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- 0:08Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm. Are you sure.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Well, nigga be waiting on you?
- 0:35Speaker 1: Are y'all waiting on me? Possibly? Yeah, I guess. Welcome
- 0:41Speaker 1: to this week's episode of Winding Audacity the Podcast. I'm
- 0:46Speaker 1: your host brand's card, and I am joined by these niggas.
- 0:53Speaker 3: I feel like, oh, okay, since y'all wait for me
- 0:58Speaker 3: and ship, oh bitches, he wants he wants to be
- 1:03Speaker 3: a sassy bitch.
- 1:04Speaker 4: Okay, sassy bitch, that's cool you know about that is
- 1:08Speaker 4: fine with me?
- 1:08Speaker 1: Bitch period, Since y'all call the motherfucker sassy and ship,
- 1:14Speaker 1: that's a fucking hate crime.
- 1:15Speaker 2: That was a ghatto bitch that you just.
- 1:21Speaker 1: What I do? Other fuck, it's a hate crime.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Smack file with you is a damn hate crime.
- 1:27Speaker 1: Who you see assault?
- 1:30Speaker 2: Nick, nigga?
- 1:32Speaker 1: You said that that means what you want to do
- 1:34Speaker 1: to me showing up because I don't agree with you.
- 1:36Speaker 1: It's just how we are. Just snag the ship.
- 1:43Speaker 2: All fire, you see all fire, that's all right.
- 1:49Speaker 1: See these motherfuckers ain't these motherfuckers ain't stopping me. They
- 1:59Speaker 1: keep talking Ship.
- 2:00Speaker 2: Your sassy bitch about how we talking.
- 2:04Speaker 1: That's why your braids to be redombe bitch you're right,
- 2:08Speaker 1: don't standing.
- 2:08Speaker 2: You can't hurt my feelings. Bitch. I know I'm sitting
- 2:11Speaker 2: over here looking.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Like a nappy headed hope you sure it is?
- 2:13Speaker 2: That's okay, your bitch. I was on vacation, bitch. Damn God,
- 2:19Speaker 2: damn I have called for a while. Bitch, I'm going
- 2:21Speaker 2: that's fine. Get the huffing make me sick? Oh rude, bitch.
- 2:28Speaker 1: I love you too, I know it. Maybe I love you,
- 2:33Speaker 1: bitch whatever, that's why your edges is afraid.
- 2:36Speaker 2: Ain't nobody else?
- 2:37Speaker 1: Oh you bitch?
- 2:38Speaker 2: See I was about to be nice and play that
- 2:40Speaker 2: bitch of compliment.
- 2:41Speaker 1: See this?
- 2:42Speaker 4: Should I be talking tapes of bitches? Should I be
- 2:45Speaker 4: talking about? Did y'all know that Cova mixed Peter Chips?
- 2:51Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 2:52Speaker 2: I still have not made it to Cova. I'm gonna
- 2:54Speaker 2: go where do you wanna go to? Co I'm gonna
- 2:56Speaker 2: go to Cabo for maybe.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Maybe next time we were call, I'll bring cop Before
- 3:01Speaker 1: the team said the sense it to be my turn
- 3:03Speaker 1: to get lunch for everybody.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Lunch lunch. Okay, we like Lench, but no, they got
- 3:09Speaker 2: in d C. They got a place that's I forgot
- 3:12Speaker 2: what it's called. It it's called something jerk and that jerk. Okay,
- 3:18Speaker 2: oh yeah, it's one my job. Then it's one. Yeah,
- 3:22Speaker 2: it's one by my job in the location that will
- 3:24Speaker 2: not be named, but it's one near my job. And
- 3:29Speaker 2: they said it's like a Caribbean chipotle. Yeah, if we're
- 3:33Speaker 2: talking about the same police. I said, what all right,
- 3:39Speaker 2: I tried.
- 3:41Speaker 1: She she looked skeptical. Ship. I give it a chance, Brandon,
- 3:47Speaker 1: I say, I don't like it's a Mediterranean chipot last ship.
- 3:49Speaker 1: I'll say that my kids all to day.
- 3:51Speaker 4: Listen, they see they see this ship was like peace
- 3:56Speaker 4: like like chicken, probably like some chicken.
- 3:57Speaker 1: And some peas. And they're like, I don't like it.
- 3:59Speaker 1: I like, at least try before you say you don't
- 4:01Speaker 1: like it. You tried. I was like, listen, had.
- 4:04Speaker 2: Peas and years I love I love it. It's not
- 4:06Speaker 2: saying like a Popeye, but I haven't had like like
- 4:08Speaker 2: my son's grandmother used to make peaces inside dish, but
- 4:10Speaker 2: she would make them with like, uh, she makes scalloped
- 4:13Speaker 2: potato and I missed some scaling. I'm basic.
- 4:16Speaker 4: My mentor shed she hooked him up with the salt
- 4:18Speaker 4: and pepper. But listen, mister, I told him, mister Aaron
- 4:21Speaker 4: tries tried piece. This is the eighth time and tried piece.
- 4:24Speaker 4: He still hates him.
- 4:25Speaker 1: I like peas, but I put my just regular salt
- 4:28Speaker 1: and pepper, and I would eat I can't. But now
- 4:30Speaker 1: I don't put butter man. But I do love the
- 4:33Speaker 1: playing salt pepper. But but I do. I buy a frozen
- 4:34Speaker 1: peas in the bag from the store. The steam bags
- 4:37Speaker 1: put that thing on. About six minutes. I will dumb
- 4:40Speaker 1: that whole bag of peas into a bowl, eating salt,
- 4:43Speaker 1: salt and pepper and eat them like that. I'm getting
- 4:46Speaker 1: old because I'm starting to like more vegetables. I don't
- 4:49Speaker 1: know what I seem.
- 4:50Speaker 2: Like spargus before recently, and it actually wasn't half bad,
- 4:56Speaker 2: but I'm not really. I wouldn't go somewhere in order.
- 4:58Speaker 2: It was like mixed in with something.
- 5:00Speaker 4: That I had.
- 5:00Speaker 2: It makes good like roaster, like ross and bacon. Because
- 5:07Speaker 2: that's how my my, my, my, my little sister. She
- 5:11Speaker 2: she wrapped it in bacon.
- 5:14Speaker 1: Yeah, more for you. Oh m m hm, any comments.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Welcome to this week's episode. I think I said that already.
- 5:27Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Like I said that already. My mind got
- 5:31Speaker 2: a little distracted. Mm hmm mm hmm, girl, girl, Brandon
- 5:42Speaker 2: will be talking about not that when you talk about
- 5:47Speaker 2: that everything.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Lord, actually I had about a year.
- 5:59Speaker 1: Sure about to do a little Disney sing along following the.
- 6:09Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, you guys stop sexual assault on
- 6:12Speaker 4: the microphones.
- 6:13Speaker 2: Bro. They like it than complaining.
- 6:18Speaker 1: Now.
- 6:24Speaker 5: I forgot about to say.
- 6:28Speaker 4: Thank you all for joining us this week. If you
- 6:31Speaker 4: have any Hey, mama, Tabby, jump me up. That love
- 6:36Speaker 4: your love, your little red wine blend.
- 6:39Speaker 2: There's no thirteen point five alcohol.
- 6:41Speaker 1: They still drinking Taba. The boys showing the sixty five
- 6:43Speaker 1: bottles of Tabatha brown one. She is still drinking Tabatha Browns.
- 6:49Speaker 2: I love her. It is very good, very good. That's
- 6:53Speaker 2: my business. That's your business business. Oh gosh, So I
- 6:59Speaker 2: love your season.
- 7:00Speaker 1: And though I still haven't tried the sunshine season, and
- 7:03Speaker 1: I don't think that's.
- 7:04Speaker 2: Why I have the lemon garlic pepper wine. I used
- 7:07Speaker 2: that on my vegetables. It's tasty.
- 7:09Speaker 1: I need to find a season from a vegetables. You know,
- 7:12Speaker 1: I have no salt, so yeah, I need so I'm
- 7:15Speaker 1: back in the gym. You know I got You know,
- 7:18Speaker 1: you get tired of looking at yourself, so you want
- 7:20Speaker 1: to try something different. So I started back at the gym.
- 7:23Speaker 1: I started getting mass in bed earlier and trying to
- 7:26Speaker 1: get aiming for seven hours sleeping night because usually if
- 7:29Speaker 1: I'll get about five and be up.
- 7:30Speaker 2: Lane sending me damn Instagram videos two o'clock in the morning.
- 7:34Speaker 1: But I noticed I was starting to have headaches, and
- 7:36Speaker 1: I was like, not getting enough rest and probably not
- 7:42Speaker 1: you drink drink a lot of water. Yeah, probably from
- 7:45Speaker 1: not getting enough rest. So I noticed I was like, yeah,
- 7:48Speaker 1: I need to get more sleep, and like I need
- 7:50Speaker 1: to start going to be earlier, and started with like
- 7:52Speaker 1: a workout regiment. So I'm back in the gym. I'm
- 7:55Speaker 1: trying to early. I'm going to sleep early. Thing. It's hard.
- 7:59Speaker 2: I can tell because I'll be scrolling on tick time.
- 8:02Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh im a watch the last episode
- 8:03Speaker 2: of this show. Okay, just a.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Couple of days or nine o'clock. You know, I had
- 8:07Speaker 1: to add to put aj down.
- 8:09Speaker 4: You know, I'm I'm drowsy, like yeah, yeah.
- 8:13Speaker 2: Y'all get them sleep when you fall asleep and no
- 8:15Speaker 2: one realized you fell asleep and did you wake up?
- 8:17Speaker 2: And'm like, when the fuck did I go to sleep.
- 8:18Speaker 2: That happened to me the other day. I was I
- 8:20Speaker 2: was watching TV and I was like, I'm not going
- 8:23Speaker 2: to sleep. I'm playing there like this is good, this
- 8:25Speaker 2: is no.
- 8:27Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not like that. But I know in
- 8:29Speaker 1: my case, which I started getting like getting worried about,
- 8:32Speaker 1: was I would fall fall asleep. I guess it would
- 8:35Speaker 1: be like a micro net. I would fall asleep and
- 8:37Speaker 1: have like a really intense dream and then wake up.
- 8:39Speaker 1: But I'd only be se for like twenty minutes. Yeah,
- 8:41Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think that's how like
- 8:44Speaker 1: ram and like the sleep is supposed to work. So
- 8:47Speaker 1: I know, you know how the bedroom set up right?
- 8:49Speaker 4: So we got so so in front of the baby
- 8:51Speaker 4: got aj friz and then I.
- 8:53Speaker 1: Pulled so I pulled, I pulled kid a little.
- 8:55Speaker 4: Chair from the from the front of the corner and
- 8:58Speaker 4: I'm sitting there, I'm playing game.
- 9:01Speaker 1: The next thing I do all the noise I came
- 9:03Speaker 1: up like, yeah, at work one day that happened to me.
- 9:13Speaker 1: It wasn't guess whatever, it was like, that's.
- 9:18Speaker 2: What happened to me at work one day and you
- 9:21Speaker 2: key off and I'm sitting at the day going computer.
- 9:36Speaker 1: Yo, that should be crazy. I'm never I'm never that tired.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Let me close this do and take me in that.
- 9:47Speaker 1: You know, I'm never that tired. You know. You know
- 9:50Speaker 1: I'm not a napper, which I probably probably would help
- 9:52Speaker 1: me with my sleepers.
- 9:54Speaker 2: He taken, wake up, gonna be eight THIRTYNNA be like right, Oh,
- 9:58Speaker 2: I ain't clock out or nothing.
- 10:00Speaker 4: I laid that at twelve thirty and I missed about
- 10:03Speaker 4: six meetings, fourteen phone calls.
- 10:06Speaker 2: I started taking naps during cold.
- 10:08Speaker 1: I'm not a napper.
- 10:09Speaker 2: When we started working from home during cold, I started
- 10:11Speaker 2: taking naps. I'm like, all right, I'm gonna do you know,
- 10:15Speaker 2: half my half my work before lunch break and twelve o'clock.
- 10:19Speaker 2: And this is what you know. My desk is in
- 10:21Speaker 2: my room. It was originally downstairs, but I moved it
- 10:24Speaker 2: upstairs for the holidays to put my tree up, and
- 10:26Speaker 2: I never moved it back down stairs. So I was like,
- 10:30Speaker 2: all right, Sean, I started working from the bed. I
- 10:31Speaker 2: had the little lat desk. Worst decision I ever made,
- 10:35Speaker 2: because I'll be sitting there now next thing, you know,
- 10:37Speaker 2: my head and went back on the head board and
- 10:39Speaker 2: I'm like, oh lord. So I stopped working from the bed.
- 10:42Speaker 2: So I was like, nope, get up, sit at your desk,
- 10:45Speaker 2: work at your desk. I got to spin your damn
- 10:47Speaker 2: chair around your bed right there. You get the bed,
- 10:49Speaker 2: take a nap while she work like shine. And then
- 10:55Speaker 2: they don't help that Chase as is laid in the
- 10:56Speaker 2: bed stretched out like that, and I'm like, bitch, I'm working.
- 11:00Speaker 2: You gonna work too. Fuck. So anyway, twelve o'clock, come
- 11:04Speaker 2: lunch break. I lay my ass. Damn step my clock
- 11:06Speaker 2: a right, get your ass up at one o'clock, get up,
- 11:08Speaker 2: and that's what I would do. So then I was like, Seanna, no,
- 11:12Speaker 2: you need to start working in your bed. Work because
- 11:14Speaker 2: when you're working your bed, when you're so tempted to
- 11:16Speaker 2: go back to the bed. So I brought myself a
- 11:17Speaker 2: little rolling dusk from the tickety top. I ordered something
- 11:20Speaker 2: from TikTok shop. Got a nice little rolling dust that
- 11:23Speaker 2: it transfers into the stand up desk. You can raise it,
- 11:26Speaker 2: yeah and stand up if you need to stretch and stuff.
- 11:28Speaker 1: Your dead you're excited, not be damn.
- 11:31Speaker 2: It was a reasoningly I took a pay for thirty
- 11:33Speaker 2: or forty dollars for the dusk. But anyway, so I
- 11:35Speaker 2: put that downstairs in the living room, so that makes
- 11:38Speaker 2: me get my ass up and didn't do school work too.
- 11:42Speaker 2: It helps with schoolwork as well, so they sit in
- 11:44Speaker 2: my bed and do my school work too. So now
- 11:46Speaker 2: I move my computer and everything down back downstairs. But
- 11:50Speaker 2: I ain't want to keep moving that damn desk, So
- 11:53Speaker 2: I bought this little rolling dusk and that helps I
- 11:55Speaker 2: come sit down here on the couch. Cause at first
- 11:58Speaker 2: I will come sit at table at the doe down
- 12:01Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm not comfortable here. So I'm like,
- 12:03Speaker 2: if I get on the couch, I can at least
- 12:04Speaker 2: be a little comfortable, kind of put my foot up
- 12:06Speaker 2: and all that stuff like that. And now that's what
- 12:09Speaker 2: I did. I work from downstairs and living. The thing
- 12:12Speaker 2: that that helps and.
