Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Immutable Decree and the Bitter Harvest: Sovereign Grace Amidst the Ruins of Pragmatic Deception (Genesis 27:30–46)
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- 0:00Welcome to reformed thinking. Yes, welcome.
- 0:03We are taking a massive deep dive today into a text of
- 0:06scripture that completely shatters our natural, fleshly
- 0:11assumptions about how God operates in the world.
- 0:13We are setting our sights on Genesis chapter 27.
- 0:16Specifically, we'll be looking at verses 30 through 46.
- 0:20And to frame this scene for you, the listener, you really need to
- 0:24picture the agonizing tension in the tent of the patriarch Isaac.
- 0:28Right. Jacob is just stolen the
- 0:30patriarchal blessing through this elaborate, deceitful scheme
- 0:33involving his mother Rebecca. Jacob slips out of his father's
- 0:36presence. The smell of the goat is still
- 0:39lingering in the air. The savory meat was just
- 0:41consumed. The flap of the tent falls
- 0:43behind him and at that very moment his older brother Esau
- 0:46walks in. The trap door opens on a
- 0:47fractured Covenant home. Our sources for this deep dive
- 0:51today are two robust theological expositions.
- 0:53They're focused entirely on sovereign grace, pragmatic
- 0:56deception, and God's Providence. Our mission today is to uncover
- 1:00the intense collision between the scheming of human flesh and
- 1:04the immutable decrees of God. Before we really get into the
- 1:07narrative, we need to establish a firm theological baseline
- 1:11right at the out. Yes, because this text is not a
- 1:14moralistic fable about why lying is bad.
- 1:17It's an immense theological window into total depravity,
- 1:21unconditional election, and the Westminster Confession's
- 1:24teachings on God's eternal decree.
- 1:27You are not meant to read this narrative and walk away with a
- 1:29simple moral lesson for your daily life.
- 1:31No, you are meant to read this narrative and fall on your face
- 1:34before the sovereign God of the universe.
- 1:36The Holy Spirit has painted a scene of excruciating dramatic
- 1:40irony here. We have Jacob fleeing the scene
- 1:43of his crime. His heart is pounding in his
- 1:45chest. And then Esau arrives with his
- 1:48haunted venison, completely unaware that his entire future
- 1:51has just been giving to the brother he despises.
- 1:53So Esau walks into that tent. He's arrogant in his
- 1:57presumption. He operates under the delusion
- 1:59that earthly appetites and fleshly hunting skills can
- 2:01secure heavenly promises. He announces himself with
- 2:04complete confidence. He's expecting to receive the
- 2:06dominion and the provision that was promised to his grandfather
- 2:09Abraham and his father Isaac. He says, Let my father arise and
- 2:14eat of his son's game, that you may bless me.
- 2:17He thinks the blessing is a transaction.
- 2:19Absolutely. He thinks he can buy the
- 2:21spiritual inheritance of the world with a well cooked meal.
- 2:24But what happens next is the shattering of human autonomy.
- 2:28Isaac asks who are you and. When Esau answers, Isaac
- 2:33realizes in a flash of divine illumination that he'd believed
- 2:37a lie of his own making for decades.
- 2:40We have to look at the history here to understand the gravity
- 2:43of Isaac's realization, right? Isaac believed he could override
- 2:47the divine decree spoken to his wife Rebecca years prior.
- 2:50When the twins were struggling in Rebecca's womb, she inquired
- 2:53of the Lord, and God gave her a direct, infallible prophecy.
- 2:57God said that two nations were in her womb, 2 peoples would be
- 3:00divided, 1 would be stronger than the other, and the older
- 3:02shall be subjected to the younger.
- 3:04Isaac heard that divine revelation.
- 3:06He knew the word of the Lord. Yet he spent his entire life
- 3:09trying to subvert it. He thought his patriarchal
- 3:12authority, his status as the miraculous son of promise, could
- 3:15dictate heavenly realities. He loved the taste of Esau's
- 3:19wild game more than he loved the revealed will of God.
- 3:23Tried to give the covenant promise to the reprobate Son.
- 3:26So when Esau speaks, Isaac does not simply startle like an old
- 3:30man waking from an afternoon nap.
