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The Wacky World Of ADHD With Connor DeWolfe · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  You have arrived. Welcome to the Aspy world.
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  Here's where we talk about anything and everything ASD in
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  an upbeat and informative way. And now here's your man on the
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  spectrum, your autism ambassador, Daniel Morgan Jones.
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  Rapper guys, welcome back to another Saturday live.
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  I see a Saturday live. This is prerecorded, but it's
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  live for you guys because it's like unedited.
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  So anything that happens in the all bleeps and everything else
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  is included. So buckle UPS going to be a good
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  one guys. Today I'm joined by a really,
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  really super awesome influencer. He I came across his videos, I'm
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  on TikTok and I just I just love it is so funny.
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  And then like my team were like, you gotta get this guy on the
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  show. I was like, OK, OK, OK, so
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  without further ado, this guy knows needs no introduction.
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  It's a Connor de Wolf and this guy is awesome.
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  So college you want to kind of if there's a little bit of like
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  what you do, who you are, where you're from and stuff like that.
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  Yeah, I am. I was born in Michigan and then
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  I was raised in Kansas. And then I've been, I was, I,
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  I've been an actor since 5th grade.
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  The, the even had a person class, you know, and then, and I
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  just fell in love with that. And then I went to Chicago for a
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  second, hung out with buddies, went through a depressive
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  episode couple years or like a yes exactly a year ago with
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  COVID accutane a breakup. And then I the only way I could
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  like fully express all my emotions was making tik toks
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  about how my own brain works. And they're, and they're
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  absolutely golden. You have to see it, dude.
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  You do so you can tell you're an actor because you, you do like
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  such good. Like the, you know, the whole
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  split thing, like one guy's like, hey, stop tapping your pen
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  or whatever. You know that one.
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  What the AD, what the way, what the way ADHD.
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  I love so, so, so, so for my views.
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  You don't know here. Well, what kind of content do
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  you put out? I've put out it's, it's like a
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  sketch comedy with myself, like that one show that Paul Rudd's
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  on. But also I'm a Leo, so I'm very
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  Bo Burnham type, just inherently not even meaning to be.
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  It's just like I have to have the spotlight.
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  But I just like, you know, I can't like, I have to like
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  always create something. But basically in high school, I
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  I, I became very good at this. It's something in the United
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  States, I think it's, I know it's I think it's everywhere
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  where it's just a forensics and debate speech and debate where.
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  And so in this class and in this part of acting in my high
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  school, we would go to competitions and basically you
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  had to do full entire scenes by yourself.
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  And that would be called like an humorous interpretation where
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  you had to switch characters on a whim and be very present in
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  the moment to go from like A to like a old woman to like to like
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  the knight fighting the dragon. So like that just, it was a
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  perfect combination. And it just kind of all worked
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  in perfectly where I just like applied that knowledge and just
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  applied it straight to TikTok because that's what I used to on
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  TikTok where I just used to switch back from.
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  I used to literally like take my phone as a bobble head and just
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  switch my head back and forth. But the old lady is where you
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  really come alive. Yeah, that's where like truly I,
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  I cope with most of my emotions. They're my acting.
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  That's where that's where I find a lot of my learning
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  experiences. I channel the old lady because
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  she's now it's it's cool and. She holds all the wisdom.
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  Called it the old lady, but no, I I honestly like it it it works
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  so well because, you know, you talk about topics that are not
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  not taboo. They're more like negative right
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  in in their respects where people like you say, OK, look,
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  this is one of the issues why I started my channels.
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  All the stuff I was I was talking about Asperger's, right,
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  Especially one of the Internet had type in videos about
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  Asperger's and talk so find people talking about it.
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  Everyone was like, my life sucks and I want to die and I was
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  like, holy smokes, like this is the most depressing stuff I've
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  ever seen in my life. So then I was like, I'm going to
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  put videos out talking about how cool the things are.
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  Like I love talking really fast on hyperactive.
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  They want to do some stupid shit, but like and and I love
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  that about you as well. You're taking the topics that
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  are somewhat kind of like negative or like the job,
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  drawing off the mundial and the very mundane.
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  And then you're saying like, let's spice it up and make it
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  comedy or, you know, comedic flip and love that, you know,
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  and and I think I think you have like this charm around you as
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  well with your content, which makes it you super charismatic
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  And that way obviously being terribly good looking and young
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  helps. But like, you know, just that
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  whole kind of like you don't even know like that.
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  Like if you're if you have charisma, like it comes across
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  new videos and you do that really, really well.
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  So I like you're more than welcome, dude.
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  Honestly, I love your content. You're one of the very few kind
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  of tick tockers. I like just follow like I don't
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  tend to follow people on tick, but just like I do that whole
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  ADHD thing. I'm like.
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  Like you'd have so same. Ah, yeah.
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  But again, like all or nothing. Like since it's like I like
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  sometimes social media is like the last thing.
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  I it's it's like funny because like the one thing that holds
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  most anxiety over our funky brains in our teenage years is
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  like a number on a screen. And so like, as soon as you have
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  any, you realize there's like still a problem.
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  You're like, oh, OK, so maybe I'm, why am I still sad when I
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  have this, all this validation? So you're like, OK, I'm just
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  going to like, stop looking at it.
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  But I don't know. I just like in my brain.
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  It just like clicked and stopped.
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  But that's the thing, it's not, it's like, yeah, external
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  validation is, is not the one really you want that internal
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  validation, right? It's that stuff.
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  And this is what I was going to say.
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  So, so talk to us a bit about your diagnosis of what you, you
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  know, your conditions or conditions like.
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  Tell us what? What do you diagnosis?
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  You know, how did that come about?
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  Yeah, I mean, I went to AI, went to a psychiatrist who said a
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  bunch of a bunch of fun names, but at the end of the day, I
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  like just I, I think it's, I just like calling it Connor.
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  And like, you know, I, I don't, I think we all have, like, I
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  think truly the neurodivergent community on this planet is a
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  cry of the universe to go back to nature.
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  And I think the community that is building and we're continuing
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  to build every day on the Internet is just going to build
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  us closer and closer to that goal of just harmony.
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  I don't know, but that's like the big expansive goal.
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  I I, but recently I've been trying to, I've been trying to
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  deal with my anxiety without Zoloft.
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  And so I, I've cut it out and it's been a couple weeks and
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  because I think I learned the lessons I needed to learn with
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  so often. Yeah, what I needed.
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  And I think that put me in that perspective for a while.
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  But I think I just, I was ready to like get off of it.
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  But of course, you know, our all or nothing brain.
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  Of course I have to become like a full on like hippie and like
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  in search for enlightenment. So like right now in my current
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  state of mind, like I'm, I'm trying to deal with a lot of
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  anxiety is just 'cause I was, I was in LA filming on set and,
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  and acting and fully like completing my college education
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  of acting. It kind of it, it brought back a
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  lot of similar characters that I had in like high school theater.
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  And it just triggered some things I didn't realize I fully
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  needed to deal with. And so I put, I was put, I was
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  in a very dark place. But you know, there's a thin
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  line between love and hate, and there's a thin line between
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  depressed and fully awake. Yeah, I get that.
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  So yeah, I've been on a, I've been on a that kick recently.
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  But when it comes to like my love for the neurodiversity in
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  my own brain is that I'm just really focused on the, the
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  neurodivergent hive mind that we have like even before this
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  interview is crazy. Just the correlations and how
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  like fascinatingly similar down to our type of car, like, and
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  the fact that we just got it like it's it's just like, yeah,
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  yeah, it's just those it's it's and that's what I really want to
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  focus on. I'm just like caught and being
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  confident with been saying to myself that there's no other
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  label besides I am like I am neurodiverse.
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  I am a neurodiverse human on this earth and like I have a
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  connection with all these other regardless of you know, what
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  these other neurodivergence are going through symptomatically in
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  their own mental state because it changes every day and
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  whatever labels they have put on them regardless because symptoms
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  are symptoms and they're all valid.
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  So I just like, I'm just trying to like not call myself anything
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  and just call myself what I am. And that's neuro diverse.
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  And yeah, but the Internet, you know, you got to ease them into
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  those that, that those crazy shits.
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  So you gotta. You do you do you have to?
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  They don't know. You know.
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  That is funny. Yeah, I love I love that you
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  said it's just neo diverse. Like you haven't got these
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  subsects. It's like, you know, because I
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  look at my diagnostic excited updated diagnosis recently
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  because obviously Asperger's is an outdated term.
