Latest / The Delicious Culture with Jon Francois / The Grammys & Catherine O'Hara Are Delicious w/ Auntie Mel
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- 0:00Hey, delishies, grab a plate and taste the delicious
- 0:02culture. I'm your host, Jon François. We have
- 0:04a great set of pop culture meals coming up this
- 0:07week. We're talking about the recent Grammy Awards,
- 0:10and hopefully we'll have time to pay tribute
- 0:13to the wonderful Catherine O 'Hara. Digesting
- 0:16these pop culture meals with me this week is
- 0:20Mel. Mel, a wonderful host of Auntie Mel Mel,
- 0:24Life Unfiltered. Great podcast. I got a chance
- 0:27to listen to it on Spotify earlier today. It
- 0:29is a judgment -free Real Talk podcast. Mel is
- 0:32also a work -from -home professional wife. Oh,
- 0:35I'm sorry. I'm trying to read as best as possible
- 0:38what you gave me, Mel. Mel is also a work -from
- 0:41-home professional wife, auntie, and a proud
- 0:44cat mom. How many cats do you have, Mel? Two.
- 0:47I have a 12 -year -old cat female. And then in
- 0:50October, we adopted a five -week -old kitten.
- 0:53So it's been an adjustment. They're finally getting
- 0:55along, so. I love that. My wife and I... We have
- 0:59two cats as well. We have five dogs. So it's
- 1:02definitely a full house. Blame my wife because
- 1:05when I met her like five and a half years ago,
- 1:09she was a vet tech. She still is a veterinary
- 1:12technician. She's the president of a dog rescue.
- 1:15So going from like, Hey, nice to meet you, Tony.
- 1:18Here's my one dog. And then all of a sudden I
- 1:20get used to a full house of animals over the
- 1:23course of our relationship. Yeah. vet tech, you
- 1:28always accumulate a lot of animals. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:32And look, credit to her for making it work because
- 1:33people will give me that look about like, oh
- 1:35my God, that must be overwhelming having that
- 1:37many dogs and cats. And I'm like, no, all praise
- 1:39to my wife. She knows how to make sure everybody's
- 1:42on their best behavior. So I give her all the
- 1:45credit. I love animal people. Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:49So before we get into our pop culture meals,
- 1:51Mel, I want to start off with an actual favorite
- 1:55meal that we both had. this week. So what about
- 1:58you? What was your favorite meal this week? Actually,
- 2:00I'm typically an Italian lover. I love pasta.
- 2:03I love all things pasta. That's my weakness.
- 2:06And one reason I'll probably always be plus size
- 2:08is that I can't stay away from pasta. Yeah. Can
- 2:13I tell you, you and I are in sync. We should
- 2:15be best friends because I'm a sucker for anything
- 2:19pasta, garlic bread. I've told my wife, Toni,
- 2:23over and over again, Italy to go there, to visit
- 2:26there, to go where authentic Italian food is.
- 2:30That is a big dream of mine. So I love it. So
- 2:33you just had pasta this week. Is that what you're
- 2:34saying? Um, I did, but I actually had, I actually
- 2:37had a chance yesterday to try the Jersey Mike's
- 2:40new hot Italian sub. And that was absolutely
- 2:42amazing. So it has ham, pepperoni, salami, and
- 2:46then they're hot pepper relish on it. It's really
- 2:48good. So that's delicious. Yeah. I've picked
- 2:51up a few door dash deliveries when I used to
- 2:54do that part of driving for work from Jersey
- 2:56Mike's and the food always smells amazing. I
- 2:59would say, I don't know if Quiznos, is Quiznos
- 3:01still in business? I don't think so around here.
- 3:03I live in a rural. area, but we used to have
- 3:05Quizno. Wait, wait, same here. I live in Vermont.
- 3:08Where do you live? I live in Ohio in a town about
- 3:112 ,500 people. My town of Richford has 1 ,000
- 3:16people. So I got to buy that. Yeah. We have one
- 3:19stop light. I always explain to people there's
- 3:21one stop light. We have one grocery store, one
- 3:23dollar general and two gas stations. We have
- 3:25a McDonald's on the subway. If you can count
- 3:27the streetlights, the stores, the gas stations,
- 3:30then you know you live in a very small town.
- 3:33But I would say Jersey Mike's gives places like
- 3:35Quiznos and especially Subway a run for its money.
- 3:37So I am not surprised that you like the Italian
- 3:40stuff. I think that's fantastic. My wife, as
- 3:42far as my favorite meal. My wife made a wonderful
- 3:46casserole where it's like chicken and peas and
- 3:52there's like a creamy sauce associated with it.
- 3:54And on top, here's the kicker. It's like this
- 3:58really crunchy, bready crust that is so good.
- 4:02I don't know if she has a name for it. She needs
- 4:03to tell me that when I see her later tonight.
- 4:07Yeah, I'm going to call it creamy chicken pea
- 4:11bread crusty casserole. I like that. That's how
- 4:14I cook. I just throw things together. When I
- 4:16was younger, I had a casserole dish. Similar
- 4:18to that, we called it stoner pie. Um, it was
- 4:21just all kinds of random things thrown together.
- 4:23So, but that's how I cook too. And I made a big
- 4:25pot of chili this weekend. That's a family staple.
- 4:27So. Oh God. So what's in the stoner pie? I'm
- 4:30curious. What kind of. It is Salisbury steak,
- 4:33mixed vegetables and macaroni and cheese. And
- 4:36then you use all the gravy from it and cook it
- 4:39all together in a casserole. So that is fantastic.
- 4:42It was when I was like 20 though. So that's my
- 4:44party days. So that was just kind of leftovers
- 4:46thrown together. became a staple with all my
- 4:48friends. What about the chili? What's in that
- 4:51family chili? Family chili is Italian sausage,
- 4:55hamburger meat. I use dark kidney beans and light
- 4:58kidney beans. I always get chili seasoning, crushed
- 5:02tomatoes and whole tomatoes. And I always add
- 5:06sweet onions and tri -colored peppers. Oh my
- 5:09God. And I bet you that's like a really delicious
- 5:11filling thing that's great for the winter time.
- 5:13How are the winters in Ohio? Is it also? Horrible.
- 5:17We've been like negative 20. I think the other
- 5:19morning was negative 20 degrees out. We got 11
- 5:21inches of snow the last weekend or the weekend
- 5:23before. So yeah, we're in it right now. Yeah.
- 5:26Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Here in Vermont, same thing.
- 5:27I mean, we had a few years. We had a few years
- 5:30of mild winter, but last year and this year it's
- 5:33been very wintery. Snow literally started the
- 5:37first week of November. As early as December,
- 5:41we had temperatures down in the negatives. And
- 5:43usually that doesn't happen until like January.
- 5:45February, if it's to a point where eight degrees
- 5:49to me feels like a comfortable springtime 30,
- 5:52that's wintery. Right. Yeah. On our news this
- 5:55morning, it was 20 something yesterday. So everybody
- 5:57said they were enjoying it because everyone was
- 5:59taking their dogs back and stuff because we have
- 6:01been so negative. So yeah, you have people in
- 6:04like a warmer climate, such as Florida or whatever,
- 6:05and they're like chilly at like 70 degrees. And
- 6:08meanwhile, like I'm literally texting my wife
- 6:10like, oh my God, it's nearly 30 degrees. I really
- 6:13want to go for a walk today. Oh my god. Yeah.
- 6:18All right. Well, five, five more months of winter.
- 6:21I think that's, I think that's what, that's what
- 6:23Puckstotty basically said. Yeah. You never know
- 6:26either too. So yeah, we get snow and stuff all
- 6:28the way through April, sometimes random May.
