Reformat and Reboot: Resetting Our Sex & Relationship Patterns as Gay and; Queer Men

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST · Jan 29, 2026 · 1h

What are some default settings gay men are taught?

Chase validation

Separate sex from emotion

Confuse chaos with chemistry

Avoid vulnerability

Use apps for distraction instead of connection

Treat intimacy as weakness

Perform confidence instead of build it

When our internal system needs a reboot

The hosts share how they are rebooting both sexually and in their relationships...

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