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Sipping on some Bailey’s! · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Meloncamps at camera. Jedge.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy
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  Speaker 1: Meloncamp and special co host joining me today, Cynthia Bailey. Hi, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: Teddy Bear, I've missed you. What's going on? Oh? What's
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  Speaker 1: going on? I'm actually here in Atlanta at Lake Bailey.
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  Speaker 1: It looks beautiful back there. Okay, well, this is just
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  Speaker 1: my background for myself. But you know, but that you
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  Speaker 1: can tell when my background right, it's nice about you
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  Speaker 1: can tell by the background. Sometimes I'll like interview somebody
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  Speaker 1: and it's just like the white wall and you're like,
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  Speaker 1: m hmm. Yeah, No, I definitely have a good background.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm here at the lake. I am actually
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  Speaker 1: in town because my mom was recently diagnosed with brisk cancer.
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  Speaker 1: But but the good news is she's going to be okay. Um,
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  Speaker 1: she is having surgery on Monday, and we caught it
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  Speaker 1: early stage one. Ladies get those mammograms, That's how we
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  Speaker 1: caught it. And I cannot encourage you guys enough. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that she's gonna be okay. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: here with her. I'll be here until the surgery is over.
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  Speaker 1: Does it run in your family at all? Or it doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't. This is like the first thing we've heard
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  Speaker 1: of it in our family. So that was surprising. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm due for my own mammogram, so I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: set that up me too. And have you done a
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  Speaker 1: colon oscopy? I did? I did that last year, okay,
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  Speaker 1: because they told me they changed that age. They want
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  Speaker 1: people to get colin oscarpy part or five. So if
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  Speaker 1: you guys are listening, it's time. Absolutely take care of yourself.
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  Speaker 1: People like honestly, um, if COVID taught us nothing else,
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  Speaker 1: help is a huge priority. All right? Uh? And how
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  Speaker 1: is your mom and good spirits? Or is she she is? Now?
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  Speaker 1: She is? Now? You know. The way it works is hetty.
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  Speaker 1: Once the mamogram comes back showing that there's cancer, they
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  Speaker 1: don't just call you right away and say, girl, this
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  Speaker 1: is what's up. It's only stage one. You're gonna be okay,
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  Speaker 1: this is what you have to go through. They make
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  Speaker 1: you wait. You have to have an appointment, and then
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  Speaker 1: you know, people fly in like we all live in
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  Speaker 1: to be there for the appointment, and then you know,
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  Speaker 1: and all that time, of course, all you think about
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  Speaker 1: is the worst case scenario, you know. So she was
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  Speaker 1: really like, mentally, it was really difficult for her to
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  Speaker 1: wait that week and a half to actually go and
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  Speaker 1: sit in front of the ten people that actually gave
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  Speaker 1: us the news that it was that at stage one
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  Speaker 1: and that she won't have to do chemo any of
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  Speaker 1: those things and they should be able to get it
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  Speaker 1: out successfully with with surgery. So she's in good, great
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  Speaker 1: spirits now and actually posted about it. And I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: going to post about it because it just was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's just home. But then I thought about
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  Speaker 1: how they caught it, the whole Mammograham thing. I said,
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  Speaker 1: you know what this is, you know what I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: it's always good to use your real life experiences to
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  Speaker 1: just really share real things on Instagram. Yeah, because if not,
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  Speaker 1: you always think it's this happened to so and so,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it's gonna happen to me. And I
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  Speaker 1: I recently shared something about, you know, I had melanoma,
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  Speaker 1: but it ended up being instant um. But then they
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  Speaker 1: told me I had to go get my lymph nodes checked.
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  Speaker 1: And the first doctor told me, you know, it's very
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  Speaker 1: rare that it's going to be in your lymphoes what
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  Speaker 1: you have to do it, and I ended up I
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  Speaker 1: have severe anxiety when it comes to certain type of
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  Speaker 1: doctor's appointments, Like it just is post something and people
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  Speaker 1: are like, why did you post about this? And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: because a lot of people really do struggle with this
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  Speaker 1: similar thing where I put it off so many times
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  Speaker 1: that honestly, the woman who ran the front desk at
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  Speaker 1: the oncologist was like, Teddy, if you were scheduled one
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  Speaker 1: more time, we won't schedule with you again. And it
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  Speaker 1: took that like level of accountability for me to be like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be there at two thirty, Like it was no
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  Speaker 1: for sure, and I think we all are guilty of
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  Speaker 1: doing that, you know what I mean. I mean I
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  Speaker 1: didn't run towards my colonoscopy. I mean I kind of
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  Speaker 1: waited until I couldn't wait, and then I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I have to do this already. But I think the
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  Speaker 1: great thing about posting about it, and I love that
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  Speaker 1: you are so transparent with your posting about like all
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  Speaker 1: of you know, your health issues, anything that you're doing.
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  Speaker 1: I know you posted about your chin thing, like I
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  Speaker 1: love all I would just have to be. If not,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like a fraud. Like I'm like I have
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  Speaker 1: to and and that's about and the ugly absolutely, And
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  Speaker 1: the great thing is what lipped at my mom's spirits
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  Speaker 1: up the most, you know, was the fact that she
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  Speaker 1: got so much level on Instagram. If I you know,
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  Speaker 1: shared that, you know, this is what was happening. Go
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  Speaker 1: get your mammograms. And it was like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: you know we're praying for you know what or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, you know my mom. She's on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: I don't you know the older people on the Graham
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  Speaker 1: so you know she's going it through and she's like
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  Speaker 1: getting all this love and it really mentally actually lifted
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  Speaker 1: her up. So I think I want to say thank
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  Speaker 1: you to everyone to sit my mom love on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: If I did that post, oh I love that, and
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  Speaker 1: we'll be thinking about her as she had and she's
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  Speaker 1: so blessed to have you there with her, you know.
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  Speaker 1: So that's what I had to shut it down and
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  Speaker 1: get my butt on a plane. Um, you know, made
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  Speaker 1: that call to my agent and my manager and said, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I have one mom. Yeah I have to be here
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  Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, be here with her for this. Um,
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  Speaker 1: throughout the whole process, and you know, it worked out
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  Speaker 1: where I was able to actually work and do things
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  Speaker 1: like this from Atlanta right now and I head back
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  Speaker 1: to l A probably in the next week. But it
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  Speaker 1: worked out, and I'm really glad that I'm here. Feels
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  Speaker 1: good to be here with her. And how hot is
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  Speaker 1: it in Atlanta right now? So I'm four hours from
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  Speaker 1: the I grew up four hours from Atlanta, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that in South Carolina in August one thousand degrees hot,
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta is very appropriately name. Okay, it's hot to sail here,
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  Speaker 1: like you got so, Like I find myself sometimes complaining
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  Speaker 1: and l I I'm like, oh it's hot today, I'm like, no, No,
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  Speaker 1: in South Carolina, I would take a breath and I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to breathe in the air because that's
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  Speaker 1: so human. Yeah, I know it's crazy, but anyway, Um, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited to be here, so excited for Tamera going
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  Speaker 1: back to I know, do you watch Orange County at all?
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  Speaker 1: You know what, honestly, I just at this point watch
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  Speaker 1: the clips. I just wait for the juicy bits to
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  Speaker 1: hit my timeline, and you know, I try to keep
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  Speaker 1: up in that way. Okay, you watching my last night,
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  Speaker 1: you sent me a clip, your your team sent me
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  Speaker 1: a clip, and I did watch the last episode of Dubai,
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  Speaker 1: so I got so lucky you. Dubai has been a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a doozy for us to cover. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so I we'll we'll get to the bay in a second. First,
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  Speaker 1: first we have Instagram questions, okay, which you know you're
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  Speaker 1: just Tamrolis is like coming, so I'm like, I can't
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  Speaker 1: I just go in and hold on, like have a Seagram.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go all right, let's go something like fun Instagram questions. Okay, Cynthia,
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  Speaker 1: so good to see I love that this is from
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  Speaker 1: the persons, So good to see you. First off, we
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  Speaker 1: must talk about Teresa's wedding. How was it and what
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  Speaker 1: was your initial reaction to her hair? Okay, our wedding
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  Speaker 1: was beautiful. It was my first Italian wedding. I've never
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  Speaker 1: seen so much food in my life. Like, honestly, if
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  Speaker 1: there was anything I could say bad, if I could
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  Speaker 1: see something bad, was it was too much damn food.
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  Speaker 1: I mean there was food everywhere, and then it had
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  Speaker 1: then there had the audacity to be a shake check
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  Speaker 1: foods up when we left the wedding sitting down in
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  Speaker 1: the parking lot. I'm like, are you kidding me? Like
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  Speaker 1: she had ever any kind of food you can name.
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  Speaker 1: I just have never been to wedding where there was
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  Speaker 1: so much food, and you know me, I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: want to taste everything. So yeah, I spent a lot
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  Speaker 1: of time eating. But the wedding was absolutely beautiful. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so excited for Teresa Louie, Um, Teresa's hair, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I was kind of here for. You know, she's
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  Speaker 1: you know Teresa, Like, she's the kind of girl when
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  Speaker 1: she goes big, she goes big, So why should her
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  Speaker 1: wedding here be any different, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: I thought she looked like a princess. She looked so happy.
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  Speaker 1: Louie looked great, like I love their love. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: Teresa and I couldn't connected on the Ultimate Girl's Trip.
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  Speaker 1: She was my favorite. She was the one that I
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  Speaker 1: was actually super excited to get to meet because I
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  Speaker 1: felt like, you know how it is on on on
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  Speaker 1: these housewife shows. I mean, she's been through a lot,
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  Speaker 1: and you know it's really hard, like the things that
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  Speaker 1: I've even had to share in my real life, even
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  Speaker 1: marriage force like all the ups and downs, the peaks
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  Speaker 1: and valleys, all that stuff, like to go through what
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  Speaker 1: she went through and going prison, and I was like, whoa,
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  Speaker 1: I got to meet this woman. She is like to
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  Speaker 1: come back queen and she as she was the queen.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm excited that, you know, we became, we maintained
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  Speaker 1: our friendship, you know outside of you know, Ultimate Girls trip.
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  Speaker 1: And did you get a chance to talk with Louis
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  Speaker 1: at all? Do you think he gets a bad rap?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think he's just about like self help and
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  Speaker 1: it's not all the other stuff or I like Louie,
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  Speaker 1: I actually Theresa, Louis. We're in l a for um
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  Speaker 1: the MTV Awards. I saw them there. Yeah, for flipping
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  Speaker 1: like dramatic or flipping the table. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: it was an award. I don't even know if she
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  Speaker 1: wanted it not. But anyway, anyway, long story short, she
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  Speaker 1: reached out and the four of us, myself, Louie, Theresa,
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  Speaker 1: Mike had um couple's dinner at Crustacean actually and uh
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  Speaker 1: we had a great time. And what I and what
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  Speaker 1: I loved was or didn't really expect per se. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, it was my first time you get Louis
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  Speaker 1: in person, love him this man, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: everyone else is seeing. And I think I'm a good
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  Speaker 1: judge of character and I can read people's energy. I
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  Speaker 1: love him for her. I thought he was just such
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  Speaker 1: a great guy, like so nice, so kind, so sweet.
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  Speaker 1: He and Mike hit it off, like they just organically
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  Speaker 1: hit it all. You know, Mike has a mental wellness platform.
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  Speaker 1: Louis always talking about mental wellness, so they both kind
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  Speaker 1: of connected on that level. And to be honest, you know,
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  Speaker 1: they have their own little relationship now. Um, I think
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  Speaker 1: Mike Mike talked to Louis Morton. Was Mike at the wedding?
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  Speaker 1: Mike was not at the wedding. He was working in Vegas.
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  Speaker 1: Because I was like, I didn't see those pictures that
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  Speaker 1: that wouldn't wouldn't make sensitive. All that happened right around
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  Speaker 1: when I found out about my mom, so I hadn't
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  Speaker 1: I haven't even really posted any wedding man. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't have much of them. And you know, took
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of pictures together. Then did any of the
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  Speaker 1: Bravo Loves act up at the wedding? Was anyone really? Like? No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: everyone was good. Everyone was good. I got to see
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  Speaker 1: Kenya uh Um, Ashley Derby, um Chanelle Ian was there.
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  Speaker 1: But hold on, why was Chanelle not dressed over the time.
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  Speaker 1: I've never seen her not dressed over the top. And
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  Speaker 1: then she's like, I mean she looked beautiful. She was
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  Speaker 1: like in a stunning suit or whatever. But I was like,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, where the feathers usually brings it, she didn't
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  Speaker 1: brings it like she usually isn't like never not in
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  Speaker 1: a ball game. But you know what's so crazy because
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  Speaker 1: she texted me the morning up and she was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure out, like I don't think
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  Speaker 1: she had all her stuff together. That is what I
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  Speaker 1: said to Tam. Dad always has their sound like you.
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  Speaker 1: I bet it was the last minute invite and she
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  Speaker 1: didn't have it. Absolutely. She was trying to figure out
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  Speaker 1: like she was like in Jersey somewhere she can have
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  Speaker 1: her clothes. It was something going on with her clothes.
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  Speaker 1: So but I thought like she was calling me to
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  Speaker 1: just you know how people say they don't have anything
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  Speaker 1: to wear and then you should you show up and
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  Speaker 1: then they have like aliaga like down on, and I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: She's probably like down it, but she's really gonna show
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  Speaker 1: like for her something like she doesn't everything you wear.
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  Speaker 1: It means that at the very least she'll have on
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  Speaker 1: you know. But by the way, it really bugs me
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  Speaker 1: when people do that, Like earlier today you text me
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  Speaker 1: like are you are you gonna be glad for the thing?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, absolutely not. It's Big Brother style. I'm casual.
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  Speaker 1: But if I would have shown up in full like
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  Speaker 1: there are housewives that do that, they're like, oh no,
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  Speaker 1: it's casual. And then you get there and you're like
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  Speaker 1: when I have to admit now, I did receive your
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  Speaker 1: text and I'm like, okay, casual. So I was like
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  Speaker 1: a Big Brother house I'm like, what does that mean? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: switch shirt my CB bow or switch shirt okay, And
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me dim my hair. And
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: then I was like, okay, I did a little light
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  Speaker 1: makeup because at the end of the day, it's you know,
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  Speaker 1: this will get out and be seen. But you're capable
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  Speaker 1: of doing that. You I am not. You did my
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  Speaker 1: eyelashes all a Big Brother Like any time we had
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  Speaker 1: something where like it wasn't two am and they were
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  Speaker 1: waking us up to do it. Confessional. I'd be like Cynthia, help,
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I did your makeup. I did
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  Speaker 1: your Oh my god, I did your makeup. Then when
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  Speaker 1: I left, Oh my god, you never looked more beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: I'll just say that, I mean, you really pulled out
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  Speaker 1: all the stops for me. I tried. Did I tell
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  Speaker 1: you that I saw Lamar the other day at our
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  Speaker 1: local steakhouse? I like, walking out, I'm with Kyle and
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  Speaker 1: we're eating dinner at like five thirty, which she eats
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  Speaker 1: dinner at five thirty unless she's like us. And we
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  Speaker 1: walk out and Lamar walks in and he goes Terry,
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  Speaker 1: is that you? I'm like, tern Lar. Well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Lamar was the most confused person in the house. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't surprise me that he actually doesn't remember your name.