- 12:13Speaker 4: The thing that fucked my sleep up, my sleep padd
- 12:17Speaker 4: enough was when he when AJ came home from the
- 12:21Speaker 4: then you like, yeah, I would go to work, but
- 12:25Speaker 4: then it's like yo, but then it's like I'm at work,
- 12:28Speaker 4: she home with him all day, and then when I
- 12:30Speaker 4: come home, it's like, yo, I'm up, like you know,
- 12:33Speaker 4: like I'm up, Like I'll be up all night with him, uh,
- 12:36Speaker 4: up all night, and I probably won't go to sleep
- 12:37Speaker 4: until like maybe three when because it's like I just
- 12:42Speaker 4: wanted to be you know, I just want to make sure,
- 12:44Speaker 4: Like I was up the like he started crying or whatever,
- 12:47Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm uh, I'm helping, you know, like I
- 12:50Speaker 4: like I'm changing him and feeding him and all that shit.
- 12:53Speaker 1: But then it's like yo.
- 12:54Speaker 4: But then once he started sleeping like a little longer,
- 12:57Speaker 4: I was a you know, like now that we got
- 13:01Speaker 4: a routine with him, like eight o'clock, will we'll we'll
- 13:05Speaker 4: give my a bath. Then we'll give him like one
- 13:07Speaker 4: bo like we'll give him like a five ounce bottle
- 13:09Speaker 4: and then he'll then you know, we rub down with
- 13:12Speaker 4: his little lab and the lotion. I spray the bed
- 13:15Speaker 4: with melo, spread the bed with melowtony do his little
- 13:18Speaker 4: Uh yeah.
- 13:22Speaker 1: We did.
- 13:23Speaker 4: Because we did, it came into like a little sleep set.
- 13:26Speaker 4: It's like it came like a bubble bath, a bubble
- 13:29Speaker 4: bath flotion bubble bad for lotion, and then then the spray.
- 13:33Speaker 1: Uh.
- 13:34Speaker 4: But now we got this Lava de lotion. It's like
- 13:37Speaker 4: got like a little bit of camera mill in it.
- 13:39Speaker 4: And that that also like sues him, like you know,
- 13:42Speaker 4: he'll play he plays in the tub. Like now he
- 13:47Speaker 4: it's like he acted soon as like soon as he
- 13:49Speaker 4: even even if it's not water in the tub, he
- 13:52Speaker 4: gets in there, he starts smiling and like bouncing like
- 13:55Speaker 4: what are you what.
- 13:56Speaker 1: Are you doing?
- 13:57Speaker 2: Bathtime? Damn it question?
- 14:00Speaker 4: No, no, no, I had to use the bathroom. Keeta
- 14:03Speaker 4: was cooking. I took him in the bathroom with me,
- 14:05Speaker 4: set him in the tub, and he just he just
- 14:07Speaker 4: looking at me like.
- 14:10Speaker 2: Because he thought it was bad time.
- 14:14Speaker 4: But but now but now it's like yo, I'll let
- 14:17Speaker 4: him play. Yeah, we'll let him play in the play
- 14:19Speaker 4: in the tub. And and we used like the little
- 14:22Speaker 4: lavender little lavender bodywalk baby body wash and he'll it
- 14:26Speaker 4: just like it calm him down. So he kind of
- 14:28Speaker 4: like on the routine, like you know, like he'll know
- 14:31Speaker 4: like but he started tripping when he when he when
- 14:34Speaker 4: he hit when he hear her do this and like,
- 14:39Speaker 4: I know what y'all bitch is doing, like no, I'm not,
- 14:42Speaker 4: I'm not. Then you're saying later, I'm not. Man hmmmm.
- 14:50Speaker 1: But then he now he wakes up, he'll probably wake
- 14:52Speaker 1: up like.
- 14:54Speaker 4: He'll wake up like four four in the morning, like
- 14:58Speaker 4: four forty five, like like clockwork, and then I'm but
- 15:03Speaker 4: I noticed that, I mean, I'm able to sleep a
- 15:05Speaker 4: little longer. But then I'm glad that now he's like
- 15:08Speaker 4: when he does wake up, it's closer to the time
- 15:10Speaker 4: I got to get up, like I gotta get up
- 15:12Speaker 4: from get up and get ready for work.
- 15:14Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, my.
- 15:17Speaker 4: Like I tried, like I tried, like I tried that,
- 15:19Speaker 4: you know, I tried to be like super Dad and
- 15:21Speaker 4: ship when.
- 15:21Speaker 2: He came home space miss on your pillow, no.
- 15:25Speaker 4: Dude, when kid is pretty Yeah that ship, that ship
- 15:28Speaker 4: knocked me the fuck out too.
- 15:30Speaker 2: Because I got the candle and I'm like, who the
- 15:32Speaker 2: fucking bit of the sleep candle? Ain't supposed to go
- 15:34Speaker 2: to sleep with candles.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Burning my thing? Like I can't do. I think. I
- 15:38Speaker 1: took melatone for a little while, just to help me sleep,
- 15:41Speaker 1: like every maybe like once a week or so, or
- 15:42Speaker 1: once every couple weeks or so, for like three four months,
- 15:46Speaker 1: and then I had like an actual nightmare that woke
- 15:48Speaker 1: me up out my sleep. That's od, bitch, never again.
- 15:50Speaker 1: And I'm I'm not a person who was like I
- 15:52Speaker 1: rarely ever have nightmares, but that one night I took
- 15:55Speaker 1: melatonin and got in the bed and went to sleep,
- 15:57Speaker 1: and I was.
- 15:57Speaker 2: Like I had some weird das.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 16:03Speaker 4: Yeah, but I would say, like I say, try to
- 16:09Speaker 4: take like I know you're not a napper, but it
- 16:11Speaker 4: does help.
- 16:11Speaker 1: I could I need I need to get more sleep.
- 16:13Speaker 4: It does, I mean, but it does. It also has productivity.
- 16:18Speaker 4: That's why I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like
- 16:21Speaker 4: on the fence about them taking out nap time when the.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Kids, when the kids go to when the kids go.
- 16:25Speaker 4: To like elementary, you give them, you give them, you know,
- 16:32Speaker 4: elementary school, you put them in charge of what they
- 16:35Speaker 4: want to eat.
- 16:36Speaker 1: So then you give them and you.
- 16:38Speaker 4: Know you have that's when we have snacks and ship,
- 16:40Speaker 4: like we got like the little butter like the little
- 16:42Speaker 4: butter crunch.
- 16:42Speaker 1: Cookies and ship.
- 16:43Speaker 4: And then we now now you're getting them cookies, you
- 16:47Speaker 4: give them, you're feeding them, and then you're giving them
- 16:50Speaker 4: like like sugar and ship.
- 16:52Speaker 1: So then you take them outside. But then it's like after.
- 16:55Speaker 4: That they already drowsy, like they already drowsy from from recess.
- 16:58Speaker 4: So it's like let them know, get them ah, you know,
- 17:01Speaker 4: well at my school, we get them two hours, like
- 17:05Speaker 4: they from one to three is off from one.
- 17:07Speaker 1: To three is nap time.
- 17:09Speaker 4: That's nice, yeah, but no, not when these little baskets
- 17:13Speaker 4: don't go to sleep one Like, I'm like, yo, everybody's sleep,
- 17:18Speaker 4: but you like, y'all, nap time is my planning time
- 17:22Speaker 4: and my break from y'all. I don't take a break
- 17:24Speaker 4: like like I worked. I worked ten hours straight, so
- 17:26Speaker 4: it was like, but I'm off, I'm off like I'm
- 17:29Speaker 4: off one day a week, so I only worked like
- 17:31Speaker 4: technically yeah, so I'm like, y'all, naptime is my break.
- 17:38Speaker 4: Excuse go to sleep and you know I can't, y'all.
- 17:42Speaker 4: I'm like, but then it's like, yo, matter of fact,
- 17:44Speaker 4: I don't even need you to go to sleep. You'll
- 17:46Speaker 4: just sit down and be quiet. And it's like, no,
- 17:50Speaker 4: like okay, I hate Like I was like, man, I
- 17:56Speaker 4: missed when I was in when I was in pret
- 17:58Speaker 4: K because they went to sleep, and I mean, order
- 18:01Speaker 4: one little girl, she she like she was sitting. I
- 18:04Speaker 4: mean she was sitting talk to me or like try
- 18:06Speaker 4: to talk to me, and I'm like, I can't talk.
- 18:08Speaker 4: I don't talk to people that's supposed to be sleep.
- 18:11Speaker 4: She like, I'm gonna tell my mother, But.
- 18:18Speaker 1: I started doing in addition to trying to get more sleep,
- 18:21Speaker 1: I started instituting or not constituted, I'm not trying to
- 18:25Speaker 1: say I started introducing, started doing meditation at night just
- 18:33Speaker 1: to calm my brain down and try to just decompress.
- 18:37Speaker 1: And I find it I'm going to sleep way faster
- 18:39Speaker 1: than I was before because I do it when I'm
- 18:42Speaker 1: put my lotion on and it got my blue lights
- 18:43Speaker 1: on me and yet but but if you got YouTube
- 18:51Speaker 1: on the TV, they have it. I don't need this
- 18:53Speaker 1: blue light. I used Peloton on my phone. The phone
- 18:56Speaker 1: is on the charger and then when it cuts off,
- 18:57Speaker 1: I cut on my sleep low five no thirty minute time,
- 19:01Speaker 1: I'll be in. Then you got you gotta improve your
- 19:05Speaker 1: sleep high gene. Because I was following something like a
- 19:08Speaker 1: doctor who I follow on on TikTok and he was
- 19:11Speaker 1: talking about a study that potentially links lack of sleep
- 19:14Speaker 1: with dementia as you get older, and I'm like, well, like,
- 19:18Speaker 1: I need my mind to stay sharp. I'm not trying
- 19:19Speaker 1: to take myself out early because I'm not getting enough sleep,
- 19:22Speaker 1: or like to have strokes and heart attacks because your
- 19:27Speaker 1: body isn't getting enough rest. So right now, thankfully, I'm
- 19:31Speaker 1: not getting like two hours of sleep, and I'd average
- 19:34Speaker 1: between five and six, but I'm pushing to get between
- 19:37Speaker 1: seven or eight. And sometimes, like on weekends, I don't
- 19:40Speaker 1: have to cut my lamal on. I don't if I
- 19:43Speaker 1: wake up after six hours of sleep, okay, but I
- 19:45Speaker 1: pushed for seven eight. I think one time I got
- 19:48Speaker 1: like nine and a half hours. That's old, bitch. I
- 19:49Speaker 1: must have been dead tied to sleep that yod damn.
- 19:52Speaker 2: And I used to sleep like that, and I used
- 19:53Speaker 2: to have to break the snowstorms too. Over time. I
- 19:57Speaker 2: used to get slipped like that. I wake up like,
- 19:59Speaker 2: what my damn your job.
- 20:01Speaker 1: Doing snow time?
- 20:02Speaker 2: Bro?
- 20:02Speaker 4: The motherfuckers will come and pick your ass really thankfully.
- 20:09Speaker 1: When I worked at the hospital, we didn't really have
- 20:11Speaker 1: too too many snowstorms, but I remember there was one
- 20:13Speaker 1: time when it started snowing and one of my coworkers
- 20:16Speaker 1: dropped me off at home. I had to pay you,
- 20:18Speaker 1: so I think I wasn't down to fucking run away
- 20:20Speaker 1: for the bus and be strained on the bus buses
- 20:22Speaker 1: weren't running. But what I also used to do, I
- 20:26Speaker 1: used to I think the one time we did have
- 20:28Speaker 1: a major snowstorm, I told him like, look, I'm stuck
- 20:30Speaker 1: at home. I'm not coming in this weekend. So yo, son,
- 20:33Speaker 1: I tried to. I never called out sick, never like
- 20:36Speaker 1: you know, miswork, but I said, I'm in my house.
- 20:38Speaker 1: It's a blizzard outside.
- 20:43Speaker 4: I tried that ship when I was when I was
- 20:45Speaker 4: doing valet down at the university. Wait, that's one. That's
- 20:49Speaker 4: one on my packing straight right, Yeah, I was down there.
- 20:53Speaker 4: My mind, I'll call I'll call my boss. My boss haid.
- 20:56Speaker 4: He's like, Yo, it's just maybe I'm gonna come and
- 20:59Speaker 4: get you. Like and because everybody else, like everybody else called,
- 21:03Speaker 4: like because they said the buses wasn't running so they
- 21:05Speaker 4: wasn't coming. Joel like he he came, like he picked
- 21:08Speaker 4: me up minutes all. He was like, look, I got
- 21:10Speaker 4: all wheel drive. We're gonna be there. And I mean
- 21:13Speaker 4: and then you know, if we if needed be, they
- 21:16Speaker 4: put us up in the hotel like they would put
- 21:18Speaker 4: us up in the hotel on the front. But I mean,
- 21:23Speaker 4: but you know me, like like I like to work.
- 21:26Speaker 4: I was like, I'm in I'm in there. I was
- 21:28Speaker 4: in there like Joe this something. And when I didn't
- 21:31Speaker 4: have to park the carse like when you had to
- 21:32Speaker 4: park the cause down on Lombard like we like we
- 21:35Speaker 4: like we used like we usually do because most of
- 21:37Speaker 4: the people they were coming.
- 21:38Speaker 1: I did it for the cancelations.
- 21:40Speaker 4: Because we were like right outside of like right outside
- 21:43Speaker 4: of the on collegey department. So it's like for me,
- 21:44Speaker 4: it's like my regular the regular people that I've seen.
- 21:46Speaker 4: It's like, all right, I got you no words if
- 21:49Speaker 4: you if you gonna make it out this motherfucker they
- 21:52Speaker 4: get your chemo. I'm like, I'm i gotta do my
- 21:56Speaker 4: you know, do my due diligence or you know, do
- 21:59Speaker 4: like with God, you know, I gotta be all. I'm
- 22:01Speaker 4: gonna be out here too, mm hmm. You're braving the storm,
- 22:04Speaker 4: just you know, just get this. So I'm gonna, yeah,
- 22:06Speaker 4: I'm gonna go pocket a little car. We're gonna I'm
- 22:08Speaker 4: gonna pucket right there though, you know, I'm a little raggedy.
- 22:11Speaker 1: Cars bitch hass car.
- 22:17Speaker 4: One lady pulled up with with like a big ass
- 22:19Speaker 4: trunk taking up like the side.
- 22:20Speaker 1: I was like, you what happened? I was like, did
- 22:24Speaker 1: you hear it this? She's like no, elk? Oh God,
- 22:29Speaker 1: It's like, where's Elk? She's like Western Maryland. They got
- 22:34Speaker 1: elk in western Maryland.
- 22:35Speaker 4: No, not damn that, but you drove all the way
- 22:38Speaker 4: down here where it sucked up that like that back that. Yeah,
- 22:47Speaker 4: that ship was rough. I was like, damn.
- 22:51Speaker 1: So yeah, if you haven't they do what you need
- 22:54Speaker 1: to do to improve your sleep hygiene, you could, you know,
- 22:57Speaker 1: try to start with a consistent routine for improving how
- 23:00Speaker 1: much sleep you get. Try to sleep at the same
- 23:02Speaker 1: time or wake up at the same time so your
- 23:03Speaker 1: body can get used to that sort of rhythm. I'm
- 23:06Speaker 1: getting I'm getting it.
- 23:07Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to because you're talking like getting there,
- 23:10Speaker 4: like waking up naturally at at the like at a
- 23:13Speaker 4: certain time, like they woke up, woke up like seven thirties, like.
- 23:17Speaker 1: I was ain't damn ain't da is no, no nothing.
- 23:23Speaker 1: You got to because you don't. You don't want it
- 23:24Speaker 1: to be a place or a thing where you know
- 23:27Speaker 1: everything's all good and well now because we're young and
- 23:29Speaker 1: we still fit and moving. But that ship. You won't
- 23:32Speaker 1: take care of yourself. Now, that'll come back to bite
- 23:34Speaker 1: your ass when you get older. Your house starts to
- 23:37Speaker 1: decline in your fifties and sixties, or you get cognitive
- 23:40Speaker 1: issues because you're not taking care of yourself. So yeah,
- 23:42Speaker 1: that's that scared me hearing about that study or that
- 23:45Speaker 1: potential link between lack of sleep and dementia. I said,
- 23:48Speaker 1: oh no, we're gonna figure this out. You're gonna figure
- 23:51Speaker 1: this out. So all right, well, before we get into
- 23:56Speaker 1: our quan name topic, did you know that random? Totally random,
- 24:02Speaker 1: it's totally unrelateable we were just talking about. But the
- 24:05Speaker 1: close at the end of the harbor, that's the Yeah,
- 24:08Speaker 1: they closed it. So there are only two owners left
- 24:11Speaker 1: in the whole state of Maryland. Right, So it's only
- 24:15Speaker 1: two us left in the whole state of Maryland. There's
- 24:17Speaker 1: one in Elk City, and then there's one in Oakland.
- 24:20Speaker 1: Out in Oakland, Maryland, which is like western Maryland, you're Cumberland.
- 24:24Speaker 1: There are some it's some in Jersey, there's a couple,
- 24:28Speaker 1: it's some in New York, some in Pennsylvania, and a
- 24:31Speaker 1: few in Virginia. So mm, yeah, they closing it all the.
- 24:38Speaker 2: Somebody give me the recipe for damn sup.
- 24:41Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you can find a dupe for that on.
- 24:43Speaker 2: I'm looking up. That's tasty.
- 24:45Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you want to take let's let's take
- 24:48Speaker 1: a commercial before we get into the Q and A segment.
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- 25:49Speaker 2: Charay Whodfield, before you know, she got all that work done?
- 25:53Speaker 2: Who can check you booth?
- 25:55Speaker 1: Watch this first before you keep talking. Just y'all can't
- 25:58Speaker 1: see it. But yeah, and oh, oh my.
- 26:05Speaker 2: Sir, if I reflect my legs like that, I probably
- 26:07Speaker 2: have a husband by now. Oh yeah, So we is
- 26:13Speaker 2: going to go ahead and just started out with fuckery
- 26:16Speaker 2: because that's what I sometimes. I'm throw you sometimes, I said,
- 26:24Speaker 2: And we going to six Brown Chicks, which is Brandon's
- 26:27Speaker 2: favorite thread. Shoutout to six Brown Chicks for keeping us
- 26:31Speaker 2: dressed in fuckery because yeah, okay, come on with the
- 26:37Speaker 2: ship which I came home from my second job and
- 26:41Speaker 2: my unemployed living boyfriend and his fifteen year old son
- 26:44Speaker 2: had a talk with me. They told me I needed
- 26:47Speaker 2: to find a better job so that we can live
- 26:49Speaker 2: in a better neighborhood. My boyfriend, I feel like you're
- 26:53Speaker 2: working all the time, but it don't add money to
- 26:55Speaker 2: our situation. Me, you could work too, my boy work
- 27:01Speaker 2: for what? You worked two jobs and don't earn enough
- 27:03Speaker 2: for us to live. Instead of two jobs, find one
- 27:06Speaker 2: better paying job.
- 27:08Speaker 1: Pause.
- 27:09Speaker 2: This is how people end up on episodes of Snapped
- 27:11Speaker 2: and Fad.
- 27:12Speaker 1: A minute, bitch.
- 27:14Speaker 2: What the dating pool is trash? The job market is trash.
- 27:17Speaker 2: I love this man. I'm a proud Christian woman, and
- 27:20Speaker 2: I don't want to evict this man and his just
- 27:22Speaker 2: in time for winter. But something has got to give.
- 27:25Speaker 2: What to do?
- 27:26Speaker 1: Put that nigga and his raggedy as set out. You're
- 27:28Speaker 1: a dumb ass halke fuck up. See you let this
- 27:32Speaker 1: bum ass nigga talk to you crazy in the house
- 27:35Speaker 1: that you're paying all the fucking bills in.
- 27:37Speaker 2: That's what she's saying.
- 27:37Speaker 1: What the fuck is your problem? You working multiple jobs
- 27:42Speaker 1: and you didn't learn nothing from the bit Ship we
- 27:43Speaker 1: talked about last week. Nope, from from from another man's trash, treasure,
- 27:47Speaker 1: one man's trash, whatever the fu Tuoby movie's name was
- 27:51Speaker 1: vibbing direct for Tuby Studios, One Woman's Yeah at the
- 27:55Speaker 1: court of fucking Lilanois and fankel In on the West
- 27:57Speaker 1: side of Detroit. You ain't learned nothing from that. You
- 28:01Speaker 1: ain't learned nothing.
- 28:02Speaker 2: Nope, Yo, you.
- 28:05Speaker 1: A motherfucker could tell me, Ship in the house, I
- 28:08Speaker 1: paid for laying here scratching your nuts, and I'm working
- 28:12Speaker 1: two jobs to support all three of us. It ain't mine,
- 28:16Speaker 1: nigga pounds saying pound the pavement. Take little Tyron back
- 28:20Speaker 1: to his mother and follow behind his ass because my
- 28:23Speaker 1: house is getting locked when I leave, because.
- 28:24Speaker 2: They probably at your house because she probably put that
- 28:26Speaker 2: ass was sicking him in his goddamn son, this.
- 28:31Speaker 1: Hot You ain't got no act, right, bitch. You ain't
- 28:34Speaker 1: stand up, stand up, Ship, not fucking dumb.
- 28:41Speaker 2: You have lost your rabit as mind blooded speak clear
- 28:45Speaker 2: the way I will put avery and that nigga food?
- 28:48Speaker 2: Are you crazy?
- 28:49Speaker 1: You stupid?
- 28:50Speaker 2: You have lost your man. You're a proud question woman,
- 28:53Speaker 2: but you're shaking.
- 28:54Speaker 1: Girl right pre married at that girl. You love that man,
- 28:57Speaker 1: but you're letting the man take advantage of you. O cool.
- 29:00Speaker 2: They probably come home and cook and clean and every
- 29:02Speaker 2: damn thing was and they sit on the damn fucking
- 29:05Speaker 2: couch playing two K not just.
- 29:07Speaker 1: For your man, but for his teenage son as well.
- 29:09Speaker 6: Girl.
- 29:10Speaker 1: If you don't tell that motherfucker to go pound.
- 29:12Speaker 2: Sign, he mad at him. I made at your stupid days, right,
- 29:14Speaker 2: you lost your fucking mind.
- 29:16Speaker 1: I wish the funk I was.
- 29:19Speaker 2: I got a seventeen year old.
- 29:23Speaker 1: Hmmm, I'm good.
- 29:25Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 29:26Speaker 1: You ain't got an answer to this in your fucking body.
- 29:28Speaker 2: Not a pinch you can go bye?
- 29:32Speaker 1: Oh simple hum? Just oh my god, that made me mad.
- 29:38Speaker 1: I'm stupid, but just stupid. I'm sorry, Aaron. What was
- 29:43Speaker 1: you gonna say?
- 29:43Speaker 4: No, it's I think I think what question? I think
- 29:46Speaker 4: one question is just like why?
- 29:49Speaker 1: Why? Yeah?
- 29:51Speaker 4: Like why like like what's the what's the problem? I
- 29:54Speaker 4: mean what's the what's the issue here? Like like you
- 29:58Speaker 4: saying that you need help, he's not trying to I
- 30:00Speaker 4: said help because he's gonna ask you. He's gonna say
- 30:02Speaker 4: that you know you can, you can get a better
- 30:04Speaker 4: paying job.
- 30:05Speaker 1: And it's like, bitch, the only people that can live
- 30:08Speaker 1: for free is people that aren't old enough to work.
- 30:12Speaker 1: You don't work, you don't eat, true ship, or you're
- 30:15Speaker 1: a dumb ass to let God dumb bitch is taking
- 30:17Speaker 1: care of you.
- 30:18Speaker 2: That's what. Don't work. It don't eat.
- 30:23Speaker 1: That ship made my blood hot. You being a dumb ass.
- 30:27Speaker 1: It's in my house, nigga. The mission is they can take.
- 30:32Speaker 2: Him a dollar and get his own goddamndles to ship, better,
- 30:36Speaker 2: payhand better, go to a shelter funk out there. That
- 30:41Speaker 2: made me, man, go stay with your mama. Mm hmmm.
- 30:46Speaker 1: I oh, I mean that's made.
- 30:51Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. It grinded your gears, did it?
- 30:58Speaker 1: Simple bitch and take them? I mean, but and then
- 31:03Speaker 1: on top like, ain't that much?
- 31:05Speaker 4: I mean as a man, that's like, why would you like,
- 31:08Speaker 4: why would you want to be taken care of that way?
- 31:11Speaker 1: Some niggas don't kids. They want they want they want ease.
- 31:14Speaker 1: They want to easy life. They want to be a
- 31:16Speaker 1: kept bitch, a bad bitch.
- 31:19Speaker 2: But washing the dishes and cleaning bitch.
- 31:22Speaker 4: That's all right. That's that's another thing. If you're in
- 31:26Speaker 4: the house, like you're in the house, show you you
- 31:28Speaker 4: should at least be able to I mean you should
- 31:31Speaker 4: be like common courtesy, bro. If she's doing all the
- 31:34Speaker 4: heavy lifting, at least you can do and sweep the floor,
- 31:37Speaker 4: wash on washing dishes.
- 31:38Speaker 1: Now you know that's too much like right? Do you
- 31:42Speaker 1: know that you know that nigga ain't doing this ship man? Yeah? No, yeah, bitch, yeah,
- 31:48Speaker 1: put them out.
- 31:50Speaker 4: Stop thinking about but stop and stop thinking about your like,
- 31:53Speaker 4: stop thinking about the kid.
- 31:55Speaker 1: This ain't got nothing, especially when the kid ain't sucking yours. Yeah,
- 31:58Speaker 1: this ship ain't got nothing to do with the kid,
- 32:00Speaker 1: won't you a bitch? He can go with his mother, right,
- 32:02Speaker 1: he got a grandmother or auntie, He got somebody that
- 32:05Speaker 1: don't something involved him staying his raggedy, funky, dirty ass
- 32:09Speaker 1: in your house.
- 32:10Speaker 2: Agreed?
- 32:11Speaker 1: Stand up? Oh oh you stupid?
- 32:15Speaker 2: Just simple, just simple mind.
- 32:18Speaker 4: I'm sorry, y'all ain't got the good the good sense
- 32:21Speaker 4: God gave a billy name Lick of it ain't got
- 32:24Speaker 4: the good sense God gave a bully go.
- 32:28Speaker 2: Not nampy.
- 32:28Speaker 1: I mean they are pretty stupid, but still mm hmmm,
- 32:33Speaker 1: just stupid. Just oh my god, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
- 32:36Speaker 1: I feel it's just not worth it. Ain't like it's
- 32:42Speaker 1: not worth it.
- 32:42Speaker 4: It's not worth the streuss that you're going, that you
- 32:44Speaker 4: already that you're giving yourself.
- 32:45Speaker 1: Fucking that ship. Let it go, Let him go. If
- 32:49Speaker 1: somebody isn't added anything to your life, why are they ain't?
- 32:54Speaker 1: Why are m h mm.
- 32:57Speaker 2: Hmmm about his businesses? Bye?
- 33:00Speaker 1: Person is not adding anything to you in your life?
- 33:02Speaker 1: Why do they have taken you? All they doing? They coming,
- 33:05Speaker 1: They're coming at you with their hand out. What are
- 33:08Speaker 1: what benefit is this person adding to your life?
- 33:09Speaker 2: And when they come over with the hand do you
- 33:11Speaker 2: suppose to your finger up?
- 33:12Speaker 1: I know having low self esteem is a thing, but
- 33:14Speaker 1: you can't love somebody else that they expense it your
- 33:17Speaker 1: own goddamn self.
- 33:18Speaker 2: I'll give you Missus Howard because you need somebody to
- 33:21Speaker 2: talk to you.
- 33:21Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to send Missus Howard up or some
- 33:23Speaker 1: ship like this.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Shout out to missus girl.
- 33:28Speaker 1: No, no, she don't. She taking the extensive break us.
- 33:32Speaker 2: Girl, I need you going through some ship. Well, all right,
- 33:37Speaker 2: moving on, we're going to rudd it to the m
- 33:39Speaker 2: out of asshole thread that when it's a little lengthing.
- 33:42Speaker 2: But uh am I then asshole for asking my wife's
- 33:45Speaker 2: best friend to stop leaning on my wife after her
- 33:48Speaker 2: dad died. Oh that's how just gonna get a little
- 33:52Speaker 2: lovely little heavy guys.
- 33:53Speaker 1: Okay, it's been a little heavy lately.
- 33:56Speaker 7: Heavy heavy.
- 33:58Speaker 2: You got so heavy on I gotta.
- 34:01Speaker 1: Spend a little heavy. I'm oh finishing sugars that would
- 34:07Speaker 1: be good, yes, or maybe on top of some coffee
- 34:11Speaker 1: like hot chocolate.
- 34:12Speaker 2: Oh fantastic, yes, okay, sorry me. Thirty two male and
- 34:17Speaker 2: my wife thirty one female, were having a baby. My
- 34:20Speaker 2: wife was around seven months pregnant. My wife's best friend,
- 34:25Speaker 2: thirty female, father passed away unexpectedly and quite young. There
- 34:29Speaker 2: were no warning signs. He seemed in perfect health for
- 34:31Speaker 2: his age. Wife did not have an easy pregnancy and
- 34:35Speaker 2: the third time mess that we were going for daily
- 34:37Speaker 2: scams due to the baby not gaining weight and reduced movement.
- 34:40Speaker 2: Wife was working with children and the kid. I'm sorry.
- 34:43Speaker 2: Wife was advised to reduce stress. She is a social
- 34:47Speaker 2: worker working with children in the care system, which is
- 34:50Speaker 2: a very stressful and emotionally drained job. For her work
- 34:54Speaker 2: put her on a lighter case load and gave her
- 34:57Speaker 2: flexible hours. This is also a the time that wife's
- 35:01Speaker 2: best friend's dad died FYI. Wife and best friends had
- 35:04Speaker 2: been best friends for about fifteen years. She was the
- 35:07Speaker 2: maid up honor at our wedding and was a close
- 35:09Speaker 2: friend of mine too. Best friend that died it was
- 35:14Speaker 2: a shock to us all. We went round to her
- 35:16Speaker 2: house the day after to comfort her as much as
- 35:19Speaker 2: we could. At this point, everything seemed at sorry, y'all.
- 35:24Speaker 2: At this point, everything seemed as you would expect. We
- 35:27Speaker 2: took some snack foods around, We spent the little time
- 35:30Speaker 2: a long time talking. There were tears all around in
- 35:33Speaker 2: a lot of cuddles. After a few days of this,
- 35:36Speaker 2: thanks to Katurn. While talking about the father's funeral, Wife
- 35:39Speaker 2: asked best friend if she knew anything about how she
- 35:43Speaker 2: wanted his funeral. The friend did not like this question
- 35:46Speaker 2: at all and was immediately angry, saying why would I
- 35:49Speaker 2: know that. From this point on, best friend was increasingly
- 35:53Speaker 2: negative towards my wife. Wife felt helpless. She could barely sleep.
