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How the Sausage is Made · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two-time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello, everybody. We
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  Speaker 1: are scrubbing in. It's a Tuesday that feels like a Monday,
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  Speaker 1: but it's the best Tuesday ever because Becca is still out.
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  Speaker 1: She is still in Thailand. Miss her deeply. But as
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  Speaker 1: co-host today, I have my handsome, hilarious, hot husband, Robbie Attagar.
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  Speaker 2: Good to be here.
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  Speaker 1: Mark is also in the house, but he cannot speak
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  Speaker 1: because he lost his voice, so he's here in spirit.
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  Speaker 2: I have questions for Mark, though, so he's going to
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  Speaker 2: have to text or something, hold up a sign or something.
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  Speaker 1: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 2: That was my, we had a great, we had a,
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  Speaker 2: first of all, it was a long weekend, but it
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  Speaker 2: didn't really feel that long.
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  Speaker 1: I know, but it's so funny because when, when I
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  Speaker 1: do the podcast with Becca and it's like, what'd you
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  Speaker 1: do this weekend? Like we had different weekends, whereas you
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  Speaker 1: and I had the exact same weekend.
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  Speaker 2: It was a great weekend. I mean, the rain kind
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  Speaker 2: of messed things up a little bit. It was kind
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  Speaker 2: of annoying. Yeah. Uh, but what do we do? We want,
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  Speaker 2: we like got into binging.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. We binge Chad Powers season one and two.
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  Speaker 2: We really like it. It's not a great show. No,
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  Speaker 2: it's a great show. I mean, I love it. But
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying it's not a masterful show. If you're looking for...
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  Speaker 2: like a super high quality like show. I think it's very, it's,
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  Speaker 2: it's very feel good. And it's like, there's something like you,
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  Speaker 2: you start to really care about the characters and the
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  Speaker 2: storyline and all that. But anyways, I think it's great.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm trying to say, but it's great.
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  Speaker 2: We watched the entire two seasons this weekend already.
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  Speaker 1: So now I'm like, so bummed. Yeah. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: when season three is coming.
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  Speaker 2: Is it coming out? How did we find out?
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  Speaker 1: They just released season two. So I feel like if
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  Speaker 1: there's a season three, it's not going to be for
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  Speaker 1: a while.
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  Speaker 2: The seasons are six episodes. I know. Didn't seasons used
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  Speaker 2: to be 10 episodes?
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  Speaker 1: You can't curse on the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I can't curse on the podcast?
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  Speaker 1: No. I mean, you can, but we like to keep
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  Speaker 1: it PG.
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  Speaker 2: Did I say the full word?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's how the sausage is made.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So we binged Chad Powers, which we loved. And
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  Speaker 1: then weirdly, we watched we went to see this documentary
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  Speaker 1: last night. It was a football documentary. So I watched
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  Speaker 1: a lot of football related television this weekend and I
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  Speaker 1: actually enjoyed it.
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  Speaker 2: Well, so the, the, the documentary says my friend is
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  Speaker 2: the producer and it's really cool. It's about the Sean Jackson,
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  Speaker 2: but what's really cool about it. And I'm not like
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  Speaker 2: plugging or anything, but what's really cool about it is
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  Speaker 2: it's not really about football. The Sean Jackson, for those
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  Speaker 2: who don't know is like one of the best wide
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  Speaker 2: receivers ever in the NFL.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know who he was.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, but, When he was... like eight years old, his
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  Speaker 2: older brother realized that he was like a, an amazing
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  Speaker 2: talent and decided from the moment of eight years old to,
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  Speaker 2: to video, to film his entire life. Back then it
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  Speaker 2: was probably on like some huge camera and filmed his
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  Speaker 2: entire life. So he has 35 years of footage that
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  Speaker 2: ultimately crazy. It's so crazy. Private, like the most private
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  Speaker 2: footage possible, like super, um, like intimate, personal, um, like stuff. And, uh, Um,
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  Speaker 2: they were trying to shop it for years and they like,
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  Speaker 2: so the movie is, is really more like an amazing,
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  Speaker 2: it's a great story, but it's an amazing, um, like
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  Speaker 2: cinematic achievement in the fact that like they followed this
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  Speaker 2: guy who happened to also be one of the most
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  Speaker 2: successful wide receivers of all time. So like, that was cool.
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  Speaker 1: I went for him as a good wife to support
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  Speaker 1: my husband and his friend who produced this movie thinking
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  Speaker 1: I was going to take a long nap. during it.
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  Speaker 1: And I actually really, I was like locked in. I really,
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  Speaker 1: really enjoyed it because of what you said.
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  Speaker 2: It was just like cheering.
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  Speaker 1: I was like so impressed with like how fast he
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  Speaker 1: was moving and how he would like dodge all these
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  Speaker 1: men just like running so fast. Yeah. And just all
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  Speaker 1: the footage was so crazy. Just thinking about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like I feel like I document a lot on my phone,
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  Speaker 1: but like his brother literally documented everything.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know. It was really cool. But it's
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  Speaker 2: interesting because like, that's like one of the things I
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  Speaker 2: was thinking about nowadays, we do kind of document everything
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  Speaker 2: for everybody. So it's like not that crazy now, but
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  Speaker 2: 35 years ago is unheard of. Yeah. So like they
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  Speaker 2: have things that you would never, ever, ever see for
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  Speaker 2: something like that. So it's interesting. I thought it was cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I had no idea who he was going
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  Speaker 1: into it, but now I'm a fan. Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 1: So a lot of football. And then you have your
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  Speaker 1: fantasy draft.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be a big season. How's your fantasy
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  Speaker 2: auction going this year?
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  Speaker 1: I'm decided I'm over it.
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  Speaker 2: You're over it? You're like undefeated.
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  Speaker 1: I tried to participate. I tried to like be in it.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't care.
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  Speaker 2: You want to be like a fantasy, what do you
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  Speaker 2: call it? No, you won't let me in your league. No, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: The wife of the, what do you call it? Wife
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  Speaker 2: of the, yeah, wag.
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  Speaker 1: We can like.
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  Speaker 2: Make us cupcakes and like do all that. No, no. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to do that at all.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like that's up your alley.