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: I actually haven't seen him, but you know, I've seen Todd. Todd,
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  Speaker 1: and I just reason you did celebrity beach celebrity beef,
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  Speaker 1: which it's your fault that I ended up having a
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  Speaker 1: beat with him in the first place. And you know this,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you realize they never showed my beef at all.
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  Speaker 1: No one saw the beef was me and Todd. You know,
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  Speaker 1: they didn't show it. No, I didn't realize that. So
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  Speaker 1: the day that Todd and I had beef was the
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: day that Chris Kirkpatrick had COPE. Well, he didn't have COVID.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: He got a COPE, a positive COVID test. So they
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: cut the live feeds. And then that was the day
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  Speaker 1: that Todd Bridges and I got in an argument. What
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: did you guys get into an argument about? I forgot um.
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  Speaker 1: He kept calling me crazy, and I said, when the
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  Speaker 1: live feeds back up, call me anything other than crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I am crazy, like but crazy now isn't a word
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  Speaker 1: that I can You can just use as as Willie.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's as open as as he wants. And
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  Speaker 1: if it makes you uncomfortable and you say that it does,
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  Speaker 1: then you know that just has to be respect. And
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  Speaker 1: it really pissed him off. But I can't say this.
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  Speaker 1: Since then, he has apologized. He went out of his
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: way to apologize. At the finale, he came up to
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  Speaker 1: me and apologize, Like, I think he has a good
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  Speaker 1: heart and I think that house is a sure cooker. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: like you were gone by the time he and I
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  Speaker 1: blew up, and it was crazy. It was what was
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  Speaker 1: all about? Well, I'm so glad you asked. I was
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  Speaker 1: about the fact that I voted for you. Remember he
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: got put up on the block last mental right, but
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: he was never supposed to be on the block. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: the bottom line is he was not a part of
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  Speaker 1: my alliance. You were part of my alliance. I had
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  Speaker 1: given you my word that I was gonna vote for you.
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  Speaker 1: I am a woman of my word. Okay, I am
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  Speaker 1: so last minute and Todd was like, my you know,
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  Speaker 1: I was starting to, you know, have a good relationship
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  Speaker 1: with Todd, and you know, he was like my card's buddy,
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  Speaker 1: my spades buddy, like we were. We were good. Never
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: by the way, I beat both y'all at spades, just
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: in case you forgotten you did. You did. But anyway,
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: long story short, basically, you know, when he when he
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: you know, all of a sudden, was on the block,
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  Speaker 1: it was like, okay, but in my mind, it's like
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  Speaker 1: I'm still voting for my Aligns team Teddy Mailingcamp. So anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I voted for you. And then after you left, he
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  Speaker 1: just was like in his feelings about it, and he
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe you didn't vote for me.
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  Speaker 1: And I thought he was like kidding. I'm like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: we're not even on the stage. But he was also
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  Speaker 1: mad that I said that you were a better chef
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  Speaker 1: than him, but he hadn't cooked for us. No, he hadn't.
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  Speaker 1: But okay, so now I need to know. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: lots happened after you left, and he did end up
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  Speaker 1: end up cooking a lot, and he is actually a
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: really really amazing cook to be honest. Although I did
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: beat him on Celebrity Beef, but you did. I did.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I did, But it was like, you know, you know
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: how I go. It started off looking really bad. I
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: was like I'm done, I'm done, and then um, you know,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: in the end, like his chicken wasn't really totally cooked.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: It was like a lot of things that where Joe
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: had to give it to me of course as well,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: like tots food tasted amazing. I tasted it, but my
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: pre presentation everything it's like on point. So I mean,
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: it's not like I want anything great. They gave me
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: like a bootleg trophy from like some motor sports piece
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: of be like I don't even I think Joe like
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: founded in his basement. But anyway, the great news is
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Todd and I talk all the time. Now we're like
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: great friends. I love him. He saw so much weight.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Have you seen how much weights? I know he really
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: is lovely. I just think that inside that house everybelt
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: the most aggression and the most paranoid we could ever be,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: for sure, for sure, which is why I almost don't
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: even count it. I'm like, how somebody asked me, and
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I now now I need to ask you. Somebody asked me,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: if you were asked to go back on Celebrity All
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Star Big Brother, would you do it? And I was like, listen,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: I say, I never say never about almost anything, And
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: that's a note for me. Now, yeah, I don't know.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I think that's a one off. I think once you've
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: done it. And then for me, I was in there
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: so long that I'm really pretty sure that I mean,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know what they would happen. I mean, even
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: eighteen days seemed like eighteen years for me. I can't
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: even even the day that I left, even though I
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: was sad when it first happened. Once I got home,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, why was I Why was I fighting
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: so hard to be in here? Like I know, people
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: need to know about you. If you guys don't know
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: this about Teddy. Teddy is very competitive, loves a good competition.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Like she literally rose like a freaking phoenix with the
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: first competition. She like she was hanging out, and this
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: is why they had to get her butt out of there,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: because she was a huge You are and I've after
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: competing with you and other things, Okay, you don't mess
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: a red all right. They were smart to get your
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: butt out as soon as possible because you could have
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: won what you could have won. Well, I was never
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: a threat. I've never had blood on my hands. I
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: never wanted any competitions Like I've literally skated through just
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: being a what did they call you? You were considered
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: a floater? Yeah? What you floating it your way almost
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: to the very end, which is insane. And I kept thinking,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: you know, by the time all of you guys left,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: especially Carson, I was like, okay, I honestly can go now,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like, you know, my
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: alliance is gone. It's like me and a whole another
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: alliance that we put so much energy and trying to
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: take down the whole time. So you know, it got
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: a little uncomfortable for me. But well, now, speaking of alliances,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: what's the update with Kenya because we saw that there
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: was a picture posting. Now we I can't just get
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: work good. I need more information because when you're on
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Watch What Happens Live, you guys haven't really talked, but
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: now there's this picture out there. So okay. So I
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: saw Kenya at the wedding that mind you we do
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, text back and forth that she
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: needs something. I'm always here for Kenya. That love is
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: always going going to be there, no matter what the
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: dynamic of the friendship is, It's just always going to
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: be there. So we, you know, reconnect at the wedding.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: It's like all good whenever I see her, like really
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: really honestly is and um, you know, there's communication. We
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: just are not as close as we used to be,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: which I think it's okay. I think friendships go up
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: and down and have levels. Like King is not the
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: only friend that I have that I've gone through things with.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: It's just the only one that I have to talk
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: about all the time. You know, first it was needy
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: and then they finally left me a lot about our
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: friendship and they're like they're fine. But the fact that
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I wish Nannie, well, I'm going to always wish Nanie well.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I just texted her the
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: other day because it was Greg's birthday to say, hey, um,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: just love I knew It's Greg's birthday today. And she
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: texted me back immediately and said thank you. It was
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: a tough day blah blah blah blah blah, Like I'm
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: always gonna be that girl and that friend, Like the
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: love never leaves for me. The friendship may change, but
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: the love is always, you know, here from me. So
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: you know I love Kenya. And are you watching Atlanta
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: at all? I'm watching the clips. I am watching the clips. Okay,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: So are you team Marlowe or team Kenya? You know what?
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I am team? Right? Um? I feel like and I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: have this conversation with marlow I know marlow has a
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: good heart, and I know she has good intentions, but
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: she basically and I hope she did well at the
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: reunion thoughts at articulating getting her point across whatever it
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: is that she's upset about. Like I feel like all
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: these other things happen where it's just not super clear
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: with about an intial start repeating herself saying the same thing,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: like even if it's somebody's names. She'd be like Kenya, Kenya, Kenya,
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and then you're like, whoa, why are you? Why are
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: we doing this? I think, don't watch back this season.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: You know, hopefully she'll be, you know, back next season.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I think, you know, she'll watch back this season and
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: learn how to navigate a little bit more effectively, especially
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: in terms of just more effective communication with the issues
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: that she's having with anyone. Um, we all have issues. Okay,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that she's not entitled to her feelings.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, um, she just has to do
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: a better job of getting it across to us as
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I'm a you know, a spectator now myself, but what
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: the actual problem really is and and trying to get
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: on the other side of it. So and then how
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: do you think Sonia is doing as a rookie? I
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: like Sonia. I do like Sonia. I think Sonia is
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: a nice lady. I have not met her, but she
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: did reach out to me. She slid in my d
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: M s and you know I like that. I like
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: that she did by Yeah, a couple of ladies have
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: That's how I met Um. Well, I know we'll get
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: to to buy. But I met Lisa and Chanelle the
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: same way. We're out in my d MS. They actually
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: had Davy Quain just call me and said, you know,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I love that Dave is the answer between the bye
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: ladies want to meet you. And I was like, really, like,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: you know, it's so funny what you know. I'm I'm
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: so disconnected from the show, to be honest, that I
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: forget like the other housewife, especially New Housewives. Even I
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: know it sounds crazy, like even know me, I guess.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, really want me why I'm not even
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: on the show anymore. A lot of years my people
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: to care about you or whatever. But I've been getting
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: love left and right. So I actually hung out with
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: um Lisa and Shanelle the night before the reunion. I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: didn't even know it was the night before the reunion.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I just happened to be in New York, to be
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: in New York doing some press stuff, watching What Happens
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Live in a bunch of stuff. And we had dinner
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: and they were, you know, gearing up and you know,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: for it all. And I hope I'm sure they did well.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: If you had to READO your Real Housewives Girls trip cast,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: who would be on it? Okay, so that again if
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: you had to read I know, I had to say
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: it again with you, Cynthia, and it's like, hold on,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: it's a game. This is a competition. Okay, you had
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: to redo your Real Housewives of Girls Trip cast? Who
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: would be on it? Okay? Um? Who the whole cast?
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: You can pick four? Let's just pick four people, okay, Um,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Karen Huger Okay, Potomac, Um, Candy Bars from Atlanta. I
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: have questions about Candy when we get after Um who else? Um,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Laura Larsa Pippin from It Went from Miami and Kenny
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Mellencamp from Beverly h You're so cute. Okay, So this
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: is my question about Candy. We had her on the pod,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: and I'm obsessed with Candy this season on Atlanta. Like
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm obsessed to her in general. But she's
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: so funny, so like it just says all the right things.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: All her confessionals are so great. When she was on
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: the pod, she was pretty reserved. And somebody asked me
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: if me and Tama have ever gotten a fight, And
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: the only fight Tama and I've ever gotten on was
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: about Candy. Really, what was the fight about because after
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: the podcast was over her Like during the podcast, Tamra
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: could tell that Candy wasn't gonna answer anything like like
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: Candy's like season House Life, so she wasn't gonna answer
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: pretty much anything that wasn't already shown, and I kind
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: of kept pushing her and then Tamra goes, you don't
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: have to answer any of these questions, and so after
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: it was over, I was like, Tamra, don't you get
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: like blah blah blah, Like we got into it. Our
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: first fight was over Candy for us, But now I'm like,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I want to have her back on after the reunion
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: when she can give us a little bit more action. Well,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I will say this about Candy, who was my girl,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: who is my friend, who adore You know, Candy could
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: be a little guarded for sure. It took me at
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: least five seasons to convince myself that Candy actually liked me.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Like I would be like, do you like me? And
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: of course I'm like, I'm like, you know, like you
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: like But she's like, I'm just like that. I'm just
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: like that with everyone. So she can be a little guarded.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: But also, you know, this isn't our first Rodio. You know, Okay,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: so the guarded nous was normal. It wasn't us just
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: for no reason. But you know what I have to
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: because I've seen other interviews where she really like you
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: got to push the right buttons with Candy, because I've
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: seen her go ham and interviews as well, like just
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: get really emotional and just put it on out there.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: You know. I think we caught her at the beginning
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: of the season. It was not the right time. And
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: then one last question before we take a little break,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: and then we'll come back and talk about Tobias on
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: watch what happens. I've you alluded that you had a
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: phone call with Andy regarding you leaving the show. Details.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I did have a phone call, and for sure, but
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: I have a good relationship with Andy. I you know,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: was this after you talked to production and they said
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: you weren't coming back or did he call you first?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: This was Oh wow, I think it was my phone call.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I think I had spoken to production and we had
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: talked about me coming back as a friend, and which
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about, by the way, which you know,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: would you still go back as a friend? I think
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I go back as a friend before I would go
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: back as a housewife. Would you go on to real
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: Housewives of Beverly Hills, because I've been seeing that everywhere.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know why that keeps being everywhere because I
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: keep shutting it. But you live out here now, I know,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: I know, I know. But that doesn't necessarily cerrely mean
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: that I want to join the Beverly Hills Housewives. So
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: to just be clear with that for once and for all,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to it at some point when it
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: makes sense for my life. I just feel like I
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: literally just left Atlanta, it's not even been a year,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: and then I went right into Girls Trip, and then
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: that was a bunch of housewives, So I haven't really
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: had um a breaker of pause or whatever it's called
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: called at this point. Like just for me personally, I
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: would definitely entertain the idea of going over to Beverly
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Hills as a friend. I just I'm not over Atlanta, yeah,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: because I pretty much live in l l A now. Yeah,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I would, and I feel like I've done Atlanta it's
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: been eleven years now. I'm not saying I would never
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: ever go back either. One. I would be open as
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a friend. I'm not interested in going back to any
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: housewife franchise. Okay, and right, you're just saying you would
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: be you're you're more open to that. Okay, I'll take
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: that as an answer. I'm at a point now in
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: my life where I feel like I've shared so much
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: in my life. I want, um, I'm enjoying my privacy
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: with with my life at this point in my life.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: But you're willing to go in and stir it up
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: a little bit as a friend. Mr Trips, Yeah, I
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: go and eat the delicious dinners and go to the
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: fun parties and hang out with those ladies, and you know,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: you dress up a couple of times, dress up up
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: and you know, throw a little bit in there here
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: and there, you know, in conversation, and carry your carry
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: your mini Bailey bags exactly. Oh, let me I just
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: actually have one. They're the cutest thing. You would love
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: this they come in. I'll be waiting to find one
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: in my mail. It's weird, it hasn't arrived yet. You
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: may get one. Can personally deliver because I think it's
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: time for us to have dinner or lunch time. I know,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: it's so cute. When you're back, we have to I
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: want to see all of it, and I want to
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: start carrying it and still to come to the Beverly
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Center to check out my cbe Biors is where my
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: sweater came from. I have a bag and a pair
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: of store there that. You know, huge it is that
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: you're in the Beverly Center. What's that? You know how
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: huge it is that you're in the Beverly Center. No,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: it's crazy. Like I remember, like when I first the
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: first time I ever went to l A. Like one
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: of the things I did was I went to the
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Beverly Center. I was like, oh my god, it's like
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: crazy when I walk in there to unlock the door
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: and like calling it farm of the my square, you
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: know that, I'm like, wait, how how is this even happening?
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: But I'm so excited to be there, and I'm so
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: grateful that I have the opportunity because you know, it's
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: a small black owned business, big supporter of black owned businesses. Um,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: it's great to be on the same luxury floor as
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Louis buton across from the Max Store. It's it's amazing. Yeah, No,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: it's huge. To the end of you guys, I'll be
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: in the Beverly Center until the end of the year,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: you guys for sure? And then are you doing any
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: um like signings or anything like that that we can
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: get everybody to show up to. Yes, yes, I'm going
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: to after this whole thing, after I get everything tied
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: up with my mom, I'm gonna set up some specific
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: meeting Greek days that I'll be in the Beverly Center.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Because what happened before when it opened, I didn't realize,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: like the mall doesn't really close except on Christmas, thanks you,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: and I think Easter, Like it's open every day Saturday
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: and Sunday. So I found myself we were still opening
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: a staff together, so guess it was a part of
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: the staff. I was so me going in opening, closing,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: and then it gets to the point where, um, it
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: kind of became a little security thing for me because
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: it's like you can't just really be walking around in
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: here like yourself, Cynthia, because you know, you forget sometimes,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: so like, oh was this me? And I had a
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: couple of weird instances where people came in and I
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: was like, what's happening? But anyway, I'm like super hands on,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: but I can't be the hands on where I'm actually
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: running the store. Myself, but I will be putting together
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: meeting three days. I don't know you guys posted well,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I love it. I will for sure. Let's take a
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: little break and we'll come back and discuss Dubai. Yes, okay,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: so we are back. That was the break. That's our
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Our break is enough time for a fifty seven ads.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: But hold on, I have to make it colder in
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: my room. I'm so hot. I don't know about your husband,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: but my husband doesn't believe in air conditioning, so I
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: have to like hide it when he leaves her work,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm like so hot all the time here, especially
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: like perimenopauzzle. I'm like we'll say, and we're like, um,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: we're always hot or cold, like like a miss I'm
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: like hot and in them cold, and then I'm hot
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: like I always have like jackets and sweaters and blankets.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: It's I mean, they're sweating through my clothes or I
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: need fifty four layers. There's no happy medium to my
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: current condition of air quality, which would probably be a
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: little bit hard with living in Dubai because it seems
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: quite oft there. Yes, all right, first things, first, have
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: you seen any of the Dubai outfits from the reunion
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I have. Okay, so who's your favorite. I think i'd
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: like Chanel's hair, and I'd like Jesu's dress. See, I
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: don't love Lisa's dress. I don't love that those those
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: two little like tree branches look like they could potentially
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: be nipples. Oh, I have to take a look at
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: it again. So I like it's I think Lisa is
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: so beautiful. There it is. You can see it right out,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: see those two little things right over her book. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Like I would be the one checking that every thirty
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: two seconds to like see if my nipple was hanging out.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: It would drive me crazy. Yeah, I would drive. But
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: that being said, there's not many best options like things
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: for like nip slips anyway, so it would probably be
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: But like, how do you feel about Brooks being in
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: a crown? You know what it gave me? What is that? Uh?
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: The movie that Angelina Jolie was in Maleficent, Yeah, kind
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: of Maleficent. Yes, like I Swear to you was like
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: the first thing that came to my mind. But I
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, you know, I love here's the thing.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: It's first season. I feel like the first your first
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: season is the season where you can get it really
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: right or really wrong. Okay, there's your chance to figure
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: it all out. Um. I love that she went forward.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I think it's a lot, but hey, you know what
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: she seemed to be on in it. I can I
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: can work with it. And it was your least favorite.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: You are going to have to pick one minds Nina,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: which is kind of it's like I've seen it before. Yeah,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: well I don't like what was what was the thing?
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I don't get because normally they tell us
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: we have to be like everybody's in jewel tones or right,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: or everyone's in red or like something like. I feel
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: like the theme is a little all over the place.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's giving something different and it's I mean,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: I would think it was feathers, because like they all
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: have things sticking out except for Stanbury and Nina. Like
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: I think even Sarah on the side might have some
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: feathers on her, like but like boostier. But I can't
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: fully tell feathers, I think. I mean, I see a
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: few feathers here, but I don't know. I feel like
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: there's nudes and then there's bright colors, and then there's
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: like and then there's silver. I don't I want more
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: of a comsive theme. I had the same issue though
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: with Salt Lake City. Okay, I didn't see there's like,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: why are you all going to different places? Right? And
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I love a thing. I love a good thing, Like
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: you give me a good theme, I will understand the assignment. Well, yeah,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna look hot in the theme. You're gonna
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: it um. Okay, so we're gonna get through. But do
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: I want to talk about like when we talk about
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: we're talking about Dubai now because we're onto Dubai. Okay, Well, okay,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna ask me. But in
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: case you're not gonna ask me about Shanelle being circumcised
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: when she was okay, I, but I really have a
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: lot of questions because I want I I googled it
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: and I wasn't able to get the right amount of
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: information to now I need to understand. Do you want
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: to know because I actually knew another girl, a Somalian model,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: that was circumcised, and you know I'm older. I didn't.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I was just blown away because there's a huge age
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: difference with myself and Chanelle that this is still happening
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: in certain you know, parts of Africa. It is just
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: the most horrific thing. And I remember when my friend was,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: you know, talking about it. This has for social media,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: which is why I love that Chanelle is using the
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: platform to really breathe, to discuss it, harness and talk
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: about this. I was mortified that you can actually that
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: this is happening to young girls. But they basically go
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: and cut their vaginas. Um. I think I was told, now,
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: I don't you know, you guys are this yourself. But
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: what I was told was they try to make it.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: They cut off I don't know if this is so
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: there's no pleasure right now, or they cut off the
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: part that makes it feel good, okay, and then they
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: so sew it up. They sew up the vagina, they
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: so up the whole, which is opens up a whole
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: another set of issues. So because then they can't if not,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: you're unable to be sold for your as, your dowry problems,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: marriage ability, okay, and some of those places in Africa
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: they value being a virgin, like like if you're not
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: a virgin, I don't know why they take it so
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: far to have to like certaincise and do all these
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: things and make it unpleasurable for them. When they finally
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: do get married, it's like they're it's like part of
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: the culture and religion and custom It's like all this
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: stuff that is that still doesn't justify this type of torture. Um,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: you know, it's completely in may. But yeah, so they
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: sew you up, which is creates like actually I did
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: a little research here. When they sew you up, like
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: you know, infertility, it could recalls like even having when
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: you do get ready to have a baby, you have
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: issues and obviously depression and anxiety and um infection and
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: scarred and key looyd and it's it's terrible. And then
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: when you get ready to get me here they cut
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: it back open and I don't even know what that
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: process looks like to reopen it, right, But then once
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: you put it back open, if you've cut certain things off,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: are you able to ever get back that pleasure? I
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: don't know. I think you should really have Chanelle on
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: here and talk about I I want to have it
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: because it honestly broke my heart, not only that she
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: had it done, but then like the fact that her
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: parents didn't even really talk to her about it. They
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: just that. She said, like I was just taken to
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: this room and kind of locked up, my legs wrapped together.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: She was five years old, her sister was six and
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: a half, and then I had this done. This is
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: what they did to her. And the fact that now
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: now that I've note that I know Chanelle and I've
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: been around her, I it is just, you know, we
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: have all overcome things in our life, but that is
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: just a trauma on a whole another level where when
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: you see when you finally get to be around her, teddy,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: she just is like a bustle of life, so fun
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: and loves life and so loving, and I am like, wow,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know with all the stuff that the
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: small nothing on this level of things that I've overcome
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: in my life, that I could be that happy. She
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: really is, um just a lovely, lovely woman And I
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: hate that she had to go through that, And I'm
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: so glad that she's using the platform to talk about
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: it and inform people and educate people about it, because
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: a lot of people don't realize that this is still happening. Also,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: did you see the did you cast? A part where
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: she talked about her debt trying to sell her off,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: you know, the whole early, you know, before when she
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: was fourteen years old. And I mean, I I really
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: appreciated this therapy session. I feel like a lot of
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: times on Housewives you see a therapy session and it's like,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry the therapist from Atlanta who has also been
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: on Potomac and thirteen others, like I'm watching it and
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: I'm like police. But this was one of those ones
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: which I also was a little taken aback by because
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Sarah was in there with her, so I was like,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: how much is But then you realized like how much
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: she needed another person to be there and talk about it,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: and she really opened up. And then they went back
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: and they talked about her trauma. And I've dealt with nothing,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: nothing even close to this, but I've blacked out huge
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: portions of my life, like where I cannot remember certain ages.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: And so when she said that no matter where you are,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: no matter what you've went through, like when you hear
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: an adult say I don't remember this part of my childhood, Yeah,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: it hits you know, it was real. And I thought
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: with everything that I watched, you know, I have my
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: opinions on some of the other things that happened throughout
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: the episode, but nothing trump that moment for me. You know,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I have you know, daughters, You have daughters. You know
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: you haven't you have daughters, Like can you imagine like
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: them getting like fourteen fifteen years old, like okay, not
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: even just running up with the lover of the life
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: some person that they don't even know, years old and
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: having been certain like all of it. It honestly makes
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: me emotional because even my my nine year old is
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: to the place now where she starts to like ask
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: little questions, you know, like just random questions about puberty,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: starting to get hair, like all of those types of things,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: and like we just have such an open dialogue where
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: she can ask me any thing, whether it's embarrassing or not,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: or it's you know, like I just I haven't ever
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: closed in that door. So and she's not to that
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: age now where she's enough of a teenager where it's
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: uncol to ask your mom. And I can't even imagine
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: her a couple of years before now and like just
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: putting her in that situation without ever even telling her
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: M Like, it's it's heartbreaking. I love that you have
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: such open communication with her, like keep that Teddy. That
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: is one of the things that has been really great
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: with my relationship with Noel, who is now twenty two
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: years old, Like if anything she overshares with me, like yeah,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: like hey, I don't need to know that, you know,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: sex last night and it was like this whoa, whoa whoa.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: First of all, I can't even pigeon him, like like
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I just can't like stop it. But those lines of
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: communication need to definitely stay open. It's it's so good
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: to just be able to do that because my mom
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: didn't talk us about any anything like that. We were like,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: you know, we didn't even really you know, you know,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: my mom was like a friend mom. It was like
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: I'm a mom, friend, Okay, you can put it on
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: this table. What I tell you to do. You don't
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: question anything, and you go to school and you handle
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: your business and don't get in trouble because I don't
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: have time to go there and pick you up and
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: pick you up, but don't get in because then you've
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: never really you're gonna have worse problems when you get
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: That was my relationship you know with me with Noel.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: It's like you know from the time, like you know,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: she came out of me. It was like, you know,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: my my baby, you know my heart so um yeah,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: my heart goes out to Shanelle and I plaued her
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: for I commend her for you know, walking in her
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: truth because it's that's that's like you know, with with Housewise,
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: you know, it's always like you know, you think of storyline,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: story like that you're going to talk about, but there's
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: certain things you know, we share. Like for me, um,
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: just even me talking about the wellcoming, I just fluid
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: at the time, was like, you know, very like there
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: was like a big thing and you know, I didn't
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: know how that was gonna affect her to talk about
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: it publicly, you know, and it was like good and
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: bad to be honest because the social media and everybody
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: can say anything to anybody, absolutely absolutely, So it's it's
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: always very interesting to me when our or I just
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: love when I see people talk about real things that's
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: really happening, because you know, you we don't we never
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: know how many people that we are inspiring, motivating and educating, educating. Yes,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: like for me this honestly, I sent a group text
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: to my bosses at my heart and I said, I
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: need all of the information I can possibly get on
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: female circumcision. And it's you know, like because I seriously
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: it completely opened my eyes. And they're like they hadn't
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: even watched the episode. They're like what, I'm like, no,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: because of everything that's going on, and then it really
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: explains a lot up more of what happens in this episode,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Like you see a lot of these relationships with well,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: I think with these women. I think, you know, as
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: you said first season Housewives all together, you're seeing relationships
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: that aren't fully formed in my opinion, rights like they're trying,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: they're trying to open up to each other. There's small
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: little friendships or alliances or whatever anybody wants to call.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: But like when you talk about you know, when you
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: see what's going on between like Chanel and Stanbury, you
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: can see that there are two people that are hurt
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: and just very off based on how the other person
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: is feeling and how they're perceiving the information. Right, Right.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I watched that scene and I felt like someone who
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: was a former Superman herself. Right. You know. I remember
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: coming into Atlanta my first season, and that was my
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: story because that really was my life. I was. I
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: moved to New York I was still actively modeling and
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: just feeling like it wasn't enough to just be a model,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: which is a real career. That's all I ever did
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: in New York, like I've made a lot of money,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: Like I was a model for years and years and years,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: so um, and that was my only job. I didn't
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: do anything else on the side. There was no side. Also,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I was traveling doing that. And when I came to
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Atlanta and I joined the housewise, I just remember feeling
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: like I they didn't respect it. It was like, oh,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: you're a model, Like who isn't a model? Do you
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: think they didn't respect it? Or do you think that
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: was your own and security on certain things that I
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: mean to me as someone who's not a model, it's
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: five three and could never you know, Like, I'm like, wow,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I would have love to be a model. Some of
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: some of the ladies respected it, you know what I'm saying,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: but some of them didn't. And it just made me, um,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: you know, well, it put a fire defensive. It made
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: me open up my school because at that and I
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: was like, you know what, not only I'm like a model,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: I'm going to open up a modeling agency and I'm
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: going to educate and inform and help other you know,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: model hopeful that want to get into the business. I'm
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: gonna show them how how to do it. And I
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: did that, But again, you know, I just definitely kind
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: of related to her a little bit. It was like
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: a little bit of a trigger for me, because I
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: know it feels to just feel like, oh, well, you know,
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: she or she's only getting this because she's pretty, or
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: she's only doing this because she's a model or whatever,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: and it is it does have like that kind of
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: like negative, you know, thing attached to it where people think,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: you know, she must not be smart if she's a model,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: and that's not true. No, I disagree to um. But
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: my question is what do you think made Caroline Standbury
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: emotional and this? Like? She is very from everything I've
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: seen from watching all of Dubai now, she has never
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: really lost her like. I've never seen her cry, I've
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: never seen her get emotional, and I could probably go
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: back and count on one hand how many times they've
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: actually shown a housewife smoking a cigarette. So the fact
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: that they're even showing her smoke a cigarette and crying,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you think set her off? In
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: this conversation. Um, I'm not I'm not really sure. It
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: seems like because I don't watch all the episodes. I
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: did watch the one last night because I knew I
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: was going to come on here and talk to you
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: about it. But I will say it feels like there's
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: been some back and forth before this, like they just
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: don't get along or just don't see eye to eye
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: or whatever. But I honestly feel like at the end
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: of the day, I felt like their conversation at the
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: end um with Lee's lead was leading towards them being
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: able to kind of, you know, get past it. I
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: don't think it's such a big I don't think they
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: have such a big beef where it's like, oh, well,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: they're they're just never gonna be to you know, to
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: get past this. I think I think that they will
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: get past it. I don't think it's that that deep. Honestly, Yeah,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I think she I think Caroline got emotional because she
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: wasn't meaning to say anything to hurt eye on to
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: that extent, and then once she did, she was like,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: oh crap, because I don't think she's trying to be
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, like you you you know, and
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I think I think Lisa and I love Lisa. I
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: love watching her. I think she's good TV. I think
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: she's beautiful. I think she knows how to stir it
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: just enough. Well, we always need a good pasture. Yeah,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: And so when she looks over at eye On and
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: she's like, go over and have the conversation, and I
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're gonna come with me and she's
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: like no, no, absolutely not. Like I didn't say I
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: was gonna have a conversation with you. I was selling
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: you gotta go have the conversation. Well, you know, but
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I think that, um here's something too that I did notice,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: like sometimes in housewife world, when something happens, like we
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: all are human, we have emotions, we have feelings. Sometimes
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: you're not ready to like in one second, go have
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: the conversation. By the way, like boom the drum, the
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: bomb drops, and you're like, hey, well why don't you
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: guys go and talk with being piste off. Sometimes I
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: need to go over there in that corner and have
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: a cigarette, a mental breakdown without production. But oh you're here, yes, yes,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you need a minute because I know I'm a processor.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I need to process what has happened. I need to
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: take it in. I almost really need to go to
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: sleep and wake up the next day because when my
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: feelings are hurt or I feel insulted, you know, it's hurtful.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: So you're like, you know, well, I don't want to
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: be around you right now, but I'm the opposite. I
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: need to handle it right now. But that's your personality.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: That is definitely your personality. And I feel like if
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you told me I want to sleep on it, I'd
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: be like no, understoom right, it's over. But you're you're
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: very like direct and like, hey, what's happening. Oh did
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: they hurt your feelings? Oh well, let's talk about it,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: but let's go. You know, I'm like still like, oh
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: that didn't feel right. I think it hard, friend, I'm processing.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I just know the energy is not feeling good for me. Now.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: This is not a place I want to be in
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: right now. Like you're that's how my husband is too.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: But what is this sign? What is your husband sign?