- 3:32No, the reaction is catastrophic.
- 3:34We must look closely at verse 33.
- 3:37The Hebrew text does something fascinating here grammatically.
- 3:39It uses what scholars call a cognate accusative.
- 3:43The phrase is wayyarad yarda gojula ad mage.
- 3:48I know that is a mouthful, but literally translated it means
- 3:51Isaac trembled, a great trembling unto muchness.
- 3:55This grammatical structure creates massive, heavy focus.
- 3:59This is not a mild surprise. This is a physiological
- 4:01collapse. The theology of this trembling
- 4:03is staggering when you consider what is actually happening in
- 4:07Isaac's mind at that precise moment.
- 4:09It is the visceral, bone rattling horror of a creature
- 4:13who realizes he has been actively warring against the
- 4:16creator. And he has been caught.
- 4:18Isaac is suddenly aware that the sovereign God has completely
- 4:21outmanex He is. Caught in the snare of God's
- 4:24Providence. For years, he plotted in secret
- 4:27to bless Esau. He told Esau to go hunt in
- 4:30secret. He thought he could outsmart the
- 4:32Almighty. But sitting on that bed, feeling
- 4:35the weight of the realization, the fear of the Lord falls on
- 4:39him like an anvil. He recognizes that God's decree
- 4:41cannot be broken by human preference.
- 4:44The trembling is the shockwave of a man whose functional
- 4:47atheism has just collided with the living God.
- 4:50We must contrast this heavily with the false doctrine of
- 4:53Arminianism. The Armenian framework suggests
- 4:55that God simply looks down the corridors of time, foresees
- 4:58human actions and passively adjusts his plans accordingly.
- 5:02That is a blasphemous view of the Almighty.
- 5:04God does not look down the corridors of time to learn
- 5:06anything. God.
- 5:08He used the sinful, pragmatic deception of Jacob to accomplish
- 5:12his holy will. God did not sit in heaven
- 5:14wringing his hands, hoping Isaac would bless the right son.
- 5:17God actively governed the entire situation.
- 5:20He ordained the end, which was Jacob receiving the blessing,
- 5:24and he ordained the means which included the sinful deception.
- 5:27This ties directly to the Westminster Confession of Faith,
- 5:30chapter 3 concerning God's eternal decree.
- 5:34The confession states that God from all eternity did, by the
- 5:37most wise and holy counsel of His own will, freely and
- 5:41unchangeably ordain whatsoever comes to pass.
- 5:44Furthermore, it brings us to Chapter 5 concerning Providence.
- 5:47God in His ordinary Providence makes use of means, yet is free
- 5:51to work without, above and against them at His.
- 5:54Pleasure God utilized the deceitful means of Rebecca and
- 5:58Jacob to fulfill His unconditional election.
- 6:00He did not force them to sin. They sin willingly out of their
- 6:03own corrupt desires. Yet God's sovereign hand guided
- 6:07those sinful choices to perfectly execute the decree He
- 6:10made before the foundation of the world.
- 6:12I want you, the listener, to compare Isaac's blindness in
- 6:15that tent to the modern believer stumbling in the dark.
- 6:19How often are you confident in your own fleshly pragmatism?
- 6:21Utterly unaware that you are on a direct collision course with
- 6:25the Almighty. You scheme, you plan, you
- 6:27manipulate your circumstances to get what you want, ignoring the
- 6:30clear instruction of scripture. And then the trap door opens.
- 6:33You think you can build your life, your family, or your
- 6:36career on a basis of your own making, completely bypassing the
- 6:40will of God. You prioritize your appetites
- 6:43over obedience, just like Isaac prioritized the wild game.
- 6:46And when God finally exposes your rebellion, the trembling
- 6:50will come. We see Isaac a true believer, a
- 6:53patriarch of the faith who had functionally become an atheist
- 6:56in his methodology. He tried to force God's hand.
- 6:59But look at Isaac's sudden submission to the decree in the
- 7:03second-half of verse 33. He says of Jacob, Yes, and he
- 7:06shall be blessed. Notice what he does not do.
- 7:09He does not try to take the blessing back.
- 7:11He does not ask God for a do over.
- 7:13He does not tell Esau. Hold on, let me curse Jacob and
- 7:16fix this. The trembling brings him to a
- 7:18place of total theological submission.
- 7:21He recognizes the eternal decree, and he bows to it.
- 7:24He realizes that the blessing was not his to give in the 1st
- 7:27place. It belonged to God, and God gave
- 7:30it to whom he chose. That submission marks a massive
- 7:33shift in Isaac's heart. He finally stops fighting.
- 7:36But Esau has the absolute opposite reaction.
- 7:39When Esau hears his father's definitive statement that the
- 7:42blessing firmly belongs to Jacob, he lets out an agonizing
- 7:46shriek. The Hebrew word here in verse 34
- 7:48is sock. It is the visceral cry of a
- 7:52condemned man. It is a loud, bitter, piercing
- 7:55scream. He pleads for a blessing, asking
- 7:57his father Bless me, even me also.
- 8:00Oh, my father. But Isaac cannot manufacture a
- 8:03covenant blessing out of thin air.
- 8:04Isaac delivers a hard Oracle instead.
- 8:07He tells Esau that his life will be marked by the sword, by
- 8:10struggle, by dwelling away from the fatness of the earth, and by
- 8:14subjugation to his brother. Esau's tears in this moment
- 8:16require intense theological scrutiny.
- 8:19We cannot interpret these tears emotionally.
- 8:21We must interpret them biblically.
- 8:23It is very easy to read this narrative and feel a sense of
- 8:26human sympathy for Esau. He looks like a victim.
- 8:28He looks like a man who has been cheated out of his rightful
- 8:31inheritance by a manipulative brother and a conniving mother.
- 8:35But the Holy Spirit does not allow us to view Esau as a
- 8:38victim. We use Hebrews chapter 12, verse
- 8:4017 as our infallible divine commentary on this passage.
- 8:44The writer of Hebrews tells us that afterward, when Esau
- 8:46desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, where he found
- 8:50no chance to repent, though he sought it with tears.
- 8:53That distinction requires us to separate worldly sorrow from
- 8:57godly grief. Worldly sorrow is grief over
- 9:01losing an earthly advantage. Godly grief is sorrow over
- 9:05offending a holy God. Esau is crying because his
- 9:08wallet has been stolen, essentially.
- 9:10He is crying because he lost the cattle, the servants, the
- 9:13prestige and the dominion. He.
- 9:15Is not crying because he has grieved the God of his Father's.
- 9:18He is not mourning his own sinfulness.
- 9:20He is mourning his loss of capital.
- 9:22Esau is the absolute archetype of the reprobate mind.
- 9:25He desires the crown, but he refuses the cross.
- 9:28He wants the blessing, the wealth, the dominion and the
- 9:31prestige, but he completely despises the God of the
- 9:34blessing. You see the sheer entitlement of
- 9:36the unregenerate heart on full display here.
- 9:38He screams in agony, but there is 0 confession of sin.
- 9:42Let us examine verse 36 to expose the reality of total
- 9:45depravity. Esau says.
- 9:48Is he not rightly named Jacob? For he has supplanted me these
- 9:51two times. He took away my birthright, and
- 9:54behold, now He has taken away my blessing.
- 9:57Do you hear the blame shifting? He blames Jacob entirely.
- 10:00He paints himself as the innocent bystander who keeps
- 10:04getting mugged by his brother. He takes absolutely zero
- 10:07responsibility for his own carnal appetite.
- 10:10He conveniently forgets the history of his own profane
- 10:12actions. Years earlier, in Genesis 25, he
- 10:15willfully and profanely sold his birthright right for a bowl of
- 10:18red Stew. He was hungry after a hunting
- 10:21trip, and he traded his covenant inheritance, the promise given
- 10:25to Abraham, for immediate fleshly gratification.
- 10:28He despised his birthright. And now he has the audacity to
- 10:31stand in the tent and say he took away my birthright.
- 10:34No, Esau, you sold it. You despised.
- 10:36It total depravity means that every part of man is corrupted
- 10:39by sin, including the mind and the will, leading a man to
- 10:42justify his own wickedness while blaming everyone else.
