Latest / QUESTION EVERYTHING / Creating Systemic Change: Keely Cat-Wells on The Untapped Power of the Disabled Community
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- 0:04Speaker 1: Big things happen when you're pretty, pretty bold, pretty clever,
- 0:08Speaker 1: pretty strong. I'm Danielle Robe and each week my guests
- 0:12Speaker 1: and I have conversations that put a new spin on
- 0:15Speaker 1: pretty This is pretty smart. I don't know about you,
- 0:20Speaker 1: but I had a week last week. I hope you
- 0:25Speaker 1: didn't have a week like I had. You know, they
- 0:27Speaker 1: happened once in a while, and I was just kind
- 0:32Speaker 1: of taken out. I was not productive, I was exhausted,
- 0:37Speaker 1: and it took me some time to climb my way
- 0:40Speaker 1: back to what feels like normal. This week's going a
- 0:44Speaker 1: lot better. So Hello, I hope you're having a beautiful day.
- 0:50Speaker 1: I have to tell you today's episode means quite a
- 0:52Speaker 1: lot to me. Our guest is Kilee Catwells, and she's
- 0:58Speaker 1: someone I care a lot about. And this topic just
- 1:03Speaker 1: generally doesn't get covered, the deep and pervasive discrimination faced
- 1:08Speaker 1: by disabled people. And then I say that sentence, and
- 1:13Speaker 1: I think, what is the inverse of that? The opposite
- 1:17Speaker 1: question of the deep and pervasive discrimination is what are
- 1:23Speaker 1: we all missing by undervaluing this community, Because just like
- 1:28Speaker 1: every marginalized community, there is an untapped power in the
- 1:32Speaker 1: disabled community, and I don't think it's getting enough attention.
- 1:36Speaker 1: If I'm being truly honest with you, I didn't give
- 1:40Speaker 1: it enough attention. My best friend from high school works
- 1:44Speaker 1: with children with disabilities, and when she was in school,
- 1:48Speaker 1: she would tell me just how extensive the challenges and
- 1:51Speaker 1: discrimination can be. But it wasn't until I met Keighley,
- 1:56Speaker 1: our guest today, and her business partner, Sophie Morgan, that
- 2:00Speaker 1: I really started to grasp how foundational these issues are.
- 2:04Speaker 1: I didn't know until I saw it close up. Society
- 2:08Speaker 1: is set up around non disabled norms, which means the needs,
- 2:12Speaker 1: the perspectives, the stories of disabled people just are not
- 2:16Speaker 1: seen as a priority, and then if they do get attention,
- 2:19Speaker 1: it's usually through a very specific, narrow lens, like the
- 2:23Speaker 1: heroic disabled person. That narrative tends to glorify struggle without
- 2:28Speaker 1: addressing real issues rights and needs. I also think it
- 2:32Speaker 1: can make any disabled person feel like they have to
- 2:37Speaker 1: be heroic, and that's not the only path. I feel
- 2:40Speaker 1: like everyone has the right to be mediocre, just like
- 2:44Speaker 1: anybody else. You know. So here's something that might surprise you.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Twenty six percent of adults in the US, that's one
- 2:53Speaker 1: in four people have some form of disability. We're talking
- 2:57Speaker 1: over sixty one million Americans, and yet the stats are
- 3:01Speaker 1: pretty staggering. The employment rate for disabled adults is just
- 3:05Speaker 1: twenty one point three percent, and to understand how low
- 3:08Speaker 1: that is, the employment rate for adults without disabilities sixty
- 3:14Speaker 1: five point four percent. That's a third less than a third.
- 3:19Speaker 1: Disabled individuals are also more likely to live in poverty,
- 3:22Speaker 1: with a rate of twenty five point five percent, which
- 3:26Speaker 1: is more than double that of those without disabilities. These
- 3:29Speaker 1: disparities are not just numbers. I know it's hard to
- 3:32Speaker 1: hear the numbers and internalize them, but what they really
- 3:36Speaker 1: are are barriers that show up in so many ways.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Think about websites and apps. They're often not designed to
- 3:43Speaker 1: be accessible. Public transportation can be so inconsistent, leaving people stranded.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Even basic activities like going to social events or accessing
- 3:54Speaker 1: medical care can be riddled with challenges, especially for those
- 3:57Speaker 1: with invisible disabilities. And how about this. Banking systems still
- 4:03Speaker 1: aren't fully accessible, which makes it hard for people to
- 4:06Speaker 1: manage their finances independently. Even something as basic as voting,
- 4:10Speaker 1: a fundamental right in America, can be a struggle. Despite
- 4:14Speaker 1: legal protections, many polling places aren't set up to be
- 4:17Speaker 1: fully accessible, which can disenfranchise voters who need additional support.
- 4:21Speaker 1: And honestly, those are off the top of my head.
- 4:25Speaker 1: But how about this stat If we all live long enough,
- 4:28Speaker 1: most of us will experience some form of disability at
- 4:32Speaker 1: some point in our lives. It could be vision, hearing,
- 4:37Speaker 1: we could break a leg. So, with the knowledge that
- 4:40Speaker 1: all of us, to varying degrees, are affected by accessibility,
- 4:45Speaker 1: why are we not doing the work when there's still
- 4:47Speaker 1: so much work to do? Our guest, Kiey Catwells is
- 4:52Speaker 1: truly leading the charge. She's not just changing the conversation
- 4:58Speaker 1: around disability, she's creating systemic change. From founding her own
- 5:03Speaker 1: talent agency See Talent to launching making Space Media, she's
- 5:08Speaker 1: made it her mission to amplify the voices and talents
- 5:12Speaker 1: of disabled people across industries. And Killey's work is about
- 5:16Speaker 1: recognizing the value, the skills, and the economic power that
- 5:19Speaker 1: already exists within the disabled community and making sure that
- 5:24Speaker 1: the world sees it.
- 5:25Speaker 2: The buying power of disabled people has completely been underestimated.
- 5:29Speaker 2: It's thirteen trillion dollars in global buying power. We often
- 5:33Speaker 2: have to tell people, remind people, educate people, convince them
- 5:38Speaker 2: to see it and talk about that economic power of
- 5:43Speaker 2: the disabled community and that untapped market. But if we
- 5:47Speaker 2: don't address the human rights aspect, then we will not
- 5:50Speaker 2: have systemic change.
- 5:52Speaker 1: Killey's journey started with a love of dance. At just seventeen,
- 5:56Speaker 1: she was on the brink of her dream career as
- 5:59Speaker 1: a dancer performed in the West End. But then her
- 6:02Speaker 1: life took an unexpected turn, one that would have crushed
- 6:05Speaker 1: many of us. After enduring a series of misdiagnoses, invasive surgeries,
- 6:11Speaker 1: and medical malpractice, Killey found herself facing a new reality,
- 6:16Speaker 1: living with a permanent disability, and just like that, her
- 6:20Speaker 1: dance dreams were over. I'm being vague with details because
- 6:24Speaker 1: I want Killey to tell you her story, but I
- 6:28Speaker 1: will say her story took a detour through some of
- 6:31Speaker 1: the toughest challenges anyone could face. She was in a
- 6:36Speaker 1: really brutal mental health space and then someone said something
- 6:40Speaker 1: that changed her.
- 6:42Speaker 2: You said, you need to take yourself out of your
- 6:43Speaker 2: own pity pit, like stop focusing on you. You just
- 6:47Speaker 2: have to find a way to give.
- 6:49Speaker 1: So she did. She started first with her talent agency
- 6:52Speaker 1: see Talent, and now with Making Space Media, which focuses
- 6:56Speaker 1: on producing TV, film and promotional content that centers the
- 6:59Speaker 1: disabled voice, and she and Sophie have a first look
- 7:03Speaker 1: deal with Hello Sunshine.
- 7:05Speaker 2: Disabled people are some of the most creative, intelligent, skilled,
- 7:11Speaker 2: qualified people you will ever find, and they have been
- 7:14Speaker 2: left on the table for far too long.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Keighley's approach is direct. She's not interested in inspiring stories
- 7:21Speaker 1: that focus on struggle. Instead, she wants to focus on
- 7:25Speaker 1: what the world gains when it includes and invests in
- 7:27Speaker 1: the disabled community. Her work has led to unprecedented initiatives,
- 7:32Speaker 1: including groundbreaking partnerships with major networks, and she's constantly advocating
- 7:37Speaker 1: for systemic change, like making workplaces truly accessible and breaking
- 7:41Speaker 1: down stereotypes that have kept talented people out of the conversation.
- 7:45Speaker 1: This episode is about Keelley's story, and it's about the
- 7:49Speaker 1: bigger picture, how business, media and communities can do better
- 7:54Speaker 1: and why they should. So I'm asking the questions, what
- 7:58Speaker 1: changes have been made, what changes need to be made,
- 8:03Speaker 1: and what responsibility do we all have to pitch in.
- 8:06Speaker 1: Keighi's insights are a call to action for all of
- 8:09Speaker 1: us to think more inclusively and to understand that systemic
- 8:13Speaker 1: changes benefit everybody, not just to select few. I think
- 8:17Speaker 1: that's really important to note. It could be easy to
- 8:20Speaker 1: look at the title of this episode and think, Hmmm,
- 8:24Speaker 1: this one doesn't apply to me. But it does because
- 8:27Speaker 1: whether it's breaking down barriers in Hollywood or any industry,
- 8:32Speaker 1: it's reshaping how we think about systems and accessibility. Kighey's
- 8:38Speaker 1: vision is clear. It's time for the world to catch up. Kiley,
- 8:47Speaker 1: Welcome to Pretty Smart.
- 8:49Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me, thrilled to be here.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Thank you for coming. Okay, So before we even begin,
- 8:55Speaker 1: I have a favor to ask you. So, I think
- 8:58Speaker 1: disability language is for ever evolving, and if I say
- 9:02Speaker 1: anything that is not up to date, I need you
- 9:05Speaker 1: to check me.
- 9:06Speaker 2: I love you for that. I definitely will, but I
- 9:08Speaker 2: will say one thing with language, I think people tend
- 9:11Speaker 2: to get so wrapped up in it and it's used
- 9:13Speaker 2: as like this superficial way not to get into the
- 9:15Speaker 2: deeper issues. So I certainly will, and I so appreciate
- 9:18Speaker 2: you saying that. But that is my like, that's my caveat. Yeah,
- 9:21Speaker 2: I like that.
- 9:22Speaker 1: I'm with you. Okay, So, before you were an entrepreneur,
- 9:26Speaker 1: before you raised millions of dollars, before your advocacy work
- 9:31Speaker 1: you're a ballerina living in London. Tell me a little
- 9:35Speaker 1: bit about little KIGHI Were you a happy kid?
- 9:40Speaker 2: I was. I was so. I grew up on a
- 9:42Speaker 2: farm in West Sussex, in the middle of nowhere, in
- 9:46Speaker 2: the countryside of England, and I had the best childhood ever.
- 9:51Speaker 2: I really I loved it. I loved it other than school.
- 9:55Speaker 2: I loved it so my parents, they had their own business.
- 9:59Speaker 2: They they really put me to work very young, and
- 10:02Speaker 2: I just I loved it. I enjoyed running around being free.
- 10:06Speaker 2: But then when school happened, I did not enjoy it
- 10:09Speaker 2: so much. I was bullied pretty badly as a kid,
- 10:12Speaker 2: but that made me spend more time at home on
- 10:15Speaker 2: the farm and then eventually working. From a really young age,
- 10:19Speaker 2: I didn't know you were bullied very badly, and I
- 10:22Speaker 2: still to this day don't know why. I think I
- 10:25Speaker 2: am dyslexic. I did get diagnosed with dyslexia at a
- 10:28Speaker 2: young age, and I was often separated in the classroom,
- 10:31Speaker 2: and I think that definitely didn't help. But I think also,
- 10:34Speaker 2: like I lived on a farm, like I went to school,
- 10:37Speaker 2: I'd do the horses in the morning and I would
- 10:39Speaker 2: probably smell like a farm and kids don't. They don't
- 10:43Speaker 2: get it, they don't like that, and I was maybe
- 10:46Speaker 2: just slightly weird to them.
- 10:48Speaker 1: Do you carry that with you to this day?
- 10:51Speaker 2: Definitely, Yeah, definitely in what ways. I think, like all
- 10:55Speaker 2: of us would obviously this in this world, were made
- 10:58Speaker 2: to be so conscious ourselves. I have always been very
- 11:02Speaker 2: self conscious, and I think because of that bullying, but
- 11:07Speaker 2: I think it's also in a positive way. Everything that
- 11:10Speaker 2: I do, I try and do it with as much
- 11:12Speaker 2: kindness as I possibly can. Yeah, And I truly believe
- 11:15Speaker 2: that kindness can change the world. And so those small
- 11:19Speaker 2: simple things, those small simple gestures that people can make,
- 11:22Speaker 2: I think people have often don't realize how much they
- 11:25Speaker 2: mean to people. So I think in a good way.
- 11:27Speaker 2: It's affected the way that I think about treating other
- 11:30Speaker 2: people and not perfect in any way, shape or form.
- 11:33Speaker 2: And there's probably people out there who have been like, wow,
- 11:36Speaker 2: she wasn't kind to me. But I try so so
- 11:39Speaker 2: hard to make sure that everything I do is with kindness.
- 11:42Speaker 1: I think we'd be hard pressed to find somebody who
- 11:44Speaker 1: felt like you weren't kind for them. So you dreamed
- 11:47Speaker 1: of being a musical theater dancer on West End and
- 11:50Speaker 1: on Broadway stages and you were seventeen years old and
- 11:52Speaker 1: living in London training to be a dancer, and then
- 11:56Speaker 1: what happened.
- 11:58Speaker 2: So I also when I was in school, so I
- 12:03Speaker 2: started dance very young because of the bullying. My mum
- 12:06Speaker 2: was trying to find spaces for me where I could belong,
- 12:09Speaker 2: and immediately gravitated towards dance. So when I was around
- 12:14Speaker 2: maybe nine, I started performing in the West End and
- 12:17Speaker 2: started working from, as I say, a really young age.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And then when I was seventeen, the dream had always
- 12:24Speaker 2: been to move to London go to one of the
- 12:27Speaker 2: big dance academies, and I got into the one that
- 12:31Speaker 2: was at the top of my list. The previous year
- 12:34Speaker 2: I hadn't got into that school and I was so disappointed.
- 12:37Speaker 2: So it was such a big deal that I'd got
- 12:39Speaker 2: in the second time around this year. And I remember
- 12:43Speaker 2: starting everything was fine, I felt fine, but then relatively
- 12:48Speaker 2: soon into training, I just started to just get sick.
- 12:52Speaker 2: I'd just be in pain, symptoms that I couldn't really explain,
- 12:56Speaker 2: and then started to go to doctors try and get
- 13:00Speaker 2: some answers. Thought it would be maybe a relatively hopefully
- 13:04Speaker 2: simple fix, but then was consistently told that I was
- 13:09Speaker 2: making it up, that it was all in my head.
- 13:11Speaker 2: That is the saying that stays with me forever, that
- 13:14Speaker 2: it's all in your head, and just being so dismissed
- 13:18Speaker 2: by the medical system and having to try and find answers,
- 13:23Speaker 2: and then that led to many, many years of searching
- 13:28Speaker 2: and medical malpractice and mistreatment by the whole system.
- 13:34Speaker 1: Wow, I actually didn't know that about your story. Yeah,
- 13:38Speaker 1: what were you eventually diagnosed with?
- 13:41Speaker 2: So it's quite complicated. So I originally got told that
- 13:46Speaker 2: I had Chrome's colitis, autoimmune, various other things, and then
- 13:51Speaker 2: I was given I had a surgery, and then long
- 13:55Speaker 2: story short, had about eight surgeries in less than a year,
- 13:59Speaker 2: continued to get tests. I would get told by one
- 14:03Speaker 2: doctor that I had one thing, get told by another
- 14:05Speaker 2: doctor that I had another thing, and then none of
- 14:07Speaker 2: these doctors would communicate with each other. There's a massive
- 14:10Speaker 2: communication issue with doctors and specialists. They just do not
- 14:15Speaker 2: speak to each other. So I ended up getting put
- 14:19Speaker 2: on a surgical emergency ward after a surgery that I
- 14:21Speaker 2: had that went wrong, and that surgery led to me
- 14:25Speaker 2: having a permanent ilostomy, which was something especially as a dancer.
