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EP #65 - Will Gets Bullied For Taking The Nanny On Vacation + Sherm is BACK! | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: One thing I need.
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  Speaker 2: some dad hacks on some dad advice out there is
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  Speaker 2: activities like, like cool setups. Like not like these of, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: take this ball, throw the ball, like go, you know,
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  Speaker 2: stand on this little box and jump off of it.
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  Speaker 2: Like just some stuff for the kids to do while
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  Speaker 2: dad is working out is what, is what I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to need from the Papa team six community. Cause I
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  Speaker 2: was ripping around with Scotty Char was doing some shopping
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  Speaker 2: with Rue.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But I have Scotty at the house. We went out
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  Speaker 2: in the garage and she rips around. She's got like
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  Speaker 2: her little bike. She's got some things to do that
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  Speaker 2: I keep her busy while I'm working out. But part
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  Speaker 2: of me sitting there wondering, I bet there's some stuff
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  Speaker 2: out there, whether it's like creative little things to set
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  Speaker 2: up or even... Like something to add to the toolbox.
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  Speaker 2: You need the toy. You need the dog equivalent of
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  Speaker 2: the chew toy that has the peanut butter in it,
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  Speaker 2: and they distract themselves.
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  Speaker 1: Just licking the peanut butter. Yeah, something like that. Because
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  Speaker 1: I could get a pen and just put her in
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  Speaker 1: the pen, right? But I'm not trying to. You can't confine.
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  Speaker 1: You can't contain Scottzilla that way. No, you can't.
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  Speaker 2: But that's what's on top of my mind for this episode.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of For the Dads. PT6 community.
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  Speaker 2: We have a ton of... Of write-ins this week, we
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  Speaker 2: got three call-ins to hit. This is a show where
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  Speaker 2: we embrace fatherhood. We talk, we whine, complain, embrace the suck,
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  Speaker 2: talk about the things that we love, things that we're
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  Speaker 2: seeing out there. We engage a lot with our community,
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  Speaker 2: but it's just dad talk. A couple of dads drinking
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  Speaker 2: some lollipop. Our boy, Sherm, he's back this week.
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  Speaker 1: Big round of applause. Thank you for having me. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you for having me. Absolutely. The Chase episode ripped. That
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  Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. Y'all crushed. And it did rip.
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  Speaker 1: Chase was good. Chase was really good.
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  Speaker 2: He was setting stone on the kid not getting a
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  Speaker 2: phone until 16.
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  Speaker 1: I liked that he was 10 toes down. 10 toes down. Like,
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  Speaker 1: you saw the look in his face.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh, I don't even know if there's room to
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  Speaker 2: have some humor about it.
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  Speaker 1: Because he got this look like, you know. That great question.
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  Speaker 1: He was leaving the zoo out the tunnel back in
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  Speaker 1: the day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Great question posed by you of, well, let's say, you know,
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  Speaker 1: that dad down the road, he's talking to you now.
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  Speaker 1: You know, like, what do you say then? Yeah. She's
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  Speaker 1: not getting a phone. Yeah. It ain't happening. So quit asking.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We are.
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  Speaker 2: We're, we're all over the place, but, uh, awesome episode
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  Speaker 2: this week. Fired up to have you back. Want to
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  Speaker 2: catch up. Just give some ketchup. Need some ketchup. I'm
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  Speaker 2: sure you got some dad wins and losses going on.
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  Speaker 1: I got a lot of dad wins. I got some
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  Speaker 1: dad losses that I turned into dad wins. Last week,
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  Speaker 1: I was not feeling good. I took the week off
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  Speaker 1: as far as just kind of taking care of some
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  Speaker 1: stuff at home. And it was a really good time
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  Speaker 1: of just pouring into myself, but pouring into my family
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  Speaker 1: as well. And just kind of taking care of, what
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  Speaker 1: do we call the stuff at the beginning of an episode?
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  Speaker 1: We always, housekeeping. Taking out the trash. Taking out the trash.
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  Speaker 1: You're taking out the trash. You do some housekeeping, some
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  Speaker 1: house cleaning. I was taking out the trash. Cleaning up
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  Speaker 1: some shelves. Physically and metaphorically taking out the trash. Hanging
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  Speaker 1: up a shelf. I did hang up a shelf. I
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  Speaker 1: built some stuff. I actually cleaned out the entire garage.
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  Speaker 1: Our garage is clean now, which that was crazy. And
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  Speaker 1: it was a really good week. I missed you guys
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  Speaker 1: a lot. I missed you guys a lot, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: really happy to be back. We miss you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You were dearly missed. Thank you, guys. Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: People showing up in the comments, missing Sherm. they were
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  Speaker 2: got follow-ups we got pt6 community we got shout outs
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  Speaker 2: dad wins and losses new dad shout outs we got
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  Speaker 2: emails uh we got the voicemail the hotline you can
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  Speaker 2: vent we're gonna have three later on in this episode
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  Speaker 2: but if you want a chance to be featured on
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  Speaker 2: for the dads in this podcast as a papa team
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  Speaker 2: six member go ahead and write in anywhere youtube comments
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  Speaker 2: spotify comments on social media for the dad's pod the
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  Speaker 2: boys again We're all over the place.
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  Speaker 1: We're starting to get... I love seeing PT Sickos putting
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  Speaker 1: stuff in the comments, DMing us, comments of episodes of posts.
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  Speaker 1: I love seeing that. Dude, yes. But we're starting to
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  Speaker 1: get some posts that are just being shot into the
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  Speaker 1: ether of X, which I love so much. It'll just
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  Speaker 1: be tagging Deke, Chef, Will, and I. Hey, where are
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast burritos? People are reading this with no context. Damn,
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  Speaker 1: are you coming back or the fuck? I'm not trying
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  Speaker 1: to just dive into the breakfast burritos as you know.
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  Speaker 1: That's the most top of mind thing is where are
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast burritos? I know. But I love seeing people.
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  Speaker 1: I'll use another example that we can dive into breakfast burritos, Shep.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody was like... Hey, I saw this shirt out in
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  Speaker 1: the wild, like, at will, at deke, at chef, at jerk.
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  Speaker 1: But what's really top of mind is where are the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast burritos? It's the breakfast burritos. It is true. That is,
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  Speaker 1: I saw somebody had a day count. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And people, you know, again, breakfast burritos. But, hey, the
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  Speaker 2: Papa Team 6 shirt last week that was dropped, number
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  Speaker 2: one seller.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Number one hitter in the Bustin' with the
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  Speaker 1: Boys store.
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  Speaker 6: It sold so well, Will, that we made the crew
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  Speaker 6: neck Sherm has on because the shirt sold so well. So, Sherm,
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  Speaker 6: do a little waggle for me.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't even done an ad on this thing. We've
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  Speaker 1: just done it on this pod.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I don't think I posted about it last week,
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  Speaker 2: which I'm sure Deke's going to be up my ass about.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, he'll be up your ass. But just organically talking
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  Speaker 1: about it on.
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  Speaker 1: This show and knowing that it's the, it's a top dog.
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  Speaker 1: It's a top dog in the yard. I mean, that
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  Speaker 1: was crazy to hear. And that was this morning's team meeting.
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  Speaker 1: And that was really cool to hear. I feel terrible
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  Speaker 1: because what was going to be a fun shout out
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  Speaker 1: to our PT sickos is turned into chefs in a
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  Speaker 1: corner right now. I can see it.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: A little bit of a corner. If we're not going
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  Speaker 1: to allow him to talk, that's kind of us putting
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  Speaker 1: him in the kennel. I got muzzled? Whoa, easy show.
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  Speaker 1: You're not going to let him defend himself? Permission to speak?
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  Speaker 1: Captain of Seaman Team 6, go ahead.
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  Speaker 7: I wanted to see if Thursday breakfast burritos would work.
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  Speaker 7: Would we be open to it?
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  Speaker 2: Look, I think at this point, we'll be happy if
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  Speaker 2: you bring in anything at any point in time. There's
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  Speaker 2: no expectation.
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  Speaker 1: Bar's low. I think we got to do away with
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  Speaker 1: the expectation.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not, in terms of what we want, I can
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  Speaker 7: put the expectation of, hey, I can deliver a burrito
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  Speaker 7: on a certain day. That's the one I need to
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  Speaker 7: make up. That's a very basic level expectation.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, a couple of weeks went by and probably
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  Speaker 1: the community's howling out there.
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  Speaker 7: I wanted to make sure Sherm got in on the
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  Speaker 7: breakfast burritos. It wouldn't feel right last week. Also, he's
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  Speaker 7: looking out for his boy. Yeah. How fucked up of me.
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  Speaker 7: to all of a sudden deliver breakfast burritos and Sherm's
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  Speaker 7: not here. Like what kind of guy am I? That
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  Speaker 7: would have been messed up.
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  Speaker 1: That's a, that's a, Oh, we can't bust balls on
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  Speaker 1: the show anymore. That was good. I did post a video.
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  Speaker 1: That's the card he had. That's the card he had.
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  Speaker 7: I did post a video of me drafting my team,
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  Speaker 7: like while cooking dinner. because that whole thing and one
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  Speaker 7: of the comments is uh it's all my buddies in
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  Speaker 7: the league commenting and then there's just one pt sicko
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  Speaker 7: who's like this ain't breakfast burritos so i need i
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  Speaker 7: need to get i need to get this off my
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  Speaker 7: back we need to get it done.
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  Speaker 1: Pt sicko chat chat can we spam uh breakfast burritos
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  Speaker 1: in the chat please just because it makes me laugh
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  Speaker 1: anytime i see.
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  Speaker 2: Write a comment about chef and the breakfast burritos because
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  Speaker 2: i like to scroll and see the comments and i
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  Speaker 2: like to chuckle.
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  Speaker 1: And for people that have never seen the show it's
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  Speaker 1: got to be so confusing what the hell are they
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  Speaker 1: talking about go a couple episodes back and then he
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  Speaker 1: let down the entire team.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah i i forgot to get i told will i
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  Speaker 7: would um Make breakfast burritos for the whole squad on
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  Speaker 7: a Sunday recording.
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  Speaker 1: We're all coming in. Yep.
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  Speaker 7: And then while I made that promise, totally forgot that
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  Speaker 7: I had a wedding that I was in that was
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  Speaker 7: going to take up all weekend. And then I thought
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  Speaker 7: Will would nicely be like, hey, let's do like an
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  Speaker 7: 11 o'clock on Sunday recording. And then I got the
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  Speaker 7: text at the reception. Hey, how about 830 in the morning?
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  Speaker 7: And I immediately was like, this.
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  Speaker 1: Is going to be tough. Time out, time out, time out.
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  Speaker 2: Are you taking accountability right now? Are you passing the
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  Speaker 2: buck on like random external things?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 7: This is not an excuse. I'm giving context to you. Wedding, reception,
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  Speaker 7: text came.
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  Speaker 1: His dad was there in the kitchen too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that blocked you on the, I guess, the skillets
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  Speaker 2: and stuff.
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  Speaker 7: No, we didn't have tortillas or anything that we needed.
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  Speaker 7: That's all on me. This is still on me. I'm
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  Speaker 7: not putting it on anyone else.
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  Speaker 1: But all I'm saying is all I'm hearing is wedding, reception, latex. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was explaining why. I was explaining why. No tortillas.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared. He's explaining to the chef heads out
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  Speaker 1: there that chef is accountable. He is a talented cook.
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  Speaker 1: and they're probably asking themselves, chef, what the fuck? You
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  Speaker 1: just decided to fuck over the boys? And he is saying, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: it's not like that. There are some other things at play. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that that's the reason why I should
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  Speaker 1: have got it done anyway. I should have thought it
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  Speaker 1: through better. Of course.
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  Speaker 2: He committed to Sunday morning breakfast burritos when the time
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  Speaker 2: wasn't at all set.
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  Speaker 1: And he, he didn't, he dropped the ball. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: All right. If this show turns into a, a court show,
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  Speaker 1: like a judge type show in all of our cases
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  Speaker 1: are just over breakfast burritos. I would love it. I
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  Speaker 1: had like nothing wrong there. I got some, some follow-ups.
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  Speaker 1: Let's hit them. Uh, This comes from Family Rebaio. The
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  Speaker 1: Family Rebaio says, what's up boys? Christian Rebaio over here
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  Speaker 1: and let me tell you great stuff. First time listening
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  Speaker 1: slash watching the podcast and I'm subscribing on YouTube. Just
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: finished the episode and let me tell you again, Willie C,
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: great guy. The passion for doing that seating chart is amazing.
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: I think this is Donald Trump writing this email. Maybe
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: he's an amazing guy. And let me tell you, maybe
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  Speaker 1: he's got to be an event planner or something. Sherm's
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  Speaker 1: voice has got me dying. Maybe I wrote this. Sit
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  Speaker 1: all day watching your soaps. Husband's got a pod and
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  Speaker 1: you don't care. Hilarious. Chef, words cannot describe how disappointed
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  Speaker 1: I am with the guy. I feel disrespected. This is
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  Speaker 1: Christian Rubio. Christian then continues and says, I know he's
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: going to come back and kill it. I hope. Fourth guy.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know yet. I haven't heard too much. But
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: so far, so far better than Jeff. I have an
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: 18 month old baby girl. And it's just nice hearing
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: dad's talking about dad. Sorry, Dad Life and Hudson Life.
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: That guy, Carlo, top tier. Can't wait to listen to
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: the next episode sent from my iPhone. That was an all-timer.
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  Speaker 1: And fourth guy, I don't know. I don't know better
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: than Chef. Can already tell. That was crazy. Chef, what
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  Speaker 1: a letdown. Terrible guy. He's going to come back. He's
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: going to come back. Lights too bright. Christian, you write
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: like our current active president, Donald Trump. It's from Nate
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  Speaker 1: on Spotify. He is close to tugging away about killed me.
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  Speaker 1: Hit the bone. Great. So boys, cheers. I didn't slip
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  Speaker 1: that in there. It was a good laugh for myself internally.
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  Speaker 1: That was one of the updates that I got from
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  Speaker 1: Deke was the tugging away.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I texted Sherm and I said, so
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  Speaker 6: on today's episode, it went really well. And Will talked
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  Speaker 6: to Chase about his son starting to tug away. And
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  Speaker 6: so that was the recap Sherm got.
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  Speaker 1: And Will started talking to Chase about, and I quote, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: your son's around that age. That's just like some guys
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: on the golf course meeting each other. Are you kids 12?
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  Speaker 1: He's probably talking away. How are you dealing with that?
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: How are you approaching that conversation? I got one here
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  Speaker 1: from Ryan Talis 6909 on YouTube. A YouTube comment.
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  Speaker 2: Why do people take nannies with them on vacation?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no. So this is a road rage. This is
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: a drive-by. This is a drive-by comment.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Call me a hater. I don't give a.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand why having a... I don't understand having
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  Speaker 1: a nanny, period. Why have kids to have others raise them? Wait,
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  Speaker 1: name again? Name again. Name again.
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  Speaker 7: Ryan.
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  Speaker 1: Tally's. Ryan. T-double-A-L-E-S. That's on me. That's Tamales. Ryan Tamales.
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  Speaker 1: That was a typo on me. 6909. I don't even
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  Speaker 1: know how to approach that. I get where he's coming from.
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  Speaker 2: When I was a wee young lad and growing up
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  Speaker 2: and getting married and we were talking about having kids
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  Speaker 2: and having the job, the gender roles, everything else. Part
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  Speaker 2: of me, I had the same kind of stance and
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: reaction to people having Nanny's like, why do you need
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: all that? Why do you need nannies? Like you guys,
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  Speaker 2: you guys both, do you guys not want a parent?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. There's an anger. There's an anger of like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: he just, he doesn't understand. Like there's a, there's a,
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  Speaker 2: I'm a business owner. My wife's a business owner. Very
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  Speaker 2: much ambitious career oriented people that are also very intentional
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  Speaker 2: and very aware of We can't let our work take
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  Speaker 2: us away from things we want to do at the house.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And you can substitute the word childcare with nanny. It's
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  Speaker 2: just like having childcare in general. For that to happen,
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  Speaker 2: if you're wanting to strictly do all the raising yourselves,
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  Speaker 2: somebody would have to go out and be the breadwinner.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody would have to stay home 24-7 to raise the kids.
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  Speaker 2: The amount of things that go into raising the kids
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  Speaker 2: is a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's like, oh, it's too hard. You
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  Speaker 1: can't do it, blah, blah, blah. No, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: My wife just, she loves to work as well. She
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  Speaker 2: loves an identity, having an identity. This is her personal perspective.
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  Speaker 2: Loves having an identity outside of just motherhood.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't want to lose herself.
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  Speaker 2: Like when, like one of her fears going into motherhood
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  Speaker 2: was like losing all of that to where it's like, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: how's motherhood? Hey, being a mom, like everything you're known
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  Speaker 2: for is just being a mom. Not that there's anything
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  Speaker 2: wrong with that where I'm not saying that whatsoever.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. but she also wanted to continue.
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  Speaker 2: To have a life that she had built and wanted
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  Speaker 2: to have, has ambitions herself to where it's like, for
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  Speaker 2: me as her partner, I want to, we want to
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  Speaker 2: help and support each other any way we can while
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  Speaker 2: also still being very intentional with the kiddos. So it's
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  Speaker 2: one of those things where I see the comment and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, this is kind of like an insecurity
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  Speaker 2: or fear of like having somebody or being somebody who
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  Speaker 2: has a nanny or has childcare. But also it's like, man,
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  Speaker 2: there's so much, there's so much help with childcare because
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: you're like drained. Like there's been a time. on our
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: vacations where we have taken childcare with us because it
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: gives us the freedom. Like if you're a parent and
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: you have kiddos and you operate with childcare when you're
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: traveling or anything else, like your kids are still like, no,
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: I don't want them. I want to be with you
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: to where you're juggling a lot of different things. And again,
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that as like a victim poor me mentality,
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: but if we want to go on vacation, we want
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: to also have date nights ourselves. We also would like
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: to enjoy some of the freedoms that we've been able
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: to earn over the course of our lives.
• 17:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: And juggling all the worlds.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Like that is, it's helpful for us. And those are
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: things that we like to do and choose to do.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Having a nanny at home, it's like, dude, my wife works.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: I work.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: We do all the things. Scotty's not old enough to
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: be in school right now.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Rue goes to school, but Scotty's not old enough. So
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: you need childcare at the house so we can go
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: and work and do our thing. It's like, I'm wanting
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: to jump into, here's all the things we do in
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: the morning. Here's all the things we do in the evening.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Here's all the things we do on the weekend as
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: a family. Cause I'm trying to That would just be
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: me trying to defend my position on how much of
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: a mom and dad that me and my wife are.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: But it's like, you know, I understand where the comment
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: comes from. I get the thought, but he's not in it.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I got two ways to respond to this comment. I'll
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: go with the first one, the level-headed one. I understand...
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: your mindset because truly that is exactly where Jill and
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I are. And we are essentially paying for a shared
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: nanny in a shared nanny space with daycare. I mean,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that is truly what that is. Jill works full time.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I work full time. And you grind your dick off
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: here at the bus with the boys. Yeah. So it's,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: we are working full time. we cannot watch our kid
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: all the time. And we are also doing that to one,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: make a living, but also to provide our daughter Scarlett
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: with a beautiful, wonderful life of us being able to
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: afford signing her up for fun stuff like the gymnastics class. And,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: you know, so there is the, give and the take
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: of sacrificing time, but also being able to maximize opportunity
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: for my daughter through that. You and Chase talked about
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: that a lot with y'all's, you know, the kind of
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: the selfishness, selflessness, of careers.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Like balancing the ambition and like wanting to be an
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: intentional dad and being around.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:06
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: And it's, uh, yeah, dude, it's a no brainer. Like
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: it is a no brainer that we have to do
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: daycare and that we're deciding to do daycare. And if
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: we have the money for Scarlett to be able to
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: be hanging out at our house or getting to like,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: choose the calendar of her day and what it's going
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: to look like with the childcare provider that we get
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: to single-handedly choose every single day, i.e. a nanny, hell yeah,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: we're going to take that. I would. And I'm not
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: saying that to make you feel better. That's a no-brainer.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I know, but when you see that, you know the framework,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: like the mental that is thinking that it's like, to me,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: it's like somebody who's not, they are raising kids. Maybe
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: his wife is staying home all the time and he
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: just doesn't believe in, and he believes in like, Oh,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: I'm the man I'll go do all the work. You
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: have to stay at home. This is the life that
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: we're basically choosing together, which.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: That is fine. That is fine. That is fine.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: There are a lot of elements to where there's like a,
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I know I'm afforded some of those some of those things,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: but they are like, it's like to your point, maximizing
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: the opportunity, maximizing the time at home. Like there is
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: such a intentionality of trying to curate it because you
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: see how much you can, you can run thin when
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: both people in the household, both parents in the household
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: are working. It's a hard balance. it's a tough balance
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: when you're trying to like figure out what are the
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: solves here? Like if there's so many, like when I'm
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: off in my world doing all like all the ambition
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: things and all the things here, bust with the boys.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: And I see that it's taken a toll a little
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: bit on my wife. Cause she'll handle all the thinking
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: that goes around into ruin Scotty, that mental load that
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: they have to think about that. I'm not privy to
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: until we're having like an a gap conversation of all
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: the things that go into it. And it's like, Oh damn, yeah,
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: we need to, how about we find this solve?
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Here's an option. Here's an option. Here's an option.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: What would help us to where we're both feel like
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: we are getting to do the things that we're wanting
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: to do while also getting to do the things that
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: we want to do here at the house.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: But you also, there's the side of it too, dude,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: that isn't being explored is that you guys are getting
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: to handpick your nanny as well. Y'all are getting to
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: choose people that you get to integrate into your life
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: and build a relationship with. They're also building relationships with
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: your daughters that are helping to build them up to
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: be beautiful, wonderful, incredible young women. It is a win, win, win,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: win across the board. It is not showing laziness. It's
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: showing that you are willing to go the extra mile,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: pay the extra cent, whatever you want to call it,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: to win. afford some of the best childcare that you
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: can for your kids. It's a win, in my opinion.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: And I know that that sounds like, oh, Sherman, you know,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: hop off Will's dick, blah, blah, blah. But, like, that comment, like,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I might as well have, like, read the next comment
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: and be like, I really hate fucking beautiful lake houses
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: with big docks that have a ski nautique parked at them.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: What are these dickheads doing with these lake houses? Can't
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you just have one house? It's like... Bro, that's a
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: situation that they're in that they can afford, and it's
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: a way that they are able to have childcare. They
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: don't have both sets of grandparents here in Nashville. Maybe
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: the grandparents aren't able to watch the kids all the time.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Grandparents watching the kids all the time, that's essentially a
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: nanny that's just also a family member and is free.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: So it's all, it's all childcare. It's childcare. So it,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's all, it's all the same thing. And like, Hey, I,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I get it. Like that it could cause like some
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: anger and stuff, uh, and some frustration, but it's also like,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: it just feels as funny as like being pissed off
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: about other luxury things. Yeah.
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: Another variable will that you've talked about on this show
• 23:07
  Speaker 6: is the first experience.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: I believe we talked about on the show, maybe not,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: whatever it is.
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: The first experience you and Charo had with a daycare
• 23:14
  Speaker 6: and the reason that you guys decided to go. And
• 23:16
  Speaker 6: so I think that's an important factor. And the other
• 23:18
  Speaker 6: one I think about a lot here is you have very, uh, again,
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: Scotty and I have only ever had one conversation where
• 23:25
  Speaker 6: she talked about being the weapon, but Rue is a
• 23:27
  Speaker 6: very presentable human being and like a lovely daughter. And
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: I think the fact that she gets to have an
• 23:34
  Speaker 6: authority figure that is a woman that she spends a
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: lot of time with adds to her probably respect and
• 23:40
  Speaker 6: her level of like just seeing the world differently than
• 23:42
  Speaker 6: if it was just you guys or family. But I
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: do think those components are big things into why like
• 23:47
  Speaker 6: the situation is perfect for you and why it's just a,
• 23:51
  Speaker 6: it's a comment I added to the show for this discussion,
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: but why it's one of them.
• 23:54
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I'm sure, sure. You can break down
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: a lot of like points with it, but just fleetingly
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: reading the comment and, trying to handle it as as
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: well as i possibly can while not trying to sound
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: like oh poor me like this we got to figure
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: it out we need it like all these things here's
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: why guys here's why but then the flip side is
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: do you go after that mentality and then it's like
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: oh would you think you're just better than us it's
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: like one of those pockets because you're right when you
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: look back at when we first tried daycare and how
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: that ended up um did i talk about that.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: On the show not Very bad incident took place and happened. Actually,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: a couple.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: Rue had a seizure one time that got us to
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: the hospital, which was a very scary moment. Then, you know,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: months later, uneven, a very like unfortunate situation happened that
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: had us kind of like, what do we do here?
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Legal situation. Yeah. Multiple years of jail time situation.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: So it's like, that was very scary and jarring for y'all.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: No doubt.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: And then you, then you're out doing the interview process,
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: trying to find the right fit because there is a
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: level of like, you want certain standards and. And things
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: being like carrying out through the way that we do
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: at home and you're trying to find the right fit there.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: And again, that shit, it's like I'm caught in the
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: pocket of like the, oh, poor me, like this is hard. Like, yeah,
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I get that there's privileges and stuff with the spot
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: that I'm in.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Well, and the only thing you can control is you.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: And I know that you're not overly worried about comments.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: I'm just sitting here. You don't want to just say like...
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Will never comes in here throughout the week and, oh,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: they're saying this about me on the internet again. I
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: know that that's not something that you're actively... stewing over
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: but you can you know who you are you can
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: only control you and uh there are people that have
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: nannies because they don't want to deal with their kid
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: that is a universal truth and then there's people that
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: have nannies because both people are working no grandparents are
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: in town they love their kids dearly they're doing it
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: to maximize child care stuff that's a universal truth as
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: well Both can be true. Can we.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: What?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Hey, Ryan. Well, I think that.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I guess I don't know my kids now because somebody
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: else is raising them. Where are their names?
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. What is it? Ryan Tamale. No, his kids' names.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I couldn't remember. Tiffany and... Sarah. God, I can't remember
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: because I'm never around.
• 26:32
  Speaker 6: It's important to remember that with your life, context matters.
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: Just like... Chef and the burritos. He wasn't giving you
• 26:40
  Speaker 6: a bunch of excuses. It was context. And see how
• 26:43
  Speaker 6: we just spent 20 minutes talking about you and your context?
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Chefs counts too. Well, thank you, Derek. You're welcome. Thank you, Derek.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: That was very kind. See, Will? That was very kind.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I also appreciate you chiming in on those moments as well.
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Hey, but well done with the callback to the daycare stuff.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Because as soon as you said that, I was like, yeah,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: that shit did kind of. No brainer. Oh my God.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Because one of my first comments too, like when Charles
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: and I were talking about it, I'm like, we really
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: want to be the people that have like a nanny.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: There's just that you can have some perception, especially like
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: when you didn't have it growing up. And you kind
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: of see, you know, you see how certain people operate
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: or your perception of how they operate and you assume
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: this is how they operate.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: And you just are like, ah, that seems... We don't
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: want to be that, do we? Yeah, I'm not that
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: kind of guy or whatever. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That makes sense. Yeah.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: You're not, but you want to know what? You're not
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: that kind of guy. So. Fucking Ryan. Dude, get Ryan
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Tamale's ass up your ass. Get the Tamale. Oh, I hate,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I hate daddies. I fucking hate daddies. Maybe I'm a hater,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: but I don't give a fuck. Read it like a whiny, like,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: crying baby. Why do people take nannies with them on vacation?
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Why do people get childcare? I just don't get it.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I don't care if I'm a hater. I'll never understand
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: having a nanny, period, or any childcare. My kids ain't
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: going to school. Only me and my wife are going
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: to raise them. Why have kids to have other people
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: raise them? And who did that come from?
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: Oh.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Ryan Tamale on YouTube. Thank you, Ryan. Well said. That
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: kind of sounded like him. This one comes from Justin
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Grubb on Spotify. Justin, big shoes to fill. Let's see
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: how it goes. What a great surprise it was to
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: open up this week's sewed and see Chase Daniel's beautiful
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: face on the cover photo. I'm a lifelong Mizzou fan
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: who has not one, but two number 10 Missouri jerseys,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: all because of the legend that is Chase Daniel. That
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: era of Mizzou football, Chase, J-Mac, Chase Kaufman, T-Rucker, and
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: so many more created the football fan that I am today.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Love the Sode and Chase's takes on some difficult-to-navigate parenting topics.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Keep up the great work, gents. Hashtag PTCicka. That comes
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: from Justin Grubb. Shout out Justin Grubb. You think he
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: lets other people raise his kids? definitely i can i
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: could hear it in his voice you're gonna call your
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: mom to come to the house and watch little bobby
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: right now yeah i gotta go to the mizzou game
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: i gotta go to the mizzou game go watch the
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: tigers m-i-z-z-o-u no i'm going to the game i need
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: you to stay home wait what, are you taking a
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: day off? Wait, what's going on? Who's going to watch
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: the kid if I'm at the Mizzou game? Let's get
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: the man in here. I don't care if you're drained.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Life's hard. You think I want to go get hammered
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: at the Mizzou game? My friends are going to be
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: pressing me all day. Get more wigs. Get more fries.
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: Here's another hot dog. Here's another cold one. Twist my arm. Insane.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: End scene. End scene. We got somebody at the door. Oh,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: we got a delivery person? We got a delivery? Is
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: this our... Oh, it's his weekly breakfast.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, first watch. He loves first watch. He's big on
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: the bacon. They have good bacon. First watch has good bacon.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: It does. We have some shout outs right here. One
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: from Brian Michelson.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: What's up, boys? Just wanted to brag a little bit
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: about my dad and mom. When this weekend? We took
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: our 10-week-old on her first trip across the country from
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Vegas to upstate New York. Took her to go see
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: my best friend and surprise him for his 40th birthday.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I got to say, I was terrified of mid-flight blowouts
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: and meltdowns from the pressure change. To our surprise, zero blowouts,
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: on the plane at least, and zero meltdowns. Baby was
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: a dog all weekend and handled everything like a champ.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Wife was a dog, and she pre-planned everything from the
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: trip to the amount of formula, to the exact number
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: of diapers. Shout out to Jess, my best friend's wife. Dog,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: who threw a dope-ass surprise party as well. Overall, the
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: weekend couldn't have gone any smoother. Made your dad win
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: for the boys. Also, happy 40th to my dog, Benny.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Uncle Benny. I love to call him Uncle Benny. Love you, man.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Boys, keep killing the game. Mustachio out. My wife's nickname
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: for me when she talks about my daughter.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Can we please just get an edit to that readout?
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: And instead of Will saying dog, it's that high school
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: kid being like, such a running back, dog. Dog. God,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: that was incredible. He's gassing everybody up. He's gassing everybody.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: My best friend, dog. Baby was a dog. Wife, dog.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Uncle Benny, dog. And also, dude, can we just get
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: another quote graphic that says wives are dogs? Wives are dogs.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Context will matter. That could maybe be the subheading. D-A-W-G-S.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Wives are dogs. That's how he's spelling it on there too.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: If any female sees that the wrong way, she doesn't
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: have context.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: Honey, why are you getting pissed all over this quote graphic?
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: They spelled it D-A-W-G. Yeah, you saw what just happened
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: with Good Good Golf. You think this is a good
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: look on the show? Calling women dogs? You think Willie
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: C and all fat staff would be pulling this shit
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: a week after Good Good? You think they're that dumb?
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Come on, babe. Don't touch my driver. Don't touch it.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: We're kidding on the show. We're kidding. But that's why
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: she has her own driver. This, uh, this comes from, uh, okay.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: This is actually a really fun one. I believe this
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: guy's from Australia. Uh, his name is, or her name
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: is Kalaya. Hey boys. My husband, Nathan has been a
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: dedicated listener since day one. He was actually the first
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: call in, I believe. Okay. So it is our Aussie friend, Nathan.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: And we have our little Aussie flag here on the
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: set because of Nathan. Shout out. Um, the first call in,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I believe, or so he told me, I don't think
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen him so excited. Then when you guys
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: played his message, he still wears some merch. You send
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: them daily. I thought, uh, because it's father's day here
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: in Australia soon, September six. That's kind of some news
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: that we could use by the way. Can we get
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: a second father's day going and just say it's Australian
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: father's day? It sounds like we need to. It just
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: means that the wifey has to go down under. God,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: we're getting too much on the show right now. But
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: we are 30 minutes in, so maybe the algorithm. Yeah,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: maybe the algorithm will work in our favor. September 6th
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: is Australia Father's Day. Then I'd reach out and try
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: my luck at getting him a shout out for truly
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: being the most incredible girl dad to our two beautiful daughters, Ivory, four,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: and Prairie, a year and a half. He is such
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: a proud girl dad and his girls love him so much.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I'm so lucky to have him as my husband and
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: the father of our girls. But he's hard to buy for.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: So I thought a shout out on his favorite pod
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: could be the best Father's Day gift we could give him.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: We'd love to thank him for everything he does for
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: us and all the dance concerts he attends, all the
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Barbies he buys, all the princess dresses he puts on
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: the girls. For someone who couldn't have wanted boys more,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: he's the best girl dad out there. Shout out, man.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: And just, that's so sick, dude. I just, I love
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: everything about that shout out. What a shout out.
• 34:44
  Speaker 8: I know.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: People send in photos, too, because I have some beautiful
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: photos here from Chase Schoen. This email is to help
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: the gentleman the other week as well as anyone else
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: curious about having a child before marriage.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Here we go. A call back to, what, two episodes ago? Yeah.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: On August 22nd, me and my wife finally tied the
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: knot after being together for six years. The ring bearer, however,
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: was of our own creation. In early 2024, me and
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend found out we were pregnant. Early on, there
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: were thoughts about how maybe family would view us with
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: us not yet being married. We also wanted to do
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: the wedding on our terms and not rush that part
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: to have it done before our kid got here. Having
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: a baby and planning a wedding are both stressful, and
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: we wanted to avoid overlapping the two as much as possible.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Guess we didn't think raising a toddler and planning a
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: wedding would be hard. Boy, we were wrong. Having a
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: kid first can also show how compatible you and your
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: wife can be because there will be hard days and
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: hard nights where you think you are both at your
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: wits ends and somehow you get through it and realize
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: how much you both needed each other. Even when one
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: is low, the other is always there to pick up
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: the slack and you get to go into your wedding
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: day knowing that you've already been through some of the
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: worst of the worst and you two were able to
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: reach the other side. And do not worry what your
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: family will think. I love how I've read that part
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: kind of like I'm reading a children's book. And do
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: not worry for what your family will think. There's going
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: to be a rhyme coming out of that. We were
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: lucky to have great families to support us along the way,
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: but even if yours aren't I think it will be
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: truly impossible for them to keep the hatred once that
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: sweet little baby is here on the world. With all
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: that being said, here we are two years later and
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: tying the knot with our son, getting to be a
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: part of our very special day, and there's no other
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: way I would want to have it. Be young, find love,
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: have babies, love your wife. Little man even got to
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: join during our first dance.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Had a very long day, as you can tell. Love
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: that write-in. Yeah, I love that write-in. It's almost fumbling
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: a little bit. The words, the font is tiny. You
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: did a great job. Tiny font. Tiny font. They're trying
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: to get Willie C any way they can. They are.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: You passed. Thoughts on that. Will, when I had around,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: when I had started here, you were talking about the
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: hero's journey. the writing literary style of the hero's journey.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: And you were talking about the threshold, which is like
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: the test for the hero that like sets them on
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: their path of if they're worthy or not. Having a
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: kid might be the ultimate threshold test of if you're
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: compatible with somebody. I'm not saying that is the threshold
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: test to see if you're compatible with someone, but I
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: do agree with him that.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: You kind of risk you to use that as the
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: compatibility test.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, like very much saying like, don't use that as
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: the compatibility test. Here's a fun date idea. Yeah, first
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: date idea. Let's see if we're compatible. Let's go to
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: the bedroom. To his point, I was like, that probably
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: really would be a very quick make or break of,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: am I compatible with this person?
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: Not only that, but it sounds like, too, some of
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: the stress they went through with the families of like, man,
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: do we get married?
