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Porn Hypnosis to Create an Aversion or Repulsion to Porn · The Hypnotist

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It's Adam here. And in this episode of The
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Hypnotist, you could be listening to a porn addiction
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hypnosis session. And this is one of the fastest
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growing addictions that exists because of the immediacy and the
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link to some form of pleasure or gratification.
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And the client that I was working with didn't want to feel
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that compulsion, that kind of desire.
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And one of the key metaphors that you're going to hear in
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this particular hypnosis session is if you think of your favorite
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food like whatever your like most ideal, most desired meal
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is. If a few people spat in that
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meal and you saw that happening, something that was incredibly
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desirable then becomes something that you just don't want.
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You can go from a a sense of desire and compulsion to disgust
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and revulsion or repulsion pretty quick by adding something
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to it. So in this particular session,
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what we add to the meaning of porn is some of the dark or
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sinister things that go on in that industry.
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There are lots of cases of coercion or manipulation or
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exploitation or praying on very vulnerable people.
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Not in all cases, but in enough cases for it to have some kind
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of an impact. And I remember there was a local
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Chinese restaurant in the town where I live, and there was a
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case of someone finding an insect in their food.
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Now, clearly there wasn't an insect in every single meal that
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was being prepared, but the fact that it kind of went viral on
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social media that an insect was found in this was enough for
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people to start connecting an insect into the food and then
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they simply didn't want it. That business ended up closing
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down, not because it was true 100% of the time, but it was
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true enough of the time for it to have a different association.
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So in this particular session, there are things connected to
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the idea of porn, of it being, you know, this kind of pathway
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to unrealistic standards or it's the almost like the
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entertainment equivalent of empty calories that it gives
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gratification, but it's not doing any good in the long term.
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And all of these things are linked into this idea of it's
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there, you can do it, but you don't want to do it.
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And I think if you're listening to this and you do have a
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problem with porn, you might get some value from it.
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And I say a problem with porn because I think in a lot of
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cases, some things and, and it's all about judgement.
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Certain things that are judged to be either good or bad quite
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often are shades of Gray. A lot of people would say, well,
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if you gamble every now and then and it doesn't really affect the
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quality of your life, you know, it's not an addiction.
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There's nothing really wrong with it.
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If, however, you gamble so much that you're getting in debt, you
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have your house repossessed, you affect the quality of your
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family's life, then it becomes a problem.
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And I think for a lot of people, porn is like that.
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For the majority of people, they will occasionally watch porn
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every now and then, but it doesn't really become a
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compulsion or a constant thought or something.
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They do regulate. It's every now and then, and
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that might be OK with them. It doesn't create a desire to
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change. But this client that I was
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working with did feel it was something they were doing too
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much and they wanted to change that.
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And that's why there is these associations of negative
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connotations. And again, it doesn't have to be
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a true 100% of the time. I'm sure there's people thinking
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this was saying, well, you know, that person really enjoys that
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career in the porn industry. I'm sure that person does.
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But there's a lot of people that that don't.
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And the goal isn't to have a debate as to what's real or
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what's not. The goal for the client was can
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we link a sinister or disgusting association to something?
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So that their. Desire would go down and if any
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of these things resonate to you then you might get some value
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from this session. And as always, you know it was
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created for an individual. Not all the suggestions are
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going to be useful or relevant for you, so if you do feel like
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a bespoke session could be helpful, there will be a link in
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the show notes to schedule that free consultation call.
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For now though, find a quiet, comfortable place where you
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won't be disturbed. Relax and enjoy the session.
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Take a deep breath in, and as you breathe in, breathe in that
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feeling of relaxation and then release it, exhaling tension,
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feeling a heaviness on your eyelids and with your eyes
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closed, you realize how much easier it is to focus on the
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sound of my voice. Breathing in, relaxation,
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exhaling tension. And if you need to position your
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body in a way for you to get even more comfortable, allow
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yourself to do that and scan your body for any clues of
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tension in the moment or echoes of tension in the past.
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And sometimes it's there in the forehead, around the jaw, in the
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neck and the shoulders. I want you to get a sense that
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as you breathe in that relaxation, those echoes of
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tension are melting away, and you can feel that tension leave
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your body in your outward breath, enabling you with each
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and every breath to feel deeper and deeper, relaxed.
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As you feel your muscles loosen, your breath becoming deeper and
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longer and more steady, and you can feel perhaps your mind
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slowing down, sinking into a deep state of comfort and
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awareness. Allow the body to do the
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breathing for you, not needing to force it, and with each
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breath, allow yourself to go deeper and deeper, as if
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descending into a calm, quiet place inside your mind, a place
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where change happens effortlessly.
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I want you to use the power of your imagination to imagine
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going back in time, seeing yourself as a a child
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discovering porn for the very first time.
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Maybe you remember where you were, how you discovered it.
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I want you to see yourself being perhaps fascinated, excited, see
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the emotions on your face that you experienced that very first
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time. And I want you to get a sense of
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new perspective, knowing what you now know.
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Look at that first experience and say, of course this is just
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a natural part of a boy transitioning into becoming an
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adolescent, a natural process. I want you to get a sense Then
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there would have been certain emotional connections
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associations made in that moment that weren't necessarily.
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True, but. Felt compelling.
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I want you to get a sense then some things in small amounts can
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even be beneficial. But what if small things become
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regular things and become a form of gratification, a strategy to
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access emotions on demand? I want you to get a sense that
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many things are fine in small quantities.
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Eating a slice of cake is fine celebrating special occasion.
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But to eat a cake every day of your life would have
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consequences, and perhaps that very first time you saw it as
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something harmless, fun, exciting.
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But what if we were able to create new associations with it,
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to make it still possible but simply no longer desirable?
