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- 0:00Yes. Right. How do you want me to introduce you?
- 0:05So I'm a mind expansion coach and inner wealth
- 0:09mentor. And I host two podcasts. The one that
- 0:12I've recently launched, it's Inner Power Out
- 0:15of Prosperity. And the other is Wellness and
- 0:18Beyond, which I co -host with my wife and partner,
- 0:21Julie. Cool. And yeah, that's who I am. I live
- 0:27in Spain. Really? Yeah. I had no idea. How is
- 0:34it living in Spain? Oh, it's really amazing.
- 0:38People are amazing. And the climate is not bad
- 0:41either, you know, compared to the rest of Europe.
- 0:44Yeah. Sure. I mean, where I live, knowing Spanish
- 0:47is a must. Otherwise, it's hard to get by. But
- 0:50otherwise, apart from that, Spanish is not that
- 0:53difficult, you know, to learn. There are a lot
- 0:54of... English words also, you know, rock words
- 0:57that overlap in English as well. Well, listen,
- 1:00let me tell you why my minor in university was
- 1:06Spanish. I don't remember a lick of it. I don't
- 1:09even know how I passed. I remember having one
- 1:12conversation with my professor and she was like,
- 1:16I was doing well, maybe like mid 80s, which is
- 1:20like maybe like a B minus. and I just could not
- 1:23convince her I didn't know what I was doing.
- 1:25Like I wrote papers and I was like, I don't know
- 1:27what I'm saying. And she's like, no, you're good.
- 1:29You're good. And I was like, I don't know. And
- 1:32I just, I think I was bad at it. I don't know.
- 1:34I don't know. I think they just gave it to me.
- 1:37So I don't remember any of my Spanish at all.
- 1:41So, you know, congratulations to you for learning.
- 1:44Thanks. But you know what, frankly, I mean, right
- 1:46when we came here, we took classes. I mean, we
- 1:49didn't know Spanish. We didn't know how to speak
- 1:51Spanish when we arrived here. And so we did start
- 1:55with classes because that was the most obvious
- 1:56thing to do. But to be very frank with you, it
- 1:58was not the classes that actually helped more
- 2:00than was the conversations, the imperfect conversations
- 2:03that we had with the people around. Yeah, that's
- 2:06usually how, I mean, that's how I grasped, you
- 2:09know, my limited Chinese. It was when I first
- 2:12came to China, I loved going to tea shops. And
- 2:15so I would just go into tea shops and just guess.
- 2:21He says limited Chinese. His Chinese is very
- 2:25good. You can read Chinese. I can see it. I can
- 2:32speak better than you, but you can definitely
- 2:34read much better than me. Yeah, I guess so. It's
- 2:38weird that I can't recognize it. In terms of
- 2:43being able to build a language by yourself and
- 2:46gaining autonomy, reading is far more important.
- 2:50But to be fair, I can't read, like, I couldn't
- 2:52read a child's storybook. I can read everyday
- 2:56things, if that makes sense. Like, I can go into
- 2:59grocery stores. Like, I can read ingredients,
- 3:01food, titles of shops. It's really strange. But
- 3:04a book with that abstract kind of thinking, I
- 3:07can't. Can read a children's storybook, but there's
- 3:11no way that I can read ingredients of a recipe,
- 3:13for example. Just different interests, you know?
- 3:17That's it. Apparently. It depends on the use
- 3:20case. Like how much are you using the language?
- 3:23What are you using the language for? Definitely.
- 3:27Like Ruby and I are language teachers essentially,
- 3:30so like we know what to do. I just don't do it.
- 3:35I know how to learn to read. Yeah, I know the
- 3:39secrets of learning a language. I'm just bothered.
- 3:43I have all the tools. They're in the toolbox
- 3:45over there. And I haven't opened it in like weeks.
- 3:50Okay. Tough questions. Honest answers. Oh, the
- 3:57messy truth. Your perspectives. Let's begin.
- 4:05Welcome to Kaleidoscope. So speaking of mind
- 4:10expansion, as the name suggests, mind is what
- 4:13I would just say consciousness. So it's expansion
- 4:16of our consciousness because as a root of it,
- 4:19we are energy, we are consciousness. So it's
- 4:22all about just expanding our awareness to access
- 4:25what lies beyond or what lies within. And to
- 4:32basically access the field or some people like
- 4:34to call it access the Akashic records or some
- 4:37people like to call it accessing the higher mind
- 4:41or deeper level of consciousness or higher or
- 4:44higher self, you know, a lot of names, but to
- 4:46access that essence of who you really are. And
- 4:51that's where it kind of directly connects with
- 4:54my, the other thing that I do actually, it's
- 4:56not like a separation, but I just, since I offer,
- 4:58I have two offerings, I have like two things
- 5:00that I do, but it's, it's an actuality. It's
- 5:03just the same thing. So inner wealth mentor,
- 5:06as the name suggests now, since I said, expanding
- 5:09and accessing your ascents, right? And inner
- 5:12wealth, as the name suggests, is all that you
- 5:15need. The answers, the true wealth is actually
- 5:18within you. And if you want to change what's
- 5:20external to you, if you want to change your experiences
- 5:23in life, if you want to get somewhere, you want
- 5:24to do something, then you have to access that
- 5:27internal wealth. So that's what I do. Mind expansion
- 5:32and inner wealth window. And with these two podcasts,
- 5:39the new one that I just launched, which is Inner
- 5:41Power, Out of Prosperity, again, just suggests
- 5:44that the power is within, the wealth is within.
- 5:47And even to gain out of prosperity, we need to
- 5:50access what's within, we need to align with what's
- 5:53within that directly gets in touch with our purpose.
- 5:58And with basically connecting to that inner self
- 6:03and having more clarity on that level. And so
- 6:09here in this podcast, I invite people who are
- 6:14already at the, they have already had success
- 6:16in life, they have outer prosperity. And then
- 6:18I interview them to basically know their journey,
- 6:22how they dealt with those inner turmoil and all
- 6:26the fears and what all the inner demons that
- 6:28they were facing and how they got themselves
- 6:30to align with what was inside of them. Because
- 6:33you know most of the successful people today
- 6:35that we see and you know influencers and creators
- 6:38They've all had a journey and and most of them
- 6:42have come from a place of struggle where they
- 6:46have been broken including myself and So I feel
- 6:50that that's the most important thing and yeah
- 6:53Our podcast was journey to wellness and beyond
- 6:56before but now we are changing the name and making
- 6:58it wellness and beyond we are rebooting and changing
- 7:01the style of podcasting, we'll be focusing more
- 7:04on interviewing guests. And so Wellness and Beyond,
- 7:07as the name suggests, was actually where I started
- 7:09from, like post pandemic, because I lost my mom
- 7:13to breast cancer. So I always had this question
- 7:16of, why cancer? How can we get to wellness? And
- 7:20that got both me and my wife motivated into studying
- 7:24this. At first, it was unofficial, but then of
- 7:27course, the pandemic caused us to kind of switch
- 7:29in and making it into a career, a profession.
- 7:34And so Wellness and Beyond is about focused on
- 7:38how we can work on the physical body and also
- 7:40as the name Beyond suggests, like the mental,
- 7:42the consciousness, where also the part of my
- 7:45mind expansion gets in. And eventually tapping
- 7:50into things like lucid dreaming tools, I would
- 7:52say, or even things like, you know, remote viewing.
- 7:57the inabilities that we already have. And our
- 8:01goal at the end is just that people wake up to
- 8:05their real power, their inner power, so that
- 8:08they can thrive not just in wellness, but also
- 8:11in prosperity and abundance in life. And really
- 8:14like to understand that even happiness is a state
- 8:17of mind and everything is achievable. And, you
- 8:19know, give the power back into the hands of people.
- 8:24Hello, welcome to Kaleidoscope. My name is Ruby
- 8:28Ray Liu and I am the host of this podcast. I'm
- 8:32also the enemy of all fridges and feared by all
- 8:37snacks. Today, I am joined by, how do I articulate
- 8:42this? Ah yes, my co -host, Luigi. Gee, thanks.
- 8:47Co -host and dear friend Luigi and Arjun... Chabra.
- 8:52Arjun Chabra is a... I'm very honored to have
- 8:55you join us. I'm interested in your story. I
- 8:58read it when you first posted it on Slack in
- 9:02RSS, which is how we connected. Arjun can be
- 9:05found, dear listener, on YouTube at A -R -J -U
- 9:10-N -R -C -H -H. Actually, that is the handle
- 9:14for all of his socials and Instagram. YouTube,
- 9:18and X. Please check him out. Arjun Chh. Arjun,
- 9:23welcome to the show. Thank you so much for having
- 9:26me. It's a pleasure and honor to be here with
- 9:28you. Do you want to take part in our little allegory
- 9:33slash thing? Reminders of who we are. Okay, yeah.
- 9:36I mean, I would love to, but I hope that you
- 9:38all go first because... Okay. I'm feared by all
- 9:41snacks. Luigi. Welcome. Joining us from Canada
- 9:46today. Yeah, the Great White North. One time.
- 9:51One time thing. Well, who knows? Anyway, I'm
- 9:53Luigi, future scrap collector. Why? Why? What
- 9:59scrap are you going to collect? Tin. Tin? I've
- 10:04been reading a book about the history of Japan
- 10:06after the war. It's really fascinating. And a
- 10:11part that built the economy was they would collect
- 10:13the tin from the occupying American soldiers
- 10:18and they would they would recycle it into toys
- 10:21for sale. And that's how they kind of saved their
- 10:25economy. You're saying that the Japanese economy
- 10:28is built on scrap metal. The toy industry yeah
- 10:31and those toys were taken from like the the thrown
- 10:34away tin cans yeah. Wow that is that's impressive
- 10:38I did not know that. It's really really fascinating
- 10:40anyway. I'm going to welcome you one more time.
- 10:44Harjit, welcome to the show. Thank you so much.
- 10:47Sorry, we were getting out in between, so I didn't
- 10:49quite catch what was happening. I'm saying, do
- 10:54you want to say something about yourself? Yeah,
- 10:58in terms of like funny or just who I am? Let's
- 11:01go for funny. Well, you can call me. Oh, and
- 11:07the silent underdog. I don't know what to say.
- 11:09The silent underdog, why would you describe yourself
- 11:12that way? It's funny because, you know, generally
- 11:15it's like underdog is someone who opposes, right?
- 11:17Trying to always go against the conventional
- 11:21way of doing things. But I do that, but I do
- 11:24it really silently, not out loud. So I am, I
- 11:29like, it's not like I like to always oppose,
- 11:33but knowing that the kind of society we live
- 11:35in, I definitely like to... I have my own ways
- 11:38of opposing and keeping my point and, you know,
- 11:41trying to bring out the truth and hopefully justice
- 11:45to as many as I can, including myself. Okay.
- 11:48So Arjun, the underdog that assassinates basically.
- 11:54Silent and deadly. Like a ninja. The ninja underdog.
- 12:00That's the ninja underdog. Arjun, the way Kaleidoscope
- 12:06works is Each of us shares a perspective or idea,
- 12:10and then the other two kind of delves into that
- 12:14for a little bit, and we see where the conversation
- 12:17goes. And then after that, we change it, yeah?
