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Dispatch Rider & His Crush - Actress Sarah Martins Takes Him On A Date · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to an episode of Bandit Lawrence here.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great for today's episode,
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  I want to ask the question, would you date a dispatch rider?
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  Let's say you order something online and then the delivery man
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  or the delivery woman knocked on your door, saw you lost it,
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  screaming on top of their voices like they love you, they love
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  your music, they love your movies and you're thinking, OK,
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  this is a super fan. You accommodated their feelings,
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  you maybe even give them a tip. Big tip.
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  So after that they started messaging you because most times
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  delivery drivers have your contact details so that they
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  could reach you if in case anything happens.
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  So after the delivery, they started contacting you privately
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  to tell you to profess their love.
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  This also happened to not only would actress Sarah Martins.
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  So Sarah Martins ordered something, I think, I don't
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  know, maybe food or something. And then the dispatch rider or
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  the delivery man showed up on her door, was happy that she was
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  the one. He he expressed, you know, his
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  love. And she thought maybe this is
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  I'm an actress, everybody loves me.
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  But he took it a bit further by reaching out to her, texting
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  her, asking her to date him. She got angry and she got him
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  fired because she reported to the company saying that is this,
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  how is this what you people employ?
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  You employ people that will be harassing your customers or your
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  clients. So the company sacked the
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  delivery man and then he came out online.
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  He was crying that he was sacked.
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  The Internet was divided. Some people were like, why would
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  you get him fired? That is his source of income.
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  OK, let's say you don't like what he was saying to you.
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  Why don't you block the man? Sarah Martin said.
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  Listen, this is unprofessional. Maybe he has been doing this to
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  everybody. Maybe this is how he operates.
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  Maybe he would even he has used this to, to sleep with so many
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  vulnerable people who he's been delivering goods for.
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  Or maybe he's he's a gigolo, who knows?
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  So she made that statement and people were not happy.
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  They said, listen, you, you shouldn't have gotten him fired.
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  If you don't like him, why don't you just block his number?
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  Now he's fired. He doesn't have a job.
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  How do you want him to feed his family?
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  He did not sexually harass you. He just said he liked you or he
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  loved you. I was asking to date you.
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  Anybody, any man can ask any woman out on a date.
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  If you don't like it, just decline.
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  But she also did. According to Sarah, she declined
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  from the text messages. But he kept on pressing saying
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  that, oh, is it because he's the delivery driver Now after the
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  backlash because people said, listen, you shouldn't have fired
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  him, Sarah Martin decided to take him out on a date.
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  Let me just play that video for you to see when they met for the
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  second time. You guys, this is the rider and
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  there is crush. Thanks.
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  For coming. Since
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  then. None.
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  The dispatch rider and his crush.
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  Now this. This warmed people's hearts
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  because they said, listen, it's a happy ending.
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  Yes, she got him fired, but at least she has put a smile on his
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  face and probably maybe the employers would give him back
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  his job. Now, at least this is a happy
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  ending. But she came out to clarify that
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  she just took him out on a date. There are no dating.
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  She has not accepted his proposal, but she just wanted to
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  make him smile. Now, this is 1 end.
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  The other side of the story is that's worry girl.
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  Or is it real worry? That's worry, girl.
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  Yeah. So she went to the hospital.
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  She said she had stomach pain, so she went to the hospital to
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  have a checkup. So when she got there, the
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  doctors, they looked at her and they said, listen, you need to
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  see a gynaecologist. She said why is she seeing a
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  gynaecologist that she hasn't had sex in a very long time so
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  it's not like she's pregnant or anything like that.
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  So why she see the gynaecologist?
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  They said listen, just go and that is our recommendation.
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  So she went to see the gynaecologist.
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  Now she said immediately she walked in the man or the doctors
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  are shouting, Oh my God, I'm a fan.
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  I'm a big fan of yours. I am this, I am that.
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  I love you. You are so funny.
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  I love I love your workout videos.
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  All these this is that he was like so much he was smitten.
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  So she said after that conversation, she said, oh, no
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  problem, no problem. And then the guy, he said we
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  need to examine you're inside. I think she said that was why in
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  reality, don't don't her. She was like, what?
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  Anyway, let me just play that video for you to understand what
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  she has to say. They can't work what they do as
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  a person, as a profession. If you see people what you like
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  celebrities or what you know from the Internet or anywhere
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  you go, just buy look up, go on with your job.
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  So they feel a particular Belleopen.
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  Of course they make her go hospital.
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  Are they like to check make her nose?
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  Are they on the safe side or not?
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  So as I go hospital doctor check, I explain the pain given
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  because I need to go see gynaecologist before you go
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  decide. I say, whoa, I don't think I
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  need to see a gynaecologist. He say why I say because another
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  active are not potentive, but they are not drink anything
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  nothing. So another active I don't think
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  I need to see a gynaecologist. She said now why are we need to
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  see gynaecologist make an ecologist give me a new result
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  first before if you proceed. I said OK that's gynaecologist
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  see me. He said Jesus charity, I know
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  you. I'm so, so useful.
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  I like your this this. I like your workouts, but nice
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  one that you are doing just they tell me I still kiss.
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  OK. What are you here for a pressing
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  computer? OK, doctor, send me comita Nikon
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  Nos. Nos.
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  Come they give me uniform. Send me car.
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  Change it to Why say gynaecology?
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  Say you need to, you need to check like what can I call this
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  one? See me finish butter.
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  Butter. You say I need to change.
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  So make a good recorder so that you can use that scope with side
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  body shake. Guess what, I'm at home.
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  The belly pain is gone. I don't feel nothing.
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  At the first it is in our appendix.
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  But now the appendix every pain is gone.
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  I feel OK. Nothing is wrong with me.
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  You want to see my eyes? You want to see my eyes?
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  Now this sounds funny until it is no longer funny because it is
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  not just about being sexually active that you need to see a
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  gynaecologist. There are smear test cancer is
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  everywhere, cervical cancer, ovarian cancer.
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  So sometimes they need to check to make sure that everything is
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  OK because if you're not sexually active and you have
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  abdominal pain and in General practitioner had examined you
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  and said OK and recommended you to see a gynaecologist because
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  according to her, he typed on the system to see what he was
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  supposed to do with her. So it wasn't like he was the one
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  that made the recommendation. I think where the problem was
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  was that he was kind of a fan and he he over maybe over hyped
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  her or something like that. So she wasn't comfortable
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  because at the end of the day, you have to be comfortable for
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  somebody to go down there, especially somebody you're not
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  even a doctor here. They need a nurse.
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  You need to be covered. A nurse will be the one to
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  actually probe and the doctor will look at the screen.
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  I think maybe that would have, that was what would have
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  happened because it was a nurse that asked her to change.
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  Maybe the doctor will just be looking at the screen.
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  He would not look into her. Vijayjay.
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  But she wasn't comfortable when she left, a doctor came out
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  online and said she hates this country because, you know, why
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  would you not like let the gynaecologist do his job just
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  because he said he was a fan of yours, You know?
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  So Fast forward down the line, maybe 2 years down the line, if
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  it was something serious that they could have detected at this
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  point, but because you're not comfortable with the fact that
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  the doctor is a fan, then you kick the bucket two years down
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  the line and it becomes a problem.
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  So these are two cases OF22 service providers who maybe
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  because they were fans, lost a job, not lost, losing.
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  At least doctor did not lose his job, but the dispatch rider lost
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  his job. So sometimes you have to be
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  professional in what you do In the UK here a lot of doctors,
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  especially Nigerian doctors or Nigerian nurses, they lose their
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  job because they forget that they are providing services.
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  A nurse lost her job because she was trying to pray or she prayed
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  over a, a patient. You know, the patient was wasn't
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  feeling fine and she decided to pray for the patient and the
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  patient reported because maybe they're atheist and you're
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  praying, maybe they're Muslims, maybe they're, they worship
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  alternative gods. So you can't just do certain
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  things just because you have the opportunity or you have the
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  you're in certain positions to do that.
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  So but I think that worry girl, yeah, that's worry girl.
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  She needs to go to the hospital and have a proper checkup to
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  know exactly what's going on. Just because she didn't like
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  that gynaecologist doesn't mean she don't.
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  She can't go to another hospital for a checkup.
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  Anyway. Let me know what you think.
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  You think that these two cases shows that to be a service
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  provider, you have to be professional regardless of who
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  you're providing that service to.
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much watching to
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  this episode. Please like, like, like share,
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  subscribe to my channel. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye.