Latest / The Scene Projects / Demi Michelle Schwartz on Authenticity, Creativity, and Building Community
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- 0:02Well, welcome into a very exciting episode of the scene.
- 0:04I'm your host, Bubba Starts, and with me today is Demi Michelle.
- 0:08Welcome to the show, Demi.
- 0:09Hi.
- 0:10Thank you so much for having me.
- 0:11Well, it's my pleasure.
- 0:13You're a songwriter.
- 0:14You're an author.
- 0:15You're a busy girl.
- 0:17I am.
- 0:19Let's talk about hear me out.
- 0:21You had a new album come out this year.
- 0:23Why don't you tell me about it?
- 0:25Yeah.
- 0:26So hear me out is my sophomore pop album.
- 0:30I released my debut album, Dear Diary, in 2021, and then I had an EP.
- 0:35But hear me out is definitely a project that I feel like really captures my evolution as a
- 0:41songwriter and a person and also kind of my confidence in myself.
- 0:46It took me a really long time to not only become confident with myself as a person and
- 0:50using my voice, but also my songwriting as well.
- 0:54And so I think that album really captures that evolution.
- 0:58And it's an eight track project.
- 1:01And the whole inspiration behind it is that I feel like over the past few years, past five
- 1:07years, really, I was in a lot of situations, and I had a lot of experiences that I didn't
- 1:12really talk about for various reasons.
- 1:15Maybe I was afraid to, or I was afraid of judgment, or I just didn't feel confident to
- 1:20use my voice through my music or just in general.
- 1:22And I feel like because I passed that barrier, I finally felt comfortable sharing some things
- 1:28that I haven't really talked about at all, really.
- 1:31And songwriting has always been my way of processing things and getting things out of my
- 1:35system.
- 1:35And so hear me out became that project.
- 1:37It's definitely a very fierce and bold and unapologetically honest project.
- 1:42And I really loved creating these songs.
- 1:45Not only writing them, but recording them in the studio as well.
- 1:48I'm a multi genre artist.
- 1:50I do pop and country and some other genres too, but pop has always been my main genre.
- 1:54And so returning to my roots for this album was also a lot of fun.
- 1:58And that album is finally in the world.
- 2:02I'm submitting it to various award shows for nomination consideration as well.
- 2:09One of the songs, Passive Aggressive, won the songwriter achievement award at the Josie Music
- 2:13Awards last year, which is crazy.
- 2:15And so it's already gotten some recognition in some ways, but I'm really excited just to keep
- 2:20talking about these songs and this album and seeing where it goes next.
- 2:24I had some other friends that wanted Josie this year as well.
- 2:27Yeah.
- 2:28No.
- 2:28They're great.
- 2:29I I've been involved with them for three years, and it was crazy to finally win an award, so
- 2:37that was wild.
- 2:38Well, congratulations to you.
- 2:40I'm so proud of you.
- 2:41Thank you.
- 2:42It takes so much courage just to write one song.
- 2:46Yeah.
- 2:47And I'm a songwriter myself, so so I know, but I was blessed with an unnatural confidence.
- 2:54So I never struggled with wanting to wanting to put things out there.
- 2:59I've oh, I had I was a busker.
- 3:01I stood on the corner with my guitar and just put it out to the world, you know, mostly
- 3:06because I was hungry.
- 3:07That's how I was feeding myself at different times during my life.
- 3:10But, I love the the passion and the mission behind hear me out was to really because it's
- 3:18not just gonna give you a voice.
- 3:20It's going to be the voice of other young women and young men out there that maybe have lived
- 3:26through the same experiences or feel those same emotions.
- 3:30Like, that's what it's really about when we get down to the root of being a songwriter or or
- 3:36being anyone who shares their their craft with the world.
- 3:40Yeah.
- 3:40No.
- 3:41I completely agree.
- 3:41I think one of the big themes of the project that I was keeping in mind as I was writing it
- 3:46was this balance between remaining silent and speaking your mind.
- 3:52And there's a song on the album called Quiet, which is one of my favorites.
- 3:56And, basically, he's talking about how there's power in silence, and sometimes not saying
- 3:59anything is stronger than saying something.