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As you leave that memory, go back to that quiet place where
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change takes place. And for so long, porn may have
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been an easy escape, a convenient way to feel pleasure.
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To seek release. But what if today we pull back
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the curtain and see this harmless thing for what it
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really is? As you breathe in and breathe
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out, just imagine the ability to see what happens beyond porn
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that is available, the circumstances that led up to it,
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the choices, the pressure, the coercion, the vulnerability.
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What if you started to think of porn as an illusion, a fantasy
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built on the suffering rather than pleasure of others, A well
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packaged lie designed to keep you coming back.
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But what if beneath the surface there is something darker,
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something sinister, something you no longer want to be part
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of? And maybe this industry profits
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not from happiness, not from intimacy, not from love, but
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from manipulation, coercion and pain.
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I want you to get a sense that the people that made a choice to
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make this their career, their passion, the thing they do and
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they enjoy it, are probably the minority.
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I want you to get a sense that many of the people that you may
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have watched didn't want to be there.
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Some were desperate, some were pressured, some could have been
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trapped and many will leave with deep scars, physical, emotional
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and mental. But that industry doesn't care
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because those people are disposable.
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There will be other young, vulnerable new people that don't
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know that dark side yet that can be manipulated.
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There will always be new people to exploit.
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I want you to get a sense that for the performer, this isn't
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desire. It's a charade, a transaction.
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Their body becomes a product, their emotions discarded, their
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dignity stripped away. For the next scene, the next
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click, the next view. Your fantasy fades, but some of
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that trauma that you're not aware of stays.
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And maybe you used to see porn as entertainment, harmless fun.
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But what if now, when you think of it, you feel like you're
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seeing the truth? You see the broken smiles, the
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tired eyes, the disposable people that we used and then
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discarded. You begin to notice what was
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always there, but you didn't pick up on the emptiness behind
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the scenes, the rigidity in the dialogue, like someone that's
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kidnapped reading a ransom letter.
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Not their words, but their being said anyway.
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The numbness in their faces, the disconnect from real intimacy.
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And with each realization, something begins to shift inside
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you. Something deep, something
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lasting. Because now, when you imagine
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watching porn, what if it's no longer tempting, no longer
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arousing? Instead, it feels cheap, fake,
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tainted. It's like empty calories, a
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momentary satisfaction that leaves you feeling worse, not
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better. I want you to think of your
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favorite meal, the thing you like more than anything else.
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Imagine on a table on a nice plate cutlery with a nice drink
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by it, and then just imagine 5 random strangers spitting into
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that meal. Something can used to be
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desirable and then become disgusting simply because
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something else is added. Used to be a compulsion can
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become a repulsion. What used to be desirable can
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now feel disgusting. I want you to get a sense that
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feeling that something that could be based on exploiting
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vulnerable people, using coercion, manipulation,
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psychological principles to groom and influence feels a bit
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gross, unpleasant, disgusting. It feels a bit icky.
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And the more you think about that, the truer it becomes.
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And you know that to be true because if you imagine going
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forwards in time and having a daughter and that daughter said
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I want to be a porn star, what would your genuine concerns and
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thoughts be? Imagine it feeling like empty
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calories. Now there's certain foods that
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you just don't want because even if they feel like they taste
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good, they come with consequences.
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And from this moment forward, whenever you think about porn,
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what if something happens automatically?
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The images that once pulled you in become dull, grey and
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lifeless. The desire that once felt strong
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grows weak, distant and unimportant.
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What was once an urge now feels empty, repulsive, or just
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forgettable. The very idea of it feels small,
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like a faded memory that no longer matters.
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You could watch it, but you just don't want to.
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Because what if now you see it for what it is, and each time
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you step further away from it, you step towards something real?
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Towards real connection, real intimacy, real control over your
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mind and body. A future where you seek real
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pleasure, not gratification, real connection, not
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convenience. Allow your mind to update
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certain beliefs and thoughts so that yes indeed, the thing that
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used to be appealing loses its appeal.
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And when your mind has made that change, let me know by nodding
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your head. I want you to imagine perhaps a
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week from now, a month from now. Observe yourself where the
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thought pops into your mind, but the thought is now tainted.
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You could, you just don't want to.
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And if it feels that the next time the thought about porn will
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be more unpleasant than pleasant of no by nodding your head.
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And I want you to get a sense that there will be an element of
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sexual attractive material online that you feel is not
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based on coercion. Maybe it's a model, or maybe
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it's something that feels safe, still not real, but no longer
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tainted. That if you were to do
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something, you would be discerning with that choice.
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I want you to get a sense then your future now is a future
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where you take pride in not wanting that thing, wanting the
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real experience, not something fake and fabricated, not
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something dark and sinister, something real.
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So allow your mind to deploy all of those emotional and
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intellectual resources into that new direction as one door
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closes, several others open. And what if this new connection,
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connotation, association with porn leads to those real
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experiences that leads to a real relationship, real connections,
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real pleasure. And the clue to real pleasure is
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it feels good when you experience it, and it feels good
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when you think back about it. But not once have you done that
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with porn. That's how you know it was
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gratification, but a time with friends for a day that went so
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well. You enjoyed the moment and you
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enjoyed thinking about that moment.
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And that's what's real. It's time to leave this place in
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your mind where change happens, taking all of these new
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thoughts, connotations and associations with you.
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So take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your
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nose. Wiggle your fingers and wiggle
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your toes. Start to calibrate with the here
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and now as I now count from 1:00 to 10:00 to awaken you.
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You will awaken feeling a sense of pride, a sense of evolution,
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that you are simply not the same person you were before because
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you think about things differently.
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Now starting to count 123 Waking up 456 More alert 7-8 Open your
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eyes. Open your eyes. 910 Wide awake,
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Wide awake. Wide awake.
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