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: ASAP. So maybe we can hide it a little bit.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Then they figure it out on wedding day, but then,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: you know, bygones be bygones. It's all behind us. Dude.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: And life is life. Like for that, like exact topic
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: we talked about two weeks ago that there's like zero
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: judgment coming from this podcast. I felt like was everyone's
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: stance of like, we're, you know, like we're not the
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: end all be all. Accidents happen. Like that happens all
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: the time of people having kids before marriage. And, there
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: are situations where the parents step up and, um, whether
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: they get married or not, uh, but they step up
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: and they're great parents and there are some situations where
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out. But, um, to the parents that
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: do step up in that situation, that is hard. Like,
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: I think there is, um, you're not skipping steps in
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: the sense of like, how it needs to be done,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: but you are skipping some steps in the process of like, uh,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: building that relationship with your partner. And, um, for the
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: people that are, uh, able to do it and are
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: able to be great parents and be kind of baptized
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: by fire, kudos to them. Cause that would not be easy.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: You also find a compatibility test through wedding planning as well. Oh, dude.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: If you choose to get help planning the wedding, Ryan
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Tamale probably doesn't get help planning a wedding.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: Ryan Tamale.
• 39:34
  Speaker 5: You know what pisses me off? It's these fucking weddings, man.
• 39:38
  Speaker 5: It's like they don't even care about actually being in love.
• 39:41
  Speaker 5: They just want the Instagram photo at the end. Look
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: how pretty I am. Look how big the wedding is.
• 39:47
  Speaker 5: Fucking pissing me off. That's literally, he DM'd me that.
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: He said that.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: Ryan's about that life. You know he doesn't believe in
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: planes either. You can't fucking drive? No, fuck that. You
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: can't walk to your destination? Wait, you only got one flight?
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Do you need help? Oh, you got two feet and
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: you're in an airplane? Yeah, you know, we weren't meant
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: to fly. You know that, right? God wouldn't put wings
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: on us if we were supposed to fly. We had
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: to get in a wedding planning. You're planning the wedding.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: You don't want to play in the wedding while you
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: don't love me? And your mother always seems to have
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: an opinion. She might be good at helping. Maybe get
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: her in. Right to Molly. Yeah, I love him. He's
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: a good dude. Good dude. We actually have Ryan Tavalli's info.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Was that a YouTube comment? I think we have his address.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: We should go back to Ryan Tavalli's YouTube info and
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: just spam some breakfast burrito comments underneath it.
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Need a little context. Yeah. Okay. Well, we've done a
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: lot of shout outs. We've done a bunch of follow ups. Will,
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: do you have any dad losses? Other than having a nanny.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: That can't count.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: Not a big one in the last week. Man, I
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: hope my wife's not listening right now. She's like, oh,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: you're forgetting this one. I forgot to take out the
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: trash last week.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Okay. Maybe the week before, too. Oh, I have a
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: dad win for you. I have a dad win for you.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: That's going to help? Yes. What happened the last two weeks? Yeah.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: convenience centers convenience centers they have them here in tennessee
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: and you can go dump your trash at the convenience
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: center and will if you really want to get your
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: rocks off like a fucking sicko they have a cardboard
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: uh dumpster just for cardboard and you could throw as
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: much cardboard as you want in there And if you want,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: you can pay the lady that works the place a
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: little extra and have her run up on you towards
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: the end and be like, hey, get out of here,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: get out of here. If it kind of like gets
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: your juices going. Because it's legal dumping, but you know. Okay,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: so convenience centers. Convenience centers are here in Tennessee. Good
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: dad hack. Williamson County, dad hack. If you have some
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: extra trash laying around.
• 42:18
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I visited them. I appreciate that. Yeah, I got you.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Scotty took a lump, two marks on her head.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: Oh, no.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: One, this one, this one. on her forehead right here,
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: like a little egg, bro. She fell off. She kind
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: of like fell off her chair or couch or whatever
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: and smoked her head. We tried telling her, Scotty, you're
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: going to fall. Scotty, you're going to fall. Scotty stopped
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: playing so close.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: To the table. That probably got her more excited. Hey,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: you got to sit down during movie night. You have
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: to sit down. You have to watch the movie.
• 42:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: It's pizza Friday.
• 42:50
  Speaker 8: Boom.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I'm talking lumped up, bro. You got hardwood, too. Hardwood, yeah.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: She hit the corner. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was not good. Yikes.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: We think she hit the corner. Oh, dude. Charles felt terrible.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, should we take her? I was like,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Doctor ain't going to be able to help us. Hey, Scotty. Hey, Scotty. Hey,
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: she good. I took out my iPhone and turned on
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: the light and I was like, Scotty, follow the light.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Because I was looking up, I started to Google, like,
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: you know, what should we look for?
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: And it's like vomiting and passing out.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Their pupils are dilated. So I'm like, all right, we
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: can test this one. I'm like, what day of the
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: week is it? Sweetheart, I'll just give her my concussion
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: test on the sideline.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Hey, Scotty, what's this? Who are we playing today? You
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: hold up the llama. The llama. She's good. She got llama.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: She's good.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Look, she took a lump. She learned a natural consequence, hopefully. Oh,
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: poor thing, dude.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: That stinks. Scarlett got bit at daycare. By another kid?
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: We just brushed over that. By another kid?
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Was she swinging on her? I don't know how much
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to talk about that now that I bring
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: that up. Yeah, I didn't know as soon as maybe.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: But she got bit on the thumb. It pissed me off.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Everything was above board. Like, we got reached out to
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: by the daycare and everything. Everything was fine. I'm like,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: what are they doing biting my daughter? Yeah, like, who's
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: watching them? What was the kid's name? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Who are the parents? Can I have their number? But
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I was really feeling that way, dude. Show up at
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: the front door with Scarlett.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: It was on her thumb. It's like right here. You
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: could see like the marks. That's like kind of her
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: first big boo boo. Oh, Deke's got something.
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: I was just going to ask how they let you know,
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: because I'm in a group chat with a bunch of
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: guys who are all having their first kids, second kids,
• 44:39
  Speaker 6: and they all send in like a permission slip written
• 44:43
  Speaker 6: that says like how the kids day was. And it's
• 44:45
  Speaker 6: like a frowny face. I got bit by Tristan or
• 44:47
  Speaker 6: something like that. How did they let you know? Because
• 44:50
  Speaker 6: I always think sending a letter home to say your
• 44:51
  Speaker 6: kid got bit is crazy. But I don't have a kid.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: That is... As opposed to you're learning about it when
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: you go and pick her up?
• 44:58
  Speaker 6: I guess like picking up her a call. It always
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: feels like that. Maybe the dads are, but I just
• 45:03
  Speaker 6: get sent a picture of a report card that says,
• 45:05
  Speaker 6: I got bit today.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: And that just feels... weird that's hilarious slash feels like
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: how it would have been handled when we were kids
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: we have an app we have a pro care app
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: with our uh daycare and it's like you know so
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: you can see real time updates yeah real time updates
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: notification that she got i literally got a push notification
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: it was like mr and mrs young we'd like to
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: communicate that it's like very you know how how bad
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: was the bite Not to where she needed stitches or
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: anything like that. I ask because these kids, it's like
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: a pit bull. They'll lock and they don't understand how
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: much it fucking hurts.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: I'll mess around with Scotty and then one time she'll
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: get me. I'll be like, hey, god damn, bro. We're
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: playing right now.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: You got to know that you're biting me a little
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: too fucking hard. They said that Scarlett, they wanted us
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: to know, which made me feel even worse though, that
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Scarlett wasn't antagonizing. They said that she was exploring her
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: friend's face and was like being very gentle and just
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: kind of like touching her mouth and her nose. And
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: it was like all, you know, friendly. Yes. Exploratory, sweet stuff.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: And then that kid was just like, give me that. Yeah.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: And just.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: That'd be Scotty, bro. Scotty swings. It's still not a
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: massive issue, but dude, she just swings on Rue.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: At all times. But she's swinging above the belt, above
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: her weight class. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. I
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: would want Scottie around Scarlett for that exact reason. I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: would know that Scottie's probably going after the bigger ones,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: so if the bigger ones are coming after Scarlett, Scottie's
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: kind of the bulldog junkyard dog that's like, hey, leave
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: us alone. We're playing. Yeah. Scottie's got linebacker potential. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: He's got the mentality for the A-gap. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Dad loss. I was trying to think of a dad
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: loss when you came in and were talking to me
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: this morning. And I couldn't think of a true dad loss.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: The only one that I could think of was how
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: badly Scarlett is teething right now. It is... Dude, I
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: thought teething, this is for any first dad, like you
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: always like hear about like when the first teeth come in.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: And I thought that's all that teething was, was like
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: once the first teeth break through, then it's like over
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: and done with. It's so much worse now. She has
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: like four to five teeth all coming in at once.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: And she's just constantly like pushing on her jaws like
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: this and being like super sensitive and Uh, and whiny. Um,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: and it sucks to watch. You're like, dang, you're like
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: going through a ton of pain. We hit her with
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: Motrin and stuff before she's going to bed. Uh, but
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: it's been affecting her sleep a little bit, but, um,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: dealing with the teething, I didn't realize that it gets worse. Like,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: it's not like it was just something that happened. Is
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: she waking up through the night? Oh yeah. Golly. Oh yeah.
• 48:16
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: Charles apparently had to hit a couple on Scotty last night,
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: but that was knocked out.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh.
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: Because when I came in this morning, came into the bedroom,
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: I saw Scotty in the bed. I was like, oh,
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: you coming to hang out, get some cuddles and kisses,
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff. I was like, when did
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: you have to go up and get her? She said,
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: I probably got her like 10 minutes ago because she
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: was just yelling. And she's like, that was the third time.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you had to get her a
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: couple more times?
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: She's like, yeah. I was like, oh, shit. I was nowhere.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: You and I were in sleep land, dapping each other up.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: Because that is exactly what happened to Jill last night.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: She got up at midnight. She got up at four.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: She got up at 530. Scarlett did like beat for beat.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: Scarlett did the exact same thing. Will Jill reach over
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: and give you a tab and be like, hey, you
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: got it? Not last night. She didn't last night. But yeah,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: sometimes she does. It's like, she's kind of got that.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: We're talking about wives or dogs. My wife is a dog. Uh,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: and she likes to lead the charge with that stuff.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Like the first couple times And she keeps the main
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: monitor like by her bed The one that's like super
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: loud So she'll always be the first one to strike
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: And you'll be snoozing away Snoozing Snoozing Like a proud
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: girl dad Got one right here Uh oh A dad
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: fail Who's this from Ryan? trevor oh trevor gruel on
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: instagram dad lost boys trevor from idaho here hi trevor
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: hi trevor bt sicko and listen to the show weekly
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: keep ripping boys dad fail my 21 my 21 month
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: old woke up about 2 30 this morning good and
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: decided it was time to party i went up and
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: rocked her tried to put her in the crib and back.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: Up she was good My wife said, just let her
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: cry it out. So I walk out of the room
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: and she starts bouncing on her mattress like a trampoline.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: No more.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Then close the door and hear a loud bang. Open
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: the door and there is Rory chilling on her belly
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: on the floor. Fucking good is what he writes. Ideal even.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: No bumps or bruises besides her ego. Laugh out loud.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Absolutely love the show and always looking forward to the
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: next drop. Love you boys. When was that for Rue?
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: When did Rue start being able to climb out of
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: the crib? Knock on wood.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: I mean, Rue's got her big bed now, so it's
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: all good. But Rue never got to the point where
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: she's climbing out of the crib.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: Rue just kind of started over the past few months
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: figuring out she can open the door and come down
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: to mom and dad's room.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: She doesn't do it a lot.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Our issue with Rue is when we moved her to
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: twin size, she would fall out of her bed. Because
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: we didn't have the rails. We didn't get the rails.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Got it.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: So if you're a parent out there wondering, like, what
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: do things do because they roll around, there's some rails
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: that they get. Kind of like, you know, bumpers at
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: a bowling lane. And did you all get the rails eventually?
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. She's calloused. It's like, hey, you
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: got to figure it out. Yeah.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: She's fallen down a couple nights when we're just, Char
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: and I are watching TV downstairs a couple times within
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: an hour. She'll fall and hit the ground. We never adapted.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: We never looked at our strategy and thought like, let's
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: get these rails. We just, I don't know. We just
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: kept going up there and like helping her out.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Cause she'd fall and then she'd like come up to where,
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: you know, she's kind of out of it or she'd
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: just be in a sitting or kneeling position and then
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: just kind of start crying.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Cause she kind of doesn't know where she is.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: Sometimes she would fall out and then just go to
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: the couch and sleep in the couch on the couch.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I'd go and pick her up and move her to
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: the bed.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Scotty is Scotty scouting report.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: She is one that'll have potential on like climbing out. Maybe. Yeah.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: She's not like actively trying right now, but she's a,
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: you know, she's a physically resilient young cat.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: When you go to wake her up in the morning,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: is she usually up in like waiting for you guys? Like,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: does she shoot up instantly or is she like kind
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: of a slow to wake? Uh, she's like usually awake,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: got a big smile on her face. Yeah.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: Always kind of like ready to rock, whether she's up
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: leaning on the crib or kind of like laying.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Down and just yelling mama, dada. Yeah. Mama, dada. Or
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: yelling whatever she's yelling. She could be playing.
