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Date night with Rich & Stacey sounds STRESSFUL · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Wait you as boom John Jay and Rich what's cracking like?
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  Speaker 2: And this is the Big Boss does snoopy diagle.
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  Speaker 3: Double gigsel dang boom?
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  Speaker 1: What you don't.
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  Speaker 4: We're not talking about Rid and ten team, We're not.
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  Speaker 1: Talking about last year. It's the one and only.
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  Speaker 4: Does the last days lastly big snoop eagle double jiggle
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  Speaker 4: in your face to me and in the place to
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  Speaker 4: be And.
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  Speaker 3: You're listening to John Jay and Rich wakes John J.
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  Speaker 2: Rich our phone number eight seven seven nine three seven
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  Speaker 2: one oh four seven. The text line you text jj
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  Speaker 2: R whatever's on your mind in nine six eight ninety three.
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  Speaker 2: It's Monday, you guys, yayay, Hey, Nick, what's up? You're
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  Speaker 2: on the air. What was your text about?
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  Speaker 4: My text was one of my friends. Uh, she she's
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  Speaker 4: Mormon and she met a guy and I told her.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, man, I'm telling you this guy he's
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  Speaker 4: he's definitely gay. And she's like, no, he's not, No,
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  Speaker 4: he's not. She's like, yeah, we're actually gonna go get
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  Speaker 4: hit married in the Mormon temple. And so they went
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  Speaker 4: through this whole process of uh, you know, doing all
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  Speaker 4: their meetings and stuff to be able to be married
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  Speaker 4: in the temple and they went and got married, and
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  Speaker 4: then shortly later she ended up getting pregnant and he
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  Speaker 4: just totally just was ignoring her, showing no affection, not
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  Speaker 4: touching her, And she was looking through his computer and
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  Speaker 4: found an email from another man, and she confronted him
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  Speaker 4: and turns out he was gay, and so he ended
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  Speaker 4: up ended up believing her, And yeah, so we we
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  Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure he just did that just so that
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  Speaker 4: he could have a child and tricked her.
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  Speaker 5: That's so unfortunate because there's so many people that are
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  Speaker 5: willing to like have children for him, a couple specifically,
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  Speaker 5: and it's like, why go that length to like ruin
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  Speaker 5: a relationship someone hard as he also might have been
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  Speaker 5: a guy struggling.
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  Speaker 4: We were twenty one at the time, so I mean,
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  Speaker 4: and this was back and this was back in two thousand,
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  Speaker 4: In two thousand and two thousand and one, it was
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  Speaker 4: it wasn't really like, oh, yeah, I'm gonna come out
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  Speaker 4: and yeah, so you'll find someone to have a kid with.
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  Speaker 4: That wasn't really a thing back in those.
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  Speaker 2: Days, right, right, But I still think that you just
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  Speaker 2: if you watched the show I was just talking about
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  Speaker 2: called Boots on Netflix. The guy's struggling. He's eighteen years
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  Speaker 2: old and he's struggling with being gay. Hasn't totally only
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  Speaker 2: told one person, so you don't know what this guy
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  Speaker 2: was going through. But now, what about since then? Has
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  Speaker 2: he been a great dad to this kid and his
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  Speaker 2: life is great?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I mean he's I mean he's he's been in a picture. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so you know that's the you know, the visitations. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: obviously the kid's grown up now. So yeah, he has
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  Speaker 4: a good relationship with his dad and Okay, that's good.
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  Speaker 4: Ok his stepdad and his mom and so everything ended
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  Speaker 4: up working out. But yeah, it was just a sad
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  Speaker 4: situation to watch her go through because she was like
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  Speaker 4: my best friend. Yeah cool, Yeah, she was in my wedding,
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  Speaker 4: so it was a yeah, it was a pretty pretty
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  Speaker 4: traumatic event for her.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Nick, Well, thanks for calling in man.
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  Speaker 4: Have a great day you too.
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  Speaker 5: Rich.
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  Speaker 2: What's going on with you and your wonderful wife Stacy Barraw?
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  Speaker 3: My wife, who I refer to is a whirling dervish
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  Speaker 3: all the time because she's running around me like she's
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  Speaker 3: like moving like a Tasmanian devil through our She just
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  Speaker 3: leaves things places, She just she's so organized with the
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  Speaker 3: things that are inside her mind. She's the most brilliant
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  Speaker 3: person I know, but outside of her as chaos. And
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  Speaker 3: all of our friends will tell you this too. In fact,
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  Speaker 3: she tells me that her friend's delight when they're around
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  Speaker 3: and talking about how unorganized she is when they're doing
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  Speaker 3: projects together, as far as like the things outside of
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  Speaker 3: her world. So on Friday, we try to have our
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  Speaker 3: date night and we go to dinner, and we are
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  Speaker 3: in Tucson, and we kind of go early because she's
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  Speaker 3: got an early morning the next morning. So we eat
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  Speaker 3: early and we leave the restaurant and her phone starts ringing.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, it's the restaurant. Why are they calling me?
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  Speaker 3: We already eight there. I'm not going to take that call.
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  Speaker 3: So we're driving back to Feenix and the restaurant keeps
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  Speaker 3: calling her. She's like, I wonder if they think that
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  Speaker 3: we're late for our reservation. We got there at five,
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  Speaker 3: a reservation was at six. I don't know why they're
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  Speaker 3: calling me. We clearly ate there. Everything's fine. Well, anyway,
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  Speaker 3: she picks up the phone and it turns out she
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  Speaker 3: left her purse there. She put it on the floor
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  Speaker 3: and then she's mad at me. She's like, well, you
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  Speaker 3: handed me the doggie bag with the carrot cake, and
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  Speaker 3: that is about the same size as my purse. So
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  Speaker 3: I thought that.
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  Speaker 1: The door didn't feel the void of not I get that,
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  Speaker 1: actually I.
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  Speaker 3: Do, so, Like, why is it my fault?
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  Speaker 5: It's always the man?
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  Speaker 2: How far?
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  Speaker 1: How far away were you? Like, I mean that's like
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  Speaker 1: probably an hour and a half.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we were on the far east side of town.
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  Speaker 3: We were at that flying v way over on the
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  Speaker 3: east side, so we were on the highway. We were
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  Speaker 3: back so good, probably almost an hour. Security you called her,
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  Speaker 3: so we had to go back and get it, and
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  Speaker 3: she was not happy with me the whole time, Like
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  Speaker 3: you have carrot cake. It's delicious, you should enjoy it.
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  Speaker 1: And you can't not go back.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you have to go.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like you forgot the doggy bag. You can Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we'll leave that there.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was even like one of those tables where
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  Speaker 3: it was small enough you could really put it on
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  Speaker 3: a chair next to you. You have to you kind
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  Speaker 3: of have to put it on the floor. Yeah, So
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  Speaker 3: we just walked out and I didn't notice. So now
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  Speaker 3: it's my job to notice things. So now when I
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  Speaker 3: point stuff out, she's like, mm hmm, I know. I said,
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  Speaker 3: do you realize that there are three curling irons on
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  Speaker 3: the floor next to the mirror, along with two different brushes.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, today's I gotta do my hair today.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just getting ready. I'm like, well, you asked me
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  Speaker 3: to point that out. She's like, yeah, I want you
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  Speaker 3: to point out when I forget something. But if I
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  Speaker 3: see it's on the floor, then I know it's on
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  Speaker 3: the floor. So I really know what my job is here.
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  Speaker 3: I just am pretty sure it's going to be on me.
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  Speaker 3: But I mean it's part of the joy of being
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  Speaker 3: with a brilliant person like that. I've accepted it now.
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  Speaker 3: I accept that probably I would say six times a
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  Speaker 3: day she loses the phone in the house that she
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  Speaker 3: was just on, Like, you do that too, right, Kyle,
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  Speaker 3: I do.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that literally, It's like, that's one of the
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  Speaker 1: main reasons I share my location with Scott. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: I'm make him, hey, where's my phone?
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly what I do. I'm like, I just looked
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  Speaker 3: at it. It's right, it's right. It's literally right next
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  Speaker 3: to you on the kitchen table. Underneath all your papers.
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  Speaker 3: Just move your papers, so.
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  Speaker 1: It's not just moving your papers. Sometimes they just disappeared.
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  Speaker 3: Who took my And she always accuses people of stealing
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  Speaker 3: her stuff. Somebody stole my phone. I'm like, nobody's here,
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  Speaker 3: nobody's stealing your phone.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I just straight up at you, Scott, did you
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  Speaker 1: take my phone?
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