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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi, I had saved me with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio.
- 0:03Speaker 1: And this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation,
- 0:09Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. Welcome to the final episode of My
- 0:13Speaker 1: manifest with Amy's series. And I can't believe I did
- 0:17Speaker 1: thirty I'm pretty sure I know it was thirty shows.
- 0:20Speaker 1: I'm looking at the calendar. It was thirty shows. This
- 0:25Speaker 1: is show thirty in the series. And this is I'm
- 0:28Speaker 1: pretty sure this is the first time that I talked
- 0:31Speaker 1: about love and manifesting love is It's like so near
- 0:36Speaker 1: and dear to my heart. I was able to use
- 0:40Speaker 1: the principles of manifestation to really change my romantic life dramatically.
- 0:45Speaker 1: I've talked about that a lot here on the program.
- 0:48Speaker 1: So I thought i'd wrap this series with a quick
- 0:51Speaker 1: process if you are looking for romantic loves, So today, ah,
- 1:00Speaker 1: get comfortable because love is one of those beautiful desires
- 1:06Speaker 1: that we call in and ask for and make wishes about.
- 1:10Speaker 1: And honestly, it's one of the most emotionally loaded topics.
- 1:15Speaker 1: So let's take the pressure off. Let's relax, let's be
- 1:19Speaker 1: in peace, let's center ourselves, and let's step by step
- 1:24Speaker 1: look at what actually works. So let's start here why
- 1:29Speaker 1: love feels hard to manifest? And as I was putting
- 1:32Speaker 1: the show notes together, I thought it was important to
- 1:35Speaker 1: emphasize this. When someone struggles to manifest romantic love, it's
- 1:41Speaker 1: rarely because the right person isn't out there, or that
- 1:45Speaker 1: there's there's some fundamental flaw within them that's keeping them
- 1:49Speaker 1: from love. It's almost always because they grew up seeing
- 1:56Speaker 1: negative examples of romantic love. The patterns they learned in
- 2:04Speaker 1: their upbringing they play out in their adult life, and
- 2:09Speaker 1: then that generates hurt, disappointment, confusion, And then on top
- 2:17Speaker 1: of it, we often receive a lot of wacky wisdom
- 2:22Speaker 1: or dysfunctional advice that's passed among us, particularly women, about
- 2:28Speaker 1: romantic love, and then the beliefs that we form lead
- 2:34Speaker 1: to heartbreak and rejection no matter how much we try.
- 2:37Speaker 1: I how it sounds so bleak, but again, these are
- 2:41Speaker 1: all just thoughts, and thoughts can be changed. But the
- 2:44Speaker 1: thought is real and plays out until we change it.
- 2:49Speaker 1: So most of us learn some thought of love is unpredictable,
- 2:56Speaker 1: Love is unsafe. Love equals sacrifice, Love means losing yourselves.
- 3:02Speaker 1: You have to work for love. Love just won't last,
- 3:06Speaker 1: or I have to stick it out even if it's
- 3:08Speaker 1: not working. Those beliefs create emotional layers and walls and
- 3:14Speaker 1: fears and expectations and overthinking. And so when you try
- 3:18Speaker 1: to manifest love, we're not manifesting from that pure, beautiful
- 3:23Speaker 1: desire to be with someone, to share our life with someone.
- 3:27Speaker 1: We're manifesting from the wounds, the wiring, and the habits
- 3:32Speaker 1: that have been keeping us in this loop of unfulfillment.
- 3:38Speaker 1: That is why manifesting romantic love can feel complicated, even
- 3:42Speaker 1: when you deeply want it, even when you're deeply working
- 3:47Speaker 1: at it. And this is also why support matters. It's
- 3:54Speaker 1: one of my favorite things to intuitively coach around is love,
- 4:00Speaker 1: because we're not just calling in a relationship. We're untangling
- 4:05Speaker 1: everything we were taught about what love was supposed to
- 4:08Speaker 1: look and feel like. So here is a quick manifestation process. Again,
- 4:19Speaker 1: it's being delivered to you from the window of hey,
- 4:24Speaker 1: there's some stuff that my needs to be cleaned up
- 4:26Speaker 1: along the way. So number one, you got to identify
- 4:31Speaker 1: your truest desire. You have to ask yourselves what type
- 4:36Speaker 1: of romantic relationship do I want to be in and
- 4:39Speaker 1: what type of partner would work well for me, And
- 4:43Speaker 1: this is why my spirit GUIDs are giving in this moment.