- 10:45We must critique the modern therapeutic mindset that has
- 10:48completely invaded the church today.
- 10:50The prosperity gospel and seeker sensitive church movements look
- 10:53at Esau's loud tears and they demand that God comfort him.
- 10:57They mistake emotional breakdowns for spiritual
- 11:00renewal. They see someone crying at the
- 11:02altar, weeping heavily, and they assume a great work of the Holy
- 11:06Spirit has occurred. They completely ignore the
- 11:09reality that the person might just be crying because their sin
- 11:11finally caught up to them. They lost their job, their
- 11:14marriage failed, or their public reputation was destroyed.
- 11:17They are crying over the consequences, not the offense
- 11:20against God. I ask you directly listener,
- 11:23when you are caught in sin, how do you react?
- 11:26Do you point the finger at your circumstances?
- 11:29Do you blame your spouse, your boss, or your upbringing?
- 11:32Do you say, well, if my brother had not done this, I would not
- 11:35have reacted this way? Or do you beat your breast like
- 11:37the tax collector in the temple, refuse to even look up to heaven
- 11:40and ask for mercy from a holy God?
- 11:42True repentance takes full ownership of the offense against
- 11:45God. True repentance says against
- 11:47you, and you only have I sinned. Esau had none of that.
- 11:52His sorrow was entirely self-centered.
- 11:55And because his sorrow was worldly, it rapidly curdled in
- 11:59something far more sinister. This brings the narrative into
- 12:02the tragedy of pragmatic deception found in verses 41
- 12:05through 40. 6 The text reveals that Esau's worldly grief
- 12:09transforms into calculated hatred.
- 12:12He makes a firm cold blooded resolution to commit fratricide.
- 12:16He says in his heart the days of mourning for my father are
- 12:19approaching. Then I will kill my brother
- 12:21Jacob. He views the impending death of
- 12:24his father not with grief, but as a convenient starting gun for
- 12:28murder. He is just waiting for the old
- 12:30man to die so he can take his revenge without upsetting his
- 12:33father. Notice the terrifying
- 12:35progression of unrepentant sin. It starts with an appetite for
- 12:38Stu. It moves to a rejection of the
- 12:40covenant. It turns into worldly sorrow and
- 12:43bitter crying over lost earthly wealth.
- 12:45And it finally hardens into a premeditated plan for murder.
- 12:48Meanwhile, Rebecca discovers this murderous plot.
- 12:51What does she do? She leans into her pragmatism
- 12:53yet again. She cannot trust God to protect
- 12:55the Son of promise, so she has to engineer another scheme.
- 12:58She sends Jacob away to her brother Lebon and her on.
- 13:02She tells Jacob to stay there for a few days until his
- 13:05brother's fury turns away. A few days.
- 13:08Her pragmatic calculation results in an exile that turns
- 13:11into 20 grueling years. We must completely expose the
- 13:15justify the Means philosophy that governs so much of human
- 13:18behavior, even within the visible Church.
- 13:21Rebecca and Jacob chased a promised end, the covenant
- 13:25blessing which God had already guaranteed through sinful
- 13:28manipulation. They achieved their goal, but
- 13:30the result was not peace. The result was panic, fear and a
- 13:34thoroughly fractured home. Sin violently dismembers
- 13:37households. Isaac's private preference for
- 13:40his carnal son Esau became public ruin.
- 13:42Rebecca's cleverness cost her the son she loved most.
- 13:46The biblical text indicates she never saw Jacob again before her
- 13:49death. That is a staggering truth that
- 13:51we must sit with. God's utilization of our sin
- 13:53does not grant us immunity from the temporal consequences of
- 13:56that sin. He chastises those he loves.
- 13:59God ordained that Jacob would get the blessing, and he used
- 14:02him. He used Rebecca's lie to
- 14:04accomplish it, but Rebecca still paid a massive price for her
- 14:08deceit. She died while her favorite son
- 14:10was in exile. Jacob spent 20 years being
- 14:13abused and cheated by his uncle Laban, a master deceiver who
- 14:17gave Jacob a taste of his own medicine, the.
