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New Year, New Goals - Stop Old Habits and Make a Change · The Steve Stine Podcast

• 0:35
  Steve: Hey everybody, it's Steve Stine.
• 0:37
  Steve: Today I want to talk to you about something that hits pretty close to home for most of us.
• 0:41
  Steve: If you know the old saying, doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is kind of the definition of insanity.
• 0:48
  Steve: Now, whether it's the actual definition or not doesn't really matter.
• 0:51
  Steve: What matters is a lot of us live our lives exactly like that.
• 0:55
  Steve: We want things to change, we wish things would get better, but we keep doing the same things we did last year and the year before that.
• 1:03
  Steve: For guitar players, it looks like this.
• 1:05
  Steve: We say we want to improve, we say we want confidence, fluency, freedom on the fretboard, but then we keep practicing the same way we always have.
• 1:15
  Steve: We scroll videos instead of focusing.
• 1:18
  Steve: We learn 20 riffs but never finish songs.
• 1:21
  Steve: We noodle instead of train.
• 1:23
  Steve: We avoid the stuff that makes us uncomfortable.
• 1:26
  Steve: And then at the end of the year, we look back and go, man, why didn't I get any better?
• 1:31
  Steve: And here's the important part.
• 1:33
  Steve: It doesn't mean you failed.
• 1:35
  Steve: It doesn't mean that you're not talented.
• 1:36
  Steve: It doesn't mean that you're too old.
• 1:38
  Steve: It just means you repeated the same patterns.
• 1:41
  Steve: You're not broken, you're not behind, you're just stuck in repetition.
• 1:45
  Steve: And repetition without intention doesn't lead to growth.
• 1:49
  Steve: It just leads to frustration.
• 1:51
  Steve: So here's the real truth: nothing changes until something changes.
• 1:55
  Steve: We don't get new results with old habits.
• 1:58
  Steve: We don't build confidence by staying in the comfort zone.
• 2:02
  Steve: We don't improve simply because we hope to.
• 2:05
  Steve: Change never comes from wanting, change comes from doing something different.
• 2:10
  Steve: And this isn't just guitar, this is life.
• 2:13
  Steve: Confidence in the way we work, the way we have relationships with people.
• 2:17
  Steve: All of these things are really, really important.
• 2:19
  Steve: Okay.
• 2:20
  Steve: It's important for your health.
• 2:21
  Steve: We all have root routines that we've been repeating for years.
• 2:25
  Steve: Some of them don't serve us, some of them do.
• 2:27
  Steve: And sooner or later, we have to look at ourselves in the mirror and go, okay, what do I actually want to change?
• 2:32
  Steve: Now, this isn't meant to beat you up.
• 2:35
  Steve: This is actually really hopeful because it means you're not stuck because of some flaw in who you are.
• 2:40
  Steve: You're stuck because of habits.
• 2:42
  Steve: Habits can be changed.
• 2:44
  Steve: Patterns can be rewritten, stories can be updated.
• 2:47
  Steve: And that's why I think 2026 could be an incredible year for you.
• 2:51
  Steve: Not because a calendar magically fixes anything, but because it gives you a clean page.
• 2:57
  Steve: You already know what didn't work last year.
• 3:00
  Steve: You already know the excuses that you used when you didn't make the progress that you needed to make.
• 3:05
  Steve: You already know where you're getting stuck.
• 3:07
  Steve: So now instead of repeating the script, you can actually rewrite it.
• 3:11
  Steve: So what does change actually look like for you?
• 3:15
  Steve: First of all, it doesn't mean perfection.
• 3:17
  Steve: It doesn't mean a rigid rules system.
• 3:20
  Steve: It doesn't mean living like a robot.
• 3:22
  Steve: It means instead of practicing random elements, you need to get a little structure.
• 3:27
  Steve: Instead of avoiding what scares you, you need to lean into it slowly if needed.
• 3:32
  Steve: Instead of saying someday, you need to give yourself a real commitment.
• 3:37
  Steve: Instead of feeling alone, you need to ask for help, connect, talk to somebody.
• 3:41
  Steve: For guitar, that might mean practicing 10 minutes a day, choosing one goal instead of 50, actually finishing songs, working on phrasing, rhythm, fretboard awareness, not just riffs.
• 3:53
  Steve: Letting yourself be a learner instead of criticizing yourself.
• 3:57
  Steve: Confidence doesn't just appear.
• 3:59
  Steve: Confidence grows out of small wins, consistent effort, and finally trusting yourself again.
• 4:06
  Steve: And that's possible for you no matter your age, no matter how long you've been stuck, no matter how many times you've quit before.
• 4:12
  Steve: So if you're tired of just repeating the same thing year after year and you're tired of circling the same frustration, you're tired of wondering whether you'll ever feel confident and get to where you want to be on the guitar, make this your year.
• 4:25
  Steve: But to do that, something has to be different.
• 4:28
  Steve: You don't have to change everything overnight.
• 4:30
  Steve: You don't have to become a completely different person.
• 4:33
  Steve: You just have to make different choices a little bit at a time.
• 4:35
  Steve: And if you do that, guitar gets more fun.
• 4:38
  Steve: Life gets a little lighter.
• 4:40
  Steve: The confidence comes back in you.
• 4:42
  Steve: So here's 2026, not just another year, but maybe the year where you stop repeating and start becoming who you actually want to be.
• 4:50
  Steve: Now, I hope you can do this on your own.
• 4:54
  Steve: If you feel like you can't, I want to reach out to you and let you know that one thing that you could do is check out the Guitar Zoom Academy.
• 5:02
  Steve: Okay.
• 5:02
  Steve: You can make an appointment with us.
• 5:04
  Steve: You leave your credit card at home.
• 5:06
  Steve: All we do is have a conversation and see whether or not the academy is something that would fit you.
• 5:11
  Steve: Okay.
• 5:11
  Steve: So have a wonderful 2026.
• 5:14
  Steve: Stay positive.
• 5:15
  Steve: Keep practicing.
• 5:16
  Steve: God bless.
• 5:17
  Steve: And I'll talk to you soon.
• 5:18
  Steve: Okay.