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Episode 32: Life Updates | All Good People Here Review | Justin Timberlake Arrested | Jeffrey Dahmer Reason For Your Next Tattoo! AITA · This Is My Circus

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I'm Stefanie.
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I'm Meredith.
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Welcome to this is my circus.
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I like how you just like taking over that part.
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Cause I can never get it right in my head when I'm like trying to echo what you say, I still get it twisted up.
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So I've, I've mastered it.
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There's not many things in life I have mastered, but that's one, but I can say that one line, you know, we all have our gifts.
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Well, you know, I try our gifts.
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I'll have our gifts.
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you've been doing anything fun?
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Your sister was in town.
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Yes.
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And so, uh, we went tubing.
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We took Dylan, and two of his friends.
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And so, my sister and I got like a double to, oh yeah.
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Cause I had like the cooler thing in there and brought snacks for the kids and whatever.
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Yeah.
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but, um, Which y'all go do you remember?
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It was in Columbia.
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Okay.
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Palmetto Outdoors or something like that.
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which I was talking to the guy that worked there and he said that you can bring your, your pets.
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And I was like, no way.
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That'd be great.
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Rex would have a great time.
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Oh, I don't know though.
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Like, I don't know like how he would really do, but I'm like so intrigued.
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Uh huh.
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I want to, I want to play with everybody else's dogs.
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Yeah, I just don't know if he would try to get in the water or if he'd like freak out at all.
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Yeah.
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So I'm not really sure.
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Yeah.
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But so we're driving in the little bus.
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I take it.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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So the guy was like, I've never seen anybody like flip.
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There's like little tiny rapids and these little spots or whatever.
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And, but nobody's ever flipped off the double one.
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And I'm like, all right, cool.
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We're not going to flip.
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Did you give him a new stat?
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You know, I, I, Break the mold.
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So what happened?
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so we were at the end and we were almost there, like, we were like so close to getting off of, off of it.
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So we got stuck on a rock, okay, towards the end.
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And so we were trying to push off the rock and it was all slimy and gross.
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And so like we pushed off the rock, which then flipped us and almost made it.
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Yeah.
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So they give you life jackets and the guy's like, it just has to stay in your vessel.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, we've got both taken them off like right.
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I didn't want to end lines like the right Right life jacket.
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Yes.
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Yes, and I Was I was covered?
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What kind of tubing were you doing?
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I was fully tired in a bathing suit So flips over, goes floating, carries like, where are the lifejackets?
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They're floating.
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And I was like, so I like go after.
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Right.
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When I tell you that I hit every single flipping rock that you could possibly hit.
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Yeah.
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And then like, I like, I was like so far down that.
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Were you going against?
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So they continued to float.
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So you had to go that way to get them.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I went down river, but like.
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It's not like super deep.
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And so when you're going with it, like I hit like every single rock.
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I have a similar story.
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So I, a couple of summers ago, I took a month off in between jobs and took Jackson tubing one day, just me and him, you know, he's always been a responsible kid.
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He was probably like 11 or 12.
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I was like, we're fine.
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it's not a big deal.
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He's, he's a great swimmer.
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He's, you know, grew up around a pool, probably like Dylan, just a fish.
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So I was like, we'll be fine.
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Well, he's one of these kids that you really have to explain everything to he is a take a shower.
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No, you have to go in the bathroom, turn the water on, take your clothes off, like step by step.
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So I had not told him, it was just common sense to me, but not him, that the tube moves even if you're not in it.
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So we, we get in and like you said, there's rocks that are slimy and jagged and all the things.
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And we get in and he goes to get in his tube and he lets go of it.
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Well, it's gone, like immediately gone.
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And I was like, And again, just us.
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And it was like a random weekday.
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So there was not a lot going on.
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So it's like, Oh my gosh.
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So I gave him mine.
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I was like, get in this and stay in this and don't do any, you know, just go with the flow.
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I'll, I'll catch up with you or you'll catch up with me, whatever.
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And like you said, just banged.
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Uh, like my legs were bruised.
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'cause it's, it's so shallow that you can't like really swim in it.
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But you can't walk, but you can't really walk.
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Yeah.
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Well in it either.
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So same thing.
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And then like that next Monday, say that was a Wednesday, that next Monday or whatever, I started my new job and I was still busted up in my, I mean, it's, it is very difficult.
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Yeah.
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Very difficult.
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Well, it's all that.
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Kids hysterical.
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Laugh.
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Uhhuh, Like, they're all laughing.
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I'm sure.
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I got out of that and I was like, everything, everything hurts.
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Mm-Hmm.
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I can, I mean, I can honestly say I relate.
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So, that was that.
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yeah.
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Dylan had a blast though.
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Dylan was the only one he got, got out, climbed up on like the big rocks and was like jumping in.
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Yeah.
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The water.
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I mean, it's a lot of fun.
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Yeah.
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The water was free.
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Yeah.
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Zing like, yeah.
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Freezing and we were in the little bus talking to the dude that works for the company and I was like, Are there gonna be snakes?
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Because I'm like, you know, I don't do um Outdoor water except for a pool or the ocean like I don't do lakes.
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I don't do Yeah, the ponds like that's not not your thing for me.
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Yeah, and he's like, well the water is pretty cold So you probably won't see any snakes.
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He's like it was gonna see a ton of turtles, which we saw like four billion turtles Oh he said, yeah, there is some snapping turtles in there.
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And I was like, Oh, lovely.
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That's all right.
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Don't lose a toe.
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Yeah.
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Um, so that was a big joke.
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Like the whole time we're going down the river, the boys were like, wait, can we get off?
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I'm like, I don't care.
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You can get off, but you might lose a toe.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So just be careful where you're stepping.
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Oh my gosh.
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Did you see any snakes?
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No snakes.
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we saw like one really big, like, hawk, I guess, that was like diving into the water to get fish, I guess.
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we saw ducks.
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We fed the ducks, like, while we were in the tube.
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They swam right up to us and fed them, pretzels.
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Yeah.
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and then, and it was like a whole family.
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There was like six babies in the mud.
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Oh, I like the babies.
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I know, they're so cute.
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Mm hmm.
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and then, uh, the guy said that there's otters in the river, but we didn't see any otters.
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Oh my gosh.
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I know you've seen all the memes and of them holding hands and rubbing their little face.
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Oh my gosh.
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I, if I could keep one in domestic love's otters.
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And he's like always watching like the videos.
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And when I said the guy said that There could be otters in the river like we might see him.
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He was like, no way.
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So we didn't see any.
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Didn't see any.
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Oh, no, no.
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So we've, um, been kayaking before again, Jackson and I, we, we get into some stuff, and never saw any snakes like in the water, but I never forget looking up and seeing one in a tree.
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And, and I am not the one that's scared of snakes.
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they keep their distance, like I'm fine.
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I'm the one who has to handle them if they get to the house, you know, in the yard or whatever.
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Brian doesn't?
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No! Are you kidding me?
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He is terrified of snakes.
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Like, he will, He's like such a big mean man.