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  So like diagnostic criteria is a lower kind of data EST level,
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  like 1-2, whatever. And so now there's like just a
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  bunch of different stuff in a you know, like PDA and like
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  Alexis I'mere and I'm thinking, you know, and it's really
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  fascinating to talk to talk about that on my channel.
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  But you're absolutely right, you know that the real label is just
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  neo diverse and I get what you're about.
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  There's like a vibe that you've vibe is like near division
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  people right can almost feel it just regardless and.
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  What's an energy wave? Yeah.
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  Right. And you're absolutely right
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  about being full blown hippie. I'm such a hippie.
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  I love it. But even down to Elon Musk, he's
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  part of the community and he's trying to put people on Mars.
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  This guy, he's so fascinating. Like the stuff like we was just
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  before, like we recorded a sense for you color and I were having
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  this discussion about like, you know, people on with ASD, like
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  either all or nothing, right? We kind of like just just we 10X
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  and skip steps, right? Oh yeah.
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  And Elon Musk, this is really funny.
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  Like the two things really start out for me.
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  But you know, I don't even know this, but he when he was when
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  you only have a few million left and he either has a bit all into
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  Tesla or into SpaceX, or you have to split it down the middle
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  and give half to each. And but the problem is that both
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  of them could have failed or just one of them could right,
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  right. So he just decided to gamble
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  both of them and both of them paid off.
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  And in history, only two car companies in the history of the
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  planet have never gone bankrupt. 1 is Ford, obviously 27 and the
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  other is Tesla. So Tesla's one like making
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  history for ministry. Really cool car cover.
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  And the second thing I want to say is that he couldn't afford a
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  chief rocket engineer for SpaceX, so he taught himself,
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  and he is the chief rocket engineer of SpaceX.
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  The guy's an absolute beast, like I love.
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  That that's such a, it's a monster.
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  And that's, and that's why I like Chandeline, like the
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  impatience of ADHD in a view and being able to harness the, the
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  hyperactivity with the pattern recognition of like, Oh yeah,
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  ASD is like, dude, you can literally that's like skipping
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  steps is like impatient. Plus like just hyper focus of
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  special interest like level of algorithms and like you can
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  literally just do anything you want in life. 100% like there,
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  there's no limit to that, you know, and I think, you know,
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  we're living testament. Like I said, we just like, you
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  know, we're both young dudes and we just like, I just bought a
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  house like crazy. Like I never thought a million
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  years ago I was probably like a house this big, more of it.
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  And like, I just bought a car, you know me like in a Tesla,
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  like my own colleague. Normally I always try like
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  secondhand, like, you know, like be a cause for like.
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  See, I did all the same things, but I also my ADHD got trapped
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  in the in whole credit card game.
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  It's bad here in America. Yeah, it's it's yeah, it's it's
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  crazy. Anyway, I was about to info dump
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  about my own current financial status on a live stream.
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  Never mind. Don't edit.
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  It after never mind. Yeah, yeah, we could do.
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  We could do. This is all raw and edited so
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  you know what's really. Funny.
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  OK, It's raw, dude. It doesn't.
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  Matter do you ever do that thing where you like Google your name
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  and then you find those like weird celebrity like channels
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  where they say like what's Daniel Jones's net worth from
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  the ask me world? And they always come like
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  ridiculous. I was like, she's well, like 7
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  million. I'm like, I don't know what
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  $7,000,000 like what are you talking about?
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  Like and grossly overestimate your income because of your
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  state. Well.
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  I think my brain has justified it because like I always like to
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  over exaggerate, but I don't think it's like I've seen the
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  numbers, but you know, sometimes I got a.
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  Lot of myself to motivate. Myself, but like I see the
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  numbers online, like I'll Google it and I'm like, I'm like, OK,
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  first of all we're back though. Yeah, what?
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  We're getting stalled out. But then I'm like, OK, wait, so
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  it's like over time? Yeah.
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  Holy shit I was impulsive as hell.
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  Why did I buy this thing? OK, wait, that is a lot of
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  money. Dude, I I told I so hard
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  related, like seriously, the amount of money I would just
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  like I spent on stuff. I'm thinking, Oh man, like what?
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  I could have just been so much careful with my money.
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  That's another thing that's like that's a huge like symptomatic
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  issue, right where like the the bad money management, like and
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  not really knowing like the control of game capital.
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  So like I've got no one. I've got like accountants and
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  stuff hide now my my girlfriend, like she actually does all my
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  finances. This is a true story guys, when
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  they say that the woman wears A trousers, they really do because
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  they're better finances than me, but.
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  I didn't have that. I was on this like whole hippie
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  thing. I was talking to to my
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  girlfriend and we're in Michigan staying with our parents for a
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  second after I was on in LA. We're on set.
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  And so, but like I've never felt the because I I was trying to
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  relieve anxiety and you know, like money's not really like
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  that's never that doesn't motivate us.
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  And so it's never it's, it's, it's, and actually, it's can
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  sometimes hinder to the hyper focus.
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  So it's like I was all in this chill out mode, but there's
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  nothing like the motivation that I've never felt this in my life
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  before. And it's actually really cool
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  because like my, my girlfriend, it was getting anxious about
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  like going back to LA and, and the apartment and, and
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  everything. And I was like, I have a whole
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  new drive for life. It was crazy.
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  I was like, wow, I'm growing up. What is that?
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  That let me know. Yeah, it's like.
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  Exactly. I was like, wow, no adult
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  emotion. No, it's true.
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  Like I think I felt like I bought a washing machine and
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  like a couple of years ago I first into my first apt, I
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  bought a washing machine was like some like cheap crap thing.
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  Anyway, when I was this half, my girlfriend was like, OK, well,
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  that dry is black and used by the matching like washing
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  machine. And I was like, I'm in a
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  position to do that. I'm wearing No, am I an adult?
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  Like I'm going to do I'm going to do this, you know, I'm going
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  to make this house aesthetically free.
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  That was like, does this not an adult?
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  Like, and that's the thing. Like I bought like fake plants
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  for my studio and I'm like, that makes me an adult, right?
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  Like that. Yeah.
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  Well, it's funny cuz I've always been like the person with like a
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  perfect. It's not that I've had a very
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  decor, I had a very not personalized room my entire
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  life, but I always had everything organized in the way
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  I wanted it. But as soon as I got my own
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  place, it was really cool because as soon as you like have
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  ownership of it and you're a bit like even though I was renting
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  like I definitely broke a lot of the rules, but it's fine because
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  we all did at the end of the day I was renovating.
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  I was like literally renovating dude.
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  I started like repainting like. The the dude you, you improved.
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  Edges and everything, you know, and you just make it an art
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  piece and that's like, that's why I have a great pitch for an
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  HDTV show and it's oh. Crap.
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  What was it called? Oh Beehive.
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  It's and it's the pitches, the log line.
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  It's P millionaire creatives with different brains where
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  they, I can't remember what I wrote, but it's like their
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  houses because we just, I was in because I'm in Michigan and we
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  were touring a house and and this house, this, this so neuro
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  divergent man. Yeah, made his entire house.
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  What he did for a living was he loved making.
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  He still loves and he, he still runs his business, but he he
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  loves creating aquariums and running and creating plumbing
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  for like huge koi ponds and ginormous aquariums.
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  So this entire house is like a ginormous aquarium and in the
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  backyard like a koi pond. And I was like, this would be
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  just a great TV show because there's no way that this guy's
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  not neurodiving. Yeah.
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  He. Has to be.
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  He has to be like. This is like the most creative.
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  Thing like creative I just I just did a video on this this
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  woman who's near the virgin in Glasgow and she's like she like
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  decoed her entire house and even did like ADHD storage container
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  in the kitchen like the videos like went quite viral.
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  I think it, yeah. I don't know if you saw this,
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  but it was like. I've seen something.
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  I've seen similar videos though at the organization.
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  Yeah, did. And I wish I could say names and
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  give them credit right now, but I'm so sorry I can't.
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  Remember the girl say about goodness me.
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  So she's a friend of mine now because I did a video.
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  She comes and we say like, well, thanks for featuring me, blah,
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  blah, blah. You have to see, I'll send you
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  the link. You have to see it, dude.
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  Like if you're in, if you like the other guy's house, you're
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  going to, you freak when you say this girl's house.
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  It's so dope. I'm actually going to send one
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  of my, one of my team members lives like 40 minutes away from
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  this house. I'm going to actually send to
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  that with a camera and just be like, dude, you have to like
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  literally interview this girl like.
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  Yeah, wait. OK, you get that clip.
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  I'll get this clip. Yeah, Do this house.
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  Yeah. Let's make a video.