- 12:22In no particular order today, would you like
- 12:26to go first? All right. Do we do that to the
- 12:29guests? We usually make them go first? No, yeah,
- 12:32normally, normally I do. All I know is I always
- 12:35go last. You may go last. Arjen, would you like
- 12:38me to share your topic or would you like to introduce
- 12:41it? You please feel free and I'll definitely
- 12:45just join in. Yeah, please do. Okay. So today,
- 12:50you sent to me on the 26th of July. I'd love
- 12:56to share my perspective and journey in relation
- 12:58to achieving clarity and purpose that helps cultivating
- 13:03peace and prosperity. in life which directly
- 13:07ties into physical wellness. In short, how everything
- 13:11is connected. I thought that was beautiful because
- 13:15I really like the fact that everything is intersectional.
- 13:22We don't live linearly. We live in Venn diagrams
- 13:26of cause and effect. Absolutely. You know, the
- 13:29very first thing as children that we are always
- 13:33taught or the kind of perspective that you're
- 13:35given is to always look at things separately.
- 13:38You know, we have separate subjects and archaeology
- 13:41never mixes with geology, you know, and even
- 13:44in biology or, you know, let's say the conventional
- 13:48system, I wouldn't really go too much in depth
- 13:51about it because, you know, it's something like
- 13:53that easily can get taken down these days. everything
- 13:57is looked at separately, right? There's a cardiologist
- 13:59and there's another doctor who looks at the brain
- 14:01and there's another guy who like, you know, does
- 14:03the kidneys, et cetera, et cetera. So everything
- 14:05is always so separate. And the more I have, I,
- 14:09of course, I started delving into all of these
- 14:11things from the perspective of wellness and health.
- 14:14And now today I'm at a point where, where I realize
- 14:18after starting even functional medicine and reading
- 14:21a ton of other books and doing this and that,
- 14:24it's been a crazy journey for me. that it's not
- 14:26just the body that's connected together. We are
- 14:31connected not just to each other, but even the
- 14:33cosmos. And in fact, even our emotions are tied
- 14:37into our wellness. And even our outer prosperity
- 14:40is also tied into our own emotions and wellness
- 14:45and our state of mind. And you know, it's dictated
- 14:47by the nervous system. So it's, you know, like
- 14:50what I'm trying to say is everything is so interconnected.
- 14:54Like in the beginning, the reason also why I
- 14:56got into inner power out of prosperity, like
- 14:59inner wealth coaching and mind expansion and
- 15:01all that, because I realized that why are people
- 15:04not getting well? You know, we have been using
- 15:06different herbs, supplements and, you know, different
- 15:09approaches, like what we learned in function
- 15:11medicine and holistic wellness, but still people
- 15:14are just at the edge. One step out of line, chaos.
- 15:20So what's happening over here? And then of course.
- 15:23People are not right at the right point. People
- 15:26are not there yet mentally. Maybe they have issues
- 15:31they are dealing with or maybe they don't have
- 15:34prosperity in life. They don't have abundance
- 15:36in life. Maybe they live in fear of certain things.
- 15:40And again, our brain or our mind is not functioning
- 15:45based on what it sees in the outer world. It's
- 15:48functioning based on what we think is real in
- 15:52our mind. Right? And so everything is so tied
- 15:57together that if we need out -of -abundance,
- 16:00we need inner peace and even if we need wellness
- 16:04in our own physical body, we also, again, inner
- 16:08peace ties into the regulation of the nervous
- 16:12system and that's when our... biochemistry is,
- 16:16you know, it can get back to its default state
- 16:19the way it's supposed to be, not us always being
- 16:21in that fight or flight survival mode and that
- 16:24wrecks havoc. And then most of us find ourselves
- 16:27in a place where we are, you know, suffering
- 16:33from many problems, issues and diseases. And
- 16:35I think a lot of us... are trying to seek out
- 16:39the answers external to us and trying to solve
- 16:42this problem and that problem and maybe this
- 16:45is different or that is different or only to
- 16:50realize that everything is interconnected and
- 16:51it all starts from the head. It all starts from
- 16:53what we think and what we feel and what's inside
- 16:57and while also respecting what's outside. And
- 17:00there are like people fighting over perspectives
- 17:02and tools, or this tool and this modality is
- 17:05better, or that is better, or I am right, or
- 17:07you are wrong, just to realize that everything
- 17:10is just different perspectives. You know, we
- 17:12all are looking at different sides of the same
- 17:14coin, the same box, whatever you like to call
- 17:16it. So are all these perspectives like tools
- 17:22and they are all legitimate tools for finding
- 17:25a way? Or is there just one? How would put it
- 17:29is like, like wherever, like we all want to get
- 17:32to that one point in our life where we are not
- 17:34just physically well, but we are prosper and
- 17:36abundant and happy and all of those things, right?
- 17:38So let's say that goal is on top of a mountain.
- 17:42And that's just one point. The peak is, it's
- 17:44just a peak, right? It's just one point. And
- 17:46then there's, there are the slopes and there
- 17:48are the different terrains around it that make
- 17:51that mountain. And then we can take any path.
- 17:54So it's the journey, what journey are we taking?
- 17:57And let's say how we feel, what we think, and
- 18:00what modalities and techniques we plan to use,
- 18:03whether it's getting well, you know, physically
- 18:05well, or it's something that can be mentally
- 18:08support us or something that we use internally
- 18:11to grow like our consciousness or expand our
- 18:14consciousness. And we use different modalities,
- 18:17techniques, basically, it's based on our belief
- 18:18systems. And then we try all try to climb the
- 18:21same mountain. And just to realize that we all
- 18:27are going to get to the same point and it doesn't
- 18:30matter what tool we use, they all are valid.
- 18:37They all are valid at different points. Like
- 18:39for example, you can't even climb the whole mountain
- 18:41just using one tool. A lot of people also make
- 18:43that mistake of thinking that, for example, only
- 18:48the conventional medical system can help. or
- 18:52only the holistic wellness system can help. But
- 18:57when there's an acute situation, you need the
- 19:00conventional system. And when it's a chronic
- 19:03issue or illness, then you need to take different
- 19:07steps which are more aligned with the holistic
- 19:10wellness system. And so there's no one right
- 19:13answer. And based on our situations, we need
- 19:15to use different tools. Basically, we need to
- 19:17be more open and flexible. And the more accepting
- 19:20we are and the more we are ready to let go and
- 19:23be not stubborn, not too adamant on our ways
- 19:26and our way of thinking, the better it is for
- 19:29us and the faster we can climb the mountain.
- 19:31Yeah. No, I like that. It's like a bricolage
- 19:33of self -care. And I think that is, yeah, I think
- 19:37that's the best strategy personally. I think
- 19:39it almost becomes kind of political when people
- 19:43limit themselves on the best avenue for something.
- 19:47Like, you know... just, let's say, just, you
- 19:50know, Western medicine versus some other form,
- 19:53things like that. Because obviously, you know,
- 19:57the joy of being human, I think, is, or at least
- 20:00being a part of humanity and civilization, is
- 20:02that everyone has, or at least society has been
- 20:07broken down into a kind of mode of expertise.
- 20:11And it seems really limiting. But the paradox,
- 20:16I think, is that It is what advances humanity
- 20:20so quickly. And it's when we use all of those,
- 20:24you know, tools, for example, like you can go
- 20:28to an osteopath, you can go to a physical therapist
- 20:33for many issues, and then you go to a dietician
- 20:36for other dietary issues. So yeah, and the issues,
- 20:39the things that happen or the challenges that
- 20:44arise are when people limit themselves You know,
- 20:48oh, I'm only going to eat holistic food or things
- 20:52like that. What's the fun in life if we are always
- 20:55trying to be perfect, right? Definitely. Yeah.
- 20:59Tell me about it. Do we think that there is value
- 21:01in the like compartmentalization and specialization?
- 21:08The thing that I'm sitting with is at the beginning
- 21:11of the conversation you said The first thing
- 21:14we're taught as kids is that everything has a
- 21:17time and place, kind of, right? So we have subjects
- 21:21and then we have professions. So, but obviously
- 21:25those professions, those skills, they have inherent
- 21:29value, like specialization is important, right?
- 21:33It's important, but at the same time, we also
- 21:35need to leave space for bridging them, right?
- 21:38For connecting them. Because a lot of times it's
- 21:41like... I am in isolation, but I want to be in
- 21:43isolation. It's just like, you know, our lives.
- 21:46We need time for ourselves also, right? We need
- 21:49our time of being with our thoughts and ourselves.
- 21:52We need our isolate. You know, we want to be
- 21:54by ourselves and there are times we want to spend
- 21:57with others and being community. There's always
- 21:59has to be a balance. So there's nothing wrong
- 22:01with specialization, but there has to be also
- 22:04points of connection that have to be left on
- 22:06the table. Absolutely, right? Open -mindedness.
- 22:10Balance. Exactly. And that's what's absent in
- 22:13our society. Sometimes, you know, people are
- 22:15so adamant, they just don't want to think outside
- 22:18the box. They don't stick with what they have
- 22:21taught. So, look, I don't want to make this political,
- 22:24but I do have to say this one thing. You can
- 22:29make it political. It's strange. It is very strange
- 22:32that countries have had to make laws for diversity,
- 22:36equity and inclusion. Why isn't that the default?
- 22:39Like, why doesn't that just exist within our
- 22:42society by default? To me, that's kind of a concerning
- 22:47factor. Sorry to cut you off, Ruby. No, no, please
- 22:52go ahead. I think that happens because, maybe
- 22:54I'm going to sound really arrogant when I say
- 22:56this, but I think that happens because a lot
- 22:59of, you know, the majority of society, perhaps,
- 23:03when those laws were created, weren't educated,
- 23:06weren't taught certain methods of thinking. you
- 23:09know, weren't critical thinkers. It was just
- 23:11really regimented and, well, like we're saying.
- 23:14So, a lot of the kind of disaster happened. Does
- 23:17that make sense? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I'm just,
- 23:20I'm laughing because how did it, like, the majority
- 23:24of people were not educated enough to be able
- 23:26to think critically about this, but now we look
- 23:29at the states and we have an active rollback
- 23:32of DEI and that, that baffles me. Okay, but,
- 23:35okay, fair enough. But how many? If we look at
- 23:39the statistics, how many Americans are educated?
- 23:44Yeah, I know. That's the concern. That's why
- 23:47I'm laughing. That's terrifying that we have
- 23:49the richest nation in the world that is actively...
- 23:53I always knew this is going to sound bad, but
- 23:56it's a legacy of this exact system of... of oppression
- 24:00and compartmentalization and not sharing that
- 24:04resulted in the majority of the South African
- 24:06population being left in poverty and being uneducated,
- 24:10right? Yeah. So they're not even able to engage.
- 24:14I always knew that. But maybe I'm ignorant here.
- 24:17I never, never, never knew that about. I mean,
- 24:22there was a point in my life where I started
- 24:24realizing that the Deep South has a problem with
- 24:27education, but I never thought that it would
- 24:29be so systemic to the point where we are now.
- 24:33And kind of to bring it back to the podcast,
- 24:37Arjun, how would you say that that is connected
- 24:40to inner wealth? Exactly. You know, as Luigi
- 24:47pointed out, it was, it was, yeah, sure, not
- 24:49being educated was one factor. But at the same
- 24:52time, the most biggest factor of all was also
- 24:55giving away our inner power to someone else,
- 24:57an external authority, a group of people who
- 25:00decided what's right and what's wrong for you.
- 25:03And then people blindly followed. Why did they
- 25:06follow? Because they thought they weren't good
- 25:08enough or there were certain aspects of the society
- 25:10that I wouldn't want to say. which we all know
- 25:13about, you know, people going to... I mean, I
- 25:18don't want to make it too controversial, so I'm
- 25:19not going to say the word, but, you know, it's
- 25:23connected to worship, right? And they have always
- 25:28kind of been connected with, you know, the political
- 25:31systems and other systems, and they have always
- 25:33dictated what's right for the people. and what
- 25:36should be taught, what should not be taught.
- 25:39And then again, people gave away their power.
- 25:41If everyone is standing in their power, who has
- 25:43the right to tell people what is right and what
- 25:45is wrong, except the people themselves deciding.
- 25:48So we all blindfolded ourselves and we went on
- 25:51with whatever is taught to us. But I'm glad that
- 25:55at least today we are in a place in our society
- 25:58where there is a revolt there's a revolution
- 26:02where people are waking up where people are saying
- 26:04hey that's not good like people are speaking
- 26:06out you know we are i feel we are growing and
- 26:10i like to see or i like to believe the future
- 26:13has been a much brighter one for all of us for
- 26:16humanity because i see us getting there i compare
- 26:20arch day to 200 years ago sure not everything's
- 26:22perfect but it's definitely better i mean you
- 26:26we couldn't have spoken about these things 200
- 26:28years ago No, we wouldn't have known that the
- 26:31three of us existed. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah,
- 26:36that's very interesting. Also, there's another
- 26:38thing I would like to, like a spiritual perspective
- 26:40I can throw in over here. By all means. Earth
- 26:44is a school. I mean, I have, you know, in mind
- 26:47expansion sessions, what happens is, you know,
- 26:49sometimes people talk to their future selves,
- 26:51sometimes they communicate with their higher
- 26:53selves, sometimes they communicate with their
- 26:54parallel selves, parallel selves, or sometimes
- 26:57they... communicate with their past selves. Which
- 27:01is just an indication that there are like Earth
- 27:05is a school and this is not home, a permanent
- 27:09home. We are here to get educated, to have experiences
- 27:12and then we graduate, right? And then we are
- 27:16on holiday until we start again and bumping up
- 27:18the level one step further. I've heard this theory
- 27:21before, like, before you said it now, you mentioned
- 27:24it in school. I would have defined it as spiritual
- 27:27maturity. I have heard it too. Yeah, in terms
- 27:32of spirituality. Yeah. So, I mean, I have come
- 27:36across, even my own self, I have seen past lives.
- 27:39And whenever we ask the higher self, people never
- 27:42come, you know, for mind expansion, people never
- 27:44come because they want to see their past or see
- 27:46their future, whatever. They come with a problem.
- 27:48I have this problem, I don't know how to solve
- 27:50it or I'm anxious or I'm fearful, what should
- 27:53I do? And they want answers, they can't find
- 27:56answers, right? So you go inside, you expand
- 27:58your consciousness, but everything is inside.
- 28:02How do you do that? How do you go inside and
- 28:06expand your consciousness to the point where
- 28:08you could speak to future, past or parallel self?
- 28:11Yeah, sure, I'd be happy to tell you. So the
- 28:13first thing you do that we don't do in today's
- 28:15society, is to first sit within ourselves, sit
- 28:19with us, be in the present moment, be grounded
- 28:21and not get carried away by what had happened
- 28:25in the past or what will happen in the future.
- 28:28By just being present for yourself, present in
- 28:30the place where you are, just being present.
- 28:34And slowly as you are spending more and more
- 28:36time with yourself, you start So this is what
- 28:40I'm trying to explain right now is something
- 28:41you can do by yourself as well without having
- 28:44like a mind expansion session. And then I'll
- 28:46get to what I do in a mind expansion session.
- 28:48All right. So we are always connected to a higher
- 28:52self. We are always connected. We are the essence,
- 28:54right? So it's all about being aware of it. And
- 28:58how do you be aware of it? So step one, like
- 29:00I say, is first being in the present moment.
- 29:02And then second step as you continue to do so.
- 29:06You slowly start not paying too much of attention.
- 29:09You don't stop your thoughts. You know, sometimes
- 29:11even I used to think meditation is about trying
- 29:13to stop your thoughts, but you can never do that.
- 29:16As long as a person is physically alive, it's
- 29:18not possible. So you just don't engage with your
- 29:22thoughts. And eventually there comes a point
- 29:25and during one of the sessions, you know, one
- 29:28of our beings guided me by telling me that when
- 29:31I am in this state or when anyone is in this
- 29:33state, they should just start visualizing themselves
- 29:36in their mind's eye with their minds closed,
- 29:40standing away and seeing yourself sitting there.
- 29:43So in this way, what you do is you separate yourself
- 29:45from your ego, from your identity, the identity
- 29:48that the society has given you, that you have
- 29:52adapted to, that you have accepted for yourself.
- 29:55But you're not limited to your identity. You're
- 29:57more than your identity. You are a reflection
- 30:02of the universe. You're a reflection of all that
- 30:03is, that is infinite. You are infinite. Right?
- 30:08And so the moment you start doing that, you start
- 30:11connecting more and more to your sense and hence
- 30:14opens the bridge. You clear out the bridge for
- 30:17that connection with your higher self, with the
- 30:19universe. And whatever question you sit with,
- 30:23at that point in time, there is, I guarantee
- 30:27you, 101 % with absolute certainty, you will
- 30:30get the answer. Maybe not in the moment, sometimes
- 30:32in the moment. But you will definitely get the
- 30:35answer in the following hours or days. And that's
- 30:38how anyone can start connecting to that part
- 30:42of themselves that a sense. And as for what I
- 30:44do in the mind expansion session, I first start,
- 30:48of course, we we clarify the what the intention
- 30:50is, like I say, you know, even when you're sitting,
- 30:52you can always have a question you'd like to
- 30:54ask, or you always, we always clarify the intention
- 30:57of the questions a person has. And then we start
- 31:01with the breathing exercises to try and change
- 31:03to get to change the brainwave states, you know,
- 31:05because now as you're speaking, we are in a low
- 31:08beta, medium beta, low alpha, always never in
- 31:13one state, we are always like switching, right?
- 31:15So we need to get the brainwave state to change
- 31:18and go as close to theta as possible, which is
- 31:21the state we are in when, you know, we are just
- 31:24before falling asleep and just before waking
- 31:25up like a dreamlike state or daydream state.
- 31:30And some of us find ourselves even bumping up
- 31:33into gamma, where you're hyper aware. And that
- 31:35happened with me. I was like freaking hyper aware
- 31:38of everything. What was happening in the room?
- 31:40What was happening in the session? What was happening
- 31:42outside of the house? Everything was so clear.
- 31:45And, but when I woke up from the session, everything
- 31:47felt like it was a daydream. It was a dream.
- 31:50I was hyper aware when that was happening. So
- 31:53with breathing, and then I like to use Greg Braden's
- 31:58What he suggests that you get into an elevated
- 32:01state of emotion as even Dr Joe Dispenza speaks
- 32:04of. As we get into an elevated state of emotion
- 32:07and knowing that the vibration, everything is
- 32:10energy and hence everything has vibration. The
- 32:12vibration of the divine is love. And for that
- 32:15reason, I love the movie Interstellar. It's very
- 32:17close to my heart. Love is the most purest, the
- 32:21most divine form of emotion, the highest ever
- 32:25on the highest vibration. Ruby, you want to say
- 32:28something? Yeah. So this whole conversation has
- 32:32so many links to our conversation with Diane.
- 32:37Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking. Yeah.
- 32:40And so you've touched on resonance and vibration
- 32:44and the higher self. Pretty much the only thing
- 32:47we've really missed is what spirits are, basically.
- 32:53And I'd actually love to engage with you on that.
- 32:55But the thing I wanted to ask was, have you read
- 32:58The Power of Holy Language? I haven't read the
- 33:00book. Okay. Is it a book? It's a book, yeah.
- 33:05I have the audio book. I consume books via audio
- 33:10because I spend a lot of time in my car. But
- 33:13it spoke exactly about this. The vibration of
- 33:17the divine is love and acceptance. and flowering
- 33:22of everything. So yeah, sorry to interrupt. Carry
- 33:26on. Wise. Yeah, absolutely. So that's what it
- 33:29is. And the more we can align with that vibration
- 33:31before we get into the next steps, the more better
- 33:34it is for that connection I feel for everything
- 33:37that is to unfold. And once we get the person
- 33:40into my client into a higher, you know, emotional,
- 33:44like a very emotional state, which is more of
- 33:46love and joy. And freedom, that's when we start
- 33:50a guided visualization process. Because the mind,
- 33:55the imagination or visualization is a bridge
- 33:58that connects the higher dimensions or all that
- 34:02is the quantum field or the Higgs field or the
- 34:06universe, whatever you want to call it, to us,
- 34:10wherever we are now. And so through visualization,
- 34:13we slowly start shifting or expanding that consciousness.
- 34:16into including what we generally don't include
- 34:21as we live in the third dimension, which is restricted
- 34:23by time and space, to finally expand our consciousness
- 34:27and move beyond this limitation where we can
- 34:30experience more time, where we can experience
- 34:32all the times, all the possibilities, all that
- 34:35there is, because that's where the answers lie.
- 34:39And it was very interesting. So please go ahead.
- 34:45I want to ask, do you think there's a group of
- 34:48people who is not able to do this? Are there
- 34:51people in an emotional state who will not be
- 34:54able to achieve this because of that emotional
- 34:56state? I'm thinking of like, for example, depression.
- 34:59Are there barriers to entry? First of all, for
- 35:03everyone, this is possible. There is no exception
- 35:06to this, except, of course, as you said, there
- 35:09can be certain emotions. that can prevent the
- 35:12person from entering into the state of expanding
- 35:15their consciousness, being fear of the process
- 35:19itself or what's to unfold, anxiety and anxiety
- 35:23around the whole process or maybe anxiety about
- 35:25something else. And you know why that is? It's
- 35:30tied to our brainwave state. Because if fear,
- 35:33anxiety and all these are more relevant to the
- 35:35beta brainwave state, And so if you're constantly
- 35:39in the beta brainwave state, so I have this,
- 35:42I drew this, I created this diagram, which I
- 35:45have placed on my website and it's like an iceberg.
- 35:49So we are always, and there's a tip of the iceberg
- 35:52that's above the water and there's a huge part
- 35:54of the iceberg that's below in the ocean, right?
- 35:57And you're always only accessing that part, which
- 35:59is above the water that you can think of as beta
- 36:04alpha. what we are generally like driving, talking,
- 36:07sleep, like everything else except sleeping,
- 36:09of course. And when we sleep, we drop down, we
- 36:13drop down into the ocean and access the most
- 36:16lowest point, you know, the Delta. Yeah. But
- 36:19then there are other parts that we can access
- 36:22them. When we finally, when we start diving down
- 36:24into the ocean, we start expanding our consciousness.
- 36:27So anything that can prevent a person to shift
- 36:31their brainwave state, can actually prevent the
- 36:33person from getting into that state. That's exactly
- 36:35what I wanted to ask. Yeah. Good. So it's like,
- 36:39I'm going to, I'm going to move on to, to, into
- 36:43my question, the way that we chose our topics.
- 36:48Coincidentally, I think they fit quite well into
- 36:50what you were thinking. And my question is, how
- 36:56do you think technology, how, how is technology
- 37:00related to what you do and how does it integrate
- 37:04into our spirituality, our inner wealth and mind
- 37:08expansion. I see technology just as another tool,
- 37:12right? And again, people are arguing AI is bad.
- 37:15Some people say AI is a boon, it's a blessing.
- 37:18Again, it's like a tool like a knife. You can
- 37:20either kill someone with a knife or you can do
- 37:23something fantastic. You can create something
- 37:26artistic, right? Or you can do something as basic
- 37:29as cutting vegetables. It's up to us. And as
- 37:33far as I don't know if you read recently, there
- 37:36were some articles about quantum computers that
- 37:41they can access other dimensions and other realities
- 37:46that is beyond the third dimension or the very
- 37:51linear way we think of, you know, it's working
- 37:53in a very different way. It's accessing parallel
- 37:57realities. It's accessing more than just the
- 38:01present time, and which already exists. So it's
- 38:04actually accessing all of this. And I feel that
- 38:07maybe not changing the topic, but maybe it's
- 38:10connected to what you previously sent me, the
- 38:13snapshot. Everything has to exist, already exists.
- 38:19Everything that is, that will come in the future,
- 38:23that has been in the past, that is in the present,
- 38:26everything already exists and is still going
- 38:28on. We are never creating anything. We are always
- 38:33shifting. We are always shifting. We are never
- 38:35creating, we are always shifting. But at the
- 38:39state that we are in now, we have no idea what
- 38:42has already existed, right? But then do you think
- 38:45there's a predeterminism or are we able to jump
- 38:49between parallel realities? My question really
- 38:51is, does freedom and free will exist? Absolutely.
- 38:57In your mind. absolutely does especially now
- 39:00if we think of from the point of view of our
- 39:03ego mind we have i mean we still have freedom
- 39:07not to that extent that we think of because our
- 39:10soul has already decided and again who is the
- 39:13soul it's us it's us that's not packed in a box
- 39:17right that's aware of everything so our soul
- 39:21has already decided the outcomes or the lessons
- 39:23it needs to learn it has already decided the
- 39:26experiences it needs to have, it needs, it wants
- 39:30to have, right? In the third dimension, like
- 39:33in the third dimension on earth, with this ego
- 39:36mind, the liberty that we have, the kind of freedom
- 39:39that we have is to choose how that unfolds, to
- 39:44what extent we experience something like, for
- 39:46example, if the soul has decided that it wants
- 39:49to experience some disease, right? Of course,
- 39:53there will be circumstances created in our lives
- 39:55that will cause it, but the way we handle it
- 39:59is going to determine to what extent we experience
- 40:02it. Is that making sense? Yeah. And it brings
- 40:06another question. Go ahead, Ruby. I asked the
- 40:09same question to Diane when we spoke to her.
- 40:13And my question really is, so you're talking
- 40:17about the soul, the soul wanting to experience
- 40:20things. And then I'm wondering, so I'm transgender.
- 40:26How do you think that relates to everything that
- 40:32you've said so far with regards to my soul, my
- 40:36higher self, and what I am? Because in my mind,
- 40:40it's not even in my mind, it's just fact. I have
- 40:44always existed with this personality. This is
- 40:47me. And this is more me now than it's ever been
- 40:50before because everything was performance based
- 40:53on ego. which I transcended. So, what's your
- 40:58opinion? So, we all have aspects of ourselves,
- 41:02right? The soul has many aspects. You are just
- 41:06this one form of you, that groupie ray, is one
- 41:09aspect of the soul. It does not define the soul.
- 41:12And as souls, we are eternal, right? We are limitless.
- 41:15And we experience everything. So that means,
- 41:19you or me or anyone else has experienced life
- 41:23even as a transgender, as a male, as a female,
- 41:26as another alien body, as anything and everything
- 41:29you can think of, right? And as we move on a
- 41:32higher level and we speak on a higher level,
- 41:35what are we? We are an essence of the Divine.
- 41:38We are a reflection of the Creator. We are all
- 41:43that is experiencing itself in different forms.
- 41:51In timelessness, we experience everything in
- 41:54the now. That means we cannot go through that
- 41:57journey. We cannot have those experiences linearly.
- 42:00It's a different experience. You know, experiencing
- 42:02everything in the now is so different than experiencing
- 42:05something linear, right? It's more enhanced that
- 42:10way. So that's the reason why we choose to limit
- 42:12ourselves and we have different experiences.
- 42:15Okay. We choose to limit ourselves because is
- 42:17it too overwhelming for our ego? No. No, no.
- 42:21The ego is there as something to just protect
- 42:25ourselves. It's not a bad thing. Right. Okay.
- 42:28Trying to wrap my head around it. So I had a
- 42:30question, but I forgot what it was. And it was
- 42:34so poignant. It was about, okay, give me a second.
- 42:37You can talk to me. I'm fun. Yeah, talk to Ruby.
- 42:40I'll remember it. Oh my goodness. Wait, wait,
- 42:43I got it. Okay. Sorry. Speaking of the soul,
- 42:46I remembered. So... Like, how do we get our,
- 42:49how do we talk to our soul? How do we get to
- 42:54know what it wants us to do? You're always, we're
- 42:56always being guided as to what to do. We never
- 42:59listen to our heart, do we? We never listen to
- 43:02our intuition. Well, I certainly don't. That's
- 43:04the compass. Yeah, that's the compass. And the
- 43:06way to connect more with it. Because remember,
- 43:10there's a lot of noise. Now, for example, when
- 43:14Ruby was recording without the mic, there was
- 43:17other noises along with her. And the way she
- 43:21isolated her voice, her voice from all the noise
- 43:25that was by, like I said, just being in the present
- 43:29moment helps by doing that. The first thing I
- 43:31told you, the way to connect with the higher
- 43:33self, or you can say the way to intuition higher
- 43:35self is the same thing. Or our soul, it's all
- 43:38the same thing, higher self, soul. Whatever you
- 43:42want to call it, it's all the same. Yeah. Yeah,
- 43:44yeah, yeah. And we just need to be present for
- 43:46it. I mean, it's just like, um, you know, when
- 43:50you talk to someone, you're talking to, like,
- 43:52we all are talking to each other. You're present
- 43:54for each other. So be present for your soul in
- 43:58just the same way. Like, and it's not always
- 44:02going to end for different people. They experience
- 44:03it in different ways. Like some people. Of course,
- 44:08the feeling is always common. We all have a certain
- 44:10feeling that I feel good about this. I don't
- 44:13feel that great about this. I don't feel too
- 44:15excited about this. I'm bored even thinking of
- 44:18that. So that's the best compass, right? And
- 44:22at the same time, we can also see that the soul
- 44:26also, like I said, there are layers of the onion.
- 44:30There's a core of the onion and there are different
- 44:32layers. Now a lot of people say, I feel really
- 44:35excited to eat McDonald's every day. There's
- 44:37a lot of noise, like, you know, a person can
- 44:39be going through internal noise or external noise.
- 44:43Internal noise is created again when we are living
- 44:45too much in the beta brainwave state. Too much.
- 44:49And why would that happen? Because we are not
- 44:52in the present moment. People are generally ruminating
- 44:54about what happened in the past, or people are
- 44:57generally thinking of what's going to happen
- 44:58in the future. We're always either ahead or behind,
- 45:04right? And then we're never present and that
- 45:07means we're tuning into more than our intuition.
- 45:11So we'll never clearly get what our intuition
- 45:13is trying to tell us or our soul is trying to
- 45:15tell us. And the more and more we practice this
- 45:18by just being with our present selves, by listening
- 45:21to our present selves, the more we will be very
- 45:24clear of what we want and then follow it, not
- 45:26just... You know, a lot of people have those
- 45:28answers and they don't know, they don't act on
- 45:30it. On top of that, this feeling is one very
- 45:34common for all of us. Apart from that, answers
- 45:37also come to people in the form of knowingness.
- 45:39That generally happens with me. Sometimes it
- 45:42comes even in the form of the more stronger this
- 45:45connection grows, answers or direction come to
- 45:48you in the form of images. And, or sometimes
- 45:51they even come through, they might feel that
- 45:53they heard something, spoken word. Clear audience,
- 45:57clear wine house as they call it. That's very
- 45:59interesting. So to go back to your McDonald's
- 46:02example, just so I understand. So a person who
- 46:06wants McDonald's every day, I really want McDonald's.
- 46:08So that's not true. They don't really want McDonald's?
- 46:12Because if a person is anxious all the time,
- 46:16right? They just want to feel void with something.
- 46:20Right. Or like a person has, they say, a quote
- 46:23-unquote sweet tooth. Again, it taps into what
- 46:26emotions they are. And the consciousness, the
- 46:30subconscious is trying to protect us, is trying
- 46:32to make us feel at comfort, make us try and not
- 46:37that we don't go crazy. It's always trying to
- 46:40protect us. So, we try to fill in the void with
- 46:43things that sometimes are engineered in this
- 46:46world that we live in. Right. So that we have
- 46:48a kind of sense of satisfaction in a different
- 46:50manner. For example, someone who hasn't had love
- 46:53all their life in their childhood, and then suddenly
- 46:56they feel more attracted to things like binge
- 46:59eating. Okay. I'm just saying it's one possibility.
- 47:04There can be many possibilities. This is all
- 47:08very convincing for me personally. Like I understand
- 47:11doing, I understand. Why? Well, hang on. I understand
- 47:16the eating McDonald's thing, and I understand,
- 47:18like, why people might eat because, you know,
- 47:20you know, we hear it in popular culture all the
- 47:22time, like, they're feeling a void, blah, blah,
- 47:24blah. But it makes sense. Like, we don't want
- 47:25to sit with bad emotions. But for the things
- 47:28I think a lot personally about, you know, I always
- 47:31think about what my motivations are and why I'm
- 47:34motivated. And so it, you know, and then Arjun
- 47:37says things like maybe it's from your... something
- 47:39in your childhood like you didn't receive enough
- 47:40love and I'm just thinking personally on some
- 47:42level. Maybe that's, I'm not saying I didn't
- 47:44receive enough love, but I'm just saying, you
- 47:46know, maybe my desire, my desires are actually
- 47:50a reflection of something I was lacking in the
- 47:53past and I'm tortured by my desires and I want
- 47:55them so bad and they give me a lot of misery,
- 47:58but maybe I have to just really see what the
- 48:01emotion is and then I won't have those desires
- 48:04anymore and I'll feel a lot more. Absolutely.
- 48:08That's the whole thing about inner wealth. Absolutely.
- 48:11I think identifying and knowing yourself to the
- 48:14level of understanding why you're feeding something.
- 48:17If you don't understand why you are feeding something,
- 48:19there's no way you can solve the problem. Unless
- 48:22it's by sheer luck, which I don't think is a
- 48:26thing in this kind of scenario. That's right.
- 48:29And what we do is generally we tend to find help
- 48:32externally when that happens. So that's never
- 48:36gonna solve the problem. I mean, we have to go
- 48:38inside. We need to go inside. Will it solve the
- 48:42problem in as much as if you seek help externally,
- 48:45that professional, let's say, will give you the
- 48:48tools to do the inner work? It's a tool. Right.
- 48:53And many times we are given guidance. Like I
- 48:55said, nothing is good, nothing is bad. Everything
- 48:59has its role. Everything has some or the other
- 49:02role. Sure, sometimes... things could be rather
- 49:06not doing anything, you know, not helping at
- 49:08all. But again, it might be true for someone
- 49:10else. Right. Yeah. So it also depends on our
- 49:15circumstances, how we deal with it, how we understand
- 49:17it, what we do with it or we don't do with it.