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I know! I know, not around snakes.
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Like, I will, I'll, so, if we see a snake in the yard, I don't want to take my eyes off of it.
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I'm I want to know where it is because those things, you know, and he'll like throw a shovel to me like a javelin and he will not get near.
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Nope, nope, nope.
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And I don't kill them unless they're, bad snakes, but I don't want them close to my house either.
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But yeah, he'll like, Oh my gosh, I got so upset the other day.
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I don't even, I don't really even want to tell it.
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We had a bird's nest and it was, um, On my back deck and it was right by the back door And every time I would there was like five eggs in there and I watched them all hatch and I talked to mama bird, you know And I would I was telling like one day I was telling those babies.
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You were living your disney princess life.
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I was I was like you guys are pushing mama out.
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There's five of y'all in here.
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There's not enough room We came home from somewhere and there was a black snake in them and I freaked And he was just looking at me like, Oh, I know.
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And I was like, Brian! Brian! Brian! I was like, there's a snake in the purse.
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I don't know what to do.
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And he was like, I've never seen you like that before.
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And he was like, well, get it out.
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And I was like, yeah, okay.
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I had, um, I had just like mopped or whatever.
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So I had the, and I was trying to, I was got it off.
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And then they were, Oh, it was just devastating.
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I don't want to talk about it anymore.
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I'm still sad.
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So I just saw and it happened so long ago, but I don't know why I feel like people are just talking about like random true crime stuff now.
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Yeah about the toddler that got strangled by the python in Florida.
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Oh, yeah, like the early 30 early 2000s.
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We're talking about that again.
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Yeah.
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I don't know why but it keeps showing up on my my feed.
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I got maybe I think the parents are just getting out.
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Uh, maybe.
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Or like a big birthday for the, maybe it'd be 21 or something.
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so, but yeah, all they had was a blanket on top of the cage.
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Why?
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Like little, like clothespins.
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No, no, no, no, no, no.
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For an eight and a half foot python.
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No, they're so strong anyway.
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They're alligators.
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Right, right.
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But I mean, just like, think of, I mean, a snake is nothing but pure muscle, so I always forget when I'm trying to shoo one away or, or make it not be alive.
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Yeah.
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I'm Brian in that situation.
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I am running.
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Brian, me and you are running.
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So there was a snake on our golf cart several years ago.
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Like Brian got in it, and it was where the cup holders are, and it was just another little black snake.
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Who did he call?
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So I go there and I tried to like shoot it out and it wouldn't come out.
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So what did I do?
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I picked it up.
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What's wrong with me?
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and I actually, it bit me.
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So imagine that I had on garden gloves.
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So I was like, Oh, I'll be fine.
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But it bit me.
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And I had to go get a tetanus shot.
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A tetanus shot?
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For a snake bite?
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Yep.
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That's what they give you?
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It's not, it wasn't a venomous snake.
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Oh.
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So yeah, for one.
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Oh.
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I know.
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I thought that was just like for metal, like if you got like, I, apparently not.
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Oh, you learned something new today.
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So now, yep, now I can remember when I had my last tetanus shot because of that story, but anyway, so speaking of old crimes, our book reminded me of an old crime.
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Okay.
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You?
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Did you, did anything pop in your head?
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Okay, so our book was called All Good People Here.
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Mm hmm.
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And it was by Ashley Flowers.
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All right.
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Now, first of all, I don't even understand what the name of the book means.
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All Good People Here.
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Does that, am I saying it wrong?
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No, no, no, that's it.
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But I was just figuring because it was like a small town and like everybody knows each other.
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Yeah.
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Thought it was like an outside person that came to town because everybody in the town was.
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I guess.
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It just like, I was like, do I, am I reading the words out of order?
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Like it just did.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Okay.
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Well, um.
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It reminded me of the John Bonnet Ramsey case.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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You see some of the connections?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Do you have a blurb?
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I do.
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Okay.
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Everyone from Walker Rusa, Indiana remembers the infamous case of January Jacobs, who was discovered in a ditch hours after her family awoke to find her gone.
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Margo Davies was six at the time, the same age as January, and they were next door neighbors.
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In the 20 years since, Margot has grown up, moved away, and became a big city journalist.
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But she's always been haunted by the feeling that it could have been her.
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And the worst part is, January's killer has never been brought to justice.
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When Margot returns home to help care for her uncle after he's diagnosed with early onset dementia, she feels like she's walked into a time capsule.
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Wakarusa is exactly how she remembers.
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Stifled and secretive.
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Then, news breaks about the five year old Natalie Clark from the next town over, who's gone missing under circumstances eerily similar to January's.
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With all the old feelings rushing back, Margot vows to find Natalie and to solve January's murder once and for all.
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But the police, Natalie's family, the townspeople, they all seem to be hiding something, and the deeper Margot digs into Natalie's disappearance, the more resistance she encounters, and the colder January's case feels.
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Could January's killer still be out there?
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Is it the same person who took Natalie?
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And what will it cost to finally discover what truly happened the night 20 years ago?
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Twisty, chilling, and intense, All Good People Here is a searing tale that asks, what are your neighbors capable of when they think no one is watching?
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Listening to the book, you didn't pick up any JonBenét?
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Now that you say it, yes.
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You can see it.
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I was kind of wrapped up in the actual story.
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I was like, so I got confused.
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I got lost to be perfectly honest.
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Like jumping around cause there was three girls.
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It's just that mentions too, but there was three little girls that were killed all around the same age.
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And so trying to keep track of who was what and like, I understood the January, but like, I'm like, where did these other people come in?
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Like, why?
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It was just like a random.
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So usually for books for me, it's like getting into them and then get to the, you know, get to the middle and the end and I'm into it.
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This one lost me towards the end.
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Okay.
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So I followed it, was all into it.
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I mean, I still was tracking for the most part, you know, multitasking and stuff.
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But it got kind of wordy at the end, I think, where it was just too much.
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Let's just get to the point.
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Yeah.
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I had to re listen to certain chapters over again.
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I'm sure reading, if you read the actual book, like reading it, not listening, it was probably the easier to track of timelines.
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Yeah.
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For some reason, this one, I just, it, It didn't flow easily for me not to keep track of what point in time we were at.
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Right.
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Right.
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But I thought, it was interesting.
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It was interesting.
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And what I liked about this one, and pretty much most of the ones that we've read is they're not just a, who done it get to the end.
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There's all the, like I said, twisty, there's so many, Sub storylines that are related to the story and then pull them into the actual quote climax of the story, you know, and there's their intents And complicated, right?
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and I think that even being able to write it even, you know with us getting lost That's amazing.
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I could not do that.
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No so anyway, that was the first book.
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I don't know if she's writing more Ashley Flowers or not, but for this being her first one that she's released, I thought it was a good one.
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I did too.
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I, and again, like it wasn't bad and I'm sure if I sat down and I actually run Mm-Hmm.
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the actual physical book, and I was, or paying attention 1%.
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Right.
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You're just sitting on a beach and you had an umbrella drink and you just Yeah.