- 14:20Rod of God's discipline is heavy.
- 14:22God does not excuse the guilt of this scheming just because He
- 14:26uses it for His sovereign purposes.
- 14:28We also need to connect Esau's violent hatred to the ancient,
- 14:32ongoing enmity between the seed of the serpent and the seed of
- 14:35the woman first prophesied in Genesis chapter 3.
- 14:38This isn't just a petty sibling rivalry over property rights.
- 14:42This is the cosmic war manifesting inside a patriarchal
- 14:45tent. Esau embodies the seed of the
- 14:47serpent, hostile to the chosen line of promise.
- 14:50He wants to murder the Covenant air just like Cain murdered
- 14:54Abel. The seed of the serpent is
- 14:55always trying to cut off the lineage that will eventually
- 14:58bring forth the Messiah. Esau's hatred is satanic in its
- 15:01origin and its goal. I want to challenge you, the
- 15:04listener, to look critically at your own life.
- 15:06Look at your business practices. Look at your parenting
- 15:09strategies. Look at your church growth
- 15:11tactics. If you or someone you know lies
- 15:13to get ahead, manipulates numbers on a spreadsheet, or
- 15:17twist the truth to achieve a supposedly good outcome, you are
- 15:21utilizing the profane pragmatism of this fractured family.
- 15:25You are operating like Rebecca. If a pastor waters down the
- 15:28gospel, avoids talking about sin and wrath, and orchestrates an
- 15:32emotional light show to increase attendance, thinking the ends
- 15:35justify the means because more people are in the building, he
- 15:39is operating in the exact same fleshly spirit.
- 15:41He is attempting to help God out through fleshly manipulation.
- 15:45He looks at the promise of God to build the church and he
- 15:48decides God needs some pragmatic assistance to get it done.
- 15:51The patriarchs are clearly broken and totally sinful.
- 15:54If salvation depends on their righteousness, their honesty, or
- 15:57their performance, humanity is entirely doomed.
- 16:00Look at the key players in this chapter.
- 16:02Isaac is rebellious and willfully blind.
- 16:04Rebecca is a steaming manipulator.
- 16:07Jacob is a deceiver. And a thief, Esau is a profane,
- 16:10murderous reprobate. There is no hero in this
- 16:12chapter. That realization forcefully
- 16:15pivots our discussion away from human effort and points us
- 16:18directly toward the true air. We cannot read this text and
- 16:22conclude that we need to try harder to be good people.
- 16:24The absolute moral failure of Isaac, Rebecca, Jacob and Esau
- 16:28demands that we look for salvation completely outside of
- 16:31ourselves. The narrative creates a holy
- 16:34dissatisfaction within us regarding the patriarchs.
- 16:37They are not moral exemplars for us to copy.
- 16:40We should not have youth group lessons teaching kids to dare to
- 16:43be a Jacob. The covenant line is upheld
- 16:45entirely by divine faithfulness, not human virtue.
- 16:49This text points with burning intensity to the absolute
- 16:52necessity of a righteous substitute.
- 16:54Let us draw out the Christological contrasts,
- 16:57beginning with Jacob and Christ. Jacob obtained the blessing
- 17:00through blatant deception. He walked into his father's
- 17:02presence wearing another man's garments, smelling like his
- 17:05brother, with goat skins on his hands and neck to hide his true
- 17:09identity. He lied to his father's face to
- 17:11steal a blessing he did not deserve based on his own merit.
- 17:15Contrast that with Jesus Christ. Christ secured the eternal
- 17:19blessing through perfect, flawless obedience to the
- 17:22Father. He did not wear false garments
- 17:24to trick the father. Instead, Christ willingly put on
- 17:28the filthy garments of our guilt.
- 17:30He took our sin upon himself. He stood before the Father on
- 17:33the cross, not sneaking in to steal a blessing, but boldly
- 17:37bearing the curse we deserved to give us a grace we could never
- 17:40earn. Jacob was a deceiver.
- 17:42Christ is the truth. Jacob stole the blessing.
- 17:45Christ purchased the blessing with his own blood and freely
- 17:48gave it to his enemies. Jacob hid his true nature.
