know, they always say,
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Speaker 1: have daughters if you want someone to take care of
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Speaker 1: you when you get older.
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Speaker 3: Oh, hey, justin, I'm wondering if you know Victor the
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Speaker 3: Good Boss. I follow him on Instagram. I think he's
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Speaker 3: a north Shore guy, so from the area. He finds
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Speaker 3: people suffering with homelessness and addiction on the streets, and
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Speaker 3: he raises money and gets them into deep talks and
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Speaker 3: recovery programs and raises money for them after helps him
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Speaker 3: find a job. I think he'd be an awesome after
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Speaker 3: show podcast guest.
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Speaker 1: Oh, Victor the Good Boss. Never met him, but what
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Speaker 1: an amazing job that kid is doing. I love, love,
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Speaker 1: love his videos. So good, so good doing amazing work.
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Speaker 1: If you don't follow him, Victor The Good Boss, and
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Speaker 1: I think he's from Tuksbury. He has a landscape company,
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Speaker 1: but he also spends a lot of his time helping
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Speaker 1: addicts in the homeless. He kind of drives around and
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Speaker 1: you just have to go watch the videos. But you know,
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Speaker 1: he'll just pull up to people on the street and
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Speaker 1: he'll offer them food and he'll offer them a bed.
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Speaker 1: You know. Now he's built connections with all of these
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Speaker 1: facilities like in Florida and California, and he'll literally have
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Speaker 1: scholarships which are basically free care beds. So he'll pull
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Speaker 1: up to them and say, you know, would you like
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Speaker 1: something to eat? And then they'll he'll say, do you
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Speaker 1: want help? I can get you on a plane right now.
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Speaker 1: And he'll get them on a plane. He'll get them
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Speaker 1: all set up, and it's really tough because he'll do
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Speaker 1: updates and you know, addiction, you know, we have a
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Speaker 1: disease that wants us to run, you know. So some
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Speaker 1: of them that take the beds and then go back
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Speaker 1: out is really sad. But there's also a lot of
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Speaker 1: success stories which are amazing. One thing about Victor the
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Speaker 1: Good Boss, you know, when I watch his page, I
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Speaker 1: always like think about seeing people that I know. And
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Speaker 1: one time I did, well, my wife did. A friend
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Speaker 1: of ours from a long time ago that we hadn't
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Speaker 1: seen in a while was homeless in Boston, and he
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Speaker 1: pulled up and she came over, and unfortunately she did
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Speaker 1: not take the bed. He gave her a phone, because
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Speaker 1: usually sometimes he'll give him a phone, like a prepaid phone,
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Speaker 1: and he'll say, you know, because god, I feel this
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Speaker 1: so much like when you're at the end, at the
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Speaker 1: straight bottom, and like treatment becomes an option or you
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Speaker 1: get offered treatment. It's always like, but you got to
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Speaker 1: go right now. It's always like I can't go right now.
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Speaker 1: I gotta do one more, like I need a couple
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Speaker 1: more hours. It's never just drop everything and go because
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Speaker 1: you just want that, you know, Okay, I'm gonna I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna get cleaned this time, but I want one last hurrah.
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Speaker 1: And so I think he'll give him the phone and say, okay,
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Speaker 1: do you want to go? Yes, but I can't go
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Speaker 1: right now. Well, here's the phone. Take care of your business.
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Speaker 1: I'll call your phone at this time tomorrow. And that's
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Speaker 1: how we can kind of gauge if they're willing, if
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Speaker 1: they answer the phone, and she took the phone and
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Speaker 1: didn't answer. So I don't know where she is now,
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Speaker 1: but you know, my wife and I pray for her
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Speaker 1: all the time that she will not die and that
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Speaker 1: she will find her way back to recovery because she
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Speaker 1: has had long term recovery before. So shout out to Victor,
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Speaker 1: the good boss, doing amazing, amazing things. All right, So
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Speaker 1: that's gonna do it for me. About to jump in
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Speaker 1: a meeting tomorrow. Another after show will happen. Maddie and
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Speaker 1: Damon were great. I did get some talkbacks. Oh, let
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Speaker 1: me play one right now. Hold on, let me see.
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Speaker 2: I just left my first step up.
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Speaker 3: I think I'm not sure if it went through that.
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Speaker 3: I'm voting for part two of Maddie's story.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Maddie told his story, but we only got to
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Speaker 1: half of it. We got to when he got clean,
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Speaker 1: and then we kind of got sidetracked, which I knew it,
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Speaker 1: but we were going kind of long. And I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: be honest with you. It was my first day back
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Speaker 1: to the gym and I wanted to get there to
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Speaker 1: make my class, so I kind of had to wrap
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Speaker 1: it up. But that's okay because we only got the
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Speaker 1: first half the second half, which is the amazing part,
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Speaker 1: is after he got clean and all of his success
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Speaker 1: in the recovery world and everything that he's built in
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Speaker 1: the successful business. So we'll get that half and then
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Speaker 1: we'll get Damon's story later. Maybe I'll share my story too,
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Speaker 1: although I've shared so much of it. So much of
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Speaker 1: my life is just is filled with, you know, the
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Speaker 1: disease of addiction in some way. Obviously I have it,
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Speaker 1: I'll always have it. But you know, a lot of
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Speaker 1: the stuff that I don't talk about is are people
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Speaker 1: that are struggling around me. And it's all the time, man.
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Speaker 1: You know, I have friends of mine that people that relapse,
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Speaker 1: people that are just coming back getting clean again, and
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Speaker 1: it's my job to be there for them, you know.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm dealing with one right now, a good
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Speaker 1: friend of mine that you know, had a big setback.
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Speaker 1: And yeah, it's it's really tough, man. It's really tough
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Speaker 1: when you meet somebody that's in recovery, you meet them
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Speaker 1: while they're in recovery, and then they really that this
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Speaker 1: happened many times, and then they relapse and then you
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Speaker 1: see the other side. You know, it's so hard for
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Speaker 1: people to see me as an active addict. You know,
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Speaker 1: when I talk about being on the streets or I
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Speaker 1: talk about, you know, being in jail or any of
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Speaker 1: those things, it's hard to imagine what that justin must
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Speaker 1: have been like. But that was a real person. And
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Speaker 1: it's the same I meet people in recovery and then
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Speaker 1: they relapse.
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Speaker 3: You know.
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Speaker 1: I had a mentor when I first got clean, and
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Speaker 1: this guy like helped me tremendously because he kind of
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Speaker 1: got down to my level. You know, I could tell
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Speaker 1: he was a street guy. He but he had like
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Speaker 1: ten or fifteen years clean. I forget what he had
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Speaker 1: at the time, but we built a strong connection. He
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Speaker 1: sponsored a bunch of guys I used to hang out
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Speaker 1: with him. He taught me how to open a bank account,
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Speaker 1: he taught me how to save money, taught me about credit,
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Speaker 1: all those things. And you know, for whatever reason, he
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Speaker 1: went out after like fifteen years or something, and I
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Speaker 1: remember he never came back. But up I ended up
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Speaker 1: seeing him a couple of times after the last time
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Speaker 1: I saw him. You know, he had been out for
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Speaker 1: a year or two, in and out of jail, and
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Speaker 1: he walked into a meeting that I was at, and
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Speaker 1: it was like January third, right is beating a January
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Speaker 1: freezing outside. And he walked in and he was homeless,
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Speaker 1: I could tell. And I went up to him, and
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Speaker 1: when he spoke, it was like a different person. You know.
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Speaker 1: He had turned his life around, and he had had
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Speaker 1: so much success. He had a career, he had a wife,
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Speaker 1: had a house, he had all these things that I
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Speaker 1: that I wanted that I ended up getting, just like him,
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Speaker 1: and now he had nothing. And just the way that
16:16
Speaker 1: he talked was very like street, you know, because he
16:21
Speaker 1: had been on the street and that person that I
16:23
Speaker 1: had met was in there somewhere but mostly gone. And
16:28
Speaker 1: I just looked at him and said, dude, I want
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Speaker 1: to help you, Like where are you going right now?
16:32
Speaker 1: And he hadn't know where to go, and I said,
16:35
Speaker 1: you're just gonna walk away, You're just gonna walk down
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Speaker 1: the street. And he goes, yeah, no, no, no, I'm
16:41
Speaker 1: all good. I won't go and I go, let me.
16:42
Speaker 1: I'll take you to the hospital right now. I'll sit
16:45
Speaker 1: with you in the hospital. I'll make sure you get
16:47
Speaker 1: placed tonight. You cannot walk out in freezing weather. And
16:50
Speaker 1: he just would not take it. And I'll never forget
16:52
Speaker 1: I walked outside with him, and I just kept asking.
16:54
Speaker 1: I'm like, please, please, please, and he wouldn't do it,
16:56
Speaker 1: and finally I just give him a hugun I love
16:58
Speaker 1: your brother, I'll pray for you, and here's my number.
17:02
Speaker 1: You know, call me anytime and I'll never forget. He
17:04
Speaker 1: just walked away into the freezing cold. It was like
17:08
Speaker 1: nine thirty at night, and I never saw him again,
17:10
Speaker 1: And ever since then, I google him every once in
17:13
Speaker 1: a while, and to be honest with you, I google
17:15
Speaker 1: his name and the obituary to see if, like, eventually
17:18
Speaker 1: he passed away. I hope not. I'm thinking maybe he
17:20
Speaker 1: got cleaned somewhere and he's out there somewhere, and hopefully
17:24
Speaker 1: maybe we'll reconnect. But you know, you kind of always
17:26
Speaker 1: got to play the other side as well. So anyway,
17:29
Speaker 1: the meeting's about to start, so I gotta go. We'll
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Speaker 1: talk tomorrow.
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Speaker 2: BA