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- 0:00Speaker 1: Bodie, tell me how you would feel in this situation.
- 0:05Speaker 2: Can do?
- 0:06Speaker 1: Okay, you're going on a trip. Hey, you're going on
- 0:14Speaker 1: a trip.
- 0:14Speaker 2: Where am I going.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Let's just say Europe from euro Summer. Euro Summer bought
- 0:21Speaker 1: the euro dollar when it was a good price, so
- 0:25Speaker 1: you're happy, right, you bought it months and months ago.
- 0:28Speaker 1: You were very well prepared. And you know, it gets
- 0:33Speaker 1: to the airport. You've decided to go a budget airline. Okay.
- 0:36Speaker 1: You're with your girlfriend and you get to the check
- 0:40Speaker 1: in and there's a grim look on the lady's face
- 0:44Speaker 1: or male's face. She says, the planes ever booked? Yeah?
- 0:50Speaker 3: Is that it?
- 0:51Speaker 1: Then? No, no, no, no, you're cranky, you know, stimulated
- 0:57Speaker 1: planes ever booked? You're like, what, sorry, planes ever booked?
- 1:00Speaker 1: We can let you through, but I'm gonna have to
- 1:03Speaker 1: put you on a later flight. And then they put
- 1:08Speaker 1: you on a later flight. You've accepted this. Okay, You're angry,
- 1:13Speaker 1: but you've accepted this and pissed the later flight has
- 1:17Speaker 1: been booked, not for a few hours, okay, and it's
- 1:19Speaker 1: been booked at gate two. So you're like, shit, Look
- 1:24Speaker 1: on the bright side, glass half flo I don't have
- 1:25Speaker 1: to walk very fast sick. So you're sitting at gate too.
- 1:29Speaker 1: You're chilling, You've got a few hours. You're really trying
- 1:31Speaker 1: to zen out and just get in the zone. You're
- 1:32Speaker 1: watching some stuff, you're downloading stuff on your phone, you're
- 1:34Speaker 1: doing some editing. You're really just you're just really trying
- 1:38Speaker 1: to let the time pass quickly. And then you hear
- 1:41Speaker 1: your name being caught over the radio, the gold the radio,
- 1:46Speaker 1: and you're like the go like, what's going on here?
- 1:49Speaker 1: What's going on? And you're like what, and like ot way, Clark,
- 1:54Speaker 1: please come to gate sixty sixty. Your plane is taking
- 1:58Speaker 1: off and you're like what. And then you look and
- 2:00Speaker 1: you've been so concerned by what you were doing you
- 2:02Speaker 1: didn't notice the gate change. How do you feel stimulated?
- 2:07Speaker 2: I made that up as I went. That was long.
- 2:11Speaker 2: That was long. I have a bone to pick. Actually,
- 2:14Speaker 2: what's with these airlines over booking? Like just so they
- 2:18Speaker 2: make money? Imagine like imagine like another occupation? Did that?
- 2:23Speaker 2: Imagine You're gonna get a massage? And so you've rocked
- 2:26Speaker 2: up the same time as some other bloke and he's like, oh,
- 2:29Speaker 2: what time are you getting on? Like elevenlock?
- 2:31Speaker 1: Same? Sorry, I'll tell you what I tell you, who
- 2:36Speaker 1: does do it? Nail salons do? They always bro You
- 2:40Speaker 1: can book and you'll get there and they'll just be like,
- 2:42Speaker 1: just wait ten minutes, and you'll be like, okay, it's
- 2:43Speaker 1: been ten minutes ago. Just ten more minutes. Yeah, they
- 2:45Speaker 1: just take walkings right before you're booking.
- 2:47Speaker 2: They just throw numbers. Yeah, fifteen minutes or five minutes.
- 2:51Speaker 2: They don't give a fuck. And then how can we
- 2:53Speaker 2: implement that?
- 2:53Speaker 1: How does an airline?
- 2:56Speaker 2: It happened to us when we're going to Melbourne, but
- 2:58Speaker 2: luckily we made the cut.