- 6:30So yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For, for, for me, I always
- 6:33say like first week of May, like once first week
- 6:35of May passes, then we could probably start talking
- 6:37about spring. All right, let's get to the Grammys,
- 6:43our first of hopefully two popcorn meals in this
- 6:45episode. Let's start off with Trevor Noah's monologue.
- 6:48What did you think about his monologue? It was
- 6:50interesting. He has some really good jabs in
- 6:52there, some really good points, but he also tripped
- 6:54up a lot. I was confused by a couple of his things
- 6:58that he said, but overall, I think he did a good
- 7:00job with it. But which moment did you notice
- 7:02that he tripped up on? I can't recall the exact
- 7:04moment. I watched a lot of the pre -ceremony
- 7:06and he was having trouble in the pre -ceremony,
- 7:08so I don't know if I was just getting his jitters
- 7:10out there. Um, there was a couple of things that
- 7:13he was stumbling on, but once we got to the actual
- 7:15Grammys, it was pretty smooth. So I know he flubbed
- 7:19and it was like a minor flub. It's not like he
- 7:21tripped up his words just a little bit on the
- 7:26Jeff Bezos joke when he's like, when he's working
- 7:28the room of celebrities and he was saying something
- 7:32like, let me see if I could get, oh, here we
- 7:34go. Yeah. This entire room of celebrities reminds
- 7:37me of Jeff Bezos wedding, but with more black
- 7:39people like. Uh, so he tripped up his words just
- 7:43a little bit going into the punchline, but otherwise
- 7:46I thought it was a great pointed joke. I thought,
- 7:50yeah, yeah. I mean, I thought personally, I thought
- 7:52that joke was like a great piece of biting commentary
- 7:55on like the prominent. liberal politics of that
- 8:00celebrity audience. And also you contrast that
- 8:02with, oh, you're having relations with Jeff Bezos,
- 8:05who's known to curry favor with our Republican
- 8:09president right now. A very divisive figure indeed.
- 8:13So, and also like the whole thing about like,
- 8:16oh, but this room in the Grammys has more black
- 8:19people compared to Basil's wedding. It was like,
- 8:21oh yeah, you're commenting on wealth in America
- 8:24being prominently dominated by white people.
- 8:27So it was a lot of layers to that joke that I
- 8:30really appreciated. If you don't mind, I have
- 8:32a few other jokes that I wanted to share with
- 8:35you that I thought was great. Are you a big fan
- 8:37of the song Apatah by Bruno Mars and Rosé? I
- 8:40am. I'm a huge Bruno Mars fan, so I love that
- 8:43song. Can I ask you why it's spelled A -P -T
- 8:45like apartment, like the abbreviation of apartment,
- 8:47when it's like pronounced in a way that does
- 8:50not look like A -P -T? That's one of those crazy
- 8:52words. Like what? Yeah, for sure. But yeah, Trevor
- 8:56had a great joke about like, I think he started
- 8:58with a reference to Apatah, and then he went
- 9:02into like, oh, like America's favorite drinking
- 9:05game is like, they'll take a drink every time
- 9:07they watch the news. And it was an amazing thing
- 9:10in my mind. Cause I'm like, Oh my God, we're,
- 9:12we would basically be suicidal alcoholics at
- 9:15this point. If we're taking a drink every time
- 9:17we watch the news. Oh my God. And then, um, Trevor,
- 9:22Trevor mentioning Justin Bieber as one of the
- 9:24performers, uh, the camera cuts to Justin talking
- 9:27to someone else at his table. Clearly not giving
- 9:31a fuck about the recognition of laws. Absolutely
- 9:35not. fan from back in the day. And I like to
- 9:40see him come back in the spotlight and stuff.
- 9:42But yeah, he's got that attitude. Like don't
- 9:44fuck with them. And he don't care about the society
- 9:46of the things which. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And especially
- 9:49when Trevor like, like actually walked over to
- 9:51Justin and Haley's table and he made some harmless
- 9:55Apple iPhone maintenance joke toward Justin,
- 9:57which I thought was like the safe way to go because.
- 10:00You can see as Trevor is walking to Justin's
- 10:02table, he has that cringey look on his face,
- 10:04like, oh God, please don't make fun of me. Please,
- 10:06like, I already have enough attention. Please
- 10:08don't make fun of me. So that was awesome. And
- 10:12Trevor, he did mention that Lauryn Hill was performing
- 10:14and that of course got a round of applause. But
- 10:16are you familiar with Lauryn Hill's reputation
- 10:19for lateness? Yeah, from years back. I know she
- 10:22had a big reputation for that. Also, she's one
- 10:25of those that kind of doesn't give in to the
- 10:26norm and go with society and kind of use their
- 10:28own things. Definitely. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You've
- 10:31heard stories about. her showing up like three,
- 10:33four, five hours late to some shows. So I'm surprised
- 10:37that Trevor didn't mention that as a joke during
- 10:38the show. Right. That would have been a good
- 10:39one. Right. But speaking of Lauryn Hill, this
- 10:43was a clever joke. Trevor said something like,
- 10:45the last time Lauryn Hill performed at the Grammys
- 10:47was 1999. You understand how long ago that was?
- 10:50Back then we had like a president who had a sex
- 10:52scandal. We had like, we all thought that computers
- 10:55were going to destroy us and Diddy was arrested.
- 10:58My how times have changed. like a sarcastic dig
- 11:03at the fact that nothing much has changed since
- 11:051999. That was a great one. I love how they do
- 11:08that. Pull in the old times to the new times
- 11:10and put those little digs in there. So yeah,
- 11:12that was a great one. Yeah. Did you see what
- 11:14Jamie Foxx was wearing? I did. Yes. What did
- 11:17you think about it? It was interesting. Um, and
- 11:22I'm a huge, huge, huge fan, like music as an
- 11:26artist, his comedy, everything. Like he's one
- 11:28of my favorite people in the entire world. So
- 11:30that was definitely interesting. So he had a
- 11:33big tan hat on, like he was going out to like
- 11:36the African safari and then he had this, he had
- 11:39this print on his suit that like gave me like
- 11:4270s sort of retro computer glitch couch Christian
- 11:46vibes. It was odd. Um, and especially when like
- 11:51Trevor went over to Pharrell and was like, Oh,
- 11:54Pharrell, wow, look at what you're wearing. And
- 11:55Pharrell's sitting right next to Jamie. And I
- 11:57would think that Jamie has like the more louder,
- 11:59like in your face. Yeah. Yeah. Like Pharrell,
- 12:02like he had a grill on his teeth. Is that, is
- 12:06that in anymore? I thought that was, I guess
- 12:08it must be coming back. I've been noticing it
- 12:10more and more. I thought that went out in the
- 12:11two thousands. Me too. Oh my God. I don't know,
- 12:14you know, how these fans come back. Have you
- 12:19ever, yeah, have you ever, ever been into that
- 12:21grill look that hip hop artists used to have
- 12:22back in the day? I personally didn't, but I did
- 12:25hang out with people that did. So I was always
- 12:27friends with all the cool or bad kids and being
- 12:29in a small town, that's not a big diversity of
- 12:32people. But yeah, I definitely hung out with
- 12:34everybody that was in the hip hop and rap and
- 12:36everything and tried to dress like that. The
- 12:38big baggy pants, the white T's, all that. You'd
- 12:42silently judge the people with grills where you're
- 12:44just like cringing every time they have to smile
- 12:45at you. I didn't laugh at all. Some of my famous
- 12:48rap artists, favorite rap artists use that or
- 12:51like Paul Wall and stuff like that. I just saw
- 12:53him last year at Tacos and Tequila. I still live
- 12:56in the 90s, 2000s vibes. And you're not saying
- 12:58his name right. It's not Paul Wall, it's Pow
- 13:00Wow. Yeah, Pow Wow. Mike Jones is there too.
