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FULL SHOW: Ja Rule Claps Back at 50 Cent, Gayle King’s Space Trip, Chris & Karrueche Reunite, Vybz Kartel Gets OVO Chain + Joe Tacopina, Wendy Williams & Mel Robbins Interviews · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
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  Speaker 2: Yo yo yo. Yes, is that what up?
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  Speaker 3: Onna?
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  Speaker 4: Roe?
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  Speaker 2: So good morning, Charlamagne to God, Peace to the planet.
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  Speaker 5: Is Monday?
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  Speaker 6: Good morning?
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  Speaker 1: How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, black and
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  Speaker 1: holly favored. Happy to be here another day to serve
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  Speaker 1: our beautiful listeners. What's happening?
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  Speaker 2: That's right? Good morning. Hopefully you had a great weekend.
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  Speaker 2: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 7: Oh?
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  Speaker 8: Mine was great. I chill with family. I just yeah,
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  Speaker 8: I didn't do I didn't work all the way.
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  Speaker 2: You chilled?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, chill. I had a curry weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I had a very busy weekend. It started off
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  Speaker 2: on Friday night, date night with the wife. I took
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  Speaker 2: out to see Vibes Cartel.
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  Speaker 9: Oh you was in a mix?
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  Speaker 2: What what now? The Ball Clays, which is located in Brooklyn,
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  Speaker 2: is where the Brooklyn Nets play with the Liberty plays.
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  Speaker 2: It usually takes me by an hour to get there
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  Speaker 2: from the crib. Right Friday night took me every bit
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  Speaker 2: of two hours and forty five minutes to get there.
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  Speaker 2: It was so many people out there was.
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  Speaker 9: It worth it. It looked like it.
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  Speaker 2: Well you know what it is, so you know, of
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  Speaker 2: course it was worth it. I had a great time.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know every single record, but my wife is
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  Speaker 2: part Jamaican, so that is her thing, so she rocked
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  Speaker 2: out the whole night. But when I mean they turned
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  Speaker 2: Brooklyn into like Jamaica, Jamaica. They had like the jerk
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  Speaker 2: chicken trucks outside of PC and Riches, They had the
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  Speaker 2: jerk chicken trucks outside the library. They had the jerk
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  Speaker 2: chicken trucks everywhere.
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  Speaker 6: You say, people in Houston know what the hell you're
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  Speaker 6: talking about. Could you be a little bit more descriptive?
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  Speaker 2: I just said vibes, Cartels con. They don't know what
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  Speaker 2: place the sell electronics. They don't sell piece of Richard Downtown.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, he don't know, but they it's an
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  Speaker 2: electric spot. So they had jerk chicken spots everywhere. So
• 1:40
  Speaker 2: that was amazing. He brought out busting Rhymes on Friday.
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  Speaker 10: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: He brought out Booju Bontown on Friday, so an amazing show. Great, great, great,
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  Speaker 2: great show. And then Saturday, the professional soccer team that
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  Speaker 2: plays in New York City that took my son to
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  Speaker 2: the game, and he was able to start the game.
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  Speaker 2: You know how in each city that you go push
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  Speaker 2: a button to start the game, you ring the bell
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  Speaker 2: or something like that. So he was able to push
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  Speaker 2: the button to start the game. So it was a
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  Speaker 2: big family fun weekend. So Salutor vibes Cartel in the
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  Speaker 2: New York City Football Club for happening. It's had a
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  Speaker 2: great time, great time this weekend.
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  Speaker 6: Who to everybody I saw in Baltimore?
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  Speaker 1: Man, I was in Baltimore, Maryland all weekend Justice Justice
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  Speaker 1: Hometown for my daughter's a cheerleading competition.
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  Speaker 6: And right now I'm wearing a hoodie from Nick's Fish House.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, nick fish House is a spot I went to
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  Speaker 1: in Baltimore.
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  Speaker 9: It was that good.
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  Speaker 1: You took the merch well, you know what they showed
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  Speaker 1: me a lot of love, Salutor, Carley. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: know when you being out of town, you know you
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  Speaker 1: might hit people up and ask them where to go,
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  Speaker 1: or you might go on Google and you see where
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  Speaker 1: the best restaurants are. And I just went on Google,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, nick Fish House came up and I
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  Speaker 1: just went there.
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  Speaker 6: Just to go eat.
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  Speaker 1: And the owner there, Carly Man, dropping the clues BOMD
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  Speaker 1: for Carley. She wasn't even there, but when she heard
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  Speaker 1: I was there, they showed a lot of love to
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  Speaker 1: me and my family. So thank you Carley, and thank
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  Speaker 1: you everybody at Nick's Fish House. And they gave me
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  Speaker 1: this hoodie to wear. So when people get me merched
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  Speaker 1: the wear you know what I mean, I want to
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  Speaker 1: support So yeah, I woard so lut Nick's Fish.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, today on the show, Mel Robbins will be
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  Speaker 2: joining us.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love Mel Robbins. Dropping the clues
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  Speaker 1: bombs for Mel Robbins. I just did her podcast last week,
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  Speaker 1: The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the number one podcasts
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  Speaker 1: in the country. And you know, she has a great
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: book out right now that I've been telling everybody is
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  Speaker 1: a must read. If you have not read The Let
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  Speaker 1: Them Theory, if you're not listening to the Let Them Theory.
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  Speaker 6: You need to.
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  Speaker 11: Uh.
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  Speaker 1: It's described as a life changing tool that millions of
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  Speaker 1: people can't stop talking about.
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  Speaker 6: And I guess I'm one of those millions of people.
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  Speaker 6: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: So we're gonna pick kicking it with Mel Robbinson a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. And then we got front page news Morgan
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  Speaker 2: will be joining us so don't go anywhere. It's the
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  Speaker 2: breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning. Everybody's DJ n V.
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  Speaker 2: Jess Hilarry is Charlamagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club,
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  Speaker 2: long the roster, filling in for jests.
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  Speaker 1: You know what else I realized about Baltimore and I
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  Speaker 1: was just was here to talk about this. They really
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  Speaker 1: do call everybody shorty in Baltimore. The guys hen calling
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never heard. Maybe I ain't never paid no attention,
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  Speaker 1: but when a man call you shorty, that's a little
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  Speaker 1: and SA respect O R d y yoo.
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  Speaker 2: Charlote, what up?
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  Speaker 6: Uncle shawl up? Shawty?
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  Speaker 2: What he was talking about this?
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  Speaker 8: You know what they say that like how we just
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  Speaker 8: say like yo, like it's just like their thing. Well,
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  Speaker 8: but they don't say like shaw It's like shorty.
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  Speaker 2: It's like I don't care or actually, we gotta keeps
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  Speaker 2: getting some front page news.
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  Speaker 6: Now.
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  Speaker 2: April nineteenth, the NBA playoffs be again. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what team you're rooting for. It looks like Cleveland looks
• 4:23
  Speaker 2: pretty good, and so there's OKC. But I'm going for
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  Speaker 2: the Knicks, is what it is? All right?
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  Speaker 7: What up? Uggain?
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  Speaker 12: Hey, y'all, what up?
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  Speaker 2: Shan, what up?
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  Speaker 7: What up?
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  Speaker 12: Dummy?
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  Speaker 13: That's usually what it's, you know, the Baltimore L definitely,
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  Speaker 13: And I don't know.
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  Speaker 12: That you put a T y a d y on.
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  Speaker 13: It's usually sure or low, which is like short for
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  Speaker 13: shorty or little.
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  Speaker 12: But you know, I'm not gonna get too much into that,
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  Speaker 12: just because speak more to that later. First step on
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  Speaker 12: front page.
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  Speaker 13: President Trump is said to be in excellent health following
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  Speaker 13: his annual check up on Friday. White House physician Sean
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  Speaker 13: Barbella described Trump's neurological condition as robust and released on Sunday. Overall,
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  Speaker 13: it said the seventy eight year old commander in chief
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  Speaker 13: was found to be an excellent cognitive and physical health.
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  Speaker 13: Barbella noted that Trump is six foot three and weighs
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  Speaker 13: two hundred and twenty four pounds. He concluded by saying,
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  Speaker 13: the President is fully fit to execute his duties in office.
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  Speaker 13: And the President actually spoke to reporters on Sunday aboard
• 5:22
  Speaker 13: Air Force one, and here's what he had to say
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  Speaker 13: in regards to his checkup.
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  Speaker 14: Sick a listen and perfect, and I took a cognitive
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  Speaker 14: exam and I would challenge anybody here to beat host marks,
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  Speaker 14: because I have a perfect mark.
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  Speaker 2: Are you oppressed by that?
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  Speaker 12: Are you impressed by that? All right? So the president
• 5:41
  Speaker 12: is good, in good health.
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  Speaker 13: So the White House press, excuse me, white House physician says.
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  Speaker 12: In other news, let's talk tariffs.
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  Speaker 13: A top advisor to President Trump says the administration's tariffs
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  Speaker 13: are working of Hearing on NBC's Meet the Press, Peter
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  Speaker 13: Navarro pushed back against concerns the White House didn't have
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  Speaker 13: a plan for implementing tariffs, saying they were issued with
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  Speaker 13: a specific goal in mind. Let's take a listen to
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  Speaker 13: what that goal is, Peter Navarro.
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  Speaker 15: So that's what we set knowing full well, knowing full
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  Speaker 15: well that a lot.
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  Speaker 14: Of countries would come right to.
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  Speaker 2: Us and want a bargain.
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  Speaker 12: We've got ninety deals in ninety days, possibly pending.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, So we insisted the tariffs are working as designed
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  Speaker 13: as and have already pushed many countries to come to
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  Speaker 13: the negotiating table when it comes to the US now.
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  Speaker 13: Navarro went on to say the Trump administration is working
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  Speaker 13: to fix unfair trading practices that keep US goods out
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  Speaker 13: of foreign markets. Navarro also insisted relationships, his relationship with
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  Speaker 13: Elon Musk is great, despite the fact that they have
• 6:40
  Speaker 13: had that little exchange before where he called Musk or
• 6:44
  Speaker 13: where Musk called him a moron. On the other side
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  Speaker 13: of the aisle, Senator Elizabeth Warren says President Trump's tariffs
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  Speaker 13: are hurting the US economy. She made those comments on
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  Speaker 13: CNN State of the Union, saying the uncertainty around how
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  Speaker 13: the tariffs will be enforced is stopping company from actually
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  Speaker 13: making investments in this country. Let's take a listen to
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  Speaker 13: Senator Elizabeth Warren.
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  Speaker 16: Investors will not invest in the United States when Donald
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  Speaker 16: Trump is playing red light green light with tariffs. And
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  Speaker 16: it's entirely appropriate to have an investigation to make sure
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  Speaker 16: that Donald Trump, donald Trump's family, donald Trump's inner circle
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  Speaker 16: didn't get advanced information and trade on that information.
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  Speaker 13: So Warren, who serves on the Senate Banking Committee, also
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  Speaker 13: renewed calls for an investigation. As you heard in the audio,
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  Speaker 13: it's possible insider training, saying Trump may have committed a
• 7:40
  Speaker 13: crime by telling allies to buy stocks shortly before announcing
• 7:43
  Speaker 13: the tearff pause, and the announcement caused stock prices to
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  Speaker 13: improve drastically. Excuse me to improve dramatically after days of
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  Speaker 13: losses up.
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  Speaker 1: Cannot commit crimes. He has presidential immunity. All he has
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  Speaker 1: to do is say that it was some type of
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  Speaker 1: official act and the Supreme Court will say, hey, it
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: wasn't a time that he committed. Why do we keep
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: back and like we forgot that he got granted presidential immunity.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 12: The Supreme Court is seeming to take case by case, so.
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  Speaker 6: We will see.
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  Speaker 2: Please, So the time's working or not, because you know,
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  Speaker 2: on one side they say they're working. On the other
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  Speaker 2: side they say that not, but you know, numbers are everything.
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  Speaker 2: Are they working?
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  Speaker 13: So when it comes to the numbers, I mean, prices
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  Speaker 13: are up for us right now. But you know, that's
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  Speaker 13: the whole point is that supposedly these countries are going
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  Speaker 13: to be coming to the negotiating table to make sure
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  Speaker 13: that trade is more fair in the United States as
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  Speaker 13: well as wherever these countries are abroad.
• 8:32
  Speaker 12: But the whole thing.
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  Speaker 13: Is supposedly we're not going to know until about ninety days.
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  Speaker 13: But then again, he put the ninety day pause, so
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  Speaker 13: it's hard to tell, to be honest, you know, we'll
• 8:42
  Speaker 13: see it's a waiting we'll see type of situation that
• 8:44
  Speaker 13: we're in right now regarding tariffs and also Morgan.
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  Speaker 1: I know you're probably gonna talk about it next hoile,
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: but you know, the Supreme Court told Donald Trump to
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: do something last week, which is bringing the brother back
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: from Maryland. And they told the Supreme Court SMD. Yeah, well,
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: well Trump State briefcad s MD.
• 9:01
  Speaker 12: That's what they said at first. But you know, and
• 9:03
  Speaker 12: true Trump fashion, he has changed changed his mind. And
• 9:06
  Speaker 12: there's enough date on that.
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  Speaker 2: All right, we'll do that next hour. Everybody else, get
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  Speaker 2: it off your chest eight hundred five eight five one
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  Speaker 2: oh five one is the Breakfast Club?
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  Speaker 17: Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to
• 9:26
  Speaker 17: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 17: one five one. We want to hear from you on
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  Speaker 17: the Breakfast Club.
• 9:33
  Speaker 2: Hello. Who's this go?
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  Speaker 18: Good morning dj MV. What's going on?
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  Speaker 11: Bro?
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  Speaker 18: This is you said by the Rose Evans.
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: Whatever you get it off your chest? Brother?
• 9:40
  Speaker 1: Well, just why I want.
• 9:42
  Speaker 18: To talk with Just give you some love, you know,
• 9:43
  Speaker 18: I show you, uh you posted on the pictures of
• 9:46
  Speaker 18: you and your son at the soccer master or whatever,
• 9:49
  Speaker 18: and you're always doing that. You know, I really love
• 9:51
  Speaker 18: seeing black file who peeked out over these kids. You know,
• 9:54
  Speaker 18: enough of us don't do that. And you know, I
• 9:57
  Speaker 18: myself happened to be the five, the three best sons
• 10:02
  Speaker 18: in the world. I feel like every father she'd feel
• 10:05
  Speaker 18: that way about about his son and his daughters.
• 10:07
  Speaker 16: I know how.
• 10:08
  Speaker 18: Charlemagne all the spending time with his daughters, you know,
• 10:11
  Speaker 18: everything they took it. That's that going on. You guys
• 10:15
  Speaker 18: never ever put your family seck. And I love to
• 10:19
  Speaker 18: appreciate that. Charlemagne. Yes, sir, he's my brother.
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: How were you word?
• 10:26
  Speaker 19: I was?
• 10:26
  Speaker 18: You know, I was vibing, I was, I was out there.
• 10:28
  Speaker 18: You know, I had my eyes peeled. I never saw
• 10:32
  Speaker 18: that my brother. You know, we had the conversation on Friday.
• 10:35
  Speaker 18: You had to know about you watching my trailer, sir.
• 10:38
  Speaker 6: Oh shoot to watch?
• 10:41
  Speaker 18: Yes, sir, you missed show money on Instagram?
