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Romeo In The Morning 10-14-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: What's going on, everybody?
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  Speaker 2: It's Romeo. We made it to Wednesday. Halfway through the week,
• 0:05
  Speaker 2: we talked about turning a hoe into a housewife a
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: little bit. We also talked about a banda that's coming
• 0:10
  Speaker 2: to town. I cannot pronounce the name to save my life.
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  Speaker 2: And then about, well, what's expensive?
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  Speaker 1: What's not?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome. I know you're not talking about this right now,
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  Speaker 2: but I was hoping I could get your advice or
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  Speaker 2: your opinion on something. The last month or so, I've
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  Speaker 2: ran into two divorced women. And I'm trying to figure
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  Speaker 2: out what's going on with them. Immediately after I met them,
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  Speaker 2: they went to bed with me. And I'm trying to
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  Speaker 2: figure out if they're trying to lock me down or not.
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  Speaker 2: Are they desperate now? Or what is going on here?
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  Speaker 2: Because they went to bed with me real easily and
• 0:50
  Speaker 2: they want to hang out all the time now. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what to think, Rome. So you're dating two
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  Speaker 2: divorced women? Or you're just having sex with two divorced women? Um, well,
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  Speaker 2: they're not, they're not trying to lock you down. I'm just,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just going to tell you that right now. They are, um, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they're not trying to lock you down. You're probably a
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  Speaker 2: good time. I'm just guessing based on what I'm just guessing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: You're probably fun to hang out with right now. You
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  Speaker 2: like to go out, you like to do things. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: they want to have sex. You want to have sex. Um,
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  Speaker 2: The thing about these divorced women nowadays, they get out
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  Speaker 2: these relationships, these marriages, and they kind of turn into
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  Speaker 2: born-again hoes again. Although they're not really born-again hoes. They're just,
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  Speaker 2: you know, they've been locked up. You know, they probably
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  Speaker 2: look good. You know, women usually, after they get divorced,
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  Speaker 2: get back into shape again, you know. And they're just
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  Speaker 2: out to have a good time. Now, do they want
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  Speaker 2: to settle down with you? Probably not, okay? But they
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  Speaker 2: do want to hang out and kind of get it
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  Speaker 2: out of their system because they've been trapped in this
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  Speaker 2: marriage for so long that was probably not, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, exciting in the way it once was.
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  Speaker 2: And you're exciting. So don't worry about them trying to
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  Speaker 2: lock you down. Just have a good time. Get all
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  Speaker 2: you can from them because eventually they'll get tired of you.
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  Speaker 2: And eventually they'll move on to either staying single and
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  Speaker 2: they'll do the next guy like they did you or
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  Speaker 2: they'll want to settle down again.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, but you got to give them a little time.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you got to let them let all their
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  Speaker 2: frustration out from being married, being stuck in a marriage
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  Speaker 2: they didn't want to be in or, you know, getting
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  Speaker 2: dumped because their husband cheated on them. They want to get,
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  Speaker 2: you know, They need some time, so no, don't worry
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 1: You're fine, okay? They're just going to want to have
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  Speaker 1: sex with you for.
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  Speaker 2: A while and go out with you for a while,
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  Speaker 2: and then they'll move on to something else.
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  Speaker 1: Just ride it out, bro. You'll be good. Funny, a
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  Speaker 1: guy just texted me.
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  Speaker 2: I guess over the last month or so, he's met
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  Speaker 2: a couple of divorced women, and he seems to think
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  Speaker 2: they're moving kind of fast. I don't know if he thinks. Basically,
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  Speaker 2: he said they gave it up the first night. They
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  Speaker 2: want to hang out. Lots of sex, lots of hanging out, right?
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  Speaker 2: And he's wondering if they are trying to lock them down. No,
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  Speaker 2: they're not trying to lock you down at all. They
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  Speaker 2: don't want, they don't want that. It's, you know, they
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  Speaker 2: just got out of a relationship. They just got out
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  Speaker 2: of a marriage, which means, I don't know if it
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  Speaker 2: was a good marriage or a bad marriage or if
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  Speaker 2: they got cheated on or not, but they got to
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  Speaker 2: let all that frustration out. You know, they got to,
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  Speaker 2: they got to while out for a little while to
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  Speaker 2: get over the fact to get over whatever their relationship
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  Speaker 2: or their marriage was.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So when you meet a divorced woman, newly divorced, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they're ready to wow out. And you just got to
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  Speaker 2: roll with it. They're not trying to lock you down.
