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My 20s Called. I Sent Them to Voicemail · Different Lives Same Thoughts

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so I need to talk about something.
• 0:02
  SPEAKER_02: I went to a party last weekend and someone put on music that was quote a throwback, and it was from 2015.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_02: No way, that's not a throwback.
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_02: 2015 is a throwback, Nashida.
• 0:16
  SPEAKER_02: I have officially entered the phase of life where I'm too old to keep pretending certain things are fun.
• 0:23
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm not talking about things like you know, skydiving or sitting on the fastest roller coaster.
• 0:30
  SPEAKER_02: No, I never pretended that was fun, by the way.
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_02: I don't like roller coasters.
• 0:35
  SPEAKER_02: I mean the stuff that we're still saying yes, yes to, or like, you know, nodding when we go out to brunch with a bunch of people.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_02: You know.
• 0:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, welcome to different lives, same thoughts.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: Today's episode things were too old to keep pretending are fun.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: We each brought five, no holding back.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: No holding back at all.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_02: Let's ruin some people's Saturday plans, Shada.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_01: Oh no.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_02: Alright, number one, staying out past nine on a weeknight.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_02: Someone invites me to let's say casual dinner.
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_02: I say yes.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_02: And then at 8 45, I'm doing math on how much sleep I uh I lose if I stay for dessert.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_02: Or, you know, it's or whether how much how sleepy I will be when I'm driving back home.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_00: You're doing math at the table?
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_02: In my head, yes.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I'm not present anymore.
• 1:36
  SPEAKER_02: I'm calculating.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_02: And I used to be the one begging people to stay out later when I was in my 20s.
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_02: Now I'm I'm I'm the one going, okay, I have a seven-year-old and I have a 6 a.m.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_02: wake-up call.
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_02: It's like seriously, she is my built-in alarm clock.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's so real.
• 1:54
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm not tired because I'm old.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_02: I am tired because I have a tiny human who treats sleep like it's an insult.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_02: Like she thinks like if she sleeps, let's say past 7 a.m., she thinks like that her whole day is over.
• 2:12
  unknown: So cute.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_02: But not fun.
• 2:14
  SPEAKER_00: I totally understand.
• 2:15
  SPEAKER_00: So what about yours?
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_00: Tell me one of yours.
• 2:17
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so mine is lad bars.
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_00: I used to love a packed lod bar where you can't hear yourself think.
• 2:24
  SPEAKER_00: Now I walk in and immediately start looking for the exit and a place to sit down.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_02: You're locating the nearest chair.
• 2:36
  SPEAKER_02: You're like you're trying to find something that's very important to you.
• 2:39
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm doing the thing where I nod at what someone's saying because I genuinely cannot hear a word of it.
• 2:47
  SPEAKER_00: I used to think that was fun.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: Now I think that's a hearing test.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_00: I keep failing on purpose.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_02: Do you okay?
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_02: Now that you say going to a loud bar, do you even know how long it's been since I went to a bar?
• 3:01
  SPEAKER_02: How long has it been?
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_02: I haven't been to a bar since before I gave birth.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, it wasn't that.
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, we were not dancing.
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_02: We were like literally sitting in a corner, like, you know, it's true.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_02: Two nerds at the cafeteria and at school.
• 3:22
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_02: Way to put our business out there.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, first of all, I am a nerd.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 3:30
  SPEAKER_02: People heard me talk about Marvel movies.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_02: I gave Marvel movies and all the episodes that we have had so far.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_02: I am a nerd.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_02: And there's nothing wrong in being a nerd.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 3:41
  SPEAKER_00: That's true.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_00: Now, Nikki, what's your number two?
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so number two, let's just wing it group trips.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_02: Like 10 years ago, I would go anywhere with anyone with zero plan, like spontaneous adventure.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_02: Now, if there's no itinerary, I get a little, you know, twitchy and my anxiety starts kicking up.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_02: You want the itinerary.
• 4:05
  SPEAKER_02: I want the itinerary.
• 4:07
  SPEAKER_02: I want to know where we eat.
• 4:08
  SPEAKER_02: I want a backup plan for the backup plan.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_02: So let's say we we know where we're gonna eat at, you know, we're going to Disneyland soon.
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_02: And we know where we're gonna eat at Disneyland because we've been there before.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_02: But what if we don't get a table?
• 4:24
  SPEAKER_02: I need a backup pan.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_02: I don't want to keep like, you know, walking around trying to find another restaurant with a seven-year-old who's constantly saying, I'm hungry.
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_02: I want, I want to eat French fries, I want ice cream.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_02: No, I I will be way too overstimulated for that.
• 4:43
  SPEAKER_02: But we will figure it out when we get there.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_02: It used to sound fun, but now it sounds like it sounds like uh event that I do not have time in my calendar for.
• 4:54
  SPEAKER_02: So you're becoming like your mother?
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_02: My god, I did become like my mother.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_02: And but honestly, I do have to give it to my mom, the itinerary slaps.
• 5:06
  SPEAKER_02: What about you, Shayda?
• 5:08
  SPEAKER_02: To give us your number too.
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so mine is dating app small talk.
• 5:14
  SPEAKER_01: We just talked about this in the previous episode.
• 5:17
  SPEAKER_01: Go back and listen.
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_00: So the hey, how's your week going back and forth for three days before anyone commits to a plan?
• 5:27
  SPEAKER_00: I used to have the patience for it.
• 5:29
  SPEAKER_00: Now I want to skip straight to are we getting coffee or not?
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_00: Cut to the chase.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 5:35
  SPEAKER_00: So cut to the chase.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_00: I don't need eight rounds of banter to know if there's a spark.
• 5:39
  SPEAKER_00: Just ask me out on a date, maybe to a coffee shop.
• 5:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm too old for the slow build.
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, you don't want something superficial.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: You want something that's like, you know, some a guy who's making the effort.
• 5:53
  SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
• 5:54
  SPEAKER_02: So, Nikki, what's your number three?
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_02: My number three, it's gonna hit a nerve for some people.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_02: Theme parties where you're supposed to dress up.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_02: I used to plan outfits like two weeks out, like a month out.
• 6:08
  SPEAKER_02: Now someone says, Oh, it's 90s theme.
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_02: It's like a masquerade gala.
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_02: Wear something fun.
• 6:14
  SPEAKER_02: And my honest reaction is like, you seriously think I have the mental energy to go shop for an occasion?
• 6:23
  SPEAKER_02: Do you like it's been a while since I've bought a dress for my own birthday?
• 6:29
  SPEAKER_02: Like, why?
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_02: It's like a dread.
• 6:33
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_02: Constant dread.
• 6:36
  SPEAKER_02: Like now I have to find the outfit, I have to find childcare, and also I do plan costumes for my daughter.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_02: Both of you to assume that I have time to pick up a costume for myself.
• 6:46
  SPEAKER_02: It's a miracle that I'm putting her in a costume.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_02: And then not only do I have to put myself in a costume, and I have to actually go and then stand around holding a drink.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_02: First of all, I don't drink.
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_02: I'm I I'm not an alcohol person because half the time I'm driving and the other half I just don't like alcohol.
• 7:04
  SPEAKER_02: But even the juice is not worth it anymore.
• 7:08
  SPEAKER_02: Or even the Diet Coke is not worth it anymore.
• 7:10
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I have Diet Coke at my home.
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_02: I can be in my pajamas.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_02: And I don't want the party.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_02: You can just text me a picture and say, hey, it's happening, and I'll be like, give a thumbs up.
• 7:25
  SPEAKER_00: You just want the photo.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I just want the recap.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_02: I just don't want the RSVP anymore.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, Shayda, tell us your third one.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_00: Um, so I hate going places that require you to do your hair and your makeup when it's over 80.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah, it's Texas.
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_00: And that's not even with humidity.
• 7:48
  SPEAKER_00: It is just a miserable time because you're gonna be sweating.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_00: All the makeup you just put on is gonna sweat right off.
• 7:55
  SPEAKER_00: If it's an outdoor wedding, I'm not going.
• 8:01
  SPEAKER_02: You know, the episode again, I that just shows how nerdy I am, okay?
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_02: The episode in Friends where Monica goes to where is it?
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_02: Is it Barbados?
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, with her hair.
• 8:16
  SPEAKER_01: With their hair, and then she keeps on saying, it's the humidity.
• 8:22
  SPEAKER_01: That's me all the time.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_01: From like April to November, maybe.
• 8:33
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_02: I just okay.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_02: See, that's one of the reasons why I avoid Florida and Texas in summer.
• 8:43
  SPEAKER_02: Because I will look like uh Monica 2.0 from Friends.
• 8:47
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 8:48
  SPEAKER_00: I compete with Monica on a DD page.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_02: So you're telling me that you just don't want to go out when it's like, you know, over 80.
• 8:55
  SPEAKER_02: It's just it's not worth it.
• 8:57
  SPEAKER_00: Over 80 is the threshold.
• 9:00
  SPEAKER_00: It's not worth it.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_00: And I have to be able to put my hair up.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_00: If I have to put my hair down, like, you know, straighten it, curl it, whatever.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_00: No, it's not.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_00: It's not gonna stay.
• 9:13
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, Nikki, tell us your number four.
• 9:16
  SPEAKER_02: So my number four would be concerts where you have to stand the whole time.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_02: You know, general admission concerts where you stand for like, you know, four hours or you know, whatever the concert duration is.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_02: I used to be front row, elbows out, no problem.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_02: Now I'm doing the math on my lower back before I even buy the ticket.
• 9:42
  SPEAKER_02: Because all right, and you know, I have to pre-book a massage if I'm going to concert for the next day.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: So you're pricing out your your back.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_02: I am pricing up my spine.
• 9:55
  SPEAKER_02: If there is no seated section, I hesitate.
• 9:58
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not going.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_02: I want to hear the music, but I can also re-listen to that music on Spotify.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_02: And I don't want to fight like honestly, a 19-year-old for a spot by the stage anymore.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_02: I'll watch, I'll sit back, I'll watch from the TV like a responsible adult because I know if I fight for the 19-year-old, that 19-year-old is gonna win.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_02: And that's a public humiliation.
• 10:27
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my, you know, I thought of going to uh Bruno Mars concert in Massachusetts that just happened recently, but then I looked at the tickets.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_02: There are two things that kind of throws me off nowadays.
• 10:40
  SPEAKER_02: So one is the price.
• 10:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they're really expensive now.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_02: They're ridiculous, okay?
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_02: And you should have seen prices for a Beyonce or like Taylor Swift concert.
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_02: It's just it's ridiculous, is what's it what it is.
• 10:50
  SPEAKER_02: It's like insanity.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, I did too.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_02: When I was in Australia, I did.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_02: And she's awesome.
• 10:58
  SPEAKER_02: But yeah, I'm not gonna pay that amount now.
• 11:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, put on a glittery outfit like I'm going, like I'm a cheerleader with pom-poms in my hand and stand for like what four or five hours and then again take getting your car out the parking lot.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, the two the wait.
• 11:17
  SPEAKER_00: The wait?
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_02: I heard that people it took some people like three and a half hours to get out of parking lot after Taylor Swift concert at Foxborough.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_00: Really?
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 11:28
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 11:29
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't know that.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_02: I would rather just fall asleep in the parking lot.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:33
  SPEAKER_02: I'll take a sleeping bag and then just sleep.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_00: All right, Shayna, what's your number four?
• 11:41
  SPEAKER_00: So my number four is staying out past last call, trying to squeeze more fun out of a night that's already pink two hours ago.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: I used to chase that.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_00: Now I can feel the exact moment and night is over, and I want to leave right now.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_02: So you know when the vibe is not vibing anymore.
• 12:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_00: I know when the vibe has left the building and everyone else is still pretending it hasn't.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not doing the desperate extra hour anymore.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_00: I'll go home happy instead of staying miserable.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_02: You'll be happy in your pajamas, makeup off, hair.
• 12:19
  SPEAKER_02: Showered.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_02: Showered.
• 12:21
  unknown: Yeah.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_02: Watching your phone or you know your laptop.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_02: I love that.
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_02: What's your number five?
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_02: So, okay.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_02: This is I hope my mom doesn't disone me after this.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_02: Uh oh.
• 12:39
  SPEAKER_02: So my number five.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_02: This one's very, it's it's this one's very petty.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_02: It's it's an abomination, is what it is.
• 12:45
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_02: Spicy food challenges.
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_02: Someone orders, let's say, you know, we go to an Indian restaurant and someone orders like um a a biryani.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_02: My South Asian friends can relate to it, a biryani.
• 13:00
  SPEAKER_02: And they say, like, I and obviously I look like an Indian.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_02: I anyone can tell me.
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I'll they'll look at me and be like, oh yeah, she's from India.
• 13:10
  SPEAKER_02: You know, you know, and then if I order a biryani, and I when the guy asks me like mild, medium, spicy, and without even hesitation, I'll say mild.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_02: And then he looks at me like I've literally offended him.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_02: There's my, you know, my family, my brother, my ma.
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_02: They all eat spicy food, and then I'm over here, you know, trying to hold on to that, you know, no spice dare.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_02: Because that's not a dare.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_02: That's my dinner.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_02: I don't want to be on fire internally by eating spicy food, you know?
• 13:54
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're not like impressed by that anymore.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not impressed, and I'm too old for that.