• 52:32
  Speaker 4: Uh-huh.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: But she'll let you know it's time to get up.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: That's how I knew that Scarlett's teething has been bad
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: because that's usually like she's so happy to start the
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: day and is like up. If she's not up, what
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: I usually do is I'll like, I told y'all I
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: like sing and I go over and pull the drapes
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: to the side. I open up the blinds and let
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: the sun come in. And by that time when I
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: turn around, she's always standing. But with the teething stuff, dude,
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: she is just forehead buried into the mattress and has
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: been just like. like whenever i'm waking her yeah i'm
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: like oh okay something something's up scotty's been so excited
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: she like bounces and jumps like on the rail and
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: she's she's busted her chin on the rail golly she's
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: got so much of you in there.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: It's crazy if she's also got this um aggression that
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: i don't feel like is me where it's like so
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: say she hits her chin on the thing uh You
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: like pick her up and try to console her, but
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: she's like mad and she wants to be down because she's,
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: whether it's embarrassed or whatever, and she'll start swinging on
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: the rail.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: No! For hitting her? Yeah, yeah. She's like, what the heck, rail?
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: That's kind of sick.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: You'll be able to... She could be like Trevor writing in, like,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: because it's 21 months, so that's Scotty.
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Scotty, I just don't think she has.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: We haven't, like, lifted it up to where she.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: I don't think yet she has the ability to climb out.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: She could. She's a... She's all over the place. Yeah.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: Scotty's all over the place. You cannot contain her. She's
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: like Michael Vick in his prime. You know what I mean?
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: Who was.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: Dare I say it, a dog. Yeah. Michael Vick, dog. Dog.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah. For a couple reasons.
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: But Scottie is where you'd have to go man up
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: three deep and spy the middle linebacker and do D
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: and contain when you're playing defense against Michael Vick and
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: Madden back in what, 0-4?
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: 0-4 or 5, dude. Yeah.
• 54:34
  Speaker 7: Golly.
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: The only one that could keep up with Michael Vick
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: then if you just had a rush end was Carlos Dunlap.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: From former Florida Gator. Like, he'd be the one that had, like,
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: 89 speed that could at least keep up and run
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: a little bit with Michael Vick.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I'm getting into Sicko Madden more. Who was he playing
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: with at the time? Would have been Bengals, probably. Yeah, probably. Yeah,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: was it the Bengals? Yeah. He definitely was a Bengal
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: at some point. I don't know about that. Was it
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: Carlos Dunlap? Am I saying that right, name?
• 55:01
  Speaker 6: I mean, that's a very good defensive player that played.
• 55:05
  Speaker 6: The Bengals, the Chiefs, Seattle Seahawks. He was on the
• 55:08
  Speaker 6: BCS Florida Gators in 09.
• 55:09
  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: Carlos Dunlap.
• 55:10
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: Got to run that prevent.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so some of the people that are our age
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: in their mid-30s that used to play Madden know exactly
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: what the.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Defense was talking about when you played against the Falcons.
• 55:21
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: Also, with the hitting of the rail after she gets hurt.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: You'll bottle and channel that. Yeah, yeah.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: That's somebody who's very teachable, and you're licking your chops
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: at potential like that.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. You say, oh, I kind of like that. Yeah, yeah. Oh,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: come here, sweetheart. But I kind of like that.
• 55:44
  Speaker 6: Sherman, if you want a transition, we are on the clock.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: You guys would like to make a pick? Oh, yes.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: For the Dad's Fancy Football League, Uh, it's six hour, um, four,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: four hour time window. So we're still our time window
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: from Sunday right now.
• 56:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: We have, we got three and a half hours to
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: make our pick the draft right now for the dad's fancy.
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 56:09
  Speaker 6: To make one of our picks yesterday. And you're like,
• 56:12
  Speaker 6: we got some studs.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You're still on the clock. It's still going. Yeah.
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You got, you got four hours to make your pick.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: I love that. It's a deal. I mean, what a
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: PT sicko league. It's a deal. Yeah, it's just a
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: bunch of dads. Nobody here was in a tie. What's
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: the league called?
• 56:31
  Speaker 6: So this is the PT sicko. We're in the NFL.
• 56:34
  Speaker 6: There is a CFL that is the relegation league. And
• 56:37
  Speaker 6: I think it's worst three teams and best three swap
• 56:40
  Speaker 6: at the.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: End of this year. So we're in the NFL. We
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: got some studs.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: You know, that fires me up that we are in
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: a PT Sicko Fantasy League with a bunch of dads.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: With a bunch of dads. A bunch of dads are
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: having to set their alarms to, well, you know, I
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: won't be up for another four hours. So my draft
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: pick will probably be at 3 a.m.
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: Tonight.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: I'll set the alarm for that.
• 57:01
  Speaker 6: Would you have picked Jackson Dart over Bo Nix? Because
• 57:06
  Speaker 6: we got in. No, we didn't get into it. But
• 57:08
  Speaker 6: as owners, we had a good, healthy debate.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: I think the floor for Bo Nix is much higher,
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: but the ceiling potential Jackson Dart, it depends. Like, do
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: we have another cue that's starting? Are we looking at
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: who the starter is going to be? Because we're looking
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: at who the starter is going to be.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: QB1. That's our QB1. I'm more like Bo Nix.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: I need something that I know, okay, he's not going
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: to be the best, but you need a good at
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: least 15 every week.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: We're going to build around him. We went dart.
• 57:45
  Speaker 6: I wish you would have been there for this discussion
• 57:47
  Speaker 6: because I was big Bo Nix and they were dart
• 57:50
  Speaker 6: and they just kept going, which was kind of cool.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: He just gets my piss hot, man. He does, but
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: Bo Nix can still beat you with his legs.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: And Bo Nix going into the next iteration of the
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: Sean Payton offense, I think there's, again, there's things that
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: he hasn't tapped into, whether it's footwork, whatever it is, weapons.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: We all agreed that... He was QB7 last year? That's
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: what I mean.
• 58:13
  Speaker 7: Okay, we all agreed that Bo Nix was probably the
• 58:15
  Speaker 7: smarter choice. But we also agreed the more fun choice
• 58:20
  Speaker 7: would be Jackson Dart.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, true.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: But again, it's like the example that you compare it
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: to is what Anthony Richardson going into his second year.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: Or first year? That's a.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: A little bit of an out there. Now it is
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: because of how it's unfolded. But again, you're looking at
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: more of like ceiling potential and you're like, you have
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: to kind of get wowed by, Oh, look at this
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: guy's ability. Anthony Richardson also only played 15 games in college.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: I think everyone going that second season, I, at least
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, I I'll believe it when I see
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: it kind of thing. Yeah. A lot of college. Anyway,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: Bo Nix is like, you can believe it because you
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: have seen it. Jackson dart. won't believe it until I
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: see it. You've seen a decent bit.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: You've seen somebody who's out there that if he don't
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: start sliding, he's going to get knocked stiff.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: That's a big problem.
• 59:15
  Speaker 7: That's why we're going to draft a backup today, and
• 59:19
  Speaker 7: we'll need to lock in for it.
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: Who do we want to draft right now? What do
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: we got? We got to keep for the dance. We're
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: kind of getting out. We're fantasy football pod right now.
• 59:30
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• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: Need it to be cold because this sealing potential caramel apple.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: This is the drink of spooktober. I do not like
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  Speaker 2: And I'll say the hints of all of it is
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: very well done because I'm a crisp apple fan. You
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: throw a little caramel in there. Who knows if it's
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: going to taste too... Is that what it is to you?
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: It's going to taste too syrupy. But caramel apple is
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: a drink of spooktober. You talk about a great release
• 1:04:17
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• 1:04:23
  Speaker 6: I said, Sherm, when we were trying it, that this
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 6: is the perfect thing to pour over top of like
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: vanilla ice cream when people do that like butterbeer ice
• 1:04:31
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• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: And so it's a perfect one for that. Yes. It
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: actually really would be a good float drink. It is
• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: If you have my brain right now, we're at Universal Studios.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: We're at Islands of Adventure. Great float drink. We're Harry Potter.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: 1,000%, bro. That's a great call, Deke. Well fucking done, Deke.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: Great call. We got to have caramel apple floats. We should.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: Next pod. Next episode. Hey, you are spot on. We
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: can make them. And you see the look on my face.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: I'm not fucking with you. No, no, no. You're spot
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: on with that. You are spot on with that. Which is,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: I like it. I like the energy you bring because
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: it's a good flavor. When you painted that, I'm like, yeah.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: Ollie Pops is just going to be sitting there watching
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: us eat our floats. It very much.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: Reminds me that I'm drinking butterbeer right now. I'm envisioning
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: it in my head.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: I still have the taste of caramel in my mouth
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: in a good way. Yeah. It's a very nice, sweet taste.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: Holy shit, I cannot wait to put that on. Can
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: you taste the apple? When I drink it, yes, but
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: the aftertaste of the caramel... a hundred percent overpowers the apple.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: And I like that. As far as now that I'm
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: thinking vanilla ice cream, I'm thinking pie. Like the, yeah,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: the float is unlocked. What's your crack a cold one
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: this week for? Um, I'm looking forward to labor day weekend. Um,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: family's coming in town. My dad's coming in town and
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Jill's mom is coming in town. Um, we're knocking some
• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: the doggies going back to Fort Worth. They'll be returning, uh,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: with Jill's mom, uh, when she comes up here. And
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: I'm going to the Auburn Baylor game, which I've seen
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: on the Instagram reel that that original clip of me
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: not being able to go to the Auburn Baylor game
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: has been getting follow up comments like crazy. So I
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: would just like the world to know that there wasn't
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: a battle. There wasn't a war. But I'm going to
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: the game. But if there was. If there was like
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: a winner in the situation, I'll be in Atlanta on Saturday.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: Watching Baylor get their ass whipped. People are saying. People
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: are saying. And win or lose, I'm like, I've already
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: told people my heart's going to be hurting really bad
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: if Baylor loses. which that's fine, but I am very
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: excited for the road trip that I'll have with my dad.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: That's going to be fun. From Nashville to Atlanta. And, um,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: and then, uh, just getting to spend like that quality
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: time with them, uh, some time, uh, outside of the
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: house of, uh, like no kid and just like getting
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: to be, uh, I don't know. an adult going to
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: an adult event. It'll be fun.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: Um, but yeah, I'm, I'm very much looking forward to that.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: A bonus crack, a cold one. I saw the Odyssey
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: this weekend. That is the first movie that Jill and
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: I have gone to the theaters and seen since the
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: birth of Scar or yeah, since the birth of Scarlet.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: What's Scarlet do while you guys are watching the movie? Uh,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: we got a babysitter, got a babysitter. It was epic.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: We went and saw a matinee. So you let somebody
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: else raise your kid? I let someone else raise my
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: kid for a solid four hours. However long that movie is.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: What'd you think of the movie? Loved it. Absolutely loved it.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: Which one was it, sorry? The Odyssey. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Damn. Odyssey,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: these nuts in your mouth, man. My brain was there
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: when you had that. I can see you in slow motion. Sure,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: I know. What's his name? John Bernthal? No, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, no. Hey,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: he was in the Odyssey.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 2: Hey, and by the way, the Odyssey, the Odyssey nuts
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: joke is a smooth one.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: It's a smooth one. I hit somebody with that at
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: the Bahamas. Poor Harry. What was Harry doing?
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: We were playing a board game and I was like, hey,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: what's the movie? Because I got God on the on
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: three pod a couple weeks ago. They got you.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there. I'm like, yo, that is a
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: brilliant nuts joke right now. What was the movie Matt
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: Damon was in? He's like, oh, The Odyssey. And I
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: was like, Odyssey, that's in your mouth. Can we cut
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: to that? Would On 3 be cool with us cutting
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: to that? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just for any PT sickos
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: that didn't see that, because that was hilarious. And to
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: give context. And to give context. Nebraska Comeback, it's like that.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: What was that new Matt Damon movie that just came out? Oh,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: The Odyssey. I mean, The Odyssey, these nuts in your mouth.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 8: Yes!