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  Speaker 2: They're not trying to do anything. But, you know, get
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  Speaker 2: them some, honestly, and hang out. Hey, Rome, the ball
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  Speaker 2: is in his court, Rome. He is controlling the situation.
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  Speaker 2: They will push it to whichever limit. He allows it to,
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  Speaker 2: if they don't, if he don't want nothing serious, set
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  Speaker 2: the standard with them. And when you get bored, simply
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  Speaker 2: ghost them. There ain't no attachment. I do it all
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  Speaker 2: the time, but that's how, yeah, that's how these divorce
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  Speaker 2: women are. They just want to while out, have a
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  Speaker 2: good time. And that guy's right. You can just push
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  Speaker 2: it to whatever limits you want. They'll damn near do
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  Speaker 2: whatever you want, you know, because they just, it's almost
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  Speaker 2: like they're, you know, they got to get that. They
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  Speaker 2: got to get that wholeness out of their system again.
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  Speaker 2: you know, before they either decide to settle down and
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  Speaker 2: get married again, not with you, but in the future,
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  Speaker 2: just depends.
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  Speaker 1: It's just, and they all do it. Okay. They're all
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  Speaker 1: doing it. So he's right.
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  Speaker 2: To be honest with you, if you want to have
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  Speaker 2: a great time, go find you a woman who's just
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  Speaker 2: getting divorced or has got divorced, you know, You can
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  Speaker 2: do whatever you want.
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  Speaker 1: It'd be a hell of a party. Hey, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: That man needs to, he needs to just go for
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  Speaker 1: the ride and enjoy it. Because I have a, recently,
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  Speaker 1: I can't say too recently, it's about, about to go
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  Speaker 1: on five years, divorced woman.
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  Speaker 2: I was married 20 years.
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  Speaker 3: And, yeah, we don't want no damn relationship.
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  Speaker 1: We just want to have girls.
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  Speaker 2: They want to have fun.
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  Speaker 3: They just want to have fun.
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  Speaker 2: Let us have fun.
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  Speaker 3: Don't think we want you because we don't.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I understand. He just, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know, you don't, You don't meet a lot
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  Speaker 2: of women like divorced women.
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  Speaker 3: When you date regular women who haven't been married yet
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  Speaker 3: and they still want a relationship and they want to
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  Speaker 3: settle down and they want to do it right, then
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  Speaker 3: you meet a divorced woman and she's just ready to
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  Speaker 3: do everything. You start to go, wait a second, is
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  Speaker 3: she doing all this to keep me or is she doing,
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  Speaker 3: you know, you got to realize she's just doing it
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  Speaker 3: because she's, like you said, wants to have fun because.
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  Speaker 1: She just got out. Yep. You got, you got to just,
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  Speaker 1: you got to go with it because like, seriously, um,
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  Speaker 1: the last two guys that I messed.
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  Speaker 3: With, I can't get rid of them, but it was
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  Speaker 3: just supposed to be a hit it and quit it.
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  Speaker 1: But I accidentally hit.
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  Speaker 3: With my real number and, um, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Now you, now you messed up.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Later. Thanks for calling.
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  Speaker 2: Um, but yeah, that's all. I mean, you guys, But
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  Speaker 2: it's difficult to understand. You guys, a lot of these
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  Speaker 2: guys in Bakersfield, you don't understand women, okay? Because everybody
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  Speaker 2: wants that scene where they come home and she's in
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  Speaker 2: the lingerie in her high heels, you know, bent over
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  Speaker 2: waiting for you because you just got off work, right?
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  Speaker 1: Well, everybody thinks that that's real.
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  Speaker 2: And it's not really real unless you're good looking and
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  Speaker 2: have $ 100 million in your bank account.
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  Speaker 1: Then that's really real.
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  Speaker 2: But what you don't understand is a divorced woman is
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  Speaker 2: as close as you're going to get to that because
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  Speaker 2: she's out to have fun.
