Latest / DA CREW Podcast / HALF WAY MARK_ SEASON 2 DA CREW PODCAST _ EPISODE _81_ HOST VISIONARY QUEEN ANGELA
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- 0:00So I'm gonna do yourself. And I think he might be one of the
- 0:03babies of the network too. And I know he's one of the babies on
- 0:07this platform yourself. Mister Recardo, Hello everybody. First, I just wanted
- 0:16to thank you, know, miss Angela, you know, for having me.
- 0:19I'm really grateful for this opportunity. Yes, I'm also a part of
- 0:24the network. This is my going into my third year. I guess my
- 0:29trade by days. I'm a teacher, I'm a filmmaker. I have a
- 0:34series on YouTube. It's called Hurt People, Hurt People, Bitter and Broken.
- 0:38I have a movie coming out July tenth, the debut on YouTube.
- 0:43I'm really excited about that. And then I'm working on my book. It's
- 0:46coming out at the top of the ear. It's called Trauma Helped People,
- 0:49Help People. So I'm just excited about all God is doing in my life
- 0:56and all of you guys life as well. Amen. Amen, and y'all.
- 1:02We got we got, we got somebody that that stopped by real real
- 1:06quick. They don't have a long time because unfortunately they are incarcerated and and
- 1:11and they want to share just a little bit, if if y'all would allow
- 1:17them to share if you would introduce yourself please, I mean listen for the
- 1:23drawing and of course right an individual for thirty club seers, and thank you
- 1:26for having me. Man. You know when uh I'm here in the state
- 1:30of Texas and you know I share, you know, uh criminal justice sick
- 1:34from and you know, try to teach brother how to fight, you know,
- 1:37come to unit, keep with themselves and try to unity reform our coronal
- 1:41justice system and to bring awareness of the struggle that we go through. Wow,
- 1:47So how did you end up there? Yeah? But I have a
- 1:53charge with a learner case and a drug case and I did not commit and
- 1:57based upon the corruption leading in our towns, and I stayed to my cities.
- 2:01You know, I was a victim of distance because of that. You
- 2:05know, I was a victims about two except at all white Jerry trial or
- 2:08a former assistant, just the attorney as my attorney, and with closed doors
- 2:13and police officers standing behind me, and that they said, you know,
- 2:15there's no way I could win. You know, the situation in this you
- 2:19know that, you know gave me a sense of one hundred and fifty four
- 2:22years you know, from something I for something I didn't commit. Wow.
- 2:28Wow, So what do you what is your message to the people today?
- 2:32A message to the people that you know, found some type of comp around
- 2:38to come together and a unity to have my boys and heard people to stand
- 2:42up and speak out about issues like this. I suffect them my criminal justice
- 2:46system and destroyed by men and not women. You know what, I'm staying
- 2:51of society, you know what I'm saying and sending people to discerne you know
- 2:53when in prisons for crimes they didn't commit. Because that's a very sad thing
- 2:58for a person being prison for something they didn't do. So, you know,
- 3:02it's very sad that people's families are being destroyed trying these operations that we
- 3:08need to you know, So if anyone wants to find out information about you
- 3:14or support support support you on this journey, how can they do that?
- 3:20Yeah, well they can go to change man and uh you know, you
- 3:25know, to try to get some you know, bring some unit and some
- 3:30boys for us. You know what I'm saying to our state representatives and our
- 3:32sent to the life, you know, to try to address these issues because
- 3:37they are very poplitition that need to be addressed. Well, I thank you
- 3:42for stopping by and sharing with us. You know, I wish you much
- 3:45success on on on this journey. Of course you're in my prayers, they
- 3:52want you, been praying for you. Look forward to bright days for you
- 3:57in the near future. Just stay wrong and know we here for Thank you
- 4:01very much, Ama. Next we have mister Chris. Mister Chris, if
- 4:08you would please introduce yourself Asians Angela. My name is Chris Gray, and
- 4:14I'm a father, a writer, speaker, and been in corporate America twenty
- 4:20years and now I'm switching my focus and my newest venture is my Father's House
- 4:28Case and it is a non profit organization to empower fathers to be a part
- 4:32of their kids' lives and fight through any barriers and really step up to be
- 4:36the leaders of the family that God has called them to be. And that's
- 4:42where my passion is. And I've had a great opportunity and have a loving
- 4:47father in my life, and I want to make sure that every child has
- 4:53that opportunity to have a loving father. And I think a lot of the
- 4:56situations we have going on with society right now could be cured with a strong
- 5:00father leading the family. And as we heard of the incarceration rate really takes
- 5:03fathers away from that, and there's other things going on society that takes the
- 5:09father away. And if you want to tear away the family, take away
- 5:12the father and the leader that God placed in their lives, and you can
- 5:15tear away the family. And so that's my mission going forward and living out
- 5:20what God has called me to do. It just muted me. Didn't want
- 5:36me to talk out again. But anyway, as chall know, I am
- 5:40one of the CEOs of the Crew podcast and our motto, our mission,
- 5:49our goal is to be the change that we desire to see. We come
- 5:54from different backgrounds, different walks of life, so we do just want to
- 5:59be out here impact and lie and and and being the change that we can
- 6:06see. One of the hot topics that's out right now our males and I
- 6:15want to want to hear you guys perspective on on that. And we could
- 6:20get each person to chime in and on that and and and and what that
- 6:30that means to you, what that looks like to you and your perspective.
- 6:33I want to start with we're hard. Uh okay, miss Angela, can
- 6:44you ask that? What was the question again? So what does the emasculation
- 6:53means to you, what does that mean to you when when you hear that
- 6:57word, what does that mean to you? Demasculation? If you will give
- 7:04a definition, I can give a definition that they gave on social on one
- 7:12of the sites, said I So I googled it and it says the vasculinization
- 7:21is the process of stripping the strength, courage, independence and asserting it perentuation
- 7:29of negative stereotypes such as the black men are violent, lazy, unintelligent.
- 7:35Other forms of the vasculinization can include the criminalization of our black men lack of
- 7:46access to quality educaportunities. These factors can also lead to the feelings of powerlessness
- 7:53insecurity in the black men, which fuel the cycle of the masculine. So
- 8:00that is like an overall what they gave me as EVERSI so, but what
- 8:05is your perspective? What does that to you? What does that look like
- 8:11to you? Well, it seemed like from that definition is almost like the
- 8:16devaluing of the black men. And I think that I wanted to say this
- 8:20to you know, because he was talking about fathers, and I just wanted
- 8:24to say shout out to the real fathers, Black fathers, all fathers that
- 8:30that are in the household being supportive, because I really do think fathers really
- 8:33matter and they're important, and I was blessed to be able to have a
- 8:37strong black father, and I know without the presence of a father, I
- 8:41wouldn't be who I am today. So I loved in the sense where he
- 8:48was talking about. And I think it kind of coincides with the the emasculation
- 8:56and of a of you know, of black men or men in general,
- 9:00like if they can get them out of the household and away from the family,
- 9:05then we're not able to survive or even thrive. And I was just
- 9:09thinking too just in general, like I would say, even growing up in
- 9:13the inner city, I feel like we're kind of at like a disadvantage,
- 9:18especially with mothers being you know, single mothers, and then them playing both
- 9:24my mother and father. And then these young men, young black men,
- 9:28young boys growing to be young black men, I feel like, are urine
- 9:33for our father and and they just go about ways of just just trying to
- 9:39search for that love. And I think as a black man now, I
- 9:43feel like we don't have a voice. And I feel like because I think
- 9:50being a child, being a little black boy, I think we've been taught
- 9:54to not share with how we feel. And I feel like that it hurts
- 10:01generation and generations of young boys that grows up into men because when you have
- 10:05a voice and you want something to say, but then you've been taught as
- 10:09a kid, you know, be tough and you know, don't be a
- 10:11punk, and you know, you grow up and a lot of young Black
- 10:16boys that grow up to be men, the only emotion they know is like
- 10:18anger or aggression, because it's like all of this pent up frustration and wanting
- 10:24to have a voice, you know, and your voice being sid silenced.
- 10:30So I think we don't even know as a culture kind of I guess generation
- 10:37from generation, we give these things to our children, you know, and
- 10:41we don't even know it affects us. And so I feel like that's a
- 10:45part of even being this I don't even know how to say the word accurately,
- 10:50but being dis emasculated our voice because our ladder and when we don't have
- 10:56voice home and we don't have positive representations of who we are in our communities
- 11:01and we don't we lack the resources, it can be tough. And I
- 11:07want to say this in closing, you know, growing up in Ennercy.
- 11:11For me, when I used to see the you know, boys that look
- 11:13like me posted up on the corner, I didn't think much of it because
- 11:18I thought it was my norm. But now that I'm older and I'm evolving
- 11:22and elevating seeing different things, it really saddens me to see young people,
- 11:28you know, on the corner. This haddens me to keep seeing people that
- 11:31look like me getting killed because I'm like, in my mind, I'm always
- 11:33like, yo, it's a millionaire in the projects. But because of where
- 11:39they come from and because you know, them not having examples or they feeling
- 11:46like, listen, this is all I know. You know, you know,
- 11:50they're they're never able to really reach that fullest potential. So right,
- 11:56who want to try me in? Okay? Okay? To go down with
- 12:05Ricardo. It is, you know, we're about four or five, about
- 12:11four almost five generations in of boys raising boys instead of men raising boys to
- 12:18become men. And when you have that, you have mothers trying to play
- 12:24both roles. But it's also goes back to the you were talking about affection
- 12:30and being able to talk. I had a friend that I was over their
- 12:35house and I just I hadn't seen him for a while. When gave the
- 12:39dad a half hug, wasn't even a real hugging. It's like, nice
- 12:43to see you. And the son started crying and I didn't think anything.
- 12:48I thought I was joking at first, but then I realized that you haven't
- 12:50hugged me in twenty years, and this is you know, about twenty years
- 12:54going, this's happened. And for me, I hugged my dad all the
- 12:58time. With my son, I'm a single father, so I show my
- 13:03son affection, tell them I love him. And it's as black men,
- 13:07we feel like, oh, we can't tell our sons that we love them
- 13:09or show them affection, and if it really perpetuates that generation over generation of
- 13:16just suck up your feelings, don't show your feelings. Yet, our main
- 13:24role model for what a man should be is Jesus, and Jesus loved his
- 13:28friends, he cried when Nazareth died, and so if we follow his lead
- 13:35and follow his model, there's a lot of things that we show emotion.
- 13:39We're strong, we lead people, and we care for people. And so
- 13:45as we use Jesus as our leader, then that's the role model that we
- 13:48should be following, and that way we can make sure everyone feels that their
- 13:52love. And I think that's what we're missing in the ground of black communities,
- 13:56is that love that we feel from our power. So who want next,
- 14:22Tony? You want to try it? Oh? Yes, indeed,
- 14:26honors to the men of God that spoke before me. Can you hear me
- 14:28loud and clear? Yes we can? Oh? Okay, all right,
- 14:35And I'm going to piggyback after what the last man of God said, not
- 14:41taking anything away from the young man and the God Ricardo. You know when
- 14:46I think about the Lord and Savior Jesus right talking about the emasculation, and
- 14:54I'm going to try to be as clean as a possibly can. But according
- 14:58to Good Old West, it says that when you take the testicular forty two,
- 15:05like the honovoid Ferykin like to say, ticular forty two, right,
- 15:13they know the potency and the power that we have as men, which explains
- 15:22why when you look at the a's that been using to try to destroy us
- 15:31as a people, because they know they know the type of love that we
- 15:35have for ourselves and each other, which goes into why they change the music
- 15:39and why a lot of what they're calling music now the most popular music is
- 15:45so called crap music. Now put a C in front of what it used
- 15:48to be rap music, right where they'll get. They're paying millions of dollars
- 15:54to these artists, these phenomenal artists that can sit back. Some of them
- 16:00are so divinely gifted that they can just don't even use a pen or a
- 16:04paper and can speak all kinds of things. Right, But one of the
- 16:10things that they're doing, and these major white power structure, I'm gonna call
- 16:14it the way that it is right, they will pay these guys millions and
- 16:18millions of dollars for them to be able to rap about how many ends they
- 16:23can kill this and that. Right, that's another part of the plan.
- 16:29Now, let me go back to the Lord and Savior Jesus. Right,
- 16:36they took the prominent figure within our scriptures and even d emasculated him because they
- 16:45changed his image according to what revelation says, you can't burn anything white care
- 16:52how much to try, And that's heartbreaking. And they know that most of
- 16:56our people is going to be so lazy, they're not going to really,
- 16:57really, really really do a self study descriptures. That's why they use Hollywood
- 17:07and Angelo there artists painting everything of good substance. They want to make it
- 17:12a European any image after European in the sense of the heaveny Father, that's
- 17:18even above Jesus. Right, this is real because now we have to hit
- 17:22them hard, y'all. This is if you get to know me, it's
- 17:27about taking your soul back. And when you take your soul back, you
- 17:30start to reject everything that the white power structure gave us. That wasn't for
- 17:37our benefit, it was for theirs, right, And this is why they
- 17:41don't want us right, even what we're doing now, even on a form
- 17:44like we're doing right now, because that's unity, because they know there's not
- 17:48a man on this earth that compares to us. They know that we was
- 17:52the first. We were the first children of the most haigccording to all scriptures,
- 17:59right, were the first children of the Mozart, according to biology,
- 18:03archaeology, anything that you can name. We were the first one's year.
- 18:07And what they did is they did a great job of removing our image and
- 18:11replacing it with theirs. The emasculation. And one of the things that Great
- 18:15America Hollywood loved to do is they're no longer taking the testicles. They want
- 18:22to put our men in a dress, the same way they're doing with Tayler
- 18:29Perry. They love to see us in a dress because they know a Paleman
- 18:34or any other man can't even begin to compare. Right, You name another
- 18:41man that has experienced castration, had to deal with watching his mother, his
- 18:48sister, and his daughters get raped by the same evil beast right, who's
- 18:52in the image of a Caucasian. Right, and then sit back and make
- 18:57us look towards y'all's man, sit looking Jesus, you see, you see
- 19:03what the trick is. You gotta be jack back, y'all. You gotta
- 19:07be jack back if you want your sold back. Mister Troy, you gotta
- 19:23introduce yourself and chime on in Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, welcome. All.
- 19:30I just can you hear me? Yes, all I can say.
- 19:34The devil is a lie. He tried to stop me from getting up here,
- 19:37but me and my wife worked two we got up here. Oh my
- 19:41name is Troy Reed, just a simple man or a deacon in my church.
- 19:45And I could just say, if you follow God like I said,
- 19:52I'm just a simple man. I don't have titles behind my name. I
- 19:56don't have degrees behind my name. But if you'll obedient to God out He'll
- 20:00put you in position in places like I am now with these fine young gentlemen
- 20:06that's on this podcast here, you know, and letting my voice be heard
- 20:14about what's happening in the community and to our black young males. And I
- 20:19have to be that example to these black young males. Not only them,
- 20:25but I have to be the example to drug users because I'm an X added
- 20:30so I have to be an example to them and let my voice be heard.
- 20:37I don't have to preach scriptures because that Christ in me. All I
- 20:41have to do is show up and let them see the difference that God made
- 20:44in my life. I don't have to quote scripture the Bible, Bible verse
- 20:48by verse. All I have to do is show up and let my life,
- 20:52let Christ shine through me, and let God give me the opportunity.
- 20:56When they speak, then God open the door for me to come in and
- 21:00talk about Him, you know. And I'm trying to catch up real quickly
- 21:06as I can of what I heard the topics was, and I want to
- 21:10do on the topics of our young black bels. What we've done in our
- 21:14community. We drew a line in the sand. We tried to go on
- 21:21the streets and get the guys on the streets to change their white change their
- 21:25ways, and to get off the streets. But the longer we were doing
- 21:29that, the young coming up behind them was hitting the streets. So we
- 21:34had to draw that lane, that land in the sand, and let's get
- 21:37these babies before they get on the streets. Let's start pulling into them.