- 4:02And so there's also that kind of balance as well.
- 4:04It's like when to stay quiet, when to speak your mind.
- 4:07And I think it's been really great to see the response as well.
- 4:11And just like from people who have followed my musical journey since the beginning, because
- 4:15this is very different.
- 4:16And I'm a very kind and sweet person.
- 4:18Some of those songs on there are very, like, sassy, and they're like, oh my gosh.
- 4:22We saw, like, a side of you that we never saw before.
- 4:25And so that's been really fun to to kind of show a different side of myself in this album.
- 4:30Well and that's great.
- 4:31And and how nice of your fans to not just accept it, but to to be excited about it.
- 4:39Yeah.
- 4:39Yeah.
- 4:39To to be like, oh, you're you're not you're not just this person that you've put out to the the
- 4:47outward facing world.
- 4:48Right?
- 4:48You have a person inside of you, and you're starting to turn that camera in.
- 4:53And so much of what you have touched on with me here in just a few minutes is really a mission
- 4:59of what not just the scene projects as a podcast itself, but as a larger network, and
- 5:06we're starting more shows to to get real.
- 5:10I think the world as a whole is pretty tired of superficial content just for content's sake.
- 5:18I I'm probably a bit older than you, but I grew up when Jackass was still on TV.
- 5:23Right?
- 5:24And we're literally just watching these idiots falling off escape pictures and slamming
- 5:28themselves into each other with carts.
- 5:30And, like, that was the top show when I was growing up.
- 5:35And to see how far we've come in the last few decades, albeit slowly, I feel like now the
- 5:43because the attention has kind of been rested away from these mainstream major media outlets
- 5:51and it's put into the YouTubes and the and the podcast apps and all these different places
- 5:57that people can really find their community and the community that's going to support them.
- 6:04So Mhmm.
- 6:04Yeah.
- 6:04I I I applaud you for everything that you're doing
- 6:08Thank you.
- 6:08Because it's it's adding to this momentum of realness that is trying to express itself
- 6:15through all of us of just like, you don't have to try and bury this and and act like
- 6:20everything is rainbows and sunshine all the
- 6:22time.
- 6:23It's not
- 6:24that way, and we all know that.
- 6:26Yeah.
- 6:27Yeah.
- 6:27No.
- 6:27I completely agree.
- 6:28And I think authenticity is something I try to tell everyone, like, no matter what you're
- 6:33doing artistically, like songwriting, writing, whatever.
- 6:36I think it's really important to be authentic.
- 6:38And I've had, like, quite a few experiences over the past few years, like, with music where
- 6:43I kinda wanted to do something authentic to me, and I got, like, kind of weird reactions or
- 6:48judged for.
- 6:48And a perfect example is my EP, It Is What It Is.
- 6:51It's a multi genre project.
- 6:53And I got, like, some not very nice comments from people whose opinions I value saying,
- 6:58like, oh, this project's all over the place.
- 7:00You should stick to one genre, blah blah blah.
- 7:01And I'm like, why should I put myself in a box and, like, that that project won album of the
- 7:07year at the International Singer and Strong Writers Association Awards?
- 7:09And it's like, okay, guys.
- 7:11Now you can keep talking.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:14Kiss my butt is what you can do.
- 7:16Yeah.
- 7:16I'm glad
- 7:17I didn't listen to you.
- 7:23How has how has songwriting changed you and especially with this album where you're coming
- 7:30out and you're being, you know, in your words, more fierce?
- 7:34How has it changed you as a person?
- 7:37So much.
- 7:38I think that I personally have healed from a lot of situations through songwriting.
- 7:45And I've discovered a lot about myself through songwriting.
- 7:49And so I feel like, as a person, I naturally change because of that.
- 7:54And I'm much more confident in who I am.
- 7:56I feel like a huge thing with me is boundaries and just from being in the music industry as
- 8:03well.
- 8:03And it is what it is.
- 8:05That EP is very much centered around, like, kind of taking back control of my life and
- 8:10boundaries as well.
- 8:11And so I feel like I know what I want.
- 8:13I know what I deserve, and I'm not gonna settle for any less.
- 8:17And by writing different songs on various topics and different experiences and emotions
- 8:21I've gone through over the past five years or so, I've really come to a place of like, okay,
- 8:27this is who I am.
- 8:28This is what I want.
- 8:29This is what I'm going to get.
- 8:30This is what I deserve and kind of just focusing on that.
- 8:34And that just kind of transfers over into other areas of my life too.
- 8:38Like in publishing, I'm much more sure of myself and what I want and the kind of
- 8:43connections I'm looking for and just in my personal life too.
- 8:47I think sometimes we can settle for things and kind of what things happen to us instead of
- 8:52taking control.
- 8:53And so I feel like through songwriting and discovering things about myself, I'm able to
- 8:58make changes for the better.
- 9:00Well, I think something that you touched on there was the the creative process.
- 9:05Being creative and expressing yourself is so key to this human experience.
- 9:12Now whether you use that to write a book and publish it or you're using it to write a song
- 9:18and put it out there or it's all just for you, right, it doesn't matter as long as you're
- 9:24expressing yourself.
- 9:25It's going to tell you more about who you are than necessarily who, you know, loves you on
- 9:31the outside.
- 9:32Yeah.
- 9:34Yeah.
- 9:34No.
- 9:34I completely agree.
- 9:35And I think going back to what you were saying before about how sometimes things can seem so
- 9:40picture perfect and superficial or whatever, I think whenever artists can look inward and be
- 9:47authentic, that's what causes connection because there are enough people, too many
- 9:52people doing music and writing and stuff.
- 9:56Like, it's so oversaturated.
- 9:57There's so many people.
- 9:57And the only way you can possibly stand out is to be yourself.
- 10:01And I know sometimes it can be easy to be like, oh, that kind of genre is really taken off.
- 10:06I'm gonna do that.
- 10:07Or this kind of promotion tactics seem to be working for these people.
- 10:11I'm gonna do that.
- 10:11Like, it's easy to look at things and compare and think like, oh, if that's working for that
- 10:15person, it should work for me too.
- 10:17And that's definitely not the case.
- 10:18I've been, like, completely genuine to myself since the very beginning, and everything that
- 10:24I've gone to and, like, accomplished and things like that, it's all because I was authentic
- 10:28with myself and not listening to all the noise.
- 10:33Well, the and the noise is just that.
- 10:35It's just noise.
- 10:36It's always going to be there in the background.
- 10:39If you can't cut through that to speak to someone's heart, I don't think you're ever
- 10:45going to make it.
- 10:46No.
- 10:46You know, especially in the music industry.
- 10:48I mean, take a guy like Jelly Roll.
- 10:50He was in the music industry for twenty five years Yeah.
- 10:53Before anything started actually going right.
- 10:56Yeah.
- 10:57I wasn't a a huge fan of his music, you know, from back in the day.
- 11:01I know he's been through South Dakota, but I have a feeling that what he was writing about
- 11:06then isn't as real as what he started writing about in the last five, six years and probably,
- 11:12you know, a little bit longer than that.
- 11:13But as these songs are coming out, and I will attest to it because I've been at a concert of
- 11:18his, you know, crying my eyes out, and it spoke to my heart.
- 11:22It didn't speak to my mind.
- 11:24It spoke directly to my heart, and I felt his pain in that moment.
- 11:28And I think that's what people these days are really about because we've all been through
- 11:33some stuff.
- 11:34You haven't lived.
- 11:35You know?
- 11:36If you were born in the eighties or nineties, I was born in '86.
- 11:41I've seen it all at this point.
- 11:42Like, I've been through a lot.
- 11:43We've all been through a lot these last five years alone.
- 11:46So that you you're not gonna get by.
- 11:49You know?
- 11:49There's a reason Friends isn't running a TV.
- 11:52And it's like that.
- 11:54Just, you know, the era of
- 11:55the
- 11:55sitcom, because of its scripted perfectness, it isn't what people want to see.
- 12:01And even reality TV that's probably why reality TV became so popular, you know, in the last ten
- 12:07to fifteen years.
- 12:08It's because people wanted that realness.