- 17:51Christ fully revealed the nature of God while taking on human
- 17:54flesh. Now contrast Esau and Christ.
- 17:57Esau wept bitterly, screaming with a loud voice entirely over
- 18:01lost earthly privileges and material wealth.
- 18:04He cried because he lost the dew of heaven and the fatness of the
- 18:07earth. The true first born of all
- 18:08creation, Jesus Christ wept bloody sweat in the Garden of
- 18:11Gethsemane. Christ did not weep over lost
- 18:14earthly wealth. He wept over the sheer horror of
- 18:16bearing the Father's holy wrath to save rebels.
- 18:19Christ possessed all the riches of heaven, yet he impoverished
- 18:22himself for our sakes. He didn't weep for loss of
- 18:25privilege. He wept under the crushing
- 18:28weight of the cup of divine justice.
- 18:30Those contrasts are striking. We also must analyze the theme
- 18:34of exile present in this text. Jacob fled to Haran.
- 18:37Why did he flee? He fled to save his own skin
- 18:40from a brother he had wickedly wronged.
- 18:42He goes into exile because of his own sin to escape the
- 18:46consequences of his deception. But look at Christ.
- 18:48Christ fled to the cross, going outside the camp, entering the
- 18:53ultimate exile of being forsaken by the Father.
- 18:55My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?
- 18:58Christ went into exile, giving his life for brothers who had
- 19:00wronged him. He went into the dark to bring
- 19:02us into the light. Christ goes into exile because
- 19:04of our sin to bring us back into the presence of God.
- 19:07You cannot look at the patriarchs without seeing the
- 19:09brilliant light of the Gospel shining in the background.
- 19:12The darker the sin of the patriarchs, the brighter the
- 19:15grace of the promised Messiah appears.
- 19:17God preserves his covenant through a line of sinners to
- 19:21prove that salvation is of the Lord.
- 19:23The blessing comes to us not because we wrestled it away from
- 19:26God through cleverness, but because Christ earned it and
- 19:30freely bestows it upon the elect.
- 19:32I must state this plainly to you, the listener.
- 19:35The gospel is not a reward for spiritual schemers.
- 19:38We must fiercely repudiate moralism.
- 19:41The Bible is not instructing you to read Genesis 27 and learn to
- 19:44be clever. It is not teaching you how to
- 19:46outsmart your rivals in the corporate world or in the church
- 19:50to get God's blessing. It is teaching you that you are
- 19:52just as sinful as Jacob, just as blind and rebellious as Isaac,
- 19:56and just as prone to pragmatic as Rebecca.
- 19:59Therefore, you desperately need the perfect, active and passive
- 20:03righteousness of Jesus Christ imputed to your account.
- 20:06Having laid out the heavy theological weight of this
- 20:08passage and its glorious Christological fulfillment, we
- 20:12must bring these truths directly into your daily life.
- 20:15This is where theology hits the pavement.
- 20:17True reformed theology is never strictly academic.
- 20:20It must penetrate every faculty of the human person.
- 20:23We apply this to the head, the heart and the hands.
- 20:25We begin with the intellect, the head.
- 20:27You must establish your intellect in the firm truth of
- 20:30God's immutable decrees. The decrees of God cannot be
- 20:34thwarted by human hands. Therefore, you are instructed to
- 20:37reject functional atheism. What is functional atheism?
- 20:42It is when you profess with your mouth on Sunday that God is
- 20:45absolutely sovereign, but you live your life on Monday
- 20:48constantly trusting in a personal Plan B instead of the
- 20:52Providence of the living God. When a financial crisis hits or
- 20:56a medical diagnosis comes, do you immediately resort to
- 20:59manipulation, lying, or frantic fleshly effort to fix?
- 21:03It do you panic and try to seize control.
- 21:05If so, your actions declare that your mind believes God is not
- 21:09actually in control of this situation.
- 21:11Trusting in your own scheming is a direct rejection of His
- 21:14sovereignty. It is saying God, I know you
- 21:16govern the universe, but you seem to be mishandling my
- 21:18specific situation so I am going to take the wheel.
