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Southern or Nothern Women · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's, dear mama's, what's
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  Speaker 1: better Southern women or Northern women. Well, let's ask our
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  Speaker 1: American mamas.
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  Speaker 2: Alma mama, and joining us now are American Mamastery Needville
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  Speaker 2: and Kimberly Burt.
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  Speaker 1: Listen. Okay, First of all, it's a really big country,
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  Speaker 1: all right. There are there are different kinds of Northern
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  Speaker 1: women Southern women. Like if you go from the Carolina's
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  Speaker 1: over to about Texas, that's pretty much the same kind,
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  Speaker 1: you know. I mean, you can get urban Southern women
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  Speaker 1: and rural Southern women. That's you can get a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of a difference. But there's correct me if I'm wrong,
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  Speaker 1: But there's generally not a huge difference between a South
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  Speaker 1: Carolina woman and a Louisiana woman.
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  Speaker 2: Am I wrong in this?
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  Speaker 3: You're right?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but you're right. You go from Boston to Detroit,
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  Speaker 1: very different women there. You go from Detroit to Minnesota,
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  Speaker 1: very different women. You go from Minnesota to Washington State,
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  Speaker 1: very different women.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely. But there's all that, there's characteristics among them all.
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  Speaker 4: Like there's Southern women are very similar, North East women
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  Speaker 4: are very Northwest women are very much the same. Midwest women.
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  Speaker 4: There's like these characteristics that they all kind of have. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: So when I'm talking about Northern women, I'm really thinking
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  Speaker 4: about New York, Boston, those kind of women.
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  Speaker 1: From New York up to Boston, from Pennsylvania to Boston.
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  Speaker 4: So when I think of those North I have a
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  Speaker 4: best friend a Jersey She's from Jersey. And what I
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  Speaker 4: love about those women, those northerns they are so direct.
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  Speaker 4: They are direct. They are there's no like skiitting around things.
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  Speaker 4: My best friend and I we are partners in a
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  Speaker 4: nonprofit and she's straight up to your face. As a
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  Speaker 4: Southern woman, I can be a little passive aggressive, and
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  Speaker 4: she was straightforward. So straightforward is like no, why are
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  Speaker 4: you doing that? Why are we I don't like it
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  Speaker 4: when you say that. And I didn't even know how
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  Speaker 4: to handle that, you know, someone coming right at me.
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  Speaker 4: But it resolved things fast.
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  Speaker 3: It's like a dude.
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  Speaker 4: It is like a dude, Yeah it is.
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  Speaker 3: Did you In that aspect, they make no apology for
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  Speaker 3: being direct and being truthful and not you know, they
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  Speaker 3: don't sugarcoat, like Kimberly.
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  Speaker 4: Said, And I love that about women, and I feel
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  Speaker 4: like Southern women. I think we're charming yes, I think
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  Speaker 4: we're good at making conversation. I think we're very vain
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  Speaker 4: and I think we're pacific. When we say bless your heart,
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  Speaker 4: well you know what we're saying.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it depends on situation, but yeah, it does.
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  Speaker 4: There's several different layers of bless your heart is.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's like the word of loha. It's
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  Speaker 1: got some difference.
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  Speaker 4: One of my girlfriends I was talking to her about it,
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  Speaker 4: and she said, you know, people doubt the sincerity of
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  Speaker 4: Southern women, but we shouldn't doubt the intentions of northerners.
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  Speaker 4: Like there needs to be kind of like this, this balance,
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  Speaker 4: and I do. I think we get lumped into stereotypes
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  Speaker 4: just as we do them. But from my own personal experience,
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  Speaker 4: I think think Northern women are pretty amazing. They're very strong,
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  Speaker 4: and I admired them for that. I don't know how
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  Speaker 4: they look at us. I don't know if they admire
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  Speaker 4: us for anything, but I do them. I like the
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  Speaker 4: way they are.
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  Speaker 1: You talk about difference between northern women, you talk about
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  Speaker 1: basically Northeast. Yeah, the Cella Corridor ad allest, but if
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  Speaker 1: you go to Midwest women, they have some of that.
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  Speaker 1: They have some of that passive aggressive that the Southern
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  Speaker 1: women do as well. Oh yeah, right, and maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: not bless your heart, but you know, you know, oh geez, yeah, sure,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 3: I have a friend she just recently moved to the
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  Speaker 3: Midwest and we were talking at a baseball game last
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  Speaker 3: weekend and she actually said, I don't even thought about it.
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  Speaker 3: She said, you know, it's she said, being here, being
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  Speaker 3: down south, because we were in hattie's Burg, Misissippi, actually,
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  Speaker 3: and she said, you know, every store I go into,
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  Speaker 3: they're so friendly, so kind. I've almost forgotten, she said,
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  Speaker 3: they're so sweet in the Midwest, and they're they're very polite.
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  Speaker 3: So there's just a difference when I think about a
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  Speaker 3: Southern woman, and I'm so proud to be a subtle woman.
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  Speaker 3: We do. We there's a grace, there's a refinement, and
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  Speaker 3: there's a strength. There's a resolve that a lot of
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  Speaker 3: people don't recognize when you're from the North. You think, yeah, oh,
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  Speaker 3: she's vain or she's passive agressive. I look at Caroline Lovitt,
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  Speaker 3: I look at Pam BONDI I look at these people
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  Speaker 3: that are from the South through were very strong. Look
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  Speaker 3: at our grandmother's Yes, you know, one that took care
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  Speaker 3: after her husband died of her fortunes. She got three jobs,
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  Speaker 3: took care of the house, sowed the clothes, prepared the meal.
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  Speaker 3: She didn't want to get on government assistance. Strong Southern
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  Speaker 3: women are the best. They are the people that I
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  Speaker 3: want I emulate. I want to emulate, I want to
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  Speaker 3: be more like. And I do love the fact that
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  Speaker 3: there's there's a grace about, you know, the Southern women
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  Speaker 3: that Northern women appreciate, like we can appreciate each other.
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  Speaker 3: You bring us together, that we're instoppables, stoppable, and so
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  Speaker 3: I do appreciate those parts that you were talking about
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  Speaker 3: cumulate about the Northern woman women. And I really hope
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  Speaker 3: that they see that instead of looking at us like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we're just I can go along with what our husband
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  Speaker 3: says and we're just gonna wear our dresses and make
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  Speaker 3: sure our hair is perfectly coift. I hope that they
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  Speaker 3: look at us instead as women who, yeah, we do
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  Speaker 3: care about our looks, we do care about the way
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  Speaker 3: we want managing and managing our families because to us,
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  Speaker 3: that is our strength, that is our superpower. And look
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  Speaker 3: at that as something to admire.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, very very interesting. Well, since my wife
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  Speaker 1: is this so other woman, I have a clear preference.
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  Speaker 4: Listen.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you,