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 5: Yes!
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: Yes!
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: Gotta have contacts. I hit Harry on a two-piece too.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: Another game takes place and he's sitting to my left
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, you into... Dude, are you
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: into fitness? He's like, yeah, yeah, I am. Is Harry
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: a friend before this trip? You mean Harry the... Oh, okay, okay. No,
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: we were cool before the trip. I'm saying you knew
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: Harry before the trip. Yes, I knew Harry before the trip.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I knew Harry before the trip. I thought that's And
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: the fitness one was the second one. I didn't even
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: finish it on the fitness one. I was like, hey,
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: you into fitness? Yeah, yeah. And I was like, come on, man.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: I just got you again. Threw him a towel. Clean
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: yourself up. Oh, my God. Dude, imagine that being your
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: icebreaker on the beach to meet a fellow dad. Like
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: the kids start like playing. They're having a good time.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: Imagine a couple in a car right now listening to
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: this pod.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: And a PT sicko or maybe future PT sicko. So
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: I want to put you on this pod. And in
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: that moment, in this moment, she pauses and just looks
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: over like, this is what you want to me. This
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: is what you want me to listen to.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And then that's when you turn to her and
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: you say, wait, you don't like this show. Phillip loves
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: this show. She goes, who's Phillip? You got, how about
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: you fill up on these nuts? And then you hit play.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Nuts jokes and fantasy football talk. Oh, wow. This is
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: going to teach you to be a great dad. Oh,
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: this is spectacular. So this is what my husband listens
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: to when he has his headphones on around the house. Perfect.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: You said your crack of coal? Oh, my crack of
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: coal one. Did I use the grandparents one last week?
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. Oh, you did.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 8: Damn.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: Two weeks ago. We did it again over the weekend.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: Charles had a bar three event, like a company event
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: where she hosted a party at the house.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's right. Shout out bar three, no free shout outs.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: Um, and so we went to drop the kids off at,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: at grandparents because she was going to do the party
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: for like several hours in the evening time. And she
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: was like, well, what are you going to do? Are
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: you going to participate in the party? I was like, Oh, sweetheart,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: week zero college ball. Like this is the fact that
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: we're driving up around noon to drop the kiddos off
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: at grandparents' house.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: They've already stayed. They already stayed with them a couple
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: of weeks ago.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: We got a little trial run and then a little
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: bit of a walkthrough and it went very well to
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: where they were prepped to go for the second time.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: But dude, the kids being out of the house, like
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: driving back home with wifey and going to an empty
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: house and kind of prepping, helping her prep for the
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: party and everything else. And, It's kind of like, what
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 2: are you going to do? It's like, oh, I'm going
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: to go hit legs in the garage. And then I'm
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: going to go to the shop and just start prepping
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: and getting ahead on some ESPN pre-production stuff for our
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: college football show.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: That we're going to be at Baton Rouge on Friday.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: And watch, you know, watch some ball. And just knowing
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: that it's like, you don't have the guilt. Like while
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: I'm here watching the games and prepping for ESPN, Charles
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: having a great time at home doing the bar three party.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: And just knowing that they're like, the kids involved in
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: would just be a text from the grandparents.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: But knowing that there's no, there's nothing weighing on you
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: that wifey's at home with the kids. Like I need
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: to be, I would have been at home.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: I'm being selfish. I'm yeah.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: None of those tapes are playing. But I guess I
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: can't use it again because I used it last week.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 2: But dude, it's like it's unlocked something new in both
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: of us. Not that we're rushing to go drop a lump,
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: but we're just thinking like in the, now that we're
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: in the flow, Rue is old enough. Scotty is like,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: she just fits in like a puzzle piece. She's got
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: older sister Rue with her. They sleep in the same room.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: They knock it out of the park staying with Lola
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: and Opa. Lola and Opa loves having them over. I'm
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: sure they're, you know, a little much at times.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 2: With breakdowns and them fighting and stuff like that. But also, dude,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: it is crazy. I 100% the parents out there that
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: have the tribe of parents close by or in town
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: or whatever it is to where your kids can go
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: stay at their house.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Dude, it is incredible. It's got to be.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: And then you wake up the next morning and there's
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: not like the monitors aren't going.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: We're laying down in bed at probably like 1130 or 1030,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: 11 at night and be like, yo. Because Charles is like, oh,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: I got to teach in the morning, but not until nine.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, you still get to sleep in.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I can do whatever. There's no pressure. There's nothing.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: So I wake up, I'm going to go do some
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: zone two. I'm going to go, I don't know, veg
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: out on the couch. I'm going to sleep in.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: I'm going to try and sleep in as much as possible,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: even though your brain just can't get past like sleeping
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: beyond like 8, 830.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to lay in bed. Who knows? Doesn't matter.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: The world is our oyster, bro. That's honestly why I'm
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: looking forward to Atlanta. Just kind of like what we
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: talked about over the phone too and conversations I've been
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: having with Jill. But isn't Jill going to Cali with Scarlett? No,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: she's staying in town. She decided she's not going to California.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: Where's Scarlett going to be? With Jill and Lisa. Lisa's
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: going to be a massive help.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: But I'm just saying when it gets to the spot,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 2: when Scarlett's old enough to kind of like, you know,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: you entrust your bear or whoever for her to sleep.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: Over, dude, it is crazy, bro. Oh, big time. I'm
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: talking about the feeling that I'm going to have in
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: Atlanta because Scarlett's not on my brain. She is with
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: grandma and mom. And like how much I didn't realize
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: that I needed those moments. little breaks like you need
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: those moments where you can um better you know self-care
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: to you better uh care with your wife like that's
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: epic that's epic.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: Dude yeah just envision one day when it's like you
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: and jill go somewhere whether it's a staycation or whatever
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: it is Or whether you're at home and maybe your
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: parents are in town and they have like an Airbnb
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: or something. And it's like, Scarlett's going to go sleep
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 2: over there. And you guys are just driving back home
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: and be like, what in the hell do you want
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: to do tonight?
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: We can do whatever. You know who's punching air right now? <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL>
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: Someone else is raging. No, no, no, no.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 5: Not really.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: Cause he doesn't believe, he just doesn't believe in it.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: So he's like, you know, teach their own. But dude,
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: it's awesome. It's crazy. That's a huge crack a cold
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: one win.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: It's one where you're just sitting there and you're like, oh,
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 2: I get it when people kind of talk about them
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: going to stay with grandma and grandpa.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's crazy.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: But if I had another crack a cold one, because
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: I know I used that one last week, but it's like,
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to get into it again.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: It's so nice you did it twice.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: Like, man, we can kind of do this to where
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: if I want to get some ball watching in, Sweetheart,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: go take care. Do whatever you want to do. Let's
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: go drop them off at Lola and Opa's. Yeah. I
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: can watch ball all day.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: I don't have to like sneak around. You know what
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: I know. You unlocked something here, Will Compton.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: You did. It is a beautiful thing.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: Other one would be like, dude, I am the jungle
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: gym for Scotty and Rue because it's like monkey see,
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 2: monkey do. They always want to do what each other does. Dad,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: can I ride on your shoulders? Once one goes up there,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: the other one's got to go up there. But it's like,
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: we'll be, say we'll be chilling. Scotty can just cuddle
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 2: with mom and relax with mom. Charles probably like, that's
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: not true. Okay, I know she does climb around a
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: lot and everything else. But it's pretty rare that Scotty
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: will just lay there with me. If I'm on the
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: couch and Charles is like, go lay with dada. And
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, come cuddle with dada. It's sprint over
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: to me. It's climb up. Because she gets to walk
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: on my chest and jump and bounce on my stomach
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 2: and do all the things. But she loves it. And
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: I enjoy it a ton. But we've gotten in like
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: a good routine when dad has home. Like obviously dads
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: are like the play people.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah. She wants to race all the time. She wants
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: me to chase, do all the things physically.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: But we've just gotten in a great rhythm to where
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: it's like I get a lot out of it because
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 2: I just look at her.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: She's sprinting over. And then Rue wants to do the
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: same stuff. Rue's much bigger. I'm like, sweetheart, you wake.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: You can't jump on my stomach the way Scotty's jumping
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: on my stomach.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And Rue was more of a cuddler,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: I'm guessing, with you. Yeah, yeah.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: Scotty's much more active than Rue. Not that like Rue
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: was inactive or anything, but Scotty's just, she's just got
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: that screw loose or she's all about whatever it is,
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: climbing everything, running around everywhere. She's just, she's a busy body.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 4: She is.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: She's a busy body. It's funny that she's already built
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: that relationship between you and mom. I know what you
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: mean of like, Scarlett is a similar ish of like
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: the only time she's really being still and stuff. I
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: feel like in cuddling is with mom and with me,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: it's always like wanting to do something fun or crawl. Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: Like mom's just like the safe space.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 5: Uh huh.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: To where they always want to be in mom's arms
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: or be around. She wants to be around mom more,
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: but it's like when dad has home and she knows
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 2: what time it is. It's play. It's play, play, play, play, play.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 2: With Rue at that age, because we haven't really done
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: a lot of Miss Rachel with Scotty at all, because
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: Scotty just doesn't sit still. Rue, you could sit there
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 2: and she would watch Miss Rachel. She would sit there
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: for longer than 10 minutes. If there was a 20,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: 30 minute pocket that were like, hey, where you can
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: watch some TV, we'll put on Miss Rachel.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: Scottie just doesn't, she can't sit still. You know what
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: Like you have to wait until she's just like trying
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: to break the baby seat or like the dinner seat
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 2: that she's in where she's kind of going ballistic.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: Like, okay, we can let you out.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 2: Because she can't like sit there and like, you know,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: I know there's like, she's not old enough yet to
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: sit there and watch movies per se, but at least
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: be engaged. She just doesn't, she just doesn't care for
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: the stuff that's on TV.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: That's funny, dude. And some of that I feel like
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: is the kid's personality as well. Because Scarlett can 100%
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: stand there for sometimes like two minutes. She'll just stand
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: with her hands up on the ottoman and watch Frozen
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: and just kind of sit there. And Jill and I
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: will be laughing in the kitchen getting dinner made or whatever.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: And we're like, look at her. She's just like sitting
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: there just smiling, looking at the TV. And then there's
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: other moments where we'll get like pictures from daycare of
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: kids crawling. And there's like, you know, somebody sitting there
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: reading a book. And she didn't get it from me.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: But Scarlett's just sitting in a chair listening to the
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: teacher read a book. And there's other kids crawling around.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I was one of those kids crawling around.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: She got that from mom. Yeah, Rue's got the ability
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: to veg out. Yeah, yeah. Scotty, I just don't see
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: any of that yet. Maybe she will as she gets older.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: But I feel like Rue also had that ability to
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: veg out even when she was like 21, 22 months.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, it's fascinating to just see differences in
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: both of them. Well, we have some exciting news with
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: our dad call-ins this week. Let's hit some call-ins. Our
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  Speaker 1: dad call-ins are presented by Gravely. We got a segment
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  Speaker 1: sponsor with Gravely? With Gravely. So gravely, uh, they are
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  Speaker 1: our presenting sponsor for our dad call in. So let's
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  Speaker 1: get into our first dad call in, which is a
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  Speaker 1: titled horse load of shit. Hey boys.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, this is Josh from Pittsburgh via Oklahoma city.
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  Speaker 1: And, uh, today is day three of potty training.
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  Speaker 4: And, uh, Before I get to the gory details, I
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  Speaker 4: do want to give everybody a little, put you on
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  Speaker 4: some game here. So we've been using the book called
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  Speaker 4: Oh Crap Body Training by Jamie Golacki.
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  Speaker 1: Write that down.
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  Speaker 4: And as much as Golacki sounds like a great football
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  Speaker 4: last name, this woman's methodology is kind of unique. The
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  Speaker 4: first three days, the toddler is supposed to be totally naked.
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  Speaker 1: And, uh, as you can imagine, uh.