- 4:45Speaker 1: But I think it's phenomenal on the next level, what
- 4:48Speaker 1: kind of partner do I want to be? So you
- 4:51Speaker 1: have to ask yourself one more time, what type of
- 4:55Speaker 1: relationship do I want to be in? What type of
- 4:59Speaker 1: partner would be a good match for me that I
- 5:02Speaker 1: know would be a good match for me? And what
- 5:05Speaker 1: type of partner do I want to be? What experience
- 5:11Speaker 1: do you want to have with love? What do you
- 5:14Speaker 1: want your romantic life to look like? And it's important
- 5:23Speaker 1: as you make this list that you're not looking through
- 5:27Speaker 1: the lens of your past, and you're not looking through
- 5:31Speaker 1: the lens of time is running out. I've got to
- 5:33Speaker 1: meet someone. You're trusting the wisdom within you. You're trusting
- 5:40Speaker 1: your experiences, You're trusting that partnership is real and alive
- 5:45Speaker 1: and available to you. And then you got to notice
- 5:54Speaker 1: the blocks without judging it. What part of me doesn't
- 5:58Speaker 1: believe that I can attract this type of relationship plus
- 6:04Speaker 1: this type of partner, plus be this type of partner.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Maybe you learned that love was unstable. Maybe every relationship
- 6:14Speaker 1: you saw growing up was filled with tension and angst
- 6:17Speaker 1: and deception and secrets. Maybe you kept you keep choosing
- 6:24Speaker 1: partners from old patterns. Maybe you hide part of yourself
- 6:30Speaker 1: when you get out there. Maybe you've tried too hard
- 6:34Speaker 1: and you put up with too much, and you've ignored
- 6:36Speaker 1: your own needs. Just acknowledge it really set with what
- 6:42Speaker 1: is blocking me, And once you make that list, it
- 6:46Speaker 1: starts to lose its power over you. I'm not going
- 6:49Speaker 1: to pretend like you might need to rewire all of
- 6:54Speaker 1: this behavior, meaning you're gonna have to find alternative ways
- 6:59Speaker 1: for doing things romantically. And it's it's an action based
- 7:04Speaker 1: reversal of behaviors. So if you text someone that you're
- 7:11Speaker 1: interested in and you feel all weird and embarrassed about it,
- 7:16Speaker 1: past the like normal, you know, sure, like love is
- 7:20Speaker 1: unnerving at this for a little bit, but when it's
- 7:24Speaker 1: like oh my god, then you've got to relearn how
- 7:28Speaker 1: to send a text to somebody and feel okay about
- 7:30Speaker 1: it and it not be a reflection of you whether
- 7:35Speaker 1: they respond or not. And then you got to create
- 7:39Speaker 1: some new messages for yourself. You have to put your
- 7:42Speaker 1: hand over your heart and say it is safe to
- 7:44Speaker 1: receive love is safe to receive the type of partner
- 7:47Speaker 1: I want. It's safe to be in the type of
- 7:49Speaker 1: relationship I want to be in, and it's safe to
- 7:52Speaker 1: be the partner I want to be. It's safe to
- 7:54Speaker 1: be wanted. It's safe to be cherished, it's safe to
- 7:57Speaker 1: be appreciated, it's safe to be respect it's safe to
- 8:01Speaker 1: be cared for. It's safe to receive, it's safe to give,
- 8:07Speaker 1: it's safe to have someone treat me well. It's safe
- 8:10Speaker 1: to be loved. And you don't have to make yourself
- 8:15Speaker 1: believe this. You are just slowly going through the process
- 8:21Speaker 1: of retraining yourself to see that what love, romantic love
- 8:27Speaker 1: is safe and then envision you that's already in this amazing, wonderful,
- 8:37Speaker 1: glorious relationship. Really imagine it. Put yourself in a relationship
- 8:44Speaker 1: that feels good. Not a fantasy, though depending on how
- 8:49Speaker 1: your imagination works, it could easily dip into fantasy when
- 8:53Speaker 1: it comes through. Romantic love, real you, real you, healthy
- 9:01Speaker 1: and healed. Nice regards added that being in a relationship
- 9:05Speaker 1: with someone else who's healthy and healed, and what does
- 9:08Speaker 1: it look like, what does it feel like? What is
- 9:10Speaker 1: the experience life? Really envision this feel how supported you are,
- 9:18Speaker 1: Feel how seen you are, Feel how relaxed you are,
- 9:21Speaker 1: Feel how chosen you are, Feel how much room there
- 9:25Speaker 1: is for joy and growth and be in human together.