- 12:10But even that became so scripted and everything, they're like, okay.
- 12:12Well, we know that that's not real either.
- 12:15And now where everyone has an outlet, the podcasting especially is so great for this.
- 12:21It's such a low point of entry to just get behind a microphone and put your thoughts out
- 12:26into the world.
- 12:28And now and that's a mission of ours is to start a million podcasters, not to do a million
- 12:34episodes.
- 12:35That's easy.
- 12:36I'll have a million conversations in my life.
- 12:38No problem.
- 12:38But to get other people started and having conversations and getting to know themselves
- 12:45through getting to know other people, I really think that's the future of this thing and being
- 12:50inside of that movement and feeling that momentum every single day now.
- 12:56I know that I know that's where it's going.
- 12:58Right?
- 12:58Like, it's
- 12:59not a maybe this might have no.
- 13:00This is where it's gonna go Mhmm.
- 13:02Because of the heart to heart connection that we're able to have with each other in this
- 13:07format.
- 13:08Yeah.
- 13:08No.
- 13:08I completely agree.
- 13:09And I host two shows as well.
- 13:11I have a music one called Right On Track and a publishing one called Literary Blend.
- 13:16And kind of what you were just saying there is, like, when you talk to other people and you
- 13:21have that human connection, I learned so much about myself.
- 13:24I become more empathetic hearing others' experiences.
- 13:28I make more connections.
- 13:29I widen my network.
- 13:30There's so many benefits to podcasting from both sides, like being the guest and the host.
- 13:37And I'm just beginning to dip my toes into the guest portion of it.
- 13:41I've, I've only been podcasting since last April, so it hasn't even been a year yet.
- 13:48But I had a phone full of numbers that I could call when I was able to then move over to Zoom.
- 13:54It really expanded, because I'm not afraid to have a conversation with anyone.
- 14:00Right?
- 14:00Like, it it doesn't scare me to get on camera with someone that I've never met and to find
- 14:05common ground.
- 14:06I don't have to do any research.
- 14:08Besides a few posts that I've seen of yours on Facebook, knew next to nothing about you.
- 14:13But within four minutes of the conversation, was like, oh, I have so much common ground here
- 14:18to walk on with and plenty of things to talk about.
- 14:20To fill up a twenty minute episode is nothing.
- 14:23Yeah.
- 14:24No.
- 14:25For sure.
- 14:26So you're writing a book or short stories, rather.
- 14:30I know you're aggregating.
- 14:31You love writing as well, and I couldn't let you go without talking a little bit about that.
- 14:36What came first?
- 14:37Were you a songwriter first and then an author, or were you kind of writing short stories and
- 14:42some of those became songs and now just both of them just seep out of you?
- 14:47So it's really interesting.
- 14:49So ever since I was young, I feel like I've always had the music and the storytelling, but
- 14:55I actually started pursuing them both at the same time career wise.
- 14:59Because when I was in school, I double majored in music and creative writing.
- 15:04And then I started my MFA in writing and public fiction program to get my master's.
- 15:09The same time I started, like, actively releasing music.
- 15:13And so they kind of happened together, which is really interesting.
- 15:16In terms of the writing itself, though, I primarily write young adult fiction, fantasy
- 15:22and thrillers mostly, but I write other genres too.
- 15:25For short stories, I'm an agented author.
- 15:28My agent is currently pitching my manuscript to major publishers.
- 15:33Haven't gotten a deal yet, but in the meantime, I've been writing a lot of short stories.
- 15:38And as of now, I have 10 acceptances.
- 15:42Seven of those are out, and the three others are coming this year.
- 15:49And that's been really good for me just from a confidence standpoint because when I'm getting
- 15:53rejections from editors at Simon and Schuster and Harper Collins and these major publishers,
- 15:58it's like, I don't know if I'm a good writer.
- 16:00And then all these anthologies are accepting my work, which has just really given me validation
- 16:04that, like, I'm on the right path and I just have to be patient.
- 16:07So I'm waiting for my own big book deal.
- 16:10I know it's coming, but I'm just trying to wait and be patient for that.
- 16:13Well, and while you're doing that, you're building your own community around you.