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  Speaker 1: And she just got out. She just did a 20-year stint.
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  Speaker 1: She just got out. She's ready to roll.
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  Speaker 2: And she's not trying to lock you down, bro. Just
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  Speaker 2: have fun and enjoy it. So a guy just sent
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  Speaker 2: me this talking about divorced women. Apparently, he's over the
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  Speaker 2: last month or so, he's met a couple of divorced women.
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  Speaker 2: And I guess they were doing some things that he thought...
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  Speaker 2: were trying to lock them down. He thought maybe they
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  Speaker 2: were desperate and that's why they were being so freaky
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  Speaker 2: and so whatever immediately. But no, that's not the case.
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  Speaker 2: Divorced women are, you got to remember, they just got
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  Speaker 2: out of a relationship. Whether they were the ones that
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  Speaker 2: left or whether they were done dirty, they're all about
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  Speaker 2: getting back out there, having fun, rebuilding their self-esteem, all
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  Speaker 2: of the things that, well, that women do. So no,
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  Speaker 2: they're not I'm not trying to lock you down.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, how's it going on?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, good morning, Romeo.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? You know, I'm not divorced.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I have been in my brain when my.
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  Speaker 2: Husband gets me mad, but what this.
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  Speaker 1: Guy is experiencing is like the.
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  Speaker 2: Marriage equivalent of I forgot your birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, don't cuss. Oh, sorry, sorry. I see what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: I see where you're going with that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he's in the honeymoon phase of where he's like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Like, you know, normally I have to work really hard
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  Speaker 1: to go.
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  Speaker 2: Ahead and get some or have something happen to me,
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  Speaker 2: and that's why I'm getting some.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Just enjoy it, you know, just.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy it because.
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  Speaker 3: It's like you said, man, it's like when you're going
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  Speaker 3: through a dry spell and then you finally get it
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  Speaker 3: and oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a, it's a, um, you got to understand
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  Speaker 1: it to know it.
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  Speaker 2: And if you've never, if you've never seen it or
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  Speaker 2: been involved in it before, then this poor guy doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Know what he's, what he's got, how lucky he's got
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  Speaker 1: it right now. It won't last forever, though, bro. But
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  Speaker 1: you got it good right now. All right, thanks.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's not going to last forever. So don't
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  Speaker 2: get me wrong. They're going to move on, okay? But
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  Speaker 2: you just got to enjoy the ride while you can.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's what happens.
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  Speaker 1: R-D-4-2-5-4-7-7.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome, you're absolutely right. A few months back, well,
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  Speaker 2: actually about six months ago, I met this woman who,
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  Speaker 2: She was in her 50s who had gotten divorced. Her
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  Speaker 2: husband had left her. And Rome, let me tell you,
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  Speaker 2: she was in banging shape. She looked good. And she
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  Speaker 2: let me do things that you only see.
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  Speaker 1: In the movies.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about. And it kind of
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  Speaker 2: freaked me out because I had never met a woman
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  Speaker 2: like that. So I didn't know what to do, Rome.
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  Speaker 2: But it only lasted a month or two. And then
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  Speaker 2: she moved on to something else.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I still.
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  Speaker 2: had that today, though, Rome. But you know what you're
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  Speaker 2: talking about. I do know what I'm talking about. Because
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  Speaker 2: that they just you got to look at it like this.
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  Speaker 2: They've been locked up in this relationship for so long
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  Speaker 2: and maybe it was happy or unhappy.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it was happy.
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  Speaker 2: For a while, but for whatever reason, it's over with
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  Speaker 2: whether it was them that decided because they were unhappy
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  Speaker 2: or whether it was their husband that decided because he
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  Speaker 2: wasn't happy. But whatever it was, now they have no accountability. Plus,
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  Speaker 2: they're not idiots. You know, they've been through they've been
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  Speaker 2: through some things. You know, they've experienced some life. And
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  Speaker 2: so they know how to deal with things and they're
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: a lot more secure about themselves when they're handling these things.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: So they got to build up their self-esteem again. They
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  Speaker 2: got to get some things out of the system before
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  Speaker 2: they figure out what the next chapter in life is
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  Speaker 2: going to be.
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  Speaker 1: And you're that guy. Guy just texted me, I guess over.
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  Speaker 2: The last couple of months, he said he's ran into
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  Speaker 2: a couple of divorced women.
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  Speaker 1: And for some reason, well, I know the reason why.
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  Speaker 2: He thinks they're trying to lock him down because they
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  Speaker 2: want to have sex all the time, because they want
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  Speaker 2: to hang out and party all the time. He thinks
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  Speaker 2: they're doing these things to try to trap him. Well,
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  Speaker 2: that was the question he was asking me, and they're not.
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  Speaker 2: They're not at all trying to trap you. They're just
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  Speaker 2: out having fun, reliving their life again because they've been
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  Speaker 2: stuck in this relationship for so long that they're out doing,
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  Speaker 2: just having fun again. You know, they're not trying to
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  Speaker 2: trap you. There's, you know, they're just trying to get
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  Speaker 2: back what they lost.
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  Speaker 1: R-D-4-2-5-4-7-7.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome, the lady that called was crazy. She said
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  Speaker 2: she can't get rid of those two guys.
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  Speaker 1: It might be the other way around.
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  Speaker 2: That's why these men got to be careful with some
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  Speaker 2: of these divorced ladies because I'll tell you what, you
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  Speaker 2: give it to them real good and they won't want
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  Speaker 2: to leave. They just might want to get attached. I
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  Speaker 2: am not sure what kind of divorced women you've dated.
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  Speaker 2: You might be dating women that are out there looking
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  Speaker 2: for stepdaddies, but no. All the divorced women that I
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  Speaker 2: know in Bakersfield, they out being hoes. They've been stuck
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  Speaker 2: in a 10-year relationship, 20-year relationship. They still look good.
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  Speaker 2: They stay in shape. Once they got dumped, they got
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  Speaker 2: back in shape. And now they out just hoeing and
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  Speaker 2: enjoying their life. But the difference is they're not dumb.
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  Speaker 2: They've been through some things. They got life experience. So
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  Speaker 2: they're allowing you guys to really do whatever you want
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  Speaker 2: because that's not what they're... They're not about locking you down.
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  Speaker 1: They're about out there and get.
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  Speaker 2: They're about being out there and getting theirs and just.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever it takes.
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  Speaker 2: So... I don't know where you're finding divorced women at,
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  Speaker 2: but obviously it's not where I see them.
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  Speaker 1: RD4254, 727, yo Rome.
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  Speaker 2: That's why they say you can't turn a hoe into
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: a housewife. No, that's not true at all. You can
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  Speaker 2: turn one into a housewife, but if you do her dirty,
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  Speaker 2: what do you think she's supposed to do? I can't
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  Speaker 2: remember the context in which this came up. I don't
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  Speaker 2: remember if it was this.
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  Speaker 1: It had to be last week sometime. Or maybe it
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  Speaker 1: was earlier this week. I don't remember.
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  Speaker 2: But the idea, and this idea that you can't turn,
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  Speaker 2: excuse me, you.
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  Speaker 1: Can't turn a hoe into a housewife. This is what
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  Speaker 1: men always say. Well, it's not true.
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  Speaker 2: And the idea, the definition of a hoe is, you
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  Speaker 2: guys have a wide range of ideas of what a
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  Speaker 2: hoe is and what's not.
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  Speaker 1: A hoe is a garden tool, to be honest with you.
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  Speaker 1: That's about all it is.
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  Speaker 2: But you guys will say this, and a lot of
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  Speaker 2: guys will say, well, you can't turn a hoe into
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  Speaker 2: a housewife when a woman does something that they don't
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  Speaker 2: agree with. And the problem is all these guys are wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not calling you a hoe.
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  Speaker 2: What I'm saying is the justification for a guy who
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  Speaker 2: wants a woman that he really is into and would
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  Speaker 2: like to make him his wife and she doesn't want
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  Speaker 2: to because he's not good enough of a man. So
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  Speaker 2: what does he do? He blames her. and calls her
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  Speaker 2: a hoe, where the terminology comes, or where the term comes,
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  Speaker 2: can't turn a hoe into.
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  Speaker 1: A housewife, right?