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But, um, I was doing.
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Of course things while I was listening.
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So I'm sure that had something to do with it.
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Yep.
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How did you feel?
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I know we like to talk about things that we see this coming or that coming.
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I did figure out the ending.
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Okay.
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I, well, I thought I'd, it's hard to say without spoilers.
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So I knew there was something off.
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Right.
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With.
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With that.
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How it occurred.
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Right.
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and I was leaning towards that.
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I really did not think it was the word it ended up to be.
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Okay, we're doing spoilers.
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I.
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Yeah, go ahead.
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I don't want to talk about it.
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It's like harkening code and not knowing what the code is.
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It's confusing for them too, but.
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So, spoilers, if you haven't read it, please fast forward, about five minutes.
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Perfect.
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but I didn't think that the brother did it.
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which was very insinuated, throughout the brother, Luke or no, the twin brother.
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Oh, the twin brother.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yes.
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You didn't think I didn't want to think it.
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Okay.
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I thought it was too obvious if it was right.
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but I, I did go through a spell where I thought it was him.
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Okay.
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And then I thought it was, yeah, lots of spoilers.
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You're still here with us.
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Keep going.
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I thought it was her dad.
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Okay.
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I thought we'll see.
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I thought the twist was going to be that Luke was going to end up being Margo's dad, which I could have seen.
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Yeah, I could have seen that too.
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Cause like she.
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They didn't go in much detail with her family, like her parents.
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Right.
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I think that that should have been like a little, if that was going to be a main point of the book or a good part of the book.
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Yeah.
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Like they should have explained why.
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I kept thinking, I'm totally with you.
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All I kept thinking was she doesn't like them.
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Why?
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And I was like, this is the only thing that they've really talked about.
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So that's what I thought.
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Yeah.
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So that part like threw me, I thought that, Something was going to be off with the cop.
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Oh yeah.
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And then like you guys just like disappeared or they were going to hook up.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I mean it was just, it was just there and very involved.
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And then all of a sudden like, um, what did you think about the Auburn hair lady?
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I can't remember her name right now.
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Oh yeah.
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So At first I was like, okay, there's obviously something going on here, but I could not figure out what it was So I can't remember her name either, but the fact that she was like chasing her and and following her.
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Yeah Yeah, I and she's the one who kind of kidnapped, pseudo kidnapped her, right?
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Yeah, she like threw her in the back of the SUV.
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Yeah, no pseudo.
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She did.
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Yeah And and to me like while I understand and The premise that I don't see a female doing that I don't see a woman doing that like in real life Yeah, um, like how it was done.
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So it was a little Far fetched for me to feel like it could really be real or something.
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Yeah Um that part of it.
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Yeah.
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Um, but I do See why she did it.
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Mm hmm with the dynamic of the yes.
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Yes.
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How she was incorporated in right story.
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Yeah But I never I never thought the uncle did it never no I but I also it annoyed me that he went by two different names in the past very much So confused so confused.
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Yeah So much so.
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I, while I liked the book, I think it was like a great, first book for her.
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Right.
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I was confused.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I get it.
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Well, like I said, I was confused on the name.
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So I was like, what am I missing on the name here?
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Am I saying it out of order or what?
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yeah, I thought good, good book.
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Easy read.
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Yeah.
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I mean, it's relatively fun.
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If you like that kind of genre, that might not be the right word.
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We're killing it today.
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We are.
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I mean, does it get any better than this?
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Um, but it was, so it kept your attention.
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I didn't ever get bored.
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I just got kind of lost towards the end is what I would say.
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Yeah.
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Did she ever get her key made?
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I don't think so.
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Now that you mention it, there was a lot of pieces like that, like with the cop falling off and with the key getting not made, that it was just like introduced and never brought back.
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And I think sometimes they have to do stuff like that to try to, you know, make you think that it's significant or whatever, but, That's Too much is like annoying.
19:06
Yeah, and then I also do not like the ending where I mean you you assume that she's in the house with the dude that he's gonna take care of the witness.
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Yeah but they kind of just leave it so He had to have told people she was going there.
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And she had to have, I mean, I don't see how all of that could have worked out for him.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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It was a little unbelievable and not in a good way.
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Like you were saying about the woman doing that, like, it's just, yeah, just not.
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So I didn't love the ending, that it was just kind of like, Left open.
19:39
I'm sure she probably did that to give it a little whatever mystery at the end.
19:44
Yeah.
19:44
But it annoyed me because I'm sure she told people where she was going.
19:48
It just didn't make sense.
19:50
Right.
19:51
I agree.
19:51
I agree.
19:52
I feel like there was, I like things wrapped up to a certain extent or I want to be totally hanging.
19:58
So like the end of, um, the kind worth saving.
20:02
Yeah.
20:03
No.
20:03
What was the kind of killing?
20:04
It's the first one.
20:05
Yeah.
20:05
Like the end of that, things were wrapped up every, the bad people, the good people, you knew who was who and everybody was where, you know, where, but then it was just like a jaw dropper.
20:16
Yeah.
20:16
This, I thought there's a lot of empty places.
20:19
pieces kind of still scattered about that never got closure or And I thought there was a lot of unneeded pieces.
20:25
Yes.
20:26
I wouldn't read it again.
20:27
I wouldn't either What would you give it?
20:32
I'll think of five too for me.
20:33
Yeah.
20:34
Like, I mean, I got through it.
20:36
It wasn't like some of them that I just started, but break.
20:40
Like, if I was, if I was on vacation and somebody left that book and I needed something to read, I would read that and enjoy it.
20:46
I wouldn't be mad about it.
20:47
But yeah, it's, it's hard.
20:51
Yeah, done with that one.
20:52
Move on to the next one.
20:53
Yes.
20:54
Well, the next one that we're gonna read as long as we don't start reading it Have you already started the next one?
20:59
I was gonna say unless we start listening to it or reading it and it's absolutely terrible is Long After We Are Gone.
21:04
Yes.
21:05
By Tara Shelton Harris.
21:07
Yep.
21:08
I just downloaded it.
21:11
Um, I need to download it too.
21:12
I started listening to play.
21:14
That's okay because I was so slow with this one because, okay, so Jackson had a basketball tournament.
21:21
I texted you this, but it was pretty funny.
21:22
Jackson had a basketball tournament on Friday and Saturday and it was like long days.
21:28
I tried to go out in the yard and like water my stuff or whatever and I listened to my book while I'm doing that while Brian was out there and I was like, he wants me to talk to him.
21:37
This is so ridiculous.
21:39
We live together.
21:40
Right.
21:41
Right.
21:42
I'm a introvert to it.
21:45
I'm an extrovert, but I need time to recharge.
21:47
Yes.
21:48
And, he is very much enjoys being around people.
21:51
And while I do, I also need my time away.
21:55
And, sometimes that's where we struggle because he's always like wanting to do.
22:00
Everything.
22:01
And I'm like, just give me some space.
22:03
Yeah.
22:03
Give me some space.
22:04
So, yeah, human interaction overrated, but so that's what that took me that long.
