What If There Is No Villain?
I've spent a lot of my life looking for who was responsible.
Who hurt me. Who taught me wrong. Who led me somewhere I didn't want to go. Who made me feel like I wasn't enough.
But I'm done needing a villain.
Not because no one hurt me. Not because everything that happened was my fault. And not because I'm pretending the past didn't happen.
Because I don't need someone else to be guilty for me to choose differently.
I can keep explaining why I am the way I am.
I can keep pointing at the people who helped me get here.
Or I can look at my life and say:
This is mine now.
My choices. My patterns…
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