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- 0:00M Yeah, this is the one and only the candlish back again on another
- 0:14winning's day on the two show that was Hey tried the Messenger featuring too aside
- 0:20them cardinally with Maumo all the way back to our hege. But I was
- 0:26telling you something that's always playing. Yeah. They there were people who funded
- 0:34Momo and it's the leaders that took over. They understood how to play um
- 0:41double agents. Okay. They knew if they snitched, they're going to get
- 0:47money and if they can support the struggle, they're going to be seen as
- 0:51heroes by the strugglers. Okay, And that basically is how we are named.
- 0:59Somebody named him self of the country Ken and the Ata. Yeah,
- 1:10because you know the value if you know, it's it's a plate too,
- 1:14right if you know you know anyway, So what you mean is that after
- 1:18he was brought out, he got the money, he became the president of
- 1:22the country he was install You say that people are funding by the knatas,
- 1:34by the educated few. What Yes, what will happen is we would have
- 1:42these intelligent people in schools that would be picked and flown to outside whatever was
- 1:49and taught the white man's way. Right, then they come back and they'd
- 1:56be empowered and they'd be given good salaries, but then they'd still be treated
- 2:02like crap in their own country. But why do you think that now a
- 2:07pattern would be funding a group and then there's still snitching one term. You
- 2:14have no idea how espionage works. Huh. So this is this is how
- 2:23if I want information from me, I'll befriend you. Yeah, I get.
- 2:27And if I want to control another area and go fund that area.
- 2:31So you're providing me with money so that I can be you can get information.
- 2:38Problem once you leave, I don't. And then you you look at
- 2:43me and you're like, this actually understands our system. Now let's let's actually
- 2:49put him on a pedestal, call him my freedom fighter. Let's put him
- 2:53under house arrest for a few years and then bring most the entire party to
- 2:59think in his out chair, you know, and we get Kenya. But
- 3:08anyway, onto the next one we get, we get smogabs, we get
- 3:16sevenies. That's how we most of these leaders are installed. That's why you
- 3:22see us and in the morning news full African leader kissing stones in Israel.
- 3:32Chef like, why are you kissing stones? Firm stones man, how Well
- 3:39told me that Israel was created. Is the Israelites literally those control the world.
- 3:50The Jews. Jews control the world. Jews are larger than Israel.
- 3:55They're not really Jews though those are not really we didn't say they are.
- 4:01But in our world today there the de facto Jews, right, they are
- 4:09the Harvey Weinstein's you know what I mean that? What was this show?
- 4:19Anyway? If you want to be famous in Hollywood, better than what you
- 4:25you know, said mcfalen. No, he's not Jewish, but he tends
- 4:29to make fan But anyway, today we will be talking about single parenthood,
- 4:34a whole skych in society. I was to do a monologue today, but
- 4:41I was really ready for that monologue. Civil point and the sky that it's
- 4:47caused in society, the weak men that it's creating, the confused grievement it's
- 4:53creating, and the whole society is just on a rocker tipping skill. Everybody
- 5:01is sitting on their hands waiting for society to solve itself, not understanding that
- 5:09they are society. So she discussing me today the scourge of single parenthood,
- 5:15and we spelled them pienthood. But anyway, Katie in the house and we
- 5:33had a guest that was to show up. Definitely, these are the question
- 5:38why we have this city here. We are supposed to have a guest but
- 5:46jamning by so he could be making in time. Yeah, so we'll have
- 5:50him next time when we were going to rearrange that host of these people unprofessional
- 5:59exactly next time, next time, next time. A factor in Mini John
- 6:10unique professional so much disgust. I want to hear your opinions about Yeah,
- 6:27family, amazing. It's another episode and today we're having a promised yesterday we're
- 6:40talking about something we just shallow spoke about it, you know on the Africa
- 6:46Today Show. So many of you had something to say and I say it
- 6:48since today, why not talk about it deeper? Maria spoke about it too.
- 6:56But I feel like it's it's it's it's it's something that it is us
- 7:00because it's on the right. It's single parent tood is on the rise as
- 7:03we talk right right now, in generations z quanza. In generations z Quanza,
- 7:11it's it's really escalating, like people are moving with pressure, which is
- 7:15so unnecessary. But yes, that is what I'll be talking about it personally.
- 7:17My first view before I give Katie, the mine traitroduce ourselves and everything.
- 7:24I think women are being destroyed and this up, Michael. They destroy
- 7:30themselves, thank you to restrain themselves because it's it's it's most of most of
- 7:39most of the ladies will break up a relationship, rather will move out of
- 7:43marriage, thinking it's going to affect the man because I'm going with the child.
- 7:46You know. Most of them always like I'm going with the baby.
- 7:49You know, now you're gonna suffer. You have to now look for me
- 7:53and do everything that one because now I have your baby. But no,
- 7:57apparently women are the ones to suffer the most because I don't have to explain
- 8:03it was this what what men always think? I can't really put myself on
- 8:07a month's thought or rather bottle is running on their mind after the woman is
- 8:11gone. But all I'm saying is that the women are the ones who are
- 8:15literally drowning after doing all that. The money is okay because it's the provider.
- 8:20Literally with or without you, we can still be able to take care
- 8:24of his baby. But when you go out there with the tough friend,
- 8:28the kibo, that's what you were going My people can rebing. Listener to
- 8:35another episode of to Bunge. Of course, my name is Gaiety. I
- 8:37hope you're doing great. I hope your day is coming along rate and getting
- 8:43to our discussion on today's episode. I think right now, by the time
- 8:48I'm going to become apparent, I feel like now we're raising a generation that
- 8:54everybody will be like, we're raising a generation. Well by the time I'm
- 8:58becoming a parent who will have parents who are single dad's being a single women
- 9:03like single mothers. You know. I don't know why we have this society
- 9:07thing that is telling people, or rather it's like teaching people you can live
- 9:13without a man, you can live without a woman. You don't have like
- 9:18to live with your child for you to to be like a father figure.
- 9:22You don't have to live with your child for you to be a mother as
- 9:26a child like of your child, you know. And I feel like it
- 9:31is something that is wrong because it is proving to women that you don't you
- 9:35don't deserve, like you don't need the men in your life. And this
- 9:39is something that is wrong because we need men. We really need men who
- 9:52need you. What do your men? Finally, no, I never said
- 10:01I don't need a man in my life. We need men. What do
- 10:05you mean act if it was not for a man, I wouldn't be here,
- 10:09you know, if it was not for my dad, I wouldn't being
- 10:13Jerry that I am Jerry today. You know, I would even not be
- 10:18existing, Nana, Like, we need men to literally exist and also to
- 10:22continue with our generation. So at quamea like a woman anyway? I hear
- 10:33a very interesting native in this conversation. Yes, Quama a woman that you
- 10:37don't need money in your life, potess like were at your own risk,
- 10:41you know. And it's a it's a problem that women have created themselves,
- 10:48okay, and it's being created, it's being purported by the powers that be
- 10:52because they need a dysfunctional society if we have more single parts and tomes,
- 11:00what happens most singles barent tomes. What happens usually when the home is broken.
- 11:07The moment you're splitting as you know, spouses, as couples, as
- 11:13people are married, you're calling up for peoples. The moment you're splitting,
- 11:18that family is broken, and what does that kid? Is functional? It's
- 11:22functional families, it's functional kids, it's functional society. Yes, it is
- 11:31generational because this kid won't know and this is like you're telling them, this
- 11:37is so hard to date a girl that was raised by a single mom.
- 11:41Yes, they have these this mentality of I can do it myself. Yes,
- 11:50my mom did it, I can do it myself. They don't understand
- 11:54it wasn't voluntary, okay. And this feminism thing that started in the seventies
- 12:01or is it sixties, with the sum of love and that kind of bullshit,
- 12:09it brought this society to eighties to its knees. And you look at
- 12:13it now, you find most women only adhere to the rules of hypergamy.
- 12:24If you do not meet certain standards, you just simply don't cut it as
- 12:28a man, which is absad to me because that is women telling men what
- 12:33it takes to be men. Okay, you don't have a range over what
- 12:41you mean? You want this schoolkie, you don't have this. And it's
- 12:48created a whole society where everybody has a price. Everybody, and i'm by
- 12:58everybody, I mean mostly women, because this is a problem that mostly women
- 13:01are suffering from. I'm not saying men don't get affected by it, but
- 13:05women suffer in these single pient homes. Look at the statistics. Seventy of
- 13:15the kids raised in single pient homes have certain disorders in society to scare.
- 13:22I have a beach, I have this, I have this depressure. What's
- 13:31the name daddy issues? Money issues? Okay, young ass boy with the
- 13:37fifty year old woman. I'm not going to name the gospel singer we're talking
- 13:41about here. Okay, but that's confusion. That's you're looking for a mother,
- 13:50not a spouse, because you didn't have a mother growing up. You
- 13:52never grew up with your mother. So you're out saying your twenties looking at
- 13:58a fifty year old going like, oh, look at her. She can
- 14:01take you of me, boy, And that's how you're creating weak men society.
- 14:09We get on a roller coaster that is none ending and with no good
- 14:16results whatsoever. There's no joy at it. You won't get no proper moments.