- 13:04Mike Jones, yeah, when they used to say their
- 13:06names like 15 times in songs. Oh, those were
- 13:10the good old days. So, oh, Jelly Roll. Trevor
- 13:13goes to the table with both Jelly Roll and Teddy
- 13:16Swims? Yeah, Teddy Swims. A joke that I didn't
- 13:19think was brilliant and actually true until Trevor
- 13:22said it when Trevor was joking to Jelly Roll
- 13:25and wondering if Jelly tries to get into Teddy
- 13:29Swims' phone or face ID. Because if you look
- 13:32at Jelly Roll and... Teddy Swims, aside from
- 13:35the fact that Jelly Roll recently lost a lot
- 13:37of weight, like Jelly and Teddy do have that
- 13:40similar white guy of a certain size with beard
- 13:43and face tattoos look. Yeah, definitely. For
- 13:47sure. Oh my God. Are you a fan of either of them
- 13:50as artists? I am. I love Teddy Swims. When he
- 13:53first came out, I fell in love like everybody
- 13:55else with the first song he released and then
- 13:57I... deep dived into his album and everything.
- 14:00I really love his sound. I think he's super talented.
- 14:03I like Jelly Roll. I don't really have a famous
- 14:05Jelly Roll song or favorite Jelly Roll, but I
- 14:07do like Jelly Roll as well. That was actually
- 14:10something I was going to mention that I know
- 14:11he did really good at the Grammys. And yeah,
- 14:14it's crazy to see his weight loss journey and
- 14:16how they spin it and everybody talks about it.
- 14:19So. Yeah. What did you think about Trevor Noah's
- 14:21enthusiasm, whether it be at the pre -show or
- 14:23the actual monologue during the show? I know
- 14:25this Hollywood Reporter writer criticized him
- 14:28for having just this very repetitive, like, are
- 14:31you kidding me? Oh my God, look at all these
- 14:33celebrities in the room. Look at all these fantastic
- 14:35people. Like I was starting to see like the annoyance
- 14:38of that critic because. did seem like it was
- 14:40very much like, oh, like, here I am trying to
- 14:43kiss everybody's asses and being everybody's
- 14:45good graces and yada yada. Like, did you, did
- 14:47you, do you like that kind of energy in a, in
- 14:49a work show host? Do you not so much? Like, what
- 14:51do you, what do you think? I think it's kind
- 14:52of expected. I think almost every award show
- 14:56host annoys you at some point or it has to be
- 14:58over the top. And that's their job to keep everybody
- 15:01entertained and keep everybody interested. As
- 15:03I said, I watched the pre -ceremony as well as
- 15:06most of the Grammys itself. And in the pre -ceremony,
- 15:08he was doing that a lot too, cause people weren't
- 15:11there. So he'd have to do that like, oh, I'll
- 15:13take the award for you and do that too. Like,
- 15:15oh, where are they? Where are they? And like
- 15:17stuff like that. I just think as Norm of a host
- 15:21that he didn't really annoy me, but yeah. Describe
- 15:24the pre -ceremony to me. Is it just Trevor like
- 15:27schmoozing with people on the red carpet? Like
- 15:29I didn't get a chance to watch the pre -show.
- 15:30It is. I am a lover of all music, so I listen
- 15:34to every genre. There is, me and my husband are
- 15:37big metal fans and rock fans as well. A lot of
- 15:40the pre -ceremony is those awards. A lot of times
- 15:42they don't have them in the... basic Grammy,
- 15:45so it's like the people that are kind of less
- 15:46than or not as popular. So a lot of people hadn't
- 15:49even arrived yet or weren't even there yet. So
- 15:52those artists, he was just taking the awards
- 15:55for them and stuff. All right. So as for, you
- 16:01know, going back to the monologue and the actual
- 16:03ceremony. So I know that Trevor got a round of
- 16:07applause when he had mentioned that Nicki Minaj
- 16:08was not in the room. This is for political reasons,
- 16:13her association with Trump now. And then you
- 16:15saw a shot of Chrissy Teigen, John Legend's wife,
- 16:17like giving a thumbs up. I was actually used
- 16:20and surprised by Trevor's Trump impression when
- 16:23he was impersonating Trump and just being like,
- 16:26oh, Nicki. I got the biggest ass. No, you don't.
- 16:28I got the biggest ass. I know that Trevor was
- 16:31the host of The Daily Show during Trump's first
- 16:33term, so he's had plenty of time. He's had plenty
- 16:36of time to perfect the impression, but I just,
- 16:38I don't know. I was impressed by it and I got
- 16:41a kick out of it. Yeah, that was great. I love
- 16:43it. Anytime somebody impersonates Trump, especially
- 16:45they make him sound more like an idiot, I'm down.
- 16:48I am going to say this because we've had a decade
- 16:52of him. I've heard enough impressions where...
- 16:56I don't want to hear any more of it, but somehow
- 16:58there was something about the way Trevor did
- 17:00it in that moment where I was like, oh, look
- 17:02at you. I didn't know that. I've even heard him
- 17:05do it recently on his podcast, but it seemed
- 17:08like he perfected it just the right tone and
- 17:11way. Yeah. During the monologue and, I don't
- 17:15know. Right. And incorporating Nicki Minaj. Yeah.
- 17:16Just that little aspect on it was special for
- 17:19sure. Yeah. What did you think about Bad Bunny
- 17:22winning album of the year? Yeah. I like Bad Bunny.
- 17:24He's another person that I listen to. I don't
- 17:27know if he was album of the year for me, but
- 17:30I enjoy him. So, and he's going into the Super
- 17:33Bowl. So of course he's big name and popular
- 17:35right now. So. He's having a big moment. I thought
- 17:38that his biggest, I thought that his biggest
- 17:40like one, two big media. moment was like when
- 17:43he was both like announced as like the season
- 17:46premiere post of SNL for this season. And then
- 17:50at the same time, it was like, oh, it was announced
- 17:51that Bad Bunny was going to be halftime show
- 17:53performer at the Super Bowl. But I think specifically
- 17:56now. It couldn't get any more big for bad money.
- 18:00Like, you're at the Grammys, you won a lot of
- 18:02awards including Album of the Year, and the Super
- 18:05Bowl is literally this coming Sunday as we are
- 18:08recording this. Yeah, he's on top of the world
- 18:10right now. So I'm happy for him. He seems like
- 18:13a very wonderful, kind, decent human being. He
- 18:17certainly has a lot of love for his home of Puerto
- 18:19Rico. Can I ask who else in the Album of the
- 18:22Year category would you have liked to see win?
- 18:24I'm actually a huge Tyler the Creator fan. He
- 18:27was up for the award as well as Kendrick Lamar.
- 18:30Of course, Kendrick Lamar has been just as huge
- 18:32as Bad Bunny the last year, too. But I think
- 18:36Tyler, the creator, would have been my personal
- 18:38choice, but I don't disagree with Bad Bunny.
- 18:40That would have been my choice. I have to ask,
- 18:43for the committee that decides who the winners
- 18:45of these awards are, because Bad Bunny, he made
- 18:48history as the first Spanish language album to
- 18:52win album of the year. So I wonder, are there...
- 18:57a huge amount or any amount of Spanish speakers
- 19:00in the committee or is it just simply like, oh,
- 19:04it could just be a bunch of English speaking
- 19:05people and they just happen to enjoy Bad Bunny's
- 19:08album regardless of the fact if they even understand
- 19:11the lyrics that he is saying, you know what I
- 19:12mean? Yeah, for sure. Yeah. I'm not sure. I've
- 19:15always wondered about that too, like how they
- 19:17make up the Academy or who votes on that. Um,
- 19:21yeah, like you said, if it's a big diversity
- 19:23or if it's just a bunch of English speaking white
- 19:25men, so. Um, I like how he went from English
- 19:30to Spanish, Spanish to English in his, in his
- 19:32winter speech for album of honor. That was great.