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  Speaker 2: It's guys who aren't good enough to get the women
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  Speaker 2: that they want, and instead of recognizing it's their fault,
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  Speaker 2: they blame her. Because I can honestly say this, 99%
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  Speaker 2: of the time, a person will change certain characteristics about
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  Speaker 2: them to be in a relationship if they really want it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying.
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  Speaker 2: Change their whole, you know, change their whole personality, although
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  Speaker 2: some will, but I'm just saying that if you are
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  Speaker 2: a good enough man, you can pretty much get a
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  Speaker 2: woman to.
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  Speaker 1: Settle down with you. It's that simple. It'll do the
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: same thing.
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  Speaker 2: A man will change for a woman, but a man
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  Speaker 2: will change for a woman faster than a woman will
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  Speaker 2: change for a man, I believe. I could be wrong
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  Speaker 2: about that one. It could be the same. But just
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  Speaker 2: the whole idea of men trying to justify the fact
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  Speaker 2: that they're not good enough men to change the woman
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  Speaker 2: that they want, or they can't get the woman that
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: they want, and so they call them a hoe, can't
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: take a hoe into a housewife. Well, Now, it has
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  Speaker 2: nothing to do with that. It has to do with
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: the fact that you weren't good enough to get her
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  Speaker 2: to change and want to be with you and.
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  Speaker 1: Settle down with you. That's all it is. I don't remember.
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  Speaker 2: Now, I wish I could remember where the context came.
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  Speaker 2: It might have been divorced women we might have been
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  Speaker 2: talking about. But if you're not a good... And then
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  Speaker 2: that's the other thing. So they may settle down with you,
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  Speaker 2: and then it doesn't work out. You get divorced. And
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  Speaker 2: now you're over here calling her a hoe again because
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  Speaker 2: she's out, you know, doing what single women do.
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  Speaker 1: And you're mad. Well, you couldn't keep her.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: That means, so not only, maybe you were good enough
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: of a man to get her to marry you, but
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: because you couldn't keep her, and now you're going to
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: run around saying, well, now, see, I told you, you
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: can't turn a hoe into a housewife because look what
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: happened to me. Well, take some accountability for yourself. If
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: you are a good enough person you are doing what
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: your partner wants, then yeah, they'll change for you.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: So just this idea is stupid. I don't remember.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I wish I could remember the context in which it
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: came up in conversation the other day, but then you
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: dudes got to get over yourself. You know, start taking
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: some accountability. This whole idea of turning a hoe into
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: a housewife, right? That's what I'm sure some guy came
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: up with that. saying to justify the fact that he
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: wasn't good enough to either get the woman of his
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: dreams that he wanted and or couldn't keep the woman
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: that he wanted because, well, he.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Just wasn't good enough. The bottom line is this, that.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: If you want somebody bad enough, you will do exactly
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: what it takes to get them. If they want you
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: bad enough, they will do exactly what it takes to
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: get you. That's just how it works. 99% of the time,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: that's how it works. So the idea that somebody will
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: not change for you to some extent, I'm not telling
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: you they got to change everything about them, although some
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: people will. I'm just saying that the idea that some
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: people won't change to be with you is stupid. Because
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: if you're a good enough man or a good enough woman,
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: they will. So this idea of hold a housewife It's
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: just a stupid justification for somebody who couldn't get it done,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: who wasn't good enough to handle it. R-D-4-2-5-4, 7-7, yo, Rome,
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: you're giving these women way too much credit.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: These women want to run them streets.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: They settle down for a little bit, but then they
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: want to be back out on the streets.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: That is... Welcome to Bakersfield. That's the end of it.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Welcome to Bakersfield. Yeah, no, that's not true. That's not.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, no, I mean, you're right, but.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Maybe 1%. But for the most part, if you are
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: a good enough man and the woman that you think
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: wants to run the streets, she will stop running the
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: streets for you if you're a good enough man to her.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: There's 100% true. This idea. Oh, yo, Rome. I'm Captain Save-A-Ho.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means. All I'm saying.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I wish I could remember what the context... Oh, I.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Think it was we were talking about a divorced woman.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: The guy was dating a divorced woman. And maybe she
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: was moving too fast for him and was trying to
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: lock him down. Maybe that's what... I can't remember now
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: what the context was. But they said, you can't turn
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: a hoe.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Into a housewife.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: And they being every man who lost the woman that
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: he wanted to marry because he wasn't a good enough
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: man to get her. I believe that's where that saying
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: came from. I don't believe it's real. Because I think
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: I think any one of you would attest who are
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: with a good man or a good woman or a
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: good relationship would attest that, yes, I would do some
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: things I never thought I'd do for him or her, right?
