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397 cómo solucionar los problema económicos en el matrimonio 7 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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Podcastst number three hundred ninety- seven. Today we will finish this first sequence
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about how to have a healthy economy in marriage. Ja Smith will give you
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some verses that it is convenient to keep in mind to understand a little more
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about family economy according to the Bible and at the end of the podcast,
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I will end up making a summary of the key points to take into account
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to heal our economy. This was a lecture we had the opportunity to give
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in the city of Bucaramanga nine days after it began this twenty thousand twenty-
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four, Yasmith and I hope it was a welcome blessing. First chronicle,
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twenty- nine, nine, eleven, three says. Yours are, sir,
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greatness and power, glory, victory and majesty. Yours is all.
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As much as there is in heaven and on earth, so is your kingdom
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and you are above all. From you come wealth and honor. You rule,
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everything in your hands is strength and power, and it is you who
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magnify and strengthen everything. Therefore, God, our you, we give thanks
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and praise to your glorious name, because God is the absolute master of everything,
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of your finances, of your work and of your economy, of everything
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you have. And when, when we recognize that it is he, who
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is the owner, who simply pleases him to bless us through his grace,
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his love and his mercy, he provides us with the trust, peace,
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security and tranquility that we have a full God, he is mercy of grace
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and love that he will always supply, he will supply every need, in
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every home, in our children, in our family and always every morning,
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as we arise, we look up to heaven and say, Lord, thank
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you, because the whole provision comes from you We must always be grateful to
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God, to know that he is faithful and in all the faithfulness that he
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has towards us he supplies us in an overabundant manner. We always have more
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than we deserve ourselves. And it' s just because of his love and
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grace. We always ask God for the ability to manage the goods that come
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into our hands, to be good stewards, not to be filled with debts,
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not to be filled with so many material things, because sometimes we feel
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that material things are the ones that give us happiness, they are the ones
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that give us as joy. And that' s just cultural. Material things
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cannot give us the true peace, happiness and joy that God gives us,
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that gives us relationships, that gives us to get up and that is to
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see our children, our families, our husbands and we meet together. That
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is the true wealth we have and the true blessing. Material things are fleeting.
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That is why God tells us through His word that we should not go
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after material things, that there is something much greater than that, that the
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Kingdom of God and His righteousness is above all that, and that he will
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supply and cover every need. When we are aware of that and have a
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grateful heart to God. Then we truly have contentment and joy in our hearts
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to know that we are with him and want to always do things right.
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We ask God to teach us stewardship, my love and blessing through everything he
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does with us. We want Yasmith and I, as also pastors of this
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Church, to pray for your economy, for your marital economy, so that
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God will give you wisdom throughout the two thousand twenty- four. But before
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you do that, I invite you to do this introspection to your mind how
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you are financially, both in your personal finances and in your marital finances.
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How much in these nine long days of the year two thousand and twenty-
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four you have had economic discussions, how many, how many difficulties await you
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for the fatal decisions of December. What you bought the credits, what you
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didn' t pay for that year, twenty- three. God is willing
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to heal our economy. We must put it in order as it commands us,
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as you understand it, I, along with my wife, am the
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bearer of this preaching that God uses to send you a message. Do the
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following, dear house marriages on the rock, as soon as possible, as
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soon as possible. Sit down and talk to your husband and wife and look
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at the numbers as we teach in our economic course and in the Community.
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Sit down and make a budget, look at exactly what points you stand at
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in your home economy, what is your balance in red, your balance in
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black, what are your financial commitments, the things you have to pay for,
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the credits you are paying with too much interest, and all possible economics
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that may be putting you in trouble. Analyze them number two after analyzing them,
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convey them to your wife, Convey them to your husband number three,
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if you have made mistakes, or if your wife blames you for something of
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a procedure that you are doing wrong. Be humble enough to acknowledge that you
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have taken the economy of your marriage to that unfortunate state where you are.
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You know, God is a loving father. The moment you have the humility
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to admit that you' ve been wrong. You' re gonna see how
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God' s leftover miracles in your favor and what' s been holding back
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for a while probably up there in heaven. Seeing that your attitude in the
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heart changes, God begins to respond even though he does not deserve it.
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There are things that you and I, as parents, give to our children
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that they don' t deserve, but the attitude of their behavior makes us
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feel tender. If we, being evil, know how to give good things
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to our children, how much more, our Heavenly Father will be willing to
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give us everything we ask of him. So maybe some man has to tell
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her for the first time in your life, stop yelling and stop getting mad
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because they' re asking for the bills and organizing your financial life. Take
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it. I' m not very good at doing this. You want to
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help me And maybe it' s the opposite, that it' s the
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woman who spends too much money on wandering around on things that are unimportant and
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her husband has been after her for years. Stop spending so much on makeup,
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on the bag, on the shoes, stop being so disorganized financially.
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Give me the bills. Don' t spend so much money on this is
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a little more proactive that we can heal our finances. And the woman today
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needs to recognize that she needs help. We need a frank conversation between husbands.
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Let us tell ourselves the truth so that God will heal our economy.
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We do not deserve Jasmide and I, the place where God has us economically,
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do not deserve it. If it had been for all the decisions we
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have had, we would have been broken a long time ago, but God
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' s grace and mercy we understand it well, very well to say many
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times in prayer. We tell you, Mr Sana, our economy looks at
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the problems we' ve gotten ourselves into, please, always to solve all
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your economics. You only have a marriage made up of two who make one.
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God' s word says two are better than one. Bella has it
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there in the verse, you read it to me on my iPad. It
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' s better two than one. He' s in Ecclesiastes. Chapter number
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four nine twelve. Let' s get it over with. Better than two
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than one. Forgive love Bella ecclesiastes four nine to twelve. Ecclesias is four
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from nine to twelve. Write it down please, Clailo says better are two
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than one, because they get more fruit from their effort. If they fall,
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lift each other up. There' s the one who falls, and
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there' s no one to pick him up. If two sleep together,
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they' ll warm up. Just one how it' s going to warm
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up. Only one can be defeated, but two can resist. The three
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- wire rope doesn' t break easily. There are spouses who have to
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tell their husband and wife. Don' t leave me alone this two thousand
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twenty- four. Don' t leave me alone this two thousand twenty-
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four. With all the financial commitments we have, God' s word says
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that if one falls that one makes, the other falls on him. What
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the word of God says. Yeah, well, style, style, wrestling
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with his elbow falls on him. If one falls you do the other.
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You know how many times this woman picked me up when I made a mistake
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without wanting or wanting to. She' s about to wake me up and
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make me strong where I' m weak. Next time your spouse falls down
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and does bad things. Maybe you' re in a bad financial situation right
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now because of your husband. It' s time to forgive him, pick
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him up and tell him, grab his hand and tell him I' ll
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teach you, but let yourself help. Do not leave me alone in this
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two thousand twenty- four, because we will end this year with a healthy
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economy you will see love that in this year we will progress everything that we
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have not progressed before in economic matters, because we will do it. As
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God sends podcast number three hundred ninety- seven. There are three hundred and
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ninety- six more waiting for you in Joseph Ordonez Christian m deal with all
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the topics that have to do with a Christian family. The titles can guide
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you about the themes you can hear. Child education, sexuality, marriage,
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business engagements in the family, disputes with other members, with that extended family,
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your sister- in- law, your brothers- in- law,
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your uncles, what to do when parents finally age an endless number of issues
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that can help you lead a convenient Christian life. For now, Jasmith and
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I wish you always to have a healthy economy and if you ever lose the
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North and the right perspective, listen again to these podcasts of how to solve
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the economic problems in marriage that God bless you.