- 14:31Speaker 2: I was terrified about because it completely changes your body
- 14:36Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. But saying that it
- 14:40Speaker 2: stopped so many of the symptoms that that were so
- 14:44Speaker 2: just disabling. But it's weird how it made me disabled,
- 14:50Speaker 2: but it actually freed me in so many ways. So
- 14:54Speaker 2: it's very complicated. The diagnosis piece is very layered and complex.
- 15:00Speaker 1: Did you get a call that something had gone wrong
- 15:02Speaker 1: or you felt like something had gone wrong?
- 15:04Speaker 2: So I knew as soon as I woke up that
- 15:07Speaker 2: something had gone wrong.
- 15:08Speaker 1: How do you know?
- 15:09Speaker 2: Just didn't feel right? And I because I at that
- 15:12Speaker 2: point woken up from so many surgeries, and you know
- 15:15Speaker 2: the difference between like normal pain and not normal pain.
- 15:20Speaker 2: I think, Okay, I just knew, and that doctor is
- 15:23Speaker 2: actually going through I think a lot of legal battles
- 15:27Speaker 2: right now in the UK, So I was kind of
- 15:30Speaker 2: I felt tested on like a guinea pig in many ways.
- 15:33Speaker 2: For a long time. There was a lot of experimental
- 15:37Speaker 2: surgeries and things that I shouldn't have been put through,
- 15:39Speaker 2: and that was definitely one of them. And still to
- 15:42Speaker 2: this day, I still have issues because of that specific surgery.
- 15:47Speaker 2: That's hard.
- 15:47Speaker 1: It's like it's as you said that that's hard. For
- 15:49Speaker 1: me to even hear. Do you still feel devastated by it?
- 15:53Speaker 2: I feel so let down by the system that's supposed
- 15:57Speaker 2: to save you, and I still I think and I
- 16:00Speaker 2: try and block it out in so many ways. I
- 16:02Speaker 2: have definitely not dealt with it yet. It just gave
- 16:06Speaker 2: me a completely new perspective, and especially as a white
- 16:10Speaker 2: woman like I get so privileged, right, but this helps us.
- 16:16Speaker 2: I can't even explain it. I can't even explain it.
- 16:18Speaker 2: It just completely new perspective on life.
- 16:23Speaker 1: How did your life changed when you realized you were
- 16:26Speaker 1: going to have to give up on your dream of
- 16:28Speaker 1: being a dancer.
- 16:30Speaker 2: I went through a long phase of depression. I didn't
- 16:37Speaker 2: think I wanted to be around anymore. I thought everything
- 16:41Speaker 2: I was done, and I actually remember being in hospital
- 16:45Speaker 2: and I didn't want any visitors. I didn't want anyone
- 16:47Speaker 2: to come and see me. And that was for a
- 16:49Speaker 2: long time. So I was in hospital, in and out,
- 16:52Speaker 2: but mainly in for about four years. And I didn't
- 16:55Speaker 2: have I didn't really want anyone to come and see me.
- 16:57Speaker 2: But someone a friend, someone who at the time was
- 17:01Speaker 2: a teacher at one of the schools that I was
- 17:03Speaker 2: well at, the school that I was trying to go
- 17:04Speaker 2: to and she came in and she was like, you
- 17:07Speaker 2: just have to find a way to give. Yeah, And
- 17:10Speaker 2: that completely changed my life. And it took me such
- 17:13Speaker 2: a long time to realize what she'd actually said to me,
- 17:16Speaker 2: but in that moment, I was like, okay, and she said,
- 17:19Speaker 2: you need to take yourself out of your own pity pit, like,
- 17:22Speaker 2: stop focusing on you. You're being so selfish right now,
- 17:24Speaker 2: stop focusing on you. Take yourself out of that pity
- 17:28Speaker 2: pit and give. And that was the switch that was like, Okay,
- 17:32Speaker 2: So I may not have the dream that I always wanted,
- 17:35Speaker 2: I may not be able to go on the path
- 17:36Speaker 2: that I always thought I was going to go down,
- 17:38Speaker 2: but maybe I can help other people go down their
- 17:40Speaker 2: paths and achieve their dreams. And then that led to
- 17:44Speaker 2: the start of me just trying to help friends get
- 17:46Speaker 2: jobs within the entertainment industry and eventually spiraled into a
- 17:52Speaker 2: much bigger kind of direction in life.
- 17:56Speaker 1: Did you notice people reacting to you or treating you
- 17:59Speaker 1: differently when you became disabled?
- 18:01Speaker 2: So when I first came out of hospital, and it's
- 18:05Speaker 2: really interesting when I came out of hospital, although they
- 18:09Speaker 2: kind of give you your initial like medical supplies that
- 18:13Speaker 2: you're going to need. They give you the number of
- 18:14Speaker 2: the places that you're going to have to continuously keep
- 18:17Speaker 2: ordering medical supplies from for the rest of your life,
- 18:19Speaker 2: and all these other things. They don't actually say like, oh, congratulations,
- 18:24Speaker 2: welcome to the disabled community.
- 18:26Speaker 1: It's not like.
- 18:27Speaker 2: That kind of graduation. So for for a while, I
- 18:33Speaker 2: just I didn't even know that I was disabled, and
- 18:38Speaker 2: I didn't expect people to treat me any differently. But
- 18:41Speaker 2: I do remember having and because I have a hidden disability,
- 18:46Speaker 2: sometimes I use a cane and sometimes I don't, And
- 18:49Speaker 2: when I have a cane, it is very interesting to
- 18:51Speaker 2: see the difference of how people react and treat me.
- 18:57Speaker 2: But I do remember when I got on the bus
- 19:00Speaker 2: time pretty soon after coming out hospital, and I really
- 19:03Speaker 2: needed to sit down, and I sat in where it
- 19:07Speaker 2: had like the disabled sticker thing where it was specifically
- 19:10Speaker 2: allocated to disabled people. And I remember sitting in that
- 19:12Speaker 2: seat and someone was getting so mad at me and
- 19:15Speaker 2: just selating me and saying like, oh, I'll take the
- 19:18Speaker 2: advantage of the system, don't be so ridiculous, like all
- 19:22Speaker 2: these horrible things, and I had I did not have
- 19:25Speaker 2: the energy or the confidence to say, actually, I live
- 19:30Speaker 2: with a hidden disability. I need to sit because of X,
- 19:34Speaker 2: y Z reason And that was the first kind of
- 19:37Speaker 2: small realization like, oh, okay, things are going to be
- 19:41Speaker 2: slightly different. And I do remember running out of medical
- 19:44Speaker 2: supplies for the first time because I completely forgot that
- 19:47Speaker 2: I have medical admin now and I need to remember
- 19:50Speaker 2: to consistently make sure I have a stock pile of
- 19:52Speaker 2: medical stuff and being like, oh my god, I can't
- 19:54Speaker 2: leave my home because I don't have what I need,
- 19:57Speaker 2: and things like that started to become real.
- 20:02Speaker 1: Yeah, So you say disability comes in money forms and
- 20:06Speaker 1: many different lived in experiences. In recognizing that wide range,
- 20:12Speaker 1: how do you understand yours?
- 20:15Speaker 2: So great question. So I for the longest time would
- 20:19Speaker 2: say I'm not disabled, I'm chronically ill. And I didn't
- 20:24Speaker 2: realize the full breadth of the disabled community. I had,
- 20:28Speaker 2: because of the media, a very limited knowledge of what
- 20:32Speaker 2: disability means. And if we'd look at representation that we've
- 20:35Speaker 2: seen within film and TV, it's usually been disabled people
- 20:38Speaker 2: have been either the villains, victims or inspirations and these
- 20:42Speaker 2: very specific tropes, and I was like, I don't fit
- 20:45Speaker 2: into any of those. And I also thought only disabled
- 20:48Speaker 2: people there wheelchair users, right, had no idea that it
- 20:52Speaker 2: encompassed everyone who was neurodivergent, who was chronically ill, who
- 20:57Speaker 2: were ambilatory wheelchair users, and all of these differ lived experiences.
- 21:01Speaker 2: So and I'm still uncovering it to this day. I'm
- 21:05Speaker 2: still trying to continuously remind myself that you can also
- 21:09Speaker 2: be proud of being disabled while having a complicated relationship
- 21:12Speaker 2: with on medical conditions. Yeah, and that's something that I
- 21:15Speaker 2: struggle to continue to remind myself.
- 21:18Speaker 1: Not waiting. It seems like such a character trait of yours.
- 21:22Speaker 1: You just constantly pushed forward. I kind of think of
- 21:25Speaker 1: Ariana Grande because she's like this tiny little girl, so
- 21:29Speaker 1: beautiful and has this insane voice and no one expects
- 21:33Speaker 1: the voice to come out of her. And that's how
- 21:35Speaker 1: I feel when I look at you, like a tiny,
- 21:37Speaker 1: beautiful girl and like a huge amount of just like
- 21:42Speaker 1: ambition and leadership qualities and pushing forward. That's the word. Really,
- 21:51Speaker 1: it's pretty remarkable. I was surprised to learn that you
- 21:54Speaker 1: got fired at one point.
- 21:57Speaker 2: Which time, What do you mean, which time were you
- 22:01Speaker 2: fired multiple times? I mean, I do, I don't know.
- 22:03Speaker 2: It was at the time when I was having to
- 22:05Speaker 2: serve coffees. I was so bad. It was up like
- 22:07Speaker 2: seven flights of stairs. They didn't like let us take
- 22:10Speaker 2: the elevators, and I was I had already come out
- 22:12Speaker 2: of hospital. This was like one of my first internship opportunities.
- 22:16Speaker 2: And I couldn't take the stairs because of my disability,
- 22:18Speaker 2: but they wouldn't let me take the elevator because it's
- 22:22Speaker 2: you can't take the elevator because only the important people
- 22:24Speaker 2: go in the elevator, not the interns. And I had
- 22:27Speaker 2: to serve coffees. So I would be so bad because
- 22:30Speaker 2: I physically could not get up and down the stairs.
- 22:32Speaker 2: Oh god, So I got fired from that job.
- 22:35Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not the one. That's what I thought about,
- 22:37Speaker 1: But that's wild. Was that your job in Hollywood? No,
- 22:40Speaker 1: that was in England, So what's the one in Hollywood?
- 22:43Speaker 2: So I ended up losing a job because of disability discrimination.
- 22:48Speaker 2: When I moved to LA I was so excited about
- 22:53Speaker 2: getting back into the creative industries and looking for all
- 22:55Speaker 2: the different avenues that I could do that, and I
- 22:59Speaker 2: remember were just getting this amazing, amazing opportunity. It was
- 23:04Speaker 2: kind of like that feeling again of when I got
- 23:06Speaker 2: into that dance school in London, and then after disclosing
- 23:10Speaker 2: my medical conditions, after them finding out that it was
- 23:13Speaker 2: to have a permanent eye as to me and I
- 23:14Speaker 2: have various other different accommodations that I need, I got
- 23:19Speaker 2: told that I could no longer have that job, and
- 23:22Speaker 2: it was once again that same feeling of when I
- 23:26Speaker 2: was in dance school and just losing it, and I
- 23:30Speaker 2: continuously by myself because I'm like, it's my health, my
- 23:33Speaker 2: other is stopping me from doing so much. But it's not.
- 23:36Speaker 2: In that case, the environment could have changed, they could
- 23:38Speaker 2: have changed their actions. It could have been such a small, small,
- 23:43Speaker 2: slight change to what they had in their mind, and
- 23:48Speaker 2: they didn't want to do it. It wouldn't have cost
- 23:50Speaker 2: them anything extra. It was just ableism and discrimination. And
- 23:55Speaker 2: I remember when that happened too. I had no idea
- 23:59Speaker 2: that that was against the law right, I had no
- 24:01Speaker 2: idea of my rights. I still probably at that point
- 24:04Speaker 2: didn't openly identify as disabled, but I remember speaking to
- 24:09Speaker 2: other people in the community and them saying, you know,
- 24:12Speaker 2: that's that's not right, Like there are laws to protect you.
- 24:16Speaker 2: There's the ADA in the US, there's the Equalities Act
- 24:19Speaker 2: in the UK, but then also so many friends and
- 24:22Speaker 2: people in the community saying that this happens all the time. Wow,
- 24:26Speaker 2: and there's just this normalization of discrimination. And that was
- 24:31Speaker 2: definitely a light bulb kind of moment of what am
- 24:37Speaker 2: I going to do now?
- 24:40Speaker 1: Is that when you started your talent agency, it is
- 24:43Speaker 1: it is? So what did you name your talent agency?
- 24:46Speaker 2: So I named it See Talent. So it was a
- 24:49Speaker 2: talent agency that specifically represented disabled artists, so disabled actors, writers, directors,
- 24:57Speaker 2: content creators. And I named it see Talent because as
- 25:01Speaker 2: disabled people, we often don't get access to option A
- 25:05Speaker 2: or option B, and we have to create our own
- 25:07Speaker 2: option C. And I was actually taught that by an
- 25:11Speaker 2: amazing disabled artist called Lachi, who is a blind singer, songwriter, musician,
- 25:18Speaker 2: And it was really creating that agency was really the
- 25:23Speaker 2: just the doors opening to finding that pride too in
- 25:26Speaker 2: my own identity and realizing that actually it's going to
- 25:31Speaker 2: be okay. You don't again like you can move tracks,
- 25:35Speaker 2: you can move parts.
- 25:37Speaker 1: What have you learned about your own resilience through all
- 25:39Speaker 1: of this?
- 25:41Speaker 2: I am a very determined and impatient person, and once
- 25:48Speaker 2: I get my mind stuck on something that I want
- 25:52Speaker 2: to achieve, I will do everything in my power to
- 25:56Speaker 2: achieve it. But if something out of my control happens
- 26:01Speaker 2: and that target has to move, I think I've learnt
- 26:06Speaker 2: now that that's okay and you can still make it work.
- 26:11Speaker 1: Have you ever hid your disability or tried to.
- 26:14Speaker 2: Hide it so much? Yes? Oh yes, I wanted to
- 26:18Speaker 2: completely hide it, and I realized very quickly that when
- 26:25Speaker 2: I tried to hide it, I a wasn't my full
- 26:27Speaker 2: self because it is a big part of my identity.
- 26:30Speaker 2: But I also then didn't get the accommodations I needed.
- 26:34Speaker 2: I didn't get the access I needed. I was making
- 26:37Speaker 2: myself unwell and in more pain than I needed to
- 26:41Speaker 2: be because I wasn't advocating for myself. I was just
- 26:45Speaker 2: trying to hide a massive part of myself.
- 26:50Speaker 1: So you don't do it anymore.
- 26:51Speaker 2: I try not to. I try not to. I'm very
- 26:54Speaker 2: proud of this community and very proud to have a
- 27:00Speaker 2: within it, and trying very hard to just use my
- 27:04Speaker 2: own experience and my own lived experience to hopefully forward
- 27:07Speaker 2: the work. But it's still hard. There's it's yeah, it's
- 27:13Speaker 2: an evolving challenge.
- 27:16Speaker 1: Do you mind saying more? When you say it's still hard?
- 27:18Speaker 2: What do you mean I think there's so much shame
- 27:21Speaker 2: that I feel still because you're so you're taught by
- 27:26Speaker 2: society that disability is an inherently bad thing.
- 27:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 27:30Speaker 2: And I also grew up in a household where my
- 27:35Speaker 2: grandparents were like, we're so proud of not having to
- 27:39Speaker 2: use mobility aids, and around me everyone saying, wow, look
- 27:44Speaker 2: there's so old and they don't have to use a
- 27:46Speaker 2: walker or a cane or and and they look so good.
- 27:51Speaker 2: And I know like that just every time someone says that,
- 27:56Speaker 2: it's just a reminder of like, oh, yeah, of course,
- 27:58Speaker 2: like hoping yourself is bad, when it's like, no, actually
- 28:02Speaker 2: I would I benefit from using okay, and it's going
- 28:05Speaker 2: to make me better. There's no shame in doing it.
- 28:08Speaker 2: There is so much internalized ableism that I'm trying to unlearn.