- 9:31Speaker 1: And also this is next level. Feel how supported your
- 9:35Speaker 1: partner is, Feel how senior partner feels, Feel how relaxed
- 9:39Speaker 1: your partner is, Feel how chosen your partner feels. Feel
- 9:44Speaker 1: the expansion within that dream partner, and sit with that,
- 9:51Speaker 1: Sit with that, be with that. You're not calling in
- 9:56Speaker 1: a specific person. You're calling in aversion of you who
- 10:01Speaker 1: is ready to receive love. You're calling in the version
- 10:07Speaker 1: of your dream partner who is ready to receive love.
- 10:13Speaker 1: And then of course take an action in real life.
- 10:19Speaker 1: So manifesting romantic love doesn't happen in your head alone.
- 10:23Speaker 1: And you, certainly, though there are stories out there, can't
- 10:26Speaker 1: expect that person to just knock on the door. We
- 10:28Speaker 1: live in this time space reality, So you have to
- 10:31Speaker 1: do one grounded step so that you're available. Update your
- 10:38Speaker 1: dating profile, Get on a new app. Get on a
- 10:42Speaker 1: new app. If you've been on the same app with
- 10:44Speaker 1: the same profile, there's something stale about that energetically. Just
- 10:48Speaker 1: pick a new app. I love it when you know
- 10:53Speaker 1: I'm talking to a client and they've invested in my services.
- 10:56Speaker 1: They maybe have invested in updating their wardrobe. They've cleared
- 11:00Speaker 1: out some energy, and then like, pick a new app
- 11:04Speaker 1: and update your profile and they feel like, h right,
- 11:08Speaker 1: because we feel so attached to our profiles. Now shift
- 11:12Speaker 1: it around, bring some freshness into the profile. Say yes
- 11:18Speaker 1: to our social engagements and ask others out like, hey,
- 11:22Speaker 1: you want to go do this? Open your heart to
- 11:26Speaker 1: new types of conversations. Break an old dating pattern, Stop
- 11:30Speaker 1: calling the person who drained you, Stop calling in that
- 11:35Speaker 1: person who was never a match to begin with. These
- 11:42Speaker 1: are real world actions you can take that open you
- 11:45Speaker 1: up to love. Manifestation always requires your participation. It is
- 11:50Speaker 1: a universal law action. You got to take some action,
- 11:55Speaker 1: and you got to take action in a way that
- 11:57Speaker 1: supports romantic love. Because this is the other run to
- 12:00Speaker 1: hear as a coach is people tell me like, oh,
- 12:03Speaker 1: I joined a social group, and I'm like, well, is
- 12:04Speaker 1: that social group for dating? No? Well, put yourself in
- 12:09Speaker 1: an environment where you can date. I've said this often
- 12:11Speaker 1: on the program. It was one of the big AHAs
- 12:14Speaker 1: for me. Step dancing around it, own it. I want
- 12:18Speaker 1: to be in a romantic relationship. I want that to
- 12:19Speaker 1: be healthy. I want it to be lasting. I want
- 12:22Speaker 1: it to look like this A. I'm going to put
- 12:24Speaker 1: myself in places where I am more magnetic to that reality.
- 12:33Speaker 1: The universe is always on your side and the universe
- 12:35Speaker 1: will meet you there. So that is my recommendation on
- 12:40Speaker 1: manifesting love. Know what you want, put yourself out there
- 12:46Speaker 1: in an environment that sets you up to attract what
- 12:49Speaker 1: you're looking for, and let go of all the lower
- 12:56Speaker 1: energies that tell you can't have it, that love has
- 12:59Speaker 1: to be hard, and then imagine envision yourself being in
- 13:05Speaker 1: that relationship with the dream partner. All right, my voice
- 13:10Speaker 1: is starting to go, so I'm gonna wrap up. So
- 13:13Speaker 1: if you're looking at matiss love, I can help you
- 13:15Speaker 1: do it. My one year Intuitive coaching package is design
- 13:20Speaker 1: for that. Love can trigger a bunch of stuff within us,
- 13:25Speaker 1: and it can bring up our childhood lessons, our old wounds,
- 13:30Speaker 1: soul lessons, outdated beliefs, and this shows up for everyone.
