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What if Your Richest Asset Isn't Your Bank Account? · Becoming Financially Confident

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  You're
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  building
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  your
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  financial
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  house,
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  you've
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  done
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  savings,
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  you're
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  growing
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  your
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  income,
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  you've
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  got
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  those
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  goals,
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  all
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  those
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  things
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  are
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  growing.
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  But
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  deep
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  down,
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  just
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  like
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  we
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  talked
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  about
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  yesterday,
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  you
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  feel
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  like
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  something's
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  missing.
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  Sure,
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  you've
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  got
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  some
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  wealth,
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  but
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  you
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  feel
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  isolated.
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  Well,
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  let
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  me
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  ask
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  you
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  this
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  question.
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  What
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  if
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  real
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  richness
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  isn't
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  just
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  found
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  in
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  your
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  bank
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  account
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  but
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  also
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  in
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  your
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  relationships?
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  Well,
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  stick
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  with
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  me
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  today
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  because
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  I'm
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  going
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  to
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  explore
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  what
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  true
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  wealth
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  really
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  means.
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  This
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  is
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  Financially
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  Confident
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  Christian,
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  your
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  daily
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  dose
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  of
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  gospel,
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  grounded
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  insight
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  and
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  faith
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  driven
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  tips
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  to
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  help
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  you
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  break
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  the
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  cycle
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  of
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  financial
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  shame
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  with
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  confidence.
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  Hey,
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  friend.
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  Welcome
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  back
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  to
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  your
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  Financially
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  Confident
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  Christian.
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  I'm
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  Ralph
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  and
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  I'm
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  truly
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  glad
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  to
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  be
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  with
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  you
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  again
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  today.
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  This
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  is
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  the
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  show
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  all
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  about
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  helping
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  you
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  answer
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  that
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  one
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  life
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  changing
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  question,
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  how
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  can
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  I
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  become
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  a
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  financially
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  confident
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  Christian?
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  And
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  we're
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  continuing
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  in
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  our
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  series
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  beyond
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  the
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  Budget,
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  finding
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  Financial
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  freedom
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  through
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  Intentional
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  Living.
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  Now,
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  if
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  you
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  missed
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  yesterday's
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  show,
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  which
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  I'll
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  encourage
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  you
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  to
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  go
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  check
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  out,
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  we
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  explored
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  how
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  to
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  invest
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  with
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  a
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  purpose,
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  not
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  just
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  for
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  return.
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  It's
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  not
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  about
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  just
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  growing
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  your
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  wallet,
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  but
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  to
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  really
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  support
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  your
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  God
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  given
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  mission.
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  Well,
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  today
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  go
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  even
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  deeper.
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  Hey,
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  didn't
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  you
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  think
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  there
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  was
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  any
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  deeper?
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  But
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  yes,
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  do
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  that
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  today.
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  We're
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  going
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  to
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  redefine
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  what
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  wealth
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  really
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  means.
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  Because
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  sometimes,
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  and
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  I've
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  learned
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  this
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  firsthand,
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  some
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  of
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  the
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  richest
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  people
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  in
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  the
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  world,
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  you
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  ready
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  for
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  this
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  one?
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  They
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  are
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  relationally
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  bankrupt.
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  And
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  listen,
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  you
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  be
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  that
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  way.
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  So
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  let
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  me
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  ask
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  you
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  this.
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  Have
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  you
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  ever
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  looked
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  around
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  and
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  realized,
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  hey,
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  you
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  know
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  what,
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  Ralph?
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  I'm
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  doing
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  well
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  financially,
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  Ralph,
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  I'm
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  hitting
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  my
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  savings
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  goals,
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  I'm,
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  I'm
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  planning
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  wisely,
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  I'm
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  growing
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  my
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  retirement.
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  But
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  then
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  you
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  look
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  around
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  and
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  there's
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  nobody
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  around
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  there
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  with
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  you.
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  You've
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  lost
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  touch
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  with
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  your
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  people.
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  You
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  miss
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  church
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  gatherings,
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  you
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  haven't
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  called
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  that
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  friend
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  back.
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  Family
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  dinners.
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  Hey,
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  I
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  rarely
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  have
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  time
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  for
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  that.
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  I'm
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  too
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  busy
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  on
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  my
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  goals.
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  Ralph.
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  Yeah,
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  you're
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  prosperous,
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  but
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  you're
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  not
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  connected.
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  And
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  see
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  that
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  disconnect,
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  this
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  creates
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  this
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  subtle
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  ache.
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  And
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  when
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  you're
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  really
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  honest
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  with
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  yourself,
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  when
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  you
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  really
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  start
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  to
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  think
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  about,
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  gives
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  you
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  a
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  sense
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  that
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  something's
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  just
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  off.
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  See,
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  here's
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  the
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  thing
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  I
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  want
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  you
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  to
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  hear
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  today.
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  And
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  this
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  is
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  not
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  something
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  hear
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  on
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  every
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  show.
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  It's
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  a
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  difference.
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  With
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  my
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  show,
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  true
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  wealth
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  is
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  not
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  just
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  financial.
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  See,
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  if
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  you
• 3:10
  look
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  at
• 3:11
  the
• 3:11
  tabloids,
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  if
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  you
• 3:12
  look
• 3:12
  at
• 3:12
  social
• 3:13
  media,
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  if
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  you
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  look
• 3:13
  all
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  around
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  you,
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  everybody.
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  Oh,
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  wealth,
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  wealth,
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  wealth.
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  Oh,
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  we
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  got
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  nice
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  cars
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  and
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  big
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  boats
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  and
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  big
• 3:19
  houses
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  and
• 3:19
  fat
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  bank
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  accounts
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  and
• 3:21
  nice
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  jewelry.
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  But
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  some
• 3:24
  of
• 3:25
  the
• 3:25
  most
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  unhappy
• 3:26
  people
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  I
• 3:27
  met,
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  I've
• 3:28
  met
• 3:28
  in
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  my
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  life
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  are
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  people
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  who
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  have
• 3:30
  all
• 3:30
  those
• 3:30
  things.
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  See,
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  true
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  wealth.
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  I
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  had
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  a
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  pastor
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  one
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  time,
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  he
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  was
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  a
• 3:35
  counselor
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  of
• 3:35
  mine,
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  said
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  this
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  to
• 3:36
  me.
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  He
• 3:36
  says,
• 3:36
  Ralph,
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  in
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  the
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  end,
• 3:39
  it's
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  all
• 3:39
  about
• 3:39
  relationships.
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  And
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  let
• 3:42
  me
• 3:42
  just
• 3:42
  tell
• 3:42
  you
• 3:42
  right
• 3:42
  now,
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  it's
• 3:43
  taken
• 3:43
  me
• 3:43
  a
• 3:43
  long
• 3:43
  time
• 3:44
  to
• 3:44
  really
• 3:44
  understand
• 3:45
  what
• 3:45
  he's
• 3:45
  getting
• 3:45
  at.
• 3:46
  See,
• 3:46
  true
• 3:46
  wealth
• 3:47
  is
• 3:47
  not
• 3:47
  just
• 3:48
  financial.
• 3:49
  It's
• 3:49
  deeply
• 3:49
  relational.
• 3:50
  Listen,
• 3:50
  let's
• 3:51
  talk.
• 3:51
  Let's
• 3:51
  look
• 3:51
  at
• 3:51
  the
• 3:52
  scripture
• 3:52
  and
• 3:52
  I'll
• 3:52
  show
• 3:52
  you
• 3:52
  exactly
• 3:53
  where
• 3:53
  I'm
• 3:53
  going
• 3:53
  with
• 3:53
  this.
• 3:53
  Look
• 3:54
  at
• 3:54
  the
• 3:54
  Book
• 3:54
  of
• 3:54
  Proverbs,
• 3:55
  chapter
• 3:56
  11,
• 3:56
  verse
• 3:56
  16.
• 3:57
  It
• 3:57
  says
• 3:57
  this.
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  A
• 3:59
  kind
• 3:59
  hearted
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  woman
• 4:00
  gains
• 4:00
  honor,
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  but
• 4:02
  ruthless
• 4:02
  men
• 4:03
  gain
• 4:03
  only
• 4:04
  wealth.
• 4:05
  Think
• 4:05
  about
• 4:06
  that
• 4:06
  for
• 4:06
  a
• 4:06
  second.
• 4:06
  A
• 4:06
  kind
• 4:07
  hearted
• 4:07
  woman
• 4:07
  gains
• 4:08
  honor.
• 4:09
  Kind,
• 4:09
  heart,
• 4:10
  relational,
• 4:11
  but
• 4:12
  that.
• 4:12
  Ruthless
• 4:13
  men,
• 4:13
  yeah,
• 4:14
  they
• 4:14
  gain
• 4:14
  wealth,
• 4:16
  but
• 4:16
  only
• 4:16
  wealth.
• 4:17
  See,
• 4:17
  that's
• 4:17
  a
• 4:17
  reminder.
• 4:19
  You
• 4:19
  can
• 4:19
  chase
• 4:20
  wealth
• 4:20
  and
• 4:20
  listen,
• 4:20
  I'm
• 4:21
  guilty
• 4:21
  of
• 4:21
  this.
• 4:23
  There
• 4:23
  were
• 4:23
  times
• 4:24
  and
• 4:24
  seasons
• 4:24
  in
• 4:24
  my
• 4:24
  life
• 4:25
  when
• 4:25
  that's
• 4:25
  all
• 4:25
  I
• 4:25
  was
• 4:25
  worried
• 4:26
  about.
• 4:26
  How
• 4:26
  much
• 4:26
  was
• 4:27
  in
• 4:27
  that
• 4:27
  bank
• 4:27
  account?
• 4:28
  How
• 4:28
  much
• 4:28
  more
• 4:28
  money
• 4:29
  was
• 4:29
  I
• 4:29
  making?
• 4:29
  How
• 4:30
  much
• 4:30
  more
• 4:30
  stuff
• 4:30
  could
• 4:31
  I
• 4:31
  buy?
• 4:31
  How
• 4:31
  many
• 4:31
  more
• 4:32
  cars
• 4:32
  could
• 4:32
  I
• 4:32
  get?
• 4:32
  How
• 4:33
  many
• 4:33
  boats
• 4:33
  could
• 4:33
  I
• 4:34
  get?
• 4:34
  Could
• 4:34
  I
• 4:34
  get
• 4:34
  a
• 4:34
  extra
• 4:35
  house?
• 4:35
  Could
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  get
• 4:36
  a
• 4:36
  beach
• 4:36
  house?
• 4:36
  Could
• 4:37
  I
• 4:37
  go
• 4:37
  on
• 4:37
  vacation?
• 4:39
  So
• 4:39
  you
• 4:40
  could
• 4:40
  be
• 4:40
  chasing
• 4:40
  all
• 4:41
  of
• 4:41
  those
• 4:41
  things
• 4:41
  and
• 4:41
  think,
• 4:42
  hey,
• 4:42
  look,
• 4:43
  I'm
• 4:43
  so
• 4:43
  wealthy.
• 4:45
  But
• 4:46
  ask
• 4:46
  yourself,
• 4:46
  do
• 4:46
  you
• 4:47
  feel
• 4:47
  good
• 4:47
  about
• 4:47
  it?
• 4:49
  Do
• 4:50
  you
• 4:50
  feel
• 4:50
  good
• 4:50
  about
• 4:50
  it?
• 4:50
  Or
• 4:51
  you
• 4:51
  missing
• 4:51
  honor?
• 4:52
  Are
• 4:52
  you
• 4:52
  missing
• 4:52
  love?
• 4:54
  And
• 4:55
  this
• 4:55
  might
• 4:55
  seem
• 4:55
  kind
• 4:55
  of
• 4:56
  counterintuitive,
• 4:57
  but
• 4:57
  look
• 4:57
  at
• 4:57
  the
• 4:58
  Book
• 4:58
  of
• 4:58
  Proverbs,
• 4:58
  chapter
• 4:59
  15,
• 4:59
  verse
• 4:59
  17.
• 5:00
  It
• 5:00
  says
• 5:00
  this.
• 5:02
  Better
• 5:02
  a
• 5:02
  small
• 5:03
  serving
• 5:03
  of
• 5:03
  vegetables
• 5:04
  with
• 5:04
  love
• 5:05
  than
• 5:06
  a
• 5:06
  fattened
• 5:06
  calf
• 5:07
  with
• 5:07
  hatred.
• 5:10
  I
• 5:10
  found
• 5:11
  this
• 5:11
  in
• 5:11
  the
• 5:11
  Bible.
• 5:12
  It's
• 5:12
  a
• 5:12
  verse
• 5:12
  I
• 5:12
  used
• 5:12
  a
• 5:13
  couple
• 5:13
  weeks
• 5:13
  ago
• 5:13
  on
• 5:13
  the
• 5:13
  show,
• 5:14
  and
• 5:14
  it's
• 5:14
  one
• 5:14
  I
• 5:15
  hadn't
• 5:15
  really
• 5:15
  noticed.
• 5:15
  I've
• 5:15
  been
• 5:15
  reading
• 5:16
  the
• 5:16
  Bible
• 5:16
  since
• 5:16
  I
• 5:16
  was,
• 5:16
  you
• 5:17
  know,
• 5:17
  a
• 5:17
  teenager.
• 5:18
  But
• 5:19
  I
• 5:19
  love
• 5:19
  this
• 5:19
  verse.
• 5:19
  Better
• 5:20
  a
• 5:20
  small
• 5:20
  serving
• 5:21
  of
• 5:21
  vegetables
• 5:21
  with
• 5:22
  love
• 5:24
  than
• 5:24
  a
• 5:24
  fattened
• 5:25
  calf
• 5:25
  with
• 5:25
  hatred.
• 5:26
  And
• 5:27
  just
• 5:27
  think
• 5:27
  about
• 5:27
  the
• 5:27
  visual
• 5:28
  of
• 5:28
  that.
• 5:28
  Yeah,
• 5:29
  you've
• 5:29
  got
• 5:29
  a
• 5:29
  plate
• 5:29
  with
• 5:29
  some
• 5:30
  meager
• 5:30
  vegetables
• 5:30
  on
• 5:31
  if
• 5:31
  you're
• 5:31
  a
• 5:31
  vegetarian.