- 21:44Let's start seeing where their head is at, because these kids have a lot
- 21:48of trauma. The young man saying he's doing their father thing that is definitely
- 21:53needed in black communities from where the black fathers are absent in the in their
- 21:59lives. Because the truth of the matter is that father is absent, but
- 22:06the mother still bringing somebody in that's not showing or being a good road model
- 22:11to that child. So we have to step in and help the school board
- 22:18out, help the teachers out, help the parents out, giving them an
- 22:25avenue. I mean, it's all choice now that you can either take it
- 22:29or not. If you don't take it, well okay, this is where
- 22:33you'll be at. But if you do take it, this is the avenue.
- 22:36We can help you. And the young man were talking about talking about
- 22:42Christ, Well, when you when you talk about Christ, you got to
- 22:45talk about the body of Christ. Christ and got you can understand. Everybody's
- 22:49not going to be the head. Somebody got to be the hands. Somebody
- 22:53got to be the feat, somebody got to be the mouse, somebody got
- 22:56to be the nose, somebody got to be the ears. Everybody that can't
- 23:00be the same part of Christ. So if any them young man has something,
- 23:06I can come to it and I don't understand what it's doing. I
- 23:10could take the trash out for you. I could take that off of you.
- 23:12I can put some chairs up for you. Just as long as you
- 23:17focus on what God has you to focus on, let me come in and
- 23:21help you get whatever you need done. Just because I don't understand that doesn't
- 23:25mean I can't be a part of it. And that's what that's a problem
- 23:29that we have in the black community is now, if it's not their ideal,
- 23:33then they don't want to be a part of it. If they didn't
- 23:36come up with the idea of doing something positive, they don't want to be
- 23:38a part of it. Just because we don't understand it. That doesn't mean
- 23:44that God didn't give them the vision. If God gave if God gave any
- 23:49one of these men a vision, and they call Troy Read and say,
- 23:52Troy Red, may I need some help? What do you need help with?
- 23:56I don't need to understand your vision. God didn't give it to me.
- 24:00He gave it you. So where can I help? How can I
- 24:03put my hands to the cloud? You know? People look at me.
- 24:08That's the true revoting. Yeah, I'm voting. I'm not worrying about the
- 24:12president and all that. I'm worrying about my local community voting because that's who
- 24:18makes the difference in my community. The mayor, the city council and all
- 24:25of those people, the judges, the perit superior court, judges see and
- 24:27live in the city. Those people get voted in. So if we don't
- 24:30like it, I got to come and help people put out votes, cast
- 24:34out votes, help people to learn the knowledge of voting. Like I said,
- 24:38I'm just a simple man, but I have a voice that can be
- 24:42heard in the community. I have a voice that can help either one of
- 24:45these young men and what they're doing in some kind of way. Just because
- 24:51I don't agree with I don't let I put that a grand stuff. I
- 24:53threw that the grand stuff out the wonder a long time ago. Because if
- 24:57you're a man of God and God gave you a vision, then I'll be
- 25:00there to help you and any way I can to push that visual for thank
- 25:04you for your time. That's it. And we call that having each other's
- 25:12back. I call it I am my brother's keep up, because that's what
- 25:17I That's what I do. You know, I believe in supporting everybody.
- 25:22I don't have no no, no picks. People will be like, why
- 25:26you don't never be pushing your boos, Why you don't push your book?
- 25:29You're an author, You're an author. That's not what I'm here for.
- 25:32I'm here to push other people. Because there's some scripture over there. I
- 25:37don't. I ain't no theologian. I don't know the Bible like that.
- 25:40I ain't. I don't walk in no office. I just know from the
- 25:42things that I've been through. But I know it's a scripture in the Bible
- 25:47that said if you be willing, he he here, and you open your
- 25:52mouth here here, you get them things to say because he don't need it
- 25:56for me. Before I don't watch the live I don't came up off that
- 25:57live and I look back at that Liby and I'm like, who that was.
- 26:03But he'll give you what you need to say and when you need to
- 26:06say it, but you have to be willing. That's why when he dropped
- 26:08those three words in my spirit three years ago, it's something about them threes,
- 26:11y'all, something about them three. Y'all gonna catch it, But it's
- 26:15something about them threes. He dropped it in my spirit three years ago.
- 26:18Love well. It was a line love lead, and he gave me it
- 26:23was it was three of us, and he gave us one hundred and twenty
- 26:29one days of prayer because he gave me Psalms one twenty one us to stand
- 26:33on songs, win twenty one, look to the heels. But see what
- 26:34people do. They take these scriptures and they look at them and they and
- 26:38they take them literally like something fin to come up out the sky and save
- 26:42you. No, Babin, you look up down. It's just to remind
- 26:47you because when you look out you can see all all his wonders, and
- 26:53it just reminds you that you can. But you got to get up and
- 26:57do something. It ain't gonna happen by itself. That's why I constantly say
- 27:02we are about to change that we desire to see because guess what we gotta
- 27:04be that change. It ain't gonna change or we don't change it. So
- 27:11what are some things that you guys are doing? Because I want people to
- 27:15be able to really connect with you guys and be able to follow you,
- 27:21support your programs, for support your brands, you know, whatever you're doing.
- 27:26I want to know what are you doing to impact this world? What
- 27:30do you want your legacy to be? What do you want people to remember
- 27:33you by? How are you being that change right now? Mister Chris?
- 27:44So my nonprofit is how I'm being the change that I want to see.
- 27:48And I was always taught if you if you identify a problem, come with
- 27:53a solution. And this is something that God put on my heart a year
- 28:00ago. And I don't know if anybody else on the panel that when God
- 28:07tells you something, sometimes you are with him. He knows best, but
- 28:11we still got to argue. And so he knows my heart. And I
- 28:17was told, if you know something from God when it's too big for you,
- 28:21and this was one of those that he gave me. The vision told
- 28:26me everything how to make it work, and starting out with just a house,
- 28:30and there's going to be a house where fathers can come. One of
- 28:33the things that even if you get visitation as a father, then they're like,
- 28:38there's certain stipulations that you have to meet in order to even have your
- 28:42kids, even after you've been given visitation. If there's a stand up where
- 28:48Chris Rock was talking about that the judge wanted to see the house and the
- 28:51beds and the refrigerator and stuff to see what he had there. This is
- 28:56Chris Rock, he's a millionaire, and the judge wanted to see if he
- 29:00had beds for his kids when they came to visit him. Imagine just a
- 29:04normal guy. And so the house is going to provide a house where for
- 29:08free people can come and stay. They can rent it out, not really
- 29:11rent, they're not paying paying it, but they have their kids. Every
- 29:15other weekend they can come and they have a place to bring their kids,
- 29:18or they'll have their own and then we're not using it for that, then
- 29:23we can set it up for visitation. Because when you are just getting visitation
- 29:26with you your child, a lot of times you go to the courthouse,
- 29:30they put you in a room with three chairs, one for the observer,
- 29:33one for the child, and one for the father. That is not a
- 29:37productive way to learn meet your kid, especially if you haven't been a part
- 29:41of their life for twelve years. Now, everybody's coming in at a different
- 29:45level. We want to meet people where they are and get them to where
- 29:48they need to be and be a part of their kids' life because it's such
- 29:53an important role. And for fathers that say, oh, well, my
- 29:56kids better off without me, statistics would stay otherwise. I mean, if
- 30:00a father's not in the house, have an eighty percent chance of incarceration for
- 30:07the brown and black community. So then that just starts the whole process over
- 30:11again. So if you look at statistics, father is well needed. And
- 30:17if you don't know how to be a father, I want people to come
- 30:18to me. I have a lot of godly men that have been willing to
- 30:22help out and show young men or older men how to be a father.