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  Speaker 4: When potty training that can lead to some serious, well,
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  Speaker 4: some serious meet me in the a gap and let's
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  Speaker 4: find out how much of a man you are situations
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  Speaker 4: like happened today. Uh, so far so good for the
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  Speaker 4: most part, he seems to be understanding that, uh, he
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  Speaker 4: should pee and poop in the potty. Uh, and occasionally
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  Speaker 4: the little man gets there, but, uh, about an hour ago, uh,
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  Speaker 4: He backed up, stood right in front of me, and
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  Speaker 4: opened up to what can only be described as, sorry everybody,
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  Speaker 4: a horse load of shit onto his old man's chest.
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  Speaker 4: A literal, like when you see a horse poop at
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  Speaker 4: the fair, and you haven't seen a horse poop in
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  Speaker 4: a while, and you're like, damn, that's a lot of shit.
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  Speaker 4: That's how much shit was on my chest just an
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  Speaker 4: hour ago. From my toddler So Josh Just keep battling
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  Speaker 4: Just keep battling You know I'm a hockey guy So
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  Speaker 4: you know Next shift Yeah Next.
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  Speaker 1: Guy up Get pucks deep Turn the deep Get him
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  Speaker 1: in Get him in Meet me.
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  Speaker 4: In the A-gap I'll get you on the next one
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  Speaker 4: That's what I told him And You know So all
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  Speaker 4: the parents.
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  Speaker 1: Out there Potty training.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going with it I'm going through it with you
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  Speaker 3: And All I can tell you Is that A Adult
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  Speaker 3: Olipop And a little bit of a down in a
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  Speaker 3: hole by Alison chains goes a long way to heal
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  Speaker 3: you from getting a shitload of horse manure from a
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  Speaker 3: toddler on your chest.
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  Speaker 1: So, uh, guys, thanks for the podcast.
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  Speaker 4: It's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: And, uh, thanks for all you do. All right. Legendary call.
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  Speaker 2: And I will say when rude, the whole them being
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  Speaker 2: naked for body training, when I came in on day one,
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  Speaker 2: when it kind of started and already happened, I wasn't
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  Speaker 2: like privy to.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: All that. Now, when I see Rue and she's just
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  Speaker 1: kind of running around naked, I'm like, what the fuck's
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  Speaker 1: going on in here? What are we doing? I thought
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  Speaker 1: she was potty training. I'm like, this is how you
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  Speaker 1: have to potty train them? We're doing Nakey Baby? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Nakey Baby alert. Golly. When do you start doing that?
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  Speaker 1: Am I getting close to that? I think it's in
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  Speaker 1: the two range. It's in the two range? It's got
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  Speaker 1: to be. Scotty's not two yet.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. And you know how my brain works.
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  Speaker 2: I was about to say, I'm just waiting. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: realize I did the same shout out last week for
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  Speaker 2: Crack a Cold One.
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  Speaker 1: Jill could come in to our bedroom tomorrow and say,
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  Speaker 1: we got to start potty training Scarlett. She's here in
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  Speaker 1: two months now. I'd be like, oh, okay.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Does Google tell us? Yeah. Google does. I
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  Speaker 1: got two little ones and I'm like, I kind of
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  Speaker 1: don't remember. A couple of dad experts over here. So
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  Speaker 1: there's a little timeline.
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  Speaker 6: So 18 to 24 months, some toddlers show early physical
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  Speaker 6: independence and bladder awareness, making it possible to introduce the potty.
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  Speaker 6: two years to three years this is the most common
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  Speaker 6: window where physical development and communication skills align by age
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  Speaker 6: four the majority of children achieve full daytime bladder and
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  Speaker 6: bowel control by.
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  Speaker 1: Four okay okay okay yes i'm tired you're 18 to
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  Speaker 1: 24 months i'm like scotty the clock's ticking if you
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  Speaker 1: want to be great you want to be great you
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  Speaker 1: only got a couple more months.
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  Speaker 5: You're worried about the rail day you're in the gym
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  Speaker 5: you need to be worried about shitting on the floor
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  Speaker 5: what are you doing And that's why we're a couple
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  Speaker 5: of dad experts.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that right there. In some rare cases, you don't
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  Speaker 2: control your bladder even up until 36.
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  Speaker 1: And that is perfectly fine. There's nothing wrong with that. Also,
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  Speaker 1: a shout out to... We're not going to shame bedwetters. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That was a friend of the show, Josh. Deke's friend
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  Speaker 1: that came into the office. We've met Josh from Pittsburgh.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out, Josh. Shout out, Josh. He's the man. Appreciate
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  Speaker 1: you calling in. He's the man. Got shit on.
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  Speaker 2: You got shit on. Hey, next man up. Get the
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  Speaker 2: next shift in. I'll get you in the AGAP the
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  Speaker 2: next time. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Stay away from my daughter is our next one.
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  Speaker 8: Hey, boys. Former Mike Backer caught in the AGAP today.
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  Speaker 8: Got a message from my daughter, six-year-old daughter, first grade.
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  Speaker 1: Found out some little boy, Samuel, kissed her on the
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  Speaker 1: cheek today.
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  Speaker 8: I'm in the AGAP, and I just want to know, comp,
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  Speaker 8: I got some advice for me. Am I going to
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  Speaker 8: have to show up and call for Samuel's dad when
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  Speaker 8: I roll up to first grade? Is he going to
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  Speaker 8: get to meet him in the A-gap?
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  Speaker 1: Put my screws right underneath his chin and let him know? Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Stay away from my daughter? Or do I just play
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  Speaker 8: a cool comp? Sherm, you can chime in as well, boys.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: First and only child Six years old, gets a peck
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  Speaker 8: on the cheek. I don't like it. My wife says
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  Speaker 8: that's kind of normal. You know, my daughter said, ew,
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  Speaker 8: she didn't like it, which is good.
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  Speaker 1: But I just want to vote. What are we doing
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  Speaker 1: in this situation? I appreciate what you guys are doing.
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  Speaker 8: Zach from Sacramento.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to me. Talk to me, baby. I think a
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  Speaker 1: great starting point is knowing that his daughter said, ew.
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  Speaker 1: So right there, opportunity.
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  Speaker 2: Take a walk with me and let her know, sweetheart,
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  Speaker 2: we can't let those things happen.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. If it does happen again, you got
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  Speaker 1: to let me know immediately. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: If you're my man here and you happen to be
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  Speaker 2: around it and can see it, maybe you can snag
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  Speaker 2: the photo because then you can bring the photo to
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  Speaker 2: the old man and just point, zoom in for him
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  Speaker 2: and let the old man know this has to stop.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, who is that? Is that... Or me and you
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  Speaker 1: are going to have problems. That kind of looks like Samuel,
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  Speaker 1: doesn't it? Crazy. Because it looks like Samuel's... Putting one
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  Speaker 1: on my daughter's cheek. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And next time it happens... it's going to be me
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  Speaker 2: kissing your cheek. And when I say kissing you on
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 2: the cheek, it's going to be me putting this right here,
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  Speaker 2: right underneath your fucking chin.
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  Speaker 1: I'll give you a kiss on your cheek in your
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  Speaker 1: damn hospital bed, buddy. Because you're going to be breathing
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: through it too. Hey, you love your boy? You want
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: him eating out of a straw? Ha ha ha! That
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  Speaker 1: might be too far. That might be too far. We're joking.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: But maybe he's got a rapport with the old man.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows? But also, most schools have a directory. Most
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: directories will have a phone number or a home address
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  Speaker 1: on there. I don't know. And maybe the driveway got
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: a couple of razor blades in it. Everything's on the table.
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: Maybe he just keeps on getting flats blown into his driveway.
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. That
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  Speaker 1: thing's cherry. That thing's pretty nice. What do you think
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  Speaker 1: happened to that, do you? No way. He just started,
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: next time it happens, he just starts keying his vehicle.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine keying someone's vehicle because they kissed your daughter on
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  Speaker 1: the cheek.
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  Speaker 2: Bro, when Rue was two, we were at State Golden
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  Speaker 2: when it was over Over on this end of Nashville.
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  Speaker 2: And we were eating next to this other family, Boyd,
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 2: similar in age. And when we left, because they were
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 2: playing together, they were running up and down the halls.
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  Speaker 2: And when we left, with Rue, it's always a hug
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  Speaker 2: and a kiss. Rue gives this boy a hug and
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  Speaker 2: a kiss. He's like, oh, I almost didn't know how
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  Speaker 2: to respond.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But we gave her a talking to on the car ride. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Mom let her know, sweetheart, we only kiss family members. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We can't be kissing strangers.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, especially no boy. She's like, sweetheart. You
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  Speaker 1: saw his haircut, babe. He's a chump. The kid's going
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  Speaker 1: to be a nobody. No, sweetie. He saw an angle
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  Speaker 1: and he took it. Where's the one that kissed him? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: my God. Um, third and final voicemail or call in is, uh,
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  Speaker 1: when it rains, it pours. What's up boys.
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  Speaker 9: This is, uh, yeah, it's been a day.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Hours.
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  Speaker 9: I'm an expected father. My wife is currently 35 weeks
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  Speaker 9: pregnant with twins, twin girls. And, uh, the last 48 hours.
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: Have been complete chaos, buddy.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 9: My, we've been dealing with a little, you know, plumbing issue.
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 9: And yesterday morning, my wife called me up, says the
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 9: kitchen sink is completely overflowing and flushing out sewage, basically,
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 9: from our septic tank into the kitchen.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: So I'm at work.
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 9: My parents go over there. They help her out.
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: They get it all dried. They get a plumber.
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 9: Plumber doesn't get there till today. So my wife spent
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 9: the night at her mom's because we can't use the water.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 9: I spent all evening till like 1 a.m. cleaning, taking
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 9: care of it, all this stuff, right?
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 1: I get like three hours of sleep. Get up. Good, good, good.
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: We have a new bed frame.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 9: The head of the bed frame collapsed on me, and
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 9: my feet flew up in the air when I got
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 9: back in bed after snoozing my alarm. So my dad
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 9: gets there for the plumber that's coming. Plumber gets there.
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 9: My dad calls me about an hour ago. Says, hey,
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 9: there's a busted pipe. You got to rip out your
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 9: whole front stoop, all this stuff, busted pipe, all kinds
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 9: of issues.
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: Could be a while.
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 9: At the same moment that I'm on the phone with
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 9: my father, who is dealing with the plumber for me,
• 1:32:29
  Speaker 9: my wife calls me.
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 8: Oh.
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 1: And says, it's time to go to the hospital. Oh, yeah.
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 9: Doctor said I got to come in.
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: Having tons of pain.
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 9: Think I'm going into labor.
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 9: So I leave work and I'm on the way right
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 9: now to pick up my wife to take her to
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 9: the hospital. And yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Good.
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 3: Good. Good, boys.
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 4: When it rains, it pours.
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 8: Love you guys.
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 7: PG6 out.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate that phone call, that voicemail so much. He's
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: on his way. You know what I mean? All this
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 1: chaos is happening. He's like, let me call in. I
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: got to vent to the boys. The fact that he
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 1: thought about us. All three. I love the energy of
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: all three callers coming in. Yeah. Those were good call-ins.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: All entering the A-gap. They really were. All three. Dude,
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: best of luck to you and yours and congratulations. I mean,
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: I'm guessing that, you know, like. They had the kid,
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: by the way.
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: You had the kid.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 3: Twins.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: Oh, they did have the twins. They had twins. Oh,
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: my God. Dude. Imagine twins. You got to tear up
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: your porch.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 1: It's amazing. And you got all the brown paper that
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: you got to walk on. You got to put the
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: shoe sleeves on because you're walking through. There's all this
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: construction going on in your house.
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 8: Good.
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: Ideal. No sleep.
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 3: Good.
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: Good. Postpartum.
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 4: Good.
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: The cartoon, like, illustration in my head of just the
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: feet above the head is incredible. You know, he goes...
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: He's about to snooze my alarm. Imagine the stare that
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: you have at your bed when you finally gather yourself
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: and you get out of the bed. And it's like
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 1: a Willie C picking out a soda at the gas station.
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: You're just looking at him. I mean, you gotta be
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: kidding me, man. Gotta be fucking kidding me. You just
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 1: sit there. Pregnant wife sleeping at grandma's. He's in hell.
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: House smells like shit.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: Seems like you got a busted pipe. You know, shit.
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 4: Oh, really?
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: Okay. Um, and of course, dad Collins, they're presented by gravely. Um,
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  Speaker 2: Dude, I love that Gravely's on board because you know
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 2: the haters are punching air right now.