- 14:22You won't. It's screaming all the way down. And it's sad because
- 14:28once you tell women that you're killing society, they don't understand it. That's
- 14:37true, Okay, they don't understand it. I keep telling you men kill
- 14:43people, women kill society because women can actually cause society to break down completely.
- 14:52We are the moral guidance man I've never actually been more. We are
- 14:56conquerress. We see, we want, we take. That's how get your
- 15:01talk about bacco. But at the end of it, if we do not
- 15:07time to time to something simple, women shouldn't and are not meant to raise
- 15:18kids by themselves. Men, I'm not meant to raise kids by themselves.
- 15:30You need balance, you need what if situation? That's what situation. Maybe
- 15:41your wife dies. No, that's differ, that's different, that's different.
- 15:45That's a widow world. That's a weirdo. That's not a single Okay,
- 15:50they are single parent, but not from the circumstances that we talk about.
- 15:56Okay, because how many daddy issues hitting women do you see in society today.
- 16:04I'm a victor like all the guys. No, we didn't. We
- 16:11didn't say baba yeah, you like yeah, somebody who will take you find
- 16:18You're like why? Why? Question? You shouldn't answer anyway. Continue.
- 16:30There are four types of um single parents. We have, the divorced parents,
- 16:34the widow parents they are my parents who separated, and single parents by
- 16:40choice. The majority single parents by choice in this in this today, I
- 16:52no not you give me a luya name. All of them not women today.
- 17:00They do not want to be kept. They do not want to stay
- 17:03home. They feel at the old Intang Canyon ban. They do not want
- 17:08to raise kids. They want to what happened to the bay Mappa Kenny Bay
- 17:15turned equal a jangue ending band. That's all there is. They want to
- 17:21be holes and they were like too. And I remember we had a conversation
- 17:25a while back. I told you this whole uh, this whole single women
- 17:33empowerment things do not came from holes in society. The only people who are
- 17:42single they were called spinsters, okay, no widows and certain privileges. And
- 17:48in this we're talking about the side spinsters where and my women in their thirties
- 17:57when the layer and they had no privileges, but they were rich. You
- 18:06understand how they walked on their backs. Yes, yes, and women would
- 18:11want to be like them because these women had houses, they lived by themselves,
- 18:18they didn't have kids. They could save them. However, they wanted
- 18:23come a little exactly so they driveled an Appelica SoC of France and Appelica Soco
- 18:32Spain, and a rudy kow and then they know and then your look,
- 18:36god, damn, you know what they're wing in Spain. Your fashion is
- 18:38whack. Look at this. I got this in MAJORCA. You get what
- 18:44I mean? I got this here and that. And you're like, so
- 18:49you mean if I was single like you, I could do all this and
- 19:00you're fascinated. You're like, I'm wanna be single and empowered too. Then
- 19:04you leave your husband's house and you realize is backbreaking and never. But anyway,
- 19:15what are there any advantages to single? Point? From your perspective,
- 19:22one, I don't think they are never like, I don't think they are
- 19:26advantages. I don't think they are merits of being single mother. Okay,
- 19:36from my perspective, there might be some, there might not be others,
- 19:41but there are advantages like women, so you'd be making decisions for yourself.
- 19:52Now, how is that an advantage? Two women, you're independent, you
- 20:00can make choices for yourself. That is an advantage. You want me,
- 20:03well, thank you to find you right? You know what? Nobody telling
- 20:10you? I want I want you to. I want this kid washed before
- 20:14noon because I want to take him somewhere. Nah, you're like, I'm
- 20:18gonna go to Jaimo, thank to handy three. Okay, then come back.
- 20:26Nobody tells me nothing na na nanny you know, and you go bleach
- 20:36dates rappu doo any charity boy the way, No, no, no,
- 20:45no, he's just giving examples. Okay, they call themselves single empowered women.
- 20:52We appreciate your listen day you know is the bad. It takes a
- 21:03lot of guts to keep a woman like that. So um, some of
- 21:07the advantages that we're getting, some of the advantages that have been spoiled from
- 21:17our socials are printing decisions, will be all you managing your finances by yourself.
- 21:26By all these I mean by yourself, your children will be super responsible
- 21:32I don't know how, and divided attention and will not be dependent on others.
- 21:44That that doesn't do it makes sense? Do you think that that makes
- 21:49sense? Actually, the last seven bit of it. These are is for
- 21:55women, okay, because women gave to be in single parents finances don't depend
- 22:06on anyone responsible and divided attention. Divided attention are you talking about applying to
- 22:18you? They give the child and divided attention. Don't be the father and
- 22:26attention that won't be okay, when we have couples married. Let's say if
- 22:34we have a baby and I have the baby, daddy like the baby daddy
- 22:40with me, or rather I'm saying him, the child is gonna be This
- 22:45is how attention is being. Of course it is, but that's not supposed
- 22:51to be that. I don't I don't agree with that. You don't have
- 22:55to we as I say, they might not be correct, but this,
- 23:04oh women not most okay, yeah, most women so undivided attention and responsibility
- 23:15anyway, I can't see the responsible part. It's just least because this child
- 23:21will be alone by themselves all the time, they have to learn how to
- 23:23take care of themselves. Your mom isn't there, she's at harmonies getting fight
- 23:30down, and you're there at home hungry. You have to learn how to
- 23:34make eggs and marmoacorna okay. You have to learn how to make that guy
- 23:40or you're hangry, okay. And that's because most of these single mans can't
- 23:44actually afford nannies. They are the nanny. They can't mate. What do
- 23:49you mean you're living in a single room with your mother? Okay? And
- 23:56at some point you have to consider is this responsibility that you're instilling to this
- 24:03child really responsibility or its making them muture before time? Are you actually stealing
- 24:11their childhood away from them. I think you are because I've actually seen you
- 24:22are six year olds who know how to cook. Let me tell you.
- 24:26I have these cousins. They were raised by their dads. Their mom they
- 24:30got into the like the family, like mom got into the fight with the
- 24:34dad and they had to split. So the children who are left to the
- 24:38dad. So this one, their last one was actually in nursery when the
- 24:45mom left. And now we have the first one she was liking us for
- 24:49we heard the second one she was in class one. So these children have
- 24:56grown knowing their dad is their mom and their nime and he started doing you
- 25:00see, the one that was in class one was the one washing clothes for
- 25:04this one in in nasary. The first born is cooking, you know,
- 25:10and it is that was a fact up family because like they have to get
- 25:15out of school running, I have to go and wash the dishes, I
- 25:22have to go and do this. And when the years their dad coming now
- 25:26like Lazima can be at home too, and you know this child, these
- 25:30are children like you're been even seven years, You're been like you you're very
- 25:37young. And I was like, what type of family is this? And
- 25:40the your mom went and got married somewhere else. And imagine after the dad
- 25:45raised these children. Well, my fica uha, like the dad passed away.
- 25:52When this when you're leaka class for a Melissa High School. The other
- 26:00the second bond was in from four the dad past, and this guy the
- 26:06last bond aliqua. And then here from one the dad past. Now the
- 26:08mom comes back. Imagine imagine what the mom did. I met Amanda.
- 26:19Imagine she left a kid she she brought from nowhere. These people don't know.
- 26:26Even the children don't know this other child the mom left. Imagine this
- 26:33mom is then even sending your food. Imagine alcu jackals a. They never
- 26:40know where the money went. Sold everything in that house sold. The dad
- 26:45had a bike, motorbike sold it aka now like their dad was like was
- 26:56a wealthy man that it was like and say a Liquana, gary A Liquann
- 27:00and Dothy. He had some animals as the loss and well, mama,
- 27:07because they were living in a homestead. Yes, they were living in a
- 27:11homestead. She first their house, you majn was your like, what's your
- 27:18homestead? You see how families live together, like your uncle is there,
- 27:22the other uncle is there? Now the man came friends to the the house
- 27:26and she left. So let him to how a jewel, like you know,
- 27:32you have to take care of this child. And mom went so she's
- 27:37like okay, and how told me? Are so much children their parents?
- 27:47I think child, I've seen that type of behavior contruly recalled the whole picture.
- 27:55But the parent was beaten. There is a stupid behavior and it is
- 28:00the funniest thing after that. Imagine now now after that, after that story,
- 28:07Sikuna oyoki journal like one the boy was like vichu was abazai. The
- 28:15mom waited for the man. Now the boy to go to school. I'm
- 28:18a Pelequa high school. Evila Gary couldna do so he's like where is aware
- 28:29vitus ab zap it's jang so like the mom caused now rivalry between the siblings
- 28:38like hour to to walk, hour to work? We have the first one
- 28:44is a girl, the second boy, he's a girl. They were manipulated
- 28:47to hate their brother to an extence that now your brother was alicataulpu a free
- 28:52imagine and he was like mama Alibba was as agree whappy and the ball was
- 29:03left there arequito are free? Alqual form tooba I'm telling you up to date.
- 29:10Imagine and up to date it is now my parents who are finding that
- 29:15guide to go to school. Imagine you hear such stories and it just breaks
- 29:21your heart. Imagine happing to the family unit. What happened to actual league
- 29:27giving a crap about your kids? But anyway, as we go to the
- 29:32comments, Danny Harrison is saying, people always talk about society really vegue as
- 29:36if they are not a part of it. You are society. So if
- 29:40you want to change it, we must first change ourselves on an individual level,
- 29:45you understand. He goes on to say, well, yeah, the
- 29:48women's have a more Even if the money leaves, you're still stuck on the
- 29:52responsibility of raising the child. That's that's why it's very important for a woman
- 29:56to choose a man wisely. Wow, I can't even add anything to that
- 30:04chart. Out to Danny Hyson, speaking too much sense, He's saying,
- 30:08well, there some empathy skills coming to play. Just because I grew up
- 30:12without a father, I would why would I leave my woman and child to
- 30:17suffer that her character? Check? What type of mine are you? That's
- 30:21true? Uh? Kith is in the houses where child to kid you guys
- 30:25sound low and the microphones on the microphones are only okay, Um, Danny
- 30:41Hyson is everywhere on this chat. I like this. Please continue continue interacting
- 30:48with us on our chats, um on every platform YouTube, Instagram, Facebook.
- 30:56Yeah, that's the that I think I read that on the last part
- 31:03is fundamental. Is a fundamental question all women should ask before laying down with
- 31:07any man. What do you what do you ask a man before or what
- 31:11do you think She's not about a guy before? In a linna, I'm
- 31:17gonna do nightstand, Liana in linan accomplation about something very specifically, not a
- 31:27nightstand. It's okay, okay, let me put it for you. Before
- 31:37you give a man a child? What what do you need to know about
- 31:42this person? What qualities do you financis? I think one that is I
- 32:00have to be sure that you are able to take care of our child,
- 32:06you know, like when I mean take care of our child? We say
- 32:09that the faster too, maybe two years like it is a mother. It
- 32:16is a mother role sour to make sure that the child is moral like more
- 32:25like morals damn totter me. It depends on the parents, like the mother
- 32:31Cynthia like you make sure that your child is okay. But anyway, what
- 32:36I'm saying is that you have to make sure that now the father is a
- 32:40person you can rely on, even like even protecting your child. You know,
- 32:46like Pierre, it's it's supposed to be like you are to provide for
- 32:52my child or you have to move in every way. I must be sure
- 32:58that you're going to take my child to school. Personally, before you look
- 33:00at the court, you're feeling like, I'm want to go back to your
- 33:04background where you grew up. Okay, even where most of men and women
- 33:09drew up, like you say, it really matters and mine comes deep actually
- 33:15because all this shit is something I've experienced. When you speak about the disadvantages
- 33:20personally, I say nine. When Katie speaks about children, if they denied
- 33:23their childhood, yes they are harder percent. I experienced that I didn't experience
- 33:29my childhood that much. Then come to now looking at the qualities before the
- 33:36qualities, I'm baking your background, how you grew up, what's your what's
- 33:42your literally stand when it comes to raising children, how your reason even before
- 33:46you have those children really matters. You are some people talking bullshit there Some
- 33:52people talking man, even how you threa children for a woman there you can
- 33:55also ask a woman like hey, you know if you have a baby,
- 33:59like, what do you want to do? Could not? As I said,
- 34:00you know, we want to settle, Like you said, you know,
- 34:04if I'm giving you everything, you know, what's the need of you
- 34:07going outside? There that those who want to be like, hey, I
- 34:08got that baby, the baby's two years, They want to go out to
- 34:12their party life. They want to go back to the normal life. You
- 34:14know, I want to dig your background. It is really really important to
- 34:19know the kind of life you grew up in to ma if you're papable to
- 34:22handle a family, because if you never were handled by your own family,
- 34:28you cannot literally be able to handle your own because you still have I think
- 34:32some mysteries to heal on yourself, and most of the people do not heal.
- 34:37They want to move on and give themselves, give themselves closure by having
- 34:42a family. So quick thinking it is the way of military forgetting the trauma
- 34:45I experienced. I think before the qualities, I think for me, that's
- 34:50really really important. Yeah, because someone if you ask, maybe if it's
- 35:01for you asking me, I'm the qualities you're looking for a woman. Most
- 35:07of the questions I've gotten from men, it is not on marriage perspective,
- 35:10but most of the men when I'm gonna strive to know you don't also your
- 35:14background. You know, the moment I find myself given most of my stories,
- 35:17it's all still around my dad or I experienced this, send this and
- 35:22this, and I came to realize it. It's like I'm looking for closure.
- 35:25You know, we're being men, and I'm not giving this closure that
- 35:29I'm looking because you're looking for that closing in the wrong man exactly your background.
- 35:37Daddy Harrison saying another thing women need to know as well too. If
- 35:42you've been passed around like a blunt maybe no after that, good luck finding
- 35:50a good mine. Are you kidding me how little the marriage person is outside?
- 35:58Dear me, No an issue. If you've been passed around, roster,
- 36:10you will be passed around. Something that's true, goes. Many like
- 36:19to say this, and it's true. You can't make a hole into a
- 36:24housewife. I can't make a wife out of a hole. You can't do
- 36:30it. Yeah, you can't make a whole because at the end of it,
- 36:38any girl, and and and I know I don't think any girl that
- 36:46has ever been fucked and paid, it's a whole. Doesn't matter if you
- 36:54did it once, doesn't matter if you did it twice. If you've done
- 36:59it, you're a whole and you're not my material because you actually have a
- 37:05price and it's so low at a symbols if you care to be a boozy.
- 37:10And then you're telling you you can give your father cattle cattle to take
- 37:19home cities Superna next week. Why is it painful when I be you know
- 37:35how to keep your legs closed? Wrong with you? Okay? Anyway as
- 37:42we're going, um, I mean denial. Women live in fantasy. Okay,
- 37:54No, No, women live in fantasy. And that's why they always
- 37:58have this knew me. I'm inventing myself delusions. You're the same. Everybody
- 38:13can't very desyero cant very deser. That's that's how you find, That's how
- 38:24you find these girls. Can't you even stay in my ches? I've been
- 38:30accustomed two being valued. It's local moodity. But I mean, okay,
- 38:49tell you something, even your tonnel that Joe, these girls out, you're
- 39:13giving it up for two hundred shillings. I'm sullo. Hello women, I
- 39:22do this three the longer name no longer. But yeah's some bush. Whatever
- 39:42you want, you want to re script, you want to protect yourself.
- 39:45What am I float to your boat at this point and look at it.
- 39:52Look at it. These correlation between eating, it's just facts. Women working
- 40:04and divorce direct correlation. The minute a woman gets money, her old money,
- 40:12where she feels like nice a jelina. She thinks money is her husband.
- 40:17Okay, all it is true. The minute women get money when a
- 40:25quechua, she wants to come home whenever she wants to come home money.
- 40:35We are in a very specific my most my women, hence divorce, most
- 40:44my women and jobs. That means she starts making some money, feels like
- 40:51I can buy myself a tongs no longer and no longer present on their husband.
- 41:00She gets them her boyfriend. Okay, he's women. I feel like
- 41:22they are the man now. They don't want a man to tell them what
- 41:28to do. They want to be the ruler of their lives. We're not
- 41:32telling you you're not in charge of your life, but he's a hierarchy in
- 41:37place. Don't come to my house past seven? What do you mean what
- 41:45they ends at five? Okay? In the house, my five. That
- 41:51what you mean, jam lie lie the truck. Excuse hey, pick that
- 42:06up. That's okay, overlap, Okay, you find them in that.
- 42:16That is single in huge houses with like two three kids, very very lonely
- 42:24and better and honey okay in secret, man man secret, if she's between,
- 42:35if she's between, that is three. Actually that and here's a single
- 42:42mom thatty three, no thy two forty two okay, that is a honey,
- 42:50that one, that one that that can give you a good night exercise
- 42:57okay. And they're the easiest. All you need to do sneaking at the
- 43:00right time, do not make noise to the kids, shouldn't see okay before
- 43:08dawn leave. Yeah, you can sustain that. That's a very good sustainable
- 43:15relationship if that's what you want. But the problem here is we have women
- 43:27trying to rule men all because they feel them they have us allied, and
- 43:34the result is arguing men leave. Okay. And the worst part is this,
- 43:44as part statistics, the people filing for divorce, it's the women they
- 43:53want to behold. They literally want to be a Marie like, but what
- 44:02if your marriage is not her, it's not her happy marriage? Who told
- 44:06your marriage for happiness. It's fast. You say, you get to do
- 44:16the zodi even in a relationship. You think even marriage is far even in
- 44:22a relationship. And I'm sorry to say that I did this to someone by
- 44:29there was there was stripping in like okay, so I couldn't like over long
- 44:34and my she was like moving, okay, you stay behind. But the
- 44:37moment you have money more than your nigga, you're gonna start showing this respect.
- 44:43I don't know hypergamy hypergamy because I immediately, immediately you feel you're worth
- 44:51more than this man. He he becomes punique to you because you feel like
- 44:58saying you can you can play yourself out. Now you know, you can
- 45:01literally take yourself out. You can buy yourself everything he was doing for you,
- 45:07like runner, you of the money to do it, like you know,
- 45:09waiting on him to surprise you to make you happy. You can literally
- 45:15I'm not saying that that is what most of the people, assuming you know
- 45:17the way it is outside, dear, but it doesn't end up good,
- 45:22especially marriage is true and I think we discussed also this like you know it
- 45:27doesn't enough good and it's so it doesn't. Then most of the women come
- 45:30back complaining, oh, you know, I left a good money. Then
- 45:34you're gonna look years later, but like, actually two or three, four
- 45:37years, that guy's gonna be doing way better. That's cool. Thank you.
- 45:43You you thought that she was doing better than them, and then it's
- 45:46gonna be doing better than you're gonna be. Like that's when women try to
- 45:50come back in your life. You know, you know. I saw a
- 45:54story. I learned this guy was good. I saw a story that was
- 45:59so sad, so so sad. This chick divorced her husband. Okay,
- 46:07she was dating some mother might die, Okay. So in the midst of
- 46:15the divorce, this guy decides he doesn't want anymore. The guy she was
- 46:19dating, he's mind. He decides he wants She goes back to his wife,
- 46:27and she had the guts to go back to the husband she's divorced and
- 46:36ask him if they can try to work it out. She instigated it.
- 46:43What would you do if you were manding that perspective? Your wife leaves you
- 46:46for another man in the midst of it, she gets done for and she
- 46:51comes back to you trying to work things out. What do you do by
- 46:59you in him? If I were him, it's so better in him than
- 47:04me. So the religion I could give you was not good enough. You
- 47:07know, you go there how you feel? No, really you feel shitty,
- 47:12like I stick to I still start. Start with my mom. I
- 47:19stuck with my mother. I did this regret that I'm not gonna literally and
- 47:25blew themselves unless the mon is so generous. No, that isn't my love
- 47:37compromising? Compromising, I compromising. That's not a problem for women. Okay,
- 47:51that's not a problem that women compromise all the time. It's women conform.
- 47:58They learn the ways and they learn how to please you because when you
- 48:02get her, she doesn't know you. But with time women learn men don't
- 48:08we are who we are, accept us or hate us. That's just it.
- 48:14Find your poisons. That one that you like, stick with that one,
- 48:17Build that one because they made you live. Ah, there will be
- 48:21another one that we can't give me the pot, but more that thing shot,
- 48:28I will more give a few babies. And now you're over there,
- 48:31thirty six looking like a freaking cow, single honey, sad with a dildo.
- 48:42Why do you think they's are thriving sex toy business in Nairobi right now?
- 48:50Like if you want to make money right now in Nairobi, open a
- 48:52sex toys store and show up your sex toys. You will make money these
- 48:58women out here doing them else you tell her don't fund yourself. You think
- 49:02it's an insult. She doesn't day, she fus us. Okay, anyway,
- 49:10I can see Jibber Jabber is in the comments. Shout out to Jibber
- 49:15Jabber, just one deal with women is saying just one deal with women.
- 49:22Just deal with women that are on your level intellectual and resources. I'd actually
- 49:29beg to differ on that. Don't do not deal with women that are on
- 49:32your same level of resources. That's that's cerci. No, you need to
- 49:42have more resources than the woman. That's when you who own the government,
- 49:46you don't see result of final he has refused this handshake from paganda. It
- 49:53is my government because he understands the immunity gives up that handshake fifty fifty.
- 50:00So the minute you get a woman at you with the same level of resources
- 50:02as you, that's just disrespect waiting literally anyway, Shout out to Jibba Jabba
- 50:10number two. Vet her for a few years before my age or an agreed
- 50:15commitment and get a print up. Number three, sex is just to maintain
- 50:22your own supply. Sex is great, just maintain your supply of condoms.
- 50:28I have a story about that. Avoid the chances of pin holes. Number
- 50:34four, Paternity tests must be mandatory at bath. At bath to day,
- 50:40we performed a paternity test today. I am not buying even a single box
- 50:46of diapers without knowing. This is my child shitty Okay, this is meaning
- 50:52me pooping insane unless I know anyway. Now however, I'm fine. No,
- 51:02no, no, ald women, old women, hypergamy, houles,
- 51:07All women are holes. No, I just agree on that. Where is
- 51:12it to eat a whole? Like? You know? I'm just seeing yourself?
- 51:19Oh how man? Men? Men? We're getting into every a month?
- 51:27Can literally a month? You are no? No, no, everything
- 51:37you asked me, how many can I if I have the results? Okay?
- 51:45And I mean you know what it takes for me to fund that women
- 51:47in a month? Yes, you know what it require, what is required
- 51:53for me to make money that allows to fuck that women a money that is
- 52:00real, MANU, I have worked, I have the amount of grind and
- 52:07self don't even understand. You know you know why, you know why?
- 52:17For women? Listen listen, listen. You know why for women sex is
- 52:23a big deal satisfaction. No, because you can get it anywhere. For
- 52:32you to have sex, you just need to open up. For me to
- 52:37have sex. I need to find a girl that will allow me to have
- 52:45sex with her. You understand the difference. No, there's no. I
- 52:52can't control up. And that's where the model's kicking now, Abi. No,
- 53:01no is a whole. No, No, there are different levels to
- 53:06this worship. No, listen, listen, They are different levels because,
- 53:10like hypodon, me applies to all women. I had a conversation with a
- 53:16very good friend of mine and loo and he was saying, he made sense.
- 53:24Every woman is single, defending of who. Very true, even your
- 53:31wife, your mother, your sister. Every woman is single depending on who
- 53:38she's talking to. That's true. It is very So that makes every woman.
- 53:46No of losing make me a hotel, Yes, he doesn't make me
- 53:55a hole. Start legs opening or the hiding text hiding texts. So if
- 54:04you have just flatting behind my back, what are you doing. I'm not
- 54:07towing, I'm not toeing. Maybe you don't flatter with for one, I
- 54:14don't get you know, if you're not flatting with you. I can flat
- 54:19with you and you don't know. Yeah, sometimes you can. Sometimes people
- 54:23flat with you and you're like, you don't understand because you're not interested flatting
- 54:30with you. You know, I'm not but comeless, you come less,
- 54:36come less. There's somebody who can flat with you because you're not interested.
- 54:39You don't even see that is you know they're trying to flat with you,
- 54:43but you're not interesting. If you see this kind of text, this is
- 54:45not flattering flatting exam Yeah, continue a number five. Know thyself and you
- 55:15won't get trapped. Oh that is so true, fan, I wont be.
- 55:22AB's final comment on his point is then you'll see what's up. True.
- 55:38Yeah, even man both way. Yeah, but you know it's different,
- 55:45don't don't know how is it different? No, No, it's it's
- 55:50not that okay for men. If you meet your father in law, even
- 56:00in your man's presence, your man shrinks in front of his father, you
- 56:04understand that your man, even his father very true respects. Yeah, because
- 56:15because no man can literally be a man his fatherless. Yeah. And until
- 56:27you actually have nowhere to turn to me, until you're the patriarch of a
- 56:32clan, you're still a boy. Yeah, that's why man Tambo where men
- 56:39early because fathers will die in early in wars, you know, so you'd
- 56:43have to become a man. That's where you have so many boys in society
- 56:46now because their dads are nineteen years old. Yep. But you can also
- 56:53have that um relationship cease to exist in a figurative way. Basically, what
- 57:06it says is if you have no where to turn to, if you're the
- 57:10man in every facet or for in your life, then you can actually call
- 57:15yourself a man if you have no backup, if you are the backup plan.
- 57:21Okay, if your backup plan is yourself, welcome to manhood because that
- 57:27is Listen, what it takes to be a man. You're told as a
- 57:30man, one of the things you should strive for, and this was by
- 57:35Jordan's Citizen, is to be the strongest person at your father's funeral. You
- 57:39should n't shed a tear because you're assuming a different role. Yeah, as
- 57:52a man, this doesn't apply to your and I'm talking that the point of
- 58:00everything your father has ever taught you is so that once he's gone, you
- 58:07can actually take that position. That means ask yourself, this, have you.
- 58:14I attended my great grandmother's funeral, my grandmother's funeral, and I swear
- 58:22none of my uncles crying, dry eyes like just and you understand something in
- 58:30that minute, Okay, you understand something very very basic, because everybody else
- 58:37around you is breaking down. What happens if you break down? You have
- 58:43to be the soul that they cry on. You can't be oh, cry
- 58:46like you. No, you sit there, you feel the plane and you
- 58:52don't express it. Let it eat you up. Cry by yourself somewhere,
- 58:57go hide, weep as matches you need to, But in front of your
- 59:02family, your siblings, your kids, don't because then you have nowhere.
- 59:13And that is what these kids miss. With this single part. You have
- 59:20them being raised by mothers, watching supp operas, grind their eyes out like
- 59:24Mexicans. We are men. I'm crying because she left me. What do
- 59:38you mean that she left so your crime? What do you mean that she
- 59:43cheated so your crime? Go work? You should take that as a motivation,
- 59:47like every time your girlfriend chips with me, every time she leaves you
- 59:51with that child, with whatever that is motivation, just to go hard,
- 59:57don't don't, don't let it break you down anyway, Daniel I said,
- 1:00:00we're just trying to continue with legacy of the ancestors, the Black Panthers.
- 1:00:05One thing I noticed about starting the Black Panthers back in the day, they
- 1:00:08always left you with food for thought. True, if you are familiar with
- 1:00:14the Black Panthers in the US, they were actually protecting the community until the
- 1:00:20world consider the terrorist group by the FBI. God, you have to some
- 1:00:24extent, okay, you have to admire the white man's propaganda and strategy to
- 1:00:32take down anything that threatens is superiority. It is. It's amazing, like
- 1:00:39they calculate everything how to take you down and to make sure you do anyway,
- 1:00:50take care, Thank you so much for a job. Has gone back
- 1:01:00to me where he told everyone, thank you so much. Conversation. I
- 1:01:09think Bossy Boy is a woman. Right, she's my friend, she's my
- 1:01:19neighbor. Actually this is really yes, she speaks so much sense that the
- 1:01:30house before radio, Right, you're giving directions house. Okay, I know
- 1:01:40it was like that outrection to my house. Anyway, boy is saying a
- 1:01:49very squeezy almost everyone is selling and giving you to free. You'd never give
- 1:01:53it out for free, okay, Okay, So if a guy fixes a
- 1:02:10girl's car jimmer jobber is back and she gives it up, is she a
- 1:02:15whole or just appreciative? Hey, it's business. It's business at the end
- 1:02:22of the day. It's all business. If if she got something for it,
- 1:02:29Hey how unless unless it's your girlfriend and she's like, hey, fix
- 1:02:37this girl. But if I me and you just decide and you're telling me,
- 1:02:44oh, you know, and then back seat mommy, I want to
- 1:02:51change that tire. Okay, you know what Twitter is talking from experience very
- 1:02:57fast, but then the back thank you. We know your prices that have
- 1:03:02changed now, which is amazing to come out now. I was in a
- 1:03:13meter but the true uh. I was going to say something until I realized
- 1:03:21she's politically affiliated. But we saw her news the other day with the big
- 1:03:25gass you know. I like like anyway where like kids say the few shows
- 1:03:39ago. A woman must pay attention to a man's potential as well. That
- 1:03:45that is, that is, that is the only thing women see in men
- 1:03:50unless you have money. Now, if she's refused, she sees some potentially
- 1:03:54new and she's going to capital lies until you don't fulfill your potential and she's
- 1:04:00out. You're hanging out with Carlish and we post photos of her I g
- 1:04:08and then you're depressed out there with single father who killing you? You know,
- 1:04:14avoid these things, do not? Quick question? Is the modern woman
- 1:04:21actually mine? Material ends? No? No, no, no? Is
- 1:04:34the modern moment? Tell us in the comments dolphins is the modern woman of
- 1:04:45mine? You're not about that woman? Yeah? Woman? No. Traditional
- 1:05:11m is saying whatever that is saying is true? Which can be done?
- 1:05:18Not beneath my clothes? Okay to the potential part veryway that must be blah
- 1:05:26blah blah, kid by lady, I'm good, Keith, come on,
- 1:05:31give us anything that makes sense. Actually, paternity tests can be done with
- 1:05:35one still page. We can you do a paternity test with a pregnant woman?
- 1:05:43Can you give us? Give us? Give us links in the in
- 1:05:46the comments kitt is in the house. We appreciate you so much. Generals
- 1:05:49quit saying what's up to everyone? Peace? Um true, don't feel ab
- 1:06:00tell us how okay? Must keep is saying women control sex, not men.
- 1:06:12We have to work to get coaching. Men control relationships. We determine
- 1:06:16if you're in a relationship or not. You determine it. If I'm inside
- 1:06:21you or not. That's just it. Ah, No woman belongs to you.
- 1:06:29Oh man, oh man. He tried to said that a few hours
- 1:06:33ago. That is so sad, though, because I feel like women of
- 1:06:42today are not What if if you look at my being worthy of mine,
- 1:06:55you're not even worth What are the women of the past were worth in relationship
- 1:07:01because none of them can actually provide those women of the previous ages did.
- 1:07:09They can't provide you with peace. The molder woman doesn't know peace. She
- 1:07:15can't provide you with a lineage that you show is yours. She can't provide
- 1:07:21you with purity. She can't provide you with what is it called making a
- 1:07:32home a house into a homis men build houses? Women create homes, you
- 1:07:39understand. The modern woman just wants to build a house to m and then
- 1:07:44kick you out and then be a single brother and called camelsh over later came
- 1:07:56you love those calls, though, Yo, let me tell you something.
- 1:07:59I am having a purpose in society, okay, I am keeping this woman
- 1:08:04from being toxic. A holy woman is a very toxic woman. Where now
- 1:08:14a holy hungry woman that is the walking at bomb, just waiting to clothe
- 1:08:21on somebody. But give us some eggs and some good dick. She washed
- 1:08:28your clothes right after. She's gonna like wipe your down with some warm clothes
- 1:08:34after you get know what I mean. But anyway, Keith, I agree
- 1:08:40with you. That is dolphin possibley she's saying. More over, this is
- 1:08:43where morality comes in. Yeah, but possi boy, these women don't have
- 1:08:47morals. No, I'm not talking about you do not feel at time.
- 1:08:55This is a safe space. You're complations saying shoulder to cry on only for
- 1:09:11a woman is my wife. If you let every woman do that, nigga,
- 1:09:15you will be friends on real quick. Danny, let me explain what
- 1:09:18I was saying at your father's funeral. I'm not talking about no woman's whatever.
- 1:09:24I'm talking about your sisters, your friends, your mother's the line at
- 1:09:29that funeral. You should be the driest eye level true not true level.
- 1:09:38Are your friends with women? I had Your men can't be friends with no
- 1:09:42women. No, we can't have every guy you called your friends trying to
- 1:09:49get in your plants. Okay, wait, every man who is trying to
- 1:09:56baste you shape like a best basting the woman's perspective. The guy you need,
- 1:10:09I'm water beasty because you want to get into her pants. What do
- 1:10:13you mean you don't think you have best? You don't know? For every
- 1:10:23guy that you friends, they didn't approach you trying to be your friend.
- 1:10:29Okay, but you put them in that zone and they're they're hoping that one
- 1:10:39day from your drunken, stupid and realize all the loveday have and bring yourself
- 1:10:46over. That's why I always tell men, if she wants to be your
- 1:10:59friend, stop texting her, stop talking to her, nothing her, don't
- 1:11:05We're not trying to be friends with women. It doesn't work. Okay.
- 1:11:11That's why if you have a girlfriend and she has a guy that she why
- 1:11:15are you talking to other niggers? You're my girl? I mean, why
- 1:11:21would you be at this is my friend? Who do you mean friend?
- 1:11:27Oh? What criteria does he mean that I don't have penis? I put
- 1:11:32it in you? Okay? Can they have a friend. You can have
- 1:11:36female friends, friend, you can have secure you. Let me tell you
- 1:11:43a job friend. Wait wait, let me let me let me put it
- 1:11:46this not even so? Why should they put it display of my friendship?
- 1:12:00Because of why listen? Let me educate you real quick. This is ps
- 1:12:08so for all the women out there, the minit you start dating, so
- 1:12:13cuts are single friends immediately, you don't need them. Those are snakes waiting
- 1:12:17to happen. They mine, you get mined. All your single dating friends,
- 1:12:23cut them off. You. Life requires a different version of you at
- 1:12:27every different stage. When you're dating, need like minded friends. So if
- 1:12:33you know what you want, listen, and this is you. You are
- 1:12:36friends listening. If you're dating, your friends should be couples. Okay,
- 1:12:44where you hang out with other couple of friends. Not you going to hang
- 1:12:47out with your friends and me go into you get once you get maried.
- 1:12:54Everybody that's single, cut them off immediately. Those are just snakes waiting to
- 1:13:00happen. Get my friends. These are people who can actually have constructive conversations
- 1:13:08with. These are people who can guide you. You actually have the same
- 1:13:12problems because my age isn't Rosie. It's two people trying to come to terms
- 1:13:19of being together and it's going to be fiction once in a while. But
- 1:13:24if you're getting that friction and the first person you talk to is somebody who
- 1:13:29was just getting run through last week so doesn't even know the value of a
- 1:13:34relationship, you're going to lose this man because you're going to be given the
- 1:13:38wrong advice on how to deal with this. I agree with that, I
- 1:13:42agree with, but I agree when problems you don't don't go talking to your
- 1:13:48single friends. You can't literally advise someone on a relationship, especially if you're
- 1:13:55saying, well you should not even literally you know, let them try talk
- 1:13:59to people are also on the same same learn as them, because hey,
- 1:14:01they understand the issues going on in between single and these my own issues of
- 1:14:06singularity and all that. But it doesn't mean like once I get into a
- 1:14:11relationship I have to cut off people because of you. Doesn't even I have
- 1:14:15to rush to them because they're single for a decision making. Why I don't
- 1:14:18even need their validation now with you, I think that friendship has nothing to
- 1:14:24do with my relationships. Listen, it's like I told you, boundaries.
- 1:14:30No, those boundaries are called cutting off. Okay, you just have to
- 1:14:35put some less liking it your mind, Okay, your mind. You know
- 1:14:45your friends? You have friends, Yeah, and you know them if I
- 1:14:49know, if the characters definitely your mind. Yeah. And you have this
- 1:14:54friend who you know, she's a whole Yeah, you know, she's a
- 1:15:02whole. Will you go to human thing that friendship is my woman? No?
- 1:15:12Why because al and we're not talking about specifically. I know what my
- 1:15:21relationship. You know, my time cool. Most of your friends are the
- 1:15:30holes we are talking about. He's called the acambilation. And also somebody's asking
- 1:15:40what okay, let me tell you something. I don't think I have to
- 1:15:53cut them off because I just got into a relationship with you. All I
- 1:15:58need to do is put some length and boundaries. And if I was hanging
- 1:16:02out with these people, I need to stop hanging out to them because now
- 1:16:08I understand there's something that is happening to me, like, um, yes,
- 1:16:12I'm committed to this than now how I was committed to our friendship because
- 1:16:16right now I have a man. At that time, I didn't have a
- 1:16:19math, So I need to have boundaries. I need even this we were
- 1:16:25talking about when I was with you. We need to stop talking about them
- 1:16:28because writing now I have a man who I can talk about those things with.
- 1:16:32You know, like me, Yes, my mentality changes and it dies
- 1:16:43you start bound yes, let it let it die on its own. You
- 1:16:49don't have just to cutch people like what relationship dy do show it away and
- 1:17:02start something afresh. The inability, the inability, the inability of modern society.
- 1:17:10And I won't say women, because it happens with both men and women.
- 1:17:14So the inability of people to become hope to the ability actually to hold
- 1:17:21relationships, bad relationships. Just because you want this person in your messaging platforms
- 1:17:31to see your status, you want them call your phone book. That relationship
- 1:17:35is dead. You haven't talked to this person in how many years? And
- 1:17:41you have the number for what? For what? Cut the more? If
- 1:17:46they're won't serve you, then that the treatmental to you better boyfriends? Come
- 1:17:58on a smash me. Let me let me answer you, let me answer
- 1:18:15you. Have you ever seen a man doesn't want to smash? Yes,
- 1:18:18say when you're coming to approach me, excuse me, when you're coming to
- 1:18:21approach me? You come to approach me. Every time that a man want
- 1:18:26to become further to be in their life, does it have to be sexualized
- 1:18:30all the time? You're where where? No? Listen, No man,
- 1:18:40I don't know, no, but no. Men does not have female friends.
- 1:18:45Every female friend we have, okay, is somebody I'm hoping to get
- 1:18:51inside. It makes sense, like man, I can relate our our.
- 1:19:00I was once in this relationship I had, I was, I had this
- 1:19:04smelled friend and we were so close and I, okay, this he happened
- 1:19:10actually to be a friend of my boyfriend. And I was very close with
- 1:19:14this man to an extent that now my boyfriend could tell me, you know,
- 1:19:18stop talking with this man. Stopped talking even she was just yes,
- 1:19:23we were just friends. Yes I know that. Drew and I drew and
- 1:19:28I drew and Drew and drew. And by the time I realized this,
- 1:19:30it was like me a lible mam. No hour like they don't talk like
- 1:19:48they don't they don't call me those but I I don't know the moment he's
- 1:19:57the worst time, Drew. No, No, they wait for your weakest
- 1:20:03moments. Okay, these are pretty times, Okay. And what happens is
- 1:20:12you'll be there, heart broken, looking for someone to talk to. Guess
- 1:20:17what that man does. He'll tell you to the atter, I will buy
- 1:20:21you, buy your body. Let me tell a little. The time I
- 1:20:27realized we can be friends with the male when women. When when women are
- 1:20:31heart broken, logic and reasoning is never part of their vocabulary. For you
- 1:20:43and your body, he will part her on the back. Okay. The
- 1:20:55first glass of whiskey will be hesitant. The second glass you will be laughing
- 1:21:00a bit more. The third glass you will actually be crime on his shoulder.
- 1:21:09Maybe you're going to the same Okay. By the glass, you will
- 1:21:16be seated on this man. Okay, and you know what you'll be telling
- 1:21:20you this boy was stupid. He doesn't know what. Yeah, okay,
- 1:21:33you're sitting on you like I don't know. Okay, And this this is
- 1:21:43this is what happens. Yes, every guy that you think is your friend,
- 1:21:48he's just waiting for then. And also, let me tell you came
- 1:21:55lets. Do you know that you're your friends like your male friends? Are
- 1:21:59you any miss because they also want to smash your girlfriend? Number one very
- 1:22:04true. I don't know what lea mama, but number one lit ted if
- 1:22:11she's my girlfriend? So my girlfriend? My niggas never even seen? Why?
- 1:22:18Why? Who I need to bring mine around? What if? Like
- 1:22:27the lake anyways? Particular display any you're not on the display window. If
- 1:22:38you're my wife, I'm probably I'm a clubbing with you music a feature whoever
- 1:22:46feature bature music? I hate even from your friends. No independs in the
- 1:22:58model of your girlfriend, no page applies, and you know it if you
- 1:23:03meet my friend deserving a better than me, so exactly a woman. Okay,
- 1:23:15So what do I do? I protect my interests. I keep you
- 1:23:19in my bubble. If you go out, then bust out the bubble and
- 1:23:25I find you outside the bubble. I keep you outside the bubble. Now
- 1:23:30you're a single mom, and I'm out here with your best friend guy.
- 1:23:36Okay, and she's screaming at two a m. The name you are screaming
- 1:23:45to, calling me dad, calling me whatever. And she's going to tell
- 1:23:49you that I'm I'm an asshole. I'm watch She's going to talk all that
- 1:23:54venom video here. And then after once you go back to your tiny house,
- 1:23:59she's going to come back to my house again, and I'm going to
- 1:24:02do her. Yea. That is literally modern relationships because you're out here trying
- 1:24:10to do social media relationships, trying to look happy on the ground instead of
- 1:24:14actually being happy. I saw someone say that, someone who reported that,
- 1:24:18and I think I saw it. I think it's a doctor. Doctor.
- 1:24:23People are literally swing others out there so happy on the social on the social
- 1:24:30media, like you know, of a relationship is goals. You guys don't
- 1:24:33know and I don't have any idea using endorsements. Also, like you know,
- 1:24:38to show people out you're a relation living your best life. But you
- 1:24:43say, let me let me you know how you you know how your sport,
- 1:24:48you know how you sport a sad happy You see these women that are
- 1:24:55always posting very sad, These women that one validation from society about their relationship.
- 1:25:05They know they shit, They know their master bait to sleep Okay,
- 1:25:13probably hasn't had actively touched in like three months yet. And she she talks
- 1:25:19of my love languages. Touch My love language is communication. Your husband doesn't
- 1:25:28talk to you in the house, only talks to you when the camera comes
- 1:25:31on. Come on, love yourself. Do not do not do this to
- 1:25:38your kids. Your kids actually need to know happiness from you. You need
- 1:25:44to create happy kids. Women too many people, I wouldn't say women too
- 1:25:48many people out? Youre trying to Can you make me happy? Bitch?
- 1:25:55If Jesus called it? Who am I? If? If if we couldn't
- 1:26:01make you happy? Am I remember? Almost quitter told me they are not
- 1:26:09too ready to make me happy. What happens is this okay catting? We
- 1:26:20are not awady to make you happy. Men are not awady to make you
- 1:26:25happy. You should come into a relationship happy, then we can both be
- 1:26:30happy together. Don't be out your tribe. But if I come to the
- 1:26:34relationship relationship very happy and then you still my happiness, you know, toxic?
- 1:26:45They drain? Why are you dating a vampire? Are you dating in
- 1:26:50a GI vampire? As fast? Anyways, saying yes, you can do
- 1:26:59a pregnancy forty tests, it's possible. We need that technology in k Yeah.
- 1:27:03And to clarify his point about tang, I'm gary here. He's saying
- 1:27:10she's a friend and a neighbor, a neighbor with benefits rightsile. Oh,
- 1:27:19I thought it was about the car. Anyway, possible is saying how you
- 1:27:27were raised determines the traditional woman in you, and the modernity is determined by
- 1:27:32what you learn is you grow. Yeah, most of these women weren't raised
- 1:27:40with morals. And I'm not even going to say women. Let me say
- 1:27:45people. We were raised by households, Okay, weren't raised by all mothers.
- 1:27:53We were raised by young adults. Other people who are raised teenagers.
- 1:28:00Because we remember when I was in class four, we had a neighbor whose
- 1:28:05houses, like sixteen years old. It was so sad. But she shouldn't
- 1:28:12have been in school, but she was out there working her ass off,
- 1:28:14sending her siblings to school. You get show sixteen. So imagine being in
- 1:28:19school being mazed by a sixteen year old because your mom is at work.
- 1:28:23Who knows better. She's just full of homie hormones, doesn't even understand where
- 1:28:30her kids feel good when touched, doesn't even understand her own rooms cooco,
- 1:28:35and she's trying to raise a child. It's true, okay, And that's
- 1:28:43how you get. You hear stories of young boys saying I lost my virginity
- 1:28:49to the household so many yeah, because the houses was there, yashing,
- 1:28:57okay, and then she's like eight seen have you ever seen an eighteen year
- 1:29:01old ass? It's amazing, It's like a wonder of the world. Like
- 1:29:11a nice eighteen year old ass can confuse the president, can cause accidents.
- 1:29:19I was talking about Ji saying yes, if you grew up with a strong
- 1:29:27father or has a traditional base like Ladies of the Black cor Fire, okay,
- 1:29:33best Danny Hyrison is saying, well, let misunderstood and live in American.
- 1:29:38American women have a different man that serves different purposes. That is sad.
- 1:29:44What I meant was, you don't want to be that guy that she
- 1:29:46runs and cries too. Hey, if you're it depends on the type of
- 1:29:51christ Danny Hyrison. If she's crying man and deeping them guts, Okay,
- 1:29:57you can cry all you want. Guy, I'm gonna choke you do start
- 1:30:01what you're into. Just don't don't don't don't stay once is real, come
- 1:30:09less. I want to ask you something. So uh, okay, Danny
- 1:30:13Harrison, I didn't get your point because I believe if I'm your girlfriend,
- 1:30:17or rather if i'm your wife, you're the first part. You're the first
- 1:30:20person I should come to when I have a problem. Why he's talking about
- 1:30:26the American society. American society that's they created, by the way, basic
- 1:30:30basically, this is my best friend. This is cool. Ah, you
- 1:30:38dumped me, so I went to tyrone times sometimes gay, But I say,
- 1:30:56you know, like, okay, so what if the dagest like and
- 1:31:00against you, because it's going to be a trans to woman, you know,
- 1:31:04bastimasity and everything is there bastiat like nature, but trans Why are women
- 1:31:15taking advice from men in dresses and why are you listening? Even in Kenya
- 1:31:28you have denis. So do you think do you think that the effects of
- 1:31:34single painting personally, I say that I think it comes effect Um well,
- 1:31:43I think we go back to what we're talking about effects shall childhood because you're
- 1:31:48destructing moments where your parents are literally splating. There's a lot of destruction going
- 1:31:54on there, and personally experience it because I was changed from multiple schools,
- 1:31:59I was change from multiple relatives and interesting with this one because one end settled.
- 1:32:05You know, once you walk out over your parents are chey. Let's
- 1:32:09related with Africa, who are wanting a cola? Hey, You're taking responsibility
- 1:32:14of your life. So if anything you fuck up there, you know it's
- 1:32:17you. You take responsibility of your life and your children. Don't try to
- 1:32:20bring the children you know mongst your siblings and your siblings trying to make with
- 1:32:26their green. So it affects there the childhood, the your situation, your
- 1:32:30movement and everything. Secondly, to affect your psychologically yourself as a lady.
- 1:32:38Know about men, I'm not going to speak on the men's perspective, and
- 1:32:41like I said, I don't know how men feel about it. But you're
- 1:32:43spoking about it even affectives, but it will affect your psychologic and renting psychologically.
- 1:32:49When you speak about financially can naturally independency, Bro, you're going to
- 1:32:54sweat tears and blood to have to make hims meet. And the only find
- 1:32:58most of the big the mamas or maybe most of these single ladies you love
- 1:33:02to go sleeping with multiple means to make and smit just because you have rends
- 1:33:06to raise. You need to take care of yourself. You need to take
- 1:33:10care of your baby and the baby if especially in a double children get sick
- 1:33:14all the garden time. I know all the garden time. So there's no
- 1:33:19independency of finances there. When you speak of sgree children, I think I'm
- 1:33:25gonna go all the way with that life over and children becoming responsible. There's
- 1:33:29no responsibility you're raising, I believe, especially if you have like car fuck
- 1:33:34that person mentally. It can mess you up growing up knowing what responsibilities are.
- 1:33:40If you are raising but an irresponsible person, you can't tell me about
- 1:33:44responsibility. I told you there's so many effects. But childhood psychologically um owing
- 1:34:00even like it affects the rest of the generation. True because most of the
- 1:34:04kids are gonna if you find up a game a fucked up mom, who's
- 1:34:09gonna tell you how men ain't any ship in this society, you're gonna grow
- 1:34:13up with the same same mentality or what You're gonna want to have a kid
- 1:34:16and move off because if a man does this, the ain't shit and you
- 1:34:19need to walk out. So it keeps on becoming a generational whole thing.
- 1:34:24So that for now, one the most effective I think is one on the
- 1:34:34children, because once you're raised by a single parent, you lack that side
- 1:34:40of the other parents because you deserve both parents for like, yes, now
- 1:34:46you get a single perspective even when you're growing Like even now, when you
- 1:34:50become a bigger person or a big person, you become like, oh,
- 1:34:54I need to treat my children like this because my man raised me like this.
- 1:34:59You know, like you had you didn't have that other like party,
- 1:35:03maybe your dad, maybe your mom. For for like, for you to
- 1:35:08understand what is the role of a man in the society, what is what
- 1:35:12is the role of a woman in the family. You know, so like
- 1:35:15you like that our perspective when you're growing up, and this is why we
- 1:35:20see, uh when we have. I've seen a boys when they like they
- 1:35:26grow up with a single moms. They there is this thing where a mom
- 1:35:30is going to the salon and a baby to work, and this is a
- 1:35:33male childer to the salon. And this is now how we yes, this
- 1:35:39is how we we see on our son. Yes, I've seen this.
- 1:35:46When you're going to the salon, you're a mom and you have a boy,
- 1:35:49you carry them because the young children and you don't leave them at home,
- 1:35:53so you take a child to the salon. And this is why we're
- 1:35:58raising a generation of men are becoming a gay. You know, they start
- 1:36:02applying cute texts. Yes, they start applying cute text because there was there
- 1:36:08was no further to tell them. You know this is wrong. You know
- 1:36:13you're not supposed to go even with your mom to the salon. You know,
- 1:36:15like you're not supposed to start applying cute text. You're not supposed to
- 1:36:18do makeup. This is a woman's thing. You know, this is now
- 1:36:21how why we have men becoming gays out here? Question, there's something observed
- 1:36:32when women become single, mothers tend for top masculine sets. Tu some Oh,
- 1:36:48but when men become single, they don't adopt why from experiences, give
- 1:37:00my own bother experiences, Like I said, to depend not the type of
- 1:37:04her parents. We're gonna grow up with my dad and mom's writers too.
- 1:37:10I saw the girls. I still remember the destructions I held, and it
- 1:37:14was not fun at all because I missed again watching it. She said,
- 1:37:17the moment of both parenting, the affection of both parenting, but still with
- 1:37:26my mom. I never felt like I missed. I missed the presence of
- 1:37:30both. She gave me an equal love. She adopted that, but she
- 1:37:34never like she never tried to show me like, you know, I don't
- 1:37:39need a man or anything. I've seen my mom because she got married at
- 1:37:44term now then divorcing with my dad. She got married ten years later.
- 1:37:47Wow, but this guy was amusing and everything she had to live. So
- 1:37:56when she now, yeah he was amusing, but saw that personally he was
- 1:38:00using everything. So we are forced to live. She has a baby of
- 1:38:04this guy already one. So we're two of us from different guys. But
- 1:38:10when it came to not raising us both, I can't say it was really
- 1:38:15it was tough. When I say it is toff when I speak about finances.
- 1:38:19When I speak about her responsibilities as well. You need the skills from
- 1:38:28both the parents. And I think she made it so easy for me for
- 1:38:32not trying to show the masculinity by introducing me again to my dad. No,
- 1:38:38when I met my dad, I didn't say that she was married,
- 1:38:42so I can say I did at the end of the day, I got
- 1:38:45the affection from both parents by being introduced and everything. But I don't think
- 1:38:50most women. Most try to do that, but not most women. Actually,
- 1:38:56you would find now there's a woman like the way we left each other,
- 1:39:00the way we split out, will this some women will carry that bitterness
- 1:39:05even to their life. Now they start telling their children how your dad is,
- 1:39:11how an evil man he is. You see, So you'll start growing
- 1:39:15and knowing that your your dad is an evil man. And this is now
- 1:39:18how they feed their children. So you, as a child, you start
- 1:39:23growing knowing that, So men are this evil, So men are this weekend,
- 1:39:29so men can be this, you know. So this is now why
- 1:39:32we we have even women right now who hate men very much. And this
- 1:39:38is now what I'm saying. You'll find some trying to become gay, like
- 1:39:42homosexuality starts from there, because I hate men, so much. My mom
- 1:39:45taught me men are so wicked, men are so even I can't be with
- 1:39:50men, you see, yes, because they are trying to compete with them,
- 1:39:59and this is why they never get along. You can try to compete
- 1:40:01with the man and still want to get along with the man. Does it
- 1:40:06mean that in society masculinity is more valuable than femininity? No, he doesn't
- 1:40:15know. It is question from what what you were discussing, the single mothers,
- 1:40:27single points. Who are women adopt masculine trades once they find themselves in
- 1:40:36that singularity bottle of their part, yet men do not feminine traits? Does
- 1:40:46that mean masculine trades are more valuable in society and feminine traits valuable? They
- 1:40:56are both valuable. I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't say you could
- 1:41:03now and what a fore? God? Okay, So, but what I'm
- 1:41:09trying to mean is a camlage say femilinity, or rather our masculinities better than
- 1:41:17fam femlinity, you know, like both are standing like it is something as
- 1:41:24our more valuable. It is just jewels? Okay? Is literally yeah?