- 16:18You have two podcasts.
- 16:19You have a music career.
- 16:21Mhmm.
- 16:21When when it does finally happen, you already have all this built in love out there of people
- 16:27who are going to buy them.
- 16:29That's what it's really about, and that that is the essence of, you know, the scene projects as
- 16:36a podcast network.
- 16:37And it's very much to empower creators to just create.
- 16:43Right?
- 16:44Like, I've always been almost more into the marketing and promotion and production side of
- 16:50music than I was in my own performing.
- 16:53Like, didn't write the songs for anyone else.
- 16:55I don't necessarily care what you think of it.
- 16:58You know?
- 16:59I it's what it means to me.
- 17:02Yeah.
- 17:02And it's always been that way since the first song I wrote when I was a teenager.
- 17:08So to pursue that career, which I thought I was doing when I quit my welding job and left that
- 17:14career last February, I thought it was to be a rock star to me.
- 17:18I thought I was on we were going.
- 17:20I was on local news.
- 17:22I was doing all of you know, doing a few friends podcast and not realizing that the
- 17:27education that I was getting in the media landscapes was actually what was going to help
- 17:33me.
- 17:33I don't want to just be famous for the sake of being famous.
- 17:36There's no one famous right now that I'm even like, I gotta meet them.
- 17:41Maybe Jelly Roll.
- 17:42Right?
- 17:42Just because I because I love it, but, I mean, I've hugged Alexandra Kay, who was on tour with
- 17:48him all year.
- 17:49Like, I'm already one step one separation.
- 17:52Right?
- 17:52We're big fans of her.
- 17:53She played in Sioux Falls for 300 people two years ago.
- 17:57Last year, she's touring arenas.
- 17:59So it's like, I saw this and was like, oh, man.
- 18:02That's so cool.
- 18:02You know?
- 18:03It can it can really happen to anybody that's just out there working hard.
- 18:06But what we really need is more media because there isn't a there isn't a big break anymore.
- 18:12Right?
- 18:13You you don't minus maybe Joe Rogan or something.
- 18:15But you have to be somebody to even get on his radar Yeah.
- 18:20To get invited to the show.
- 18:21Like, you have to be out there grinding and doing it and having a a a history of work
- 18:27behind you.
- 18:28So we're kind of providing that for our local community.
- 18:32I live in South Dakota.
- 18:33There wasn't a lot of media to begin with, even fewer independent media sources.
- 18:39Yeah.
- 18:39So once I kind of tapped into and understood what I was doing and why I was doing it, I just
- 18:46put the gas pedal down.
- 18:48Right?
- 18:49And if I get to do seven, eight interviews a day for the rest of my life, I'm that's great.
- 18:55And even if that conversation only changes one life and that life is mine, well, then it was
- 19:01successful.
- 19:02Yeah.
- 19:02No.
- 19:03I completely agree with you.
- 19:04And the other thing too, what you were saying about, like, you know, how you need to work for
- 19:10things.
- 19:11You can't no one can just sit around.
- 19:12Nothing's gonna fall into your lap.
- 19:15I've been busting my butt, like, constantly, and it's starting to pay off.
- 19:19And, like, even in publishing too, so many people it's very weird because I feel like a
- 19:25lot of people know me at this point, and I have a lot of, like, Asian friends and, like, people
- 19:29who are more established.
- 19:30And it's, like, kind of weird.
- 19:32But at the same time, it's like, I don't think of myself as, like, oh, like, I'm popular.
- 19:37Like, it's just I have the connections and I have friends, and it it's all based on genuine
- 19:42relationships.
- 19:43And I think that's the only way anybody's gonna get anywhere in any industry is, like, their
- 19:49relationships are so important.
- 19:50And so when people are like to me, like, how are you like, how does everybody know you?
- 19:53It's like, I've literally just talked to people, and I make genuine connections that
- 19:57mean something.
- 19:58And that's, like, how that's literally all I do.
- 20:01Same.
- 20:02Same.
- 20:03You make me feel less alone in this world because that's my whole life.
- 20:06I spend a lot of time behind a screen, in front of a camera, behind a microphone, but it's that
- 20:13that is changing my life.
- 20:14It's that that work, these reps that we're doing that are making us capable of taking that
- 20:21to the highest of levels.
- 20:23Mhmm.
- 20:23Have you ever considered self publishing your book?
- 20:26No.
- 20:27I think the main reason is because I'm an independent artist and I do not think I could
- 20:33manage doing both independently.
- 20:36And I've just always dreamed of like a big five deal and stuff.
- 20:42And I'm definitely close because I did the whole querying thing.
- 20:46I pitched agents for a year and four months.
- 20:48I pitched three different manuscripts.
- 20:50I finally signed with an agent.
- 20:51And so we're trying.
- 20:53And so I definitely want to go traditional in terms of the publishing.
- 20:57But it's definitely harder.
- 20:59I have so many friends who have self published or want small presses.
- 21:02And those are definitely valid paths because there's different paths out there because
- 21:07there's different fit fits for different people, which is why there's different options
- 21:11available that I've always been like, I want to see a book in a bookstore.
- 21:16I want to be with, like, a big publisher, so that's why I pursued
- 21:20Yeah.
- 21:20Well, it just seems like in the meantime that you just keep building up your own brand.
- 21:26Now is there a lot of crossover between fans of your writing and fans of your music?
- 21:31Yeah.
- 21:31Definitely.
- 21:31And that's been really cool to see too because was funny because, like, people have asked me,
- 21:36like, whenever I was starting publishing, they're like, oh, you're make separate social
- 21:39media accounts.
- 21:39It's like, no.
- 21:40Because, like, my brand is me.
- 21:42And so people know me as, a songwriter and an author.
- 21:45It was crazy because I this is insane.
- 21:47So I was at the grocery store recently, and somebody recognized me.
- 21:51And they were like, oh, you're a songwriter and an author.
- 21:53I'm like, the fact that they recognize me, one, is weird.
- 21:56And second, like, to know that I'm both a musician and an author is crazy.
- 22:00So I think it definitely is starting to cross over, which is really cool.
- 22:05I think you just self publish it and sell it to your people.
- 22:09They you're you're gonna the these people don't know what they have in you anyway if they can
- 22:13give you a book deal.
- 22:14They're never going to the person that I see sitting in front of me.
- 22:19You've already accomplished so much to get yourself to
- 22:22this point. Yeah.
- 22:22Yeah.
- 22:25You know what?
- 22:25Instead of waiting for them to get you the publishing deal and put it in the big
- 22:29bookstores, I'll just print it and take it to the bookstores yourself and sell it because
- 22:34this is what sells.
- 22:35You are are the seller, and nobody's ever going to put that that kind of effort into selling
- 22:41your name and your brand more than you are.
- 22:44And and I'm just I'm incredibly inspired by you.
- 22:47You're just doing it all, and you don't really, care what anybody thinks.
- 22:52Yeah.
- 22:52No.
- 22:53I don't.
- 22:53Even
- 22:54someone with as much unnatural confidence as I have to just keep going.
- 22:59I'm like, well, I could be doing more.
- 23:01I I think there's stuff I'm leaving on the table right now.
- 23:04Demi, I got to get you out of here, but why don't you go ahead and plug everything and tell
- 23:08people where they can find you, and, we'll let you go.
- 23:12Yeah.
- 23:12So you can find me I'm most active on Twitter and Instagram.
- 23:16My display name is demi michelle with the butterfly emoji.
- 23:19My handle is demi m schwartz.
- 23:22You can also go to my website demimschwartz.com.
- 23:25Demi m schwartz Com will also take you there.
- 23:28And on there, you can find everything about me as a songwriter and author.
- 23:31Links to my podcasts are on there.
- 23:33I'm also a freelance editor, information on that's on there.
- 23:36I have a blog I update regularly to keep updated with everything I'm up to.
- 23:40So that's the best place for everything to do with me.
- 23:43And I want to thank you so much for having me today.
- 23:46It was absolutely my pleasure.
- 23:48Demi Michelle Schwartz, thanks for being part of the scene.
- 23:51Yeah.
- 23:52Absolutely.
- 23:52Thank you.