- 13:37Speaker 1: No matter how intelligent, successful, or spiritually advanced you are,
- 13:42Speaker 1: you can still struggle around love. Some people learn that
- 13:46Speaker 1: they have to work for love. Some people learn that
- 13:52Speaker 1: they can't just show up as themselves. They have to
- 13:55Speaker 1: be someone else to get love. Some people learn that
- 13:59Speaker 1: love leaves. Some people learn that love abandons them. Some
- 14:03Speaker 1: people think that they have to be chosen. Some learn
- 14:08Speaker 1: that they have to chase love. Some learn that chaos
- 14:11Speaker 1: felt normal. And in my case, I thought I had
- 14:16Speaker 1: to convince somebody, and it was like a campaign. Let
- 14:19Speaker 1: me show you like a job interview where I'm presenting myself. No,
- 14:26Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like that at all, And
- 14:29Speaker 1: none of this is our fault. We picked up a
- 14:31Speaker 1: lot of junkie beliefs that get twisted up, and we
- 14:34Speaker 1: take this approach in our romantic life. But all of
- 14:40Speaker 1: that shapes who you allow into your life and what
- 14:44Speaker 1: you expect love to be like and feel like. So
- 14:48Speaker 1: inside my one year Intuitive coaching package, we look at
- 14:51Speaker 1: those patterns. We look at that emotional wiring, We look
- 14:55Speaker 1: at past relationships, We look at subconscious beliefs about romantic love.
- 15:00Speaker 1: We look at your fears, we look at what your
- 15:02Speaker 1: soul actually wants to call in, and we entangle the
- 15:08Speaker 1: emotional imprint that blocks you from receiving the exact romantic
- 15:13Speaker 1: relationship you desire to be in. We rebuild your capacity
- 15:19Speaker 1: to be in love. And have love and be loved
- 15:22Speaker 1: without fear, without hesitation, without worry. We strengthen your confidence,
- 15:29Speaker 1: your boundaries, and your self worth. We create a space
- 15:32Speaker 1: where a relationship that actually matches what you want and
- 15:39Speaker 1: actually fits who you are becomes your reality. Love becomes
- 15:44Speaker 1: so much easier when your inner world is ready to
- 15:47Speaker 1: receive it. So if you want to go deeper, if
- 15:50Speaker 1: you are ready to find that dream partner and be
- 15:53Speaker 1: in that dream relationship and be your dream partner's dream partner,
- 15:57Speaker 1: then begin the one on your Intuitive Coaching package today.
- 16:02Speaker 1: You can start at Intuitive Coachingwithamy dot com. So you
- 16:09Speaker 1: deserve love. You deserve love that feels good. You deserve
- 16:12Speaker 1: love that meets you, meets all your needs and your
- 16:19Speaker 1: wants and your truest desires. You deserve to experience the
- 16:25Speaker 1: love you've always imagined for yourself. And all you have
- 16:28Speaker 1: to do is rewire some things within you, make a
- 16:31Speaker 1: few different choices, and you'll find that you'll be in
- 16:34Speaker 1: that relationship. And is that hard to do? Yeah, but
- 16:39Speaker 1: you can do it, and it's much easier when you
- 16:41Speaker 1: have support. So I look forward to supporting you and
- 16:47Speaker 1: manifesting love. And I pray this show is a good
- 16:50Speaker 1: jumping off place for you. There's nothing wrong with you.
- 16:53Speaker 1: You're not broken, and there is someone out there who
- 16:56Speaker 1: matches exactly what you want. Multiple someones who match exactly
- 17:01Speaker 1: what you want, and they will be so happy to
- 17:04Speaker 1: have you, so happy. Thank you so much for joining
- 17:08Speaker 1: me for this final episode of The Manifest with Amy's series.
- 17:13Speaker 1: I appreciate you. It has been really fun, and take
- 17:17Speaker 1: care of yourself. Goodbye,