- 49:21Do we think there'll be a point where technology
- 49:23integrates into the ego, the subconscious and
- 49:26the higher self? Like I said, there are many,
- 49:30many realities. that are already existing and
- 49:33unfolding. And there are realities where we are
- 49:37one with technology. Some people call it that
- 49:40it's a very destructive kind of a future. Then
- 49:44there are also realities where technology is
- 49:47with us, but as a companion, as a co -creator,
- 49:51where it's not taking over our biology. And then
- 49:59there's everything within that. you know, in
- 50:02between. And believe it or not, what we think
- 50:06and what we do, what we don't do, really dictates
- 50:09on which reality we will be choosing and going
- 50:12on to. And remember, it's not like that one instance
- 50:15will change that reality. No. It's every little
- 50:18thing you do, every second we are switching,
- 50:20we are changing. Every little thing we do, every,
- 50:22every, with every little step we take, with every
- 50:24little thought we think, with every little thing
- 50:26we do or don't do, we are shifting. So we, throughout
- 50:30this podcast, we've created hundreds of thousands
- 50:34of different realities. We don't create anything,
- 50:37everything already exists. They're, okay, well,
- 50:40we've jumped hundreds of thousands of realities.
- 50:43Okay, yeah. I just want to add to the whole,
- 50:47okay, Ruby, so Ruby, what was your last question?
- 50:50Say it again, just so I can give my answer to
- 50:53that, because I think - Do you think that there
- 50:55will be a point where technology integrates into
- 50:58us so much that it becomes part of our consciousness
- 51:01and our being inseparable. Like that's the whole
- 51:05kind of there's a whole science fiction kind
- 51:07of aspect of that of like uploading our consciousness
- 51:09you know into onto the internet but exactly I
- 51:13was thinking of the phone like we're already
- 51:15we're already so like it is an extension of ourselves
- 51:19we use our phones like they are so intimate intimate
- 51:24with us It is a kind of transhumanism. Much of
- 51:32me, that's the kaleidoscope logo right there,
- 51:35much of me has been offloaded into this thing.
- 51:39That is, if I lose this, I would be devastated.
- 51:41Thank God for the cloud. I think it's for everyone.
- 51:46The boundaries are blurred now between some...
- 51:49some technologies we use and our identities.
- 51:52And it's so intimate. Now, the challenge happens
- 51:57when, let's say, you know, you're afraid of losing
- 52:01everything on the cloud. So I think, you know,
- 52:04Arjun's work would come in here and sitting with
- 52:07yourself and trying to ask yourself, well, is
- 52:09that ego? So what if I lost everything in the
- 52:12cloud? Do I really need it? Your soul registers
- 52:14everything, any which ways. You will lose anything,
- 52:18right? But yeah. I mean, it's more the fear.
- 52:21It's what emotion we live in. Primarily. I mean,
- 52:24we can't always live. We can always be happy,
- 52:26go lucky. Sure. We are in fear sometimes. Sometimes
- 52:29you're anxious. Sometimes you're happy. But it's
- 52:31about what you choose to live in majority of
- 52:33the times. So is it a choice? It's always a choice.
- 52:39See, you cannot change the situation you're in.
- 52:41Yeah. Agree. At least not instantly. I mean,
- 52:45if you're already there, I mean, of course you
- 52:48can go somewhere from that destination, but given
- 52:50the situation you're in, it's not the situation
- 52:52that matters, it's how you deal with it that
- 52:54matters. What you do with it. Right. Yeah. I
- 52:59would agree. Yeah, definitely. Ruby, what are
- 53:01you thinking? Thinking, I'm thinking you're right.
- 53:04And then I'm thinking, I'm wondering if I would
- 53:07want, if I would, if I would want to live in
- 53:11the intersection of time. Okay. Wait, let's go.
- 53:16That just gave another... I'm conscious, right?
- 53:21The conscious self that is me has jumped hundreds
- 53:25of thousands of realities in the 50, 60 minutes
- 53:31that we've been talking. But myself, my consciousness
- 53:35has remained here in this reality and left the
- 53:41others behind. Are there others of me? that are
- 53:45feeling the same way in other realities? Or is
- 53:49this reality? No, you are multi -present. You
- 53:54are a presence that you are aware of. It's just
- 53:57that because we don't want to go crazy, we have
- 54:00chosen to limit ourselves. You're blowing my
- 54:02mind. Hold on. I think, Ruby, you're experiencing
- 54:06this reality right now. And when you think about,
- 54:11when you think it's not, true, it's your ego,
- 54:14trying to like buffer against all the other realities.
- 54:17So it's like, just let it happen. Don't overthink
- 54:19it. Not to overthink it. Then he's absolutely
- 54:22right. Luigi is right. You've just got to go
- 54:24with the flow. That's what matters at the end.
- 54:27Sure. Yeah. No, like I understand. But it's kind
- 54:33of an... And it's when we have the expectations
- 54:35of how things should be rather than how they
- 54:37are that we get all in our heads and we like
- 54:40ruminate and things like that. I speak from experience
- 54:43and years of therapy. But the reason I ask the
- 54:46question is because I have a continuum in my
- 54:50mind. But what we're basically trying to say
- 54:54is that the soul is split into infinite consciousnesses
- 55:00that have infinite continuities from the time
- 55:05of gaining consciousness, I suppose. Exactly.
- 55:09But at the same time, it's also present. as a
- 55:11whole in timelessness, as a whole, not as a whole,
- 55:14as a whole. It's a vertical moment for me. You
- 55:21know, as humans have given also the limited brains
- 55:25and the limited realities we live in, we are
- 55:28limited. We have chosen to limit ourselves, right,
- 55:31for this experience. But a lot of things we cannot
- 55:34even try to comprehend or understand with our
- 55:37limited perception. And so at times what happens
- 55:39is sure, some things could, you know, the same
- 55:43fact that we just discussed could stress some
- 55:45people up or could liberate some people, right?
- 55:48And what I would just encourage you and all of
- 55:51the listeners as well is to just let it liberate
- 55:53you and just go with the flow. Just know that
- 55:56everything is possible and the power is in your
- 55:58hand. That's the entire reason why we discussed
- 56:02this, right? Because in the end, it just makes
- 56:05you realize that everything exists And where
- 56:08you go is your choice. So rise up to your power.
- 56:11Don't be afraid. I may have come across as stressed
- 56:18or something. It's more an epiphany. I'm not
- 56:20stressed. No, not you. Just generally, I'm saying.
- 56:24I'm also speaking to the ether, to the listener,
- 56:27to the watcher. And by watcher, I don't only
- 56:33mean you watcher on YouTube, I mean... The watchers.
- 56:37Universe. The watchers of the universe. Do the
- 56:40watchers exist? Are there people that watch us?
- 56:43Sure. Or are there beings? Other consciousness,
- 56:46of course, at all times. You have your guides
- 56:49right now with you. All of us. We have our divine
- 56:52teams with us guiding us, whispering in our ears.
- 56:54Not literally, but yeah. They're always guiding
- 56:56us and we always have signs from them. Like I
- 56:59said, the moment you sit down, you can always
- 57:01even get their guidance. You can receive their
- 57:04guidance. That's so crazy Because not everyone
- 57:09can be as brave as we are being on this earth.
- 57:11It's not it's no easy task Yeah, I do that. I
- 57:15think I think that maybe we come to earth as
- 57:18a holiday as a safari As a pretty tough holiday
- 57:24as a school. Yeah Well, maybe it's a school.
- 57:29Maybe it's maybe it's a holiday. Maybe it's a
- 57:31maybe it's a safari. Maybe it's a It's a holiday
- 57:34for billionaires, maybe. Naked and alone, or
- 57:37what's that show? Naked and Afraid. That's what
- 57:40you think. No, I think even, I don't know, I
- 57:42think it's in this context, I think to learn.
- 57:47Yeah, sure. Because it's tough being human. Yeah.
- 57:51Even for the people that we think are, you know,
- 57:54the wealthiest on earth. All we know is that.
- 57:56Yeah, I think that all problems are equal in
- 57:59the mind of the soul, in the eyes of the soul.
- 58:01Like, I think that you're stressed. why you stress
- 58:04for different reasons. Right. I don't think that
- 58:08that stress is comprehensible beyond the line
- 58:11of being. There's like, while someone might idolize
- 58:15the idea of wealth, when they get there, they
- 58:18might find that they hate it. Yeah. You know,
- 58:22people will have different types of problems.
- 58:25We all have different types of problems. Even
- 58:26the ones who are really wealthy, like abundant
- 58:29physically. are also facing some of the other
- 58:33things in their own lives. So no one is scot
- 58:36-free in this manner. But then I also want to
- 58:38say, I do think that there is a difference when
- 58:41you have an existential fear. And I think that
- 58:45once you get past basic human needs, your fears
- 58:49become ego -based. But I think there is a level
- 58:52where your fears are existential. For someone
- 58:54homeless, for example, I don't think their fears
- 58:57and their problems are equal. Elon Musk's problems.
- 59:02He might feel, for example, that they are equal
- 59:08to the problems. Or maybe he idolizes the poor
- 59:12person because he thinks that they have no problem,
- 59:14but their issue is existential. Right? And I
- 59:18don't think that that is the same. I think everybody
- 59:21should be raised above the level of existential
- 59:24fear. Sorry. I think we're okay. I think again,
- 59:26we need to define existential. Because the way
- 59:29I'm hearing it from you is... My understanding
- 59:33of existential or existentialism is we have great
- 59:38anxiety when we understand we have no true meaning
- 59:41in life and we have to create our meaning. The
- 59:44way you're talking about it, the way you're using
- 59:45it, it seems, is... I'm not talking philosophically.
- 59:49Okay. Yeah, I'm talking like... So I think we
- 59:52need to clarify that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry.
- 59:55I'm not on... Uh, what is his name? Soren Kierkegaard.
- 1:00:02The father of existentialism. No, I'm not, I'm
- 1:00:05not there right now. I'm on the level of, if
- 1:00:08I don't get food today, I'm going to starve to
- 1:00:12death kind of level. So like more survival. Survival.
- 1:00:16Yeah. Yeah. Like your, your literal presence
- 1:00:18on earth will end because of this, right? I think
- 1:00:24that is a different level of stress too. Oh no.
- 1:00:27If I don't make this sale, I'm going to lose
- 1:00:30my job. Well, the stress might feel the same.
- 1:00:35Yeah. I don't think that they really can. Yeah.
- 1:00:39I think it's subjective. I would argue it doesn't
- 1:00:43matter because the biggest issue is a fear of
- 1:00:46not existing for whatever reason. Is the homeless
- 1:00:50person afraid they're not going to eat and die?
- 1:00:55the person making the sale afraid they're not
- 1:00:56going to make the sale and then die? It depends
- 1:01:00how closely they're tied to the identity of being
- 1:01:02a salesman, right? Because the salesman will
- 1:01:05die. That reality will end, right? Why? Or it
- 1:01:12will shift to the extent of not being a salesman.
- 1:01:15He'll be a worse salesman. Well, then that's
- 1:01:17like a kind of social death. Yeah, actually,
- 1:01:19if you go to see, the moment you have a fear,
- 1:01:22and you start questioning it, very soon you can
- 1:01:25come to a realization, if you work on it, that
- 1:01:27it's just an illusion. You know, I have been
- 1:01:30there, to be frank, I'll tell you why I've gone
- 1:01:32into doing this inner wealth work, aside from
- 1:01:35wellness. And especially the mind, prioritizing
- 1:01:39the mind, even over like physical, I mean, now
- 1:01:42what has happened is that my wife is taking over
- 1:01:45all of, you know, the physical aspect and hopes
- 1:01:47and emotions, and even as emotions as well. And
- 1:01:50I have completely decided to take over the mind
- 1:01:52and all these things, because I do realize, and
- 1:01:54I have been there, where I was at a point in
- 1:01:58time where I didn't pay my social security, I
- 1:02:00just couldn't, I had limited amount of funds
- 1:02:02and I had to decide what can I do with it? Of
- 1:02:07course, buy my own food first, right? And in
- 1:02:09that, I didn't have too much flexibility. I have
- 1:02:12been there. And what changed things was me thinking
- 1:02:16that It's my choice. Like, okay, I'm faced with
- 1:02:20the situation, but how do I deal with it? Do
- 1:02:22I submerge myself in a fear that will consume
- 1:02:25me? That possibly is something as bad as existence
- 1:02:30and fear, just as you all pointed out. It was
- 1:02:33just an illusion. Or do I make something out
- 1:02:36of it where I can grow from here? I can make
- 1:02:39this my foundation. I'm at my foundation. I'm
- 1:02:41at the lowest in my life. And I decided to go
- 1:02:45the other way. to make this my foundation to
- 1:02:47build and grow from here, to come into my power.