- 28:13Speaker 2: But it's also that period of my life was such
- 28:16Speaker 2: a traumatizing time and I haven't I haven't even spoken
- 28:22Speaker 2: about half of what I went through, and I'm not
- 28:24Speaker 2: ready to yet. One day I will be that I
- 28:28Speaker 2: was abused so badly by that system, and I carry
- 28:32Speaker 2: that within my disability because that's the time of my
- 28:35Speaker 2: life that.
- 28:37Speaker 1: Made that a reality, right, It was the result of
- 28:39Speaker 1: all of that. How much peace have you made with
- 28:46Speaker 1: the cards that you've been dealt with now?
- 28:50Speaker 2: I would say I am in the best place I've
- 28:53Speaker 2: ever been in my life, and I've definitely made peace
- 28:58Speaker 2: with with the journey that I'm now on as opposed
- 29:03Speaker 2: to the one that I could have been. So I
- 29:05Speaker 2: do think there's also that grieving period that you have
- 29:07Speaker 2: to go through realizing that what you wanted to do
- 29:12Speaker 2: is not a reality, and you have to grieve that
- 29:14Speaker 2: like anything else that I'm so excited and grateful for
- 29:18Speaker 2: the people I get to work with and the places
- 29:20Speaker 2: I get to go and the life I get to live.
- 29:23Speaker 2: And I still have pinched myself every day waking up
- 29:25Speaker 2: in La Thor like move out to Los Angeles. I
- 29:29Speaker 2: never realized I feel the same way.
- 29:31Speaker 1: I look at the palm trees and I'm like, I
- 29:33Speaker 1: live here, Like this is amazing.
- 29:35Speaker 2: I know.
- 29:37Speaker 1: Is there any tool or anything that really helped you
- 29:42Speaker 1: unlock some of the depression. Was it a great therapist
- 29:46Speaker 1: or just time alone? Like what helped you?
- 29:49Speaker 2: Definitely friends and family? Wow. And that woman that said
- 29:54Speaker 2: giving is key, and it sounds so corny and so cheesy,
- 29:59Speaker 2: but it really helped me as soon as I took
- 30:03Speaker 2: took the energy off myself and put it onto others.
- 30:07Speaker 2: It was completely life changing. But I still deal with it.
- 30:10Speaker 2: It never goes away. You have to work on it
- 30:12Speaker 2: every single day. But the love of my friends and
- 30:15Speaker 2: my family, and having those deep conversations and being able
- 30:18Speaker 2: to be real with people rather than just those superficial
- 30:22Speaker 2: kind of pretending everything's fine when it's not, and just
- 30:25Speaker 2: really getting into it with people, and also realizing that
- 30:28Speaker 2: everyone is going through something. Even as perfect as things
- 30:31Speaker 2: look on the outside, there's always something happening and you're
- 30:36Speaker 2: not alone in that. And I kind of relate that
- 30:38Speaker 2: to chronic illness and disability as well. I'll get told
- 30:42Speaker 2: so many times like, oh, you look like you're doing
- 30:44Speaker 2: great at the moment. You look fine, You look so
- 30:47Speaker 2: pretty and wonderful, and you look so healthy, and you're like,
- 30:51Speaker 2: I can wish you could see my insides. Yeah, not
- 30:54Speaker 2: so much. So you just never judge a book by
- 30:56Speaker 2: its comer.
- 30:57Speaker 1: Well said, so an untapped power that the disability community holds.
- 31:03Speaker 1: I've always felt like every marginalized group or minority group
- 31:07Speaker 1: holds this untapped power because of their unique experiences like
- 31:11Speaker 1: they can bring something to a situation where other people
- 31:14Speaker 1: totally have blind spots. What, in your opinion, what is
- 31:20Speaker 1: that untapped power?
- 31:22Speaker 2: First and foremost, it's the untapped talent of disabled people. Yeah,
- 31:26Speaker 2: we have not had access to so many rooms and
- 31:30Speaker 2: so many jobs, and so many opportunities and so much
- 31:33Speaker 2: funding just because of the preconceived notions around disabled people.
- 31:38Speaker 2: But disabled people are some of the most creative, intelligent, skilled,
- 31:44Speaker 2: qualified people you will ever find, and they have been
- 31:48Speaker 2: left on the table for far too long. So first
- 31:51Speaker 2: and foremost, it starts with the people. Yeah, But then also,
- 31:53Speaker 2: the buying power of disabled people has completely been underestimated.
- 31:57Speaker 2: It's thirteen trillion dollars in gbal buying power with friends
- 32:01Speaker 2: and family involved within that as well, thirteen trillion, thirteen trillion.
- 32:07Speaker 2: It's huge, it's huge.
- 32:10Speaker 1: Wow.
- 32:10Speaker 2: But it's just been so overlooked. And I will say,
- 32:16Speaker 2: and this is something I learned with my first company,
- 32:21Speaker 2: which is we often have to tell people, remind people,
- 32:26Speaker 2: educate people, convince them to see it, and talk about
- 32:30Speaker 2: that economic power of the disabled community and that untapped market.
- 32:36Speaker 2: But if we don't address the human rights aspect, then
- 32:40Speaker 2: we will not have systemic change. I think that economic
- 32:43Speaker 2: power will get us in the door, but it won't
- 32:46Speaker 2: allow us to stay in the room. And we have
- 32:48Speaker 2: to address the civil rights and human rights aspects as well.
- 32:51Speaker 1: And so what are the civil rights and human rights aspects?
- 32:54Speaker 2: Basic human decency, the ability to be able to go
- 32:59Speaker 2: to work, to have healthcare, to have accessible transportation. So
- 33:05Speaker 2: much of it just still does not exist. We are
- 33:09Speaker 2: so often the last issue to be looked at, even
- 33:13Speaker 2: during the pandemic, to say, when people do not resuscitate,
- 33:17Speaker 2: orders put on their door forcibly because our lives were
- 33:20Speaker 2: deemed as less valuable.
- 33:24Speaker 1: Do you want a magic mine?
- 33:25Speaker 2: I would love to. What is this?
- 33:27Speaker 1: So I'm working with them. It's a productivity shot, so
- 33:30Speaker 1: it boosts energy and helps me focus. But it's all
- 33:34Speaker 1: natural because I don't want to drink a coffee in
- 33:36Speaker 1: the afternoon, I'll never sleep.
- 33:38Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very green. Hopefully I don't spill it. I
- 33:43Speaker 2: know I would spill to I'm very clumsy.
- 33:46Speaker 1: It's delicious though.
- 33:47Speaker 2: Nice.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Yeah, I have one more interview of the day, and
- 33:51Speaker 1: so I have to down one of these before Kimberly comes.
- 33:57Speaker 2: Nice. I like how it is magical magic.
- 34:00Speaker 1: I like that the name is nice night, good name,
- 34:03Speaker 1: magic mind. I know it's good only twelve Magical Ingredients
- 34:08Speaker 1: says it crushes procrastination. There's a twenty eighteen study by
- 34:15Speaker 1: a censure in the American Association of People with Disabilities.
- 34:18Speaker 1: They found three things that I think are worth noting. One,
- 34:22Speaker 1: companies that hire and support people with disabilities within their
- 34:25Speaker 1: workforce have twenty eight percent higher revenue than those that don't. Two,
- 34:30Speaker 1: those companies have higher profit margins. Three, the us GDP
- 34:35Speaker 1: could increase at least twenty five billion dollars if more
- 34:39Speaker 1: people with disabilities were given the opportunity to join the workforce.
- 34:43Speaker 1: That is remarkable from an economic standpoint. We are all
- 34:47Speaker 1: missing out, and that is I guess what moves like capitalism? Right, yep,
- 34:53Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely, And yet studies have shown that disabled people
- 34:58Speaker 1: are more than twice as likely to be on employed
- 35:00Speaker 1: even less likely to graduate from college compared to non
- 35:03Speaker 1: disabled individuals. You are really trying to harness the power
- 35:09Speaker 1: of the disabled community. What power are you trying to
- 35:14Speaker 1: harness to create long lasting change?
- 35:17Speaker 2: I want to see more disabled people in leadership positions. Okay,
- 35:21Speaker 2: disabled people getting the funding, the becoming the CEOs. They
- 35:27Speaker 2: are finally getting the visibility that they deserve, and we're
- 35:33Speaker 2: finally seeing I would love to finally see access beyond
- 35:37Speaker 2: basic compliance become a norm, access to education, access to
- 35:43Speaker 2: access to work, just the basic basic things, because I
- 35:47Speaker 2: think people don't realize how much energy it takes to
- 35:50Speaker 2: have to advocate and ask for the simplest of things.