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Or for whoever your partner is because they treat you
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: so right. just human nature rd425477 hey good morning rome
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: uh men are known to be the biggest hoes you
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: can turn a hoe into a housewife but you can't
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: turn a hoe into a husband have a good day
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: i'm a guy by the way um no that's wrong
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: too you can't You can turn a.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: It just depends.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: When you meet that person that you believe you want
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: to be with, it changes your perspective on life.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: If you still are out running around here chasing, I mean,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: you got to play the percentages. About 99% of the time,
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: I'll give you 98% of the time, 99% of the time,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, there's going to be an outlier of people
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: who just can't settle down But for the most part,
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: like I said, 99% of the time, if you are
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: not settled down and changed to some extent, it's because
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: you haven't met the right person that you want to
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: do that for.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: That's all it means. It doesn't mean they're not out there.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that every guy's, what do you say,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: biggest men are the biggest hoes.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: A good man.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: The right woman can get a man, a player, to
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: settle down. Just like a good man can get a
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: woman out there who you consider a hoe to be
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: a housewife.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: You just haven't met the right person. That's all it is.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: This idea of hoeing to a housewife, I mean, it's
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: a very common term. A lot of guys will say it.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: A lot of you will say it because... You know,
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: you think these women are promiscuous. Usually what happens when...
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: It's usually.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Men that say it.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: And men say it after either they get divorced or
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: they can't... The woman that they want doesn't want them
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: in that capacity. And so they make it a justification
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: for themselves to go, well, you can't turn a hoe
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: into a housewife. Well, the bottom line was you just
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: weren't a good enough man. Because a good enough man...
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: And I believe 99% of women listening will say this
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: or will agree with me if they're really being honest
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: with themselves. If you are the right man for them,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: they will act accordingly. Let me put it to you
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Okay? All right, 8, 4, 2, 5, 4, 7, 7.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Hey, bro, I feel like every man in this world
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: thinks every girl is a hoe nowadays.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: They're not. They never were. I mean, they never were
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to begin with. That's the problem.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: You know how you get that stereotype because she don't
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: want you?
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: That's why. That's why men think that.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Is because the hottest chick that you want doesn't want you.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: And so you got to find, men just.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Got to find a justification to make themselves feel better
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: for the fact that, you know, they're not good enough.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: That's really where that term came from. Hey, good morning, Rome.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: Isn't that almost like saying bros before hoes? Just because
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: can't keep a girl. Just because homie can't keep a girl. Yeah,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: it's the exact same thing. All of these terms are justification.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: And you learn that because, well.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Bros before bros before bros before hoes. Well, okay.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Nobody's saying that except for the guy that can't get
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: a girl.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Growing up, there was a group of us growing up.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: There's about 10 of us that hung out all the time. Weekends, clubs, partying, right? Dude,
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: we would drop each other in a heartbeat for a girl.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: If nine of us met a girl at the club
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: and were leaving, that one dude had to find his
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: way home.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: And if he wasn't... Seriously. I have friends that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: We'd be out hanging out, and I'd be like, well,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: I couldn't hook up. I'll find a way in another town.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I'd be in another town. I'd be like, don't worry, guys.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I'll find a way home. Y'all go have fun.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: That's... The guy that can't get a girl made up
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: that term as well, made up that phrase as well. Okay.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: So they're not real. They're not real phrases.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: They're phrases that you use to justify your inability to
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: get something or to do something.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Rd425477.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: What else you got here? You sent me a picture.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: What did you send me a picture of? Oh, Seahawk
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Lou Simmons. See how glue sent me an AI photo
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: of me at his house, drinking a beat box.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: We'd eaten burnt carne asada. Uh, that is, that's funny, Lou.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe if you spend as much time on AI, uh,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: as you did trying to get a job.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Lou, you'd be better off. Oh, you have a cheese fan.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I'm a hoe to my wife.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Sometimes that's another thing you guys don't understand. Your spouse
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: will do whatever you want them to if you treat
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: them right. That's another thing you guys have not figured out. Well,
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: some of you figured it out.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Hey, what up, Rome?
