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- 0:40Speaker 1: In America, Indigenous women and girls are ten times more
- 0:44Speaker 1: likely to go missing than in any other race or
- 0:47Speaker 1: nationality living within the borders. But within that cold and
- 0:51Speaker 1: startling statistic hides one even more alarming for the community
- 0:56Speaker 1: it impacts. That stack comes straight out of Bighorn, Montana,
- 1:01Speaker 1: home to the Crow Nation, where Indigenous women face even
- 1:05Speaker 1: tougher odds than their peers across the country. Out of
- 1:08Speaker 1: the fourteen thousand Crow Nation members, around eleven are currently
- 1:13Speaker 1: missing now. As low as that number could seem on
- 1:16Speaker 1: the surface, the implications only continue to deepen the longer
- 1:21Speaker 1: you look at it. The only other county in Montana
- 1:24Speaker 1: that reaches that same number is Yellowstone, which has twelve
- 1:28Speaker 1: times the population and has ties to about twenty seven
- 1:31Speaker 1: different Indigenous tribes. And today's case shines a light onto
- 1:36Speaker 1: those shocking odds staffed against Indigenous women, and along the
- 1:40Speaker 1: course of its story, has left a family and a
- 1:43Speaker 1: community in ruin Selina. Shelley Fay not Afraid was born
- 1:49Speaker 1: not only as a part of her people's long history,
- 1:52Speaker 1: but part of a set She and her twin sister
- 1:55Speaker 1: Zoe wear the last and final addition to Jacquelina Big
- 1:59Speaker 1: Hair and Leroyd not Afraid's growing family, making them the
- 2:03Speaker 1: youngest of five siblings. And I know it sounds cliche
- 2:07Speaker 1: and it's overdone and over said, but the people that
- 2:11Speaker 1: knew Selena said that she was truly the kind of
- 2:13Speaker 1: person who could light up any room with just her smile.
- 2:17Speaker 1: She was warm and outgoing and made friends wherever she went.
- 2:21Speaker 1: Her love for life and the outdoors was contagious, and
- 2:24Speaker 1: she spread that love equally among the people she cared
- 2:27Speaker 1: about and the animals she adored. From her first horseback
- 2:31Speaker 1: ride when she was still only a small child, Selena
- 2:35Speaker 1: was hooked. By the age of sixteen, she was living
- 2:38Speaker 1: in the Crow Nation with big plans of owning a
- 2:40Speaker 1: farm and becoming an Indian relay writer. That was Selena.
- 2:45Speaker 1: She approached life just like she did her favorite sport.
- 2:48Speaker 1: No saddle, no stirrups, no protective gear, just pure, unfiltered enthusiasm,
- 2:55Speaker 1: and maybe in a lot of ways, she had more
- 2:57Speaker 1: reasons than most to dive in at first. By sixteen,
- 3:01Speaker 1: Selena had not only a clear vision for her life,
- 3:04Speaker 1: but she had also been through hardships and losses that
- 3:07Speaker 1: many of us might never experience, even in a whole lifetime.
- 3:12Speaker 1: It started with Selena's other half, her twin sister Zoe,
- 3:16Speaker 1: when the girls were only eleven years old. Zoe struggled
- 3:20Speaker 1: with her mental health so much that she ended up
- 3:23Speaker 1: taking her own life. This was a devastating loss for
- 3:27Speaker 1: the Not Afraid family, and tragically, it was only just
- 3:31Speaker 1: the first. About three years after Zoe died, older brother
- 3:35Speaker 1: Preston Bell was shot during a confrontation with the police.
- 3:39Speaker 1: He died as a result of his injuries at the
- 3:42Speaker 1: age of twenty four. That was five Not Afraid children
- 3:46Speaker 1: down to three, and there were still more to come
- 3:50Speaker 1: in quick succession. Older sister Tristan Gray was struck in
- 3:53Speaker 1: a hit and run. She died at the scene. Only
- 3:56Speaker 1: a few months after Preston was killed by the police.
- 3:59Speaker 1: Selina and her older brother r J were the only
- 4:02Speaker 1: surviving children left, But that almost unbelievably changed yet again
- 4:08Speaker 1: in twenty twenty. It was New Year's Eve twenty nineteen,
- 4:12Speaker 1: just before the Not Afraid families world would be flipped
- 4:15Speaker 1: upside down again. Sixteen year old Selena headed out for
- 4:19Speaker 1: a night of partying with friends and Billings, Montana. She
- 4:22Speaker 1: didn't sneak out or anything, She told her parents where
- 4:25Speaker 1: she was going, had a ride lined up and was
- 4:27Speaker 1: supposed to be back the next day. Selena and about
- 4:31Speaker 1: five friends ended up staying the night in Billings before
- 4:34Speaker 1: piling into a friend's van and heading back to the reservation.
