Would you stay with someone who's cheated on you, because they still owe you money?

Anele and the Club on 947 · Aug 4, 2026 · 22m · transcript

We received a voice note from someone who wants to remain anonymous, so let's call her Pamela. Pamela says she's feeling completely trapped. A while ago, she lent her boyfriend R120,000 to help him pay the deposit on a car. Since then, he's been paying her back R1,000 a month. But now she's discovered that he's been cheating on her. She says she wants to end the relationship immediately... but if she walks away, she's terrified she'll never see the rest of her money again. So, here's the question...Do you stay in the relationship until the debt is paid off, or do you cut your losses, leave…