- 35:55Speaker 1: So when you say simple things, I think of on ramps,
- 35:59Speaker 1: I think of accessible restrooms. I know that's not really
- 36:05Speaker 1: meaningful change. That's like the tip of the iceberg. What
- 36:09Speaker 1: does meaningful change look like?
- 36:11Speaker 2: Definitely the tip of the iceberg. I think a good
- 36:15Speaker 2: example is again the pandemic when disabled people have been
- 36:21Speaker 2: fighting for decades to be able to work from home
- 36:26Speaker 2: and to have that as a basic accommodation, and it
- 36:29Speaker 2: was only when non disabled people needed it and there
- 36:32Speaker 2: was a global pandemic that that accommodation was granted, and
- 36:36Speaker 2: we saw the employment rates of disabled people spike during
- 36:40Speaker 2: that time because we finally got that accommodation granted. And
- 36:43Speaker 2: that's not all disabled people, that is a group of
- 36:46Speaker 2: disabled people. That's not everyone has different access requirements and wants.
- 36:52Speaker 2: But I think it shows the deep seated bias that exists,
- 36:57Speaker 2: and if we just got those just listen to, things
- 37:02Speaker 2: would be so different.
- 37:04Speaker 1: That's a really good example. It costs nothing.
- 37:07Speaker 2: It costs nothing, and even if it does even if
- 37:11Speaker 2: it costs something, usually it is a drop in the bucket.
- 37:16Speaker 2: But if it really doesn't cost in the grand scheme
- 37:20Speaker 2: of things, allowing someone to do their best work, bring
- 37:25Speaker 2: them whole, bring their whole selves to an environment, surely
- 37:30Speaker 2: that it doesn't even matter.
- 37:32Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, so you found it making space media to
- 37:37Speaker 1: center the disabled voice. What are the portrayals of disabled
- 37:41Speaker 1: characters that you want to see on screen in Hollywood?
- 37:44Speaker 2: I want to see I want to normalize disabled people
- 37:47Speaker 2: being experts in subjects beyond just disability. Okay, I want
- 37:51Speaker 2: to see the disabled surgeon, the disabled model, the disabled mom,
- 37:57Speaker 2: the disabled politician, like any role pretty much could be
- 38:03Speaker 2: someone who was disabled.
- 38:04Speaker 1: It does like blind casting.
- 38:06Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, And I do also want to see
- 38:10Speaker 2: the intentional roles as well, Like I want to see
- 38:14Speaker 2: my experience reflected on this screen. I remember coming out
- 38:18Speaker 2: of hospital and just craving seeing someone who had a
- 38:23Speaker 2: similar condition, or an ilioster me, or something that even
- 38:28Speaker 2: the tiniest bit that I could relate to because I
- 38:30Speaker 2: remember googling my condition and googling and Elos to me
- 38:33Speaker 2: just being like, oh my god, I am terrified. And
- 38:36Speaker 2: I was also on award, on the Gastro Award, so
- 38:40Speaker 2: just old people. So it was me and a ton
- 38:42Speaker 2: of old people. So I just wanted to see young, cool, hip,
- 38:45Speaker 2: sexy disabled people and I couldn't find that representation anywhere.
- 38:49Speaker 2: The only piece of representation I found that I could
- 38:52Speaker 2: even slightly relate to was on one of those medical shows. Yeah,
- 38:56Speaker 2: and the person who was receiving the per and then
- 39:00Speaker 2: aust to me, unfortunately chose to have assisted suicide. And
- 39:06Speaker 2: I just remember that chattering my mental health. So I
- 39:09Speaker 2: think often people underestimate the importance of representation in all
- 39:15Speaker 2: its forms on screen. It's so powerful for people's mental
- 39:19Speaker 2: health and what we believe that we can achieve.
- 39:23Speaker 1: Yeah, so the last I read, you raised two million
- 39:27Speaker 1: dollars in your preceed round? Is that correct? Still?
- 39:31Speaker 2: Yes?
- 39:32Speaker 1: First of all, congratulations, thank you. Many people still view
- 39:38Speaker 1: disability through the lens of nonprofit. You say, that's annoying.
- 39:45Speaker 2: Yes, to put it politely, yes, what else do you
- 39:47Speaker 2: say to that? Oh my gosh, like fuck? You can
- 39:51Speaker 2: I say that? I am so mad every time someone says, wow,
- 39:58Speaker 2: I love what your building. It's so cool. Just make
- 40:00Speaker 2: it a charity. It will be so much easier. People
- 40:03Speaker 2: love to give money to poor disabled people. It makes
- 40:06Speaker 2: me so mad, so so mad, and I'm so passionate
- 40:13Speaker 2: about about this untapped opportunity that we haven't seen, but
- 40:18Speaker 2: also about as a disabled entrepreneur there I know and
- 40:22Speaker 2: have so many amazing disabled entrepreneur friends who are so underfunded.
- 40:28Speaker 2: So disabled entrepreneurs are four hundred times less likely to
- 40:31Speaker 2: be funded than non disabled entrepreneurs, four hundred four hundred
- 40:36Speaker 2: times less likely. And I think it's women get less
- 40:40Speaker 2: than two percent capital the disabled people. It's it's hardly
- 40:44Speaker 2: of a check. That four hundred times number came from
- 40:47Speaker 2: the first ever report done on on disabled entrepreneurs, which
- 40:51Speaker 2: was only done, which was done last year.
- 40:54Speaker 1: So were you a part of that.
- 40:56Speaker 2: I was not a part of the report that I am.
- 41:00Speaker 2: I know the people who were, and I'm so proud
- 41:03Speaker 2: to know them, and I'm so grateful for them. Their
- 41:05Speaker 2: work is so needed.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Wow. I think you draw a lot of parallels between
- 41:11Speaker 1: the skills that are required for entrepreneurship and what you've
- 41:15Speaker 1: learned from being disabled, what are the parallels in your mind?
- 41:20Speaker 2: So, and actually something that we've just built on the
- 41:23Speaker 2: tech platform, and the Making Space tech platform is a
- 41:26Speaker 2: tool that turns the lived experiences of disability into transferable skills.
- 41:32Speaker 2: And something that I didn't realize was from having to
- 41:37Speaker 2: manage a quite extensive medical team and keep very good
- 41:42Speaker 2: documentation of every procedure, everything I went through, it would
- 41:49Speaker 2: help with managing my team at work and being organized
- 41:53Speaker 2: in a fundraise. And you really take for granted those
- 41:58Speaker 2: lived experiences, but they can be so beneficial. And also
- 42:02Speaker 2: just being someone who has to navigate the world slightly differently,
- 42:05Speaker 2: and also having to have had learnt that at such
- 42:09Speaker 2: a pivotal time in my life at the age of seventeen,
- 42:12Speaker 2: when you're not supposed to be going through those wild,
- 42:15Speaker 2: life changing experiences, I think has really set me up
- 42:19Speaker 2: for success as an entrepreneur when you have to do
- 42:22Speaker 2: those things very frequently.
- 42:27Speaker 1: I really love the name of your company, Making Space.
- 42:30Speaker 1: You're good at naming things. Thank you for anybody who
- 42:33Speaker 1: doesn't know what's the mission.
- 42:35Speaker 2: So our mission at making Space is to create meaningful
- 42:38Speaker 2: careers for disabled people and to really provide the tools
- 42:42Speaker 2: and the resources for disabled people to become influential leaders.
- 42:46Speaker 2: And I'm incredibly grateful and lucky to be building this
- 42:50Speaker 2: and creating this alongside Sophie Morgan, who is a phenomenal
- 42:55Speaker 2: disability rights advocate and is very fierce as I know.
- 43:00Speaker 2: You know, she could pack a punt. She is, meir, Yeah,
- 43:05Speaker 2: as you can she I love her too. And we,
- 43:11Speaker 2: with Making Space and Making Space Media, really have this
- 43:14Speaker 2: dual approach of through technology we can increase employment and
- 43:20Speaker 2: democratize free and accessible education for disabled people, and then
- 43:24Speaker 2: through the media side, we can really increase disability representation,
- 43:28Speaker 2: tell those untold stories and hopefully just tell tell the
- 43:33Speaker 2: stories that needs.