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Because birthday is April nineteen? What's that? Is it? A Taurus?
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Guys aries? I don't know. I'm the worst of signs.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Somebody will text me in a second and learn in
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: that way well, my husband's birthday is tomorrow and he's
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: a Leo, and that's what my son is. Oh, your
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: son's a Leo. His birthday is August one. Oh yeah,
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: but happy almost birthday. Might love you? Um oh yeah,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: April nineteen is a Taurus. That's what my husband is. Okay, sours,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: all right, But anyway, look, sometimes you just you know,
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: everybody processes things differently in their own time. I'm lookind
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: a girl like I said, I need a minute. You're
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: the kind of girls like, let's get to it. So anyway,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I think that'll be fine. I don't think they're because
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: that crazy. I just think it's like, you know, things
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: come out wrong, they come out in a way, they're misinterpreted, whatever, whatever.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: At the end of the day, you know, Obviously has
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: it going on. She's beautiful, she's successful, and Caroline hasn't
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: going on and she's amazing, and they'll they'll be fine,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: all right. So onto the next thing is would you
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: be upset or would you want Mike to be the
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Sergio that comes in on the jet ski with no
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: shirt on to save you after a night of being upset? No,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: not on a girl's trip. No, not on a coast trip. No.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Now I wouldn't either, but I said the same thing,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: that would be upset. Probably he did that because she
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: had already told him not to come prior, but then
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: once he was there, she seemed like she really needed him.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: But I also would be upset. And tamer and I
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: disagreed on this. But you probably didn't see it, but
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: last week on Atlanta for the scenes for next week Sonia,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: they're kind of like coming at Sonia a little bit
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: and her husband stands up and says, do not talk
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: to my wife this way. And I'm one of those
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: that's like no, and and tarm was like absolutely loved it,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I kind of I kind of
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: feel I kind of agree with Tamra a little bit
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: because I feel like, if this is the problem, this
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: was this was the issue when I was on housewice
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: with my ex husband. If the guys are going to
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: be invited on the trip, if they're going to sit
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: there and watch us bigger back and forth, like they
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be there if they can, if they can't say, hey,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: you know what, I don't like what man is going
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: to want someone, you know, coming for his wife. So
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: I think it's completely fun and say hey, you guys,
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: and it's all the way you say things too. I
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: don't think he should, you know, buck up and you
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: know make I mean he didn't say and sitting down, okay,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: stood up. He didn't seem like he was aggressively going
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: to hurt anyone by anybody didn't see that. But it
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: wasn't like you guys, not the type I get it,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: like people shouldn't be afraid for their lives. I didn't know. No, no,
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: I don't think that either. But I also think if
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: you're a husband willing to do real housewives and not
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: get paid and show up to everything and go to
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: the events and be there and someone's gonna argue with
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: your wife, you're gonna that's a job they signed up for.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: That is very true. That is very true. But I
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: also feel like in housewife passion, if they're going to
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: bite the guys on the trip, then you know this
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: is you know a lot of this stuff is produced. Okay,
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: so usually a dinner is co word for the ship's
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: about to go down. Yeah, well then that's my question.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: Can other women go after housewife husbands? So if that
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: same feel like it's not a fair fight. It's not
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: a fair fight because if another housewife, if a woman
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: in general, goes after a man, it's okay, But if
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: the man responds, it's an attack. So it's not like period,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: point blank. So I personally think when everybody sits down
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: for dinner, just like a point in that dinner where
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: they already know it's about to be some some for
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: listeners going on. So that's one of the guys said, Hey, guys,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: let's go and smoke. Guys, go whatever, because if this
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: goes down and I feel some kind of way if
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: my wife is being attacked or whatever, even if or
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: my wife is being alluded. Like there are times when
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: I was crying and I remember Ed been looking at
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: me and going are you and I was like having
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: a breakdown, like what you're talking about and then like
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: going back to eating us out like he couldn't believe
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: my level of being upset over what was said to me.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I think, I think, great if you guys want them
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: to just come, but like when it's time for the
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: girls to get into their stuff, which is obviously the
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: point of the trip, okay, know how fun team is
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: going on to actually just get a tan and just
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: drink the Margarite's. Okay, No, no one was there for
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: fun times absolutely. Um So, then the kind of the
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: last the last couple of things that they wanted to
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: that people want to talk about is Caroline and doing
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: her hormone injections in the IVF process and Sergio not
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: really understanding what that means. Them taping the the fruit
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: to his boobs and his belly and all that. I mean,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: I thought it was fine and didn't bother me. I
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: mean I for that, for them to actually do that,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: and so you can just physically understand what it's like
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: to be pregnant. I gave birth to a almost eleven
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: pound baby. I gained sixty pounds when I was right.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: So I would have love for Noel's debt to have
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: walked the day in my printing shoes. Yeah, we would
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: have completely gotten it, you know. So, And I think
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: that Sergio has grown on me, and I think he's
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: gotten to be like you find the lovable traits in him.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: But then there becomes a conversation where Caroline tells Brooks
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: that she feels Chanel blames not speaking good English on
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: her rudeness, and I don't. I didn't necessarily. I didn't
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: necessarily see that that Chanelle uses her um lack of
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: um the English like like English. I guess you could
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: say yeah um as a way as an excuse to
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: be rude. I don't. I don't think I agree with that.
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: I think after being around she know, I think if
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: she wanted to be rude, which he knows how to
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: be rude, he wanted this be a jerk, she would
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: just be a jerk. I don't think. I mean, I
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: think sometimes she misses like she you know, which I
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: do as well, which is like sometimes phrases like she'll
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: she'll mess up sometimes broken up a little bit, but
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: you know, like you know whatever it is, the early
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: bird gets the worm, but the second one gets a
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: cheese or whatever. It is, like I always will mess
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: up whatever the punchline is. But well, I think with
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: which now I think. I think when she when her
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: English English is the most together, is when she's about
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: to get somebody together. That's when all of a sudden,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: it's crisp, it's perfect. It's like when she's about to
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: read someone. Because I've seen her in interviews, I've been
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: around her. Um, if she wants to go there, she
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: and do you think that because Brooks says she feels
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: like Ion is Lisa's puppet and Lisa is the brains
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: behind it all. She finds the relationship on. Do you
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: see that? Okay, So if I was watching the show,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: maybe I would maybe think that, but after actually meeting
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: those two ladies and spending time with them, completely not true. Okay,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: So if you only could hang out with one of them,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: you're on a deserted island. Who are you picking? You know,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask a ship and don't say Cannons. Oh boy, um,
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: dang it. I really like them both. I'm going to
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: say Lisa only because, like, Chanella is a lot of
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: energy and I don't have a lot of energy in menopause.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: She's a lot like it's a lot to be around her.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Lisa is a little more Lisa is a little more
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: chill and like, you know, hey, let's just go and
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: have a drink and just chill like I like to
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: do chill stuff, Like um she Neelle is very big
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: and over the top and like, hey, she's always on.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: He's either on or yeah, always on, big, big personality
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: for sure. Lisa is a little more like, hey, yeah,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: you know she's yeah, a little more chill, so I
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: would take this. I love, But yeah, you're a lot alright. Sorry,
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: we we asked the hard questions here, but I know where.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: I can't believe the hour went by. It's so fast.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: It's over. We're done, We're done. We're a lot really
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: unpack anything about Beverly Hills. I know. Uh well, I'm
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: gonna ask you this in regards to Beverly Hills. Why
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: did I even bring some Who is like when you're
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: watching it, what gives you the most like what makes
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: you the most upset when I'm watching it? Uh? Wow,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know if any of it really makes me upset,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: but I will say, from what it's looking like, I
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna happen with the future episodes. Um,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: it feels like it's like teams. Right's grouped, like like
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: the friends that are like been friends and they're together
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: and they have each other's back and they support each
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: other in the way they want to whatever. And then
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: it's the wrist of yeah, the group, which is from
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: what it looks like to me, Crystal, Garcela and Sutton. Okay,
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: so but now we know that Crystal is no longer
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: with Sutton and Garcela. Yeah, Garcela said some whole thing
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: about like it was all online about she's not close
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: with Crystal anymore. Oh my god. Okay, I thought that
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: I was kind of happy that that. No. So now
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: it's more like from what I've read, it's like Crystal
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: and Cathy. Oh I forget about Kathy. Yes, Crystal and Cathy,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: Sutton and Garcel, and then I guess the Fox Force
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: four and then Diana is just I don't really get,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: but that is kind of part of the Fox four, right, Um,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know girls then the other ones for sure.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: I think she really in my opinion, like I think
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: she really she's the one that has the most money
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: and really doesn't need to be doing this and it
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: really shows. Okay, alright, well you know what I mean,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: like you're giving the least we don't really know anything
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: about you. You're like her trying to come at Garcel
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: this week because they didn't have a real friend. Like
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: I was like that timing was terrible, right right right,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I think, like what I what in
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: my experience and you know, I know you were on
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, but just with me being in Atlanta. I
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: think it's hard to not but you don't have a
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: click like you know what I mean. If the click
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: is like the power click and you're not in that click,
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: it's it's hard. And even though the click in surface
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: ly be nice to you, you know, you're not hard
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: to click, you know what I mean? And I feel
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: like it feels like, Okay, we're not. I don't know,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: it's just weird. Like I don't like clicks. I feel like,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's too quicky for you.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah I do. I do, And I don't like this
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: whole thing about Sutton being a liability and all that stuff.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like if anyone wants to really get to
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: know Garcell, then they'll just go above and beyond on
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: and off the show to make that happen, you know
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: what I mean, I really do, because you know, the
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: show is not just about like what you do on
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: the show, it's also you know, calling and saying hey,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: you know what. I know that we have not been
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: able to connect, you know, when we meet up, But
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: I really genuinely want to meet with you off camera
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: and spend some time with you because I just well,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: maybe sudden. I mean, maybe garcel will come on with you,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: because you know, she refuses to do the podcast with me.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: Oh and I have repeatedly said I think I'm a
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: relationship with her, and I'm surprised that she. Well, the
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: I was on one. The time I learned that I
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: would never ever agree to be a friend of Beverly
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: Hills was when I went on the one episode whatever
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: it was not last yeah, I guess it was last season,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: and Garcella and I got along the entire time during
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: that episode, the one that I did, and then her
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: confessional she called me a nat that will never go away,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: and I immediately center a text and just said, like listen,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: you know, you know how it is with these type
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: of shows, but like to really reach out to her,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: and she never wrote me back. And then I saw
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: MTV Music Awards or whatever, MTV Reality Show Awards, whatever
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: it was, and she was so nice and so friendly,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: and I was like, come on, like, I want to
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: be able to hear all the sides. I don't want
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: to just here, you know, from Erica, from Durt, from
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: Kyle from like, I want to hear from you. I
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: want to hear from something like I'm in a different
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: place now. And essentially she told my boss that she
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: would maybe talk to Tarma, but she would never talk
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: to me. And I was like, well, ship, okay, I
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: don't know. Unfortunate, I I don't know. I mean, GIRs
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: like super you know, reasonable and rational, and you know,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: I feel like it would be great for her to
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: actually come on and talk to you, to be honest,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: because you know, you were like when you were on,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: when you part of that part of the click, because
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: I was part of them, So I think that you'd
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: be honest. But and I think she definitely. You know,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: it's so much we don't get to see, you know.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: I mean I I said to somebody else, I said,
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: I would love to have been on when garcell was
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: the way that she is now, because her first season
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: she wasn't. And that's fine, that's I remember my first
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: season too. It's hard first season start, and so I
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: would love to have her on and talk to her
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: and be able to do things. But now I just
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: you know, put that out there, Garcella, if you're watching us,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: you know, come on. But with me, it could be me,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: Cynthia and Tamera. They'll ask the majority of the questions
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: if you want, but we want you on. We want
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: to hear your opinions, and not a lot of time,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: but I love to hear more from um, you know,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: your side of the story, because it feels like just
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: watching the show, UM, it does feel like she kind
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: of has to be on the defense and she doesn't
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: really you know, like hasn't totally taken her in or something.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: It just you know, that kind of there's something that
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: feels off right even with even when she's clicking with
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: Sutton or even when she's there, there's still not alway
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: as well. She Ree's a sweetheart, as I just I
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: mean with her yesterday my husband was out at dinner
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: and she was there. But anyway, I love she She's moving.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: You know, we all live in the same neighborhood. Garcelle,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: myself and um I could literally walk to Garcella's house,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: but they don't. They only showed Shears saying like two
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: words this episode. Yeah, maybe we'll get to see more
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: of her next season because she's definitely fisty. I think
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: I think she's fisty. I want to see that. I
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: think she's a great addition to the show. I love
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: I love Garcelle on the show because I think she
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: her being there changes the conversation and I think it's
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: so necessary, and I think she just does such a
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: good job holding her own and just doing it with class,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And then I think Sharia
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: and Garzilla are very different too, different different people. I
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: think she's a great edition as well. So, um, yeah, well,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: we appreciate you being with us today. We hope that
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: you come back now. Unfortunately, you're gonna have to continue
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: watching Housewives episodes. Are you try to get out, they
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: pull you back in. Yeah, it's like you think you're done,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: But then no, I have to say, Teddy, it's a
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: lot more fun to talk about housewives and be a
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: housewife right now, is it not? Like isn't this amazing?
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: It's like the It's like like and I don't even
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: really care to talk about housewise that much, to be honest,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: but if I have to, it's a lot better being
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: on this side of it than actually being. People are like,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: why would you say yes to this? I'm like, one,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: it's effortless. I want the television show and get to
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: chat about and give my opinion. You're You're perfect for
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: this you until you're so good at it too, and
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that you came on. I still need
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: to take you to Pellicure, so when you get back,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I'm setting prayers to your mom. When you get back,
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: text me and we're going. All right, sounds sounds great,
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: It's a date, Alright's love you, Love ya, Thanks babes