- 19:35Uh, did you see Cher's Grammy's flub moment?
- 19:38Um, I may have missed that part, but I love Cher.
- 19:41It was adorable. So. Uh, Cher, I forgot what
- 19:44award she was about to announce. Oh yeah. It
- 19:46was like some award that went to like Kendrick
- 19:48and SZA for their, for their Luther song, I believe.
- 19:51And Cher had the envelope in her hands that had
- 19:55the name of the winner, but somehow she thought
- 19:57that the winner would be given to her via teleprompter,
- 20:00like right in front of her face. So she had that
- 20:02moment of like, Oh my God. Oh, I'm sorry. I thought
- 20:04that the winner was supposed to be on the teleprompter.
- 20:06She had like an awkward pause for a long time
- 20:08before she like, and, and on top of that. Even
- 20:11though she had the envelope with Kendrick's name
- 20:15on it, she was like, oh, and the Grammy goes
- 20:17to Luther Grandhouse. Maybe she was confusing
- 20:23the name of the song with the name of the artist.
- 20:26Right. Yes. That's funny. Oh my gosh. Yeah. I've
- 20:29seen her. Yeah. I watch, um, or listen to armchair
- 20:31experts as well. And they just had her on as
- 20:34a guest and it was cool to see that she's back
- 20:36in the spotlight and she's been around for so
- 20:39many years and she's such an icon. Yeah. I, I
- 20:42enjoy the armchair expert podcast from time to
- 20:44time. So I have to listen to that. I know that,
- 20:46I know there was some press about that interview.
- 20:48Yeah, there was. Cher was... Cher was on the
- 20:52recent Christmas episode of SNL and her, both
- 20:55her performances clearly very lip synced, but
- 20:58I love how everybody like online, whoever, like
- 21:01just everybody seems to have the energy of, you
- 21:04know what, the choreography is definitely more
- 21:06of the focus than actual live vocals. Cher is
- 21:09clearly lip syncing, but this woman is nearly
- 21:1180. She's been giving us iconic music artistry
- 21:16since the... 60s, I think, with Sonny. So give
- 21:21her a break. If she wants the lip sync on SNL,
- 21:23why not lip sync on SNL? Right. She's in her
- 21:2680s or close to the 80s, so she's been doing
- 21:28it for so many years. Just let her do it how
- 21:30she wants to. She's still iconic. We know she
- 21:32can sing, so. I agree. I agree. Let's talk about
- 21:35the Grammy live performances. Tell me, what were
- 21:38your favorite performances? Why? Let's get into
- 21:40it. Once again, Tyler, the creator, he's one
- 21:42of my favorites. So I loved his, just the way
- 21:45he performs. Anytime he performs, I'm in love
- 21:48with it. He's just unique and very to himself
- 21:51and the way he performs and does things. I absolutely
- 21:53love that. Of course, Bruno Mars. I absolutely
- 21:56love anytime Bruno Mars performs or anything.
- 21:59I'm not, I don't really listen to Sabrina Carpenter
- 22:02or know her very well. So I did enjoy seeing
- 22:05a different, seeing her because I haven't really
- 22:08watched her very often. I'm not into them. modern
- 22:10music as much, but yeah. And then Spiritbacks,
- 22:14I know they were part of like the pre -ceremony.
- 22:17A lot of people were shocked by that because
- 22:19it was a metal performance, but that was really
- 22:21cool to see in the Grammy world as well. So that
- 22:24was really cool as a metal fan and a Spiritbacks
- 22:26fan to see that. I am all for more metal coverage
- 22:31or any metal coverage at all at the actual Grammy
- 22:34ceremony. You're making me fight for the metal
- 22:37genre. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, because unfortunately,
- 22:39it's not going to get as much coverage as say
- 22:41like pop or hip hop or country. So yeah, I definitely
- 22:45want to see more of genres that you don't quite
- 22:48get to see at the Grammys, like the actual ceremony.
- 22:51It would be cool to have it more integrated or
- 22:53because they do they separate them, you know,
- 22:55more the rock and metal is typically beforehand,
- 22:57not part of the mainstream viewing. So definitely
- 23:01would be cool to see it mixed in there a little
- 23:02more. But they did have the Ozzy tribute and
- 23:04did have everybody associated with that. So that
- 23:06was really cool too. Yeah. I loved Bruno Mars
- 23:10and Rosé's performance to start off the show.
- 23:13I thought, once again, apete. Like, this is a
- 23:15song that I actually have to listen to on Spotify
- 23:18just for the name alone. I thought it was a great
- 23:21rock energy to start off the show. I love Bruno's
- 23:25rebellious Billy Joel rocker look that he was
- 23:27putting on. That was great. Lady Gaga's performance
- 23:30of Abracadabra. I don't know if you got a chance
- 23:33to watch that, but Lady Gaga did a really like
- 23:39ear cringy screech scream where she was like,
- 23:43Like she was there like at the beginning and
- 23:46I was like, oh how the fuck are you able to do
- 23:48that? But still sing so effortlessly. Yeah for
- 23:52sure. Yeah, she definitely has that wide range
- 23:54She could almost go in the metal or rec field
- 23:56so for sure like as if she didn't almost damage
- 23:59her voice by being like Yeah, I love Lady Gaga.
- 24:03I love, she's always this out there in herself,
- 24:05so. Did you catch that black laundry basket with
- 24:09the feathery thing sticking out that she was
- 24:10wearing over her head? Yeah, yeah. It's classic
- 24:14Gaga. She always has interesting, some kind of
- 24:16dress code, some kind of headdress or something
- 24:19on this that was unique like that, so. I think
- 24:22it was last year, the year before, yeah. It's
- 24:24kind of reminding me of like early days Gaga,
- 24:26where she was very known for her like out there,
- 24:29quirky. fashion, like the famous meat dress,
- 24:32for example. And I would say for this performance
- 24:35of Abracadabra at the Grammys, it was a lot more
- 24:38physically contained than, say, Lady Gaga's performance
- 24:40of that same song on her recent stint on SNL,
- 24:44where she was both hosted musical guests. You
- 24:46have to check out that video if you want to check
- 24:49out, like, true athletic choreography to the
- 24:53max, combined with, unlike Cher, live vocals.
- 24:58It is a feat. Like maybe Lady Gaga makes it look
- 25:02easy, but to sing live, but also do choreography
- 25:06so much that you are running out of breath like
- 25:08every two seconds and to make it look all flawless
- 25:12and wonderful to see. That SNL performance just
- 25:15blew me away. So I highly recommend that. I have
- 25:18to check that out for sure. So she's definitely
- 25:20super talented and she's always, her voice is
- 25:22so powerful on top of her performance. So it's
- 25:25always a treat to see her. For Sabrina Carpenter's
- 25:27Manjaro performance. I mean, I thought the airlock.
- 25:29theme was fun to look at. Yeah, yeah. The baggage
- 25:34claim rotator thing, Sabrina ending off the performance,
- 25:37uh, going up on an airplane. The audience seemed
- 25:39to be standing up, clapping along, vibing with
- 25:41the music. I guess I was just a very literal
- 25:46lame -o where I thought like, Oh, what does this
- 25:49airplane theme have to do with the actual description
- 25:51of the song, which is. you know, talking about
- 25:54an immature man that is not responsible for his
- 25:57own actions. But I don't know, you said you saw
- 26:01Sabrina's performance. I know you're not a fan
- 26:02of that. Yeah, I did. I was not super familiar
- 26:04with her. I've heard of her. I have nieces that
- 26:06are obsessed with her. So, but yeah, I thought
- 26:09it was like you said, it's just, I don't know
- 26:11how it went with the name of the song exactly.