• 10:46
  Speaker 6: Tag me in it real quick on igs, I can
• 10:48
  Speaker 6: find it quick.
• 10:48
  Speaker 18: I can't. Okay, hold on, tag you right now.
• 10:52
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: My Instagram is see the god ce t A A
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  Speaker 1: G follows.
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  Speaker 18: I know what you come on but a week.
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  Speaker 1: And I was just doing the shout out for those
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: who don't know so I can get some new follows.
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  Speaker 2: That's up.
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  Speaker 18: Okay, So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna I'm
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  Speaker 18: I'm gonna tag you right.
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  Speaker 10: Now, but listen, tell them.
• 11:07
  Speaker 18: All I want to do is picture to one of
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  Speaker 18: your people. I know you too busy, a lot going on.
• 11:12
  Speaker 18: When you see it, you know what I'm I'm gonna
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  Speaker 18: tag you right now though, but dj Envy, Yes, sir, bro,
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  Speaker 18: I really really really want to know that. I really
• 11:20
  Speaker 18: appreciate how you out with the kids or whatever, and
• 11:22
  Speaker 18: how you are showing the young father how you can
• 11:25
  Speaker 18: be having all this going on at the end of
• 11:27
  Speaker 18: the day, Dad is your number one job, bro, Big
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  Speaker 18: up on that.
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: Absolutely have a great time doing it.
• 11:33
  Speaker 18: To one last thing we released, Navidad.
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, sir.
• 11:38
  Speaker 6: You know what that means.
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that means. Happy birthday to YouTube?
• 11:41
  Speaker 18: So wrong? Is that long?
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: What's up?
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  Speaker 19: Long? Hey?
• 11:43
  Speaker 18: Good morning, good morning? And listen they be Christen, they
• 11:46
  Speaker 18: be on you. I don't like that shit baby jumping you. Listen. Listen.
• 11:50
  Speaker 18: Your time is your time and listen. You don't want
• 11:54
  Speaker 18: mister right now, you want mister right thank you. I mean,
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  Speaker 18: you know, I appreciate that.
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: But Charlemagne, yes, sir, you said we gotta go use kay,
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: appreciate you.
• 12:09
  Speaker 9: Anybody letting me say period you had to come on
• 12:11
  Speaker 9: city because.
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: He was lett him go with.
• 12:14
  Speaker 9: What he was saying.
• 12:15
  Speaker 2: That Jesus bad.
• 12:16
  Speaker 9: When I'm getting some love.
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this.
• 12:18
  Speaker 12: In the vain?
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  Speaker 10: Blue?
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: Then blue?
• 12:20
  Speaker 11: What's up?
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 20: Hey, I just wanted to give you all a shout
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  Speaker 20: out real quick, uh, good morning every Monday. And I
• 12:26
  Speaker 20: just kind of want to touch on those terror that
• 12:28
  Speaker 20: you're uh a little too earlier with Donald Trump.
• 12:32
  Speaker 10: I think it's important.
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  Speaker 20: Right now for what he's doing, uh, because a lot
• 12:36
  Speaker 20: of people are, you know, worried about the short term
• 12:39
  Speaker 20: uh prices increasing and things like that. But you're basically
• 12:43
  Speaker 20: in bed with the enemy. And if you ask anybody
• 12:46
  Speaker 20: with common ton if it's okay to be in bed
• 12:48
  Speaker 20: with the enemy, most people will tell you no. The
• 12:51
  Speaker 20: terariff against fault countries are basically to avoid China from
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  Speaker 20: sending their product to the country to exploit trade.
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  Speaker 6: Agree with those countries, Listen.
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  Speaker 1: I hope that the long term, I hope there is
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: a long term plan to this and I hope it
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: does work out.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not sitting here rooting against it.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: But you know, when we talk about, you know, for
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: the moment people having some pain, you do realize those
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: moments can kill people, right, Like, people really can't afford
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: to livet Like, that's it effect that there's a great
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all watched Black Mirror, but I
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: watched the episode of Black Mirror yesterday that Tracy Ellis
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: rosses in.
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  Speaker 9: Is that the one that Ray was just sent well Easter.
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: Ray is not in that episode, but because it's anthology series,
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: but Tracy Ellis ross is in it. And it's literally
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: an episode about how a person, about how a couple
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: cannot afford to live. That I'm not gonna tell you
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: no more than that, but that's literally what it's about.
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: Some people cannot afford to live, and they have to
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: make a choice on whether or not to stay alive
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: or die simply because they can't afford to live.
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: Well, get it off your chest eight hundred five eight
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: five one oh five to one. If you need to VID,
• 13:50
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• 13:53
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• 13:58
  Speaker 18: Ray, Yo, charlomne yamvy, what up are we lost?
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest.
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: from you on the breakfast club.
• 14:08
  Speaker 18: Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what
• 14:10
  Speaker 18: it is we live. Hello.
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: Who's this yo?
• 14:13
  Speaker 18: This is Chris Chris.
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: Get it off your chest, man, I want.
• 14:17
  Speaker 10: To figure up Viob's cartel.
• 14:18
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 14:18
  Speaker 18: He came did his thing in Brooklyn.
• 14:20
  Speaker 17: Man, that was nice.
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 14:22
  Speaker 18: I live in Florida, though, but man, I'm Jamaican and
• 14:24
  Speaker 18: just to see that, that's that's big for the culture.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: Oh you didn't go to the show, you just you
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  Speaker 2: just check it in.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause that's big man, you know what
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, jamaking and just for the dance out community.
• 14:33
  Speaker 10: Man, that's big.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: Everybody came together, no incident, no problems. It was a
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: great show. He's gonna be out there soon.
• 14:40
  Speaker 6: I think he's got a Miami concert.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: He got a Miami consent in Fort lauda Dale concert
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: coming up. So you definitely got to check that.
• 14:45
  Speaker 18: Yeah, yeah, for sure, man, big off the vibe.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: Actually it's April no May seventeenth, he'll be in Sunrise Florida.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely checking out great show. Hello, who's this Hey?
• 14:56
  Speaker 21: Good morning?
• 14:57
  Speaker 20: Did he say hey, Shaye?
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: Get it off your chest?
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: So this is a request for trova made. I'm requesting
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: that you stop giving black people donkey of the day.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: That's impossible, that would be that would be discrimination. Black
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: donkey today does not discriminate.
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: Exactly, But that's what we do now. We've gotten rid
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: of THEE and I practices. So let's stop giving black
• 15:20
  Speaker 4: people donkey yesterday.
• 15:22
  Speaker 6: That that would be stupid. Donkey today does not discriminate.
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: Black people get donkey, White people get donkey, Asians get donkey.
• 15:28
  Speaker 6: That's why we do. Guess what race it is?
• 15:30
  Speaker 19: Like?
• 15:30
  Speaker 7: No, Yeah, and I know.
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: I feel like it shines a very negative spotlight on
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: black people. We've already got enough negativity on us. Why
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: do we have to spread will not weave? But why
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: do you have to spread to love and give it
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: to different races when there's enough foolery going on amongst
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: older communities.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: The fact that you even here's the thing, right, are
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: you going to stop talking about black people period? When
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: you when when when you see a trending topic and
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: it's somebody, uh, you know, getting jumped on social media
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: for whatever, are you gonna not chime in?
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: Well, I really don't try me and anyway, oh you
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: really don't know.
• 16:07
  Speaker 6: You have to stop. Period.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: That means that if you want me to stop giving
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: black people donkey today, then you can't ever speak uh
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: ill about black people in any way, shape or form,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: even if they do something stupid that doesn't make no sense.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: Right, I don't do it, you know, I don't do
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: that online. Yeah, I don't speak negative about black people.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's I don't think it's speaking negative
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: to state the obvious. And and please don't make don't
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: make donkey today a race thing. Okay, Donkey to day
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: is about giving people the credit they deserve for being stupid.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Well, thank you, Hello, who's this?
• 16:37
  Speaker 21: Hey?
• 16:40
  Speaker 6: What part of the A four three?
• 16:41
  Speaker 21: You calling from from Georgetown? But I'm leaving the most call.
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: Telling hey what you got? You got a little you
• 16:46
  Speaker 6: got a little boo out there.
• 16:47
  Speaker 21: Don't do that. I've got a little job, a little.
• 16:49
  Speaker 6: Job, okay, okay, okay, all right, So.
• 16:52
  Speaker 21: Good morning, guys, good morning, good morning. Congratulated you on
• 16:59
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• 17:04
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• 17:06
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• 17:12
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• 17:16
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• 17:17
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• 17:18
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• 17:22
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• 17:25
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• 17:28
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• 17:32
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• 17:36
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• 17:38
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• 17:41
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• 17:46
  Speaker 21: A few months ago, I called him right before Christmas
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• 17:51
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• 17:53
  Speaker 18: Her four months.
• 17:54
  Speaker 21: I forgot to mention that I went to therapy and
• 17:57
  Speaker 21: you were the reason why I went to therapy.
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: Oh dope, man, that's dope. I'm glad that are you
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: still in there?
• 18:02
  Speaker 21: You just went for a little bit, ran out, so
• 18:06
  Speaker 21: I'm not in there anymore, but I will go back.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Well, listen, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org. That's my uh,
• 18:13
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• 18:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org.
• 18:25
  Speaker 21: All right, I hope you guys have a great weed.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: You too, Sending you nothing but positive energy, loving like
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: get it off your chest.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one five one. Now we
• 18:34
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  Speaker 1: We do.
• 18:35
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• 18:41
  Speaker 6: Girl Biling.
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  Speaker 9: Reheated it for the game.
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: We did not.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: It never cooled off. Anybody that thinks it cools off
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: ain't paying attention.
• 18:50
  Speaker 6: And you must be twelve.
• 18:52
  Speaker 9: We're gonna talk about it, all right.
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: That's like Tom and Jerry. That beef is up forever forever.
• 18:57
  Speaker 9: I had to mute my tweets. I tweeted like is
• 18:59
  Speaker 9: this going to go on forever?
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: It is.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, you don't know your history?
• 19:02
  Speaker 9: I do you talk about it. We'll get into it, y'all.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Save it all right, we'll get into that next it's
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Morning.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: Everybody is ceej Envy, Jess, Hilarry, Charlamagne, the guy. We
• 19:16
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• 19:17
  Speaker 7: Good morning.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Let's get to the latest with Lauren.
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  Speaker 5: Lauren be coming a straight fast man.
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  Speaker 9: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
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  Speaker 6: She'd be having the latest on it.
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• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: have a little bit everything.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club.
• 19:40
  Speaker 19: Something.
• 19:42
  Speaker 8: So Jau and fifty cent are going well, I would
• 19:45
  Speaker 8: say back and forth, but fifty cent hasn't fully responded
• 19:47
  Speaker 8: to Jarro yet. But he did respond to the fact
• 19:49
  Speaker 8: that ja Rul was on the Breakfast Club and we
• 19:52
  Speaker 8: had a conversation with him about fifty and a few things.
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: Let's take a listen to Jarow and the Breakfast Club.
• 19:56
  Speaker 11: You know, I see some of the things that he
• 19:58
  Speaker 11: gets involved in, fuse on something like like crow up money.
• 20:02
  Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying.
• 20:03
  Speaker 11: Like, when I see the things that he does, and
• 20:04
  Speaker 11: you know he did the Earth a million, I'm like.
• 20:08
  Speaker 6: How do you feel about that?
• 20:09
  Speaker 11: So, of course nobody likes all his goofies, but it's goofy,
• 20:13
  Speaker 11: you know what I'm saying. So I'm like, I'm not.
• 20:14
  Speaker 11: Preme said it best because I was hot, you know
• 20:17
  Speaker 11: what I'm saying.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: I was hot. I was I was ready to go nuclear.
• 20:20
  Speaker 6: And you know, I say.
• 20:21
  Speaker 11: I spoke to him anyway, and Prince said, y'all, he
• 20:23
  Speaker 11: said that. He said, you know, he said, here's you
• 20:25
  Speaker 11: gotta understand about who we are and what we are. Said,
• 20:28
  Speaker 11: we are masters of self defense. I said, because I'm not.
• 20:32
  Speaker 11: I'm I don't want to start trouble and make trouble
• 20:35
  Speaker 11: with people. But if we got to get into it
• 20:37
  Speaker 11: and make it, oh, I'll I'll put it to it
• 20:41
  Speaker 11: or I'll take it to the next you know. So
• 20:43
  Speaker 11: that's why I'm like, you know what, that is the
• 20:45
  Speaker 11: best description of what I am and who I am
• 20:48
  Speaker 11: as a man that I could ever think about.
• 20:52
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 20:52
  Speaker 8: So, after the video started to make the rounds, fifty
• 20:55
  Speaker 8: Cent posted to his Instagram and then deleted it. It
• 20:57
  Speaker 8: was a screenshot at Jarrul sitting in a sea here
• 21:00
  Speaker 8: at the Breakfast Club, and the caption said the breakfast
• 21:02
  Speaker 8: club should be ashamed of themselves asking questions that perpetuate violence.
• 21:06
  Speaker 8: This fool has been getting ready to go what he
• 21:08
  Speaker 8: calls nuclear for twenty two years. Laugh oulout your man
• 21:11
  Speaker 8: and my runts right now. So after this raps, Yeah,
• 21:17
  Speaker 8: it's like you know the the Wayians be like smoking
• 21:20
  Speaker 8: on your homie.
• 21:21
  Speaker 9: That.
• 21:22
  Speaker 8: So then Jarroul got on Twitter or x and decided
• 21:25
  Speaker 8: to respond. He said he had a day off from tour,
• 21:28
  Speaker 8: so he had time and then he just started going off.
• 21:30
  Speaker 8: So he told fifty that until fifty does something to
• 21:33
  Speaker 8: the people that shot him, he can't trol no more
• 21:36
  Speaker 8: go hand to get business like a champ. He told
• 21:38
  Speaker 8: him the SMD. He called him the B word. He said,
• 21:42
  Speaker 8: he already ate your he already ate his lunch, so
• 21:44
  Speaker 8: shut up. They someone had said. Somebody responded to Jarrol
• 21:48
  Speaker 8: and said, just admit that you watch Power lmao, like
• 21:51
  Speaker 8: calling him a fan. Jarrol said, never seen one episode.
• 21:54
  Speaker 8: He's solid or where he is? He told fifty from
• 21:56
  Speaker 8: now on, his name is Booboo and that's what they
• 21:59
  Speaker 8: used to call because that's they used to call him
• 22:00
  Speaker 8: on the streets. But really it was booboo to fool.
• 22:02
  Speaker 8: He says that fifty cents from the streets from Brooklyn,
• 22:06
  Speaker 8: you boo boo from Queens. He says he called fifty
• 22:10
  Speaker 8: cent used car salesman. He brought the fact that he
• 22:13
  Speaker 8: used to be used car salesman. Everything you do is trash,
• 22:17
  Speaker 8: not one good music, one good album after that, trash, trash,
• 22:21
  Speaker 8: TV shows, trash everything. Some of these tweets is not
• 22:26
  Speaker 8: really tweeting. He says that he's gonna make.
• 22:31
  Speaker 9: He just looked.
• 22:31
  Speaker 8: He said fifty c in his garbage that he's trashed,
• 22:33
  Speaker 8: and people were responding to that, like, now you know
• 22:35
  Speaker 8: that ain't true. You know he didn't have some good
• 22:36
  Speaker 8: music and has some hits and yeah, so he's just
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: been going off on Twitter. Fifty has not responded to
• 22:42
  Speaker 8: this yet, but I'm sure he probably might. But he
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: did delete that first tweet, I mean that first Instagram post.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: It tickles me to watch the new generation, you know,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: be intrigued by this, like we've been watching this forever.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: This is Cowboys versus Redskins, This is Lakers versus versus
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: North Carolin, this is the Hatfield versus McCoy's.
• 23:00
  Speaker 6: That's what Jo ruling.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: And it'll never end.
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: It's never gonna end.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: It'll be ninety nine with canes going at each sitting each.
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: Other with wheelchairs. This is just the case, like it's
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: a beef that will never end. And I understand it.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: If you know the history between them, you will completely understand.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: And I ain't got time to sit here and give
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: y'all know history lessons.
• 23:19
  Speaker 8: Yeah, jo Rul started posting paperwork calling fifty cent a
• 23:22
  Speaker 8: rat like it was going and going and going and going.
• 23:24
  Speaker 8: I tweeted, I'm like, y'all, I love both of them,
• 23:26
  Speaker 8: white kick, that's just in Oh. I had to meet
• 23:29
  Speaker 8: my tweet the way that people were like, we don't
• 23:31
  Speaker 8: want it to end and it's not going I'm like.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Well, no, it's a never end. It's not going to end.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Like I said, there'll be ninety nine and wheelchairs and
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: canes going at each other. Dis and Eve.
• 23:40
  Speaker 22: Yeah.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Well and from from never Mind, I was good, never mind,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: it don't even matter, none of your business.
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: It's not it's not well.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: But if you go watch the interview, all I'm gonna
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: say from fifty's perspective, when you feel like somebody tried
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: to take everything from you, everything, yeah, not just lively everything.
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not goever it's a fevol.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: It's never well.
• 24:06
  Speaker 8: Speaking of going up, Gail King is going to space today,
• 24:10
  Speaker 8: So as long as weather permits today, Gail King will
• 24:13
  Speaker 8: be going up into space at nine thirty am.
• 24:16
  Speaker 9: But it's not just Gail King.
• 24:17
  Speaker 8: This is actually the first all woman crew to lift
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: off in nearly six decades, and they'll be going up
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: via Blue Origin, which is owned by Eli Muh I'm sorry,
• 24:25
  Speaker 8: which is owned by Jeff Bezos. Now in this flight
• 24:29
  Speaker 8: you have Gail King, Katy Perry, Laurence Sanchez who is
• 24:33
  Speaker 8: the fiance of Jeff besos Aihabo Aman Nuegian, and Carrion Flynn.
• 24:40
  Speaker 9: So they'll be headed up at nine thirty and there
• 24:41
  Speaker 9: will be a live.
• 24:42
  Speaker 8: Stream that will be streaming this that I believe that
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: livestream portal opens around like eight am on various places
• 24:49
  Speaker 8: where you can watch them prior to and getting on
• 24:52
  Speaker 8: and taking off, and they'll be up there for some
• 24:53
  Speaker 8: time and then they'll come right back down.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: I've got there for a minute or something like that.
• 24:56
  Speaker 8: Yeah, but then they have to before they go up
• 24:58
  Speaker 8: though it does have to be cleared of course weather
• 25:01
  Speaker 8: and all that stuff, so it's all depending. But I
• 25:03
  Speaker 8: don't know about y'all, but I was saying about this.
• 25:04
  Speaker 8: The dad just ask Charlotte, like, would y'all ever go
• 25:06
  Speaker 8: to space?
• 25:06
  Speaker 6: Nope?
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: Before I would have, But now I got six kids,
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: now I might.
• 25:14
  Speaker 6: I ain't got no reason to be up there.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: I would love that, but I've done sky diving, I've
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: done all types of stupid stuff before, but not now.
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: But the six kid Now, I saw something yesterday.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: I was reading this weekend about how they're building like
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: a space hotel that's gonna be for like four hundred guests,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: and it's gonna have artificial gravity up there. And I'm like,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I have no reason to be up there. You know,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I'm cool. I like being on island, so I don't
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: need to be in space. Hell, I need to be
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: in space.
• 25:37
  Speaker 8: I think it's just the excitement to say you experienced
• 25:39
  Speaker 8: it and to see what it is. And they'll actually
• 25:41
  Speaker 8: unbuckle and float in the capsule for about four minutes
• 25:44
  Speaker 8: while up.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: There, oh longer than a minute? Well what y'all? Wish
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: them the best of love, praying I.
• 25:47
  Speaker 6: Wait to hear about it.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't even show me.
• 25:49
  Speaker 6: I don't need to experience that. I can smart people
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: learn from their own mistakes.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Whyse people learn from the mistakes of others, not saying
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: that they're making a mistake. I'm just saying that I
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: can learn and enjoy something watching somebody else.
• 25:59
  Speaker 6: I'm fine watching them.
• 26:00
  Speaker 8: Yeah, some people gotta walk and some people got to
• 26:02
  Speaker 8: sit down and watch. And I'm down and sit.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Down and watch. There's no business being in space, but
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I wish him the best stuff. I'm not a thrill
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: seeker like that. Like life is, you know, hectic enough.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: I used to be, Like I said, I did the
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: sky diving thing, I do that zipping over the Safari.
• 26:20
  Speaker 8: It's all crazy because I used to be a flight
• 26:22
  Speaker 8: aer sent it, but I would never do stuff like that, did.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: All that stupid stuff like I guess and plus I
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: got it.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I got I deal with anxiety like I don't need
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: to be scaring myself. I don't even like going to
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: see horror movies to have them pay somebody to scare me.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: For people that go on roller coasters for what I will.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a roller That one jump out of plane
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: was everything. I wouldn't do it again, but it was everything,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: just free floating in the sky like Superman.
• 26:47
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Win you and you just just watching. Everything was beautiful.
• 26:51
  Speaker 19: Man.
• 26:52
  Speaker 6: Again, I was all the thrill I needed, guns pulled on,
• 26:55
  Speaker 6: needed and beat. You know what I'm saying.
• 26:57
  Speaker 9: I've been through a lot over there.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: You don't need to know.
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: I deserve everything I got. I deserve it all.
• 27:01
  Speaker 9: Hereiot, you're going to be right here on the ground
• 27:03
  Speaker 9: to it and fill it.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, right, he gonna be in space.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: That is the latest with Laura. Now when we come back,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: we got front Page News and then author Mel Robbins
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: will be joining us. That don't go anywhere. It's the
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club.
• 27:14
  Speaker 23: Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy. We
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: are to Breakfast Club. Layla Rosa is here. Let's get
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  Speaker 2: in some front page news. Now, if you're an NBA fan,
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  Speaker 2: the playoffs again. April nineteenth, all right, So April nineteenth
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  Speaker 2: they have the playing tournament and then the playoffs begin.
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  Speaker 2: So good luck to the New York Knicks out there.
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  Speaker 2: All right? What up, Morgan?
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  Speaker 12: Hey, what's up? Al?
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  Speaker 13: So earlier in the show, we were talking about President
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  Speaker 13: Trump and the Supreme Court, right, so he said he
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  Speaker 13: will follow the Supreme Court order to return a Maryland
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  Speaker 13: man who was wrongfully reported. Now. Last Thursday, the High
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  Speaker 13: Court ruled that the government must facilitate the return of
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  Speaker 13: Kilmar Abrego Garcia, who was supported by accident last month
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  Speaker 13: to an El Salvador prison now. When asked about it
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  Speaker 13: on Air Force One on Friday, Trump said he respects
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  Speaker 13: the Supreme Court and that if the Supreme Court said
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  Speaker 13: bring somebody back.
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  Speaker 12: That he would do it. Charlemagne.
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  Speaker 13: So, the State Department says, the Maryland man who was
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  Speaker 13: wrongfully afforded to El Salvador is quote alive and secure.
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  Speaker 13: Officials initially wouldn't get his whereabouts. On Saturday, but it
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  Speaker 13: was revealed that Garcia is being held in a Now
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  Speaker 13: Salvador in prison called the Terrorism Confinement Center, and later
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  Speaker 13: lawyers for Garcia are US also asking the judge to
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  Speaker 13: hold the Justice Apartment in contempt for failing to return
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  Speaker 13: him to the US.
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  Speaker 12: So, right now, what the judge and what's surrounding.
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  Speaker 13: This case basically is they are trying to facilitate his return.
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  Speaker 13: But they also said that that can't happen, you know,
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  Speaker 13: as immediate as the courts would like.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that Friday, with twelve hours ago to Trump,
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  Speaker 1: administration contends it has no duty to return the illegally
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  Speaker 1: deported man to the US.
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  Speaker 6: That was literally twelve hours ago. Listen in the New
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  Speaker 6: York Times.
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  Speaker 1: I saw him say that Friday, but hours ago they
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  Speaker 1: said something totally different.
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  Speaker 13: I was going to say on Saturday. This is what
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  Speaker 13: he said, that the man is alive and secure. I
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  Speaker 13: know that the court has ruled that he is supposed
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  Speaker 13: to provide or the administration excuse me, and the DOJ
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  Speaker 13: is supposed to provide daily updates to the court, to
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  Speaker 13: the judge in regards to Garcia, how they're facilitating getting
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  Speaker 13: him back. So I should have an update again for
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  Speaker 13: you tomorrow. I'm supposed to based on what the court ruled.
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  Speaker 13: But you know, we will see again. We will see
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  Speaker 13: with Trump, we will see. Switching gears to Pennsylvania. A
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  Speaker 13: man is in custody and will face attempted murder and
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  Speaker 13: arson charges following an early morning fire at the Pennsylvania
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  Speaker 13: Governor's mansion.
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  Speaker 12: According to the Pennsylvania.
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  Speaker 13: State Police, firefighters responded to the Harrisburg residents of Shapiro
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  Speaker 13: at about two am. Now, Jos Shapiro says his family
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  Speaker 13: was home at the time, but we're able to escape unharmed.
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  Speaker 13: Governor Josh Shapiro also said the violence needs to stop
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  Speaker 13: and this action will not deter him.
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  Speaker 12: Let's take a listen to his comments.
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  Speaker 14: It's kind of violence is becoming far too common in
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  Speaker 14: our society, and I don't give it damn if it's
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  Speaker 14: coming from one particular side or the other. If this
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  Speaker 14: individual was trying to deter me from doing my job
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  Speaker 14: as your governor, rest assured, I will find a way
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  Speaker 14: to work even harder than I was just yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: Yes Luther.
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  Speaker 1: Governor jos Shapiro man, great governor, great human. I hate
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  Speaker 1: that happened to him and his family, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: understand how that happened. Like that's the governor's mansion. How
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  Speaker 1: did he even get onto property? Yeah, how did he
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  Speaker 1: even get close enough to the house and even said
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  Speaker 1: it on that that's scary.
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  Speaker 12: Shapiro did say that.
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  Speaker 13: He went on to say that the attack was targeted,
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  Speaker 13: but a specific motive is not yet known of Pennsylvania
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  Speaker 13: State Police, of course, say that the investigation is ongoing
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  Speaker 13: and they believe it was an act of arson. So again,
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  Speaker 13: I'll keep you posted as that story develops.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know, keep this in mind, Governor Shapiro. The
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  Speaker 1: reason they're targeting you is because you are a threat
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  Speaker 1: to Luther. Governor Jos Shapiro, like you know, and it's
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  Speaker 1: that you know, in twenty twenty eight he'd be a
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  Speaker 1: prime candidate. But the Democratic brand is so whack that
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  Speaker 1: it makes the great ones like Governor Joshuapiro, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it chained them a little bit just because the brand
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  Speaker 1: is so whack.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got to fix the security. Got to
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  Speaker 2: make sure he's more security now, Like you said, he's
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  Speaker 2: in the governor's mansion. There's no way in hell they
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  Speaker 2: should have got that close.
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  Speaker 8: So right, they got on about the house, but it
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  Speaker 8: shouldn't have been all right, all right, guys, And I
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  Speaker 8: just wanted to touch on this story.
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  Speaker 13: There is a story that's been developing. I've been watching
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  Speaker 13: this story, but I didn't want to rush to report
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  Speaker 13: on it and just let some of the facts come out.
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  Speaker 13: There's been a developing story out of Texas following a
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  Speaker 13: stabbing death at a high school track meet. Carmelo Anthony,
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  Speaker 13: with a k no relation to the basketball players that
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  Speaker 13: I know of, was charged in a fatal stabbing of
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  Speaker 13: seventeen year old Austin Metcalf at a track meet about
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  Speaker 13: two weeks ago at Frisco's Id's Memorial High School. Now,
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  Speaker 13: his family announced on Saturday that they had hired a
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  Speaker 13: new attorney to represent Anthony. Anthony has no previous criminal
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  Speaker 13: history and isn't likely to be considered a flight risk
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  Speaker 13: since his family lives in Frisco. Now, local activists and
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  Speaker 13: spokesperson for Anthony addressed the media to clear up some
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  Speaker 13: rumors that this happened as a result of Metcalf bullying
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  Speaker 13: Anthony and that the two knew each other prior to
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  Speaker 13: this incident, which is not true. Let's take a listen
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  Speaker 13: to spokesperson Dominique Alexander does.
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  Speaker 1: Disinformation that is going online is hurting this case and it.
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  Speaker 7: Has to stop.
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  Speaker 2: It has to stop, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: As we know it right now, Austin Metcalf and Carmela
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  Speaker 1: Anthony did not know each other.
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  Speaker 6: They did not know each other. Let's stop it.
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  Speaker 13: So for the Frisco murder suspect Carmelo Anthony, he has
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  Speaker 13: a bond reduction hearing scheduled for today. His attorney's planned
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  Speaker 13: to ask the court to reduce his bond to one
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  Speaker 13: million dollars. Now, Metcalf was laid to rest over the
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  Speaker 13: weekend on Saturday. Let's take a listen to Austin Metcalf,
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  Speaker 13: the father he will as he talks about his son.
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  Speaker 20: He stabbed my son in the heart and killed him.
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  Speaker 4: That's the extent of this.
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  Speaker 21: That's what it was over something so small, so trivial.
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  Speaker 1: He's a leader, you believe in God.
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  Speaker 20: He was a great kid, made me the proudest father
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  Speaker 20: in the world.
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  Speaker 6: That's awesome.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, So of course I will keep you guys posted
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  Speaker 13: as to how this story develops. But again, as mentioned,
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  Speaker 13: there is a bond reduction hearing today and there seems
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  Speaker 13: to be quite the support for the suspect. There has
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  Speaker 13: been a fundraiser. Give go has raised more than two
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  Speaker 13: hundred and eighty five thousand dollars in regards to support
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  Speaker 13: for his defense. So gifsing go also has fundraisers for
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  Speaker 13: Kyle Rittenhouse and Daniel Penny, just to give you guys
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  Speaker 13: some perspective on that. So it seems to be those
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  Speaker 13: who are supporting the what's the word I would use,
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  Speaker 13: less popular or those who just defense basically, I'll just say,
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  Speaker 13: but yeah, so bringing things home to you guys in
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  Speaker 13: New York really quickly. To wrap things up, the Central
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  Speaker 13: Park five, also known as the Exonerated Five, got the
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  Speaker 13: green light from a federal judge on Thursday to move
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  Speaker 13: forward with a defamation lawsuit against President Trump.
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  Speaker 12: The five black and one Hispanic man.
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  Speaker 13: Were teenagers when they were arrested in nineteen eighty nine
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  Speaker 13: for assault and rape of a white woman dragging in
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  Speaker 13: New York City park. Trump took out a full page
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  Speaker 13: newspaper ad calling for the return of the death penalty
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  Speaker 13: following the incident. It of course took years before they
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  Speaker 13: were all eventually freed and exonerated, and someone else confessed
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  Speaker 13: to the crime and DNA evidence backed that up. That
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  Speaker 13: didn't stop Trump from commenting on their case as recently
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  Speaker 13: as twenty twenty four, even going as far as falsely
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  Speaker 13: claiming the victim in the incident had been killed.
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  Speaker 12: So these guys.
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  Speaker 13: Are like, yeah, y'are you're not going to do that
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  Speaker 13: to me, and they're going to move forward with that
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  Speaker 13: case in regards to a defamation lawsuit against President Trump.
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  Speaker 13: So we'll see what happens with that as well. But
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  Speaker 13: that's your front page news y'all. Y'all can follow me
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  Speaker 12: Have you Monday, Let's make it a great.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Morgan, Thank you all. Right now, when we
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  Speaker 2: come back, Mel Robbins will be joining us. She has
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  Speaker 2: a new book to Let Them Theory, and we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: talk to her next And don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 18: Morning.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy, just hilarious, Charlamage the guy we
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  Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. La La Rosa is here as well,
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  Speaker 2: and we got a special guest in the building. Ladies
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  Speaker 2: and gentlemen, Meil Robbins.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome.
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  Speaker 22: Hey, it's good to see you. How you feeling morning,
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  Speaker 22: I feel great? How are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: Bless Black and Holly favorite. This is your first time
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  Speaker 1: in this studio. You were here in twenty twenty one
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  Speaker 1: when you had a high five Theory. Yes, yes, but
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  Speaker 1: now millions of books later, number one podcast in the
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  Speaker 1: world right now, everybody else.
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  Speaker 6: Relations It really feels like you've truly arrived. What do
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  Speaker 6: you what do you think you know the success was
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  Speaker 6: made all this new success.
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  Speaker 22: Happen, Well, you know it's not new success. Like what
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  Speaker 22: you're seeing is the result of fifteen years of just boring,
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  Speaker 22: grueling daily reps. Like That's what nobody wants to understand,
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  Speaker 22: is that you can be successful. You can achieve anything
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  Speaker 22: you want. You just have to be patient. You have
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  Speaker 22: to get up out of bed every single day and
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  Speaker 22: put one foot in front of the other. You got
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  Speaker 22: to be willing to do the things you don't feel
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  Speaker 22: like doing in the dark when nobody's watching and when
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  Speaker 22: you think that it's not going to happen for you.
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  Speaker 22: That is what it's about. It's about just consistent, small moves,
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  Speaker 22: being patient. I mean, there were so many times where
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  Speaker 22: I was just like, am I ever going to get
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  Speaker 22: out of it? Is anyone ever gonna notice? Like am
• 36:43
  Speaker 22: I ever gonna get invited to the breakfast club? Like
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  Speaker 22: one of the like when is somebody gone to notice.
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  Speaker 2: Your spot that you want it?
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  Speaker 11: Well?
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  Speaker 22: No, but seriously, like you kind of sit there because
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  Speaker 22: I mean every one of us have had those moments,
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  Speaker 22: whether you're putting out music or you're starting a YouTube
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  Speaker 22: channel or you started a business, and it's so easy
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  Speaker 22: to look around at what everybody else is doing and
• 37:03
  Speaker 22: think that you're losing some race in life. The real
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  Speaker 22: game is with yourself. Can you keep going? Can you
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  Speaker 22: say to yourself? And this is kind of how I
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  Speaker 22: would keep myself going in those moments, I would say,
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  Speaker 22: I refuse to believe that this is how the story ends.
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  Speaker 22: I believe that at some point all of this work
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  Speaker 22: is going to pay off. I don't have to know how.
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  Speaker 22: I have to believe that it will. And if it
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  Speaker 22: hasn't yet, it's not meant to yet. There's some lesson.
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  Speaker 22: There's something I'm being held for that I don't know
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  Speaker 22: what it is. But if I choose to believe in
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  Speaker 22: this moment that things are going to get better, that
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  Speaker 22: things are going to turn out for me, that all
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  Speaker 22: this hard work is going to pay off, that trying
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  Speaker 22: to be a better person is going to pay off,
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  Speaker 22: at some point I will look back on my life
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  Speaker 22: and say, oh, that's why it didn't happen. Then, Oh,
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  Speaker 22: that's why it took longer. Oh that's why either you
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  Speaker 22: weren't ready or God the universe was holding you for
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  Speaker 22: a different moment. And so you know, a lot of
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  Speaker 22: people ask me what is this moment about. I think
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  Speaker 22: it's about fifteen years of ridiculously hard work becoming a
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  Speaker 22: better person. I think it's about fifteen years of just
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  Speaker 22: chipping away at getting out of debt and doing better
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  Speaker 22: in my marriage, and being a better mother, and getting
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  Speaker 22: control of my emotions and my mental health, chipping away
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  Speaker 22: at building a business. And I truly believe that I
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  Speaker 22: was being held for this moment like this one thousand
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  Speaker 22: percent is my legacy.
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  Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you a question, Malt. You talk
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  Speaker 2: about the reps yep, for you, it worked out and
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  Speaker 2: successful and great. What about that person that is just
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  Speaker 2: not good? Right? That rap of that is not good?
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  Speaker 2: Like trying that podcast person that is doing the podcast
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  Speaker 2: that is just not good and everybody just stay good
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  Speaker 2: good to anybody?
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  Speaker 22: Well, I don't I see, I don't believe that.
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  Speaker 2: But when do you stop? Because you're a sixty year
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  Speaker 2: old rapper, like you know, I mean.
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  Speaker 22: Maybe why can't there be a ninety one ninety year
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  Speaker 22: old one? See? Maybe what the rapping is for is
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  Speaker 22: maybe it's not about rapping. Maybe there is something that
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  Speaker 22: you're doing when you are wrapping and nobody's coming that
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  Speaker 22: is teaching you a lesson about patience. Maybe what it's
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  Speaker 22: doing is teaching you to believe in yourself when nobody
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  Speaker 22: else does. And every time that you show up and
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  Speaker 22: nobody's there, every time you post a video on your
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  Speaker 22: YouTube channel that only your uncle and your son are
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  Speaker 22: subscribed to, every time you post, you're basically saying, you
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  Speaker 22: know what, screw the world. I believe in myself. I'm
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  Speaker 22: doing this for myself and so for me when you
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  Speaker 22: give the example of like the person who's a rappers
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  Speaker 22: is terrible, just there's lots of people out there doing stuff.
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  Speaker 22: They're just terrible. What I love is that they felt
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  Speaker 22: called to do something. I don't care if they felt
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  Speaker 22: called to do it because they wanted to make more money.
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  Speaker 22: I mean, hell, I was working five six jobs back,
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  Speaker 22: you know, fifteen years ago when we were eight hundred
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  Speaker 22: thousand dollars in debt because I needed groceries on the table,
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  Speaker 22: I needed gas in the tank. And so motivation to
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  Speaker 22: be safe and to make money or because of your ambition.
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  Speaker 22: That's a beautiful thing. But at some point you're going
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  Speaker 22: to go, I'm I'm not that good at this, but
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  Speaker 22: I believe and this is what I think is super
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  Speaker 22: cool about life. Absolutely every experience that you have in
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  Speaker 22: life is leading you somewhere and teaching you something. And
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  Speaker 22: I'm gonna one of the reasons why I share so
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  Speaker 22: much about what I've learned and the mistakes that I've made.
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  Speaker 22: I'm like the villain and every book is because I'm stubborn,
• 40:20
  Speaker 22: Like it takes a sledgehammer from the universe for me
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  Speaker 22: to wake the hell up and stop doing something like
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  Speaker 22: I literally get so into my groove, whether it's drinking
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  Speaker 22: too much or taking my stress out on my kids
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  Speaker 22: or being a jealous, insecure friend that things have to
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  Speaker 22: backfire for me to wake up and go, well, yes,
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  Speaker 22: I better try something different.
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  Speaker 6: Well, that's what I want to Just set it up.
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  Speaker 1: About the book, man, there's some books that I believe
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: are must reads in life. Delecting Theory by mel Robbins
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: has been added to that must readless. My wife got
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  Speaker 1: it for me a few weeks ago, and the book
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: is just essentially about how you have to stop wasting
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  Speaker 1: your life on things that you can't control.
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  Speaker 6: When did you get to that revelus?
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  Speaker 22: Oh my god, fifty four I explained learner, you know,
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  Speaker 22: And the funny thing is is I'm married to the
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  Speaker 22: chillest dude on the plan. I mean, I'm married to
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  Speaker 22: a man who is not only Buddhist, he is a
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  Speaker 22: death dula. And like when you want to talk about
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  Speaker 22: like a person, yeah that can just sit in stillness.
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  Speaker 22: I'm like a tornado of emotion. And so I've always
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  Speaker 22: wanted to let things go. I've always wanted to not
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  Speaker 22: care what people think. I've never known how. And see,
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  Speaker 22: when you're stressed, or you're easily offended like I used
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  Speaker 22: to be, or you have a lot going on, it
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  Speaker 22: is very hard to not get wrapped up and what
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  Speaker 22: other people are thinking and doing. It's very hard to
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  Speaker 22: not let what your kids are going through stress you out.
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  Speaker 22: And so you know, I've been trying to do this forever.
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  Speaker 22: I mean, this is not a new idea. The serenity
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  Speaker 22: prayer is the let Them theory. In fact, you know,
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  Speaker 22: I sat down with doctor Martin Luther King the third
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  Speaker 22: and his wife and Andrea, and they both said, we write
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  Speaker 22: about it in the let Them theory. They both reflect
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  Speaker 22: on the fact that this concept that you have to
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  Speaker 22: give up control in order to gain control, that your
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  Speaker 22: power is in your response that this is part of
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  Speaker 22: doctor Martin Luther King Junior's legacy, because your response is
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  Speaker 22: what dictates who you are. It's not what's happening out there,
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  Speaker 22: it's how you respond to it with your thoughts and
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  Speaker 22: your actions and how you process your own emotions. And
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  Speaker 22: so I did not know this until I was fifty
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  Speaker 22: four years old. And you know for me personally the
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  Speaker 22: power of these two words, because let them We've all
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  Speaker 22: said let them in our lives a bazillion times. I mean,
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  Speaker 22: there's a sermon circulating that's twenty years old.
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  Speaker 7: T D.
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  Speaker 22: Jakes doing this let them sermons. So this is a
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  Speaker 22: concept that has been around since the beginning of time,
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  Speaker 22: and that's why this is resonated. I'm not teaching you
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  Speaker 22: something new. I'm reminding you of what you already know
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  Speaker 22: to be true. And I'm handing you this tool so
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  Speaker 22: you can snap out of this crap where we're constantly
• 42:52
  Speaker 22: worked up about what other people are doing to take
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  Speaker 22: our power back.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: We got more with auth of mel Robbins when we
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: come back, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Good
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  Speaker 2: morning morning. Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Hilarry Charlamagne,
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  Speaker 2: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club Laura la Rosters
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  Speaker 2: here as well. We're still kicking with mel Robbins.
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  Speaker 5: Lauren.
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  Speaker 8: You talk about managing other people a lot, and I've
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  Speaker 8: never heard the term put like that, but you use
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  Speaker 8: it to basically talk about how we're so what you're
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  Speaker 8: talking about r now, we're worried about other people, but
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  Speaker 8: also too, I think it's expectations of other people that
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  Speaker 8: we're trying to we're making decisions based around that a lot.
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  Speaker 8: When did you realize this whole scale of like managing
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  Speaker 8: other people and learning when the clock out of that
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  Speaker 8: job of trying to do that?
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  Speaker 22: Well, so what's going to happen is this? So when
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  Speaker 22: you start using the let them theory, and it's so
• 43:37
  Speaker 22: easy to use the next time you're stressed out or
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  Speaker 22: annoyed or frustrated, and it's always with other people, just
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  Speaker 22: say let them. That's how you use it. Let them,
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  Speaker 22: and you're gonna immediately feel peaceful. Your mom's in a
• 43:47
  Speaker 22: bad mood, letter be in a bad mood, some old
• 43:49
  Speaker 22: friend of yours is talking let them talk trash. Why
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  Speaker 22: you're not allowing it? When you say let them, you
• 43:56
  Speaker 22: are reminding yourself there's one thing in life I can't
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  Speaker 22: control it time, what other people say, do believe, feel,
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  Speaker 22: and it's on my job to So when you start
• 44:04
  Speaker 22: saying let them, and you detach yourself from the responsibility
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  Speaker 22: of having to manage somebody else, something interesting happens. You realize,
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  Speaker 22: oh my god, I've lived my life in reserve reverse.
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  Speaker 22: I actually live my life giving time and energy trying
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  Speaker 22: to manage what other people think. I have kept myself
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  Speaker 22: in a major or in a relationship, or in a
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  Speaker 22: situation because I'm afraid to disappoint my parents or my friends.
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  Speaker 22: I mean, how many people keep drinking or keep going
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  Speaker 22: out at night when what they really want to do
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  Speaker 22: is launch a business, and so they don't take the
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  Speaker 22: weekends to work on the things that they want to
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  Speaker 22: work on because they feel like they don't want to
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  Speaker 22: disappoint their friends or people going to talk about them.
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  Speaker 22: That's you giving power to other people. Like another way
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  Speaker 22: that we give power to other people is we get
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  Speaker 22: so focused on the headlines that we gaslight ourselves into
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  Speaker 22: believing that you have no power. It's complete garbage. Of
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  Speaker 22: course you have power. And so when you start saying
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  Speaker 22: let them, it's sort of this revelation where you're like,
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  Speaker 22: oh my god, I spend so much time and energy
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  Speaker 22: worrying about other people. I spent so much time and
• 45:08
  Speaker 22: energy letting them stress me out.
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  Speaker 8: But is there a level of like when that becomes
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  Speaker 8: easier versus harder? Because when you were just talking, I
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  Speaker 8: thought about Michelle Obama in the podcast, one of the
• 45:16
  Speaker 8: podcasts she did this week, she was talking about how
• 45:18
  Speaker 8: she realized she was doing a lot for other people
• 45:21
  Speaker 8: not thinking about herself, and she started making decisions for herself.
• 45:23
  Speaker 8: So she's going place she wants to go and do
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  Speaker 8: things she's like that don't and they think she's divorce
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  Speaker 8: because of it. Yeah, but it's like, she's Michelle Obama,
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  Speaker 8: so it's hard for her to like the noise is
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  Speaker 8: so it's a lot louder for her well.
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  Speaker 22: Of course. But whether or not you pay attention to
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  Speaker 22: that is within your control. Whether or not you look
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  Speaker 22: at your phone, and we're all guilty of it, whether
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  Speaker 22: you are Michelle Obama or you're just going into your
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  Speaker 22: middle school, whether or not you give attention to the gossip,
• 45:53
  Speaker 22: you look for, the gossip, you mainline it, that is
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  Speaker 22: within your control. If you say I can never ever
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  Speaker 22: ever stop somebody from lying about me, from making up
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  Speaker 22: stuff about me, from you know, saying whatever they're going
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  Speaker 22: to say. So why on earth would I spend any
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  Speaker 22: time and energy managing it? And then you go, let
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  Speaker 22: me This is the second part of the theory. Once't
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  Speaker 22: you say let them, let them think negative thoughts, let
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  Speaker 22: them make up all kinds of crap, because if you
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  Speaker 22: know you're not getting divorced, what do you care about
• 46:19
  Speaker 22: these idiots saying let me remind myself that I know
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  Speaker 22: the truth. And when you know the truth about who
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  Speaker 22: you are, you don't think about other people. When you
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  Speaker 22: live your life in a way that makes you proud,
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  Speaker 22: you don't think about other people.
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  Speaker 5: You tell me to read her.
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  Speaker 9: Book, and I was, and I already had the book
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  Speaker 9: because I think Eddie had given it to us a minute.
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  Speaker 9: And I was like, oh, I got the book, and for.
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  Speaker 22: You got it. It will change your damn. I'm telling
• 46:44
  Speaker 22: you it will change your life.
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  Speaker 2: Because but you have to get to that stage, yes,
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  Speaker 2: because it's that stage.
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  Speaker 8: He think he was born that way, and I've.
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  Speaker 6: Never truly cared.
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  Speaker 11: Right.
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  Speaker 1: But then even when I thought of the care, I
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: realize things like the serenity prayer, a little simple thing
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: that you saw sitting in your grandmother's house. You realize
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: that is absolutely the true of God. Grammy just serenityed
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  Speaker 1: the accept things I can not change, courage to change
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  Speaker 1: the things I can, and.
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  Speaker 6: With them no difference.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: And the easiest way to let go of what you
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: can't control is just realizing you've never had control to
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  Speaker 1: begin with.
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  Speaker 22: And here's another thing that's really important. That's why you're
• 47:17
  Speaker 22: gonna love it, is that what will start to happen
• 47:20
  Speaker 22: when you say let them is it's not that you're
• 47:22
  Speaker 22: allowing people to do bad things. They're already doing bad things.
• 47:25
  Speaker 22: You're recognizing that it's not your job to manage other people,
• 47:29
  Speaker 22: because this is a book that's about power and control
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  Speaker 22: and peace. Then you say, let me remind myself how
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  Speaker 22: I respond to things. Actually is where my power is.
• 47:40
  Speaker 22: So do I give this any time and energy or not?
• 47:43
  Speaker 22: Do I double down on just living my life in
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  Speaker 22: a way that makes me proud of myself, which is
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  Speaker 22: where your power is. And the thing that that also
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  Speaker 22: changed me dramatically is I couldn't believe how much stress
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  Speaker 22: I felt and how I was bracing all the time.
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  Speaker 22: And when you start to say let them, and you
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  Speaker 22: release that kind of obligation to make other people happy,
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  Speaker 22: or to make everybody know that you're not divorced or
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  Speaker 22: that everything's okay, or like, just let them think whatever
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  Speaker 22: they want to think, and live your life in a
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  Speaker 22: way that makes you proud. You're going to get all
• 48:19
  Speaker 22: this time and energy back. And what I love about
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  Speaker 22: this is when you're less stressed and when you're not
• 48:25
  Speaker 22: bracing all the time. Because you know your boss is narcissistic,
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  Speaker 22: so why on earth would you walk into work assuming
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  Speaker 22: that that he's going to be anything other than what
• 48:34
  Speaker 22: it already has always been. Let them be who they are.
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  Speaker 6: I love the Managing Stress chapter.
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  Speaker 1: And in that chapter you say you can't control how
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  Speaker 1: other adults behave and stressing about it diminishes your power.
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  Speaker 1: You'll never reach the full potential of your life if
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  Speaker 1: you continue to allow stupid things to rule people, to
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  Speaker 1: drain your life force.
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  Speaker 2: Can you yes?
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  Speaker 24: Me?
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  Speaker 11: Yes?
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  Speaker 22: So the two most important resources that you have in
• 48:55
  Speaker 22: life time energy, That's what you got. How you spend
• 48:58
  Speaker 22: your time, where you put your energy, it actually determines
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  Speaker 22: your experience of life. And that's why I say, if
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  Speaker 22: you have this experience right now, where you're exhausted and
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  Speaker 22: overwhelmed and nervous, and you're not like feeling like you
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  Speaker 22: can ever have time for yourself or your goals. Just
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  Speaker 22: start clicking. You're not the problem. The problem is all
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  Speaker 22: this time and energy you spend dealing with other people,
• 49:19
  Speaker 22: and so let them is a boundary that you draw
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  Speaker 22: where you start to recognize, Okay, I'm gonna let other
• 49:25
  Speaker 22: people think and feel and do and have their opinions,
• 49:28
  Speaker 22: and I'm gonna let them be disappointed. I'm gonna let
• 49:30
  Speaker 22: them misunderstand me, and I'm going to let me really
• 49:34
  Speaker 22: take that time and energy back and pour it into
• 49:38
  Speaker 22: working on myself and staying in my piece. And what
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  Speaker 22: I've found is that when I'm less stressed, which i
• 49:45
  Speaker 22: am because I'm not allowing stupid stuff for other people
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  Speaker 22: to stress me out, I'm actually a better person. I
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  Speaker 22: make more money because I can use my brain instead
• 49:55
  Speaker 22: of being in fire or flight. I don't like vomit
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  Speaker 22: on my kids. My emotions. Like I used to be
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  Speaker 22: the kind of person that would come in at you know,
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  Speaker 22: after work and yelling at everybody or mad at the
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  Speaker 22: dog for crying out loud, and then I'd be like,
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  Speaker 22: I'm sorry, it's a bad day at work, stressful day
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  Speaker 22: at work with the dogs the book, you know, they
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  Speaker 22: kind of do this and then they come back and
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  Speaker 22: they're really nice because they literally dogs don't like punish
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  Speaker 22: you for that. And it's so sad that I used
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  Speaker 22: to leave the worst of me for the people I
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  Speaker 22: cared about the most and then blame it on the
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  Speaker 22: stress of the day.
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  Speaker 19: That.
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  Speaker 22: By the way, when you use the let them theory,
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  Speaker 22: you have control over whether or not this stuff gets
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  Speaker 22: to you.
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  Speaker 2: Let me do it. I have a question. Yeah, in
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  Speaker 2: chapter five, you say let them think bad thoughts about you, right.
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  Speaker 2: The question with that is when a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: sometimes especially on social media, right, nobody facts checks anymore.
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  Speaker 2: But that could affect your reputation. That can affect your business.
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  Speaker 2: That could affect the way that your kid's teachers look
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  Speaker 2: at you, or business that comes outd of course, what
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: are you doing well?
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  Speaker 22: So here this is a very trick question because you're
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  Speaker 22: talking about the PR and the media swirl. PR is
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  Speaker 22: a little bit different in personal like, I think it's
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  Speaker 22: really important to understand who you are, whether you're dealing
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  Speaker 22: with rumors at a middle school or you're dealing with
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  Speaker 22: rumors in your community, or you've got somebody in your
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  Speaker 22: family trash talking you. In order to repair your reputation,
• 51:20
  Speaker 22: it is better to show than to tell. In my opinion,
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  Speaker 22: you prove the truth based on how you show up
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  Speaker 22: in life, not based on the words that come out
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  Speaker 22: of your mouth. And if there is somebody spreading things
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  Speaker 22: about you, the best way to handle it is to
• 51:34
  Speaker 22: go directly to that person and to ask them about it.
• 51:37
  Speaker 22: Because those kind of people, the people that gossip about you,
• 51:41
  Speaker 22: ultimately end up crumbling anyway, sure, because it always catches.
• 51:44
  Speaker 11: Up with them.
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  Speaker 2: All Right, we got more with Meil Robbins when we
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning Horning everybody
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: at ej Envy Jess, hilarious Charlamage. The guy we are
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: to Breakfast Club is still kicking it with Mel Robbins.
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  Speaker 2: A new book, The Let Them Theory, is out right now.
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  Speaker 1: Charlomagne, you know you were in the book you talk
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: about how you felt paralyzed by imposter syndrome, especially when
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: you were teaching. Yeah, the five second rule, I wonder
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  Speaker 1: what's changed since then? Like, well, gives you the confidence
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  Speaker 1: and authority now to feel like you can go out
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  Speaker 1: here and teach to.
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  Speaker 2: Let them do.
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  Speaker 22: That's a great, great question. So you know how well,
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  Speaker 22: First of all, impostor syndrome is deeply misunderstood. So imposter
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  Speaker 22: syndrome does not mean that you don't belong in the
• 52:23
  Speaker 22: room you're in. Imposter syndrome means you actually want to
• 52:27
  Speaker 22: be in the room you're in, and there's skills or
• 52:30
  Speaker 22: there's experience that you need to gain in order to
• 52:33
  Speaker 22: dominate in that room. Imposter syndrome is actually not self doubt.
• 52:36
  Speaker 9: It's ambition. And so explain that a bit because it's
• 52:39
  Speaker 9: always been said the other way.
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  Speaker 22: Yeah, and so if you really think about it, if
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  Speaker 22: you walk into a room and you don't feel imposter syndrome,
• 52:46
  Speaker 22: it's because you don't want to be in that room.
• 52:48
  Speaker 22: You don't care what people think about you in that room.
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  Speaker 22: If you walk into a room and you feel a
• 52:53
  Speaker 22: sense of imposter syndrome, it's because you care about what
• 52:57
  Speaker 22: people think about you in that room. It means you're
• 52:59
  Speaker 22: ambition and wants you to succeed in that room.
• 53:01
  Speaker 15: I was like push to stay sharp, correct and also
• 53:05
  Speaker 15: like hey, I want to actually succeed around people like this,
• 53:10
  Speaker 15: which means what are the skills I need and what
• 53:12
  Speaker 15: I started to understand, and I think it explains a
• 53:15
  Speaker 15: lot about why I am who I.
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  Speaker 22: Am is that we're all the same. Everybody is dealing
• 53:19
  Speaker 22: with the same stuff. Yes, it's easier if you have
• 53:21
  Speaker 22: more money and more resources, but at the end of
• 53:23
  Speaker 22: the day, everybody's got a family member that they're worried about.
• 53:26
  Speaker 22: Everybody has ambition they're not tapping into. Everybody has things
• 53:31
  Speaker 22: that they want to pursue in their life, and they're
• 53:32
  Speaker 22: kind of letting themselves down a little bit. Everybody struggles
• 53:35
  Speaker 22: with a little bit of uncertainty and anxiety at times.
• 53:38
  Speaker 22: Everybody has hopes and dreams and feels a little discouraged
• 53:42
  Speaker 22: and overwhelmed. And when you start at a baseline that
• 53:45
  Speaker 22: people would love to thrive, and people thrive when they can,
• 53:48
  Speaker 22: and if they can't, I believe it's because they're discouraged,
• 53:52
  Speaker 22: or there's some skill building or some experience or you know,
• 53:56
  Speaker 22: some mentorship that's missing. That's it, but that you're built
• 53:59
  Speaker 22: to thrive. So when you really start at that baseline,
• 54:02
  Speaker 22: like you know, I make it a practice. By the way,
• 54:04
  Speaker 22: this is this is one thing that will change your
• 54:05
  Speaker 22: life when you go into a public bathroom. Two things.
• 54:08
  Speaker 22: I always leave the space better than when I found it.
• 54:12
  Speaker 9: I always public bathroom.
• 54:15
  Speaker 22: No, no, no, I literally that's why I don't go into
• 54:18
  Speaker 22: that stall. But no, just because if somebody like destroy
• 54:25
  Speaker 22: especially women, If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over
• 54:28
  Speaker 22: it and then they leave, that is a human being
• 54:32
  Speaker 22: that is so disconnected from the interconnection of the human experience.
• 54:37
  Speaker 22: You are leaving that for another person, and so making
• 54:41
  Speaker 22: sure that you don't leave your mess for another person,
• 54:44
  Speaker 22: making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter.
• 54:46
  Speaker 22: And then here's the second thing. If there is a
• 54:47
  Speaker 22: human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai
• 54:50
  Speaker 22: and say thank you. All like that right there is
• 54:55
  Speaker 22: a simple thing that will make you start to shake
• 54:59
  Speaker 22: out of that woe is me or that stress or
• 55:02
  Speaker 22: that overwhelm Let them know you appreciate and see what
• 55:06
  Speaker 22: they're doing, because it changes who you are. And then
• 55:10
  Speaker 22: you start to see all day long that there are
• 55:13
  Speaker 22: like you know, I can't look at you, i'mna cry.
• 55:16
  Speaker 22: People are just walking around disconnected. And the power of
• 55:22
  Speaker 22: starting to be the one that wakes people up. Hey,
• 55:25
  Speaker 22: you know I always get an ell or Hey, how
• 55:27
  Speaker 22: is everybody doing like it's shocking how we have gotten
• 55:31
  Speaker 22: so far away from that sense of community. And there's
• 55:34
  Speaker 22: actually research around this. They call it either weak ties.
• 55:37
  Speaker 22: I call them warm connections. Those people that you see
• 55:39
  Speaker 22: in the building every day, that you say hello to
• 55:41
  Speaker 22: the person that's walking the dog that you you know,
• 55:44
  Speaker 22: know the name of the dog in your neighborhood. These
• 55:46
  Speaker 22: relationships matter because they make you feel human again.
• 55:50
  Speaker 9: Will you feel to impact from what you're doing with
• 55:53
  Speaker 9: your book and to let them theory, like you just
• 55:55
  Speaker 9: got emotional just not even just about your impact, but
• 55:57
  Speaker 9: just talking about just change in the world. How does
• 56:00
  Speaker 9: it make you feel like do you take a moment
• 56:02
  Speaker 9: just of gratitude and be like, because I saw all
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: the tattoos in the book, and I was like, that's
• 56:06
  Speaker 9: so fire. It's hard to make people like actually believe
• 56:09
  Speaker 9: something that's not tangible.
• 56:10
  Speaker 22: One of the things that you know, for me, I
• 56:13
  Speaker 22: spent so many.
• 56:15
  Speaker 25: Years like hating myself and feeling like I was a
• 56:19
  Speaker 25: really bad person. And when you get stuck in life,
• 56:23
  Speaker 25: it's easy to think you're the only one. And so
• 56:26
  Speaker 25: I'm just literally on a mission to share whatever I
• 56:31
  Speaker 25: could share and give people access just like you guys
• 56:33
  Speaker 25: give people access to incredible thinkers and experts and resources.
• 56:38
  Speaker 22: You know, your work is reaching some way halfway around
• 56:41
  Speaker 22: the world that doesn't even have a toilet in your house,
• 56:45
  Speaker 22: And how incredible is that? And if I can save
• 56:48
  Speaker 22: anybody the headaches and the heartaches that I cause myself
• 56:51
  Speaker 22: for the people that I care about, because I didn't
• 56:53
  Speaker 22: know any better. I didn't know what the problem was.
• 56:55
  Speaker 22: I didn't know how to change myself. I didn't know
• 56:57
  Speaker 22: how to push through the emotion that is a life while.
• 57:00
  Speaker 9: Why did you hate yourself though? Because you can't do
• 57:02
  Speaker 9: anything about what you don't know.
• 57:03
  Speaker 22: Oh my god, we don't have time. I literally like
• 57:05
  Speaker 22: from the amount of cheating I did when I was little,
• 57:07
  Speaker 22: to the undiagnosed anxiety or the undiagnosed to SLEXI and
• 57:12
  Speaker 22: ADHD and how that created tremendous anxiety, to the way
• 57:16
  Speaker 22: that childhood trauma impacted me that I didn't even realize
• 57:19
  Speaker 22: was impacting me, Like it's just chronic. I just did
• 57:22
  Speaker 22: not think I was a bad person. And there's a
• 57:24
  Speaker 22: lot of people walking around that have a hundred times
• 57:28
  Speaker 22: more negative thoughts than they do positive ones, And a
• 57:31
  Speaker 22: lot of people develop a habit of being very self critical.
• 57:35
  Speaker 22: It's never enough, like you're never gonna make it, like
• 57:37
  Speaker 22: you're always so stupid. Why did you do that? Either
• 57:40
  Speaker 22: because that's how they were talked to when they were little,
• 57:42
  Speaker 22: or because it's this like almost protective thing that if
• 57:45
  Speaker 22: you beat yourself up first, you're gonna catch it before
• 57:48
  Speaker 22: other people do. And I got to a point, and
• 57:51
  Speaker 22: this is an important thing. The only thing you need
• 57:54
  Speaker 22: to make your life better is one decision. How I'm
• 57:56
  Speaker 22: living my life right now and how it feels no
• 57:58
  Speaker 22: longer works for me. All you need to know if
• 58:01
  Speaker 22: you can have the courage to say that to yourself,
• 58:04
  Speaker 22: you now have tipped the first domino because you've made
• 58:06
  Speaker 22: a decision that you want to change how your life feels.
• 58:09
  Speaker 22: You made a decision that you want to change how
• 58:11
  Speaker 22: it feels up here. And for me as a mom,
• 58:13
  Speaker 22: like your kids absorb the way that you treat yourself.
• 58:17
  Speaker 22: And so having two daughters that I started noticing, my god,
• 58:21
  Speaker 22: why are these beautiful young women picking themselves apart? Well
• 58:23
  Speaker 22: because I do. Why are they so hard on because
• 58:25
  Speaker 22: I was so hard on myself That's how they learn it,
• 58:27
  Speaker 22: And so I don't want them to do that to themselves.
• 58:31
  Speaker 22: And you know, the thing I was going to share
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  Speaker 22: that's made a huge difference for me is that I
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  Speaker 22: keep the impact front and center. And so we send
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  Speaker 22: an email out five days a week. There's a person
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  Speaker 22: on our team whose job is to assemble all of
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  Speaker 22: the things that people are saying all over the world
• 58:47
  Speaker 22: about the books and podcasts, not about Mel, but about
• 58:51
  Speaker 22: what you learned. And I'll tell you every day there's
• 58:54
  Speaker 22: twenty to thirty of them. And just the other day
• 58:56
  Speaker 22: there was a person who talked about how he was
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  Speaker 22: a step dad and the relationship ended and those step
• 59:03
  Speaker 22: kids were his life and he didn't want to be
• 59:05
  Speaker 22: here anymore. And somebody started to share the podcast with
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  Speaker 22: him and he would go and take a walk every
• 59:13
  Speaker 22: morning and listen to the podcast, and it started to give
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  Speaker 22: him a sense of hope. And now he uses the
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  Speaker 22: let them theory. This is a person that actually works
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  Speaker 22: in like a police operations control center. Never in a
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  Speaker 22: million years would I think this is somebody that's listening
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  Speaker 22: to the Mel Robins podcast or listening to this kind
• 59:28
  Speaker 22: of conversation. But it goes to prove that everybody wants
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  Speaker 22: to do well. Everybody wants to thrive, and you know
• 59:35
  Speaker 22: when you're not doing well. You know when you're not thriving.
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  Speaker 22: The problem for most of us is just kind of
• 59:41
  Speaker 22: feeling like I don't think this could change, And the
• 59:44
  Speaker 22: fact is, of course it can change. If you've ever
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  Speaker 22: been happy in your life, you can be happy again.
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  Speaker 22: If you've ever been proud of yourself, you can be
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  Speaker 22: proud of yourself again. If you've ever forgiven somebody else,
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  Speaker 22: you can learn to forgive yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, also, God doesn't call it to qualify it.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: He qualified the called and you've been called Mail Robin.
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  Speaker 22: I feel that.
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  Speaker 6: Love you man, I love you too.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. That's right. Well we appreciate you for joining us.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Well it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's one of those dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Salute to Mel Robbins for pulling up in his time
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  Speaker 5: Lauren becoming a straight fast.
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  Speaker 2: She gets them.
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  Speaker 7: Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail.
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  Speaker 9: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
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  Speaker 2: The Latest with Lauren la Rosa.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you have fact sometimes you have details, sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: Every time, it's the latest on the breakfast club, talk
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 8: So Coachella went down, and I will say I feel
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 8: like it was quiet around Coachella this year. You know
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 8: it's a big music festival, but there were certain moments
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 8: that definitely picked up. Cardi B performed. Missy Elliott actually
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 8: made her Coachella debuties. It's her first time at Coachella,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 8: and she came out as a full Transformer and then
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 8: she shed the Transformer skin and she performed and people
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 8: just watching fans react because I don't know if they
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 8: never seen a Missy Elliott video or performance that I
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 8: don't think that they didn't know how she was coming,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 8: she said, never.
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  Speaker 6: Seen that level of creativity?
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  Speaker 9: Yo, what it was crazy?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, she's been preparing this set since November twenty twenty four,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 8: she said when she revealed that she would be there,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 8: that she was going to be doing something out of
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 8: this world, which is very on brand for Missy. So
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 8: she performed as well. Then you had Meg thee Stallion
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 8: that also performed.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't it feel good to see creative folks, young people,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: the people that actually care about their craft?
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  Speaker 9: Oh over and above.
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  Speaker 6: They are about this stage performance.
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  Speaker 8: They online calling her a transformer misdemeanor Elliott now over
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 8: and above. When I say her set was fired, it
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 8: was fire from start to finish. But also Meg thee
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 8: Stallion had a really good set too, and she brought
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 8: out Sierra. She brought out Victoria Bonnet, but then she
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 8: surprised the crowd when she brought out Queen Latifa.
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  Speaker 1: The key, the key is not to be hot for
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  Speaker 1: the moment. The key is to be timeless. That's the
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: moral of the story. The key is to be classic.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: When you classic, you live forever.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 8: The the thing behind megde Stallion's stage was girl power.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 8: So as I mentioned, she brought out Victoria Monet Sierra.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 8: Did you know they had to do a performance and
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 8: she did goodies. It was a great especially because Megdae
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 8: Stallion really dances, so her Victoria Money Sierra. They got
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 8: busy on stage, but there were also some moments off
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 8: the stage at this year's Coachella as well too. Chris
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 8: Brown was a topic of conversation all weekend because there
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 8: was video of him hanging out with Tianna Taylor in
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 8: discussion with Tiana Taylor and video of him and Carucci
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 8: having a laugh. So people were like, oh wait, he's
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 8: good with all these people. So while we still upset people,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 8: all you gotta learn to mind your business.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 9: And people have moved on. We should too.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 8: I know it's my job to mind the business and
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 8: talk about the business. Yours too, sir? Not really you
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 8: talking as well? Okay you finished?
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  Speaker 9: Are you done well?
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 8: The moment with Tianna Taylor sparked interest in conversation because
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 8: there was the whole back of forth member and they
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 8: said that like that that was the reason why him
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 8: and Usher got.
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  Speaker 9: Into it and all those things.
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  Speaker 8: And I think in the video when you see it,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 8: you could tell the brother and sister the like back
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 8: and forth and banter that they have. And then of
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 8: course in the video with Cruci, you know he's you know,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 8: formally dated her. There's been some accusations there as well too.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 8: They're laughing, joking, having a good time, and now that
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 8: people are flooding Crucci's commons talking about girl, go get
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 8: your man back.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny that we think we know these people because
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: these are the moments that we see them.
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  Speaker 18: We don't.
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  Speaker 1: They might have been talked. Yeah, you know what, I'm
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: saying they might have been communicated. This is just the
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: moments that we see. But we see these brief moments
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: ever so often. It's sway we know.
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  Speaker 9: These people one hundred percent. I think people do that.
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  Speaker 8: I mean there's celebrities ain't gonna see every moment, but
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 8: I do think it's something like this the conversation. You know,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 8: they've been online arguing about people being able and not
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 8: being able to move on and all that good stuff.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 8: But I will say the festival did look good this year,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 8: and everybody else was there look good as well too.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 8: Because Tianna Taylor, baby m she eats every year at
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 8: the festival. You saw Siana Taylor. I'm gonna show you her.
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  Speaker 8: Let me show you t t and all black with
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 8: the stomach out. She never comes to play.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, I'm still be lying about not working out. I
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 6: ain't after I.
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  Speaker 9: Don't know what she do, but baby, when I get
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 9: the money signing.
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  Speaker 1: You got the genetics though, miss Nikkis You get that
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  Speaker 1: from miss nikkis.
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  Speaker 9: Amazing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: So that's that's your recap of coach.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, well, thank you, Lorden. You're welcome for after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: We got donkey today and I need Cody Palmer of Harrisburg,
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  Speaker 1: Pennsylvania to come to the front of the congregation.
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  Speaker 6: We like to have a word with him. It's the
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 6: breakfast club.
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  Speaker 23: You're checking out. The breakfast club. You charge some donkey
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  Speaker 23: to day is just started.
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  Speaker 2: Charlotte Man ready day. I never read them donkey other day?
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  Speaker 2: What is it? Say it again, Arla, I'm a bunk.
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  Speaker 2: Yes you are.
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  Speaker 1: That, Charlotte Vane the same, Yes donkey today for Monday,
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  Speaker 1: April fourteenth, go to thirty eight year old Cody Palmer
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  Speaker 1: of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Now, if you haven't heard, Cody is
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: the suspect who's been arrested in charge with terrorism because
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: of an arson attack on Pennsylvania Governor josh Shapiro's residence
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: over the weekend as Joshapiro's and.
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  Speaker 6: His family slept.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: Now, Governor Joshapiro is Jewish, and this incident happened on
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: the first night to pass over. Well, I don't know
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: if this incident was a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: But let's go to six ABC Philadelphia for the report Polease.
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  Speaker 26: Governor jos Shapiro described himself as emotional but not fearful.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 26: Outside the Governor's residence in Harrisburg Sunday afternoon. This after
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 26: state police say thirty eight year old Cody Bamber of
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 26: Harrisburg set the state dining room on fire overnight. New
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 26: video shows the destruction where Shapiro and his family celebrated
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 26: passover just hours before on Saturday night.
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  Speaker 14: This kind of violence is becoming far too common in
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 14: our society, and I don't give it damn if it's
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 14: coming from one particular side or the other, and it
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 14: has to stop.
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  Speaker 26: Police say it's clear Bomber had a plan and moved quickly.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 26: They say he was inside the home less than a
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 26: minute and used homemade devices what sources described to ABC
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 26: News as a Molotov cocktail. Sources tell ABC News Bomber
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 26: is a mechanic who expressed disdain for Democrats, primarily related
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 26: to financial issues. They're also not ruling out Shapiro's Jewish
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 26: faith as a motivating factor.
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  Speaker 6: Now, I'm not the highest grade of weed in the dispensary.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: But when somebody asked me, do I think this was
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing, I'm gonna say
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: a combination of both. Okay, when you look at the
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: timing of the incident first day of passover, and the
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: fact Governor you know, Shapiro is a high profile Jewish man.
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  Speaker 1: If you are anti Semitic and you're looking to make
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: a statement, you're looking to make a splash, he's your guy.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: But what I want us to pay attention to is
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: how America has gone completely backwards.
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  Speaker 6: In a lot of ways.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if we've gone backwards or if
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of these races cancer cells were just laying
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: dormant in the body of America. They were just in hibernation, okay,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: And they were just in a hibernation like state, and
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: now they've been started in slumber because of the current
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: political climate in this country. You don't get me wrong,
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: it's always existing, okay. But man, what happened to Governor
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Shapiro and his family could happen to anybody who was
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: a member of a marginalized group. In twenty twenty five,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: doctor Martin Luther King Junior said it best, an injustice
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere, and this was
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: a complete injustice. And those words couldn't be more fitting
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: because one of the first times I heard about something
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: like this happening was when it happened to doctor Martin
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: Luther King Junior. January thirty of nineteen fifty six. Martin
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: Luther King Junior's wife and child were inside when his
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: home was firebombed. All prais is due to God. Neither
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: of them were harmed. Okay, Malcolm X. February fourteenth, nineteen
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: sixty five, his house was firebombed. He had his wife
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: and four daughters in the house. By the way, to
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: all the simple minded digital d heads out there, I
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: am not comparing Governor Shaperio to doctor MLK Jr.
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  Speaker 6: And Malcolm X.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that when you hear certain stories,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: when you see certain images, especially horrific things like somebody
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: fire bombing your house, setting your house on fire while
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: you're in there with your family, if you have any
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: type of empathy, it sticks with you and you say
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: to yourself, I pray that never happens to me and
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: my family.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 6: And you thought that those things were.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: Just things of the past, but no, when you see
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: them still happening to folks in twenty twenty five, it's
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: just a reminder that potentially it could happen to you.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 11: Now.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know how Cody got this close to the
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: governor's mansion. I mean, it's the damn governor's mansion. There
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: should never be a breach of security there. But I'm
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: starting to believe when it comes to guarding elected officials,
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Pennsylvania has the worst security ever. I mean, that's what
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump almost got clipped. And now with thirty eight
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: year old kid can jump the governess and he's trust
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: of ball.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 6: He's not a kid? What am I saying?
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: And now a thirty eight year old man can jump
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: the governor's mansion and actually start a fire with homemade
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: devices and get away before he's ultimately caught. Now, Cody
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: Obama's mother said that Cody suffers from mental illness and
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: he was off his medication.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 6: Listen, you know, I overstand.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, mental health issues are serious and require compassion, but
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: that doesn't excuse actions that endanger lives and threaten public safety. Okay,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: he can get all the help he needs in somebody's prison, Okay,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: because we have to make examples of people like this,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: I also feel like discrimination is a form of mental illness.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: To hate someone because of what their race is, their
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: religion is, their gender is, their sexuality is. If you
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: hate people because of what they are. You are mentally ill.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: And I don't want to see anyone being attacked or
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: being the target of potential violence because of what they are. Okay,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: their race, their faith, their political party. Do we not
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: understand that diversity is what truly makes America great? And
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: by the way, if you don't like somebody's politics, well
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: get in the.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 6: Politics yourself and challenge them.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: Okay, are support the politicians you like and help them
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: defeat the politicians you don't. That's how things are done
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: in a civilized country. But unfortunately this country has always
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: lied to itself about being civilized. Please give Cody Palmer
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania the biggest he hull.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 6: Sad, Yes, very sad.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: Now we had Meil Robins here last hour, Lauren lrossa
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: great convo.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 6: Did you learn anything I did? How long?
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: Goo?
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 6: Did I tell you to read the lect them Theory?
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 9: I got the book you told me about probably two
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 9: months ago?
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 6: That long?
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 9: A month ago? Yeah, it was a minute ago. Yes,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: just in conversation you were be like, you need to
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 9: read to let them theory.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, I am recommending this book to everybody. And you
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: know what I would like to do right now, I
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: would like to open up the phone lines and talk
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: to people who have already applied to let them theory
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: to their life. I want to know how they're applying
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: to let them theory to their life and uh.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's it. How How into what?
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: How into what have you applied to let them theory
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: to your life? Where do you think you need to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: apply that in your life?
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 9: Lauren is new levels and new devils.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 8: This there's a lot of critiques that happen when people
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 8: think that they can just you know, you put your
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 8: art out there, okay, And I'm having to quiet noise
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 8: and just let people feel how they feel and do
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 8: they do because I know what I do. What I do, well,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 8: that's what I'm having to apply to let them And
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 8: with you, I'll be having to let you a lot
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 8: because I'm gonna smack you if not.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 6: You know, you know you need to start telling the
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 6: people the truth.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 9: What's the truth?
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 6: How much you love me?
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 8: I do love you, but I'll be having to let you.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 8: We have to let people we love all the time.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 8: Back of your wife, because I'm sure she'd be want
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 8: to smack you too.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: You're gonna stop making the people think I'm not a
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: nice person.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 9: What a time they're nice. They just don't believe them.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 9: You know what you need to do?
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: Let them that's right, that's right, and that's exactly what
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: I let them do.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: Okay one eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: Call us right now. Tell us how you are applying
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Mel Robbins to let them theory to your life.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. It's topic times.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 23: Call eight hundred five five five one to join in
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 23: to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: Yes's the world's mos Dangerous Morning Short Breakfast Club. Charlamagne
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: the God, Lauren LaRosa, DJ NB and just Hilarius are out.
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  Speaker 6: Today and we're talking Mail Robbins, the lect the theory.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 6: You know, Mail was here.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: Last hour that this wasn't That wasn't her first time
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club either. She came on to the
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club back in twenty twenty one when she was
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  Speaker 1: promoting Yes, the high five rule when you wake up
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  Speaker 1: in the morning and you give yourself a high five
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  Speaker 1: in the mirror every morning. But we're talking Mail Robins,
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  Speaker 1: the left them theory, Lauren LaRosa high five habit, high
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  Speaker 1: five habit. There you go, Lauren Lroossa, how are you
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  Speaker 1: using the left them theory in your life?
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  Speaker 8: Letting people just, you know, have their opinions about me?
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  Speaker 8: And it's a lot of opinions now, you know, especially
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  Speaker 8: sitting up here with y'all. You've done this for a
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  Speaker 8: long time.
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  Speaker 1: Every day, but you getting comb to it and you
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  Speaker 1: realize you do have to use the lect them theory
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to that because we are public servants
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  Speaker 1: and we're getting on this radio every day and we're
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  Speaker 1: doing a service for the public, and the public is
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  Speaker 1: allowed to have their opinions about it.
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  Speaker 8: And I also think too, what you realize when you
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  Speaker 8: look into the let them theory is that you can't
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  Speaker 8: control how people feel.
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  Speaker 2: Nope.
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  Speaker 8: Like if you take everything and that some one says
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  Speaker 8: about you and try to create like here's a guideline
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  Speaker 8: of what I should be doing, you could do all
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  Speaker 8: of that and it could still feel that way. So
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  Speaker 8: you got to just know what your goal is and
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  Speaker 8: level up or or sit still depend on what you
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  Speaker 8: want to do because you can't control none of that.
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  Speaker 6: Why do we forget things that we learned in our
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  Speaker 6: ground my house.
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  Speaker 9: When we was kids, because life hits you like.
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  Speaker 6: The serenity prayer.
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  Speaker 1: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I
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  Speaker 1: cannot change, the courage the change the things I can,
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  Speaker 1: and the wisdom to know the difference. You know, when
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  Speaker 1: you absolutely positively will relinquish all control, when you realize
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  Speaker 1: you don't have any We don't control nothing. All we
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  Speaker 1: do is wake up in the morning, pray, do our affirmations,
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  Speaker 1: and go out into the world.
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  Speaker 6: And we are a subject to whatever the world brings
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  Speaker 6: us that day.
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  Speaker 9: Easier said than done for a lot of people.
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  Speaker 6: Well you better do it. Let's go to the phone lines.
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  Speaker 2: Who's this, It's free Free.
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  Speaker 6: What's happening to my brother?
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  Speaker 10: What's going on?
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  Speaker 18: Man?
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  Speaker 6: How are you applying to let them theory to your life?
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  Speaker 7: King?
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  Speaker 10: Well, first off, I didn't even know that it was
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  Speaker 10: called the left them theory. I just about three years ago.
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  Speaker 10: I mean, let's this sister, keep a gangster about thirty
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  Speaker 10: seven thirty five years in my life. I'll just a
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  Speaker 10: complete piece of you know, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 10: All that the other drugs, you know, wildish ye, crazy
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  Speaker 10: and everything that comes with the dead friends and the
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  Speaker 10: guy that I and about three years ago I met this,
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  Speaker 10: this wonderful woman. Man, this this queen, my beautiful black queen.
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  Speaker 10: Shot out to you. Baby, I'm a white boy, you
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  Speaker 10: know what I'm saying. Uh, But and she she did.
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  Speaker 10: She helped me let everything go, from family members of
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 10: my dead friends that I was helping that I can't
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  Speaker 10: help no more, from people from your back and your
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  Speaker 10: path that you say you never let you'll never let go,
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 10: you know, till death. You know what I'm saying, patted,
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  Speaker 10: it's all that you know, and I just had to
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  Speaker 10: figure out that I can do nothing for it. And
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  Speaker 10: if I don't move forward, I'm going to continue living
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  Speaker 10: on this demon time. I mean, my girlfriend before my wife,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 10: was a stripper. Excuse my language.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, there's a lot of you.
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  Speaker 6: So you are so you you're.
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  Speaker 1: A white man who met a black woman, and the
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  Speaker 1: black woman changed your life totally.
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  Speaker 10: No dog, black chicken on whole life, man, you know
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  Speaker 10: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: But okay, yes, this one changed your life.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, she just he's just you know, and
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  Speaker 10: I guess since I was looking since listening to you
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  Speaker 10: this morning, now I know that it's thought the you know,
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  Speaker 10: the let it go. You know, I just had to
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  Speaker 10: let everything from my past go, and now I have
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  Speaker 10: peaceful nights, no more Nightmared. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 10: It's just a whole change of life. In three years,
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  Speaker 10: I got a beautiful news, six week old baby. I
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  Speaker 10: got two beautiful step sons that are in my world.
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  Speaker 18: You know.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, Well, thank you for calling my brother. I don't
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  Speaker 6: know if that was to let them there.
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  Speaker 8: I think what he was trying to say is is
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  Speaker 8: that once he whatever was bothering him from his past,
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  Speaker 8: maybe whatever he was, he had to learn to let
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  Speaker 8: them or let that just be.
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  Speaker 11: Well.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, detachment, Yeah, detachment.
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  Speaker 8: Male's story was like that, Like when she decided to
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  Speaker 8: detach from everything she she sat from, she was able
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  Speaker 8: to like level up in.
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  Speaker 6: That's successful, that's true. Good morning. Who's this?
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  Speaker 10: Good morning?
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  Speaker 18: This is Kimberly.
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  Speaker 6: Hey Kimberly, how are you?
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  Speaker 18: I'm okay in yourself?
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  Speaker 1: Guys, Blessed Black and Holly Favored. We're talking about mel
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  Speaker 1: Robbins electing theory this morning, and we're asking people, how
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  Speaker 1: have you applied to electing theory to your life?
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  Speaker 27: Easy change the number and cut them all off.
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  Speaker 6: That is part of it.
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  Speaker 28: Yes, yes, so I have a brother that had a stroke,
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  Speaker 28: and I also have an eighteen year old son that
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  Speaker 28: thinks life is sweet.
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  Speaker 21: So you know what I do, change my number and
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  Speaker 21: cut them off.
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  Speaker 6: Damn did you you wait until he turned eighteen on
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  Speaker 6: the dock?
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  Speaker 11: Uh?
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  Speaker 21: Yeah?
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  Speaker 27: He even got mad with me because I didn't call
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  Speaker 27: him for a sixteen birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, man, when you pray to God to take negativity
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  Speaker 1: out your life, he's not swinging at spirits. He's swinging
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  Speaker 1: at people and things that are the embodiment of that negativity.
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  Speaker 6: And sometimes it's she close family.
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  Speaker 21: And it's so true because I end up don't have
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  Speaker 21: my two brothers.
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  Speaker 18: I lost my mother. After I lost my mother.
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  Speaker 21: I don't talk to my two brothers now my son.
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  Speaker 6: So damn, Okay, we'll have a great day.
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  Speaker 19: Us.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, we'll have a great day. That she lost her,
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  Speaker 8: she ain't got nobody. Just have great day.
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  Speaker 1: But she made a choice. It's not like she said
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  Speaker 1: she made the choice to cut them off. I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: it's not like they died or something. I went to Like,
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  Speaker 1: she made a choice. And so you know what, I
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  Speaker 1: got a letter.
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  Speaker 8: People are really moving variables in our life, Like you
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  Speaker 8: don't have to have certain people in your life and everything.
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  Speaker 8: So the first two callers, it's all about people, and yes,
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  Speaker 8: you can just totally just not deal with those people.
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  Speaker 1: Because, as I've been saying, this is my whole life.
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  Speaker 1: When you pray to God to take negativity out your life,
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  Speaker 1: he's not gonna.
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  Speaker 6: Be swinging at things. He's gonna be swinging at people.
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  Speaker 8: God, there's a man in this room that won't leave
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  Speaker 8: my wig alone. Please remove all the evil.
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  Speaker 7: You need to remove the wig.
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  Speaker 1: If you remove the wig, you remove I feel.
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  Speaker 8: It's a tricker eat that you spoke about the Bible.
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  Speaker 8: I feel it every day. Please remove the demons in
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  Speaker 8: the spirits.
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  Speaker 1: Call us right now one hundred and five and five
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  Speaker 1: one oh five one. Tell us how to let them.
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  Speaker 1: Theory have been applied to your life. It's the Breakfast
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  Speaker 1: Club's say.
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  Speaker 23: If y'all talking about it, you know we talking about it.
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  Speaker 23: It's to times called eight hundred five eight five one
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  Speaker 23: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's the world's most dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Charlamagne to God, Lauren Loo says here, Jess hilarious, and
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: dj Enva out right now, but we're talking Meil Robins
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  Speaker 1: to let them theory.
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  Speaker 6: You know, Meil was here last hour with us. And
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  Speaker 6: if you don't know what the Left.
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  Speaker 1: Them theory is, it is a mindset tool that encourages
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  Speaker 1: you to stop trying to control or change others thoughts
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  Speaker 1: and behaviors. Instead, you focus on your own peace and
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: well being by accepting that others are free to make
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  Speaker 1: their own choices. Meil Robbins put it in a book
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  Speaker 1: called The Lect Them Theory. It came out at the
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  Speaker 1: end of December. It's sold I think damn near four
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  Speaker 1: million copies in eighteen weeks. And you know, people are
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  Speaker 1: either applying to let them theory to their life or
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: realizing they've already applied it, but now they have the
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  Speaker 1: language to know what to call it. So let's go
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  Speaker 1: to the phone lines. Good morning, who's this? This is
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  Speaker 1: Crystal Peace, Crystal, how are you?
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  Speaker 28: I'm blessed?
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  Speaker 27: How are you?
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  Speaker 24: King?
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  Speaker 6: Blessed?
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  Speaker 1: Black and Holly Favorite were talking to let them theory
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  Speaker 1: this morning. How have you applied to let them theory
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  Speaker 1: your life?
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  Speaker 6: Crystal?
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  Speaker 28: Well, I have applied to let them theory to my
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  Speaker 28: life to survive being an entrepreneur.
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  Speaker 21: I just put my job.
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  Speaker 28: In tealth care to focus on, like being a serial entrepreneur.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 28: I went from songwriter to screenwriter, and you know, there's
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 28: a lot of discouraging things out here, but I let
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 28: them doubt me. I let them do things from out
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 28: on the internet to try to make it seem like
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  Speaker 28: they're doing things and they're not. I try to let
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  Speaker 28: all my haters, you know, let them tear down, because
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 28: nothing they do is going to prosper anyway. Yes, sure,
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 28: and I just try to stay proud. You know, I
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 28: have other businesses too. But it's interesting because the more
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 28: you the more people let you down, you know, because
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 28: people will tell you, oh, I could do this for you,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 28: I got you. The more I become that for myself.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 28: So I have to literally figure out what I'm not
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 28: getting and do it for myself because everybody who surrounds
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 28: you are in their own world and it feels like
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 28: they don't care. Like people don't serve anymore. People don't
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 28: want to serve you as an assistant. They want to
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 28: be the star. So it's like, even if I get
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 28: an assistant there, they're probably not going to be loyal,
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 28: you know, because everybody's so focused on themselves. So I
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 28: just let everybody around me do them. And I wake
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 28: up in the morning and I give myself a plan
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 28: and I try to just stick to the plan and
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 28: talk to myself throughout the day, you know, just saying them.
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  Speaker 1: Man, you are absolutely right. You don't want to tell
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  Speaker 1: you something about social media. The reason you should absolutely
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: let people talk about you on social media.
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  Speaker 6: And you know this.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: I talked about this when I was on Mail's podcast,
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: Mail Robins podcast.
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  Speaker 6: The algorithm don't know the difference.
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: So you got a bunch of people that might be
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: online talking bad about you, but then you'll have some
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: people that are supporting you as well. And all our
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: algorithm knows it that your name is being mentioned. That's it,
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: So it works for you anyway. It's still your benefit anyway, right, Charlamayne.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 28: While we're on the top of the books, and you
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 28: love books, can we get like a booklist from you,
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  Speaker 28: because I'm trying to buy a bunch of books that
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 28: are healthy for mental health and all that. So I
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  Speaker 28: just want to ask you that.
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  Speaker 10: Because I'm in my book.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I try not to.
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  Speaker 28: I'm trying not to go to social media first thing
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  Speaker 28: every morning now, so as a part of my new
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 28: entrepreneur life and screenwriting and film.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 21: I'm trying to be myself.
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  Speaker 1: With Well, I'm gonna recommend you two books right now,
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  Speaker 1: Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holliday and The Unapologetic Guy,
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: The Black Mental Health by doctor Rita Walker.
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  Speaker 15: Got it?
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  Speaker 18: Oh?
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  Speaker 27: Thank you?
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 6: Yes, ma'am, all right, thank.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 21: You so much for y'all love and y'all goodness.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, Let's take it one more, ritt, Let's take one more.
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  Speaker 6: Let's take one more. Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Who's this April Peace?
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 6: April?
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  Speaker 7: How how are you?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 6: Where are you calling from?
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: From Atlanta at l We're gonna be in Atlanta on
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  Speaker 1: April twenty sixth for the third annual Black Effect Podcast Festivals.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: To go, get your tickets if you haven't gotten them already.
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  Speaker 6: Sarah J. Robins will be on that stage doing her
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 6: Woman of All podcast live. Okay, but we're here to talk.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: We're here to talk about Melton Robbinson The Left the
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  Speaker 1: theory right now, how have you applied it to your life?
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 7: So?
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  Speaker 27: I haven't read the book, but I did hear one
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 27: of her podcasts, so I became familiar with the let
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 27: them theory and applying that for myself a lot of
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 27: people out feel have slept on me and you know,
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 27: just kind of treating me a certain type of way.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 27: And I let them by continuing to be myself, showing
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 27: up with love and light, and they eventually some of
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 27: them have turned around and see the deep down that
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 27: I'm just moving the way that I am and that's
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 27: how I am, So they kind of change their perspective
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 27: by just me being myself.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 23: I let them have.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 27: Their feelings and whatever for whatever reason, and I'm just
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 27: letting them see them and I'm continuing to move the
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 27: way that I do.
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  Speaker 6: That's all you can do. Have a great day, Yes, well,
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 6: thank y'all. And that's literally what the lefting theory is.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: It's literally a mindset to that encourages you to stop
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: trying to control or change other people's thoughts and behaviors.
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 9: That can't.
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  Speaker 2: You can't. Can't you can't.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 6: You cannot control other people. I tell y'all all the time.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: And we wake up every single day and all we're
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: trying to do is avoid crazy. And that crazy usually
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: comes in the form of other people.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 9: I thought you're bout saying it usually comes from Florida.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: It does, though, but we love Florida. We like going
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: to Miami, we like going to Disney World. We know,
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: so it's still the same thing. But listen, go out
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: there and get mel Robbins the let them theory.
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  Speaker 6: She don't need me to promote her book.
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: This book is, you know, selling like crack in the eighties,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: but it is a fantastic read and it's one of
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: those books that I'm recommending to everybody.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 9: You really are You told me about it way before
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 9: we even know she was coming up here.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: Because sometimes you know, we forget, Like to me, you
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: just need these simple reminders, like I always tell we
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: talk about the serenity prayer all the time, right, and
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: we know what the serenity prayer is, but sometimes we
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: forget that and we just need to be reminded that
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: we're not in control of anything. So just let people
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: be who they are.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 8: You think were getting better because you yell at us
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 8: all the time, us, me, Jess, all the producers.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 9: You think we're getting better.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 6: No, that's why I'm gonna keep yelling at y'all.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 12: Oh you just like to.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 8: Yell talk about Tell people I'm not a mean but
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 8: you really just old and be yelling.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: Like I've told you that.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: I think you got better. Okay, Jess needs work. NV
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: definitely needs work. It's still a little bit. I'm just saying,
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: y'all care a little bit too.
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 6: Much about the opinions of other people. That's all. Okay,
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 6: that's all.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 9: So me and my edges we gonna be chilling.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 6: We got the latest with Lauren coming up.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 9: We do what you got vibes Cartel.
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 8: He made history, he did it, the big return back
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  Speaker 8: to New York after twenty years. There are some big moments,
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  Speaker 8: including the fact that Drake gifted him this like ovo
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  Speaker 8: chain is one of two only him and him and
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  Speaker 8: Drake have it. And I got all the details about everything,
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  Speaker 8: how long it took to make it. I got all
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  Speaker 8: the details.
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  Speaker 6: So hold on, it's only two chains change. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: That's right, it is the Breakfast Club, the world's most
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  Speaker 6: Now it's time for the latest with Lauren.
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  Speaker 5: Lauren be coming straight fast man.
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  Speaker 2: She gets him.
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  Speaker 7: Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail.
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  Speaker 9: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
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  Speaker 6: She'd be having.
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  Speaker 2: The latest on the lawn is the latest with Lauren
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  Speaker 2: la Rosa.
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  Speaker 6: Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to me what we got ll Cool Bay Vibes,
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  Speaker 1: Cartel World Boss.
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  Speaker 8: He returned to New York and he did his big
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 8: US return. So this was his first US headlining show
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 8: in over twenty years. So there were some pretty big
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 8: moments out of the show. So he came out to
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 8: his remix that he did to Acons Locked Up, which
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 8: of course was very my mental after everything and he's
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 8: been through, and the crowd just embraced him.
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  Speaker 9: Crazy.
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  Speaker 8: Bill wo actually is calling this show like the opening
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  Speaker 8: night alone, because you know it was sold out. Crazy right,
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 8: they're calling this show one of the most memorable nights
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  Speaker 8: of live music in the Boroughs storied history.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, listen, people were's your vibes Cartel and you know,
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  Speaker 1: after meeting him, I can understand why people enjoy him
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  Speaker 1: the way that he did.
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  Speaker 8: I was telling people that all weekend, like he is
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 8: very personal, he's super funny, like I see the Star
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 8: and a lot of times it's hard to pickle on
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 8: that with certain artists. Let's take a listen to him
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  Speaker 8: in the ACM moment when he walked out on stage.
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  Speaker 1: I think Jamaica should narrate everything. I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: I thought about that the other day out that some
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: airport and they had it and making a narrating calling
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  Speaker 1: people you know what I'm saying the gate, Oh my god,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: that was so amazing. Now bonding Kay three Kate Tree.
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  Speaker 6: Out like yo, Jamaica narrate everything well.
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  Speaker 8: Also throughout the night he brought out some different people.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 8: Of course, Little Kim hit the stage. One of the
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  Speaker 8: night's neo shin see a fab Spice. Of course he
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 8: can't come and not bring the dance tall Queen Spice.
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  Speaker 8: He performed Summertime Clock's Fever, the Brooklyn Anthem. When he
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 8: did the Brooklyn Anthem, he actually put on a Brooklyn
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  Speaker 8: Next jersey, but he had it on back wheres he
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 8: had to like fix the jersey or whatever. But he
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  Speaker 8: also did his song Mama, and he brought his mom
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 8: out when he did it, he goes down on one knee.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 8: It was just a good moment, you know, because the
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 8: song talks about everything they've been through and what they
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 8: don't have to go through no more. And she's carressing
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 8: him and they're in front of all these people. But
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 8: there was a moment during the show where he got
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 8: so emotional he couldn't finish a song. He was performing
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 8: his song God is the Greatest and he broke down.
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  Speaker 9: Let's take a listen.
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  Speaker 7: Time.
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  Speaker 3: M Mmm, does listen solo?
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  Speaker 20: Does I mean enough?
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  Speaker 24: One night man be Us I watched God dis I
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  Speaker 24: did listen? So does I mean like man bet Us watch?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine, you know, you've been in
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  Speaker 1: prison for thirteen years, thinking that you're never gonna see
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  Speaker 1: you know, the freedom again, right, and then you actually
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: get freed.
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  Speaker 6: Of course, absolutely.
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  Speaker 8: Get free, and you sell out two back to back
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  Speaker 8: shows at the Bark Place and the nineteen thousand people
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 8: it's with that stadium hole. Cardi B was also in attendance.
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 8: DJ Envy went with his wife Gia. Now you know
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 8: who also was there in tears. Safari Sofari was there
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 8: in tears. He said, you know, Vibes is his his hero.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 8: Seeing him on stage in that big return.
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  Speaker 9: Made him.
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  Speaker 8: Why would you make me laugh? It was a really
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 8: emotional moment for Safari. But yeah, so shout out to Vibes.
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  Speaker 6: I saw people kill the Safari for that.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: But Joe Safari has always shown and expressed his love
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  Speaker 1: for Vibes Cartel.
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  Speaker 9: So why you laugh?
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 6: But I was thinking about something that happened last week
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  Speaker 6: when Bobbs was here, I know. So that's what I
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 6: was laughing that.
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 8: I think, I know if we wanted to share it,
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  Speaker 8: I'm okay. So another moment that happened. Vibes Cartel was
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 8: gifted these Ovio chains from Drake. They were like a surprise,
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 8: special gift from Vibes to Drake. Now I spoke to
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 8: Alex Moss's team. Alex Moss is the jeweler who created
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 8: these chains with Drake, and from what I'm told, it
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 8: took seven months to make. Drake came up with the
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 8: idea and brought it to Alex to bring it to
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  Speaker 8: life because he wanted to, you know, give Vibes a
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 8: big welcome home gift. Drake was involved in the process
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 8: of customizing the Joy from the beginning. Alex most of
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 8: his team work with Drake a lot, so he trusts
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 8: Alex created vision in his taste when it comes to
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 8: taking the lead.
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 6: Why would Vibes want an owl.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 8: Vibes is a he's a huge supporter of Drake. He
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 8: back to him and the Kendrick Lamar. They talked a
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 8: lot about Drake.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 6: Oh they got to do with the owl? Will continue?
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 9: It's like you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Continue?
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  Speaker 8: So it's a fourteen character yellow gold they have. They
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 8: have like some camo on it and printed in it
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 8: and diamonds because you know the whole Vibes the general
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 8: what else. There's so many details. Drake really took a
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 8: time on this. There's only two created. There's one for
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 8: Vibes Cartel and one for Drake himself.
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  Speaker 22: Drake.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, now why is Vibes the only other person
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 1: with that type of owl?
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 6: What about Chumps? What about forty? It's party, it's pream
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 6: and baka. They would like a new owl.
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  Speaker 9: It's something special for the world. Boss. Wow, don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Why can't they have an owl? Nobody else has?
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  Speaker 9: They probably do you all in their owl business? You
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 9: want WOMBOO?
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 1: No I don't. And it's like why just him and Drake? Okay,
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure this out, Like what's the connection.
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 8: He's a huge icon that he looks up to but yeah,
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 8: so it was a good gift. I tried to get
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 8: the price in but they ain't doing all that. They
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 8: said it's priceless. So shout out to Drake on that
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 8: gift because that one super virus well and it's a
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 8: great ol. Now as we wrap up, can I do
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 8: one of the clips that we had really quick? I
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 8: also wanted to answer the question a lot of you
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 8: guys are trying to figure out why Joe Tacopino, who
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 8: is now representing Wendy on the personal attorney side, was
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 8: denied the ability to go to dinner with Wendy. I
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 8: feel like some people thought that this was a retaliation
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 8: thing from her conservativeship. Well, Joe Tacopina called in to
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 8: talk to us exclusively today to explain it.
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  Speaker 9: Let's take a listen.
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  Speaker 19: There may have been a motivating factor to Superna Morcy
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 19: canceling that dinner, which could have included the fact that
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 19: I was there. So the lesson they want to do,
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 19: guys is see me inside that quarto. I'm not going
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 19: to be gentle about how one is being treated as
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 19: far as that dinner one be. Myself and Alys were
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 19: supposed to have dinner that night, last minute. Literally, as
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 19: Wendy was rested and ready to leave her room, she
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 19: was told she couldn't go by Supreme Marty because Alice
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 19: was testifying the next day to hear it, so therefore
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 19: she couldn't see Wendy in person that night. So if
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 19: the whole point was they couldn't get together the night
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 19: before her testimony, as if somehow Wendy would influence out
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 19: the testimony, which is ridiculous, It wouldn't really make sense
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 19: to cancel that dinner because they could have just been
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 19: on the phone. Well, I don't know if they knew
• 1:32:29
  Speaker 19: I was going to be at that dinner. It just
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 19: seems highly coincidental.
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  Speaker 8: Baby, they got Wendy in a choke code over there,
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 8: don't they. They're trying to show her something. We also,
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 8: real quick we also asked them to about the money
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 8: because we were trying to figure out. You know, Wendy's
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 8: been saying that Sabrina uses her money to hire these
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 8: high powate attorneys and blah blah blahlah blah. So I
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 8: was like, well, wait, so Sabrina's letting her pay you
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 8: because if they don't want you there, they ain't gonna
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 8: let the money flow, and he said that that has
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 8: did Sabrina's not paying him. Wendy's families, actually you know,
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 8: and him are taking care of that, but he didn't
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 8: want to go into it. He said that that's something
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 8: between him and the family. He's not worried about the
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 8: money right now. He's just trying to make sure Wendy Street.
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 6: I'm sure we'll hear more on the Latest with Lauren podcasts.
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 9: Oh period.
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  Speaker 8: You know, some of these clips is going right on
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 8: over there. And I told y'all in today's episode that
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 8: we would have Joe call in. So I hope you
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 8: guys have enjoyed the bounce between the two platforms, and
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 8: we do got some more exclusive clips from our conversation
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 8: with Joe Takapina that will be on tomorrow morning's episode
• 1:33:21
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  Speaker 7: Right?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah today? Yeah, think yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Ashtons turned thirteen today, So happy born Day to Ashton.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure Jess is doing a lot of great things
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  Speaker 1: for him down in Baltimore. And salute to Baltimore. I
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  Speaker 1: was in Baltimore all weekend for my daughter's cheerleading tournament.
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  Speaker 1: Man had a great time in Baltimore. I want to
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  Speaker 1: salute Carly at Nick's Fishhouse. Man, Carlely, thank you for
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  Speaker 1: the love that you showed me and my wife at
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  Speaker 6: You see I'm rocking the Knicks Fish House merchandise.
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  Speaker 9: Big merch.
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  Speaker 18: Oh.
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  Speaker 9: I like the back of that. Yes, that's fire.
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  Speaker 6: They asked me if I wanted a hoodie.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, hell yeah, you know, because I show love
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  Speaker 6: So Cary, thank you for the love this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for the merch and just the hospitality y'all
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  Speaker 6: You got something going on, DR.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, we got a lot going on the podcast here.
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  Speaker 8: Please continue to download it on everywhere you get podcasts
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  Speaker 8: but I like that though. Every day after the audio,
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  Speaker 9: But I do post clips the day of on my
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  Speaker 6: Post the video twenty four hours after the audio.
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  Speaker 9: In full, but I post social media clips day of.
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  Speaker 8: We're working on it because at first it was forty eight,
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  Speaker 9: They bring me out to have a good time.
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  Speaker 6: About you going for a BBL.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, I don't even have enough weight
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm not. You don't have to do that at all.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to tell me because I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: there for making sure. Okay, I heard you saying the initials.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't paying attention. It was HBCU.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, not bb I know you ain't graduate from nowhere
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  Speaker 6: Yep, it's the.
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  Speaker 1: World No Danger, It's born to show The Breakfast Club,
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  Speaker 6: What did he say he was going to do?
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  Speaker 9: I believe like Good Day in New York Americas. Uh huh.
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  Speaker 8: They've been doing some podcasts. I know they did, then
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  Speaker 8: they did. I don't know if I can say which
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  Speaker 8: one they did. It is some podcasts too, like it down.
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  Speaker 6: All right, Well, you'll see them out and about.
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  Speaker 1: And Jesse Larius Ashton's her son is born Dare the
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  Speaker 1: And we got to thank the Mighty Mail Robbins for
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  Speaker 9: That's power.
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  Speaker 6: You know how crazy that that is?
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 9: That's power that is.
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  Speaker 8: That is so like people have to go get a
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  Speaker 8: and download it.
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  Speaker 9: That's like having to go buy a CD.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so salute to Meil Robbins. I actually did her podcast.
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  Speaker 1: It came out last week. I did it back in March,
• 1:37:23
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• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: note is a quote from Meil Robbins. Mel Robbins once said,
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  Speaker 1: start before you're already.
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  Speaker 6: Don't prepare.
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  Speaker 1: Begin You are one decision away from a completely different life,
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  Speaker 1: and your feelings don't matter.
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  Speaker 6: The only thing that matters is what you do. Have
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