- 1:02:50And that started shifting things for me. And
- 1:02:52then the moment we start working on our fears,
- 1:02:55we realize that most of them are illusions. It
- 1:02:58never gets as bad as, you know, not existing
- 1:03:01or dying. It never happens because although we
- 1:03:04live in a world which is challenging to live
- 1:03:06in, but there are always love funds and people
- 1:03:08who are amazing, kind -hearted, who are always
- 1:03:11around. Yeah. And I think that's a really good
- 1:03:14point. And I think a lot of people forget that.
- 1:03:15We always think the worst case scenario, you
- 1:03:17know, that's the nervous system. Well, I think
- 1:03:20the worst case scenario is really just shame.
- 1:03:23It's really, it's really not, you know, dying
- 1:03:26in a ditch. It's just shame. And that's so jarring
- 1:03:30for most people. Absolutely. It's not as bad
- 1:03:33as we think it is. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Can't confirm.
- 1:03:38And let me just put on one more point. Would
- 1:03:41you ever... go to a movie that has nothing going
- 1:03:45on except this one guy or a girl or a family
- 1:03:47living this one life where everything is super
- 1:03:51good at all points. Everything's perfect. Would
- 1:03:54you even enjoy such a movie? Nah. Maybe artistically.
- 1:03:59You might. And now that you say that, I would
- 1:04:01see that movie just for the sake of it having
- 1:04:04never been done before. And it would make me
- 1:04:06think and I go, but I do know what you're saying.
- 1:04:09Yeah, exactly. I wouldn't enjoy the movie. From
- 1:04:13an academic perspective, I might leave with cynical
- 1:04:18judgment. There are movies like that now. There
- 1:04:21was a movie like that recently. It was with Tom
- 1:04:24Hanks. What was it called? And it took place
- 1:04:27in a house and just people changing throughout
- 1:04:30the years. Obviously they had their, you know,
- 1:04:34whatever problems, but it's kind of the same
- 1:04:35idea. What was it called? But imagine if you
- 1:04:39don't have anything going on in life and everything
- 1:04:42is super awesome at all times. Would you really
- 1:04:45enjoy life? Like they say, if you never have
- 1:04:48darkness, you won't know what light is. Yeah,
- 1:04:51I get that. See, I could never answer that question
- 1:04:54because my life is never just so easy. I wish
- 1:04:56I could figure that out. Do you think that we
- 1:04:58create the problems? We create the problems to
- 1:05:01keep things interesting. Let's not call them
- 1:05:04problems. Let's call them challenges. Okay. We
- 1:05:08are, some of our challenges are, this is what
- 1:05:12you said, it's an illusion. We manufacture illusions
- 1:05:16in order to keep things interesting. And also
- 1:05:19to learn and have experiences and grow. Okay.
- 1:05:22I like that more. I mean, I don't want to think
- 1:05:24of like self -sabotage. No, never. Never shoot
- 1:05:27yourself in the foot, you know, thinking that
- 1:05:29you will only have problems in your life that
- 1:05:32you can handle. You'll never have problems in
- 1:05:34your life that you cannot handle. I like that.
- 1:05:38That should be everyone's mantra. Yeah. Luigi,
- 1:05:42one more question before we move on to your topic.
- 1:05:44How does this lead into your struggles with spending
- 1:05:47money? Oh, geez. I don't know. Still, maybe Arjun
- 1:05:53can help me with this. Arjun, I don't like to
- 1:05:56spend money and it causes me a lot of grief to
- 1:06:00spend money. Like I obviously have a fear that
- 1:06:02it'll never be enough. He doesn't want to come
- 1:06:05to Thailand with me because he doesn't want to
- 1:06:07spend the money to come. Leave it alone. Consciously,
- 1:06:13it looks that way. Like I said again, there are
- 1:06:18deeper things inside that you need to question
- 1:06:20that why do you feel that way? Yeah. And something
- 1:06:24will definitely pop up. There is something behind
- 1:06:26it. And the moment you let go and resolve it
- 1:06:28and liberate it and transform it in alchemy,
- 1:06:32You will never have that fear again. Yeah. Yeah
- 1:06:35agree. Obviously I have to do the inner work.
- 1:06:38I'm just I just have not done it but Yeah Someday
- 1:06:43day by day. Yeah. Okay. Thanks for for for indulging
- 1:06:48me for a second Tell us tell us what your question
- 1:06:52is My question. Well, I mean we cut I we think
- 1:06:57we Know we did not cover this. Yeah. Well Okay,
- 1:07:03let me find it. Where'd it go? So, no, it kind
- 1:07:08of is. We did kind of talk about it. So let's
- 1:07:12talk about some of my neuroticism, as always.
- 1:07:16You know, obviously I'm back home, and when I
- 1:07:17come back home, I am reminded of the things I
- 1:07:22still possess, the physical media. And I'm looking
- 1:07:26at a lot of it. Okay, we could say physical media,
- 1:07:28but like physical things can be anything. you
- 1:07:31know, old toys, video games, whatever, teacups.
- 1:07:35There are some things I think, I don't need this
- 1:07:37anymore, but I'll say, I'll throw it out later.
- 1:07:42So, like, why do we need, do we still, do we
- 1:07:45need physical media nowadays with everything
- 1:07:51being, let's say, virtual, digital, on the internet?
- 1:07:56Is there a comfort in having a physical, tangible
- 1:07:59thing? Or should we just, as adults, do away
- 1:08:03with it? I think kids need physical media. Or
- 1:08:07actually, I think everybody needs these physical
- 1:08:10things, but it's - Define media. Define media.
- 1:08:14Yeah, I'm saying media, but I don't really mean
- 1:08:17like a VHS tape or a DVD. So I'm just like, let's
- 1:08:24say, how can I say it? Physical objects? I wonder
- 1:08:27if physical media incorporates all of the things.
- 1:08:31So one thing you know about me, Ruby, is I love
- 1:08:34mugs and I love novelty mugs. They're a big part
- 1:08:40of my, I don't know, I think they're a big part
- 1:08:43of my personality. That's for giving me an idea
- 1:08:45for what to bring back for you. Very good, but
- 1:08:49are they necessary or is it just another kind
- 1:08:51of attachment? I look at it in a different manner.
- 1:08:55You're looking at it as just perhaps physical
- 1:08:58media, you're understanding it as that. But I
- 1:09:00believe it's very likely, it's more than that,
- 1:09:03it's memories. It's emotions connected to those
- 1:09:08things. And even if there are no memories connected
- 1:09:11to those things, generally, the way those things
- 1:09:13are reminds you of something or gives you a certain
- 1:09:16feeling, again, emotions. And that's the reason
- 1:09:18why you tend to be also attached to things and
- 1:09:21want to have them in your space. Yeah. I can,
- 1:09:25I can look at it. Yes. So there, for me, I mean,
- 1:09:30off the top of my head, there are two ways of
- 1:09:31me looking at it. There's like the nice nostalgia.
- 1:09:33And then there's also my, my, let's say my money,
- 1:09:37my money worries. I have this, it's almost like
- 1:09:39hoarding. Like I think, what if I need it? But
- 1:09:43I know that was my question. Like how do you,
- 1:09:46where, where does the, where do we draw the line
- 1:09:48between collection and hoarding? Yeah, when it,
- 1:09:52you know, when it's really getting so excess
- 1:09:54that it starts affecting you. You know, affecting
- 1:09:58you because hoarding does affect people. Their
- 1:10:01emotions and, and, and Dr. Bradley Nelson, who
- 1:10:04is the author of the emotion code and the body
- 1:10:06code. And I completely agree with this also wrote
- 1:10:09about that people who are hoarding are kind of
- 1:10:12creating like a wall around them. Not literally,
- 1:10:14but. Yeah, psychologically. Yeah. Logically.
- 1:10:19What are they trying to protect themselves from?
- 1:10:22Again, at the root, there's something else. Is
- 1:10:25there some trauma? Is there some emotion? Is
- 1:10:28it some fear? Surely there is something that
- 1:10:32one needs to work on. Yeah, I think so. Definitely.
- 1:10:36Yeah. And there's nothing to feel bad about because
- 1:10:40all of us have something or the other to work
- 1:10:42on. That's the reason why we are here, right?
- 1:10:44No one can be scot -free and perfect. Yes. And
- 1:10:47then also I don't think that there is a problem
- 1:10:51in wanting to collect mugs because... No, there
- 1:10:56isn't. But me personally, I'll just say the things
- 1:10:59I have, they do cause me grief in as much as
- 1:11:02I have to depend on others to manage them for
- 1:11:06me because my life is moderately transient. You
- 1:11:10know, I don't really have a truly permanent home.
- 1:11:15So when I come home, I have my things. It's not
- 1:11:19a lot, but I think it's still a little too much
- 1:11:22maybe. And I really value those things because
- 1:11:25like my T -wares, for example, like I remember
- 1:11:29the struggle of getting those, like traveling
- 1:11:32all over China, picking them out, curating them.
- 1:11:35And like now I look at them years later and I
- 1:11:37think, ah, this is not very valuable. But I went
- 1:11:39through so much to get it. And still if something
- 1:11:43happened to me, happen to them, it would cause
- 1:11:46me a lot of, like, anxiety maybe. I'm sure I
- 1:11:49would get over it, but... Value doesn't come
- 1:11:53from monetary. I mean, I can appreciate the value
- 1:11:57that comes from materials that we use, if they're
- 1:12:00rare, hard to find, high quality, and there's
- 1:12:03a lot of effort that goes into making them. But
- 1:12:06that same effort comes into the curation process
- 1:12:11of finding things. I know you, I'm sure that
- 1:12:14you didn't curate trash. I think I did in as
- 1:12:18much as I didn't know any better. So that's the
- 1:12:24thing, then it was a learning experience on top
- 1:12:27of all of that. Yeah, I would agree, but you
- 1:12:30know. But I think now in the world today it's
- 1:12:32so paradoxical because... While everything is
- 1:12:36kind of like subscriptions, we people don't really
- 1:12:39have, they don't really want to purchase. Let's
- 1:12:41go back to physical media and let's say anything
- 1:12:44that's not digital we can now talk about. I want
- 1:12:46to say something on this, actually. Because you're
- 1:12:50talking about the curation of things. And I've
- 1:12:53always had a passion for quality things. And
- 1:12:59if I'm able to get those things, then I will.
- 1:13:04high school, there was this, I received criticism
- 1:13:07from my family for always buying expensive things.
- 1:13:14But what I would do is I would be like, I would
- 1:13:18obsess over something for weeks. I would do intense
- 1:13:23research. I would read research papers and design
- 1:13:28documents on how something was made before I
- 1:13:31would buy it. And then I would save money and
- 1:13:34then I would buy it. And if just before I bought
- 1:13:38it, something else that was better came out that
- 1:13:41I had read about, I would buy that thing instead.
