Latest / SpaceTomatoes / The War That Didn't Happen Herman Forwood on Twilight of Democracy and the Empathy Cliff S3-EP14
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- 0:00And the other part is actually, which is funny, in it, America kind of annexes Greenland.
- 0:10Again, I wrote it in Twitter.
- 0:14I wrote it way before.
- 0:16Are you working with The Simpsons out there doing stuff?
- 0:19Totally.
- 0:19Is it like life imitating art or what?
- 0:23Totally.
- 0:23so and well so i tell you like how actually i arrived at greenland because i thought oh it
- 0:29would be cool if actually
- 0:53All right, everybody. Welcome back to another episode of the Space Tomatoes podcast. Today we are joined by Herman Forwood, an author, podcaster, and student of history who explores current events through the lens of history. Welcome to the show, Herman.
- 1:11Thanks for having me.
- 1:12Awesome. So you, on the authorship piece, you have an interesting set of books, at least one of them for sure that, you know, I kind of dug into a little bit, which is, what is it, Twilight of Democracy?
- 1:28and it kind of poses some questions that are interesting ones and can you walk us through a
- 1:37little bit about what what brought you to decide to write that and and what gave you the idea to
- 1:44kind of pose that type of a question what is that question yeah yeah yeah it was a journey for sure
- 1:51and when actually some of my readers and friends are reading it now everybody's like oh why don't
- 1:57you write this? And I'm like, well, I started in like 2022 and wrote most of it 2023, 2024.
- 2:07So a lot of it actually came from, I wanted to explore the idea of, you know, we always talk
- 2:13about things and we say, oh, that's just politics, or we just say things, nobody means that. And I'm
- 2:19like, okay, what if we take a lot of the ideas we have today and somehow accept it and take it a
- 2:28couple steps further and see what really happens to the world, not just to us, not to our neighborhood
- 2:34or neighbors, but just what happens to the world. And so I went through just an exercise of, okay,
- 2:42how do I do that? Should I take the present tense? Should I, you know, explore the past? And then,
- 2:48you know, being a student of history, I'm like, okay, I know history very well, especially
- 2:53mid-century history. I'm like, okay, so what can I do? And I always, you know, was fascinated
- 3:00by these stories of what ifs, and not a lot of the butterfly effect, what ifs, but like,
- 3:07you know, major event, what ifs. So I, so I'm like, okay, let's just explore that. That's a
- 3:13very good thought experiment. And I'm like, okay, what if we, you know, we didn't experience
- 3:21World War II, we didn't experience just such disaster for the whole world, not just, you know,
- 3:28one region or like one country, but like, it impacted the whole world, you know, millions of
- 3:33innocent people died, Holocaust happened, all of that. I'm like, what if none of that happened?
- 3:38would we be in a better world would we be more empathetic less empathetic and you know just
- 3:45observing that we don't we don't have you know our empathy is going away empathy you know we have a
- 3:50lot for our neighbors or our neighborhood or our city but as when it goes you know 20 30 miles away
- 3:57it's just like the empathy just you know cliffs so i'm like okay so what would happen to the world
- 4:03you know, would we have a Marshall Plan to rescue Europe? You know, would Europeans be so nice to
- 4:08each other after the World War II ended and all of that? So I'm just going to, I'm like, okay,
- 4:13let's reimagine the whole world. And so that was like really the genesis of writing the book. It
- 4:21was just really a thought experiment and the whole historical fantasy and what happens to the world
- 4:26really came out of that. Just, you know, and a lot of it is like, I'm exploring it at a personal
- 4:33level that the protagonist and his family, you know, beyond that, you know, strange relationship,
- 4:39him and his brother, they're on the both sides of the aisle. So they have like, you know,
- 4:44very strange discussions. Then the countries, then the continents, then the blocks, you know.
- 4:50And so I'm exploring, I had to reimagine the whole world, like what would happen to Soviet
- 4:55Union, to Europe, to Commonwealth, to America, North America, South America. So I just like
- 5:03reimagined the whole world Like I had to like really is like does that make sense Because I wanted to make sense I wanted to be you know imaginable acceptable So I really spent a lot of time really re the world that way
- 5:19That's, I think it's an interesting take, you know, it harkens to that one, you know, thought,
- 5:26social thought experiment that a lot of people have, right? If you could go back in time and kill
- 5:32hitler when he was a baby right right and and you know i've you know that one for me is is one that
- 5:41i i pretty much have a solidified thought process on that and it goes something like this the world
- 5:47would not have been better if goebbels was the guy instead of hitler correct goebbels was there
- 5:53right so yeah no so so this is actually very i'm so glad you brought it up so i didn't want to do
- 5:59kill baby Hitler because that was has been done and you know Hitler no this and so I am get rid
- 6:06of Hitler in 1939 so he was in power for six years already Kristen Laugh happened already
- 6:12Jewish people were rounded up Poland was invaded Austria was annexed you know all of that happened
- 6:21so my idea was like no no they got so close to it and they averted so how would the world
- 6:29react like we were about to go into another giant war and last minute we were saved but we saw it
- 6:37coming um so i didn't want to do that and and also i said i set the time 1950 so i didn't do it now
- 6:45or like 60s or 70s i wanted to be everything very fresh because the reason all of it happened was
- 6:51like okay we are already forgetting 9-11 why a lot and i mean gen z does not even remember anything
- 6:57right? A lot of younger millennials don't even, you know, recall so much of it. So I just wanted
- 7:04to be fresh and say, okay, this atrocity happened. Would you still do it? Would you still get close?
- 7:10No, not do it. Would the world be a better place or is just going to be some other weird version of
- 7:17it? So all of it was intentional. I did try to do it 60s and 70s and I'm like, no, no, no, no.
- 7:24I need to bring it back a lot closer to actually it happening or about to happen.
- 7:31So very good point that you brought it up.
- 7:34So yeah, I wanted to clarify that.
- 7:37Yeah, no, that is really interesting stuff, I think.
- 7:41Definitely.
- 7:42And when you think about things like that, right, and if you move forward in history,
- 7:47you just see this, you see, okay, it's not the same.
- 7:52It may be not at the same escalation, etc.
- 7:55And maybe part of that is just being able to recognize the patterns that are evolving a little bit better than we were back then.
- 8:03You know, faster access to information, things of that nature.
- 8:06But you look through history and these events just continue to unfold and continue and continue.
- 8:13So if you did remove one and everything was hunky dory and everyone was happy and peaceful, I mean, it's just just a decade and we're in Vietnam War and then Korea. And, you know, so it's like, I don't know, you know, it's an interesting thought experiment because would that have changed going forward? Or would it just made kind of the fairy dust sprinkled over things for a period of time before we just the machine started moving again?
- 8:41Yeah. So at the end, actually, that was the purpose of this book and my thought experiment. Really, it was not to re-examine something from 90 years ago, 80 years ago. It was more for us to rethink what happened more recently or is happening now.
- 9:02and really
- 9:04so
- 9:05I'm going to come back to this
- 9:07the whole point is for us to
- 9:09think about things because I don't
- 9:13believe people
- 9:14spend enough time
- 9:15thinking about
- 9:18what's happening
- 9:18it's not their fault
- 9:21a lot of people are surviving
- 9:24they have two jobs
- 9:25it's all legitimate
- 9:27I'm not trying to
- 9:28put them down
- 9:30They have reasons to do that. But my goal as a writer is to just get the attention of people who can spare some time to think about things, to think about it.
- 9:47So going back to your point, ultimately the goal of this book was, again, not to re-examine what happened in the middle of last century, but it's what's happening more recently.
- 9:59So to your point about Vietnam War, like winning the hearts and minds, right?
- 10:04That was the biggest thing.
- 10:06That was a turning point in Vietnam War that people realized that is like, oh, my God, a lot of people are suffering.
- 10:12It's not just, you know, anti-communism movement.
- 10:17And for the longest time through 60s and 70s and part of the 80s people kind of remember that but we forgot it very quickly Then it comes the first desert storm and let go get Saddam And a lot of people suffered
- 10:39Then go the second, then 9-11 happens. Okay, let's go kick some ass. We are very angry. Some people
- 10:46did us, you know, huge harm. Okay, let's go get him. Messed up the whole region. Hundreds of
- 10:54thousands of people died, both in Afghanistan and second desert storm, right? Okay, to your point,
- 11:00that was 2003, right? Second desert storm happened 2003, not too long ago, relatively speaking.
