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Breakfast Bonus: Women don't need men · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: The Coast Breakfast Bonus Podcast with Tony Jason Sam.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, thanks for listening to our Breakfast Bonus podcast today.
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  Speaker 2: Women don't need men as much as men need women.
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  Speaker 3: I believe it.
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  Speaker 2: I totally believe this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, you see all these stats about
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  Speaker 3: when marriages break up and all of a sudden, the
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  Speaker 3: guy is worse off and the woman thrives.
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  Speaker 2: They do. And so this has come out from a
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  Speaker 2: couple of psychologists at the University of Toronto. They found
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  Speaker 2: that single women are happier than single men, and every
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  Speaker 2: single measurement they've done, there's nowhere that women are worse
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  Speaker 2: off than single guys.
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  Speaker 3: I've also read the biggest determinant to a happy marriage
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  Speaker 3: is the guy not being an extra child. That is
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  Speaker 3: the biggest marker of whether or not our relationship will
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  Speaker 3: succeed or fail.
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  Speaker 2: That's it.
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  Speaker 3: If you having to be looked after.
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  Speaker 2: You want the guy to stand up. You want the
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  Speaker 2: guy to step up. You want the guy to have
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  Speaker 2: his own life as well and not be so dependent
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  Speaker 2: and also help out a lot of it. That's what
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  Speaker 2: I imagine. You know, don't be there, don't be that
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  Speaker 2: food dependent, you know, or fourth dependent. It might be
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  Speaker 2: there was a little bit yeah, married women as well. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: so we know that single women thrive without single guys.
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  Speaker 2: Women don't need guys. Okay, what about relationships? You right again,
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  Speaker 2: they're a little bit women who are married, and they
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  Speaker 2: found that relationships are less beneficial for women than men.
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  Speaker 2: Guys are great from relationships, but women actually drags them
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  Speaker 2: now and the bag.
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  Speaker 3: I reckon, this is a w sword. I reckon at
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  Speaker 3: the start of a relationship, I reckon the female is
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  Speaker 3: keen on the relationship, and I reckon it fades over time,
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  Speaker 3: we eventually wear them down to the point you know
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  Speaker 3: what I mean. And then I think later in life,
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  Speaker 3: guys need the companionship where the women need it less.
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  Speaker 3: So I reckon there's almost like a power shift as
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  Speaker 3: relationships go through time.
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  Speaker 2: You probably might be some women who are in love
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  Speaker 2: with the thought of being in love and they're scared
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  Speaker 2: to be alone.
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  Speaker 3: But no, I think it's more than that. I think
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  Speaker 3: it's evolution. I think there's that whole that binding thing.
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  Speaker 3: You know that women crave security and stability for nest.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's within our evolution. And then I think
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  Speaker 3: guys are less committed to that because Obviously it's about
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  Speaker 3: spreading the seed, you know, earlier, early days, but then
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  Speaker 3: later on in the relationship. I think men lead, they
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  Speaker 3: lean on that kind of nuturing nature of women, and
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  Speaker 3: then later in life they're like sort of out yourself,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because they no longer crave that as much.
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  Speaker 3: So I think this whole thing is a product of evolution.
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  Speaker 3: Correat me if I'm wrong, and they probably will be.
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  Speaker 3: People have very different.
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  Speaker 2: Views on them, maybe, but I think it's also I mean,
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  Speaker 2: you look, even the very base level of us, women
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  Speaker 2: are better at making friends than guys, and they've proven
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  Speaker 2: that time and time again. The most lonely people in
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  Speaker 2: the world are guys as they get older.
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  Speaker 3: No, I have three friends now, you know. I have you, Tony,
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  Speaker 3: and I have my wife. Oh, a few people on
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  Speaker 3: my street that I like. But all my old friends
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  Speaker 3: I don't ever see them anymore. I'm terrible at staying
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  Speaker 3: in touch, and I think guys are killing you.
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  Speaker 2: Guys are I'm bad. I have literally put in my
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  Speaker 2: diary now boys week in and then it's like two
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  Speaker 2: years overdue. Yeah, and we're doing it this year and
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait to be fantastic. But women, they.
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  Speaker 3: Come are you You're my last guy mate, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, so you come along with it and we go.
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  Speaker 3: You love it.
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  Speaker 2: So the thing is my wife, Well, guys will have
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  Speaker 2: girl nights out, they'll have girl dinners and things, and
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  Speaker 2: I think that's fantastic and you need that in life.
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  Speaker 2: But you guys don't do this, do you know why? Though?
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  Speaker 3: I think, Well, in my and a more kind of
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  Speaker 3: nuclear kind of family, I come to work, so I
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  Speaker 3: get that socialization. Where Sarah is in house jail, so
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  Speaker 3: she craves that that relationship, all those relationships outside. She
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  Speaker 3: wants to get away from the house, get away from
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  Speaker 3: the kids, and go and see a real human you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean. We get that interaction. So we
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  Speaker 3: we're socializing a little bit more at work. If your
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  Speaker 3: wife is staying a little bit more in that situation,
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  Speaker 3: you're absolutely right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, But generally speaking, women are way bitter at making
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  Speaker 2: and nurturing and nurturing and maintaining those relationships with their friends.
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  Speaker 2: So in life, this is the Toronto psychologists from the
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  Speaker 2: universities have come out saying that in every single measure,
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  Speaker 2: single women are happier than single men. Are you over
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  Speaker 2: your single guy? And you think back to your single
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  Speaker 2: guy days. Thought you were really happy, right, but there
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  Speaker 2: are probably some days you woke up game went a
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  Speaker 2: bit lonely.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, it's kind of When I was young, I
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  Speaker 3: always wanted to go for a nice Sunday night, right.
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  Speaker 2: See there's something in there, right, I mean you had
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  Speaker 2: them on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays for the Sunday night.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe just end this here, it's enough.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to the Coast Breakfast Bonus podcast. Get
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