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  Dude, let's we could be. Yeah, we did.
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  Let's do that. OK, let's do that.
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  OK, all right. OK, so some comment, you know,
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  we've been talking nonsense now for like 25 minutes and I'm
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  really, really bored. So is there anything like tell
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  us about like, what are your plans for the future social
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  media wise? Like have you got any kind of
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  cool projects going on, Anything you talked to us about?
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  And they're like, you know, you've probably signed Ndas
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  here, there and everywhere. But like, is there anything fun
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  you can tell my audience about your project?
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  Yeah, yeah. There's not really any
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  contracts. It's just I can't, I don't know
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  why. Like it's, I can never not have
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  like a yeah, it's yeah. So I've got really cool things
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  going on. I've got Disney Mighty Ducks
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  going on that's coming out in September.
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  I was really synced it. Yes.
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  So there's a take on the old movies, right?
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  Yes, and it's and it's on Disney Plus.
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  And so your boy went really hyper focused in acting, dude.
• 19:25
  And you know, it's one of those things where you're like, you go
• 19:29
  about life very ignorant and aloof and you're very focused on
• 19:32
  one thing. And then like you get a call a
• 19:34
  week later from people like in your work team and they're like,
• 19:37
  you haven't done any of this shit yet.
• 19:41
  And so like I was dating, I was just going on set going about my
• 19:46
  life, but going to bed, like, oh, going to set acting, going
• 19:49
  to bed. And my people are like, no, you
• 19:51
  have all these things. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 19:53
  Dude, I have a 200 e-mail inbox that's like, I'm like, honestly,
• 19:56
  my system like kicks my ass every day.
• 19:59
  Shout out to Alyssa Hashtag for putting up for me.
• 20:01
  Thanks and thank you. Shout out to Eddie, Eddie,
• 20:04
  Eddie. I love you, Eddie.
• 20:06
  I don't think this is the thing. If I didn't have a team, I
• 20:09
  wouldn't have got anything done like it just I got it, man.
• 20:11
  I get it. But my ducks do this.
• 20:12
  Looks like, dude, that's so dope.
• 20:14
  I've got the, I've got the Disney Plus things to watch,
• 20:17
  some Kenobi, you know, all that kind of stuff.
• 20:21
  I just watched the Sex Pistols start.
• 20:22
  Have you seen that? The sex.
• 20:23
  Pistols show I haven't seen. It dealing with it's not.
• 20:26
  I think it's just called pistols.
• 20:27
  Wait. What is it called?
• 20:28
  Pistols or pistols but. What was the?
• 20:30
  What was the? Producing, coming little oh, I
• 20:33
  don't know, it's just it's about.
• 20:34
  The thing you said before Sex Pistols?
• 20:37
  Sex Pistols. Yeah, The Bat.
• 20:38
  They're like a British punk band, right?
• 20:40
  They're like, they're the first ever like proper punk band.
• 20:42
  Oh, that's awesome, dude. It's like it's crazy and it's
• 20:45
  shot in like, you know, like old TV frame where you get like
• 20:48
  black vows on the side. It's not like 10.
• 20:50
  It's so great. It's like super cool.
• 20:51
  It's like right in the 70s Dude is great.
• 20:54
  I I highly recommend checking it out.
• 20:56
  It's really authentic. Oh, I love the. 70s right now.
• 20:58
  It's such a vibe right now dude. Honestly, it's all, it's all
• 21:01
  about Vivian Westwood and how she brought like punk fashion
• 21:04
  like to to like the the masses and how they made a movement
• 21:07
  with fashion rather than kind of just a band.
• 21:09
  It was just absolutely fantastic.
• 21:10
  I loved that dude. Honestly, it blew my mind.
• 21:13
  I think I binge watched the whole thing in like 24 hours
• 21:16
  when I was like, did you sleep? I was like, yeah, go to this
• 21:19
  next episode. Like last night, I stayed up all
• 21:25
  last night. Well, actually, no, I slept
• 21:26
  until like 2:00 PM because I was like, I was finally in my house
• 21:31
  and I was like, I'm just gonna spend all night doing self-care.
• 21:34
  You ever do that? Yeah, I just stay up all night.
• 21:36
  Just like reset of self-care. Yeah, you have to Well, Oh yeah,
• 21:40
  I do like half and I have like I have a three-year old son.
• 21:43
  So like I got a little kid. So like he gets yeah, he's
• 21:47
  amazing. It is.
• 21:47
  He's the most amazing thing in the world.
• 21:49
  But like, so he gives up at like like 5:00 AM, which I'm cool
• 21:52
  with, but I can't do the things I used to like watch alien
• 21:55
  conspiracy documentaries until 3:00 AM and then fall asleep on
• 21:58
  my keyboard and then wake up and do the same thing.
• 21:59
  Right? Because you also this kids like
• 22:02
  dad didn't eat breakfast. I'm like, okay, but yeah, but I
• 22:05
  do that. I do the self-care thing.
• 22:07
  You know, it's funny you should say that cuz that is like super
• 22:10
  important to people on the on on the spectrum to to, to take that
• 22:12
  time to self-care because yeah, and it's not, and this is
• 22:15
  interesting. People think that self covers
• 22:16
  are going to go to a spa weekend.
• 22:18
  I'm going to fucking stay in a hotel.
• 22:19
  Also. It's bull crap.
• 22:20
  You want to be in the place that you're comfortable in, but not
• 22:22
  doing the demanded work that you know, we do, right?
• 22:25
  And that's. Well, and that's, and like,
• 22:26
  that's what makes it the like the disabling part, dude.
• 22:30
  It's like that's like the biggest issue for me is like
• 22:33
  because I can't, I have to do it all at once when my brain allows
• 22:40
  me like it's. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 22:42
  Yeah, and it's, and I think it's just because I need to get
• 22:45
  better when it comes to like. And that's the problem with like
• 22:49
  the planner, dude. It's like you need the
• 22:50
  structure. It's like when you're doing,
• 22:53
  when you do, when you do what we do.
• 22:54
  And that's why you just see the support system.
• 22:56
  Yeah, at the end of the day, because it's like the the
• 23:00
  self-care goes goes to shit really fast.
• 23:02
  But huh, Yeah, super fast, dude. That's usually like burnouts.
• 23:04
  Like I mean, like, you know, I was super sick.
• 23:08
  I got a like about 3 weeks or 4 weeks ago, I got COVID and then
• 23:12
  it gave me a lung infection. And then when?
• 23:15
  COVID. Wore off, I called the flu
• 23:17
  seriously dude whilst having a lung infection and then.
• 23:19
  No same. I had bronchitis last month.
• 23:22
  Yeah, I would see you rise. And then like I caught like like
• 23:25
  tonsillitis, which is basically like a throat infection.
• 23:27
  Yeah. And I was like, and then like so
• 23:30
  4 weeks I was just completely flat and I was like, it just
• 23:33
  kind of. And then I was like super like
• 23:35
  just burnt out because like I just, I was just like, there's
• 23:38
  no self-care. I couldn't self-care.
• 23:39
  Dude, here's, here's, oh, this is amazing because I think as
• 23:44
  the hive mind, I think we all had a similar last month because
• 23:47
  yes, I was, I went through sickness after sickness and, and
• 23:50
  the, the the problem with me is I couldn't stop working.
• 23:54
  And so like, you know how like when you're sick, but your brain
• 23:58
  is literally like cool enough and it can like it can be like,
• 24:01
  Nah, we can still be completely fine.
• 24:04
  Yeah. And so like so that side and
• 24:07
  then you see you're burnt out as soon as you get out from work.
• 24:11
  Like so having to work and be on for 24 hours on a set.
• 24:16
  One thing I will say in those moments of like, just allow and
• 24:21
  accept yourself at the fact that in those moments you're only
• 24:25
  going to be able to do one thing a day.
• 24:27
  And when you get home, don't be mad at yourself when all you do
• 24:32
  is STEM, when all you do is like do self-care or like pick at
• 24:36
  your nails, but like, get to know your toes, dude.
• 24:41
  Yeah. Especially as a person who
• 24:43
  played hockey and learned how to do it in like 2 weeks on this
• 24:48
  mighty duck shot, I will tell you, pay attention to your toes.
• 24:54
  Get to know your toes. It's not stretching.
• 24:57
  Get grounded. And, and don't be, don't, don't
• 25:00
  be ashamed of taking that time for yourself because genuinely
• 25:04
  like your brain is so powerful and there's so much energy
• 25:08
  that's that you guys that we all hold.
• 25:11
  And so it's you need those moments and, and there's no way
• 25:15
  you can stop your brain from from expelling all its energy on
• 25:18
  one thing and just expect it to do that and be fine with that.
• 25:21
  No, you know, you're absolutely right, dude.
• 25:23
  And I and I totally agree. I totally agree.
• 25:25
  OK, so we're going to wrap up, Connor, where can people find
• 25:27
  you online, on the Internet? Where can they digest your
• 25:30
  content? Yes.
• 25:31
  Oh wait, crap, I forgot about yes.
• 25:33
  And so in the future, on social media, I'm going with no.
• 25:37
  No, no, it's funny. But in the future, yes, I'm
• 25:40
  doing a lot of cool things on TikTok because I'm off our
• 25:43
  Disney shut. So I'm focusing this summer on a
• 25:45
  lot of cool TikTok things. So you'll see a lot more videos
• 25:47
  every single like every other day hopefully.
• 25:49
  Nice SO. But yeah, you can find me at
• 25:53
  Connor the Wolf, pretty much everything.
• 25:55
  Yeah, that's a cool thing to say in a, in a, in a, on a podcast.
• 25:58
  You can find me. Just add Cotter to life on
• 26:00
  everything. Do that.
• 26:01
  Tell me the difference. Yeah, on Instagram.
• 26:03
  This is going to be shocking, isn't it?
• 26:04
  Right now I'm literally going to do it now, so I don't know.
• 26:07
  Oh no. Is it going to do I follow you
• 26:09
  on? Oh no, I do follow you on
• 26:10
  Instagram. Wait, the question is, do you
• 26:12
  follow me? No, you don't.
• 26:13
  But you do follow my 5. Rob I Oh yes, I love Paige.
• 26:17
  Yeah, Paige is awesome. Paige is a friend.
• 26:20
  You don't follow me. I know I don't follow a lot of
• 26:23
  people cuz I'm bad at cuz I it's too many notifications, yeah.
• 26:27
  You don't have a blue ticket, dude.
• 26:28
  What's going on there? Well, that's also a thing.
• 26:31
  It's. It's annoying.
• 26:33
  But I think it's, I think it was just tongue.
• 26:35
  It came down to like I just had to get over myself and realize
• 26:39
  that it doesn't mean anything. A lot of people put pressure
• 26:41
  that it means something. But I.
• 26:42
  Was like, no, it doesn't mean buggery.
• 26:44
  Doesn't mean it doesn't mean anything.
• 26:46
  I was in. Scrap What's your username?
• 26:48
  At the aspy world bro, just like everything else.
• 26:50
  So just. Wait, I thought I'd followed her
• 26:54
  on Instagram. No, I know.
• 26:55
  I think we did. No, I think we did speak of the
• 26:58
  Soho phones. I can't remember.
• 27:01
  I can't robbery. It's TikTok.
• 27:03
  I'm bad at social media. Says the social media
• 27:07
  entrepreneur himself. Slash actor slash crazy person.
• 27:12
  No, he's awesome. Yes, though, absolutely buck
• 27:15
  one. Did you Oh there you go see look
• 27:19
  so he just follows me. There you go see and but yeah
• 27:22
  dude, it's funny. Hey, you know Paige.
• 27:24
  But then again she is a Canadian tik toking autistic person.
• 27:27
  So yeah, Paige is awesome. We did.
• 27:29
  You know what's really funny? So what hive mind.
• 27:31
  And OK, we will. We will end this shortly.
• 27:32
  So it's our Canadian too. Yeah, that The thing is, me and
• 27:36
  Paige broke the same vote at the same time, but we were in the
• 27:40
  cast at the same time. So I texted.
• 27:41
  It's like, dude, I just think that takes up and you broke your
• 27:43
  foot. She's like, yeah, I was like,
• 27:44
  which one? She's like left.
• 27:46
  I was like, me too, bro. Like, literally, I was down to
• 27:48
  like the day it was about, oh, about about two months ago.
• 27:53
  Wait, you break your foot as well?
• 27:54
  No, I'm just saying as a hivemind, if we're thinking on
• 27:56
  that universal level, like that's like literally when I had
• 27:59
  to break into my skates during hockey and and I had to like an
• 28:03
  old injury from my left foot like came back up and it re
• 28:06
  sparked. And so like I had to do a lot of
• 28:09
  like physical like things with the with the coaching stuff.