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  Speaker 1: I want to be in your league.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, wow. Okay. Next question.
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  Speaker 1: Um, no, but so like, yeah, we, we binged a lot.
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  Speaker 1: We watched this documentary. We had friends over. You made
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  Speaker 1: a feast.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my God. So yeah, the late alarm Labor Day
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  Speaker 2: barbecue was just insanely. It was so good though. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I love doing that. It's a lot of work,
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  Speaker 2: but I, I, for some reason I just love doing it.
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  Speaker 1: It's so nice that you love doing it because I,
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  Speaker 1: I do not.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. If I had to. I know that. You like hosting.
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  Speaker 1: I like hosting.
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  Speaker 2: You don't like the cooking part.
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  Speaker 1: No, I like having people over. Like I can wash
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  Speaker 1: the tables. I can set the, you know, the silverware out.
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  Speaker 1: I can make cute flower arrangements. I can put like drinks.
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  Speaker 2: Into an ice bucket. We love hosting together.
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  Speaker 1: But in terms of like the cooking of the food,
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  Speaker 1: it's just not me.
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  Speaker 2: It's just not what I enjoy. That's why we're a
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  Speaker 2: good team. I do that and you do all the
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  Speaker 2: other stuff and it works out. Yeah. It was good.
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  Speaker 1: It was nice.
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  Speaker 2: What was your favorite thing that I made?
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  Speaker 1: Uh, the mango sticky rice.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: I never had my mango sticky rice before in my life.
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  Speaker 1: This was, it was.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe the best thing I've ever made. I think it
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  Speaker 2: was so good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I like a thousand out of 10.
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  Speaker 2: As I was making it, I was tasting it like
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  Speaker 2: the sauce and I could not stop from like making like.
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  Speaker 1: You can't say that either.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't stop from making, uh, like, just noises in
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  Speaker 2: the kitchen. It was like so good.
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  Speaker 1: Becca messaged me and she's like, I can't believe you
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  Speaker 1: never had mango sticky rice before. And I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: never have, but I fear that I shouldn't eat it
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  Speaker 1: anywhere else because yours was so good.
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  Speaker 2: Well, by the way, I've never had it either.
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  Speaker 1: So I, you set the bar very high.
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  Speaker 2: It was really, really, really good. And by the way,
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  Speaker 2: we're not just saying that as two people who have
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  Speaker 2: never had it. We had guests who are very seasoned
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  Speaker 2: in the mango sticky rice arena. Yeah. You said it
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  Speaker 2: was incredible. Yeah. Um, yeah, it was really, really good.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to, people have been asking for the recipe.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm going to try to post that at some point.
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  Speaker 1: Um, but so people obviously like, I love you and
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  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with being married. Like it's just like a
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  Speaker 1: sleepover every single day with your best friend. Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: obsessed with it, but somebody was like messaging me and
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  Speaker 1: they're like, does he ever do anything to annoy you?
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  Speaker 1: And so I was thinking about that.
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  Speaker 2: I do so, but you've already said so many things
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  Speaker 2: that I know you, my flip flops, my gum chewing. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: My sunflower seed eating. Oh, my.
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  Speaker 1: Now you don't do that at home. You do that
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  Speaker 1: at work. So respect. But I was thinking about it
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  Speaker 1: this weekend because we like so there's like little things.
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  Speaker 1: Like whenever our trash cans get dirty.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Remember the last time we had, like, our trash can
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  Speaker 1: got dirty? I, like, washed it out myself and, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, whooshed it around with, like, some soap and
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  Speaker 1: water and, like, you know, dumped it and put it
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  Speaker 1: back in where it belongs. And you were like, babe, like,
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  Speaker 1: let me handle that stuff from now on. Like, let me,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm, you know, I can handle it. Let
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  Speaker 1: me handle it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not. So, like, great. That's a me thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so great. So our trash can got gross again
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  Speaker 1: on whatever day the trash came, Thursday.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, hey, babe, can you, since you
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  Speaker 1: told me you want to do this, can you wipe
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  Speaker 1: the bottom of the trash cans?
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  Speaker 2: And I said I would.
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  Speaker 1: He said he would. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I said not today. You said you would. You asked
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  Speaker 2: me on Thursday. Yes. I said not today because I
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  Speaker 2: was really busy Thursday and Friday with work. I said
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  Speaker 2: I will do it this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: He then, it rained this weekend in LA, which is
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  Speaker 1: like crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But he goes out and he opens the lid to
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  Speaker 1: the trash cans. The rain washes it out for him. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Mind you, this is Saturday, Sunday now.
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  Speaker 2: This is why you leave this to me.
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  Speaker 1: And the trash cans are sitting in front of our
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  Speaker 1: house for like four days. We just have this trash
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  Speaker 1: can in front.
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  Speaker 2: We picked it up. We put it on the curb.
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  Speaker 2: So it wasn't like on the street.
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  Speaker 1: Still, it's like. this just giant trash can in our way.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I have things that I have in very important
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  Speaker 2: things to do. So then Monday, the trash can was
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  Speaker 2: going to happen.
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  Speaker 1: It rolls around and we're having guests over for Labor
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  Speaker 1: Day barbecue. And I'm like, babe, any plans on finishing
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  Speaker 1: up this trash can cleaning that I asked you to
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  Speaker 1: do four days ago? Uh, Anyways, so the rain did
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  Speaker 1: its thing and you just dumped it out.
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  Speaker 2: That was me starting to clean in the trash can.
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  Speaker 1: All I have to say is I would have cleaned
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  Speaker 1: it and had it put back in its place on Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm happy to do it.
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  Speaker 2: But I can't.
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  Speaker 1: When I give you a pass.
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  Speaker 2: If you ask me to do something, you can't expect
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  Speaker 2: me to do it and do it exactly when you
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  Speaker 2: want me to do it. I can do it in
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  Speaker 2: order of priority of the other things that I have
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  Speaker 2: on my plate. You agreed to me doing it this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't object. You agreed. I did.
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  Speaker 1: But Monday's not the weekend. Monday's the start of the week.