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: You can turn a hoe into a housewife, but a
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: housewife can definitely turn into a hoe.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Just like my ex-wife. Listen to how he finished that statement, though.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: His ex-wife.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? So there's some bitterness there.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: There's some bitterness in that conversation, in that context of
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: what you just texted me. I bet if you treated
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: her right, she wouldn't have been turned into a hoe,
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: as you said it.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: But that's the other thing.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: The definition of a hoe is, there's no standard definition.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: All of you have a different idea.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: The only standard definition for a hoe is a garden tool.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Good morning, y'all.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: What's up, Ron? It's Seahawk Lewis. What's wrong with you, Lou?
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: That was not me.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, it wasn't? Have you seen it?
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: No, I haven't. That's why I'm like, what the heck?
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Where is it?
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to have to find it again.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Hold on.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Let me find it again.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: That's hilarious.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: I'll put it up. I'll find it again, and I'll
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: put it up so you can see it. Hey, but what.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: We can do is make those AI into reality. Oh, here, Rome.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: That what's what? What? What's up with this picture? Oh,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: that wasn't you?
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: No, that wasn't me.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Let me see.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: It's pretty damn funny because it's the picture from the website.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know where he got a picture of you
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: with a beatbox shirt on. I haven't.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Thank you. But we can make those dreams into reality if.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: You just come by and take a real picture. Oh,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: my gosh. I'll have to.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: I'm Mike Rubin.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Lou, I am not coming to your boarded up carport.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I'll send it to you, Lou.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Text me real quick.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I'll send it to you. All right.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Get out of here.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I lost you. I glued did that photo. That's hilarious. Um,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: where are we at? Hey, come on, bro. Hoes make
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: the world go round. We need them. You guys are idiots.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Um, Well, somebody tell me the definition. That's the problem
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: is you don't have a definition. One of you will
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: call a woman that because of the way she dresses.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: One of you will call a woman that because of
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: the amount of men she has or hasn't slept with.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: One of you will call him that because she won't
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: go out with you. One of them will call you
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: that because, you know, everybody's got a different definition of
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: what it is.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: So how can it be real? How could that be
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: a real definition?
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: A real term if you don't even have a standardized
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: definition of what it really is.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: All right, 8-4-2-5-4, 7-7, let's see here. Hey, yo, Rome,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: this is Siak Lu. Send me that photo. Okay, I'll
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: try to figure out how to send you that photo, Lu.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Why don't you send me here?
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: Rome, talk about your personal life slash traumas. That'll get
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: you more listeners. It'll take you from number three to
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: number one.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. I'll let you handle the show from now on,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: and then I guess I'll go to the top, right?
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. What's going on?
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Romeo.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I have a question.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Sure.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: What's up?
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Can I have some tickets for the.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: Fritarera?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: The who?
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: The Spanish concert for my wife because it's her birthday tomorrow,
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: and I don't got nothing to give her. I'm broke, man.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: You guys always want me to subsidize your financial instabilities.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: You guys are always trying to get me.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: To subsidize a birthday, an anniversary, something.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: What do I get out of it? You're the guy
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: for it.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: I listen to you all the time.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: I'm going to give you these tickets.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: You're going to go get you some from your wife,
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: and I'm just going to be sitting there going, I
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: don't get a thank you, no nothing, huh?
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: No, man, you get a thank you.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I'll give you a hug when I see you.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: You're going to be the hero in your household, thanks
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: to me. And I'm just going to, I'm supposed to
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: subsidize everybody's relationships.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, Romeo, come on. Yeah, you can have some. Hold on,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: what's your name? Yachty.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Yachty, yachty, yachty, yachty.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Yachty. All right, 842-547-7. Hey, what's up, Rome?
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know what's more annoying, your Raiders songs or
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: that David Valadao ad.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Have a good one. Oh, that's hilarious. What is it?
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: People use it informally or casually. Hey, oh, okay.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome.