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- 0:00I'm Stephanie.
- 0:00I'm Meredith.
- 0:01And welcome to This Is My Circus.
- 0:03This is my urban legend circus.
- 0:04Yes, it is.
- 0:06Urban legends are so cool.
- 0:08I think that they're really cool.
- 0:09I do, too.
- 0:10But a little bit creepy.
- 0:12Oh, a, a lot of bit creepy.
- 0:15There's so many different ones that are just, worldwide almost.
- 0:19Mm-hmm.
- 0:19But I'm sure we'll talk about some of them.
- 0:21But local ones are really creepy to me.
- 0:23Yeah.
- 0:23Mm-hmm.
- 0:24And Brian forgets that I'm not from this area, and he'll be like...
- 0:28I'll never forget one time he was like,"That's Crybaby Bridge." And I was like,"What are you talking about?" So then he tell, starts telling me this story about this bridge and you can guess, you hear babies crying- Mm-hmm all that kind of stuff.
- 0:37And I was like, I thought he was making it up.
- 0:39And then one day somebody was like,"That's Crybaby Bridge." And I was like He wasn't lying.
- 0:44Right.
- 0:45I don't really know a lot, like, local to this area, though.
- 0:47Yeah, me either.
- 0:49But I'm not from here either, so.
- 0:50Right.
- 0:50In Pennsylvania, there wasn't, really any, super urban legends.
- 0:55I mean, we just had, like, the generic, Yeah Bloody Mary- Right whatever, you know?
- 0:59Right like, that kind of stuff.
- 0:59But- But not, something that happened- Well, yeah in a, on a street in your town- Mm-hmm or anything like that.
- 1:03I mean, we had haunted places that were- Oh, yeah?
- 1:06featured on, on, MTV.
- 1:07Oh, really?
- 1:07Yeah, but, like, not- Did you ever go try to explore any of these haunted places?
- 1:11We peeked one of'em into a haunted house one year Halloween.
- 1:15Shut up.
- 1:16Mm-hmm.
- 1:17Yeah, the one that was on MTV.
- 1:19I bet they made some cash.
- 1:21They did.
- 1:22Yeah.
- 1:22I'm sure.
- 1:23Yeah.
- 1:23But I mean, it wasn't, like, super scary.
- 1:25But- No no.
- 1:26I think it's just the aspect of it's truly a haunted place that give it that vibe.
- 1:31Yeah.
- 1:32Cool.
- 1:32That's cool, though.
- 1:32We didn't have any, like, super- We didn't either localized ones growing up.
- 1:35Not that I can think of, anyway.
- 1:36Mm-mm.
- 1:36Just, like, you were saying, the, the standard ones.
- 1:39Yeah.
- 1:39Same old, same old.
- 1:40The one that everybody had.
- 1:41Yeah.
- 1:43But they're fascinating and they're fun and especially with, um, fun might be the wrong word.
- 1:49They're fun to scare our friends with.
- 1:52Yes.
- 1:52Well, just to, you know me, I'm a history nerd, so just to hear the history of some of them is really neat.
- 1:57Yeah.
- 1:58It's Halloween week.
- 1:58Yes, it is.
- 2:00We did not dress up.
- 2:01Did not.
- 2:01Well, we both wore the green.
- 2:02Yeah.
- 2:03So.
- 2:05Unagi.
- 2:06Yeah.
- 2:07No, no dressing up.
- 2:08What would we dress up as an urban legend?
- 2:10Crybabies?
- 2:10Well- Should I worn a diaper?
- 2:12I don't, we could've worn our costumes from two years ago.
- 2:15Yeah.
- 2:16Yeah.
- 2:17Well, how is your week going?
- 2:19It's okay.
- 2:20Yeah?
- 2:20I guess.
- 2:21Yeah.
- 2:21It's Monday, always have to, stop and think what day it is so I can, process.
- 2:25In your head, what day of the week does the week start on?
- 2:27Is yours, like, Sunday to Saturday?
- 2:29I, I don't know.
- 2:30I don't really have a s- You don't have that?
- 2:31I have the calendar in my head, and it's, Sunday to Saturday, and that's, how it looks in my head.
- 2:35I can't look ahead.
- 2:36I am, like, day by day.
- 2:37How am I going to make it through today?
- 2:39Uh, yeah, I get that.
- 2:41That- I get that that is my train of thought.
- 2:43Okay, okay.
- 2:44Well, since day one was yesterday for me, this week is fine.
- 2:49It hasn't gone off the rails yet.
- 2:50Not yet.
- 2:51I'm sure, you know, subject to changes.
- 2:52Senior week for Jackson at, school, so they're announcing the seniors, on Friday night.
- 2:58Okay.
- 2:58Which is, uh, yeah.
- 3:00Yeah.
- 3:01It's their last regular season home game, so they're doing that.
- 3:04And I'm just trying to get that stuff arranged and, just trying to get through it.
- 3:08And that's gotta be emotional, too.
- 3:09It is.
- 3:10For senior year.
- 3:11Oh, God, I'm dying.
- 3:12Yeah.
- 3:12And now apparently, because, you know, of course in my chat is a bunch of senior stuff, so all of my algorithms are nothing but- Senior senior stuff.
- 3:21And, it's, like, showing these videos of these moms.
- 3:24Oh my God, I'm gonna cry talking about it.
- 3:26okay, you remember when Dylan played sports- Mm-hmm especially football?
- 3:29'Cause that was...
- 3:29Was that his first sport?
- 3:30No, he did taekwondo.
- 3:31Oh, he did taekwondo.
- 3:32Yeah.
- 3:32Right.
- 3:32I'm sure you helped him put his cleats on, right?
- 3:35And it's videos of these moms taking their sons' cleats off.
- 3:38I can't.
- 3:39And it's like,"I put on your first pair and I'm taking off the last." Oh.
- 3:45But it...
- 3:46I'm doing it to myself- Yeah'cause I keep watching these things.
- 3:48I know.
- 3:49And luckily Jackson'll probably get to play more.
- 3:51This isn't it.
- 3:52Yeah.
- 3:52Since he's probably gonna go to college and play football.
- 3:54That's the plan.
- 3:54Yeah.
- 3:55But it's tough.
- 3:57Yeah.
- 3:57Um, having a hard time.
- 3:58But it's good to know, like- that we get a senior night.
- 4:02Sometimes there's been thi- for instance, like during COVID, things just kind of stopped, and you didn't get some of those last moments for whatever reason.
- 4:08Yeah.
- 4:09So I'm glad that, we get this.
- 4:11And we'll talk next week.
- 4:13I think I'm gonna wear, those under-eye, eye things, like, all week.
- 4:16Yeah.
- 4:17At least maybe that'll help with all the swelling on my face.
- 4:20I don't know.
- 4:21You can...
- 4:21parents escort them out, and I'm sure I'm just gonna be a blubbering mess.
- 4:24Yeah.
- 4:24And I'm trying to decide.
- 4:29Do I pre-game?
- 4:30Probably, I would.
- 4:31But would that make it worse?
- 4:33Oh, yeah.
- 4:34Mm.
- 4:35Like, will that make me more emotional?
- 4:37Or- You want one of my, anxiety pills like, a beta blocker.
- 4:40Maybe.
- 4:43Well, I mean, and I've got something to chill me out- Yeah like when I get too anxious, but I don't want it to just, make me- Totally emotionless.
- 4:50But it's either gonna- Or to fall one, one way or the other.
- 4:52Right.
- 4:52Right.
- 4:52I don't want to be,"Woo, hoo, hoo," you know?
- 4:55So I don't know.
- 4:56And you know, you also want to remember every part of it, too, so I'm probably just gonna go in cold and, just be a mess.
- 5:02So it's okay.
- 5:03Yeah.
- 5:03But anyway, it was a good week.
- 5:05But wear waterproof mascara.
- 5:06Am, am I cry- am I leaking right now?
- 5:08Yep.
- 5:08Yep.
- 5:09See?
- 5:09Not this one.
- 5:10Don't use the Silver Tube by Maybelline.
- 5:13ELF has a really good waterproof mascara.
- 5:15Do they?
- 5:15Yeah.
- 5:15Okay, I'll have to try it out.
- 5:17still good week.
- 5:17Still, still good.
- 5:18Yeah.
- 5:18Still fun.
- 5:19How about you?
- 5:19What you got going on?
- 5:20oh, I did a, a smoking hypnosis.
- 5:23What's a smoking hypnosis?
- 5:23Oh, it's just- Oh, it's, it's- To stop, like, the urges or for vaping.
- 5:27I love that, but you know, in my mind, I was picturing, like, fog.
- 5:30Yeah.
- 5:32Like, thinking that- Yeah was your background.
- 5:33Yeah, true.
- 5:34Yes.
- 5:34Yeah.
- 5:35Um- Oh, that's awesome.
- 5:36I did it on Tammy.
- 5:37She said that, her urges had, lessened it takes a couple of sessions.
- 5:39Uh-huh.
- 5:40So that was the first one.
- 5:41We're gonna do another one- That's really cool soon.
- 5:42So she's let me use her as a guinea pig.
- 5:45That's really cool.
- 5:47Yeah.
- 5:47So we'll see.
- 5:48How long did one session...
- 5:50Is about one session, for anybody, not necessarily- Like, 30 to 40 minutes.
- 5:53Okay.
- 5:53Depending on what we're working on but she's like, it was so weird." She's like,"I almost felt like I was, levitating." She's like,"It was feeling, weightless while you were doing it." She said, You can hear everything, and you're, like, aware." Oh, interesting.
- 6:04But she's like,"I felt...
- 6:04My whole body just felt weightless." We need to do that.
- 6:09Sign me up.
- 6:09Okay.
- 6:09Count me down.
- 6:10Okay.
- 6:11I don't know which aspect of my life we're gonna work on, but- we'll find one and just l- lock in.
- 6:17But the funny part is, I'll record my own hypnosis and try,, for myself, but I fall asleep like that.
- 6:21And I had talked to my trainer- Mm-hmm and he said it's because, He finds that people who are super stressed or have, so much anxiety or, whatever, like, on their mind- Mm-hmm fall asleep.
- 6:34Really?
- 6:34Yeah.
- 6:35It's like they get to that point and they just completely shut.
- 6:37And it's just because they don't ever have that, just relaxation point.
- 6:41Yeah.
- 6:41And as soon as they get to a certain, point in the going under part- Mm-hmm out- All the way.
- 6:48Yeah.
- 6:48Do you have massages?
- 6:50I have had, yeah.
- 6:51Do you fall asleep?
- 6:52No.
- 6:53Well, no.
- 6:55Okay.
- 6:57I feel, so awkward.
- 6:59I am not surprised one bit.
- 7:02But, I feel like I told this story before.
- 7:04When, I had gotten into a car accident and they sent me for massage therapy- Mm-hmm and the girl was doing the massage.
- 7:11You know, you're laying there naked.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:14And- Naked.
- 7:16So she's like,"Oh, you know, do you have any kids?" I'm like,"Yeah, my son's..." I think he was in, like, first or second grade at Griggs.
- 7:21Mm-hmm.
- 7:21And she's like,"Oh, my son goes there, too." And I'm like,"Oh, what grade is he in?" And it was the same grade, and I'm like,"Oh, I sub there.
- 7:28Who's your kid?
- 7:28I might probably know him." And she says the name, and it was, like, the worst kid in the class.
- 7:32Oh my God.
- 7:33Like, the horrible, makes you hate children kid.
- 7:39M- no, this kid threw a chair across the room because I wouldn't let him have iPad time because he wouldn't do his work.
- 7:46Was that the day you hung up your substitute teacher lanyard?
- 7:48That was the day that I, like, oh my gosh, so I called the vice principal.
- 7:52He comes, takes him out of the classroom for five minutes and brings him back.
- 7:54And I'm like,"No, no, y- so- This, this room's not big enough for the both of us.
- 7:59So- So if he's coming in, I'm...
- 8:00Heck no I, you...
- 8:01We do not get paid for this.
- 8:03Right.
- 8:03I'm like,"That is a big no." Yeah.
- 8:05So then I got, like, super tense and I was like,"Nope, don't know him." I relate with that.
- 8:11And she's like,"You're really tense today." And I'm like,"Uh-huh." Uh-huh.
- 8:14I wasn't till I got here.
- 8:15It's completely fine.
- 8:18Aw.
- 8:19Yeah.
- 8:19But I mean, I've had other massages- Yeah that were great- Yeah but that was, my, Well, that's, Yeah awkward.
- 8:24I would prefer to go to a professional service like that, or, my nurse or whatever, not knowing the person.
- 8:31Yeah.
- 8:32I just feel more comfort...
- 8:33Like, it's not in the moment.
- 8:35I don't want...
- 8:35Yeah, like- But it's, if I see you after.
- 8:38Mm-hmm.
- 8:39It's like the walk of shame.
- 8:40Yeah.
- 8:42Yeah.
- 8:45The one-night stand?
- 8:46Yes.
- 8:48Not that I've ever had that, but- Same.
- 8:49But still, you know, I see it in movies.
- 8:52So I hear.
- 8:54That's what Steph told me.
- 8:57Oh, gosh, that's funny.
- 8:58Yeah.
- 8:59So yeah, I mean, I love a massage.
- 9:01Me too.
- 9:02But yeah.
- 9:03Yeah.
- 9:04If I, when I...
- 9:05Let's manifest it.
- 9:06When I'm rich, I would have a massage every week.
- 9:09Yeah.
- 9:09Every other week, whatever my schedule would allow.
- 9:12But I- But I'm super ticklish too, though.
- 9:14Are you?
- 9:15I am.
- 9:15Mm-hmm.
- 9:16really ticklish.
- 9:17I used to be really ticklish and I'm not anymore.
- 9:19And it's like, I think it's more'cause I'm so tense that I'm like just waiting for it.
- 9:22Yeah.
- 9:22And like I psych myself out.
- 9:23I feel like you're waiting for it right now, like I'm gonna gooch you or something.
- 9:28I think, so my sister used to hold me down and tickle me when we were little.
- 9:31Mm-hmm.
- 9:31And I think I, I built up walls to protect myself.
- 9:36Yeah.
- 9:37So I'm not like really ticklish anymore.
- 9:39Yeah.
- 9:39But that's so funny.
- 9:40Yeah.
- 9:40I'm so ticklish.
- 9:41We grew up in the'80s,'90s.
- 9:43Yes.
- 9:44We are'80s babies.
- 9:46'80s babies, yep.
- 9:47We grew up at a time, without cell phones.
- 9:49Right.
- 9:50So we...
- 9:50I think now, like, sleepovers are probably just, they're all scrolling or taking videos and posting Snaps.
- 9:55I think I agree, and I think they all wear, the headbands with, the eye patches that I'm gonna be wearing the rest of the week.
- 10:00Yeah.
- 10:01Yeah, and really cute PJs.
- 10:02Yeah, we did not have cute PJs.
- 10:03No.
- 10:04We had horrible- No, and, and we were awkward looking, and they all look beautiful now.
- 10:08Our hair.
- 10:09Oh my gosh.
- 10:10Oh, yeah.
- 10:11Okay, go ahead., So it was a- I- I'll stop being upset about that a much simpler time.
- 10:15Yes.
- 10:15we didn't have social media, so we didn't have all the distractions, but apparently before our parents cared whether we, Mm-hmm came home before- the streetlights came on, we were definitely in for some psychological warfare.
- 10:28Yep.
- 10:29We couldn't say Bloody Mary in the mirror, couldn't flash our headlights at strangers.
- 10:32Oh gosh, I forgot about that one.
- 10:34Couldn't eat our Halloween candy without it being inspected for razor blades.
- 10:37Mm-hmm.
- 10:37And God forbid you turned on the dome light in the car.
- 10:40Oh my gosh, yes.
- 10:42That was a federal offense.
- 10:42That was...
- 10:43Like, every- I still ask Brian,"Can I turn this light on?" He's like,"Yes." And somehow despite all these dangers, our parents let us roam the neighborhood unsupervised until the streetlights came on.
- 10:55We're literally trying to summon ghosts, and they're like,"Okay, just come back when the lights come back on." Good luck.
- 11:01And wave to sc- Yeah.
- 11:02Like this, like,"Toodaloo." Toodles.
- 11:06So today we're revisiting, the urban legends, sleepover games, creepy chain letters, and absolutely unhinged warnings that defined our childhoods.
- 11:14Yes.
- 11:15I'm excited.
- 11:16I'm excited, too.
- 11:17The nostalgia.
- 11:18You know I have...
- 11:18I'm a sucker for the nostalgia things.
- 11:20We had some interesting urban legends that we grew up with.
- 11:25Absolutely.
- 11:25So all of the ones that I'm really familiar with are more of like a sleepover thing.
- 11:31Yeah, same.
- 11:32Okay, like girls sleepover and you're staying up late and you're telling all the stories.
- 11:36I wonder if boys did this?
- 11:37They had sleepovers, but I feel like they...
- 11:39Well, the sleepovers at my house, they were like outside playing basketball till like 3:00 AM.
- 11:43Not in my house when I was little.
- 11:44Yeah.
- 11:45But like my house Yeah.
- 11:47It's like outside and eat, or outside, come in and eat, outside.
- 11:51So I don't know if they really did this kind of stuff.
- 11:53When my brother had friends sleep over, we weren't allowed to go hang out with them.
- 11:56Yeah.
- 11:57They didn't want girls, especially like little sisters there.
- 12:00I really don't know.
- 12:01But the girls did it.
- 12:03Yeah.
- 12:03definitely a sleepover thing.
- 12:05It's funny when you think about it.
- 12:06It's like, what, what are we really trying to do?
- 12:08What are we really trying to prove?
- 12:09One that really stood out to me...
- 12:11You wanna just go through some of them?
- 12:12Yeah.
- 12:12I had a couple that are my favorites or that just like pop in my mind immediately.
- 12:16Great.
- 12:16First one's Bloody Mary.
- 12:17Mm-hmm.
- 12:18And the Bloody Mary thing was you would go into a bathroom, you'd turn off the lights, you'd stand in front of the mirror, and you'd say Bloody Mary three times.
- 12:25Mm.
- 12:25That was how we did it.
- 12:26Yeah, yeah.
- 12:27What y'all do?
- 12:27Same.
- 12:27Mm-hmm.
- 12:28And supposedly a terrifying woman or spirit would appear in the mirror, and different versions said she might scratch you or scream or come after you.
- 12:36I did this all the time.
- 12:37And it was always so funny,'cause there was like eight of us at a sleepover.
- 12:40Right.
- 12:40Especially if it was a birthday party where they could have more over, and you're all in this little bathroom, and you're all staring in the mirror.
- 12:47And,"Oh, I saw something there." Everybody's trying to get out as fast as they can.
- 12:50But what were we gonna do?
- 12:52If she appeared, what was the plan?
- 12:54There was no plan.
- 12:55There was no plan.
- 12:58Absolutely not.
- 12:59Was the first child- Right who decided summoning a horrifying- Yep bloody woman- Mm-hmm ghost- Was this is a great idea was a good idea?
- 13:08Right.
- 13:08Great idea.
- 13:09And as I was thinking about these and the whole sleepover thing, this is where we did them, I'm sure I learned these from my older sister.
- 13:16You think so?
- 13:16I think so, because I'm sure she had people over, and they would do these.
- 13:20And then I would go to somebody else's house, and e- they might have even had older siblings too or- Yeah whatever, and we're like,"Oh, look, let's try to do this.
- 13:27They did this." Yeah.
- 13:28It's just passed down from generation.
- 13:30Do kids still do that?
- 13:31I doubt it because they have cell phones now.
- 13:34Everything's online.
- 13:35Their urban legends are online.
- 13:37I guess.
- 13:37If anybody knows, I'm gonna have to reach out to some of my friends that have girls.
- 13:41Do girls still do this stuff?
- 13:42Yeah.
- 13:43'Cause I know I want to know.
- 13:44Yeah.
- 13:44What was another, what was one of your favorites?
- 13:46Candyman.
- 13:47yes.
- 13:48So- Forgot about that one.
- 13:49Yeah.
- 13:49Candyman was also a movie- Mm-hmm which we saw that.
- 13:52I saw that in the theater.
- 13:53Yeah.
- 13:53We saw it when it came out on VHS.
- 13:56Yep.
- 13:57Blockbuster.
- 13:57Yep.
- 13:58The legend is you look in the mirror and say Candyman five times, according to the 1992 horror movie.
- 14:05You summon a murderous spirit with a hook for a hand.
- 14:08That is terrifying.
- 14:10Again, why were we wanting to do this?
- 14:12Yeah.
- 14:13So the backstory, the character comes from Clive Barker's short story, The Forbidden, which I didn't know that.
- 14:18I didn't know that either.
- 14:18Adapted into the film Candyman.
- 14:20The movie's mirror summoning ritual draws on Bloody Mary's folklore, so it's just a spin- Mm-hmm on Bloody Mary.
- 14:26Mm-hmm.
- 14:27But 10 times worse- Yeah and terrifying.
- 14:30Let's just add all the scary things.
- 14:31So now it's a man.
- 14:32Now he's got a hook hand.
- 14:33Yeah.
- 14:34Yeah.
- 14:35And these ghosts apparently, are evil.
- 14:39Yeah.
- 14:39Yes.
- 14:40Did you ever do Candyman?
- 14:42No.
- 14:43We did after we saw the movie.
- 14:44Okay.
- 14:44And I was probably like- 10, maybe 11.
- 14:48Yeah, that tracks'cause I was a little bit older.
- 14:50I think that's why we didn't do it with you.
- 14:51Yeah.
- 14:51I was way more mature at that point.
- 14:54But yeah, I was, like, petrified, but it did not work, obviously.
- 14:57It didn't work.
- 14:58No.
- 14:58No.
- 14:58Mm-mm.
- 14:59No.
- 15:00No.
- 15:00Another one of my favorites was light as a feather, stiff as a board.
- 15:02Yes.
- 15:03That was probably hands down my favorite one.
- 15:05Did it ever work?
- 15:07You know, I think it did.
- 15:10Uh, you know, we all were slipping our hands underneath- Yeah trying to help lift.
- 15:13Okay, so let me explain it for poor people that might not have ever been able- Okay to do this before.
- 15:17So one person lies on the floor, everybody gathers around, and you put two fingers underneath the person, and then everybody says,"Light as a feather, stiff as a board." And the idea is that that person will mysteriously just become light enough to lift.
- 15:33With two fingers.
- 15:34Everybody.
- 15:34What- Yeah you got seven people.
- 15:36Yeah.
- 15:37My fingers are not very strong.
- 15:39You can have the feet.
- 15:41But then I remember, people like, being like,"Oh my God." And then, you know, you drop her and she gets, like, that far off the ground, or half of her body gets up.
- 15:47Yeah.
- 15:48Yeah, we're just out here trying to make people levitate.
- 15:50We- It's fine should have a grownup, adult girl slumber party and do this stuff and see if it works.
- 15:57Did you do light as a feather, stiff as a board?
- 15:58We did, but it never worked.
- 16:00You would definitely be the person.
- 16:02Oh, I'd have to be the floater?
- 16:03Oh yeah.
- 16:04Yeah.
- 16:05You're the floater.
- 16:05You're, you got this.
- 16:09Yeah.
- 16:10I really can't see today's girls doing that.
- 16:12No, me either.
- 16:12Again, they're all just sit on their phones I know.
- 16:15Okay, what else you got?
- 16:16Ouija boards.
- 16:18I never touched a Ouija board.
- 16:19I have.
- 16:21you and your friends put the fingers on the little planchet and start asking questions.
- 16:25Suddenly it moves and spells out a name.
- 16:27So it has a board with the alphabet on it, and numbers, and yes and nos.
- 16:30Mm-hmm.
- 16:31So you ask the questions, you move the little movie thing, and it's supposed to spell out answers to your questions.
- 16:37Mm-hmm.
- 16:38interesting facts.
- 16:38Ouija boards became commercially popular in the late 1800s during the Spiritualism movement.
- 16:44The movement can be explained by ideomotor effect, tiny unconscious muscles, movements that people don't realize they're making.
- 16:52So subconsciously you're moving this thing- Mm-hmm to answer your own questions.
- 16:55Mm-hmm.
- 16:57In 1973, the film the Exorcism helped strengthen their sinister reputation.
- 17:01Okay.
- 17:01So imagine you're a ghost just minding your own business.
- 17:06You're summoned by a bunch of 10-year-olds.
- 17:08What?
- 17:09Does- Brittany.
- 17:12D- does Bob like me?
- 17:14Yeah.
- 17:16No.
- 17:18Everybody has a crush on Bob so yeah.
- 17:20Yeah.
- 17:21Do you remember the game Teen Heart Throb?
- 17:23Yes.
- 17:24I loved that game.
- 17:26Yes.
- 17:26Mm-hmm.
- 17:27But I remember looking at all those dudes and being like,"None of these are the ones.
- 17:31The- they're not for me, but give me a mix of a couple of them." Yeah.
- 17:35But- Build my own.
- 17:36And can I build my own heartthrob.
- 17:38There, I've seen, it's probably on TikTok or whatever, of where are the teen heartthrobs now.
- 17:43Oh my gosh, hilarious.
- 17:45Yes.
- 17:45So funny.
- 17:46Yeah.
- 17:47Let's do the killer in the backseat.
- 17:48Okay.
- 17:49Yeah, go for it.
- 17:50I just had a quick note about this, but basically what we did, and I'm curious too because, you grew up in PA, right?
- 17:56Mm-hmm.
- 17:56And I'm just curious on how different things were.
- 17:58Did we have Southern ghosts?
- 18:01I'm just kidding.
- 18:01Did they have accents?
- 18:03100%.
- 18:04But yeah, so you're riding in the car, somebody flashes their lights.
- 18:07There's somebody in the backseat trying to kill you.
- 18:09Mm-hmm.
- 18:09Is that what y'all had too?
- 18:10Yeah.
- 18:10Uh-huh.
- 18:11And it was supposed to be, like, a gang initiation.
- 18:13Yes.
- 18:13Yeah.
- 18:14Yes.
- 18:14Then it turned into...
- 18:15So the first part of it that we knew was flashing your lights, somebody trying, somebody in your backseat, be careful.
- 18:20Mm.
- 18:20Like, whatever.
- 18:21And then it turned into that, and then try to get people to stop and then they would kill you- Yeah because, like you said, gang initiation.
- 18:27Mm-hmm.
- 18:28So that was up there too.
- 18:29Yeah.
- 18:29That's funny.
- 18:30Yeah.
- 18:31I guess it's a maybe a nationwide thing.
- 18:32I guess.
- 18:33That one, all of these were.
- 18:34Yeah.
- 18:35babysitter and the Man Upstairs?
- 18:37Oh, yeah.
- 18:38The story goes a teenage babysitter is watching two children in a big house.
- 18:42The kids are asleep upstairs, and she's watching television downstairs.
- 18:45The phone rings.
- 18:46A strange man tells her to check on the children.
- 18:48She hangs up thinking it's a prank.
- 18:50The calls keep coming.
- 18:51Eventually she contacts the police, who trace the calls.
- 18:53Then comes a terrifying warning.
- 18:55The calls are coming from inside the house.
- 18:57Yeah, and then Drew Barrymore just dies.
- 19:00Yeah.
- 19:01In some of the darker versions, the children have already been killed.
- 19:04Mm-hmm.
- 19:04This is an urban legend circulating by the early 1960s, later influencing horror movies, including When a Stranger Calls.
- 19:11Mm-hmm.
- 19:12So yeah, our$3 an hour babysitting job was terrifying, hearing these stories.
- 19:18Mm-hmm.
- 19:19Okay, so let's pause.
- 19:20say these were, these were today.
- 19:22Mm-hmm.
- 19:23How are they calling the babysitters now in the house?
- 19:26The cellphone and- On Snap?
- 19:27Yeah.
- 19:29And you know, a lot of, new cars, the headlights stay on.
- 19:32How are you flashing your headlights at people?
- 19:34True.
- 19:35I guess, like, high and low beam.
- 19:36Yeah.
- 19:37Yeah.
- 19:37A lot of these, they're, they're just not the same anymore, are they?
- 19:40No, you can't slam a phone down anymore.
- 19:42No, it's not the same to just- push the off button.
- 19:46I did see that they were making, like, holders for your cellphones, like the old- To make it look like a- Yeah phone in a...
- 19:53I need a cradle, too.
- 19:54Yeah or the thing that you put it on the wall.
- 19:57Did you have a phone in your room?
- 19:58We just had a cordless phone.
- 19:59Yeah.
- 20:00My sister and I had phones in our rooms.
- 20:02We didn't have a separate line, but we both had phones in our rooms, and it was, like, the curly one I thought I was somebody too.
- 20:07Yeah having a phone in my room.
- 20:08And when you listen in on your sister's conversation.
- 20:10Oh, 100%.
- 20:11We sound so much alike, oh, oh, all the time.
- 20:14With her being older, I was finding out things I did not need to know.
- 20:19Like what?
- 20:21She had boyfriends.
- 20:22Let me just say that.
- 20:24That liked her.
- 20:25Um- You remember, you had to wait until after a certain time because it was- Oh, my God, yeah not- I got three minutes after 9:00.
- 20:30Yeah.
- 20:32Long distance wasn't long distance after a certain time.
- 20:34Oh, yeah.
- 20:35Yeah.
- 20:36Yeah.
- 20:36Oh, my gosh, the days.
- 20:37Yeah.
- 20:37You don't have to worry about that no more.
- 20:39Right?
- 20:40I don't know how this one would be done either, satanic messages in music.
- 20:44Yeah.
- 20:44Well, I think that still happens now.
- 20:46But how?
- 20:47So the thing that this, cassette tapes or records played backwards- Mm-hmm would be satanic messages telling you to kill your mother and eat a cat or something like that.
- 20:57I don't know.
- 20:58Um- Not the mom.
- 21:01Not the mom.
- 21:02Um, but yeah, I don't know how, like, how would you do that now with, like, a, a download?
- 21:07Yeah.
- 21:08Well, I think, subliminal messages, like they put it so- Yeah low that you- Yeah can't really hear it, but you subconsciously hear it.
- 21:14Yeah.
- 21:15Which they say really does happen.
- 21:16Well, I mean, it's a form of hypnosis, I guess- Yeah where it's in your subconscious.
- 21:20Like the Disney things where everything says sex.
- 21:23Yeah.
- 21:23People are too obsessed with that.
- 21:25Yeah.
- 21:25Like that, come on.
- 21:26Some of it, though, was legit.
- 21:28Some of it was, but I felt like you can find things in anything.
- 21:31Yeah.
- 21:31I think some of them are really a reach.
- 21:33Yeah.
- 21:33Some of them, yeah, it's like, oh, that's very phallic.
- 21:38The Little Mermaid cover.
- 21:39Yes.
- 21:41But some of them, I'm like,"Okay, now you're just really trying to find something to stir something up here." Yeah.
- 21:45But anyway.
- 21:46Yeah.
- 21:47Mm.
- 21:48I know.
- 21:48Well.
- 21:50Moving on.
- 21:51The hook on the car door, which this I think was related to the documentary.
- 21:56Yeah, and actually the babysitter one is in the documentary too.
- 21:59Yeah.
- 21:59We might not have made it that far.
- 22:00No.
- 22:01It's okay.
- 22:02So the hook on the car door, the story goes a teenage couple is parked at Lover's Lane when the radio announces an escaped murderer with a hook for a hand.
- 22:12A girl demands that they leave.
- 22:13The boyfriend reluctantly starts the car and drives away.
- 22:15When they get home, they discover something hanging from the passenger side door handle, a bloody hook.
- 22:23I was like,"What?" Another famous urban legend widely retold with different settings, they just didn't want you to go make out with boys.
- 22:30Like, that's why the parents told this story.
- 22:33Well, you'd think so, but then in the documentary we're gonna talk about later- Yeah it's, it's curious.
- 22:38Yeah.
- 22:39I never heard that one before.
- 22:40We didn't go and park.
- 22:42Right.
- 22:42We didn't have, like, the- You didn't have a Lover's Lane.
- 22:45No.
- 22:46So- Maybe that's why we didn't ever hear about it Yeah, I don't remember hearing that one either.
- 22:50But when we were doing most of these, we were younger.
- 22:53Yeah.
- 22:54So maybe that's it too, like it was- Yeah, an older one, like a- Yeah yeah well, and my sister, let me call her.
- 22:59Yeah.
- 22:59Oh yeah, she might know about that one.
- 23:01She's old.
- 23:02She's a old hag.
- 23:04Did you believe any of these growing up, though?
- 23:06Were you, like, legit thinking something was serious?
- 23:09I think the Ouija board, I was like, maybe you can talk to spirits- Yeah because I do believe in ghosts and I do believe in that stuff.
- 23:16Mm-hmm.
- 23:16So I think probably that was- Mm-hmm the one that I was like,"Okay,""If this is gonna happen- Mm-hmm this is it." Yeah.
- 23:23Yeah the other ones, I think I was just scared, like, to be scared.
- 23:26Yeah.
- 23:26Yeah.
- 23:27'Cause everybody else was scared, it kinda gives you that- Yeah that energy, yeah.
- 23:30I really thought the, backwards music thing was real.
- 23:32I thought that, Ozzy Osbourne was a devil worshiper, and he might've been, I don't even k- I don't know.
- 23:36But you know- Yeah we talked about grew up really religious and all the things, and I was very judgmental, so I really believed that one was like,"Megadeth?
- 23:45Oh my God, you're..." Oh, no.
- 23:47Yeah.
- 23:48Oh.
- 23:48That was me.
- 23:49No.
- 23:49That was me.
- 23:50I, yeah, the Ouija board was the only one that I was like,"Okay," like- Yeah"If this is gonna happen- Yeah this is it." This is the one that could, could really- And then also, the gang initiation thing.
- 23:59Yeah I was scared of that, but...
- 24:01Did you ever have somebody, flash their lights at you and you were like,"Aww"?
- 24:05Yeah, but then, it also means, there's a cop up ahead.
- 24:07Yes.
- 24:07Yes.
- 24:08I tried explaining that to Jackson one time.
- 24:10I was like,"Now, when somebody..." Did you ever explain that to Dylan, do you think?
- 24:13Do you remember?
- 24:13Yeah, but then if you get, I'm like,"But don't do it because of a cop." Right.
- 24:16It's driving- There's a, there's a- Yeah there's a sweet spot.
- 24:18But I, I tried to telling Jackson, I said,"When flashes, there's something up ahead." Yeah.
- 24:21There could be just a wreck or whatever, but probably a cop, so just be on the lookout.
- 24:25Yeah, yeah.
- 24:27Now a lot of the apps now that tell you there's a cop sitting up there.
- 24:29Uh-huh.
- 24:30I saw a TikTok, that a cop was on the Waze app and kept hitting, no longer there.
- 24:36That is, um, that's sweet revenge.
- 24:40And every time a car drove by, it would pop back up on his screen.
- 24:42And he...
- 24:43Yeah.
- 24:44That's so funny.
- 24:47Oh, gosh.
- 24:47That's so funny.
- 24:48I just think it's funny that we survived that, though.
- 24:50Like we were here s- you know, summoning spirits and Ouija boards and lifting up our friends with our fingers or whatever and- True now we've got kids who don't even know how to answer like a rotary phone.
- 25:02They can't write in- write in cursive.
- 25:03I was just gonna say that.
- 25:06All right, so let's do Halloween myths and things that were supposed to kill us.
- 25:09Oh, okay.
- 25:11Razor blades- Yep in candy.
- 25:14Mm-hmm.
- 25:14Poisoned, drugged candy.
- 25:16Like that never happened.
- 25:17No.
- 25:18I wanted some.
- 25:18Every piece of candy.
- 25:20We got by, too.
- 25:22Chalk another...
- 25:23또 Another thing that I was so paranoid about that never even happened.
- 25:27Every Halloween, parents warned that strangers were secretly putting razor blades, needles, poison or drugs in our candy.
- 25:34Mm-hmm.
- 25:34Um, sociologist Joel Best had researched Halloween candy contamination claims going back to 1958 and found no documented cases of a child being killed or seriously injured by a random contaminated trick or treat, treat.
- 25:47Trick or treat.
- 25:48Isolated tampering incidents have occurred, but the widespread stranger danger panic is- Mm greatly exaggerated.
- 25:53Yeah, yeah.
- 25:54Do you remember when they were x-raying candy?
- 25:57Like they would have news segments,"Bring your candy up here and have it x-rayed to make sure there's no razor blades in it." Yeah.
- 26:02Why don't we just cut it out then?
- 26:03What was awful too, is at one point I did totally believe this, and so I would go trick-or-treating with my siblings.
- 26:08Mm-hmm.
- 26:09They're all older so I went with them.
- 26:11Yeah.
- 26:11My parents didn't go with us because we're six years apart.
- 26:14Right.
- 26:14So I was- You were fine.
- 26:15Yeah.
- 26:15And obviously it wasn't as crazy back then.
- 26:18They didn't care.
- 26:18I got it.
- 26:19Every freaking house.
- 26:20So, yeah.
- 26:20Yeah.
- 26:21But we wouldn't eat our candy like on our way.
- 26:24Like we would have to wait until it gets checked.
- 26:26And then- And then I'm, and then I'm like, you know what that really was?
- 26:29That was them doing the parent tax.
- 26:30That was the candy tax, where they were just trying to pick out what they wanted.
- 26:35I candy text Jackson all the time I used to.
- 26:37No one uses it where you're from, but Trey, I used to.
- 26:39And I was like,"There's a thing called the, the parent text." Mm-hmm.
- 26:42Mm-hmm.
- 26:43But we like the same kinds, so I always felt bad, like, taking his Reese cups.
- 26:47Yeah.
- 26:48I don't, yeah, I don't eat peanut butter, so he was good on that front.
- 26:51Did you want, like, the Sweetarts?
- 26:53No, I wanted, the Crunch bars.
- 26:55Okay.
- 26:55Or- I'll get you that a Snickers.
- 26:57Yeah.
- 26:58Sour Patch Kids.
- 26:59Okay.
- 27:00Brian came out of the gas station the other day with candy.
- 27:03Ooh, Nerds too.
- 27:05Like Nerds?
- 27:05Nerds are, like, the worst candy though.
- 27:07There are so many chemicals in it.
- 27:08Yeah.
- 27:08And you're only supposed to have, 100 a year to be whatever considered safe.
- 27:13Are we, like, radioactive then?
- 27:14Yeah, because in those little boxes, there's more than 100.
- 27:17Oh, yeah.
- 27:18We were coming back from a trip this weekend, and Brian went and pumped gas and went and got something.
- 27:23Me and Jackson stayed in the car, and he came out with candy.
- 27:25It's like a roll of Spree.
- 27:27Jackson was like,"You buy the worst candy." He was like,"You are the one who keeps them in business.
- 27:33Nobody else buy these things but you." The chewy Sprees are good.
- 27:37Get over it.
- 27:40Do you remember Razzles, the candy that would turn into gum?
- 27:43Yes.
- 27:44Yeah.
- 27:45I really like the little wax candy.
- 27:47Ew.
- 27:47I know, so weird, but y- like, just'cause you take it out and, like, drink the juice.
- 27:51Ew.
- 27:52Did you like candy corn?
- 27:53No.
- 27:54Oh, I don't like candy corn.
- 27:55Ugh.
- 27:55But do you remember the...
- 27:56I'm sorry, I'm totally sidetracking us.
- 27:58It's what we do.
- 27:59The, taffy butterscotchy thing that are in red and, orange and black- Yeah, yeah wrappers.
- 28:03Uh-huh.
- 28:03And people are like,"Does anybody know what these are called?" What are these?
- 28:09I used to eat them though.
- 28:10Yeah, me too.
- 28:14What's your all-time favorite Halloween candy, though?
- 28:16Like, it doesn't have to be, like, regular candy.
- 28:19It can be, I guess, whatever, any kind of candy.
- 28:20Just anything chocolate.
- 28:22Yeah.
- 28:22But not a Whopper.
- 28:23Mm-mm, lead those away from me.
- 28:25Get'em out.
- 28:27And not a Goober.
- 28:29Really?
- 28:29Do you like- Yeah.
- 28:31Wait, Goober.
- 28:32That's the chocolate-covered peanuts.
- 28:33Goobers are fine, no Raisinet.
- 28:34Ew.
- 28:35That's just a waste of a raisin and chocolate.
- 28:38Ugh.
- 28:38And not to sound snooty, but not the off-name chocolate.
- 28:41Yeah.
- 28:42But anything chocolate, that's the top.
- 28:44Okay.
- 28:45That's the top.
- 28:46And then after that, I don't even really want anything, like, sour or anything like that.
- 28:50What about you?
- 28:50What are your favorites?
- 28:51Sour Patch Kids.
- 28:52You are a Sour Patch.
- 28:53No, I'm just kidding.
- 28:55It fits you, bitch.
- 28:57So that would be, like, what you would want first?
- 28:59Yeah, that's what I would want.
- 29:00If they're like,"Okay-" But I don't, I haven't eaten candy because I've watched so many things on how many chemicals are in the candy.
- 29:05Yeah.
- 29:06I haven't eaten candy since July.
- 29:08other than gum.
- 29:09And gum's terrible, too, but, like, I'm not- Yeah giving up my gum.
- 29:12But I haven't eaten, an actual piece of candy- Oh since July.
- 29:16Yay, you.
- 29:18I'm just kidding.
- 29:19It's been a very boring life.
- 29:21Well, there are so m- like, the, like, the red dyes and all that kind of stuff is crazy.
- 29:25But there's, stuff to kill bugs in, in the candy.
- 29:28Then it's like why even put that in there?
- 29:29Yeah.
- 29:29It makes no sense.
- 29:30Yeah.
- 29:31They're just trying to kill us slowly.
- 29:32Uh, yeah.
- 29:34Probably right.
- 29:34I have stopped eating candy and almost everything.
- 29:38It's not even enjoyable to eat anymore.
- 29:40I- I get that.
- 29:41I'm so burnt out on, fixing and figuring out meals.
- 29:44Mm-hmm.
- 29:44I have no desire to do any of that.
- 29:46I have so many saved videos on Facebook.
- 29:48Uh-huh.
- 29:48And I never make any of them.
- 29:49I know.
- 29:50All right.
- 29:50Black cats and Halloween superstitions.
- 29:52Yeah.
- 29:53I feel so bad for black cats.
- 29:54I do too.
- 29:54They get a bad rap.
- 29:55They do.
- 29:56Just like the number 13.
- 29:57Mm-hmm.
- 29:58It's not a bad number.
- 29:59Saw it.
- 29:59Cause my birthday's on the 13th.
- 30:01Right.
- 30:02But black cats crossing your path is supposed to bring you bad luck.
- 30:05Mm-hmm.
- 30:05Black cats are witches in disguise, black cats are dangerous around Halloween, breaking a mirror brings seven years bad luck.
- 30:11Oh, yeah.
- 30:12Walking underneath a ladder brings bad luck.
- 30:14Spilling salt means you need to throw some over your shoulder.
- 30:17And I never remember which shoulder, so I'm always just like- Both a little bit of both.
- 30:21Yep.
- 30:22Feel pity for the one behind me.
- 30:25Black cats have been associated with witchcraft in parts of European history, but other traditions see them as good luck.
- 30:32Animal welfare organizations also emphasize that claims of widespread ritual to harm adopted black cats at Halloween lack supporting evidence.
- 30:40So I've seen things where, um, some shelters were, will, like, do free adoption for their black cats, like, the month of October or something like that.
- 30:47Yeah.
- 30:47But I'd love to have a cat.
- 30:49Would you?
- 30:50Mm-hmm.
- 30:50I just don't want to deal with the litter box.
- 30:52Mm.
- 30:53Yeah.
- 30:55And I don't want it anywhere near the kitchen- Yeah at all.
- 30:58Yeah,'cause they jump on the counters.
- 31:00Mm-hmm.
- 31:00They, they...
- 31:01Yeah.
- 31:01But they're...
- 31:02Maybe I don't want cats.
- 31:05Go visit one.
- 31:06Now there is also, because we're in the age of the internet- Yes there's also internet, urban legends now.
- 31:12Oh, gosh.
- 31:13I didn't even think of that.
- 31:14Chain letters.
- 31:16An email would show up announcing that a girl had died under mysterious circumstances and now her ghost was coming to get you unless you forwarded the message to 10 people- Mm-hmm within the next 10 minutes.
- 31:25Hmm.
- 31:26Did you do physical chain letters, though, when you were younger?
- 31:28Yeah.
- 31:29Okay.
- 31:29Mm-hmm.
- 31:29I was gonna say, There's just enough difference between us that when we were younger- Yeah that would've probably been a big difference.
- 31:34Yeah.
- 31:34The writing them and then mailing them.
- 31:36Mm-hmm.
- 31:37Yeah, maybe that's why my life's so F-ed up'cause I didn't send'em fast enough.
- 31:41Same.
- 31:42I only sent those to nine people and then- Yeah.
- 31:44Don't know how to bounce back.
- 31:45That's it.
- 31:49Yeah.
- 31:50Creepy email attachments, a mysterious photo someone sent you claiming that looking closely would reveal a ghost, almost always blurry enough to be- Oh a shower curtain.
- 31:59Yeah.
- 32:01Haunted websites, pages that insisted you were about to experience paranormal activity, often followed by a terrifying pop-up image.
- 32:09Mm-hmm.
- 32:09I hate those.
- 32:10I know.
- 32:10They always get me.
- 32:11Ugh.
- 32:12Now they're all over, Facebook.
- 32:14Mm-hmm.
- 32:14You don't have to go to a weird website.
- 32:16They're just there.
- 32:18Subliminal messages, like you said.
- 32:19Mm-hmm.
- 32:19Playing songs backwards supposedly revealed Satanic messages.
- 32:23Cursed videos, the idea that watching a certain video would bring bad luck or summon, uh, something supernatural.
- 32:29Early jump scares.
- 32:32Remember staring intently into an image because someone told you there was a hidden ghost, only for a screamy face to fill the screen.
- 32:39Mm-hmm.
- 32:40Slender Man.
- 32:41I didn't hear about that growing up, though.
- 32:42Neither did I.
- 32:43This is, a new age- The new stuff, yeah.
- 32:45I think- Kids today are so much more gullible.
- 32:47I don't know why.
- 32:48Yeah.
- 32:49You would think that they would not be because of the internet.
- 32:51You would think that because that they have everything at their fingertips, that they would be well-versed in all of the things, and just know.
- 32:59But it's almost like no.
- 33:00Yeah.
- 33:01Yeah.
- 33:01It's almost like they, they have all the things, but don't believe any of the things.
- 33:04Yes.
- 33:04So, our parents lied to us a lot.
- 33:08Yeah.
- 33:09And not just about, Santa Claus.
- 33:12What did they say about Santa?
- 33:15now we have a collection of lies we grew up believing.
- 33:19Uh-huh.
- 33:20We didn't have Google to fact-check.
- 33:23We didn't have a Google machine.
- 33:24No Google machine.
- 33:25All right.
- 33:26What they told us- I'm scared I'm getting ready to have some revelations right now.
- 33:29Oh, God.
- 33:31What you got?
- 33:32All right.
- 33:32So turn off that dome light or the police will arrest us.
- 33:34Oh, yeah.
- 33:35Yeah.
- 33:35Um, yeah, I don't know why we believed that too.
- 33:38Like, that makes no sense.
- 33:39Still an issue for me.
- 33:40Still, still, still have to make sure that it's okay that I do it.
- 33:44Gum stays in your stomach for seven years.
- 33:46God, yeah.
- 33:47I totally believed that.
- 33:49Yeah, same.
- 33:50Yeah.
- 33:50Apparently, my stomach was like- a Hubba Bubba storage.
- 33:54'Cause I always swallowed my gum.
- 33:56Did you like bubble tape?
- 33:57Yeah.
- 33:58God, yeah.
- 33:58So good.
- 33:59Don't sit too close to the TV or you're gonna lose your eyesight.
- 34:02keep making that face and it will freeze that way.
- 34:04Yeah.
- 34:05If you go outside with wet hair, you'll catch a cold.
- 34:08Mm-hmm.
- 34:09Um, cracking your knuckles will give you arthritis.
- 34:11Yeah, I wonder, though, if that one's true or not.
- 34:13Why?
- 34:14Because I have arthritis in my hands really bad.
- 34:16Oh.
- 34:17And I was a bad knuckle cracker.
- 34:19Knuckle cracker.
- 34:19Like, I used to crack my neck.
- 34:21Oh, I crack my back all the time.
- 34:22Does it bother you?
- 34:24Like- To crack it?
- 34:24No, like, does it hurt?
- 34:26Oh, it just feels a little tight, so I'll, like, twist- So you twist and it cracks.
- 34:29Yeah.
- 34:29I used to do that.
- 34:30I can literally remember being in my freshman science class doing that, and, leaning back and, the whole thing cracking.
- 34:36Mm-hmm.
- 34:36And here we are.
- 34:37I watched, the chiropractor guys on TikTok.
- 34:40So are you official now?
- 34:42No.
- 34:42But, they tell you how to, crack your own back and, do the things, and it's like- Yeah.
- 34:46Do, do, do, do, do, do, like, the little cracky sounds.
- 34:48Mm-hmm.
- 34:48And I'm like,"Mine doesn't do that.
- 34:50I want it to do that." Right.
- 34:51Right.
- 34:51I hated to see that.
- 34:52It, it looks like it feels really good.
- 34:54I know.
- 34:54I know.
- 34:55If you swallow a watermelon seed, one will grow in your stomach.
- 34:58Yeah.
- 34:58I totally believed that one, too- I did when I was little.
- 35:01I thought that one was kind of just, like, a deterrent.
- 35:03Like, just don't, don't be stupid.
- 35:04Don't swallow- I just, like- there, there has to be some f- sort of truth to it.
- 35:07Why would they lie to me?
- 35:09You didn't even question it.
- 35:09No.
- 35:10Well, I was probably, like, five or six, but, no.
- 35:11Yeah.
- 35:11My parents wouldn't lie to me.
- 35:13Right.
- 35:13Why would they lie?
- 35:15Liars.
- 35:16Lying liars.
- 35:18Don't cross your eyes or they'll stay that way.
- 35:20Yeah.
- 35:20The ice cream truck only plays music when it's out- Out of ice cream.
- 35:24I never got told that one I didn't either But that's a good one.
- 35:27That is a good one.
- 35:30That is a good one.
- 35:31Did you have a ice cream truck by you?
- 35:33Mm-hmm.
- 35:33Yeah.
- 35:33We had, we had one in our neighborhood growing up.
- 35:34Yeah.
- 35:35And we were cutting grass this summer, actually the spring before Jackson was hurting.
- 35:39One came through.
- 35:40Me and Jackson ran, and we were getting ice cream cones over there cutting grass, like,"What are y'all do-?" I was like,"My SpongeBob ice cream." That's awesome.
- 35:48It was great.
- 35:49It was great.
- 35:51If you tell a lie, I'll know.
- 35:52But they did know.
- 35:54And I think- Just like we know now I know.
- 35:55But, that was a true one.
- 35:56That wasn't- Mm like a, a lie lie.
- 35:58Yeah.
- 35:59We're leaving in five minutes.
- 36:01Lots.
- 36:01We're leaving in five minutes.
- 36:02Lots.
- 36:02Especially with six people trying to get out the door.
- 36:04Oh, I'm sure, yeah.
- 36:06If you touch a frog, you'll get warts.
- 36:08Oh, yes.
- 36:09I did hear that one.
- 36:10I wonder where that one came from.
- 36:11And why?
- 36:12What's wrong with frogs?
- 36:14I mean, they are kinda gross Some of them are poisonous.
- 36:16Yeah.
- 36:16Maybe that's where it came from.
- 36:17Oh, maybe.
- 36:18Okay.
- 36:19Don't go outside barefoot or you'll catch a disease.
- 36:22I was always barefoot.
- 36:23I still am.
- 36:23I was always barefoot.
- 36:24I'm still always barefoot.
- 36:25But we didn't, like, live in the city where we were walking around No where 1,000 people were every day And there was no, like, needles that we might step on.
- 36:33No, we were like out in the sticks.
- 36:34No risk of, of sages walking around in our yards.
- 36:36We were on a mountain.
- 36:37Right.
- 36:37Don't play with that or you'll poke your eye out.
- 36:40Yeah.
- 36:40Don't turn on the car's inside light because Dad can't see.
- 36:43Oh.
- 36:43But that was the same dome light- Yeah thing.
- 36:45I still say, I do say the, poke your eye out thing.
- 36:48Like,"Be careful.
- 36:48Somebody's gonna get hurt." Not so much anymore, but when Jackson was little.
- 36:52What is that, the Christmas story?
- 36:54Yeah.
- 36:54Yep.
- 36:54Who's future I- Yeah Coffee will stunt your growth.
- 36:57Uh-huh.
- 36:58I did hear that one.
- 36:59Yeah.
- 36:59I'm like,"I'm, I'm not growing any taller." This is- What, we're, we're- I'm at max capacity.
- 37:07Don't read in the dark, you'll ruin your eyes.
- 37:09Mm-hmm.
- 37:09So we were discouraging children from reading.
- 37:11Yes.
- 37:11Okay.
- 37:12Santa is watching you.
- 37:13Oh, yeah.
- 37:14Now we got the Elf on the Shelf that watches you.
- 37:16Which is creepier- Yeah.
- 37:17a grown man or a little elf?
- 37:20Yeah.
- 37:21The, oh, the elf goes tells the grown man, who's then gonna have the consequences.
- 37:26No, thanks.
- 37:26Yeah.
- 37:27What was the most ridiculous thing that you got told?
- 37:33Oh, can't swim if you've eaten.
- 37:35You have to wait 30 minutes.
- 37:36Yes.
- 37:36That was probably the one that was like the worst in my childhood.
- 37:39Yes.
- 37:40Same.
- 37:40Yeah.
- 37:41Yeah.
- 37:41And I believed it, and we honored that.
- 37:44Honored it.
- 37:46We did not.
- 37:46We, we, yeah.
- 37:47We believed it.
- 37:49We just did it anyway.
- 37:50Mom was right there while we were at the pool.
- 37:51Same.
- 37:53There's four of us.
- 37:54She's chasing us.
- 37:55Well, we kept up with everybody.
- 37:56Y'all totally had her outnumbered.
- 38:00That was the one that was probably, I believed it.
- 38:02I lived that.
- 38:03Yeah.
- 38:04I believed it, I just And I believed the gum one, and obviously the one, the light in the car.
- 38:09Yeah.
- 38:10Well, I think e- all kids did,'cause we were petrified that our parents were gonna get arrested.
- 38:14And then go to jail, and we'd have to go into the system.
- 38:16Yeah.
- 38:16And then all of a sudden it's just we're singing It's a Hard Knock Life.
- 38:21All of a sudden we're all Annie.
- 38:22We're all Annie, waiting for Daddy Warbucks in his helicopter.
- 38:26Like it was a whole plan.
- 38:27Wait, is that bad?
- 38:28No, I'm just kidding.
- 38:30Did your parents ever threaten to leave you, somewhere if you didn't behave?
- 38:34No.
- 38:35But I was really, really, really good, and my mom was way too sweet.
- 38:38Yeah.
- 38:38She should have.
- 38:39She should...
- 38:40Especially, in my teen years.
- 38:42Yeah.
- 38:42When I was young, no, but when I was 14, she should've left me somewhere for sure.
- 38:45My sister would always hide in the clothes racks.
- 38:48Mm.
- 38:49To jump out or just to freak her out?
- 38:50Just to freak her out.
- 38:51Okay.
- 38:52I would do it, too.
- 38:53I would do that to, to jump out and scare her.
- 38:55No, she would do it to just freak her out.
- 38:58Um, so I always got put in charge of watching my older sister.
- 39:01Of course.
- 39:03That's funny.
- 39:04if your childhood had a warning label, what would it say?
- 39:07Oh my I don't know.
- 39:09That's hard What do you think?
- 39:12Um, don't eat the candy.
- 39:16Don't eat the candy.
- 39:17I really don't know.
- 39:18I don't know either I think mine, mine would've been like, like don't wander off.
- 39:23Like stay close.
- 39:23Stranger danger was a thing.
- 39:24Stranger danger, yeah, yeah.
- 39:25Was a real thing.
- 39:27Okay, I think that's all it is.
- 39:27Do you wanna do am I the a-hole?
- 39:29Yeah.
- 39:29Okay.
- 39:30All right, Am I the a-hole for not letting my kids stay with their grandparents as their uncle caused them to have nightmares due to scary stories?
- 39:37I have a special connection to this.
- 39:39Okay.
- 39:40My uncle would pick me up from pre-K and kindergarten- Mm-hmm and, have me watch Freddy Krueger.
- 39:46And then my brother would sit outside of my bedroom door and sing the one, two, Freddy's coming for you song.
- 39:50Oh, that's terrifying.
- 39:52Yeah.
- 39:53Do you think your mom wrote this then?
- 39:55Probably.
- 39:57Nope, she didn't.
- 39:58I, 40-year-old male.
- 39:59Yeah.
- 40:00And my partner, male, 42.
- 40:03Have two children, both under four.
- 40:05As a family, we're close to both sides of the family.
- 40:08It's not unusual for us to leave the kids with their grandparents so we can get nights to ourselves, be it work or social reasons.
- 40:14However, after a recent visit to my in-laws, both of the kids starting having nightmares about scary things that were coming to get them, et cetera.
- 40:22After a few nights and conversations between me and my partner trying to work out if they'd watched anything scary or we'd watched anything that might trigger them, we drew a blank.
- 40:29After talking to our eldest, we managed to piece together that my brother-in-law, who's 29, has told them scary stories.
- 40:36My brother-in-law lives with his parents and has done for the past few years since his last serious relationship broke down Not broke up, broke down.
- 40:46Oh, I'm sure there's some story behind that.
- 40:48That says a lot right there.
- 40:51"He's always been amazing with the kids and they love him.
- 40:54I decided to call him and see what he had to say, as I believe my child, but also wanted to hear his side.
- 40:58Long story short..." Looking at how long this is, he probably should have said long story long.
- 41:02Mm..
- 41:02"He said he told them about scarecrows that will walk at night and kidnap children from their beds." Oh my God.
- 41:10"For the record, we live beside a field and yes, there are scarecrows in it." Oh my gosh.
- 41:15And what he said, there were four and under?
- 41:17Uh-huh.
- 41:18"The conflict started as I asked him to tell the kids he was making these stories up and even suggested we go on a walk in the field to show them the scarecrows are just straw people wearing human clothes." I don't know if that's better.
- 41:28No.
- 41:29He laughs and said there was no way he's gonna do that, as kids being scared is just a part of growing up.
- 41:33It's also called trauma." I mean, a little bit is okay.
- 41:36I don't know.
- 41:36Okay, so- That's terrifying though, Lily.
- 41:38That, that's terrible.
- 41:39Ne- ne- next to- Four years old next to a field?
- 41:40Yeah.
- 41:41Yeah.
- 41:41No.
- 41:41"O- obviously said he'd upset the kids and I expected him to put it right.
- 41:45Well, again, he refused and we ended the call.
- 41:47When I ended the call, I told my partner that"there was no way the kids were gonna stay at his parents' until this was resolved.
- 41:52My partner was, and rightly so, pissed at me, said I shouldn't take it out on them that his brother is a tool.""So I told him to call his brother to fix it, and he got the same result.
- 42:02As a result of this, his parents were told about the situation and explained due to my brother-in-law not willing to tell the kids he was making stuff up to scare them, the kids wouldn't be left on their own at their house if he was there.
- 42:14My father-in-law is amazing, and has told him to basically tell the truth and he wants to see the kids, but my mother-in-law claims I'm overreacting.
- 42:20My brother-in-law will tell the truth in time, but doesn't like being told to do things.
- 42:25My kids don't want to see their uncle just now.
- 42:27Actually, the more time passes, the less they wanna see him, and don't wanna go to their grandparents' as he's there.
- 42:33This has been explained to my mother-in-law, who vehemently defends their uncle." But- That, that's the reason why he is the way he is uh, uh.
- 42:40"My in-laws visit my house to see the kids, and we'll still go out and about, so it's not like the kids are being withheld from the grandparents.
- 42:46I just won't budge until he apologizes or tells the kids the truth, but I really don't want him being left with the kids now.
- 42:52Am I the a-hole for not letting the kids stay at their grandparents'?
- 42:56I agree 100%, boundaries.
- 42:58Yeah.
- 42:58100%.
- 42:59That is so young.
- 43:00That is not even really started kindergarten.
- 43:03Four years old.
- 43:03That's pre-K.
- 43:04Yeah.
- 43:05Yeah.
- 43:05And you're- That's Freddy Krueger age.
- 43:08Yeah.
- 43:09And you turned out just fine.
- 43:12I don't see the problem.
- 43:15The fact that the mom is like,"Well, he doesn't like to be told what to do, so he'll do it on his own time," no.
- 43:21Tell him to get off of his video game,'cause I'm sure he's got a headset on- Yeah in his lair.
- 43:26He's playing with gun girls.
- 43:27Yes.
- 43:28And he's cussing out Tristan on the World of Warcraft or whatever they play now, and get off of his rumpus and go apologize to his nephews and tell them he- Oh, my God.
- 43:38That's crazy.
- 43:40Yeah., Let's see.
- 43:41The consensus is he is not an a-hole, and I agree.
- 43:44That's terrible.
- 43:45I get if they're a little bit older, doing spooky stuff.
- 43:48Like I told you before, we used to mess with Jackson- Yeah and his friends when they'd spend the night and stuff.
- 43:51But not at four.
- 43:52No.
- 43:53And not when you live next to a field.
- 43:55No.
- 43:56With scarecrows.
- 43:58I cannot...
- 43:59Jackson did have night terrors.
- 44:00Yeah.
- 44:01And same thing, trying to figure out exactly what was...
- 44:05we didn't even watch Scooby-Doo when he was growing up.
- 44:06Yeah.
- 44:06Like, trying to figure out...
- 44:08I can't imagine doing that stuff on purpose.
- 44:10Yeah.
- 44:11Anyway, not the a-hole.
- 44:12No.
- 44:12I hope you're not talking to him anymore.
- 44:14Yeah.
- 44:16Dylan didn't have night terrors, he just literally talked to ghosts.
- 44:19Oh, my God.
- 44:21Do you think it was a ghost in specific?
- 44:23Was it somebody in your family or somebody you knew?
- 44:25Well, in Tennessee we lived on a old battleground, and I would literally look in the monitor and he'd be talking to something.
- 44:33And- I did not know that I've talked about this before.
- 44:36I don't reme- I'm shocked all over again.
- 44:39Yeah, and I would go in there, I'm like,"What are you doing?" And he was two, so you know, it's like they're- Yeah talking, but whatever.
- 44:44Right.
- 44:44And he said,"The man needs help," and like he'd be talking to, something.
- 44:49A Union soldier?
- 44:51That is insane.
- 44:53And then when we moved into our house here, he was like three.
- 44:56Mm-hmm.
- 44:57Three or four,'cause it was Christmastime.
- 44:58And, Brandon's dad had come down right before Christmas.
- 45:02Mm-hmm.
- 45:02And he said, I, why don't I ever see your dad?" And I said,"Well, my dad died.
- 45:06He's in heaven." Mm-hmm.
- 45:07And he said,"Can I see a picture?" And I took out a picture.
- 45:10I had no pictures out.
- 45:11He had never seen my dad before- Mm-hmm ever.
- 45:13And he said,"Well, he comes to visit." And I said,"Well, can you tell him I said hi and I love him the next time you see him?" Aw.
- 45:21But like around like probably five, six, He just stopped.
- 45:24He had a really bad head injury too, like when this had started.
- 45:27At daycare he had split his head open.
- 45:29Okay.
- 45:30Twice.
- 45:30He had fallen at daycare and hit his head on a bookshelf.
- 45:34And then probably like a week or two later the same thing had happened, so we went to two hospital visits in two weeks.
- 45:39That was fun.
- 45:40Yeah, how was that visit with DSS?
- 45:43Well, that, no, I, I checked the accident reports through- Yeah the daycare.
- 45:45Yeah.
- 45:45And obviously he di- he was not in my care at the time.
- 45:47Right.
- 45:48So as the daycare, I am coming from work.
- 45:50Yeah, but I swear to God that house was haunted anyway.
- 45:53There or here?
- 45:54No, there.
- 45:55Uh-huh.
- 45:55In Tennessee,'cause right when Dylan was born it was Christmas Day.
- 45:59I was rocking Dylan in the rocking chair in his bedroom, and Mo did this like super low growl that he does when anybody was around Dylan that he didn't know.
- 46:07Mm-hmm.
- 46:07And he was like watching something, like going back and forth.
- 46:11And whatever it was, it looked like, uh, Mo watched it go out the room, and then he laid down and he was totally fine That is crazy.
- 46:19Yeah.
- 46:20So 100% believe that house was haunted, or there was some kind of something.
- 46:24I don't know.
- 46:26Okay, a couple of things.
- 46:27That's wild.
- 46:30Okay.
- 46:31Other than that, even if you've told me this before, I'm still totally crazy.
- 46:36Like, this is crazy.
- 46:38You're gonna tell me this again in a, in a year or two- Yeah and I'm probably gonna act the same way.
- 46:42Have you ever seen a ghost?
- 46:44No, but when my dad died, he died in April, so it was probably like a month or two later, my radio would go off and on, by itself.
- 46:53Okay.
- 46:53Like, in your room?
- 46:54Yeah.
- 46:54Okay.
- 46:55And, it was like the most random times.
- 46:57Mm-hmm.
- 46:57And it would be really loud.
- 46:59And I didn't have the volume loud when when I turned it off.
- 47:02Right.
- 47:02It was to the point where I wouldn't sleep in my bedroom.
- 47:05I was, scared just to sleep in my bedroom.
- 47:08I slept on the couch for like a year.
- 47:11Mm-hmm.
- 47:12So I never had any experiences like that, but I can remember, the house I grew up in, typical house built in the early'80s where your living room and your kitchen area are here, long hall, bedrooms at the end.
- 47:24Mm-hmm.
- 47:24And, bedroom at the end, and I can remember coming down the hall and going and trying to go into the bathroom and seeing my grandmother, who had passed, sitting in a chair.
- 47:33Mm-hmm.
- 47:34And I was like...
- 47:36Okay.""Hi, Grandma." Yeah.
- 47:40"Missed you, Nana.
- 47:41Hope all is okay.
- 47:42I'll be right back." Just the one time.
- 47:44Never saw her again.
- 47:46But that same house is the house that my mom and my dad moved into soon after, so they both lived there.
- 47:52Well, he died tragically when I was young, and my mom would see him occasionally walk back and forth by this window.
- 47:59And then when my sister and I got older, we had conversations that we had both also seen him- Mm walk back and forth the same window without knowing,, my mom had seen it.
- 48:09Yeah.
- 48:09I think Posey knew my mom had seen it.
- 48:11I didn't know, and I was like,"Did you know I used to see Daddy walking by?" She was like,"Shut up." And I was like,"Yeah." And she was like, we all seen Daddy, like, walk." Yeah.
- 48:18It's crazy.
- 48:19Mm-hmm.
- 48:20Spooky.
- 48:21Yeah.
- 48:22I believe in all the things.
- 48:23I really do.
- 48:23I know, I know.
- 48:24And I wish I knew, like, a real psychic.
- 48:27Like somebody that...
- 48:29I don't know if I wanna, go- Like a medium?
- 48:31I don't know if I would do it, though.
- 48:33If you could, if you could talk to like a medium, what would be...
- 48:37what would you want out of that?
- 48:38Like, to talk to- I don't know if I would want to.
- 48:41Mm-hmm.
- 48:41My sister did it.
- 48:42Mm-hmm.
- 48:42And she got stuff that nobo- I mean, even if they went on her social or whatever- Yeah like, there, there's stuff that came through that nobody would know.
- 48:49Mm-hmm.
- 48:49Like my uncle used to take her to Arby's, before they got their, allergy shots, and so roast beef kept coming up.
- 48:56That's crazy.
- 48:57Yeah, it was legit.
- 48:58Uh-huh.
- 48:58I was, like, bawling when she was telling me this stuff.
- 48:59Yeah.
- 49:00Like, you know, my dad came through or whatever and, so I don't know if I am emotionally strong enough- Mm-hmm for that type of thing.
- 49:07Well, I think I would be scared that, like I'm like I wanna do it, but I'd be scared that the information I got is not what I was looking for.
- 49:14Yeah.
- 49:14I wanna be the one to ask the questions and to know the things.
- 49:16Yeah.
- 49:17I don't want them to just be able to just tell me whatever they want to.
- 49:19Yeah.
- 49:20Yeah.
- 49:21Oh, it's a control thing.
- 49:22I can admit it.
- 49:22Yeah.
- 49:23I think, ugh, one hand, I'm like that'd be real- Like, I just wanna connect with my dad.
- 49:26Yeah.
- 49:26I just wanna,"Hey, you're doing really good," so.
- 49:29Yeah, yeah.
- 49:30I think I'm scared.
- 49:31Yeah like, and I don't think that I'm emotionally strong enough- Yeah to get the messages.
- 49:36I'm not.
- 49:37I was bawling when my sister was telling me- Yeah her, her stuff.
- 49:39So- Yeah I don't think I'm strong enough.
- 49:42Yeah.
- 49:43So not mature enough to talk about the S-E-X.
- 49:45Nope.
- 49:46And I'm not strong enough to talk to ghosts.
- 49:49Or get messages.
- 49:51I just think- it would, take me out for, a week.
- 49:53Yeah.
- 49:53I would be, like, emotionally- Drained drained for, a week.
- 49:56Yeah.
- 49:56I think I'd be wrecked.
- 49:57I mean, I'm pretty unstable these days anyway.
- 50:00Yeah.
- 50:00So I think it would...
- 50:01Yeah, I would be, I would be a basket case.
- 50:04Yeah.
- 50:05And I'm probably, looking for something to, fill, a void.
- 50:07A validation- Yeah or just an appro- something.
- 50:10Yeah, I've got daddy issues 100%.
- 50:14Yeah.
- 50:15Same.
- 50:16Same.
- 50:17But- I will probably end up connecting with, a relative I never knew- Yeah.
- 50:21that I had nothing to do with, or something totally random, and I'm like,"This is just a waste of my time." Unless they- I'm emotional unless they tell you where the treasure's buried.
- 50:29Yes.
- 50:30I wanna know that.
- 50:30Yeah.
- 50:31Ah.
- 50:32Yeah.
- 50:32That would be fun We should have named our podcast Daddy Issues.
- 50:35Yeah.
- 50:38So many.
- 50:39We could do an offshoot, it's Mess circus daddy issues.
- 50:42No- Trade- Trademark, nobody say that.
- 50:44That would be a, that would be the after dark version.
- 50:46Yeah.
- 50:48That's funny.
- 50:48I think that's really cool.
- 50:49Oh, gosh.
- 50:50All right, So were we supposed to watch a, What were we doing?
- 50:52We watched a documentary.
- 50:54Obviously you didn't like it.
- 50:56I made it, halfway through.
- 50:58I did make it through but, like I was telling you, I get kind of distracted in these'cause I get locked in on, parts that don't matter.
- 51:05Yeah.
- 51:06Hyper fixate.
- 51:07Yes.
- 51:07Yes, surprise.
- 51:09So we did Killer Legends on Prime, and it basically just talked about four legends and their origins and that kind of thing.
- 51:17We kind of touched on them, and it just kind of goes through them and basically their history.
- 51:20again, I didn't make it through it I don't know why.
- 51:22I've been struggling lately, getting through documentaries.
- 51:25I don't- Yeah.
- 51:26No, it's okay they did go through, like, real true crime cases.
- 51:30Right, and what the point of the documentary was, was trying to figure out, did these legends come from these things that had really happened, and then they just kind of escalated and snowballed- Okay and yes, evolved and, and other things.
- 51:41For instance, the, the one we were talking about, the hook, that the hook hand came from Texarkana.
- 51:47Mm-hmm.
- 51:48Which was the funniest name of a city in Texas.
- 51:51But that came from, truly teenagers getting killed on Lover's Lane.
- 51:54Actually, they weren't all teenagers.
- 51:56I did have a problem.
- 51:57One girl was like 15, and the dude she was with was 29, but- Yeah it was in the'40s, and I guess that was okay then.
- 52:04But it was still really gross.
- 52:06But, people, on quote"Lover's Lane" were getting shot in the head.
- 52:10Yeah.
- 52:11So that's kind of where that triggered from.
- 52:13Mm-hmm.
- 52:14The other one that it talked about that I found was really interesting was the candy thing.
- 52:18Yeah.
- 52:19Did you get to that one?
- 52:20Mm-hmm.
- 52:20And I noticed when you read the thing earlier, you said that there's no recorded instances of trick-or-treaters getting treats from unidentified sources that had died.
- 52:31There was the one child who did get a Pixy Stick when he was at home that his dad gave him.
- 52:38His dad killed him.
- 52:39But yeah, so it wasn't like he, from a random- It wasn't an unknown source.
- 52:42Yeah.
- 52:43Correct.
- 52:43Right.
- 52:43Correct.
- 52:44So when you said that, I was listening, really keenly like,"How are they gonna word that?" But yeah- Yeah you're exactly right.
- 52:49His dad intentionally gave it to him with cyanide in it.
- 52:52And that was devastating.
- 52:53Did you see the pictures?
- 52:55They had pictures of the little boy sitting on the couch, right before the dad gave him the Pixy Stick- Yeah in his little creepy Planet of the Apes costume.
- 53:03Ugh.
- 53:04And can we talk about how horrible costumes were?
- 53:06I think- They were terrifying we said this, probably three years ago, but we had the worst costumes.
- 53:12The plastic mask.
- 53:13I was a Smurf one year.
- 53:14Yes.
- 53:15And you s- were you too?
- 53:17No.
- 53:17Me either.
- 53:17But I, like, but I had, like, a Cabbage Patch one.
- 53:19Yes.
- 53:19But I swear they all had the same face, and they just painted them different.
- 53:22They painted them differently.
- 53:23The eye holes never lined up.
- 53:24No.
- 53:24And they were scary, and the rubber band things- You couldn't breathe oh, they were miserable, but yeah, so it's just- And then you were in a trash bag.
- 53:30You were in a trash bag.
- 53:31It was a painted trash bag.
- 53:33So terrible.
- 53:34And our parents probably spent their last dimes on that- Yeah trying to get those for us.
- 53:38Ugh.
- 53:39Terrible.
- 53:39They, they were scary.
- 53:41But he was in Planet of the Apes, so he had, a monkey face on it.
- 53:45It, it was terrible, but anyway, his dad killed him with the Pixy Stick for insurance money.
- 53:49Yeah.
- 53:50So that was fun.
- 53:52Let's see.
- 53:52There were two more.
- 53:53It was the, the babysitter one.
- 53:56I didn't make it this far.
- 53:57Okay.
- 53:57So they talked about that one, and that really, what happened there were there were two girls that were, like, babysitting two or three blocks apart, and they both got, murdered and sexually assaulted.
- 54:10And so yeah, we think that's where that one came from.
- 54:13Mm-hmm.
- 54:13And again, that one's in, like, the'40s or'50s, too.
- 54:16Yeah.
- 54:16Like, all of these are so old.
- 54:18God, think about that.
- 54:18It's about 100 years old by now.
- 54:20Yeah.
- 54:21Oh.
- 54:22The last one was Killer Clowns.
- 54:23Oh.
- 54:24Yeah.
- 54:25And, um- So I'm glad I didn't make it- That's the one I didn't watch, but...
- 54:28And I kind of just listened to it as they were talking about it, and they just talked about, like, John Wayne Gacy.
- 54:33Mm-hmm.
- 54:34I, I hate true- And, and different stories like that.
- 54:36And these, these were from Chicago in the'80s, so that's what that last one was.
- 54:41Clowns terrify me.
- 54:42Well, they started talking about that and some of it why clowns are...
- 54:46And I was listening with half an ear at this point, but do you remember, though, several years ago here- Yes the clowns?
- 54:53They are lucky they didn't get shot, because let me- I know listen.
- 54:57If I didn't have a heart attack prior to And if you knew how to shoot a gun.
- 55:00If I knew how to...
- 55:01But listen, I would've tackled.
- 55:03I would've tackled.
- 55:04Yeah.
- 55:04And I would've bumbled.
- 55:06I mean, so for those that don't know, I think it was, like, r- before 2020.
- 55:09Like, our kids were- No, it was during COVID.
- 55:12It was- Was it during COVID?
- 55:12Yeah.
- 55:13Well, it was around then.
- 55:14Okay.
- 55:15I knew our kids were, like, older, m- but not, mine wasn't in high school.
- 55:17Yeah.
- 55:18No, no, no.
- 55:18But yeah, there were just clowns randomly, showing up in fields and stuff, and people were just driving by and seeing these- In, like, neighborhoods, though.
- 55:25It evolved into neighborhoods.
- 55:27How none of these people got shot- I know'cause a memory just keep popped up not too long ago of, like,"I need to learn how to shoot." And it was the- I've known this would have been a problem for a minute.
- 55:38And it was a news article of these clowns- Yeah that were just, standing, still, just staring.
- 55:44Yeah.
- 55:45No.
- 55:46I can't believe that somebody's stupid enough to do that.
- 55:48No, they were that bored.
- 55:50I guess.
- 55:50But- COVID was rough, but come on now.
- 55:52Oh my God.
- 55:54Yeah.
- 55:54That is terrifying.
- 55:57Yeah.
- 55:57I am so freaking scared of clowns.
- 56:00I'm not scared of clowns, but- I am terrified I should be.
- 56:03Like, I- Terrified they're just, they're just weird Okay, so one story that I did think was interesting, okay, and I'll try to tell it quick.
- 56:10You know, circuses used to travel by train, and there was a train wreck where everybody basically just died and got incinerated, except for one.
- 56:17There was one survivor that was a clown, and the rest of his life he was, like, a sad clown.
- 56:22That was, you know how that some of them have the faces painted down?
- 56:25And they're, like, buried in a mass grave.
- 56:26What was it called?
- 56:27It was the Circus Train Disaster.
- 56:29It was really original.
- 56:30Your face right now.
- 56:32Yeah.
- 56:32He's a demon.
- 56:33That's the only reason he survived it.
- 56:38Okay, let's stop.
- 56:40We've transitioned.
- 56:44He was just a sad clown.
- 56:45He's a demon.
- 56:47There's no other reason that He lived through an incineration.
- 56:50Well, yeah.
- 56:52Yeah, you're probably right.
- 56:54Okay.
- 56:54All right, that's it.
- 56:55So happy Halloween everybody.
- 56:58Next week we're starting, some Thanksgiving- We're gonna do some family drama.
- 57:01Yeah.
- 57:02All month all month for just family drama, and not just our own either.
- 57:06Not our own.
- 57:07Lord knows there's enough.
- 57:08There's plenty.
- 57:10next week we're gonna be doing Family Secrets Week.
- 57:12Yes.
- 57:12So we will be reading The Family Upstairs- Yep by Lisa Jewell.
- 57:16It, yep.
- 57:17Um, so we're going back to books.
- 57:19We'll see if that catches our attention a little bit more.
- 57:21Yeah.
- 57:22So, come back for some family drama next week.
- 57:25Not ours.
- 57:26Not ours.
- 57:27I mean, we'll probably tell you some anyway, but- Yeah.
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