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404 Testimonio de José Ordóñez y su esposa. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number four hundred and four. We started on the previous podcast by telling
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  you our marriage testimony. Like Jasmith and I, being very young, we
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  tried to start a married life. In today' s podcast you' ll
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  find a lot of description of what she and I were like as people.
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  Time will not be enough for us, so in the next podcast we will
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  have to continue to describe those two personalities who joined those two worlds and how
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  the chaos of problems began gradually to appear. We have decided to tell this
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  little testimony because we know, if we understand, that you may identify with
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  some things and suddenly find light in the midst of all the conflicts that we
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  had at the beginning of our marriage. One thing before you start, remember
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  that you already have all the courses. On YouTube, look for José Ordognez
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  Cristiano and where he says to join that little button takes you straight to the
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  community and gives you the opportunity through a membership to see the courses, you
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  can have group counseling or individual counseling. Remember that very well on YouTube seeks
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  out José Ordonez Cristiano. Now, take it easy, because this second part
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  of our little testimony is coming. Welcome. Jazzmith says this is what I
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  was taught in the house. And I say this is what I was taught
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  at home. Because in marriage matters one cannot ignore the fact that we were
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  affected in the way our parents saw. But we are affecting our children in
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  the way we really live all the time. That' s the most tremendous
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  thing we' re going to affect our children because of all the influence we
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  bring. Look. We also want to show you what our marriage was like.
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  Okay, I was just waiting for a picture because they said hand-
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  in- hand to me about the marriage photo. There it is, there
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  it is. How do I look, how do I look? I'
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  m deeply pregnant. I say deeply in love, in love, in love.
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  I got married, very much in love. And if I get married.
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  Pregnant with five months of pregnancy, very excited, very in love,
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  with so many longings, with so many dreams, with so many illusions of
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  power, consist in destroying that beautiful home, of being able to build that
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  which I did not have and which I never had in the mirrors of my
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  childhood. So that was a nice longing. In fact, it was a
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  dream that God put in my heart when I was twelve years old and when
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  I married him, then I felt it was going to be the fulfillment of
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  all these beautiful dreams and longings. I felt that Joseph was the person who
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  was going to give me complete happiness, that happiness that I was looking for,
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  and I felt that it was in him that I was going to find
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  happiness. When we get married, we think that' s the way it
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  is. We think our husband, our wife, is going to be happy
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  all the time. But when we come to Christ we realize that true happiness
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  and true full happiness are found only in him. Only in him did I
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  marry something in love with Jasmith a bit concerned, rather than in great ped,
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  thinking of those five months of pregnancy and that from that moment on,
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  at that altar they gave me the lives of two people, the life of
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  my wife and the life of my daughter. I didn' t know how
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  to be a husband. The reference I had to how the husbands behaved had
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  given my father from afar, I had seen how my uncles lived. I
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  had references to the bad work as a husband that my grandfather did then in
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  order to be a husband, I thought and believed that what my father had
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  educated me with his example was enough. I thought marriage was about you having
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  to live as happy as you could with a person that men had in our
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  own right to commit infidelity, because men are from the street. It'
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  s natural, the more dogs, the more man can prove himself in the
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  background. I hated that version of my dad, although I believed that,
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  like the other men in society, it had to be accepted and emulated to
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  be copied. I also hated the version of father I had because he abandoned
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  us when we were sixteen, when I was sixteen, and he abandoned my
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  sisters even when they were little. The day my dad divorced my mom,
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  he divorced his kids as well. I didn' t want to be a
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  husband like my dad and I didn' t want to be a dad like
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  my dad. On the other hand, if I continued with the naivety and
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  illusion of feeling that my espo, the Well, was going to make that
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  prince blue, that he would rescue me from the castle and that he would
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  kill the dragon and that he would take me to live in the castle.
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  Happy. Forever that dream I had in my heart of love. Jasmith dreamed
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  that I was her knight who was riding on a white wingman, was going
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  to rescue her from that dragon and take her to live in my palace.
