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Why You Can’t Stop People-Pleasing (Even When You Know Better)
People-pleasing is rarely just about being nice. It’s often rooted in fear of conflict, fear of rejection, and early experiences where approval felt tied to safety. This episode breaks down why insight alone doesn’t stop people-pleasing, why resentment builds after saying yes too quickly, and how trauma shapes the urge to over-function in relationships.
You’ll hear how people-pleasing operates in real time, what it protects against, and why pushing yourself to “just set boundaries” usually backfires. The focus stays practical: how internal pressure shifts, how urgency softens, and what…
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