- 35:57Speaker 2: I was coming to home, coming home to her crying,
- 36:00Speaker 2: just looking at her phone because if the messages that
- 36:02Speaker 2: they exchange, this is where I fucked up. I message
- 36:06Speaker 2: best friend, this is the message. Hi, best friend. I'm
- 36:10Speaker 2: not going to pretend to know anything about what you're
- 36:12Speaker 2: going through, and I truly wish that I could help
- 36:14Speaker 2: in any way. I am genuinely concerned about wife and
- 36:17Speaker 2: bump on top of that, I'm not going to layer
- 36:21Speaker 2: on all the things that she is struggling with right now.
- 36:24Speaker 2: I just want to ask you to try to lean
- 36:26Speaker 2: on her a little less. She wants what is best
- 36:29Speaker 2: for you and wants to help. But the last day
- 36:31Speaker 2: or two she hasn't eaten, and she's been pretty She's
- 36:34Speaker 2: pretty much cried herself to sleep, and even there not
- 36:37Speaker 2: sleeping well at all. Me and wife both love you
- 36:39Speaker 2: and what to support you in any way we can.
- 36:41Speaker 2: I'm just worried it might be a bit too much
- 36:43Speaker 2: for a wife right now. Best friend said she was
- 36:47Speaker 2: sorry that her dad dying was an inconvenience to us,
- 36:49Speaker 2: and that she wouldn't burden us with her problem anymore.
- 36:53Speaker 2: I spent the next few days trying to apologize and
- 36:55Speaker 2: explain about the pregnancy, but to no avail. Best friend
- 36:58Speaker 2: continue to be angry at me and wife. This point onward,
- 37:01Speaker 2: I was asked not to attend the funeral, but wife
- 37:03Speaker 2: did attend. Best friend was close to her for the
- 37:06Speaker 2: entire funeral, barely said a word to her. Wife and
- 37:12Speaker 2: best friend argued a few times after this, partially about
- 37:14Speaker 2: what I had said, but other things I'm not certain of.
- 37:17Speaker 2: Best friend has now stopped all communication with us. Our
- 37:20Speaker 2: son has been born. Wife had an emergency c section
- 37:23Speaker 2: because his heart rate was dropping. He is happy and healthy. Question,
- 37:27Speaker 2: Am I the asshole?
- 37:29Speaker 1: No? You are not to askhole at all. Now. Had
- 37:33Speaker 1: you come at the best friend a bit greasy? Yes,
- 37:37Speaker 1: but in this instance, based off of what you wrote,
- 37:39Speaker 1: unless you wrote some shit and you're trying to chance
- 37:41Speaker 1: switch it up based off of what you told us
- 37:43Speaker 1: you wrote. No, you're not to askhole because your priority
- 37:45Speaker 1: is your partner and your child while losing a parent
- 37:50Speaker 1: is stressed, and I appreciate the fact that you led
- 37:54Speaker 1: with sympathy first off and said, hey, sorry, you're going
- 37:57Speaker 1: through this. If I could be there for you, you know
- 37:59Speaker 1: in a different way, I definitely would be. But your
- 38:02Speaker 1: priority is your family. And if your partner is losing sleep,
- 38:06Speaker 1: she crying herself to sleep, she's not sleeping, well, she's pregnant.
- 38:09Speaker 1: Your priority is your baby, and you need to try
- 38:13Speaker 1: to fix the problem where you can. And if that
- 38:15Speaker 1: means saying, hey, I know you're going through it right now,
- 38:18Speaker 1: can you try to maybe lean on a little bit less?
- 38:20Speaker 1: Like she's going through a rough time and her pregnancy
- 38:22Speaker 1: and she's not gonna pull herself away because she cares,
- 38:25Speaker 1: but can you maybe try to lean on her a
- 38:26Speaker 1: little bit less. I feel like that was the right
- 38:28Speaker 1: thing to do personally now in grief. It may not
- 38:32Speaker 1: be received wrong, but it correct me if I am wrong.
- 38:35Speaker 1: The best friend was being an asshole to her pregnant
- 38:38Speaker 1: best friend and her boyfriend just off of her simply
- 38:41Speaker 1: asking Hey, what do you want or foresee like for
- 38:44Speaker 1: your father's funeral? I feel like it's a work our
- 38:46Speaker 1: question to ask.
- 38:46Speaker 2: It is because I probably could have helped you with
- 38:48Speaker 2: something I'm asking you for.
- 38:50Speaker 1: You panted you in the right direction to say, hey,
- 38:51Speaker 1: I know somebody who does it, who will give you
- 38:53Speaker 1: a discount. Funerals are expensive, and we all a lot
- 38:56Speaker 1: of people unfortunately who people who don't you know, pre
- 38:59Speaker 1: plan for their own shit, you planning all this stuff
- 39:01Speaker 1: in the midst of dealing with grief, right, Like, yeah,
- 39:04Speaker 1: I watched I watched I watched The Leader.
- 39:08Speaker 4: I mean I watched kid, you know Kay the best
- 39:10Speaker 4: friend door with her, we couldn't lean like she I mean, yeah,
- 39:15Speaker 4: she could talk, like she came to talk to us.
- 39:17Speaker 4: But at the same time, it was like it wasn't
- 39:19Speaker 4: really much, you know, because Katy was Katy was. Katy
- 39:24Speaker 4: was also you know, going through her own stuff, and
- 39:26Speaker 4: it's like, yo, we you know what I mean, we
- 39:28Speaker 4: get it, but we also, you know, we're also dealing
- 39:31Speaker 4: with like dealing with life over here. So you know,
- 39:34Speaker 4: she kind of she helped with she could, And I
- 39:36Speaker 4: think I just think that it is a little selfish, Like, yo,
- 39:40Speaker 4: you're being you're being selfish because because you're not worried
- 39:44Speaker 4: about you're not concerned about my my lady and you
- 39:48Speaker 4: know her being pregnant and you know, distress that you
- 39:51Speaker 4: are that you excuse me that you were putting on
- 39:54Speaker 4: like you're putting on her like it's stressful trying to
- 39:58Speaker 4: be your best friend and and and then also be
- 40:02Speaker 4: pregnant like you Streuss was trying to be a best
- 40:05Speaker 4: friend to be pregnant. I mean, I ain't never been pregnant,
- 40:08Speaker 4: so you know, I can only imagine, you know, the
- 40:10Speaker 4: hormonal ship y'all be going you know y'all be going through.
- 40:13Speaker 2: I said in the previous episode, the little mistakes to
- 40:16Speaker 2: make you cry, can make you upset anything. Your hormones
- 40:21Speaker 2: are sky freaking hot. We just watching it. We was
- 40:23Speaker 2: watching the earlier. But my mama one day, yeah, we
- 40:26Speaker 2: was watching the earlier about to bite me in my
- 40:29Speaker 2: throat in the middle walmart. But I did. I was irritated,
- 40:32Speaker 2: I was hot, I was hungry, and she asked me
- 40:35Speaker 2: one question to you, damnity.
- 40:36Speaker 1: I was like what.
- 40:38Speaker 2: My mother stopped and pols and looked at me and said, oh.
- 40:40Speaker 1: Ships that. Look, I know you're pressing. Let that.
- 40:45Speaker 4: I know you're pregnant. So I let that slide. But
- 40:47Speaker 4: don't you do it again. But yeah, you know, you're
- 40:51Speaker 4: not the like, you're not the ass whole. You're just
- 40:53Speaker 4: being concerned. You're concerned about your concerned about your wife.
- 40:56Speaker 4: Like you're concerned, you're more so concerned about your wife
- 40:59Speaker 4: and her mental and her mental health. And and because
- 41:02Speaker 4: you know, she stressed out actually can't affect the baby
- 41:04Speaker 4: like dramatically affect the baby. So it's like, yo, so
- 41:09Speaker 4: she feels some kind of way fuck that. If she
- 41:11Speaker 4: don't like, if she don't like, you had to this
- 41:12Speaker 4: fuck her.
- 41:13Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
- 41:15Speaker 4: Like you did what you You did what you did,
- 41:17Speaker 4: Like like Brandon said, you led with you led with sympathy. First,
- 41:21Speaker 4: you live with sympathy. So your intentions, your intentions wasn't
- 41:24Speaker 4: to be malicious.
- 41:26Speaker 2: Or and you know, or hurt her. But again, as
- 41:29Speaker 2: your as the husband, uh fellow from the one of
- 41:32Speaker 2: the other questions from the past episode taking notes, as
- 41:35Speaker 2: a husband, your job is to protect your family and
- 41:41Speaker 2: that means protecting them from any and everybody. It does
- 41:44Speaker 2: not matter who the fuck it is. Your wife's pregnancy
- 41:47Speaker 2: was already high risk, she could have lost your baby.
- 41:50Speaker 2: Then what if she would have lost your baby from
- 41:52Speaker 2: the stress? Then with with with with the best friend
- 41:55Speaker 2: have said, then I'm sorry, I'm stressed. Who has lost
- 42:02Speaker 2: a parent? Brandon has lost both parents. We know what
- 42:07Speaker 2: that grief can be. Like, grief does make you do
- 42:09Speaker 2: strange things. Brief grief you you go one minute, you're
- 42:13Speaker 2: you're sad, then you're angry, then you're happy, then you
- 42:15Speaker 2: remember in good times and you're angry again. I went
- 42:17Speaker 2: through that. That's a big part of me going to
- 42:19Speaker 2: therapy because I didn't know how to deal with my
- 42:22Speaker 2: grief when my father died.
- 42:23Speaker 1: Okay, so I thank you for turning into a hope.
- 42:28Speaker 2: Yeah, nah, No, I should have. I would have been
- 42:34Speaker 2: honoring my father anyway. It's just chokes people. But yeah,
- 42:47Speaker 2: like I didn't know how to handle my grief, which
- 42:49Speaker 2: and I I almost I messed up a few of
- 42:51Speaker 2: my relationships snapping on people and mad at people and
- 42:54Speaker 2: what was me? And what about me? And I understand
- 42:56Speaker 2: you got this going on, but what about me? And
- 42:58Speaker 2: I've been there. So while I understand where the best
- 43:01Speaker 2: friend is coming from, I also understand with you as
- 43:03Speaker 2: a husband, to protect her a leader is coming.
- 43:06Speaker 1: From project your family. That's your priority.
- 43:09Speaker 4: Now.
- 43:10Speaker 2: Reading some of the comments on the story, I saw
- 43:12Speaker 2: some people say that as the wife, they probably would
- 43:14Speaker 2: have been a little upset because it wasn't really the
- 43:16Speaker 2: husband's place. I disagree. I disagree. He was not nasty,
- 43:19Speaker 2: he was not mean, he wasn't rude to her. He
- 43:22Speaker 2: talked to her with love because as he said. She
- 43:24Speaker 2: became a good friend of his too, so he had
- 43:26Speaker 2: love for her too. He felt the loss that she
- 43:27Speaker 2: lost too, But again, his priority at that time was
- 43:30Speaker 2: making sure that his wife and his child was okay.
- 43:32Speaker 2: Because being stressed out, his wife could have ended up.
- 43:34Speaker 2: She could have had pre acclaimed to you, She could
- 43:36Speaker 2: have miscarried. She could have lost her life by giving
- 43:38Speaker 2: birth to the child. He could have lost his wife
- 43:40Speaker 2: and his child. Things happened with understand how stressful pregnancy
- 43:46Speaker 2: can be on your body.
- 43:47Speaker 1: Ye let me anything happened. As a husband, it is
- 43:51Speaker 1: it is our.
- 43:52Speaker 4: Job to say the ship that y'all can't that y'all
- 43:54Speaker 4: that y'all can't say, or you feel like you can't say.
- 43:57Speaker 1: Like whenever, and there's a way to say it. You
- 43:59Speaker 1: were a kid like whenever.
- 44:01Speaker 4: Kidter don't want doing anything, or I mean, she doesn't
- 44:04Speaker 4: necessarily want to know how to say anything. Like my
- 44:06Speaker 4: first thing is, you'll blame me. I don't care, like
- 44:08Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. You can, Yeah, you can
- 44:11Speaker 4: blame it like if if it's if it's real, like
- 44:15Speaker 4: you know, if it's really like if it's really that serious,
- 44:17Speaker 4: So you can blame it on me. I'll tell like, listen,
- 44:19Speaker 4: I'll take the blame. I gotta take the because you know,
- 44:22Speaker 4: as as everybody say and my mother will say, Aaron, don't.
- 44:26Speaker 1: Give a fuck at all. So you know, if you
- 44:28Speaker 1: like you're gonna be mad at me, I'm cool with that.
- 44:31Speaker 1: Like you can be mad at me.
- 44:32Speaker 2: I be the villain. I'm cool with that, you know
- 44:35Speaker 2: what I'm saying, As long as she I know the truth,
- 44:37Speaker 2: So I'll be the villain in your story.
- 44:39Speaker 1: At the end of the day. My priority is that
- 44:40Speaker 1: one right there and.
- 44:41Speaker 2: When I took you know, the one you stood next
- 44:44Speaker 2: to you, when I took a bow to her. Bitch, Yeah.
- 44:48Speaker 1: My face.
- 44:49Speaker 2: It's more than me personally. I feel like it may
- 44:54Speaker 2: be more than the grief for her to still be
- 44:56Speaker 2: angry and upset and you know after the funeral, or
- 45:00Speaker 2: she could very well still be dealing with the grief
- 45:02Speaker 2: because she has not gotten any help with it.
- 45:05Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the that's the thing. It's the fact
- 45:08Speaker 4: that she I'm believed, like I believe. It's the fact
- 45:11Speaker 4: that she was looking for help and and then here
- 45:15Speaker 4: like here they come like we're not doing this. You
- 45:17Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Like we're not like I need
- 45:20Speaker 4: you to not like understand where you're coming from and
- 45:22Speaker 4: understand that you're upset, but don't.
- 45:25Speaker 2: I would have said, you don't call me, you know,
- 45:31Speaker 2: let me call me, let me know. I'll be your shoulder.
- 45:33Speaker 2: Why my wife is going through you know you like
- 45:36Speaker 2: you family to me too, Call me and I'll help you.
- 45:38Speaker 2: I'll help you plan, I'll help you, you know, uh,
- 45:41Speaker 2: get through this or something like that. I can put
- 45:45Speaker 2: you in touch with somebody better help or something like that.
- 45:49Speaker 2: That's what I feel like he should have should have said.
- 45:51Speaker 2: But being an asshole, No, I don't think your adshold Sorry,
- 45:54Speaker 2: I don't think you're the asshole.
- 45:57Speaker 1: Because she she's still holding on to it.
- 45:59Speaker 4: But then but and she's probably honestly, she probably gonna
- 46:02Speaker 4: hold onto her for a while because this is happening
- 46:05Speaker 4: at a really traumatic time, like a really traumatic time
- 46:07Speaker 4: for her, and usually things are happened in traumatic men
- 46:10Speaker 4: traumatic times.
- 46:11Speaker 1: You niggas will hold that ship.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Yo.
- 46:14Speaker 1: Yeah, it might be its that bitch might be on
- 46:17Speaker 1: her deathbed before she forgive you. You told me, because again,
- 46:22Speaker 1: people people say stuff in in in you know, when
- 46:26Speaker 1: they going through grief and they're not thinking straight because
- 46:28Speaker 1: they're going through their stuff. But what would the response
- 46:30Speaker 1: have been, and what could just this best friend have
- 46:32Speaker 1: said if her trusting your wife, I would have caused
- 46:35Speaker 1: her to lose that baby. And when she comes out
- 46:37Speaker 1: of her grief and she's back in her right mind
- 46:39Speaker 1: or she's back to a state of equilibrium, oh ship,
- 46:43Speaker 1: I fucked up. I caused my best because I was
- 46:44Speaker 1: trusting my best friend out they lost their baby. Fuck
- 46:48Speaker 1: that bitch because I was.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Dealing with the wife. I wouldn't I wouldn't forgive you.