- 1:41:33But yeah, yeah, so the question, I understand the question. I
- 1:41:44understand the question very clearly. But I don't think they it is. I
- 1:41:49think it's a fifty fifty thing we need as much as no. Let me
- 1:41:55ask you a question. You know the formula of gunpowder. M If we
- 1:42:03were at war today, would you enlist? If you had to raise kids
- 1:42:14by yourself, would you have to become tough? Yes? I don't have
- 1:42:21to become soft to raise kids. I don't have to adopt any feminine traits
- 1:42:31as a man. Women are naturally soft. Of course, we have hashmen
- 1:42:38and women. Those those, those are broken, which is true. I
- 1:42:45was saying something earlier before we came on camera. Not like that. Men
- 1:42:58do not. How do I phrase this? In society? Men have everything
- 1:43:12that is required to run society. And when a woman is loved well by
- 1:43:20a man, she becomes a child. Yeah, okay, children have no
- 1:43:30masculine qualities. So masculinity plans society. So for you to fit into society
- 1:43:45as a woman and try compete with society, you adopped masculine traits for you
- 1:43:54to compete in a masculine society because it was created by men. That's why
- 1:44:03if you look at modern society right now, what is it doing to your
- 1:44:10It's trying to put this true woman on a pedestal, the woman that doesn't
- 1:44:17need help, the woman that is, you know, the woman that looks
- 1:44:21tough, the mother can time that they put them on a pedestal, okay,
- 1:44:30because they want to tell you, hey, you need to be tough,
- 1:44:34because when you're tough, you're even more incompatible with men. You understand
- 1:44:41that, hence creating what we're talking about, which is the perfect perfect environment
- 1:44:50for governments. And make no mistake, governmental and society. If careire today,
- 1:44:59we didn't an single mothers, we wouldn't have them, Okay, But
- 1:45:05government wants in pallace families, wants baby daddy issues. It wants It's a
- 1:45:15system, exactly, get and until until you realize that this system is not
- 1:45:23for you, Until you realize feminism is not working, Until you realize mine
- 1:45:33has frauden, that team, that thing, so, until you realize that
- 1:45:46this feministic agenda, and make no mistake, the single parent pandemic we have
- 1:45:56going on is a direct byproduct of familisy. Until you realize that this is
- 1:46:02actually a toxic trip you're bringing onto ourselves, none of this will change.
- 1:46:10We will have more mass shootings, we will have more women getting growth in
- 1:46:15busses. We will have more boys being simps. We have more men unable
- 1:46:20to know, more boys unable to take responsibility of becoming men and of the
- 1:46:29responsibility that is the body product of sex, which is kids. Okay,
- 1:46:34men that can't handle manages, men that can't run homes, because you actually
- 1:46:43run a home. The most expensive thing is a man that you can never
- 1:46:46see. Then do is become a family man. But it's it's the whole
- 1:46:55point of us being alive. So until as women your realize this, the
- 1:47:01feministic agenda is known for you go back to your mother. Actually, no,
- 1:47:09by pass your mother, she's infected to just go to your grandmother.
- 1:47:15Tell her to teach you how to be a wife. Go to your grandmother
- 1:47:20and tell her teach me how to teach me how to keep a man.
- 1:47:26These are very very different concept between getting and keeping. You think you will
- 1:47:32keep a man because you know how to chill her server in different positions,
- 1:47:38because you're flexible. No, so it's one married, very flexible, and
- 1:47:44younger than you. Younger is always better. He told you the concept of
- 1:47:48the rose. Yep, how do you know you're buying a good rose?
- 1:47:51Joey, the one that has not opened her When you press it, it's
- 1:48:00tight. That's a good one. That comment was not about roses. Whatever
- 1:48:10you do with that information, it's up to you, okay. So go
- 1:48:15to your grandmother. Learn how to keep your legs closed, learn how to
- 1:48:20sit like when you were No, I canna come up kill we do m
- 1:48:28I saw a woman sitting in an uber. I was in the next car,
- 1:48:33and I could probably see more than I needed to, Like what you
- 1:48:39mean? First of all, it's some tiny and then you know these ubers
- 1:48:43that look like two ticks, tiny tiny thing. And then so you know,
- 1:48:46Candash rolls like candish they're having some really you know, fell by four.
- 1:48:51So I can literally sit down, like if I roll down my window,
- 1:48:56Like, what's you other? You haven't someone say I heard one in
- 1:49:08the morning? Tell me maybe at I was like, how do you?
- 1:49:13How do you sing when we are winning? Just see I can't. You've
- 1:49:25not joined the me. She knows I can't. We too, nan,
- 1:49:39but she knows me. Then you commando, You see I have not I
- 1:49:46didn't say I don't wear pH balance is good, okay, mister. If
- 1:50:00it smells fishy, so let me tell you how to avoid the tea eyes
- 1:50:05all those days. Your fingers will tell you. This is your little mass
- 1:50:11paper. Yes, this is your little mass paper. Find out where you're
- 1:50:19going. Is this skiff to get into this skive? Yes, that's what.
- 1:50:30It's safe because your man now catfish. Nah, use your fingers before
- 1:50:41you start oozing, okay like, and then make sure your fingers don't have
- 1:50:45cuticles that you'll nah. Just get in there, give it the sniff test.
- 1:50:53If he passes the sniff test, we are good to go. But
- 1:50:59as as as what Jib was saying earlier, know that yourself don't get trapped
- 1:51:06type is not on our side here. Apparently Producer is telling me wrap it
- 1:51:13up. I always do. Safe sex is the best best sex. Jo.
- 1:51:20I think there was a black version of Fifty Shades of Gray starring one
- 1:51:25of them were brothers. I can't remember which. You send us a link
- 1:51:30me, No, no, we need the black Let me if they head
- 1:51:35done fifty Shades of Gray black with some black people, trust me, that
- 1:51:45will be poor because black have you even seen a black woman naked? God?
- 1:51:54Single mothers don't know the significance of teaching boys to be standing up.
- 1:51:59Yeah, stop telling your sons to sit down to bee. Okay's gonna say,
- 1:52:21I don't have time to be choking a woman during sex. You take
- 1:52:29what your what's your span? Choke? I have to go to work?
- 1:52:41What do you mean? But anyway, I'm curious. But anyway, this
- 1:52:45this topic is is vast. We can discuss it from so many angles.
- 1:52:50We can. We can dissect it from advantages, disadvantages and re percussions.
- 1:53:00But we do not control the fourth dimension. Okay, that locks us in
- 1:53:08cc A Naki, Okay, we do not come from the build. If
- 1:53:15you know, you know, releaveus. Ah as we wind up, I
- 1:53:24want to get your final thoughts. Then I'll give my closing remarks. Danny
- 1:53:29Talks will be around. Next time Danny Talks, we will be waiting for
- 1:53:35the most opinionated man of the hemisphere on this camera. The ladies Sandwich want
- 1:53:58talks. She has lost some more parts of our skill little makeup, so
- 1:54:12we're going to wish her the best of recoveries. She'll be in tomorrow,
- 1:54:18very energetic, less bones. But it's all love. It's all love,
- 1:54:26um Keith. They still have the chats right here. Yeah, they raised
- 1:54:32the chat all the chats because they don't want this true, healthy discussion on
- 1:54:36the platform concerning black men and women in our chats, they're still there.
- 1:54:45Danny Hyson is saying, no, if it smells like fish, that's some
- 1:54:48bad couchie. You can keep that. It's the k one. Yeah,
- 1:54:58are you afraid to say? They keep on saying it. They google those
- 1:55:01words the margin, They keep on asking how the color, and then they
- 1:55:10come and tell you I that I am a member of the press. Fatality
- 1:55:16you most want to get my media card canceled on because I say the king
- 1:55:23words. Okay, so I want to hear your opinions and then we can
- 1:55:30close this. Well, personally, I feel like one woman should stop.
- 1:55:39We need to learn our models. We need to go back to our models.
- 1:55:44We need to say yesterday in time because they don't know how to stopping
- 1:55:51with the nights. I mean, you don't have to go along with everything.
- 1:55:56There's something I had. I think it was some of those men and
- 1:56:00this time today if it was, I'm not sure if it was you,
- 1:56:02but someone you may not going with trends. You can a going with that,
- 1:56:08especially yes, exactly, you see something new you want to go along?
- 1:56:13Did you shine. You know, everything you're seeing on the gram or
- 1:56:17TikTok and everything just be you, okay, and that is the simple times.
- 1:56:30You know, if you want to become a simple mom, we can
- 1:56:35make you one down everything. You can be paid one exactly. But you're
- 1:56:41gonna be raising some week. It's a mom some weak man men. So
- 1:56:45you're gonna be teaching your shoe driving things in times of the girl's house become
- 1:56:50the other version, the same same version of you being you know, So
- 1:56:59just be careful. Choices are very very important. May be very careful.
- 1:57:09With one choice can bring you can run everything of your life everything people,
- 1:57:18So be very careful. And that's my conclusions. Okay, um, my
- 1:57:25conclusion is there's no merits to single parenting. So if you're they are being
- 1:57:30told that I can raise a child by yourself. If you're they're being told
- 1:57:34that, you know, you don't have to stay with this man for you
- 1:57:38to raise the child, that is it is a lie. I told you
- 1:57:42one and I will repeat again. They had no merits of single parenting.
- 1:57:47I hope you have enjoyed the show. This has been to Bungay. My
- 1:57:50name is Katie, and to raise the child to single page. Look at
- 1:58:09the society. This is an African po The say the child that doesn't be
- 1:58:15accepted by by the village burns down the village until next time. This has
- 1:58:23been camplished on the Black of Fire network with the best show one video two
- 1:58:30bok Let's talk until next time child show of the network. Of course,
- 1:58:46that's applying double m hmmmacrats you come your work speaker. Y're a little short time