22:10
Sorry about that.
22:11
Oh, you're good.
22:12
There was only one copy and that's usually there's more than one.
22:14
Yeah.
22:15
but yeah, I was like, are you almost done?
22:19
And I was like, I'm getting through it tonight.
22:20
And then it wasn't even, it was like, Five or six o'clock in the morning the next morning before I finished it.
22:24
So, did you have enough time to well?
22:26
Yeah, I was you listen to some of it again.
22:27
So yeah, I might listen to it while I was doing laundry or whatever.
22:31
Yeah, right Like grocery shopping.
22:34
Yeah, do you listen to it?
22:35
Do you put your earbuds in?
22:37
Yeah, earbuds earbuds whenever they're called air pods.
22:41
I have beats too.
22:42
I like my beats Jackson had some AirPods and he lost them.
22:46
So now he's got the over the ear beats, but they're cool for them too.
22:49
Yeah.
22:50
Dylan, likes the air pod pros, I guess.
22:54
but they just don't fit my ear.
22:56
Right.
22:56
Like even with all the different little thingies, I guess they hurt my ears.
22:59
Yeah.
23:01
Aren't as intrusive into my ear.
23:04
Intrusive.
23:05
They don't violate the ear.
23:09
That's non consentiual.
23:11
Oh my goodness, that's funny.
23:13
Okay, so yeah, I'll get that book when we're done, when you're done with it.
23:16
Yeah.
23:17
And, I have a couple of other things I want to chat about too.
23:20
Bring it on.
23:21
Justin Timberlake.
23:23
Did you have my note too?
23:25
It's right there! So, he was arrested for a DUI.
23:28
Yes, did you see his mugshot?
23:30
Yeah.
23:31
There's so many memes I've seen floating around.
23:33
Did you see the one where Britney Spears is like turning around like No! Oh my gosh! And I am not laughing at the fact that he was driving under the influence, but it seems like karma is coming.
23:45
Yes.
23:46
Cause he had given her such a hard time about how to act.
23:50
And right.
23:51
And here we are.
23:52
Yeah.
23:53
So I, when that like dropped, all over social media and then all of the memes and all that stuff, and it is not a laughing matter, nobody should drive under the influence.
24:04
We all agree.
24:06
But.
24:07
It couldn't have happened to a better person.
24:11
I saw something and it was like what the burrito sees looking out of the microwave.
24:16
It was this mug shot.
24:19
I mean, funny, but not funny.
24:20
We get it.
24:20
We get it.
24:21
We, we.
24:21
We know, but, I think the 10 people that listen to us all have our dark humor.
24:25
Yes, you're right.
24:27
You're right.
24:28
Well, the ones that, do listen need to leave some reviews for calls.
24:31
I'm tired of, I'm tired of, and tell your friends to listen, please.
24:35
They love us.
24:36
They would love us.
24:37
And we love them right back.
24:38
We, yes.
24:39
Where was he when he got arrested?
24:41
Do you remember?
24:42
Was he in Tennessee?
24:42
No, it was up North.
24:44
What is like the fancy place in New York?
24:46
the Catskills.
24:47
No, it's the beachy part.
24:49
Hamptons.
24:50
Hamptons.
24:50
I think it was the Hamptons.
24:52
His wife is gorgeous.
24:53
Yes, I saw that there's reports that she might be leaving him, though.
24:57
Really?
24:57
Yes.
24:58
You've seen Ben Affleck and Yes.
25:00
Are they split for real, do you think?
25:02
I don't know.
25:02
He's been seen with Jennifer Gardner.
25:05
Well, their kid just graduated.
25:06
I know, but I, do you see the way he looks at her?
25:09
No, but I think I look at her that way, too.
25:12
She's so cute.
25:13
Yes, have you seen?
25:15
Have you, do you follow her on Instagram or anything?
25:18
She has this video, where I guess that was a trend and I don't remember it.
25:23
And it's, cleaning out your purse.
25:24
What's in your purse.
25:25
And she's like sitting in the middle of her closet, which is, I mean, it's a big closet, but it's like normal people sitting in the floor with her bag and she's taking her stuff out.
25:34
And she keeps pulling out bags of nuts.
25:37
She's got like 10 bags of nuts and she's just like crying, laughing by the end of it.
25:42
She's like, why do I have all these in my bag?
25:44
Like, that's so relatable.
25:46
That is so, she is so, and she talked the way she talks to her mom and like, she's giving her cat a bath and one of the videos and the cat doesn't like it.
25:53
Like I, I would look at her with stars in my eyes, I think.
25:56
Yeah.
25:57
J-Lo No.
25:58
No.
25:59
I look at her butt like that.
26:04
Mine is so flat.
26:05
Your butt.
26:06
Yeah.
26:06
Oh, well, I, I did have like a pretty big bubble butt.
26:10
Mm-Hmm.
26:10
But I've lost so much weight.
26:12
And I mean, it's still like a little bit of a booty, but I lost a lot of my butt.
26:16
Wow.
26:17
Give me my butt back.
26:19
Maybe it'll come back.
26:22
That means that the weight will come back.
26:23
No, we just want it to go there.
26:25
She does have that big booty though.
26:26
Yes.
26:27
She does have a big booty.
26:28
Yes.
26:29
Um, oh I have a friend and We were talking about waxing a few weeks ago this friend paid 1, 800 for everything to be waxed from, like, she was in a frog position on a table.
26:45
1, 800?
26:47
why wouldn't you just get, like, permanent hair removal for her?
26:50
That's a good question.
26:50
I don't know.
26:51
That much?
26:52
Because I've had a friend who had permanent hair removal from Yeah, yeah, yeah.
26:54
From like the neck down.
26:55
Sure.
26:55
Yeah.
26:56
Um, and I don't, it was like, not much more than that.
26:59
I don't know.
27:00
I, that was crazy to me, that amount.
27:02
but anyway, I also so saw a tattoo of this.
27:05
I didn't see the tattoo.
27:07
Let's see, let me stop.
27:10
I did not see the tattoo.
27:11
I saw a post, I think it was on that bad mom's page.
27:14
We like about somebody that had a s.
27:16
Spiderweb tattooed around their butthole.
27:18
Did you see that?
27:20
No, there was never a photo share because I looked.
27:23
Yes, and I was not the only one.
27:27
There were people commenting on there like, I've never wanted to see somebody's butthole so bad.
27:31
But because did you imagine going in there like to the tattoo artist?
27:36
Could you imagine?
27:37
No, no, not at all.
27:41
And there was a lot of questions.
27:42
She was like, ask me anything you want to.
27:44
The girl that had the tattoo, she was like, ask me, I don't care, I'll answer.
27:47
So they were like, what did the, what did the dude say?
27:49
And they were like, it was a female, but still.
27:53
No, I don't think no, but no, no, no, I don't know.
27:56
It is fine.
27:57
It is fine.
27:58
Just the way it is It is not anything else back there.
28:00
Yeah well, it's just like I sent you a video or a video I sent you a picture about a month ago.
28:09
I think it was I went to have my Mammogram of my girl checkup and everything.
28:13
I sent you a picture of just like my feet in the stirrups or something and we started going down a rabbit hole of At least yeah Yeah, and then we were like can't you imagine the feet and then if their feet are bad can't you imagine what everything else is okay, so People in these professions probably deal with a lot of things.
28:37
Yes.
28:38
If it's that bad where people that deal with a lot of it have to ask you to.
28:44
This is why I'm not in that profession.
28:46
Yeah.
28:47
I couldn't do it.
28:48
I couldn't do it at all.
28:50
And then it would set the precedent for like every other client.
28:52
Like, here are wipes.
28:54
I need you to go make sure everything.
28:57
Get in the nooks and crannies.
28:59
But seriously.
29:00
Oh, that's gross.
29:02
Okay.
29:03
Oh, yeah, but did you know that Jeffrey Dahmer, When he was eating people he wouldn't eat people with tattoos because he said it made the flesh taste funny So yeah, here's everybody's reason to go get another time.
29:15
Let's go.
29:15
Let's go.
29:16
I have my next one picked out I just need to well summer's a bad time to get a tattoo anyway, um, but uh, i'm ready.
29:22
Where do you want it?
29:23
Well, actually that's I probably should wait because I don't know exactly.
29:27
I, I, so I want some flowers.
29:29
Um, I love flowers and my mom used to call my sister and I like specific flowers.
29:34
Like I was her little black eyed Susan and my sister was a rose, you know, things like that.
29:39
So I want flowers for my sister, myself, and then my mom's favorite flower.
29:43
My mom called me petunia.
29:45
Then you should get a petunia.
29:48
Um, but anyway, and then my niece, I think my niece is going to join in and she's going to pick a flower that she wants.
29:53
I thought I wanted it on my forearm, but I really, really love the way like the colorful flowers, not black and white.
30:00
They look when they start like right at the edge of the shoulder and cascade down a little bit.
30:04
Yeah.
30:04
I'm just trying to decide all of that, but, but I, that's what I want.
30:08
I just had to figure out the details.
30:10
you're going to get another one soon too, right?
30:11
Yes.
30:12
Well, after summer, after summer.
30:14
Yeah.
30:15
And you know what you're getting?
30:16
A Phoenix.
30:17
Good.
30:17
Yes.
30:18
I have a super colorful one.
30:19
I love colored tattoos.
30:21
Yeah.
30:21
But have you seen the water color tattoos?
30:24
No.
30:24
What do you mean?
30:25
Oh, they're so cool.
30:26
but I just don't know how long they'll last.
30:27
Like I feel you're going to hold up.
30:29
Are they just like real faint?
30:31
No.
30:31
But I love the look of it and I really want it on my, it.
30:35
Ribs, but that's the most painful place to get a tattoo.
30:38
Yeah, but I love the way it looks I just you know, I have everything like where I can like hide it.
30:43
Yeah, pretty easily if we need to yeah Yeah, um, which I don't think that's a rule anymore.
30:48
See like Watercolor.
30:49
Like, it's like a, it looks like a watercolor painting.
30:52
Oh, that's really pretty.
30:54
Yeah.
30:55
That's pretty.
30:56
so, I don't know, I, I, we should get our logo tattoo But yeah, I don't know.
31:05
That's pretty though.
31:06
I do like the way I didn't know.
31:07
I have seen those.
31:09
Yeah, but I didn't know that's what it was called.
31:10
Yeah.
31:11
It's just so painful.
31:12
Like on your side, like on the wrist.
31:13
Because there's not a lot of muscle.
31:15
I have a tattoo on my ear, like behind my ear.
31:17
Didn't hurt at all.
31:18
And that's right on bone.
31:19
Right.
31:20
and it was the least painful tattoo I had.
31:21
The most annoying thing about it was the sound.
31:24
Yeah.
31:25
probably sounded really loud.
31:26
Yeah.
31:26
It was like a jackhammer.
31:27
The one on my back, my tramp stamp, um, that one, y'all know about that, that one hurt when they hit my spine.
31:36
Oh yeah.
31:36
it was shooting pains through my stomach.
31:38
It was really such a weird feeling.
31:40
but that was all, I mean, it didn't hurt anywhere else when they hit my spine.
31:44
Yeah.
31:45
But, none of my tattoos really hurt.
31:47
Right.
31:47
I just had this one and it wasn't painful.
31:49
It was just like uncomfortable.
31:52
Yeah.
31:52
Yeah.
31:53
You have one.
31:53
Did you say Dylan?
31:54
Sisters?
31:55
And then there's a three for the eye.
31:57
Oh, I really need new glasses.
31:59
And all three of us got that.
32:01
In the same spot?
32:02
Uh huh.
32:03
That's really sweet.
32:04
Yeah.
32:04
Did you have fun with your sister here?
32:05
I did.
32:06
Yeah.
32:06
Yeah, I had a lot of fun.
32:07
we went to the movies.
32:09
Planet of the Apes.
32:10
We took Dylan and his girlfriend.
32:11
Nice.
32:12
Um, and then you went and heard the band.
32:15
We did.
32:16
How was that?
32:16
Well, so I just, I was too exhausted.
32:19
So no, I totally get it.
32:20
so we got down there and the guy got set up a little bit late.
32:24
Okay.
32:24
And then.
32:26
He was taking requests from people in the area.
32:31
He was good, like he sang good, and he did like this guitar thing good, but he would stop mid song and talk to people.
32:37
I think he lives around here.
32:39
Okay.
32:39
Or he just plays there a lot, because he knew a lot of people, and he would play part of a song and then stop and start chit chatting, and I'm like, dude, just finish the song.
32:47
Yeah, you want to have a conversation or you want to do the music?
32:49
Which one you want to do?
32:50
Yeah.
32:51
That's frustrating.
32:51
but otherwise it was, it was good.
32:53
Okay.
32:53
So yeah, but we went to see Planet of the Apes.
32:55
We were going to go see Bad Boys.
32:57
Yeah, we were going to do like a double but we got out of the house late and that just didn't happen.
33:01
Was the movie good?
33:01
Um, I am not like a huge fan.
33:04
I'm not, I've never seen any of them.
33:06
I don't think, no.
33:06
I think I saw like half of one.
33:09
Okay.
33:09
Years and years ago.
33:10
Yeah.
33:11
I don't know what it is about movie theaters, but I always fall asleep and it will be there.
33:17
Well, they make them so darn comfortable these days.
33:20
And and I'm always exhausted.
33:23
Yeah, but even.
33:26
When Dylan was like smaller, like we would, you know, go like me, Brandon would take him to the movies and I would fall asleep without, unless it was like toy story, whatever, three, whatever.
33:38
Yeah.
33:38
Number we were on.
33:40
I fall asleep so easily in a movie theater.
33:44
I have no clue why.
33:46
That's so funny.
33:47
Yeah, it's, I love going to, we don't go to the movies often, but I love to.
33:51
It's such the, like a big adventure to me.
33:53
I don't know why I feel that way.
33:56
So Arsley in Charlotte is 6 on Tuesday and then 6 popcorn and drinks.
34:02
So Dylan was like, I really want to go.
34:03
So I'm like pick a Tuesday.
34:05
Yeah, and then um, yeah, and I like that theater, too It's very nice.
34:09
Well, it's all the redone beats and everything and that might be why, because they were kind and they're so comfy.
34:13
Right, that's what I said.
34:15
So that might be my problem, too.
34:17
You need to go to an old, an uncomfy one.
34:20
Like an old beat up one.
34:21
Yes.
34:23
Yes, absolutely, where the chairs don't even rock anymore.
34:25
They're just stiff and firm and you can feel like the grime on the seats.
34:30
But he thought it was good.
34:32
It's not my jam.
34:34
Yeah.
34:35
But there's a lot of boy movies that are, I shouldn't say boy movies, but like those type of movies that I, I like, I love Transformers.
34:42
I could totally, the last one that came out was not good in my opinion, but all the other ones loved all the Transformers movies.
34:49
I like them too.
34:49
And I like, like the Marvel movies.
34:51
I like all of those.
34:53
Pirates of the Caribbean, all of those.
34:55
Yes.
34:56
Yeah, so I can totally get down with those types of movies, but I'm not much on aliens It just wasn't my jam.
35:03
Yeah do you like roller coasters love roller coasters, so I love the movies and I love amusement parks.
35:12
When I walk into the amusement park and I like hear the music that, you know, they play and it's just like, Oh, I don't know, that feeling feels so good.
35:22
You're smiling like you understand.
35:24
It's just like the anticipation.
35:26
Yes.
35:27
And it's like, everything's just, there's, it's just going to be a great day.
35:30
And.
35:31
It's just going to be fun and you see the lines and then you see the lines and then it's hot and then somebody doesn't have on deodorant and you keep passing that same person like six times in line and then you go to get something to drink and it's eight dollars for a bottle of water and then yeah, but I love them.
35:47
Oh my gosh, did you see that there was okay so you know the rides that that just go up and then they drop you, right?
35:56
Something towers tower.
35:57
Yeah.
35:58
Like the tower, the things, not the tower of terror cause that does, but you know what I'm talking about.
36:02
They just got counter.
36:03
Yes.
36:03
Like it just goes up and it comes down.
36:05
Well, I have written one that goes up and you're sitting normal.
36:09
And then when you're at the very top, like instead of just dropping you, it leans you forward, it leans you forward.
36:16
And then you fall to the ground face first.
36:21
And then when you get close to the bottom, then it's like flipping you up.
36:24
Are you terrified right now?
36:25
I would totally write it, but like, I think about it, and I'm like, oh, well, there was one that got stuck at the top when they were flipped over, like, I want to say in Ohio, that for 15 minutes, like a week ago, I'm glad I've already done that now.
36:40
Because I don't think I would do it again after reading that.
36:43
Like they were like flipped over?
36:44
Yes.
36:44
Facing the ground?
36:45
Yes.
36:46
Yes, they were facing the ground.
36:48
They might have even been totally upside down.
36:50
Oh God.
36:51
I know.
36:52
No.
36:53
No, that's crazy.
36:54
They better give you lifetime passes.
36:56
I don't want to go back.
36:58
When we got stuck on the intimidator, It was like for five minutes.
37:02
Right.
37:02
And we were, Just at the initial incline.
37:04
It was not like the biggest inconvenience of your life.
37:06
No, no, no, and it wasn't scary.
37:08
I mean, I wasn't scared.
37:09
The dude behind us was scared.
37:10
We've discussed that on the podcast before.
37:12
But we were totally fine.
37:14
It wasn't traumatizing.
37:15
Yeah, but I wonder if people get compensated if You know, what's the stupid sky windseeker?
37:21
Yeah.
37:21
And people get stuck on there for hours.
37:22
Yeah.
37:23
I don't.
37:23
And the beating sun, like, is there like, do you think they're compensated for that?
37:27
I, I would think they would have to.
37:29
There's probably some disclaimer somewhere printed tiny that says ride at your own risk and whatever.
37:34
I'll get 100 percent when you buy the tickets.
37:37
Yes, and so they probably just don't because they say it's covered in that.
37:42
Now, I do know you get compensated or I have in the past like when you go to get on a ride and it's not working.
37:48
Like they'll give us, when we've been at Universal, those parks, like free passes to ride something else so you can skip the line, like that kind of thing.
37:57
but I don't know when you get stuck on it.
37:59
If anybody has, Please let us know.
38:01
We want to know, did you get anything good out of the deal?
38:04
Out of being traumatized?
38:05
Out of being traumatized.
38:07
Was it, and was it worth it?
38:08
Yeah.
38:08
Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
38:13
Have you heard all these like weird conspiracy theories about Disney now?
38:17
I've not, but I know that ever since like Pinterest was big.
38:23
So for the past, gosh, like 10 years, there's been all kinds of conspiracies and things floating around and Disney has a lot on there.
38:30
Like, did you know this about them and this?
38:33
Well, only because we're talking about like amusement parks and like rides and stuff like that.
38:37
Okay.
38:38
I don't know, like, How true it is.
38:41
It's like, you know, a cousin's cousin right there and said, X, Y, Z.
38:45
so take it with a grain of salt.
38:47
Absolutely.
38:48
You don't know if any of it's true, but they said that nobody can die in the park and if somebody does die in the park, that they remove the body and won't let anybody say, time of death until they are removed from the park.
39:02
No, but that's so interesting, but that's the kind of thing that I was talking about, like, where, You know, they've got all the tunnels underneath.
39:08
Yeah.
39:09
And that they're not called employees, they're called cast members.
39:13
And that they can't point with one finger, they point with like two fingers, like finger guns.
39:21
Well, so all of the photos of Walt Disney, like you're doing that, but they said, you know what they said is the reason.
39:28
Because he was a smoker.
39:29
They photoshopped all of the, the, the cigarettes.
39:31
Cigarettes out.
39:32
Like after it became like not good to smoke, they've photoshopped all of the cigarettes out of the They could Photoshop in the 50 sixties.
39:40
No, like now all because like you now you see all the photos.
39:43
Oh, I thought you meant that.
39:44
No.
39:47
Well, you know what?
39:48
He is magical.
39:49
He is.
39:49
That mouse could have Have you seen the original Mickey Mouse, like, costumes and pictures?
39:54
They're terrifying.
39:55
Yes.
39:56
He looks like a rodent.
39:57
I mean, he is, but So, I don't know.
40:00
Like, in Jersey, we had something similar to Chuck E.
40:03
Cheese.
40:04
but it wasn't Chuck E.
40:04
Cheese.
40:05
It was I forgot what it was called.
40:07
But Seeing photos of our birthday parties or whatever, like those things are terrifying.
40:12
but you didn't realize it back then, but now I'm like.
40:15
Yeah.
40:16
Scary, scary.
40:16
They are awful.
40:19
And then, you know, they made the whole five nights at Freddy's.
40:22
Oh yeah.
40:22
With the animatronic, whatever killer, whatever robot things.
40:28
Look at this stuff now and it's and what the thing is is a lot of parents like push their kids to him like go give him a hug and go and you're looking at him in there yeah no poor poor kids but to me that's so similar to like the santa claus is at the mall yeah like where you like you force your kid to sit on this dude's lap dylan wouldn't when he was jackson wouldn't either he was nope i had i had to go up there sit next to santa and he said so i have one picture of jackson with santa And that was when he was probably one and a half or two and a half.
41:01
And Brian was Santa's helper that year at Lowe's.
41:07
Was he dressed like an elf?
41:08
No, he was really Santa.
41:09
I was just trying to make it in case our 10 listeners still think Santa's real.
41:15
Um, he was dressed like Santa.
41:19
He was Santa and he had a good time and they only did it the one year.
41:22
I wish they would have done it more because he really enjoyed it.
41:24
And he looks like Santa.
41:25
Like he's got these This round face and these beautiful blue eyes and his da doop ho ho ho.
41:31
Anyway, so that's the only picture I have.
41:33
Jackson didn't know it was Brian, but he would go sit on his lap so it's like, in his heart, he knew it was his daddy.
41:41
But yeah, I don't have any other pictures of him with Santa.
41:43
He wouldn't do it.
41:45
I know.
41:45
And he's still got gifts.
41:47
Wow.
41:48
Imagine that spoiled kids.
41:52
What if the Brian would've been a helper dressed as an elf with the striped?
41:55
Would've I, I want pictures.
41:56
You would want pictures.
41:57
I would.
41:58
He was one year for Halloween.
41:59
He's gonna kill me.
42:00
He's gonna, every week he's like, what did you say about me?
42:03
But before we were married, we went to Halloween party.
42:06
Do you wanna know what he dressed as?
42:07
But Elf no better.
42:11
Huh?
42:11
Captain Condom?
42:13
No, he had on tights.
42:16
Do you have pictures?
42:17
I'll have to find them.
42:17
Oh my goodness.
42:18
He had on tights and like, not cowboy boots, but like work boots.
42:22
'cause that's what he had.
42:23
Yeah.
42:24
And, um, like a tight unitard and a cape and then like a big condom over his head.
42:30
See, I love dressing up for Halloween.
42:31
Brandon would not dress up for Halloween.
42:34
I don't know if he'd do it now, but he did then.
42:36
I like to too.
42:37
We should have a Halloween party.
42:38
We should.
42:39
For all the people.
42:43
But we are doing the Shark Week party, right?
42:45
I I'm thinking my, I didn't realize my birthday's on a Saturday this year.
42:48
I saw that too.
42:49
I was looking at my GI counter.
42:51
I was like, this birthday's on a Saturday.
42:53
Well, you just need to tell me what to bring and I'll be here.
42:57
Do we want to do the, am I the April?
42:59
Yes.
42:59
I think I got two good ones.
43:00
Okay.
43:01
This time.
43:02
Am I the a hole for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
43:06
My girlfriend and I are both college students.
43:09
She lives in an apartment on her own and I live with my parents.
43:12
On Sunday, my girlfriend made homemade lasagna for our date night.
43:16
She made everything from scratch, including the noodles.
43:19
It was really good.
43:20
So after we finished, I asked if I could take lasagna home for my family to try.
43:23
She said yes.
43:25
When I left that night, I took the tray of lasagna with me.
43:28
My girlfriend didn't walk me out, so she didn't see me take the tray.
43:32
On Monday, I got a text from my girlfriend asking where her lasagna was.
43:35
I told her I'd taken it home for my family.
43:38
She said, I thought you were going to take some, not the whole thing.
43:41
I spent most of my food budget for the week on it with the intention that To eat leftovers for the rest of the week.
43:48
Now, I don't know what I'm going to eat.
43:50
I felt bad and apologized but pointed out I had asked her if I could take it home and she didn't tell me that I couldn't take the whole tray.
43:57
She said it should have been obvious that I shouldn't take the whole thing since the tray was so big.
44:01
To be fair to her, it was a really big tray.
44:04
My family of five only just finished the tray yesterday after eating it for dinner both nights.
44:09
But I don't think the size of the tray makes it obvious that I shouldn't take it.
44:13
Monday night and last night my girlfriend complained that she had to eat instant noodles for dinner so that she wouldn't blow her food budget.
44:20
Today she's asking me if I can buy her a sandwich since I took her leftovers for the week.
44:25
It sucks that she spent her food budget on the lasagna but I think it's her fault for not being clear that I shouldn't take the whole thing.
44:31
I don't think she is justified in asking me to buy her lunch because of it.
44:34
She called me an a hole for not being willing to help her out.
44:37
Am I the a hole?
44:38
Yes! Thank you.
44:40
Like, the biggest one.
44:41
He should have bought, given her money for that if that was gonna, like, not, she wouldn't go, I'm so mad at him right now.
44:48
And he's living with his parents.
44:50
It's not like he's out on his own.
44:51
It's not like, I mean, or, or steal a box of mac and cheese from your parents house.
44:56
Right, I mean.
44:57
Something, I don't necessarily think he's the a hole for taking the whole tray, which I, I can see where the misunderstanding came in, but he is the a hole for not helping her.
45:08
Out of the situation.
45:09
Right.
45:09
I, I don't think he's an a hole for taking the whole tray.
45:12
I think he's rude and has no social graces.
45:15
Yes.
45:15
Because I can't imagine going somewhere and be like, oh, can I take this for my family to try?
45:20
You take one serving and everybody gets a bite.
45:22
Yeah.
45:22
That's what I would have thought.
45:23
Yes.
45:24
Yeah, no, he, he is terrible.
45:28
He felt bad, but he apologized.
45:31
Felt bad, but he dumped bad enough to help her.
45:33
Yeah, no, first of all, you need to dump him.
45:36
Exactly.
45:36
Red flags everywhere.
45:38
Yes.
45:39
Still living with his dad.
45:41
Or parents.
45:42
Still living with his parents.
45:44
Taking all your food.
45:45
Not refurbishing your food.
45:47
Or, you know, giving anything great to your food budget.
45:50
Which you made for him out of your food budget.
45:52
I'm sure he didn't buy the ingredients.
45:54
No, she spent her whole, her whole, her everything, her whole week of food budget.
46:00
And the way he said, she didn't walk me out.
46:02
She shouldn't walk you out.
46:03
Cause that means that she would have to walk back in alone.
46:06
Whatever.
46:07
Get this guy out of here.
46:09
I keep hearing the buzzer.
46:12
Womp womp.
46:13
Yes, very much so.
46:16
Yeah, I agree.
46:16
I don't think he's the a hole for the lasagna, however.
46:20
Right.
46:21
All right, this is a short one.
46:23
Am I the a hole for honking at another driver who cut in front of me at a drive through each time she tries to order?
46:30
Here we go.
46:31
Everyone sucks is what it says.
46:34
Okay.
46:35
I didn't know that that was an option on Reddit, like to vote for everyone sucks.
46:38
Yeah, I like it.
46:40
I like it.
46:41
Okay.
46:41
Yes, very much so.
46:43
This line.
46:44
At a Starbucks I went to was really long.
46:46
I was in line for a good maybe 20 minutes until this lady in a Mercedes Tries to cut in front of me and like eight others behind me I'm late on the horn and tried to block her from cutting me, but she succeeded anyway and flipped me off Okay, I'm the type of person who will not let someone get it away with stuff like this.
47:04
So I waited until she pulls up and then she tries to order a honk.
47:08
Then she looks at me with a dirty look and gives me the finger, which I already had a middle finger of my own ready for her.
47:14
Each time she makes an attempt to order something, I honk and sometimes lay on the horn for three seconds.
47:19
We stopped as soon as she drove off.
47:21
When, when, when, when, We then ordered and went on about our day.
47:24
I just can't stand people who are extremely rude like that lady.
47:28
And I couldn't simply let this go.
47:30
Am I a hole for this?
47:32
No, I think I need to be friends with this.
47:37
So this sounds like I read something on, um, one of our local Facebook pages about the Lake Wiley McDonald's.
47:43
So, When you're, have you ever been in that?
47:46
They merged the two, two.
47:48
Well, they merged.
47:49
But if you come in from like, not from off the main street, but like if you're coming from Walmart or Lowe's, you can just like scoot right in the drive thru there.
47:56
Well, if there's a line, you're supposed to circle around and go to the back.
48:00
Well, apparently people are getting in line there and like cutting off.
48:04
And that was like, you're in those lines for like a little bit.
48:08
And I wouldn't like, I don't know, maybe like, I'm just.
48:12
It's like my anxiety as I've gotten older.
48:14
but I wouldn't want somebody behind me that like I just royally like ticked off.
48:19
Right.
48:19
For 15.
48:20
I want to keep those people in front of me.
48:22
Yeah, I don't want them on my back.
48:24
No, I get it.
48:25
So I don't know, but apparently there's all kinds of drama and drive throughs that I'm glad I avoid.
48:31
Um, I can't believe, like, every time she went to order, and I'm picturing, like, an older lady with silver hair.
48:39
Who's, like, who, like, should know better.
48:43
Yeah, I mean, I probably I picture like a businesswoman, like a superstar.
48:47
Who's got her life together.
48:48
Who thinks like, well, I, I only have 10 minutes to get my stuff.
48:52
So like F all of you people.
48:53
Like the, Devil Wears Prada one.
48:54
Yes.
48:55
Yes.
48:55
Yes.
48:55
Yes.
48:56
Yes.
48:56
so that.
48:57
I picture, yeah, that's what I, and that's the impression that I get in the, this lady in a Mercedes.
49:03
Like, I picture somebody who should know better.
49:05
Yes, yes, I agree.
49:07
but I want to be friends with this person because it is such, like, perfect, pettiness.
49:13
Yeah, and I love me some good petty.
49:16
I do too, but I want to, I want to, observe it from afar.
49:19
So I don't want this person to not like me, but I'm not going to hang out with them.
49:23
Yeah.
49:23
I mean, may do that to somebody like I wouldn't care.
49:29
Like at that point I would be so mad.
49:30
Yeah.
49:31
that I don't think I would care in the moment.
49:34
Now I do get really petty like at restaurants.
49:36
What do you do?
49:37
Tell me.
49:38
So tell me all the things.
49:40
Okay.
49:41
So, well, here's like the, the one example that comes to mind.
49:44
We were out to eat and I had my, my water, my tea, whatever I was drinking.
49:47
Well, she was, you know, do you want something else to drink?
49:50
Do you want another refill?
49:51
Yeah, absolutely.
49:52
Never came, never came.
49:55
So I drank it.
49:56
Asked her again, can I, can I get a refill?
49:58
Can I get some more?
49:59
Oh, yeah, yeah, never came, never came.
50:01
So I waited and I would not leave the restaurant until she gave me another refill and then like Probably even another one because I was up peeing all night But instead of being like, you know what?
50:13
She's busy.
50:14
Yeah, she's having a day.
50:16
I'm fine.
50:17
I'll be okay No.
50:18
I just stayed.
50:19
No.
50:21
I can't really think of anything, like, offhand of, like, my pettiness, but I know I've, I've had it.
50:25
Yeah.
50:26
I just can't think of, like, a good scenario where you've, a good, good petty moment.
50:31
I'm sure I've done it though.
50:32
Well, you think about it.
50:33
We'll talk about it next week.
50:34
How about that?
50:35
Sure.
50:38
If you guys have been petty, we want to hear your stories.
50:40
Yes.
50:40
So let us know your pettiness.
50:42
Are you on the, on the petty train?
50:45
We want to know all about it.
50:46
And would you own and of other people would honk at a driver?
50:49
Like, would you do that?
50:50
I would 100%.
50:52
I think I would too, depending on I, Oh, I hate when people like You know that the lane's gonna end.
50:58
Yes.
50:58
And they wait and then try to cut everything.
51:01
Which you know it's supposed to be like the zipper anyway.
51:03
Yes.
51:03
I don't know why people don't get it.
51:06
But like waiting to the last possible second and then trying to cut everybody off.
51:10
When you're, you're flying down beside everybody knowing that the lane ends trying to get it there.
51:14
Yeah, people are idiots.
51:15
That makes me so mad.
51:15
So that happened right in front of Lowe's, you know, like how that lane ends.
51:18
Yeah.
51:19
There's the concrete curb where the lane ends.
51:23
And we were driving and this Mustang just fly.
51:27
I mean, like flying when I say flying, it hasn't been going like 65 70 and that is not the, no, it's right there.
51:33
45.
51:33
Yeah.
51:33
I think maybe, and fly it up.
51:36
And I don't know, he didn't see the three signs that said lanes going to end turning right.
51:41
Only whatever.
51:42
Hit that curve.
51:44
Nobody.
51:44
I mean, yeah, it was stopped.
51:46
It was like, yeah, I don't know where he thought he was going.
51:49
So did it, I mean, obviously popped his tires and all the things like he like almost, it looked like his car was going to flip into the next lane.
51:57
And I was like, Oh my God, like, this is going to flip into car that's in the lane, right.
52:01
The right lane.
52:02
Right.
52:02
it was immediately, like, It looked like he had done some damage to his vehicle, but I was like, you idiot.
52:11
I'm always scared when we're driving, especially on the interstate and you see things like that.
52:15
And you're like, we're going to see them up here crashed in a little bit.
52:17
It's terrifying.
52:18
Yeah.
52:18
People pay attention when you drive.
52:20
Yes.
52:20
Be good drivers.
52:21
That terrifies me with Dylan driving.
52:22
Yeah.
52:23
Yeah.
52:24
I know.
52:24
So on that note, have a good day.
52:26
Yeah.
52:27
All right.
52:28
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52:30
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52:30
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52:32
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52:36
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52:37
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52:40
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52:41
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