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The Daily Mess Are You A Misfit Plus Measuring Our Bad Steps In Life · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: It really is like going to Hulu or Netflix and
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to pick out which podcast you want to
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  Speaker 1: listen to. Well, what's the subject? Is it all level sports?
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  Speaker 1: A-R-R-O-E dot net. Hey, it's me, that question guy. You
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  Speaker 1: know the dude that's always asking questions because it's so
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  Speaker 1: much fun to do the research? Here's one for you.
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  Speaker 1: Are you or are you not a fully qualified misfit? Really? Plus...
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  Speaker 1: How deep is our true reality? How close are we
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  Speaker 1: to taking the next really bad step? My name is Arrow.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on
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  Speaker 1: the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate.
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  Speaker 1: I call it The Daily Mess, a chronological walkthrough in
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  Speaker 1: everyday world. It is my daily writing. As a receiver
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  Speaker 1: of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw
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  Speaker 1: things to the side because we think we're going to
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  Speaker 1: deal with it later on. The only way that's going
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  Speaker 1: to happen is you've got to write down your thoughts
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  Speaker 1: and come back to it later and do the research.
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  Speaker 1: When a subject arrives inside of me, I know it's
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  Speaker 1: time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal,
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  Speaker 1: but by doing the research, the picture itself will become clearer.
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  Speaker 1: This is the Daily Mess. Now, I admit that I
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  Speaker 1: am a misfit. Does that pretty much mean I just
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  Speaker 1: don't fit into anything? Bingo. A totally not-so-in misfit. A misfit.
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  Speaker 1: You know what they are, don't you? They naturally do
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  Speaker 1: not conform into the expectations, culture, and personality of all
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  Speaker 1: things around us. The feelings have been described as being
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  Speaker 1: an outsider looking in. Now let's break this down. Not
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  Speaker 1: fitting in can be temporary. You just haven't found your
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  Speaker 1: people yet. And believe it or not, some of the
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  Speaker 1: most creative people and original people on the planet describe
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  Speaker 1: themselves as being a misfit. Wait, wait until you hear
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  Speaker 1: the reasons why. Famous people getting that feeling of not
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  Speaker 1: fitting in is due to them not accepting the way
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  Speaker 1: that everybody else does. It doesn't mean things are going
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you, which I believe was the real message
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  Speaker 1: in Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. I mean, Hermie was a
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  Speaker 1: little bit odd and pretty much to the side, but
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  Speaker 1: you know what? In the end, there was nothing wrong
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  Speaker 1: with this dude. This is how business leaders describe their misfits.
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  Speaker 1: They don't fit into their particular mold. Albert Einstein was
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  Speaker 1: recognized as being a misfit. Others include David Bowie, Elvis Presley,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Jobs, Harry Potter's creator J.K. Rowling, and even Howard
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  Speaker 1: Stern is a misfit. See, misfits become influential precisely because
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  Speaker 1: they just don't fit in and that's where new beginnings begin.
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  Speaker 1: It's all based on a vision of creating in a
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  Speaker 1: brand new place. coming up next how deep is our
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  Speaker 1: true reality Hey, thanks for coming back to The Daily Mess.
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  Speaker 1: How deep is our true reality? One misstep can change everything,
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  Speaker 1: and we've all been there. It's actually described as being
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  Speaker 1: one of the most upsetting truths about being a human being.
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  Speaker 1: It's that feeling of being enormous as well as fragile.
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  Speaker 1: So what about the bad step creating change? Well, name
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  Speaker 1: your trigger then. It could be something we said. It
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  Speaker 1: could be a missed opportunity or even a hesitation. How
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  Speaker 1: does any of this even happen? It's the way that
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  Speaker 1: we imagine life as a straight line. I was there.
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  Speaker 1: I made the mistake. Therefore, everything now is ruined, right? Wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Mental health experts share a more meaningful explanation. Human reality
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  Speaker 1: is a giant web. One strand can break, but listen,
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  Speaker 1: there's thousands more that remain. How deep is our true reality?
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  Speaker 1: As regular everyday people, we experience reality as a complete picture.
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  Speaker 1: It's experienced through memory, emotion, expectation, and interpretation. Two people
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  Speaker 1: standing in the same exact place are going to have
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  Speaker 1: two completely different experiences. The real question is, should we
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  Speaker 1: be asking ourselves how much of our reality is actually
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  Speaker 1: still available for us to misstep? Can you say pretty
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  Speaker 1: damn far? Careful, your misstep can change. your every day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Errol, and that's The Daily Mess.