- 43:34Speaker 1: To be told, the ones that you wanted to see
- 43:36Speaker 1: on screen.
- 43:37Speaker 2: The ones that the seventeen year old me which existed.
- 43:42Speaker 1: So this really sort of shocked me. It was interesting
- 43:46Speaker 1: to learn that the disability rights movement adopted many of
- 43:49Speaker 1: the strategies of the civil rights movements before it. What
- 43:53Speaker 1: do you think most people don't know about the movement
- 43:55Speaker 1: and what did it adopt.
- 43:58Speaker 2: I think a lot of people also they don't recognize
- 44:03Speaker 2: that disability or to also intersects with every other identity
- 44:07Speaker 2: that exists. Yeah, and those disabled people that crawled up
- 44:15Speaker 2: the capital stairs, that that lockdown, and were in those buildings,
- 44:22Speaker 2: those federal buildings for a record amount of time, that
- 44:26Speaker 2: were so resilient and so forceful and so determined and
- 44:30Speaker 2: dedicated to make this change. They put their bodies at risk.
- 44:34Speaker 2: They did whatever it took to get us those very
- 44:38Speaker 2: basic fundamental rights that we deserve. I just think when
- 44:45Speaker 2: people think of disabled people as less as more vulnerable,
- 44:50Speaker 2: as people to be pitied, they need to go and
- 44:53Speaker 2: google the Capital crawl. They need to go and look
- 44:55Speaker 2: at those people who fought for five or four They
- 44:59Speaker 2: need to go and watch those clips because, oh, my goodness.
- 45:02Speaker 1: I haven't seen them.
- 45:03Speaker 2: Oh you have to watch. You have to watch the
- 45:05Speaker 2: film Crip Camp. Crip Camp, Crip Camp on Netflix. Okay,
- 45:08Speaker 2: co directed by Jim Lebrett, who had good friend, amazing human,
- 45:13Speaker 2: very talented director. It really tells those untold stories.
- 45:17Speaker 1: Okay. The Americans with Disabilities Act was signed into law
- 45:21Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety and President Bush said at the time,
- 45:24Speaker 1: let the shameful wall of exclusion finally come tumbling down.
- 45:29Speaker 2: Now.
- 45:29Speaker 1: I was born in nineteen ninety one, so this was
- 45:31Speaker 1: passed a year before I was born. What did it
- 45:36Speaker 1: look like for disabled people before this was pasted?
- 45:40Speaker 2: Do you know it makes me just even emotional even
- 45:44Speaker 2: just thinking about that that day and that time and
- 45:47Speaker 2: how hard people fought for that to be a thing.
- 45:51Speaker 2: I was very grateful to have got to spend time
- 45:55Speaker 2: with Judy Human, who is known as the mother of
- 45:58Speaker 2: disability rights. She sadly passed away a couple of years
- 46:02Speaker 2: ago now, and Judy often talks about her story as
- 46:07Speaker 2: a young girl who had polio, who became disabled, and
- 46:10Speaker 2: who couldn't get access to school. They turned her away
- 46:14Speaker 2: because it wasn't accessible. There was no rights in place,
- 46:17Speaker 2: There was no laws in place for her to be
- 46:20Speaker 2: able to say.
- 46:21Speaker 1: That's not right.
- 46:22Speaker 2: It was just normal for disabled people to be turned
- 46:25Speaker 2: away from education, from employment, from health care, from stores.
- 46:33Speaker 2: And she then wanted to go on to be a
- 46:36Speaker 2: teacher and they did a medical exam and they turned
- 46:42Speaker 2: her away because of her medical condition. And whilst we
- 46:45Speaker 2: still see issues exactly like that today, we have laws
- 46:50Speaker 2: in place to be able to say that's not right,
- 46:52Speaker 2: and the law says it's not right. And it changed
- 46:55Speaker 2: the world. And it is incredible that the ADA has
- 46:59Speaker 2: been used as an example globally as this is how
- 47:03Speaker 2: it should be. This is the best we have, the
- 47:07Speaker 2: best in America. Really, even though it hasn't been really
- 47:11Speaker 2: formally updated or amendered in a very long time, the
- 47:14Speaker 2: ADA still stands as the best law for protecting disabled
- 47:18Speaker 2: people globally.
- 47:20Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't know that, which.
- 47:22Speaker 2: Is slightly scary too.
- 47:23Speaker 1: A little bit because I hear you today saying that
- 47:27Speaker 1: there's so much that still is bad.
- 47:30Speaker 2: There's so much work still to do, but compared to
- 47:33Speaker 2: developing countries and other countries out there who still don't
- 47:38Speaker 2: have anything in place. But also a lot of countries
- 47:41Speaker 2: have used the ADA as a foundation to build to
- 47:45Speaker 2: build their laws on top of as well, which is
- 47:47Speaker 2: really cool.
- 47:48Speaker 1: What are the best ways you found for people to
- 47:51Speaker 1: be an ally to the community.
- 47:53Speaker 2: First and foremost, listen to disabled people, listen to what
- 47:57Speaker 2: we're asking for, and support and advocate as well. So
- 48:04Speaker 2: Sophie founded a campaign called Rights on Flights and she
- 48:08Speaker 2: has been making waves with trying to make travel more accessible.
- 48:12Speaker 2: Flying on an airplane for a wheelchair user, for all
- 48:14Speaker 2: disabled people is extremely frustrating and inaccessible, and the laws
- 48:18Speaker 2: don't apply like the ADA, the Equalities Act, they don't
- 48:21Speaker 2: apply in the air so yeah, so they often you're
- 48:28Speaker 2: just treated so poorly and you have no way to
- 48:30Speaker 2: hold the airlines accountable. So allies can absolutely get behind
- 48:37Speaker 2: these movements that are already there, that already created support them.
- 48:41Speaker 2: We really need the burden to also be taken off
- 48:44Speaker 2: of the disabled people because we're also we're tired. It's exhausting,
- 48:51Speaker 2: and yeah.
- 48:52Speaker 1: It's exhausting, Yeah it is. So as part of making space,
- 48:57Speaker 1: you've recently done some work with NBC.
- 49:00Speaker 2: Yes, so, over the past year we were we began
- 49:04Speaker 2: work with NBC Sports to increase the employment of disabled
- 49:08Speaker 2: people for the broadcasting of the Olympics and the Paralympics.
- 49:12Speaker 2: And through the platform and through training and through sourcing
- 49:16Speaker 2: amazing talent, we were able to work with NBC to
- 49:20Speaker 2: get a historic amount of disabled people hired for the
- 49:24Speaker 2: broadcast of the Olympics and the Paralympics. And one of
- 49:27Speaker 2: the cool things is being able to get disabled people
- 49:30Speaker 2: hired not just for the Paralympics, but also for the Olympics. Wow,
- 49:35Speaker 2: and Sophie will also be the first disabled host of
- 49:39Speaker 2: the Paralympics. But we made a lot of firsts with
- 49:43Speaker 2: NBC and it's been extremely exciting to I think, really
- 49:48Speaker 2: use this as a blueprint for what other people can do.
- 49:50Speaker 2: And it was so simple. It's so easy. There's so
- 49:54Speaker 2: many talented people out there, we just have to break
- 49:57Speaker 2: down the barriers to the opportunities.
- 50:00Speaker 1: You've had so many incredible experiences, met so many interesting people.
- 50:05Speaker 1: Is there something that stands out to you as a moment.
- 50:11Speaker 2: That's a great question. I would actually say getting to
- 50:17Speaker 2: meet Gloria Steinem who is such an icon for lack
- 50:24Speaker 2: of a better word, and getting to learn from people
- 50:29Speaker 2: like Gloria and what they did, the fight that they
- 50:32Speaker 2: went through. And I said with NBC it was easy
- 50:38Speaker 2: NBC and getting disabled people in the door, and getting
- 50:42Speaker 2: talented people hired, that the fight is not easy. But
- 50:49Speaker 2: the simple act of employing people, of treating people with
- 50:53Speaker 2: respect and dignity and recognizing their skill, I mean, that
- 50:56Speaker 2: is so simple. So I think meeting Gloria and learning
- 50:59Speaker 2: about her experiences, and also just realizing that whilst we've
- 51:06Speaker 2: come so far, we're still fighting the same fight in
- 51:11Speaker 2: so many ways.
- 51:12Speaker 1: Do you feel like hearing that it was so difficult
- 51:15Speaker 1: for her makes it feel more palatable for you?
- 51:22Speaker 2: I think it does. I think it's also scary and
- 51:28Speaker 2: frustrating when you really dedicate your whole life to advancing
- 51:33Speaker 2: the rights of disabled people of this, you dedicate your
- 51:37Speaker 2: life to this fight and knowing that you won't see
- 51:40Speaker 2: it come to fruition in your lifetime. You'll have the
- 51:43Speaker 2: small wins, you'll have the good moments, and that you
- 51:49Speaker 2: really pass the bat into the next generation. And it
- 51:52Speaker 2: just continues, it continues on.
- 51:54Speaker 1: Is there anything tangible that you've taken from her and
- 51:58Speaker 1: learned that you could share with us?
- 52:00Speaker 2: I would say with Gloria, I think she is known
- 52:04Speaker 2: for looking at issues in such an intersectional way and
- 52:08Speaker 2: that there's never one individual soul path to change, you
- 52:16Speaker 2: have to include everyone. And I think that's the biggest takeaway,
- 52:21Speaker 2: is making sure that you are bringing everyone in and
- 52:24Speaker 2: not leaving anyone behind.
- 52:26Speaker 1: You're being mentored by her right now. I think part
- 52:30Speaker 1: of mentorship is that the mentor either sees parts of
- 52:34Speaker 1: themselves in the mentee or wants something about the mentee
- 52:40Speaker 1: to rub off on them. What do you think she
- 52:43Speaker 1: sees in you?
- 52:44Speaker 2: Has? She told you she hasn't. But I love that
- 52:47Speaker 2: you said that. I love that, I hope. So what
- 52:50Speaker 2: an honor to even have that thought. You know, I
- 52:54Speaker 2: think that Gloria was so brave. She took so many
- 53:01Speaker 2: mageou swings, and she did things that people had never
- 53:06Speaker 2: even thought about before. I think of the playboy Bunny
- 53:11Speaker 2: experience that she had in the journalism that she did,
- 53:14Speaker 2: and she was so smart and intelligent, but she also
- 53:17Speaker 2: spoke up. And I want to channel more of that
- 53:19Speaker 2: in the work that I do. I think I have
- 53:21Speaker 2: a tendency to maybe channel British energy of like the
- 53:27Speaker 2: no sit down, like don't be so loud, but you
- 53:31Speaker 2: need to be so I want to I want to
- 53:33Speaker 2: channel more of that.
- 53:34Speaker 1: You're gonna stand up, m h. I think you have
- 53:37Speaker 1: in so many ways. Keiley, thank you okay, little rapid fire, Okay,
- 53:42Speaker 1: something about yourself that you're most proud of.
- 53:47Speaker 2: Persevering.
- 53:49Speaker 1: Who's your biggest role model?
- 53:51Speaker 2: My grandpa?
- 53:52Speaker 1: Really, I thought you were gonna say Gloria.
- 53:54Speaker 2: I mean, definitely Gloria, But my grandpa was everything to me.
- 53:58Speaker 1: What's his name?
- 53:59Speaker 2: So he passed away a couple of years ago. His
- 54:01Speaker 2: name is Paul Zetter cv CB. He has an award from.
- 54:06Speaker 1: The Queen whoa why So.
- 54:10Speaker 2: He was one of the founders of the sports Age Foundation,
- 54:14Speaker 2: which was a foundation that supported getting athletes to the
- 54:17Speaker 2: Olympics and Paralympics. So this NBC opportunity also feels very
- 54:21Speaker 2: full circle, and I well, wish I could talk to
- 54:24Speaker 2: him about it.
- 54:26Speaker 1: Why was he passionate about that?
- 54:29Speaker 2: He, I think was just so passionate about bringing opportunity
- 54:33Speaker 2: to the people who didn't have that access. And he
- 54:37Speaker 2: recognized that there were these very skilled, talented people who
- 54:41Speaker 2: were also passionate about representing their country but didn't have
- 54:45Speaker 2: the opportunity to do it just because of finances, just
- 54:47Speaker 2: because of their own their lived experience, their situation, and
- 54:51Speaker 2: he wanted to change that.
- 54:53Speaker 1: That's pretty unbelievable. That's in your bloodline. Yeah, wow. What's
- 54:59Speaker 1: the number one lesson that your mom has taught you?
- 55:02Speaker 2: Oh? My mom is the best. She has instilled this
- 55:08Speaker 2: unbelievable positivity within me. Even at the lowest of lows,
- 55:15Speaker 2: she would make a way to make sure that I
- 55:18Speaker 2: genuinely smiled. So just constant positivity, not in a toxic way,
- 55:24Speaker 2: but just in a way to get you through the time.
- 55:27Speaker 2: So you need to get through.
- 55:28Speaker 1: What's the movie that you put on when you're sad?
- 55:30Speaker 2: The parent trap?
- 55:34Speaker 1: Are you Hallie or what's the other one?
- 55:37Speaker 2: Yeah, the British one, Yeah, the British one with a
- 55:39Speaker 2: bad accent.
- 55:40Speaker 1: Yeah, was the accent bad? I always thought it was
- 55:43Speaker 1: good growing up, it was a little bit bad.
- 55:45Speaker 2: I feel like my accent kind of sounds like that
- 55:47Speaker 2: now because I've lived in America.
- 55:48Speaker 1: So that's hilarious.
- 55:50Speaker 2: Okay.
- 55:51Speaker 1: One thing every woman should try once.
- 55:53Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, oh that's such a good question. Something
- 55:58Speaker 2: every woman should try once? Oh, I guess wearing men's clothes.
- 56:03Speaker 1: I love that comfortable. What made you say that to you?
- 56:07Speaker 1: That's fabulous.
- 56:08Speaker 2: I love being comfy me too.
- 56:11Speaker 1: I shop in the men's section. Sometimes it's better.
- 56:13Speaker 2: Right and cheaper. I feel like it's better.
- 56:15Speaker 1: Yeah, and like cool and oversized, yes, Okay. A life
- 56:19Speaker 1: motto that you live by.
- 56:21Speaker 2: A life motto. I love that Oprah quote when opportunity
- 56:27Speaker 2: and preparation come together or something like that equals luck.
- 56:31Speaker 1: I like that too. A book that you think should
- 56:34Speaker 1: be required.
- 56:34Speaker 2: Reading, definitely, Sophie's Driving Forward Memoir. It's amazing.
- 56:40Speaker 1: The smartest decision you've ever made.
- 56:43Speaker 2: Starting my own business. Why I think I could have
- 56:47Speaker 2: been fighting to get employed, struggling to get employed for
- 56:51Speaker 2: a very, very long time being able to be self sustaining.
- 56:57Speaker 2: And yes, it is so hard that being able to
- 57:04Speaker 2: change systems that are so broken and just do things
- 57:07Speaker 2: in the way you want to do them whilst having fun. Yeah,
- 57:15Speaker 2: I would say that is the best decision.
- 57:18Speaker 1: Okay, last question, grab a question everything.
- 57:21Speaker 2: Card, all right, what lesson has taken you the longest
- 57:27Speaker 2: to learn? Patience? But I still haven't learned it. I
- 57:30Speaker 2: still haven't learned it. I'm so impatient.
- 57:33Speaker 1: I'm not sure in what you do you need patience.
- 57:35Speaker 1: I think impatience might be a good thing.
- 57:37Speaker 2: I'm so impatient. It's awful. If anyone is on the
- 57:41Speaker 2: other end of an email for me, I will pester
- 57:44Speaker 2: them until they reply.
- 57:46Speaker 1: I actually really like that. That's not a driven person,
- 57:51Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, I pester people today reply to Yeah.
- 57:55Speaker 2: You have to need it right, And I love a
- 57:57Speaker 2: yes called email, cold message message and on every platform
- 58:03Speaker 2: stop them. Really it was a little bit.
- 58:05Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. Thank you. That was so great.
- 58:09Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 58:15Speaker 1: Okay, you know what time it is. Today's a good day.
- 58:19Speaker 1: To have a good day. I'll see you next week.