- 46:53Speaker 4: But you know what, And then I mean but then
- 46:55Speaker 4: now now that there's the paradox, it's like, yo, lie,
- 47:01Speaker 4: but it's like it's it's kind of a paradox because
- 47:04Speaker 4: it's like, yo, like you she you know, she'd have
- 47:07Speaker 4: lost the baby, like she lost the baby, she lost
- 47:09Speaker 4: her father. And then it's like, yo, it's my is
- 47:11Speaker 4: your loss isn't greater than mine?
- 47:13Speaker 1: And it's like.
- 47:15Speaker 4: Kind of is See, your father was already like almost
- 47:19Speaker 4: out there.
- 47:20Speaker 1: He was like he was already he did know, he's
- 47:24Speaker 1: already lived his life. This one, this one, my kid
- 47:28Speaker 1: didn't even get a chance.
- 47:29Speaker 4: So it's like yo, so yeah, you you cal You
- 47:32Speaker 4: could come with that, you know, you could come with
- 47:34Speaker 4: that bullshit, and you know you could feel like you
- 47:36Speaker 4: know she should have been there. But for you to
- 47:38Speaker 4: feel like she she should have been there for you
- 47:40Speaker 4: even though she was going through her own stuff, y'all,
- 47:42Speaker 4: that's selfish as.
- 47:44Speaker 2: Fuck either way, sir, you're not the asshole. Congratulations to
- 47:48Speaker 2: you and your wife on your beautiful baby. I'm glad
- 47:51Speaker 2: that he was born healthy and happy, and I hope
- 47:53Speaker 2: that you're and your wife here baby is born strong.
- 47:59Speaker 2: Pray for your friend and and pray that she gets
- 48:01Speaker 2: through it what it is that she's going through, that
- 48:02Speaker 2: she works through.
- 48:03Speaker 1: This grief and if she don't fuck her, you know
- 48:07Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
- 48:10Speaker 2: Moving along, I'm gonna stay on reddick. I'm going to
- 48:14Speaker 2: the ex the ex women thread. But it's a universal question.
- 48:18Speaker 1: Also call that to ask wonder thread.
- 48:20Speaker 2: And this is also labeled not safe for real folks,
- 48:22Speaker 2: but it ain't that damn bad. But still put your
- 48:24Speaker 2: here on time. How do you feel about your partner?
- 48:27Speaker 2: Waken you up for sex?
- 48:29Speaker 1: I love I love it, nigga, I still do that.
- 48:33Speaker 1: I listen, I still do the ship now like ship listen.
- 48:38Speaker 1: Let me tell you. Let me tell you something.
- 48:39Speaker 4: Uh uh, y'all listen when y'all get when y'all when
- 48:43Speaker 4: y'all got a study person that y'all live with around
- 48:46Speaker 4: like five six in the morning, it's already what bro
- 48:50Speaker 4: because she been marry nick all night.
- 48:52Speaker 1: So yo, you just not I mean, you can go ahead.
- 48:57Speaker 4: Listen, you go ahead, you go ahead, stir that pot
- 48:59Speaker 4: bro like, go ahead, but that's being that pot broke
- 49:01Speaker 4: because she's been minding it's been marred no night. But
- 49:05Speaker 4: at the same time, you know, first first, our first,
- 49:08Speaker 4: I would say, talk to it and like talk about
- 49:11Speaker 4: it first.
- 49:11Speaker 1: And make sure comfortable.
- 49:15Speaker 4: Up because some people because some people, you know some uh,
- 49:18Speaker 4: some people might have like trauma and it's like that's
- 49:21Speaker 4: why and they and you know, and you try to
- 49:25Speaker 4: do something, anything can happen to you in that point,
- 49:27Speaker 4: like you.
- 49:28Speaker 1: Know, pickup PTSD or.
- 49:30Speaker 2: Walk around your elbow to your face. So that's a
- 49:34Speaker 2: conversation that should be heaved.
- 49:35Speaker 4: Make now if y'all have not had the conversation, and
- 49:40Speaker 4: you it's like every ball well too. Sometimes listen, sometimes
- 49:48Speaker 4: you might get the Sometimes you might get the ones
- 49:50Speaker 4: that are you know, the ones that like you just
- 49:52Speaker 4: put it in their mouth while they.
- 49:53Speaker 1: Sleep, but you also gotta be careful because you you
- 49:58Speaker 1: might get it down on son.
- 49:59Speaker 4: That's my yeah, that's not even to tell you that's
- 50:02Speaker 4: that's that's that's my fear. Like we didn't, like, we
- 50:04Speaker 4: didn't have conversations about it, like you know, just daughter
- 50:06Speaker 4: say nah, because I'm scared you might bite me. And
- 50:09Speaker 4: it's like, I don't wonder what the fuck you might
- 50:11Speaker 4: be dreaming about.
- 50:12Speaker 2: Just my goddamn look, you about to bite into something
- 50:14Speaker 2: that your motherfucking dreaming and clamp down?
- 50:17Speaker 1: You know, not that ass?
- 50:22Speaker 2: What about you?
- 50:22Speaker 4: Be?
- 50:23Speaker 1: Yes, I don't mind being woken up. Well, here's the thing.
- 50:28Speaker 1: There's a difference between waking somebody who just went to
- 50:31Speaker 1: sleep like twenty thirty minutes ago, and waking somebody up
- 50:34Speaker 1: at three in the morning when you know they gotta
- 50:36Speaker 1: be up for work in two hours.
- 50:38Speaker 2: Now.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Sometimes it's good he wake me up three o'clock in
- 50:41Speaker 1: the morning, but.
- 50:45Speaker 2: Don't say the word milki.
- 50:47Speaker 1: But look, look, not that y'all need to notice about me.
- 50:54Speaker 1: But I'm always in the mood. So you right right now,
- 50:59Speaker 1: right right now.
- 51:00Speaker 4: This right moment, turn off, Like yo, I don't think
- 51:06Speaker 4: people understand that. People understand that, like yo, now you
- 51:12Speaker 4: you can you know you can like for for men
- 51:15Speaker 4: like yo. It don't take it does not take much.
- 51:18Speaker 4: Matter of fact, Yo, you come in like you come in.
- 51:21Speaker 1: You can come in. You can be here. You can
- 51:22Speaker 1: be in some.
- 51:23Speaker 4: Frumpy ass clothes you have, like some big ass some
- 51:26Speaker 4: big ass T shirts and sweatpants on.
- 51:28Speaker 2: Yeah, brush past, don't brush past me.
- 51:33Speaker 1: Don't don't you hope, don't bend over in front of me.
- 51:38Speaker 1: Don't do nothing like that. She grabbed me. I was like, look.
- 51:42Speaker 1: I was like, look, look, I'm liable to pop right now.
- 51:46Speaker 6: Sure says, I'm just saying, y'all gotta understand.
- 52:00Speaker 2: Bro.
- 52:00Speaker 1: S Look, I don't even have to be thinking about it.
- 52:04Speaker 1: You give me a look like right now, she ain't nigga,
- 52:11Speaker 1: look so what you want? That is one of the
- 52:15Speaker 1: things I missed about having a living partner is when
- 52:17Speaker 1: they when they hit the roll up. I was quick
- 52:20Speaker 1: to toot that butt, U hit that roll over and
- 52:22Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. This ain't one of my proud moments,
- 52:26Speaker 1: but not in fake sleep.
- 52:27Speaker 8: A couple of times, same sang, you know you know
- 52:33Speaker 8: you being on your side and you hear him talking
- 52:36Speaker 8: to you here, you can't moving.
- 52:38Speaker 2: The sleep, and I too that freak sleep. And I
- 52:41Speaker 2: pushed my butt back like this.
- 52:42Speaker 1: And then the grab reach around having pulled like I'll be.
- 52:50Speaker 9: Like, I'm trying, right, I got a point, but look you,
- 53:15Speaker 9: I'm tired.
- 53:15Speaker 2: You.
- 53:17Speaker 1: I guess I hold on. I guess I could wake
- 53:19Speaker 1: up for it all that Nigga said, I guess I
- 53:23Speaker 1: could wake up for a couple of minutes.
- 53:25Speaker 2: I got time, hurry up, I'm sleep, I'm tired.
- 53:30Speaker 1: I just got the shower.
- 53:31Speaker 4: But yo, like yeah, wait, Yo, listen, yold do all
- 53:40Speaker 4: the work.
- 53:40Speaker 1: Though I like, I like putting them work. Then that's
- 53:44Speaker 1: a job I like doing. Yo.
- 53:47Speaker 4: It's like I will say, like it's been like the
- 53:49Speaker 4: times where like Joe, she tried to get shit started,
- 53:52Speaker 4: but then I was like dead tired.
- 53:54Speaker 1: And then I'll be sitting here and say some ship,
- 53:56Speaker 1: say the ship to me? She was like I did.
- 53:58Speaker 1: I was like, I found it. I'm sorry. It's like
- 54:00Speaker 1: you ain't want to wake up, like you ain't want
- 54:02Speaker 1: to wake up like I.
- 54:04Speaker 4: Was out, probably like the first like the first night,
- 54:07Speaker 4: the first couple of weeks he was home, and it's
- 54:09Speaker 4: like I've been up, like being up like non stop.
- 54:12Speaker 1: And then it's like, so I'm curious, as married folks,
- 54:17Speaker 1: how does that? How does the work? Now that you
- 54:20Speaker 1: have a pretty sleeping like right at the foot all
- 54:22Speaker 1: bed man, it still works?
- 54:25Speaker 2: Look down one damn standing up in the crib.
- 54:28Speaker 4: Like I'm gonna tell you know, I'm gonna tell you
- 54:32Speaker 4: the truth, like I try to move like I like
- 54:34Speaker 4: I tried to move the crib like I moved because
- 54:41Speaker 4: because because the one that the last thing I need
- 54:44Speaker 4: is for like the last thing I needed him to like,
- 54:45Speaker 4: you know, like be woken emotion.
- 54:49Speaker 1: No, it's not even that.
- 54:50Speaker 4: It's like he he'll do this thing where he turned
- 54:53Speaker 4: like he'll because it's kind of like off kilter a
- 54:56Speaker 4: little bit, he'll slide like he'll slide to the back
- 54:59Speaker 4: like he'll slide to the back of it.
- 55:00Speaker 1: And then it's like a ship because you hear him
- 55:04Speaker 1: and we're sitting there.
- 55:05Speaker 4: Like just waiting like like like he ain't gonna wake up,
- 55:13Speaker 4: you know.
- 55:13Speaker 1: No, I say exactly what it's gonna be. They gonna
- 55:15Speaker 1: be a teenager. He's gonna be good. He good and grown,
- 55:19Speaker 1: you know. I was. I was at the end of
- 55:21Speaker 1: the crib watching y'all have sex that one time, right,
- 55:24Speaker 1: I was wild.
- 55:24Speaker 2: With remember something from six months old that nigga.
- 55:27Speaker 4: Is the walk in there every kid, does you know?
- 55:31Speaker 4: I walked in on y'all and I stopped for two seconds.
- 55:33Speaker 1: Look y'all was in there wrestling, but traumatized.
- 55:36Speaker 4: As they get older, they want they want to have
- 55:38Speaker 4: this conversation. Oh listen, Mike business, you understand.
- 55:43Speaker 2: You get over the walking on the parent traumatizing. Take
- 55:47Speaker 2: the visual Jesus I was.
- 55:49Speaker 1: I walked into my sister and had to go drink
- 55:51Speaker 1: alcohol because somebody must fucking discussed. Somebody bring me some reef, please,
- 55:59Speaker 1: I win it. I took a bottle. I took that
- 56:01Speaker 1: bottle of shortening to the head that my mother had
- 56:03Speaker 1: in her house. I said, bitch, I did not need
- 56:06Speaker 1: to see that at all, because I said, one of
- 56:09Speaker 1: y'all was in my mother's bead too, like nasty bitches.
- 56:17Speaker 1: I said, all right, so mm hmm, I'm traumatized.
- 56:24Speaker 2: Like you, nasty b So I'm cool. I'm cool with it,
- 56:29Speaker 2: especially if it's you know, my long term partner and
- 56:32Speaker 2: somebody and we've had the conversation like I said, that
- 56:35Speaker 2: consent is content needed? Okay, consent is needed. There's a
- 56:41Speaker 2: conversation that needs to be had with the person that
- 56:44Speaker 2: you are being intimate with. I't understand why people think,
- 56:46Speaker 2: just because that you're in a relationship with somebody that
- 56:48Speaker 2: you own their body and and they're supposed to do
- 56:51Speaker 2: whatever the hell you want them to do and you
- 56:53Speaker 2: want them to do it, and it don't work like that.
- 56:55Speaker 2: I hate to tell y'all that, sorry, great in the
- 56:57Speaker 2: relationship is such thing.
- 56:59Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's not yeah, and it's not okay, we'll
- 57:01Speaker 4: be saying no, uh no, Jama preserves over here.
- 57:06Speaker 2: It's a such thing as grieping a relationship. And it
- 57:09Speaker 2: goes both ways. Because if I say no once does it,
- 57:12Speaker 2: No means nomige. I don't give a damn. I don't
- 57:15Speaker 2: care if I'm not playing God damn it anyway. But yeah,
- 57:20Speaker 2: I'm cool with it if it's a conversation that we've had,
- 57:24Speaker 2: and I'll let you know. But if I'm dead ass
- 57:26Speaker 2: damn tired and I say no, you're just going to
- 57:29Speaker 2: suck at the fun up, I.
- 57:32Speaker 1: Ain't never so so wait, you did tie, But if
- 57:38Speaker 1: he wanted to do the wicky, would you be opposed
- 57:40Speaker 1: to that that you just lay that.
- 57:45Speaker 4: No, bro, she going she gonna do like hold a
- 57:47Speaker 4: hand like that, like just make it quick, not just.
- 57:50Speaker 1: Make it quick, make me quick.
- 57:52Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know because like I'm gonna
- 57:55Speaker 2: be into it. I don't want you to think I
- 57:56Speaker 2: ain't enjoying it. I need to be.
- 57:59Speaker 4: I No, I will say this like, yeah, you're falling asleep,
- 58:02Speaker 4: like yeah, if you it's no, that's and it's no
- 58:06Speaker 4: emotion like you know, no, like no.
- 58:08Speaker 1: Emotion to the ego. You really your body you know
- 58:14Speaker 1: you might sleep with the body.
- 58:16Speaker 2: Is, but the challenge is really good to you.
- 58:19Speaker 1: Now the challenge is to wake you up.
- 58:23Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 58:24Speaker 4: Now if you already participant, you wasn't only participating, but
- 58:27Speaker 4: then you still kind of sleep or he's gonna like
- 58:30Speaker 4: he gonna he's gonna work. He's gonna try to put
- 58:32Speaker 4: that work in to wake you up, to make you get.
- 58:35Speaker 1: Into it because you like hurry up, you know, like
- 58:39Speaker 1: hurry up.
- 58:41Speaker 4: But yeah, yeah, you say, Look, you can say I'm tired,
- 58:45Speaker 4: you can say I'm sleeping then like I'm like four
- 58:48Speaker 4: strokes sitting.
- 58:48Speaker 1: It's like yeah, don't stop, we got you got me
- 58:54Speaker 1: where I need to go. We are we we are right.
- 58:56Speaker 1: That's like, let's go, let's go.
- 59:00Speaker 4: Nother than the mess up thing is just like when
- 59:02Speaker 4: you get to like when you you know, like by
- 59:05Speaker 4: the time she gets started, Joe, you are most finished.
- 59:08Speaker 1: And it's like he got slowed down and said, what
- 59:12Speaker 1: the fuck is slowed down for? Like I got sw.
- 59:17Speaker 2: I'm about to crash out, bro got slow.
- 59:21Speaker 1: I'm about to be in here crumpingly.
- 59:24Speaker 2: Not crumping.
- 59:29Speaker 1: Like mm hmm, I'm going to roll it. Then, what's next?
- 59:44Speaker 1: Showing the bless her.
- 59:45Speaker 2: Soul lower mercy? Going back to six Brown checks.
- 59:52Speaker 1: Ship, Okay, hold on talking about mm hmm you got
- 59:55Speaker 1: the water from here?
- 59:57Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. My mama left the head. She told me,
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: just boy, the little it's a pump that you can
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: get off.
- 1:00:03Speaker 4: Okay, about to say what the you gonna do?
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: You wanna put on the put on that table?
- 1:00:11Speaker 5: Like, oh god, okay, y'all six brown chicks.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: I secretly married Stretch, a college basketball standout turned convicted
- 1:00:31Speaker 2: drug deal Oh Ship. I had the marriage because he
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: spent five years in prison and we met on Facebook.
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: Stretched at his time and immediately reconnected with the folks
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: and habits that got him locked up in the first
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: the first time. Of course, I'm trying to get him
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: to change. I took him to my family reunion and
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: one of my uncles recognized my husband from his prison days. Stretch,
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: why are you here with my knees? My husband did
- 1:00:56Speaker 2: about face and sprint it to my car. I followed.
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: He told me that my uncle hated him in prison
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: and he left because he didn't want beef. Uncle and
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: his brother told me that Stretch didn't get his nickname
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: because of his height and basketball ability. We used to
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: say he has stretch smokes on his neck because he
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: used to deep throat the goons for commissary. Stretch says,
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: that's a lie and what happened in prison doesn't reflect
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: who I am.
- 1:01:22Speaker 4: Now.
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: Uncle has exposed him to everyone in my family. We're married.
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: I can't walk away without exposing our secret wedding and
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: that could hurt my family too. Advice, Baby, not, you
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: got a throat baby as a husband. Bitch, Hey, it's
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: for the absolutely not. You're not. I don't with red face.
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: No, that's not a blue face.
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: That's not a red face on No, that's I thought
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: that was baby, it is. I don't keep up with
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: these youngins. I thought that was A.
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: That's not his song.
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: Is Dotianna you write my bag? I knew it was
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: something rest cash. Okay, I take that back, I'll use it.
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: I thought it was him and I don't do nothing
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: associated with that.
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: Q and A Hot and ready.
- 1:02:15Speaker 7: I like Little Caesars, Q and A like Little Caesars,
- 1:02:29Speaker 7: Y know.
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: What you do?
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: Okay?
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: So like Little Caesars. Do you know what the thing that.
- 1:02:46Speaker 4: The ship that popped off of my head when he
- 1:02:48Speaker 4: said when he said like ye don't reflect his life.
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: He did it.
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: Whatever they said in the words of Curtis check what
- 1:02:56Speaker 2: they said he did.
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: He did that ship.
- 1:02:59Speaker 4: Hell when my man said, my man said, Yo man,
- 1:03:02Speaker 4: y'all be sucking people, y'all be suck y'all be niggas
- 1:03:04Speaker 4: in jail, he's like nigga, that was jail.
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: Like you, I don't want to talk about stuff like that.
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: So you got grapefruit in and.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: Centrius burn. Now that's as centric as that burn.
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: Listenniga, Cris don't burn, not just nigga. Been getting grape fruity,
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: not need no fruit, nothing around a hole in it.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: I'm not eating time nothing, no don't nutch. No, sister, nigga,
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: you got you're listening, I'm not you.
- 1:03:50Speaker 4: No, I didn't get like apple, no no, no, no no,
- 1:03:56Speaker 4: it's just it's not it's just spelled like yo, like
- 1:03:59Speaker 4: like Juicus bill bro like it just don't burn down
- 1:04:03Speaker 4: there like.
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: They went up the whole. No, no, that's how that's
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: that's what makes it burn.
- 1:04:10Speaker 4: No.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: Usually you know you spray now, you spray the bars
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: with that.
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: You know, you sprey the balls with little but the
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: little like you know, you hit your clown and like
- 1:04:18Speaker 4: that ship hit the balls like nigga, what not your
- 1:04:20Speaker 4: bowls the.
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: P hole, It goes into p hole, which makes it burn.
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: See girls trip my guy.
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: That's what we were talking about.
- 1:04:28Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, no.
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: No. But she wanted she wanted to try though, but
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, the business, right, I
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: don't think you're marriedal sex life, that's discussion.
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: She married, she got a hood, but she do you wondered?
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: Now? I shop y'all on, but I don't need to
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: sort the details.
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: I just don't need to give me a husband.
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna be fucking I say this though, like
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: drained and be drained didn't get up and or to
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: be drained, just to hold him over while I'm cooking
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: those anti drug questions with the friends, smoked weed and
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: she was a puddle on the couch just looking around
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: like she was like she can't talk right now because
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: she smoked weed.
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: And it just left us me and Bag. And I
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: feel like because I was telling the couch like, this
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: is nice, me and me and Bag.
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: That's that's how locked. And I'm trying to be smoke.
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: That's how that's how locked. And I'm trying to puddles
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: on the couch. Don't worry. Once we you know, once
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: we get syndicated, you'll be able to you better indulge again.
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: Want you can quit your job because we took off.
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: Man, it's been like welcome to gym rock. What was it?
- 1:06:06Speaker 4: No?
- 1:06:06Speaker 2: But move?
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: What's the next question?
- 1:06:09Speaker 4: Move? I just say, I mean, I just said, like, yeah,
- 1:06:12Speaker 4: when you when you get married, you gotta be able
- 1:06:15Speaker 4: to you.
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: Know, motherfucker get on my nerves. But goddamn it, we're
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: gonna try some ship. I'm still don't know how I
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: felt about sucking public sex, but stuff in private. I'm
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: not trying to catch a charge now. Maybe on a
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: balcony like I do.
- 1:06:33Speaker 2: Want to do some balcony vacation.
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: I want to try that's on, that's on, that's on
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: the fun it. Listen.
- 1:06:40Speaker 2: I want to try that because I had a balcony
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: when I was on my cruise and youmb person that
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: was in damn room.
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: He was my kid that be kind of go to
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: the go to.
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: The maybe and we was out on that water, especially
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: when it was dunk. I told you, I told you
- 1:06:58Speaker 2: you look straight out there. It's just pitch black, bro.
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: He might he might see another cruise.
- 1:07:02Speaker 4: Ship like way down yonder. I could imagine going out
- 1:07:08Speaker 4: to that balcony that night to get some in all your.
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold your ship there and listen, I
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: ain't even hold.
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: Him sucking shut up, thank you any one time for me?
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: Mm hmmm? Who what time? Let's start?
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: Charlie Brown, hands on your knees, hands on her knees.
- 1:07:46Speaker 2: I can't look, can you go? I can't can you
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: go down on loop rest the beast? No, that's not
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: even thinking about Yeahsta d J. I had two different songs,
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: but I had to tame the time. I had that
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: and a Cupid shuffle in my head at.
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: The same damn time, not to Cupid shuffle, sir.
- 1:08:08Speaker 2: Lord listen, I did a lot of damn line dances
- 1:08:11Speaker 2: on that damn cruise. They was doing line dances every day,
- 1:08:13Speaker 2: and with all right, staying on six brown chicks, were
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: gonna continue with the fuckery. Sonny, my neighbor, always talks
- 1:08:22Speaker 2: bad about my kids to others. They are three and six,
- 1:08:25Speaker 2: She says, My kids are always thirty. My kids play
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: outside hard, and they always beg other neighbors for food.
- 1:08:32Speaker 2: My kids are welfare, but they are greedy. Sonny and
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: her husband have the biggest house on the block, so
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: she has influence in this turn of the neighbors against
- 1:08:39Speaker 2: me and my kids. So I fucked her husband all
- 1:08:41Speaker 2: summer and finally I'm pregnant. He's flipping out and begging
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: me to abort. I slept with him out of spite.
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: But now I like him and I'm keeping our baby.
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: How do I make him and Sonny accept my new
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: addition to their lives. It's important for me that our
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: dirty children grow up together, ma'am. First of all, Miss Milmins,
- 1:09:03Speaker 2: you gonna be an episode of fatal attraction.
- 1:09:07Speaker 4: First of all, he gonna be like he'll be like, hey,
- 1:09:09Speaker 4: let me talk to you on let me talk to
- 1:09:10Speaker 4: you on the stairs, like.
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: But nah, but for real, she was a single mother
- 1:09:21Speaker 2: trying to navigate the whole way through life.
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: Until it's so weird.
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: Here's a story. But this whole ish lady not even sonny.
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: Sonny is the neighbor. But if I was just starting
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: the neighbor him, I beat you and my husband ask
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: and he can come over and look with you in
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: the dirty children. Yep, they ain't gonna play in my face.
- 1:09:49Speaker 2: Mm hmm, absolutely not, absolutely the fucking up mum. And
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: then he wants you to aboard, but he wasn't thinking
- 1:09:56Speaker 2: about you aboard me. He was running up and you
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: raw make that makes sense with a with a wife,
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: with the whole wife and then go home to sleeping
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: with his wife too. That's what pisses me off about you, sorry,
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: is thinking dirty, trifling, uncooth motherfucker's got a straight up
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: out head fucking around and then you're fucking around road.
- 1:10:12Speaker 2: So you're putting my risk, my life at risk because
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: you wanna be a dirty bastard.
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: Some things you just can't come back from and getting them.
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: Bitch pregnant is one of them.
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: But I'm not Rashida.
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: My name Rashia.
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: I don't wrap like shorty Love. There's no way how
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: that you're gonna be humiliating me on national TV every
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: week and all over Atlanta, Atlanta, playing in my loddamn base,
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: and I'm gonna stay with you, absolutely the fucking not.
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: I take you for everything you got, including a seventeen
- 1:10:48Speaker 2: of them ear rings in your fucking heads. Sorry, sham,
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: do not be like Rasheeda Sonny let dirt dirt and
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: her dirt dirt. Kids have him, not to have him
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: got I have them, but make sure you take every
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: damn thing he got before you a lot to have him,
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: and you keep that big house for yourself. And if
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: y'all got your own children, mm hmm and ms mama's
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: what goes around comes around. I'm a true believer in karma.
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: You won't coming to you, booky boo.
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: M m. What's next? Seen?
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: I don't know because off doll And gave her name,
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: I don't know if that's her damn name. I don't
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: know if that's her damn name. I will run my
- 1:11:35Speaker 2: ass back to Reddit right quick. Another label not Safe
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: for work, which is not that damn serious. This comes
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: from the ak creddit thread and the question is how
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: do you feel about music during sex? I'm gonna expand
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: on that. Okay, what kind of music? How do you
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: feel about music? And what kind of music do you
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: like to play? If you like music?
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: So I love music during sex. I also because I
- 1:12:05Speaker 1: have plugs for everything. I like R and B, slow
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: jams and ship. I can't listen to the future. I
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: know people who can fuck the future, and I.
- 1:12:13Speaker 2: Got to miss the nasty times and.
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: Uh fucking migos and audit. Now my place is called
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: choking stroke. It is yeah, yeah, I got one time. Yeah.
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: Now.
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: I think the probably the closest into a rap song
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: there is pull My Hair by the Ying Yang Twins
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: because it just hits, hits, hit the spot now that
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: but you get the groove going a little bitch way.
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: They can see pull my hell. Okay, So yeah, I
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: enjoy R and B and the I mean you can
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: say a little ratchet tune in there. That's switching stroke
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: every now and again. But yeah, choky strokes been doing
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: me right for years. And it's to the point where
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: people on Apple who don't even know if they found
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: the place, and they followed, I.
- 1:13:08Speaker 2: Need to write to song the slide and there I
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: recommend miss pussy by applies.
- 1:13:13Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, now you know my favorite like
- 1:13:15Speaker 4: my top, like my tops on h four walls by
- 1:13:20Speaker 4: by pretty welly pretty welly my bad, my bad p
- 1:13:25Speaker 4: dub a k A pretty willy pretty well what they
- 1:13:28Speaker 4: called him dude like.
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: Because he said he sampled, Uh he sampled michel A.
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: Something in my heart. M hm hmm.
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: That's the rushing Well okay, so question, what are some
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: of your favorite adult happy fun time songs?
- 1:13:46Speaker 4: Four was So Anxious, Secret Garden, the justin Stimulate, Ends
- 1:13:55Speaker 4: of Time.
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good one. No, Beyonce, no offense.
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: I actually like the original version. Now I actually do
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: like the remix. It's a tie between the two for
- 1:14:07Speaker 2: me because I was already in love with the song
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: before they did the remix with Speechless. Their voices sound
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: good together.
- 1:14:16Speaker 4: Yeah, Beyonce Speechless, that's a good one. Of course, you
- 1:14:21Speaker 4: know the usual cater to you as it was, got
- 1:14:24Speaker 4: it was okay.
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: Let me expand on your list. You got to throw
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dirty thirty in there by.
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: Tank was a dirty chinagulatory.
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: When we by Tank Mirror by Neo Say It by Neo.
- 1:14:48Speaker 4: Uh.
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: Also like said by t Pain.
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: Take You Down by Chris Brown.
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: That's a good one.
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: Uh if you're going old school. Uh, Love Won't let
- 1:15:05Speaker 2: Me Wait by Luther Trying off the Lights about Teddy Pendergrad.
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: Oh god O Brothers Summer Breeze.
- 1:15:18Speaker 2: Between the Sheets. No, because well that's that's a romantic song.
- 1:15:25Speaker 2: So I do like Boys to Atlantis. Yes, that's one
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: of my favorite brother songs.
- 1:15:30Speaker 4: Actually, reasons after the Love is Gone, not as.
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: Ask yourself about right hand, ask yourself question. I had
- 1:15:49Speaker 2: to think for a second. Yeah, I love I like that.
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: I like ask yourself.
- 1:15:52Speaker 4: Actually you actually you can put you can put everything
- 1:15:56Speaker 4: after after uh.
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: The you know, after that little boom boom boom, but
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: you know, breathe.
- 1:16:08Speaker 2: I got some stuff from hold on.
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: Let me so sence y'all the name about sixty dev
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: me name a few minds. So Liquid Lava Love by
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: Kevin Michael featuring Claude or Tis from City High.
- 1:16:19Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna pull it up.
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: I also have uh when We by Tank Try Effortless
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: by Division. The Consequences of Jealousy by the Robert Gleasper
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: experiment featuring Michellan and degio Cello. Belonged to You by
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: Sabrina Claudio, Dripped by Luke James, Backstroke by Taser Moses
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: and Drameda in the Milkway by Michelle and de gio
- 1:16:41Speaker 1: Cello Skin by Rihanna, Feel My Love All on the
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: Side by Marvin Gaye, how about five We Make by
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: He's the Maxwell. That's why we Like All in My
- 1:16:50Speaker 1: Head by Sir h Can Blena Barrett.
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: Stay on, Sir, That's why. That's why I love him.
- 1:16:57Speaker 4: That's why I love That's why I love you by
- 1:16:58Speaker 4: Him Audio You got Us?
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: Can I? I said? Can I? By Leaning Barrats, Focused
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: by Her What's Good by Party next Door, The Pressure
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: by Joanne i Eko play by gopol CPR by some
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: Walk I Have.
- 1:17:15Speaker 4: I love both of them like Yeah, ab Fan Like
- 1:17:18Speaker 4: ib fan Boy Overland and Jasmine.
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: Sullivan Jamazing.
- 1:17:24Speaker 2: I thought I hated it, but love You.
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: Don is a cover vibe ready for the world that
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: she did Michelle did in the Super Slinky Slow Down
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: Soul Sister by Ba Laud, Knocking the Boost by h
- 1:17:33Speaker 1: Town of Course of course, Wicked Games by by the Weekends.
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: Wicked Games Trading Places by Lussier, Say Yes by flore
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: The Canvas by Sir, Red Melody by Sir's Cousin Tiffany Goshet,
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: Falling by Leisure, Do It Well by Division the Recipe
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: by Sir. Day Party by Destin Conrad, Oh Oh, I
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: love that song Men have met the Day Party.
- 1:18:02Speaker 8: I have.
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: To switch up the tempo.
- 1:18:07Speaker 2: By Boys Men.
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: That's a classic.
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: Don't say yes just I mean, don't say no, Just
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: say yes by Making Good Love and Read your Mind
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: by Back to Sleep the remix, the original and the Remix.
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: What Else I Got on Here? Rocket by Beyonce, Oh
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: I got bid on here? I don't think I don't
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: remember bad in bed, but okay because it annoys men sometimes?
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: Do you remember? By Genuine? All night and all day?
- 1:18:37Speaker 2: By Genuine and let's go down to us your baby?
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: I got Can you handle it? That's what it's made for.
- 1:18:43Speaker 2: Do it to me? And seduction? What else?
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: Uh?
- 1:18:47Speaker 2: Should I got? The whispers on this motherfucker in the
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: move say yes and do I turn you on?
- 1:18:53Speaker 4: Uh?
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: In the middle of Love Faces by Trey Song I
- 1:19:00Speaker 2: had Love Cause by Kim I don't, but I'm gonna
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: add that I got with you. But that's my ship.
- 1:19:07Speaker 2: I got I got by Campbe when he had a
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: business thinking about school like some own work, Yes, school
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: like after school, like some homework. Am I kidding you?
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: Oh?
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: I got Crown World by Jill Scott. I got So
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: Gone by Jill Scott. Uh would you mind? By Janet Jackson. Baby,
- 1:19:30Speaker 2: you cannot have a freak list without having some jan
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: that on them. I got Freaking You and Fiend and
- 1:19:34Speaker 2: by Joe the scene if Only for One Night by Luther.
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: Let's Ride by Montelu Jordan, that's my ship getting late
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: and say yes by flow A. Try giving him something
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: he can feel.
- 1:19:48Speaker 9: Uh.
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: In Vogue version, I don't have to read the version
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: on here, but I might have to download that.
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: I feel like would kind of throw you off all
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: that screaming. I love reading Queen Ring, but but invo version.
- 1:20:00Speaker 2: I've studied this, I think of stuff I just add
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: it is the wholest version is very sexual sensual. I
- 1:20:05Speaker 2: might just keep adding stuff as I think of it,
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: Like if something popping on on my randoms, I'm like,
- 1:20:10Speaker 2: even though you know again some of it.
- 1:20:13Speaker 4: So don't forget, you know, if you just want to
- 1:20:15Speaker 4: switch that tempover Booty Collins, I'd right to be with you.
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: I need to that. I love me some booty carry
- 1:20:22Speaker 2: Holston's energy mm hmm. And then that's a good Oh
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: carry Holsten slow dance. That's that's that's a good one.
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: That's what a god don't want to be on that stage.
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: When she performed that one, I was like, dance is
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: a good one. Mm hm, it's a good one. Yeah.
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: But listen, yeah, y'all, y'all, y'all young kids. I don't
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: know what y'all do. Y'all, y'all, be y'all be playing.
- 1:20:54Speaker 2: That's my ship. I love that damn song.
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: Oh wait, naming hit that bad? Well, if it's small,
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: hold on away, I'm going and I might have he
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: might have punched you something, but punch Somebody lied about
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: having body parts that they said they didn't have. But
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: mom ain't raised no bitch, so.
- 1:21:15Speaker 6: That bit.
- 1:21:16Speaker 1: It's been a while, but let's see what the shape.
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: I'm already send some down here. I'm adding stuff to
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: my choke and Struck playlist because I updated it in
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: about a year. One of my favorite sexy songs the
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: Painties by Most Death.
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.
- 1:21:37Speaker 1: Have you heard that song? That's probably my favorite most
- 1:21:41Speaker 1: death song, favorite most dep song. All right, so what's next?
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: Shown the chad? I forgot what I was right, abble.
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Jesus Christ, I'm going back to sixth Brown Checks.
- 1:22:01Speaker 2: We need to park read to break this, Yes.
- 1:22:02Speaker 4: We do, because it's starting to get little sex, little
- 1:22:04Speaker 4: sexy sex, nasty, nasty.
- 1:22:10Speaker 2: I'm going back to six Brown Chicks. I cheated on
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: my husband during COVID lockdown. I apologized, I ended that relationship.
- 1:22:18Speaker 2: I've also done things suspice if our marriage, including bringing
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: a dominatrix home for his birthday.
- 1:22:23Speaker 1: WHOA Okay.
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: Our seventh anniversary is approaching, and I asked him what
- 1:22:27Speaker 2: we should do me, what do you fantasize about him?
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: Life without you? He served me divorce papers a month
- 1:22:36Speaker 2: before our anniversary. Our wedding vowels may mean may nothing,
- 1:22:41Speaker 2: but death divide us meant nothing to him. He's a
- 1:22:44Speaker 2: narcissistic monster, and he's divorcing me to embarrass me in
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: front of my friends and family. I don't know how
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: to heal our marriage. I'm willing to fight for him.
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: What to do.
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: You can do? Let him go?
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: Yeah, let him let him go. Baby.
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: One thing my mama always told me is you don't
- 1:23:01Speaker 1: work to keep nobody that don't want to be fucking kept,
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: and you don't mother wants to let your ass go.
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: And you don't let the motherfucker tell you more than
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: once they don't want you.
- 1:23:10Speaker 1: Let that man go.
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: Well, I feel like he only stayed with you because
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: he had no other options, and you bringing to dominate
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: your tone and all of the other stuff. He just
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: was riding it out and literally and now ms Mama's
- 1:23:33Speaker 2: you screwed. You worried about being in bursed in front
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: of your family and friends, with you emburrased when you
- 1:23:37Speaker 2: was out here cheating doing the panoramic some Yeah, I
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: mean like you you you was out here cheating during
- 1:23:48Speaker 2: the lockdown. You're supposed to be in the house, coudled
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: over with your husband.
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: Maybe she got tired of being coled up with that
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: niggas like nigga fuck you.
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: That's why I always say that people discovered during COVID
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: that they didn't like they spouse it. That's sure their
- 1:24:01Speaker 2: children the doll the road to be part of this ship. Yeah,
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: but now you want to work your maritonne. You don't
- 1:24:08Speaker 2: give a fuck. You want to think about working your
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: maritone when you was out here hunching. So get what
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: you got, baby, ain't no fun. When the rabbits got
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: the gun, who well, who well.
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: It is what it is, and what can you say?
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: Let that nigga go half fun? But my thing is
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: joe y'all.
- 1:24:28Speaker 4: Let them go and be and be okay with like
- 1:24:32Speaker 4: and be okay with the consequences, like you know whatever's
- 1:24:34Speaker 4: gonna happen after that, because what I heard was I
- 1:24:37Speaker 4: don't want to do it because you know he gonna
- 1:24:40Speaker 4: is gonna embarrass me and ship like that that you
- 1:24:42Speaker 4: get over that, Yeah, get over it, because if you keep,
- 1:24:45Speaker 4: if you keep letting that fear, you keep letting that
- 1:24:47Speaker 4: fear fuck with you, or like you don't keep letting
- 1:24:49Speaker 4: it fear get to you, you're not You're gonna stay
- 1:24:51Speaker 4: in some ship that you don't want to stay in,
- 1:24:53Speaker 4: that you don't want to I mean, that's not I'm sorry,
- 1:24:55Speaker 4: not that you don't want to stay in, but it's
- 1:24:56Speaker 4: not healthy for you because you just you just described.
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: Start on syndrome. Bitch. I really want to fight for him. No, no, no,
- 1:25:03Speaker 1: you don't, hey don't you just right? You just right?
- 1:25:06Speaker 4: Probably a good man, Savannah, but it's probably just a
- 1:25:09Speaker 4: fair of being alone. I get it, but I don't
- 1:25:13Speaker 4: get it that.
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, checond to last question. Okay, I'm check it
- 1:25:20Speaker 2: out with a bank. I've been the other woman in
- 1:25:23Speaker 2: every relationship I've ever had. I chose this. It's beneficial
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: to me. Honestly, I prefer receiving the excitement a cheating
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: man brings to my bed. But I'm also a woman's advocate.
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: How the work. I'm working hard to change the loss
- 1:25:39Speaker 2: so that side chicks can get financial benefits when they
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: have a baby or when their boyfriend benefactor dies. In March,
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: my boyfriend slash benefactor, and I were in a head
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: on collision with an uninsured drunk driver. I injured my back.
- 1:25:54Speaker 2: I was leaning over when the crash happened, leaning over house.
- 1:25:58Speaker 2: Since I wonder he sustained minor injuries, he never checked
- 1:26:03Speaker 2: on me. I was screaming in agony, and he literally
- 1:26:05Speaker 2: walked away from the crash site and phoned his wife
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: to tell her that he loves her and he's okay.
- 1:26:11Speaker 1: Just put it in your mind.
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: The drunk guy up now. She walked out looking like Shamal.
- 1:26:18Speaker 2: The drunk guy.
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: I was like, I can't ship. I take I take
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: this from that one.
- 1:26:31Speaker 7: I can't.
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: You should have said that.
- 1:26:36Speaker 2: Beat my ast. The drunk guy, the police and the
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: ambulance and my rehabilitation drove him away from me. I'm
- 1:26:47Speaker 2: in physical therapy and unable to date or secure funds
- 1:26:50Speaker 2: to leave. I know he loves me. I think he's
- 1:26:53Speaker 2: still in shock and I want him to step up
- 1:26:55Speaker 2: and care for me, but he won't do it. How
- 1:26:57Speaker 2: do I reach him?
- 1:27:00Speaker 1: You can't, you can't.
- 1:27:02Speaker 4: He knew he was already doing some ship he wasn't
- 1:27:04Speaker 4: supposed to be doing, and he got he got fucked up.
- 1:27:07Speaker 4: That was it.
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: He probably took that as a sign from God, like, bitch,
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: you need to stop.
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: A hit it on collision with a drunk driver. Do
- 1:27:13Speaker 2: you know how often people survived that?
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: Yeah you blessed nigga. He yeah, he done.
- 1:27:19Speaker 2: You should be lucky to be alive.
- 1:27:21Speaker 4: You.
- 1:27:21Speaker 2: If he taking it as a sign to do right
- 1:27:22Speaker 2: by his wife, you probably shoul take it as a
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: sign and to stop being a fucking fucking asparagus or
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: potato salad o cold.
- 1:27:31Speaker 1: Oh. I got it. I got it. I was like
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: what Yeah? I was like, I was like, what a
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: couple of seconds, A couple of seconds, A couple.
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: Of seconds, you almost lost your life.
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be able to do it. I'm sorry, No,
- 1:27:49Speaker 1: thank you.
- 1:27:50Speaker 2: Ms Mama's learn your lesson.
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, move on, it's over. It's over. He
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: went back, He went back home.
- 1:27:58Speaker 2: He went back home to where he really want to be.
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: Sugar, that's my as somebody in my circle.
- 1:28:04Speaker 4: You know, she don't listen to this anyway, but her boyfriend,
- 1:28:06Speaker 4: you know, he he passed and you know, once he
- 1:28:09Speaker 4: told her that he was, that he was on his
- 1:28:10Speaker 4: way out.
- 1:28:11Speaker 1: He stayed with his wife and he never.
- 1:28:12Speaker 4: Come back around, and she ain't. She found out after
- 1:28:16Speaker 4: He was like, you know, like months after he was gone.
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: But I'm dizzy, bitch. This is this is this, this
- 1:28:25Speaker 1: ship is uh, it's over between y'all, so just let
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: it go. Just let it go. He didn't already made
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: he made his He almost died. I mean, he could
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: have died with you, bitch, And he was like, that's
- 1:28:38Speaker 1: too much.
- 1:28:39Speaker 2: I'm gonna finish this on.
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: I know.
- 1:28:41Speaker 2: Miss Mama's sorry for you, bitch. Better go get a
- 1:28:46Speaker 2: job and the cost and where you can sit down
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: there Okay, final question. I'm gonna just stay where the
- 1:28:54Speaker 2: fuck I am going. Six brown chicks. We entered our
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: second year of dating, and whenever my birth they comes up,
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: he starts an argument to mess up my dad or
- 1:29:03Speaker 2: to avoid buying me a gift. I wanted to know
- 1:29:06Speaker 2: how to proceed with him, so I set him up.
- 1:29:09Speaker 2: I told him and posted that I was going out
- 1:29:10Speaker 2: of town for my birthday. An hour after I left,
- 1:29:14Speaker 2: I hid in an addict. He entered my house with
- 1:29:17Speaker 2: another woman. I heard everything. They had sex, and he
- 1:29:20Speaker 2: told her he was staying with me until he found
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: a better situation. He brought money from her and then
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: made her take it oober home. He didn't shower, and
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: then called another woman, telling her that his bitch is
- 1:29:33Speaker 2: out of town and to come through. This woman was
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: a neighbor. I was in shock. I felt hurt, stupid, angry,
- 1:29:40Speaker 2: and disgusted. I was packing his shit when he came
- 1:29:43Speaker 2: home with the female neighbor. They tried to fight me,
- 1:29:47Speaker 2: so I shot him in his arm and shoulder and
- 1:29:50Speaker 2: self defense. No charges. When he left the hospital, I
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: let him stay while he healed. He's timid now, even
- 1:29:57Speaker 2: jumpy around me.
- 1:29:59Speaker 5: It breaks my heart, the.
- 1:30:03Speaker 2: Manly version of him. But I know he's actively trying
- 1:30:05Speaker 2: to stay with my neighbor. I don't want to lose
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: him to her. How to convince him to stay with
- 1:30:09Speaker 2: me and that I won't shoot him again. I want
- 1:30:12Speaker 2: us to get past this because I believe God brought
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: us together for a reason. Advice, bitch, don't bring guarding
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: to that. Guard ain't nowhere near that, just like and.
- 1:30:24Speaker 1: Just like uh.
- 1:30:27Speaker 2: Denise said, or misspet show, gard ain't nowhere near that,
- 1:30:31Speaker 2: just like he ain't nowhere near Joe Hol's thing. Okay,
- 1:30:35Speaker 2: that's what she said. Let me say something not the
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: neighbor having bitch, I don't understand why Yucky fight for
- 1:30:48Speaker 2: motherfuckers who don't want y'all. He bought not one, but
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: two bitches in your house while you was gone, refer
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: to you as this bitch being out of town, told
- 1:30:57Speaker 2: the last bitch that he was only staying with you
- 1:31:00Speaker 2: until he get into a better situation. So they showed her.
- 1:31:02Speaker 2: He a fuck ass nigga right there, and you want
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: to fight for him, and you think Jesus brought him
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: to you, baby, He came from the devil m kam.
- 1:31:17Speaker 1: The fuck. How many don't stand up, because I swear
- 1:31:22Speaker 1: we would have chefs to talk about with you. I
- 1:31:24Speaker 1: wouldn't keep these asked questions the primise always say yourself and.
- 1:31:28Speaker 2: Stay being the dumb ass bitch. We appreciate the entertainment
- 1:31:30Speaker 2: because the fuck.
- 1:31:32Speaker 1: Uh what.
- 1:31:35Speaker 2: It's on? Confusion?
- 1:31:36Speaker 1: You going to jail?
- 1:31:38Speaker 4: Mm hm South Defense and know it's a no she eventually,
- 1:31:42Speaker 4: or she's gonna go to jail, or that she's gonna
- 1:31:44Speaker 4: catch up because she obviously can't control her temper. But
- 1:31:47Speaker 4: then she also has abandoning issues, and then it's like, bro,
- 1:31:51Speaker 4: y'all make your mind.
- 1:31:52Speaker 1: Up, or you know, just take that L. Like to
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: take the l. You don't need them, you know. I mean,
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: I'm sorry you you don't. You don't want him. You
- 1:32:00Speaker 1: just like the idea of him, and you don't want
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: him to be with nobody else. Mm hmmm, open that open.
- 1:32:08Speaker 2: That cage, multiple bitches in your home. Your home is
- 1:32:11Speaker 2: supposed to be your sanctuary, and he has no respect
- 1:32:16Speaker 2: for you.
- 1:32:16Speaker 4: And I ain't trying to hear that dumb ship like
- 1:32:18Speaker 4: I invested. I invested so many years in them, Like
- 1:32:23Speaker 4: let that ship the fuck go, let him go.
- 1:32:24Speaker 2: He she is in a lot of ship. They don't
- 1:32:26Speaker 2: give it of no use. The motherfucker's investigators in a
- 1:32:30Speaker 2: degree they don't use. And you're ready about.
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: Him, Okay, Seana, on one today people got degrees and
- 1:32:46Speaker 1: even you shout out to chasing mellow.
- 1:32:57Speaker 2: No, miss Mama's take.
- 1:32:58Speaker 1: Cut your losses about fuck him like you shot him
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: in his arm.
- 1:33:04Speaker 2: And the shoulder.
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: You could have hit an article in that bitch, but
- 1:33:09Speaker 1: you know how.
- 1:33:11Speaker 2: You then what you can be crying over the casket.
- 1:33:14Speaker 2: Didn't want to let him come home with you while
- 1:33:15Speaker 2: he healed. Now send him to one of them bitches. Stuff.
- 1:33:20Speaker 2: At least one of them is as dumb as you
- 1:33:21Speaker 2: because he bought money from her and then sent her
- 1:33:23Speaker 2: home and over that she probably paid for. Funk out
- 1:33:26Speaker 2: of here. Earl girl, get some self esteem. Our haird
- 1:33:31Speaker 2: is on sale. G's some self esteem two for one.
- 1:33:35Speaker 2: It's at the same place that all dasty is. But
- 1:33:37Speaker 2: all Dasty is sold out right now because everybody keep
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: buying the ship, apparently because there's a lot of it
- 1:33:43Speaker 2: going around. Okay, true ship, Okay, that's all right.
- 1:33:49Speaker 1: That's the last question.
- 1:33:50Speaker 2: The last question. I am done.
- 1:33:52Speaker 1: That's the last question. That was the last one. He said,
- 1:33:55Speaker 1: she said she wanted to go out on north than me.
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I.
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: Thought it a number one in there for a little sure.
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: Since okay, y, let's make this next one the last one,
- 1:34:07Speaker 1: since you got one.
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: Queued up already, I got one queued up, and it's
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: on the right thread, not on the six brown halfless.
- 1:34:12Speaker 1: Okay, this may be slightly better. Possibly this is.
- 1:34:19Speaker 2: On the x men thread. But again, questions are universal.
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: What advice would you give to someone who found out
- 1:34:26Speaker 2: that their fiance used to make not safer work content
- 1:34:30Speaker 2: before they met them?
- 1:34:34Speaker 1: What you're sharing the link or kept all the time out? Look?
- 1:34:40Speaker 1: Say what, here's the thing right this nigga would be
- 1:34:46Speaker 1: coming down the steps right now? All right? Damn well,
- 1:34:51Speaker 1: since you come to that steption, I'm gonnay it anyway.
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: How long ago? How long ago was this?
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: That's a good question.
- 1:34:58Speaker 1: Now if this is something now, if we thirty six,
- 1:35:00Speaker 1: thirty seven years old, they were, and you did something
- 1:35:03Speaker 1: when you was eighteen, you was in.
- 1:35:07Speaker 2: Financial street.
- 1:35:08Speaker 1: No, I was gonna say the name of a company,
- 1:35:11Speaker 1: but you wouldn't want to see this, so don't don't
- 1:35:13Speaker 1: look it up. I'm telling you, really, you don't want
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: to see what I'm about to say. You was in
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: the coco doing laying and low and spreading and wide
- 1:35:20Speaker 1: on webcam.
- 1:35:22Speaker 2: Then get that, I mean took it back, take it back.
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: No, no neighbor number homos and they bumping and spit
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: inside each other. So you try to look for that
- 1:35:39Speaker 1: because you need some bread. Now, bang bus might be
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: more on your speed for you. I'm just I'm just saying, everybody,
- 1:35:58Speaker 1: your motherfucker. I'm sorry. We don't advocate foot there.
- 1:36:04Speaker 2: So my good cocoa butter.
- 1:36:08Speaker 1: Yeah, oh big assase.
- 1:36:23Speaker 2: The reality kings.
- 1:36:27Speaker 1: See later like Hunter.
- 1:36:34Speaker 2: That I never got.
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: I never got in the older older women, that's it's
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: really my thing.
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: I wanted to say, all look at my own they don't.
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: They don't bathroom upstairs, it's sairs. Oh man, I'm sorry,
- 1:36:49Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: I didn't to do that.
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: I really didn't. I was just talking and it just
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: really came out.
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: But like the brown wine from Brandon.
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: I had one glass of wine when we first started
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: recording son a couple hours ago, a couple seven you know,
- 1:37:09Speaker 1: whenever we started recording checked us out. I literally had
- 1:37:14Speaker 1: that ended in ginger. I had nothing sis but no
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: how long ago? Was it? What were you doing in
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: the content because you was fucking fucking cats dogs or
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: some ship didn't? No, no, no, but what how long ago?
- 1:37:30Speaker 2: What was it?
- 1:37:31Speaker 1: Is it still online so I could see it.
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: And research purposes?
- 1:37:36Speaker 1: Research purposes, you know, I want to see you know
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: what you was doing when you were younger, and if
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: you're still doing it with me, if we can incorporate
- 1:37:41Speaker 1: some stuff now, yeah, what else? And if do you
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: my partner, mean, we've already we already had the s
- 1:37:52Speaker 1: T I S T I H I V conversation, so
- 1:37:55Speaker 1: that's already been had. What else? What would you? I
- 1:38:05Speaker 1: also and hate I hate to be this person, but
- 1:38:09Speaker 1: I have to weigh me being in proximity to someone
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: unfortunately I hate. I have to say this with the
- 1:38:22Speaker 1: job I have, I have to weigh me being in
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: proximity to someone who did that at one point and
- 1:38:29Speaker 1: how that could affect me professionally, especially if you was
- 1:38:34Speaker 1: just doing it last year or you was blessing open
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: on only fans or just for friends last year. So yeah,
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: we can't have a questions. It might be okay. And
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: if it was like you know, some solo content you
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: did when you were eighteen or you thirty seven and
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: you you off making you know it was fully like
- 1:38:50Speaker 1: you had a like your face was never shown and whatever,
- 1:38:54Speaker 1: then coolest it was never linked to your name and
- 1:38:56Speaker 1: potentially fine, But there are some questions that may affect
- 1:38:59Speaker 1: me in my personal livelihood that I have to consider.
- 1:39:02Speaker 1: And it's not to say it's an automatic chop, but
- 1:39:04Speaker 1: it would be definitely be a conversation.
- 1:39:06Speaker 2: Conversation. I agree that conversation needs to be had. I
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: need to know what and who you were doing exactly
- 1:39:13Speaker 2: you were doing, who you were doing it with. Uh,
- 1:39:15Speaker 2: you ain't got name the names, but I need I
- 1:39:17Speaker 2: need to know. I need to know if animals were involved,
- 1:39:20Speaker 2: because ship, because baby, if you was, if you was
- 1:39:25Speaker 2: hunching on horses and dogs and choking chickens and ship,
- 1:39:29Speaker 2: I ain't doing it. I'm sorry. I ain't gonna judge you,
- 1:39:34Speaker 2: but I can't do it because the way my mind works,
- 1:39:37Speaker 2: it's gonna always be in the back of my mind,
- 1:39:38Speaker 2: and I don't like that, and I'm gonna be questioning
- 1:39:40Speaker 2: a lot of things. Somebody out there may be able
- 1:39:46Speaker 2: to handle you, and I wish you the best. I
- 1:39:49Speaker 2: don't know. That's just like women who dates strippers. I
- 1:39:54Speaker 2: couldn't see myself knowing it because every night women get
- 1:39:59Speaker 2: to see what I lay with every damn night, and
- 1:40:01Speaker 2: I don't want to hear that. Oh but I come
- 1:40:03Speaker 2: home and lay next to you every night.
- 1:40:05Speaker 1: Know what if it was a difference between somebody who
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: was like a burlesque dancer where they stayed on the
- 1:40:09Speaker 1: stage and no one got no one interacted with them,
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: it was just like like like a go go dancer
- 1:40:13Speaker 1: for example, where he's in a cage.
- 1:40:16Speaker 2: Are they straight go go dancers?
- 1:40:22Speaker 1: I know it's women go go dances. I know this
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: is gate ones, but I guess it would be.
- 1:40:26Speaker 2: I don't know about any straight man. I don't know.
- 1:40:28Speaker 2: I'm not sure. But anyway, that was just a question.
- 1:40:31Speaker 2: I was just wondering. But yeah, I don't know, because
- 1:40:34Speaker 2: I being somebody who've been to some parties with strippers.
- 1:40:38Speaker 2: They they yeah, they you ain't gonna be coming home
- 1:40:44Speaker 2: with me if you had your face burdens bitch as
- 1:40:46Speaker 2: all night. I'm sorry, these strips nasty, nasty, whole face
- 1:40:54Speaker 2: his head okay mm hmm. So me for only the
- 1:41:00Speaker 2: advice I would give you is if this is something
- 1:41:02Speaker 2: you ask have the conversation. Ask the questions. Make sure
- 1:41:06Speaker 2: you ask all of the questions. Don't wait six months
- 1:41:08Speaker 2: later and be like you know why and by the way,
- 1:41:10Speaker 2: right don't know. If you say you want to accept
- 1:41:13Speaker 2: it and willing to move on in the relationship, do
- 1:41:14Speaker 2: not ever bring it up again. It does not need
- 1:41:16Speaker 2: to be discussed again.
- 1:41:17Speaker 1: You can bring it up the way of asking. You
- 1:41:19Speaker 1: can ask questions for clarification, not to come off like
- 1:41:23Speaker 1: your question in the person because you're insecure about the
- 1:41:25Speaker 1: decision you ultimately yeah, I can see that.
- 1:41:30Speaker 4: I just I don't know, you know, I just think
- 1:41:33Speaker 4: that I just think, like it really does, I mean,
- 1:41:38Speaker 4: it really does come down.
- 1:41:39Speaker 1: To what what are you? Like, what's your hard line
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: on everybody on this one? Like, yo, what is your
- 1:41:47Speaker 1: hard line? And like what like what you know?
- 1:41:49Speaker 4: Because like it goes up there with the same kind
- 1:41:52Speaker 4: of conversation with if if a person doesn't want to
- 1:41:55Speaker 4: have kids, like are you still like are you still
- 1:41:57Speaker 4: willing to be with this person?
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: Like yo?
- 1:41:59Speaker 4: Just because they then did some ship like Briandon said, look,
- 1:42:01Speaker 4: I just want to know what it was that you like,
- 1:42:04Speaker 4: what it was that you were doing, so you know,
- 1:42:07Speaker 4: like morally because I mean you know that, like because
- 1:42:10Speaker 4: you was doing some bcality type ship. It's like, all right,
- 1:42:14Speaker 4: see certain things that I'm just not into, like and
- 1:42:18Speaker 4: I think I think like you know, and Sean a
- 1:42:21Speaker 4: case of if he if he was doing you know,
- 1:42:24Speaker 4: if he was if he was he was gay pay.
- 1:42:31Speaker 1: Like people have things they are not what I'm saying.
- 1:42:33Speaker 2: It was like, what the like, what's the such a thing?
- 1:42:37Speaker 2: Sucking dick for money? Absolutely not sex. You're absolutely right.
- 1:42:44Speaker 2: You have fifteen years damn.
- 1:42:50Speaker 1: But you were still you were still eating snatches, just bro,
- 1:42:52Speaker 1: so I'm good.
- 1:42:53Speaker 2: Listen here I was if you you try, what if
- 1:43:01Speaker 2: you suck, if you suck one dick, that'll make you gay?
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: Ship sir.
- 1:43:08Speaker 2: You were like, I'll be.
- 1:43:11Speaker 1: No, thank you you mad. I could do it better
- 1:43:13Speaker 1: than you you might. That's what it is like.
- 1:43:17Speaker 2: Now you got all things you can be is my
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: is my gay b ff? And teach me some tips.
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: You already got one of them. Bitch you right, I
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: am irreplaceable.
- 1:43:27Speaker 2: You're right. I would never replace it. Good you guys,
- 1:43:30Speaker 2: I would never try.
- 1:43:31Speaker 1: Thank you and warmaning nothing but death nothing. Let's hope.
- 1:43:38Speaker 1: That's another forty fifty seven from there.
- 1:43:41Speaker 2: Yeah, because we got no a whole said seventy years.
- 1:43:46Speaker 1: Like yeah, I said thirty week. That's coming sixty.
- 1:43:50Speaker 2: From the time. Brandon gonna be in the front picking
- 1:43:54Speaker 2: us all up from the retirement. We'll come out the
- 1:43:56Speaker 2: door like what we're gonna do? God damn, that didn't
- 1:44:00Speaker 2: do my hip out again.
- 1:44:02Speaker 1: Hold on, prove my weik from ast dressing in my apartment.
- 1:44:07Speaker 2: Not that one, the good one.
- 1:44:12Speaker 1: It's just all funked up with the ponytail. Ain't this
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: how the kids wearing their head now?
- 1:44:20Speaker 2: They not this one? No, the good one to make
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- 1:44:35Speaker 1: I used to drop it real love when I was
- 1:44:36Speaker 1: back in my younger days, child, but now now my
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- 1:44:43Speaker 1: You know, I need to stay regular so I can.
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- 1:45:14Speaker 2: you got anything?
- 1:45:16Speaker 1: We done good? I'll be good.
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- 1:45:25Speaker 1: five years in the future, we all a hundred years
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- 1:45:34Speaker 1: ain't dead yet.
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- 1:45:44Speaker 4: had a conversation, but somebody wanted to be a drama
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