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: How will he get a lawn mowing company? He doesn't
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: even mow his own yard. Tamale's losing it right now.
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: Phoenix is losing it right now. Oh, we got a
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 1: little bag of them. We're starting to collect them. Phoenix. Phoenix, dude.
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: Cannon's going to hate them all. Oh, my God. He's
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 1: going to hate them all. Yeah. Once we get all
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: of Cannon's voicemails, oh, my God. The guy that calls
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: in each week and he literally just, he knows that.
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 1: I text him from the phone sometimes. Check in. Make
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: sure he's having a good day. He just calls in
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: to bitch about haters. He hates the For the Dads haters.
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 9: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Leaves like four... This is.
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  Speaker 6: The one we said that he was ready to go
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 6: fight the blue-haired barista that said you didn't have a
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 6: day job.
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: He had gone. That can work. Set him off. That's
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 1: a guy that's on the squad. We need to compile
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 1: the cannon cut. He's listening to the Tamale comment coming
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: after my voice.
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 4: Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: He's like the guy in Billy Madison with just the list. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Listen,
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 1: he kind of doesn't know how to defend himself. I
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: don't blame him. He kind of doesn't know how to
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: handle it. I need to take care of this guy. Yeah.
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: Do you want to read an email and then I
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 1: have a lesson of the week? Yeah, I'll hit an email.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: You have Lesson of the Week ready? Yes, sir. Yeah,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: you read the email. I'll do Lesson of the Week.
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: This one is from Thomas Spots. Oh! Hey, guys. Tom
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  Speaker 1: from Denville, New Jersey here. New Jersey here.
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  Speaker 2: Go Big Red, of course. I have family in Elkhorn, Omaha,
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 2: so big Scurs fan.
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 1: Of course. Denville, New Jersey. Go Big Red. Go Big Red, baby.
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 2: I just went for a run and I'm currently sitting...
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 2: On my kayak, yes, my Papa Team Fit shirt is on.
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 2: I haven't listened to the latest Sode yet. It's currently
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 2: 6 a.m. while I'm riding this. Lately, I've been getting
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 2: up early, doing my PT Fit, going for a run,
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 2: and then taking the kayak out on the lake.
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  Speaker 1: What a hell yeah, dude. Come on.
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  Speaker 2: I'll just sit there for a while and relax and
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 2: drink my coffee. It's been really good for the mind. Recently,
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  Speaker 2: I've been going through this wave of sadness of getting older,
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 2: watching my kid grow up, and realizing just how fleeting
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 2: time really is, as you guys always say. Then while
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting here on the kayak right now with the
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  Speaker 2: birds chirping, sun coming up, and my hot coffee in hand,
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  Speaker 2: I remember it's Wednesday and I'll be listening to For
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 2: the Dads on my way into work. And I know
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 2: it will put me in a better mood. Maybe I'll laugh.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I'll cry. Either way, I get something out of
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  Speaker 2: it and I always feel better afterward. I can honestly
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  Speaker 2: say that you guys have made me a better father,
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 2: better husband, and a better friend. I really appreciate what
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 2: you guys are doing. It's something I look forward to
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 2: every week. You make me feel normal. You make me
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 2: feel human. And you remind me that it's okay to
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 2: not have everything figured out. I've got a three-year-old daughter, Emma,
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 2: who is amazing and absolutely crazy. But I wouldn't want
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  Speaker 2: it any other way. So I just wanted to say
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 2: thank you. Keep doing what you're doing because it really
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 2: does make a difference. I appreciate you guys. That includes
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 2: the boys in the back. Tom from Denville, New Jersey.
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  Speaker 2: What a very nice.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, dude. Thank you, Tom. sipping some coffee you
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  Speaker 1: got a picture after pt fit look at that go
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  Speaker 1: big red bro we gotta get her in new jersey
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  Speaker 1: though hey that is a badass morning routine though kayak
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  Speaker 1: in the aero in the pt fit yeah having some
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  Speaker 1: coffee out on the water watching the sunrise like oh
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  Speaker 1: today's wednesday the fact that he's thinking about us dude
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  Speaker 1: i know um that's so cool and thank you uh
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  Speaker 1: remind me his first name thomas thank like just thank
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  Speaker 1: you thomas for taking the time to write that in
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  Speaker 1: because as much as you say hey thank you uh
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  Speaker 1: will and sherman the guys in the back for the show, blah, blah, blah. Like,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for that write-in. Cause if you think we're
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 1: helping you be a good dad, dude, it's, it's write-ins
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 1: like that, that remind me of all the good dads
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  Speaker 1: that are out there. And, uh, what I aspire to
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 1: try to be as a dad, like, I mean that, like, that's,
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 1: that's really cool shit right there in that email.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Don't look, bottle those, bottle that gratitude up. Because again,
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  Speaker 2: it's like life and chaos happens.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. You lose sight of it.
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah. The loose side of it, get caught up in
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 2: all your own bullshit. But dude, having mornings like that,
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 2: having a kiddo ripping around in a 15, I'm assuming
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  Speaker 2: Tommy Frazier.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's okay.
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  Speaker 4: Good.
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  Speaker 1: That's Tommy Frazier. Could be. I was thinking around.
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  Speaker 2: We'll say Tommy Frazier. We'll say Tommy Frazier. Tommy Frazier.
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 2: We'll say it's a Tommy Frazier jersey. But no, thank you, man.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for the words. Thank you for making us
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 2: feel very undeserving with that right in.
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  Speaker 1: Um, But that is awesome. Love that. Thank you, Thomas.
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 1: I have a fun lesson of the week. Let's hear it.
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  Speaker 1: It is a longer quote. It comes from Stephen DeNear.
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 1: And you might not know who Stephen DeNear is. I
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 1: didn't until I listened to a TED Talk of his.
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: But this is a little SERP from a TED Talk
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  Speaker 1: of his. He was a senior foreign... foreign exchange and
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 1: emerging markets trader for Bank of America and AIG. And
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: then he was the founding portfolio manager of a $ 1. 25
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 1: billion global macro fund, like a hedge fund. So this
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 1: guy is making crazy big financial decisions that not only
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 1: affect himself, but affect everybody whose money are in these
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 1: hedge funds. And these huge banks, AIG and Bank of America.
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 1: And so he was talking about making decisions and the
• 1:41:21
  Speaker 1: importance of making good decisions. And these are now his words.
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 1: Novak Jovovich, the tennis player, back in 2004, when he
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 1: first became a professional player, he was ranked 680th in
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 1: the world. It wasn't until the end of his third
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 1: year that he jumped up to be ranked third in
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 1: the world. He went from making $ 250, 000 a year to
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 1: $ 5 million a year in prize money alone. And of course,
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 1: he did this by winning more matches. However, winning matches
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 1: all comes down to decision making. So back when he
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  Speaker 1: was winning about 49% of his matches when he was
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 1: ranked 680th in the world. He was winning about 49%
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 1: of the points that he was playing. So every single
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 1: point that he would play in a match, he would
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 1: win 49% of those. And he was having to make
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 1: a decision in every single one of those points being played.
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 1: Then he jumped up and became number three in the
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 1: world and earned $ 5 million a year for swinging a racket.
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 1: And in order to move up to third in the world,
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 1: he had to improve his decision success rate to just 52%.
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 1: So from 49% to 52%, he shot up from being
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 1: 680th in the world to top 10 tennis player in
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 1: the world. Then to become not just number one, but
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 1: maybe one of the greatest players to ever play the game,
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 1: he only had to improve from 52% to a rate
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 1: of 55%. So we keep using the word just. I
• 1:43:12
  Speaker 1: don't want to imply that this is easy to do. Clearly,
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  Speaker 1: it's not. But the type of marginal improvements that I'm
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 1: talking about are easily achievable by every single one of
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 1: us in this room, all in our decision making. So
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 1: building on making Good decisions for yourself. And that is
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 1: a great example right there. Waking up early to get
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 1: in a kayak and go watch the sunrise. Getting out
• 1:43:37
  Speaker 1: of bed early. That's a good decision. Seeing that your
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 1: wife maybe didn't get to knock out all the stuff
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 1: that she usually knocks out before bed. Some stuff for
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 1: laying on the counter. making the good decision to go
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 1: clean that for. Making the good decision to, I'll meal
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: prep this week or making the good decision of making
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: a grocery list to make it easier for your wife
• 1:44:02
  Speaker 1: if she's the one that buys groceries. All those little
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 1: tiny decisions, good decisions that you can make will increase
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 1: the amount of output and the amount of success that
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 1: you'll see every single day. I loved that it was
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 1: only a jump from 49% to 55% is what got
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 1: Jovovich from 680th in the world to arguably the best
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 1: tennis player of all time. So I thought that was
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 1: a cool lesson. Well said. Thank you. It is a dude.
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  Speaker 1: It is nuts. Cause at the 49%, it feels like
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 1: the entire world is on top of you.
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 2: And just a 6% increase. You're now number one in
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 2: the world. It's like getting a golf ball too. Like
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 2: you could just have a bad shot and it just
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 2: feels like, yo, what the am I doing wrong?
• 1:44:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 2: It really just, um, like what, what would be the
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 2: margin of just turning your club a little bit differently?
• 1:44:59
  Speaker 2: What would it be like millimeters?
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 7: They're playing by like a 10th of a degree and angle,
• 1:45:05
  Speaker 7: like in terms of angles and stuff.
• 1:45:06
  Speaker 2: You switch a 10th of a degree and then you
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 2: have a completely different personality by the success of that shot.
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: A 10th of a degree.
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 2: If we're having that as factual, but think of how
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 2: small that is from how you feel personality wise and
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 2: mentally on a bad shot to just a, a 10th
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 2: of a degree off or a 10th of degree change.
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And what, uh, what Steven also, if you want, um, he,
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 1: the entire Ted talk is really great. Uh, but he
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 1: just talks about not only making the right decision, but
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 1: allowing yourself to make decisions and, taking yourself out of
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 1: situations and not forcing yourself to do everything all right
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 1: then and there. Being able to press pause, go to
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 1: the kitchen, make a water and think to yourself, hey,
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 1: I'm stressed because the world's on top of me. Okay,
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 1: what's one thing that's going to get the world not
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 1: on top of me? My garage. This is just an
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 1: example of my personal life. My garage is a mess, dude.
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 1: Was a mess. I can go clean that right now.
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 1: And I didn't get all of it done that first day.
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 1: I said, I have time this Saturday that I can
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 1: go clean the garage further. Didn't get all of it
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: done that day. I said, I can finish it up
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 1: on Sunday. Finish it up on Sunday and now I
• 1:46:28
  Speaker 1: have a clean garage. And that's just an example that
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 1: worked for me. But I just, I loved how he's
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 1: always talking about like, press pause and find those moments
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 1: in your day where you might make a bad decision of,
• 1:46:43
  Speaker 1: I'll use this as an example of like, it's not
• 1:46:47
  Speaker 1: even a bad decision, but going to go eat some
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 1: fast food because you're running home late from work. Like
• 1:46:55
  Speaker 1: instead of going to go get the fast food, maybe
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 1: go to the grocery store, take the extra time to
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 1: like get some flowers for wifey and get her favorite
• 1:47:04
  Speaker 1: little treat from the Publix and you can get something
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 1: to eat as well. Like something that is a, a
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 1: better decision than what you are making. Well said. I
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 1: kind of talked in a circle. It was a good one.
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  Speaker 6: There's a reel or something I saw that was basically
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 6: like the person that left the house this morning is
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 6: not the person that's coming home this afternoon.
• 1:47:23
  Speaker 1: So you're a different person.
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 6: And so you get to make those decisions and decide,
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 6: am I going to come home and be a different person,
• 1:47:28
  Speaker 6: a better person? And those little decisions change everything that
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 6: we're talking about. I think that was a great lesson, Sherm.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. Thank you, dude. Golf club. Golf club.
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 1: Engine a millimeter.
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 2: Now I got to make the decision this week while
• 1:47:43
  Speaker 2: people are listening to this episode to take out the trash.
• 1:47:47
  Speaker 2: Take out the trash.
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 1: We'll see you next week. We'll see you next week.
• 1:47:51
  Speaker 1: Burrito emojis in the comments, please. If you've made it
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 1: this far. Burrito emojis. We love you, chef. We love you, chef.
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  Speaker 1: We love you.