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- Lucas: So Luna, we've covered a lot of ground on job hopping over 63 episodes — everything from vesting schedules to non-competes to mortgage applications. But there's one thing we haven't really touched on: how your very first job after college sets a pattern for your entire career. Luna: I've definitely felt that. My first job was at a startup where I lasted about 14 months. And it took me years to not get asked about that in interviews. Lucas: Exactly. And it's not just anecdotal. There's some really interesting data from LinkedIn's Economic Graph team — they looked at millions of user profiles and found that people who stay at their first job less than two years are about 40 percent more likely to have a pattern of short tenures later on. Luna: Forty percent — that's not trivial. So it's almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy? Lucas: In part. But the mechanism is actually two-sided. There's the psychological side — your own expectations get calibrated. If you leave early once, leaving early again feels normal. And there's the market side — recruiters see that first stint and use it as a signal. Luna: Right, the anchoring effect. If you're a hiring manager and someone's first job was two years, you assume that's their baseline for commitment. Lucas: Precisely. The Bureau of Labor Statistics has data showing that the median tenure for workers aged 25 to 34 is about 2.8 years. But for people who stayed at their first job less than a year, their median tenure across all subsequent jobs drops to about 1.6 years. Luna: That's a huge gap. So what about the flip side — people who stick around at their first job for, say, four or five years? Lucas: They tend to have longer tenures across the board. The same BLS data shows that if you stay at your first job three years or more, your median subsequent tenure jumps to about four years. And interestingly, those workers also report higher job satisfaction later on — though that could be correlation, not causation. Luna: But what if your first job was genuinely a bad fit? I mean, sometimes leaving early is the smart move. Lucas: Absolutely. And that's the nuance. The data doesn't say you're doomed. It just says you have a headwind. The key is to recognize that your first job sets a reference point — both for you and for future employers. And if you want to change that, you have to be intentional. Luna: So what does intentional look like? Concrete steps. Lucas: One strategy: if you left your first job early, make sure your second job is a longer stint — at least three years. That single data point can override the first one in a recruiter's mind. I've seen it happen. A friend of mine left his first job after 10 months, then stayed at his second job for five years. Now recruiters see him as stable. Luna: So you're basically building a counter-narrative with your second job. Lucas: Exactly. And it helps if you can frame the first departure in a resume or interview as a learning experience. Something like, 'I realized I needed a more structured environment, and I found that at my next company.' It shows self-awareness. Luna: That makes sense. But what about the companies themselves? Do some industries or employers encourage longer first tenures? Lucas: Great question. There's a well-known example: Amazon used to have a program called 'Career Choice' that prepaid tuition for employees in high-demand fields — regardless of whether they stayed at Amazon. But over the past few years, they've shifted toward retention-focused programs for early-career employees, like the 'Amazon Technical Academy' for career switchers. The idea is to get people to stay at least two years by investing in their skills. Luna: So Amazon is effectively trying to shift the anchoring point for its own workers. If they can keep someone two years, that person's next job will likely be longer too. Lucas: Right. And consulting firms like McKinsey have a different model — they expect high turnover, but they also create a strong alumni network. They know most people will leave after two to three years, and that's fine because they've already signaled that those people are high performers. So McKinsey alumni often have an easier time getting their next job, even with short tenure. Luna: So it's not just about the number of years — it's about the brand of your first employer too. Lucas: That's a crucial point. The same 18-month stint at McKinsey versus a no-name startup sends very different signals. But most people don't start at McKinsey. So for the average graduate, the first job choice matters a lot. Luna: And if you're already past your first job — say you're five years in and you've had three short stints — is there any hope of resetting? Lucas: Sure. The pattern isn't permanent. But the longer the pattern, the more evidence you need to overcome it. I'd recommend aiming for a three-year stint at your next job. And if you can't stomach that, at least two years. Anything less and you're reinforcing the pattern. Luna: So it's like a habit — you have to break it with a long enough streak. Lucas: Exactly. And speaking of habits, I realize we've been talking about career decisions that cost time and energy. If today's episode helped you think about your own trajectory, honestly, if it was worth a coffee to you, there's a link — buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. Luna: Yeah, listener support is what keeps this show ad-free and independent. So if you've gotten value from any of our 64 episodes, that link is a simple way to say thanks. Lucas: And we mean it — the smallest amount makes a difference. Now back to the data. There's another angle I want to bring in: the role of industry norms. Luna: Go on. Lucas: In tech, short tenures are more accepted. The median tenure at a company like Google is about 1.1 years for employees under 30. But in finance or law, anything under two years raises eyebrows. So if you're in tech, your first job might not anchor you as negatively. Luna: That's a good point — context matters. A two-year stint in investment banking is actually considered long. Lucas: Right. And that's why it's important to understand your industry's baseline. If you're in a field where the average tenure is 18 months, then leaving after a year isn't job hopping — it's normal. But if you're in manufacturing or healthcare, where the average tenure is five years, then a short first job stands out. Luna: So when you're planning your career, you should look at the norms in your target industry, not just the general advice. Lucas: Exactly. And one more thing: the first job pattern doesn't just affect future job tenure — it also affects salary growth. A study from the National Bureau of Economic Research found that people who switch jobs early in their careers tend to have higher wage growth, but only if they switch to better opportunities. If they switch just to leave, the wage growth is flat. Luna: So quality of move matters more than frequency. Lucas: Right. So if you left your first job quickly but then made a thoughtful move to a company where you stayed three years, you're in a great spot. The key is to avoid a string of lateral or backward moves. Luna: Let's talk about a practical example. Say someone is two years into their first job and thinking of leaving. What should they consider? Lucas: First, if you can hold out until the two-year mark, do it. That's a common threshold recruiters use. If you leave at 18 months, you're a 'flight risk.' At 24 months, you're 'exploring options.' It's arbitrary but real. Luna: So stick it out for six more months if possible. Lucas: Yes. Second, if you do leave, have a clear narrative. 'I wanted to move into a different function' or 'I wanted more responsibility.' Avoid 'I didn't like my manager' — that sounds like you have a conflict problem. Luna: And third? Lucas: Make your next move count. Don't just jump to another entry-level role. Aim for a step up in title or scope. That way, when recruiters look at your resume, they see progression, not just a short stay. Luna: So it's about crafting a story that explains the departure, not just leaving. Lucas: Exactly. And if you're already five years into your career with three short stints, don't panic. You can still reset. Find a role where you can commit to three years. Maybe it's at a company with strong retention programs, or an industry with longer norms. Use that to build a new anchor. Luna: I think that's a hopeful note. Your first job doesn't have to define you — it's just a starting point. Lucas: Exactly. And the awareness is half the battle. Once you know the pattern exists, you can work with it. Luna: Alright, Lucas. Great discussion. Let's leave it there for today.