- 2:59Speaker 1: No, with Melbourne, it was they didn't have a book
- 3:02Speaker 1: because it was the plane change. They had something wrong
- 3:04Speaker 1: with the plane and they all they could it was
- 3:06Speaker 1: a smaller plane. And lucky we were in row two
- 3:09Speaker 1: because they got rid of Rose fifty up until twenty. Yeah,
- 3:12Speaker 1: I'll give them that.
- 3:13Speaker 2: That's kind of like out of there. But today, Jake,
- 3:18Speaker 2: we're starting with one we haven't done in a while.
- 3:22Speaker 2: This is flirting or friendly, where we decipher whether or
- 3:26Speaker 2: not he's trying to get in your pants or he
- 3:28Speaker 2: just wants to be friends. I'm kick things off. Flirting
- 3:32Speaker 2: or friendly They ignore others just to talk to you.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Flirting.
- 3:38Speaker 4: Yeah, just like what I'm talking to Susie.
- 3:43Speaker 1: No flirting. Wait are they in a conversation with you?
- 3:47Speaker 2: They're like outright and like yeah, there's like I don't know.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Your mates are like Jake, jaj come come over here,
- 3:53Speaker 2: and you're sitting with this girl and you're like sort
- 3:55Speaker 2: of talking like yeah, flirting done, I'm done.
- 3:59Speaker 1: Float or friendly. You're on your own getting a coffee,
- 4:04Speaker 1: just in a city, on your own. For some reason,
- 4:06Speaker 1: you go get a coffee. The barista is it's a girl. Yeah,
- 4:10Speaker 1: and she calls out your name, your coffee, the goat, bye,
- 4:15Speaker 1: have a lovely day, And as you're walking to your
- 4:18Speaker 1: first up, you notice a little love heart on the
- 4:19Speaker 1: top of the lid. Flirting or friendly.
- 4:22Speaker 2: Oh, this is tough. I've never had to experience something
- 4:25Speaker 2: like this because they don't drink coffee. Another perk I
- 4:28Speaker 2: must say. I'm going to say flirting, but it's okay.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Okay, whatever you want, okay.
- 4:41Speaker 2: Because I think she does it a lot. Oh yeah, yeah,
- 4:44Speaker 2: yeah yeah, and she like sees if anyone takes the bait.
- 4:46Speaker 2: But if you've got a girlfriend, like obviously you're not
- 4:49Speaker 2: going to take the bait. No, But otherwise it just
- 4:51Speaker 2: brightens up your date. So I think flirting but it's okay, okay,
- 4:56Speaker 2: do you agree? I mean, yeah, Look, I would say,
- 5:01Speaker 2: it's not like you're going up there and you flirtex.
- 5:03Speaker 2: It's not like you're going after Excuse me, what did
- 5:07Speaker 2: you mean by yeah?
- 5:08Speaker 1: What did you mean by this heart?
- 5:09Speaker 2: Are you interested in me? I'm interested you. If you
- 5:13Speaker 2: did that, then flirting bad intentions.
- 5:15Speaker 1: Imagine if you were single and you got it and
- 5:17Speaker 1: then you walk back and you were like, I just
- 5:18Speaker 1: noticed love heart and she goes, yeah, I'm just being friendly.
- 5:21Speaker 2: She goes, do that to everyone, all right? Flirting or
- 5:25Speaker 2: friendly following someone who is in a different industry on LinkedIn.
- 5:32Speaker 1: I don't know. I have to say flirting, I have
- 5:38Speaker 1: a feeling. LinkedIn gets used for not just business connections.
- 5:43Speaker 1: It's not always business connections.
- 5:45Speaker 2: They're connected peppy to the peep to the damn good one,
- 5:53Speaker 2: very good one.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Flirting or friendly. You're reading a book on your lunch
- 5:58Speaker 1: break and you're worker of the opposite sex. Yeah, if
- 6:02Speaker 1: that's what you're into. Comes over and says, oh my god,
- 6:06Speaker 1: I love that series. I have the second one if
- 6:08Speaker 1: you need it.
- 6:13Speaker 2: Fuck?
- 6:13Speaker 1: Is this.
- 6:16Speaker 2: How does she say it?
- 6:18Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love that book. I can't believe
- 6:20Speaker 1: you're reading it. I have the second one at home
- 6:22Speaker 1: if you need it. I need to know, tell me
- 6:24Speaker 1: when you finished.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Friendly. Okay, Friendly, I think she's being a nice person.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 6:31Speaker 2: Like it's just like Batty's book Club where they're supporting
- 6:34Speaker 2: other other readers. I hear it. Everyone I've said, you
- 6:38Speaker 2: haven't agreed with me.
- 6:40Speaker 1: Hey, I'm just I amn't disagree. I'm just I'm just
- 6:42Speaker 1: letting you answer. You're just here for I'm asking the question.
- 6:47Speaker 2: Okay. Flirting or friendly says you don't need to pay
- 6:52Speaker 2: them back when it's over fifty dollars.
- 6:55Speaker 1: Ooh, flirting?
- 6:57Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa, he's going to show you that he's got
- 7:00Speaker 2: some moody yeah yeah.
- 7:04Speaker 1: And a flex yeah yeah damn. Okay, it's I gotta
- 7:11Speaker 1: set the same for this one. Flirting or friendly. You
- 7:15Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. You're at a cheeky little after work
- 7:20Speaker 1: drinks event because it's a Friday and your firm just
- 7:23Speaker 1: closed a big money deal. You're standing there with a
- 7:26Speaker 1: few work friends. One of them is a girl that
- 7:29Speaker 1: you're kind of friendly with at work. The others go
- 7:31Speaker 1: off to get a drink. So you're alone for a
- 7:33Speaker 1: minute with this girl and she starts going on about
- 7:37Speaker 1: how hard dating is, and she says, quote, all the
- 7:41Speaker 1: hot guys in this city are taken anyway.
- 7:44Speaker 2: Oh compliment. Okay, I think it's also flirting. But also
- 7:54Speaker 2: it's not that bad.
- 7:55Speaker 1: It's friendly flirting.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like he can do with this infant as
- 8:00Speaker 2: he pleases. Like he could just be like, yeah, she's
- 8:03Speaker 2: not trying to get in his pant it's like hold bad, Yeah,
- 8:05Speaker 2: she's not trying to get in his pain.
- 8:06Speaker 1: No no, no no yeah, And like your reaction says
- 8:08Speaker 1: it all like you could be like, yeah, Elle.
- 8:13Speaker 2: It's like outreach, Like a lot of people won't take
- 8:15Speaker 2: the bait.
- 8:16Speaker 1: That's funny.
- 8:18Speaker 2: That's funny.
- 8:19Speaker 1: So it's flirty.
- 8:20Speaker 2: Yeah, flirting, all right, you might like this one. Flirting
- 8:25Speaker 2: or friendly makes a playlist for when you're driving together. Wait,
- 8:30Speaker 2: and it's called platonic and erotic?
- 8:36Speaker 1: What flirting?
- 8:38Speaker 2: It's called platonic and erotic cheating?
- 8:45Speaker 1: Cheating?
- 8:45Speaker 2: They're not in a relationship, they're not both in relationships.
- 8:49Speaker 5: Oh okay, I could just be two friends flirting.
- 8:53Speaker 2: What were the plonic bit?
- 8:54Speaker 1: Platonic and erotic? I think if you make a playlist
- 8:57Speaker 1: for someone that is a quote unquote platonic friend, and
- 8:59Speaker 1: you call the playlist platonic, forget the erotic, just platonic.
- 9:03Speaker 1: The fact that you need to put a label on
- 9:05Speaker 1: it means there's something more. Yeah, all right, that's what
- 9:07Speaker 1: I think.
- 9:08Speaker 2: I feel like that's all like friend zoning. Uh and
- 9:12Speaker 2: then he gets a bonum.
- 9:13Speaker 1: Occasionally maybe platonic. It's kind of playing games with it though,
- 9:18Speaker 1: because it's like call platonic. But if it's erotic, that
- 9:20Speaker 1: means there's some erotic songs. So she's probably thinking like
- 9:22Speaker 1: what's you.
- 9:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's also like outreached, like platonic, but
- 9:26Speaker 2: also there's a bit of erotic things are going on
- 9:28Speaker 2: in there, and if she takes the bait, maybe thinks
- 9:31Speaker 2: he's sexy. Probably Yeah, okay, I got one more? All right,
- 9:37Speaker 2: pretty simple one flirting or friendly Sending heaps of emojis
- 9:41Speaker 2: when texting flirting flirting?
- 9:43Speaker 1: Yeah, wait a secon Does it depend on the emoji?
- 9:47Speaker 1: Let me just say something. I find I send more
- 9:50Speaker 1: emojis to someone that I'm trying to actually just be
- 9:54Speaker 1: friendly to deter Yeah, you reckon.
- 9:58Speaker 2: I love an emoje you reply, like if someone send
- 10:00Speaker 2: something like a little thank you message or like a salute.
- 10:02Speaker 3: True.
- 10:03Speaker 1: I love that it ends the conversation.
- 10:05Speaker 2: So well, yeah, yeah, it feels like I've read your thing.
- 10:08Speaker 2: I don't care, but it seems like I do.
- 10:10Speaker 1: Exactly acknowledged acknowledge. It's like it's like say acknowledged. It's
- 10:16Speaker 1: just like a slightly nicer version of reacting to a message.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Yeah, it should be like acknowledged emoji.
- 10:21Speaker 1: I wish there was.
- 10:22Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's just a little speech bubble.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Maybe that is like a little acknowledged ship. That's a
- 10:27Speaker 1: good one. I would say. I might go with friendly.
- 10:30Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, friendly, It is bumped. Where did Jake go?
- 10:40Speaker 2: Let me call him.
- 10:44Speaker 3: You'll call him.
- 10:46Speaker 2: He did not just hang up on me. Let me
- 10:48Speaker 2: call him again. What where are you? Where'd you go?
- 10:56Speaker 3: I'm just out of the airbnb.
- 10:58Speaker 2: What do you mean the airbnb?
- 10:59Speaker 3: Sorry I didn't tell you. I booked a guest's favorite
- 11:02Speaker 3: Airbnb last minute. Couldn't pass it up. You're all good
- 11:05Speaker 3: to finish the episode, right?
- 11:06Speaker 1: What's a guest favorite their airbnb?
- 11:08Speaker 3: Is that other guests of love? So you know you
- 11:10Speaker 3: will too? Well?
- 11:11Speaker 2: That sounds fun.
- 11:12Speaker 3: Where are you anyway, just a couple hours of the
- 11:15Speaker 3: code and yeah it is fun. Our place has a pool,
- 11:18Speaker 3: a big garden through bedrooms, is right near the beach.
- 11:22Speaker 3: Plus it allows dogs for.
- 11:23Speaker 2: Henry, did you say two bedrooms? Anyways?
- 11:26Speaker 3: Mate, got to run out.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Next up on this fine dining menu.
- 11:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm getting full after a friendly man is Things.
- 11:41Speaker 1: Girls never say okay, he's good, I don't want to
- 11:45Speaker 1: go first, please things. Girls never say my tummy feels good,
- 11:53Speaker 1: relatable the girl.
- 11:55Speaker 2: I've never heard that, never have never heard that, all right.
- 11:58Speaker 1: Things.
- 11:59Speaker 2: Girls never say sorry for coming so fast.
- 12:03Speaker 1: I got things. Girls never say slow down or I
- 12:08Speaker 1: won't laugh.
- 12:10Speaker 2: Things. Girls never say he satisfied me.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Things. Girls never say did you finish?
- 12:16Speaker 2: Things. Girls never say nice fish bro.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Oh fuck.
- 12:24Speaker 4: We're good at saying I promise, well now I've only
- 12:29Speaker 4: got a couple of more okay things.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Girls never say oh, I don't cry.