- 11:07but we forgot now we are in Iran again nobody talks about what's happening to to the Iranians
- 11:1890 million people are suffering not a single mainstream media is talking about it so we are
- 11:27back to to your point where Vietnam was not of course the same scale to your point it doesn't
- 11:34repeat itself, but there are a ton of lessons to be learned, but we don't seem to learn those lessons.
- 11:40Yeah. I think a lot of people don't really think about it because maybe
- 11:43there's, they feel like they're, I mean, my, my personal opinion, I don't think there's much I
- 11:49can do about it personally. It's just going to play out however it's going to play out. And I
- 11:53really don't have much saying it either way, whether I like it or not. Absolutely. I mean,
- 11:57a lot of people, I guarantee you feel that way. I mean, but Vietnam war, you had less of a voice.
- 12:03There was no social media. You couldn't, you know, get your friends to be on your side.
- 12:08It was a lot worse. So people took it to the streets, you know, Hayton, Ashbury, Berkeley,
- 12:13you know, you name it. People just came out swinging. But yes, absolutely. I think a lot
- 12:20of people feel disgusted. But to your point, it's like there's nothing I can do. There's nothing I
- 12:24can do. I feel a lot more passionate about it. And I don't feel like there's anything I can do.
- 12:29If you have like two jobs and you're living a real life, of course, you're going to feel less empowered. I totally agree with that.
- 12:38Yeah, it's hard to make time to get out and protest in mass, you know, especially if you're talking about doing something like that. You know, it takes planning, preparations. People need to actually band together and then commit to, you know, days of action.
- 12:55and it's difficult, you know, and I think you see at least, you know, in my limited view,
- 13:02you do see a lot of outcry on social media. But, you know, from my perspective, that has
- 13:11like single digit percent of the of the actual impact that physical protests on mass really have,
- 13:21because you can't deny that you can't say these are all bots there they are human beings sitting
- 13:27in you know the square at washington you know trying to let the leadership know we don't want
- 13:33this this is this is enough um and i think people people see social media as their best platform for
- 13:40for their voice for things like this when really it's it's probably one of the worst ways you'd
- 13:47probably get better results having people mass mail, like physical letters into the body's politic.
- 13:57Correct.
- 13:57How about your favorite thing, Havoc? Get out and vote.
- 14:00That's how you make a difference, right?
- 14:02Which people are not going to do.
- 14:05Well, you know, and that's another thing.
- 14:07We've had this, you know, we've talked about this a number of times, but people are disenfranchised.
- 14:12The representatives don't represent.
- 14:14you get sold one you know set of you know campaign promises and then they all disappear the second
- 14:22they're in and so people are large you know large numbers of of people especially the young people
- 14:29are like there's no point why would i do that yeah you know and that's that's a pretty scary thing
- 14:35and the feedback loop is like oh your vote doesn't matter so it's kind of like it's a self
- 14:40fulfilling prophecy a lot of it, right? I mean, subliminally, a lot of folks get that message that
- 14:47your vote doesn't really matter. You know, the politics is going to do what they're doing. You
- 14:52know, you're a little guy. So it's kind of like, oh, you see, everybody's talking about it. So
- 14:56might as well. Well, I mean, it's even to the point now where, you know, I mean, at this point,
- 15:02it's like that wouldn't matter at all.
- 15:05Someone,
- 15:06an individual took unilateral action.
- 15:11That's it.
- 15:12It literally is that simple.
- 15:14There's no,
- 15:15there's Congress hasn't done anything about this one way.
- 15:19Good or bad.
- 15:20You know,
- 15:20they did it like a,
- 15:21a vote that was mainly just,
- 15:24you know,
- 15:24a paper vote.
- 15:25I mean,
- 15:26it's a feel good.
- 15:26Hey,
- 15:27we don't,
- 15:27we don't want you doing this,
- 15:28but we don't have any way of stopping you because we're not going to,
- 15:32you know bring you know bring back the War Powers Act Correct So yeah And to Alex earlier point you know bring back the war powers act correct so yeah and and to alex earlier point um you know i mean social media people just post stuff and all of that i don know how much of it
- 15:47is genuine i think a lot of it is also like feel good oh like i said something i'm like you're not
- 15:53gonna do anything about gaza you're not gonna do anything about iran it's just like you want to tell
- 15:58your friends, you're compassionate. And but are you are you gonna, are you gonna write to anybody?
- 16:04No, that's writing to my politician. Just emailing something is a lot harder. Like I'm just going to
- 16:09post something people say, you're such a good guy or good gal. And then I'm just going to use it for
- 16:14talking point in our next, you know, wine party. I feel I feel a lot of that kind of disingenuine,
- 16:21kind of like posting in action. So I'm not saying that I am Mother Teresa. And I, you know, I do a
- 16:27lot, but I just see a lot of that as well. I don't post any of that because I'm like, okay, either I
- 16:33got to do something and post about it. I'm not going to post about it and not do anything about
- 16:37it. I write to my politicians, to your point, more than anybody I know. So I like bang under the doors.
- 16:44I call them and all of that. I don't go right on social media and I'm like, oh, I did that because
- 16:48I'm such a good guy. But you know, we live in where we live, right? Social media stars.
- 16:54yeah so i i know for me i i'm i'm really like not the political guy at all like i'm just
- 17:02i don't know i just i've never been my thing and and i've just kind of always thought about it as
- 17:08who's ever in there who's ever on the ticket running for whatever they just seem kind of like
- 17:12two sides of the same coin that are maybe wearing different color ties and they're they're going to
- 17:19do whatever they're going to do to push the machine that's pushing them to do whatever it
- 17:23is that's going to happen anyway. And I mean, that's just kind of how I feel about it.
- 17:27Yeah. They're just doing it. It's a different flavor of the same thing. And, you know, in a way,
- 17:32that's why I'm like, I need to just be more, write more because I cannot, I'm not a big
- 17:38influencer with millions of followers to really influence people. I'm like, I can just do it at
- 17:43a micro dose. I started writing essays about these issues, you know, it get like, you know,
- 17:48dozens or so readers. So he keeps climbing up. I'm like, okay, I'm, you know, talking to at least,
- 17:55you know, hundreds of people through my essays. I'm like, okay, I need to do more. So that's why
- 18:01I started writing, you know, fiction and to just like, okay, let's examine these things. And I'm
- 18:07like, okay, now tens of thousands of people are reading my book. I'm like, okay, so I'm making,
- 18:12because I always thought the thoughts need to be,
- 18:18or experiments need to be a lot more in depth.
- 18:21We can just like tweet, you know,
- 18:23whatever characters is now 280.
- 18:26But no, we need to talk about things
- 18:29a little bit more in depth.
- 18:30And I know it's a reverse of what the society is going
- 18:33with tech talk mentality and all of that.
- 18:37But I'm like, no, we need to examine these things.
- 18:40Um, so I really, in my first book, I didn't do a whole lot of it because my goal was to write a,
- 18:46a thriller book that was never done before. So I spent a lot of my time there, but I started in it.
- 18:52I'm like, Oh, let's, you know, talk about a little bit about religion and actual coverup and all of
- 18:58that. So I'm like, Oh, I like that. Then my second book, I'm like, let's go crazy. My third book that,
- 19:04which is basically in pre-order right now. I'm like, let's examine some social concepts that
- 19:13everybody seemed to like and, you know, kind of normal. So I'm like, let's take those a couple
- 19:20steps further. And I'm like, is that what we really want? Or is it just another ridiculous
- 19:27concept that we've gotten used to and we just live with um so i'm really enjoying this kind of
- 19:34like thought experiment in an in-depth way not just you know 280 characters yeah i think that
- 19:42is important as well yeah like we don't we have not we're considering maybe doing it again
- 19:50we did for a little while is doing shorts on youtube uh and i don't know you know for me it's
- 19:57the long form content is where you know the magic happens the shorts are just little sound bites out
- 20:03of a much longer deeper more involved conversation and i think you know there is a lot of you know
- 20:12i guess personally my own experience you know i used to be able to send like a 20 minute youtube
- 20:18to someone and they'd be like oh let me check that out nowadays you send a 20 minute they're
- 20:22like dude i don't have time for all that 30 seconds exactly like if it's over 90 seconds
- 20:29you lost me i'm gone if you're less than 40 years old you're not going to watch more than a minute
- 20:34at the most and even that's even that's pressing it yeah oh yeah but so what do you what do you
- 20:40think is this has always been striking to me, right? Um, you know, and I get the cheering for sides, right? I get
- 20:50that. We all have this, you know, sense of tribalistic pride for existing. Just because
- 20:57I was born on this physical, you know, this, you know, geographic location, then obviously I'm,
- 21:05you know, proud, yada, yada. And, you know, so we all have that. But one thing that's always
- 21:11been striking to me is there, it's just seems like so many people are just completely apathetic
- 21:17to the to the idea that tens of thousands of innocent people are just dying they just disappear
- 21:25and it's like how does one actually sit there and go yeah that's a good thing and that to me i've
- 21:35never really understood right that's that's not like i mean just imagine an entire football stadium
- 21:41and being eradicated at once, just gone, in the course of five minutes.
- 21:49People would lose their minds, but for some reason when it's Gaza or it's Tehran, it's fine.
- 21:58Yeah. Yeah, I mean, it's a little bit of a Thanos in all of us, right?
- 22:02It's just kind of we don't care or we think it's, you know, maybe it's not that bad.
- 22:08But, I mean, distance definitely makes that happen.
- 22:14Even, you know, people are not as empathetic to another city or state, you know.
- 22:19I mean, California, everybody loves to hate California.
- 22:22I'm like, why?
- 22:23Like, what has California done to you?
- 22:25Like, we're all living our lives, right?
- 22:28Well, I used to live there and I could tell you why.
- 22:31But that's a different story.
- 22:33Well, again, I mean, I don't hate anybody who lives in Alabama.
- 22:38like you know they don't impact my life at all i don't think about these things as much but like
- 22:43i love california i love california it's a it has a lot of issues but i'm like hating where you live
- 22:49like but i mean but i don't i didn't like i didn't like the there there were again we go back to the
- 22:59body politic right at the end of the day you know the cost kept going up and you know life wasn't
- 23:06becoming the American dream seemed to just be like the carrot on the stick,
- 23:11you know, and I'm the donkey and I, I'm trying to get the carrot,
- 23:14but every time I get close to the carrot, the carrot just moved.
- 23:17Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I feel like that's everywhere in America.
- 23:21It's not just California.
- 23:23No, you know,
- 23:25maybe there are richer people here that they make us feel worse about
- 23:29ourselves. I mean, yeah, maybe income in parity is worse for whatever reason it
- 23:34is. I guess the point I was trying to get at is just like the, you know, the empathy comes with
- 23:41the distance. And at the same time, it's very easy to just vilify people. And when you once you get
- 23:48used to vilifying others, you're just okay, different religion, different skin tone,
- 23:53different language is just like when you just get used to vilifying and not respecting. So it's very
- 24:00easy not to feel anything about people in gaza or you know whatever it is it's also not really a
- 24:09new thing either right so california actually did something like this i think they were the first
- 24:15to do it in world war ii and it was called the japanese internment cap camps and they weren't
- 24:22they weren't distant they were your neighbors they were your friends but that was vilifying
- 24:28vilifying yeah vilifying a certain group the chinese internment camp you know in the bay
- 24:33area they have had that yeah exactly yeah yeah and so it's it's just one of those things we we
- 24:39seem to just we we throw away our empathy and our sympathy for um you know in some cases entire
- 24:48you know classes of people uh when we feel like you know maybe that i don't know we were told
- 24:57there's a boogeyman under the bed. Yeah, it's very easy, right? I mean, every culture has done it.
- 25:04They continue to do it. So, I mean, it goes back to your question. I mean, it's actually not very
- 25:09difficult. And, you know, in my books, I try to really dive into that. Actually, it's funny you
- 25:16ask that question, because what is empathy? Empathy for whom? Why? When? All of that. So,
- 25:24So empathy is actually the core premise of, especially my second book.
- 25:31No, I think it runs through most of my books.
- 25:34Because at the end, that's what is the most important thing in our lives,
- 25:40just how much we care about each other.
- 25:42We lift each other so we all live in a better society.
- 25:47So empathy is definitely that.
- 25:49What that means to people, does it mean like throwing money at the problem
- 25:53or giving them money or actually educating
- 25:56or just helping whatever that means The core premise of Jesus Christ you know every government is supposed to do that for its people So what that empathy means is really
- 26:10I try to examine that because at the end, that's what matters. And we forget what empathy is.
- 26:17Everybody says, oh, I'm a good Christian, but screw those guys. I'm like, well, I don't know,
- 26:21Are you a good Christian if you hate just another skin tone people?
- 26:28Those are the things we really need to keep talking about,
- 26:31otherwise it just becomes background noise.
- 26:34Well, you know, Jesus did say, you know, feed the poor
- 26:39and help the hungry and the homeless and things like that,
- 26:43except if they're these people, didn't he, I think?
- 26:48No? I don't think so.
- 26:50you you've got a good point there sorry alex i didn't mean to interrupt no i just i think there's
- 26:55just a certain percentage of people that just don't care at all they you know like even beyond
- 27:01the politics like there could be a hurricane blow through florida and you know there's people on the
- 27:05internet well you shouldn't have lived there you knew it was going to happen like it's your fault
- 27:10that that happened and then you know the other portion of the people are like it's just out of
- 27:15sight out of mind if it doesn't affect them personally they just don't care either way
- 27:19I will admit to a small amount of that. In North Carolina, we have this chain of barrier islands that's called the Outer Banks. They are all sandbars. And I kid you not, they are sandbars. They're there. The wave action creates these barrier islands, kind of protects the inlets and stuff. And people decided to build houses on them.
- 27:44I've seen them. And they get wiped out all the time.
- 27:47And the roads and bridges and all this stuff gets wiped out. And then they come to the rest of North Carolina and go, we need to raise taxes. And I'm like, oh, no, no, like, no, what are you living on a sandbar for?
- 28:01so i do now that being said i think it's a big difference between florida right because in this
- 28:08case it's literally a sandbar that if you watched it over the course of you know any appreciable
- 28:13amount of time they have to continuously have barges out there pumping sand to rebuild the
- 28:19areas of the islands they're naturally eroding so it's it's not even like it would be stable on
- 28:25its own like it's just the worst place you can build a house worse than those cliffs on the side
- 28:31of California there on like the Pacific Coast Highway.
- 28:34That one's great.
- 28:35If you go to the beach in Laguna Beach and you look up over the cliffs, you'll see fences
- 28:42that are literally jutting off like 10 feet, 8 feet off the edge of the cliff.
- 28:47That fence went all the way and closed and there was room at the end of the cliff.
- 28:51You know what I mean?
- 28:53But they've got that view and it's worth a lot of money.
- 28:57Exactly.
- 28:58Yeah.
- 28:58And my insurance premium will pay for that to, you know, cover their loss.
- 29:04Yeah.
- 29:04So, I mean, to your point, it's like very easy to go from having like somebody is just so needy and they cannot, you know, take care of themselves to just, you know, you can go zero to, you know, 100 miles in like a second.
- 29:21So, yeah.
- 29:23So, and that happens all the time.
- 29:24And we don't know a lot of times when to stop ourselves.
- 29:28Um, so, you know, I actually always take a, um, you know, stab at those personalities in my book,
- 29:36you know, always, you know, I don't know if you guys know Megan Kelly, um, you know, she used to
- 29:41be on Fox and now she's doing her own thing. Uh, I mean, she always claims that she's such a good
- 29:46Christian and, you know, she, this and that, but she's just so mean to everybody. I'm like,
- 29:52you know i'm not a religious person but like i don't think any like you want so i mean say you're
- 30:00not a good christian don't say anything but and you be mean i mean i'm fine with that but don't
- 30:06say you're just such a good christian and at the same time being just so mean to everybody
- 30:11i mean i'm being mean because you know i i part of it is funny sometimes you know i'm not mean
- 30:17100% of the time, but that's her job, just to be mean with everybody. It's not a bit anymore.
- 30:26Right. Yeah, it's no longer just a TV personality.