• 13:58
  SPEAKER_02: Stomach consequences the next day.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_02: I will take the mild version and also I won my dignity.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you very much.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_02: So, you know, funny thing happened when I went to India.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_02: We um, as a family, like, you know, my cousins, their kids, my my mom, dad, my, you know, my my aunts, my uncles, we all we all went to this Indian restaurant.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, obviously in India you go to an Indian restaurant.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_02: You know, really?
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_02: We go to a big restaurant, and then they ordered this appetizer.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_02: It's kind of like a fried lentil crispy thing.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_02: It comes with uh um a dip as well.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_02: And I didn't dip it.
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't dip it yet in the dip.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_02: I took a bite, it had green chilies in it.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_02: And I I did not eat it, Shayda.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_02: And then I didn't touch it.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_02: And they're like, Why are you not eating?
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_02: And I even because it's spicy, but then my cousin's son, who is six months younger than Adya.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, he ate it?
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_02: He ate it, he loved it.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_01: Wow.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_02: I felt so insulted, but you know what?
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_02: I would take that insult, then the insult that my stomach is gonna throw at me the next day.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_02: So I did not eat it.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: So what's your number five?
• 15:25
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so my number five, and every one of my friends knows this, is group chats that require response.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_00: I am so bad at responding to group chats, you would think that I didn't have my phone nearby me 90% of the day.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_00: You're talking to me.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, so the thing is the the like I love my friends.
• 15:55
  SPEAKER_00: Like I'm in a lot of group chats, and like the community love that, right?
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_00: But sometimes I'm in a meeting and then I look 47 text messages later, and I just can't like keep up.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_00: The mess, like the conversation has moved on, and so there's no way for me to catch up.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_02: You just want the recap version of it, like you know, but you know, at Netflix, it just shows the re recap and you skip intro.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_00: I just need the recap.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_00: So I actually do like one of my neighbors when we go on walks, she's usually great at recapping for me.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_00: It's like, so this is what so-and-so said, and this is what so-and-so said.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_00: Well, you get all the tea.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: But then I do feel bad, but I think my friends, my close friends have known that this is a thing.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: So if I go into a group chat, shit is not really gonna be responding.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_00: I sometimes thumbs things up, but that's only because like I didn't see it in the first hour, and so I feel like I need to participate.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_02: You know, it kind of funny because I'm in a lot of family group chats, because you know, we have family all over the world.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I have family in India, I have family in my Dubai, I have family here.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_02: So, and we have like a group chat, and there's like every time, every morning I wake up because it was when it's midnight here, the morning has already happened in India, and there's like 57 or like 58 messages.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_02: And then my mom calls me as soon as I get my coffee.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_02: My mom calls me and she goes, Did you see that message?
• 17:35
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, What message?
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_02: Because I'm I'm not gonna open that first thing in the morning.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_02: No, the first thing in the morning I have to get my daughter out of the house to her school bus.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_02: Like Yeah, and you have to like actually read the messages, right?
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_02: Like, and then she goes, Oh, yeah, definitely read it.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_02: And I will be like, Okay, I'm gonna read it, but just tell me what happened.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_02: And then I have like a one-hour call with my mom because I get all the tea.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_02: You know, she gives me the gossip.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_02: She is my gossip girl in India, you know.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_02: But then it's so hard, especially with the group texts.
• 18:13
  SPEAKER_02: I don't and also they make plans in these group texts, especially like my moms and my aunts and uncles, my cousins, they live close by.
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_02: And I get so jealous sometimes because you know, I I kind of miss that.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_02: You have FOMO.
• 18:27
  SPEAKER_02: I have FOMO.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_02: I wonder where uh my daughter gets it from.
• 18:31
  SPEAKER_02: She gets it from me.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: I used to be like that though when I lived far away from my family.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_00: I used to be like, why are you guys putting that in the group chat?
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_00: And then I found out there's a family group chat without me, and I was so offended.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_02: So that's 10 things between us: late nights, loud bars, no plann trips, slow burn texting, costume parties, standing concerts, chasing the last hour of a dead night, no going out at about 80 degrees, spice challenges, and group chats with a response deadline.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: We're not old, we just know what we want now.
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_02: I mean Shadem.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_02: Let's face it, we are old.
• 19:16
  SPEAKER_02: We cannot drop it like it's hot anymore.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_00: No, we're not getting back up if we drop it like it's hot.
• 19:22
  SPEAKER_02: Only way we would get back up is through it.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_02: We know what we want, and what we want is to just sit down.
• 19:29
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• 19:55
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