- 12:35Speaker 2: Oh. They're always like very supportively. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that
- 12:38Speaker 2: was actually really wholesome, that's true. Girls are always so nurturing,
- 12:42Speaker 2: very I love that. Like whenever you're with your girlfriend
- 12:45Speaker 2: or I don't know, a platonic friend.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Platonic androtic.
- 12:49Speaker 2: Listening to the playlist platonic like you feel really comfortable
- 12:53Speaker 2: to open up to him, which is a really good
- 12:55Speaker 2: characteristic trade about women, which I really like things. Girls
- 12:59Speaker 2: never say that was a successful date.
- 13:03Speaker 1: Yeah, even after a good date. What do you think
- 13:06Speaker 1: they say?
- 13:08Speaker 2: MM, can't wait to sit on that dick? We can't
- 13:13Speaker 2: that out? Actually thet we go again?
- 13:23Speaker 1: I say, keeping it. I that would be fine. There
- 13:26Speaker 1: was a joke. Maybe they do. Maybe they fucking doye
- 13:33Speaker 1: you never do No, Maybe they do things. Girls never
- 13:37Speaker 1: say you chose the best parking spot, babe.
- 13:40Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 13:40Speaker 2: I hate how they are aways like just there there there, No,
- 13:44Speaker 2: I'm driving. I always don't want to make a fool
- 13:46Speaker 2: of myself. I always get shipped for apparently parking near
- 13:48Speaker 2: a pole. What's wrong with that?
- 13:50Speaker 1: I don't know exactly. You know what you do is
- 13:52Speaker 1: that's the parking spots.
- 13:54Speaker 2: Fold.
- 13:55Speaker 1: If there's a pole and there's a free spot next
- 13:56Speaker 1: to it, that's where I'm going to park.
- 13:58Speaker 2: Yeah or she so oh, actually you know how we're
- 14:01Speaker 2: like obviously open your partner's car door, right, if there's
- 14:04Speaker 2: a pole, you should connect the dots and be like,
- 14:06Speaker 2: I've got a reverse park here, so I open my
- 14:08Speaker 2: car door to the pole and she has free space. Okay,
- 14:12Speaker 2: so you're not thinking you're you're a bad boyfriend. You're
- 14:16Speaker 2: like the poles. Now, I can't change it where you
- 14:17Speaker 2: can change the positioning of your car. Okay, Yeah, that's
- 14:22Speaker 2: the harsh truth of life. Things things girls never say,
- 14:27Speaker 2: please send me a dick pic. Fuck fair.
- 14:32Speaker 1: No one's gonna ask to know. That's insane. No things
- 14:36Speaker 1: girls never say, I have made a decision.
- 14:43Speaker 2: Actually, that'd be so hot. Imagine my girl comes home,
- 14:46Speaker 2: I know where I want to eat.
- 14:48Speaker 1: It'd be great, hoping, Like.
- 14:55Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I reckon. I'm getting like more indecision, you
- 14:59Speaker 2: know how like when you hang out like someone for
- 15:01Speaker 2: like a long period of time to sort of like
- 15:02Speaker 2: get each other's mannerisms. Yes, and things like that. I reckon.
- 15:06Speaker 2: My girlfriend said she's really enjoying her own company more
- 15:08Speaker 2: like after hanging out with me hips because like she's
- 15:10Speaker 2: she's very gets energized by other people, right, and I
- 15:13Speaker 2: don't like it's like being by myself. And she's like, yeah, yeah,
- 15:16Speaker 2: I really like enjoying being by myself a lot more.
- 15:18Speaker 2: I think you're rubbing off of me. Yeah, And I
- 15:20Speaker 2: think it's like the same with that as well, like
- 15:22Speaker 2: her indecisiveness, like I'm getting mad in decisive hey really
- 15:25Speaker 2: yeah yeah, yeah, point, I'm like I don't know where
- 15:28Speaker 2: I want to eat?