- 30:29Because even if father doesn't fatherhood doesn't come with a manual. We got the
- 30:32Bible that gives a manual on how to live. Yet every child's different and
- 30:37every time you try, it's going to be a little bit different. But
- 30:40we want to encourage you that you can do it, and we want to
- 30:42be that change. And you know, one of the other things I'm working
- 30:47on there some fatherhood books and the wisdom that we can pass from one generation
- 30:52to the other and then you live in how Jesus leadership Prince suppose of Jesus
- 31:00were. I was thinking it was going to be a corporate the Leadership book,
- 31:03and then after talking to a couple of people, and what God told
- 31:07me is that it's really a fatherhood book and that's really what He's sending me
- 31:11around. I've been a single father for about fourteen years now and it's been
- 31:17the most challenging yet rewarding thing in my life. And I just want to
- 31:22make sure that fathers know that you have the support and you can't do it.
- 31:32M yes you can reading that guy, you know, creating a father'
- 31:45you know house where fathers coming. You know, we'll act. But they
- 31:48kids. Because I'm here in course rated on Christmas, I'm around a bunch
- 31:53of men who was separated from their family, their kids most of all,
- 31:57got a lot of guys right like because they don't have access to their families
- 32:02and their kids. And because of that, even I've learned that, you
- 32:07know, that's one of the most powerful things that a man can have access
- 32:09to a family, to a family member, mainly his kids. So with
- 32:15that being said, I won't say, you know, I thank him very
- 32:17much to what he's doing, because you know, that's something that we all
- 32:21need, you know, a place where we would come and have somebody to
- 32:23mentor us from how to become the mean we need to be the fathers we
- 32:27need to be to a kid because you know, being separated from your kid
- 32:30is very dramatic, and you know, like I say, seeing that,
- 32:35you know that's very powerful what he's doing, I want to say, thank
- 32:37him very much, You're welcome. And that's one of the things that we
- 32:40looked at. I have an elder at my church who does prison ministry,
- 32:46and that's one of the things that him and I had talked about, is
- 32:50that there's a need for people that are coming out of prison. My niece's
- 32:53dad was wrongfully incarcerated for twenty three years and thankfully he was exonerated. And
- 32:59try to come back into your kid's life after twenty three years. Especially,
- 33:02it's bad when you did something, yet when you didn't do something and you
- 33:07got wrong for the accused and trying to build that bridge and get back into
- 33:10life good things with a little girl. Well, father always has time with
- 33:20a young man. It's how much how much work do you want to put
- 33:22in to be a part his life, because once they can, once a
- 33:24young man thinks he's a man, you're gonna have to work harder to get
- 33:28in there. And a lot of times you start out with just a relationship.
- 33:30You don't have that father some relationship, you can start out with a
- 33:32relationship and then you can get to a mentoring relationship and hopefully and prayerfully you
- 33:37get to the point where they still look at you as a father. So
- 33:40thank you for that. And that is one of the things that we're going
- 33:43to be working on too. Okay, well you know, can I speak
- 33:47on that again? Well, you know, it takes me to the decisions
- 33:52and how to become father than a kid's life, because you know, if
- 33:54people are coming from environments that that's toxic and drugs and you know, setting
- 34:00drugs and gang relations and stuff like that, you can't navigate, you can't
- 34:05you can't balance them out. You have to try to make a poverty decision
- 34:08on how to choose one or the other. If you just kids do with
- 34:12drugs and all this madness, then yes you will become a better father to
- 34:15your kids. But if you choose in the streets and drugs, us and
- 34:19all your other negative activities, then you can't be a father to your child.
- 34:23So it takes boops, like you know, men coming together to be
- 34:25able to mentor men and to being men and fathers to their kids. Because
- 34:30a lot of kids they are doing gang by drive by shooting and stuff like
- 34:34that. It's hard trying to convince the kids to put a gun down when
- 34:37they get inflows by the public. You know, we don't bother about the
- 34:39environment. You know that they grew up in. We need men out there
- 34:43like yourself, so to give them men to us and to becoming fathers to
- 34:46our kids. So thank you again, thank you. Anybody else want to
- 34:52time in, Yeah, if you don't mind, can you again just doing
- 34:57a might check. Let's talk about WICK for a minute. Remember we got
- 35:02to attack the ether one of that kind for all of these so called programs
- 35:07that they designed. And this is a key point. But them and their
- 35:13kind and mind and not in ours. And what's the definition of WICK?
- 35:17Women infant children, right, and they made it seem like it was such
- 35:22a good thing to accept this program and this programming And for those of you
- 35:28who don't know, or pretend like you don't know, wick means women infant
- 35:32children don't say anything about a man, right, And y'all know the story.
- 35:42Let's do some background because I don't want to spend too much time on
- 35:45it, but we got to address certain issues. One of the number one
- 35:49destroyers that had destroyed our people before accepting that. And what's so unique about
- 35:57the ether one of that kind's wicked system is it's okay for them to get
- 36:02and anyone can fall on hardship. That's not what I'm talking about. But
- 36:07when they create a program and where it goes second, third, and fourth
- 36:10generation where our women and children have to depend on the system to provide food,
- 36:19clothes, water, and shelter. Something drama that I some's drama that
- 36:22and most of the crime that's taking place. And now I'm almost ashamed shout
- 36:28out to decontroyed Man because we didn't come up like that. Honor to my
- 36:31father who passed away six months ago. I can speak on behalf of a
- 36:37real father. Kok Ray I Tune also known as mister Charlie Felt, my
- 36:43father who took responsibility for me, all of his brothers, my uncles,
- 36:49and my mother's brothers and my grandfather's on both sides, and my godfather shout
- 36:55out to him, him as well, who also me get a transition.
- 37:00You love in real your father's real men who prided ourselves on being able to
- 37:09take the responsibility right, We have to get back to debt as brothers.
- 37:25Can I just pick up my brother herm back of tone, just to give
- 37:31y'all understanding what he's talking about, because I did a lot of mentoring,
- 37:37and I coached youth. I did a lot of youth football. Now,
- 37:43the weak that he's talking about is just what you mean by generational is the
- 37:51woman don't have to do anything to try to get off. All you have
- 37:55to do is keep having children to stay on. Now these children fathers are
- 38:02being taken away. So now you have other men come in, like I
- 38:07said earlier, coming in and not guiding these young kids in a proper way.
- 38:14They're using them as a tool to sell drugs, that use them as
- 38:19a tool to commit crimes for them because they know the child's age, because
- 38:24there's no stipulation on the WIG program. Now, if they want the WIG
- 38:31program to be successful, then you will tell this young lady, then we'll
- 38:37give you. We'll give you two years on this program, will help you
- 38:43get an education, and after your education, will help you get a job,
- 38:47and then we'll help you get a house to get on your feet.
- 38:50Basically, but as long as there's no stipulations on this program, then the
- 38:58cycle, like you said, to be generational. I see my mother do
- 39:02it, so now I'm gonna do it. That's basically what he's alluding to
- 39:09about this wik program now is not having no whose stip LaaS of help you
- 39:24get. The more kids you have, the more food stamps you have,
- 39:29the less rent you have to pay. So now you got the boyfriend coming
- 39:34in. You don't have to look for a job because everything's being paid.
- 39:37Now the kids is looking at the two parents saying, if I get on
- 39:40this system, I don't have to work either. So that's what we're trying
- 39:46to do. We're trying to give people a sense of pride about themselves,
- 39:51women and men. And then the ones that don't want to help the children,
- 39:55then we got programs. We got a Bump Foundation. We got Next
- 40:00Generation Athlete program that deals with education and the athletes. We got AYG.
- 40:08There's a program that deal with youth in these organizations, deal with youth that
- 40:13parents really not helping them or don't care about. I don't seen kids eleven
- 40:19twelve, I mean not were earlier than that, eight and nine years old,
- 40:27four or five on going to a store and when they come out,
- 40:30they got a pocket full of stuff. Why because this is something I sing
- 40:35with my own eyes. When Mama wake up from coming out in the club
- 40:38the night before and they come up, Mama hungry, get out. They
- 40:44got to get out the house. Mama and folds sold the food stamps to
- 40:49get her hair nails done, go to the club. This is I'll tell
- 40:52you no statistics. I'm telling you stuff I've seen actually with my own eyes
- 40:57through the programs that I had through the years, how parents, while young
- 41:02parents treat their kids, how kids got to raise themselves and and that's that's
- 41:08gotta stop. So that's why we draw a line of lying in the sand
- 41:15and went to the elementary schools and the Guni high schools to help these young
- 41:20men, the young boys become men and get a sense of pride about themselves,
- 41:24that you don't have to be in the same state that your mother and
- 41:27your your father. You don't. You don't have to take that line to
- 41:30prison. You can do. It's other avenues you could take. And we
- 41:38have to let them know that we understand a lot more than what they're what
- 41:45they think will understand because kids think over just adults. We don't understand me
- 41:51and no Bacatuna. We was in the streets. We saw the coming up
- 41:54of so many kids. We lived it with them. Yo, you come
- 42:00over to my house, man, you know, you get something new because
- 42:02it was that village and we need to get back to being being a village.
- 42:08We need to get back again. People are sense so pride about themselves.
- 42:12And I'll just brother, I know, I just want people to understand
- 42:15that I know what you mean about the Wick system and that's basically how it
- 42:19flows mhm. And that was just one of many other systems that they put
- 42:25take out of the house. We're gonna take a commercial break and we'll be
- 42:30right back out. I'm welcome back, welcome back. You are tuned in
- 43:05too. Me and I am the Queen of collaborations. You are tuned into
- 43:12the group podcast. I am and I'm trying to love. And I tell
- 43:15you I have truly being enjoyed on this conversation with these amazing men. We
- 43:22have some amazing kings that are truly walking in their purpose. They are truly
- 43:27being the change that they desire to see in this world. They are leading
- 43:31in learning love. I tell you, you got to show some love.
- 43:37And love is an action word. It's it's something that you got to show.
- 43:39We can say we love you all day, but you got to show
- 43:45me and love me and say, show me the money, show me you
- 43:47love me, baby, show me you love me. How you show me
- 43:50you love me? Y'all showed me you love me tonight by showing up and
- 43:53being the kings that you are. So hats off to you, guys,
- 43:57hats off to you. I don't got a hat, so I take my
- 43:59glasses. I was like Patria, say, showing up being a change that
- 44:05you desire to see in this world. I tell you it's nothing like change.
- 44:09And I just love being in the mist some powerful men and and I
- 44:15just want y'all to tell I want to go around. I want people to
- 44:20be able to connect with y'all. So I want y'all to tell them your
- 44:23platforms and how they can connect with what's not going on. Because Ricardo saying,
- 44:30y'all, he he's the films, sir. He got films going on.
- 44:35He got some stuff going on that we can support, that we can
- 44:38share, that we can check out. So definitely want to be able to
- 44:42connect with that. And then you got mister Chris over there, he got
- 44:45that house that's opening up, that's gonna be helping some amazing people. He
- 44:49gonna be dropping some books. We definitely want to be able to stay connected
- 44:52to him. And and and mister Troy, y'all, mister Troy to mister
- 44:57Troy didn't tell y'all this, but mister Troy, mister Troy told me how
- 45:01they really turned Elizabeth City around and how they got those people in the community
- 45:07up and being about they community. You know, it's one thing to say
- 45:14thing that we are the village, But when you treat the village and you
- 45:17can go around yours and people know who you are and they and they see
- 45:22you coming and they know you mean business. That's that's the kind of stuff
- 45:27they did up there in Elizabeth City. They took their community back, So
- 45:30we definitely want to be able to keep in count with them so we can
- 45:34see how we can take it. Because I might need you to go down
- 45:37here to Tech Texas with me, because we need to take Texas back,
- 45:40because Texas is out of control. We need to take Texas back. We
- 45:45need to take it back because they are under their own little We need to
- 45:49take them back and bring them back to being up under the US because they
- 45:52up under their own little stuff. They make their own little rules so they
- 45:54can be over there and be corrupt and do all their little stuff. So
- 45:58I might need you to go down to tech Is with me. So we
- 46:00definitely got to stay. We definitely got to stay in connection, y'all.
- 46:04We're gonna go around the circle and everybody gonna give that contact information, and
- 46:09I want you guys to make sure that you connect with them. Tell them
- 46:13what social media sites you own, how we can follow. We're gonna start
- 46:16with the baby up there, all right, can you guys hear me?
- 46:36I just wanted to kind of like everybody already said something or whatever. I
- 46:39just wanted to add a little bit or whatever, because every you know,
- 46:44everybody answered it. I think that sometimes you need permission to be who God
- 46:52is calling you to be. And I think that even having something like this
- 46:57as far as the men, I kind of look at it like in a
- 47:00sense, like a men's group, and I think sometimes other men, young
- 47:04men, older men, you know, where we could like because we could
- 47:07all learn from each other. You know, no matter how old or young
- 47:09you are, everybody is different in experience and wisdom. So I think that
- 47:14it'll be great. I think to have like from state to state, you
- 47:17know, things like mister Chris is doing, like where they have houses for
- 47:23fathers and also men's group, you get what I mean, where men can
- 47:28come and they could cry, they could lay their burdens down. Just a
- 47:31plethora of different men, because not it's not one type besides God and Jesus
- 47:38Christ. There's not like one man on earth whereas it's like everybody's going to
- 47:43be able to relate to. But just having different from walks of life where
- 47:45people can pull from. And like I was talking about permission, sometimes you
- 47:51need permission from people to give you hope and to tell you that there's nothing
- 47:59that you can't do, you know what I mean, Because sometimes in life
- 48:01you need literally people to hold your body. Tell you like, not everybody
- 48:07is strong minded, not everybodybody, because we all could go through something similar.
- 48:15Right for somebody that could take them out, somebody else can have them
- 48:19on drugs, strung out, and for somebody else they could be like you
- 48:22know what, this is the fuel that I need to help me get to
- 48:24where I'm going. So I think permission is a must and it's needed to
- 48:30let people know, like listen, you could do it no matter where you
- 48:31come from, no matter who your mother and father is. I believe God
- 48:36is so good because sometimes God will bless you with surrogand fathers. Sometimes God
- 48:39to bless you with godfathers. Sometimes God would bless you with gym teachers.
- 48:44Sometimes that God would bless you in different ways. If we're able to really
- 48:47receive where love is coming from. Because I think a lot of times when
- 48:52we want love, right like if you was the private father or mother,
- 48:55you want that love. You grow up and you want that love from your
- 48:59father or your mother. But again, God is so good that God to
- 49:02bless you with so many amazing people in your life or whatever to love you.
- 49:07If you're able to recognize where the love is coming from. Me,
- 49:10I grew up and I struggled as a young man. I had a father,
- 49:15but I didn't my mother wasn't always present. So growing up for me,
- 49:19I yearned to have that affection for my mother, and I didn't have
- 49:23the vocabulary. And that's the thing too, as young men, we don't
- 49:27have the vocabulary to say a lot of times how we feel. We just
- 49:30know how to just act up and act out and you know, and just
- 49:35be angry you get what I mean, And we don't know how to say
- 49:37you hurt me. And I think that generation to generation, a lot of
- 49:42us are parents and their parents. It's like and it's kind of like invisible
- 49:46wounds. So if your mother, your father didn't have the mother or father
- 49:50that they need, they passed down like hurt. You know, generational curses.
- 49:55And that's why I think everybody that's on his life as generational curse breakers.
- 50:02To realize what I had or didn't have, that I can choose,
- 50:07you know, the life that I want from me, So shout out to
- 50:10everybody here. And but again I think permission is definitely needed in counseling and
- 50:16and like I said, talking those things out and realizing that healing is a
- 50:20journey. It's not like a one size fit all that you kind of constantly
- 50:25do the work. You get what I mean? And I know even for
- 50:30me, like like I started my series Hurt People, Hurt People Better and
- 50:35Broken, I went to school for extral science, and hey, my best
- 50:39friend had passed away and I'm really big on forgiveness. So the last week
- 50:45I didn't realize that I was spending the last week of his life with him,
- 50:49and we had got into a disagreement, and I remember we had a
- 50:53conversation and I remember feeling like, yo, I gotta change because I felt
- 50:58like I was operate and being somebody that I wasn't. And I think that's
- 51:02so important for men to be who they are. You know, when I
- 51:07was younger, I had so much pressure. I oh, and I feel
- 51:13like I've always been a misfit. I've never fit in. And I'm so
- 51:16grateful to God because now that I'm older, I realized that I was never
- 51:21meant to fit in. I was always meant to stand out. And I
- 51:24feel like God really started blessing me when I didn't. I wasn't who I
- 51:29pretend to be. You get what I mean, Like I had to be
- 51:31who God was calling me to be. I can't be TD Jake's, I
- 51:36can't be all the other people I could do being what you're at the end
- 51:38of the day. So I think that God could really truly bless us when
- 51:42we stand on what He's calling us to do. And like the other brother
- 51:46said about knowing our roles and who we are, and that guess what I
- 51:51need the garbage man. You get what I'm saying, Yo, I need
- 51:53you to flip the burgers have been found this out of personal even was but
- 52:00you know, but everybody role is important and I think a lot of times
- 52:06people feel the value because because of social status and all these different things.
- 52:10But I feel like, listen, you have McDonald's, flip them berger's to
- 52:14the glory of God. You know what I mean? You everything, it
- 52:16matters and we all are connecting, we all need each other. But forgiveness
- 52:22is important. Uh. I decided in my life I wanted to make a
- 52:28change, change, but it took me a long time to get to where
- 52:30I needed to be and God, but I realized forgiveness is always something that
- 52:36I tell people because you know, a couple of days later, my best
- 52:39friend had you know, went to sleep and he never woke up. So
- 52:43it bothered me for years. Like you know, he reached out to me
- 52:45and I didn't answer, and I was I was down for a long time,
- 52:50and I started writing. I started writing my experiences and then I started
- 52:55having doubt and I can't do it. And this one guy and this is
- 52:59what I'm talking about permission. I was reaching out God. That is so
- 53:02good. I wanted to be an actor always. I never had the resources.
- 53:06I never knew where to go. I didn't know anybody in I kN
- 53:07Kney where I'm from. I have a population it's like ninety thousand people and
- 53:12where I'm from. And I reached out to this guy or whatever, and
- 53:15I've seen a series on YouTube. I'm like, how do you this year?
- 53:17How do you do this? That God told me, saalis create your
- 53:20own I felt like in that moment that God was being like a beacon of
- 53:23life because he didn't know me. I didn't know him, and it was
- 53:27just like he was giving me permission, like to go be great and go
- 53:30do what it is God was calling to do. And then the moment he
- 53:34was telling me is I started getting overwhelmed. I can't do this, making
- 53:37all these excuses like God, like Moses, God picked somebody else, you
- 53:40get what I mean. And I wasn't realizing because I was sitting the church
- 53:45the other day where when God he equips or God gives you a vision and
- 53:49God gives you a dream and he tells you to go do it. We
- 53:51don't like that God is with us a lot of Like Joseph, he went
- 53:53through all of the stuff he'd been through, and the worst say is that
- 53:59God with him in that prison. You get what I'm saying. God was
- 54:01with them in the all way to the palace, and we think, like,
- 54:06okay, God is gonna be like just go and do it. By
- 54:08stuff. We don't realize that God, he's with us, So he's been
- 54:13with me. He's with you, guys, Lola, can you guys hear
- 54:31me? I'm sorry, I don't know what happened. Hurt People, Hurt
- 54:37People, Better and Broken This series. It's on YouTube. The subtitle is
- 54:40Bitter and Broken Web series. Of course, it's about hurt people, hurt
- 54:45people and how you know we're hurt? I don't know. And it's really
- 54:50about eventually getting to the healing part. But it's just a bunch of people
- 54:53going through hurtful things. I play young father who's an alcoholic, who's a
- 55:00a baby boy, and he doesn't really all he wanted to do is party
- 55:04me because he doesn't realize that he's been he has trauma. He doesn't want
- 55:08to deal with the trauma. So what he does he turns up and drink.
- 55:12And then the other character, Butschaer is a young man, he's a
- 55:15pre k kid. He's people pleasing. He wants to help somebody else but
- 55:19doesn't know how to take care of himself. And then Bray, she's a
- 55:22young young woman who's been promiscus and she's trying to find out where she's from
- 55:30because she's been in the system. And the season two pickup with three little
- 55:34boys and they're living on the streets. Their mother is addicted to love.
- 55:37I just wanted to change the narrative because people don't realize that you can get
- 55:42high off of people. You get what I mean? And and is real
- 55:46like people could be a drug. The wrong kind of people could be a
- 55:50drug to you. And people sometimes are set to be distractions. Uh so
- 55:55what social media sites are you? Okay? So, uh, Facebook hurt
- 56:02people, hurt people better and Broken, the series uh Instagram, Hurt People
- 56:07series, Facebook book Ricardo Richard and Instagram and YouTube Better and Broken websites and
- 56:15the movie drops on July the tenth, July to tenth. We're gonna be
- 56:22sharing the links on the page, so y'all make sure that y'all check out
- 56:24the page later on. I'll be sharing them links. Okay, mister,
- 56:31how can we follow and support you and connect with you? Well, you
- 56:39can follow me on Facebook on the tour reader you go. If you want
- 56:45to get on the things that we're doing, you can follow my church page
- 56:47which is Victory Praise the Worship Center Pastor Donia Spence, first Raader of Michelle
- 56:52Spence. You'll see all the community events that we will be doing, all
- 57:00the involvement that I church be doing in the community. Our church is basically
- 57:05an open book, so all our events and everything that we'll be doing be
- 57:09on the page Victory Praise and Worship and anything you see that they're doing.
- 57:13You know, I'm a part of So, like I say, you can
- 57:15contact me on just Facebook to read and could I just say one thing Chris,
- 57:23I don't know if he's doing it already, but one of the changes
- 57:28that we made in Elizabeth City. We made our face and name to our
- 57:35vote. And what I mean by that, if you want my vote,
- 57:37then you need to know me. See you got you have a program going
- 57:42on. So every every official index community should know your face if you have
- 57:50If you want to do an open house and you voted him, they need
- 57:53to be at your open house. You need to be able to walk.
- 57:57You been, You need to be a be in the grocery store and see
- 58:00the mayor. He comes up, you say hey, Chris, how you
- 58:00doing. They want you to a vote, but they don't know our name
- 58:07because we don't put our faces, our name to the vote who were voting
- 58:10for. So what we did in our community. You come to our church
- 58:16and you solicity our votes, then guess what when our church have a community
- 58:21event, we expect you to be there. We expect you to be walking
- 58:24around meeting people at our church event. Because granted you can't out church and
- 58:30ask for us for our support and votes. The chief of police that some
- 58:35way and the police that's on that force to stop buy and say hey Chris,
- 58:39how you doing? Just stop by checking on you. Man. We
- 58:44have to have a relationship that's the key thing relationship to everyone in the community,
- 58:51especially be our leaders from the mayors to the police. Because I don't
- 58:55know if y'all noticed or not when we're talking about six from changing police cars
- 59:01used to have protect and serve on the side of the police car. If
- 59:07you look at most of the police cars, now you know what nor what
- 59:12it says on the side law enforcement? Ye, right, So they're not
- 59:21coming to serve, They coming to enforce the law. That's it. That's
- 59:25why so many things is happening because we're not paying attention to how they changed
- 59:30just that simple phrase on the police car. So I'm saying you, brother,
- 59:35is yeah, make your name known to everybody that that's on your city
- 59:37council, your mail because if they want to vote and support because you have
- 59:43a voice that can reach many people in your community. Now we can't vote
- 59:49with him where hey man, he tried not to let me get the house.
- 59:52Oh yeah, we can support We can support those because they helped me
- 59:58every step of the way to get my house. When I have something going
- 1:00:00on, they're there and the city have funds for people like you. Every
- 1:00:07city get a budget. If you don't give a five hundred dollars to go
- 1:00:13towards your house. Make sure you get that five hundred dollars. Yeah,
- 1:00:17that's how you make a difference in your community is you got to you got
- 1:00:22to be have a personal relationship with the leaders of your community, because that's
- 1:00:28that's what we're doing. Yeah, they got to know who you is.
- 1:00:30That's how I keep They got to know who you are. Just don't they
- 1:00:34don't see if building, I got a house over here for this, Now
- 1:00:36I need you to be a part of this. They need to know who
- 1:00:37you are. That's as I like that. They got to know who I
- 1:00:43am. They gonna know me before they see me. They gonna they gonna
- 1:00:47they gonna hear me coming. Yeah, and that's gonna make a change.
- 1:00:52Now. Now they got to see your community different. And mister Troy,
- 1:00:55one of the things I want to point out that you just said is that
- 1:00:59we went from community policing to police in the community, and that that flip
- 1:01:06changed everything. And so when you have police officers that are police in the
- 1:01:10community, they're not community police and they're not building those relationships. Used to
- 1:01:15be they would know who always in the town or who always on the block.
- 1:01:21And then he goes, hey, what happened, But now they want
- 1:01:22to just enforce the ball. But if you go back to community police and
- 1:01:27and you build relationships with the people in the community, now you're a part
- 1:01:30of the community. You're not enforcing something in the community. So yes,
- 1:01:37that's exactly right, because just you getting to know the police people, the
- 1:01:42police are on the police force. When you have something, now they get
- 1:01:46to know who's connected to you. Then when they get to know who's connected
- 1:01:51to you, they get to know who's connected to them. You see them,
- 1:01:53see see what I'm going with it. So if you start that personal
- 1:01:59relationship up, then they got to start a personal relationship with everybody that's connected
- 1:02:02you and connected to them. And now they have no choice. They have
- 1:02:07no choice but to say, Okay, they might not know him, but
- 1:02:13I better ask questions of who he knows. Do you know Chris? Y'all
- 1:02:16know Chris around to the house and help out around the house. Okay,
- 1:02:20Now that that might change the whole situation, just because they said I know
- 1:02:24Chris. Yeah, because you have that relationship with the police force, you
- 1:02:31know what I mean? Yep, So that that's what I just want to
- 1:02:35throw that point out to you brother, and I know I might go I'm
- 1:02:38go knocked up, carolwn. I don't know where you're at. But hey,
- 1:02:40if I could just do anything for you, man, just let me
- 1:02:43know, like I said, if you're far on Facebook to read or very
- 1:02:46represent it's the worship center. Like I said, it's no matter what,
- 1:02:53no great thing about my father's house. It could be my father's house Dallas,
- 1:03:00my father's house, New York, my father's house LA. Once you
- 1:03:02got the blueprint, it's cookie cutter. You just pick it up, put
- 1:03:06it in a different city. Every city needs this and so it's about fulfilling
- 1:03:09the need that's everywhere and we need it everywhere. Amen. Amen, So
- 1:03:17how can we get in touch with you? Chris? So? Uh?
- 1:03:21And my email address is Chris at my father's House KC dot org. Or
- 1:03:27my website will be launching on Father's Day next week and it'll be my father's
- 1:03:32house KC dot org. No apostrophys web done like apostoses, So no apostophys
- 1:03:39So my father's house cased dot org. All right, man, hou,
- 1:03:49how can we get it that to it you? First of all, honors
- 1:03:55to all the brothers up here on this punt of the night and all the
- 1:03:59brothers listening. It's live as well as when it's going to be archived.
- 1:04:02Okay, I have my own business as you can see sound therapy with magic
- 1:04:10Man Haru LLC. Trying to cross my t's and dot my eyes as far
- 1:04:15as business right. But in about two days get coreer of thirty eight year
- 1:04:24Opportunity Nighthawks an operation Takeover. I was taken over almost thirty eight years ago
- 1:04:31on a Thursday, twelve thirty midnight, and I started from walking the streets
- 1:04:38and now to go on to different synagogues, churches, mosque because religion is
- 1:04:45one of the twos that was used to not only destroy us, but to
- 1:04:49keep the separation going. Okay, But the unique thing about that wake up
- 1:04:56call is I received a message and it says wake up Admas, sleep and
- 1:05:03take this message to the people who needed the most. And that message with
- 1:05:10battleshep otherwise it's Genesis chapter fifteen, verse thirteen and fourteen. Take time to
- 1:05:16look it up, y'all. And I challenge all of the so called leaders,
- 1:05:21especially in the black church, black synagogue and so called black mass jed
- 1:05:30because we as children of Abraham according to our scriptures, be it the Torah
- 1:05:38right, bet the New Testament, or al Crime right, it's take time
- 1:05:43to look at because when you talk about changing our positions, thanks to Joe
- 1:05:46Biden, thanks to real leaders who know, thanks to people that as of
- 1:05:54soon to be June and nineteenth, the so called June teenthster's coming up,
- 1:06:00it's a confirmation of what our scriptures has already said, and they can't denied.
- 1:06:06Hollywood, don't hide it. Our scriptures said it first. The so
- 1:06:12called leaders either they don't know it or they don't want to reveal it.
- 1:06:15But I only hold the so called leaders to a small or my new responsibility
- 1:06:23when it comes to freeing our minds in our bodies. Right, But that
- 1:06:28was the message almost thirty eight years ago. Coming up in two days,
- 1:06:32you can find me broadcasting, remember podcasting is mine. But you can find
- 1:06:38me broadcasting with the greatest company of internet radio, especially during the digital age.
- 1:06:45I'm the host that we will to wear you. Matter of fact,
- 1:06:47let me do this club right quick. My next advancement because no more time
- 1:06:51for lessons because lessons will step backwards. Right speaking about you have to share
- 1:07:04deep count and you know I was given the military mindset. But a lot
- 1:07:09of people are not ready for that there. But you can start off not
- 1:07:13just boycotting, but stop supporting people who don't care about us. Okay,
- 1:07:17you can find me the way that it is sound therapy with magicmen Heru LLC
- 1:07:28at gmail dot com or Magicmanhuru at gmail dot com. You can email me
- 1:07:32directly right as many ways you can contact me. If you are serious,
- 1:07:38then in box me and I will reveal my business member, separating my person
- 1:07:45from my business. And this is about our turn in time. Y'all,
- 1:07:48this is real if you are concerned about the things that's been happening in our
- 1:07:53world, right, we have to do this. We have to even go
- 1:07:58back a time before integration, when we as men and women had no choice
- 1:08:05but to depend on ourselves in each other. Let's be real. Anything that
- 1:08:11they created didn't have us in our you know, in our best interests.
- 1:08:15It was in the interest of theirs. All right, Okay, we have
- 1:08:19to do this because again according to our scriptures, we are about to inherit
- 1:08:29and be rewarded for all the hell we've been through for over four hundred years.
- 1:08:32And they not for you know, they not stopping the process we are
- 1:08:36because most people either they don't know or they don't believe it. They was
- 1:08:42never taught it right, So you got to get out of that Hollywood concept
- 1:08:47that the children of the scriptures looked like people other than us. They can't
- 1:08:55hide it, y'all, they can't hide it. And that's what sound therapist
- 1:09:00about. Because when you take that time time, and the key word is
- 1:09:04take for the so called revolutionaries out there, bad present of future. What
- 1:09:12made me difference when they when they woke me up. It ain't about no
- 1:09:16gimming. You ain't gonna give me nothing. I'm taking mind from my soul
- 1:09:20to my mind, to my actions and everything. Right. We have to
- 1:09:25do this because they're not gonna do it for us. Look at the people,
- 1:09:29and ain't talking about the people that's standing the right. Look at the
- 1:09:30people that's migrating here from other parts of the world. They're not going through
- 1:09:34no wicked system. They're doing and receiving more and less than one generation than
- 1:09:42we did. And for y'all, they're not even marching, singing and dancing
- 1:09:45and going through the hell. They're not even being shot out in the street
- 1:09:48like an animal by the so called you know, bad police, which is
- 1:09:51another game, right. Bottom line is we have to do this, and
- 1:09:58our elders or ancestors or angels or whatever you want to call them, have
- 1:10:02been waiting on us to do it. And you think ime lying you better?