• 5:32
  Listen,
• 5:32
  right
• 5:32
  now
• 5:32
  you're
• 5:32
  like,
• 5:32
  Ralph,
• 5:32
  that's
• 5:33
  a,
• 5:33
  that's,
• 5:33
  that's
• 5:33
  a.
• 5:34
  That's
• 5:34
  great
• 5:34
  for
• 5:34
  me.
• 5:37
  But
• 5:37
  the
• 5:37
  mind
• 5:38
  shows
• 5:38
  us
• 5:38
  something
• 5:38
  different.
• 5:39
  See
• 5:39
  that
• 5:39
  little
• 5:39
  serving
• 5:40
  of
• 5:40
  Vegetables.
• 5:40
  And
• 5:40
  then
• 5:41
  we
• 5:41
  pictured
• 5:41
  this
• 5:41
  big
• 5:42
  fattened
• 5:42
  calf
• 5:43
  and
• 5:43
  boy,
• 5:43
  this
• 5:43
  was
• 5:44
  fantastic,
• 5:46
  but
• 5:47
  filled
• 5:47
  with
• 5:47
  hatred.
• 5:49
  And
• 5:50
  I
• 5:50
  had
• 5:50
  somebody
• 5:50
  say
• 5:50
  to
• 5:50
  me,
• 5:51
  they
• 5:51
  said
• 5:51
  to
• 5:51
  me
• 5:51
  one
• 5:51
  time,
• 5:52
  they
• 5:52
  said,
• 5:52
  Ralph,
• 5:52
  what
• 5:52
  good
• 5:52
  is
• 5:53
  abundance
• 5:54
  if
• 5:55
  there's
• 5:55
  tension
• 5:55
  at
• 5:55
  the
• 5:56
  table?
• 5:58
  Now
• 5:58
  that
• 5:58
  I'm
• 5:59
  going
• 5:59
  to
• 5:59
  tell
• 5:59
  you
• 5:59
  right
• 5:59
  now,
• 5:59
  think
• 5:59
  on
• 5:59
  that,
• 6:00
  ponder
• 6:00
  on
• 6:00
  that
• 6:00
  today.
• 6:00
  What
• 6:01
  good
• 6:01
  is
• 6:01
  abundance
• 6:02
  if
• 6:02
  there's
• 6:02
  tension
• 6:03
  at
• 6:03
  the
• 6:03
  table?
• 6:05
  And
• 6:05
  of
• 6:05
  course,
• 6:06
  the
• 6:06
  best
• 6:06
  verse
• 6:07
  of
• 6:07
  the
• 6:07
  Bible
• 6:07
  is
• 6:07
  Jesus
• 6:08
  himself
• 6:08
  says
• 6:08
  this
• 6:09
  in
• 6:09
  Matthew,
• 6:10
  chapter
• 6:10
  6,
• 6:10
  verses
• 6:11
  19
• 6:11
  to
• 6:12
  21.
• 6:12
  And
• 6:12
  I've
• 6:12
  used
• 6:12
  this
• 6:13
  on
• 6:13
  the
• 6:13
  show
• 6:13
  many
• 6:13
  times.
• 6:14
  Do
• 6:15
  not
• 6:15
  store
• 6:15
  up
• 6:15
  for
• 6:15
  yourselves
• 6:16
  treasures
• 6:16
  on
• 6:17
  earth
• 6:17
  where
• 6:17
  moth
• 6:17
  and
• 6:17
  vermin
• 6:18
  destroy
• 6:19
  and
• 6:19
  where
• 6:20
  thieves
• 6:20
  break
• 6:20
  in
• 6:20
  and
• 6:20
  steal.
• 6:21
  But
• 6:21
  store
• 6:21
  up
• 6:21
  for
• 6:22
  yourselves
• 6:22
  treasures
• 6:22
  in
• 6:23
  heaven
• 6:23
  where
• 6:23
  moth
• 6:23
  and
• 6:24
  vermin
• 6:24
  do
• 6:24
  not
• 6:24
  destroy
• 6:25
  and
• 6:25
  where
• 6:26
  thieves
• 6:26
  do
• 6:26
  not
• 6:26
  break
• 6:27
  in
• 6:27
  and
• 6:27
  steal.
• 6:29
  For
• 6:29
  where
• 6:29
  your
• 6:29
  treasure
• 6:30
  is,
• 6:32
  there
• 6:32
  your
• 6:32
  heart
• 6:32
  will
• 6:33
  be
• 6:33
  also.
• 6:36
  Think
• 6:36
  about
• 6:36
  that
• 6:36
  for
• 6:37
  a
• 6:37
  second.
• 6:38
  Your
• 6:38
  treasure,
• 6:39
  is
• 6:40
  it
• 6:40
  in
• 6:40
  your
• 6:40
  stuff?
• 6:41
  Hey,
• 6:42
  there
• 6:42
  have
• 6:42
  been
• 6:42
  seasons
• 6:42
  in
• 6:42
  my
• 6:43
  life,
• 6:43
  like
• 6:43
  I
• 6:43
  mentioned
• 6:43
  a
• 6:43
  few
• 6:43
  minutes
• 6:44
  ago,
• 6:44
  where
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  thought
• 6:44
  it
• 6:44
  was
• 6:44
  all
• 6:45
  about
• 6:45
  stuff.
• 6:47
  And
• 6:47
  I'll
• 6:48
  tell
• 6:48
  you
• 6:48
  right
• 6:48
  now,
• 6:48
  that's
• 6:49
  not
• 6:49
  how
• 6:49
  God
• 6:50
  views
• 6:50
  the
• 6:50
  word.
• 6:50
  God
• 6:51
  views
• 6:51
  us.
• 6:51
  God
• 6:52
  values
• 6:52
  connection
• 6:53
  over
• 6:53
  accumulation.
• 6:55
  The
• 6:55
  Bible
• 6:56
  is
• 6:56
  a
• 6:56
  love
• 6:56
  story
• 6:57
  about
• 6:57
  relationships.
• 6:58
  It's
• 6:59
  not
• 6:59
  about
• 6:59
  stuff.
• 7:00
  It's
• 7:00
  not
• 7:00
  about
• 7:00
  wealth.
• 7:03
  It
• 7:03
  is
• 7:04
  about
• 7:04
  love
• 7:04
  over
• 7:05
  luxury,
• 7:05
  community
• 7:06
  over
• 7:06
  consumption.
• 7:09
  Because
• 7:10
  if
• 7:10
  you've
• 7:10
  ever
• 7:10
  had
• 7:11
  money,
• 7:12
  what
• 7:12
  I'm
• 7:13
  getting
• 7:13
  ready
• 7:13
  to
• 7:13
  say
• 7:13
  will
• 7:14
  hit
• 7:14
  home
• 7:14
  to
• 7:14
  you.
• 7:14
  Money
• 7:15
  will
• 7:15
  fade,
• 7:17
  money
• 7:17
  fades.
• 7:19
  But
• 7:20
  those
• 7:20
  relationships,
• 7:21
  if
• 7:21
  you
• 7:21
  truly
• 7:22
  grow
• 7:22
  and
• 7:22
  invest
• 7:22
  in
• 7:22
  those
• 7:23
  relationships,
• 7:23
  I'll
• 7:23
  talk
• 7:23
  about
• 7:23
  how
• 7:24
  to
• 7:24
  do
• 7:24
  that
• 7:24
  in
• 7:24
  a
• 7:24
  minute.
• 7:25
  Those
• 7:25
  relationships,
• 7:27
  those
• 7:28
  last
• 7:28
  into
• 7:28
  eternity.
• 7:31
  So
• 7:31
  now
• 7:31
  you're
• 7:31
  thinking,
• 7:31
  Ralph,
• 7:32
  man,
• 7:32
  I
• 7:32
  get
• 7:32
  it.
• 7:33
  For
• 7:33
  the
• 7:33
  first
• 7:33
  time,
• 7:34
  a
• 7:34
  light
• 7:34
  bulb
• 7:35
  just
• 7:35
  went
• 7:35
  off,
• 7:35
  Ralph,
• 7:35
  because
• 7:36
  trust
• 7:36
  me,
• 7:36
  I've
• 7:36
  been
• 7:36
  there.
• 7:37
  About
• 7:38
  15
• 7:38
  years
• 7:38
  ago,
• 7:39
  was
• 7:39
  sitting
• 7:39
  in
• 7:39
  this
• 7:40
  pastor's
• 7:41
  office
• 7:41
  counseling
• 7:42
  session,
• 7:42
  was
• 7:43
  really
• 7:43
  having
• 7:43
  a
• 7:43
  rocky
• 7:43
  time
• 7:44
  with
• 7:44
  my
• 7:44
  wife,
• 7:44
  in
• 7:44
  my
• 7:45
  marriage
• 7:45
  and
• 7:45
  my
• 7:46
  kids.
• 7:46
  We
• 7:46
  all.
• 7:46
  Nobody
• 7:47
  was
• 7:47
  getting
• 7:47
  along.
• 7:47
  Was
• 7:47
  a
• 7:48
  constant
• 7:48
  arguing
• 7:49
  in
• 7:49
  the
• 7:49
  house.
• 7:50
  And
• 7:50
  he
• 7:50
  looked
• 7:51
  across
• 7:51
  to
• 7:51
  me,
• 7:51
  he
• 7:51
  says,
• 7:51
  Ralph,
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  can
• 7:52
  see
• 7:52
  you're
• 7:53
  wealthy.
• 7:54
  And
• 7:54
  I
• 7:54
  don't
• 7:54
  say
• 7:55
  that
• 7:55
  to
• 7:55
  be
• 7:55
  boasting
• 7:55
  or,
• 7:56
  or
• 7:56
  arrogant.
• 7:56
  But
• 7:56
  yes,
• 7:57
  I've
• 7:57
  been
• 7:57
  doing
• 7:57
  well.
• 7:59
  He
• 8:00
  said,
• 8:00
  but
• 8:00
  that's
• 8:00
  not
• 8:00
  what
• 8:00
  life
• 8:01
  is
• 8:01
  all
• 8:01
  about.
• 8:01
  Dude,
• 8:03
  how's
• 8:04
  your
• 8:04
  relationships?
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  was
• 8:06
  like,
• 8:07
  wow,
• 8:07
  man,
• 8:07
  you
• 8:07
  just
• 8:08
  hit
• 8:08
  me
• 8:08
  over
• 8:08
  the
• 8:08
  head
• 8:08
  with
• 8:09
  a,
• 8:09
  with
• 8:09
  a
• 8:09
  two
• 8:09
  by
• 8:09
  four.
• 8:13
  But
• 8:13
  he
• 8:13
  was
• 8:13
  so
• 8:13
  right.
• 8:14
  It's
• 8:14
  all
• 8:14
  about
• 8:14
  the
• 8:15
  relationships.
• 8:17
  And
• 8:17
  you've
• 8:17
  got
• 8:17
  to
• 8:17
  make
• 8:17
  the
• 8:17
  decision
• 8:18
  right
• 8:18
  now,
• 8:18
  today,
• 8:19
  to
• 8:19
  intentionally
• 8:20
  invest
• 8:20
  some
• 8:21
  time,
• 8:21
  some
• 8:22
  energy,
• 8:22
  and
• 8:22
  maybe
• 8:23
  a
• 8:23
  little
• 8:23
  of
• 8:23
  that
• 8:23
  money
• 8:24
  into
• 8:24
  relationships
• 8:25
  that
• 8:25
  matter.
• 8:27
  I'm
• 8:27
  not
• 8:27
  Talking
• 8:27
  about
• 8:28
  grand
• 8:28
  gestures.
• 8:28
  I'm
• 8:29
  not
• 8:29
  talking
• 8:29
  about
• 8:29
  go
• 8:30
  buying
• 8:30
  somebody
• 8:30
  a
• 8:30
  car,
• 8:30
  go
• 8:31
  buy
• 8:31
  a
• 8:31
  house.
• 8:31
  That's
• 8:31
  not
• 8:31
  what
• 8:32
  I'm
• 8:32
  talking
• 8:32
  about.
• 8:33
  I'm
• 8:34
  talking
• 8:34
  about
• 8:34
  little
• 8:35
  relational
• 8:35
  deposits,
• 8:37
  just
• 8:37
  small
• 8:38
  acts
• 8:38
  that
• 8:38
  build
• 8:39
  true
• 8:39
  wealth.
• 8:40
  So
• 8:41
  here's
• 8:41
  your
• 8:41
  one
• 8:41
  action
• 8:42
  step
• 8:42
  for
• 8:42
  today.
• 8:43
  Here's
• 8:43
  what
• 8:43
  I
• 8:43
  want
• 8:43
  you
• 8:44
  to
• 8:44
  do
• 8:44
  today.
• 8:44
  To
• 8:45
  start
• 8:45
  going
• 8:45
  down
• 8:45
  this
• 8:46
  path
• 8:46
  of
• 8:46
  relationship.
• 8:47
  I
• 8:47
  want
• 8:47
  you
• 8:47
  to
• 8:48
  identify.
• 8:48
  Identify
• 8:48
  just
• 8:48
  one
• 8:49
  relationship
• 8:49
  or
• 8:50
  community.
• 8:51
  Just
• 8:51
  one.
• 8:51
  Think
• 8:52
  about
• 8:52
  it.
• 8:52
  Maybe
• 8:52
  a
• 8:53
  friend
• 8:53
  you
• 8:53
  haven't
• 8:53
  seen
• 8:54
  in
• 8:54
  a
• 8:54
  while.
• 8:55
  Well,
• 8:55
  yeah,
• 8:55
  I
• 8:55
  used
• 8:55
  to
• 8:56
  talk
• 8:56
  to
• 8:56
  Jim
• 8:56
  all
• 8:56
  the
• 8:57
  time
• 8:57
  and
• 8:57
  it
• 8:57
  just
• 8:57
  seems
• 8:57
  like
• 8:58
  I
• 8:58
  haven't
• 8:58
  talked
• 8:58
  to
• 8:58
  him
• 8:58
  lately.
• 9:01
  What's
• 9:01
  the
• 9:02
  problem
• 9:02
  there?
• 9:02
  Or
• 9:03
  maybe
• 9:03
  it's
• 9:03
  a
• 9:03
  church
• 9:03
  group
• 9:03
  you
• 9:04
  pulled
• 9:04
  away
• 9:04
  from.
• 9:04
  I
• 9:05
  used
• 9:05
  to
• 9:05
  be
• 9:05
  super
• 9:05
  connected
• 9:06
  to
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  Sunday
• 9:07
  morning
• 9:07
  Bible
• 9:08
  study
• 9:08
  or
• 9:08
  the,
• 9:08
  or
• 9:08
  the
• 9:09
  Wednesday
• 9:09
  night
• 9:09
  or
• 9:09
  the
• 9:09
  men's
• 9:10
  group,
• 9:10
  whatever
• 9:10
  that
• 9:10
  looks
• 9:10
  like
• 9:11
  for
• 9:11
  you.
• 9:13
  Or
• 9:13
  maybe
• 9:14
  for
• 9:14
  you
• 9:14
  it's
• 9:14
  a
• 9:14
  family
• 9:15
  member
• 9:15
  you've
• 9:15
  drifted
• 9:16
  away
• 9:16
  from.
• 9:17
  Yeah,
• 9:18
  you
• 9:18
  know,
• 9:18
  I
• 9:18
  used
• 9:18
  to
• 9:18
  hang
• 9:19
  out
• 9:19
  with
• 9:19
  my
• 9:19
  aunt
• 9:19
  all
• 9:20
  the
• 9:20
  time.
• 9:20
  It
• 9:20
  just.
• 9:20
  It
• 9:21
  seems
• 9:21
  like
• 9:21
  life
• 9:21
  got
• 9:22
  so
• 9:22
  busy,
• 9:22
  I
• 9:22
  just
• 9:22
  haven't
• 9:23
  had
• 9:23
  time
• 9:23
  to
• 9:23
  do
• 9:23
  that.
• 9:25
  Or
• 9:25
  maybe
• 9:26
  it's
• 9:26
  just
• 9:26
  that
• 9:26
  neighbor
• 9:26
  you've
• 9:27
  been
• 9:27
  meaning
• 9:27
  to
• 9:27
  check
• 9:27
  on
• 9:28
  who
• 9:28
  lives
• 9:28
  down
• 9:28
  the
• 9:28
  street
• 9:28
  or
• 9:29
  lives
• 9:29
  next
• 9:29
  door.
• 9:31
  Just
• 9:31
  haven't
• 9:31
  taken
• 9:32
  the
• 9:32
  time
• 9:32
  to
• 9:32
  do
• 9:32
  that.
• 9:33
  So
• 9:33
  identify
• 9:33
  that
• 9:34
  one
• 9:34
  thing
• 9:35
  and
• 9:35
  then
• 9:36
  I
• 9:36
  want
• 9:36
  you
• 9:36
  to
• 9:36
  plan
• 9:36
  a
• 9:37
  low
• 9:37
  cost,
• 9:37
  high
• 9:37
  value
• 9:38
  action.
• 9:38
  This
• 9:38
  isn't
• 9:39
  about
• 9:39
  how
• 9:39
  much
• 9:39
  money
• 9:40
  you
• 9:40
  can
• 9:40
  spend.
• 9:40
  I'm
• 9:40
  going
• 9:40
  to
• 9:41
  give
• 9:41
  you
• 9:41
  a
• 9:41
  few
• 9:41
  ideas
• 9:41
  right
• 9:42
  now,
• 9:42
  but
• 9:42
  it's
• 9:42
  not
• 9:42
  about
• 9:42
  that.
• 9:44
  Low
• 9:44
  cost,
• 9:45
  high
• 9:45
  value,
• 9:45
  that's
• 9:46
  what
• 9:46
  we're
• 9:46
  going
• 9:46
  to
• 9:46
  talk
• 9:46
  about.
• 9:46
  Here's
• 9:47
  a
• 9:47
  few
• 9:47
  ideas.
• 9:49
  Maybe
• 9:49
  you
• 9:49
  haven't
• 9:50
  talked
• 9:50
  to
• 9:50
  that
• 9:50
  friend
• 9:50
  for
• 9:50
  a
• 9:50
  while,
• 9:51
  invite
• 9:51
  them
• 9:51
  out
• 9:51
  for
• 9:51
  coffee,
• 9:54
  say
• 9:54
  to
• 9:55
  them,
• 9:55
  hey,
• 9:55
  Joe,
• 9:55
  we
• 9:56
  haven't
• 9:56
  talked
• 9:56
  for
• 9:56
  a
• 9:56
  while.
• 9:56
  How
• 9:56
  about
• 9:56
  we
• 9:57
  get
• 9:57
  together
• 9:57
  and
• 9:57
  grab
• 9:57
  a
• 9:58
  sandwich
• 9:58
  or
• 9:58
  something
• 9:58
  like
• 9:58
  that?
• 9:59
  That's
• 9:59
  not
• 9:59
  going
• 9:59
  to
• 9:59
  cost
• 9:59
  a
• 9:59
  lot
• 10:00
  of
• 10:00
  money.
• 10:01
  Here's
• 10:02
  another
• 10:02
  great
• 10:02
  idea.
• 10:03
  A
• 10:03
  lot
• 10:03
  of
• 10:03
  people
• 10:03
  don't
• 10:03
  do
• 10:03
  this
• 10:04
  anymore.
• 10:04
  Writer
• 10:04
  send
• 10:05
  a
• 10:05
  heartfelt
• 10:05
  handwritten
• 10:06
  note.
• 10:06
  Not
• 10:06
  a
• 10:06
  text,
• 10:07
  not
• 10:07
  an
• 10:07
  email,
• 10:08
  just
• 10:08
  a
• 10:08
  heartfelt
• 10:10
  handwritten
• 10:10
  note.
• 10:10
  Maybe
• 10:10
  a
• 10:11
  card
• 10:11
  that
• 10:11
  just
• 10:11
  has
• 10:12
  your
• 10:12
  own
• 10:13
  personal
• 10:13
  handwriting
• 10:14
  in
• 10:14
  it.
• 10:16
  And
• 10:16
  maybe
• 10:16
  you're
• 10:16
  just
• 10:16
  too
• 10:17
  technologically
• 10:17
  connected.
• 10:18
  Oh,
• 10:18
  then
• 10:18
  that's
• 10:18
  fine.
• 10:19
  Text
• 10:19
  a
• 10:19
  word
• 10:19
  of
• 10:19
  encouragement.
• 10:21
  Even
• 10:21
  a
• 10:21
  text
• 10:22
  of
• 10:22
  a
• 10:22
  word
• 10:22
  of
• 10:22
  encouragement.
• 10:25
  Maybe
• 10:25
  it's
• 10:25
  good
• 10:25
  to
• 10:26
  volunteer
• 10:26
  an
• 10:26
  hour
• 10:26
  with
• 10:26
  a
• 10:27
  local
• 10:27
  group.
• 10:27
  Maybe
• 10:27
  that
• 10:27
  group
• 10:28
  you're
• 10:28
  disconnected
• 10:28
  from.
• 10:29
  Just
• 10:29
  say,
• 10:29
  hey,
• 10:29
  you
• 10:29
  know
• 10:29
  what?
• 10:29
  I
• 10:30
  haven't
• 10:30
  been
• 10:30
  involved
• 10:30
  with
• 10:30
  the
• 10:31
  soup
• 10:31
  kitchen
• 10:31
  lately.
• 10:32
  I
• 10:32
  really
• 10:32
  want
• 10:32
  to
• 10:32
  get
• 10:33
  connected
• 10:33
  again.
• 10:36
  And
• 10:36
  if
• 10:36
  it's
• 10:36
  a
• 10:36
  family
• 10:36
  member,
• 10:37
  maybe
• 10:37
  Share
• 10:37
  a
• 10:38
  simple
• 10:38
  meal
• 10:38
  together,
• 10:38
  Say,
• 10:39
  hey,
• 10:39
  hey,
• 10:39
  how
• 10:39
  about
• 10:40
  everybody
• 10:40
  come
• 10:40
  over
• 10:40
  this
• 10:41
  Sunday
• 10:41
  and
• 10:41
  we're
• 10:41
  gonna
• 10:41
  get
• 10:42
  together
• 10:42
  as
• 10:42
  a
• 10:42
  family.
• 10:42
  And
• 10:43
  I
• 10:43
  know
• 10:43
  there
• 10:43
  might
• 10:43
  be
• 10:43
  a
• 10:43
  lot
• 10:43
  of
• 10:44
  tension
• 10:44
  in
• 10:44
  doing
• 10:44
  that.
• 10:45
  I
• 10:45
  get
• 10:45
  it.
• 10:45
  I
• 10:45
  come
• 10:45
  from
• 10:46
  a
• 10:46
  family.
• 10:46
  There's
• 10:46
  a
• 10:46
  lot
• 10:47
  of
• 10:47
  tension.
• 10:47
  But
• 10:47
  just
• 10:48
  sharing
• 10:48
  a
• 10:48
  simple
• 10:49
  meal
• 10:49
  can
• 10:49
  make
• 10:49
  a
• 10:49
  huge
• 10:50
  difference.
• 10:51
  And
• 10:52
  then
• 10:52
  I'm
• 10:52
  gonna
• 10:52
  tell
• 10:52
  you,
• 10:52
  just
• 10:53
  redirect
• 10:53
  a
• 10:53
  small
• 10:53
  amount
• 10:54
  of
• 10:54
  spending.
• 10:54
  Maybe
• 10:55
  you
• 10:55
  skip
• 10:55
  that
• 10:56
  one
• 10:56
  essential
• 10:56
  for
• 10:57
  a
• 10:57
  couple
• 10:57
  days,
• 10:57
  that
• 10:57
  extra
• 10:58
  latte
• 10:58
  that
• 10:58
  you
• 10:59
  don't
• 10:59
  need
• 10:59
  or
• 10:59
  that
• 11:00
  online
• 11:00
  impulse
• 11:01
  buy,
• 11:02
  just
• 11:02
  save
• 11:02
  10
• 11:03
  or
• 11:03
  20
• 11:03
  bucks
• 11:04
  to
• 11:04
  bless
• 11:04
  somebody,
• 11:05
  maybe
• 11:06
  buy
• 11:06
  them
• 11:06
  a
• 11:06
  coffee,
• 11:07
  go
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  the
• 11:07
  store,
• 11:08
  get
• 11:08
  a
• 11:08
  card,
• 11:08
  handwrite
• 11:09
  it
• 11:09
  and
• 11:09
  mail
• 11:09
  that
• 11:09
  card
• 11:10
  to
• 11:10
  them.
• 11:10
  Maybe
• 11:11
  buy
• 11:11
  a
• 11:11
  book
• 11:11
  for
• 11:11
  them.
• 11:12
  Make
• 11:12
  a
• 11:12
  memory.
• 11:14
  It's
• 11:15
  truly
• 11:15
  all
• 11:16
  about
• 11:16
  the
• 11:16
  relationships.
• 11:18
  And
• 11:19
  now
• 11:19
  you
• 11:19
  might
• 11:19
  be
• 11:19
  saying
• 11:19
  raffle.
• 11:20
  Why
• 11:20
  does
• 11:20
  this
• 11:20
  help?
• 11:20
  Well,
• 11:21
  here's
• 11:21
  why
• 11:21
  it
• 11:21
  helps.
• 11:21
  It
• 11:21
  gets
• 11:22
  heals
• 11:22
  that
• 11:22
  hidden
• 11:22
  loneliness.
• 11:25
  See,
• 11:25
  you
• 11:26
  can
• 11:26
  be
• 11:26
  as
• 11:26
  wealthy
• 11:27
  as
• 11:27
  wealthy
• 11:28
  comes.
• 11:28
  You
• 11:28
  can
• 11:28
  have
• 11:28
  all
• 11:29
  the
• 11:29
  stuff.
• 11:32
  But
• 11:32
  a
• 11:32
  lot
• 11:33
  of
• 11:33
  times
• 11:33
  you
• 11:33
  find
• 11:33
  yourself
• 11:34
  lonely
• 11:34
  because
• 11:34
  there's
• 11:35
  nobody
• 11:35
  to
• 11:35
  share
• 11:35
  it
• 11:35
  with.
• 11:36
  You
• 11:36
  spent
• 11:36
  so
• 11:37
  much
• 11:37
  time
• 11:37
  focusing
• 11:38
  on
• 11:38
  growing
• 11:38
  that
• 11:39
  business
• 11:39
  or
• 11:39
  growing
• 11:40
  that
• 11:40
  money
• 11:40
  or
• 11:41
  working
• 11:41
  two
• 11:42
  jobs
• 11:42
  or
• 11:42
  working
• 11:42
  all
• 11:43
  that
• 11:43
  overtime,
• 11:45
  but
• 11:45
  you
• 11:45
  didn't
• 11:46
  invest
• 11:46
  any
• 11:46
  of
• 11:46
  it
• 11:47
  in
• 11:47
  your
• 11:47
  family.
• 11:47
  You
• 11:48
  didn't
• 11:48
  invest
• 11:48
  any
• 11:49
  of
• 11:49
  it
• 11:49
  in
• 11:49
  your
• 11:49
  spouse.
• 11:50
  And
• 11:50
  listen,
• 11:50
  this
• 11:50
  is
• 11:50
  Ralph
• 11:50
  talking
• 11:51
  from
• 11:51
  the
• 11:51
  heart
• 11:51
  right
• 11:52
  now.
• 11:53
  There
• 11:53
  were
• 11:53
  times
• 11:53
  in
• 11:54
  my
• 11:54
  life
• 11:54
  where
• 11:54
  I,
• 11:55
  and
• 11:55
  I
• 11:55
  can't
• 11:55
  go
• 11:55
  back
• 11:55
  and
• 11:56
  fix
• 11:56
  this.
• 11:57
  But
• 11:57
  I
• 11:58
  should
• 11:58
  have
• 11:58
  taken
• 11:58
  more
• 11:58
  time
• 11:59
  to
• 11:59
  invest
• 11:59
  in
• 11:59
  my
• 12:00
  wife.
• 12:00
  I
• 12:00
  should
• 12:00
  have
• 12:01
  taken
• 12:01
  more
• 12:01
  time
• 12:02
  to
• 12:02
  invest
• 12:02
  in
• 12:02
  my
• 12:03
  children.
• 12:04
  Well,
• 12:05
  today's
• 12:05
  show
• 12:05
  might
• 12:05
  be
• 12:06
  the
• 12:06
  time
• 12:06
  to
• 12:06
  change
• 12:06
  that.
• 12:08
  Go
• 12:08
  back
• 12:08
  to
• 12:08
  building
• 12:09
  trust,
• 12:09
  building
• 12:10
  friendships
• 12:10
  and
• 12:11
  building
• 12:11
  those
• 12:11
  faith
• 12:12
  filled
• 12:12
  connections.
• 12:14
  Because
• 12:15
  let
• 12:15
  me
• 12:15
  just
• 12:15
  tell
• 12:15
  you
• 12:16
  right
• 12:16
  now,
• 12:16
  and
• 12:16
  I've
• 12:16
  learned
• 12:17
  this
• 12:17
  personally,
• 12:18
  if
• 12:19
  you
• 12:19
  really
• 12:19
  do
• 12:19
  this,
• 12:20
  if
• 12:20
  you
• 12:20
  really
• 12:20
  focus
• 12:21
  on
• 12:21
  the
• 12:21
  relationship,
• 12:23
  it
• 12:23
  will
• 12:23
  absolutely
• 12:24
  multiply
• 12:25
  your
• 12:25
  joy
• 12:25
  even
• 12:26
  more
• 12:26
  than
• 12:26
  money
• 12:26
  could
• 12:27
  ever
• 12:27
  do.
• 12:29
  And
• 12:29
  it's
• 12:29
  going
• 12:29
  to
• 12:29
  grow
• 12:30
  something
• 12:30
  bigger
• 12:30
  than
• 12:30
  your
• 12:31
  net
• 12:31
  worth.
• 12:32
  It's
• 12:32
  going
• 12:32
  to
• 12:32
  grow
• 12:32
  your
• 12:33
  relationship
• 12:34
  network,
• 12:34
  your
• 12:34
  relational
• 12:35
  net
• 12:35
  worth.
• 12:37
  And
• 12:37
  as
• 12:37
  I
• 12:37
  said
• 12:37
  at
• 12:37
  the
• 12:38
  beginning,
• 12:39
  that's
• 12:39
  the
• 12:39
  kind
• 12:39
  of
• 12:39
  wealth
• 12:40
  that
• 12:40
  lasts
• 12:40
  forever.
• 12:41
  How
• 12:41
  about
• 12:42
  we
• 12:42
  pray
• 12:42
  together?
• 12:43
  Father
• 12:44
  God,
• 12:44
  I
• 12:44
  just
• 12:44
  thank
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  for
• 12:45
  the
• 12:45
  incredible
• 12:45
  gift
• 12:46
  of
• 12:46
  community
• 12:47
  and
• 12:47
  meaningful
• 12:48
  relationships.
• 12:50
  We
• 12:50
  confess,
• 12:50
  Lord,
• 12:51
  that
• 12:51
  we
• 12:51
  often
• 12:51
  chase
• 12:51
  income
• 12:52
  while
• 12:52
  neglecting
• 12:53
  that
• 12:53
  intimacy,
• 12:54
  neglecting
• 12:54
  those
• 12:54
  relationships.
• 12:56
  Lord,
• 12:57
  we
• 12:57
  focus
• 12:57
  our
• 12:57
  efforts
• 12:58
  so
• 12:58
  much
• 12:58
  on
• 12:58
  wealth
• 12:59
  and
• 12:59
  we
• 12:59
  forget
• 13:00
  about
• 13:00
  that
• 13:00
  connection
• 13:01
  that
• 13:01
  you
• 13:01
  really
• 13:01
  want
• 13:01
  to
• 13:02
  see.
• 13:02
  For
• 13:02
  us,
• 13:02
  the
• 13:02
  love
• 13:03
  story,
• 13:03
  the
• 13:03
  Bible,
• 13:04
  all
• 13:04
  about
• 13:04
  relationships,
• 13:05
  Our
• 13:05
  relationship
• 13:06
  with
• 13:06
  you,
• 13:06
  your
• 13:07
  relationship
• 13:07
  with
• 13:08
  us,
• 13:08
  our
• 13:08
  relationship
• 13:09
  with
• 13:09
  those
• 13:09
  of
• 13:09
  the
• 13:10
  faith.
• 13:11
  And
• 13:11
  today,
• 13:11
  Lord,
• 13:12
  help
• 13:12
  us
• 13:12
  see
• 13:12
  what
• 13:13
  matters
• 13:13
  Most
• 13:14
  open
• 13:14
  our
• 13:14
  hearts
• 13:15
  to
• 13:15
  reach
• 13:15
  out,
• 13:15
  Lord,
• 13:16
  show
• 13:16
  us
• 13:16
  where
• 13:17
  to
• 13:17
  love,
• 13:17
  Lord,
• 13:18
  where
• 13:18
  to
• 13:19
  serve,
• 13:20
  where
• 13:20
  to
• 13:20
  invest
• 13:21
  time.
• 13:21
  Not
• 13:21
  just
• 13:22
  our
• 13:22
  money,
• 13:22
  Lord,
• 13:23
  but
• 13:23
  our
• 13:23
  time
• 13:23
  and
• 13:24
  our
• 13:24
  efforts.
• 13:26
  And
• 13:26
  Lord,
• 13:26
  we
• 13:27
  just
• 13:27
  ask
• 13:27
  that
• 13:27
  you
• 13:27
  would
• 13:27
  help
• 13:27
  us
• 13:28
  build
• 13:28
  true
• 13:28
  wealth,
• 13:30
  the
• 13:30
  wealth
• 13:30
  that
• 13:30
  reflects
• 13:31
  your
• 13:31
  heart.
• 13:31
  And
• 13:31
  we
• 13:32
  ask
• 13:32
  this
• 13:32
  with
• 13:32
  confidence.
• 13:33
  In
• 13:34
  Jesus
• 13:34
  name,
• 13:35
  Amen.
• 13:37
  If
• 13:37
  you
• 13:37
  take
• 13:38
  nothing
• 13:38
  else
• 13:38
  away
• 13:39
  from
• 13:39
  today's
• 13:39
  show,
• 13:39
  I
• 13:40
  want
• 13:40
  you
• 13:40
  to
• 13:40
  remember
• 13:40
  this,
• 13:40
  friend.
• 13:42
  Real
• 13:42
  wealth
• 13:42
  isn't
• 13:43
  measured
• 13:43
  in
• 13:44
  digits.
• 13:45
  It's
• 13:45
  not
• 13:46
  measured
• 13:46
  in
• 13:46
  digits.
• 13:46
  It's
• 13:47
  measured
• 13:47
  in
• 13:47
  love.
• 13:48
  It's
• 13:48
  measured
• 13:49
  in
• 13:49
  belonging.
• 13:50
  And
• 13:50
  it's
• 13:50
  measured
• 13:50
  in
• 13:51
  eternal
• 13:51
  impact.
• 13:52
  So
• 13:53
  today,
• 13:53
  I
• 13:53
  just
• 13:53
  want
• 13:53
  to
• 13:53
  encourage
• 13:54
  you
• 13:54
  one
• 13:54
  more
• 13:54
  time.
• 13:54
  Make
• 13:55
  one
• 13:55
  relational
• 13:56
  investment.
• 13:57
  Reach
• 13:57
  out,
• 13:58
  reconnect,
• 13:59
  rebuild.
• 14:00
  You're
• 14:00
  not
• 14:01
  just
• 14:01
  managing
• 14:01
  money,
• 14:02
  friend.
• 14:02
  You're
• 14:02
  stewarding
• 14:03
  a
• 14:03
  life
• 14:03
  that
• 14:03
  reflects
• 14:04
  God's
• 14:04
  love.
• 14:07
  Hey,
• 14:07
  one
• 14:07
  of
• 14:07
  the
• 14:07
  ways
• 14:08
  you
• 14:08
  can
• 14:08
  do
• 14:08
  that
• 14:08
  is
• 14:08
  share
• 14:09
  the
• 14:09
  show
• 14:09
  with
• 14:09
  somebody.
• 14:11
  You
• 14:11
  might
• 14:11
  say,
• 14:11
  listen,
• 14:12
  I
• 14:12
  listen
• 14:12
  to
• 14:12
  this
• 14:12
  daily
• 14:13
  show.
• 14:13
  It's
• 14:13
  called
• 14:13
  Financially
• 14:14
  Confident
• 14:14
  Christian.
• 14:15
  And
• 14:15
  Ralph
• 14:16
  was
• 14:16
  talking
• 14:16
  all
• 14:16
  about
• 14:17
  relationships
• 14:17
  today.
• 14:18
  And
• 14:18
  I
• 14:18
  feel
• 14:18
  like,
• 14:19
  friend,
• 14:19
  I
• 14:19
  haven't
• 14:19
  connected
• 14:19
  with
• 14:20
  you
• 14:20
  for
• 14:20
  a
• 14:20
  while.
• 14:20
  I
• 14:21
  just
• 14:21
  wanted
• 14:21
  to
• 14:21
  share
• 14:21
  this
• 14:22
  with
• 14:22
  you
• 14:22
  and
• 14:22
  hopefully
• 14:23
  it'll
• 14:23
  be
• 14:23
  an
• 14:23
  encouragement
• 14:24
  for
• 14:24
  you.
• 14:25
  I'm
• 14:25
  just
• 14:26
  going
• 14:26
  to
• 14:26
  encourage
• 14:26
  you
• 14:26
  to
• 14:26
  do
• 14:27
  that.
• 14:27
  And
• 14:27
  while
• 14:27
  you're
• 14:27
  there,
• 14:28
  think
• 14:28
  about
• 14:28
  grabbing
• 14:29
  a
• 14:29
  free
• 14:29
  copy
• 14:29
  of
• 14:29
  my
• 14:29
  book.
• 14:30
  It's
• 14:30
  called
• 14:30
  Mastering
• 14:30
  Your
• 14:31
  Finances.
• 14:31
  It's
• 14:32
  a
• 14:32
  quick
• 14:32
  read,
• 14:32
  but
• 14:33
  it
• 14:33
  is
• 14:33
  super
• 14:33
  impactful.
• 14:34
  And
• 14:34
  you
• 14:35
  can
• 14:35
  get
• 14:35
  to
• 14:35
  that
• 14:35
  by
• 14:35
  going
• 14:36
  to
• 14:36
  financiallyconfidentchristian.com/master.
• 14:40
  Now.
• 14:41
  Tomorrow
• 14:41
  we're
• 14:41
  going
• 14:41
  to
• 14:42
  have
• 14:42
  a
• 14:42
  powerful
• 14:42
  episode
• 14:43
  on
• 14:43
  future
• 14:44
  pacing
• 14:44
  your
• 14:45
  freedom.
• 14:45
  We're
• 14:46
  going
• 14:46
  to
• 14:46
  talk
• 14:46
  about
• 14:46
  how
• 14:47
  to
• 14:47
  visualize
• 14:47
  and
• 14:48
  walk
• 14:48
  towards
• 14:48
  your
• 14:48
  ideal
• 14:49
  God
• 14:50
  honoring
• 14:50
  life.
• 14:51
  Now,
• 14:51
  before
• 14:52
  I
• 14:52
  close
• 14:52
  today,
• 14:52
  I
• 14:52
  just
• 14:53
  want
• 14:53
  to
• 14:53
  mention
• 14:53
  my
• 14:53
  new
• 14:53
  show.
• 14:54
  It's
• 14:54
  a
• 14:54
  weekly
• 14:54
  show.
• 14:55
  It's
• 14:55
  called
• 14:55
  Truth
• 14:55
  Unveiled
• 14:56
  with
• 14:56
  Ralph.
• 14:56
  If
• 14:57
  you
• 14:57
  love
• 14:57
  the
• 14:57
  Daily
• 14:57
  show,
• 14:58
  you're
• 14:58
  going
• 14:58
  to
• 14:58
  love
• 14:58
  the
• 14:58
  weekly
• 14:59
  show.
• 14:59
  I
• 14:59
  take
• 15:00
  the
• 15:00
  topics
• 15:00
  we
• 15:00
  talk
• 15:00
  about
• 15:01
  on
• 15:01
  a
• 15:01
  daily
• 15:01
  basis
• 15:02
  and
• 15:02
  make
• 15:02
  them
• 15:02
  a
• 15:02
  little
• 15:02
  bigger.
• 15:03
  It's
• 15:03
  a
• 15:03
  little
• 15:03
  bit
• 15:03
  longer
• 15:04
  content,
• 15:04
  but.
• 15:04
  But
• 15:04
  I
• 15:05
  also
• 15:05
  talk
• 15:05
  about
• 15:06
  how
• 15:06
  to
• 15:06
  take
• 15:06
  the
• 15:07
  timeless
• 15:07
  word
• 15:07
  of
• 15:08
  the
• 15:08
  Bible
• 15:08
  and
• 15:09
  compare
• 15:09
  it
• 15:09
  to
• 15:09
  what's
• 15:09
  going
• 15:10
  on
• 15:10
  in
• 15:10
  the
• 15:10
  world
• 15:11
  all
• 15:11
  around
• 15:11
  you.
• 15:11
  Hey,
• 15:11
  the
• 15:12
  first
• 15:12
  episode
• 15:12
  is
• 15:13
  all
• 15:13
  about
• 15:13
  the
• 15:13
  inflation
• 15:14
  illusion.
• 15:14
  So
• 15:14
  I'm
• 15:15
  going
• 15:15
  to
• 15:15
  encourage
• 15:15
  you
• 15:15
  to
• 15:15
  check
• 15:15
  it
• 15:15
  out.
• 15:16
  I'll
• 15:16
  have
• 15:16
  a
• 15:16
  link
• 15:16
  to
• 15:16
  it
• 15:17
  in
• 15:17
  the
• 15:17
  show
• 15:17
  notes.
• 15:17
  Or
• 15:18
  you
• 15:18
  can
• 15:18
  go
• 15:18
  to
• 15:18
  truthunveiledwithralph.com
• 15:21
  My
• 15:21
  friend,
• 15:22
  today,
• 15:22
  stay
• 15:22
  generous,
• 15:24
  stay
• 15:24
  connected,
• 15:25
  reconnect
• 15:25
  if
• 15:25
  you
• 15:26
  need
• 15:26
  to,
• 15:27
  and
• 15:27
  stay
• 15:28
  financially
• 15:28
  confident.
• 15:29
  You've
• 15:29
  got
• 15:29
  this.
• 15:30
  God
• 15:30
  bless
• 15:31
  you
• 15:31
  and
• 15:31
  you
• 15:31
  have
• 15:31
  a
• 15:31
  great
• 15:31
  day
• 15:32
  today.