- 26:14But yeah, there's always hitting meanings and
- 26:16things that they always try to get out there
- 26:17as well. Yeah. Addison Rae, her performance of
- 26:21Fame is a Gun. I loved the moving truck storage
- 26:24set that they put her in. I was wondering like,
- 26:26oh my God, are we actually in some kind of random
- 26:29storage space or are we on the Grammy stage?
- 26:33And they just made a fantastic set. But Cat's
- 26:35Eye, Cat's Eye, their performance of Gnarly,
- 26:38they began with the same exact set. So I was
- 26:41wondering if - Yeah, that is surprising. Not
- 26:43surprising? It was surprising that they did that,
- 26:46that they use the same, they usually do a whole
- 26:48big thing of switching them all out, so. Maybe
- 26:50it was like one song after another, like maybe
- 26:52like Addison Rae and then Cat's Eye came right
- 26:54after and they just wanted to blend it seamlessly,
- 26:57set design wise. That makes sense, yeah. Um,
- 27:00you're a big fan of Leon Thomas? Yeah. I do like
- 27:02Leon Thomas a lot. His song, Mutt, I heard many,
- 27:05many times in the last year and it has that earworm,
- 27:09that earworm chorus, you know, that chorus that
- 27:11you just find nothing but catchy. Um, I did like
- 27:14how you put like an energetic rock guitar twist
- 27:17throughout the performance. Um, I heard some
- 27:19seventies music sound effects in there. Uh, that
- 27:22was great. Uh, Alex Warren, I know that he had
- 27:26a big hit in that song, Ordinary, over the past
- 27:28year. He did have issues with his earpiece and
- 27:33I can only imagine that's frightening when you're
- 27:36dealing with that. in the live performance. Like
- 27:38there's no editing, there's no stopping and doing
- 27:41over. You just have to roll with it. And Alex
- 27:43did roll with it. I mean, he just, after a while
- 27:45he just said, fuck it, I'm going to take off
- 27:46the earpiece and I'm just going to roll with
- 27:48the song. I'll figure it out as best as I can.
- 27:50He wasn't following the backing track in certain
- 27:53places, but still overall I thought he was a
- 27:56great performer. They raised him on a platform
- 27:59like high up in the ceiling, kind of like Beyonce
- 28:02at one of her concerts. And do you have a fear
- 28:05of heights? Because that scared me as someone
- 28:07who has a fear of heights. Yeah, for sure. I've
- 28:09been on the top of, I don't know what it's called
- 28:11now, the Sears Tower in Chicago and the CN Tower
- 28:14in Toronto, but like out in the open like that
- 28:17with nothing around me. Yeah, I wouldn't know.
- 28:20Yeah. Boy. I got to shout out to, I got to give
- 28:22a shout out to this YouTuber called International
- 28:25Ferg because I got a lot of my Grammy performance
- 28:28from him on YouTube. And during Alex Warren's
- 28:33performance, the camera cuts to a shot of Jelly
- 28:37Roll like dance vibing to the song Ordinary with,
- 28:40I guess, his significant other. And International
- 28:43Ferg seems to genuinely ask if Jelly Roll is
- 28:45The Undertaker, like The Undertaker from WWE.
- 28:48I don't know how familiar you are with wrestling,
- 28:50but I was like, I literally had to comment on
- 28:52the comment section. I was like, is that the,
- 28:53no, that's Jelly Roll. That's great. I love that.
- 28:56The Undertaker. Oh, for sure. Definitely remember
- 28:58The Undertaker, so. Yeah. Lola Young, her performance
- 29:02of Messy, her vocal pitch seemed a little bit
- 29:05off and the mic seemed a little bit too loud,
- 29:08but it happened. Yeah, for sure. I like performances
- 29:11so hard with all those little kinks. And as you
- 29:13mentioned before at the earpiece and everything,
- 29:16just seeing them work through it and still perform
- 29:18and try their best is, it's inspiring. Just humans
- 29:21to you, so. Yeah, for sure. Olivia Dean, her
- 29:25big hit, Man I Need, a big hit in the past year.
- 29:29And a lot of people have seen, or a lot of people
- 29:31have noticed that it has like a classic 80s,
- 29:3390s art feel to it. Personally, I've never been
- 29:37a huge fan of the song. I've listened to it a
- 29:39few times, but Olivia seems like a wonderful
- 29:41person. And I will say that the gold lights and
- 29:46the chandelier vibe that she had going on with
- 29:48her performance in the background was very nice
- 29:50to see. Are you into alternative rock? Yeah,
- 29:52absolutely. Okay. Yeah, I am. As an alternative
- 29:55rock fan, I like to sing somber, perform their
- 29:58song 12 to 12. Uh, the lead singer, he always,
- 30:02uh, reminds me of like Finn Wolfhard from Stranger
- 30:05Things. Have you watched that? Oh yeah, for sure.
- 30:07Yeah, definitely. I could see that. I didn't
- 30:10see that before, but I will always think that
- 30:12now. So yeah, for sure. Yeah. Yeah. It's like,
- 30:14I always look at him and I'm like, oh, that's
- 30:16Mike from Stranger Things, except he has like
- 30:18a really like Prince Michael Jackson sequin jacket.
- 30:22Yeah. It's cool. I love the ribs though. Uh,
- 30:25Justin Bieber's performance of Yukon had people
- 30:27talking. Did you have any thoughts about that?
- 30:30It's just Justin Bieber to me. You never know
- 30:33what to expect with Justin Bieber. Like he's
- 30:36been in the spotlight and the headlines for so
- 30:38many years. I always feel bad for Justin Bieber,
- 30:41everything starting out so young and stuff and
- 30:43all the things that have happened over the years.
- 30:45So I just, it's Justin Bieber. That's all I can
- 30:47really say on that one. So what I will say, the
- 30:49performance started out with a Bieber playing
- 30:51instruments. It goes on like that throughout,
- 30:54but what I'm saying is like when the camera cuts
- 30:57to Justin for the first time, I see him playing
- 30:59instruments. and nothing but boxers and socks.
- 31:02And I said to myself, okay, that's a choice,
- 31:03but it seems to play into the vulnerability of
- 31:06the song. There was a keyboard sound effect that
- 31:08he kept playing like in between some lyrics that
- 31:10just kept on going, yeah. So that was funny.
- 31:14But overall. Despite the weird boxer socks moment,
- 31:17the man can sing. Like someone who's followed
- 31:20Justin Bieber since like 2009, roughly. And I
- 31:23was one of those people that way back when he
- 31:25started as a kid, it was just like, Oh God, this
- 31:27fucking, this, this teen idol, this child idol,
- 31:31whatever the fuck you want to call it. Like I
- 31:32was, I was rolling my eyes like many others.
- 31:35But as he's matured into an adult, I've really
- 31:39begun to appreciate his singing talent. I think
- 31:41he has a fantastic voice and I now, in perspective,
- 31:46find the fact that he was in nothing but boxers
- 31:49and socks. It's symbolic of the fact that unlike
- 31:51other Grammy performers who are gonna pull off
- 31:54all the stops with the fabulous set design and
- 31:56stuff like that, Justin Bieber is symbolically,
- 31:58metaphorically telling you, you know what, fuck
- 32:00all that. I'm gonna just... strip it all down
- 32:03and gave you bare bones, simple, great vocals.