- 4:38Speaker 1: So far, so good. It had been one heck of
- 4:40Speaker 1: a party, and like many teenagers do, Selena had managed
- 4:43Speaker 1: to get away with a little bit of underaged drinking.
- 4:47Speaker 1: The only thing left to do was to make it
- 4:49Speaker 1: home in one piece and call it a night, But
- 4:51Speaker 1: the van they were riding in ended up breaking down
- 4:54Speaker 1: along the way. The van driver pulled into a gas
- 4:57Speaker 1: station between Billings and Harden, letting everyone out out while
- 5:00Speaker 1: he checked what was up and if there was anything
- 5:03Speaker 1: he could quickly fix. He got the van running again,
- 5:06Speaker 1: but knew that it was only a matter of time
- 5:08Speaker 1: before it broke down again for good. And this is
- 5:11Speaker 1: where the stories start to differ. Some versions of the
- 5:15Speaker 1: story say that the driver simply explained the situation to
- 5:18Speaker 1: everyone and let them know that his mother was on
- 5:21Speaker 1: the way with her own car to come and pick
- 5:23Speaker 1: them up while he drove the rest of the way
- 5:25Speaker 1: in his temporarily fixed van. Some versions say that he
- 5:29Speaker 1: told everyone except Selena and her friend Arlena, who had
- 5:33Speaker 1: disappeared somewhere into the gas station. Regardless of which version
- 5:37Speaker 1: is true, the driver then got back into his vehicle
- 5:40Speaker 1: and took off towards the reservation, leaving Selena and Arlena behind.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Only about ten minutes after that, his mother showed up
- 5:48Speaker 1: to pick up the girls and could not find them anywhere.
- 5:53Speaker 1: Knowing that she was supposed to be picking up two
- 5:55Speaker 1: teenage girls who had no other way of getting home,
- 5:58Speaker 1: the van driver's mother searched the gas station and made
- 6:02Speaker 1: a jarring discovery. Arlena was sitting in a ditch alongside
- 6:06Speaker 1: of the road. Her body was covered in scratch marks,
- 6:10Speaker 1: and her shoes were gone. She was alive, but clearly
- 6:13Speaker 1: shaken up, and claimed to have no memory of where
- 6:16Speaker 1: she was or how she had gotten there. Realizing something
- 6:20Speaker 1: was extremely wrong, someone called Selena's family, who immediately got
- 6:24Speaker 1: the local authorities involved. A frantic manhunt kicked off, and
- 6:29Speaker 1: during the chaos, an eyewitness claimed that they saw Selena
- 6:32Speaker 1: running into a nearby field ATV's Helicopters, drones, dogs, and
- 6:38Speaker 1: even Selena's favorite horses were all deployed in a desperate
- 6:42Speaker 1: attempt to find her. Selena's mother, Jackie, took to sleeping
- 6:47Speaker 1: in her car for days, staring at the frozen highway
- 6:50Speaker 1: where Selena had been reported missing. New Year's Day turned
- 6:54Speaker 1: into a freezing winter night. Days then turned into weeks,
- 6:59Speaker 1: and Selena was nowhere to be found. It was as
- 7:02Speaker 1: if she had just vanished into thin air until the
- 7:05Speaker 1: search took a shocking turn. Right there in the field
- 7:09Speaker 1: where law enforcement and the community had been searching all along,
- 7:13Speaker 1: they found Selena. It took three weeks, but by then
- 7:18Speaker 1: it was tragically too late. The autopsy revealed that she
- 7:21Speaker 1: had died from exposure and hypothermia. In the end, her
- 7:25Speaker 1: death was ruled a tragic accident. Unsurprisingly, Selena's family and
- 7:31Speaker 1: the whole community were left frustrated and dissatisfied with the
- 7:34Speaker 1: investigation's outcome. How could Selena have been in that field
- 7:38Speaker 1: the entire time and still been missed. Law enforcement had
- 7:43Speaker 1: used dogs, drones, and their own eyes. Volunteers who knew
- 7:46Speaker 1: Selena personally had combed through the area. I was there.
- 7:51Speaker 1: She was not, one of these volunteers, allegedly told Selena's aunt,
- 7:55Speaker 1: Cheryl Horn. For many this was the defining moment of
- 7:59Speaker 1: Selena's case. This discovery of her remains in a place
- 8:03Speaker 1: that had been so thoroughly searched simply left too many
- 8:06Speaker 1: questions where she was found. Cheryl Horn later told the press,
- 8:11Speaker 1: I have an eyewitness who walked there more than once.
- 8:14Speaker 1: Selena was not stupid, she was very smart. When that
- 8:17Speaker 1: happened to her sister and Depreston. We spent all of
- 8:20Speaker 1: our time telling her about how to be safe, what
- 8:22Speaker 1: to do, where to go, where to run to. So
- 8:25Speaker 1: the fact that they tell me she ran into a field,
- 8:28Speaker 1: I don't believe that. Cheryl and Selena's family continued to
- 8:32Speaker 1: put pressure on the investigators. They wanted to know how
- 8:35Speaker 1: it would be possible that Selena had not been discovered,
- 8:39Speaker 1: how they claimed to not found any bodily fluids from
- 8:42Speaker 1: her decomposing remains in the soil underneath her body, and
- 8:45Speaker 1: how her body had left no indentation marks on the
- 8:48Speaker 1: surrounding vegetation. If she really had been there this whole time,
- 8:53Speaker 1: it was almost like Selena had been placed there just recently.
- 8:57Speaker 1: This is what her family and many in the community.
- 9:00Speaker 1: They argued that Selena was taken, perhaps even kept alive
- 9:05Speaker 1: for a period of time before she was dumped back
- 9:07Speaker 1: in the field where so many were searching. That would
- 9:10Speaker 1: explain how she evaded the technology used in the initial search,
- 9:14Speaker 1: and how the dogs had not picked up on her scent.
- 9:17Speaker 1: That would explain how law enforcement and volunteers had missed her,
- 9:20Speaker 1: even when they had seemingly walked over the very same
- 9:23Speaker 1: spots she was later found in on the other side
- 9:27Speaker 1: of the fence. Came a cry of conjecture and speculation.
- 9:31Speaker 1: That is what the investigators believe is behind all of
- 9:34Speaker 1: these theories and all of these questions. To them, Selena
- 9:37Speaker 1: was possibly still intoxicated and made the decision she would
- 9:41Speaker 1: normally not have made had she been sober. She ran
- 9:45Speaker 1: into that field and succumbed to the freezing temperatures at night.
- 9:48Speaker 1: That her remains were only discovered three weeks after she'd
- 9:51Speaker 1: been reported missing was down to bad luck and unfortunate circumstances.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Are they right? Who can really se without more evidence?
- 10:01Speaker 1: Bad luck seemed to follow the not afraid children and
- 10:05Speaker 1: tour a family apart in the process. On the other hand,
- 10:08Speaker 1: maybe when we take statistics into account, this case could
- 10:12Speaker 1: go in an entirely different direction, especially when we know that
- 10:15Speaker 1: the third highest cause of death for female members of
- 10:18Speaker 1: the indigenous tribes in Montana is murder for now? Who's
- 10:24Speaker 1: to say it looks like we won't get any more
- 10:26Speaker 1: answers on this case until new information comes to light.
- 10:42Speaker 1: That's ten minute murder for Today, brief and bingeable true crime.
- 10:46Speaker 1: I'm Joe, I'm the host, and thank you for taking
- 10:49Speaker 1: the time to listen to the story today. And if
- 10:51Speaker 1: you're wondering about my speculation as it relates to this story,
- 10:56Speaker 1: the fact that I'm talking about this story on a
- 10:59Speaker 1: murder podcast should give you some insight. This is not
- 11:03Speaker 1: a missing person's podcast, this is not a tragic accident podcast.
- 11:07Speaker 1: It's a murder podcast. So that should tell you where
- 11:10Speaker 1: I personally believe the evidence is pointing. And the biggest
- 11:14Speaker 1: part of it to me that points in that direction
- 11:17Speaker 1: is her friend, who was also missing for a short time,
- 11:21Speaker 1: was found in the ditch with scratches, no shoes, and
- 11:24Speaker 1: a hazy memory. If it weren't for that particular piece
- 11:28Speaker 1: of evidence, I would say, yeah, maybe maybe you're right.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Maybe she was drunk, got lost in the forest, maybe
- 11:34Speaker 1: out in the field, and wandered around and you know,
- 11:38Speaker 1: froze to death. I would get that. However, her friend,
- 11:42Speaker 1: who was seemingly beaten up in a ditch tells a
- 11:46Speaker 1: different story, and all of that happened within the span
- 11:49Speaker 1: of ten minutes. So obviously I don't have all the
- 11:52Speaker 1: answers I wish I did, but it's a tragic case. Nonetheless, Hey,
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