- 1:13:43So it's been a lot of money on this one thing,
- 1:13:46but then that one thing would stay with me for
- 1:13:49years and years. And I think that that kind of
- 1:13:53media, that kind of, let's call them objects.
- 1:13:58Has been lost. Okay. I'm I'm flying to South
- 1:14:01Africa tomorrow. Here's a razor I'll be taking
- 1:14:03this razor. I've been looking at another razor
- 1:14:07online for over two years and I wish I had bought
- 1:14:11it but now I'm not gonna because it's expensive
- 1:14:14Yeah, for a razor It's a razor. Yeah. Well, obviously
- 1:14:19you care about quality And I think that's good.
- 1:14:22I think like to me it seems like you have a very
- 1:14:25practical sense of using your money But I could
- 1:14:28be wrong. I don't know how many insane branding
- 1:14:31items I buy. Sometimes I buy too many things.
- 1:14:34How much money did I spend on establishing this
- 1:14:36podcast? I spent way too much money on microphones
- 1:14:40because I thought this is what I need. Like,
- 1:14:43this one is the only one that I truly wanted.
- 1:14:47And I'm not sad about it. Why didn't you return
- 1:14:49the things after you used them and thought, okay,
- 1:14:53it's not exactly what I'm looking for? That's
- 1:14:54a very good question because I like them. Okay.
- 1:14:58Because I like them and I would try to find a
- 1:15:01use case for them, for the ones that I bought.
- 1:15:03It's like you want to have them. There's some
- 1:15:05kind of commodity fetish there. Yeah, commodity
- 1:15:10fetish. I've never heard a phrase that way. Well,
- 1:15:14it's a famous phrase, the commodity fetish. Not
- 1:15:17in my books. Well, the point is, I'll try and
- 1:15:20break it down real quick. So essentially the
- 1:15:22commodity fetish is in an anthropological sense,
- 1:15:24A fetish is a thing that is used spiritually
- 1:15:28to hold all of these kinds of qualities, you
- 1:15:33know, used in religious ceremony or whatnot.
- 1:15:36So that happens to our commodities. That's why
- 1:15:39in today, in late capitalism, let's say, when
- 1:15:43we purchase things, it goes beyond the utility
- 1:15:46of the object. It is the qualities we acquire
- 1:15:50and the in the kind of charmed circle we get
- 1:15:54to belong to once we have those things. It's
- 1:15:56kind of like, you know, what's everybody buying
- 1:15:59in China right now, Ruby? And you think, oh my
- 1:16:01god, so silly. Those dolls, the key chain dolls.
- 1:16:05That's right, the Labooboos. Arjun, do you know
- 1:16:08about Labooboo? I just heard of Labooboo. Yeah,
- 1:16:12it's just trendy, you know? It's social media.
- 1:16:14It's the media, I would say. Right, and so everybody
- 1:16:17buys it to... It's to belong to a group, let's
- 1:16:28say. It's a social experience and you buy it
- 1:16:33to be a part of it. And more importantly, if
- 1:16:35you saw someone, let's say like a celebrity with
- 1:16:39the Labooboo, how do you get, how do you acquire
- 1:16:42the same qualities as a celebrity? You do it
- 1:16:45through your taste. You buy the Labooboo and
- 1:16:47then you have them. She left again. She'll be
- 1:16:51back. Okay. We got to wait for her. Yeah, of
- 1:16:54course. Yeah, it's better to wait. I'll text
- 1:16:56her and see. Even me. It's almost... Well, I
- 1:16:59guess where she is, it's almost 12. Oh, is it?
- 1:17:03Where is she exactly? Look at it right now. She's
- 1:17:06in Suzhou city, which is southwest of Shanghai
- 1:17:11city by like 90 kilometers. I don't know if that
- 1:17:14needs anything to you. I don't know if, I don't
- 1:17:16know what your geography of China is, but you
- 1:17:18know Shanghai is a very famous city. No, I don't
- 1:17:19know much. Yeah, but 90 kilometers, yeah, it's
- 1:17:21not much, right? No, about an hour and a half.
- 1:17:24Okay, but your time zones are the same, of course.
- 1:17:27My time zone, China is 12 hours ahead of me.
- 1:17:33So while it is, it's almost 12 in the afternoon
- 1:17:39here, so it'd be 12 a .m. there. Yeah, no, sorry,
- 1:17:41you weren't in China, right? Yeah, okay. But
- 1:17:43let's see where she is. Disconcerting. Because
- 1:17:46she's the host. She needs to be recording this.
- 1:17:49I got to check all my computers. I'm on multiple
- 1:17:51screens. Believe it or not. Let me see. Maybe
- 1:17:54she fell asleep. I'm back. Welcome back, Ruby.
- 1:18:00I'm sorry. I don't know what happened outside
- 1:18:03this room, but I think one of the animals shut
- 1:18:06down the Wi -Fi by accident. Are you joking?
- 1:18:12No, no, I'm dead serious. Like, I lost Wi -Fi.
- 1:18:15Luckily, I have a backup Wi -Fi router here,
- 1:18:18so I just switched. Oh, okay. You can edit it
- 1:18:22out. So... It'll be, thanks to Riverside, it'll
- 1:18:26be edited out by itself. Well, I made my point
- 1:18:29about the fetish. So that's why... Perhaps that's
- 1:18:34why you like the things you do. They have a quality
- 1:18:36that marks your identity or gives you this kind
- 1:18:40of qualities. where you purchase it and you feel
- 1:18:43like you belong to a certain group that you value.
- 1:18:47Arjun, what do you think? You know, I... Again,
- 1:18:51going back 50, 100 years, you know, we had minimalistic
- 1:18:58kind of a living. You know, things were pretty
- 1:19:01much quality. You know, the refrigerators and
- 1:19:04everything. First of all, there was really less
- 1:19:06stuff that time compared to now. And I feel...
- 1:19:09I don't want to get into conspiracy theories
- 1:19:11like hardcore, but you know, we have been divided
- 1:19:16by certain powers, groups, I would say, who also
- 1:19:21overlook and decide what we should learn, how
- 1:19:25the society should function, how the economy
- 1:19:28should be. And I feel that a lot of things are
- 1:19:32just distractions to keep us engaged in our own
- 1:19:35worlds, small worlds that we create to feel powerless.
- 1:19:38Because remember, together we are powerful and
- 1:19:42divided like we fall, right? And so we cannot
- 1:19:47see as much as consumerism and that's so much
- 1:19:50of stuff that we see today in today's time. We
- 1:19:53couldn't see that 100, 150 years ago. And I feel
- 1:19:55like, again, nothing is good and bad. But I think
- 1:19:59we are also reaching a point where it's really
- 1:20:02hurting the earth. you know, exploitation of
- 1:20:05the resources and so on and so forth. Because
- 1:20:08the economy needs to keep going. Well, they could
- 1:20:10create quality products as Ruby points out. And
- 1:20:13I really appreciate her for, you know, being,
- 1:20:16buying quality and sticking with it, you know,
- 1:20:17and of course, quality products do last a lifetime
- 1:20:20and more, you know, and they get passed on generations.
- 1:20:22And that's a great practice, by the way. And
- 1:20:24I feel that we now need to come back to that
- 1:20:27point where it's not like stuff is bad, but The
- 1:20:31so -called companies that make low quality cheap
- 1:20:34products can also make high quality higher quality
- 1:20:36products that last But then again, they think
- 1:20:39if you know, what if products last and people
- 1:20:43are not gonna buy again? Yeah, and so it's it's
- 1:20:47not us Of course, you know people are in their
- 1:20:50own stresses and emotions and traumas and and
- 1:20:53so much going on There is a void in all of us
- 1:20:56also because you are divided that we want to
- 1:20:59fill and we need to felt belonged somewhere or
- 1:21:03we need to feel a certain way. And if you see
- 1:21:06the advertisements, you see brands like Coca
- 1:21:08-Cola, Apple, and so on and so forth. The way
- 1:21:11they make the ads, it's like all psychology.
- 1:21:16It's designed in such a way that communicates
- 1:21:19directly to your subconscious and makes you want
- 1:21:23it and have it. Yeah, Ruby, you should be an
- 1:21:26expert on this stuff. Isn't this what you studied
- 1:21:28in school? Yeah, I studied on how to make people
- 1:21:31want things. Actually, no, no, no, no. It was
- 1:21:34part of my studies, but my studies was more focused
- 1:21:38on internal management of employees during a
- 1:21:43crisis. Snap. I thought it was more like communications.
- 1:21:48Yeah, it is communication management and my specialization,
- 1:21:52my major. or my major project at the end was
- 1:21:56internal branding. Internal communication management.
- 1:22:01My education too, part of it was in rhetoric.
- 1:22:05And a lot of people just think rhetoric is just
- 1:22:07fancy ways of talking and convincing through
- 1:22:09an argument. But no, it extends beyond that.
- 1:22:12It's the things we consume, the way we decorate
- 1:22:15a room, things like that. So I do think about
- 1:22:20it quite a bit. Maybe that's why I'm not so apt
- 1:22:23to buy good quality things because on some level,
- 1:22:26I don't believe in that good quality. I just
- 1:22:28think because I can't see the logistics of the
- 1:22:30product, I also am very skeptical and think the
- 1:22:38price is just marked up. For example, in North
- 1:22:40America, there are famous retail stores called
- 1:22:44like Marshall's and you buy clothes there that
- 1:22:46you think are top -notch quality goods, you know.
- 1:22:50And you see the label, the price tag, and it
- 1:22:53says, you know, in other stores it would be this
- 1:22:54much, but at our store, it's this much. So you
- 1:22:57see this marked down. But really, from what I
- 1:23:02understand is that it's just, it's a ruse. It's
- 1:23:06a psychological tactic to get you to purchase
- 1:23:10it and think you are making a deal for a quality
- 1:23:14product. No store. is going to mark down a product
- 1:23:19into a loss. Unless it's like some kind of extreme
- 1:23:25scenario. And then there'll be a strategy to
- 1:23:30make money from something else. Yeah, right.
- 1:23:33But when you see some of the items in some places
- 1:23:37that are marked down because, you know, season's
- 1:23:40over, whatever, and you see how inexpensive it
- 1:23:42is, you realize how much it really doesn't cost
- 1:23:47But I think we are insulated from that in China.
- 1:23:53To a very large extent. I buy my clothes from
- 1:23:57the cheapest place possible. And then I wear
- 1:24:00them for years. But yes, me too. But what about
- 1:24:05shopping malls in China? No, they're mocked up.
- 1:24:09But that's bread and circus. I know, that's my
- 1:24:11point. That's bread and circus. Wait, we need
- 1:24:14to get Arjun back, because I only see a freeze
- 1:24:16frame right now. No, he's still here. He's listening.
- 1:24:20Absolutely. I was just listening to your conversations,
- 1:24:23and if I may add, because prior to the pandemic,
- 1:24:26we owned a company of organic cotton clothing,
- 1:24:29t -shirts, naturally dyed t -shirts. And so,
- 1:24:33of course, we are aware of the ongoings, or at
- 1:24:36least of the fashion industry. And that's true,
- 1:24:39at least talking. of fast fashion, speaking of
- 1:24:42fast fashion, you know, the brands and everything,
- 1:24:44they are generally produced in like underdeveloped
- 1:24:47countries or developing countries, and very cheap
- 1:24:50labor, sweatshops, and the same items are, you
- 1:24:55know, even used by brands that are, they charge
- 1:24:58in a very high price on the label, you know,
- 1:25:02they have a very high price on the label, like
- 1:25:03ultra -luxury brands, or what do you call it?