- 32:08Yeah, that's what I came away from it. I mean,
- 32:11and the response seems to be a consensus of like
- 32:15people really respecting and admiring Bieber's
- 32:18tower. But yeah, I think because of the tabloid
- 32:20nature of his celebrity, the fact that he's been
- 32:22out of music for a few years before getting back
- 32:25into it, I think it's very easy to take him for
- 32:28granted. But yeah, the Grammy's show, That last
- 32:31Sunday night reminded me of like, oh yeah, this
- 32:34is why this kid is around and has sold as many
- 32:36records as he has is because he really is a true
- 32:39talent. So yeah, he is absolutely truly talented.
- 32:42And like you said, I think a lot of people think
- 32:43of I'm younger baby and candy or whatever the
- 32:47songs were back in the day. But yeah, he's really
- 32:49a talented artist. So I don't know. I think it
- 32:51was my wife or who told me that they were really
- 32:55obsessed with the song baby back in the day.
- 32:58And it's still like, if not. It's one of the
- 33:02most watched videos on YouTube. I mean, it's
- 33:04like surpassed a billion views at this point.
- 33:05Well, there you go. But yeah, so you had mentioned
- 33:08earlier the in memoriam performances. Like, did
- 33:11you have anything that stood out to you in that
- 33:13section of the show? I'm, I was a huge Ozzy Osbourne
- 33:16fan. I was completely devastated when he passed
- 33:19away like everybody else and still get sad about
- 33:21it. So grew up watching the Osbournes. My dad
- 33:24was into, um, rock music. That's my husband went
- 33:27to Oz Fest. Like all of the Osbournes are integrated
- 33:29in our life. So, um, it was really cool to see
- 33:32Post Malone, see his performance. I thought he
- 33:35killed it. And he's another artist that he is
- 33:38so vastly talented. People tend to forget that
- 33:40as well. Like he can do rock, he can do country,
- 33:43he can do pop. He can rap, so that was really
- 33:45cool to see him shine in that moment. Completely
- 33:47agree. That was my first thought as actually
- 33:50when essentially all these modern day artists
- 33:52are paying tribute to dead people. I'm sorry,
- 33:56there's really no other way to say it. Post Malone,
- 33:58Slash, Duff McKagan, Chad Smith, Andrew Watt,
- 34:02they killed the rendition of Black Sabbath's
- 34:06War Pigs. War Pigs, yeah. Absolutely insane.
- 34:10Great rock star energy. Post Malone, once again,
- 34:14reminding me that he can do anything. Like he
- 34:17came on the scene, I think, first as a hip hop
- 34:19artist, some R &B vibes here and there, and then
- 34:22to see him tackle on country so successfully.
- 34:26He's done covers of Hootie and the Bluefish,
- 34:29Nirvana, Black Sabbath. He is a talent. Like
- 34:34he can do anything. Oh yeah, absolutely. I'm
- 34:35a huge Postie fan, so I love it. Yeah, for sure.
- 34:39Yeah, absolutely. As you should be. My wife got
- 34:41me into a country song of his that I can't remember
- 34:44the name of, but I would have it all repeat on
- 34:46Spotify over and over again for a period of time.
- 34:50Oh, yeah. Post Malone. There's one of them in
- 34:53Jelly Roll. I think that I love those on his
- 34:55country album. I think it's called Losers or
- 34:57something. I played that one on repeat and repeat.
- 34:59I love that. Oh, my God. I got to dive into that
- 35:02as well. What did you think of Lauryn Hill's
- 35:06tribute? This was the longest one out of the
- 35:08In Ramona tribute. I think Lauryn Hill went on
- 35:09for like 12 minutes with what seemed like a million
- 35:12performers on stage. Yeah, I loved it. Angelo.
- 35:15So I thought it was really cool that they did
- 35:17a special tribute to him and had her come on
- 35:19and do it. I thought it was beautiful. It was
- 35:22long, but I didn't lose interest in it, and it
- 35:25was cool to see her back in the spotlight. It
- 35:27didn't seem long. They kept it moving pretty
- 35:29nicely, I thought. I loved Lauren's thick Bridgerton
- 35:34-style dress. Oh yeah, for sure. I love the Bridgerton
- 35:37look, so that was really cool. Yeah. I personally
- 35:40thought Lauren's vocals were not the strongest.
- 35:43There was a moment where she was like, it seemed
- 35:45like she was holding her chest or rubbing her
- 35:46chest in between lyrics. I don't know if that
- 35:48was like a performative move or if that was like
- 35:50actually her just being like... Cause she hasn't
- 35:52had, she hasn't performed on the Grammy since
- 35:531999. Yeah. That's a long time. So maybe like
- 35:57there was a little bit of rust in there and she
- 35:59was trying to get that back. Yeah. You had mentioned
- 36:00the D 'Angelo tribute. She also paid tribute
- 36:02to Roberta Flack, who I forgot died this past
- 36:05year. I know I did too. You always forget people
- 36:08when they play that like, oh yeah, I forgot they
- 36:10passed away. Yeah. I do have bouncing off of
- 36:12Roberta Flack. The closer I get to you, even
- 36:14though that's like, I know it's like a basic
- 36:16thing to say, I love that song. It's probably
- 36:18her most well -known hit with Donny Hathaway,
- 36:20but I will always have a soft spot for that song.
- 36:24And I thought it was tremendously sweet that
- 36:26Donnie's daughter, Layla, was on stage performing
- 36:29that song along with Lauren and others. Yeah,
- 36:33you have the likes of Rafael Sadiq, John Baptiste,
- 36:35Anthony Hamilton, John Legend, Shaka Khan on
- 36:37there. I... A lot of people love this tribute
- 36:42with Lauren Hill and that's great for them. To
- 36:45me, the main vibe was there seems to be a lot
- 36:48of people coming in and out performing. And I've
- 36:51never been a big fan of like, all right, let's
- 36:53do a trippy performance. We have 12 minutes and
- 36:55let's try to cram in like 12 ,000 songs. Right.
- 37:00And sure, they found a way to make it seamless,
- 37:02but to me, I just think it's more resonant to
- 37:06sit with one, maybe two songs over the course
- 37:09of a performance, rather than like, oh, let's
- 37:11try to fit in as many as possible to really reflect
- 37:15the scope of all these dead artists who are trying
- 37:18to pay tribute to, you know? Yeah, I can see
- 37:20that. I definitely understand that for sure.
- 37:22It would be, like you said, maybe one or two
- 37:23artists and just kind of let it flow, be a little
- 37:26bit more in the moment. But yeah, they're switching
- 37:28everything up, having a million... different
- 37:29people, so. Yeah. I was surprised at Wyclef.
- 37:34Lauren's Fuji's mate showed up for a rendition
- 37:38of Killing Me Softly, which is probably like
- 37:40the best known cover from the Fuji's. I thought
- 37:42there was tension between Lauren and Wyclef.
- 37:44I thought all the Fuji's just hated each other
- 37:46because there was that point in time. There was
- 37:48that point in time where they recently were gonna
- 37:51like reunite and go on tour, but then there was
- 37:53like a rift in the group and they never made
- 37:55that happen. And then, oh God, what are the Fugees?
- 37:58Pros Michel. I know he got into some legal troubles,
- 38:00so he might be in prison right now as we speak.
- 38:02But yeah, I don't know. I just figure that, oh,
- 38:04because of tension with the Fugees and them never
- 38:06being able to reunite, that Lauren and Wyclef
- 38:08weren't speaking with each other. Add on top,
- 38:11but I think they had a romantic relationship
- 38:13in the past. Yeah, I think so. For sure. Yeah,
- 38:16that's the last I knew that none of them really
- 38:18got along. So that was interesting to see and
- 38:20to see that they are talking and can be around
- 38:23each other. Maybe there'll be some kind of reunion
- 38:25in the future. Was Wyclef wearing Professor Snape's
- 38:28cloak? Oh, that cloak look. I don't, I don't
- 38:34ever understand when people wear those. But yeah,
- 38:37that's a pretty big thing. Yeah, Wycliffe was
- 38:38wearing something and I was like, oh my God,
- 38:39it's the black version of Severus Snape from
- 38:42Harry Potter. Yeah, definitely. Oh my God. When
- 38:47you think about Reba, they made a big deal about
- 38:49like Reba having never performed at the Grammys
- 38:51before up until now. Like this was her Grammys
- 38:53performance debut. She, she was a part of the
- 38:56memoriam tribute and she performed, I guess,
- 38:58a slow country ballad called Trailblazer. Any
- 39:01thoughts about that? I've always been a huge
- 39:03Reba fan since I was young, especially growing
- 39:06up in like a country setting. I've always loved
- 39:08Reba. I think it's cool that she was finally
- 39:11on there. I'm surprised that was her first time
- 39:13on the greenies, but yeah, they did kind of make
- 39:15it too big of a deal, but I always love Reba.
- 39:18I always love seeing her perform and she's just
- 39:20Reba. Yeah, Reba has, uh, Reba's one of those
- 39:23people that like, if I see her in an interview,
- 39:25I'm like, Oh my God, that's great. Like you have
- 39:27like fun Southern hospitality, country mom energy.
- 39:32I would definitely want to hang out with you,
- 39:34trade some jokes with you. I would gamble to
- 39:37say that. My wife and one of her best friends
- 39:41are probably a bigger fan of Reba than I am.
- 39:44Just because they grew up in Vermont and much
- 39:47like where I think you are. I'm not from here
- 39:50originally, but what I do know, Vermont and its
- 39:52rural aesthetic, like a lot of people here like
- 39:56country music. And Reba exemplifies that. So
- 40:00I'm sure my wife and her friend, they're a bigger
- 40:02fan of her music. Certainly they're a fan of
- 40:04her sitcom. Have you seen the Reba sitcom? Oh
- 40:06yeah, for sure. The newer one that she's made,
- 40:10I'm not a big fan of that one. It's just too
- 40:11corny. I forget what it's called. She owns a
- 40:13bar. I forget what that one's called, but I do
- 40:16enjoy Reba. I will still watch that on repeat.
- 40:19Was it the voice that she's a judge on or he
- 40:22was? I've always known she was part of that.
- 40:24So I think she was a great add to that. Wasn't
- 40:27Rebo's original sitcom also corny to some extent?
- 40:30Like aren't a lot of sitcoms? Yeah. It's just
- 40:31some of the newer stuff nowadays, some of the
- 40:33Netflix shows like that are just almost like,
- 40:35I never could get into the new, the Connors instead
- 40:38of Roseanne or like how they redid Full House.
- 40:41I could, it's just too, a little too much cornyness
- 40:44for me. So. I don't know. I feel like part of
- 40:46that could be just that multi - live studio audience
- 40:50to come format. Absolutely. Yeah, the way things
- 40:52are filmed nowadays is different. Yeah. I don't
- 40:56know. I think the aesthetic for both comedies
- 40:58and dramas were so used to like a single camera,
- 41:00no audience format that try to keep that multicam
- 41:05live studio audience sitcom format going. Maybe
- 41:07in modern days, it feels cheesy and out of place
- 41:10compared to say back in the 80s and 90s where
- 41:12it just seemed to be very regular in the culture.
- 41:18I will say, even though I didn't really think
- 41:19much about Reba's actual performing, I did like
- 41:23the candlelight and the plants around her on
- 41:27the stage. It just gave me like romantic fall
- 41:31season vibes. For sure. Definitely. It reminded
- 41:34me of like a Whitney Houston performance I seen
- 41:36years ago in probably the 90s or something. It
- 41:39might have been the Grammys or something to do
- 41:40with the candlelight and everything. So that's
- 41:42what it took me back to. Well, thank you for
- 41:47this conversation Melanie, I really appreciate
- 41:49it and before we wrap up here Let's let's take
- 41:52a few minutes to acknowledge that an icon passed
- 41:56away over the last week or so Actress and comedian
- 42:00or just I would say actress because she does
- 42:02comedy and drama. So well, just say actress Wonderful
- 42:06actress Katherine O 'Hara passed away. Where
- 42:09were you when you found out about her death?
- 42:12I was actually at home. I was doing a recording.
- 42:16Getting ready to do a recording for my podcast
- 42:18and I saw it come across Facebook and I was shocked.
- 42:21I was shocked. I didn't expect to see her go.
- 42:24She didn't seem that old to me and she really
- 42:25wasn't that, but yeah, she's definitely an icon
- 42:28and she'll definitely be missed and she's been
- 42:30in so many roles. People tend to forget some
- 42:32of the roles that she's in, some of the animated
- 42:34roles. that she's done, she's definitely a night
- 42:36cat. 71 years old, yeah. Which is, if this death
- 42:41happened in like the 70s or 80s, whatever, because
- 42:44I think the far back we go, the more commonplace
- 42:47it was for people in their early 70s to pass
- 42:49away. But nowadays where people, a lot of people
- 42:53are living into their 80s, 90s, 100s, 71 is young.
- 42:5771 is young for... especially someone of Katherine
- 43:00O 'Hara's fiber, who is any interview that I've
- 43:03seen her in, she just exudes this sweet, comforting,
- 43:10fun mom vibe. Her representatives just said that
- 43:13it was a brief illness. There may be more information
- 43:15from TMZ as we speak. I don't know, but I know
- 43:17that that is probably her representative is being
- 43:20like, Hey, we want to protect her legacy. have
- 43:22you remember her for the fantastic work that
- 43:24she's done. I was, so I'm an Uber and Lyft driver.
- 43:27That's how I pay the bills. And I was literally
- 43:30in the middle of a ride, Mel. AP news notification
- 43:34came in and I was just like, huh? Like just like
- 43:37looking at my phone, just dumbfounded. And I'm
- 43:40sure the rider behind me was just like, everything
- 43:42okay? Like, why are you not looking at the road?
- 43:47Like everything okay? But yeah, no, I mean, I
- 43:51tried to process the news through CNN, through
- 43:54Hollywood Reporter, through social media tributes.
- 44:03What specific roles we loved about her, like
- 44:06for you, like when you think Catherine O 'Hara,
- 44:07like what specific roles, movies, TV shows, what
- 44:10stands out? Sure. Of course, Home Alone. That
- 44:13is always my favorite role for Kevin's mom. Seeing
- 44:16Macaulay Culkin write what he wrote was really
- 44:19sweet. He said he wished he had more time with
- 44:20her, could sit down with her, called her mom.
- 44:22That was really precious to see. She's everybody's
- 44:25mom from Home Alone, so that was always important.
- 44:28She was a voice of Sally in The Nightmare Before
- 44:30Christmas. A lot of people do not know that.
- 44:32or even realize that, so that's an iconic movie.
- 44:35There's so many people that are obsessed with
- 44:37that movie, have tattoos of that movie, have
- 44:39their weddings based on that movie. So she's
- 44:42just so iconic. I personally never gotten to
- 44:44Beetlejuice that much. Of course I've watched
- 44:46it, but I think that is probably her most iconic
- 44:48role is in Beetlejuice, so. Yeah. I, in looking
- 44:53at the credits that I recognize Catherine O 'Hara
- 44:55for, I am just stunned by the versatility. You
- 44:59know what I mean? Yeah. Absolutely. And I want
- 45:01to just go back to the mid -70s to early 80s
- 45:07when she was in that Canadian sketch comedy show,
- 45:09SCTV, just seeing her in her 20s playing this
- 45:13young, dumb, ditzy Brooke Shields, when Brooke
- 45:17Shields at the time I think was sort of a young
- 45:19child actress. Right. And then I see Catherine
- 45:24O 'Hara have great dramatic chops in that 80s
- 45:28movie Heartburn with Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson,
- 45:32which I forgot that she was in because she had
- 45:34a relatively small part in that movie because
- 45:36the whole movie is like Meryl and Jack playing
- 45:38these characters who like we see the decline
- 45:41of their relationship. We see them falling in
- 45:43love and then just it going down because Jack's
- 45:48character is a serial womanizer, et cetera. And
- 45:51to see Catherine just have these wonderful dramatic
- 45:53chops as sort of like one of these like witnessing
- 45:55friends of Meryl Streep's character who sees
- 45:58the decline of Meryl and Jack's relationship
- 46:00I thought was great. Also, if you want to see
- 46:02a great light green shoulder padded, very 80s
- 46:05style outfit, watch Catherine O 'Hara in Heartburn.
- 46:08That's fantastic. That's an iconic with the shoulder
- 46:11pads. Yeah. As far as Beetlejuice, I'm much like
- 46:15you. To me, the only thing that pops off in Beetlejuice
- 46:18for me is just Michael Keaton just giving a stunning...
- 46:24Energetic comedic performances Beetlejuice and
- 46:26then like you contrast that with him playing
- 46:28Batman the next year Yeah, so that's the only
- 46:31thing that come that I come with from Beetlejuice
- 46:34as far as Catherine O 'Hara's character She was
- 46:36I think her name was Delia D's Yeah, and yeah,
- 46:39I mean you see some nice comic energy You see
- 46:41her play with her facial expressions when she
- 46:43does a dance at the dinner party Um, there was
- 46:48a scene I watched on YouTube where you got to
- 46:50see the interior design anxiety of Delia D's.
- 46:53So, uh, and just the whole Gothic dress of Delia
- 46:57D's character, along with pretty much everybody
- 46:59else, Winona Ryder included in that movie is
- 47:02interesting to see. Um, of course, Home Alone.
- 47:06Yeah. The way Catherine carries herself as like
- 47:10this, uh, This anxious worried overwhelmed suburban
- 47:15mom like she gets in the plane and then it's
- 47:17like And then oh my god, I teared up even though
- 47:27I only saw like clips on YouTube today And I
- 47:29have not seen the full Home Alone movie in quite
- 47:31some time. I fucking teared up at the ending
- 47:34scene where Kevin and his mom hug. Like when
- 47:37his mom apologizes to him for leaving him behind
- 47:43for God knows how long, for Christmas. So that
- 47:47was great. And then a lot of people, rightfully
- 47:50so, have been mentioning how her career was revived,
- 47:55or not really revived, but it was really... exemplified,
- 47:59like she really got her flowers when she played
- 48:01Moira Rose in Schitt's Creek. Have you seen the
- 48:04show? Oh, yeah. Yeah. I was never a big fan of
- 48:06that show. I've seen a couple episodes, but I
- 48:08know that was like most recently her biggest
- 48:11thing is being in Schitt's Creek, so for sure.
- 48:14Something I didn't know I needed was Catherine
- 48:16O 'Hara playing an aging spoiled actress with
- 48:20this weird upper class mid -Atlantic accent.
- 48:22He's forced to go from riches to rags. with the
- 48:27rest of her family and they're living in this
- 48:28motel in Schitt's Creek. I didn't know I needed
- 48:31that. I didn't know I needed that. I mean, I
- 48:33was watching the best of Moira Rose on YouTube
- 48:36and right away the first line is gangbusters.
- 48:40It's like the entire Schitt's family in a restaurant.
- 48:45And Catherine's character, the mom, Moira Rose,
- 48:49is just putting down her daughter. She was like...
- 48:52And I'm appalled that my baby girl has turned
- 48:55into a selfish, duplicitous whore. And then without
- 48:58a beat, turns to the waiter, oh, hello. Like
- 49:01it's casual to say that your daughter is a duplicitous
- 49:06whore and public at a restaurant. Yeah, she was
- 49:09like the most iconic bad bitch when she played
- 49:11roles. Like she could do that. Like you said,
- 49:13be like stuck up, snobby, even at home alone,
- 49:15they're wealthier and stuff like that. But yeah,
- 49:17when she's in that mom mode, yeah. That's great.
- 49:21And I'm still looking for an answer to that question
- 49:23that has been meme -ified so much. How can a
- 49:28family, like how can parents with that much children
- 49:30afford whatever out of town, out of country trip
- 49:33that they were going to? Right. Yeah, exactly.
- 49:36Yeah. No, that would not be realistic. Yeah.
- 49:39And then finally, I think what her final role
- 49:41ended up being when she was like the former studio
- 49:45head and like mentor to Seth Rogen's character
- 49:48in the Apple TV show, The Studio, which loved.
- 49:51I cannot wait to see how they pay tribute to
- 49:53Catherine O 'Hara in season two. So yeah, that's
- 49:58about it. I mean, I am shocked. I am saddened.
- 50:01I think that this coming holiday season is going
- 50:06to hit hard for people who like to traditionally
- 50:08watch Home Alone every year. So rest in peace,
- 50:13Catherine. I mean, I absolutely I don't know.
- 50:15It's just, there is some talk about like how
- 50:18her most recent appearance is. She looks a little
- 50:20frail and old, but I just never got the impression
- 50:22that this woman was going to leave us. No, me
- 50:25neither. Like you said, 71 is young, especially
- 50:28being in Hollywood, being a celebrity. They have
- 50:31access to all the special doctors, all these
- 50:33special treatments and stuff. So, and as you
- 50:36said, she didn't really put on anything that
- 50:38was going on with her. So it is shocking and
- 50:40saddening to see her go and definitely would
- 50:42be Miss Greeley. Yeah. Catherine O 'Hara didn't
- 50:47get her youth cream. All right, well, rest in
- 50:52peace, Catherine O 'Hara. And luckily we have
- 50:54like, what, 50 years worth of great film and
- 50:58television work to draw upon. My wife and I,
- 51:01we're going to go see the 2000 mockumentary film,
- 51:04Best in Show, on Netflix at some point. A lot
- 51:07of people have been referencing online and I
- 51:08just have never gotten a chance to see it. Uh,
- 51:11we look forward to seeing that but yeah, I think
- 51:13i'm gonna watch some more schitt's creek myself
- 51:15So I got into it but one of those shows there's
- 51:17so much I need to get into it I always need to
- 51:19find a show that has lots of seasons because
- 51:21I go through them too fast I hate when there's
- 51:22only like one season so I know they have quite
- 51:24a bit on that show So I feel like I got into
- 51:26schitt's creek. So schitt's creek. I can't remember
- 51:28how I found it Um, I think I just saw Like oh
- 51:33eugene eugene levy katherin o 'hara chris elliot
- 51:36like all these comedy heavyweights in a show
- 51:39And maybe it was on Netflix that I first discovered
- 51:41it. And I was like, Oh, let me check this out.
- 51:42And then was like, Oh, this is like one of the
- 51:45funniest fucking shows ever. And then it seemed
- 51:48like more and more like the more I caught up
- 51:51with it and watched it, like the internet, everybody
- 51:53caught on to how brilliant the show was. And
- 51:56then during the pandemic, they deservingly got
- 51:58all those Emmys. So yeah, that's, that's so wonderful
- 52:02that Schitt's Creek seems to be like this big
- 52:05example of how talented Katherine O 'Hara is.
- 52:10Absolutely. Yeah. Well, Mel, this was a great,
- 52:13great time. Thank you so much for digesting these
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