- 21:21You must train your mind to rest in the doctrine of Providence,
- 21:24knowing that the God who ordained the end has also
- 21:27ordained the means, and He will accomplish His purposes without
- 21:30any need for your sinful assistance.
- 21:32When you face an impossible situation, let your intellect
- 21:36rest on the reality that God is not surprised and His decree for
- 21:40your good and His glory stands firm.
- 21:43Moving from the head to the heart, this text demands A
- 21:46rigorous examination of your affections.
- 21:48We must address the idol of the God of the belly.
- 21:51Look at Esau. Esau lived for his belly.
- 21:54He lived for the immediate, tangible gratification of his
- 21:57flesh. Whether it was a bowl of red
- 21:59Stew to satisfy his hunger or the prestige of the patriarchal
- 22:03blessing to satisfy his ego, his affections were entirely bound
- 22:07to the dirt of this earth. You must force yourself to
- 22:10evaluate your own sorrow and your own desires.
- 22:13What? Makes you cry.
- 22:14What makes you angry? What do you mourn losing?
- 22:16When you are caught in a sin, or when you face the painful public
- 22:19consequences of your actions, examine your tears with brutal
- 22:23honesty. Is your sorrow attrition, which
- 22:25is hating the consequences of your sin?
- 22:27Are you just sad that you got caught?
- 22:28Sad that your reputation is damaged.
- 22:30Sad that you are facing financial ruin or church
- 22:32discipline. Or is your sorrow true
- 22:35contrition, which is hating the sin itself because it is an
- 22:38offense against a holy, righteous and loving God?
- 22:42Esau had attrition. He hated the consequence of
- 22:45losing the blessing. He had 0 contrition.
- 22:48He did not hate his profanity. Do not let your heart deceive
- 22:51you into thinking that crying over a lost earthly blessing is
- 22:54the same thing as repentance. True repentance breaks the heart
- 22:58over the sin itself. True repentance looks at the
- 23:00cross and mourns that our sins nailed the Savior there.
- 23:04Ask the Holy Spirit to give you a heart of flesh that breaks
- 23:07over what breaks the heart of God, rather than a heart that
- 23:10only cries when it loses its earthly toys?
- 23:12You need affections that are set on things above where Christ is
- 23:15seated, not on the fading blessings of this fallen world.
- 23:19Finally, we bring the application to the hands, the
- 23:22outward daily obedience of the Christian life.
- 23:25We must provide actionable instruction based on the utter
- 23:28failure of this family. For the parents listening to
- 23:30this deep dive right now, you must repent a favoritism.
- 23:33Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game.
- 23:36He loved the rugged, masculine hunter who tried him good food.
- 23:39Rebecca loved Jacob, the quiet man who stayed among the tents.
- 23:43Their home became a literal war zone of deception because the
- 23:47parents divided their affections based on fleshly preferences and
- 23:51personality traits. Look at the damage favoritism
- 23:53causes. It breeds resentment,
- 23:55competition and hatred among siblings.
- 23:58Furthermore, parents must stop playing the Holy Spirit in the
- 24:01lives of their children. Stop trying to engineer their
- 24:03spiritual outcomes through manipulation or coercion.
- 24:07You cannot force the Covenant blessing onto a child through
- 24:10sheer willpower, nor can you secure their future through
- 24:13deceit. You cannot steam them into the
- 24:15Kingdom of God. Trust the Lord with your
- 24:17children. Preach the gospel to them,
- 24:20discipline them biblically, but leave their justification to the
- 24:23sovereign God who elects and saves.
- 24:26For those of you harboring anger or holding onto a grudge against
- 24:29someone who has wronged you, you must put away the sort of
- 24:32vengeance and bitterness immediately.
- 24:34Look at Esau, he was wronged. Jacob did lie to him.
- 24:38Jacob did steal from him. But Esau's bitterness over being
- 24:41wronged festered in his dark heart until it became a
- 24:44concrete, premeditated plan for murder.
- 24:47Bitterness will rot your bones and destroy your soul.
- 24:50It will consume you entirely. Put away the sword before it
- 24:54turns to murderous intent. You are called to forgive as you
- 24:57have been forgiven in Christ. Vengeance belongs to the Lord.
- 25:01He will repay. When you hold on to bitterness,
- 25:04you're essentially saying that God's justice is not sufficient
- 25:07and you need to enact your own. I want to speak directly to the
- 25:11weary St. and the hardened center listening right now.
- 25:13To the Weary St. Stop striving to buy the
- 25:17blessing with your works, your perfect church attendance, your
- 25:20theological knowledge, or your tears.
- 25:22You already have the blessing in Christ Jesus.
- 25:25You are seated with Him in the heavenly places.
- 25:27Rest in his finished, perfect work.
- 25:29Stop acting like Jacob trying to scheme your way into God's
- 25:33favor. To the hardened Sinner,
- 25:34recognize the terrifying reality of God's immutable decree.
- 25:38Your rebellion will not succeed. Your pragmatism will.
- 25:41Collapse. You cannot outmaneuver the God
- 25:43who spoke the universe into existence.
- 25:45Turn to Christ before you find yourself crying out like Esau
- 25:47when it's too late, finding no place for repentance, though you
- 25:50seek it with tears. I must call to your memory that
- 25:53union with Christ alone empowers grateful obedience.
- 25:57We do not obey to get the blessing, we obey because we are
- 26:00already blessed in the heavenly places.
- 26:03Obedience is the fruit of salvation, not the root.
- 26:06As we move to wrap up our deep dive today, let us summarize the
- 26:10intense collision we have discussed.
- 26:12Human deception reaps vast, devastating destruction within
- 26:15families, churches and societies.
- 26:18Pragmatism leaves a massive Trail of Tears, fractured homes
- 26:21and broken relationships. Isaac, Rebecca, Jacob and Esaw
- 26:25left their family in absolute ruins.
- 26:27Yet above the ruins of our failures, God's sovereign grace
- 26:30stands as an unshakeable monument.
- 26:32His eternal purposes regarding the promised seed, the Lord
- 26:36Jesus Christ, cannot be thwarted by human hands.
- 26:38That is the immense comfort of this passage.
- 26:41Despite the massive catastrophic failures of Isaac, Rebecca,
- 26:45Jacob and Esau, God preserved the line of promise.
- 26:48God is faithful even when every human involved is faithless.
- 26:52To strengthen your faith in these truths, look to the means
- 26:54of grace, specifically the Lord's Supper.
- 26:56The Sacraments of the visible Word given to the Church.
- 26:59When you come to the table, you see that the eternal blessing
- 27:02was not stolen by a deceiver, it was purchased by the precious
- 27:06blood of the Lamb. The bread and the wine testified
- 27:09that the covenant is secure not because of your fidelity, not
- 27:13because of your lack of pragmatism, but entirely because
- 27:16of Christ's perfect sacrifice on your behalf.
- 27:18Your inheritance is kept in heaven for you, shielded by
- 27:21God's own might, untouched by the corruption and scheming of
- 27:25this world. Before we close, I want to leave
- 27:28you with a final, lingering, provocative thought to ponder on
- 27:32your own. We have talked extensively about
- 27:34the failures of Isaac and his family and the destruction their
- 27:37scheming brought upon their household.
- 27:39I want you to look at the ruins of your own pragmatic failures.
- 27:42Those moments in your life where you tried to force an outcome.
- 27:45Think about the times you manipulated a situation, lied to
- 27:48protect yourself or scheme to get ahead, and it blew up in
- 27:52your face, leaving behind pain, broken trust and intense regret.
- 27:56Ask yourself this question. How might God be utilizing the
- 27:59very collapse of your clever schemes to bring about His
- 28:02perfect will completely apart from your control?
- 28:05How is He using your total failure to drive you to your
- 28:07knees, forcing you to abandon yourself reliance and cast
- 28:11yourself entirely upon His sovereign mercy?
- 28:14Thank you for joining us today on Reformed Thinking.
- 28:17We pray this deep dive into God's Holy Word has fortified
- 28:20your mind, crushed your pride, and humbled your heart before
- 28:22the King of Kings rest in the finished work of Christ, the
- 28:26true first born. Grace and peace to you all.