- 30:29Correct. Yeah. So, yeah, I hope I answered your question about, you know, empathy, because it is
- 30:37so complex. And again, it goes back a little bit to what we were just discussing, that
- 30:42people just, it doesn't affect them. So they're like, they have their own lives to live.
- 30:50And so it's very hard for them to have this kind of empathy for others when they're just like,
- 30:55you know, they're drowning themselves. So definitely to your point, Alex is, is, is a
- 31:01valid point. And I do examine those things, but I think a lot of it, what I really dive into is the
- 31:07wealthy and the powerful and people in governments that I often think about and I use them in my books that why are you so apathetic So because they are the power We don have a lot of power You and I feel sorry for
- 31:25somebody who just got flooded or not. Yes, we can feel bad, you know, prayers and all of that. But
- 31:31those people have the power and they just don't want to do anything like killing, stopping the
- 31:37killing in Gaza or Iran or, you know, Sudan or whatever. We have no power, but those guys do.
- 31:45So why aren't you doing anything? Don't you have empathy? You made billions because of us and the
- 31:52world and all of that. So just do a little bit. So, you know, fewer people die or suffer. So to
- 31:58me, they are more at fault or responsible than, you know, us regular people.
- 32:03so you you lived in the middle east for for some time yes yeah um all my basically up to high school
- 32:12years yes what do you think what what are some of the things that that you know people that you know
- 32:20after living here just get completely wrong uh people i am here get wrong about that region
- 32:30things that work here don't work everywhere
- 32:36oh yeah
- 32:38I think that's the
- 32:39I mean I remember 2003
- 32:42when
- 32:43was it 2003
- 32:45it was a little bit earlier that
- 32:47George W. Bush
- 32:49was saying that
- 32:52oh all you need in
- 32:53Palestine is free
- 32:56election and
- 32:58everything will be solved
- 32:59and then they elected Hamas and there's like well not that I'm like you literally said all you need
- 33:08is free election and it was a free and fair election and people voted for Hamas for whatever
- 33:15reason you know because they had the money they were like you know giving people money and then
- 33:20getting support you know I'm not saying that they were legit but people did vote for him
- 33:26It's the same here
- 33:28Yes
- 33:30In a different way
- 33:32Of course very different
- 33:34But you know
- 33:34I guess the point
- 33:37It was like a little bit before that
- 33:40That he thought a free election
- 33:42Western style
- 33:44Is the solution to Palestine
- 33:46To get fixed and it got worse
- 33:48And we're living with that
- 33:50Consequence right now
- 33:5226-7 years later
- 33:55so that's
- 33:58to answer your question
- 33:59and I'm not saying that free election
- 34:02is bad, democracy is bad
- 34:04but everything
- 34:06is an evolution, like any country
- 34:08this country
- 34:09was built on the first amendment
- 34:12the first
- 34:12journalists after the declaration
- 34:16ended up in jail
- 34:17Jefferson had to come and free
- 34:20them from the jail
- 34:21to write good stuff about
- 34:23you know, the Republic again. So, I mean, so that was the, you know, a form of democracy back then.
- 34:30So every country needs to go through their process, but it's not just like, oh, we are doing everything perfectly here.
- 34:38Just adopt that. I'm like, not that simple.
- 34:42Yeah, we actually had a gentleman, Rick Hoppe, on a number of episodes ago.
- 34:49And one of the things that we keyed in on is we're so keen, at least in statement, right? I'm not going to talk about our actions because they don't match, but in statement, we're so keen on, well, they need freedom, right?
- 35:06And here's the problem with that is what we see as freedom, you can't just boilerplate template that onto someone else.
- 35:16You know, especially in some of these countries where you do have, you know, there's quite a good deal of religion involved in government.
- 35:26So what we see as freedom, they see as, you know, sin and, you know, just not good.
- 35:34and what you know we like to say but no you need to do it this way and what we seem to lack is
- 35:40the ability to go back and say what does freedom look like to you yeah let us help you get there
- 35:48right instead of no you need this this is freedom yeah i'm so let's go back to history
- 35:57Lessons learned, right?
- 35:59And going back to Iran, you know, in 1979, I mean, Shah's regime was not a real democracy,
- 36:09but it was a lot closer to democracy than today.
- 36:13Their own version, you know, good or bad was in it.
- 36:17People did want a more structured and religious country Khomeini came back he was a populist People free and fair election 99 of people voted for the Islamic Republic And they rejected somebody who was trying to
- 36:45go towards more like a Western style democracy, whatever version of Shahs.
- 36:50So they did do that.
- 36:52So people are wrong, right?
- 36:57So what is that?
- 36:58So that's why it's just so complex.
- 36:59Just analyzing that whole mess should give a lot of people some sort of a pause that,
- 37:06you know, not everything, just carbon copy and send it over.
- 37:10I mean, look at the democracy of Northern Europeans.
- 37:13So do we say, oh, we don't want to have any relationships with the Nordic countries because
- 37:18they love social democracy. Norway has all the money in the world. They're not a burden on us.
- 37:26They have a lot of the oil. They're investing it, capitalist style, and giving it to people.
- 37:32So we say, okay, Norway, we don't want to have any relationship because they're socialist.
- 37:38So who is the judge here to say what version of democracy is good or bad? Again, I'm trying to be
- 37:46a little bit provocative here.
- 37:49I'm not saying Islamic Republic of Iran
- 37:51is as legitimate as Norway,
- 37:54but there is like degrees of it.
- 37:55Maybe Norwegians look at us
- 37:57and just look at how corrupt they are.
- 37:59So who's right or who's wrong?
- 38:01Okay, who has more military power is right?
- 38:04It's just so complex.
- 38:05And again, my job is not to say
- 38:07what is right or wrong.
- 38:08My job is like through my essays,
- 38:11books, podcasts,
- 38:12I just want to make, you know,
- 38:14few thousand people who listen
- 38:15and read them to like, huh, let me next time, you know, when I go to some town hall, you know,
- 38:22questioning this politician, let me ask a couple of these questions. Maybe that snowballs. I mean,
- 38:26that's the best I can do. And, you know, but that's the journey for me to really get that going.
- 38:35Yeah, I tend to steer more towards the empathy side of things, right? Is, you know, look,
- 38:41if you asked all three of us what we wanted to have for lunch, there'd be three different answers.
- 38:47If you asked all three of us what our idea and concept would be for government, probably three
- 38:53completely separate answers. And if you asked all three of us what our idea and version of freedom
- 38:58is, probably three completely separate answers. Now you go to a different country that is,
- 39:05they're different they're culturally different they're in in the case of iran they're you know
- 39:11their civilization makes us look like the the child in the kiddie pool you know like oh we've
- 39:17got it all figured out you haven't even spent like one biftieth of the time on as a country
- 39:23on this planet as we have um and you know they they are you know they're largely a religious
- 39:31population, right? And that's not to say that they're all one, right? Because there are,
- 39:36you know, people of all walks of life that live there, believe it or not. You know, I think a lot
- 39:41of people associate, you know, Iran with, you know, kind of the, the, you know, outer regions
- 39:47of like Afghanistan or something. And it's, it's not, I mean, the country's, you know, beautiful
- 39:52and it's, it's, you know, got great cities and, you know, there's some of the most educated
- 39:58population in the world you know and and those are all beautiful things so you know maybe it's
- 40:05time we stop looking at things like we need to impose freedom on you but rather like well let
- 40:11me understand what is your concept of freedom if you voted 99.7 percent for religious fundamentalist
- 40:18leaders then maybe that's ingrained in your culture and what you want and that to you is part of
- 40:23freedom. Yeah. Right. And to your I think you brought up a very good point about like, you know,
- 40:29we are not going to agree on, you know, what to eat for lunch. It's like, OK, so what common ground
- 40:34do we have? Do we all like bread? So and cheese. So maybe we can just get pizza, even though that
- 40:43was not your first choice. So we need to find the pizza with these. And for some countries we have,
- 40:50I mean, the amount of disagreement with Saudi Arabia, Iran, I mean, from a religious standpoint, it's like, I mean, those countries are not very different now, you know, and then, but we are in bed with the Saudis.
- 41:03So is that bad?
- 41:05Good?
- 41:06Ugly?
- 41:07You know, again, it's just so complex.
- 41:11But the problem is, I still remember, again, 2003, just leading up to the Iraq war.
- 41:17I said, oh, we're just going to go liberate Iraq.
- 41:20And I'm like, you know, the minority Sunnis are in charge.
- 41:25You go liberate Iraq, then Shiites are going to be in charge and they're in bed with the
- 41:30Iranians.
- 41:31So you're cool with that?
- 41:35And I'm like, and it's not like we don't have smart people in the government, the leaders
- 41:39I'm like, I'm not listening to you because you're not telling me what I like to hear.
- 41:44Invade Iraq.
- 41:45Shiites took over.
- 41:47Sunnis were fighting for their life.
- 41:49They went to Fallujah.
- 41:53Nobody could invade Fallujah because they were just like, this is it.
- 41:58The Shiites are going to kill us.
- 42:00So we are making this a fort and we're just going to stay here as long as we can.
- 42:04Dragged on.
- 42:05Thousands of Americans died.
- 42:07I'm like, you could have asked, you could have accepted somebody telling you that majority of Iraqis are Shiites.
- 42:16So it's going to be a big mess. Nope, we are going in there. We're going to kick some ass.
- 42:21We're just angry about 9-11. We're just going to feel good, kind of like a social media typing approach to feeling good.
- 42:30And what a mess at $1.3 trillion later, all this debt from just Iraq war and Afghan war.
- 42:39I'm like, great.
- 42:41We got a lot out of it.
- 42:44Yeah.
- 42:45Well, you look at that.
- 42:46It's amazing.
- 42:47Yeah.
- 42:48Again, for some reason, we always go after this concept that if we eradicate this leadership, then things will be better.
- 42:55It's like Saddam.
- 42:57Okay.
- 42:57It didn't get better.
- 42:58You know, Gaddafi.
- 42:59Gaddafi it didn't get better you know and and you you could just keep going down the list and it's
- 43:04like exactly it didn't get better guys it's not working maybe a strategic shift here yeah it's
- 43:13it's just so weird to me I don't I well the problem is like when you talk and to come countries
- 43:20instead of like go bully them you're like well you're a weak leader I want somebody who yells
- 43:26and kick some ass. If you're just a talker, why do we have this military then? I think that's the
- 43:33big part of the problem. And you cannot win that. Because again, if you're going about living your
- 43:38life, Alex, I think the point you brought up is on point. You just, you don't have time to care
- 43:44for whatever reason it is. It just doesn't affect you. It doesn't, you know, any of that. So he's
- 43:50like, okay, so this guy is yelling and he's going to protect me. And this guy wants to talk. Maybe I
- 43:54vote for the guy who's yelling because he just sounds strong um i think we you know to
- 44:01oversimplification is another just like a big big problem that we have to deal with
- 44:07and it just you know keep keep affecting us yeah it's interesting you know your your book uh
- 44:15twilight of democracy the the front cover uh alex and i just recently had a conversation about a show
- 44:24we've seen and i'm sure you've heard of it maybe you've seen it or some of it uh it's called the
- 44:30man in the high castle absolutely i love that yeah and it kind of explores that kind of what if i
- 44:39guess that you know has been asked by probably everyone right and and it's it's interesting that
- 44:47the outcome isn't necessarily what you might have thought it would be correct yeah i mean a man in
- 44:54The High Castle and Plot Against America were definitely in the back of my head when I was
- 44:58writing this book. But at the same time, I'm like, I'm going nowhere near that. Because they
- 45:04explored something very differently, right? I mean, Man in the High Castle was written in the 50s. So
- 45:09everything was super fresh. I was born in the 70s, grew up in the 80s. So the impact of World War II
- 45:15was very different on me. And I learned the history very differently than that. So definitely,
- 45:21I just wanted to explore a different aspect of it.
- 45:24I think like in Man in the High Castle and Plot Against America,
- 45:30really empathy was not the centerpiece of their books.
- 45:35Mine became actually the centerpiece.
- 45:38I did not start with that thought process at all.
- 45:43It's just, but I just found it not avoidable.
- 45:50I had to, it was there.
- 45:53I mean, when you talk about human stories, empathy comes up first.
- 45:56What happens to people?
- 45:58How much do you care?
- 46:00And I don't know if you guys ever read it, but it's kind of, you read it, it's like, huh, I never thought these people would be empathetic and these people won't be.
- 46:08But, you know, if, again, if a tragedy didn't happen, why not?
- 46:13And, you know, the point that we talked about, about our frenemies in this book, Japan basically is left alone, right? So they basically own Southeast Asia and they're a superpower. So how does the world deal with them?
- 46:32So they have to slip a lot of, and all the atrocities already happened.
- 46:36The Nanking rape, you know, all the Korean Peninsula atrocities happened and everybody's
- 46:42like, all right, you know, we got to deal with them.
- 46:45They have a lot of resources we need to deal with.
- 46:47So you know I bringing that kind of you know sweeping under the rug kind of mentality into play and really examining it Here a little piece of trivia
- 46:58You probably know this.
- 46:59I wonder if LX does.
- 47:01So after 9-11, what country had the largest mass gathering of people in support of America and decrying the act of 9-11?
- 47:14was it egypt no you're real close though okay we have fairly close it was a it was iran over
- 47:271.1 million people came to the streets and most people don't know that i had no idea yeah
- 47:35also the the largest funeral ceremony ever ever in global history uh just recently took place
- 47:44which was also in Iran.
- 47:48Well, and of course surrounding.
- 47:52So this is actually a really good point you brought up
- 47:55because that's another thing that the mainstream media
- 47:57really doesn't talk about is when they talk about,
- 48:03oh, like, you know, the conflict between this country
- 48:05and that country and all of that,
- 48:07it's just, they're just the governments.
- 48:10People do not hate anybody.
- 48:12Like, you know, okay, China is an adversary.
- 48:17Kids, you know, go through so much trouble to come here to go to college.
- 48:23They don't hate America.
- 48:24Everybody wants to come here.
- 48:27I mean, we know that, to live here, to go to school here, all of that,
- 48:31from all these countries that are like enemy.
- 48:34So it's just like these poor people are put in between
- 48:38because the governments have some beef.
- 48:40venezuelans i mean they so much of them are in um immigrated to florida they love america every
- 48:49ethnic group right they all came here for a reason and it's like so it's not so but who do you uh
- 48:56punish with economic sanction the people because the government gets around it who do you you don't
- 49:02let to come here people government officials still come here to you know do whatever they want to do
- 49:07It's just you keep punishing the poor people.
- 49:11And again, nobody covers that.
- 49:13It's just brown.
- 49:15It's just, it doesn't affect me.
- 49:17So this is, again, going back to empathy.
- 49:20And everybody knows that.
- 49:21But it's just like, okay, it just feels good.
- 49:23It's like, let's not let the Iranian soccer team stay an extra night
- 49:28and go back to Tijuana and then lose to, I forgot who they lost the last game.
- 49:35anyway, they were actually pretty close. I mean, all of that is like, why? Why are you punishing
- 49:43the soccer team? I mean, to just humiliate the government and these poor kids. I mean, again,
- 49:52living here, maybe you guys don't, I think it's the equivalent of playing in the Super Bowl,
- 49:57right? Every kid is born, a boy is like, I'm going to play in the World Cup, right? And you're just
- 50:04crushing them and every family member you just crush all of that so who are you punishing
- 50:10and then people start to really actually hate the U.S. government right now who is hurting
- 50:18in Iran just not getting any imports who is hurting the government fat fat cats they're still
- 50:29living large people just i mean you saw that and so when the revolution happened in 1979
- 50:36every dollar was 70 reals right now is 2.4 million reals wow
- 50:45and it's gone up uh i think three or four x in the past two years alone so who is suffering
- 50:56Nobody covers it.
- 50:57When was the last time you saw it on CNN, Fox News, whatever, NPR, whatever outlet you listen to?
- 51:05No one.
- 51:06Maybe, you know, 10 seconds, move on.
- 51:09Oh, the global oil market is in turmoil because I'm like, okay, that's all you care about.
- 51:15But 90 million people are suffering.
- 51:18Nobody cares.
- 51:19Where are they getting their insulin?
- 51:21Where are they getting their hospital supply?
- 51:29Nobody talks about it.
- 51:30Nobody's on the ground covering that.
- 51:32It's like, eh.
- 51:33It's just nobody's interested in it.
- 51:35Where is that 30-second soundbite I want?
- 51:39So that's the part that I'm just so disappointed.
- 51:43I have written to all of these media companies, you know, from CNN, Los Angeles.
- 51:49I mean, you name it.
- 51:50And I'm like, but they don't care because they want clicks, right?
- 51:54It's just they're a business.
- 51:55They're not.
- 51:58So yeah it just very frustrating A lot of that comes down to advertisers right They will money funding and stop stop giving you money for ads If you go and talk about the counter side of things a lot
- 52:13of the time, you know, so, and it is sad. And I do think we need more empathy, especially for
- 52:19other human beings. I don't care what, you know, color, how tall, how round, how wide, how,
- 52:26whatever you are if you're a human being you are deserving of my empathy that's that's well you
- 52:32know and the bar is so low the bar is not like oh i want a place to live no it's just don't kill me
- 52:39yeah i mean the bar i mean this is i don't even know if it's empathy this is just like so basic
- 52:45that people are like yeah no my grandparents had a word for that it was called common decency
- 52:53common decency yeah it's that's it's just so much to me empathy is like okay i want to bring
- 52:59your standard of living up right to but to me this is like just don't kill me let me have my
- 53:07tylenol right this is not that's why it's i have a hard time calling it empathy because it's just
- 53:13the bar is so low yeah getting hungry alex what yeah
- 53:24the pizza i think pizza is the common ground i missed i missed i so i don't eat i don't eat
- 53:33bread i haven't eaten bread in a while but i miss i miss pizza i i go you know i'm i'm i'm
- 53:39in the same boat. I have pizza once a month and, uh, it's a glorious day.
- 53:51Yeah. Well, it's once a year for LX. He comes to, comes to my house for that event.
- 53:56And, uh, we kind of, you know, we don't throw the rules out, but we cheat a little bit.
- 54:02Kind of throw the rules out a little bit.
- 54:04No, not entirely. Like we're going to make that, uh, we're going to make that cauliflower
- 54:09au gratin this year. Okay. So no rule throwing out on that one. Yeah. So yeah. Interesting.
- 54:18So what was your favorite, what was your favorite part of the book to write? And what was the most
- 54:25challenging part for you? Um, for Twilight of Democracy or Secrets and Murders?
- 54:32well we let's talk a twilight of uh of democracy for right now i didn't really dig into the other
- 54:39one but yeah sure yeah yeah yeah um so for twilight oh um so i struggle with this a lot
- 54:48so i start with the hardest um so it happens in 1950 and uh i i just thought
- 55:00But so it's a little bit of a story of the second chance too, right?
- 55:05Because again, this World War II didn't happen.
- 55:10You know, tens of millions of people had second chance to live a better life, the whole continent, the whole world.
- 55:17So I thought, okay, one person that gets a second chance is Anne Frank.
- 55:25should I include her in this story or not and I had sleepless nights I was like and my worry was
- 55:36like okay just I don't want to be presumptuous I just don't want to be portrayed that oh you're
- 55:42just throwing like some big name in there and to just you know you know you know the whole thing
- 55:48So I asked my Gen Z son, who has read her diary and, you know, knows very well about her and all of that.
- 55:57So I said, you know, I'm here.
- 56:00I need to, I'm about to introduce her character.
- 56:03So what do you think?
- 56:04And he's like, do it, you know.
- 56:07And he was like maybe 12 or 13 back then.
- 56:12So I'm like, I guess I'll do it.
- 56:16So, and I really, you know, didn't just mention her.
- 56:23I just, you know, because from her writing, it's just like she was so brilliant at such a young age.
- 56:30I'm like, I imagined her to be like an exceptional person at the age of 21 or 2 would have been, 23 in 1950.
- 56:42And so I really struggled with that.
- 56:44And that was really the hardest part to make a decision.
- 56:51The other, I guess, two parts that I struggled with, one was just reimagining the world that is believable.
- 57:05I didn't want it to be, I want to, actually the first version, the first edition I wrote, I wrote it like a history book.
- 57:12And it read like a history book it didn have a lot of you know show don tell because I just viewed it as a like a historical document to be just more believable
- 57:26Second edition, I just made it a lot more, you know, show, don't tell and more, you know, from POV.
- 57:34um so so that's that's so the making it believable and not just you know thrown together was like the
- 57:42hardest thing so like and I have all these notes that okay what happens to India what happens to
- 57:47Soviet Union what happens to Stalin Africa Middle East I just went like basically country by country
- 57:56what happens to Japan what happens to Asia what happens to China you know Mao is not going to be
- 58:03power because the Japanese are in charge. And so that part was really, really hard. I think I spent
- 58:12over a month to really, and as I wrote it, I made the world a little bit more believable.
- 58:18So that was another really, really hard part for me to do. And the other part is like, of course,
- 58:24what happens to America? And I just didn't want it to be so cliche. I just, not to bash on
- 58:30um, plot against America, but the plot against America was, took a little bit of a simplistic way
- 58:35of, um, you know, going about, uh, World War II not happening. Um, I just want it to be a lot more,
- 58:43again, believable. It's kind of like how superhero, uh, movies and comic books were like,
- 58:51you know, superheroes were just like invincible. And now the modern ones, they all have problem
- 58:55and they have family and it's a lot more believable.
- 58:58So I just wanted to take that kind of approach
- 59:00that is a lot more believable and relatable.
- 59:03And of course, it impacted the protagonist
- 59:06and his struggles and all of that.
- 59:09So I think that was,
- 59:10and that's why it took me over a year to write it.
- 59:15And what was, oh, go ahead, Alex.
- 59:17Oh, I was just going to ask, in the books,
- 59:19how did you address the application of technology
- 59:22that came about from World War II,
- 59:24being that if we hadn't been at it, were we advanced or delayed?
- 59:29Or how did you do that?
- 59:31Yeah, so I totally addressed it.
- 59:33So one of the things is the biggest impact, I don't give the rest of it away,
- 59:38but on the Soviet side, because war didn't happen.
- 59:41So they didn't steal a lot of the Nazi scientists.
- 59:45So Soviet Union never became Soviet Union that we know today.
- 59:50But, you know, not for other countries.
- 59:54Especially a lot of them stayed in Germany.
- 59:56So what would happen to Europe?
- 59:58What would happen to America?
- 1:00:00Who has more money?
- 1:00:02So I thought it through big time.
- 1:00:08I figured you did.
- 1:00:09Yeah.
- 1:00:10And the other part is actually, which is funny, in it, America kind of annexes Greenland.
- 1:00:20Again, I wrote it in 2020.
- 1:00:24I wrote it way before.
- 1:00:26Are you working with the Simpsons on there?
- 1:00:29Is it like life imitating art or what?
- 1:00:33Totally.
- 1:00:35So, and well, so I tell you like how actually I arrived at Greenland because I thought, oh, it would be cool if actually U.S. invades part of Siberia because, oh, Alaska is already part of America.
- 1:00:48So kind of like keep going.
- 1:00:49But I kept staring at the map and I'm like, it would be very hard to just like put a wall there.
- 1:00:56Like how much of Siberia, maybe just southern part of Siberia.
- 1:01:01I'm like, I just going to take Greenland.
- 1:01:05And I want a conflict between Europe and U.S. anyway.
- 1:01:09So I have actually Greenland and Faroe Islands basically annexed by the U.S.
- 1:01:17So I did it not being lazy, but just like visually, it was so much easier to annex than part of Siberia or any other part of the world.
- 1:01:28So that's basically I went that route.
- 1:01:31Something about history states that fighting the Russians in the winter part of life and from Siberia is you're going to have a very bad time.
- 1:01:43Yes.
- 1:01:44Very bad.
- 1:01:44Yes.
- 1:01:45Yes. So actually, so if you ever read the book, that's why actually I weakened Soviet Union so much and Stalin is basically bedridden. So I was actually setting up the book to be, and then, so that's why most of it, yeah, I weakened Soviet Union because, oh, they didn't get the Nazi scientists, but I was weakening it so it's easier.
- 1:02:10So we don't run into the Napoleon and World War Two problem with with Russia.
- 1:02:14Definitely, I was going that route, but I was like, oh, it's just like, it's so big.
- 1:02:19Like you cannot build a wall and you cannot keep him out.
- 1:02:22So I was thinking, oh, maybe they have these Nazi science and Nazi technology.
- 1:02:29that puts some Star Wars-style barrier.
- 1:02:34And I was like, that's just not unbelievable.
- 1:02:36I'm like, oh, Greenland.
- 1:02:40Okay, so here's the next question.
- 1:02:43Maybe it's too much of a giveaway, but did we still build the bomb?
- 1:02:51As a human race, not necessarily us.
- 1:02:54We built a bomb, but not the first bomb.
- 1:02:59So basically a lot of things in my book don't happen and a lot of things skip a generation.
- 1:03:08Because I thought, again, it would be...
- 1:03:10And that would make sense, right?
- 1:03:12Yeah.
- 1:03:13And actually that...
- 1:03:15And it's not a bomb.
- 1:03:16Let's call it a weapon.
- 1:03:17And actually that's the centerpiece of the story.
- 1:03:23Oh, okay.
- 1:03:24Yeah, yeah.
- 1:03:25All right.
- 1:03:25Well, I'm going to have to grab this book.
- 1:03:26Yeah, it's a weapon.
- 1:03:27Let's put it that way.
- 1:03:29all right well that that's pretty cool that's pretty cool and yeah i mean you know interestingly
- 1:03:38enough you know i mean we also benefited from that right i mean a large absolutely amount of
- 1:03:45of nasa came from you know what was it operation paperclip correct we we you know forklifted these
- 1:03:52scientists and said well you work for us now so uh yeah that's that's pretty cool
- 1:03:59that's really cool that's see i don't know how i would get i mean that just seems like so much to
- 1:04:06go through inside of a year even yes you know it sounds like a multi-year body of work to try and
- 1:04:13come up with all of that yeah for me i mean i yeah i i kept all my notes you know but once the world
- 1:04:22was in my head. I mean, I was up writing until two, three in the morning. Actually, I was not
- 1:04:31reading, I was not writing in bed. Of course, I moved like downstairs and I was just like, you
- 1:04:35know, typing away. So, and that's why it was, it became very much like a historical piece because
- 1:04:41in my head, I, because I read so much nonfiction and the history books. So in my head, it was just
- 1:04:48like it translated into that. Yeah, it was a lot of work. But at the same time, I took like, you
- 1:04:53know, a couple hour long walks and, you know, brainstorming and doing a lot of voice notes and
- 1:04:59all of that. Once my brain goes, I go really fast. I mean, even like my day job is the same.
- 1:05:05Once my brain is working, I just like produce very fast. So yeah, and I'm getting better at it.
- 1:05:14Like for my upcoming book, I just got so much more efficient.
- 1:05:18And I'm writing actually my fourth book right now.
- 1:05:20And I'm like so much better, right?
- 1:05:23It's just like one, two, three, four, just like you keep getting better at your process.
- 1:05:27So definitely, yeah.
- 1:05:29So it was a lot of work, a lot of creativity.
- 1:05:32Yeah.
- 1:05:33How often did you have to go back and correct things because you changed something?
- 1:05:38Like, oh, I need to do this here in Japan.
- 1:05:41And then, oh, crud, that changes China and Russia.
- 1:05:45And, oh, man.
- 1:05:46No, no.
- 1:05:47So that was actually not a whole lot, actually, because the world was already made up in my mind or sketched out.
- 1:05:55So actually, it was funny, like, because I had to, like, explain in some passage what happens to certain countries.
- 1:06:01I'm like, oh, that's what I decided on Italy.
- 1:06:04Let's say Italy and Spain are, like, misnomer.
- 1:06:07So I started writing it, and I just wrote it.
- 1:06:09So that part was not actually very difficult. Editing, going back, you're like, yeah, it just doesn't make sense. So that part to just make it smooth and not be too informative and professorial was like the hardest part to make it into an actual story that is like you can turn the page, not just like, okay, what happened to Japan?
- 1:06:36uh okay what happened to china that was my biggest struggle not actually putting my plan in place
- 1:06:43because my plan was like very well thought out um like i have a lot of notes that you know exactly
- 1:06:50what happens to certain countries and why it happened and what caused it and all of that
- 1:06:55i had to come up with like categories of countries um so so that part yeah i i got it right but just
- 1:07:03like making it make sense was like the hardest part.
- 1:07:08Yeah, that seems like it would be very difficult.
- 1:07:11I tried to write a book once about 35 years ago and I gotten three pages done Well you know so my first book took 16 years I started writing it when my son was born and I just could not come up with like chase scene and you know a page turner and I just
- 1:07:33let it sit and and you know you're up when you know your kid is up and all of that all the good
- 1:07:40stuff. So that was, I started like very creative, come up with a core story, but just finishing it.
- 1:07:45Yeah. That's why it took me so long. But once I finished them, I'm like, okay, I can do it again.
- 1:07:50And it was over a year, um, Twilight of Democracy. It was, it was a year and maybe three months.
- 1:07:57Um, and then this, uh, the third one took me like, like close to a year,
- 1:08:03like less than a year because I just got so much more efficient.
- 1:08:05awesome and so you've got another fourth one coming fourth one i'm reading i'm writing it
- 1:08:13right i'm on the fourth chapter but my third one and murders and secrets the idea is um this is
- 1:08:20again because i moved to the deep suburbs from city living all my life and uh you know i just
- 1:08:27observed how hoa living is which i not know concept of you know it's the board and you cannot
- 1:08:33know, do certain things. And, you know, and again, I like HOA living because living in the middle of
- 1:08:38the city, you know, you live between a blue house and a pink house and nobody takes care of anything.
- 1:08:43And now everything is like manicured. And I'm like, oh, okay, that doesn't look that bad. So
- 1:08:47it's not like I hate living in HOAs, but I just felt the community, I think it was back a little
- 1:08:53bit about your empathy conversation. And, you know, cul-de-sac people feel a little bit, you know,
- 1:08:59you know different the gated community people feel different they have their own they don't
- 1:09:04want to mix with others so there was a little bit of like that you know funny feel that i'm like huh
- 1:09:10so i put that in the back of my head and then we don't care if you were in the hospital for a week
- 1:09:15with a heart attack you better have that lawn mowed exactly you're getting more letters two
- 1:09:19and a half inches you're getting a fine no no empathy for you the last hoa i lived in and that
- 1:09:28will be the last one I ever live in. Uh, I, you know, we moved in and it was, you know, it was
- 1:09:34new, um, and, uh, new construction. So moved in and, you know, there's the flower beds, it's a
- 1:09:41little, little front patio. So it wasn't, you know, anything special or anything. It was a nice little
- 1:09:45place. And to put flowers in the flower beds, I had to go to all of my neighbors in my little area,
- 1:09:53like 12 people and i had to show them a plan what flowers what plants what colors they were going to
- 1:10:02be and i had to get them to sign all of them and then only after that could i then submit it to the
- 1:10:10board yeah to have them approve if those actually match the color schemes and are acceptable flowers
- 1:10:17And that's when I went, nope, never know this again.
- 1:10:21Not a chance.
- 1:10:22Yeah.
- 1:10:23So all that good stuff.
- 1:10:24So you see how it kind of like scarred me.
- 1:10:27Well, I mean, as soon as we bought the house, I got a notice that it's like, oh, there's a stain in the front of the house.
- 1:10:33And I'm like, I'm not moving in for another three months.
- 1:10:36I'm in like a different part of the state.
- 1:10:38So, yeah, speaking of empathy.
- 1:10:41So anyway, so I felt, you know, all of this.
- 1:10:43And then I don't know if you guys ever followed the whole school voucher system that has been going on since the 90s that, oh, here's the voucher, you know, take the money and then take your kid to any school you want.
- 1:10:55And then who's left behind?
- 1:10:56Again, empathy, you know, money is taken away from inner city schools, you know, who suffers, all the people, you know.
- 1:11:03And then, you know, the whole conversation of our walls, you know, dividing people, you know, makes the society better, safer, all of that.
- 1:11:13I'm like, okay, so I have all of these elements.
- 1:11:18Let's take all of that and, you know, put them to work.
- 1:11:23Take them a couple steps further.
- 1:11:25It's like, what if there were HOAs and walls everywhere, not just parts of the country?
- 1:11:31And only people who cannot afford it, who are not in a protected wall are people who are just poor.
- 1:11:38So basically, we put all the poor people in one area.
- 1:11:40We don't call them inner city or whatever pejorative term, but that's where they end up.
- 1:11:47And then everybody else who has a job, basically, you can live in some sort of a gated community based on your IQ, based on your religion, based on your status in life, whatever.
- 1:12:01I explored some of it, but I didn't name them all.
- 1:12:04And I like will it be a better society I mean you like the concept of it Everybody kind of wants that kind of separation
- 1:12:15But would it be a better society?
- 1:12:17Very much like Twilight of Democracy, would it be a better world?
- 1:12:21And not just tweak one thing, but no, the whole society is built based on this separation.
- 1:12:31And so I'm like, okay, I have the concept.
- 1:12:35I'm like, okay, so how do I examine this?
- 1:12:38Because again, I didn't want it to be just some social experiment.
- 1:12:41And I'm like, okay, a murder.
- 1:12:42Because a murder, the truth needs to come out.
- 1:12:46The ugly underbelly, all the relationships, everything comes out.
- 1:12:50So it became a murder mystery that way.
- 1:12:52Not that I chose to write a murder mystery.
- 1:12:55It's just like I thought that's the best way to tell a story.
- 1:12:58And again, not as complex as Twilight of Democracy,
- 1:13:01but I had to construct this world, put rules in, timeline in, and all of that.
- 1:13:08So that part of it was not as difficult.
- 1:13:11The difficult part was doing the murder mystery because it's just so hard.
- 1:13:17I think it was the hardest book I wrote because of the murder mystery.
- 1:13:20In Twilight, I knew the history.
- 1:13:23I loved the history part.
- 1:13:25So even though it was a lot of work,
- 1:13:26it came to me a little bit easier because of my background.
- 1:13:29But this one was like, I've never written a murder mystery.
- 1:13:32So that to just making it a page turner made it very, very hard.
- 1:13:37Yeah.
- 1:13:37And that's something you can actually view, not entirely, but for the most part, not as much in San Diego, I think, because there is actually a definitive city.
- 1:13:47And the suburbs are not quite as dense, I think, because San Diego County is a lot bigger.
- 1:13:55San Diego City is a lot bigger.
- 1:13:57But if you go up to Orange County, that's exactly what you've got.
- 1:14:00I mean, in my last HOA, you literally had like this city was a community and like you had.
- 1:14:08I think Irvine is like that.
- 1:14:10Yes.
- 1:14:10Yes.
- 1:14:11And you've got like, you've got the, you know, condo people that live, you know, in this area.
- 1:14:16That's right.
- 1:14:17And then you've got the starter home people over here.
- 1:14:20And then over here, you've got the nicer, but still kind of median homes, you know.
- 1:14:25And then you've got the gated community. It's inside the community, but it's gated off from the rest of the community. And that's where the nice homes are. And it was like, you were talking about this. I'm like, wow, that actually exists right now.
- 1:14:41Yeah. So again, I took that. I think I had Orange County in mind. That's exactly. Because Bay Area is not like that at all. But Orange County is definitely the mecca of HOAs and gated communities. Yeah. And a lot of affluent, right? It has all the elements of my book. And actually, in my book, I don't say where it is, but you can guess where it is.
- 1:15:06Well, I saw it in my head. I'm like, I lived there.
- 1:15:09Exactly.
- 1:15:11That's right.
- 1:15:12And you come out of that community and you go by and there's the other community there and the next one.
- 1:15:17I even made it a little bit crazier.
- 1:15:20I said, even if you live in a gated community, I call them premium communities.
- 1:15:25Because most actually HOAs in my world have gates.
- 1:15:29So gate is not a big deal anymore.
- 1:15:32So I call it premium communities.
- 1:15:33They have their own roads.
- 1:15:35Premium roads.
- 1:15:36so it's just like
- 1:15:38take it because we have
- 1:15:40toll roads in Orange County
- 1:15:42right so I'm like okay how about there is another
- 1:15:44road it's just for premium community people
- 1:15:46just like let's see how
- 1:15:48you know it pans out
- 1:15:49that is awesome
- 1:15:53I like it
- 1:15:54I do
- 1:15:55well I think this is probably a really
- 1:15:58great place to wrap up and I
- 1:16:00really appreciate your time this has been
- 1:16:02great I think personally
- 1:16:04I'd love to have you back on at some point
- 1:16:06Maybe when the next book comes out, we'll have you on and talk about that.
- 1:16:12One thing we like to do for all of our guests is give them an opportunity to give back, right?
- 1:16:18And what we frame that as is a question.
- 1:16:21And the question is, throughout our lives, there's a figure that has a massive and lasting impact on our lives.
- 1:16:27This could be a sixth grade science teacher, a historical figure, an author.
- 1:16:32It could be mom.
- 1:16:33and we like to give our guests the opportunity to shout out that person and kind of give back
- 1:16:37yeah it's such a good question um um funny enough actually my son just went off to college
- 1:16:48so i gave him this kind of advice um that um my college roommate one of my college roommates um was a really smart brilliant guy And he spoke multiple languages He was a fantastic student
- 1:17:08He was fun.
- 1:17:09He was not fun in like a party way, but he was,
- 1:17:13I guess I really enjoyed his intellect.
- 1:17:18So he really influenced me in a very positive way.
- 1:17:22I don't think I would be sitting here if it was not because of him.
- 1:17:25Um, he made me a good student. He made me care about studying and, um, university. Um, and, uh,
- 1:17:35um, so I really, uh, I think, I think I give him a lot of credit for a person who I am. So I told
- 1:17:43my son is like, yeah, you never know who you are going to meet. And I gave him also, uh, Thomas
- 1:17:48Jefferson's examples. I forgot exactly, um, the person, I don't think he was his roommate, but
- 1:17:53is a person who introduced him to Newton and French Enlightenment
- 1:18:00and William and Mary when he was attending there.
- 1:18:05And I'm like, ah, very similar to my experience.
- 1:18:08So I gave him that advice that is like you never know who you're going to meet.
- 1:18:12You just need to find the smartest, you know, or have other qualities.
- 1:18:18Just like learn from them and grow.
- 1:18:20So, yeah, I think I give him a lot of credit for my growth.
- 1:18:26Can you give us his name or probably not?
- 1:18:28Yeah, Thomas.
- 1:18:29His name was Thomas.
- 1:18:31And he was Swiss.
- 1:18:33Awesome.
- 1:18:34Oh, he is Swiss.
- 1:18:34I mean, he's still around.
- 1:18:35He doesn't live in the U.S. anymore, but yeah.
- 1:18:38Well, we've got a large international following apparently.
- 1:18:41So, I don't know.
- 1:18:42He might hear this.
- 1:18:44Well, thank you again for giving us some of your time.
- 1:18:48I really do appreciate it.
- 1:18:49It's one of our most precious commodities.
- 1:18:52You said you got a book.
- 1:18:53Where can people find you?
- 1:18:55What else are you working on?
- 1:18:57And what do you got next after the next book?
- 1:19:00Oh, thanks.
- 1:19:02Yeah, so everything about me and my work is, you don't see the website.
- 1:19:09It's cut off a little bit.
- 1:19:11It's hermanforward.com.
- 1:19:14and so it's the link to my current books my book that is is called secrets and murders that is an
- 1:19:21on pre-order um and all my podcasts and essays everything is from this book so yeah my pre-order
- 1:19:31is going on right now and we are expecting maybe spring of 2027 for it to come out
- 1:19:38and yeah I'm working on another mystery book and in it I'm examining more relationships
- 1:19:49between different cultures mostly in like between Spain England and the U.S. you know the
- 1:19:58kind of attention that is going on at the personal level has nothing to do with politics
- 1:20:03zero. So I'm exploring a lot of that, a lot of interpersonal relationship between siblings,
- 1:20:10parents, kids. I'm just diving deep into that. So yeah, I think I'm taking a little bit of a break
- 1:20:18from just this different, it's a different what if to just really explore interpersonal
- 1:20:24relationships in this book. And I'm really enjoying it because I'm just, I'm like, keep
- 1:20:29writing and I just, things come out and all of that. So yeah. So that's again,
- 1:20:34hermanforward.com, everything about me and my work is on the website.
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