Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Marcus needs advice regarding his STREAMER GIRLFRIEND

Transcript

Marcus needs advice regarding his STREAMER GIRLFRIEND · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Hello. Good morning, John Jay and Rich. Can I help you?
• 0:03
  Speaker 2: Hi, this is Marcus. And I was just wondering if
• 0:06
  Speaker 2: I could ask you guys' opinion on something.
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: All right, Marcus. You got it.
• 0:10
  Speaker 2: So I recently started seeing somebody who's a streamer, right?
• 0:15
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 0:16
  Speaker 2: And while she streams, you know, typical thing where women stream,
• 0:22
  Speaker 2: guys are in there, like, you know, like trying to talk.
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: To them, right?
• 0:27
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: And then they send their money.
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 0:31
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: But this is not, like, an OS thing. Right. It's on, like,
• 0:37
  Speaker 2: another streaming service.
• 0:38
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: Right, right. So, but the thing is, there was a
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: recent incident where somebody that she's known in the streaming
• 0:47
  Speaker 2: world for, like, a few years, and this guy was being, like,
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: overtly sexual with, like, talking to her. Uh-huh. And she
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: was just, like, laughing and, like, not really like saying
• 0:59
  Speaker 2: anything about it. Like just kind of like, she was
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: just like, that's how he is. So she didn't really
• 1:04
  Speaker 2: like feel a need to like tell him to tone
• 1:07
  Speaker 2: it down or like to cut that out. And so
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: I mentioned to her that I thought that's not okay.
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: And that that was disrespectful to our relationship. And she
• 1:18
  Speaker 2: made it to seem like I shouldn't trip about it
• 1:21
  Speaker 2: because that's just how he is. And because she knows,
• 1:25
  Speaker 2: she knows that nothing's going to happen because That I
• 1:28
  Speaker 2: should just brush it under the rug kind of thing.
• 1:30
  Speaker 5: Well, let me ask you this. How long have you
• 1:32
  Speaker 5: been seeing her? You said recently, right? You just started
• 1:34
  Speaker 5: seeing her?
• 1:35
  Speaker 2: Probably since like mid-July.
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, and was she a streamer before you met her?
• 1:41
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, and is this her way she makes money?
• 1:45
  Speaker 2: Kind of.
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:46
  Speaker 2: Like she's starting over because she used to stream somewhere else.
• 1:50
  Speaker 5: I have a friend, a friend of mine's girlfriend does
• 1:53
  Speaker 5: this for a living too. She's a bartender and then,
• 1:55
  Speaker 5: and then she'll stream on kick or on Twitch and
• 1:58
  Speaker 5: she will be like, uh, she's opening cards, Pokemon cards.
• 2:01
  Speaker 5: And she usually does it like in a uniform, like
• 2:02
  Speaker 5: in a real sexy outfit, you know? And the Pokemon, the, the, the,
• 2:06
  Speaker 5: what's that called?
• 2:06
  Speaker 1: When they're that, that, The cosplay.
• 2:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:09
  Speaker 1: She'll be in a cosplay thing.
• 2:11
  Speaker 5: And it's she's she's not being dirty, but people are
• 2:14
  Speaker 5: being dirty to her while she's opening it. And then
• 2:16
  Speaker 5: they're sending her money and she's making a ton of money,
• 2:19
  Speaker 5: a lot of money off this thing. Like she'll go
• 2:21
  Speaker 5: on for two hours and make 500 bucks or something.
• 2:23
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 2:23
  Speaker 5: So it's kind of like she was doing that before
• 2:25
  Speaker 5: you met her. And my friend, who is the boyfriend
• 2:28
  Speaker 5: of this girl, he gets it. So he's like, yeah, whatever.
• 2:30
  Speaker 5: She doesn't interact with him privately, only when she's on Twitch.
• 2:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's saying she's not reacting to this guy.
• 2:36
  Speaker 4: And she's like, yeah, he's over whatever. And she laughs
• 2:39
  Speaker 4: it off. So the thing is, do you trust her
• 2:41
  Speaker 4: to be cool? If you trust her to be cool
• 2:43
  Speaker 4: and handle herself, then you don't have a problem. But
• 2:46
  Speaker 4: if it's one of those things that gets under your
• 2:48
  Speaker 4: skin and you don't want anybody talking to you, Your
• 2:51
  Speaker 4: person like that will then put a ring on it
• 2:53
  Speaker 4: and then talk about some boundaries.
• 2:54
  Speaker 3: Or maybe then that's just not the right relationship for
• 2:56
  Speaker 3: you if that's something she's going to want to keep
• 2:58
  Speaker 3: doing and pursuing. Because, I mean, there probably is some
• 3:02
  Speaker 3: element of, like, her playing a little bit of a
• 3:04
  Speaker 3: character on the stream. And she can't really break character
• 3:08
  Speaker 3: and be like, that's inappropriate. Because then that's going to, like,
• 3:10
  Speaker 3: I guess maybe turn away some of her followers.
• 3:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's part of the rules of engagement, I guess.
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: Unless that's how you met her. And you're going to
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: dinner with her.
• 3:18
  Speaker 3: Then you can understand why you'd be jelly.
• 3:20
  Speaker 1: How did you meet her, Marcus?
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: I met her through streaming. The thing is, like, it
• 3:24
  Speaker 2: wasn't like, she's not like that on the stream.
• 3:26
  Speaker 1: Right. Right, right, right.
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: Like she's just kind of like there.
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: How many followers does she have?
• 3:31
  Speaker 2: Like playful, probably less than 200.
• 3:33
  Speaker 1: Oh, well, I don't know. I think we gave you
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: good advice. So it's a, what do you think? Well,
• 3:39
  Speaker 1: we go undercover. We'll flirt with her.
• 3:40
  Speaker 5: We'll create a fake account, flirt with her and see
• 3:42
  Speaker 5: if we can get her to meet us for dinner.
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: I just feel like a, like a boundary should be
• 3:48
  Speaker 2: set to where it's like, you don't have to like,
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: you don't have to like be rude or whatever about it.
• 3:53
  Speaker 2: Like you can easily say like, you don't appreciate like, like,
• 3:58
  Speaker 2: You know, like, we can tone down on the sexual comments.
• 4:00
  Speaker 3: But she wasn't flirting back. Was she flirting back?
• 4:04
  Speaker 2: Well, when he said something about, like, she was just like,
• 4:11
  Speaker 2: she didn't say no. It was just a thing.
• 4:14
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, she's got to play along. She's making money.
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: What do you say? I'm going to be all up. Oh,
• 4:18
  Speaker 1: my gosh.
• 4:19
  Speaker 4: That's gross.
• 4:22
  Speaker 1: All right, Marcus. Smooth talker, that guy. Good luck. Send
• 4:24
  Speaker 1: me your link. I'll let you know what happens. Thanks, brother.
• 4:27
  Speaker 1: Thanks for listening.