- 15:29Speaker 1: Good point because when I'm on my own or if
- 15:34Speaker 1: you and I are together, Yeah, if the topic of
- 15:37Speaker 1: conversation of where should we eat comes up two minutes max, yeah, legit,
- 15:41Speaker 1: two minutes max, ten minutes minimum.
- 15:44Speaker 2: I think it's also because she's opened my eyes to
- 15:47Speaker 2: more horizons, more options or like right, well, otherwise I
- 15:53Speaker 2: would gyg every single time, is my answer, and it
- 15:56Speaker 2: never always slaps yeaheah exactly.
- 15:58Speaker 1: But if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
- 16:00Speaker 2: It used to be my mono jake. But she has
- 16:02Speaker 2: opened my horizons and like, there's so many more options,
- 16:05Speaker 2: and I get lost. So I understand where they're coming from.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Here is where I come, and I clap back. But
- 16:11Speaker 1: she's opened your horizons. But she's made your life harder
- 16:14Speaker 1: because there is too many options.
- 16:16Speaker 2: I had a simple life day.
- 16:17Speaker 1: It was so easy.
- 16:19Speaker 2: It was so easy. Yeah.
- 16:24Speaker 1: Things.
- 16:24Speaker 2: Girls never say I don't want to hug.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Facts what and fair? Fair? Interesting?
- 16:32Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 16:32Speaker 1: Yeah no, they never would say no, don't hug me.
- 16:34Speaker 5: Yeah, like obviously, yeah, but like a boyfriend. Yeah, yeah,
- 16:40Speaker 5: that's funny. I've never thought of that. Things girls never
- 16:45Speaker 5: say let me put that in my pocket. We've been
- 16:51Speaker 5: trying to think of business ideas. Yeah, I don't think
- 16:54Speaker 5: it would be a great business. But girl's clothing with.
- 16:57Speaker 1: Pockets, I will say something bras people will say. The
- 17:01Speaker 1: reason I disagree because I don't think they want it
- 17:05Speaker 1: in their pocket anyway.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't.
- 17:07Speaker 1: I just don't think they want to hold it.
- 17:09Speaker 2: Their excuse is it looks bad, it's not flattering or whatever, Yeah,
- 17:12Speaker 2: which I thought was fair. But actually they doesn't want
- 17:14Speaker 2: to hold thing.
- 17:14Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they just don't want to hold it.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Oh that's maybe. Is that why cargo jeans came into fashion.
- 17:20Speaker 2: There's so many pockets for us.
- 17:21Speaker 1: Maybe, But you want to hear a tacktic What you
- 17:24Speaker 1: gotta say? I need a belt with these pants, and
- 17:26Speaker 1: I forgot it. If I hold your phone, they're gone.
- 17:28Speaker 4: Ah, which is facts. Well she checks, she goes, Oh god,
- 17:38Speaker 4: if he chexts, she hasn't read the fucking room. That's
- 17:41Speaker 4: why I just don't want to hold your ship.
- 17:44Speaker 2: All right. My last one probably the best one. Actually,
- 17:46Speaker 2: Things girls never say how much they spends. What I
- 17:54Speaker 2: swear my girlfriend's made of money.
- 17:56Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 17:58Speaker 2: Yeah what.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Wow?
- 18:02Speaker 3: Mmmm?
- 18:03Speaker 1: Make it make sense? Horizons opened? Make it makes sense.
- 18:07Speaker 1: Where's all this money coming from? That's interesting.
- 18:10Speaker 2: You're selling feet picks or what?
- 18:13Speaker 1: And if you are.
- 18:18Speaker 4: I was gonna say I'm a good photographer. Oh fair,
- 18:20Speaker 4: let me ye, let me in. I was saying, cough
- 18:23Speaker 4: up without me doing any work.
- 18:26Speaker 2: That often first I sell feet picks. I'm just.
- 18:35Speaker 1: Is just thro rolling fits and paper were done.
- 18:38Speaker 2: I thought it was a cool word ending you've done.
- 18:40Speaker 2: That's a pretty cool way.
- 18:42Speaker 1: Do it at the camera next time. All done.
- 18:46Speaker 2: They're expensive. I don't do that again.