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reconsider “like minded people” and diversify your portfolio · faafo with courtney

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  All right. So I just wanted to come back in here
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  really quick, different lighting to talk about
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  like -minded. And so let's just ponder. So I'm
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  going to extend an invitation to some of you
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  to think about what like -minded might mean for
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  you and how it may or may not actually be benefiting
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  you to be in search of like -minded people. So
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  for me, like -minded does not necessarily mean
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  that we, have the same strengths. It doesn't
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  mean that we have the same interests, but like
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  -minded means that the bigger picture or the
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  end goal is similar, right? So me, like -minded
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  people and people in tribe, the end goal is harmony,
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  literally, right? And freedom. Freedom means
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  whatever it is to that person. So it's me getting
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  an understanding that someone is not feeling
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  free in whatever it may be, whether it's their
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  relationship, whether it's their job, whether
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  it's the way that they move about this life.
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  Freedom means a lot of different things to a
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  lot of different people, but not everyone knows
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  how to get there, right? So me, is how i do what
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  i work whatever you're watching this and thinking
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  well who the fuck are you i that's what i do
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  right because i have lived my life basically
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  free and as much as possible on my own terms
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  and it hasn't always been easy but that's a whole
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  different conversation so um back on topic so
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  harmony whether it's harmony in the world whether
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  it's harmony in relationships because sometimes
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  We can find harmony or learn how to find harmony
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  in the world that we don't like. We can learn
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  to find harmony in the relationships that we
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  don't like because it's really about us. But
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  then it comes down to us also making a choice
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  that, okay, yeah, I can't change someone, but
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  I can't change the situation. Well, sometimes
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  you can. So let me just back up. This is not
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  a black or white conversation or whatever, right?
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  But and then sometimes you have to realize, oh,
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  I'm not going to be able to find the harmony
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  because that's the one thing that I want more.
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  Sometimes we just want harmony more so than the
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  financial things or whatever. But sometimes it
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  takes us going on the journey to realize that
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  harmony may be more important than the material
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  things. Right. So and freedom. So it might be
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  freedom even to travel. So I'm looking for people
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  that are looking at the bigger picture. Maybe
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  it's individual harmony and freedom. Maybe it's
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  harmony and freedom for a collective, right?
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  Maybe like -minded people might just be people
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  that you learn to laugh with. So back to like
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  -minded people. When you say you are looking
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  for and want to build with like -minded people,
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  what does that mean? Because again, tribe, we
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  all have different... Characteristic traits.
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  We all have different strengths. Like Tia, for
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  example. Tia is absolutely amazing with numbers
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  and all that stuff. That is not my thing. But
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  if something needs to be done for tribe and it
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  has anything to do with that, we go to Tia, right?
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  Nikki is the one that kind of just smooth things
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  out or maybe she pushes buttons a little bit
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  differently than I do. Everyone has their different
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  thing, their strength. our weaknesses. That is
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  not necessarily like -minded. The things that
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  we do in our free time, they're not exactly the
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  same. But the bigger picture is similar. That's
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  what makes someone, to me, a like -minded individual,
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  is that we're aiming towards the same goal, the
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  end goal. And the end goal seems to keep moving.
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  I apologize for that, but whatever. But that's
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  life. But that's life in Sagittarius or whatever.
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  So, yeah. So just think about that. What does
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  that mean to you? Be intentional with your words
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  and your actions and your choices and your actual
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  decisions.