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  Speaker 2: I agree. It went a little longer, but we're not fat. No,
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  Speaker 2: but we're also, it was a long weekend, but we're
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  Speaker 2: also not factoring in the opening the lid when it
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  Speaker 2: started raining. That was cleaning it. By the way, I
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  Speaker 2: didn't have to do much more than that. I did
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  Speaker 2: do a little more than that, but I didn't have
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  Speaker 2: to do much more than that. If I leave you
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  Speaker 2: in charge of cleaning the trash cans, you like Put
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  Speaker 2: cinnamon in it and bake a cake in there. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what you're doing with the trash cans.
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  Speaker 1: I would have cleaned it perfectly fine, and it would
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  Speaker 1: have been back in its home place on Thursday evening.
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  Speaker 2: It would have been way harder because you didn't have.
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  Speaker 1: The benefit of the rain.
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  Speaker 2: Are you saying I didn't do a good job? What
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  Speaker 2: are we saying here?
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying that when I ask you to do things,
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  Speaker 1: that you don't do them in a timely manner.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Can you please make a list of everything I
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  Speaker 2: did between Thursday and Monday? I know. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I know. You shopped for all the food and you
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  Speaker 1: did all the recipes. And I know we did a lot.
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  Speaker 1: We cleaned out the house.
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  Speaker 2: Cleaned out the house. Correct. What else? There's a lot
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  Speaker 2: of other stuff. Binged all of Chad Powers. That was
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  Speaker 2: very high on our list.
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  Speaker 1: Very high on our list, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We went to Temple on Saturday morning. That was your idea.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that was my idea.
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  Speaker 2: Which was nice, but brutal. Like, the last thing I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to do, but yes.
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  Speaker 1: I needed to pray. I really needed to pray this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we know.
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  Speaker 1: So anyways, that's just one of my... I love being
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  Speaker 1: married and you're the best person to be married to.
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  Speaker 2: So you're saying that annoys you that I clean it
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  Speaker 2: thoroughly just a couple of days after you want me
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  Speaker 2: to clean it?
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  Speaker 1: No, I just, when I ask you to do things,
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  Speaker 1: you never do them in a timely manner.
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  Speaker 2: But I do them.
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  Speaker 1: Not in a timely manner.
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  Speaker 2: 98%.
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  Speaker 1: Not in a timely manner.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what annoys you about me? Yes. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: What annoys you about me?
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  Speaker 2: Uh, so. Oh no. What are you talking about? Yeah, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: the fact that you're giving me shit for not giving
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  Speaker 2: me crap is, I don't know. I thought we were
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  Speaker 2: allowed to cuss on this podcast. Anyways, for not doing
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  Speaker 2: things timely when I do them and thoroughly. No, I
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  Speaker 2: think the only things, you don't really annoy me that much, frankly.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you're very annoying. The only thing that
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  Speaker 2: I think gets, is like a little bit uncomfortable, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: is the staring. You stare, there's two times when you stare...
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  Speaker 2: unnecessarily aggressively. One is like, we're in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: like a conversation or like an argument or whatever it is.
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  Speaker 2: And I say something and I ask you a question
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  Speaker 2: and instead of responding, you just stare blindly at me
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  Speaker 2: for like, like something is short circuited.
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  Speaker 1: And you're like, because I don't want to say, I
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  Speaker 1: want to think about what I'm going to say because
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to say anything in the heat of
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  Speaker 1: the moment. So say that.
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  Speaker 2: Say, hey, listen, I'm going to need time to digest this.
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  Speaker 2: But just staring at me blindly is very uncomfortable. That's one.
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  Speaker 2: And then the other is when you stare at me during,
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  Speaker 2: when we're watching like TV or doing anything, when there's
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  Speaker 2: a commercial break. Any immediately commercial break, stares at me.
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  Speaker 2: Back on TV. Commercial break, stares at me. It's very uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: That is true.
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  Speaker 2: It's not annoying per se because I just.
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  Speaker 1: Annoying, uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, wouldn't you.
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  Speaker 1: like to be loved like that, where your partner just
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  Speaker 1: can't keep their eyes off of you. I can't keep
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  Speaker 1: my eyes off of you.
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  Speaker 2: That's not an excuse for unusually creepy behavior. There's a
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  Speaker 2: lot of people who love each other that don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, well, I mean, I just feel like there's people
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  Speaker 1: listening that would just love to be adored in that way.
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  Speaker 1: I adore you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure there are many. And I love the way
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  Speaker 2: you love me. But those are a couple of things
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  Speaker 2: that I think are a little bit annoying. You ask
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  Speaker 2: the question. You can't take the heat out of the kitchen.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of questions, I did get some questions via Instagram
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  Speaker 1: that are going to take us down different paths.
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  Speaker 2: Well, speaking of questions via Instagram. I actually did a
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  Speaker 2: secret question request on Instagram where I blocked all you
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  Speaker 2: and got secret hard hitting. Well, I asked for secret
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  Speaker 2: hard hitting controversial questions. Uh, I got some that are
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  Speaker 2: like semi hard hitting. I think there are some interesting
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  Speaker 2: things in there that I'm going to talk about or expose. Um,
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  Speaker 2: so I think we should do that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Well, we'll do that. Let me ask you a
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  Speaker 1: couple questions here first and then we'll take a break
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  Speaker 1: and then we'll come back with Robbie's questions.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to break now. Never mind. We'll break now,
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  Speaker 1: and we'll come back with those.
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  Speaker 2: Great.
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  Speaker 1: We're back.
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  Speaker 2: We are back. Are we going to do the hard-hitting questions?
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you just a couple of these.
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  Speaker 2: All right, go.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Um... This is from Chill. Much respect to Tanya, but
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: I'm also a needy girl. Do you get annoyed?
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: Well, that's what we just talked about.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's not needy, me staring at you.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's true. It's a corollary. Listen, I understand
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: you and how you need to be loved. Uh, it
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: definitely does get, it's a little bit annoying at times,
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: but like I know, but I understand the way you need,
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: the way you need to be loved. And so I
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: try to give that to you. Does that, is that
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: the question?
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: I am needy. Yes. You're not needy. So, uh, I
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: don't remember. Uh, she's also a needy girl. Do you
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: get annoyed by my neediness?
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: So the answer is no, because you know how I
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: need to be loved.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I know I need to be loved, but it is
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: difficult for someone like me sometimes who is the complete
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: opposite of that. I'm like not needy at all. That's
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: not true. I am. I need it. I'm not needy
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: in that way, like the way you are, but I'm needy.
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Everyone needs things. Everyone needs things. Let's be honest.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: You need very little.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: I think that you need like reassurance a lot.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Which I don't need. Yeah. Like, for me, reassurance— I do,
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: I guess, but for me, reassurance is, like, just in, like,
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: the ordinary course of, like, how we interact with each other. Uh-huh.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: But you need more than that. I do. Yeah.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, Shelby said, what is something a girl can do
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: to be more approachable?
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, everyone— like there's different strokes for
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: different folks, whatever the terminology is that everyone likes something
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: different for me. I think that the most like important
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: quality for me and like approachability of a girl, whether
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: an approachability, like what are we talking about at a
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: bar or like on a dating app or whatever, anything.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Um, I think this is like in real life, but
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: I think it's.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: The same for, I think it's the same as my point.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: I think that if you, I think that if you're
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: like smiling and happy, I think you're way more approachable
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: and I think more attractive also. So like it's a
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: double whammy. Um, but you know, there's a lot of
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: guys who probably think that a girl who isn't so
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: happy is maybe more approachable or smiling is more approachable.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know. But for me, that's what it is.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: And I think that's, Probably more, I would say that's
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: probably more guys than not would probably think that a
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: girl that's like appears smiley or happy or having a
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: good time. Again, whether it's in your pictures on a
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: dating app or whether it's out in person, I think
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: that's what I would say.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Speaking of dating apps, Elizabeth asks, what are men looking
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: at when going through girls on dating apps?
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Depends what they're on the dating apps for. I mean,
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: if they're going on dating apps looking for like a hookup,
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: they're looking for something totally different than if they're going
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: on the dating apps looking for something serious. It's just
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: like a, but I'll say this, things that you shouldn't
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: do on the dating apps, I guess. I don't, I
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: think girls, a lot of girls for whatever reason, they
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: think they look cooler when they like wear sunglasses or
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: like are in all these like group pictures. Don't do that.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: I think the sunglasses, if you can't see someone's eyes,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: like it's basically a meaningless picture.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: No sunglasses and no group pics.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: A group pick is okay. Not all group picks. But
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: it cannot be all group picks.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: How do you describe yours and Becca's friendship? I'm sure
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Tanya is over the moon with it.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Becca and I have a really cool friendship. I think
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: I'm a Becca and I think Becca's a me to
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: the extent that like that's a thing. So I think
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: we just like kind of get along in that way.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: But yeah, like we... DM often behind your back about you.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: We enjoy playing a good prank on you. You know,
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: that's how the sausage is made sometimes.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Why do you feel that only the wedding anniversary should
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: be celebrated? From Maddie. Thank you, Maddie.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: First of all, did I say that? When did I
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: say that?
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Yes, on Instagram.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: No, I thought that just the wedding anniversary should be celebrated.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: I just don't think every single anniversary, like the day
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: we first met, the day we became official, the day
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: we got engaged, the day, obviously our wedding anniversary does.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: That's just four days.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: I know, but you like, these are all like, you
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: graduate from one to the other. These aren't like a
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: compilation of things. I do think, if you ask me,
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: I think that, Like, in other words, the day we
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: got engaged goes away when we get married. Like, you
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: don't celebrate that.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: It doesn't go away. It's in the tapestry of our relationship.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, but in terms of like a celebration. Okay, acknowledgement.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: We can acknowledge it. Like, it's in two days.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'll be right back here hosting this podcast
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: with me.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: So come prepared. So we will acknowledge it. But for me,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I think, yes, we could celebrate. the day we first met.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: That was, that's a great day. Cause that's like starts
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: it all. And then the day we got married, I
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: think that's good enough. I know all the dates. Do
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: you want to quiz me? Yeah.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: What day, what's the day we met?
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: November 5th.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: What's the day we became official?
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: February. It was January 30th. No, it's February 3rd. It
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: wasn't January 30th. Are you sure? Yeah. I'm almost positive.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: You always said it was January 30th, but it was
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: the night we went to Delilah.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Delilah.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: It might've been, I think it was February 3rd or
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: it was early February.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: And then obviously, you know, our wedding anniversary and you know,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: our engagement anniversary. Okay, fine. He passed.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah. There's no other anniversaries. No. You sure? I feel
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: like there's more. I feel like you're going to bust
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: one out on me.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: No, no more. Just those four. Um, some, I got
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: a couple of questions about, Oh, Oh, this one I love.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Which of Tanya's friends do you get along with the best?
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Like which friends personality do you mesh with the best
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: from Lindsay?
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Oh man. So who, and like, who's like on this list?
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Is it, who's on the list?
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Who do you mesh with the best? It's not about
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: the list. It's just like, who do you mesh with
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: the best?
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I get like, I think you're the, I would say
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: your three best friends are, And I know you have
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: a lot of great friends. But I think your three
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: best friends would be... Pau, Sophia, Becca. In no particular order.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: I get along with each of them, like, really well
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: in different ways. I think that... Pau and I get
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: along in a very specific way that's very different from
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: the way that Sophia and I get along. Which is
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: very different from the way that Becca and I get along. But, like,
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: we all... I get along with all of them really well.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know who I get along with best. I
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: would say, like, who do I see the most? I
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: see Pau probably the most.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Then Sophia, then Becca. But, like, I get along with
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: all of them really well. Is that not a good answer?
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: PG answer.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Really? Yeah. Who do you think I get along with
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: the most? I don't know.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I feel like I do feel like you and Becca
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: are like the you and Becca in the relationships. And
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: like me and Haley are the me and Haley. And
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: they were like, you know what I mean? So I
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: feel like you guys can relate a lot in that regard. Um,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I feel like you and Sophia are also very similar
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and you're like artsy like brains.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: You're saying exactly what I'm saying.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: No. And then I feel like you and pal have
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: a very like brotherly sisterly relationship.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: That's true. I do have the most brotherly sisterly relationship
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: with pal. Yeah. I think maybe also cause she's the youngest. Right.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: But not just cause of that, but I think that
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: does lend itself to a more brotherly, but I'm so
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: much older than all of you. It's like insane. Actually,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: when I think about it, It's crazy to me. I'm
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: old enough to be, I'm closer in age to pal
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: and Sophia's mom than I am to pal and Sophia.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Their mom is very young.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: She's very young. Yeah. But that's still weird. That's still
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: unusual for like friends. But yet I don't feel that.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I mean, I do. I connect.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a youthful spirit. Yeah.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: But also like I connect with their mom really well, too.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Like we get along really well, too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: OK, fine. And then also I wanted to this one's
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: like not as like fun and playful, but people were
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: asking about kind of just like your job and owning
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: your own firm and being your own boss. Like what
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: are the pros and cons? of that versus like somebody
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: like me who has more of a corporate job.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: I see. They want to talk about like how the
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: sausage is made in like a law firm environment.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: What's with the sausage being made? He's said that like
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: five times today.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: I've said the sausage five times.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: This is how the sausage is made. Has nobody else
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: picked up on that?
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: There's no way I've said it five times.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Three times. This was at least the third time.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: I've definitely just said it, but I've only said it
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: like once.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: This is the third time.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: That I've said how the sausage is made.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Sausage is made, yes. I'm going to go back and listen,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: but yes.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: That'd be, I've never said like, it's weird that I
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: haven't just said it now because I don't really say that. Anyways,
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: what was the question? How does it feel?
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Pros and cons of being your own boss, like having
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: your own firm versus somebody like me who has like
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: a corporate job.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: First of all, I don't think you have a corporate
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: job by any stretch of the imagination. That's a wild
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: way of putting what you have. but you are part
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: of a corporation and you, you are an employee. Whereas
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I am a bot, like I own my firm. So
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: I get, but I'm, but I'm so like, you have
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: to answer to your employers.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: And to your company.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: You're not entirely in charge of your schedule. Like you
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: have to be certain places at certain times. Uh, but
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: I answered my clients. So like in a way I
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: do have to answer them, but yeah, I have way
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: more freedom, uh, to set my own schedule, to manage
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: how I want to do my work, how I want
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: the firm to look, how I want it to feel. Yeah,
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: I make all the decisions. So that's a pro, but
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: a con, from my job compared to your job, my
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: job is so boring compared to your job. I have
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: interesting clients and I do cool deals. Um, I would
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: say for a lawyer, I have like, for like a
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: not entertainment type lawyer, I have like really interesting, cool
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: clients and it's like a lot of fun. Um, but
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: compared to your job, your job is like so fun
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: and so cool. And like, yeah, you have to like
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: be on a schedule, but there's like so much like
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: off schedule stuff that you get to do as part
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: of your job. I think it's like really cool and different.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: And I don't get any of that. I sit in
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: an office like basically by myself. There's like three of
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: us in an office and you.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I know we get home at the end of the
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: day and I'm like, like, how was your day, babe? Like,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: what'd you do today? And he's like, went to work
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: or dropped off the kids at school, went to work,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: had lunch. He'll tell me what he had for lunch.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: And then here I am making dinner. I'm like, I
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: need more than that. Like, I will tell him everything
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: that we talked about on the morning show.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: I'm calling this out. I'm calling this out. You do
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: say more because you have like a lot of interactions
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: over the course of the day. You talk to people,
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: things happen. You're doing interesting things. I literally get to
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: an office. I sit down, I'm on my computer. I
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: have a call. I draft this. I negotiate that. I
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: have another call. It's maybe I go get lunch. That's
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: about it. Maybe I have a lunch meeting, but rarely. Um,
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: so like what I do during the day, there's nothing.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: Whereas you're socializing and talking and like interesting things are
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: happening every day. But Eat. Okay, so we both have
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: our baseline of like the normal stuff that we do
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: in the day. But you constantly are forgetting to tell
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: me anything out of the ordinary that happens to you
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: in the day. And then it comes up a day,
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: a week later. Oh, you totally forgot to tell me that.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Or like something that I would care. You totally forgot
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: to tell me that. You totally forgot to tell me that.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Because there's just so much that goes on in a day.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: I can't even say it all. No, the lesson here
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: is we each say what we like want to say.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: that's a lesson. That's how the sausage is made.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my God. Did somebody tell you to work this
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: into the podcast? Somebody put the, put you up on the,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Somebody put you up to this. Who put you up
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: to this? I knew it.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: I knew it. Yeah, you caught on quicker than I thought,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: but then maybe I came out of them too quickly.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: I couldn't really pace this out.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Who told you to weave in how the sausage is made?
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: I wanted to play a prank on you on the air.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I knew it. Someone came up with
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: an idea.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Was it Ronnie?
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: No, no, no. It was just a follower on Instagram, Scrubber.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: But basically, her idea was, come on and do... just
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: say a bunch of different weird words. I think her
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: net words are flabbergasted and other weird words that I
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: wouldn't normally use. But I didn't think that you'd catch
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: on to just a bunch of different big words because
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: like whatever. So I just wanted to come up with
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: a phrase and just say it over and over again
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: and see how long it took you to react.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: It was good.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: I caught on. You also never say how the sausage
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: is made. So when I heard it the second time.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: I was like, what the hell? I think you heard
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: it the fourth time.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: No, it was the third time. This was the fourth.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I knew it. I literally knew it. Mark had no idea.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Eddie back there is like, I don't know.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: Not listening.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, you knew you were in on it.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was in on it. Oh, my gosh. You little, little,
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: little turds.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: People want to know if you've tried my body pillow.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: I have not refused to try the body pillow. It's
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: what your question is. Why do I refuse? Because it's,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: it feels now, this is going to sound weird given
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: the fact that I sleep in a shirt with the
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: way I sleep, but it just feels very effeminate. It's, uh,
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I think the combination of my sleep attire and the
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: body pillow would be totally unacceptable. I know for a
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: It's a little pink little curly cute pillow.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: We can change the color of it. There's different pillowcases.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, because you sleep on your side, I
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: see you when you sleep. I know this is going
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: to change the game for you.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: I just want to be free. My whole sleeping thing
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: is just to be free. I can't be trapped in a.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: It's not trapped. It's luxuriously hugged.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: No, I don't need it.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: It's so annoying.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: If you ever try it one night, I'll try it.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: That's all I've been asking. Just try it for one
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: night and I know you're going to get hooked. I
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: just need you to try it for one night.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: I'll try it one night.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: For the whole night.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: But then if I don't like it, what do I get?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Fine. Then I stop asking you to do it.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: No, of course you stop asking me to do that.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: That doesn't work that way. It has to be something else.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Like what do you want?
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Like give me more time to clean
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: the trash can next time without holding it against me.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: No, you just get me. I'll just lay off trying
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: to get you to try, try it out, which I
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: think is like nice enough. Um, okay. You heard it
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: here that you are going to try it.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: I'm going to try one. night. Yeah.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: And then before we get to your questions, I wanted
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: to ask about people want your point of view on
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: the floating swimming photo of the Italian pool.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: So this is so this is OK. So let me
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: just lay the like create the scene here. We spent
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: the entire day at this beach club in Italy, and
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: the entire day, and it's so hot, and we had
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: the best day, and we were drinking this sangria that's amazing,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: and we were in the heat and swimming, and then
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: you have to walk up 3,000 steps to get back
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: up to our hotel.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Not even an exaggeration.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: This is not an exaggeration.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: It's like 3,000 steps.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: It might be more than 3,000 steps. It's insane. You
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: could take a boat taxi, but this is more, our
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: hotel is like right at the top. So we walk
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: back up at the end of the day. It's like
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: 6 p.m. And we're like, let's just go jump in
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: the pool to relax, unwind, cool down a little bit.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: So we get in the pool and And we're swimming around.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, I'm done. I'm going to go sit outside.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: She's like, hey, will you just film me floating here?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I mean, sure. I had no,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: there was nothing else. So I just like, sure. You
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: just want me to film you floating? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Just film me floating. Film me floating. So I get
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: your camera and I film me floating. And that was
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: the end of it. No, I didn't hear anything until
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: the flight home when she's scrolling through her videos and
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: she pulls up the video and just starts like, Tearing
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: into me about how terrible this is.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Because in my mind, I had this vision. And this
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: vision is executed very nicely because everybody keeps sending me
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: pictures of people floating in the pool and being like,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Robbie could never.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you didn't show me any of those. Had
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: you shown me a couple of those?
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: And I didn't look at it because I just trusted
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: your work. I just trusted that you got like this
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: amazing shot. And like the pool was so cool underneath
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: me that I had this vision of this video just
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: being so... beautiful and gorgeous. And so I'm going through,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: we're like flying home. So I'm like looking through all
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: the videos and I watched this video and I'm like,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I literally look like a corpse.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: You look particularly pale. Yeah. Like paler than you actually are.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Like literally so pale. And that was like day, whatever
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: of our vacation. I was quite tan.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, but it was a combination of two things
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: that I would say to blame. One, being exhausted and
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: like it's the end of the day and all I
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: want to do is get back to the room and
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: you're asking me for like this one video. So like
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: I didn't have the heart to like direct it and
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: like even really be aware of like what was going on.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: And then two, you didn't show me any examples. Have
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: you showed me an example and said, hey, this is
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: what I'm going for? I think we would have had something.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: And then three, by the way, even that video, I
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: think if you just like showed like a quick clip
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: of it, like just a boom, it would have been great.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: But you like posted, you're up there for like a
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: minute being washed in by the tide. Okay.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I want to get to your questions, but maybe we
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: take a break and come back.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Okay. All right. So I got so I went on
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Instagram and asked people privately. So like I blocked all
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: of you guys to send me questions that were maybe
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: a little bit more controversial, a little hard hitting things.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Maybe you guys wouldn't talk about or don't talk about
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: or didn't talk about like fully or they had follow
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: up questions about. Okay. I would say that most of
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: the questions I got were really not all that like
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: edgy or interesting or controversial.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Newsflash, babe. We're not very edgy and controversial on this podcast.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: I know, but I think there's stuff. I think there's
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: stuff that would get people excited, but we'll see if
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: we can get to it.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: That's our whole MO is we're not edgy and controversial.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: Like people wanted my opinion on your ridiculous little shopping cart.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: People wanted to hear my side of the story about
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: not being able to smell anything or my smell going
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: in and out sporadically.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: It's really a problem when it comes back quickly.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: People wanted to talk about the neighbors in the mail packages. Like,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: do we want to talk about any of that? The
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: neighbors in the mail package, I could tell my side
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: of the story. I think I have to defend myself
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: a little bit. How do you defend yourself? You didn't
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: tell it exactly right. I mean, no, no, no. I
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: was in the wrong. There's no question that I totally forgot.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: But here's what happened. She didn't come over. So first
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: of all, these neighbors are so nice. They're like amazing.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: The woman is like this, this a little bit older lady,
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: but she's like an artist. And the man you could
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: tell was like, I actually found out he used to
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: be like some very successful, like comedy writer back in
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: the day. And so, yeah, I found out from our day. Yeah, exactly.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: I forgot. I'm telling you now though, this is, I
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: was saving it for now. So anyways, like very cute,
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: like interesting, fun, funny people. And like, we just, they
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: just moved in. So we met them and you know,
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: they invited us in the other day. Okay. So now
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: flash forward, like a couple months later, And Tanya is
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: coming back from something with someone. So she's getting dropped
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: off by one of her friends and Sonny's freaking out.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: So I walk out there, I'm holding Sonny to go
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: say hi to Tanya outside. We're outside of our house.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: She didn't come and knock on our door and make
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: a thing of it and ask me. I'm outside saying
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: hi to you, Sunny saying hi to you, I forget
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: which one of your friends was there dropping you off,
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: talking to them, and then she just kind of pops
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: out and she starts chatting to me. And she's like,
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: oh hey, by the way, we're gonna be out of town.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: She said, do you mind just occasionally checking to see
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: if we have any packages and bringing the packages in
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: while we're gone? I was like, yeah, sure. And I
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: meant it when I said it, but I was just distracted.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: And I just told, and I totally, totally, totally forgot.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: And so I forgot to tell you, you were there,
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: but you didn't hear it. Cause you were like getting
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: out of the car, whatever. And I just totally forgot.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: And then, so when the guy came over, but we
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: weren't supposed to get the mail, the mail, I think
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: she said the other neighbor, I think she said the
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: other neighbor was getting the mail. I'm pretty sure, but
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: we're supposed to get the packages. Uh, and I just
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: totally forgot to check the packages. So that's the honest
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: part of the story. And it's on me to go
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: and like, apologize to them. And I, and I will.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: I'm going to have to bake them something.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, so off. I just like, I don't even
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: see them.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: I don't think they're that upset by it, to be honest.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Like I, it wasn't that formal of an arrangement.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: If I asked our neighbors to pick up our packages
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: while we were on vacation and they didn't, I'd be
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: so pissed.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I think I was like, yeah, yeah, sure. Yeah, we'll
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: do our best. We'll do our best.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: I think you have to apologize. I think you also
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: have to let them know to ask me these things.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, that definitely is the main part of the message. Yeah,
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: they need to.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, what are your other controversial questions?
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, that wasn't controversial. Obviously not that controversial. It's one
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: of my side of the story. Uh, is Tanya, was
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Tanya BS? I don't know what this is about, but
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: was she, or was Tanya BSing acting like she won't
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: go out for like your future child's first birthday? I
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: think you, maybe this is like on the podcast with, uh, with.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Ashley, but I, so I think, I don't know how
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: it got misconstrued, but I don't agree with Ashley's take
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: on not having parties for your kids.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Like that's what the people were commenting saying. tanya she
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: totally will do this she has a misunderstanding because.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: The way you go off for sunny.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah i'm like i'm having birthday parties for my dog.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Making merch i'm gonna do this for my child yeah
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: okay so it's just a misunderstanding yeah i.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Think it was i don't know how it was misunderstood
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: but i think.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: It was all right now here's one that i so
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: this is one i got a lot uh And I
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: think it's a question for you. I think it's more
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: of a question for Mark. So no, no, no, no.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: The people are asking and they've asked us forever. And
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: I know it's not a Becca and Tanya thing because
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: I know you guys have been trying to do this.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: But why is the podcast not on YouTube? Because your
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: facial expression. Oh, hands up, Mark. Hands up. Yeah. We
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: hit a nerve.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: It's not a Mark question either. It's not a Mark
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: question either.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Who do they have to email? Who do they have
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: to mail? We can get 10,000 letters.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: Email scrubbing in iheartmedia.com.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: No, I think we got to go higher than that.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: What's the iHeart email address? Scrubbers, wherever it is. By
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: the way, you guys should 100% have a YouTube. It's ridiculous.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Why don't you? I know.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know the answer to this. It's like bigger
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: than me. It's like bigger than.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: But like your facial expression, not just you, your facial
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: expressions are gold. And Becca too. Becca is hilarious. And
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: Mark and Easton are like the faces that it's just
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: all very, very funny. And we're missing that whole thing.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Thanks for being a fan.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: And every podcast is on YouTube. Anyways. Okay. So no
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: answers here today, guys, but maybe find a good email
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: address and start emailing people or sending letters. Okay. This
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: is a good one. Well, I'll get to this one.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: I'm going to, the Becca hiding the Taylor invite. I'm
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: going to get to that one next, but I also
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: got a bunch. Well, because I know, because I think
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: that's a really good one. Uh, I got a bunch
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: of questions. And I don't know. Did you guys talk
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: about this? About me officiating Becca and Hailey's wedding?
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: A lot of people were asking me about that. But
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: where did that come from?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: I fear maybe I spoke out of line.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: No one's ever... By the way, it would be an honor.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: I have zero expectation of that.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this was something that Becca... mentioned to me like
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: very early on, like, this isn't like that. There was
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: just like names that they were throwing around and you
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: were in the mix. I thought I had, yeah, listen,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: I probably spoke out of line on that. Um, my apologies.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: There's some momentum there. So no one's, no one has
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: ever brought that up. I would have no expectation of
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: that whatsoever. It was kind of a shock. I kept
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: getting the question. I was like, where's this even coming from?
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: It's very shocking.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: By the way, thanks for listening to the podcast.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: You told me not to listen.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, true.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: But the one time I did listen and why I'm very,
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: very qualified to answer the next question is your true feelings.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: about not being told about the Taylor invite.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: This, I think, listen, you guys, I listened because I
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: had to hear, because I, okay, I'm going to edit
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: whatever has to be edited out of this. I have
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: no idea. Maybe nothing, but Let's start with you were very,
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: very angry and also very, very hurt when you found out.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: Let's also say. Okay. So, and I don't think that,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: I think that people felt that the way you guys
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: addressed it on the podcast, you did say that, but
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: I don't think you, I think people felt that you
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: weren't saying it to the depths that it really did
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: upset you. And so I, so you were very hurt
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: and upset. I want to like explain the situation from
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: my perspective. You were very angry, hurt. I think also
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: from the, so, so from Becker's perspective, I want to
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: say that she was in a, I think a very, very,
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: very tough spot because it wasn't, first of all, it
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: wasn't Becca's invitation. It wasn't like Becca's thing. It's Haley's thing.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: And Becca was like her plus one, her date, whatever.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: And then you layer on top of that, like that
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: there's all these crazy NDAs. So I, so totally justifiable
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: that Haley would say, Hey, listen, um, I know you're
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: going to want to tell people like, don't tell anybody.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: And so for Becca, that is an extra layer of like,
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: she can't, that's like a tough position for her to
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: be in. Something that I think if it was her invitation,
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: she probably would have told you NDA, like notwithstanding. I mean, again, lawyer,
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: no like legal disclaimer here, but I think she would
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: tell you because of your guys' friendship, but also because, Listen,
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: you're hilarious and you can say a lot of silly
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: things and you're a great personality and all those things.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: But you're also a broadcasting professional for over... How many years?