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  But I didn' t have a white horse. I used to ride in
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  transpede costa when I had palbus, because sometimes it touched me and the driver
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  told me to get in the back. I did not have, for example,
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  a palace to take her to live in, because I was raised under
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  the viaduct. Garcia chain and there under the viaduct, because in the neighborhood
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  San Pedro it was my childhood and my burning adolescence. Then I didn'
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  t have much chance to give him a palace. And besides, if she
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  thought I was going to kill her little dragon, that one was crazy,
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  because I was afraid of cockroaches, then I couldn' t make all that
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  figure she was asking for. My prince blue started to fade. Little by
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  little. Little by little, because that blue prince I dreamed of began to
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  reveal what really were the faults I had and all his bad habits and his
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  bad things began to shine. And that did get good. Azulito, Azulito,
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  Azulito, when I was exploding from the temper temper, bad temper,
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  super jinxed, i e, when I was in a bad temper that I
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  didn' t want to talk to anyone, he would leave or just stop
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  eating. He could not eat one day or another day and he punished his
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  body. He just didn' t eat, because he was a very bad
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  man. He began to show all those defects, all those things that we
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  have inside the heart and he didn' t eat, because the truth is
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  that we didn' t have much to eat either, but the little we
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  had didn' t eat. He was skinny, skinny, skinny, he
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  was so skinny. Look, I' m gonna tell you an anecdote.
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  He loves it when I count it. I don' t like to tell
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  it a lot, but I' m gonna do it. It' s
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  true. When I married him and saw him for the first time in Pantaloneta,
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  I got scared. I got scared because I thought he had a bad
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  knee formation. I was terrified, but they kept looking at his knees and
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  they were big. And I was saying something that' s normal, that
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  is, that has something different. Later I realized because he started taking meat
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  and not that he had bad knees, that he was very skinny. The
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  legs were very, very, very thin. Honey, you' re cute
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  now, thank you, you' ve already taken her. Yeah, I
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  don' t see him anymore, or I seemed to be standing in the
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  veins at the time. The princess I knew was a poor, very poor
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  princess. He sold tamales in the market square standing on the hill his mother
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  for many years, after she became a widow, raised all her children touring
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  the stalls, the different market stalls and something and provided him with some shops.
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  The tamales I can pass through the square of slope standing and its corridors,
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  because I say so here stood my doll, along with his mother,
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  to offer and sell the tamales. I met her in a house in the
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  Fourth of Pucaramanga standing up on the slope and there in the room there was
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  an old bed, a small poltrona, a hook with three dresses and the
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  greatest of its riches some cortical makeup and what the ladies have at that age
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  and their greatest wealth were their high school notebooks. She was naive. I
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  used to take advantage of his naivety. She had a malformation about what marriage
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  is, because around her, in all her families they looked like all those
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  who had marital conflicts, ended up solving them in a fateful way, taking
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  poison or practicing witchcraft. Marriages went and looked for waterings, baths, kills,
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  sorcerers, charms, rune statements, all that matter so that they could
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  solve marriage problems and yasmir. She was so naive that she looked at me
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  and said to herself he' s not, he' s different. He
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  ' s my Prince Charming, my Prince Charming who loved solitude. He loved
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  to be, he could only be locked up in the fourth week and he
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  didn' t care. It was difficult for me, because it was difficult
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  to also enter your world, to enter your thinking. What was this man
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  thinking, a creative man who either created, did things and loved loneliness.
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  I think he experienced a trauma when he was a child he suffered parental abandonment,
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  so from a very young age he had to fight in life completely alone
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  and loved to be alone. In fact, currently it still costs you,
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  It costs you to answer phone, it costs you social meetings. I have
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  to insist on my love Let' s look at an invitation. He'
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  s having a hard time. It' s something he fights with. He
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  doesn' t like meetings. He doesn' t like invitations, he doesn
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  ' t like parties. People would think it' s different, that they
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  love everything, everything, this whole world of fun, but it' s
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  introverted. He' s introverted and prefers to be completely alone. In the
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  Christian community of José Ordoñez Saint YouTube you can find the course on infidelity.
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  What exactly does it have to do with our marriage? How we were divorced
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  for some time because of my continuing infidelities, and what happened. How we
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  manage to heal the heart, restore our marriage, our family, our home,
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  we will show what infidelity means, what God thinks of it, how
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  you can solve it, how long you will last in healing how to prevent
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  it. Anyway, go right now to YouTube José Ordoñez Cristiano and there on
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  the button join. You will begin to be a part of this whole Community
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  today. For now, I want you to have a nice day to take
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  care of your marriage quickly and have a chance to defend it, take care
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  of it and keep it. How a beautiful treasure God has set for you
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  God bless you