Latest / Reality with The King / No Mo Lies: #RHOC EXCLUSIVE with Kiki Monique
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 2: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 2: favorite shows from the Real house Boss of Atlanta, New
- 0:13Speaker 2: Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise
- 0:17Speaker 2: and Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from
- 0:22Speaker 2: the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset,
- 0:27Speaker 2: in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space
- 0:31Speaker 2: or scripted as well. Hey, rain drops on today's episode
- 0:39Speaker 2: of Reality with the King.
- 0:41Speaker 1: I mean, we have an exclusive.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I haven't been this excited since I interviewed all the
- 0:47Speaker 2: celebrities that I do. But this particular person to me
- 0:51Speaker 2: is the gift that keeps on giving. She's the ape
- 0:54Speaker 2: housewife of the Real house BOSSI ors County. But no
- 1:00Speaker 2: all just aside, we have so much to get into.
- 1:03Speaker 2: She's my friend. I love me some Keiki Monique Lady.
- 1:06Speaker 1: Jumped to me. Gays and days give it up for
- 1:09Speaker 1: the reason for this season.
- 1:10Speaker 3: Hey, Kiki girl, Hey, what's going on?
- 1:17Speaker 1: Kiki? How famous are you now? Please?
- 1:22Speaker 3: I like trust me as I was like, I mean,
- 1:27Speaker 3: I'm like, are people sick of hearing my name? Because
- 1:28Speaker 3: I'm like, I feel like this is I feel like
- 1:30Speaker 3: I'm sick of hearing my name, But you know, I
- 1:32Speaker 3: guess everyone knows my name now.
- 1:35Speaker 1: No, listen, you are the.
- 1:39Speaker 2: Most talked about non cast member in Real Housewive history,
- 1:44Speaker 2: which to me is super fascinating. But before we get
- 1:48Speaker 2: into the conversation about what's saying happening this season and
- 1:52Speaker 2: you clearing the air as well, I do want.
- 1:55Speaker 1: To start with you, though, Kiki Monique, set the record straight.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Are you a blogger or journalist? I?
- 2:05Speaker 3: You know what, I don't think I'm either one of
- 2:06Speaker 3: those things, but I wouldn't you know, I don't care
- 2:09Speaker 3: if people want to categorize me as those I'm fine
- 2:11Speaker 3: to take those labels. I just think that people have
- 2:14Speaker 3: a certain attachment or identity of what they believe a
- 2:17Speaker 3: blogger is versus what they believe a journalist is. And
- 2:20Speaker 3: I think we live in a world where creators have
- 2:22Speaker 3: sort of evolved, and I've become this sort of hybrid
- 2:26Speaker 3: of like, I like to give people news their nosey about.
- 2:29Speaker 3: That's my tagline, and I want to do it in
- 2:32Speaker 3: a way that people can absorb it. People can't absorb
- 2:35Speaker 3: news the way that we used to they have very short, limited,
- 2:39Speaker 3: you know, attention spans because of TikTok, because of these things.
- 2:43Speaker 3: And that's why my audience really loved me, because I
- 2:45Speaker 3: was able to give them, you know, really you know,
- 2:48Speaker 3: direct information in like sixty seconds or less. And I
- 2:52Speaker 3: was And my whole point was, I was always going
- 2:54Speaker 3: to source. I was always going to find references. I'm
- 2:57Speaker 3: not someone who typically you know, does blind items, does rumors.
- 3:00Speaker 3: That's not my niche. While I and I dealt to
- 3:03Speaker 3: that niche. I will read those things, It's just not
- 3:05Speaker 3: what I do.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Okay, So how did you get your star? Because you
- 3:11Speaker 1: are on.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Radio and the you co hosts a daily show, Reality
- 3:15Speaker 2: Checked with the Icon the Legend Real House Spots of
- 3:18Speaker 2: New York star Derinda. So, but like, how did you
- 3:23Speaker 2: get started in the business in terms of doing what
- 3:25Speaker 2: you're doing now?
- 3:27Speaker 3: I mean I actually have a background. I did actually
- 3:29Speaker 3: go to school for journalism. So like that's not something
- 3:31Speaker 3: when people know because I don't talk about it because
- 3:34Speaker 3: my path really did skew from that. You know, I
- 3:36Speaker 3: spent a lot of years in corporate world doing not that.
- 3:40Speaker 3: And you know, I talk about this because you know,
- 3:42Speaker 3: I talk about my personal life a lot. I ended
- 3:44Speaker 3: up in a bad relationship, I got completely off track.
- 3:47Speaker 3: And the best thing that happened to me, I know
- 3:49Speaker 3: this sounds crazy, was COVID. COVID Lockdown was the best
- 3:52Speaker 3: thing that happened for me because I lost everything. I
- 3:55Speaker 3: lost absolutely everything. I had nothing, and the only thing
- 3:58Speaker 3: I had I learned TikTok. Everyone was on TikTok, and
- 4:02Speaker 3: at the time, you know, there weren't a lot of people.
- 4:04Speaker 3: A lot of people were doing dances and lip syncing.
- 4:07Speaker 3: I was like, I don't do any of that, but
- 4:08Speaker 3: I talk, and at that time, not a lot of
- 4:11Speaker 3: people were doing talking on TikTok. So I grew pretty
- 4:13Speaker 3: quickly because I was like, here, I'm going to talk
- 4:15Speaker 3: about pop culture. I'm gonna talk about your favorite reality shows.
- 4:17Speaker 3: Now everyone on TikTok does that, but in twenty twenty,
- 4:20Speaker 3: back then, it really wasn't like that. So I just started,
- 4:24Speaker 3: you know, reporting on that, and then I kind of
- 4:26Speaker 3: sort of switched over because I was like, I don't
- 4:28Speaker 3: want to just do reality TV, and I got into
- 4:31Speaker 3: you know, pop culture, true crime stuff, and I covered
- 4:34Speaker 3: the Johnny Depp trial, and that's where a lot of
- 4:36Speaker 3: my altors really got to.
- 4:37Speaker 2: Know me, and now you have a whole new legion
- 4:44Speaker 2: of followers who know you as the person that gave
- 4:47Speaker 2: the Real House Lives of Orange County the best storyline,
- 4:51Speaker 2: the most controversial storyline. I'll be a good bad since
- 4:55Speaker 2: Brooks allegedly lines about cancer like this is listen.
- 5:00Speaker 1: Kikimo nig Mus Singhy.
- 5:01Speaker 2: You have resurrected this show, although it had three second
- 5:05Speaker 2: grade scenes then, but you have breathed new life into
- 5:07Speaker 2: this just by being yourself.
- 5:09Speaker 1: Let's get right into it.
- 5:12Speaker 2: Your name came up every single episode this season, starting
- 5:16Speaker 2: with episode one. I want to go backwards to baby
- 5:19Speaker 2: because I want you to really, you know, very succinctly
- 5:24Speaker 2: explain to us, how did you get in contact with
- 5:29Speaker 2: Katie Janella or how did Katie Janella get in contact
- 5:34Speaker 2: with you?
- 5:34Speaker 3: To begin with, I always follow you know, new housewives
- 5:38Speaker 3: that interest me whenever they're announced. You know, here we
- 5:41Speaker 3: have this, you know, Asian beautiful woman joining OC. I
- 5:45Speaker 3: was like, of course I'm going to follow her, go
- 5:47Speaker 3: to follow her. She's already following me. I love that.
- 5:49Speaker 3: I'm sure you experienced that too. You know, you're very popular.
- 5:51Speaker 3: You follow people that are already following you and you
- 5:53Speaker 3: already feel like you have a connection. I think that
- 5:54Speaker 3: that's great. People are thinking I'm saying as a negative thing.
- 5:57Speaker 3: I'm like, no, I think that's awesome. And so, you know,
- 6:00Speaker 3: she writes, you know, I'm honored. I write back, looking
- 6:02Speaker 3: forward to the season, and so we just develop a
- 6:04Speaker 3: little rapport. I do host Reality Check on Radio Andy.
- 6:08Speaker 3: We obviously get bookings all the time, and I know
- 6:11Speaker 3: she wanted to come on our show because at the
- 6:14Speaker 3: time after her season, you know, Emily was saying she
- 6:17Speaker 3: lived in San Diego. There was a lot of things
- 6:19Speaker 3: that Emily was throwing out there. She was like, I
- 6:20Speaker 3: want to set the record trade about some things, and
- 6:21Speaker 3: I was like, come on. Her and Gen came on
- 6:24Speaker 3: my show. They were actually on Zoom, so we did
- 6:27Speaker 3: it virtually, but you know, I promoted the clips.
- 6:30Speaker 1: It was great.
- 6:31Speaker 3: After the show, she Katie threw me, her and Jen
- 6:35Speaker 3: on a group chat and was like, had so much
- 6:37Speaker 3: fun on the show. If you're ever in OC, hit
- 6:39Speaker 3: us up great flash forward. And then after that text exchange,
- 6:43Speaker 3: we then you know, continued to like, you know, just
- 6:46Speaker 3: have a little banter back and forth. I did go
- 6:48Speaker 3: down to OC separately, to have lunch with a friend.
- 6:51Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, you know, while i'm here,
- 6:53Speaker 3: let me hit up Katie and Jen on that group
- 6:55Speaker 3: chat and just let him know i'm here. I said, Hey,
- 6:58Speaker 3: headed to lunch. If you're around, you know, let's get
- 7:00Speaker 3: a drink or something. Jen was like, I'm in Mexico. Sorry,
- 7:03Speaker 3: I'm gonna miss it. Katie was like, oh, you know,
- 7:05Speaker 3: I'm running around. I'm shopping for the reunion. The reunion
- 7:07Speaker 3: was like two or three days away. She was like,
- 7:09Speaker 3: but I can you know, stop by. So I head
- 7:12Speaker 3: over to lunch. She stops by for lunch. We just
- 7:15Speaker 3: have a good old session, like we're just chatting, having
- 7:18Speaker 3: a good time. I was not there to be reporting
- 7:21Speaker 3: having off the rocker conversations. I was literally there just
- 7:24Speaker 3: like hanging out with people as we do in this industry.
- 7:27Speaker 3: We just make relationships.
- 7:30Speaker 2: So you reach out to Katie Jen, I'm going to
- 7:35Speaker 2: be in the OC. You guys told me whenever I'm
- 7:38Speaker 2: there to let you guys know. I'm letting you know
- 7:40Speaker 2: Jen's in Mexico with her finance fiance Ryan. And then
- 7:44Speaker 2: that leaves you and Katie to have a one on one.
- 7:47Speaker 2: So in this one of the conversation. Is this the
- 7:53Speaker 2: setting where all of a sudden Katie just started dropping
- 7:58Speaker 2: all of these allegacious against people, you know, Gina allegedly
- 8:04Speaker 2: you know, calling out the fact that she's not wearing
- 8:09Speaker 2: that Katie is not wearing Asian designers, and she thought
- 8:12Speaker 2: that that was a dick to her. Is this the
- 8:14Speaker 2: same setting where she talked to you about what Gretchen
- 8:17Speaker 2: allegedly said to her at matstros and OC. Is this
- 8:21Speaker 2: the same setting.
- 8:23Speaker 3: Yes, it was all that same day. Yes, And again
- 8:26Speaker 3: it wasn't coming out and I made that very clear.
- 8:29Speaker 3: She wasn't saying, ooh, I want to give you this information.
- 8:31Speaker 3: I didn't want you to do anything with it. We
- 8:33Speaker 3: were having a chat about a bunch of different things.
- 8:34Speaker 3: Of course, I'm being nosy as you would. I'm like,
- 8:36Speaker 3: can I see your reunion dress? Oh? You know, we're
- 8:39Speaker 3: going into things, you know, like who do you know
- 8:41Speaker 3: who's filming you know this upcoming season? You know, like
- 8:44Speaker 3: just having chat. And then I don't know exactly how
- 8:47Speaker 3: it came out, but she mentioned she was having you know,
- 8:50Speaker 3: lunch or dinner sorry, with Gretchen and Slade, and that's
- 8:56Speaker 3: when this conversation came up now. Of course, at the time,
- 9:00Speaker 3: I think I said something like, oh, you were having
- 9:02Speaker 3: dinner with Gretchen? Is she going to be on the
- 9:04Speaker 3: next season? Because this is on October. Gretchen hadn't been
- 9:06Speaker 3: announced for this the season yet. So when she told
- 9:10Speaker 3: me that story and she was like, oh, you know,
- 9:13Speaker 3: did you hear about naked Wasted? I was like floored,
- 9:15Speaker 3: And I was like, that's crazy, But you hear I
- 9:19Speaker 3: hear crazy things every single day. I literally hear off
- 9:22Speaker 3: the record stuff, crazy rumors every day. I take it
- 9:25Speaker 3: in I'm like, whoa, that's crazy. And then we moved on,
- 9:29Speaker 3: and then she did bring up the Gina thing, and
- 9:31Speaker 3: of course I you know, I've been side eyeing Gina
- 9:33Speaker 3: ever since because I was like, oh my god, I
- 9:35Speaker 3: can't believe she did that, Like I thought, it was
- 9:37Speaker 3: really messed up. And then we went about our day
- 9:40Speaker 3: like she left. You know, we ended up there was
- 9:44Speaker 3: an US Weekly party a few weeks later. I was
- 9:46Speaker 3: doing red carpet for that. I was like, hey, you know,
- 9:49Speaker 3: I'll see you at the party. You know, we again,
- 9:51Speaker 3: we just continued banter, and also I had wanted I
- 9:53Speaker 3: really wanted her to succeed at the reunion. So I
- 9:56Speaker 3: you know, if I saw something online then I thought
- 9:57Speaker 3: would help her. I'd be like, hey girl, you know
- 9:59Speaker 3: check this out. You know this is you know, funny.
- 10:01Speaker 3: And we just had banters, you know, we'd send tiktoks
- 10:03Speaker 3: to each other. It was a really light relationship. The
- 10:06Speaker 3: only reason it eventually made it to a journalist was
- 10:11Speaker 3: because in January. Again, this is months later. I've sat
- 10:13Speaker 3: it on October, November, December. If I was messy, I'd
- 10:17Speaker 3: be telling people I literally left that lunch and like
- 10:19Speaker 3: didn't really think about it. But in January and this happened.
- 10:23Speaker 2: So just so I'm clear, your one on one with
- 10:27Speaker 2: Katie happened October of twenty twenty four. Correct, okay, And
- 10:32Speaker 2: before we get into what happened in January, just to
- 10:34Speaker 2: clear things up, can you because I know that when
- 10:37Speaker 2: we watched reality shows, you got a film for hours
- 10:40Speaker 2: and things get edited down.
- 10:41Speaker 1: So I want you to have the opportunity, Kiki, to just.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Clear the air, to stay out of your own mouth, unedited, uninterrupted.
- 10:48Speaker 2: What did Katie say to you about naked Wasted?
- 10:53Speaker 1: And what Gretchen allegedly said to her at dinner?
- 10:57Speaker 3: She said, did you know that at that naked Wasted
- 11:01Speaker 3: night that Gretchen had to go to the hospital and
- 11:05Speaker 3: she found they found drugs in her system, and I
- 11:08Speaker 3: was like, like, what do you mean? I was like,
- 11:11Speaker 3: there were drugs in her system? Did she get a report?
- 11:15Speaker 3: Did she go to police? Did she go to production?
- 11:18Speaker 3: And she was just like, I don't know. And I
- 11:20Speaker 3: was just like, how is this never come up? Like
- 11:23Speaker 3: I don't understand, like if if she why wouldn't And
- 11:26Speaker 3: she was just kind of like, I don't know. I
- 11:27Speaker 3: just none of it really made sense because I was like,
- 11:30Speaker 3: if that happened, I just feel like so many other
- 11:32Speaker 3: things would have happened, just logically. But I'm just kind
- 11:36Speaker 3: of like, that's crazy that she told you that.
- 11:39Speaker 2: Okay, to stop you there, did she tell you that
- 11:44Speaker 2: in this meeting in October that Jen and Ryan were
- 11:48Speaker 2: present during this conversation.
- 11:50Speaker 3: See, That's what I don't think was clear. I don't
- 11:53Speaker 3: think I actually realized Jen and Ryan were also out
- 11:58Speaker 3: that dinner till later for some like maybe she said it.
- 12:01Speaker 3: I can't I honestly don't remember. I really only remember
- 12:04Speaker 3: her saying Gretchen and Slade, and then at some point
- 12:08Speaker 3: I did know that Jen and Ryan were also there,
- 12:11Speaker 3: but I don't know if I remember if it was
- 12:13Speaker 3: that day.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Okay, did did she intimate to you that Gretchen was
- 12:24Speaker 2: trying to get back on OC?
- 12:26Speaker 1: Was was and talk to get back on OC? In
- 12:28Speaker 1: this conversation? You know?
- 12:30Speaker 3: When I asked her, because I mean again, when she
- 12:32Speaker 3: initially said, oh, I went to dinner with Gretchen Slay,
- 12:34Speaker 3: of course I said like, oh, she gonna be on
- 12:36Speaker 3: next season? And she didn't answer, She didn't say anything.
- 12:39Speaker 3: But I always take those sort of non answers as like, oh,
- 12:42Speaker 3: maybe you know it makes sense, right, you're making allies.
- 12:45Speaker 3: You've come off a season where you know Jen is
- 12:48Speaker 3: not in a great place with Tamra. You're good friends
- 12:51Speaker 3: with Jen. We know how Gretchen feels. I understand why
- 12:54Speaker 3: the three of you would be at dinner, and so
- 12:57Speaker 3: it makes sense why they would be at dinner. And
- 13:00Speaker 3: I understand that people get friendly with, you know, all
- 13:02Speaker 3: sorts of housewives, you know, after their season to like
- 13:05Speaker 3: so you know, I was sort of fishing, but she
- 13:08Speaker 3: didn't give me any of that. I didn't know for sure.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Okay, when she told you the stuff about Gina did
- 13:18Speaker 2: when she mentioned that Gina question whether or not her
- 13:21Speaker 2: designers were Asian designers. How did she say it in
- 13:26Speaker 2: a way that made you feel uncomfortable? Did you feel
- 13:28Speaker 2: like the way she reported it to you it made
- 13:32Speaker 2: it appear that Gina said something racist.
- 13:36Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think that's why even if you
- 13:38Speaker 3: see in the episode the way I said it, I
- 13:40Speaker 3: was literally repeating it exactly how Katie said it to me,
- 13:43Speaker 3: because she was like, you know, like I was, you know,
- 13:46Speaker 3: I really wanted to feature Asian designers, you know, on
- 13:49Speaker 3: the show. And maybe this had been when we were
- 13:50Speaker 3: talking about her, like you know, RENI just I don't remember.
- 13:53Speaker 3: And I was like, oh yeah, She's like you know.
- 13:55Speaker 3: And then you know, one time I come into the
- 13:57Speaker 3: scene and I have an outf and on and Gina
- 13:59Speaker 3: looks me and goes, is that an age and designer?
- 14:03Speaker 3: And this is what she said to me. She said,
- 14:05Speaker 3: you know, I looked at the camera. I looked at
- 14:07Speaker 3: the producers like did you get that? And they were
- 14:10Speaker 3: just like and I was like, they didn't do anything
- 14:13Speaker 3: with it. They didn't show it. Why didn't they air it?
- 14:14Speaker 3: And she was just like I don't know, and I
- 14:17Speaker 3: was just like h and so like we just sort
- 14:19Speaker 3: of had that you know, brown girl, black girl fingers
- 14:21Speaker 3: like m you know, like what you do when someone
- 14:24Speaker 3: says something shady. And so that's kind of what I
- 14:27Speaker 3: walked away with that conversation feeling about Gina.
- 14:29Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, while you were talking to her, did you
- 14:33Speaker 2: get the and I'm gonna get to January, But when
- 14:35Speaker 2: you were talking to her in this in this one
- 14:37Speaker 2: on one, did you get the sense that Katie was
- 14:42Speaker 2: telling you things off the record? You know, one thing
- 14:45Speaker 2: I know about conversations, sometimes you do a pinky swear
- 14:48Speaker 2: like what Drusidora, Angela Oakley and Shamia did right or
- 14:52Speaker 2: you say off the record? Were any of those things
- 14:56Speaker 2: said like to you from Katie?
- 15:00Speaker 3: I don't think people ever have to say that with
- 15:01Speaker 3: me because I just I'm not someone that repeats like
- 15:04Speaker 3: you know, Like again, I have friendships with a lot
- 15:06Speaker 3: of these reality stars, and I've I always go into
- 15:09Speaker 3: every conversation really just assuming like I'm not gonna repeat this.
- 15:14Speaker 3: I don't really say off the record because unless I'm
- 15:16Speaker 3: coming to you, you know, as a reporter, and we're
- 15:19Speaker 3: like you know, and I'm investigating a story, I'm not
- 15:22Speaker 3: going to say like off the record, but you know,
- 15:24Speaker 3: she knows I'm not going to I would assume repeat it.
- 15:28Speaker 3: That's how I assumed. The reason I started to like
- 15:31Speaker 3: feel a little bit weird was because as we sort
- 15:34Speaker 3: of continued our friendship, she would send me some things
- 15:36Speaker 3: here and there, and I started wondering, like, does she
- 15:39Speaker 3: think I'm gonna do something with this information? I couldn't
- 15:42Speaker 3: really tell because you know, or is she just telling
- 15:44Speaker 3: me because she thinks I want to know? You know, fine,
- 15:47Speaker 3: Like I don't really know.
- 15:50Speaker 2: Yeah, because one thing I know, Look, I got said
- 15:52Speaker 2: this on my own podcasts. I'm friends with everybody in
- 15:56Speaker 2: the business, almost everybody in the business, right and I
- 16:00Speaker 2: know that when reality stars didn't DM me stuff, I
- 16:05Speaker 2: know that a lot of it has to do with
- 16:08Speaker 2: the fact that they want me to talk about it.
- 16:11Speaker 2: They don't necessarily say talk about this, but they send
- 16:14Speaker 2: me stuff. And because my platform isn't he says, she say,
- 16:19Speaker 2: I don't base things off of that. I just base
- 16:21Speaker 2: things off of what we're watching on the show, my
- 16:23Speaker 2: opinion on the shows. And obviously if a story is
- 16:28Speaker 2: big that you just can't ignore, then I'll talk about
- 16:31Speaker 2: it that way. But I never come to the table
- 16:33Speaker 2: like Ooh, someone's sending this DM or X, Y and
- 16:37Speaker 2: Z because I never want to get in the muddy waters.
- 16:39Speaker 2: Did you feel like, okay, hmm, should I keep it
- 16:47Speaker 2: to myself or should I talk to somebody? Because what
- 16:49Speaker 2: happened in January? You said you spoke into a fellow
- 16:53Speaker 2: journalist about it. So what happened where you felt the
- 16:56Speaker 2: need to talk about it to somebody months later?
- 16:59Speaker 3: Yeah, I had no interest in doing anything with that information.
- 17:02Speaker 3: But when January was announced and it was announced that
- 17:05Speaker 3: Gretchen was coming to the Real Housewives of Orange County,
- 17:10Speaker 3: that is where I did get concerned, because now I
- 17:13Speaker 3: had a piece of information which I'm sorry if there's
- 17:17Speaker 3: if these allegations are true, that's illegal, and that is
- 17:21Speaker 3: I don't know. One, I want to get to the
- 17:23Speaker 3: bottom of there's any truth to this story, because like,
- 17:25Speaker 3: if so, this needs to be exposed. And two, like
- 17:30Speaker 3: we had just come off of that really dark Roney
- 17:34Speaker 3: season with Brinn and all of that, And I truthfully
- 17:37Speaker 3: was like if they were talking about this, because I
- 17:40Speaker 3: couldn't think of any other reason they were talking about
- 17:42Speaker 3: this at this dinner in October unless they were thinking
- 17:45Speaker 3: that this might be a storyline in the upcoming season,
- 17:48Speaker 3: and I said, this is just not something that I
- 17:51Speaker 3: think the viewers have the appetite for as a stomach
- 17:54Speaker 3: line when we just came of off that Roney season.
- 17:57Speaker 3: So I feel like I need to like either find
- 17:59Speaker 3: out if this story is true or not and like
- 18:02Speaker 3: just like put an end to it. And if it's
- 18:04Speaker 3: not true, like we can just like kill, you know,
- 18:06Speaker 3: debt it, or if there is truth in the story,
- 18:09Speaker 3: like we need to find out because this is actually
- 18:11Speaker 3: like it's it's illegal or it's defamatory, one or the other.
- 18:16Speaker 2: And and you thought this way, you had.
- 18:21Speaker 1: A conversation with another journalist. What was that conversation like.
- 18:26Speaker 3: And this is where it gets muddy. And this is
- 18:28Speaker 3: why again, like when you see things repeated on different
- 18:32Speaker 3: platforms as it goes, the game of Telephone is really terrible.
- 18:37Speaker 3: But I spoke to one journalist journalist initially, I said,
- 18:40Speaker 3: can you help me, because again I'm independent, their legacy media,
- 18:43Speaker 3: they have more resources and access than I do. I
- 18:46Speaker 3: don't want this attached to me, and I also don't
- 18:48Speaker 3: want this story coming to light. I just want to
- 18:50Speaker 3: find out if we can find out if there's any
- 18:51Speaker 3: truth in the story that reporter, despite what was out there,
- 18:56Speaker 3: never repeated my name, never said even that he or
- 19:00Speaker 3: she who found this information and was able I felt comfortable,
- 19:06Speaker 3: comfortably came back to me that this story was not true,
- 19:09Speaker 3: and so I was like, that's fine. I'm comfortable with
- 19:13Speaker 3: the story not being true. And I don't really know
- 19:16Speaker 3: what to do with it from here other than hope
- 19:19Speaker 3: it doesn't come out in the next season. Speaking to
- 19:24Speaker 3: the other journalist, it's hard to get into because, as
- 19:27Speaker 3: you know, building relationships in this industry requires very intimate,
- 19:33Speaker 3: off the record conversation about a lot of different things,
- 19:36Speaker 3: and the conversation with the second journalist really was centered
- 19:39Speaker 3: around that. We were having a very sort of open,
- 19:42Speaker 3: back and forth discussion about a lot of different things. Again,
- 19:45Speaker 3: I won't get into because it would expose him, but
- 19:49Speaker 3: there was a reason why Katie's name came up in
- 19:51Speaker 3: that conversation. I can say part of it was him
- 19:54Speaker 3: trying to understand my thoughts on her and you know,
- 19:58Speaker 3: trusting her and that, and I said, look, and I said,
- 20:01Speaker 3: I really do like her. You know, we've had a
- 20:04Speaker 3: great rapport. There was this one thing, so I wasn't sure,
- 20:08Speaker 3: but I'm comfortable. The story isn't true, so you know,
- 20:11Speaker 3: I've moved on from it. But I will say like
- 20:13Speaker 3: that was like a weird story. I expected that conversation
- 20:17Speaker 3: to never leave that bubble of again off the record,
- 20:21Speaker 3: and unfortunately that conversation was taken back to Tamra.
- 20:26Speaker 2: How did you find out that conversation was taken back
- 20:28Speaker 2: to Tamra?
- 20:30Speaker 3: When Katie texted me at the end of February, I
- 20:34Speaker 3: was literally on the tarmac, my flight was about to
- 20:37Speaker 3: take off. I'm flying to New York for two weeks.
- 20:39Speaker 3: I get a text from Katie that says, are you
- 20:42Speaker 3: around to film today? At five? And I just did
- 20:46Speaker 3: a question mark and then she wrote, your name was
- 20:50Speaker 3: brought up on camera and I did an exclamation point
- 20:54Speaker 3: and I said who and what? And she said, you
- 20:58Speaker 3: know Tamra about Tamra And I said what was it about?
- 21:02Speaker 3: And she said I don't know. And I said, I'm
- 21:06Speaker 3: literally in the air for the next five hours. And
- 21:09Speaker 3: she was like, oh, shoot, well you know, let me
- 21:12Speaker 3: know when you can. I had no interest in filming.
- 21:16Speaker 3: I had no interest in being part of this. I'm panicking,
- 21:20Speaker 3: but of course I'm in the air because I know
- 21:21Speaker 3: I've told. Even though she said she didn't know what
- 21:23Speaker 3: it was about. I can at that point I know
- 21:25Speaker 3: that it had to be something regarding this because I
- 21:27Speaker 3: just told this other person. So I texted he admitted
- 21:31Speaker 3: he had told Tamra. So I'm freaking out, like, why
- 21:34Speaker 3: did you do this? Said blah blah blah, And I
- 21:37Speaker 3: go to New York. I have to get work done.
- 21:39Speaker 3: I'm just kind of like, you know what, I'm gonna
- 21:40Speaker 3: go go to New York and just do whatever. I'm
- 21:44Speaker 3: in New York. I don't hear from Katie again, so
- 21:46Speaker 3: I'm thinking, Okay, in denial, I'm like, you know what,
- 21:49Speaker 3: this is not going to be a thing. I'm going
- 21:51Speaker 3: to keep moving on, do my life whatever, come back
- 21:54Speaker 3: to New York. Like three weeks later, two three weeks later,
- 21:58Speaker 3: I'm at a party and I get reached out to
- 22:02Speaker 3: by Orange County producers and they're like, so, your name
- 22:07Speaker 3: has been repeatedly brought up on camera and you know,
- 22:11Speaker 3: and basically that was how they reached out. And so
- 22:13Speaker 3: at that point, I'm just like and basically what I
- 22:17Speaker 3: learned was like, my name was brought up on camera
- 22:18Speaker 3: and we're basically being told that you're spreading something that
- 22:22Speaker 3: was not told to you. It's not the truth. And
- 22:24Speaker 3: that's when I freak out because I'm like, one, I
- 22:26Speaker 3: didn't want to be involved in this, but two, I
- 22:28Speaker 3: have kind of two options at this point, like let
- 22:30Speaker 3: this narrative play out and I don't know what that means,
- 22:34Speaker 3: or they're given me the opportunity, which honestly I'm grateful
- 22:37Speaker 3: for because not a lot of people give this opportunity
- 22:39Speaker 3: to try to clear my name. And so I agree
- 22:42Speaker 3: to film, and that's pretty much it.
- 22:46Speaker 2: When you agree to film, did the producers tell you
- 22:51Speaker 2: you are filming with Gretchen and Gina, because I'm assuming
- 22:57Speaker 2: you would have. I don't know if thought or would
- 23:01Speaker 2: have been positioned wanted to. I'm not clear some with
- 23:05Speaker 2: Katie since the information came from her, So how did
- 23:07Speaker 2: that come about.