- 1:25:07brands like that are just good enough for almost
- 1:25:09everyone. It's all, it's a facade. That's true
- 1:25:12at many levels and many brands, you know, it's
- 1:25:15just a facade. So you are right, Luigi. You are
- 1:25:20absolutely right into thinking that they actually
- 1:25:22have a very high profit margin and it's actually
- 1:25:26an exploitation. And that's why at least what
- 1:25:29we try and do is most of the times wherever possible.
- 1:25:32we try to buy local, more handmade, more stuff
- 1:25:37like that. And yeah, just because something is
- 1:25:40high in price doesn't mean it's going to be good
- 1:25:41in quality. But when you're buying something
- 1:25:44from someone that makes it personally, or like
- 1:25:47a small group of people or a smaller company,
- 1:25:50not by a big corporation, it's more likely to
- 1:25:52be. Good. You know, so I'm just what Ruby does
- 1:25:55and, you know, uh, researching whatever, you
- 1:25:58know, you're going to buy is, is a great, it's
- 1:26:00a great practice. I feel. Absolutely. I think
- 1:26:02there is this is a space for big corporate corporations
- 1:26:06to exist. And I'm thinking about situations like,
- 1:26:09for example, this micro. This, this being made
- 1:26:14on a local level by an artisan is not very practical,
- 1:26:20but this. being made here, down the road, by
- 1:26:25an artisan? Very possible. Right? Was that shirt
- 1:26:29made down the road? It's just a cotton shirt,
- 1:26:34yeah. Probably. Yeah, absolutely. There are things
- 1:26:36that just can't be made by smaller players. And
- 1:26:40you know, we've just got to stick with what it
- 1:26:41is. Of course, I think we've just got to stick
- 1:26:43with what we have in the world we live in. And
- 1:26:46just hope for the best, you know, just keep spreading
- 1:26:48love and being forgiving. But then I want to
- 1:26:52say as well, like there are things like the lights
- 1:26:55behind me. Okay. The LED strips that are going
- 1:26:58around that's made by a very big company. Right.
- 1:27:02There's no getting around that. It's cheap. But
- 1:27:06then the name there, there are quite a few companies
- 1:27:10that make that. And that's made. Locally, like
- 1:27:14I actually drew that picture and wrote the words
- 1:27:17and sent it to them and then they made it for
- 1:27:19me and then they send it back. And you can see
- 1:27:23if you looked at it, it's hand cut. And I kind
- 1:27:27of appreciate that. It didn't go through like
- 1:27:29some heavy money. Obviously the parts of it are
- 1:27:33made by a big corporation or a factory. But I
- 1:27:37think that's different to consumer facing. large
- 1:27:42preparations. That's true. Yeah, there are some
- 1:27:46things that are just not in our control, like,
- 1:27:48you know, like the LED lights and whatnot, like
- 1:27:50the microphones that really smaller players can't
- 1:27:54get into manufacturing. But definitely, I think
- 1:27:58with time, and we are shifting, you know, because
- 1:28:01we are revolting as well, we are opening our
- 1:28:03eyes, we are awakening. And I think there will
- 1:28:05come a time, at least in my reality, in our reality,
- 1:28:08that we are heading on to where being in a higher
- 1:28:10state of in a higher vibrational state and I
- 1:28:13think we can definitely be a part of a better
- 1:28:16world as even people are becoming more and more
- 1:28:19aware of, you know, it's not good for the earth,
- 1:28:22it's not healthy for the earth these practices
- 1:28:23and also opening themselves up to the reality
- 1:28:27of that they have been placed in a so -called
- 1:28:30matrix, you know, isolated, distracted and the
- 1:28:35more we start because It's funny, you know, we
- 1:28:38live in a world where we have internet and we
- 1:28:40are better connected than ever. And we are still
- 1:28:42so disconnected and isolated. But I think more
- 1:28:46and more as we create communities, not because
- 1:28:48of products, but just for each other, the more
- 1:28:51we can start shifting, the more, like I said,
- 1:28:54the best thing that happened was, you know, first
- 1:28:56of all, whatever the society we are living in,
- 1:29:00the basis of that was old biology, old physics,
- 1:29:04in the old thinking. The old, for example, the
- 1:29:08Darwin's theory of evolution, everything is based
- 1:29:09on that competition for survival, cutthroat competition,
- 1:29:13right? Yeah. But that's not, we are not products
- 1:29:15of evolution. Again, we can get into alternate
- 1:29:18history. We are not products of evolution. We
- 1:29:20are not, as humanity is not made for competition,
- 1:29:24we are made to live together in harmony and cooperation.
- 1:29:29And the moment we start shifting that model,
- 1:29:32everything's going to start changing. Right.
- 1:29:35Yeah, that reminds me of just something I came
- 1:29:39across maybe a week or two ago to add to your
- 1:29:41point Arjun that we are more people are more
- 1:29:45egalitarian than We think and it's only when
- 1:29:49we have all of this excess that we become Greedy,
- 1:29:53so it sounds bad, but we are in our nature greedy
- 1:29:58for a survival sense because what they noticed
- 1:30:01in like tribal cultures that were egalitarian.
- 1:30:05It was so important for everyone to be equal.
- 1:30:07So if you were a hunter and you were the best
- 1:30:10hunter, the tribe would make sure, you know,
- 1:30:14when you're all in the village, everyone's equal.
- 1:30:16And then when you go out to hunt, okay, you're
- 1:30:18the best hunter, today we're going to let you
- 1:30:20hunt. Even if you're the best, it doesn't matter.
- 1:30:23We're going to give someone else a turn. And
- 1:30:24what they also noticed was that like when those,
- 1:30:27if you came across like, If you alone came across
- 1:30:31a beehive full of honey, you would gorge yourself
- 1:30:34on that honey and eat it all. And that's just
- 1:30:38because it was so rare to come by, but it still
- 1:30:40would not diminish the kind of egalitarian dynamic
- 1:30:44of the tribes. And it's only they discovered,
- 1:30:47I guess now relative to today is that because
- 1:30:50we can create so much excess that we appear greedier.
- 1:30:56It's like some kind of, it's a drive in us from
- 1:30:59you know, so long ago. But we are better at actually
- 1:31:04being egalitarian. And we know it's practical.
- 1:31:07But now, because of the system we're in, we're
- 1:31:10opposite that. Because we have to be to survive,
- 1:31:14I guess, in the society we're in today, because
- 1:31:18it depends on economy. You know, but even in
- 1:31:22the economy or the game, it's more like a game,
- 1:31:25actually. The moment we realize We shift out
- 1:31:28of fear and scarcity and we start addressing
- 1:31:31those things within us. We can actually start
- 1:31:33shifting away from a lot of those things that
- 1:31:35keep us greedy or angry or hungry or whatever
- 1:31:38it is, you know. And the more we can start connecting
- 1:31:41with other people because also, you know, when
- 1:31:43a person is in fear, when the person is anxious,
- 1:31:46when the person is going through emotions which
- 1:31:48are more dense, lower vibration emotions, we
- 1:31:51tend to feel isolated. tend to not feel like
- 1:31:55going out and meeting people. It's very natural,
- 1:31:58right? You know, you're feeling sad. You wouldn't
- 1:31:59feel like going and talking to anyone. Yeah.
- 1:32:02And they know what they are doing. These, these
- 1:32:05groups of people, these who kind of have control
- 1:32:08on most systems of the world, which is now breaking.
- 1:32:12They know what the psychology is. They know how
- 1:32:16people can be manipulated, how They can keep
- 1:32:18things, you know, they can keep the illusion
- 1:32:21up, the illusion of that, you know, we are not
- 1:32:23in control and we need to, you know, fill the
- 1:32:25void within us by purchasing stuff and, you know,
- 1:32:29being, being competitive and, and, you know,
- 1:32:33serving the ego by saying, I'm the winner. I
- 1:32:34am the, I'm the man. I'm the guy. And, you know,
- 1:32:36I'm the winner and you are not, you're, you're
- 1:32:38a loser and I'm better than you. And those kinds
- 1:32:41of things, they don't serve us. And it's not
- 1:32:44because inherently we are bad or anything. It's
- 1:32:46just that, you know, we are so drenched in trauma
- 1:32:48from all the past. You know, remember, energy,
- 1:32:53even emotion, trauma, everything is also energy.
- 1:32:56And because it cannot, and many times it's so
- 1:32:59much, it's so much, especially like in times
- 1:33:01when there were like world wars and whatnot,
- 1:33:04that one single A person one single consciousness
- 1:33:08couldn't contain that form of like heavy trauma
- 1:33:11and energy in their field within themselves It
- 1:33:14couldn't just contain it. So it got distributed
- 1:33:15because remember Beyond this there is timelessness.
- 1:33:19So there's no restriction of time, right? There's
- 1:33:22no linearity beyond this dimension. So energy
- 1:33:25is not limited to the third dimension so any
- 1:33:30trauma any strong emotion dense emotions faced
- 1:33:33which the body cannot contain it segregates and
- 1:33:37segments it and is passed to other generations
- 1:33:41as well. And then sometimes we feel triggered
- 1:33:44and we feel certain ways and we don't know why.
- 1:33:48Because those energies are also contained. And
- 1:33:52although it's really relatively easy to begin
- 1:33:55to liberate those things, again, just by being
- 1:33:58more within ourselves and questioning what we
- 1:34:00are feeling, what's happening and not being distracted.
- 1:34:04by the illusions that are placed around us all
- 1:34:06the time. And we're really waking up to the fact
- 1:34:09that, you know, we are in control, we can take
- 1:34:12the power back in our hands. We are not a product
- 1:34:16of evolution and we are meant to live in harmony.
- 1:34:20There's enough for everyone. There's something
- 1:34:22really important to realize that we always think
- 1:34:24of scarcity and scarcity is a part of fear. But
- 1:34:27there's enough for everyone. Scarcity mindset
- 1:34:29is poison. So you just cut out there for a minute.
- 1:34:33I said the scarcity mindset is just poisonous.
- 1:34:38Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. I think we should wrap it
- 1:34:43up. I think we should wrap it up. Arjun, you've
- 1:34:47been fantastic. Thank you everybody for tuning
- 1:34:50into this. Don't forget to follow Arjun at A
- 1:34:53-R -J -U -N -C -H -H? R -C -H -H. R -C -O. Let
- 1:34:59me spell that. Spell that carefully. I'm going
- 1:35:02to open Instagram here. A -R -J -U -N -R -C -H
- 1:35:07-H. On X, Instagram, and YouTube. You can find
- 1:35:12Kaleidoscope at Ray Liu. That's R -A -E -L -I
- 1:35:17-U. Or Fire From Heat on Instagram. Or Heat From
- 1:35:22Fire on TikTok. Luigi, what are your socials?
- 1:35:27I don't have... I don't want to share my socials.
- 1:35:30I'm not cool enough yet. My socials aren't that
- 1:35:33big. Why do you ask me for my socials? You know
- 1:35:37that. You can find Luigi anywhere you find Kaleidoscope.
- 1:35:41Yeah. That's it. For now. Listen, when my socials
- 1:35:45get bigger, I'll be more apt to share. Fine.
- 1:35:51I have to do the work. I'm going to stop the
- 1:35:54recording. We'll just stay online. We can have
- 1:35:56a bit of a chat. Yeah. All right. you