- 1:10:05You know again, look up in a book of Psalms, write chapter
- 1:10:11eighty six and read the entire chapter. It gives us the responsibility as children
- 1:10:15of God to you know, wake up and look out for the children that's
- 1:10:21fatherless. Shout out to all real fathers out there, y'all. And you
- 1:10:26don't have to be a father by blood. You can be fathered by adoption
- 1:10:30or adaptation. The last thing I want to share is I came up doing
- 1:10:34an error during the sixties, the seventies error. Well, we had something
- 1:10:40unique. First of all, I ain't no other man on this planet that
- 1:10:42can compare to us when it comes to me mentally as well as spiritually.
- 1:10:45And everybody don't have that soul. And I keep reacting, you know,
- 1:10:48reiterating, right, So is when we take responsibility and we have care and
- 1:10:54concern for ourselves and each other, other people don't have it. And I
- 1:10:59also want to say something to before this end, because I want to put
- 1:11:01on record, I am not concerned with you and your kind the way that
- 1:11:06I'm concerned with me and mind until other people and to me, you know,
- 1:11:11I think different, right, I don't care what other people think.
- 1:11:15It's about us, because nobody else cares about us the way that we should
- 1:11:19do. We have to do this starting from forms like this here. We
- 1:11:26can no longer allowed even one of their kind to keep killing our men,
- 1:11:32women and children and getting away with it. Hold them accountable. And I
- 1:11:41also want to say something like this, I wasn't gonna hold I'm a military
- 1:11:44mindset. It's my next show that's coming up on June twenty ninth. And
- 1:11:49right now we don't have as a body of people. We don't have the
- 1:11:54training and to know how the way other people do. That's got a appetite
- 1:11:58to kill without a reason. So when I say a military mindset, I'm
- 1:12:02not talking about grabbing no gun. Come on, man, you're not ready
- 1:12:05for that yet. You ain't ain't ready for that yet. But what I
- 1:12:09do encourage it to take your mind back that you can do. And we're
- 1:12:14talking about this Asian guy who shot one of our children, who no longer
- 1:12:19have a future, No longer on this planet. We can't allow them to
- 1:12:23get away with that there. Time allowed them to get away with that there.
- 1:12:29Do you understand? Stop supporting them with your money, because we in
- 1:12:34a serious battle for our life, y'all. For those of you who are
- 1:12:38serious, hold them responsible and then we can wait for them to do it.
- 1:12:45But why shouldn't we We have to do this. We had a fold
- 1:12:49shaped two brothers would meet each other. They had the creative for rain like
- 1:12:55would meet each other and in the process of a handshakee a real soul shape.
- 1:13:00So that's something that we had. Other people didn't have it because they
- 1:13:03don't have that creativity right. And in the process to that handshake, we
- 1:13:09would know how that brother's doing in exchange, if that brothers need something,
- 1:13:16if something going off with his family, And in the process, before the
- 1:13:24hands was taken away from that handshake, we would exchange a lot of information.
- 1:13:29We didn't wait. If we knew that that brother needed some lights or
- 1:13:31whatever, or some food or maybe a little bit low on funds, we
- 1:13:35did it automatically. Back then, we was already prepared because as soul people,
- 1:13:42we should be able to feel the pain in the need of ourselves and
- 1:13:45each other. We shouldn't have to wait for them to come to us,
- 1:13:49y'all. And that's the thing called man's pride. Where as black men we
- 1:13:56have that. We have to get back to that. Okay, I just
- 1:14:00want to take time to do that. Thank you so much, International Internet
- 1:14:04Radio Hall of Fame, my spiritual daughter, the brilliant and beautiful, Thank
- 1:14:11you for all that you do. I give thanks to the heaven Father for
- 1:14:14sending you right. Thank you and allow me to be a part of this
- 1:14:20podium tonight. That's a mother. Okay, I'm your brother. Amen.
- 1:14:30Well, I tell you I truly have been blessed on tonight. I pray
- 1:14:33that everyone that has tuned in have been blessed by something that has come forth
- 1:14:38from these amazing kings on tonight. I just want to encourage you guys to
- 1:14:43stay on this journey, to keep doing what you're doing. Know that you
- 1:14:46have one sister over here that's always rooting for you. Know that because you
- 1:14:53are now connected, you've come across the platform. You are connected, we
- 1:14:57grounded, we rooted, We're not going nowhere. That spiritual connection I'm talking
- 1:15:02about from day one. That's that's my album that I met him, fell
- 1:15:05in love with him. He connected me with Chroy. I tell you,
- 1:15:09God know what you need in your life when you need it, and he
- 1:15:14would bring people that just just connect right there. And I tell you I
- 1:15:19fell in love with Ricardo as soon as he came on the network and I
- 1:15:25heard his story. I fell in love with that young man. And I
- 1:15:29follow him. I see him, he know, but I follow him.
- 1:15:32I see his lives often. I see his lives. I don't come in
- 1:15:36a lot, but I see you, baby, and I thank you for
- 1:15:41all that you do. I appreciate you, and I am cheering for you.
- 1:15:45And mister Chris, I tell you the first opportunity. The first time
- 1:15:48I met him, I think we was on the phone for two hours.
- 1:15:51His spirit is amazing, I am. I'm super proud of him. I
- 1:15:56cannot wait to see all the amazing things he's doing. He has stepped out
- 1:16:01on faith and and he is moving forward with this ministry. And I just
- 1:16:05thank God for each and every one of you guys, because you are doing.
- 1:16:11You are being that change that you want to see in this world.
- 1:16:15And it's just about us moving, and it's just about us doing because we
- 1:16:18can have faith all day. But if we don't act upon that faith,
- 1:16:23if we don't step out and do something, because guess what, ain't nothing
- 1:16:27coming after sky. I keep telling people they wait for them white horses to
- 1:16:30ride down after the sky, they not coming. Get up, get up
- 1:16:34and do something. When you get up and you be that change, then
- 1:16:39you'll start seeing the change that you want to see. And that's what I
- 1:16:43keep telling people that that's that's that's my stance, that's that's that's that's my
- 1:16:46motto. And guess what I stand on it. I ain't backing down,
- 1:16:50I ain't moving I ain't taking it back. You won't change. You gotta
- 1:16:55be that change. And tonight I thank you guys for being that change and
- 1:17:00know that you got a sister over here supporting you. Guys. I love
- 1:17:02you, and thank you for stopping by and sharing with us on tonight.
- 1:17:08I truly truly enjoyed you guys. There's been some amazing comments in the comments
- 1:17:14section. They have been saying they truly appreciate your visions. They think that
- 1:17:19you guys are powerful, and they have truly enjoyed this conversation on tonight.
- 1:17:25Y'all get a chance, please go back and share this, share this life.
- 1:17:29I love you guys, and I appreciate you. Kings. Know that
- 1:17:33I got you. Continue to take your throne. I love you guys.
- 1:17:39Y'all have a great night. I want to thank you guys for tuning in
- 1:17:43and sharing with us on tonight. Again. I pray that this have been
- 1:17:45a blessing to somebody and that you will continue to leave by example, be
- 1:17:51that change that you want to see in this world. I love you,
- 1:17:55guys, have a good night. All things ain't what thing used to be
- 1:18:04known? Where did all the blue sky's boys? And as the wind that
- 1:18:13blows from the Lord, and something