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: 15 plus years? Sure. You have... you know, you have
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: information and secrets and know a lot of things about
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: a lot of things and are involved in a lot
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: of things that you are not allowed to and cannot
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: talk about on the air or anywhere publicly. And you've
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: been doing that for 15 years. So like, there's no,
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: I don't think Becca has any question that you could
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: keep that secret. So I think that Becca was in
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: a really tough spot because if, if, if Haley justifiably
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: is like, listen, like, please don't tell anybody. She's then
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: like feels extra pressure to not tell you. But I
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: think so for her not to tell you right away,
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: like leading up to it is one thing, right? Like
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: she wasn't going to tell you leading up to it. Fine.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: But then when, when she told you she was going
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: to New York to celebrate their anniversary and you, and
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: we were gone.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: And we were in Mexico. Robbie saw the meltdown in
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: real life, in real time.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: It was a meltdown. You didn't address it. It was
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: a melt. It was like a real meltdown. That's the thing. Like, and,
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: and I'll, I'll get to more to your state of
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: mind too, but, but so like not telling you right
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: when they got an invitation months before or whatever, weeks before,
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: whatever it was fine, maybe fine. I get it. Um,
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: but then, okay. So now they're going to New York
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: for their anniversary. So Becca has to like, overtly lie
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: to you about that. Okay, fine. I get that too. She's,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: she's continuing to hide it. But then when you like
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: start to put the pieces together, you're like, Oh, they're
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: going to New York. Wait a second. The wedding is
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: in New York or supposedly in New York. and you
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: started to put the pieces together, and then you straight up.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: But I was like, there's no way. There's no way
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: she's going, because she would have told me if she
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: was going. I was putting the pieces together, but then
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I was like, there's no way they're going. Becca would
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: have told me. There's just no way.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: You were of two minds. You were like, there's no
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: way Becca wouldn't tell me, but then at some point,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: you were like, of course Haley got invited. Of course
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: they're going.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: And I was like, why would they go to New
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: York for their anniversary?
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: This is so weird. So then you, the day before.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: You just straight up asked her, are you there for
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: the wedding? And she, that she like overtly ghosted and like,
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: and like, I mean, lied in that instance. I think
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: that up until that point, I would side with Becca
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: and say, I get it. I totally understand what she's doing.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: But in that moment, the day before, they're already there.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: By the way, everybody is breaking their NDAs. The fact
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: that the wedding was in New York, the fact that
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: it was at Madison Square Garden, the fact that it
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: was already all out there. So I think in that moment,
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: when you asked to not tell you I think that
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: that was what really set you over the edge, like
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: beside all of it. That's what really sent you over
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: the edge. And then let's layer in a little more
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: context here if we can. If people care, do people care?
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: I can layer in some more context. Is this interesting
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: at all? Okay, well, okay. So like you, obviously for
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: the past year, but really six months have been dealing,
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: seven months now, eight months now, have been dealing with
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: like a lot, you've been very hyper- emotional going through
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: a lot in your life and being very hyper-emotional hormonal
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: things happening to you and all kinds of stuff. So
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: you're already hyper-emotional. It's been a rough eight months for
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: all of us in Tanya's circle, but totally get it.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: And you have every, you know, you had every, every right,
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: but you were hyper-emotional at this time. So couple that
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: with Becca and Haley also going through like the biggest
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: thing moment of Hailey's career to date, right? Her movie
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: coming out and them being so engrossed in that that
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: Becca was a little bit like in her own world
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: also for like several months. It wasn't like weeks. I mean,
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: the movie stuff was going on for months and months.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, there was a lot that they were doing
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: and Becca was there for Hailey and it was an
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: amazing thing. We were there obviously also. But that like,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: so you're hyper emotional. Becca is not as present with
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: you as she ordinarily is. Cause like they're doing their
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: own thing. That's building up. You're not, you guys aren't
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: communicating about that, but that's building up. And then it
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: culminates in this like, Oh, you know, just straight up
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: lie thing. Um, so yeah, it was like a perfect storm,
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: but you were really, really hurt and upset.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: And, you know, frankly, you guys did talk about it, uh,
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: off the air and like you guys, you know, it
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: was a very healthy way of dealing with it. And
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: you guys are, you know, it hasn't affected your friendship.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: You guys are amazing friends, but it was like a
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: crisis that you guys were kind of Yeah.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: And I think also too, like you said, I didn't,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I was feeling these things from Becca for, I'd say
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: the last like month prior, like really. And, and I,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: but I never expressed it to her. And so she
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: didn't really know. And then, yeah, it like all kind
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: of crescendoed with this wedding. And I did, I had
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: like a full blown, like meltdown. I remember in Mexico
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: and like, you had to talk me off a ledge.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Cause I was just like so hurt by it, but
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I regret the way that I acted because I feel like, um,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: I wish I had a, like that was such an
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: exciting thing for her. You know what I mean? Like
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: as Taylor Swift fans, like that was such a huge thing.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: And I, I regret that that's now the memory we
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: have of that as like me just like being nasty.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: I think that's part of the memory.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's the only memory. I wish I
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: would have, I wish I could have like compartmentalized and
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: like been happy in the moment and then had like
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: those discussions with her after. Um, but yeah, I mean,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: obviously we've talked through it and we had like, you know,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: long walk and just, talked it all out and obviously
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: we're fine. But yeah, I was definitely like very dark
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: over that, but I am, I'm very heightened. My emotions
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: are very, very high right now. And yes, there's like
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: hormonal things going on with me. Like, I don't even know.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Was it when I was, when I was, was I
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: on progesterone at that point?
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Are you sure? Are you sure?
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: You weren't on progesterone at that point, but yeah.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Um, but yeah, there's a lot of hormones going on.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: So I'm just like very, uh, on edge.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I think that might be the end of this podcast.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: That might be the end of this podcast. And speaking of,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: I got a lot of questions about our TTC journey,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: but I'll just save those because you're going to come
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: back for our Thursday Dear Banya episode. Thank you so
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: much for taking the time. So we'll wrap up this podcast.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe we'll even play a game on Thursday. We'll see.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: And it's a very special day on Thursday, which We
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: will celebrate on the podcast. Hope you're ready, babe. Love you.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: Bye.