- 23:10Speaker 3: I believe they wanted me to film with just Gretchen
- 23:14Speaker 3: and what I said to them, and I don't even
- 23:17Speaker 3: know if I'm but whatever, I'm going to say it
- 23:19Speaker 3: because people may not understand I was only supposed to
- 23:22Speaker 3: film with Gretchen and I said, look, there were three
- 23:24Speaker 3: people at this dinner. Gretchen and Katie were two of them.
- 23:29Speaker 3: I don't know how comfortable I feel only filming with
- 23:32Speaker 3: Gretchen because this is someone who was also part of
- 23:35Speaker 3: the story. I would feel more comfortable if someone else
- 23:40Speaker 3: was there. And this is okay, and this is where
- 23:42Speaker 3: and again, this maybe been the messy part, but this
- 23:45Speaker 3: was the only way I thought I could clear my name.
- 23:47Speaker 3: I said, I have a piece of information also from
- 23:50Speaker 3: that lunch that nobody else would know and would prove
- 23:54Speaker 3: that this information was told to me. I would rather
- 23:57Speaker 3: her be there, and I'd rather tell her there in
- 24:00Speaker 3: that moment what was said, because honestly, I feel like
- 24:03Speaker 3: if I say it to her face, I'll know also
- 24:05Speaker 3: if there's any truth to that story. And so I
- 24:09Speaker 3: was really the one that pushed for Gina to be there.
- 24:13Speaker 1: Got it. Now, let me go back a little bit.
- 24:18Speaker 2: The time you landed in New York, when Katie text you,
- 24:23Speaker 2: to the time that the producers contacted you. Did you
- 24:26Speaker 2: and Katie ever have a conversation during that window?
- 24:30Speaker 3: I never heard from her again, And like, again, that's
- 24:33Speaker 3: why I kind of thought, like, this won't be a thing.
- 24:35Speaker 3: I had no idea, And in the time that I
- 24:37Speaker 3: was in New York, they had gone to New Orleans
- 24:39Speaker 3: and all that stuff that we see playing out had happened.
- 24:42Speaker 3: She never contacted me, told me any of that happened.
- 24:46Speaker 3: I had no clue any of that had gone down,
- 24:49Speaker 3: which is why again, while I'm watching it, it's shocking
- 24:52Speaker 3: because I'm thinking, well, girl, you could have like reached
- 24:55Speaker 3: out to me and said, like, you know, they're saying
- 24:57Speaker 3: your name, they're saying I said this to you, But
- 25:00Speaker 3: I never heard from her again after that day. I
- 25:03Speaker 3: had no clue how deep it had gone in New Orleans.
- 25:09Speaker 2: When you got the cop on the producers, did you
- 25:14Speaker 2: have any communication with Katie before the scene with Gretchen
- 25:20Speaker 2: and Gina or even afterwards.
- 25:23Speaker 3: I hadn't talked to no. I mean I never heard
- 25:25Speaker 3: from from Katie ever. Ever, again I did, like I
- 25:32Speaker 3: did speak with Gretchen. Oh well, I kind of spoke
- 25:35Speaker 3: with Gretchen only because again when this came out, now
- 25:40Speaker 3: Gretchen has reached out turn Sheena Shee, who I'm good
- 25:43Speaker 3: friends with Seena. Se are friends, and so then Sheena
- 25:45Speaker 3: because Gretchen's like, who is this person Kiki Monique who's
- 25:49Speaker 3: saying spreading these things about me? Because Gretchen at this point,
- 25:51Speaker 3: Gretchen thinks I'm just like some again crazy blogger who's
- 25:55Speaker 3: just spreading rumors about her. But she knows that I'm
- 25:58Speaker 3: friends with Sheena, so she's trying to like get to
- 26:00Speaker 3: the bottom. And I said, look, look, I want nothing
- 26:02Speaker 3: to do with this, like I promise you, like I
- 26:05Speaker 3: wasn't trying to like spread rumors, like I was just
- 26:08Speaker 3: trying to get to the bottom of whether the story
- 26:09Speaker 3: was real. Because also she is looking at me crazy,
- 26:11Speaker 3: like girl, like this is you know, like the whole
- 26:13Speaker 3: thing was like I was like, I want nothing to
- 26:16Speaker 3: do with this. This was not the opposite of what
- 26:19Speaker 3: my intention. Is happening right now.
- 26:23Speaker 1: I want to ask you this because obviously you watch
- 26:26Speaker 1: the season. In the episode, just like we all have.
- 26:30Speaker 2: Right, they're in New Orleans the OC Housewives, and this
- 26:36Speaker 2: conversation does come up where you know, they talk about
- 26:40Speaker 2: whether or not Gretchen said these things once again. The
- 26:43Speaker 2: housewives call Katie to the carpet and they say, well,
- 26:48Speaker 2: call her, and Katie said she does not want to film.
- 26:56Speaker 2: Is did Katie ever contact you? Well, you know when
- 27:00Speaker 2: she contacted you, was that when you were on the
- 27:02Speaker 2: plane or was that after the fact.
- 27:05Speaker 3: Now, I was literally like all the tarmac about to
- 27:08Speaker 3: take off, so all of that conversation happened. So I
- 27:10Speaker 3: did respond to her. She reached out. She asked me
- 27:12Speaker 3: if I wanted to film. I didn't say yes or no.
- 27:15Speaker 3: I was again in shock. I was like, question mark
- 27:17Speaker 3: exclamation point, what is this about? What am I filming about?
- 27:20Speaker 3: What do you talk she wants? Because she wanted me
- 27:21Speaker 3: to get on the phone at five pm that day
- 27:24Speaker 3: to film something, but she wasn't telling me what it
- 27:26Speaker 3: was about. And I'm just like, but what is it about?
- 27:28Speaker 1: In New Orleans? So she went to New almost when
- 27:30Speaker 1: she text.
- 27:31Speaker 3: This was February twenty eighth. I got that text and
- 27:34Speaker 3: they didn't go to hold from March.
- 27:37Speaker 2: Okay, so let's cause you know we're getting somewhere here.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Katie texts you they want you to film in February.
- 27:45Speaker 3: February twenty eighth is when I got the text.
- 27:49Speaker 2: They found New Orleans in March. So when they said
- 27:54Speaker 2: reach out to her and she said she doesn't want
- 28:02Speaker 2: to film. She never contacted you at all while she
- 28:08Speaker 2: was in New Orleans.
- 28:09Speaker 3: No, I never heard from her again after February twenty eighth.
- 28:15Speaker 1: When you saw that moment, do you think again.
- 28:18Speaker 2: I don't know Katie from a can of paint, right,
- 28:20Speaker 2: But I just I'm basing my opinions on her, like
- 28:23Speaker 2: me and the audience watching the show.
- 28:25Speaker 1: But when you saw that scene in New Orleans, did
- 28:29Speaker 1: you feel like.
- 28:31Speaker 2: Katie was talking about you or her texting a month before,
- 28:37Speaker 2: or did you look at that say, oh my gosh,
- 28:39Speaker 2: Katie's line once again?
- 28:41Speaker 3: No, I looked at it is she was sort of
- 28:44Speaker 3: telling half truth. I think that's like she said. I
- 28:47Speaker 3: think she was saying I reached out her, She's not interested,
- 28:50Speaker 3: which is true. I was absolutely not because I did
- 28:53Speaker 3: not get back, okay, But what wasn't true was saying
- 28:56Speaker 3: she never responded. Because that wasn't true. I responded and
- 28:59Speaker 3: I asked you what it was about, and you said
- 29:01Speaker 3: you didn't know, So that part wasn't true because I
- 29:04Speaker 3: if again I wanted to know, because if she once
- 29:09Speaker 3: she knew that this was all being brought out, I
- 29:11Speaker 3: do think again, I had been a really good friend
- 29:13Speaker 3: to her at that point. I think it would have
- 29:16Speaker 3: made sense for her to just be honest with me
- 29:19Speaker 3: and actually confront me and be like, girl, did you
- 29:21Speaker 3: go tell people about this? Because then you know, like
- 29:24Speaker 3: I would have been like, well, damn, like I did,
- 29:26Speaker 3: but like I was trying to like squash the story
- 29:29Speaker 3: because you know, but you know, like but I would
- 29:33Speaker 3: have felt yeah, I would have felt bad.
- 29:36Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. So look, it's one of those
- 29:38Speaker 2: things too. Where and listen, this is me being in
- 29:42Speaker 2: the scene. And it's the reason why I make sure
- 29:45Speaker 2: as much as I can to not involve myself in
- 29:49Speaker 2: the sort of ragamuffin of the telephone game, because it
- 29:53Speaker 2: is tricky as dicey, based on this era of reality
- 29:58Speaker 2: television and social media and contact and people being in
- 30:01Speaker 2: contact with radio hosts, journalists, bloggers, anyone, because unfortunately it
- 30:08Speaker 2: does now become part of the storyline. When you received
- 30:12Speaker 2: that phone call for production and you did the scene
- 30:14Speaker 2: with Gretchen and Gina, when you left the scene, did
- 30:20Speaker 2: you feel like, oh fuck, what did I just get
- 30:24Speaker 2: myself into?
- 30:26Speaker 1: Did I just ruin my career?
- 30:28Speaker 3: I mean I think I felt that way from the moment,
- 30:31Speaker 3: I you know, even before I filmed, because I'm thinking, like,
- 30:34Speaker 3: I don't know how to navigate out of this, because
- 30:38Speaker 3: you know, my this is my brand, you know, and
- 30:41Speaker 3: like it's yeah, it's fun to be called quote gossip girl,
- 30:45Speaker 3: but nobody wants to think that they can't have conversations
- 30:47Speaker 3: with you that aren't going to be taken elsewhere. And
- 30:50Speaker 3: so that was the part that was really hurting me
- 30:53Speaker 3: because I felt like I was in this position where
- 30:55Speaker 3: I didn't put myself in this position. I didn't go
- 30:57Speaker 3: to a housewife. I didn't try to involve myself, and
- 31:00Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to bring this to camera, but someone
- 31:02Speaker 3: I trusted did and you know, it hit me in
- 31:07Speaker 3: the ass?
- 31:09Speaker 1: Are you and the journalist friends today? Have y'all talked
- 31:11Speaker 1: about this?
- 31:12Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, like I don't. I'm not
- 31:15Speaker 3: someone who likes to carry grudges, but you know, I
- 31:18Speaker 3: haven't heard from him, So I don't know.
- 31:23Speaker 2: When you saw Gretchen and Gina's reaction in real time
- 31:32Speaker 2: in that moment, Keikey, at that table you told this information,
- 31:36Speaker 2: you saw the reaction, Did you believe that they were
- 31:41Speaker 2: telling me the truth?
- 31:43Speaker 3: What I believed was when Gina told me her explanation
- 31:49Speaker 3: and that sounded like it made sense. And Gina has been,
- 31:54Speaker 3: you know ever since, like I've met her, you know,
- 31:56Speaker 3: I've seen her again, like she's been really kind and
- 31:59Speaker 3: so like I don't really feel like I have any
- 32:02Speaker 3: reason to like hold you know, hold that against her.
- 32:06Speaker 3: What I will say is in this, I mean not
- 32:09Speaker 3: to you know, hate on you know all reality stars.
- 32:12Speaker 3: All reality stars are like fibbers liars. It's it's like
- 32:15Speaker 3: it's kind of like built into their DNA. Sometimes it's
- 32:17Speaker 3: like they were just like exaggerating, exaggerating the truth or
- 32:20Speaker 3: like doing this. I don't know sometimes who's lying and
- 32:22Speaker 3: who's telling the truth. What I was trying to get
- 32:25Speaker 3: to at this point was I just want you guys
- 32:28Speaker 3: to know that I'm telling the truth so I can
- 32:30Speaker 3: back away and then you guys can fight amongst yourselves
- 32:33Speaker 3: about who's the liars and who's not, because like I
- 32:36Speaker 3: just want to like remove myself and just put it
- 32:38Speaker 3: out there and then back away. I don't know, Like
- 32:43Speaker 3: I think that there's multiple theories that could be true.
- 32:46Speaker 3: I just don't know, because again, it's hard for me
- 32:50Speaker 3: now when only one person keeps basically calling me a
- 32:53Speaker 3: liar to side with them, even right because you know
- 32:55Speaker 3: you're like, even have wanted to decide with you, you're still
- 32:57Speaker 3: calling me a liar, So then how can I side
- 33:00Speaker 3: you know, well, calling you Katie by saying she never
- 33:03Speaker 3: told me repeatedly over So it's like, if you just
- 33:07Speaker 3: admitted it, then like maybe we could get somewhere. But
- 33:09Speaker 3: I just don't know why she won't admit it.
- 33:11Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the thing.
- 33:13Speaker 2: I mean, Look, I appreciate you for being completely honest.
- 33:17Speaker 1: No one's perfect.
- 33:18Speaker 2: You have opted your mistake to be seen as somebody
- 33:23Speaker 2: who's honest about it.
- 33:25Speaker 1: Right. You're like, look, we had a conversation.
- 33:30Speaker 2: I knew that it wasn't something that I should go
- 33:33Speaker 2: back and tell people, but I did tell a trusted journalist.
- 33:37Speaker 1: Listen.
- 33:38Speaker 2: We've all done that, right, And for you, you just
- 33:41Speaker 2: felt like, Okay, this is something that I want to
- 33:44Speaker 2: share with somebody.
- 33:45Speaker 1: I will say. What I do want the world to
- 33:47Speaker 1: know is this.
- 33:50Speaker 2: It's one thing if key Ki Monique on her big
- 33:54Speaker 2: platform told Derinda, O.
- 33:57Speaker 1: Girl, guess what I heard. I heard. It's something that
- 34:01Speaker 1: to me would be different.
- 34:02Speaker 2: It would be different if you use your platform like.
- 34:06Speaker 1: Other people do. And that's that's O shame. Where we listen.
- 34:08Speaker 1: We all have our platform that works for our brand.
- 34:11Speaker 1: I've been listening to you for years.
- 34:13Speaker 2: You never based on my listening skill. Intimated secret conversations
- 34:20Speaker 2: for virality, right, and and and that.
- 34:24Speaker 1: Was the one thing I've really understood immediately.
- 34:28Speaker 2: Like, I think people are missing the fact that you
- 34:31Speaker 2: did not go on your own platform or on in
- 34:34Speaker 2: one's platform and publicly said this. You had an intimate conversation,
- 34:40Speaker 2: it got out, but knows to to to you even
- 34:42Speaker 2: knowing you would. And I think people also need to
- 34:46Speaker 2: understand this too. You are employed by Radio Andy, who
- 34:51Speaker 2: works obviously connection with Bravo, you know, Like I think
- 34:55Speaker 2: people need to understand that you're not somebody that is
- 34:59Speaker 2: just out there looking for the come up. You're employed
- 35:02Speaker 2: by Radio Andy, associated with Bravo, meeting the Angy Cohen obviously,
- 35:08Speaker 2: and they called you and you wanted to do your
- 35:11Speaker 2: due diligence.
- 35:12Speaker 1: That's what I got from it. You could stop me
- 35:13Speaker 1: if I got it wrong.
- 35:15Speaker 3: K K, that's the true because that's the thing I mean.
- 35:18Speaker 3: I think even Katie said herself, she followed me for
- 35:22Speaker 3: my true crime content. Obviously, if I hear something that
- 35:25Speaker 3: sounds criminal, I'm sorry. Like, if I feel a reason
- 35:29Speaker 3: that it needs to be investigated, I'm going to be
- 35:31Speaker 3: it needs to be investigated. And I did feel like
- 35:33Speaker 3: at the time once Stretchen was announced she was coming back.
- 35:36Speaker 3: If there was any truth to the story, I needed
- 35:38Speaker 3: to investigate and find out if the story was true, period,
- 35:41Speaker 3: like I and I was never going to publish it
- 35:43Speaker 3: on my platform unless I found there was You know,
- 35:45Speaker 3: I had a toxicology report that proved, you know, this
- 35:48Speaker 3: actually did happen.
- 35:53Speaker 2: Do you feel like you owe Katie an apology for
- 35:57Speaker 2: having an intimate conversation and you did go and tell
- 36:01Speaker 2: somebody else.
- 36:02Speaker 3: I would say that, yes, I would apologize because the
- 36:06Speaker 3: minute I decided to put on my true crime reporter
- 36:10Speaker 3: hat and take it to investigate, I should have said, oh, girl,
- 36:13Speaker 3: I know you told me the story. I wasn't gonna
- 36:15Speaker 3: do anything with it, but I do want to investigate it.
- 36:17Speaker 3: I'm not going to publish it. And I should have
- 36:20Speaker 3: given her the heads up that that was my plan
- 36:22Speaker 3: and that was the one thing I should have done.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 36:27Speaker 2: Based on you watching these episodes, do you feel like
- 36:31Speaker 2: when it comes to Katie again, I'm basing my opinion
- 36:34Speaker 2: on Katie off of the episodes I'm watching with the audience. Obviously,
- 36:40Speaker 2: Katie the biggest mistake to me, and this is me
- 36:42Speaker 2: speaking as a producer who produced for twenty years.
- 36:46Speaker 1: Right, almost once your hand is caught.
- 36:50Speaker 2: In the cookie jar, unfortunately, you have to own it immediately,
- 36:54Speaker 2: and it's just something you have to do.
- 36:55Speaker 1: It doesn't feel good and it's tough, but you signed
- 36:59Speaker 1: up to be real and we want you to be real.
- 37:03Speaker 2: Do you think when it comes to Katie that she
- 37:07Speaker 2: just has a problem with owning the truth in the
- 37:10Speaker 2: moment because she's afraid of the media backlass on the girls,
- 37:14Speaker 2: or do you think just Katie is just a flat
- 37:18Speaker 2: out liar and this sociopath that she's being painted out
- 37:22Speaker 2: to be by the by some of the girls and
- 37:25Speaker 2: some of the viewers.
- 37:27Speaker 3: I mean, before I probably would have just assumed that
- 37:30Speaker 3: she was like scared to get caught. Recently, it's felt
- 37:34Speaker 3: very like pathological because I'm just like this, this feels
- 37:38Speaker 3: unnecessary that the lengths we're going Now, I think it's
- 37:41Speaker 3: like she's at a point because what we know is
- 37:44Speaker 3: like it doesn't really matter what she does, her fans
- 37:48Speaker 3: will side with her. So now I think she knows
- 37:50Speaker 3: she can lean into saying whatever she wants truth or otherwise,
- 37:55Speaker 3: and her fans will make gymnastics to, you know, find
- 37:59Speaker 3: a way to like back her up. So I don't know.
- 38:02Speaker 3: I think it's I honestly, I can't even tell you.
- 38:05Speaker 3: I don't even know anymore because the person that I
- 38:08Speaker 3: met is not the person that I've experienced recently.
- 38:16Speaker 2: Do you have any intentions of going on Watch What
- 38:19Speaker 2: Happens Live this season?
- 38:20Speaker 3: Oh my god. Well, the thing is, I've been on
- 38:22Speaker 3: Watch What Happens Live as a bartender twice, and I've
- 38:25Speaker 3: always whenever I go, I'm like, when am I going
- 38:27Speaker 3: to get on the chair. So it's not like beyond
- 38:29Speaker 3: the realm of me being like, you know, Andy Cohen
- 38:32Speaker 3: is my boss, like I you know, it's not like
- 38:34Speaker 3: I can't. I obviously always a'm like, hey, guys, I'm
- 38:37Speaker 3: going to be in New York like but like yeah,
- 38:40Speaker 3: but not because it's not it's something I do.
- 38:45Speaker 1: You should be all.
- 38:46Speaker 2: I want to see you there all the THURSD night.
- 38:48Speaker 2: Maybe that's the head of the brow. I do want
- 38:52Speaker 2: to actually, before I let you go, you're a busy woman.
- 38:54Speaker 2: But before I let you go, I do want to
- 38:55Speaker 2: ask you this. You're watching the episodes like we are,
- 39:02Speaker 2: based on you watching the episodes and based on your
- 39:04Speaker 2: interaction with Katie Face to face, Gina face to face,
- 39:08Speaker 2: Gretchen face to face, Thum and even Jen right just
- 39:12Speaker 2: being in communication with her on via zoom. What does
- 39:20Speaker 2: Keky Monique believe put on your true crime hat, put
- 39:24Speaker 2: on your producer hat, put on the.
- 39:27Speaker 1: Hat of a woman who's been around these girls.
- 39:31Speaker 2: Do you believe that Gretchen told Katie that she allegedly
- 39:40Speaker 2: did get drug the night of nacker Wasted while she
- 39:44Speaker 2: was at dinner with Katie.
- 39:48Speaker 3: The only reason I'm going to give you two answers,
- 39:51Speaker 3: but I will answer. The reason I will say no
- 39:54Speaker 3: was because again, when I got back my initial information
- 39:57Speaker 3: and the information that I gathered, which I actually think
- 40:00Speaker 3: I said on camera, but they didn't play because there
- 40:02Speaker 3: was more to like it made sense, it didn't make
- 40:06Speaker 3: sense that she said it, and so I was like,
- 40:08Speaker 3: I feel like she didn't say it. But what I
- 40:12Speaker 3: do believe is that naked wasted absolutely came up at
- 40:17Speaker 3: that dinner. I believe the word hospital was absolutely used. Now,
- 40:24Speaker 3: whether someone heard hospital and made assumptions about why would
- 40:28Speaker 3: you go to the hospital and ran with it, or
- 40:30Speaker 3: whether they heard something specifically about being in the hospital,
- 40:33Speaker 3: that's the part I don't know, but I do believe
- 40:35Speaker 3: the word hospital is used at that dinner, and I
- 40:37Speaker 3: do believe naked wasted came up.
- 40:40Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeahh no.
- 40:42Speaker 2: Me and Alexis Malino even conversed about this on this
- 40:45Speaker 2: very podcast about whether or not the assumption of hospital
- 40:52Speaker 2: equated to maybe Katie thinking she was drugged, which listen
- 40:56Speaker 2: in Katie's offence, I will understand because you're only going
- 41:01Speaker 2: to the hospital, you feel like I'm assuming you felt
- 41:03Speaker 2: drugged or whatever. And look, Gretchen is caught on camera
- 41:07Speaker 2: mentioning the hospital twice, so it is it is plausible,
- 41:11Speaker 2: and that's why my theory is, I believe Gretchen did
- 41:15Speaker 2: tell Katie the hospital. I do believe that Katie may
- 41:21Speaker 2: have misinterpret interpreted, misinterpreted. I don't know, but that's what
- 41:27Speaker 2: I gather from it, which is why for me, I
- 41:31Speaker 2: think they both have been caught lying. I think Katie
- 41:37Speaker 2: has obviously been seen as somebody that says no, no, no,
- 41:41Speaker 2: no no.
- 41:42Speaker 1: Then the next episode.
- 41:44Speaker 2: Says, okay, I actually did do this right, And I
- 41:48Speaker 2: think because Gretchen got caught saying hospital twice, I do
- 41:53Speaker 2: believe you that the hospital thing was used again, whether
- 41:56Speaker 2: or not the word Ruth the drug was used. I
- 41:59Speaker 2: think will have to keep watching the season to to,
- 42:02Speaker 2: you know, hopefully find out that answer.
- 42:06Speaker 1: Kickim on Nique, what would you like.
- 42:08Speaker 2: To say to the Bravo audience to the rain drops
- 42:11Speaker 2: when it comes to you are are you okay?
- 42:14Speaker 1: Have you been bullied online?
- 42:17Speaker 2: Have people been mean to you in your DMS and comments?
- 42:22Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, am I getting bullied? Absolutely? And like
- 42:25Speaker 3: have I just had to sort of like ignore it
- 42:27Speaker 3: and walk away, of course, And like, well, will I
- 42:30Speaker 3: always have this permanent stain attached to me because of this? Absolutely?
- 42:35Speaker 3: But you know you can't. I can't let that stop
- 42:37Speaker 3: my progress, you know, like I'm going to keep moving on.
- 42:41Speaker 3: You know, I have like rebuilding with you know, the
- 42:44Speaker 3: people that I care about in this industry the most,
- 42:47Speaker 3: people like you and the other people I have they
- 42:50Speaker 3: know me, and so I'm glad that I haven't ruined
- 42:52Speaker 3: those relationships because again, like all you have in this
- 42:56Speaker 3: business is your reputation, and I obviously care what obviously
- 43:02Speaker 3: followers and people out there who are viewing me, and
- 43:04Speaker 3: this might be the first introduction they have for me,
- 43:06Speaker 3: you know, is this show?
- 43:08Speaker 1: You know?
- 43:09Speaker 3: And so I have rebuilding to do and whether I'll
- 43:11Speaker 3: ever get it with a lot of people, I don't know.
- 43:13Speaker 3: Hopefully the bullying were tempered down, because look, we have
- 43:16Speaker 3: a whole other half a season to go. I'm hoping
- 43:18Speaker 3: that there's way more drama that is less interesting than me,
- 43:21Speaker 3: and then other people will start getting bullied. But you know,
- 43:24Speaker 3: I will say that, like I know, also other women
- 43:26Speaker 3: on the show are now getting bullied, and you know,
- 43:30Speaker 3: I just don't think that's fair because you know, I've
- 43:34Speaker 3: met now, I've met a lot of these women and
- 43:36Speaker 3: at the end of the day, they're all they're all cool,
- 43:39Speaker 3: you know, yeah, and you're cool.
- 43:42Speaker 2: And look, I'll before I let you go, I do
- 43:44Speaker 2: want to remind the audience of this. You haven't held
- 43:47Speaker 2: yourself accountable, right you have said. Look, I apologize to
- 43:53Speaker 2: Katie because at the end of the day, she did
- 43:55Speaker 2: tell me something that I should not have repeated to people,
- 43:58Speaker 2: and you admitted that that was a mistake for you.
- 44:01Speaker 2: So I do want to be honest to understand that
- 44:02Speaker 2: you're not here doubling down on the fact we all
- 44:06Speaker 2: make mistakes.
- 44:06Speaker 1: I think the lesson in this is not just.
- 44:09Speaker 2: For yous, for me, for everybody that when it comes
- 44:13Speaker 2: to sometimes reality stars confiding in you, you do have
- 44:19Speaker 2: to sometimes ask yourself, am I being told this?
- 44:22Speaker 1: To release it?
- 44:23Speaker 2: Or you do Sometime I have to say I don't
- 44:27Speaker 2: or or sometimes stop and say, look, I don't want
- 44:28Speaker 2: to talk about any rumor or being heard because I
- 44:32Speaker 2: don't want my name mentioned. And I'm learning from this
- 44:36Speaker 2: situation that comes to you as well that look, maybe
- 44:40Speaker 2: sometimes it is our job, Kikim mo Onnique to even
- 44:43Speaker 2: tell reality stars, you know what, I don't.
- 44:46Speaker 1: Want to hear it. Yeah, if I just, I just
- 44:49Speaker 1: I just do not.
- 44:49Speaker 2: Want to hear it because what I don't want is
- 44:52Speaker 2: why I only told this person and then you become
- 44:56Speaker 2: the story. So look, guys, give Ki Monique a break,
- 45:00Speaker 2: cut her some slack.
- 45:02Speaker 1: She's not the first, nor would she be the last.
- 45:04Speaker 2: But I think for all of us at the end
- 45:06Speaker 2: of day, this is what this is where we can
- 45:09Speaker 2: we can rally together rain drops and Bravo listeners and
- 45:13Speaker 2: audiences and say, at least we got a good fucking
- 45:16Speaker 2: season out of it because I've enjoying.
- 45:20Speaker 3: Yeah, I want people to at the end of the day,
- 45:22Speaker 3: like if I was not a part of this, I
- 45:24Speaker 3: would literally I was like I literally could sit outside
- 45:27Speaker 3: of myself and be like laughing about this is like
- 45:29Speaker 3: how crazy it is and ridiculous And at the end
- 45:32Speaker 3: of the day, it's just a show. And I think
- 45:33Speaker 3: a lot of people need to like go touch grass
- 45:36Speaker 3: and then come back and watch your show. But it's
- 45:38Speaker 3: not that serious. Okay, Katie's thriving, She's getting more followers
- 45:43Speaker 3: by the day. This is not hurting her at all.
- 45:45Speaker 3: She'll be okay. I promise you, yeah, and.
- 45:48Speaker 2: You'll be okay. I want to know you'll be okay.
- 45:50Speaker 2: This too shall pass. Listen, it's tough, and listen. One
- 45:54Speaker 2: thing I will say is this, at the end of
- 45:57Speaker 2: the day, you will be in the history books with people. Listen,
- 46:05Speaker 2: I can always fight things so like small a because
- 46:08Speaker 2: it ain't that serious, like it's reality Television's silly, it'sa whatever.
- 46:12Speaker 2: When it comes in season nineteen, just know you will
- 46:15Speaker 2: go down in the history books as the most talked
- 46:19Speaker 2: about person next to Katie Janella.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Like, I just want you to know that.
- 46:23Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, these are great
- 46:25Speaker 2: stories that you can have off the record at dinner.
- 46:28Speaker 3: Okay, I am. I will say the only thing I do,
- 46:32Speaker 3: like I am questioning is like, you know, I know
- 46:35Speaker 3: that there was a source in my I did US Weekly.
- 46:38Speaker 3: I you know I talked about this in US Weekly
- 46:40Speaker 3: and in that at the end of it, there was
- 46:42Speaker 3: something about, like, there's more to this Kiky story that
- 46:45Speaker 3: you don't know, and I'm like, is there what do
- 46:47Speaker 3: I know?
- 46:49Speaker 1: Now?
- 46:49Speaker 3: I'm concerned? Are you trying to drag me into season twenty?
- 46:52Speaker 3: Please don't.
- 46:57Speaker 1: Well, girl, listen, give your phone off top. I have
- 47:00Speaker 1: to call you back.
- 47:00Speaker 2: Girl.
- 47:01Speaker 1: You're still mentioned it sement.
- 47:04Speaker 2: Just know that, but they also aside Kiki on Nique,
- 47:08Speaker 2: please let the rain drops and know where they can
- 47:10Speaker 2: find you. Follow you and support your amazing radio.
- 47:16Speaker 1: Show, Reality Check with Derenda Medley.
- 47:19Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, you can always follow me on all platforms.
- 47:21Speaker 3: At the Talk of Shame, I'm obviously TikTok and IG
- 47:24Speaker 3: are my two platforms that are my favorite, and weekdays
- 47:28Speaker 3: on radio and y Reality Check with Derenda Medley, we
- 47:31Speaker 3: talk about all things reality.
- 47:34Speaker 2: Yay. Thank you, Nique, and listen, girl, I will see
- 47:37Speaker 2: you or hear your name on the next episode of
- 47:39Speaker 2: O See.
- 47:39Speaker 3: Okay, I Love you.
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