• 28:11
  Dude. With my left foot.
• 28:13
  Yeah, dude. Like an old injury that I had
• 28:17
  before resurfaced because I put on the skates and stuff which
• 28:20
  and which didn't help it probably just worse.
• 28:22
  But like, yeah, no, like it's just like I had to do that.
• 28:25
  That's so. Dude, we honestly, man, like,
• 28:29
  it's blowing my mind. This isn't blowing my mind.
• 28:31
  Dude, seriously. I wonder if Paige is about
• 28:33
  Tesla's. Seriously.
• 28:36
  Yeah, that's crazy. Dude, that's nothing.
• 28:39
  She bought a house the same month I bought a house.
• 28:42
  When did you? What month did you?
• 28:43
  What month did you buy? A house, Well, I bought that.
• 28:45
  I didn't move in until December. I bought the house in like I
• 28:49
  bought the house in like, it was like September I think, or
• 28:53
  October last year. September of last.
• 28:57
  Year exactly. Yeah.
• 28:58
  Is yeah September 1st is when I moved into my first ever
• 29:01
  apartment that I alone just saying relation universal shit.
• 29:06
  In Page phase of the stage you bought a house, moved in a row,
• 29:09
  but they're like the first time I'd owned a place so I got I
• 29:11
  we've been renting like a probably like I've moved into
• 29:14
  this house. Yeah, it was crazy.
• 29:15
  The 1st house I've ever actually moved into that was one of my
• 29:17
  parents house so I was out of. Public that's crazy that on that
• 29:19
  day we all had like a monumental moment which you buy your first
• 29:22
  house. I moved in, well, like you know,
• 29:25
  in that month I moved into the first ever alone for the time in
• 29:29
  my entire life. Oh man, I've never done.
• 29:30
  It to a different state and page, but that's great.
• 29:34
  Dude like oh man. Fuck astrology.
• 29:37
  Follow asktheworld.com cuz I'm gonna just gonna.
• 29:41
  I need to start making. We need to start making more
• 29:43
  hive mind posts. Dude, we need to like, I think
• 29:45
  we need to open up a new series on like my YouTube page just
• 29:48
  talking about like, raise yourself.
• 29:50
  We're gonna talk about like the autism hive on the university
• 29:52
  hive mind. Oh, yeah.
• 29:53
  Because we could like when stuff syncs up, we could just put a
• 29:56
  video asking does everybody experience this at this time?
• 29:58
  And we see how many comments we get because.
• 29:59
  Like, well, and it makes way too much sense because like if at
• 30:03
  the core baseline of neurodiversity just means the
• 30:06
  better connection in the universe than the Earth.
• 30:09
  And like, of course we're going to have a fucking have mind.
• 30:11
  Of course, of course, all of the stars and all astrological all
• 30:15
  like weird paths of enlightenment.
• 30:17
  Of course, all of those messages that everyone else has been
• 30:19
  seen, that guide is already for us and we have a hive mind, so
• 30:23
  we just got to start talking to each other.
• 30:25
  More dude, well, I'll just text you.
• 30:28
  I'll be like, dude, you know, fuck social media.
• 30:30
  I'll just text you. Yeah, well, look, I mean, that's
• 30:34
  all we have time for today. Even though we've probably bored
• 30:36
  the hell out of all my listeners and my watchers, I'm still.
• 30:39
  Sorry, this is probably great. I feel like this is great.
• 30:41
  It's good. It's good stuff.
• 30:43
  Anyway, guys, like Connor said, you find him with Connor Dewolf
• 30:45
  on pretty much all his socials. I will leave links for
• 30:47
  everything that he is on in the description down below.
• 30:50
  And don't forget to check out the Mighty Ducks.
• 30:51
  Come on guys, give a bit of support for the community.
• 30:53
  Check it out. Awesome, Connor, thank you so
• 30:55
  much for being on the podcast. Everyone watch this, everyone on
• 30:58
  the Internet watch this podcast. Thank you.
• 31:00
  Love you guys. Hey guys, thank you so much for
• 31:06
  checking out this podcast. Make sure you are subscribed
• 31:08
  because there are people listening right now who are not
• 31:10
  subscribed to this podcast. I can see you.
• 31:13
  Make sure you subscribe. OK guys, see you in the next
• 31:15
  one. Peace.